ONYX Magazine January/February 2024

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JEAN-MICHEL BASQUIAT: HIS ART DENOUNCED VIOLENCE AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE

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From the Publisher

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Mindfulness – Starting Out a New Year

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Feature – African Americans & The Arts

10 Black History – Origins of Black History Month: Why They Still Matter 12 International Travel – Planning Ahead: Traveling for Next New Year's Eve 14 Day Tripping – Florida Destinations You Can Visit Today 16 Community – Get Active This Election Year 17 ONYX Reads – Books That Tell Our Living History 18 Greats of West Lakes – Hudie Stone: A Legacy of Service 20 Art & Culture – Relevant stories 21 Relationships – Happy Life…What Keeps the Flames Burning 22 Cultural Influencer – Jean-Michel Basquiat 25 Education – Teacher Pipeline Receives a Boost 26 The Quad – Stories From College Campuses 28 Generation Forward – Paying Homage to the Ones Who Paved the Way

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BLACK HISTORY MONTH

A LOOK AT AFRICAN AMERICANS IN ART Cover photo: Carter G. Woodson.

Cover photo and all historic photos on pages 8-9 and 10-11 can be found in the public domain.

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29 Medically Speaking – Self Care for the New Year 30 Health & Wellness – What to Know About Diabetic Nerve Damage 32 Global Impact – Keeping Brazil’s Black History in Its Tech “Future” 36 Wealth & Finance – Money Whisperer? Why Americans Don't Talk About Money 38 Smart Consumer – Shop Smarter 39 Business – Is Air B&B Right For You? 41 Real Estate – Build Your Credit Score 42 ONYX on the Move 44 Workplace – Firm Up Your Soft Skills 46 Scholars – Scholars Program Expands to Florida 48 Career – New Year, New Career 49 Family – Tackling Challenging Behaviors 50 Mentorship – Unlock Your Full Potential With a Mentor 52 Florida Scope – Important Stories in the State 53 Environment – Water Protection 58 SAGE – Wisdom for the Ages 57 On Exhibit 60 Perspective – The Curious Joy of Being Wrong 62 Food & Wine – Red Cav

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PUBLISHER/EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Rich Black VICE PRESIDENT Deidre “Dee” Parker MANAGING EDITOR D. Shenell Reed, M.B.A. ASSOCIATE EDITORS Gayle Andrews Sharon Fletcher Jones Nancy Port Schwalb

Happy New Year! Each January brings new hope and determination. We promise fresh perspectives for our personal lives, retooled plans for our businesses, and greater connectivity with our communities. We at ONYX Magazine are not immune to such resolutions. We look forward to making 2024 a banner year.

We start with the Association for the Study of African American Life and History (ASALH)’s 2024 theme: African Americans in the Arts. Black people have excelled in many artistic endeavors: as sculptors, painters, authors, musicians, photographers, and so much more. In this issue, we review some of our past greats and how their work inspires us know and will encourage generations to come. Additionally, we explore why the impetus of Black History Month still matters—and always will.

Finally, ONYX Magazine experienced some excitement at the end of 2023. We tell you about our day trip to West Palm Beach aboard Brightline. Fifty community leaders learned about the train’s services and how their WPB counterparts are making moves. Also, we challenge you to change your mind. One article ponders the curious joy of being wrong. Is this your year to listen better and consider other views to the point of doing something different? If it is, let us know.

As always, we thank you for your continued support. We want to hear from you in letters to the editor and at our stellar events. We are excited about keeping you entertained, inspired and informed for many years to come.

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MINDFULNESS

CHANGE YOUR ROUTINE TO

RESET IN 2024

BY KARYN GREENSTREET

Passion for Business

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anuary makes of think of New Year’s resolutions. Instead of adding more stress to your life by listing huge goals to accomplish in the next year, why not start the new year right with small things you can do to give you a feeling of instant success?

Add a little spirituality to your daily life. Create a new tradition for celebrating birthdays or anniversaries. Make a home alter with candles and flowers, and say a little prayer there each morning. Keep a daily journal. Be on the lookout for the beauty of nature, and stop to appreciate it wherever you find it.

Take a look at your physical environment. Are there papers and receipts you need to file or throw away? Take just 10 minutes a day for the next five days to work on straightening up your paperwork. You’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish in such a short time!

Tell one person each week that you love them. It’s too easy to forget to tell people that we care about them. This year, make it a special promise to yourself that you’ll tell at least one person, each week, that you love them and that you’re grateful to have them in your life.

Buy a plant. Not only will you be creating better air quality for your home or office, but nurturing a plant can help you emotionally as well. While you’re at it, buy a nice pot to plant it in, and place your new plant somewhere where it will give you joy.

Find out how much money you need to retire. You’ll find many retirement calculators on financial websites, like Quicken.com or Fidelity.

com. They’re easy to use (less than 10 minutes!) and can quickly give you a financial goal to move towards. If you don’t have access to the Internet, ask your bank or financial broker for a paper version of a retirement calculator. Start the new year right by knowing where you are heading, financially.

Spend time with your best friend. A one-hour lunch, a movie, a walk in the park … it doesn’t matter what you do together, as long as you spend time with each other. Not only will you get a sense of companionship and love, but you’ll be going a long way towards stress relief. Don’t have a best friend nearby? Get yourself to classes or events around topics that excite you and find yourself a new best friend!

Buy a new bed pillow. Too many of us have old pillows on our beds that don’t support our necks properly as we sleep. For under $25, you can find a huge selection of pillows at most department stores. And, you can keep your old pillow to add firmness and support when you’re reading in bed.

Take a television break. One night a week, choose to have a “no television” night. Read a book. Work on a craft project. Play a game. Write a story. Take a walk. Involve your family and friends to come up with creative and fun things you can do on your “no television” night.

Find out what your blood pressure is. Many shopping centers have blood pressure machines you can use for free.

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F E AT U R E

BLACK HISTORY MONTH:

A LOOK AT AFRICAN AMERICANS IN ART

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Alvin Ailey and Judith Jamison

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frican American art is infused with African, Caribbean, and the Black American lived experiences. In the fields of visual and performing aцrts, literature, fashion, folklore, language, film, music, architecture, culinary and other forms of cultural expression, the African American influence has been paramount. African American artists have used art to preserve history and community memory as well as for empowerment. Artistic and cultural movements such as the New Negro, Black Arts, Black Renaissance, hip-hop, and Afrofuturism, have been led by people of African descent and set the standard for popular trends around the world. In 2024, we examine the varied history and life of African American arts and artisans.

For centuries Western intellectuals denied or minimized the contributions of people of African descent to the arts as well as history, even as their artistry in many genres was mimicked and/or stolen. However, we can still see the unbroken chain of Black art production from antiquity to the present, from Egypt across Africa, from Europe to the New World.

Prior to the American Revolution, enslaved Africans of the Lowcountry began their more than a 300-year tradition of making sweetgrass baskets, revealing their visual artistry via craft.

The suffering of those in bondage gave birth to the spirituals, the nation’s first contribution to music. Blues musicians such as Robert Johnson, McKinley ‘Muddy Waters’ Morganfield and Riley “BB” B. King created and nurtured a style of music that became the bedrock for gospel, soul, and B.B. King other still popular (and evolving) forms of music. Black contributions to literature include works by poets like Phillis Wheatley, essays, autobiographies, and novels by writers such as David Walker and Maria Stewart. Black aesthetics have also been manifested through sculptors like Edmonia Lewis and painters like Henry O. Tanner.

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Langston Hughes

In the 1920s and 30s, the rise of the Black Renaissance and New Negro Movement brought the Black Arts to an international stage.

Members of the armed forces, such as James Reese Europe, and artists such as Langston Hughes, Josephine Baker and Lois Mailou Jones brought Black culture and Black American aesthetics internationally, and Black culture began its ascent to becoming a dominant cultural movement to the world. In addition to the Harlem Renaissance, today we recognize that cities like Los Angeles, Chicago, and New Orleans also were home to many Black artists.

The 1960s continued this thread through the cultural evolution known as the Black Arts Movement, where artists covered issues such as pride in one’s heritage and established art galleries and museum exhibitions to show their own work, as well as publications such as Black Art. This period brought us artists such as Alvin Ailey, Judith Jamison, Amiri Baraka, Nikki Giovanni and Sonia Sanchez. The movement would not have been as impactful without the influences from the broader Black world, especially the Negritude movement and the writings of Frantz Fanon.

In 1973, in the Bronx, New York Black musicians (i.e. DJ Kool Herc and Coke La Rock) started a new genre of music called hip-hop,

which comprises five foundational elements (DJing, MCing, Graffiti, Break Dancing and Beat Boxing). Hip-hop performers also used technological equipment such as turntables, synthesizers, drum machines, and samplers to make their songs. Since then hip-hop has continued to be a pivotal force in political, social, and cultural spaces and was a medium where issues such as racial violence in the inner city, sexism, economic disinvestment and others took the forefront.

The term Afrofuturism was used approximately 30 years ago in an effort to define cultural and artistic productions (music, literature, visual arts, etc.) that imagine a future for Black people without oppressive systems, and examines how Black history and knowledge intersects with technology and science. Afrofuturist elements can be found in the music of Sun Ra, Rashan Roland Kirk, Janelle Monáe and Jimi Hendrix. Other examples include sci-fi writer Octavia Butler’s novels, Marvel film Black Panther, and artists such as British-Liberian painter Lina Iris Viktor, Kenyan-born sculptor Wangechi Mutu, and Caribbean writers and artists such as Nalo Hopkinson, and Grace Jones.

In celebrating the entire history of African Americans and the arts, the Association for the Study of African American Life and History (ASALH) puts into the national spotlight the richness of the past and present with an eye towards what the rest of the twenty-first century will bring. ASALH dedicates its 98th Annual Black History Theme to African Americans and the arts.

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BLACK HISTORY

THE ORIGIN OF BLACK HISTORY STILL MATTERS

BY LONNIE BUNCH, III

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o one has played a greater role in helping all Americans know the Black past than Carter G. Woodson, the individual who created Negro History Week in Washington, D.C., in February 1926.

Woodson was the second Black American to receive a Ph.D. in history from Harvard—following W.E.B. Du Bois by a few years.

To Woodson, the Black experience was too important simply to be left to a small group of academics. Woodson believed that his role was to use Black history and culture as a weapon in the struggle for racial uplift. By 1916, Woodson had moved to D.C. and established the “Association for the Study of Negro Life and Culture,” an organization whose goal was to make Black history accessible to a wider audience. Woodson was a strange and driven man whose only passion was history, and he expected everyone to share his passion.

This impatience led Woodson to create Negro History Week Carter G. Woodson, Ph.D. in 1926, to ensure that schoolchildren would be exposed to Black history.

Woodson chose the second week of February to celebrate the birthdays of Abraham Lincoln and Frederick Douglass.

It is important to realize that Negro History Week was not born in a vacuum. The 1920s saw the rise in interest in African American culture that was represented by the Harlem Renais- Meanwhile, musicians like Louis Armstrong, Duke sance, where writers such as Langston Hughes, Ellington, and Jimmie Lunceford captured the Georgia Douglas Johnson, and Claude McKay new rhythms of the cities created in part by the wrote about the joys and sorrows of Blackness. thousands of Black Southerners who migrated to

“There is no more powerful force than a people steeped in their history.”

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urban centers like Chicago. And artists like Aaron Douglas, Richmond Barthe, and Lois Jones created images that celebrated Blackness and provided more positive images of the African American experience.

Woodson hoped to build upon this creativity and further stimulate interest through Negro History Week. He had two goals: One was to use history to prove to White America that Black people had played important roles in the creation of America and thereby deserved to be treated equally as citizens. By celebrating heroic Black figures—be they inventors, entertainers, or soldiers—Woodson essentially hoped to prove our worth, and by proving our worth, he believed that equality would soon follow. His other goal was to increase the visibility of Black life and history, at a time when few newspapers, books, and universities took notice of the Black community, except to dwell upon the negative.

Ultimately Woodson believed Negro History Week—which became Black History Month in 1976—would be a vehicle for racial transformation forever.

The question that faces us today is whether or not Black History Month is still relevant. Is it still a vehicle for change? Or has it simply become one more school assignment that has limited meaning for children? Has Black History Month become a time when television and the media stack their Black material? Or

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is it a useful concept whose goals have been achieved? After all, few—except the most ardent rednecks — could deny the presence and importance of African Americans to American society. Or as my then-14-year-old daughter, Sarah, put it: “I see Colin Powell every day on TV. All my friends—Black and White—are immersed in Black culture through music and television. And America has changed dramatically since 1926. Is not it time to retire Black History Month, as we have eliminated ‘White’ and ‘colored’ signs on drinking fountains?” I will spare you the three-hour lesson I gave her.

I would like to suggest that despite the profound change in race relations that has occurred in our lives, Carter G. Woodson’s vision for Black history as a means of transformation and change is still quite relevant and quite useful. African American History Month, with a bit of tweaking, is still a beacon of change and hope that is still surely needed in this world.

The chains of slavery are gone—but we are all not yet free. The great diversity within the Black community needs the glue of the African American past to remind us of not just how far we have traveled but lo, how far there is to go.

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he next time you host game night with family and friends, include these little facts in a test of Black History knowledge.

B.B. King

Family Features

THE POWER OF INSPIRATION One thing has not changed: We still need to draw inspiration and guidance from the past.

And through that inspiration, people will find tools and paths that will help them live their lives. Who could not help but be inspired by Martin Luther King’s oratory, commitment to racial justice, and his ultimate sacrifice? Or by the arguments of William and Ellen Craft, or Henry “Box” Brown, who used great guile to escape from slavery. Who could not draw substance from the creativity of Madam C.J. Walker or the audacity and courage of prize fighter Jack Johnson? Who could not continue to struggle after listening to the mother of Emmett Till share her story of sadness and perseverance?

I know that when life is tough, I take solace in the poetry of Paul Laurence Dunbar, Langston Hughes, Nikki Giovanni, or Gwendolyn Brooks.

And I find comfort in the rhythms of Louis Armstrong, Sam Cooke, or Dinah Washington. And I draw inspiration from the anonymous slave who persevered so that the culture could continue.

Let me conclude by re-emphasizing that Black History Month continues to serve us well, in part because Woodson’s creation is as much about today as it is about the past. Experiencing Black

Phyllis Wheatley

History Month every year reminds us that history is not dead or distant from our lives.

