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Perfectly Packable It’s vacation season — exploring exotic destinations, sightseeing in the city, lounging beach or poolside, dining under the stars — and relaxing is the rule. So, if packing has you stressed or anxious, just do some simple one-stop-shopping for head-turning head-to-toe looks.

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features Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida: Cause for Celebration! In 1944, former major league baseball player and Orlando’s Parks & Recreation Director Joe Stripp founded the Orlando Boys Club, a place where boys with too much idle time on their hands could stay out of trouble and channel their energy toward positive outcomes. Now 75 years later, the Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida serves more than 15,000 children annually with 35 clubs in seven counties.

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Love Stories — Wonderful Weddings From vows exchanged at luxury resorts and a cathedral, to more intimate ceremonies at a historic site and private home, six couples share details about their dream days. The Perfect Venue: Shannon Tarrant, owner,

WeddingVenueMap.com, shares tips for finding the best locale for the

on the cover: WKMG-TV News 6 Anchor Lisa Bell with Jasmine, Raul, Kirstyn, Julius and Gabriel photographed at the Levy-Hughes Clubhouse by Jim Hobart, Macbeth Studios. Story on page 98.

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People, places and things: The 2019 Florida Prize in Contemporary Art exhibit at the Orlando Museum of Art; Women to Watch: The 2019 Orlando Women’s Conference was a day for discovering, exploring and sharing power, passion and purpose as 600 attendees and 50 speakers gathered in the spirit of community to inspire and support each other; Pam Saffran shares her story of heartbreak and courage; Consignment queens Renee Dietzel and Janet Acker; Performing arts preview: Orlando Ballet, Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra, Orlando Shakespeare Theatre, FAIRWINDS Broadway in Orlando and more.

36 BEAUTY, BODY & SPIRIT

Up your workout game with these bright, sunny pieces from Athleta; Dr. Deborah Harding offers advice on managing stress and increasing productivity with tools and systems to help create synergy and organization in your life; Winter Park welcomes a new health and wellness center; Vibrational therapy treatments introduced at the Four Season Resort Orlando; Women Who Inspire: Peg Cornwell’s passion for community outreach.

46 TASTES & EXPERIENCES

The most popular beverage in the world has now made its way into confections, cocktails and even a classic soft drink at Barnie’s Coffee & Tea Co.; The Winter Garden Historic District was love at first site for Kate and Mike Slentz on a recent excursion; An all-star lineup creates a special and spectacular wine dinner to benefit Second Harvest Food Bank of Central Florida.

58 HOME & DESIGN

Create an unexpected arrangement by artfully combining vessels you may already have and filling them with foliage or florals; Karen LeBlanc finds tile style is all about storytelling as the Coverings 2019 show revealed a new design language in surfaces.

66 AGENDA

Community and charity events: The 2019 Orlando Women’s Conference; the Women

United Luncheon with guest speaker Judy Shepard; Dinner of Tribute honored Joanie Holzer Schirm; Cocktails for Hope benefited a special scholarship; the Dr. Phillips Center Circle of community volunteers; Kids Beating Cancer’s A Star is Born fashion luncheon; CKc’s Gold Gala; Support Our Scholars dorm shower and luncheon; BBQ on the Boulevard brought the crowds; Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida Celebrate the Children Gala; and more.

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Created for the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, Pulse nightclub was a safe space where everyone was free to express themselves; be exactly who they were and be proud to bring their mothers, according to Nikole Parker who found her mission through the onePULSE Foundation.

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Sweet Scents of Summer It’s really all about being a kid — or a kid at heart. There are seasonal smells that can transport you back to the past or propel you to start packing for an adventure. If you close your eyes when you sniff them, you can go anywhere you imagine. Since summer is the simple season for me, here are my top picks for conjuring up fun and memories under the sun… what are yours?

Sunscreen — formerly suntan

grandmother’s meant walking

lotion. Whether it’s old-school

through a gravel path flanked

Coppertone, Bain de Soleil Orange

with lush mint plants.

Gelée, Australian Gold, Banana

Fireworks. If you’ve experi-

Boat or Hawaiian Tropic, the fra-

enced them up close — and may-

grance screams summer.

be not always the legal variety —

Relish. It ends up being the

the afterglow and smoke are

spark in everything from potato

intoxicating reminders of a cele-

salad to deviled eggs and for

bration.

many it’s the must-have condi-

Rain. After the inevitable after-

ment for a beachside hotdog.

noon showers, the steam rising

Watermelon. The mom-ap-

from the sidewalks, streets and

proved snack of childhood is very

lawns gives off a distinct odor

adult-friendly in summer salads

that signals a slight break from

and as cool quenchers — and now

the relentless heat.

with the new varieties we don’t

Coconut. Maybe because of its

even have to spit out seeds.

tropical origin it just seems sum-

Jell-O. The jiggly gelatin, with

mery and when added to foods or

no nutritional value, was a lo-cal

drinks, it makes everything a lit-

treat in the heat and still factors

tle festive and exotic.

in the ubiquitous shot that gets

Salt & Chlorine. What would

elevated in the citrusy version

summer be without a swim or

featured on this page.

splash in pools and oceans? We’ve

Charcoal. Although most everyone uses gas for cookouts,

got dozens of beaches nearby and plenty of bodies of water to

smoldering coals give off an old-time backyard barbeque vibe.

jump into.

Mint. The refreshing herb adds a shot of cool to everything

Whatever your plans are for the next few weeks, I hope you can

from iced tea and mojitos to salads and more. Summers at my

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state of art The 2019 Florida Prize in Contemporary Art exhibit at the Orlando Museum of Art (through August 18) features works from Sunshine State artists Robert Aiosa, Joe Fig, Lilian Garcia-Roig, Lola Gómez, Amer Kobaslija, Pepe Mar, Anja Marais, Edison Peñafiel, Vickie Pierre and Sri Prabha. At opening night, the $20,000 Florida Prize Award, made possible by the generous support of Gail and Michael Winn, went to Edison Peñafiel, while Joe Fig received the People’s Choice Award. omart.org

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POWER, PASSION, PURPOSE:

2019 ORLANDO WOMENâ€™S CONFERENCE

Dr. Romie Mushtaq

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It was a day for discovering, exploring and sharing power, passion and purpose as 600 attendees and 50 speakers gathered in the spirit of community to

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inspire and support each other. The program held at Loews Sapphire Falls Resort started with a welcome from Conference Co-founder Christi Ashby and an amped-up presentation by Dr. Romie Mushtaq on being the odd girl out who overcame stigmas and stumbling blocks to recognize her talents, leadership skills and compassion.

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During the luncheon, Dr. Lori Boardman, chief medical officer and executive medical director of AdventHealth for Women, delivered thought provoking comments about loss and how passion for her work helped her recover and enable her to help other women. And Diane Diaz, founder and CEO of The Brand Teacher, discussed pushing personal boundaries by asking the question: When was the last time you did something for the first time? At the conclusion of the luncheon, The Mall at Millenia presented stylist Melanie Pace who demonstrated how to present a polished, purposeful appearance while letting your individuality shine through.

PURPOSE: REDEFINING IT AFTER A LOSS Moderator Andrea Eliscu, president, Medical Marketing, with panelists Carolyn Moor, founder, Modern Widows Club; Noelle Moore, founder, The Finley Project; Pam Saffran, author and mental health counselor; and Norma Stanley, attorney. Loss is something no one wants to talk about, yet everyone will face. As women, we find ourselves in a number of different roles when a loss strikes — caregiver, mother, daughter, wife, partner, friend — which can make preparing for and coping with it all the more challenging. The brave women who spoke and attended our panel discussion on Purpose: Redefin-

The afternoon’s last session featured Orange Appeal’s Women of the Year engaged in a candid conversation moderated by award-winning broadcast journalist Annetta Wilson. Sandy Hostetter, SunTrust Bank Central Florida market president; Elisha Gonzalez Bonnewitz, vice president of community relations and government affairs at FAIRWINDS Credit Union; Sharon Line Clary, vice president of marketing for AdventHealth; Joanie Holzer Schirm, author; Tiffany Moore Russell, Orange County Clerk of Courts; and Amy Lockhart, Seminole County Commissioner, talked about challenges and triumphs in their personal and professional lives.

ing it After Loss shared in a critical conversation and walked away with several key lessons learned to help ourselves and each other: • Be prepared and surround yourself with skilled advisors you know and trust. This includes a CPA, a financial advisor, and an estate planning attorney. Work with them now to create the appropriate estate plan and financial plan for you and your family. • Supporting someone in their grief journey is not a sprint, but a marathon. Continue reaching out to someone even if there’s no response. Be consistent. Grief is lonely, and there is a lot of attention in the beginning that rapidly drops off in the weeks and months after. Continue to show up and be there. Everyone else returns to life, and those grieving feel isolated and alone. Part of them is missing, and their world is forever changed. Even if they don’t say it, they need you. • One of the greatest gifts you can give someone who is grieving is to simply listen without judgement. Let the grieving person talk. Three powerful words to say: “tell me more.” You can’t stop the rain, but you can share the umbrella. • When you endure a loss, place a comma rather than a period. While grief never completely goes away, it can lead to new strength, hope, resilience and purpose that you never knew you had. And it is important to find and embrace that new meaning and energy in your life. • Practice gratitude and look for hope even on the darkest days. It may be a cup of coffee someone brought you, a friend who picked up your kids from school, or a neighbor who

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dropped off dinner. Let people help you. And then down the road, once you are stronger, pay it forward and help others in their time of need. • Find a way to honor those you have loved and lost. This can be a new family tradition, educating or lobbying for a specific cause or change, or establishing something in a loved one’s memory such as a philanthropic gift or scholarship. Loss can you leave you bitter or better — choose better.

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Diane Meiller Cook, Roseann Harrington, Ann Fairchild and Karen Keene

PURPOSE: ACHIEVE MORE, STRESS LESS Moderator Jill Hamilton Buss, mental health counselor, with Kimberly Bell, vice president of AdventHealth Cardiovascular Institute; Colette Fehr, mental health counselor; Dr. Deborah Harding, founder, Harding Medical Institute; and Dr. Amber Orman, board-certified radiation oncologist with AdventHealth Medical Group.

POWER: HOW TO GET IT, HOW TO USE IT, AND HOW TO KEEP IT Moderator: Karen Keene, director of business development at Dean Mead, with panelists Diane Meiller-Cook, president and CEO of Diane Meiller and Associates, Inc.; Roseann Harrington, chief of staff for Orange County Mayor Jerry Demings; and Ann Fairchild, general counsel of Siemens U.S. and global general counsel for Siemens Gas and Power. In preparation for this session, members of the panel talked about their initial reaction to the word power. The responses were mixed. It has a different meaning to different people. Studies show that some women may feel uneasy labeling themselves as powerful because they fear it may have a negative connotation. There is a traditional definition people com-

Dr. Amber Orman, Dr. Deborah Harding, Colette Fehr, Kimberly Bell and Jill Hamilton Buss

Chronic stress seems to be plaguing everyone these days. From depression, anxiety and burn-out to cardiac events, stroke, some cancers and sleep problems, untreated

monly refer to as the male view of “powering over others” or getting people to do what you want them to do. One of the panelists said of her experience working in a male-dominated industry, “women leaders can be seen as influential, but not powerful”. The women on our panel encouraged audience members to embrace the positive impact of power because it is critical if we are to advance, change and grow. Specifically, we discussed five pillars of power:

stress can lead to very serious health issues.

Power of influence • Power of fear • Power of collaboration

The all-star panel, which included psychotherapists, physicians and a nurse, offered strategies to reduce and manage our stress. These included getting regular exercise, practicing meditation or mindfulness, eating a healthy diet with more fruits and vegetables, and getting enough good sleep. Other tips included getting better at saying “NO,” reducing commitments you’re not absolutely passionate about, and knowing your limits — and what rejuve-

Power of authenticity • Power of vulnerability Key takeaways for using your power: • Being fearful is okay. We want our leaders to embrace fear because it demonstrates they’re relatable to others. • Ask for feedback and give feedback. • Focus on listening to and learning from others. • Stamp out perfectionism! Practice self-love and accept yourself. • Always stand on your reputation and be yourself – that’s authenticity! • Never keep score. In the words of Elsa from Frozen, “Let it go, let it go!” The panelists were asked about how they prevent others in the workplace from stripping away their power. Some of their responses were as follows:

nates you. Then, commit to doing more of

• You can’t get distracted from the goals at hand. Then it becomes personal and others

that. Time with friends, time to just be

may try to attack you. Keep your eye on the target and forge ahead to achieve the results

(not do), and time to think and reflect.

that you’re seeking.

