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Ari Klickstein, Alumni Associate Alyssa Wolff, Alumni Associate Melanie Goldberg, Alumni Associate Natalie Leichtman, NextGen Administrative Assistant Rachel Shammah, Alumni Associate, JSU Ari Ziegler, Gamification Coordinator Hart Levine, Heart to Heart Director, NYC Dov Winston, Heart to Heart Regional Coordinator, NYC Yardena Bannett, NJ NCSY Alumni 12th Grade Specialist Josh Cohen, West Coast NCSY Alumni 12th Grade Specialist Rabbi Phil Karesh, Midwest NCSY Alumni 12th Grade Specialist tagLit BiRthRight iSRaeL - iSRaeL FRee SpiRit israeL teaM

Yael Tamari, Director, Israel Netanel Gibson, Follow Up Coordinator Shuli Schwartz, Rakezet Rabbi Menachem Persoff, Senior Executive Consultant nOrth aMeriCa

Penny Pazornick, Associate Director Scott Shulman, Program Director Tatyana Plotkina, Associate Program Director Bassy Altman, Registrar Leah Lubianker, Registrar Amanda Dwyer, Recruitment Associate Lauren Hertan, Registration Associate Chana Hercenberg, Marketing Director

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Learning Trips (Germany, Thailand, Onward

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Rabbi Akiva Weiss, JLIC Binghamton University Rabbi David & Mrs. Ariel Pardo, Brandeis University Rabbi Reuven & Mrs. Shira Boshnack, Brooklyn College Rabbi Noam & Mrs. Shiffy Friedman, Columbia/Barnard Rabbi Chaim & Mrs. Shira Finson, Cornell University Mrs. Ruthie Braffman, Drexel University, UPenn Rabbi Darren & Mrs. Avital Levin, Johns Hopkins University Rabbi Moshe & Mrs. Dahlia Farkas, Greater Montreal Rabbi Gideon Black, Rivky Stern, and Rachel Waldman, NYU Rabbi Elie & Mrs. Ilana Bercuson, Princeton University Rabbi Robby & Mrs. Shoshana Charnoff, Queens College Rabbi Adam & Mrs. Sara Frieberg, Rutgers University Rabbi Aryeh & Mrs. Sharona Kaplan, UCLA Rabbi Daniel & Mrs. Naomi Levitt, University of Guelph Rabbi Michael Langer & Mrs. Vera Wexler, University of Illinois Rabbi Ari & Mrs. Shira Neuman, University of Maryland Rabbi Yosi & Mrs. Sheera Eisen, University of Massachusetts Rabbi Yaakov & Mrs. Racheli Taubes, UPenn Shlomo & Mrs. Ora Geller, University of Wisconsin Rabbi Shlomo & Mrs. Chana Zuckier, Yale University Rabbi Aaron & Mrs. Miriam Greenberg, Greater Toronto

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OrthOdOx UniOn Leadership Martin Nachimson, President, Orthodox Union Stephen J. Savitsky, Chairman of the Board, Orthodox Union Allen I. Fagin, Executive Vice President / Chief Professional Officer Rabbi Steven Weil, Senior Managing Director Rabbi Dr. Tzvi Hersh Weinreb, Executive Vice President, Emeritus Mayer Fertig, Chief Communications Officer Shlomo Schwartz, Chief Financial Officer / Chief Administrative Officer Rabbi Lenny Bessler, Chief Human Resources Officer Sam Davidovics, Chief Information Officer ou nextgen BoaRd

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Contents

Leadership Messages

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2 || Rabbi Yehoshua Marchuck

2 || Rabbi Dave Felsenthal 3 || Dr. Simcha Katz Features

4 || Ten Things

You Didn’t Know about the Orthodox Union

5 || Mystery photo 6 || NCSY Havdalah –

Six Decades and Still Burning Strong

8 || All Mapped Out 10 || Israel Free Spirit:

A Different Kind of Birthright Trip

“We’re not looking for profit; we’re simply looking to touch people’s neshamot…” || 10

22 || Preserving Our NCSY LegACY

24 || INSPIRATION IN

FIVE MINUTES FLAT!

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25 || OU Alumni connections in Action! Photo Essay

32 || A dazzling Shabbaton For Campus Leadership

34 || One Shabbat Meal at a time

36 || Sharing our News Alumni Spotlight

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12 || Leora Friedman (JLIC) 14 || Misha Danilov (IFS) 16 || Avi Greenberger (JLIC) 18 || Nina Butler (NCSY) 20 || Dan Butler (NCSY)

Leadership Messages

Join ourAchdut

By Rabbi Yehoshua Marchuck Director, OU Alumni Connections

Reunion!

I

remember standing as a young boy on the side of an overlook in the Catskill Mountains. There was a large lake below and like any red-blooded American boy, I couldn’t miss this opportunity. I found the largest stone that I could handle and threw it as far as I could towards the lake. Seconds later, I heard that beautiful, deep kerplunk sound.

Feeling completely satisfied, I stood by and watched as the water began to ripple in perfect circles, creating one circle after another.

Metaphorically, that ripple is the power of what has been created in the Jewish world by the Orthodox Union. The ripple effects of the Orthodox Union consist of the multitudes of high school students, collegiates, and young professionals who participated in NCSY, the Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus (JLIC) and Birthright Israel: OU Israel Free Spirit (IFS) that collectively equal ninety years of history. Now, ninety years of rich, warm memories is not only a reason to celebrate – it merits a reunion!

There is a theme of achdut, unity, running through the seasonal cycle of the Jewish calendar.

From the Pesach Seder, when we relive the exodus experience; as the Children of Israel (“like one person with one heart”) at Mount Sinai to receive the Torah on Shavuot; to the summertime

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period of intense mourning on Tisha B’Av; to Rosh Hashanah, when we pray together that we should be judged as a nation in a favorable way; to Succot, when we celebrate together at our Simchat Beit Hashoevah and on Simchat Torah; to Chanukah and Purim, when we joyously relive national miracles. Throughout the year, we strive for achdut while reflecting on the past as we continue to move towards our future.

As we enter this new year of 5775, we will beseech Hashem that the world should serve our Creator as an agudah achat, as one. And one successful way of building that all-important unity, be it with friends or family, is to occasionally check back with them, discuss fond memories, and share aspirations for the future.

That’s what Reunion is all about. It’s the magazine that says “Yes, I do remember back in the day…..” but it’s more than that.

Yes, let’s talk about the good old days, but let’s catch up on each other’s current life milestones too.

Let’s look at pictures from the regional convention of 1974, but let’s also hear about what those same chapter members are doing in 2014. I’m so excited that this fantastic magazine has arrived, and I am sure that you are going to feel the same way. Through these pages you will find opportunities to join the Reunion party in future editions. The more input of photos, stories and “where are they now” ideas, the greater our Reunion will be! So join the party and let us hear from you; drop me a note at marchuck@ou.org; @Ymarchuck Wishing you a Shanah Tovah – a fantastic new year! R

Welcome to the first edition of Reunion, the magazine that brings together OU NexGen alumni of NCSY, JLIC, OU Israel Free Spirit Birthright (IFS) and Heart to Heart. I’m feeling every bit the proud parent as I look over this amazing publication. Reading how all my old friends are doing and the great articles the team at OU Alumni Connections has put together – I’m just loving it!

I’ve noticed that a common experience is that while folks are participating in NCSY, JLIC, IFS Birthright Israel and H2H they’re inspired by the best educators, advisors and friends ever. The programs are uplifting and fun and they never want it to end…but it does! They graduate from these programs and move on. But they wonder − how can I bring that spark into my workplace and into my home?

No, I can’t bring a group of impassioned young adults into your living room for Havdalah to sway arm in arm as the band plays and you tell the story of your life.

But here are a few practical tips on how to make the magic happen again and again.

First of all, as Rabbi Yaakov Weinberg (of blessed memory) advised me, your own kids are actually more important than your NCSYers: you need to put as much thought and effort into Shabbat in your home as you do for a Shabbaton. Can you imagine what it would be like if you wrote down your dvar Torah ahead of time, thinking of that perfect message; if every Shabbat you sang zemirot in a way that your kids really look forward to; if you planned a little shtick or some fun activities; if you had a learning session together, and if

By Rabbi Dave Felsenthal Director, OU NexGen, IFS

your meal was a greasy rubber chicken? Well, maybe skip the last suggestion, but you get the idea.

At work, what if you passed out candy grams to your Jewish coworkers with a “Shabbat Shalom!” message; started a Torah Fund Drive for OU Alumni to give scholarships so that unaffiliated Jewish students can learn in Israel; or invited them to sit next to you at lunch and discuss a new Jewish book or the weekly parshah? What if you could even give out award certificates of appreciation? Or at least, how about a “well done!” accompanied by a smile? Just don’t try turning off the lights in the whole office and passing out candles.

Of course, one of the best ways of keeping the flame alive is by getting involved with us. Sharing in our friends’ life celebrations as we read this publication is one way; and reading about what’s happening now in those programs you knew and loved is another.

We hope that this magazine will become the place where we all come together to trade news and memories, insights and joys.

I especially want to thank Rabbi Yehoshua Marchuck (OU Alumni Director), Melanie Goldberg and Ari Klickstein (OU Alumni Associates), Mayer Fertig (OU Chief Communications Officer) and of course, our editor, Charlotte Friedland, and our art director, Tova Belsh, for their roles in creating this publication.

So please send in your recollections, pictures and life milestones for our next issue; we can share the good (and not-sogood) as true friends. And let’s all get together soon to reminisce in person! R

Leadership Messages

NextGen: Providing a

Vital Jewish Link

By Dr. Simcha Katz

Former President of the OU, OU NextGen Chairman Emeritus

We are blessed

with many vibrant Jewish communities offering choices of shuls, day schools and summer programs − activities and environments which enable us to raise our children as observant Jews. However, as our children grow and graduate high school, they are at a most critical stage in their maturation, particularly spiritually. It is a fact that more than 70% of our day school graduates will be attending a secular college, perhaps following a period of time in Israel. Post high school is a time when their religious life is most vulnerable.

Chinuch which began at home and in the day schools must continue through the college years. That’s where OU NextGen comes in.

Take my family friend Sam, who came from a well-grounded Modern Orthodox family and attended a prominent Jewish day

school and high school. He spent the usual year in Israel, though perhaps spent more time than he should have hanging out with friends rather than learning in the beit midrash. When he came home from Israel, Sam went to a state university, which his parents found more affordable than a Jewish college, and Sam didn’t object.

Although Sam gravitated to Hillel and Chabad during his first year on campus, the friends he made were Jewish, but unaffiliated.

His commitment to davening and keeping kosher gradually eroded, and Friday nights transformed into party time.

But sometime late in his freshmen year he was introduced to a JLIC rabbi whom other students thought was “cool.” He seemed to be interested in talking with students about their issues and problems without any hidden agendas. The rabbi had himself been to university and understood the challenges. Sam agreed to join him and his wife for a Shabbat dinner at their home.

Dinner was a surprisingly relaxed affair, completely counter to

Sam’s expectations. The rabbi talked about sports, and his wife, also a well-informed college graduate, engaged him in conversation. Yes, Torah was a part of the discussion, but Sam didn’t feel it was being forced on him, nor did he feel like he was being judged. After a second such dinner, Sam started meeting the rabbi for an occasional coffee and chat. Sam confessed that he felt ignorant of Judaism despite his day school background; this led to a chavruta between Sam and the rabbi, which became a priority to Sam as he progressed in his college career.

By his junior year, Sam was attending daily minyan, observing kashrut, and enjoying Torah learning for the first time in his life. He had not returned to his previous level of commitment; he surpassed it.

This story, while remarkable, is far from unique. As you will read about in the coming pages of this first edition magazine, the work of OU NextGen programming encompasses all walks of life to ensure that students and young professionals continue to stay

connected to Judaism. Whether it’s through holiday-themed Alumni campus care packages; connecting an alum to the JLIC campus couple; placing an alum on an international service trip, a learning trip or the OU’s Taglit-Birthright Israel: Israel Free Spirit trip, NextGen partners to ensure that alumni of Israel Free Spirit, JLIC, and NCSY are linked to authentic Jewish life on campus and beyond.