Rather, I see the African American past in the way my daughter’s laugh reminds me of my grandmother. I experience the African American past when I think of my grandfather choosing to leave the South rather than continue to experience sharecropping and segregation, or when I remember sitting in the backyard listening to old men tell stories. Ultimately, African American History—and its celebration throughout February—is just as vibrant today as it was when Woodson created it 94 years ago. That’s because it helps us to remember there is no more powerful force than a people steeped in their history.

And there is no higher cause than honoring our struggle and ancestors by remembering.

LONNIE G. BUNCH III is the 14th Secretary of the Smithsonian.

This essay originally appeared in the “Our American Story” series published by the National Museum of African American History and Culture. It has been edited for length and clarity, and is republished here with permission.

• Phillis Wheatley was the first African American to publish a book of poetry, Poems on Various Subjects, Religious and Moral, in 1773. Born in the Gambia and sold to the Wheatley family in Boston when she was 7 years old, Wheatley was emancipated shortly after her book was released.

• “Bars Fight,” written by poet and activist Lucy Terry in 1746, was the first known poem written by a Black American. Terry was enslaved in Rhode Island as a toddler but became free at age 26 after marrying a free Black man.

• Clotel: The President’s Daughter was the first novel published by an African American, in 1853. It was written by abolitionist and lecturer William Wells Brown.

• Dubbed “Hip-Hop’s First Godmother” by Billboard, singer and music producer Sylvia Robinson produced the first-ever commercially successful rap record: “Rapper’s Delight,” by the Sugar Hill Gang. And along with her husband, she co-owned the first hip-hop label, Sugar Hill Records.

• Renowned singer and jazz pianist Nat King Cole was the first Black American to host a TV show: NBC’s The Nat King Cole Show.

• In 1981, broadcast journalist Bryant Gumbel became the first Black person to host a network morning show when he joined NBC’s Today show.

• In 1940, Hattie McDaniel became the first Black person to win an Oscar, for her supporting role in Gone With the Wind. Twenty-four years later, Sidney Poitier became the first Black man to win an Oscar, for his leading role in Lilies of the Field.

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TR AVE L

PLANNING AHEAD FIVE UNDERRATED DESTINATIONS TO RING IN NEXT NEW YEAR.

BY PARKER DIAKITE

QUITO, ECUADOR Travelers looking to bring in the New Year with a new tradition should consider heading to Quito, Ecuador, where people celebrate the new by burning the old. Ecuador’s fiery and unique tradition is known as “Año Viejo.” Families create effigies or dolls (muñecos). The effigies can represent a famous person, a disliked or irritating person, or a disappointment. They are made with wood, paper mache, or cardboard before being stuffed with sawdust, paper, dried leaves, and even fireworks. They are dressed in old clothes, similar to a scarecrow, and a handwritten note is pinned to the effigies explaining why it must be burned. Once the cheering starts, effigies are thrown into the streets, where they are burned to ashes. It is all symbolic of burning up the regrets and disappointments of the previous year and starting the new year with hope and new resolutions.

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Thanks to its year-round perfect weather, there is no wrong time to visit Madeira, an island off the coast of Portugal. However, one of the best times to visit is during New Year because it boasts one of Europe’s best celebrations.

In 2006, Madeira received recognition from the Guinness Book of Records as “The Largest Fireworks Show in the World.” The world-famous fireworks show is the big event in town, evident by the large cruise ships that line the port of Funchal early in the day. Nightclubs are filled, and the Madeira Orchestra usually puts on an entertaining show at the city pier. Just before midnight, the crowd begins the countdown. Lasting about eight minutes, the fireworks show has plenty of stunning effects you won’t see anywhere else in the world.

o, maybe you spent New Year’s Eve keeping up with old traditions.

Starting new ones can give you something exciting to look forward to all year long. Why not start planning your next New Year’s Eve now?

While New York City, Miami, Dubai, and Accra have become premiere New Year’s Eve destinations, other exciting international cities have some interesting and fun traditions. Here are five underrated places to spend the last night of 2024.

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MAPUTO, MOZAMBIQUE

CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA

The capital of the East African country, Mozambique, is a hidden gem for New Year celebrations. Aside from New Year, Maputo is a vibrant city where art plays a huge role in the culture. It is located on the Indian Ocean, making it a premier vacation destination with beach resorts and international hotels along an impressive coastline. When bringing in the New Year, visitors will find sparkling lights, street and beach parties, and fireworks in an already entertaining destination. There is no right or wrong way to celebrate the New Year in Mozambique, but a beach party along the coast is one of the most popular venues. Imhambane, Tofo, Barra, and Massigna are all popular beach parties.

West Africa has stolen the shine in Africa as a top destination for the holidays, which has increased prices significantly. Another underrated city is South Africa’s “Mother City,” Cape Town. There is no shortage of fun in South Africa, and there is something for everyone. South Africa produces some of the best wine in the world, so exploring a local vineyard is a great way to ring in the New Year. Cape Town is also one of the top places in the world for parties and nightclubs for people looking for a vibrant night scene. Another favorite among tourists and locals is heading to the top of Table Mountain to watch the fireworks at the V & A waterfront.

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If you want to start your Carnival celebrations early, St. Kitts is where you want to go. While many countries start Carnival festivities before Lent, when Christians commemorate the 40 days Jesus Christ spent fasting in the desert, St. Kitts’ National Carnival begins in December and typically goes into the New Year. During the week of New Year, visitors can immerse themselves in street parties, music, the Grand Carnival Parade, and other island traditions.

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TAKE A DAYCATION

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QUICK TRIPS FROM SEVERAL FLORIDA LOCATIONS.

FROM PENSACOLA

FROM JACKSONVILLE

FROM DAYTONA BEACH

Blackwater River State Forest Escape the city and head to one of Florida’s National forests. With its neighboring areas Blackwater River State Forest has the largest population of longleaf pine trees in the world.

Explore the natural landscape by foot on a hike by canoe or on horseback. Float down one of the waterways and stop for a picnic on the shimmering white sands of a sandbar.

Amelia Island and Fernandina Beach Amelia Island is a golf and spa haven while Fernandina Beach to the north is a quaint historic town known for its artwork antiques and boutiques. Both are great day trips from Jacksonville. Some mustsee attractions on Amelia Island are Fort Clinch State Park which served as a military post during the Civil War the Spanish-American War and World War II; Amelia Island Lighthouse which began operating in 1839 and still operates today; and American Beach which was founded in 1935 by A.L. Lewis Florida’s first African-American millionaire.

Ormond Beach Located just north of Daytona Beach, Ormond Beach offers a few quirky local attractions for a Florida day trip. Tour The Casements the former winter home of John D. Rockefeller that now serves as the city’s cultural center. Spend some quality time outdoors at North Peninsula State Park with more than 2 miles of sandy beaches. Visit Ormond Memorial Art Museum & Gardens for nature trails fish ponds and fountains set amid lush tropical gardens. The best part? All of the attractions are free.

FROM TALLAHASSEE Wakulla Springs Wakulla Springs is more a park than a city but one well worth making a special day trip from Tallahassee. Located fewer than 20 miles from Tallahassee’s city center Edward Ball Wakulla Springs State Park features one of the largest and deepest natural springs in Florida. That may be why “The Creature from the Black Lagoon” was filmed here! Take a boat tour to see local critters such as alligators turtles and birds. Of course, you won’t be able to resist dipping into the refreshingly cool springs too.

FROM GAINESVILLE St. Augustine Tour the nation’s oldest city via a guided tour bus or tram and stop at all the major points of interest including an authentic Spanish fort and the Fountain of Youth. You can also take in the sights on a scenic boat ride or helicopter tour. Just off Interstate 95 in St. Augustine is the St. Augustine Premium Outlets. Nearby golfers can get their fill at World Golf Village and the World Golf Hall of Fame.

FROM TAMPA/ST. PETERSBURG/ CLEARWATER Charlotte Harbor A day trip to Charlotte Harbor & the Gulf Islands can include a morning swamp buggy tour through the 90 000-acre Crescent B Ranch a working cattle ranch with Babcock Wilderness Adventures. Enjoy a waterfront seafood lunch at Laishley Crab House.

Spend the rest of the day strolling the shops at Fishermen’s Village.

FROM SARASOTA/BRADENTON Anna Maria Island Start with breakfast at Ginny and Jane E’s a local favorite featuring delicious pastries and islandthemed gifts. Go on a paddle tour with Captain Scott to Robinson Preserve where you’ll take in native landscapes and miles of trails (and perhaps catch a glimpse of a bald eagle). Finish the day with a spectacular sunset followed by casual dining at Island Time Bar & Grill or semi-fine dining at Bridge Street Bistro.

Use the free Island Trolley to make your way around the island. Stay at the BridgeWalk Resort across from the beach if you decide to linger another day.

FROM NAPLES Big Cypress Reservation Explore Florida’s biggest attraction the Everglades at Billie Swamp Safari. Learn the history of the Seminole Tribe and try a swamp buggy tour an airboat ride alligator show and more. Sample frog legs or alligator tail at the Swamp Water Café. If you’re so inclined you can even stay the night in an authentic native-style chickee hut.

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Make Time To Take It All In In St. Augustine | Ponte Vedra, you’ll lose track of time marveling at nearly five centuries, enjoying world-class cuisine and basking in seaside elegance. So come discover something truly unforgettable –– it’s about time.

L I N C O L N V I L L E M U S EU M A N D C U LT U R A L C E N T E R Black History Runs Through Lincolnville. Retrace St. Augustine’s unique African American journey over 450 years in the making, from early explorers through the civil rights movement and beyond through interactive exhibits, live programs and much more.

102 M. L. King Avenue • 904-824-1191 • www.lincolnvillemuseum.org T H E O C E A N G A L L E RY Discover “the best address on the beach.” The Ocean Gallery is minutes from charming St. Augustine and offers one of the widest selections of resort amenities including free activities every day of your stay. Book your dream vacation in the nation’s oldest city today!

4600 A1A S. • 904-471-6663 • www.theoceangallery.com W H I S K E Y, W I N E & W I L D L I F E Whiskey, Wine & Wildlife, November 2 – 5, 2023 celebrates the best of northeast Florida’s coast, from its culinary superstars and spectacular seafood to its artisans and musicians. Tickets include all food and hundreds of wine, beer and spirits tastings.

St. Augustine, Vilano Beach, FL • 904-385-9121 • www.whiskeywineandwildlife.com S T. AU G U S T I N E FO O D + W I N E F E S T I VA L “One of Florida’s Top 10 Food & Wine Festivals,” according to USA Today, May 8-12, 2024, with local and celebrity guest chefs and all-inclusive food and drink tickets. Enjoy great cuisine, hundreds of wines, beers and spirits, live music, cooking demos and more.

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Visit FloridasHistoricCoast.com to learn more.

COMMUNITY

GET ACTIVE 2024 IS AN ELECTION YEAR. IT IS TIME FOR YOUR VOICE TO BE HEARD.

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ore Americans are trying to make their voices heard these days.

Approximately one in five Americans participated in a protest or rally between early 2016 and early 2018, according to a Washington Post-Kaiser Family Foundation poll. A similar proportion reported they expected to become more involved in political causes in the next year.

Similarly, the number of women running for state and federal offices soared in recent election years. The ease of using social media appears to be ramping up virtual protesting too. In addition to making your objections heard in the streets or on social, there are many other ways you can influence public policies.

In our book “Citizen Participation in the Age of Contracting,” we identify several things anyone can do to make their community a better place.

TALK TO YOUR LEADERS One approach is telling government officials what you think about public policies and services. Ordinary people can do this many different ways.

You can write letters to your local paper, serve on task forces, email elected representatives or provide input on proposed new policies. You can also speak up at public events like school board and county board meetings. In some cases, this feedback can make a real difference.

PARTNER WITH THE AUTHORITIES Another approach is to get involved at the grassroots level by helping local governments and nonprofits solve problems. Establishing and caring for community gardens is one way to do this in a country where roughly one in eight lack regular access to affordable, nutritious food.

To address this problem, community activists in New York City founded BLK ProjeK – one of dozens of such projects involving partnerships between nonprofits and local authorities formed since 1978 through the city’s Green Thumb program. The New Yorkers who plant, till and harvest more than 500 community gardens are producing 87,000 pounds of food each year.

With about 18,000 community gardens planted across North America, there are opportunities everywhere to get involved.

DIY NONPROFIT A third alternative is to join a nonprofit board or even start your own organization. There are more than 1.5 million U.S. nonprofits, including thousands that are working hard to make communities better by helping vulnerable groups like the disabled, victims of domestic violence and at-risk youth. All of them must have a board of directors that helps guide 16 ONYX MAGAZINE

the nonprofits’ goals and programs. In most cases, the people serving on these boards are unpaid volunteers. Another option is to form a new nonprofit to address unmet needs.

In 2007, Mackenzie Bearup of Alpharetta, Ga., found out that a local residential treatment facility was trying to start a library because the children there did not have books. Bearup, a 13-year-old suffering from an incurable disease, organized a children’s book drive and collected books from friends and neighbors to donate to the library. The project quickly grew. Along with her brothers Alex and Benjamin, she founded Sheltering Books. By March 2015, the nonprofit had donated 460,000 books to shelters.

DO YOUR HOMEWORK Whatever strategy suits you best, get your facts straight before getting started. Managers at public and nonprofit agencies told us that members of their communities sometimes made suggestions that were unrealistic or would violate current policies or regulations.

Learn as much as you can about the issues you are passionate about, whether it is the environment, education or the opioid crisis. Just as importantly, do your best to understand what the local needs are and what services are already available in your community.

That way, you can ask better questions about what is missing, and your feedback and recommendations will be more helpful.

Local authorities often dismiss engagement and activism as NIMBYism–a reflexive not-in-my-back-yard response to any local construction project. But these voices can be legitimate. This quieter kind of activism, in our view, is at least as important as mass protests.

Article by Anna A. Amirkhanyan and Kristine T. Lambright

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BLACK HISTORY ALIVE BOOKS THAT TELL OUR LIVING HISTORY.

HBCU MADE: A CELEBRATION OF THE BLACK COLLEGE EXPERIENCE Edited by Ayesha Rascoe In this joyous collection of essays about historically Black colleges and universities, alumni both famous and up-and-coming write testimonials about the schools and experiences that shaped their lives and made them who they are today. Edited by the host of NPR’s Weekend Edition Sunday, Ayesha Rascoe—with a distinguished and diverse set of contributors including Oprah Winfrey, Stacey Abrams, and Branford Marsalis, HBCU Made illuminates and celebrates the experience of going to a historically Black college or university. (Workman Publishing Co., Inc.)