Lastly, if you can’t get your stress under

• Equate power to confidence. Know that you’re doing your best every day.

control, seek professional help. Talk to your

• In most situations, everyone has an agenda. Be mindful of it and pick your battles.

doctor or find a good therapist. Your

Define up-front what’s in your space, and what isn’t. Stay in your lane and you’ll be suc-

health, well-being and life, could be at stake.

cessful.

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Judi Awsumb, Vernice Atkins-Bradley, Wendy Connor, Carol Cox, Leslie Heimer and Jackie Hirsch

PASSION: USING IT TO START AND BUILD YOUR BUSINESS Moderator Judi Awsumb, president, Awsumb Enterprises; with Vernice Atkins-Bradley, majority shareholder, Votum Construction; Wendy Connor, founder, Team True; Carol Cox, founder, Speaking Your Brand; Leslie Heimer, owner, American Liberty Mortgage; and Jackie Hirsch, founder, Crowne Atlantic Properties. We all want to find our passion, figure out

Remove things from your life that don’t

Leslie Heimer commented on how sev-

who we are meant to be, and begin to

serve your highest purpose. If you

eral different women after the session

explore our passion in the best way possi-

dream of owning a large company,

ended said: “I was supposed to be in that

ble. Ask yourself: If you could do anything

watching television on the couch or

room and hear what you said. We had a

for eight hours a day for the rest of your

spending an hour doing your makeup

number of small business owners and

life, and money were no object, what

won’t get you there. Get up and take the

entrepreneurs, and it felt so great to be able

would you do? We also asked the audience

leap. That is what life is about.

to inspire and encourage them. Specifi-

how many owned their own business or

• Make everything in your life purpose-

cally, the women who tapped me after the

were thinking about a significant transi-

ful. You’ll get so much more out of life

session felt encouraged by hearing they

tion in their career path. Many in the audi-

and enjoy it more. It’s not what you do

were not alone in the ups and downs of

ence raised their hands. Our knowledge-

but how you do it that will determine

entrepreneurship.

able panel of professional women shared

your destiny. Take challenge or tragedy

their experiences on how they started

in your life as a growth opportunity.

cusp of something big and the next you

their businesses, transitioned from anoth-

• Those who wallow in self-pity and vic-

are trying to figure out how to make pay-

er career, and the important things to con-

timhood aren’t leaving mental space

roll. I shared that day that the most suc-

sider when taking the leap.

for themselves to be successful in life.

cessful business owners aren’t always the

Take the energy and gifts of wisdom

most brilliant innovators or the most

from those challenges and build your

experienced in their field, but the ones

dream life. The modern-day fairytale

that can ‘stomach’ the roller coaster of

storyline: you save yourself. That is

running a business and have the guts to

true empowerment. Start today!

forge ahead.”

Jackie Hirsch said: • Time is your prime asset. If you want to own a company or multiple companies, you need to streamline your life and make space for big things to happen.

One minute you feel like you are on the

TWO QUOTES OF INSPIRATION: “The only way to do great work is to love what you do.” –Steve Jobs “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Dr. Barbara Jenkins, Christina Pinto, Dana Beldsoe, Jill Schwartz and JoAnn Newman

POWER: OVER YOUR MIND Presented by Cara Hewett and Tracy Zboril, psychotherapists and founders of Soul Happy. We were happy to have a full room, and the engagement level of the women is what every speaker wants. As the day went on and the lunch proceeded, it was evident that women inspiring women was indeed taking place and was a beautiful thing to observe. The introduction of the subconscious mind and how it relates to women’s insecurities can be an incredibly powerful message — one that brings comfort through

PASSION: EXPLORING AND USING IT TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS FOR YOU AND YOUR ORGANIZATION

understanding. This empowerment seemed

Moderator Dana Bledsoe, president of Nemours Children’s Hospital; with Dr. Barbara Jenkins, superintendent for Orange County Public Schools; JoAnn Newman, president and CEO of Orlando Science Center; Jill Schwartz, managing partner of Jill S. Schwartz and Associates; and Christina Pinto, Certified Financial Planner and partner at MPC Wealth Management.

that community.

A packed room gathered to hear esteemed panelists discuss Passion: Exploring and Using It to Achieve Success for You and Your Organization. Panelist expertise and interests spanned the entire lifecycle from school ages and STEM education, to financial planning for aging parents and long-term care, and rounded out with gender equality. Panelists set the discussion stage by sharing their passion word, followed by heartfelt and inspirational stories of how their passion word had inspired their careers and infused their lives with personal fulfillment. The panelists’ passion words — education, learning, equality and caregiver — guided the dialogue. While each panelist is highly successful, they shared a personal experience that brought their passion word to life and made their lives relatable to all. Dr. Barbara Jenkins shared how a personal interaction and expectation-setting dialogue changed a curriculum and the outcome of early children’s education for years to follow. JoAnn Newman explained how getting girls (and boys) excited about STEM and the opportunities available to them at a young age is changing the STEM field, and how her personal experiences fuel her drive. Jill Schwartz described an early career experience where professional successes were not equally recognized in the work environment and how this led to a distinguished career advocating for gender equality. Christina Pinto explained how the life lessons learned when caring for an aging mother evolved into expertise in long-term care financial planning and a passion to share those lessons with other caregivers. The sincerity, warmth and candor of the session, sprinkled with a healthy dose of laughter, was a great launch for the day. Panelists as well as the audience were eager for more when the time was called. 20

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Leslie Hartog, Gaby Ortigoni and Susan Johnson

WOMEN TO WATCH Secily Wilson

Christi Ashby and Kate Slentz

PURPOSE: EXPLORING AND DEFINING WHAT YOURS IS Moderator Secily Wilson, broadcast journalist and nonprofit founder, with Leslie Hartog, social entrepreneur and philanthropist; Susan Johnson, founder, Support Our Scholars; and Gaby Ortigoni, president, Hispanic Chamber of Commerce of Metro Orlando. Have you ever asked yourself, “What is my passion?” “What should I do with my life?” “How do I find my purpose?” The 2019 Orlando Women’s Conference left nothing on the table for the more than 500 attendees all on a mission to empower, enlighten and engage. That’s exactly what was delivered during the morning session on Purpose: Exploring & Defining What Yours Is. Powerhouse panelists Susan Johnson, Leslie Hartog, Gaby Ortigoni and moderator Secily Wilson gave “the standing room only” crowd something to talk about and think about as they defined purpose and passion. Some had questions about how to identify their purpose, while others shared tips on executing their purpose. There was one common denominator, which was everyone has a purpose. The panelists shared their personal journeys of self-discovery, which all included a life transition to do something different. For some, the leap into their purpose pursuit was by choice and others it was out of necessity. You may believe your purpose is a singular experience. Leslie says, not so. “Finding one’s purpose is a lifelong pursuit — not because a purpose is elusive but because there is likely more than one in your life,” she says. Carol Wick, Allison Walsh, Melissa Wiggins, Stacey Papp and Kay Rawlins

Each of the panelists agreed, in order to find your purpose, you must follow your heart. Susan says, “Ask yourself, ‘What am I doing that makes me feel most alive?’” The key, Gaby says: “Don’t over think it. Just do it! The hardest step is taking the first one and getting rid of the doubt or disbelief that it’s possible.” Secily challenged each woman to listen and look within themselves to find what makes their heart sing, listen to what others say you’re good at, even if it’s not what your job title says, then start doing it on purpose. Passion mixed with action is guaranteed to create purpose.

In addition to the speaking programs, the 2019 Orlando Women’s Conference also featured a keynote luncheon, exhibit area, end-of-day reception, and plenty of opportunities for connecting and engaging in meaningful conversations. The 10th Kelly Cohen, Helen Martinez, Hope Newsome, Adrianna Sekula and Shelley Lauten

annual event is scheduled for Thursday, April 9, 2020 at Loews Sapphire Falls Resort. For exhibitor and sponsor information email Kate@orangeappeal.com. To see the full 2019 program and more details visit orlandowomensconference.com.

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Pam Saffran: Triumph Over Tragedy She wanted to share her story of heartbreak and courage surrounding the loss of her husband and mother to help others in similar situations, so she reached out to see if she could be a part of the 2019 Orlando Women’s Conference. We were not sure her topic — life after loss — was necessarily compatible with the rest of the program. But Pam Saffran knew what we did not immediately realize — most of us have suffered a loss and coping with it can be a lifelong journey.

he session [described on

notherapy and Pam fought to get him into

page 14] was not only well-

a medical trial. In the meantime, Pam’s

attended but encouraged an

mother woke up and began to make a slow

ongoing conversation about

recovery — then had a second aneurysm. It

grief and getting your life

was a constant up and down. Alan was too

back. Pam’s Amazon bestseller, Listening

weak to begin the trial and died that Sep-

for Echoes, has allowed her to reach a wide

tember. Dorrie had been placed in hospice

audience but we wanted to have her speak

care and passed that month as well.

at the monthly Orange Appeal luncheon to

Pam had decided when her life was ini-

a much more intimate group

tially upended to journal and that became

“He was the love of my life and I know

the basis for the book. “I had to find some-

it may sound trite, but we truly did have a

thing that I was grateful for, that I appreci-

fairy tale romance. He was my best friend,”

ated. I had to find a silver lining. So, every

Pam says of her husband, Dr. Alan Saffran,

night before I went to sleep, I wrote some-

a well-respected local ENT physician who

thing down,” she adds.

died from pancreatic cancer in 2017. Pam

Her goal with the book was to write

held a counseling degree from Rollins

about love, hope and loss. “The loss is what

College, and had decided to stay home and

no one ever talks about. We push it aside. While still on the phone Alan revealed

We need to talk about it, especially as

Compounding the situation was the

that he had stage IV pancreatic cancer

women. When we suffer a loss, we are

death of her mother, Dorrie, who lived

and was “a dead man walking.” Pam was

managing many different roles,” she says.

with the family much of the time. Her

devastated and screamed for her mom to

mother, who became unresponsive one

wake up. She was losing her two tethers

day, was Pam’s rock. Doctors discovered

that kept her grounded. “It was a cruel

she had suffered a brain aneurysm. While

one-two punch,” she adds.

raise the couple’s three children.

keeping a watchful eye on her mother,

For the next six months Pam battled to

Alan had not been feeling well and com-

save both lives. She was a full-time advo-

plained of a stomachache.

cate and healthcare advisor while trying

“On this particular morning he had

to maintain a normal life for her three

done nine surgeries and then went to have

children. It became a daily battle dealing

a CT scan done. The call came when I was

with insurance companies, providers, med-

in my mom’s ICU room pacing, trying to

ical supplies and prescriptions. “As a com-

understand what was happening to her

petitive tennis player, I was taught to never

and would she ever wake up? Then my

throw in the towel and I knew I had to do

phone rang, and it was Alan. I was so hap-

whatever I could to save both of them,”

py to hear from him and asked what the

she says.

doctor had to say. He told me to grab the

Alan wanted to take a medical leave

kids and come home for a family meet-

and pursue palliative care, but Pam did

ing,” she explains.

not want to give up. So, he started immu-

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About the Book: Listening for Echoes, Finding Hope in the Darkest Hours, (available on Amazon) is the true story of a woman jolted from her picture-perfect life when she comes face-to-face with loss and red tape. She had three kids in school, a mother in a coma, and a husband undergoing chemotherapy. Pam shares her innermost thoughts about running out of options and being unsure how she would manage. This intimate portrayal of a woman fighting her way out of darkness — and ultimately accepting what she could not control — is a profound story of deep love and resilience. Proceeds from the book benefit the Dr. Alan J. Saffran Scholarship at New Hope for Kids.