This is not about kiruv. It’s about protecting the young people of observant families who are entering environments where their Yiddishkeit is greatly at risk.

As parents and as a community, we have invested enormous resources in the religious development of our children through their day school years. It is most critical that we continue our investment to help assure that as our children enter university life they will continue their growth as committed Jews. R

Help Keep the flame of Torah burning bright!

Be an OU Partner in Torah Mentor an NCSY or IFS Birthright Israel alum To volunteer as a mentor or sign up to learn more about your Jewish heritage, go to http://bit.ly/OUPartnersinTorah

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10youThings didn’t know

about the Orthodox Union

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The OU is not here just to tell you what you can and cannot eat.

Many people think the OU is only about kashrut.

But the OU is also about youth (NCSY), inclusion for the disabled (Yachad), social action, education and public policy (OU Advocacy) employment (OU Job Board), Israel (OU Israel), Torah and the Jewish people (Community Engagement and Synagogue Services).

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JLIC + Hillel = The Perfect Shidduch.

The Heshe & Harriet Seif Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus (JLIC) program partners closely with Hillels on many college campuses to ensure authentic Orthodox Jewish life on campus.

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Taglit-Birthright Israel: OU Israel Free Spirit has a trip for you, your secular neighbor, and your Chasidishe cousin.

Since the program’s creation over fifteen years ago, Taglit-Birthright Israel and the OU continue to partner, sending almost 10,000 participants of all backgrounds to Israel through Israel Free Spirit, the OU’s Birthright trip organizer.

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The Alumni Connections department keeps the swag coming even after you graduate.

The OU has a department exclusively for alumni of OU programs. But wait, you’re not an OU alum just because you’re a big fan of Heinz ketchup! You’re an alum if you have participated in NCSY, Israel Free Spirit: Taglit-Birthright Israel, JLIC or any of the other OU youth programs.

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The OU doesn’t only cater to one stream of Judaism.

People assume that the OU has programs only for Orthodox Jews. In actuality the OU addresses the needs of the entire Jewish community, no matter one’s background.

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Many OU Kosher rabbis speak Mandarin, Spanish, Afrikaans, and so much more.

The OU is proud to certify companies in almost every country spanning the globe.

Traveling to Australia? You can catch a webcast on shechting birds. Going to Japan? You can meet an OU rabbi and have lunch. OU certified, of course.

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The OU has friends in D.C.

The OU Advocacy Center has been working with government officials to help make your voice heard. OU Advocacy helped pass the Public Policy Education Initiative to make Jewish education more affordable, and secured a federal grant that brings millions of dollars to keep Jewish day schools safe.

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Some NCSY advisors say “football” when speaking about soccer.

NCSY has branched out to include South America, with its first permanent home in Chile. Qué excitanté?

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Israel and Thailand and Germany, oh my!

OU NextGen enables collegiates and young professionals to go on international learning and service trips by linking them with organizations such as MASA Israel, Justifi, Onward Israel and Germany Close Up.

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The OU: there’s an app for that.

Need to know what’s kosher? There’s an app for that: OU Kosher.

Need to know the nearest Minchah on campus? There’s an app for that: Jewniversity Resources.

Need to know when’s the next NCSY Shabbaton? There’s an app for that: NCSY.

Mystery

Vintage Photo We all know that the two gentlemen in the foreground are Dr. David Luchins and Rabbi Pinchas Stolper. But who is that long-haired young lady standing behind them? And at what NCSY event was the picture snapped?

...you can identify her, or ...you are that individual! Or ...you remember where and when the photo was taken Please contact Reunion at alumni@ncsy.org.

The confirmed identification will be posted to the NCSY website and printed in the next issue of Reunion.

Ben Zakkai

Honor Society

A substantial gift to NCSY was bestowed by Lee Samson, founding director of the West Coast NCSY Region, paying tribute to his late wife Ann, the original “First Lady” of the region.

Her memory was honored at this year’s Ben Zakkai Dinner in New York City with the renaming of one of NCSY’s star summer programs: it is now The Ann Samson The Jerusalem Journey.

His superb generosity will ensure that NCSY will continue Ann’s legacy, inspiring thousands of teens across the nation to strengthen their commitment to their precious Jewish heritage.

L to R: Rabbi Micah Greenland, International Director of NCSY; Lee Samson; Rabbi Steven Weil, Senior Managing Director, Orthodox Union; Martin Nachimson, President, Orthodox Union.

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After six decades, the NCSY Shabbaton continues to prompt thousands of teens to turn their lives around. But what keeps that passion burning when the twenty-five hours of fun and Torah-inspiration come to an end?

Havdalah!

Night has fallen. Shabbaton participants amble into a dimly lit room. A band sits on a stage. The individual leading Havdalah stands in the middle of a group of NCSY teen regional heads, each proudly holding a candle aloft. The leader chants the prayer to a haunting Carlebach niggun; hundreds of voices join his. With arms around each other’s shoulders − boys with boys, girls with girls − teens close their eyes and sway in unison to the melody.

At the final blessing, “Hamavdil bein kodesh l’chol,” the room explodes with music, dancing and unbridled NCSY ruach. Then the band transitions to a slow song, pulling the spirited throng inward. Someone tells a compelling story about the awesome privilege of being a Jew. A roomful of captivated hearts open wider.

“It’s dark; you can’t see anyone else; it doesn’t matter what you look like or what your facial expression is. It’s the culmination of an amazing Shabbos. You’ve

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grown as a person and as a Jew,” says Rabbi Yaakov Glasser, former international director of education at NCSY (currently associate dean for the Center for the Jewish Future and University Life at Yeshiva University), and secondgeneration Havdalah devotee.

“You’re all coming together to concentrate on that sense of emotion. It’s a very personal, private experience and at the same time one of tremendous unity.”

The NCSY Havdalah tradition, dating back to the program’s fledgling days in the early 1960s, appears to be a case of spontaneous combustion.

Rabbi Pinchas Stolper, NCSY’s first director, recalls how the realization came over him that Havdalah could be a potent, transformative moment. “[That first time] we recited Havdalah there was a feeling of, ‘what’s next?’ No one was in a rush to go anywhere. We had just shared a beautiful Shabbos together; it seemed like a wonderful time to start singing and dancing.” And so, they did. “The kids took off with it. No one wanted to stop. It went on and on. It was something they had never experienced before. All of the leaders understood we had to keep doing this.”

As Shabbaton participation grew, NCSY leadership decided to enhance the experience further.

They hired musicians, some of them NCSYers. “No one had done such a thing. At most communal Shabbos gatherings, Shabbos just ended and that was that,” says Rabbi Stolper. “But at an NCSY Shabbaton, it’s a different world.

The music was a big part of it.

It gave everyone a tremendous feeling of joy that they carried into the week.”

That joy sailed right into the next decade. “I never dreamed it would happen in that tremendous way,” Rabbi Stolper reflects.

Paul Glasser (father of Rabbi Yaakov Glasser), associate vice president of Institutional Advancement at YU, was a senior in high school when he first experienced an NCSY Havdalah.

“In those days, the band was behind a curtain,” he says. “After Rabbi Stolper said the final brachah, you heard three beats of a drum and then the music. It created a moment.”

According to Glasser, the songs and inspirational story reflected the era. The first generation after the Holocaust, many Shabbaton participants had parents who were survivors and

they had heard stories of relatives who had been murdered. “We sang songs like Ani Maamin, slow hartzig [heartfelt] melodies,” says Glasser.

“We heard stories about the gedolim of Europe. The most important ingredient was emotion.”

Although many of the ’80s teens later brought the secular slam dancing fad to the Havdalah fervor, the spirit of the moment remained intact. Members of the regional board still hold the candles, eyes brimming with emotion; the music and story still touch the heart, and the swaying arm-inarm camaraderie continues. “You feel connected, soul to soul,” says Rabbi Dave Felsenthal, director of NextGen. “It’s like we’re all on a mission to make the world a better place, to strive in Judaism and come closer to Hashem.”

With the 1990s and Y2K, came meteoric advances in

communication technology, hijacking the teenage attention span. NCSY promptly cranked up its Havdalah voltage. They tweaked the traditional order: instead of starting with something slow and emotive, segueing into the powerful speech, reciting Havdalah and striking up the band after the final brachah, the dancing now starts in the middle of Havdalah, in the dark. “Teens needed to get more energy out sooner,” says Rabbi Glasser. The stories are shorter; the messages more direct. “These are slight strategic shifts to address where the kids are. We’re dealing with a more concrete and empirical generation.”

Six decades since that first extended flame, the teenage neshamah yet responds to NCSY’s signature Havdalah.

Despite the fact that today’s teens are technologically-possessed, they are still connecting to its spiritual power. “They don’t have their phones in hand, and they’re

coming off a Shabbos of incredible togetherness, learning and laughter,” says Micah Greenland, NCSY international director.

“There’s an electricity in the air. It’s like catching lightning in a bottle.”

“When you have the zechut to lead an NCSY Havdalah, to look out at hundreds of kids who are closing their eyes and singing their hearts out, it gives you confidence in the future of the Jewish people,” says Rabbi Glasser. “Our generation of youth is not beyond an extraordinary spiritual moment. The power of the music, the storytelling, going through a transformative Shabbos experience together with other teens, discovering who you are through that experience − that’s what energizes the Havdalah.

That experience catapults teens to that magical moment when they look inside and say, ‘I could do more.’” R ____________________ Bayla Sheva Brenner is a staff writer at the Orthodox Union.

How a

JLIC couple

carved out their own winding path to a fulfilling life mission

All Mapped

Out

By Ari Ziegler

The college years are often about journeying out into the world and finding that one thing that speaks to you. And for many people, the map to their ultimate destination is quite different from the one they’d originally envisioned. The remarkable stories of Rabbi David and Ariel Pardo are perfect examples.

In truth, their journey began

and David through his high school years. “I used to keep my kippah in my pocket,” says Rabbi Pardo about his earlier years. “Then I started at NCSY and over one of the summers I wore my kippah the whole time.” From that summer on, he started wearing his kippah proudly. “I was made fun of, my friends called it antediluvian, but I refused to take it off. It was like I’d made a statement about Judaism

JLIC UCLA: 2009 – Ariel is at extreme left, David Pardo on the right.

and I couldn’t stomach going back on it.”

Ariel Pardo speaks to students at Brandeis JLIC.

in high school. Both David and Ariel grew up in California in traditional households that slowly grew closer to Orthodoxy. Both attended public school, Ariel through grade school

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Both Ariel and David became integral parts of the Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus (JLIC) at UCLA where they met Rabbi Aryeh and Sharona Kaplan. “Two other girls and I were the only frum girls living on campus,” recalls Ariel. “We’d host

Shabbos meals that sometimes drew a dozen people. I really liked doing that.”

But when each began at UCLA, the idea of “JLIC couple, Rabbi David and Ariel Pardo” wasn’t yet a thought.

Originally there was to be David Pardo the economist and Ariel Pardo the orthodontist. But these plans, like many visions of the future that young students bring with them to university, changed. After an internship, Ariel realized that dentistry wasn’t for her. For David, an internship with Meryl-Lynch clinched the idea of switching gears. “I had a sort of quarter-life crisis,” he says. “I looked back at college – and it seemed like everything I loved about the experience had to do with the Jewish community on campus. It all meant so much to me; I couldn’t let it become just some hobby that I’d leave behind.”

Just like that, the plans changed. David decided to attend Yeshiva University’s Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary in New York and, a year into his studies, he and a friend went to Israel where he resumed learning.

David and Ariel started dating during that time. “At first it was over Skype,” recalls Rabbi Pardo, “then I flew back to America for three weeks and we dated. The next time I flew back, I proposed.”

Organization (BOO). But there’s nothing ‘average’ about it!”

A Brandeis class

Both Rabbi Pardo and Ariel agree that the most important part of their job is their presence on campus and their availability to students. They’re there to uplift, educate, listen, and advise the students who wouldn’t otherwise have access to Jewish, let alone religious, role models and mentors.

“ Plans are great,

Rabbi Pardo addresses students at Brandeis JLIC.

“It’s funny,” says Ariel.

“I used to tell people that I didn’t want to marry a rabbi or live in Israel, and I ended up marrying a rabbi and living in Israel for three years!” During those three years, Rabbi Pardo studied for semichah at YU’s Gruss Kollel and worked at Torat Shraga and Isralight in the Old City. Ariel was also studying and attending classes at Touro.