Books to publish in January and February 2024

AIMÉ CÉSAIRE: NO TO HUMILIATION

By Nimrod, translated

by Emma Ramadan Aimé Césaire was a poet and, later, a politician from the Caribbean island of Martinique, who spoke out against the sufferings and humiliations endured by the peoples of the former French colonies. In Aimé Césaire: No to Humiliation, we are with Césaire in 1930s Paris. The young Martinican poet and his friends Léopold Sédar Senghor and Léon Gontran Damas are launching the Negritude movement. Together, they celebrate their Black African roots, protesting French colonial rule and policies of assimilation. (Seven Stories Press)

DANCING THE AFROFUTURE: HULA, HIP-HOP AND THE DUNHAM LEGACY

By Halifu Osumare Dancing the Afrofuture is the story of a dancer with a long career of art-

istry and activism who transitioned from performing Black dance to writing it into history as a Black studies scholar. Following the personal journey of her artistic development told in Dancing in Blackness, Halifu Osumare now reflects on how that first career—which began during the 1960s Black Arts Movement— has influenced her growth as an academic, tracing her teaching and research against a political and cultural backdrop that extends to the twenty-first century with Black Lives Matter and a potent speculative Afrofuture.

(University Press of Florida)

BARRACOON ADAPTED FOR YOUNG READERS: THE STORY OF THE LAST BLACK CARGO

By Zora Neale Hurston and adapted by Ibram X. Kendi In the first middle grade offering from Zora Neale Hurston and Ibram X. Kendi, young readers are introduced to the remarkable and true-life story of Cudjo Lewis, one of the last survivors of the Atlantic human trade, in an adaptation of the internationally bestselling and critically acclaimed Barracoon. (Harper Collins)

AMERICAN WINGS: CHICAGO’S PIONEERING BLACK AVIATORS AND THE RACE FOR EQUALITY IN THE SKY

By Sherri L. Smith and Elizabeth Wein From the acclaimed author of Flygirl and the bestselling author of Code Name Verity comes the thrilling and inspiring true story of the desegregation of the skies. American Wings follows a group of determined Black Americans: Cornelius Coffey and Johnny Robinson, skilled

auto mechanics; Janet Harmon Bragg, a nurse; and Willa Brown, a teacher and social worker.

Together, they created a flying club and built their own airfield on Chicago’s South Side. As the U.S. hurtled toward World War II, they established a school to train new pilots, teaching both Black and white students together and proving, in a time when the U.S. military was still segregated, that successful integration was possible.

(Penguin Random House)

WALKING WITH OUR ANCESTORS

By Barbara A. Holmes In Walking with Our Ancestors, Barbara Holmes reveals that the justice movements in the twentieth century came from consistent contemplation practices of those seeking liberation. Contemplation is necessary in the spiritual lives of Africana people to offset the tension of the desire to eliminate oppression while still experiencing oppression. Holmes highlights key contemplation practices of what she calls public mystics, those who led by example and paved the way, including Fannie Lou Hamer, Martin Luther King Jr., Howard Thurman, and Rosa Parks. (Fortress Press)

WHEN I WRAP MY HAIR

By Shauntay Grant, Illustrated

by Jenin Mohammed In the vein of I Am Enough and Hold Them Close, this inspiring and beautiful picture book celebrates how hair wrapping ties together past and present. With lyrical text by acclaimed author Shauntay Grant and vibrant illustrations by Jenin Mohammed, When I Wrap My Hair is both an act of joyful recognition and a demonstration of how knowledge is passed through generations. (Harper Collins) ONYX MAGAZINE 17

A LEGACY OF

SERVICE

ROCK LAKE NEIGHBORHOOD – (ORLANDO, FL).

BY YOLONDA TYLER

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udie Stone embodies dedication to family and community. Her impact on children in Central Florida is immeasurable. Hudie Elizabeth Willhite, now Stone, met her husband at Tuskegee University, and chose to focus on raising their six children while managing their home. After becoming a resident of Rock Lake for 46 years, she is celebrated as one of the community's most esteemed members.

Rock Lake provided the Stones with convenience, necessities, and a nurturing environment. Hudie extended her focus beyond her household and engaged in community service.

Her unwavering commitment to community welfare led her to create programs like "School Clothes Make a Difference," which provided necessary clothing for underserved families.

She served on numerous committees and organizations, including Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, United Negro College Fund, and Heart of Florida United Way. Before moving to Orlando, Hudie had a vibrant career as a Head Start teacher and later managed the program in Tuskegee, Alabama.

Her involvement in the Parent Teacher Association continued in Orlando, where she served at the local, county, and state levels. Her dedication earned her the Florida PTA and National PTA Life Membership Award.

Hudie's boundless enthusiasm brought positive change to her community. Whether distributing food at local elementary schools or being a "den mother" for Cub Scouts in Rock Lake, Hudie made a lasting impact. Despite her petite frame, Hudie spearheaded neighborhood infrastructure improvements, including enhancing safety around Rock Lake Elementary School. She also played a significant role in developing the Rock Lake Community Center. Her love for the community is evident in all her endeavors. As a member of the Rock Lake Neighborhood Association, she has celebrated numerous awards and grants, including 18 ONYX MAGAZINE

the recognition of January 30, 1992, as Hudie Stone Day. Although Hudie faces the challenges of advanced dementia, her legacy serves as a guidepost emphasizing the importance of active advocacy in one's community. Her life and accomplishments remind us that to effect change, one must actively participate and contribute constructively to their community. With compassion, dedication, and tireless spirit, Hudie Stone has left a lasting impact on the lives of those around her.

The Greats of West Lakes is a resident-led initiative to select and honor past and present residents who’ve made significant contributions in the city of Orlando, state of Florida

and beyond. The Greats are residents from five historic Black neighborhoods in west Orlando that make up The Communities of West Lakes.

Bunche Manor / Hollando – Mr. Alzo Reddick Clear Lake Cove – Ms. Ericka Dunlap Lake Lorna Doone – Rev. Dr. Fred L. Maxwell Lake Sunset – Mrs. Mildred Wilkerson Rock Lake / Spring Lake Manor – Mrs. Hudie Stone Proudly brought to you by Lift Orlando.

Installation view, A Passion for Haitian Art: The Albrecht and Heller Collections, 2023. Photographer: Paige Boscia

On view through March 17, 2024 A Passion for Haitian Art: The Albrecht and Heller Collections looks at the art and dedication of collecting Haitian objects through the Albrecht and Heller Collections. Organized by guest curator Edouard

REFRAMING HAITIAN ART: MASTERWORKS FROM THE ARTHUR ALBRECHT COLLECTION On view through June 23, 2024

Duval-Carrié in collaboration with the Tampa Museum of Art,

The Arthur R. Albrecht Collection includes over 75 artworks from

Reframing Haitian Art and A Passion for Haitian Art present a rare

Haiti’s most prominent painters including Rigaud Benoit, Wilson

opportunity to view master artists of Haitian painting.

Bigaud, Préfète Duffaut, and Philomé Obin. Rarely seen by the public, the works present an overview of the major developments in Haitian painting from the 1960s-80s. Highlights from the Albrecht

Funds for the conservation of the Arthur Albrecht Collection were generously provided through a grant from the Bank of America Art Conservation Project.

Collection include paintings by the first generation of artists to train at Le Centre d’Art, Haiti’s premier art school in Port-au-Prince, and a selection of Cap Haitian works by the Obin Family.

TampaMuseum.org Hours: Monday – Sunday: 10am – 5pm Thursday: 10am – 8pm

Exhibitions supported in part by:

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FLORIDA RECOVERS UNSPENT TAXPAYER MONEY AUTHORIZED FOR MEMORIAL FROM ONEPULSE FOUNDATION

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lorida Secretary of State Cord Byrd announced that attorneys for onePULSE Foundation in Orlando have agreed to a settlement and repaid $394,321 in taxpayer funds received as a Cultural Facilities Grant from the Florida Department of State. “Taxpayers expect the State of Florida to be good stewards of their money. The money provided by the grant to onePULSE Foundation was authorized by the Florida Legislature for a specific purpose,” said Secretary of State Cord Byrd.

“The Foundation failed to fulfill the requirements set forth in the grant.

Through our efforts, the money is now being returned to the State, and the Legislature will determine the best use of these monies to

honor the memory of the victims.”

On October 29, 2019, the Florida Department of State and onePULSE Foundation, Inc. entered into an agreement for a Cultural Facilities Grant Award in the amount of $500,000 for the specific purpose of creating a memorial to honor the 49 people who were killed and 53 people who were wounded in the tragic shooting on June 12, 2016, at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando. On October 27, 2023, onePULSE Foundation notified the Orange County Mayor that the Foundation was not going to move forward with plans to construct the museum.

The Department subsequently sent a letter demanding repayment of 100% of the grant funds paid, which equaled $394,321.

URBANGEEKZ PARTNERS WITH CULTUREBANX FOR EDITORIAL SERIES ON BLACK INNOVATION ALLIANCE MEMBERS

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igital news brand UrbanGeekz has teamed up with CultureBanx for an exciting media partnership showcasing Black Innovation Alliance member organizations. The popular news sites profile select Black Innovation Alliance (BIA) organizations in the first-of-its-kind collaborative Q&A editorial series. Aptly named Black Innovation’s Frontline the series highlights important work these innovator support organizations are doing across the entrepreneurial landscape in the United States.

“Ecosystem building is a critical role that is very undervalued in the innovation space,” said Griselle Colon, COO of Black Innovation Alliance.

“We are extremely excited to partner with our media members, UrbanGeekz and CultureBanx on the series Black Innovation’s Frontline so that the world can see all that Black Innovator Support Organizations are doing to drive entrepreneurship throughout the United States and the globe.”

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FLORIDA RECOVERS UNSPENT TAXPAYER MONEY AUTHORIZED FOR MEMORIAL FROM ONEPULSE FOUNDATION

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t is International Creativity Month! This month-long celebration encourages us to take a fresh approach to problem-solving and renew confidence in our creative capabilities. In honor of International Creativity Month, here are three tips to boost your creativity: • Embrace curiosity—explore new interests and ideas to fuel your imagination.

• Create a dedicated space for brainstorming, allowing thoughts to flow freely without judgment.

• Give Your Brain a Refresh.

According to Dr. Robert Epstein, a research psychologist, stress and time constraints can kill your creative process. You can give your brain a break by going outside and enjoying the fresh air, being physically active, eating healthy snacks, and getting enough sleep. Ready to unleash your creativity?

Black Innovation Alliance is a coalition of 116-member organizations supporting 300,000+ entrepreneurs, innovators, and creatives. The organizations spearhead everything from funds, media content, accelerators, incubators, and grant programming to provide critical support for Black founders to thrive.

The recently launched co-branded editorial series has already covered several BIA member organizations. Companies such as We Tha Plug, ConnectUP! Institute, ELEV8 Ventures, Macon Black Tech, Finance Savvy CEO, and Wearable Tech Ventures, to name a few.

The series gives a fresh perspective on grassroots work taking place to support Black innovators. For example, in UrbanGeekz, FundBlackFounders CEO Renee King talks candidly about her “decision to address this funding gap and create an alternative for those without wealthy, accredited relatives to rely on for initial funding.”

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ebruary brings Valentine’s Day—the ebruary brings Valentine’s Day—the day we celebrate romantic love—and day we celebrate romantic love—and the most popular day for couples to get the most popular day for couples to get engaged, according to WeddingWire. But when engaged, according to WeddingWire. But when we get caught up in the romance, the marriage we get caught up in the romance, the marriage may fail. In order to best understand how a marmay fail. In order to best understand how a marriage can come apart, it is helpful first to underriage can come apart, it is helpful first to understand some of the ways that healthy marriages stand some of the ways that healthy marriages are structured, and how they function. are structured, and how they function.

Healthy marriage partners are compatible Healthy marriage partners are compatible partners. In a marriage that is to stand the test partners. In a marriage that is to stand the test of time, romance is important, but compatibility of time, romance is important, but compatibility is critical. By and large, partners in healthy maris critical. By and large, partners in healthy marriages come to agree upon common agendas riages come to agree upon common agendas regarding the directions their marriage will take, regarding the directions their marriage will take, and the way each partner will behave. These comand the way each partner will behave. These common agreements may never have been discussed, mon agreements may never have been discussed, but they will be present implicitly in how each but they will be present implicitly in how each partner chooses to act. partner chooses to act.

Areas of agreement that partners will have Areas of agreement that partners will have dealt with will generally include: dealt with will generally include: Friendship. Successful partners develop a Friendship. Successful partners develop a significant friendship at the core of their relationsignificant friendship at the core of their relationship. They genuinely like one another, amuse and ship. They genuinely like one another, amuse and comfort one another, and prefer to spend time comfort one another, and prefer to spend time with each other. This friendship and mutual liking with each other. This friendship and mutual liking are somewhat separate from other aspects of the are somewhat separate from other aspects of the relationship (sexuality, for instance), and can surrelationship (sexuality, for instance), and can survive the loss of these other aspects of the relationvive the loss of these other aspects of the relationship. Strong friendship and mutual liking are often ship. Strong friendship and mutual liking are often the basis for repair of troubled relationships. the basis for repair of troubled relationships.

Role Expectations. The partners reach Role Expectations. The partners reach agreement with regard to how household responagreement with regard to how household responsibilities are divided and how they will behave sibilities are divided and how they will behave toward each other. Traditionally, and still domitoward each other. Traditionally, and still dominantly, the male or masculine-identified partner nantly, the male or masculine-identified partner will take on the majority of financial obligations, will take on the majority of financial obligations, while the female or feminine-identified partner will while the female or feminine-identified partner will take on nurturing roles. Tradition has broken down take on nurturing roles. Tradition has broken down significantly in the industrialized west over the last significantly in the industrialized west over the last century, however, and it is not at all uncommon to century, however, and it is not at all uncommon to find women who take on financial obligations, men find women who take on financial obligations, men who take on nurturing roles, or to find both partwho take on nurturing roles, or to find both partners sharing these roles to one degree or another. ners sharing these roles to one degree or another.

Failure to reach agreement with regard to roles Failure to reach agreement with regard to roles can be a major source of conflict. can be a major source of conflict.

Emotional Intimacy. Successful partners Emotional Intimacy. Successful partners learn to trust each other, to be vulnerable with learn to trust each other, to be vulnerable with each other, to laugh together, and to support one each other, to laugh together, and to support one another in times of need. another in times of need.

