BUSY FAMILIES Pet Companionship Brings Joy and So Much More

By Lisa Payne

In a world that often feels overwhelming and disconnected, pets offer us something that is sometimes hard to find: unconditional love, unwavering loyalty, and a source of joy that transcends the challenges of everyday life. They have been referred to as angels on earth and the closest living thing to God. I am a pet owner and I believe these thoughts to be true.

There is an emotional foundation to pet ownership. The second you bring home your new family member, there is a sense of purpose and routine that can anchor the most chaotic household. The simple act of caring for another living being creates structure, responsibility, and meaning. Pets can be best friends to the elderly and those living alone. And it doesn’t hurt to be greeted at the end of a long day with the unbridled enthusiasm that can only come from a pet. Day after day. Without any expectations in return.

Did you know that daily interactions with pets releases oxytocin and serotonin? This is a natural antidote to stress, anxiety, and depression which is taking a toll on people all over the world. And it is yours to receive by caring for these incredible creatures.

Besides all of that, the emotional support that pets provide extends way beyond companionship. They offer a non-judgmental presence during difficult times, serving as confidants who listen without criticism and advice. Many pet owners say they feel less lonely and more emotionally stable when their pet is by their side. I love seeing pets in schools with the students. The emotional support can be invaluable.

Pets can literally save human lives through their abilities and intuitive connections with their owners. Service dogs are a great example of having life-saving potential. They are trained to guide people who are blind through busy streets, alert deaf people of important sounds, and provide stability to those with mobility difficulties. If you have epilepsy, seizure-alert dogs can detect an oncoming seizure before they even occur so that you can safely get medical attention.

Psychiatric service dogs have given veterans with PTSD a new lease on life by waking them from nightmares, acting as a barrier in crowded spaces, and providing a calming presence during panic attacks. They are practically a living medical device to people who struggle with daily life. They also have an olfactory system about 10,000 times more sensitive than humans and have been known to sniff out chemical changes in your body associated with medical conditions. It’s truly incredible.

Though I have never been myself, I drive by dog parks all the time and love to see the sense of community it can provide for the pet owners. And of course the dogs are living their best lives with so many furry friends to smell and play with.

At the end of the day, pets remind us of life’s simple pleasures; eating, napping, enjoying playtime with others, and living in the moment. May we all be reminded to slow down and live life with purpose and unconditional acceptance.

Lisa Payne writes about food, home, and family. You can reach her a paynefam6@gmail.com.