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CONSIGNMENT QUEENS: Renee Dietzel AND

Janet Acker

They bicker like sisters or spouses, but these best friends have built a successful consignment business and pay it forward by supporting other local businesses and nonprofits. from stores like Chico’s and J. Crew and have a fun line of affordable accessories. They admit they’ve made many mistakes along the way but something they have done right is supporting their community. “We really embrace our neighborhood. You have to support them to support you. Our dry cleaners are four doors down to the right; my dog gets groomed at the groomer, and goes to the vet across the street. We are also patrons of the restaurants in our strip,” Renee says. They even

recommend other consignments shops if they don’t have what a customer is looking

he Chic Boutique founders,

With a lot of other thrift stores and con-

for. “Orlando is a big town and every con-

Renee Dietzel and Janet Acker,

signment shops in town, location was key.

signment store carries different inventory;

met 14 years ago in the halls of

Renee has a real estate license and used

we need to support each other,” Janet adds.

Lake Sybelia Elementary School

tools to target their desired demographic.

But what they love most is supporting

while enrolling their children.

“We had looked all over Orlando, but we

nonprofits by donating unsold items to

It was Janet’s first day in Orlando as she

were down in Audubon Park; it was a

organizations such as BASE Camp Chil-

had moved from Houston.

rainy Sunday, and the cars were just going

dren’s Cancer Foundation, Coalition for

Fast forward a few years and the

by. We looked in this place — it needed a

the Homeless, House of Hope, Women’s

friends decided to open a consignment

lot of love to make it what we wanted but

Resource Center, Health Care Center for

shop together. “I said let’s do something

we were determined the location was worth

the Homeless, Devereux Advanced Behav-

where we want to go to work. I want to

it. We’re near Baldwin Park, downtown

ioral Health, One Purse, and more. “We

love it and have fun at it,” Renee says.

Orlando and Winter Park,” Renee explains.

are always open to new charities. Just give us a call,” Janet says.

“With my background [in fashion mer-

They had just one month to collect inven-

chandising] at Neiman Marcus Houston

tory before opening and drove around

The “Lucy and Ethel” of consigning

and working in small boutiques in Texas,

town picking up items from people’s door-

love what they do every day and it really

I told Renee I wanted it set up like a bou-

steps — something they are still willing to

shows. “Never in a million years did I

tique, unlike other consignment shops. It’s

do. Chic Boutique Orlando opened in 2010

think it would be this successful. We have

organized by sections with different

and offers an upscale selection of women’s

won the best consignment award from

designers on pop-up. Everything is clean

apparel, handbags, shoes, sunglasses and

several publications and our popularity

and organized. It was important to me that

jewelry. Its ever-changing inventory in-

has really grown with all age groups,”

it looked fresh all the time,” Janet adds. A

cludes designers such as Chanel, Prada,

Renee says.

testament to that is sometimes people will

Louis Vuitton, Chloe, Dolce & Gabbana,

walk in and request something in a differ-

Christian Louboutin, David Yurman,

Chic Boutique Orlando

ent size. “And we laugh because it doesn’t

Gucci, Dior, Pucci and numerous other

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work like that,” they say.

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Performing Arts P • R • E • V • I • E • W Summer is the perfect time to plan for all the wonderful performances taking the stage in the fall and beyond. Even better, many of our local arts organizations offer subscriptions with premium seating and discounted tickets to their performance series. ORLANDO BALLET Orlando Ballet’s 2019-20 season marks the largest production budget in Orlando Ballet history. The upcoming lineup includes new and revamped works, a family season package, and a special return to the stage by Artistic Director Robert Hill — who recently celebrated his 10th anniversary as artistic director. Robert will make a return to the stage in Jessica Lang’s critically acclaimed work, The Calling. Also for this season, Orlando Ballet is bringing back its Family Season package, ideal for families with young children. The family shows are one-hour condensed versions of select productions. Family shows will be available for The Nutcracker, Cinderella, and Mowgli — The Jungle Book. Subscriptions for the 2019-20 season are available for purchase at orlandoballet.org.

MICHAEL CAIRNS

ORLANDO PHILHARMONIC ORCHESTRA This year, the Orlando Philharmonic strived to bring people together with diverse and cultural inclusivity through the lens of the American Virtuoso. Returning for his fifth season with the OPO, Music Director Eric Jacobsen will conduct concerts on each of the Orchestra’s three main series. Soloists headlining the FAIRWINDS Classics Series include a season-opening performance by acclaimed saxophonist Branford Marsalis, while Composer-in-Residence Gabriel Kahane brings his work Emergency Shelter Intake Form to the Bob Carr Theater stage featuring a choir of members from the Coalition for the Homeless of Central Florida. For more information or subscriptions,

CLASSICS SPECIAL AT BOB CARR THEATER Inside the Score: Symphonie Fantastique | November 17

please contact the Box Office at 407-770-0071

This is a special add-on event to the FAIRWINDS Classics Series. Single tickets will be

or boxoffice@orlandophil.org.

available for this event starting in August.

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thelist Bach & Beyond | November 25 The Brandenburg Concerti | February 10, 2020 Mozart Symphony No. 25 | March 9, 2020

RESONATE AT THE PLAZA LIVE January 12-22, 2020 Experience Resonate, a new musical offering from the Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra. Hear classical music in new and exciting formats that break the barrier between the audience and the musician. Taking place across 10 days, with events in the Central Florida community and at The Plaza Live.

SYMPHONY STORYTIME AT THE PLAZA LIVE Enjoy live music for young children, ages 3-7, by Philharmonic musicians, along with narration and beautiful hand-drawn illus-

POPS SERIES AT BOB CARR THEATER Woodstock 50th Anniversary with Jeans ’n Classics | October 5 Home for the Holidays | November 30 Aretha: A Tribute to the Queen of Soul | January 11, 2020 Havana Nights: Camille Zamora & The Mambo Kings | February 22, 2020 Cirque de la Symphonie: Cirque Goes Broadway | April 4, 2020

FOCUS SERIES AT THE PLAZA LIVE Handel & Brahms | October 21

trations that bring favorite children’s classics to life. Pre-concert activities will be held one hour prior to all performances. A Toddler Zone for children up to the age of 2 is also available. These events will now be ticketed, and a physical ticket will be required for entrance into performances.

The Cat in the Hat | September 14 ’Twas the Night Before Christmas | December 7-8 Hansel & Gretel | February 15, 2020 Little Red Riding Hood | May 9, 2020

ORLANDO REPERTORY THEATRE The Orlando Repertory Theatre (Orlando REP), in partnership with UCF, is Florida’s only professional theatre for families and young audiences. The 2019-20 season shines the light on the family unit and celebrates that wondrous connection, with all the complications and beauty that come along with it. For more information about season subscriptions, on-sale dates or Orlando REP’s 2019-20 season, please call 407-896-7365 or visit orlandoMICHAEL CAIRNS

rep.com.

2019-20 SEASON Tuck Everlasting (Theatre for Young Audiences Edition) | September 3-29 How I Became a Pirate | September 30 – November 10 Miracle in Bedford Falls | November 11 – December 29 Anne of Green Gables | January 27 – February 23, 2020 Pete The Cat | February 24 – April 5, 2020 Disney’s Freaky Friday The Musical (One-Act Edition) | March 30 – May 10, 2020

LIMITED ENGAGEMENTS In addition to the shows in the professional season, Orlando REP presents several limited engagements.

Letters from Anne and Martin | October 6 30

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Mr. Richard & The Pound Hounds Halloween Concert | October 25-26 Pip-Squeak: An Anti-Bullying Magic Show | January 13-18, 2020 When Pigs Fly! | Dates TBA

YOUTH ACADEMY SEASON The 2019-20 season includes three professionally-produced shows featuring students of Orlando REP’s Youth Academy.

Li’l Abner | July 12-28 Disney’s The Lion King Jr | December 6-8 Pickle Chiffon Pie | May 1-3, 2020

thelist DR. PHILLIPS CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS A diverse palette of musicians, comedians and entertainers is queued up for Dr. Phillips

Disney’s Aladdin

Center’s fifth full season, including bluegrass sensation Alison Krauss, rock legend Sammy Hagar, up-and-coming quartet The Four Italian Tenors, and Orlando’s own Wayne Brady. Nine Broadway tours will also make a stop in Orlando, from Disney’s Aladdin and Mean Girls to newly announced Beautiful: The Carole King Musical, as part of the 2019-20 FAIRWINDS Broadway in Orlando series. The Jazz Orchestra at Dr. Phillips Center, presented by Fifth Third Bank, is set to perform four programs throughout the new season. The orchestra, curated exclusively for Dr.

Joshua Groso in Les Miserables

Phillips Center guests, is comprised of professional jazz musicians who travel from all over the country to play together under the direction of acclaimed bassist Rodney Whitaker. For more information, full lineup or to purchase tickets/subscriptions, visit drphillipscenter.org.

2019-20 Season Highlights: MUSIC

Alejandro Sanz — #LAGIRA | September 5 Disney in Concert: Tim Burton’s The Nightmare Before Christmas | October 18 Alison Krauss | October 19 The Jazz Orchestra at Dr. Phillips Center | October 24-25 Sammy Hagar’s Full Circle Jam Tour | November 9 The Four Italian Tenors: Viva Italia! | November 26 Incubus | November 29 The Jazz Orchestra at Dr. Phillips Center “Big Band Christmas” | December 1 Siberian State Symphony Orchestra: Russia’s Greatest Hits | January 25 Black Violin | February 8 The Jazz Orchestra at Dr. Phillips Center “Jazz for Lovers: Songs from the Great American Songbook” | February 13-15 The Beach Boys | February 19 Grease with Orchestra (original film with live accompaniment by The Jazz Orchestra at Dr. Phillips Center) | March 6 Distant Worlds: Music from FINAL FANTASY | March 14 RAIN: A Tribute to the Beatles | April 21 The Jazz Orchestra at Dr. Phillips Center “Miles & More” | May 21-23

ORLANDO SHAKES Entering its 31st season, Orlando Shakes in partnership with UCF (Orlando Shakespeare Theater, Inc.) produces classic, contemporary and children’s plays. With ambitious, highcaliber productions like 2018’s Twelfth Night and Shakespeare in Love, the theater continues to provide an innovative world-class theatrical experience to its guests, while showcasing William Shakespeare’s legacy as the cornerstone of the company.

TONY FIRRIOLO

Visit orlandoshakes.org for more information.

Adam Reilly, Andy Hansen and Junior Nyong’o* in Shakespeare’s Hamlet. *Member of Actor’s Equity Association (AEA).

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2019-20 SIGNATURE SERIES Evitar | September 4 – October 6 Music by Andrew Lloyd Webber | Lyrics and book by Tim Rice Macbeth | October 9 – November 24 By William Shakespeare Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley | December 4-29 By Lauren Gunderson and Margot Melcon

thelist Becoming Dr. Ruth | January 8 – February 9, 2020 By Mark St. Germain The Three Musketeers | February 5 – March 22, 2020 By Catherine Bush | Adapted from the novel by Alexandre Dumas Henry IV, Part 1 | February 19 – March 21, 2020 By William Shakespeare My Lord, What a Night | March 18 – April 27, 2020 By Deborah Brevoort

2019-20 CHILDREN’S SERIES Snow White | June 13 – July 28 Adapted by Brandon Roberts Miss Nelson is Missing! | October 17 – November 22 Book, Music and Lyrics by Joan Crushing | Based on the books Miss Nelson is Missing and Miss Nelson is Back by Harry Allard Interstellar Cinderella | April 9 – May 2, 2020 Music and Lyrics by Laurie Berkner | Book by Barbara Zinn Krieger | Based on the book Interstellar Cinderella by Deborah Underwood

call 844-513-2014, or visit the Bill & Mary Darden Box Office at the Dr. Phillips Center.

Opera on the Mainstage The Marriage of Figaro | November 1-3 & 5 (Sung in Italian with English supertitles) All is Calm | December 20-22 (Performed in English, acapella, and in-the-round) The Daughter of the Regiment | March 27-29 & 31, 2020 (Sung in French with English dialogue and supertitles) A two-show subscription package is also available — so pick two or all three and save.

Also in 2019-20: Opera on Park Opera Orlando’s summer concert series August 25, September 1 and September 8, at the University Club.

OPERA ORLANDO

Opera on the Town

Opera Orlando’s Opera on the Mainstage series returns to the inti-

Opera Orlando’s second stage series, features a site-specific

mate Alexis & Jim Pugh Theater at the Dr. Phillips Center for its

production of Die Fledermaus at Church Street Station, a

2019-20 season. Enjoy three original productions featuring out-

touring production of Amahl and the Night Visitors and the

standing voices, stunning visuals, and musicians from the Orlando

Opera Orlando Youth Company’s production of The Very Last

Philharmonic Orchestra. To subscribe, visit drphillipscenter.org,

Green Thing. Full details available at operaorlando.org.