Sexual Expectations. Partners come to Sexual Expectations. Partners come to basic agreements as to how they will be sexual basic agreements as to how they will be sexual with each other. Frequently (traditionally) sexual with each other. Frequently (traditionally) sexual expectations mean that they will be sexual with expectations mean that they will be sexual with one another, and not with other people, but this one another, and not with other people, but this is not necessarily the case. Sexual expectations is not necessarily the case. Sexual expectations may further dictate the kinds and patterns of sexmay further dictate the kinds and patterns of ual activities that each partner will and will not sexual activities that each partner will and will not engage in. Coming to agreement with regard to engage in. Coming to agreement with regard to sexuality can increase trust that couples feel for sexuality can increase trust that couples feel for each other, and failure to reach agreement can be each other, and failure to reach agreement can be cause for conflict. As sexual activity is strongly cause for conflict. As sexual activity is strongly rewarding and bonding for couples, it is best for rewarding and bonding for couples, it is best for marriages when partners agree upon sexual marriages when partners agree upon sexual expectations and are both satisfied with their expectations and are both satisfied with their lovemaking. lovemaking.

Vision/Goals. Successful partners agree Vision/Goals. Successful partners agree that they want to pursue the same life paths, valthat they want to pursue the same life paths, values and goals and mutually commit to those ues and goals and mutually commit to those

WHAT KEEPS THE FLAMES WHAT KEEPS THE FLAMES BURNING IN A MARRIAGE BURNING IN A MARRIAGE

paths, values and goals. Examples might include paths, values and goals. Examples might include decisions to have children or not, to attend or not decisions to have children or not, to attend or not attend religious services, to raise a child in a parattend religious services, to raise a child in a particular faith, to save or spend money, or to live ticular faith, to save or spend money, or to live frugally or extravagantly, etc. frugally or extravagantly, etc.

Successful marriages tend to be populated Successful marriages tend to be populated by partners who come to their marriage with by partners who come to their marriage with pre-existing significant compatibilities (of perpre-existing significant compatibilities (of personality, temperament, goals, etc.) that make it sonality, temperament, goals, etc.) that make it easier for them to reach agreement because they easier for them to reach agreement because they frequently end up wanting the same thing. They frequently end up wanting the same thing. They may share commonalities with regard to personmay share commonalities with regard to personality, temperament, or preferences for volatile ality, temperament, or preferences for volatile or conflict-avoiding interactions, as well as goals, or conflict-avoiding interactions, as well as goals, religious and ethical ideals, etc. religious and ethical ideals, etc.

While these areas of agreement do tend to While these areas of agreement do tend to be present in healthy marriages, we should note be present in healthy marriages, we should note that no marriage is perfect, and that many perthat no marriage is perfect, and that many perfectly good marriages harbor disagreements with fectly good marriages harbor disagreements with regard to some of the domains we've discussed. regard to some of the domains we've discussed.

In general, however, the more domains you and In general, however, the more domains you and your partner are in agreement on, the better are your partner are in agreement on, the better are your chances for a healthy marriage. your chances for a healthy marriage.

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JEAN-MICHEL BASQUIAT:

A MULTIDISCIPLINARY ARTIST WHO DENOUNCED VIOLENCE AGAINST AFRICAN AMERICANS. A COMMENTARY.

BY JOHN HARBOUR

Dog Bite/Ax to Grind (1983). (Estate of Jean-Michel Basquiat. Rotterdam, Museum Boijmans Van Beuningen. Licensed by Artestar, New York)

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he exhibition Seeing Loud: Basquiat and Music, which ran at the Montréal Museum of Fine Arts earlier this year, demonstrates that the work of Jean-Michel Basquiat, which is usually associated with painting, also calls upon other media, including music—the main theme of this exhibition—literature, comic strips, cinema and animation, a much lesser-known aspect of his work.

Basquiat was born in New York in 1960 to a Haitian father and a mother of Puerto Rican descent. In the late 1970s, in collaboration with Al Diaz, he drew enigmatic graffiti under the pseudonym SAMO. The artist quickly made a name for himself in the New York art world (becoming friends with Andy Warhol and Madonna, among others). He then produced solo paintings and achieved international fame that continued to grow until his death in 1988.

At the time of the Black Lives Matter movement, Jean-Michel Basquiat’s work is more relevant than ever. It highlights racial inequalities and the lack of representation of racialized people in the media, but also the violence suffered by African Americans.

This is what I propose to explore in this article. As a Ph.D. student in literature and performing and screen arts, my research focuses on the interac22 ONYX MAGAZINE

tions between animated film and the visual arts (comics, painting) as well as on the American cartoon.

LOVE/HATE FOR THE CARTOON As a child, Basquiat dreamed of becoming a cartoon animator. When he became a painter, the television was always on while he worked in his studio, and regularly ran cartoons. These programs and films were a great source of inspiration for the artist, who integrated several references to animation and comic strips into his paintings.

One of these works, which can be seen in the Montréal Museum of Fine Arts exhibition, is called Toxic (1984). The painting depicts a Black man with his arms in the air, with a collage in the background that mentions several titles of animated shorts made between 1938 and 1948.

The character is in fact a friend of Basquiat’s, the artist Torrick “Toxic” Ablack. So the title of the painting refers to him. However, knowing that Basquiat played with words and their meanings, “Toxic” could also refer to the relationship he had with the animated films that are mentioned behind the character.

C U LT U R A L I N F L U E N C E R Could we say that the films are considered toxic by Jean-Michel Basquiat, despite his admiration for them? In fact, I think there is a certain duality in this picture: the artist loves the cartoon, but he hates it at the same time. The dictionary definition of the word “toxic” can mean someone or something that likes “to control and influence other people in a dishonest way.” The term therefore implies that the toxic element (the cartoon in this case) is dangerous in a way that isn’t apparent.

THE VIOLENCE OF CARTOONS The cartoon is often associated with childhood, pleasure, eccentricity.

This is a universe where anything is possible: in Gorilla My Dreams, directed

by Robert McKimson in 1948, for example, the character Bugs Bunny talks, dresses up as a baby and imitates a monkey. It appears innocent. However, the cartoon can also represent the worst of humanity in a very sneaky way through the incredible violence it contains: the characters hunt each other, chase each other, hit each other, cut each other, kill each other and then start again.

In Porky’s Hare Hunt, a film directed by Ben Hardaway in 1938 and quoted in Toxic, the character of Porky is injured by dynamite, abused even though he is in his hospital bed and tries to kill a rabbit. Basquiat, who consumed cartoons every day on television, knew that they were a reflection of 20th century American society.

This is an interpretation that could be supported by the title of another of his paintings, which also uses iconography from animation or comics: Television and Cruelty to Animals (1983). This cruelty is also denounced and reproduced in An Opera (1985), which shows Popeye being beaten with the words “ senseless violence ” above his head, as well as in A Panel of Experts (1982), where we see matchstick men hitting each other right next to an enormous revolver.

The violence that Basquiat denounces is so present in the cartoon that it seems, to a certain extent, to have become commonplace, like the violence seen on television newscasts (which he probably watched while he was painting).

DENOUNCING RACIAL STEREOTYPES These cartoons are also violent because they often perpetuate racial stereotypes (not to mention the many stereotypes related to sexual orientation, gender, sex, body appearance, etc.).

Bob Clampett’s 1940 film Patient Porky, which is also mentioned in Toxic, features a scene in which a elevator attendant grossly and monstrously parodies a Black character. In Untitled (All Stars) (1983), Basquiat cites Max Fleischer’s 1920 film The Chinaman, which features a highly caricatured Asian character and Koko the Clown putting makeup on to impersonate him.

Jean-Michel Basquiat with his Klaunstance installation, at the Area, in 1985.

(Photo: Ben Buchanan)

By placing elements referring to animation in his compositions, Basquiat attempts to denounce a stereotypical and unfair worldview where racialized people are portrayed in an unrealistic way. Basquiat said that if he had not been a painter, he would have been a filmmaker and would have told stories where Black people were portrayed as human beings, not negatively.

So, the title of the painting Toxic carries several meanings. It refers both to the main subject (Torrick “Toxic” Ablack), but also to its relationship to popular culture and to animation, in this case.

The Toxic character has his arms in the air and his hands colored red.

Could it be that this toxic relationship has made his hands dirty? Or, specifically, that the character—because the cartoon has continually portrayed Black people in a pejorative manner—is now being portrayed as a criminal?

Indeed, his position indicates that he appears to be under arrest.

This hypothesis is very likely since Basquiat produced several works denouncing police brutality against African Americans, including The Death of Michael Stewart (Defacement) (1983).

Basquiat died prematurely in 1988 at the age of 27. Other artists from the Black community, such as Montréal painters Kezna Dalz, aka Teenadult, Manuel Mathieu, and animation filmmaker Martine Chartrand have, in their own way, taken up his struggle and continue to fight for greater visibility of Black people in the arts.

The painting A Panel of Experts, produced in 1982, denounces cruelty and violence. (MMFA, gift of Ira Young. Estate of Jean-Michel Basquiat.

Licensed by Artestar, New York. Photo: Douglas M. Parker)

John Harbour is studying for a doctoral degree in literature and visual arts with a concentration in cinema at Université Laval. The story appeared in The Conversation and has been reprinted through a creative commons license.

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RECEIVES A BOOST FLORIDA GOVERNOR AWARDS $5 MILLION FOR 200 FUTURE TEACHERS.

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overnor Ron DeSantis awarded $5 million through the Pathways to Career Opportunities Grow Your Own Teacher Grant to expand opportunities for teacher apprenticeships in Florida. This program strengthens the state’s teacher pipeline by creating a no-cost apprenticeship pathway to the teaching profession, and will help more than 200 teachers per year become credentialed.

“Florida is proud to offer a hands-on teacher apprenticeship program that prioritizes classroom experience over university-based learning,” said Governor Ron DeSantis. “As the national leader in education, we will continue to support our teachers and make sure we have high-quality educators at every school in the state.”

“Governor DeSantis continues to prioritize Florida's education system through innovative initiatives like the Pathways to Career Opportunities Grow Your Own Teacher Grant,” said Commissioner of Education Manny Diaz, Jr. “This funding will allow more aspiring educators to enter into a teaching career while alleviating teacher shortages.”

Earlier this year, Governor DeSantis reinforced Florida’s commitment to recruit and retain high-quality teachers by signing HB 1035, which established the Teacher Apprenticeship Program. The Department of Education worked in partnership with the University of Florida to establish the framework for the program before the legislation passed so that new teachers could start entering the profession as quickly as possible.

“Today's announcement of the $5 million Pathways to Career Opportunities Grow Your Own Teacher Grant is great news for Florida’s future educators. This will provide a new pathway to the teaching profession that emphasizes hands-on training by working directly within classrooms to get the necessary experience to earn an educator certificate,” said Representative Karen Gonzalez Pittman.

“Thank you to Governor DeSantis for prioritizing Florida's education system workforce pipe-

line with visionary initiatives like the Pathways to Career Opportunities Grow Your Own Teacher Grant,” said Senator Alexis Calatayud. “This initiative and funding allows colleges and universities to partner with their local school districts and charter schools to provide more opportunities to those aspiring to become teachers.”

The institutions receiving funding through the PCOG GYO in 2023-24 are: • Broward College • Daytona State College • Florida A&M University • Florida Gateway College • Florida SouthWestern State College • Miami Dade College • Rollins College • Seminole State College • Saint Leo University • University of Florida In addition to the PCOG GYO investment, Governor Ron DeSantis has championed several initiatives to recruit and retain high-quality educators, including: Expanding the pathways to become a certified educator in Florida including creating the Mili-

tary Veterans Certification pathway to allow military service to count toward the requirements for a temporary educator certificate under the mentorship of a certified teacher.

Investing over $3.3 billion in teacher salary increases and securing an average starting teacher pay over $48,000 for the first time in Florida’s history.

Extending the temporary certification time period from three years to five to provide educators additional time to meet the requirements to receive a professional educator certificate.

Allowing educators on a temporary certificate to satisfy the General Knowledge requirement providing flexibilities for educators to meet the mastery of general knowledge, professional education, and subject area exams.

Expanding adjunct certification to support charter schools and extending the validity period of the adjunct certificate to five years.

For more information about the Florida Pathways to Career Opportunities Grant Grow Your Own Program visit www.fldoe.org/pathwaysgrant/.

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FMU RECEIVES

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FUNDING FOR ACADEMICS

lorida Memorial University is getting the deserved funding needed to raise the academic bar on excellence when it comes to science, technology, engineering, and mathematics.

Thanks to the Florida Higher Education Appropriations Subcommittee’s Democratic Ranking Member, Christopher Benjamin, FMU received a check for $550,000.

Rep. Benjamin who earned his BA degree from FMU in 1998, was proud to return to Lion Country today after going through the long process with the Appropriations Subcommittee to ensure FMU was recognized.

“We know the challenges our universities are facing in achieving their educational pursuits and we want to help,” said Rep. Benjamin. “FMU still stands out on top for me and as the only HBCU in South Florida, FMU is still needed in 2023 and needs support.”

The funds will be used for two key projects here at FMU. • STEM Expansion Project Fostering Excellence in Cancer Studies, Data Science, and Cybersecurity

Interim Provost Dr. Samuel Darko, along with STEM faculty members Dr. Rose Stiffin, Dr. Ayivi Huisso, Dr. Marilyn Sherman, Dr. Jayanta Das, Dr. Amalya Mihnea, and Dr. Latoya Appleton.

The funds also will be used to enhance STEM programs to provide instruction and training in STEM related disciplines, improve the quality of education in STEM related disciplines, increase research and productivity in STEM related disciplines.

• Florida Memorial University Math and Writing Center

The Math and Writing Center will establish a tutoring hub dedicated to improving these skills among FMU’s students. The center will also help to improve academic performances in other course offerings.

The center seeks to reduce stress and anxiety among the university’s students and increase awareness of and access to support services.

“Everything we do is to ensure our students have a competitive advantage to compete in the global market,” said FMU President Dr. Jaffus Hardrick. “FMU is the only institution to receive this funding and I want to thank Rep. Benjamin for his continued support of Florida Memorial University.”

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B-CU “DARE TO BE YOU” STUDENTS HONORED AT DINNER

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he collaboration between the Center for Honors and Scholar Development, Sodexo, and PepsiCo came to life Tuesday night as Bethune-Cookman University hosted the "Dare to be You Dinner" at the Center for Civic Engagement.