After their stint in Israel, the Pardos moved to Toronto for a year, during which time David worked at “The House” (an independent organization catering to young adults that works closely with the Federation, Birthright, and March of the Living.) It was there that the idea of working with the JLIC became a potential reality. “We were at our Shabbos table and we were just talking about mundane things, like housekeeping and cleaning; then we looked at each other, and decided together that we had to get back to a college setting. That’s when it became real,” says Ariel.

The next year they were offered the position as the JLIC couple at Brandeis University (Massachusetts) where they could inspire others the same way they had been inspired at UCLA. And they hit the ground running. On an “average day,” Rabbi Pardo explains, “we have student chavrusas, go to the cafeteria and talk to students over lunch, schedule shiurim at night, and coordinate holiday and general events with the Hillel and the Brandeis Orthodox

but be ready for them to change and for things to be even better

than you planned.

“College is a time of exploration, and on a secular campus your beliefs are challenged,” says Ariel. “You want to make it possible for students to come to you with their questions, especially the tough ones. They have to know that you will accept them and work with them. It’s okay for them to have doubts. I took a biblical criticism course at UCLA and my head was filled with doubts. Those doubts drove me to look for answers, which ended up strengthening my Judaism.”

Focus on doing good and you’ll be happy.”

“The cool thing about the job,” says Rabbi Pardo, “is that the students’ needs vary widely.

We deal with everything from interpersonal issues, family issues, and common halachic questions to really profound spiritual questions and controversial issues.”

A diverse range of students come to the Pardos seeking mentoring, advice, or just a friendly, welcoming face. But the couple has created a sense of community despite these disparities. “We have students who went to yeshivah in Israel for two years, and we have students who heard Havdalah for the first time with us. Everyone is unified and heterogeneous. We keep it all together,” Ariel notes.

“We once planned a Shabbaton for a Shabbos when it wasn’t going

to rain so we could use the yard.

And then it rained anyway. We crammed eighty undergraduates into the nooks and crannies of the house. But everyone loved it and we got so much positive feedback!”

Their road from students inspired by JLIC’s work on campus to being an important and everflowing source of that inspiration has been full of changes and unplanned pit stops. “Make plans,” advises Rabbi Pardo. “Plans are great, but be ready for them to change and for things to be even better than you planned. Focus on doing good and you’ll be happy.”

And what does the future have in store for the Pardos? “We still have the cool factor on campus so we can stick around Brandeis,” says Ariel. “Right now, I can’t imagine being anywhere else.” R ____________________ Ari Ziegler is a digital marketing associate at the OU’s NextGen Division and a group leader for OU Israel Free Spirit. A graduate of Brooklyn College, CUNY, he often still works with JLIC on the Brooklyn College campus. He’s also a novelist working on publishing his first two books.

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Israel Free Spirit:

A Different Kind of Birthright Trip

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ifteen years ago, when Michael Steinhardt and Charles Bronfman wanted to find a way to foster a sense of Jewish pride in American youth, they came up with an innovative program: Taglit Birthright Israel − a free, ten-day heritage trip to Israel for an immersive experience in the Jewish homeland. But first, they wanted different organizers to run pilot trips to test whether this was an idea worth its salt.

By Tova Ross

“The Orthodox Union applied to be one of the trip organizers, and after a lengthy process, we were chosen,” recalls Rabbi Dave Felsenthal, founding director of the OU’s Taglit-Birthright Israel: Israel Free Spirit and director of NextGen. “We ran a great trip, and we’ve been doing it ever since.”

As one of sixteen North American trip organizers, the OU Israel Free Spirit trips have perfected the art of the experience in a way that puts an emphasis on the spiritual and educational, a natural extension of the kind of inspirational outreach work done by the OU’s NCSY and its public school offshoot, the Jewish Student Union (JSU).

“We offer much more than the typical Birthright Israel trip.

In addition to adding extra fun activities, we introduce participants to spirituality and Jewish values.

It’s no wonder they give us top rankings for both the physical and spiritual aspects of this trip,” says “Rabbi Dave.

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“I think what sets Israel Free Spirit trips apart are the resources we invest above what’s required.

We’re not looking to make a profit, we’re simply looking to touch people’s neshamot and make a real difference in the way they relate to their Judaism and Israel.”

While the program used to average less than ten trips a year, thanks to its excellent reputation, that number has grown tremendously. This past year, IFS ran fifty-eight trips. Approximately forty North Americans participate on each trip, and they are joined by eight Israeli participants.

And while Birthright Israel still inspires a deeper Jewish identity in participants who’ve had little to no formal Jewish education and background, its reach now extends to inspire a love for Israel for those who have been in Jewish day schools and yeshivot since kindergarten.

“Even people who are strongly connected Jewishly and live a religious lifestyle could often use an experience that demonstrates life

in contemporary Israel and its rich culture,” explains Scott Shulman, program director of Israel Free Spirit. “We see Birthright Israel trips as an amazing gift that should be for as many people as possible − from those who have no idea what being a Jew means to those who grew up fully observant but never had this kind of experience in Israel.”

Because of the diversity of participants, Israel Free Spirit trips are always organized for specific groups, catering to each with cultural sensitivity. Of course, all trips include hallmark experiences such as going to the Kotel on Friday night and a moving Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremony at Masada.

Believe it or not, for some people it takes more than a free trip to Israel to get them there, and that’s where niche trips come into the picture. These customized tours are tailored to people who may need a bit more convincing to visit the Jewish homeland. “In addition to the goal of a standard Israel Free Spirit trip, these niche trips additionally offer a connection to a specific, innovative industry that highlights some of Israel’s amazing talent,” says Shulman. Examples of highly successful niche trips include an Arts and Entertainment trip with visits to Israeli performing artists, and a High Tech trip featuring a visit to Google. The Media trip demonstrates how so much of what goes on in Israel is blurred in the mainstream Western news media. These specialized itineraries capture the interest and imagination of each participant precisely because they emphasize something of specific interest to them.

Israel Free Spirit trips for observant Jews renew

their sense of purpose to their observance, or even crystalize a burgeoning plan to one day make Aliyah. That’s the case of Elissa Nechemia, 25, who participated in an Israel Free Spirit trip three years ago. “Time passes differently

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by Israel Free Spirit. “I’ll never forget the participants’ excitement, the way they looked at Israel through a lens so perfectly suited to them as artists, thinkers, creators, commentators. They were encouraged to see Israel in both its totality, its epic stories and beauties, as well as in its smallness − the little moments, interactions with Israelis, images, smells, sounds.

When you can relate to Israel in your own language, with your own special lens, whether it’s art or film or writing, it becomes all the more vibrant. I hope that our trip participants will be returning to Israel on many more occasions, as well as bringing Israel closer to home by recreating it in their work wherever they are.” R

to make a profit, we’re simply looking to touch people’s neshamot and make a real difference in the way they relate to their Judaism and Israel.” when you’re on a Birthright Israel trip,” said Nechemia. “The ten days my peers and I spent in Israel felt more like two or three months because we did so much each day.

I had the time of my life, and it’s something that I’ll never forget.”

Nechemia not only now plans to make Aliyah in the near future, she is also determined to secure a job with Birthright to staff future trips and enable others to have the same powerful experience she had.

“There’s nothing quite like a niche Birthright trip,” said Avital Chizhik, a journalist and regular contributor to Haaretz who accompanied two media trips organized

For more information about Israel Free Spirit trips, call us at 212.613.8299, email info@israelfreespirit.com or visit israelfreespirit.com/Reunion ____________________ Tova Ross is a freelance writer for publications including Tablet Magazine, Kveller, The Jewish Week, and The Forward, among others. She lives in New Jersey with her family.

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AlumniSPOTLIGHT

By Charlotte Friedland

Leora Friedman JLIC Alumna

Talented, resourceful, and wise beyond her years, Leora Friedman looks to the future with bright ambition. Now a graduate of Princeton University, she has just begun a twelve-month fellowship at the Rockefeller Foundation. Her modesty about her achievements matches her passion for her highly successful project, Music is Medicine.

The daughter of a pediatric oncologist in Baltimore, Leora has always been interested in medicine, though her goal is not to become a physician. Instead, she spent the last seven years developing Music is Medicine to help children stricken with serious illnesses overcome their fear and despair.

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still in high school at the age of fifteen. She and her older sister, who recently completed medical school, had grown up very much aware of the needs of ill children.

Musically gifted – they both play the guitar, sing, and write songs – they decided to play a concert for a group of hospitalized children.

When they saw tears dissolve into laughter, they realized their potential to make patients

happy. Over time, they began to work with the children, writing original songs for each one based on the child’s interests; and then they watched the impact of their personalized gift with wonder, as each child emerged from downcast “patient mode” to happy, playful childhood. “We were fortunate,” she says,” that we were given grants to continue the work, even while still in high school.”

At Princeton, Leora grew this creative pastime into a fullfledged non-profit; acquiring grants from Princeton and beyond; partnering with Johns Hopkins to raise funds for cancer research and implementing new projects.

Music is Medicine took on a life of its own after Leora created Donate a Song, a program that drew in musical artists from across the country to write, sing and perform personalized songs for patients.

Drew Seeley was the first to be involved in this project, and the list grew rapidly, ultimately including Glee’s Darren Criss, Sam Tsui and Elle Winter, among many others.

(Original songs created for Music is Medicine, and much more, can be found at musicismed.org. Funds from downloads are donated to

cancer research.) Leora and her organization took on celebrity status. She was interviewed numerous times in numerous venues (including Forbes), received prestigious awards and accolades, and was flooded with emails from teens and musicians volunteering to start branches in their local communities; but Leora never lost sight of her mission.

From her hard-earned successes, Leora discovered that she had a keen interest in entrepreneurship. She began thinking of the astounding contributions to mankind that could be possible. She became truly inspired when she realized that she could combine her business acumen and leadership skills with worthwhile humanitarian projects.

Though the precise roadmap was unclear, that ambition gave her direction in life.

But no individual can build a dream alone. Leora found critical support and friendship from her friends in the Jewish community at Princeton. JLIC was a huge component of her Jewish life, along with Chabad.

Leora had come from Beth Tfiloh Dahan Community School, which is religiously diverse, and she found an even more pluralistic Jewish community at Princeton.

Yet at first, finding her way was a bit daunting. “That first week as a freshman, I would have felt lost without JLIC. But I was lucky to quickly find a group of friends through JLIC. The rabbi and his wife are both role models and friends; they run Jewish educational programs, give shiurim, and invite us over for Shabbat meals. It’s truly an amazing program!

“In college, your identity forms a lot. I love to sing, so it was very important to me that my JLIC friends were so supportive of my music. In addition to working on Music is Medicine, I joined an

“It’s important to make sure your values impact on your personal life and with your family.” acappella group called Koleinu, and my JLIC friends turned up to all of our concerts.”

Motivated to crystalize her Jewish identity further, Leora went to Israel in the summer of 2012 with the Taglit-Birthright Israel: OU Israel Free Sprit program.

She had never been to Israel and the experience enabled her to integrate her cultural identity, her relationship with Israel, her spirituality and her faith. “It was only ten days, but it felt like so much more,” she recalls. All of the pieces of the puzzle were beginning to come together; her motivations became clearer and better defined.

“I believe that everything I care about is rooted in Judaism,” she reflects, “my appreciation of people and respect for humanity, the drive to do good, wanting to make the most of what I’ve been given by God. Everything I do is rooted in my faith.

“In life we have choices and they can be good, bad or neutral.

The goal is to make as many good choices as possible, and to transform the bad or neutral ones to good. My way is to take things that may seem bad and turn them into something positive.”

Nothing Leora learned about Judaism on campus or off was lost on her. “It’s important to make sure your values impact on your personal life and with your family,” she states firmly. “The next stage is to use them to help other people.”

Leora’s practical use of her well-absorbed Jewish values will take different forms in the future.

Somewhat surprisingly, she does

not see herself as the eternal CEO of Music is Medicine.