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Managing Stress, Increasing Productivity TOOLS AND SYSTEMS TO HELP CREATE SYNERGY AND ORGANIZATION IN YOUR LIFE By Deborah Harding, MD, and Victor Harding, MD, Harding Medical Institute

Over the 32 years since we opened our medical practice in Orlando, we have had the pleasure of getting to know a group of highly successful people. Nearly all of them have thrived despite having many things happening at once. Most have excelled personally, socially, academically and professionally. What has impressed us is how nearly all of them are using similar organizational techniques, and most have been able

to work without suffering from excess stress.

xtremely busy individuals

information about it. Everybody who has

• Vision — getting everyone in your

must use systems that allow

complicated lives should look into the sys-

organization 100% on the same page

them to balance the compet-

tem and use it or something like it. In a

with where you’re going, and how you

ing demands of their careers

nutshell, it allows you to incorporate your

plan to get there.

and family lives. We have

core values, your plans and your calendar

often thought about how running a busi-

into a useful tool, either on paper or digi-

ness is very similar to running a large

tally.

• Traction® — instilling focus, discipline and accountability throughout the company so that everyone executes on

family, and even our own personal lives.

So what is EOS? This is a relatively new

Over the years we have evaluated numer-

system that businesses use to increase

ous methods and incorporated key parts

their productivity by implementing pro-

• Healthy — helping your leaders become

of them into our activities.

cesses that achieve the goals and visions of

a more cohesive, functional, healthy lead-

each company. According to its website,

ership team.

We have long used the concepts of the Franklin/Covey Planning System and have

that vision—every day.

EOS is designed to do three things:

now combined them with

EOS works quite well in

the Entrepreneurial Operat-

particular for small- and mod-

ing System® (EOS). We have

erate-size businesses, being

implemented its concepts

implemented by more than

into our business. We also

50,000 companies because it

use Microsoft Office widely

is highly useful and is capa-

in both our business and per-

ble of leading companies to

sonal lives.

successful, rapid expansion.

We suspect most of our

Seminars and other methods

readers are familiar with

of learning about EOS are

Franklin/Covey and Micro-

readily available at eosworld-

soft Office, or one of the com-

wide.com.

peting programs. We sug-

We recently attended a

gest, if you haven’t already,

conference

go back and read some of

NEXUS where more than

Stephen Covey’s numerous

100 successful top executives

books. The Franklin planner

met for the weekend. We

has been around for a long

estimated that more than

time and there is extensive

75% had implemented EOS.

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called

CEO

beautybody&spirit The take-home tips are numerous.

manageable tasks (pebbles) that can be

lost productivity. Relatively unimportant

Whether it’s a business, a family, or an indi-

solved with daily, weekly or monthly proj-

things will not become a series of one cri-

vidual, core values are incredibly important.

ect planning and implementation. Plans

sis after another such as missed payments

These include things like honesty, respect

need to be in writing, and they need to

or meetings, late fees, and other unneces-

and reliability. They should be incorpo-

occasionally be amended should there be

sary consequences. Most importantly,

rated into your mission statement. If you

serious changes in given situations.

stress is reduced, and success is enhanced.

need help on a personal level, we strongly

Time management and organization is

Reduced stress means less wear and tear

suggest getting a life coach. At the business

critical. Franklin planning/scheduling or

on the body, and from a medical stand-

level, EOS implementers can be hired to

Microsoft Outlook provide useful calen-

point, a healthier, longer and happier life.

optimize the system.

dars and techniques for keeping contacts

If you aren’t using such a system, we urge

Like a business plan, you need a per-

and other information organized. Keep in

you to find one. You and your loved ones

sonal plan to keep you on track and stress

mind, that if not written down, concepts

likely will be thrilled with the results. You

free. Individuals should have five- and

and ideas will be altered or forgotten.

can diminish stress and find that extra

10-year plans. It is important to know

We have created our personal system

where you are going. From these plans a

which we call “My Operating System” or

three-year plan should be made, and from

MOS. This allows us to run our family and

Dr. Deborah Harding is board certified in

that a one-year plan should be developed.

personal life like a business, with core val-

internal, sleep disorder and anti-aging

The year should be broken into quarters

ues, expectations, accounting, account-

medicine. The Harding Medical Institute

with big problems (boulders) divided into

ability and individual responsibilities.

is located in MetroWest. Learn more at

less formidable tasks (rocks) identified.

If you take a little time to plan and stay

These can hopefully be broken down into

organized, you will save countless hours of

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ME time to enjoy life.

hardingmedicalinstitute.com.

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CENTER FOR HEALTH & WELLBEING OPENS IN WINTER PARK The Winter Park Health Foundation and AdventHealth have opened the Center for Health & Wellbeing, a state-of-the-art

“We’re pleased to be opening this beau-

+ Kitchen, serving healthy breakfast and

facility designed to provide comprehen-

tiful new facility, which will continue our

lunch cuisine along with smoothies and

sive, preventative and rehabilitative health

commitment to the health of Central Flo-

coffee; an outpatient lab and retail phar-

and wellness services to improve the over-

ridians for years to come,” says Patty Mad-

macy; sports medicine and rehabilitation;

all health of the community.

dox, president and CEO of the Winter

and massage and acupuncture services.

The Center, more than seven years in

Park Health Foundation.

“The Center for Health & Wellbeing is

development, brings nutrition, fitness,

The 80,000-square-foot facility includes

a unique facility to empower our commu-

medical services, educational opportuni-

the Peggy & Philip B. Crosby Wellness Cen-

nity to feel whole by not just taking care of

ties and more under one roof with the goal

ter; medical practices; an indoor walking

the body, but the mind and spirit, too,”

of making whole-person wellbeing conve-

track; the BeWell Bar featuring the latest

adds Jennifer Wandersleben, CEO of

nient and easy to access.

in health technology; Nourish Coffee Bar

AdventHealth Winter Park.

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good vibes

magine soundwaves penetrating your body — from your skin through to your muscles, organs and bones — while you close your eyes, breathe deeply and melt into a meditative

state. Designed to be healing, relaxing and restorative, this new Vibrational Sound

An Eastern technique, the roots of

explore a place that brought us joy and to

Therapy treatment at the Four Seasons

vibrational sound therapy are based in

stay focused on that. I went to the beach

Resort Orlando Spa is a 50- or 80-minute

physics. The penetrating noise along with

and was soon surrounded by my family —

journey that restores your body’s natural

deep, slow breathing enable the body to

even my deceased parents and nephew. It

rhythms.

slow itself down and slip into an alpha

was all very comforting and restful. I had

We experienced a short version of the

wave pattern, not unlike daydreaming and

never successfully meditated before and

treatment recently and found it to be a

pre-sleep. We were warned that we might

was surprised that I could get that calm.

peaceful and tranquil way to clear the

experience an emotional release, such as

Everyone probably experiences some-

mind and release tension. The irregular

crying, and may even fall asleep during

thing a little different. To book this bliss-

pinging and bonging from the Himalayan

the session.

fully mellow session, visit fourseasons.

Singing Bowls are surprisingly soothing

Specially trained therapists take you on

while the gentle massage enhances the

the meditative journey with the bowls

vibrations.

placed on and around you. We were led to

com/orlando/spa/. – Christi Ashby

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beautybody&spirit WOMEN WHO INSPIRE – AN ADVENTHEALTH FOR WOMEN SERIES

Peg Cornwell: A Passion for Community Outreach

As presenting sponsor of the 2019 Orlando Women’s Conference, the team at AdventHealth for Women wanted attendees to nominate for this issue’s Women Who Inspire column. From dozens of entries, the nomination from Doragnes Bradshaw was chosen. In addition to seeing her nominee recognized, both women received a professional makeup session from MAC Cosmetics, personal styling by Kiara Michelle and outfits from White House Black Market, all courtesy of The Mall at Millenia. In her nomination form, Doragnes Brad-

empowered, fearless woman leader and is

they were both already in existence. But

shaw said: “Peg Cornwell exudes passion,

deserving of the recognition for the many,

soon, she discovered there would be a

power and purpose without even realizing the

many lives she has impacted!”

good fit in the college’s community rela-

many lives she impacts on a daily basis

A relative newcomer to Central Florida,

tions area. “Both of the towns we had pre-

through her humble presence. She is associate

Peg arrived four years ago with a mission

viously lived in were so small — there was

to the president of Rollins College, advocating

to make a difference at Rollins College. As

no need for a dedicated community role.

for the community and sharing the Rollins

the president’s wife — a role she has had

Everyone knew everyone already, so I

story through an access-to-education lens.

quite a bit if experience in — she wanted

didn’t completely understand the concept

She wears many hats on campus and in the

to use her background in higher education

at first,” she explains.

community, as she happens to be the presi-

to take the next step in her own career.

But as she got to know community

dent’s wife and sometimes referred to as the

And she found her place doing something

leaders from various organizations, it all

First Lady of Rollins College.

very different than she had imagined.

started to make perfect sense. She discov-

However, the truth is that it goes beyond

“It has been an honor to work in higher

ered that many of the people she was

that as she gives of her time with joy in her

education for the last 25 years. I had been

meeting did not know a lot about Rollins

heart, an authentic presence, and a caring

in banking for seven years when my hus-

or understand its mission as a liberal arts

demeanor. People know her and admire her

band, Grant, got his first job as a faculty

college.

for all these reasons, and she doesn’t even real-

member. I transitioned into a new position

“As circumstances would have it, I was

ize it. She mentors students and community

in the career planning office at the college.

asked to join the community relations

leaders and serves on several non-profit

Later, when he advanced into his first

team. I became a bridge between the col-

boards such as Second Harvest Food Bank of

presidency at [The College of] Wooster,

lege and the community. I joined the

Central Florida, Winter Park Rotary Club

they didn’t have a parents program. So, I

chamber board; got involved in Rotary; got

and public broadcasting’s WMFE.

used my liberal arts education to create a

to know elected officials; and I now under-

She works to continuously make connec-

program for parents to be engaged within

stood how important this role was within

tions to engage community leaders to collabo-

the college. I truly enjoyed managing this

the community. People are eager to know

rate. Peg is one of the most genuine people I

250-parent volunteer group that helped

what is happening at Rollins. As the presi-

know, and I think she gets overlooked as this

make a difference in the lives of students,”

dent’s spouse, I’m in a great position to

being a part of her role as the president’s wife.

she says.

share what Rollins is doing on campus.

The truth is that if this wasn’t her passion, she

As the president’s wife she knew she

I’m able to get out into the community and

wouldn’t have to do any of it. She always goes

would have a job at Rollins College, but

personalize the relationship between the

above and beyond and does it because she

there was not a need for a career placement

college and the community, as well as

genuinely cares! Peg is a class-act, and an

professional or a parents group because

sharing the Rollins mission and how our

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students are engaged within our local area and beyond,” she adds. Peg knows community engagement is an integral part of a liberal arts education and by having a seat at the table she can guide students to local efforts such as combating hunger and homelessness in a cohesive way. She is also practicing what she preaches by being a volunteer board and committee member to local nonprofits. In her on-campus role, she has the benefit of using the president’s residence — their home — as a gathering space for community events, hosting more than 3,500 people last year alone. She believes this is vital to collaborating and continuing to build meaningful relationships within the community.

BUSY? ACCESS ASSISTANCE FOR YOUR HEALTHCARE NEEDS

Doreen Forsythe, BSN, RN

One call to AdventHealth for Women’s Health Navigator Doreen Forsythe, BSN, RN, can help you coordinate all your health care. AdventHealth for Women understands the intricate role women play in their family’s healthcare decisions and needs. Doreen is a specially trained registered nurse who is available to help women access AdventHealth’s extensive network of services across Central Florida. This coordination specialist not only provides expert, clinical assistance, but also helps manage your overall care and identifies ways to speed up the process of scheduling physician appointments and procedures. The health navigator acts as your personal advocate — creating a seamless healthcare experience that focuses on health, wellness, hospitality and convenience. As a registered nurse, Doreen has been a valued member of the AdventHealth team since 2001. Graduating from Villanova University in Pennsylvania, she has more than 15 years of experience in multiple nursing disciplines including cardiology, neurology, surgery and nursing education. No matter what kind of women’s health services you need, Doreen can connect you with the right doctors and resources to ensure you receive the best treatment available. This complimentary service is available to all women. Learn more at HerHealthNavigator.com.