Dozens of students gathered for an evening that not only celebrated their academic accomplishments but also highlighted the strong partnerships within the campus community.

"It is a pleasure to celebrate with our Honors Experience Wildcats," said Jolene Love Hubbard, General Manager for Sodexo Dining Services, capturing the event's spirit.

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Integral to the B-CU Honors Experience, the program officially launches in January 2024 and is led

by Director Jennifer Schaeffer, who remarked, "I am honored to lead such an amazing group of students."

She commended their dedication to academic excellence and shared the program's early success with students securing prestigious fellowships and internships this year. Schaeffer expressed excitement about the program's continued growth in line with B-CU's mission.

Starting in January, the program will provide specialized events and mentoring to 64 inaugural students, promoting growth inside and outside the classroom. Participants will engage with guest speakers, contribute to community service projects, and receive personalized advising on prestigious scholarship and graduate school applications.

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FAMU NAMES PROGRAM AFTER MUSIC GREATS, GRADS

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he Florida A&M University Board of Trustees (BOT) approved the naming of the Julian “Cannonball” and Nat Adderley Music Institute in honor of the two alumni musical giants.

President Larry Robinson, Ph.D., said the December 7 decision marked the first time FAMU has named an academic program for specific individuals. “It’s significant that it’s the first. It probably won’t be the last,” Robinson said. “We set a high bar by naming it after the Adderleys. They have been so impactful in music not just here, but wherever they have gone around the world.”

The Adderley brothers moved to Tallahassee in the 1940s when their parents took jobs at the University. The Adderley brothers attended FAMU’s high school before entering the University, where Cannonball studied band education, and Nat sociology, with a minor in music. During the 1940s, the Adderley brothers were members of the Marching “100” Band. Cannonball graduated from FAMU in 1948 and Nat graduated in 1951.

The BOT renamed the Institute for Research in Music and Entertainment Industry Studies to honor the Adderleys at the urging of Director Darryl Tookes, a singer, songwriter, and producer.

Not every post-bop hero from the ‘50s could adapt to ‘70s fusion, but Cannonball Adderley’s understanding of the blues and his ability to unfurl liquid lines of melody made him invaluable in both eras, Tookes wrote in his proposal. “With his trumpeter/composer brother Nat, the Adderley brothers’ contribution to music of the modern era is unsurpassed. From their interpretation of the Great American Songbook, Jazz standards, Showtunes from the Golden Age of Broadway, to their irresistible pop/R&B Grammy Award winning smash hit “Mercy Mercy,” the Adderley name is synonymous with musical excellence, and social progress.”

“With the Cannonball Adderley Quintet’s Country Preacher “Live” at Operation Breadbasket, recorded at a 1969 Chicago meeting of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, the multiracial band proved exemplar of musical trends to come, and political change on the horizon,” Tookes said.

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EWU TO UNVEIL NEW ATHLETIC ACADEMIC CENTER

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he Edward Waters University Department of Intercollegiate Athletics will soon unveil their new Athletic Academic Center which is designed to serve the scholastic needs of each of EWU’s student-athletes that participate in 17 intercollegiate athletic programs and three junior varsity programs.

“We are extremely excited to open the Tiger Academic Center with the goal of providing our talented student-athletes with access to premier resources that empower their academic success,” remarked EWU Associate Vice President/Director of Intercollegiate Athletics, Dr. Ivana Rich. “This center reflects our unwavering

commitment to continually equipping our student-athletes with skills necessary to develop holistically as leaders of tomorrow.”

Located inside of the John Hurst Adams-Jimmy R. Jenkins Community Sports & Music Complex, this state-ofthe art facility is complete with individual and group study areas also computers terminal complete with hardwired and wireless internet access which are meant to foster an environment of academic success.

The AAC’s opening comes at a time when EWU is experiencing historic growth both academi-

cally and athletically.

The University’s innovative technologies, residential and online academic programs, and faculty resources continue to develop empowered leaders who

are ready to take on global engagement.

The center had a soft opening during the Fall 2023 semester and is set for its official grand opening during the Spring 2024 semester.

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G E N E R AT I O N F O RWA R D

FRONTLINE: PAYING HOMAGE TO THE ONES WHO PAVED THE WAY

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BY LENDSEY AUGUSTIN

ip-hop’s roots can be traced back to the summer block parties hosted by pioneers like DJ Kool Herc, who, armed with two turntables and a mixer, introduced the art of "breaking" - a style of dancing that would become synonymous with the genre. These block parties were the fertile ground where the four pillars of Hip-Hop took root: DJing, MCing (rapping), breaking (dance), and graffiti art.

Today, the ebb and flow remain the same, the very roots that grew the tree we call Hip-Hop have evolved into multiple subgenres, weaving its history and essence throughout life’s most treasured symphonies.

One artist in particular I had the pleasure of speaking with is 1990s rapper Kriss Kross inspired current student artists.

Azariah Richardson, a local artist in Tallahassee. Richardson doesn’t subject himself to one genre of music, but by pulling from different kinds.

“I feel like one of the most beautiful parts of Hip-Hop is its ability to pull from other genres and other styles. So of course in terms of the artists I would listen to, people like Smino, J-cole, that Dreamville pocket, Kendrick,” Richardson said.

YAKIRA JONES “They’re all very unique in the way that they express themselves in hip-hop and very often During the HIPS concert at Railroad Square, he they pull influence from other genres. I say electrified the crowd and everyone was truly in that I do the same thing, I love to listen to neo- paradise during those couple minutes. It was soul, and reggae artists like EEKAMouse even astounding to see the transformation of the in terms of my vocal inflections. They influence artist into a performer. very heavily how I approach the microphone.”

Another artist who has been climbing the Richardson has performed in countless musical ranks lately is Yakira Jones. events and showcases both on and off campus.

Jones is a FAMU student, artist, business

“Creating music just really depends on what vibe I’m in that moment and what the beat is giving me.”

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owner, and emcee. During the HIPS concert, she would keep the crowd engaged with games or songs of her own. Jones has also performed at events on and off campus. This wasn’t something she wanted to do at first, but it grew into something bigger than herself.

“Creating music just really depends on what vibe I’m in that moment and what the beat is giving me,” Jones said.

“I do try to go off of more my style at the end of the day too, but sometimes with certain flows and cadences, I will test run those and see how they sound with my sound. And if I’m messing with it, I’ll integrate that in there.”

Hip-hop has paved the way for a new era of fashion, a new era of creativity, and lifestyle.

But it’s also an outlet.

Many hit songs have been a vent session or a cry for help. Music often speaks to the pain that is too hard to vocalize. It gives a voice to those who want to share themselves with the world but may not know how.

Music has been the bridge between sadness and relief, between anger and frustration. It has become our medium, our communicator.

Vincent Pendergrast, a business administration student who moonlights as a rapper-songwriter, says his music has been his rock.

“Like my music helped me tune out the world… a lot. A lot of times it just helped me tune out all the problems especially when I’m in the studio and I have something going on at home,” Pendergrast said.

“But when I’m in the studio and it’s time to put that lyric on the beat, that’s where my head’s at.”

M E D I C A L LY S P E A K I N G

Self-Care for a Successful

NEW YEAR R

esolving to commit to better self-care can happen any time of the year, but there’s something about the calendar flipping to a new year that signals a fresh start. It’s the perfect starting point for new habits and a new approach to protecting your overall wellness.

Self-care takes many forms. Maintaining a well-balanced diet and getting plenty of exercise are some ways to promote your physical health. So is taking good care of your body’s largest organ: your skin. When it comes to mental health, getting organized is a surprisingly effective way to manage stress and keep your goals on track so you feel a sense of accomplishment.

Start working toward a new year where your wellness is front and center with these ideas for simplifying and personalizing your journey.

Look for more lifestyle advice and helpful wellness tips at eLivingtoday.com.

Family Features, photos courtesy of Shutterstock, Unsplash

PLAN FOR SUCCESS IN THE NEW YEAR Give yourself a boost toward tackling this year’s goals by getting organized. A planner can help you keep important information at your fingertips while making it easy to keep tabs on appointments, deadlines and more. You can even track progress against new habits or journal your way toward a heathier diet. Some people prefer physical planners they can write in and update manually while others find a digital version in a smart device is more convenient.

PREPARE FOR HEALTHIER EATING HABITS

ADD WHOLE GRAINS WITH EASE AND CONVENIENCE Eating whole grains has never been this easy or tasty. Convenient and ready in just 10 minutes, Minute Rice’s Instant Brown Rice and Rice & Quinoa are must-haves for busy families. For those in need of an on-the-go option, Minute Rice Cups, including Brown Rice, Brown & Wild Rice, Brown Rice & Quinoa, Multi-Grain Medley and Jasmine Rice & Red Quinoa, are ready in just 60 seconds. Start the year off right and discover more time-saving solutions at MinuteRice.com.

INTRODUCE WEIGHTS FOR YOUR WORKOUT Whether you’ve hit a plateau or you’re just bored with your workout, adding dumbbells can introduce a whole new dimension by helping build muscle and burn more fat. Rotating muscle groups lets you give your muscles a chance to recover between workouts. The options are nearly endless, so think about how you’ll use them, where you’ll store them, whether shape or color matters and how much you want to spend.

PUT YOUR BEST FOOT FORWARD If stepping up your fitness game is part of your plan for 2024, be sure to start on the right foot with the right footwear for the job. Runners in particular should be conscious of quality shoes. Look for ample cushion, comfortable ankle support, overall quality construction and a snug fit that gives your toes some wiggle room. Even slight variations can affect your comfort, so trying on different options is likely your best path toward finding the perfect fit.

Portion control is a common challenge when you kick off a healthier eating plan. One way to keep your meals on the modest side is preparing them ahead of time. Meal prep containers make it easy to have freshly prepared foods in moderate portions ready whenever you’re ready to eat. Look for compartments that let you enjoy a main dish and at least one side, and be sure the containers seal tightly to keep food fresh and prevent leaks.

MAKE SKIN CARE A PERSONAL PRIORITY Your skin tells an important story about your overall health. Protecting it from harsh elements and sun damage can help ensure your skin stays supple and strong, providing the barrier it’s meant to as it protects the rest of your body.

Even seemingly minor irritations like dry skin can be problematic as scratching or cracking can lead to wounds and infection. Rely on a regular moisturizer and be conscious of applying sunscreen whenever you’ll be outdoors.

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H E A LT H & W E L L N E S S

WHAT BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT

DIABETIC NERVE DAMAGE

BY KAREN HESLOP

You also need to let your doctor know if there are any signs that your diabetes isn’t being managed well. Since the signs of neuropathy can develop slowly, you shouldn’t neglect your regular health checks either. As an example, while you should examine your feet daily, don’t shy away from having your feet professionally inspected annually.

HOW IT’S TREATED The effects of diabetic neuropathy can’t be reversed so your doctor will likely focus on slowing the progression of the nerve damage, reducing your pain, and managing complications.

These can be accomplished through a combination of medications.

Apart from your regular regimen, you might be prescribed drugs for pain, blood pressure control, and digestive issues. If you’re experiencing sexual dysfunction, your doctor may recommend drugs as well as therapy. With different medications involved, it may take some time to determine what works for you.

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iabetes can cause several health complications. One of those complications is diabetic neuropathy – a condition in which your nerves are damaged. This damage can lead to different organs not functioning as they should. If you’re living with diabetes, it’s essential to know how this can affect you and how to prevent it.

WHAT’S DIABETIC NEUROPATHY? In diabetic neuropathy, prolonged high blood sugar levels lead to nerve damage. Since nerves carry messages to different organs around the body, any damage to them can affect how well your body functions. For example, damage in the nerves that lead to the heart can cause changes in your heartbeat.

You can also experience changes in the sensations you feel. That’s why many people living with diabetes have numbness or tingling in their extremities. Diabetic neuropathy can also be quite painful.

The symptoms of diabetic neuropathy usually progress gradually and can depend on which of

WHY BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD PAY ATTENTION the four types you have. Peripheral neuropathy affects the extremities so its symptoms include numbness, tingling, pain, and muscle cramps.

Autonomic neuropathy damages the nerves in the autonomic nervous system so you can expect to have difficulty swallowing, drops in blood pressure, bladder problems, and trouble with sexual response.

Proximal neuropathy can affect anywhere between the shoulders and the legs. When it does, you can have trouble rising from a sitting position, chest pain, and shrinking thigh muscles.

Finally, you can have mononeuropathy, which only affects a specific nerve in the face, arm, torso, or legs. The symptoms of this type of neuropathy may be double vision, tingling in the fingers, weakness in the hand, and pain in the front of the thigh.

HOW TO PREVENT IT The best way to prevent diabetic neuropathy is to keep your blood sugar levels under control.

To do this, you need to stick to the regimen your doctor recommends and monitor your blood glucose closely.

Studies about Black Americans and diabetes have yielded some important information. Doctors reported that Black Americans experienced more severe pain from nerve damage than anyone else. As a Black person, you also have a higher chance of needing to have a limb amputated or being hospitalized for long-term care.

Additionally, not only are Black people more likely to develop diabetes, but they are also at higher risk for diabetic complications. While these complications can happen because of your genetics, the statistics also show that Black people are less likely to have their diabetes under control than other ethnicities. Uncontrolled diabetes can lead to conditions such as vision loss, nerve damage, and even death.

Diabetic neuropathy is a serious condition that can cause damage throughout your body.

Fortunately, you can prevent it by managing your diabetes well. Even if you’re sticking to your medical routine, keep checking for signs of the condition and talk to your doctor about any changes in your health.

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IS YOUR HAIR ROUTINE CAUSING YOU HARM?

BY CORYNNE CORBETT

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s Black women, we are serious about our haircare routines. It is not our regular salon visits, but getting our ‘dos tight daily is also critical. But a new report says some of our routines may be causing us more harm than good. We may inhale several milligrams of cyclic volatile methyl siloxanes from our haircare products.

The study looked at routines including straightening, curling, waving, and oiling our hair and the products and appliances used. It examined their potential impact on our health as well as the environment. When we use hair products like shampoo or conditioner, the exposure to the compounds is small.

If you have been following the news, you know about the potential ban on keratin treatments designed to straighten hair and the controversy surrounding relaxers.

This study also impacts those of us wearing wigs. We use flat irons and curling irons when we style them, too.

The news is not all bad. However, there are habits we can adopt to minimize exposure to the emissions: • Cut back on the use of heated tools. Get out of the habit of relying on them daily.

• When you use a flat or curling iron, work with the lowest temperature possible.