She spent this past summer participating in the 2014 eLab Summer Accelerator Program at Princeton University’s Keller Center with the goal of growing her organization, to make it sustainable and less dependent on grants. It’s true that for most of her teen and adult life, she put an endless number of hours into building Music is Medicine, and through it met “some of the most gracious and special people in the world, especially patients and their families.” Yet she is not a candidate for “founder’s syndrome” − a common tendency of founders of businesses and organizations to hold onto their leadership at all costs and resist change.

Laughing lightly, she says “For an organization to succeed, its original leader must be able to move on and transfer authority to someone else.”

Darren Criss and Leora promoting MiM at the MTV Video Music Awards

And she has every intention of doing so. Leora is not sure where the future will lead her, but she does know it will have to do with using her abundant passion for helping people. And there is no doubt that wherever she goes, she will take along her commitment to Judaism, her guitar, and her loving heart. R

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AlumniSPOTLIGHT

Misha Danilov

IFS Alumnus The son of prominent research scientists who were invited to the University of Wisconsin, Misha was brought from St. Petersburg as an infant and raised in Madison. An able student, he quickly absorbed American culture and proved himself in football, moving from high school stardom to a position as offensive lineman for the Northern Iowa Panthers.

There was challenge and glory, and endless hours of practice.

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But that’s all behind him now.

“I loved football for nine years,” he reflects, “but I’m not ready to give the rest of my life to it. My life revolved around eating and lifting weights.”

In fact, Misha’s life has taken a decidedly more contemplative turn. Now he thinks in terms of his spiritual development and pinning down the values that are meaningful to him.

It all started on his trip to Israel this past winter with the OU’s Taglit-Birthright Israel Free Spirit. “I learned a lot about myself on that trip,” Misha recalls. “I was surprised by how much there was to learn about Jewish culture and religion, surprised by the strange feeling of being in a place where you are surrounded by enemies. Somehow, peoples’ values are different there and there’s this intense feeling that universal truths are waiting to be discovered.”

Misha fondly remembers the rabbi who accompanied the trip.

“He taught me everything I know about Judaism, in ten days.” He remembers the impact of the rabbi’s statement to the group: “God is taking our hand through our first baby steps in this land.” Misha had always felt an association with Judaism, but had never observed any of its practices. “This was definitely my first experience of a Shabbat. I had never had a Bar Mitzvah, but I did during this trip − on top of Masada,” referring to the ancient mountain fortress remembered as the last stand of heroic Jewish fighters.

Somehow, every experience on that trip – planned or not – found its way into Misha’s soul.

“There are no coincidences in life,” he explains, “so when we were snowed in at the hotel, literally stuck there, it was beautiful!

Everyone started connecting, talking about themselves, and everything clicked.”

out.” But there was a rude awakening in college football. Coach Rick Nelson, his offensive line coach, saw that Misha was not placing e n o u g h impor t a n c e o n practicing.

Moreover, like most high school stars, he “thought he was the whole team.” One day, during his sophomore year, “the coach put me in my place, publicly!” recalls Misha. It was a humbling experience, but after that, “there wasn’t a moment of football practice that I wasn’t trying to learn something. I learned that I was part of a team. In short,

I became coachable. You have to accept the fact that someone knows more than you.”

“Connecting with your soul takes effort, but it’s worth it.”

Today, that search for a mentor has taken various turns.

Most recently, he went on a three-week trip to Nepal which included a twelve-day trek in the mountains. “I had six or seven hours to just think,” he says. “It

gave me time to reflect.”

And the search will continue.

Misha recently moved to Philadelphia where he took a position as project manager of marketing and finance at Helix Medical Technologies, a company which is marketing a medical device invented by his father. “It’s a new life, a clean slate,” he beams. A challenging position, it will put his education in finance and organizational leadership to good use. But Misha has no intention of letting his work life get in the way of his pursuit of spiritual enlightenment. He is exploring Judaism further through the OU Partners in Torah program and in local Jewish groups. “Connecting with your soul takes effort, but it’s worth it,” asserts Misha, for “the soul is a part of God that is within us.” R

One morning, on a trip through the desert, a leader of the tour pulled them out of the Bedouin tents where they had been staying.

“She made us look, really look, at the stillness of the desert. There is nothing to see, nothing to hear.

And I thought, this is how people lived for centuries! I was seeing a different side of life.”

That started him thinking.

“One of the things I learned from the rabbi is the importance of having a mentor, a guide. I didn’t have any notion of spirituality before.

But now I knew that I needed to find guidance, and spirituality is guidance for the soul.”

Oddly enough, the seeds for this thought process began during his football years. Misha confesses that he was the typical high school athlete. “You’re a celebrity, and you think you have everything figured

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AlumniSPOTLIGHT

Avi Greenberger

of Jewish students.

And he’s proud that during his time in college leadership they reached out to the Sephardic community and A college campus smack in the middle of a strong to Hillel, bringing Jewish community can be a blessing, but the location also in new groups to creates problems for student leaders. “At a commuter shiurim. Fabulous Shabbatonim college campus, people don’t want to hang around after drew together classes to meet new people,” explains Avi Greenberger, people from other “so it’s hard to build a sense of community.” colleges, too, often totaling 100-125 participants.

The Reuven and Shira Boshnack, JLIC Avi graduated from Brooklyn College in 2011. During his educators and advisors to the Shabbatonim were always packed Orthodox Club. “They are terrific,” with learning, warmth and fun. college years, he was active in JLIC and president of the Orthodox Avi attests, “they ran Thursday “And that’s the best way to meet Club, which coordinates activities Mishmar, as well as weekly classes new people,” says Avi.

JLIC Alumnus

with JLIC. To meet the challenge of engaging more students in campus Jewish activities, he worked closely with Rabbi

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for guys and girls.” Some of those classes were co-ed, others gender specific, to accommodate differing comfort levels of the diverse body

As in out-of-town colleges, the dynamism, openness and sociability of the JLIC couple played the most crucial role in

forging a community of committed Jewish students. The Boshnacks always maintained an open house, welcoming all; they hosted Shabbat meals, entertaining their core of devoted students as well

moved away come back for this event.

It’s a chance to share old times, and talk

He credits his experience in Jewish leadership on the Brooklyn campus with empowering him to make quick decisions. as new faces, and drew them into their personal family as well.

“When I went to their house, I even enjoyed talking to their children. Even though they were all under thirteen, these kids had college friends, and everybody was comfortable.”

Avi notes that an inevitable challenge faces the JLIC couple each year. They are constantly forming new friendships with incoming students, but they don’t want to lose touch with alumni either. “They do teach chasanim and kallahs [the Jewish laws of family purity to brides and grooms] so that’s one way they bridge the gap,” surmised Avi. “Of course, the current student body must be their main focus, but they do encourage alumni to stay in touch.”

And he does. It’s been seven years since Avi started Brooklyn College, and he stays connected to the JLIC community by attending the Shabbos Minyan every week.

He looks forward to the annual Alumni Reunion BBQ, as even friends who have married and

about their current lives.

Avi and Rabbi Boshnack Photo Courtesy: @lillybeth930

In Avi’s He doesn’t let the pressures case, he gives of the job get to him. “It’s a lot of his old buds the lowdown on fun.

I’ve been here four years now, Fox News and Fox Business and I still love it.” One of the big where he is now a set technical director. He started at Fox News benefits is the fact that Avi never as an intern, then became a knows what celebrities he will freelance teleprompter operator, meet. “Let’s see,” he thinks back, and later moved up to his “among others, I’ve met Mike current position. “It’s live TV, so Tyson, Dr. Oz, Miss America…” it’s really challenging,” he says.

The list is long.

“You have to be on top of your Media work is never a 9-5 game; any mistake you make is seen by everyone watching.” He affair. Avi acknowledges that there credits his experience in Jewish are times when the hours are long leadership on the Brooklyn campus with empowering him to make quick decisions.

“When you’re running an event, you sometimes have to think fast. In my work, I often have to The day Mike make split-second Tyson dropped in decisions; I know I can handle that.”

or inconvenient, though he does have a “normal workday” from 7:00 am to 3:00 pm. And how does a religious Jew navigate an industry that often requires 24/7 availability? “So far, that hasn’t been a problem,” he maintains.

“As an intern, I told them that I couldn’t come in on Shabbos, and they said they could work around that.” When he freelanced, he volunteered for every Sunday shift. “It’s never been an issue for me or for any of the handful of observant Jews who work here.”

Secure in his Judaism and content in his career, Avi looks back on the positive experiences of campus leadership with JLIC and the Orthodox Club, and looks forward to a future in the TV industry. “I need new challenges to stay motivated.

Someday, I’d like to direct,” he muses. “But right now, I’m happy right where I am.” R

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AlumniSPOTLIGHT

Nina Butler NCSY Alumna

What started out as a passing curiosity in a great social program morphed into a lifelong commitment to an organization that changed Nina Butler’s life.

In short, Nina (née Novetsky) joined the Southfield Michigan chapter of NCSY when she was thirteen years old, and never left.

Part of the reason she actively fundraises for NCSY and still sometimes attends a Regional Convention is that she later married Dan, the guy who was regional director when she was in her teens. “I was one of the kids who gave him grey hairs,” she quips. But let’s not get ahead of the story.

Looking back, Nina reflects that initially she joined NCSY because her older brother was an active member and she was struck by how all the older kids in her shul were involved. Once she was old enough to join, she found plenty of reasons to stay. “Part of the lure of NCSY in the ‘70s – back in the day before internet and email – was that we could get together with Jewish kids from other cities, even other states all across the country. That’s very

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exciting to a teenager. We felt like we had friends everywhere. And that bond extended well beyond our teen years. I’m still in touch with NCSY friends. It’s really inspirational – today there are NCSY alumni across the country and around the world who will gladly open their homes to share

their Shabbat tables, as others did for us.”

Another facet of the attraction to NCSY, she recalls, was the transformational way it teaches about Judaism. Informal, warm, interactive and meaningful, the powerful messages of Torah Judaism are absorbed by the teens at a pivotal stage of their lives.

“Initially, I was interested Today there are in socializing, but became intellectually intrigued by NCSY alumni across what they were teaching us. I wasn’t going to easily the country and accept anything new, I challenged my around the world who though. advisors constantly about Torah observance, looking will gladly open their for weaknesses in the system. Time and again, homes to share their I was shown that my

“

Shabbat tables.”

“There’s no need for a hard sell because the product is so good!” ignorance was the problem, not something wrong with the Torah.

I realized I simply had to learn more. And the more I learned, the more the pieces of the puzzle fell into place.”

That potent NCSY blend of components – a welcoming social ambience and dynamic intellectual challenge – has the same power today as it did back then.

“And never underestimate the importance of peer support,” Nina says, noting that eventually many NCSYers intensify their Jewish commitment and observances.

This result, of course, is the goal of NCSY, but the process can be perplexing and painful, particularly to the teens’ parents.

“And that’s where NCSY can really help. First of all, NCSY takes great care to communicate a message of kibud av v’eim, genuinely honoring and respecting parents; but perhaps more importantly, we met other kids just like us, going through the same thing. NCSYers support one another− and along the way, they inspire one another.

We had this sense that we’re all in this together, and there’s great strength in that.”

An important byproduct of that transformational experience is that former NCSYers have a past that opens them to respect other Jews, regardless of their current practice or affiliation. “Everyone is moving along the path; it’s not for us to judge anyone else. It’s clear

A Kiruv Veteran’s Perspective

to me now that tolerance and respect for others is a key, enduring message of NCSY.” Nina sighs, “I wish we could export that value to the rest of the world.”

Maybe Nina can’t reach the entire world, but she is trying.

The Butler family is distinguished in Pittsburgh for their outstanding hospitality and kiruv. People who would never have a Shabbat meal, university students, family, friends, all find their place at the Butler Shabbat table. “We’re not out to indoctrinate,” Nina chuckles.

“We respect everyone. We simply answer questions. There’s no need for a hard sell because the product is so good!”

And it’s no secret that the place to be in Pittsburgh every summer is at the Butlers’ annual Garden Sizzler, “an adults-only gastronomic experience” held in their backyard to raise funds for NCSY. Serving dozens of succulent BBQ dishes and other tantalizing fare, the event attracts 300 people including local dignitaries and Jews of every stripe. “It’s a wild time and we are proud to host a wide cross-section of the Jewish community,” Nina says. “Some people would not know about NCSY in Pittsburgh without the Sizzler. They’re inspired and thrilled to support an organization that is so successful in turning teens on to leading committed Jewish lives.”