Behind-the-scenes of The Mall at Millenia styling session: Left: Peg Cornwell, stylist Kiara Michelle and Doragnes Bradshaw in White House Black Market; right: Doragnes and Peg with publishers Christi Ashby and Kate Slentz; below: Doragnes receives eye makeup at MAC Cosmetics.

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tastes&experiences coffee collaborations The most popular beverage in the world has now made its way into confections, cocktails and even a classic soft drink at Barnie’s Coffee & Tea Co. The recently introduced Santa’s White Christmas salted espresso brownie was created by Trina Gregory-Propst, Se7en Bites pastry chef and owner (above). The Barnie Palmer is a combo of coffee and lemonade that sounds like an odd matchup but is truly refreshing. And the Last Train Out, a bourbon-based sipper with an infusion of Barnie’s coffee, is now on the menu at The Ravenous Pig. barniescoffee.com

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CHEF’S NIGHT

All-Star Lineup Creates A Special & Spectacular Wine Dinner For the past several years a wine dinner has attracted a loyal following of foodies and it’s not where you might think. Second Harvest Food Bank of Central Florida’s Chef’s Night has celebrated its Culinary Training Program by pairing, not only wine and food, but students with experienced chefs for a gourmet evening that does and tastes good.

ecently a special Orange Appeal reception and winepaired dinner celebrated the publication’s 11th anniversary by featuring some of the magazine’s partners. The event began with a reception presenting tasty hors d’oeuvres, including avocado toast (with charred corn,

jalapeño, mandarins, sliced radish and pumpkin seeds), brisket stuffed piquillo peppers (with marcona and tomato sofrito), pickled eggplant (with cherries, cippolini onions and spiced labneh), from Chef Jason Wolfe, Cuisiniers Catered Cuisine & Events. Guests also enjoyed a special cocktail (recipe on next page) made by Chef Jill Holland with Second Harvest’s Spoonful of Hope honey and wines provided by Quantum Leap Winery.

Chef Jason Wolfe

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Chef Scott Pizzo and team

tastes&experiences While everyone was gathering to go into the main dining room, I made a quick

served. Our guests raved about the beauti-

as official hosts, we were thrilled that the

ful, entrée-sized serving on the plate.

evening was a success. “We are so grateful

trip to the kitchen to see what was hap-

Executive Sous Chef Anukul Hampton

to Orange Appeal and their incredible chef

pening — and all I saw were smiles. The

of Hilton Bonnet Creek and Chef Alberto

partners for putting on a spectacular

chefs and students were busily collaborat-

Navarrete Arias of La Luce presented the

Chef’s Night to benefit our Culinary

ing on their courses and happily learning

next course of Sangiovese braised short rib

Training Program. The evening provided

from each other.

(with English pea and celery root purée,

a wonderful experience for everyone

As the dinner was starting, I glanced

baby carrots and horseradish gremolata).

involved while engaging our students in

around the tables admiring the center-

And for the final piéce de rèsistance Chef

hands-on training with some of the top

pieces Flourish Productions had so gener-

Rabii Saber, executive pastry chef, Four

chefs in our community,” Dave Krepcho

ously donated. The chefs and their organi-

Seasons Resort Orlando, created the Ins-

concluded.

zations, as well as Quantum Leap, had also

ta-worthy Blueberries Delight (with Flori-

To learn more about the Culinary Train-

donated the food and drink so 100% of the

da blueberries, a lemon crèmeux center

ing Program or future Chef’s Nights, visit

proceeds from the night could go directly

and pistachio white chocolate crunch).

feedhopenow.org.

to the Second Harvest training program.

– Christi Ashby

Although it was our pleasure to serve

After a warm welcome by Second Harvest CEO and President Dave Krepcho, Sarah Weech explained the Quantum Leap wine selections for the evening. Before long the heirloom tomato salad (with house-made cornbread croutons, green goddess, Orlando burrata and pickled onions) from Chef Scott Pizzo, chef de

Chef Alberto Navarrete Arias and Executive Sous Chef Anukul Hampton

cuisine at Highball & Harvest, The RitzCarlton Orlando, Grande Lakes, was Chef Jill Holland

Chef Rabii Saber

APPEALING ORANGE BLOSSOM SPRITZER Over ice, add: 3 dashes orange bitters 1 oz vodka 1 oz orange blossom honey simple syrup 3 oz black cherry seltzer Give a quick stir. Garnish with frozen black cherry and orange slice.

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TASTE! CENTRAL FLORIDA CELEBRATES 30 YEARS OF LOCAL HUNGER RELIEF

econd Harvest Food Bank of

The 30th Anniversary Taste! Central

offer participants a chance to win more

Central Florida and Coalition

Florida event will delight guests with many

than 150 bottles of wine from an exquisite

for the Homeless of Central

of the hallmark entertainment and fund-

wine cellar valued at more than $2,500.

Florida are the beneficiaries of

raising games guests anticipate each year.

The new favorite Liquor Locker drawing

Taste! Central Florida, an annu-

Exciting new experiences are in store to

will allow guests who purchase a $50 ticket

al fundraiser that brings the area’s most

mark the event’s 30th year. The automated

a chance to win more than $1,500 worth of

accomplished chefs, brewers, wine pur-

mobile silent auction will feature signed

liquor and swag to stock their personal

veyors and spirit vendors together for a

memorabilia, stays at upscale hotels, din-

home bar.

night of unlimited tastings and samplings.

ing experiences, rounds of golf on area

Central Florida foodies are invited to

This annual celebration of the com-

courses, and exotic adventures and get-

imbibe at the 30th annual Taste! Central

munity’s culinary excellence is a volun-

aways. The beloved Giving Tree invites

Florida, presented by The Wine Hawks,

teer-driven event with local chefs, brewers

guests to win a taste of Orlando’s most

taking place Saturday, September 14 from

and distilleries donating their time, talent

popular establishments. For a $50 dona-

6:45 – 10pm at Orlando World Center

and creations to make this evening one of

tion, guests can select envelopes hanging

Marriott. Individual tickets are $200 but

the largest fundraisers of the year for Sec-

from a towering tree containing dining

Orange Appeal readers receive $30 off

ond Harvest Food Bank of Central Florida

and beverage gift certificates ranging from

with promo code READER30. Learn more

and Coalition for the Homeless of Central

$25 to $200 in value. The event’s long-

or purchase tickets at tastecfl.org.

Florida.

standing Instant Wine Cellar raffle will

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WINTER GARDEN HISTORIC DISTRICT:

Love at First Sight

by Kate Slentz

Established in 1903, the town of Winter Garden originally attracted citrus and vegetable farmers due to its locale on Lake Apopka. Eventually its business district grew between the two railroad lines that run through the city.

oday, Winter Garden’s Historic

street a bit and strolled through the Winter

District serves as a successful

Garden Farmers Market, which is open

example of historic preservation.

Saturdays from 9am – 2pm and features

Now located along the West

a large selection of vendors from locally

Orange Trail (a 22-mile long multi-

grown produce and baked goods, to home-

use rail trail), thousands of visitors patron-

made soaps and fresh flowers, to home

ize the shops and restaurants located in

goods and clothing. We got some freshly

downtown Winter Garden, which is listed

blended (non-alcoholic) mango piña cola-

on the National Register of Historic Places.

das from Mango Kings, which was very

My husband, Mike, and I recently made

refreshing in the sweltering heat.

a day trip there to celebrate our wedding

We then sought shade in the shops

anniversary and fell in love with the

along brick-lined Plant Street. Some of

downtown historic district. Known for the

my favorites included:

Garden Theatre and Edgewater Hotel, we found there was a lot more discover.

The Boutique on Plant

The Boutique on Plant, with a colorful and eclectic selection of women’s clothing

Our first stop was Winter Garden Wheel

and accessories; Adjectives Market, a col-

Works to investigate bicycle rentals but

lection of artisan-curated vignettes show-

opted to save it for another time as it was

casing new and vintage furnishings, home

unseasonably hot. We headed down the

décor, accessories and clothing (also with Adjectives Market

locations in Altamonte Springs and Winter Park); Driftwood Market, a great gift shop full of fun items including local art, home accessories and handmade treasures; and Ms. Bee’s Gourmet Popcorn and Candy Shoppe, which serves more than 70 different flavors of popcorn, vintage candies and gum, along with many varieties of homemade fudge. Ready for some rest, we popped in Moon Cricket Grille for a cool drink and bite to eat. The eatery, established in 2003, is known for its selection of 99 bottles of craft beer. Customers who try all 99 get their name on the wall above the bar. However, I opted for the Mermosa — “a mimosa so big a

Ms. Bee’s Gourmet Popcorn and Candy Shoppe

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mermaid could swim in it” — and drank it from a pint glass. We shared some yummy sweet potato fries before making our way

tastes&experiences to Plant Street Market. Anchored by Crooked Can Brewing Company, this community market includes 20 vendors selling natural, organic food and handmade products. We bellied up to

Sir Benji’s Donuts

the bar and ordered a pint (or two) from Crooked Can’s selection of craft beers brewed on-site. We took turns exploring the market and its food options such as BBQ at The Little Piggy; gourmet mac and cheese at MAC’d Out; coal-fired pizza from Michael’s Ali; pressed deli sandwiches at Butcher and Market; sushi from Jōdo; and made-to-order mini donuts from Moon Cricket Grille

Sir Benji’s, among others.

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We ultimately splurged for the buffalo

best eaten hot and fresh, we did take some

chicken mac and cheese from MAC’d Out,

home to our son who loved them nonethe-

which was a generous portion featuring al

less!

dente pasta and gorgonzola as a twist. For

There was much more we could have

dessert, we couldn’t resist the donuts from

done and seen, but it was just the first of

Sir Benji’s for several reasons (we love

many planned trips back. Learn more about

donuts and our son’s name is Benji). While

all the things to see and do at cwgdn.com.

home&design unexpected arrangement Artfully combining vessels you may already have and filling them with foliage or florals can make a stunning statement thatâ€™s out of the ordinary. Brian Joyce and Richard Streitler, Flourish Productions, created this arrangement using these Italian vases from the estate of a dear client who had them in her closet as hat stands. They planted beautiful Florida-grown hydrangeas and succulents to make this large-scale centerpiece. flourishproductions.com

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Tile Style: All About Storytelling by Karen LeBlanc

The Coverings 2019 Global Tile & Stone Experience, held in Orlando, brought together ceramic and porcelain tile manufacturers from around the globe, debuting the latest in tile style. This year, self-expression

COVERINGS 2019 SHOW REVEALS A NEW DESIGN LANGUAGE IN SURFACES

dictates surface design with fresh tile colors, patterns and formats.

“

Wall: Aparici Gatsby

he latest tile trends

RANDOM PATTERNS

comprise

most

Matchy-matchy and symmetrical give

nuanced and interest-

the

way to asymmetrical, randomized looks in

ing design language

the latest tile styles. Picture ever-changing

we have ever had at

patterns and compositions. Tile designs

our disposal. Tiles tell stories through the

take on a randomness with dynamic com-

spaces we create for them. Ceramics this

binations that have rhythm and move-

year are daring us to express ourselves

ment, organized vertically or horizontally.

and providing all the technical and aes-

The Tile Council of North America calls

thetic solutions to do so with panache,”

this trend “Geometry in Motion.” One

says Ryan Fasan, Tile of Spain consultant

example is Dash by Raw Color with its

and ceramic tile specialist.

grid-like pattern, random ever-changing

New surface styles mix graphic design with photography and textile design and

rectangular compositions that combine different shades and different lengths.

prioritize proportion, color combinations

such as rustic and refined wood looks, concrete finishes, oversized stone looks and subway tiles. I joined Ryan for a guided tour at Coverings to learn about new trends and technologies setting the direction of home décor. Here are the top trend takeaways influencing interior design.

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MAXIMALISM Simple and sleek steps aside for the moreis-more design language of Maximalism, expressed in tile with bold colors and con-

and artistic experimentation. They offer fresh alternatives to previous tile trends

Colorker Cascade black matte and gold glossy

trasting patterns. Maximalism brings a Caesar Ceramics Core, Sea

vibrancy to interior design that in recent years has been zombified with minimalism. Tile designs in clashing prints are expressed as graphic interruptions in contemporary living spaces without overpowering. Maximalism, on the trend radar since 2018, gains traction as the leading design ethos with decadent textures, colorful tones and pattern clashes.