• If the bathroom has an extractor fan, turn it on. (According to the study, the emissions will clear in about 20 minutes.)

• Switch to hairstyles that don’t require heat (even if it is occasionally).

GET THE MOST OUT OF YOUR EXERCISE

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few years back, you could always find my workout buddy and I at the Taco Bell across the street after we’d kicked butt in our boot camp class. We’d just worked up a sweat, we rationalized, and surely were due a treat.

We knew we were wrong as two left shoes (and so were all the other gym rats who made a beeline along with us), but we’d say to each other, in hushed whispers, “If this were bad, they wouldn’t have built a Taco Bell so close to the gym.”

Um, hello?! Sometimes all the exercise in the world can be undone by post-workout mistakes. Fortunately, it’s easy to ensure your exercise investment reaps the best outcome. Just follow these six tips so you don’t commit these common after exercise errors: • You Grab High-Calorie Food as a Reward. That 300-calorie milkshake will negate the 300 calories you burned in your boxing class. Replace fluids lost from sweat with water instead of high-calorie sports drinks.

The exception to this is if your workout involves high-energy activities,

such as training for a marathon or biking long distances.

• You Don’t Refuel Your Body. No, you don’t want to go for the burger and fries after your workout, but not refueling can cause your metabolism to slow down as the body stores nutrients as fat for future energy needs.

Good options include: a hard-boiled egg, a bran muffin, nuts or a protein shake. They all provide the correct mix of protein and carbs to keep your metabolism operating best.

• You Don’t Stretch. To stretch or not to stretch—and when—has been

the subject of much debate. Here’s what we know: Stretching before you exercise has not been shown to prevent injury or curb soreness. But the American College of Sports Medicine recommends that we stretch each of our major muscle groups at least two times each week; it helps us stay flexible. Though you can stretch any time, you’re more flexible after exercise because you’ve increased the circulation to those muscles and joints. So save the last five minutes or so of your workout—after your cool down walk—for a stretching

session. This helps you reduce muscle fatigue and rebound faster from a tough workout.

• You Don’t Schedule Your Next Workout. You got out of bed, got dressed and ran that three miles.

Congratulations! You’ll only see consistent progress if you make exercise a regular part of your life, so set your Fitbit and stick to your schedule.

• You Don’t Get Enough Rest. To build muscle mass, you have to tear the muscle fiber during a workout and then allow it to repair itself while you rest. If you skip the rebuilding stage, your muscles are more likely to be exposed to injury from overuse pulls and tears.

• You Don’t Change Out of Your Workout Clothes. You might not be bothered by your funky clothes after you’ve hula-hooped your way through an hour-long session, but the moisture underneath your clothes—even those made of wicking fabric—can cause body acne and yeast infections. Shower and change into dry clothes as soon as possible after your workout.

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GLOBAL IMPACT

PRESERVING GLOBAL BLACK HISTORY RIO DE JANEIRO’S PORT ZONE WAS ONCE THE LARGEST SLAVE PORT IN THE AMERICAS. AS DEVELOPERS WORK TO “REVITALIZE” THE AREA, BLACK ACTIVISTS ARE FIGHTING TO RETAIN THE REMNANTS OF THE DISTRICT’S HISTORICAL SIGNIFICANCE.

BY NICOLE FROIO

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Women dancing in the street during a march in Rio de Janeiro By Agência Brasil

n Santo Cristo, a neighborhood in the marvelous city of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, the construction of a new building, Porto Maravalley, promises to usher in a new age of technology startups in the city.

Currently, the construction of the technology and education hub—which directly references Silicon Valley—is happening in an abandoned warehouse in Rio’s Port Zone that spans more than 3.59 square miles.

But if you walk 30 minutes, to the very end of Mauá Square, the Museum of Tomorrow, a science museum that was built in an attempt to revitalize the Port Zone, sits like a spaceship, and to its left, the Rio Museum of Art (MAR) towers over the sidewalk that leads visitors deeper 32 ONYX MAGAZINE

into the city. These three buildings, as well as the installation of a tram system in the area, are part of an urbanization project that has ebbed and flowed since 2009—gaining steam when Rio hosted the Olympics in 2016 and the World Cup in 2018—to make the area into the city of the future.

Amid these investments, the Port Zone is filled with Black activists, researchers, and curators who are passionate about reckoning with the city’s past. The Port Zone, which spans the neighborhoods of Saúde, Gamboa, Santo Cristo, and Caju, was the biggest slave port in the Americas from the last few decades of the 18th century up until 1830, receiving an estimated 700,000 enslaved Africans, with some sources estimating

GLOBAL IMPACT the real number being closer to 1 million.

After the abolition of slavery, free Black people used the area to build communities designed to preserve African religions and cultures within a society that increasingly wanted to erase any memory of slavery.

Walking inland, past the graffitied warehouses and toward the neighborhood of Gamboa, the historical landmark of Cais do Valongo can be seen, protected by a few metal barriers. The site, where historians estimate at least one million enslaved people arrived in the 20 years it functioned in the 19th century, was nearly erased twice in Brazilian history: In 1843, it was remodeled to remove evidence that enslaved people were chained to be sold there, and in 1911, it was landfilled to build a square.

Though Black researchers had known for decades that the site was hidden under the ground, it wasn’t officially rediscovered until 2011 when the city began doing construction for the 2016 Olympics. “This rediscovery marked a new era of Black Museum of Tomorrow in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil memory in the city of Rio,” says Thais Matos, a Black geographer and researcher at Universidade Federal Fluminense. space because of our culture. Our intentions in the area were never com“It signified that Rio is an undeniably Black city, even though there are mercial.” attempts at erasing this history.” Matos says Black activists and researchIn his studio in Gamboa, where large photos of his community are disers, who’d already been working to preserve the territory, strategically played on the wall, Hora says that the city’s projects in the Port Zone have used the Port Zone urbanization plans to argue for the preservation of brought opportunistic entrepreneurs to the area who haven’t hesitated the site, highlighting the violent history of slavery in the area and also to capitalize on his neighborhood’s Black history. “I call it afro-opportunemphasizing how the urbanization project was removing residents from ism. This is an area that will stop being Black because of businesses that the area. “The universities in the city would never have enough money to push Black people out.” do this excavation.”

This money-making machinery came to a head in March 2022, after But this strategic use came with a price. “The city understood that it business owners in Largo São Francisco da Prainha—a historical square wasn’t in the city’s interest to continue to erase that history anymore,” where Black women used to host and feed people who escaped slavery— Matos explains. “They thought this history [could] be appealing for had a disagreement with a local all-women samba band, Moça Prosa, that tourists coming to our city.” Hoping to capitalize on this discovery and had been holding monthly shows in the public square for nearly 10 years. not lose the momentum of construction, the city agreed to preserve Newly opened bars in the areas disputed Moça Prosa’s right to perform in the site, and UNESCO declared Cais do Valongo a World Heritage Site the square because the band sold their own drinks to cover the costs of in 2017. their performance. While bar owners argued that this could cut into their profits, Moça Prosa refused to perform for free.

WHITE-OWNED OPPORTUNISM After a number of meetings, the parties couldn’t reach a consensus, For community activist and photographer Maurício Hora, who has lived in so Moça Prosa decided to move to a nearby property that was given to Morro da Providência, the favela (working-class neighborhood) that tow- them by the city. The author of this article reached out to the city of Rio ers over Gamboa, his whole life, the city’s begrudging preservation of Cais for comment, but received no response. do Valongo wasn’t an attempt to honor Afro-Brazilian culture. Instead, “We aren’t new here, we aren’t opportunistic,” Moça Prosa producer it was about profit, allowing white-owned businesses to move into the Ana Priscila da Silva told O Globo at the time. “We just want to come area and edge out Black residents. As Tara Nelson details in a 2019 story back to where we used to play after we were forced out because of the for RioOnWatch, these white-owned businesses, including YouTube, have pandemic.” moved into the area.

Practically, Hora also says the projects have disrupted public transHora mentions Largo da Prainha, a spot recently highlighted as one of port in the area, particularly because of the tram system that was implethe best spots in the city in a New York Times package about Rio. “Noth- mented to connect Rio’s city center to the Port Zone. Hora and other ing on that square belongs to us. We don’t have animosity with anybody sources interviewed for this article say the system works well for people there,” he says. “The problem is that that area became a money-making who come from the outside of the Port Zone, but the buses the local ONYX MAGAZINE 33

GLOBAL IMPACT population depended on to reach other neighborhoods were removed to make space for the tram. “I used to be able to go anywhere in the city from here because of the buses,” Hora says. “Now we only have the tram.”

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structurally racist country, things in Rio are only given value when someone will benefit from it financially. No political party fights for Black people, for the Black cause effectively. There aren’t many Black people in the government, and every 23 minutes, a young Black person is killed in Brazil.”

For Hora, who co-wrote an op-ed for The New York Times in 2012 about the construction being done in the Port Zone at the time, the city’s interest in revitalizing the area doesn’t include the people who already live there. “They don’t think about the people who are from here,” Hora says.

“That’s the big problem when a place is set to be transformed by public authorities.”

When approached for comment, the city of Rio said there is a concern for preservation of Afro-Brazilian history in the Port Zone but did not provide a response to questions about the impacts of gentrification in the area. “The city has created the African Heritage Circuit in the Little Africa region, which includes Cais do Valongo, [and] coordinated the process to make it into a World Heritage Site by UNESCO,” the statement said.

On the inclusivity of the Porto Maravalley project, the city said the hub will have diversity and inclusion policies “for Black people and LGBTQIA+ populations,” and that their education branch, Instituto de Matemática Pura e Aplicada, will have 100% of students funded by scholarships.

In 1996, civilians doing construction work in their home about 10 minutes away from Cais do Valongo discovered a cemetery where newly arrived Africans who died right after arriving in the port were buried. Merced Guimarães dos Anjos and Petruccio dos Anjos alerted the authorities about their discovery, but the state didn’t offer resources to preserve the site at the time.

In 2005, the New Blacks Institute of Research and Memory (IPN) was founded, with private resources and funding. Today, the institution survives on ticket costs, private partnerships, grants, and a postgraduate degree offered by the institute’s educational branch. Upon the discovery of the cemetery, the state promised to research the findings, but Guimarães dos Anjos says that never happened, and she had to take preservation efforts into her own hands. In 2017, IPN almost closed due to lack of funding.

“For 27 years, since the archeological discovery, the Institute never had effective help from public authorities,” says Alexandre Nadai, spokesperson for IPN. “We have to charge entry to the museum because we BRINGING THE PAST INTO THE FUTURE don’t have a sustainable way to keep the doors open otherwise.” While In March 2023, Brazil’s first lady, Janja Silva, and the new Minister for the Museum of Tomorrow receives financial support from the state that Racial Equality, Anielle Franco, visited IPN. Nadai hopes the incoming fedmaintains its free entry, IPN has to charge entry to keep itself above eral administration, which has reestablished the Cais do Valongo managewater, receiving 41,000 visitors in 2022 alone. “We are educating people ment committee, will be favorable to the institute’s concerns and needs. on racism, but we never have the guarantee that we will have enough However, the Port Zone has three branches of government that exercise money to be functioning tomorrow,” Nadai says. their authority—municipal, city hall, and federal—which can complicate The Port Zone is full of places like IPN, where residents and activ- juridical processes of preservation. ists took it upon themselves to preserve Black history—places Black “We understand that our cause is supra partisan,” Nadai says. “We researchers know are significant but haven’t been deemed historically have a good relationship with many branches of the government, and significant by the city. we use that dialogue to not let people from the outside of the neighIf you walk five minutes from IPN, you’ll come across a house where the borhood profit off Black culture.” Nadai and the staff at IPN hope that belongings of Tia Ciata, one of the foremothers of samba itself, are shoved one day, governmental policies will enable the institute to stop charging, into a tiny, rectangular space that Matos says used to be a public bath- making their work more accessible to all. “Our wish is that there’s a state room. The space is managed by policy that gives us better susCiata’s living descendants, but tainability and longevity,” Nadai they don’t receive public fundsays. Despite Porto Maravaling for their work. The Morro da ley’s promise of inclusive poliProvidência, which Hora says is cies, it’s difficult to understand the first favela in the world, is why state funding isn’t directed not marked as such. In the old to the institutions that already neighborhood of Santa Rita, exist in the Port Zone of Rio. another cemetery for enslaved Until then, the people who people lies beneath the tracks live in and love the Port Zone of the tram system, but there of Rio will continue to do the isn’t a single plaque marking the preservation work that keeps significance of the location. The Afro-Brazilian memory alive. afroxé group Filhos de Gandhy, founded by port workers in 1951, Nicole Froio is a reporter, is currently struggling to raise researcher, and translator money for maintenance works based in Rio de Janeiro, Brain their venue. zil. The story first appeared in “We have to preserve this Yes! and has been reprinted memory, so [slavery] never hapthrough a creative commons Providence Hill, seen from the Olympic Boulevard on the Maua Square pens again,” Nadai says. “But in a license. in Rio de Janeiro – Brazil 34 ONYX MAGAZINE

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W E A LT H & F I N A N C E

WHISPERING ABOUT

MONEY?

A NEW STUDY REVEALS 6 IN 10 AMERICANS DON'T TALK ABOUT MONEY… AND IT MAY BE A FINANCIAL MISTAKE.

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merica, it's time to have the money talk.

According to research by Empower, a financial services company, 62% of people don't talk about money. Mum's the word with their family (63%), friends (75%) and even with their spouse/partner (46%), though millennials and Gen Z are twice as likely to say they're 36 ONYX MAGAZINE

an "open book" compared to older generations (28% versus 13%). Many people would rather discuss politics (43%) and death (32%) than their finances (24%).

It may be costing them their dreams. A majority of people believe more candid "money talks" have the power to change the world:

66% remark that open conversations can help people build generational wealth, improve the gender wage gap (62%) and over half say that money conversations could improve workplace transparency (56%).

Carol Waddell, the president of Empower Personal Wealth, says, "Conversation is a currency

W E A LT H & F I N A N C E cial lessons weren't discussed—like the importance of having an emergency fund (31%), building good credit (30%), and managing debt (27%)—as kids or adults. This might explain why Americans tend to clam up when the conversation turns to money. While many received an allowance (36%), the majority (68%) were never taught how to manage a budget. Nearly a quarter of Gen Zers (23%) grew up in a household with a swear jar teaching about money and manners—yet 79% of all people say they never spoke about how much is "needed" to be financially secure.