The example set by the Butlers has been so successful that other NCSY alumni are raising large sums for NCSY through their own BBQs in other cities. But

“We’ve been in Jewish outreach long enough to learn that God has long-range plans, spanning generations,” reflects Nina Butler. “Everyone who has been involved in this way has come across a kid who simply didn’t take to the NCSY experience. He came once, maybe twice, but then dropped out. And you figure he’s lost. It’s discouraging and sad.

“But we’ve been around long enough to see an amazing phenomenon. Now and then,a teen will come to his parents and say his friends want him to go to an NCSY event with them. And his father or mother will say, ‘Oh, NCSY. I remember that. I went there myself when I was your age. You’ll have a good time!’ Even though the parent didn’t stay with NCSY, the single encounter was so positive that it left good memories. They may even encourage theiron... kids to go.

Continued “So there’s a second chance. Even if we think we lost one generation, we may be able to influence the next. We’ve had a peek into God at work.”

Nina and Dan’s is by far the most famous, and they will be happy to coach anyone who would like to emulate their event.

And how did they actually meet? “Mmm, I met Dan when I was a kid and he was regional director of NCSY,” recalls Nina.

“Over the years we got better acquainted, so when I went to Stern College, I tried to fix him up with some friends. But I discovered he didn’t want me to fix him up; he was actually interested in me! We were engaged in only five weeks, probably because we had shared the NCSY experience for so long.”

The wedding of Dan and Nina Butler soared with lively NCSY ruach. And in the thirty-seven years since, their commitment to living a full, vibrant Torah life inspires all who know them − and keeps the NCSY banner flying high. R

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Dan Butler

NCSY Leadership

Dan Butler

Motivating and inspiring with Jewish ideals.

Dan Butler describes himself as a teen who had become lackadaisical about Judaism, though he had been a star student at the fledgling Yeshiva of Scranton in the 1960s. (“I was valedictorian – shows you how low the bar was back then,” he quips.) Fearful that his cynicism might reach toxic levels, his siblings insisted that he needed to recharge his spirituality at a Torah Leadership Seminar run by Yeshiva University at Camp Morasha.

“All the heavy hitters of the kiruv scene were there – Rabbis Riskin and Weiss, as well as other charismatic leaders” recalls Dan. “And somehow, inexplicably, I had forgotten to bring my tefillin. They were all over me.”

And that experience changed his life. He came back enthralled, not only by what he had heard, but by what he had seen. “I was straight out of yeshivah, and here I was in a co-ed scene watching public school kids hanging on to every word the rabbis uttered.” They were grappling with the basics − with aleph bet − he realized, while

he had been privileged to grow up in an observant home and attend a yeshivah. Suddenly his entire outlook changed, and he wanted to share what he had with others. He’s been passionate about outreach ever since.

Thousands of people have heard this man speak.

I sincerely doubt that there will be another speaker this semester that can top Judge Butler...

speakers I have ever listened to.

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“I wasBetter straight of get out in line.

yeshivah, and here I was in a co-ed scene watching public school kids hanging on to every word the rabbis uttered.”

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Back in those days, there was a thin line between the Yeshiva University youth program and NCSY. It was through these organizations that he met the three most pivotal people in his life: Ivan Lerner, first regional director of Central East NCSY, who hired Dan as his assistant in 1971; Gary Torgow, the first NCSYer assigned to Dan, who became an invaluable friend and supporter; and Nina Novetsky, who later became Mrs. Dan

Butler. And he met all three on the same day.

It was at a Torah Leadership Seminar in December of 1970 that a few of Dan’s remarkable talents became known. The event was not going well and some advisors got together to see what they could do to salvage the weekend. On the spot, a skit was created, with Dan improvising as a Holocaust survivor (complete with European accent). “I cried, I screamed – the audience was mesmerized,” he says. From that day on, his intense, emotional, forty-minute bit was known as “the Nazi routine” and it became famous in NCSY. In 1975 he and Gary Torgow took it on the road, visiting summer camps coast to coast.

In fact, at a Shabbaton in Cleveland in the 1980s, he was on the scene when NCSY advisors were puzzling over how to break through to an audience of cold, unreceptive kids. “Should I do the Nazi routine?” Dan asked Rabbi Stolper, receiving an enthusiastic affirmative answer. Unfamiliar with the skit, the person running the event didn’t like the sound of that idea. “Trust me,” Rabbi Stolper told him, “it’s the best thing we’ve got!” Dan did it that night − and it worked.

Lately he’s moved on to more contemporary presentations.

“I was never an NCSYer, but if your grandma was in NCSY, I was probably her advisor,” Dan tells young audiences today.

He recounts his professional involvement with NCSY as though he has done it a thousand times.

Ivan Lerner, as mentioned, had seen that Dan had innumerable talents and hired him as his assistant when Dan was only nineteen years old. Later, when Ivan retired from the position, Dan became regional director.

Dan was recognized as one of the dynamite leaders that kept NCSY growing. Naturally, he became close to Rabbi Pinchas Stolper while the latter was still national director of NCSY. At one point, when Dan was thinking of leaving his position at NCSY, Rabbi Stolper dragged him into the office of Rabbi Berel Wein, then executive vice president of the Orthodox Union, hoping Rabbi Wein would convince him to stay. What followed clearly delineated the characteristic styles

of these two leading figures. “Rabbi Stolper, in his fluid, effusive way, began to wax poetic about my impact on NCSY,” recalls Dan, “but Rabbi Wein held up his hand and said, ‘Spare us the Klal Yisrael speech. Danny, are you going to stay or not?’”

Eventually, he went to law school, but outreach was never far from Dan’s thoughts. He remained actively involved in NCSY, going to Shabbatonim and conventions, raising money and encouraging others to do likewise.

But wait, that’s not all. In his varied career he has been a college professor, a weekly syndicated columnist, a judicial law clerk, a prosecutor and a family court hearing officer. For eleven years, Dan (or rather, the Honorable Daniel Butler) served as a judge of the Municipal Court of Pittsburgh. Additionally, after ten years on Pittsburgh’s semi-weekly Domestic Violence Court, his

Outreach was never far from Dan’s thoughts. participation in national judicial domestic violence seminars under the auspices of the U.S. Department of Justice earned him the approbation of the National Conference of Juvenile and Family Court Judges. He and Nina were both Community Service Awardees of the United Jewish Federation of Pittsburgh.

In his spare time, Dan is an Executive Board member of the Orthodox Union and has spoken in dozens of cities as a Scholar-in-Residence in its behalf.

Not surprisingly, his blend of experience, insight and humor make him highly sought after as a motivational speaker. He speaks an average of once a week, sometimes as a motivational speaker, other times to fundraise for NCSY or HASC. He credits Nina with not only keeping the home fires burning, but for inspiring all who know her (including him) with her devotion to outreach and chesed. “Nina is a chesed machine,” Dan remarks, and he can pinpoint when her most challenging activities began. With the first liver transplant at a Pittsburgh hospital in the 1980s, Pittsburgh became “the transplant capital of the world.” Patients streamed in, including some who were Jewish, but there were few local kosher accommodations back then.

Nina and Dan joined venerable Orthodox Union activist and officer, Donald Butler, a”h, and his wife Chantze (Dan’s uncle and aunt who lived next door), who spearheaded “Friends of Jewish Patients” to provide kosher food

and respite to patients and their families. Moreover, they put up those families in their own home, sometimes for months, while the patient waited for a lifesaving organ to be available.

Nina caters to their needs with her usual grace and easygoing ambience. Hosting people in such desperate circumstances has both upsides and downsides, particularly when the medical efforts are not successful. On those occasions, the small group of local hosts must help the families cope, offering solace with care and sensitivity.

On occasion, the Butlers’ guest patients have joined hundreds of locals who annually attend the Butler’s NCSY Garden Sizzler event. (This year’s was their 23rd.) One of them even “benched Gomel” at the BBQ. And that’s because the Butlers draw everyone they know into their lives and into the causes dear to their hearts.

It’s a Jewish value they developed through their NCSY years and beyond, a value they have passed along not only to their children, but to thousands of people who have been fortunate enough to meet them. R ____________________ Charlotte Friedland is the editor of Reunion.

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Preserving Our NCSY Legacy

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hat began as a personal quest will result in a historical record of one of the most successful Jewish outreach efforts in the history of the American Jewish community.

It all started at last year’s Ben Zakkai Dinner, the evening celebrating NCSY’s prestigious honor society. Rabbi Yehoshua Marchuck, director of OU Alumni Connections, sought out Rabbi Pinchas Stolper, who had been NCSY’s first national director in 1959 and nursed the organization through its infancy to the global teen-led outreach effort that it is today.

Rabbi Stolper’s extraordinary vision of the potential power of a teen Torah outreach organization ran counter to the prevailing assimilationist winds of the era.

“The map of America could be redrawn if one only had the willpower and stomach to buck the tide,” Rabbi Stolper wrote at the time.

Rabbi Marchuck’s quest was a personal one. He had grown up in a traditional Jewish home, became involved with NCSY as a teenager and has been active in outreach and Jewish education ever since. He passionately felt that it is time to document the founding and growth of this dynamic youth movement which over the years had, as Rabbi Stolper predicted, snatched thousands of teens from sterile Jewish lives and brought them into the warm sphere of Torah observance. “No one has greater historical knowledge about NCSY than Rabbi Stolper,” he explained.

Rabbi Stolper agreed to do the video interview, but had one concern: it would be a bit difficult to meet, since he had moved from the east coast to Chicago. Two months later, while attending a regional convention in the area, Rabbi Marchuck visited Rabbi Stolper in his home. The two spent

valuable their experiences are.” hours talking and Rabbi Marchuck captured it all on videotape.

Rabbi David Felsenthal, the director of the Orthodox Union’s NextGen division, quickly realized the importance of the effort. From that initial interview, he decided to broaden the idea to reaching out to many who were involved in the first few years of NCSY − as advisors or NCSYers. He felt that there are so many people whose stories must be told, before they are lost to the next generation. The plan is to post the videos to a YouTube channel dedicated to the topic.

Rabbi Felsenthal also had a specific model in mind. “We want to pattern it after the testimonials of the Shoah,” he said.

“Everybody always says the NCSY stories are unbelievable. But they are believable to those who lived them, and an inspiration to all who hear them. It’s time we preserved those stories so they can be shared.”

“The history of American Jewry cannot avoid a chapter titled ‘NCSY,’” Rabbi Marchuck added. “The Orthodox Jews of America owe a tremendous debt of gratitude to NCSY.” Rabbi Felsenthal also believes that the video archive is in line with NCSY’s overall goals. “Our mission is to empower and impassion Jewish teens, but this video archive will impassion the older generation as well. We’re showing them how valuable they are and how

During the landmark interview, the most important moment for Rabbi Marchuck was when he asked Rabbi Stolper if he feels he has seen NCSY’s lasting impact.

“Some people plant seeds and never see anything,” Rabbi Stolper said with emotion. “[After all these years] I look around and see a forest.” R ____________________ Michael Orbach is a staff writer at the Orthodox Union.

Whether you want to show off your bouffant hairdo or your bell-bottom jeans, NCSY wants your old photographs for the first-ever NCSY photo archive.

“In general, everyone looks at NCSY through his own prism,” explained Rabbi Yehoshua Marchuck. “When people say NCSY to me, I think of Long Island from 1986-2000. That’s NCSY to me.

But speak to someone in New Jersey who is five years younger, and you will find a different perspective.”

After a flood destroyed the basement of the Long Island NCSY office where many photographs were kept, Rabbi Marchuck insisted that the time had come to archive whatever precious photos can be found. The idea developed along with plans to commemorate NCSY’s sixtieth anniversary.

“The photo archive aims to capture what makes NCSY unique to each generation,” commented Duvi Stahler, NCSY’s director of marketing. “By providing an online gallery, NCSY alumni can reconnect with their experience no matter where they are now.” Essentially, the archive will recreate each era, effectively chronicling the growth of a significant segment of the Orthodox community.

More than 1500 photos have been submitted so far.

Members of OU’s Yachad vocational program and interns have begun scanning the photos.