Casa Dolce Casa, Artwork

FEARLESS HUES Breaking out of the gray area, the latest tile colors are charismatic, expressing a joie de vivre. “There is not one single trending color but rather a range of hues in multiple shades that include diametric saturations,” Ryan says. Expect to see a lot of contrasting depth of tones layered in the room and more saturated hues. Shades of bright blues dominate many new tile collections surfacing in living spaces such as denim, lapis and turquoise.

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home&design TINTED NEUTRALS Neutrals shed their greige and beige ten-

AMB Atelier Antique

dencies to take on white with pink undertones and grays with green undertones. Antique whites soften into sepia yellowish tones and buttery creams become new neutrals fueled by a fascination with earth tones including natural clay and shades

Arcana Stracciatella

with land effects.

DESIGN ERA MASHUPS & REVIVALS

PERFECTLY IMPERFECT

Design era mashups dictate new looks ref-

reaffirm an artisanal style that continues

erencing art deco, the Roaring 20s, organic

evolving. The latest look is about perfectly

art nouveau styles and classic geometrics.

imperfect tiles that Ryan says are “lovingly

One example is Luxor by Aparici, a mod-

distressed” and sometimes polished with

ern interpretation of 1920s glamour with

glossy finishes, each piece showcasing the

strong veining and color variations. The

timeworn effects. Perfectly imperfect is

look is about creating a contrast between

about controlled imperfection in the fin-

the past and present, pairing classic styles

ish, irregular edges and soft volumetric

with futuristic designs or vintage with

surfaces that emote a handmade feeling.

Irregular surfaces and imperfect edges

modern styles. Terrazzo reappears from its heyday in the ’60s and ’70s in an updated porcelain format with giant multi-colored Oraitaliana Cemento 14

flecks in collections such as Stracciatella by Arcana.

Aparici Luxor

(Back), Lune by Dune Ceramics; (front), Crackle Metal by Dune Ceramic

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SMALL FORMAT TILE REVIVAL

DRAMATIC VEINING

Small format tiles popular in the early

Stone looks with strong veining are clad-

’90s are making a comeback in 8-inch by

ding walls and surfacing floors in contem-

4-inch and 8-inch by 8-inch sizes. The

porary living spaces. “Popular aggressive

ties. Dark marble looks dominate this

return of encaustic tiles in home design is

stone looks include marble, granites, onyx

stone-inspired tile category, according to

propelling this small tile renaissance as

and quartzite with dramatic veins and

Tile Council of North America. Larger

people express their affinity for historical

patterns,” Ryan explains. One example is

tone-on-tone veins and intense contrast

patterns and motifs, especially early 1900s

Azul Macaubas by Fiandre with its streaks

veining put stone looks in sync with

encaustic tile designs.

of white to azure blue in various intensi-

today’s popular Maximalism aesthetic.

Fiandre Azul Macaubus

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home&design WALLPAPER-LIKE PANELS Gauged porcelain tiles continue to grow in

Cotto d’Este Wonderwall, Frame

popularity with designs ranging from hyper-realistic natural looks to dark florals and geometric patterns on wallpaperlike panels. Wonderwall by Cotto d’Este interprets wallcoverings into slabs of durable, ultra-thin, large-format Kerlite porcelain stoneware. The large stoneware slabs are printed in high definition and contain fiberglass mesh reinforcement, making them thin and light yet strong and resistant to humidity.

Bright hues with rhythmic textures, marble looks with bold veining, design era mashups, perfectly imperfect surfaces, murals and random patterns are the forefront of design with tile as the storyteller of today’s living space.

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packable It’s vacation season — exploring exotic destinations, sightseeing in the city, lounging beach or poolside, dining under the stars — and relaxing is the rule. So, if packing has you stressed or anxious, just do some simple one-stop-shopping for head-turning head-to-toe looks.

CHICO’S Park Avenue, Winter Park, and The Mall at Millenia Black Label pleated halter maxi dress in Maraschino Cherry, $189; Miranda large white tassel pendant, $65.50; Miranda white beaded earrings, $29.50; Round sunglasses, $29.50; Silk scarf, $49.50; Beaded, zippered clutch, $99.

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WALK ON WATER Colonial Townpark, Lake Mary Ariella jumpsuit, $58; Kancun white jacket, $53; Tagua Mia necklace, $38; Lizas beaded bracelets, $6 each; Brighton Cherie handbag, $245; Charleston Backless Cooper sandals, $135; Hobo You Roam leather wallet, $138.

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WHITE HOUSE BLACK MARKET Winter Park Village and The Mall at Millenia Ecru lace shift dress, $175; Micro sequin cardigan, $74; Stacked baguette pendant necklace, $55; Link necklace, $68; Statement earrings, $36; Basketweave stacked bracelet set, $50; Tri-color strappy slides, $75.

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DEAR JANE Park Avenue, Winter Park Fifteen Twenty tie-front cami, $146, and drawstring shorts, $146; LUC Isle of Palms earrings, $120; Raen Durante sunglasses $182; Stoney Clover Lane stripes pouch, $54; Superga Linea sneakers, $88.

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CONTINUUM International Parkway, Lake Mary Trina Turk denim romper, $238; Kendra Scott Lilith gold long pendant necklace, $78, and Emilia gold drop earrings, $68, both in Azalea Illusion; Mar Y Sol Handmade in Madagascar straw clutch, $38; Joie Parsin sandals, $278

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TUNI Park Avenue, Winter Park Trina Turk Blue Lagoon dress, $598; Tracy Watts straw hat, $198; Gucci Guccify metal sunglasses, $595; Shell chandelier earrings, $80; Festival Dancers gold necklace, $68; Gold cuff bracelet, $36; Etienne Aigner Charlotte boxy crossbody, $198; Jeffrey Campbell Melange-2 raffia slides, $85.

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BOYS & GIRLS CLUBS OF CENTRAL FLORIDA

Cause for Celebration!

Photography: JIM HOBART, MACBETH STUDIOS | Location: LEVY-HUGHES CLUBHOUSE In 1944, former major league baseball player and Orlando's Parks & Recreation Director Joe Stripp identified a problem: too many boys had too much idle time on their hands, and were getting into trouble after school. Thus, from a spare room of the Davis Armory in Parramore, he founded the Orlando Boys Club. Now in its 75th year of operation, the Club would ultimately grow into the Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida, serving more than 15,000 children annually, with 35 Clubs in seven counties. â€œWe face a daunting challenge: in our region, census data shows more than 140,000 children living below the federal poverty level, as working parents struggle to find quality after-school and summer programming for their children. Yet after 75 years, still we rise to meet the challenge,â€? says Mike Ryan, former board chair, Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida. To shed a light on the organization and the audience it serves, we visited the Levy-Hughes Clubhouse in Parramore to see the programs in session, meet the kids, and get to know more about the people who make it all possible. Their impactful testimony reveals a deep-rooted passion for the children and families in our community. Pictured on both pages: Lisa Bell with Jasmine, Raul, Kirstyn, Julius and Gabriel 98

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LISA BELL

all over the Pacific Northwest on two-week

Powell and Denzel Washington. And I

hiking and camping trips.

was even on the Oprah Winfrey Show

That led me to a volunteer opportunity

because at the time she gave every state

At the recent Boys & Girls Clubs Central

at the club called Teens with a Vision

winner a $25,000 scholarship through her

Florida’s Celebrate the Children 75th Anni-

where I had the opportunity to mentor

Angel Network.

versary Gala, Lisa Bell shared her story of

other kids to make positive choices. And

It was after that I was asked to speak at

being a club member and what it had meant

wouldn’t you know the club staff men-

the annual Boys & Girls Clubs gala. After

to her:

tioned another program — Youth of the

that speech I was approached by the news

WKMG-TV News 6 Anchor

“I had the opportunity to meet some

Year. I was fortunate enough to become

director for the local CBS affiliate in my

club members a few months ago and

the Youth of the Year from my club and

hometown who asked me if I would be

everywhere I go I tell people the same

then for the state of Idaho.

interested in becoming their weather-

thing — with the Boys & Girls Club you

From there I went on to become the

caster. I said I didn’t know anything about

can achieve anything. I absolutely would

Pacific Region Youth of the Year and went

weather. By the end of March 2000, I was

not be here today… would not be working

to Washington D.C. where I met with

forecasting the weather and switched my

where I’m working, if it were not for the

President Bill Clinton in the Oval Office

major to journalism. With the Boys &

Boys & Girls Clubs.

along with several Boys & Girls Clubs sup-

Girls Clubs the sky is the limit.”

It was about 20 years ago, when I was

porters and alumni including Gen. Colin

doing the same thing I’m doing tonight — I was speaking to a Boys & Girls Clubs gala full of people in Lewiston, Idaho. Back then I was talking about the important role the club had played in my life. I had just graduated from high school and was a finance major at the University of Idaho. So, how’d I get all the way from Idaho to here? I am the evening anchor at News 6 and I have been here a little over seven years. And prior to that I was the morning anchor at Central Florida News 13. But I got my start in television 20 years ago at that Boys & Girls Clubs gala. I am adopted and was born to a homeless couple in Hawaii. At two-weeks-old I was taken into protective custody. And for the next two years I lived in foster care before I was adopted by a family in Idaho. It was in elementary school when I was first drawn to the Boys & Girls Clubs, primarily to do what everyone else was doing — playing sports, soccer, softball, basketball. And to this day I still own some of those Boys & Girls Clubs t-shirts. When I was in junior high, the club’s executive director came to speak at our school. And he introduced me to another program there, an explorer’s group. It was an outdoor backpacking group. We went

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JENNIFER ANDERSON

Vice president, Eatonville Joe R. Lee Boys & Girls Club board of directors; community volunteer Since I joined the Eatonville board a decade ago, we’ve raised enough money from generous individual donors to go from a double-wide trailer serving 100+ kids per day to a beautiful center that supports 200+ kids per day. We’re now in the process of an expansion to grow the club another 50% to support even more youth

his/her industry or career. The BGCCF is

reinforces for me the necessity to do more

not a daycare. They provide guidance, emo-

for the community of children served by

tional support, personal development,

BGCCF. It’s a false notion you can pull

homework help, recreation, and so much

yourself up by your bootstraps if you don’t

more. They also give the kids a chance to

have boots. We as a community need to

learn leadership skills. Being a latch-key

give more kids boots. That is why my hus-

kid is not a good option — the BGCCF

band and I are investing in the creation of

helps these kids be the best they can be.

a new club. We have donated $4 million

JACQUELINE BRADLEY Retired, Seacoast Bank board member, art collector, philanthropist

with the hope others would help complete this project. The statistics are clear. Club members finish high school, have a plan for a bright future, and are better poised to have a beneficial presence in the world.

— with special facilities for teens. One of

I am an active board member and partici-

my favorite examples is a monthly pro-

pate on the development committee and

Editor's note: BGCCF will break ground on

gram we started at Eatonville called Paths

previously served as board president. Over

the Jacqueline Bradley and Clarence Otis

to Success (PTS) which has been replicat-

the past 23 years I have witnessed first-

Family Branch, in Orlando's West Lakes

ed across several clubs. We have six to

hand the power of the programming and

Community, in the fall of 2019. The Club will

eight professionals from different indus-

adult mentors. Several times a year I host

serve as many as 300 children daily.

tries come to the club for two hours of

Club kids, and adults with a curiosity about

“speed dating.” However, instead of find-

the club, at my home for dinner. For some

ing dates, the kids go from table to table

club members, it is their first time in a

meeting the professionals to learn about

detached single-family home. The evening

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Jennifer Anderson and Jacqueline Bradley with Victoria, Jabre and Khalia

SUZANNE DUKES

me to realize that I was special in my own

that great futures start here. Every aspect

College and career access coordinator

way and would someday grow up to be

of that advertisement is true because

someone special as well! Those few words

many that came through the ranks of the

I began my association with BGCCF approx-

hold a special place in my heart even now.