One in five (18%) Americans surveyed say they were raised with a YOLO money motto: "You only live once, so don't worry too much about finances." Despite the saying, more than a third (37%) say they regularly worry. That's even higher for Gen Z and millennials (51% and 49%) and women, who are considerably more stressed about their personal finances than men (42% versus 33%).

2. TALKING ABOUT MONEY AT WORK

on the pathway to financial security, and open discussions about money can have a truly transformative effect on society. Our study shows people believe that clarity about their financial picture, talking to an advisor and financial education are key to achieving financial success."

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1. GROWING UP WITHOUT MONEY CONVERSATIONS Don't talk about money: that's the message half (52%) of Americans hear, learning it's impolite to talk about finances (26%), and certainly not what you earn (35%). The taboo prevails for nearly two-thirds (60%) of people who don't feel comfortable on the topic.

Americans recall stowing away coins in a piggy bank (41%) but say many practical finan-

Figuring out personal finance is intimidating and overwhelming for half of Americans (48%), and when it comes to managing their money, 39% say they don't know where to start, including 41% of women and 37% of men. Compare that with sky-high confidence managing money at work: 73% feel at ease overseeing company budgets and the majority say they clearly understand their employer's finances and performance (70%).

Reassuringly, people have a strong grasp on employer benefits like the availability of their company's 401(k) plan (80%) and say they know how their pay raises work (77%). Advocating for themselves is where it gets tricky. One-third (33%) of people don't feel comfortable asking for an increase. Men feel more comfortable asking for a pay raise than women (74% versus 59%). Better market data on compensation could potentially boost negotiation confidence and nearly half (49%) of survey respondents (and a majority of millennials, 69%, and Gen Z, 71%) believe discussing salaries can lead to better career opportunities.

Americans say they avoid uncomfortable money talk at work (68%), and more than half (56%) wish discussing salaries wasn't taboo. Do you know how much your co-workers make?

Just 19% of respondents say they've asked. But the workplace isn't the only area Americans are staying quiet. People haven't asked their friends

(68%) or family (60%) either. Women are less comfortable talking about money with co-workers than men (36% women versus 50% men).

That said, people may not be as shy as expected: 58% of millennials and 53% of Gen Z (and 34% of Americans overall), would share their salary information on their LinkedIn. What does it amount to? According to 62% of respondents, open money conversations could solve the gender wage gap. Americans say greater wage transparency would motivate employees to work harder (50%) and help avoid miscommunications (60%).

3. SPEAK WITH AN EXPERT. More than three-quarters (77%) of Americans want to see society take on more "money talks" about ways to save for the future (41%), money mistakes they've made (36%) and basic financial literacy (34%). A quarter want more discussions about how to negotiate (26%) and pay for big expenses (24%). Even more open dialogue about the emotional aspects of money would be helpful for 20% of respondents.

Ultimately, people believe more open conversations about money can have a truly transformative effect on society: 66% think it can help more people achieve financial freedom.

So, how does America get there? Respondents agree that clarity about their financial picture (40%), talking to an advisor (36%), and financial education (34%) are key to achieving financial success.

"In these challenging times, staying tightlipped about money is something people can no longer afford. As part of our mission to advance financial freedom for all, we're here to help people speak up and take the next step for a brighter financial future," says Waddell.

If conversation is a currency on the pathway to financial security, it's time to start speaking up.

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SMART CONSUMER

SHOP SMARTER

or many people, the start of a new year is an opportunity to revamp their routine and make game-changing resolutions. That’s why industry experts are offering smart shopping tips that will have you saving time, money and hassle in 2024.

According to Christa Anz, director of Sensormatic Solutions North America Marketing, the global retail solutions portfolio of Johnson Controls, it all starts in January.

“Outside of the holiday season, there isn’t a better time to shop than the start of a new year,” says Anz. “Research shows gift cards continue to grow in popularity, so even after the gift-giving season is over, consumers are treating themselves and will be popping into stores reenergized. After the holiday rush, shoppers can rediscover the fun of browsing stores for anything they didn’t receive from their wish lists.”

As Anz also points out, shopping at the start of the year isn’t just fun, it’s also cost-effective, as retailers are likely to plan promotions to help sell excess inventory, making it a good time to stock up on essentials and other items.

To shop smarter in January and all year long, Sensormatic Solutions is offering these tips based on their insider retailer predictions and data.

• Make Post-holiday Returns Strategically: Though November and December are the busiest months of the year for shopping, January has a monopoly on returns. With many shoppers still utilizing “buy online, pick up in-store” (BOPIS) options, the number of people looking to return or exchange goods may be higher than you expect. If you need to make returns or exchange items during this period, you can stream38 ONYX MAGAZINE

line the process by reviewing return policies before heading to the store and arriving earlier in the day to avoid long lines or delays.

• Make Time: Retailers will continue to implement loss prevention and security measures to combat rising organized retail crime rates. This extends to essential items, such as toothpaste, deodorant and razors.

Factor extra time into shopping trips as you may need to wait for associate assistance to retrieve these items from locked display cases.

• Enjoy Peace of Mind: Preferred by many for shopping during the pandemic, options like BOPIS will continue to grow in popularity as consumers enjoy its convenience and speed. Use such options to your advantage to secure deals via apps or websites and enjoy the peace of mind that comes from knowing the items you need will be there when you arrive.

• Interact with Experiential Retail: Retailers are focused on enhancing in-store experiences in 2024, and that’s great news for shoppers.

You might take an in-store workshop at a tech store so you can make better use of your new device, or co-design your pair of sneakers with a brand to ensure your shoes are one-of-a-kind. Pay attention to local events and promotions at your favorite stores as brands find innovative ways to promote new products, partnerships and savings. For more shopping insights, visit sensormatic.com.

Whether shopping for fun or for the essentials, understanding the latest industry trends can help you make your 2024 consumer experiences more enjoyable and less stressful.

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IN THE NEW YEAR WITH THESE TIPS

BUSINESS

IS AIRBNB RIGHT FOR YOU?

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HOW THE POPULARITY OF CONCERT TOURS CREATES ECONOMIC OPPORTUNITIES FOR HOSTS.

his past summer was a season of major concert tours, driven by renowned pop stars and cultural icons like Bey and Queens Tay. From booming box office sales to sold-out arenas, 2023 summer concert tours inspired communities and boosted local economies across the globe.

For Airbnb hosts, the "shero" summer effect meant a boost in revenue. According to Airbnb, Hosts worldwide collectively generated $100 million over concert dates from Jan. 1 to June 30, 2023, including the day before each tour stop. Continuing concert tour trends could spell the perfect opportunity for Hosts to earn more in the coming year.

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GLOBAL ICONS AND THEIR LOCAL IMPACT Across Europe and the U.S., Bey and Queen Tay's concert tours ushered in hundreds of thousands of guest arrivals on the platform over the concert dates during the first half of this year. The megastars helped support local economies, and Airbnb Hosts experienced this boost firsthand.

Hosts in Europe earned more than $40 million and their U.S. counterparts earned over $62 million during the first half of this year. These earnings represent a 38% increase in collective Host earnings over concert dates from Jan. 1 to

June 30, 2023, compared to the same dates from Jan. 1 to June 30, 2022.

These economic trends are likely to continue into 2024. The upcoming European leg of one of these stars' tours prompted a remarkable surge in interest. Notably, there was a 1,000% spike in Airbnb searches based on the average increase in searches for concert tour cities from June 20 to June 26, 2023, compared with the week before the 2024 tour announcement.

HOSTING FANS, CREATING JOY AND INCREASING INCOME The shero summer doesn't just mark a return to big events. The droves of fans flocking to these events show that people are excited to come together as a community to share their passion for music. With people feeling increasingly isolated and disconnected, Hosts on Airbnb are focusing on providing distinctive guest experiences to facilitate human connections, one superstar event at a time.

If you're lucky enough to live in a Host city during the upcoming tour dates, there has never been a better time to join the growing community of Hosts on Airbnb. Based on the total earnings

for new Hosts globally in 2022 who started hosting sometime between January and December 2022, new Hosts collectively earned over $5.5 billion in income from hosting on Airbnb. Also, many new Hosts are having great success securing bookings quickly. Half of the listings activated and booked in the third quarter of 2022 globally received their first booking within three days.

Becoming an Airbnb Host has never been easier. The introduction of Airbnb Setup connects new Hosts with Superhosts who can provide oneon-one guidance. The integrated platform also helps new hosts welcome an experienced guest for their first booking and receive specialized support from Airbnb Community Support agents in over 42 languages.

All Hosts also get even more AirCover, which provides top-to-bottom protection, guest identity verification, reservation screening and $3 million damage protection. Protection includes coverage for cars, boats, art and valuables.

Are you ready to become part of the collective joy of live entertainment and increase your own financial well-being? Visit Airbnb.com/Host to learn more about how you can become a Host.

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R E A L E S TAT E

BUILD YOUR

CREDIT SCORE YOUR PAYMENT TRACK RECORD IMPACTS YOUR HOME LOAN AND MORTGAGE RATE.

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s the new year approaches, the idea of buying a home might be on your mind. It is an exciting goal to set, and it’s never too early to start laying the groundwork. One crucial step to prepare for homeownership is building a solid credit score.

Lenders review your credit to assess your ability to make payments on time, pay back debts, and more. It is also a factor that helps determine your mortgage rate. An article from CNBC explains: “When it comes to mortgages, a higher credit score can save you thousands of dollars in the long run. This is because your credit score directly impacts your mortgage rate, which determines the amount of interest you’ll pay over the life of the loan.”

This means your credit score may feel even more important to your homebuying plans right now since mortgage rates are a key factor in affordability, especially today.

According to the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, the median credit score in the U.S. for those taking out a mortgage is 770. But that doesn’t mean your credit score has to be perfect. An article from Business Insider explains generally how your FICO score range can make an impact: “. . . you don’t need a perfect credit score to buy a house. . . . Aiming to get your credit score in the ‘Good’ range (670 to 739) would be a great start towards qualifying for a mortgage. But if you’re wanting to qualify for the lowest rates, try to get your score within the ‘Very Good’ range (740 to 799).”

Working with a trusted lender is the best way to get more information on how your credit score could factor into your home loan and the mortgage rate. As FICO says: “While many lenders use credit scores like FICO Scores to help them make lending decisions, each lender has its own strategy, including the level of risk it finds acceptable.

There is no single “cutoff score” used by all lenders and there are many additional factors that lenders may use to determine your actual interest rates.”

If you’re looking for ways to improve your score, Experian highlights some things you may want to focus on: Your Payment History: Late payments can have a negative impact by dropping your score. Focus on making payments on time and paying any existing late charges quickly.

Your Debt Amount: (relative to your credit limits): When it comes to your available credit amount, the less you are using, the better. Focus on keeping this number as low as possible.

Credit Applications: If you are looking to buy something, do not apply for additional credit. When you apply for new credit, it could result in a hard inquiry on your credit that drops your score.

A lender will help you navigate the process from start to finish, from assessing which range your score falls in to telling you more about the specifics for each loan type.

Bottom Line As you set your sights on buying a home in the upcoming year, a focus on boosting your credit score could help you get a better mortgage rate when the time comes. If you want to learn more, connect with a trusted lender.

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WESTSIDE HOLIDAY GATHERING

t’s a holiday party for the entire community and the Westside does it better and better each year! At Christmas, communities in Orlando’s city districts 5 and 6 come together to celebrate the season. In December, about 150 residents gathered at Second Harvest Food Bank for a festive reunion with Christmas music, delicious food and, best of all, friends and family. The event celebrated the efforts of educators who live within the communities; and several leaders received Beacon of Light awards. Faye Coleman, West Lakes Partnership; Aaron Gipson, Lake Lorna Doone Neighborhood Association; Bryant Gipson, Lake Lorna Doone Neighborhood Asso-

ciation; Carla Moss-Johnson, Lake Mann Estates Neighborhood Association; April Richardson, Lift Orlando; Lakeisha Staten, West Lakes District; Martha Walker, Rock Lake HOA; Bishop Cornelius Williams, Lake Sunset Neighborhood Association; Loretha Williams, Bunche Manor/Hollando HOA; Viola Dozier, Westside Community Hero; Steve Hogan, Westside Community Hero The keynote speaker was Terry Prather, the chair of the Visit Orlando and Dr. Phillips Foundation boards. The residents thank the sponsors ONYX Magazine, City Commissioner Regina I. Hill of District 5, and West Lakes Neighborhood Association.

ONYX MAGAZINE’S WOMEN ON THE MOVE PARTNERS WITH BLOOMINGDALE’S

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NYX Magazine’s Women on the Move Dee Parker and Nancy Port Schwalb hosted “A Night with the Chairs” with nearly 40 women during an Hermes Master Class at Bloomingdale’s in Orlando, where they learned about the favorite perfumes of the line. The class was taught

by Danay Paradela, expert. The women received swag bags fully stocked with cosmetics and perfumes and shopped for some fun things of their own.

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BLACK BUSINESSES PARTNER WITH ONYX MAGAZINE AND BRIGHTLINE

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NYX Magazine, the premier publication that celebrates Black achievement throughout Florida and beyond, the Central Florida Urban League, Florida Economic Consortium, White Glove Transportation, and West Lakes District partnered with Brightline for a FAM trip to West Palm Beach. The goal was to introduce Orlando’s Black community, business leaders and influencers to Brightline’s services and learn about nearby businesses.

ONYX Publisher Rich Black said, “It is important that we be intentional about connecting communities and be part of this historic travel amenity, new to Central Florida. We applaud Brightline for providing this opportunity to the Black leaders and communities. It’s not just goodwill, it's great business as you educate future consumers about your product.”

Brightline’s blueprint for travel could revolutionize the way we get around in Florida. In September, the railway company introduced a new line that connects Orlando to Miami, with West Palm Beach along the path, and it is already reporting a rise in ridership. America’s only privately owned, multi-city railroad first launched in 2018 with service between Miami and West Palm Beach. According to a news release, the company anticipates accommodating approximately 4.3 million passengers annually between

South Florida and Orlando by 2025 and it expects to add Tampa in 2026.

Led by ONYX Magazine Publisher Rich Black, the 50 riders on this FAM trip left Brightline’s Orlando station at 8:50 a.m. Thursday.

Travelers visited West Palm Beach’s Mandel Public Library for lunch and a discussion with Ali Soule of Brightline and local businesses, including Joseph Sanches of the Black Chamber of Commerce of Palm Beach County, Charles West of Morgan Stanley, and Charlene Farmington of Spady Cultural Heritage Museum.