Eventual plans include broadening the archive to social media platforms so as to allow people to identify themselves and find their friends in the photographs. Rabbi Marchuck noted that there is a deeper, personal drive behind the photo archive. “To many of us, NCSY is family; and just like families have photo albums, this archive is our family album.”

If you have photo(s) to share with the NCSY archive, contact alumni@ncsy.org.

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“Perhaps what the Ramban is trying to teach us is that all it takes is one memory of our own Har Sinai moment to put us in the right frame of mind for prayer...our Har Sinai moment is anytime you feel a connection to God.”

A great way to get a little Erev Shabbat inspiration is with a short dvar Torah video by fellow alumni, rabbis, or teachers from NCSY or JLIC. One week, you might hear a shiur from the Rosh Yeshivah of a Kollel in Toronto, the next from a JLIC educator in California, or an NCSY advisor in New York. While reconnecting recent alumni to their mentors, to older alumni, as well as to NCSY legends, the videos also serve as a kesher between NCSYers preparing to choose a college and the JLIC family that may well be their best conduit to Jewish life on campus.

Using YouTube as a platform to host divrei Torah as of Shavuot this year, NCSY Alumni and guests have recorded more than fifty-four “Thinking J” short videos, with a cumulative run-time of just over five hours. But no need to watch them all at once; each week a new video (each running about five minutes) can fuel your inspiration. Find it or subscribe for free at Alumni.NCSY. org or at YouTube.com/ NCSYAlumni.

NCSY’s founding director, Rabbi Pinchas Stolper, and current international director, Rabbi Micha Greenland,

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It’s all at YouTube.com/NCSYAlumni | By Ari Klikstein have contributed videos, as well as other dynamic educators, advisors, and directors.

A few excerpts: How is Jewish Time like a Circle?

Rabbi Micah Greenland, International Director of NCSY “We’re used to thinking of the calendar as a line, that every point on that line is a brand new point that we’re experiencing for the very first time. …In fact...we’re experiencing a day in Jewish history; it’s that date that we’re reexperiencing. The inherent nature of that day is so…valuable for us to keep in mind.”

not give up hope. I will look to the future…’ Lag B’Omer is to celebrate Rabbi Akiva’s courage… he found inner strength when most people would have given up, and he taught new students.

We celebrate the continuation of our mesorah; we can study the Torah because Rabbi Akiva didn’t give up hope.”

Will You Chase the Pack or Are You Being Chased? Parshat Tazriah, Rabbi Lashak, Southwest NCSY

Tapping into the Inner Fire for Lag B’Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan JLIC UCLA Educator

“The reason why the human was created last is because the human is the most important thing. It’s like at a wedding − the bride is the last to show up because she is the most important one. So when Hashem created the world, first He created all the animals and then created the humans to show that the purity of humans is so much greater.”

“Rabbi Akiva somehow found strength and said ‘Even though I lost 24,000 students, I will

What’s Your Har Sinai Moment?

Parshat Terumah, Shira Neuman, JLIC Educator at UMD Hillel

How Do You Define Holiness?

Parshat Kedoshim, Rabbi Dov Emerson, Head of School, YULA HS “What makes an activity prohibited is not the activity itself, but rather the context it falls into… the goal is to strive for kedushah… The mission of kedushah is challenging. In a certain sense it would be much easier to live in a world where everything was off limits. Instead we are charged by God to engage with the world around us, to benefit from all it has to offer, but to do so in the framework of Jewish law, in a manner that elevates ourselves and brings us closer to God.” R Can you offer an absorbing parshah thought, a fresh vort? New divrei Torah are always welcome! If you would like to record a video, please email alumni@ncsy. org or call (212) 613-8349. ____________________ Ari Klickstein is an alumni associate of OU Alumni Connections.

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of the OU Alumni Connections department is to create bridges for graduates of OU programs to authentic Jewish experiences, while linking them to their old friends. To do so, OU Alumni sends out biannual gift packages on Jewish holidays; gives alumni priority status on Taglit Birthright-Israel: Israel Free Spirit trips, partners with other organizations to provide opportunities to travel internationally on highly subsidized programs to Israel, Thailand, and Germany; sends out weekly divrei Torah videos; places interns on multiple college campuses to facilitate reunions; and much, much more. OU Alumni programs ensure that alumni can integrate their secular life with their Jewish life throughout their college years. << Team Alumni celebrated its second year running with Team Yachad this past February, raising funds not only for Yachad, but for the OU Alumni Connections Department as well.

In 2014, the team raised almost $10,000.

Team Alumni running for Team Yachad, February 2014.

Left to right: Melanie Goldberg, Rabbi Dave Felsenthal, Rabbi Jack Abramowitz

Maccabeats at Queens College Chanukah 2013 Leora Margelovich, Yael Kaplan and friends

Alumni Connections

instituted internships at campuses throughout the US and Canada that are highly populated with former NCSYers. Alumni interns ensure that the NCSY experience doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t stop at high school graduation: their goal is to foster unity by reaching out to their campusâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; NCSY Alumni, facilitating connections by linking them to Jewish life on campus and by hosting events each semester.

Queens College Chanukah 2013 Queens College NCSY Alumni, left to right: Heather Mishelle, Shoshana Leshaw, Sara Wolkenfeld [NCSY Alumni Intern 2013-2014]

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Post-Passover Pizza Party at Brandeis University, 2014 Shani Weiner, Leah Naghi

Alumni Dinner at University of Guelph, Fall 2013 On the near side of the table: left to right, Mitch Canes, Intern Daniel Goldberg, (If you know who the third guy is, let us know!) Isaac Rose (standing). Far side of the table: left to right, Adam Verk, Aaron Hoffer, Amanda Cait, Jody Steinman.

Waffle Bar Event at Rutgers University, April 2014.

Rutgers NCSY Alumni, left to right, Jonathan Tamarov, Shifra Isaacs, Rachel Ullman, Talia Friedman and Susan Teplinski with JLIC Rebbetzin Nataly Weiss (second from right)

Ski Trip to Mohawk Mountain, Connecticut. JLIC at Yale University, Winter 2014.

Left to right, back row: Noah Simmons, Rachel Miller, Leon Ebani, Josh Fitt, Ezra Husney Front: Danny Ulman, Jonathan Ellison, Rabbi Noah Cheses

Want NCSY Alumni events at your campus?

Email alumni@ou.org and weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll help!

The first step towards a more fluid transition between high school and post high school life for teenagers from the NCSY public school and Modern Orthodox communities is provided by NCSY Alumni 12th Grade Specialists. Alumni specialists continue where NCSY ends by attending events on college campuses with both the newly-graduated NCSYers and students who have just returned from gap-year programs.

Simply Tsfat Concert at Yale University, Fall 2013.

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A reunion is held at the OU Israel Center in Jerusalem every spring for recent NCSY regional board alumni in Israel during their gap year. Director of Alumni Connections, Rabbi Yehoshua Marchuck advises the recent alumni about how they can take their leadership training and Torah education and bring it to the next level once they return to their college campuses in North America.

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Rabbi Marchuck addressing NCSY alumni leaders at the OU Israel Center

Former Israeli Ambassador to the United States, Michael Oren, third from the left, met with two West Coast NCSY Alumni currently serving in the Israel Defense Forces. Fifth from the left is Sam Marrow from Los Angeles; sixth is Sagi Hebron from San Diego.

Twice a year,

Campus packages include Chanukah candles.

OU Alumni Connections sends holiday-themed campus packages (prepared with help from the OU’s Yachad Vocational Program), along with a survey, to all our alumni. In addition to being a great way to stay in touch, we gain the most recent inside info about Jewish life on many campuses and receive updated listings for the ‘Jewniversity Resources’ map app, available on iOS and Android devices. This year, over 1,300 people responded to the Alumni survey. This feedback helps us assess the needs of Jewish students on many campuses.

Sign up to receive campus packages by emailing Alumni@ou.org.

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Germany Every summer, OU Alumni and Orthodox young professionals travel to Germany on a program called “Germany Close Up.” They visit the Jewish communities of Berlin and Munich and meet with German opinion-makers from academic, grassroots, Jewish and political spheres. A major focus is on the history and repercussions of Germany’s complex and often dark relationship with the Jewish community.

Thailand With one of Alumni Connections’ partner organizations, Justifi, alumni participate each summer on a trip to Thailand to promote social justice. While they explore the positive cultural and historical treasures Thailand has to offer, they are also witness to the damage caused by human trafficking. For two weeks, participants volunteer in a school teaching English to Thai children, empowering the children to lead better lives in the future. Participants are recruited from January-May from JLIC campuses, NCSY Alumni, and former IFS participants.

Teaching English at the Tom Karen Center, an after-school program

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This year’s GCU participants learning about Berlin’s Old Synagogue, its first, established in 1714, over three hundred years after Jews first arrived in the city.

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The Israel Free Spirit (IFS) trip is a ten-day Taglit-Birthright Israel experience which emphasizes the spiritual connection between the Land of Israel, the people of Israel, contemporary Israel and our vibrant Jewish tradition. The goal is to share the magic of Israel with young Jewish adults of all backgrounds and interests through encounters with the people of Israel in their communities and the Land of Israel through activities such as volunteering, hiking, biking, kayaking and more!

Through these unforgettable active learning experiences, participants are able to appreciate the complexities of Israel while forming friendships that last a lifetime.

Alumni of the Israel Free Spirit trips gathered together at The Alumni Community center in NYC to celebrate Chanukah in style. The college students and young professionals reunited with other trip participants, as well as staff, and reminisced about their good times in Israel.

After returning from their trips, participants competed in the Bring Israel Home Challenge against other Israel Free Spirit trips. The winning team of the four-week competition had their mifgashim (Israeli participants on the trip) flown in for a weekend reunion Shabbaton in New York City.

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The North American university environment is a marketplace of ideas and experiences that can pose both challenges and opportunities to an Orthodox Jew’s observance and commitment. In partnership with Hillel, the OU administers the Heshe and Harriet Seif Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus (JLIC), a program that helps Orthodox students remain rooted in their Judaism while navigating the college environment. JLIC places Orthodox rabbinic couples to serve as Torah educators within the Hillels on local college campuses. JLIC educators strive to enhance the learning opportunities available to students, and also to bolster an infrastructure for Orthodox life to flourish. The educators offer weekly shiurim and classes, bring guest speakers and events to campus, and make key Orthodox necessities − such as kashrut, chagim and Shabbat − easier to observe and more meaningful.

JLIC

JLIC rabbinic families

strive for an individualized touch. Students grace their Shabbat tables as regular guests, interact with them in informal settings and learn with them b’chavruta. The ongoing availability of the families creates a comfort level that enables students to develop personal relationships with them. Students turn to them seeking guidance in their lives, whether of a halachic, personal, or intellectual nature.

JLIC provides avenues for spiritual development and exploration for Jewish students from varied backgrounds. It presents a positive, sophisticated and welcoming face of Orthodox Judaism on campus.

This year, JLIC hosted its inaugural all-campus alumni event on March 3rd: a pre-Purim party at the Brooklyn Brewery. Over 100 alumni attended, representing eight JLIC campuses. The night featured great food, great friends, and great fun. Old friends reconnected, and many current and former JLIC educators came as well.

JLIC Rutgers Alumni Left to right: Andrew Cohen, Elana Winchester, former JLIC educator Nataly Weiss, Edye Lang, Dana Gelles, Eitan Pludwinsky, Zeke Pariser, Ilana Resnick, Dan Rosenblum.

JLIC Alumni from the University of Maryland.

Brandeis University JLIC Alumni on a tour of the brewery floor

Queens College JLIC Alumni Left to right: Arielle Hartman, Danny Leiberman, Kivi Schwartz

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Left to Right: Dina Green, Ilana Weitzner, Sara Guénoun, Jeremy Berman, David Fisch

JLIC hosts annual reunions

and fundraisers across North America where many current and former students, family members, and community members come out to support all the wonderful work JLIC does. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s always an evening filled with good fun and great people.