Boys & Girls Clubs now experience great

I was happy to be part of the Boys & Girls

success. It is a positive place for our kids.

imately 19 years ago. My daughter’s second grade teacher mentioned she was reading to children at the Boys & Girls Club in Eatonville and I asked to join her. From the

Clubs PSA, which tells the community

Suzanne Dukes, Dr. Lucille O’Neal and Paula Madsen with Yeneira, Morgan and Keondre

moment I stepped foot into the club, (it was housed in a portable trailer at the time), I was hooked. I loved reading to the kids and helping them with their homework. As time went on, my role evolved and I “grew up with the kids.” I started with the little kids and built relationships with them and continued to work with them as they got older. After assisting my own children with their college applications, I realized our BGCCF students needed more hands-on assistance with this very difficult application process. Most of our club members are first generation college applicants and although their families want to help them, many of the family members do not know how to help. Our objective is to ensure our club members have a clear path for their post-secondary plans. Attending the college graduations and seeing how far the kids have come is truly an unbelievable experience.

DR. LUCILLE O’NEAL Philanthropist, author

My association with the Boys & Girls Clubs began in the late ’60s when it was only known as a boys club! I used to go to the club with my brother in our neighborhood to spend time and gain friendships. I am happy to say that I introduced my children to the Boys & Girls Clubs of America over the years and my son Shaquille and I are part of the Boys & Girls Club Alumni Hall of Fame. When I was a young girl visiting the boys club, I had a hard time because I was much different than most of the children my age. One of the staff members encouraged me many times and helped

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PAULA MADSEN

Former BGCCF employee and current volunteer

original president and now board mem-

had been making some bad choices. I

ber. I am proud to say that I launched the

mentored her for five years and am happy

idea of an Eatonville club board of direc-

to report that she is now a well-adjusted,

tors almost 15 years ago, recruited the ini-

independent, productive member of soci-

After leaving my position in development

tial slate of board members, and continue

ety making good choices. I love Boys &

and marketing, I stayed engaged by volun-

to serve on this highly energized, engaged

Girls Clubs because it can help change the

teering for the organization as the Joe R.

and productive board. At the Eatonville

trajectory of kidsâ€™ lives. They help kids

Lee Eatonville board of directorsâ€™ founder,

club I mentored a 15-year-old female who

have the confidence to believe in them-

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selves and then the sky is the limit! I am no fan of a zip code dictating a child’s success or failure... Boys & Girls Clubs helps ensure that this doesn’t happen.

DENISE MORRIS HAMMOND Attorney

My husband, Michael, and I are long-time supporters. We were introduced to the clubs by board member, Mike Hatcher, and I recently joined the board of directors and serve as auction committee chair for the annual gala. The first thing that impressed me about BGCCF is their commitment to accountability and their results-driven approach. They have had many years with no teen pregnancies, little, if any, drug and alcohol abuse, and their educational results are excellent. This year 100% of our high school seniors graduated and 95% of those moved on to college, technical school or joined the military. Those are lifechanging results for the children we serve. I know of no other organization that delivers on their commitments the way BGCCF does. One year I judged the Youth of the Year competition. Each competitor explained the impact their club had on their lives. It was eye-opening to see the teenagers, mostly seniors, openly discuss the unimaginable difficulties of their lives and to share how they overcame them with help from the club. They demonstrated confidence, humility, maturity and humanity.

CARLA WARLOW

CEO, Carla Warlow Coaching + Consulting

Tasha Robinson-Banks and Becky Bonner with Joel, Sameenah and Jasmine

Since I first toured a clubhouse in the early

mas Shopping Spree for the Boys & Girls

he is today. I quickly went to the BGCCF

2000s, shortly after settling in Orlando, I

Clubs. What hit me like a wrecking ball

website and saw my friend Jennifer Tobin

was immediately struck by how impactful

wasn’t seeing how happy it made the kids,

was the board chair. I made a call and was

the mission is to the kids in our commu-

but how happy it made Shaq to be able to

on the board by January. I love this organi-

nity. Years later I saw Shaquille O’Neal

give back to the organization that he rec-

zation and its mission; and knowing how

doing his annual “Shaquaclaus” Christ-

ognizes as the one that made him the man

the lives of children in our community are

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impacted is what keeps me engaged year

tion, including $450,000 in funding over

after year. Every experience that allows

seven years for the GREAT Futures Ini-

me to give my time or resources to the

tiative. I grew up in Concord, NH, and

organization leaves me with a full heart,

attended the Concord Boys & Girls Club

and I am always humbled by the courage

with my brothers. The programs at the

and strength I see in these kids. Whether

BGCCF

the contribution is big or small, I always

empowering the youth and providing

end up receiving more than I give, and

opportunities to explore whatever inter-

therein lies the joy of service.

ests they are pursuing. If a young girl is

BECKY BONNER

Director of player development & basketball operations, Orlando Magic I’m lucky to work with an organization committed to community outreach and youth engagement. The Orlando Magic participates in a holiday shopping spree for club members, hosts movie nights, and provides tickets to games as well as grants from the Orlando Magic Youth Founda-

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impact

the

community

interested in basketball, like me, she can join their basketball team; if she’s interested in computers or technology, she can do that; drama or music, there’s an opportunity for her to participate in that. The diversity of exposure to so many things allows for a young person to gain so many unique experiences that could shape who they become as they grow up. I have shared a lot about my experience, but it

KAY RAWLINS

Founder and senior vice president of community relations, Orlando City Soccer Club

really meant a lot, and the Boys & Girls

I was invited on a tour and was so impressed

Clubs of America will always hold a spe-

by the impact BGCCF has on our commu-

cial place in my heart.

nity — now I am on the board. Orlando

City Foundation is a partner of BGCCF —

homes and don’t necessarily have consis-

we build mini-pitches at the site, bring

tency in their lives. Whether they live in a

free soccer programming, and then add in

one-parent family, or with grandparents

gardens where the children can learn to

or other relatives, many lack role models

grow healthy food. Like BGCCF, we want

and mentors. Through our mentor group

to eliminate barriers that prevent children

for middle school girls, I co-run with Paula

from being successful, so our programs and

Madsen, we are steady faces and voices

equipment, including proper footwear, are

that the kids are able to see each week.

free. The programs are wide and varied

Whether we are talking about bullying,

but with a common goal, building good

nutrition, effective study habits or resiliency,

citizens. The stats show the impressive

we have opened up a dialogue that many

percentage of high school seniors graduat-

of the girls don’t have at home. Many a

ing and going on to further education; the

time we have ended a mentor lesson won-

health and wellness impact and the eco-

dering if we had actually reached anyone,

nomic impact of having fewer teenage pregnancies and arrests. Club members are encouraged to form a life plan with goals

DEDE CARON

Board member, volunteer

only to have one or more of the girls ask us when we were going to be back next. There is nothing better than receiving a

to work toward and receive help to access

I’ve learned many lessons along the way

hug and an update from one of our former

scholarships. The staff and volunteers are

in my work with the Joe R. Lee Club, but

mentor group students, who are now in

amazing — they truly love the kids and

the most important one is the simple mat-

high school. We are still there to help them

want them to succeed in life — their

ter of showing up. There are countless

with academic questions, bounce ideas off,

encouragement and care is second to none.

club members who come from broken

or just hear stories from their days.

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Peg Cornwell with Micki Meyer and Grant Cornwell at the Celebrate the Children Gala of Central Florida especially around access and success in college, which is a central passion of mine. I wanted to know more about the programs and actively sought out ways to learn about the program and subsequently have been invited to attend events. The impact of BGCCF on the community is vast because the students go out into their communities and “pay forward” the

PEG CORNWELL

Associate to the president for college and community relations, Rollins College

where I met Dede Caron and Paula Madsen and learned about the program they run; or through Rick and Susan Goings who support BGCCF students to attend

kindness, care and assistance they appreciated. I know one alumna who now works for BGCCF and another who is getting her teacher’s certification.

our Holt program; or through the Rollins

Editor's note: Rollins College has offered more

I’m not sure if I first learned about Boys &

student life office which provides resourc-

scholarship opportunities for BGCCF Club

Girls Clubs Central Florida through a tour

es for BGCCF students attending Rollins

members than any other college. Currently, 11

of the Eatonville Club with Richard Yount

through our EMBARK program. But it

BGCCF alumni attend Rollins on generous

where I met the amazing Suzanne Dukes;

was clear to me early on at Rollins that

scholarship packages provided by the College

or at the Faces of the Future breakfast

BGCCF has a huge impact on the students

and private donors.

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JULIE ANDERSON

Editor-in-chief of Orlando Sentinel and South Florida Sun Sentinel

Girls Clubs of Central Florida. It not only gives kids safe haven, but it teaches children to believe in themselves and their futures.

Julie Anderson (far right) on a hard hat tour of the Levy-Hughes Clubhouse in Parramore

I served as a board member for eight years and fundraising was important. I found that people are generous if you give them reasons to support something worthwhile. The ripple effect of the Boys & Girls Clubs is too large to calculate. Not only does it turn around thousands of childrenâ€™s lives and gives hope and opportunity to the children, but it affects the fortunes of families and the succeeding generations. Kids who may not have realized they could go to college, do so and earn a better living, set examples for their siblings, and help their parents by staying out of trouble. Many of the club kids are the first in their families to graduate from high school and go to college. I challenge anyone to find a non-profit organization that has a bigger societal impact on the community than the Boys &

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TAJIANA ANCORA-BROWN

About BGCCF

Director, external affairs, Walt Disney World Resort

At 35 Clubs in seven counties, Boys & Girls Clubs of Central

Walt Disney World Resort has supported

Florida serves the children in

Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida over

greatest need. The clubs are

the past five decades by creating magical moments and memories for club mem-

located in neighborhoods that,

bers across Central Florida. Inspiring

one in particular stands out. This past

future generations is at the core of

March, Disney celebrated International

both Walt Disney World Resort and Boys

Women’s Day with members of the Boys &

& Girls Clubs, and together we encourage

Girls Clubs of Central Florida. More than

and the 71st percentile for

and empower Central Florida youth to

100 members joined us for an exclusive

achieve their dreams. Through cash, in-

outing to the Orlando Science Center,

incarceration rates. Club families

kind donations, and the deep commit-

where we interacted with influential

ment and caring spirit of our thousands of

female leaders from across Walt Disney

fee for their children to attend.

Disney VoluntEARS, we help to cultivate

World Resort who held leadership roles in

By providing club members

unforgettable, unique and immersive

STEM — Science, Technology, Engineer-

experiences exclusively for members of

ing and Mathematics. Hearing the mem-

with academic support,

the Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida.

bers talk about their genuine interest in

I’ve made so many lasting memories with

STEM career opportunities reminded me

Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida, but

of why we do what we do.

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on average, rank at the 12th percentile for household income

pay either nothing or a nominal

extracurricular opportunities, and positive adult role models,

BGCCF aims to break the cycle of poverty for future generations of Central Floridians. For more information on Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Florida, its mission and locations, please visit bgccf.org.

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The Wedding of

Amanda LaMotte BenEstus and

Date: December 9, 2018 Venue: The Alfond Inn Photography: Susan Stripling Photography Videography: Seashack Photo and Film Wedding coordination: Brian Joyce, Flourish Productions Floral and décor: Flourish Productions Drapery: Orlando Wedding & Party Rentals Dress: Romona Keveza gown Menswear: The Black Tux Bridal hair/ makeup: Stacie Snyder Bridal party hair/makeup: Makeup by Pink Catering: The Alfond Inn Band: C’nergy Band Transportation: Apollo’s Chariots Photo Booth: My Photo Booth Rocks Honeymoon: Park Hyatt in St. Kitts

Their story: Living in New York City, Amanda and Ben met at a gathering of mutual friends

and immediately hit it off, spending the evening talking until Ben offered to walk Amanda to her train. “Not wanting the conversation to end and with no benches in sight, we sat on the steps of the subway and talked until the sun came up,” Amanda says. The next morning (just a few hours later), Ben asked Amanda on a real date, and the rest is history.

The proposal: Under the guise of meeting some castmates from Hello, Dolly! for dinner, the

couple got off the subway at their “spot” from the first night they met. They reminisced for a moment and then a very nervous Ben pulled out a ring, and a very excited Amanda said “yes.” “Then, at the restaurant where we had our first date, we had a special dinner of my favorite foods and, of course, bubbles,” Amanda adds.

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Ceremony and reception: The couple

married on December 9, 2018 at The Alfond Inn in Winter Park. “When the rain soaked our outdoor ceremony location, our amazing vendors set it up inside the stunning conservatory. Lush greenery and ivory tones, accented by plenty of romantic candles kept it simple and clean, with the focus on what was important — getting married to each other. The space looked elegantly dreamy; literally everyone danced; and we all had a blast,” Amanda says.

