Many Uncles

By Rebecca Azevedo, daughter of an Illinois Mason

It took many years before I recognized the value of Freemasonry, the pricelessness of the relationships it brought to my family, and its effects on my father's character.

At first, when my father told my sisters and me about being a Mason, I was annoyed. I didn't know much about it, except that it was yet another time commitment when he already worked too much.

Perhaps it was my immaturity or my lack of understanding as to why he’d choose to commit to this weird fraternity, but I was very vocal in my distaste for Masonry. I would complain when he’d have to be gone some nights, why he was spending time with people we didn’t know, or when he would bring up going to pancake breakfasts or parades.

My attitude began to shift though, when I started to see how Freemasonry changed my life—even when I could never be a Mason.

I remember being in Germany with my family, and in one instance, my dad told us he’d met another Brother Mason. It felt irrelevant in the moment, until we started talking as a family and my dad told us that, if need be, that stranger would help us in an emergency.

Today, I know that I have an extensive network of people who would help my family and me in an instant. During times of stress and when our family needed help, it was my “uncles” who first helped. Uncle Ziad, uncle Brian, uncle Bob, uncle Pat, uncle “Bean” ... Whether it was something major or my little sister needing a ride from school, there was never any hesitation. Freemasonry gave me uncles whom I love, men who I know would help me if I needed anything. Not only that, but I see the kind of relationships they have with my father. Our home has hosted people of all backgrounds, and part of it is due to how Freemasonry unites people through common values.

The man I know my father to be today is largely due to what Freemasonry has instilled in his heart. It has drawn out a love for knowledge, the courage to stand up for what is right, and a passion for helping others. Th rough this incredible Brotherhood, I've seen firsthand men of character capitalize on doing good, focusing so much time on serving, giving, and mobilizing for amazing causes.

My greatest realization regarding Masonry has been that its impact is anything but limited to the men who are a part of it. The way this huge group of men transform the world on a daily basis is unparalleled. With every friendship, every act of kindness, every charitable donation, Freemasonry is changing the inner workings of society and simply, beautifully making it better.