JLIC Greater Toronto Second Cup Fundraiser, March 2014

JLIC UCLA at their Ice Cream Social First row, left to right: Sharona Kaplan, Shaina Sadighim, Daniel Levine, Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan. Standing, left to right, Esther Behmanesh, Rebecca Hermel, Shadi Nemanpour, Nikkie Mashian, Jon Sadik, Jacob Rabbanian, Kenny Marks, Danny Bandary, Josh Sadik, Daniel Shamooeliam

JLIC Alumni from Johns Hopkins University Left to right: Ben Greenfield, Michael Pisem, Sara GuĂŠnoun, Dina Green, Rivky Stern, and current JLIC educational fellow at NYU, Rebecca Rubenstein, Ali Cohen

Rabbi Aaron Greenberg of Toronto JLIC

Left to right: UCLA JLICers, Yael Glouberman, Dani Glouberman, Haley Kotch, Naomi Esserman

University of Maryland Alumni with former JLIC Educators Rabbi Eli Kohl (second from left) and Naomi Kohl, far right.

JLIC Alumni from Brooklyn College Back row, left to right: Rabbi Boshnack, Ari Ziegler, Michael Ziegler, Natan Skolnick, Front Row: Melanie Goldberg, Dara Feinberg, Shoava Berezin-Bahr, Cheryl Geliebter, Zehava Birman

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rom a distance, it looked like any other wintry Friday night in the NYU kosher cafeteria...students enjoying a gastronomically pleasing and spiritually fulfilling Shabbat dinner. But if you took a closer look, you would have noticed Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks and his wife, Lady Sacks, among the students. They had joined this Friday night dinner as part of a cosponsored NYU Bronfman Center and OU NextGen JLIC Orthodox Student Leadership Weekend.

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The planning for this with them, to inspire, to educate sparkling Shabbat of February 14, and to help them put their own 2014 had started several months commitment to the Jewish nation earlier when Rabbi Yehudah Sarna, into focus. Invitations were sent NYU Bronfman Center executive to select student leaders across the director and former rabbi of NYU United States and Canada.

JLIC, spoke with Rabbi Gideon Who wouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be thrilled Black, the current NYU JLIC rabbi, about involving Orthodox student to accept that opportunity? As leaders from across the country at forty student leaders from over twenty-five campuses checked in the NYU Bronfman Center Summit at the NYU Bronfman Center in meeting. And for this very special Summit, he would ask Special guest Rabbi Lord Rabbi Sacks, former Chief Rabbi of the Jonathan Sacks empowered UK, to spend Shabbat

and inspired the communal leaders of tomorrow.

Greenwich Village, their diversity was quite apparent. Some students came from campuses with only a handful of Orthodox Jews and limited kosher food, while others were accustomed to three minyanim a day and numerous learning opportunities. But there was a common thread uniting them: each one passionately wanted to support and enhance Orthodox Jewish life on their college campus.

To hear Rabbi Sacks speak and to meet other student leaders was a prospect worth clearing all other engagements off your personal calendar. And no one was disappointed. Rabbi Sacks clearly gauged his audience well, focusing on the theme of leadership, blending his rabbinic eloquence with the practical insights of one who had borne the mantle of leadership.

He discussed his path to assuming the leadership role of Chief Rabbi of

“We work so hard to create community and meaningful Jewish experiences.

Rabbi Sacks made us feel that it is truly worth all that effort.

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England. He shared personal failures that he had experienced in his life, reassuring the students that the path to success is often strewn with many failures. And Rabbi Sacks spoke about the profound impression of other leaders upon him, citing the Lubavitcher Rebbe, who had taught him that “great leaders create leaders.”

Melanie Miller, then a senior at University of Florida, came away deeply moved. She reflects that “having the honor of Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks as our guest speaker spoke to the importance of Jewish life on campus. We realized that it provides the foundation for Jewish communal life of the future.

The weekend also underscored the significance of what each and every one of us is doing on our respective campuses. We work so hard to create community, meaningful Jewish experiences and engaging educational experiences. Rabbi Sacks made us feel that it is truly worth all that effort.”

After a beautiful Shabbat, it was time to channel all of the inspiration and energy into the discussions at the OU NextGen JLIC Student Leadership Summit.

The goal of this portion of the weekend was for student leaders to discuss best practices, challenges, and intercollegiate opportunities.

It was an unparalleled chance to

brainstorm and share ideas.

“For me, the most constructive part of the weekend was finding out I’m not alone in my struggle for Orthodox life on campus. I wanted to learn what other student leaders do to boost participation at events,” says Brandon Lurie, a student at McGill University. His sentiment was echoed by many others, all of whom described the NextGen Leadership Summit experience as transformative. Empowered, the student leaders left with a fresh perspective, ready to face the realities of their respective campuses.

Of course, learning from others is nice, but doing is something else. Little by little, JLIC staff learned of some of the accomplishments of those leaders in the weeks and months that followed. Brandon, for instance, lost no time in following through on the inspiration and practical suggestions he had acquired at the summit. One week after the Summit Shabbaton, the McGill Orthodox community initiated a Shabbat Minchah minyan, followed by Seudat Shlishit, for the first time in three years. R ____________________ Hani Lowenstein is a Student Leadership and Educational Resources Associate for JLIC.

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with people. I thought, it worked well there; why don’t we try that at UPenn?”

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Hart Levine founded the Heart to Heart program, before he was named one of The Jewish Week’s “36 Under 36 Reinventing the Jewish Community,” he was an “average kid” growing up in lower Manhattan. He was part of a small, but fairly active Jewish community, one of the children of a close-knit Orthodox world within a very diverse community of people in the Village.

“I was just a Jewish student, going about his life,” says Levine. “I went to Yeshivat Hakotel for the year between high school and college. Then I went to UPenn for a Shabbat, and fell in love with the Jewish community there. UPenn was really good in the science department and I wanted to study bioengineering, so that’s where I ended up.”

His ambition was to move

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to Israel and work in the field of biotechnology for the IDF, or perhaps agricultural engineering in the Negev. But it was while he was studying the sciences at University of Pennsylvania that he discovered a great need on campus. “At UPenn, I was involved with Chabad, JLIC, Hillel, all that stuff, and in the middle of my sophomore year I met a lot of random unaffiliated Jews. I started talking to them about Judaism and found that they were really into it. I started thinking about that a lot.”

Those thoughts weren’t fleeting at all. They stuck with Hart as he continued his college career.

“There were plenty of events and opportunities to participate in Jewish life on campus, but 75% of the Jews on campus weren’t coming.”

Hart decided to change that.

The first thing he tried was humbling and ineffective. “I modeled it after something I did one summer in Israel. A friend and I had gone around with wine and Kiddush cups to apartments in Tel Aviv and did Shabbat Kiddush

Let’s just say things didn’t go smoothly. “The first problem was finding out who was Jewish.

Once we did that, with the names and making educated guesses, my friends and I knocked on the doors and introduced ourselves.

We told them we were just some Jewish students from down the hall and asked if they wanted to do Kiddush. It was all very awkward. They didn’t know us.

They thought we were trying to proselytize them or something.

But there was one girl from South America who didn’t even know there were Jews at UPenn and she was excited. So we said Kiddush with her and then went back to our rooms and drank the rest of the wine ourselves.”

But that initial fiasco didn’t deter Hart or his friends. “We tried to improve from there. What if we just invited students to Shabbat dinners? Almost everyone in my hall was Jewish, so we invited them to a simple Shabbat dinner in the dorm, and we drew about fifteen people who otherwise would not have attended a Shabbat meal that Friday night.”

After entertaining their guests (four of the attendees stayed for five hours to eat, hang out, and learn zemirot) Hart and his friends realized that there were plenty of people like these: Jews who had never experienced an authentic Shabbat meal in their lives.

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“The most important thing “We really started thinking − wow, there’s something here. And then we just had to decide what we were going to do about it.”

In Hart’s junior year, he and his friend hosted ten Shabbat meals. They didn’t have a name for their small, organized events.

“A lot of people asked us who we were with, what organization had sent us, and I just said, ‘I’m Hart Levine. I’m just a fellow student, studying bioengineering, that’s all.’

It wasn’t about an institution or organization. It was about people coming together and learning from each other. It was about creating meaningful conversations and connections with peers.”

By their senior year, they were hosting thirty-five Shabbat

Heart to Heart Chanukah celebrations at NYU, 2013

meals on the UPenn campus alone.

The JLIC (Jewish Learning

is to realize that you can make a difference” Initiative on Campus) educators at UPenn, Rabbi Mordy and Limor Friedman suggested that Hart take his project to the JLIC conference and pitch it to the educators so that they could put him in touch with students on other campuses. At that conference, he met Rabbi Dave Felsenthal of the Orthodox Union who thought Hart’s work was nothing short of remarkable.

More than a dozen yeshivot responded in the affirmative, and from those talks Hart garnered over 250 students interested in hosting Shabbat meals on their campuses. Those students would later touch seventy different campuses.

Currently, Heart to Heart has more than fifty campuses

and stuff like that. When a fellow student invites them over for Shabbat, they see that being involved with religion and being involved in regular college life aren’t mutually exclusive.

“The most important thing is to realize that you can make a difference. A lot of people doing simple small things makes a world of difference.” R

“Rabbi Dave actually helped us and attended our first official Heart to Heart Shabbaton at UPenn in 2009,” says Hart. “He put a notice in the NCSY and OU newsletters which really started getting the word out.”

Then one summer, Hart was going to be in Israel for a friend’s wedding and he remembered something that a student had told him. “He said that when he was leaving yeshivah in Israel they emphasized staying religious, keeping Shabbat, learning, davening, but they didn’t emphasize the fact that when you’re on a college campus you can reach out to the campus Jewish community and really make a difference.” So Hart cold-called yeshivot in Israel and asked if he could speak to their students about campus outreach.

Tabling for Shabbat dinner invites at the University of Pennsylvania, 2009

conducting Shabbat dinners, Purim seudot, Pesach Seders and more. “The biggest challenge,” says Hart, “is keeping the ‘peer-to-peer’ atmosphere while giving them some kind of structure. The peer-to-peer involvement is very important. A lot of unaffiliated or irreligious students have this notion that only rabbi-type people are religious and do Shabbat

____________________ Ari Ziegler is a digital marketing associate at the OU’s NextGen Division and a group leader for OU Israel Free Spirit. A graduate of Brooklyn College, CUNY, he often still works with JLIC on the Brooklyn College campus. He’s also a novelist working on publishing his first two books.

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sharing

OUR NEWS Congrats to All OU Alumni!

• Rachel Scheinberg (SouTHerN NCSY) on graduating from Stern College for Women • Gary Sukienik (CeNTrAl eAST NCSY) on being named to the dean’s list and Honor roll at ohio State university lior Gavra (IFS

WE ARE PRoUD oF THE

achievements

of the following Alumni • Ezra Chefitz (JlIC ruTgerS ‘15) and Eitan Sufian (JlIC ruTgerS) on completing the NYC marathon 2013

• Mike Fine (NCSY CAMP SPorTS) on his professional achievements. He’s a stand-up comedian and comedy writer and an accredited staff writer for the Friars roasts. He provides comedy material for celebrities including numerous oscar-, grammy-, and emmy-nominated artists.

Rachel Margolin (loNg ISlANd NCSY, TJJ) on her occupational achievements. She currently runs lioncub Job Search with her husband lavie,a career advisement service with a specialty in linkedIn.

• Hart levine (JlIC PeNN ‘10) on being named to the Jewish Week’s “36 under 36”

• Sarah Alt (uPSTATe NCSY) on graduating Stern College for Women.

• lea Bekhar (ATlANTIC SeABoArd NCSY) on graduating Stern College for Women.

• Sari Borenstein (NY NCSY, SouTHerN NCSY, JolT) on her graduation at Stern College for Women.

Eli Weinstein (NY NCSY, TJJ, CAMP SPorTS) on

graduating lander College for Men

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joining the IdF

HATzlACHA RA B B AH to the following Alumni who

made aliyah

• Brian Rosen (JlIC IllINoIS ‘13) on completing his Ph.d., making Aliyah, and getting married all in the months of May-June 2013.

• Yishai Schwartz (JlIC YAle ‘13) on his fellowship position at the Tikvah Fund in New York

SuMMer 2013) on

• Kochava Ayoun (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘14) • Ariana Berlin (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘14) Tanya Raytman (MIdWeST NCSY)

on her academic achievement at loyola university Chicago • Mottie Widroff (NY NCSY) on earning his master’s degree in Clinical Psychology. He is starting his third year of his doctorate degree in Clinical Psychology at Hofstra university.