Personal thoughts: Amanda We felt so lucky to have all the people we love most in the world there to celebrate and lift us up while we made a lifelong commitment to each other. We just couldn’t wait to get married. It was truly the best day ever.

Where they are now: Amanda and Ben

live in New York City and are both Broadway performers. Ben is currently in The Book of Mormon and Amanda is performing in Kiss Me, Kate. “We spend our free time exploring all of the amazing things the city has to offer with our sweet dog, Leroy. You can follow our adventures @tinylamotte and @bestus on Instagram!” Amanda says.

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The Wedding of

Padgett McCormick GregEngelman and

Date: May 18, 2019 Venue: Couple’s private residence Photography: Rachel Burkhart Photography Coordination: Rebekkah Rosado, Runway Events Catering: Arthur’s Creative Events & Catering Cake: Sugar Sugar Cake Boutique Floral: Shaun O’Dwyer Flowers & Event Design Dress: Carolina Herrera gown from The Bridal Finery Makeup: CARA Cosmetics Hair: Chris Martin, Copperhead Salon Custom signage: Chalk Shop Officiant: Mark Jones Lighting: Get Lit Productions Dance floor: Stages Plus Band: Seba and That Guy Rentals: Orlando Wedding & Party Rentals; Bubble Orlando; A Chair Affair; Over The Top Rental Linens; and BBJ Linen

Their story: In 2017, Greg and Padgett were introduced through a

friend. “We hit it off immediately, bonding over our love for family, work, faith, travel, food, dogs and friends. We were only children raised by single mothers. Our lives were shaped by that resulting in a strong independence, drive and respect for women,” Padgett says. “Each of us had been married before. We came into the relationship with failures and struggles. When we met, I wasn’t looking for an instant family. Don’t get me wrong, I love kids, but I also love my job (and shoes!). Fortunate for me, Greg and his ex-wife raised the best kind of humans. Like their dad, Madison and Ian are smart, funny, adventurous and easy to love. Now, I can’t imagine life without them. We have a very modern family and every day we are grateful for our blessings (four of them furry) and the second chance we’ve been given at love,” she continues.

Ceremony and reception: “We had a small, simple wedding at

home that we planned in less than two months. Our families and a few lifelong friends were there to support and celebrate with us. It was comfortably elegant and fun!” Padgett shares. Although she admits she wanted to elope with Greg’s children present.

Personal thoughts: Padgett This experience taught me that the

best parts of being married at home are the memories. Every day we wake up and get to see the spot where we said our vows; where we prayed, laughed, cried and danced with our loved ones.

Where they are now: Greg is the CEO of Go Transportation &

Translation and Padgett is a Realtor/Broker Associate at The Residential at Kelly Price & Co. “The wedding is over. Life is back to normal,” says Padgett, who is spending time with her work team, dogs and mom while Greg and the kids are off on separate adventures. “Shamelessly, I want to brag on my [work] team. These dynamic women are talented and hugely supportive. With their help and despite the time it takes to plan a wedding, I’ve had the best days of my career. I could never have done that without them.” 114

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The Wedding of

Heather Romot Michael Drew and

Date: December 28, 2018 Venue: Bella Collina Coordination: Weddings Unique Photography: Victoria Angela Photography Videography: Love it Wedding Films Dress: Essence of Australia from The Dressing Room Celebration Bridesmaids Dresses: Hayley Paige Occasions from Bella Bridesmaids Handbags: The Leather Satchel Company Hair and makeup: Kristy’s Artistry Design Team Menswear: Express Officiant: A Beautiful Ceremony Musicians: Classern Quartet Floral: Lee James Floral Rentals: RW Style and A Chair Affair Lighting: Get Lit Productions DJ: Soundwave Entertainment Photo Booth: Sharplenz Cake: Sprinkles Custom Cakes Signage: Dogwood Blossom Stationery Invitations: Elli Rehearsal Dinner: Paddlefish Transportation: VIP Wedding Transportation Accommodations: Bohemian Hotel Celebration

Their story: Heather was working as a dancer on a cruise line based out of Shanghai, China,

and Mike’s best friend from childhood was the lead male singer in her cast. “He invited Mike to cruise for two weeks and we met the second night after our show. We spent our first two weeks getting to know each other as we traveled around China, Japan and South Korea. The rest is history and we never looked back. American girl meets British guy in China!” Heather says.

The proposal: “For my 30th birthday, my parents generously flew us to Key West, which is

one of my favorite places in the world. The night of my birthday Mike had hired a private speed boat for us to tour around the island. As the sunset reached the perfect moment, Mike got down on one knee. We met on the sea, so he wanted to start forever on the sea,” she explains.

Ceremony and reception: Their wedding was held at Bella Collina in Montverde, Florida.

The theme was “rustic glam.” “Our ceremony felt very intimate and romantic. We wrote our own vowels which we were nervous for, but they ended up being one of our favorite parts of the day. Then the reception flipped into a crazy fun dance party! It was a dream come true to get our friends and family from both sides of the ‘pond’ in one room,” Heather shares. 116

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Personal thoughts: Heather We were both very relaxed and just excited to enjoy a day

that we had planned and looked forward to for so long. The amount of love we felt from everyone that was part of our big day was the best feeling in the world. As clichĂŠ as it sounds, the day felt like a dream and a true celebration of our love for each other.

Where they are now: The newlyweds live in Orlando. Heather works for Loews Hotels at Universal Orlando Resort in meetings and events and also dances in a nighttime event at Seaworld Orlando. Mike is a client services executive for a healthcare IT consultancy firm, The HCI Group, as well as the commercial director for The Leather Satchel Company, featuring British handcrafted products in the UK Pavilion at Epcot in Walt Disney World.

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The Wedding of

MaryQuinn O’Connor Bartlett “Chip” Witherspoon,V and

Date: July 14, 2018 Ceremony: St. James Catholic Cathedral, Orlando Reception: Country Club of Orlando Coordination: Lisa Stoner Events Photography: Nate Puhr Photo & Cinema Floral: Velvet & Twine Stationery: Maureen H. Hall Stationery & Invitations and Dogwood Blossom Stationery Dress: Carolina Herrera gown, The Collection Bridal Hair and makeup: LeJeune Hair & Makeup Artistry Entertainment: Rivertown Band Ceremony music: Lisa Ferrigno Quartet Lighting: Fyerfly Productions Cake: Sprinkles Custom Cakes Rentals: Orlando Wedding and Party Rentals; A Chair Affair; and Over the Top Rental Linens Transportation: Cole’s Classic Cars and Destination MCO Honeymoon: Thailand

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Their story: Chip and Mary Quinn met a

few months after she moved to Columbia, South Carolina, for her first job after college. “I knew no one in my new town, so dear friends of my parents suggested I meet the son of friends of theirs living in Columbia. Chip was given my contact information and me, his… neither of us made any attempt to meet. A few weeks passed and I was out one evening with a new friend. We were at a local spot when he introduced me to a friend sitting inside,” Mary Quinn explains. That friend was Chip. “Five years later, he proposed to me on a beautiful winter night in London, England,” she adds.

Ceremony and reception: “Chip and I were

married in my childhood parish, St. James Catholic Cathedral, in downtown Orlando, on July 14, 2018. Being traditional, I wanted to be married in my hometown. Few things seemed more right than declaring our vows in the church that I had attended all of my life,” Mary Quinn says. Afterward, the newlyweds and guests danced the night away at a beautiful reception at the Country Club of Orlando (designed and styled by Lisa Stoner). Stunning all-white floral arrangements (created by Velvet & Twine) adorned the tables, mantle and floor. Crisp white linens with gold chargers and white gold-foiled menus dressed each table setting, while a towering six tier all-white wedding cake (created by Sprinkles Custom Cakes) sat dramatically on the dance floor. The evening culminated with confetti canons and a sea of white balloons.

Personal thoughts: Mary Quinn My

wedding day was nothing short of a dream. The joy I had was indescribable, while the peace and calm I felt simultaneously was surprising. The most treasured part of the experience was having everyone I love most with me and sharing in moments I will hold close to my heart forever.

Where they are now: After the wedding,

Chip and Mary Quinn moved to Charleston, South Carolina. “We found the most charming home in the heart of downtown, steps from some of the finest food and culture in the country. Chip began medical school at the Medical University of South Carolina and also spends time nurturing his many business ventures,” she says.

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The Wedding of

KasandraCotto Zachary Showers and

Date: March 9, 2019 Venue and catering: Rosen Centre Hotel Photography: Nick Graziadei, and Millie Lopez (Magical Media) Makeup: Nicole Marie Hair: Valerin Santiago Music: DJ Mz Marina from Power 95.3 Dress: Davidâ€™s Bridal Honeymoon: Celebrating one-year anniversary as honeymoon at Sandals Resort in Barbados

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Their story: It definitely was not love at first sight; Kasandra explains: “We met on a

construction project. I was the project manager and he was a granite installer. He was hardheaded and would choose not to follow my schedule, which made us bicker back and forth a lot. Toward the end of the project, he asked me to go to lunch. At first, I didn’t want to because I was so upset that he had made this project so difficult for me. But I decided that I would give it a chance and we learned we actually get along as long as we don’t work together.”

The proposal: Zachary wanted to propose on New Year’s Eve, but as the couple

watched a gentleman propose to his girlfriend on television, Kasandra said: “Please don’t ever propose to me on New Year’s Eve, Christmas or any holiday that is so cliché.” She didn’t know he had the ring in his pocket, but Zach waited and proposed while the two watched the sunset in Cocoa Beach.

Ceremony and reception: The couple married at Rosen Centre Hotel and held

their ceremony poolside under the tropical palm trees. “The day was beautiful, and we had a great breeze. I did a lot of my own decorations like the centerpieces, guestbook and favors. The hotel has chiffon that they draped from the ceiling along with white table clothes with teal runners and silver napkins. It was breathtaking when you entered the room,” Kasandra says.

Personal thoughts: Kasandra I was so nervous that it wouldn’t come together as

I had envisioned it. Not being able to set things up myself was hard. But the catering team at Rosen Centre did a wonderful job getting it together. And once I saw that, I was able to relax and enjoy my day with my husband, friends and family.

Where they are now: She still works as a project manager and he still works as a granite installer, but they do not work with each other! They live by the Orlando International Airport with their two children and couldn’t be happier with life at the moment.

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The Wedding of

Haley Rizor Austin Rampt and

Date: November 25, 2018 Venue: Casa Feliz Catering: Arthur’s Creative Events & Catering Photography and videography: Photolocity Floral: Lee Forrest Design Dress: The Collection Bridal Menswear: Jos. A. Bank Hair and makeup: Kristy’s Artistry Design Day-of coordination: Monica Cullen DJ: Atomic Entertainment Rolls Royce rental: Oliver’s Classic Cars

Their story: Haley: We met online and after

three days of talking we decided to meet at Starbucks in Delray Beach on November 29, 2017. Over several cups of coffee, we shared our life stories with one another in a no-holdsbarred conversation… and nobody ran away! Austin: The rest was history: After our second date I called my mom and told her I had met someone special. Almost exactly one year from the day we first met for coffee we got married. Since that first cup of coffee together, we have experienced some of the highest highs and lowest lows human beings can experience in a lifetime. From moving to a new city and parenting together to loving one another through deep loss, we have made it through each season by one another’s side and we plan to continue to do so, one day at a time, for the rest of our lives. 124

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The proposal: Haley’s father was sick, and

the couple was trying to have him at the wedding, but he passed away on August 8, 2018. Austin was able to ask his permission to marry Haley. “We have two kids from Austin’s first marriage, Madison (8) and Zack (5), who were really the ones who proposed. I conveniently came home from having my nails done to find Austin on his knee in the kitchen and the kids holding a big sign that read: ‘We love you Hayhay, will you marry us?’” she says.

Ceremony and reception: The ceremony

and reception were held at Casa Feliz on November 25, 2018. “It was a perfect November day, cool and calm with the brightest and most magical moon. The décor was classic, elegant and timeless with ivory, blush, cranberry and gold hues. It reminded me of something out of The Great Gatsby,” Haley explains.

Where they are now: The newlyweds

moved back to Orlando from West Palm Beach in June. Haley is a mental health counselor and primary therapist at a substance abuse treatment center, and Austin is the general manager of a home automation company.

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