• levissa zeffren (MIdWeST NCSY) on his graduation from Yeshiva university’s Certificate program in experiential education, becoming the director of Chicago JSu and his induction into Ben Zakkai this year.

• Rachel Garrick (JlIC IllINoIS ‘13) • luky Guigui (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘14) • Yael Marks (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘14) • Adena Morgan (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘14) • Tali Segev (JlIC IllINoIS ‘13), and joining the IdF through garin Tzabar • Elana Weiner-Kaplow (JlIC IllINoIS ‘13), and joining the IdF through garin Tzabar Penina orlan (SouTHerN NCSY)

on making Aliyah and studying in Jerusalem College of Technology, Machon Tal

• Aaron Buechler (NJ NCSY) on making Aliyah attending the hesder program at Shaalvim. He is now in Tzahal as a combat engineer.

Jacob Epstein (SouTHerN NCSY, NCSY Kollel) on

making Aliyah and going into Tzahal • Samuel Mirsky (NY NCSY) on making Aliyah and serving in an elite unit of Tzahal.

• Tzippy Bernstein (JlIC ToroNTo ‘15) to Danny Grosman (JlIC ToroNTo ‘14) • Michael Kosowsky (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘14) to Tova ramelson • Talya lerner (JlIC uMd ‘15) to Mark Douek (JlIC uMd ‘14) • Alexis Mayer (JlIC uPeNN ‘12) to Noach goldstein • Tova Miller (JlIC uPeNN ‘12) to Cameron Berns (JlIC uPeNN ‘11) • Ross Mitgang (JlIC QueeNS ‘14) to Yardena Winegust • Aliza Morocco (JlIC MArYlANd ‘12) to leor Joudai

Engagements

If you’re already married –

MAzAl Tov! • Elli Arons (JlIC MArYlANd ‘13) to Ben Marks (JlIC ruTgerS) • Tamar Demby (JlIC ruTgerS ‘15) to dov Simen (JlIC ruTgerS ‘12) • zach Felder (JlIC MArYlANd ‘14) to danielle reich • Rivka Fogel (JlIC uPeNN ‘11) to eddie Chalouh • Dena Fried (JlIC ToroNTo ‘15) to Chaim Presman (JlIC ToroNTo ‘15) • Devorah Friedman (JlIC ruTgerS ‘10) to Avi Schranz • Jonathan Gans (JlIC MArYlANd ‘14) to Brooke Prince • loly Grynspan (JlIC uPeNN ‘13) to Avraham daphna • Sheryl Klein (JlIC ruTgerS) to Michael Fruchter (JlIC ruTgerS) • Yisrael Klein (JlIC ToroNTo ‘14) to ofra lispon (JlIC ToroNTo ‘14)

Isaac Attia (WeST CoAST NCSY, CAMP SPorTS) to Tal Meiri

• Shira Moskowitz (JlIC BrANdeIS ‘12) to david Ashear • lauren Horowitz (JlIC QueeNS ‘14) to Joseph Novogrodsky (JlIC QueeNS ‘14) • Dafna Perez (JlIC ToroNTo ‘15) to Eytan Dishy (JlIC ToroNTo ‘13) • Ana Shore (JlIC ToroNTo ‘16) to Izzy Korobkin (JlIC ToroNTo ‘16) • Jordana Silberman (JlIC ruTgerS ‘15) to Ari leskowitz (JlIC ruTgerS ‘13) • Yonina Goldberg (JlIC MArYlANd ’14) to Joseph Slochowsky (JlIC MArYlANd ’14)

• Tova Flancbaum (NATIoNAl NCSY) to Rabbi Dovid Bashevkin (NATIoNAl NCSY)

Hadas Fried (lI NCSY) to Peter goodrich Alan Yoav Geni (CHIle NCSY, NeW eNglANd NCSY) to

efrat Maymon • lee Niren (CeNTrAl eAST NCSY) on the engagement of his daughter, Tamar, to daniel Stark Sophia Rifkin (MIdWeST NCSY)

to Nachum Matten (MIdWeST NCSY)

• Rivka Cohen-Melamed (IFS SuMMer 2010) to Yonatan rotenberg • Janet Rosen (IFS WINTer 2009-10) to elad green

• Yael Spiegel (JlIC ToroNTo ‘15) to Nachum Silverman (JlIC ToroNTo ‘15) • Benjy Spiro (JlIC MArYlANd ‘08) to leah lousky • Kimberly Syvarth (JlIC ruTgerS ‘13) to zachary Fuld (JlIC ruTgerS) • David Wallach (JlIC ToroNTo ‘14) to Erin lehrer (JlIC ToroNTo ’13) • leah Pariser (lI NCSY) to daniel Falik Naomi Axelbaum (MIdWeST NCSY) to

Yair Eckhardt

to submit your announcement for this section, contact alumni@ou.org

(MIdWeST NCSY)

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• tehila Berglas (Jlic toronto ‘14) and duvy katscher (Jlic toronto)

annie Ben-Chetrit (SoutHern ncSY) and Roy Cohen.

• Kimmie Kfare (Jlic brAndeiS ‘13) and david Warmflash • hannah Kaiser (Jlic MArYlAnd ‘15) and lee mirowitz (Jlic illinoiS ‘13)

a hEaRty maZal tov

• shayna Radensky (Jlic QueenS ‘13) and Eli Ehrenreich (Jlic QueenS ‘13)

to the following alumni on their

josh Riback (Jlic

Marriages

JoHnS HopkinS ‘13)

and erica Stern

• Rachel hill (nY ncSY) and Yaakov nussbaum shayna nordlicht (MidWeSt ncSY) and Ethan Katz (MidWeSt ncSY)

shayna abromson (Jlic JoHnS HopkinS ‘10)

and Arieh kovler

• jason sugarman (Jlic brAndeiS ‘13) and Ariel barnehama Caren lewis (Jlic JoHnS HopkinS ‘14) & jules szanton (Jlic JoHnS HopkinS ‘13)

• ariella Kossin (MidWeSt ncSY) and mendel lazaros (centrAl eASt ncSY)

• malky Weil (SoutHern ncSY) and David spektor (WeSt coASt ncSY).

Mazal tov to parents Rabbi steven and yael Weil (ortHodox union).

• marissa Goldrich (Jlic illinoiS ‘16 pHd) and Eitan Barlaz (Jlic illinoiS ‘15 pHd)

ilana Barta (Jlic QueenS ‘14) and Akiva Fund

• Kelly (Raquel) Finkelstein (Jlic upenn ‘11) and Daniel Swartz • adi Fried (Jlic brAndeiS ‘14) and Zack Sax

sarah Weg (Jlic QueenS ‘13) and Netanel Spero

Willie Balk (centrAl eASt ncSY,

SeAttle ncSY) and Estee Gross,

advisor (nJ ncSY, upStAte ncSY)

miriam shapiro (nY ncSY) and Elie schwartz (nY ncSY).

They met at a NY NCSY Shabbaton.

• melissa nourmand (nY ncSY) and Sasha Mehdizadeh hadassah Bell (nJ ncSY) and jeffrey smulevitz (nY ncSY)

• seth huttel (Jlic QueenS ‘14) and rivky Weiss merav Peretz (Jlic brooklYn)

& mordy stroh, who met on the 2013 Jlic Winter iSrAel Free Sprit trip

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• shira Beleck (AtlAntic SeAboArd ncSY) and Moshe Heideman • lauren Friedman (li ncSY) and Ari Grosman

• Chani Colton (nJ ncSY, SoutHern ncSY) and Josh Gildin

• Rabbi Dave and Chanie Felsenthal (AtlAntic SeAboArd ncSY, centrAl eASt ncSY, nJ ncSY, nAtionAl ncSY) on the marriage of their son levi Moshe Felsenthal to nechama rubin

• Errol Eisner (iFS Winter 2009-10) and Jaclyn olina

Elissa and arieh Friedner (nJ ncSY, clevelAnd ncSY director)

− a daughter,Ayeles

• Rachel (shevick) (nJ ncSY) and Alan Shammah − a daughter, Yehudit • Esther (nY ncSY) and mottie Widroff (nY ncSY) − a daughter, Sarel orit (meyers)

• Chaya (nJ ncSY) and luis murrell – a son, Ammitai Yosef

(MidWeSt ncSY) &

moshe “Ziggy” Zharnest (nJ ncSY) – a son, Yaakov dovi

• yosef and shoshana Polakoff (WeSt coAt ncSY, nAtionAl/ou HQ)

– a daughter, Gila • Rebecca (halstuch) (li ncSY) and ariel schochet (nJ ncSY) – a daughter, batsheva Meira Erin (Cooper)

• hanna (MidWeSt And ncSY tJJ) and shamshy schlager (AtlAntic SeAboArd And ncSY tJJ) – a daughter, Adella Alta

(AtlAntic SeAboArd ncSY, ncSY Give) and

David steibel

WaRm WishEs FoR naChat anD joy

(centrAl eASt ncSY)

– a son, Alexander

to the following alumni on the

Births

oF thEiR ChilDREn

• David (Jlic toronto ‘08) and naomi Elmaleh (Jlic toronto ‘11) − a daughter, talia

Becca (Cohn) (MidWeSt ncSY) and Rabbi meir Wexler (SoutHern ncSY) − a daughter, Sophie Aliza. Mazal tov to grandma, Rhoda (Gerson) Gleicher (SoutHern ncSY).

• shawn (Jlic MArYlAnd ‘09) and melissa levine (Jlic MArYlAnd ‘10) – a daughter, logan Haley

• Etta Chinskey (li ncSY) • Daniella lee-Casper

Rabbi David and ariel Pardo (Jlic educAtorS At brAndeiS univerSitY)

− a daughter, tiferet • mina (Jlic uclA ‘10) and adam hyman (Jlic uclA ‘07) – a son, naftali • Deena (Rendel) (ncSY cAMp cAnAdA) and scott shulman (centrAl eASt ncSY) − a son, Yerachmiel Elimelech ariella & shlomo Benzaquen (WeSt coASt ncSY)

– a daughter, Yaffa eliora

We Mourn...

(WeSt coASt ncSY)

congratulationS

cuy kzn

Mabrouk felicidades Bravo MazAl Tov

• Rabbi louis Ginsberg (upStAte nY ncSY)

• Rhonda levine (li ncSY) • Rebbitzen miriam lowenbraun (AtlAntic SeAboArd ncSY)

• anne samson, wife of lee samson, creAtor oF WeSt coASt ncSY

• Devorah turk-saslow (nY ncSY) • lauren Zalkin-anton (li ncSY) • janet (Zahava) Goldwasser (AtlAntic SeAboArd ncSY)

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OU Alumni

CONNECTions NCSY Phone: url:

212.613.8233

NCSY.ORG /MYNCSY @NCSY

JLIC Phone:

OU Alumni

url:

/MYNCSY email:

JLICONLINE.ORG /NATIONALJLIC

HEART TO HEART

Phone:

212.613.8349

/JLICNATIONAL

Phone:

email:

alumni@ou.org

/JLICNATIONAL

url:

email:

NCSY Alumni Phone: url:

212.613.8370

info@ncsy.org

212.613.8171

jlic@ou.org

theHeart2HeartProject.org /H2Hproject

email:

IFS

alumni.ncsy.org

Phone:

/MYNCSYALUMNI

url:

212.613.8299

212.613.5126

info@theHeart2HeartProject.org

OU

Israelfreespirit.com

Phone:

@NCSYALUMNI

/ISRAELFREESPIRIT

url:

youtube.com//NCSYAlumni

@IFSTAGLITBRI

/OrthodoxUnion

instagram.com/NCSYAlumni

/ISRAELFREESPIRIT

@OrthodoxUnion

email:

alumni@ncsy.org

email:

info@israelfreespirit.com

212.563.4000

OU.ORG

email:

info@ou.org

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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Did you meet through

NCSY? The story

of how a couple met is always special. God’s Hand in crossing their separate paths is often abundantly clear.

Sometimes God’s Hand uses NCSY to unite two people from different backgrounds and different regions to build a Jewish home together.

We want you to tell us your story!

Email us at alumni@ncsy.org and we’ll feature you on our “Met Through NCSY” page!

www.ncsyalumni.org/ met_through_ncsy

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