Also, District 5 Orlando City Commissioner Regina Hill, Enid Munfus of the Central Florida Urban League and Sherry Parramore, Ph.D., of Bethune-Cookman University attended and shared insights with the group. Before returning to Orlando, many in the group took a walking tour of The Square in downtown WPB.

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WORKPLACE

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SOFT SKILLS

hether you are looking to find a new job or perform better and move up in your current position, you’re going to need soft skills.

WHAT ARE SOFT SKILLS? “Soft skills” are personal habits or traits that influence how a person works and interacts with others in the workplace. Soft skills refer to: • Attitude • Leadership • Communication • Teamwork • Problem Solving • Adaptability • Creativity • Dependability • Critical Observation • Conflict Resolution • Emotional Intelligence • Interpersonal Skills • Time Management Soft skills are the opposite of “hard skills,” which refer to technical knowledge or training. Hard skills — such as website programming, Adobe expertise, bookkeeping, etc. — refer to specific and sometimes measurable abilities that have been gained through traditional means of experience and education.

Hard skills often refer to what you do at work whereas soft skills refer to how you work.

Hard skills show that you are capable of doing a job. Soft skills show that you are capable of doing a job well.

WHAT IS THE IMPORTANCE OF SOFT SKILLS? When seeking a new job or career change, many people focus heavily on hard skills. They work on gaining new technical experience or training, but soft skills are just as important as hard skills.

Whether you are trying to find a new job, change careers, or grow in your field, soft skills can help.

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SOFT SKILLS ARE IN DEMAND 93% of employers surveyed in a study conducted by Wonderlic said that soft skills were essential or very important when making hiring decisions. Employers see the value in soft skills and are actively seeking employees who have them.

To catch the attention of hiring managers, make your resume stand out by highlighting soft skills as well as hard skills.

hiring managers are willing to find great candidates that have a long list of soft skills and train them on the hard skills they need.

SOFT SKILLS CAN HELP YOU KEEP YOUR JOB. Soft skills can help job seekers land a job — and keep it. SHRP reports that 46% of new employees fail within 18 months and that 89% fail because of a lack of soft skills. A lack of soft skills is often the reason that employees fail to perform at work.

Technical skills can be taught. It’s the strong soft-skill foundation that can lead to lasting success.

HOW CAN YOU IMPROVE SOFT SKILLS?

SOFT SKILLS CAN HELP YOU STAND OUT. If you and another candidate have the exact same list of hard skills, hiring managers will make a decision based on factors outside of experience and training. In many cases, the deciding factor will be related to soft skills, and the hiring manager will hire the candidate with more soft skills.

SOFT SKILLS CAN HELP YOU MARKET YOURSELF IF YOU HAVE FEWER HARD SKILLS. Job seekers with a short list of hard skills may still be able to get the job by focusing on their soft skills. In LinkedIn’s Global Talent Trends 2019, 92% of talent professionals said soft skills matter as much or more than hard skills. Many

As the value of soft skills rises, it’s becoming more and more important to hone your interpersonal skills and personal habits.

• Focus on enhancing your soft skills to find more success in your job hunt and at work.

• Expand your knowledge and understanding of soft skills through reading and training.

• Reflect on past work experiences and how you could improve.

• Find a mentor to help you identify gaps in your soft skills.

• Observe others who have strong soft skills.

• Ask for and be open to feedback.

• Engage in activities that help you practice soft skills (such as simulations and trainings).

• Now that you know what soft skills are and how they can help you advance in the workplace, start improving them.

Get the skills employers want and need by contacting CareerSource Central Florida. We offer coaching, training, and workshops to help careers seekers get the in-demand skills and education they need to grow their careers. Learn more about our services and request an appointment today. Whether you are looking to find a new job or perform better and move up in your current position, you’re going to need soft skills.

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SCHOLARS

SCHOLARS PROGRAM EXPANDS TO FLORIDA

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NCF (United Negro College Fund) and Fidelity Investments today announced the Fidelity Scholars Program is expanding to Florida, New Jersey, New Mexico and Washington, DC, in addition to its current presence in Massachusetts, North Carolina and Texas.

In January, UNCF received its largest philanthropic corporate gift in its 78-year history from Fidelity Investments Fidelity donated $190 million to UNCF as part of its $250 million Invest in My Education (ME)℠ initiative. This new social impact initiative provides access to education, and ongoing support to students from underrepresented populations and historically underserved communities who have faced systemic barriers and challenges to economic mobility.

The Fidelity Scholars Program features annually renewable, need based, last-dollar scholarships with comprehensive wrap-around support services to eligible students.

In addition to scholarship dollars, Fidelity Scholars have access to a range of tools and resources to help them complete school and find good jobs. This includes Fidelity mentors, health and wellness support, financial education, college success coaches and more.

For this round of applications, which is open Oct. 16, 2023, through Jan. 11, 2024, students must be high school seniors or have a GED certificate and be in the process of preparing to enter a bachelor’s degree program for the first time at an accredited not-for-profit four-year col-

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lege or university including minority serving institutions (MSIs) and historically Black colleges and universities (HBCUs) within the state of their residence.

The Fidelity Scholars Program also welcomes students who are pursuing a two-year degree or a certificate program for the first time. The two-year degree and certificate application window will open in the spring of 2024.

Students in the inaugural class of Fidelity Scholars are now off to college. Two hundred students from Massachusetts, North Carolina and Texas, where the program was first offered, have taken their first steps toward a financially stable future. Sixty-five percent of these students are the first in their families to attend college. Learn more about the 2023 Class of Scholars here.

Today, the application process for the second year of the Fidelity Scholars program opens, giving more students the life-changing opportunity to earn a college degree with little or no debt.

Eligible students in the six states and Washington, DC, have from now until Jan. 11, 2024, to apply at UNCF.org/FidelityScholars.

By making higher education more accessible and affordable, the Fidelity Scholars Program has the potential to provide greater economic mobility and a pathway to generational wealth, improving long-term outcomes for students and their communities.

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NEW YEAR, NEW CAREER TIPS TO HELP YOU START A BUSINESS IN 2024.

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illions of new businesses are formed nationwide each year and women of color are leading the charge. The Wells Fargo Impact of Women-Owned Businesses Report found that Black women are one of the fastest-growing groups of entrepreneurs in the United States, representing 14.8% of all women-owned businesses, and Hispanic/Latina women represent 14.3% of all women-owned businesses.

Steve Hall, vice president of Economic Development and Small Business Lending for Local Initiatives Support Corporation (LISC), a nonprofit that connects under-invested people and places with hard-to-tap resources, shares these tips for ensuring your business will succeed in the new year and beyond: 1. Increase Financial Literacy. It’s important to have a solid working knowledge of credit, bookkeeping, projections, financial statements, reporting, and financing to help you make sound business decisions. Free educational resources like Hands on Banking can get you started.

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2. Be Passionate. Running a successful small business requires round-the-clock dedication, so be sure it’s something you enjoy and are passionate about.

3. “Run the Idea.” Speak with a business banker about your business plan, ways to fund your operations and how to establish credit. A strong relationship with a business banker can help set you up for success. They can guide you toward the right financial products for every stage of the business, identify potential barriers you may face, help you find capital and help you avoid predatory debt collectors. Likewise, a certified public accountant can advise you on what paperwork you need to file to start your business, how to structure your business and how to manage monthly financials and taxes. They can also help connect you with the right vendors.

4. Seek out Capital. Capital is the fuel to start and grow your business. More credit options can be the difference between survival and closure. In addition to traditional lending,

working with community development financial institutions and minority depository institutions can create an ecosystem of support that provides additional avenues to accessing capital. These institutions specifically work with underserved entrepreneurs, including those in low-to-moderate income areas and minority populations.

Thanks to new efforts, more small businesses have a shot at success. Through its Open for Business Fund, Wells Fargo is helping to create greater access to capital and resources. This industry-leading effort has donated roughly $420 million to nonprofits that serve small businesses. Since the fund was created, Wells Fargo has given grants directly to community development financial institutions and provided more than $50 million to nonprofits to support entrepreneurs with technical assistance. In the program’s third and final phase, the focus is on funding nonprofits to assist small businesses in growing equity in their business, with money going to strategies such as acquiring property and equipment as part of physical business improvements.

5. Solicit Trusted Advice. Check out LISC’s webinars, local networking events and online resource center. No matter what industry you’re in, SBA.gov and your local chamber of commerce can also be helpful. For guidance in accessing capital, lean on Business Development Organizations, which serve as trusted ambassadors to underinvested communities, guiding business owners in accessing loans and resources.

“It takes passion and grit to start and grow a business. It also takes planning, important financial decisions and a series of legal steps,” says Hall. “Fortunately, a range of resources exist to guide an entrepreneur through the logistics of turning their dream into a reality.”

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TACKLING

CHALLENGING BEHAVIORS

HOW PARENTS CAN ADDRESS INAPPROPRIATE LANGUAGE, SEPARATION ANXIETY AND ATTENTION-SEEKING BEHAVIORS.Ю

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f your little one has ever caught you off guard by dropping a verbal bomb or your young child struggles with separation anxiety, you’re certainly not alone.

It’s important for parents to recognize inappropriate language, separation anxiety and attention-seeking behaviors are all normal and expected parts of early childhood. Just as important is understanding their root causes and steps to take to curb these undesired behaviors.

To help parents looking to tackle these issues, Dr. Lauren (Starnes) Loquasto, senior vice president and chief academic officer at The Goddard School with locations in Florida, and Dr. Kyle Pruett, clinical professor of child psychiatry at Yale School of Medicine and member of The Goddard School’s Educational Advisory Board, provide this guidance and reassurance.

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INAPPROPRIATE LANGUAGE The use of foul or inappropriate language by children is typically learned by hearing adults in their lives use these words or by imitating language overheard on handheld devices or in television shows or movies. The best way to prevent this is to buffer exposure to such language.

If a child uses a curse word, pause before giving the cursing immediate attention so the word isn’t unintentionally reinforced. Next, ask the child how they are feeling or help the child label their emotion. For example, “I think you are angry and hurt because you hit your toe on the step.”

Suggest alternate language and label the word that was used as “not nice,” “bad” or “not OK.” Then ensure this is modeled by adults. If a child hears adults use the language again, they are likely to repeat it, too.

reaction to being left with a different caregiver.

While infants, toddlers and preschoolers have different developmental reasons for showing this behavior, handling it should be consistent across all early childhood ages. First, ensure drop-offs take place when the child is not overly hungry or tired. A well-rested and well-fed child is often less stressed and may transition easier.

Second, make drop-offs short and consistent. Create a simple routine such as giving the child a hug, telling him or her when you expect to be back then turning and leaving. Maintain the same routine and do not return to the classroom after dropping off, as this could make the separation anxiety worse and trigger a heightened emotional reaction. The more consistent and steadfast the drop-off routine, the quicker the separation anxiety will resolve.

SEPARATION ANXIETY

ATTENTION-SEEKING BEHAVIORS

As a normative developmental behavior that reflects a strong attachment to parents and caregivers, separation anxiety frequently manifests as clinging to a parent or caregiver when being dropped off at school or having an emotional

Children desire attention and some will seek it through any means available. This may include hurting others, throwing tantrums, overly dramatizing “injuries,” whining or showing blatant defiance in full visibility of parents or caregivers.

It is important that adults interpret the behavior as communication and understand the child is asking for attention for a reason. Evaluate if the child has an unmet need, such as hunger, tiredness or self-care. When possible, ignore the attention-seeking behavior and then seek opportunities to provide overt, strong attention for positive behaviors.

For example, after ignoring the child throwing blocks across the room, strongly emphasize positive behavior when they put away the toys neatly. Label emotions and ask how they are feeling. Discuss ways to show these feelings in more appropriate ways.

Also be consistent with consequences. If the child hurts another or causes a mess, explain the consequence in simple terms. For example, “We cannot break our crayons, even when we are angry. You broke your crayons so you cannot play with your art materials.”

To watch a “Parenting with Goddard” webinar recording featuring Loquasto and Pruett providing additional tips, and to access a wealth of actionable parenting insights, guidance and resources, visit GoddardSchool.com.

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MENTORSHIP

UNLOCK YOUR FULL POTENTIAL WITH A MENTOR

FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON TO HELP YOU NAVIGATE PROFESSIONAL WATERS MIGHT BE JUST WHAT YOU NEED.

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hile mentoring is becoming a more and more favored tool by organizations and individuals across the globe, a shocking number of people still have no idea what a mentor even is. Simply put, a mentor is a more skilled individual with knowledge in a certain area that you want to learn about. A mentor is there to offer help and direction to their mentee, while aiding them to achieve their dreams and goals.

Whether you want a promotion or want to learn new skills to help you stay competitive, mentoring is always a terrific option because you’re learning from someone who is not only invested in making sure you achieve success both personally and professionally but someone who has all the previous experience to make sure you're on the right track. A good mentor is there to support you in identifying strengths and weaknesses, while building a trusting relationship where you have someone to turn to when you need it.

1. MENTORS KEEP YOU ACCOUNTABLE Accountability is one of the fundamental aspects of a mentoring relationship, because not only does it help keep you motivated to achieve your goals but also keeps you on the right track. When you have a mentoring relationship, you should be having regular sessions with your mentor, to help you address your goals and continuously improve.

When someone holds you accountable for your personal self-development, then you will feel more engaged and motivated to make sure it’s a success. The mentoring relationship is driven by the mentee, who is responsible for taking control of their own learning. An example of this is the mentee setting a goal that they need to achieve within the next three months, the mentoring relation-

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ship means that the mentor and mentee can work together in this time frame, regularly reviewing the processes and making sure targets are being met.

2. MENTORS HELP YOU MAKE CONNECTIONS Mentoring isn’t just about learning. Networking plays a huge role in the mentoring process. One of the key benefits of having a mentor is their ability to help you make relationships with other professionals. The role of a good mentor is to help their mentee build a professional network, while teaching them the skills they need to effectively interact with others. With over 85% of positions filled through networking, it's no surprise that professionals are now prioritizing these skills and looking for new ways to build associations.

Over the years, your mentor has been able to build a significant network of professionals, from all different industries. It’s your mentor's role to help connect with others who may be of interest or can create possible opportunities in the future that will help your career advancement and development. For example, if you may be a student looking for graduate opportunities, your mentor may be able to connect you with someone who can help make this a possibility.

3. YOU’LL RECEIVE HONEST FEEDBACK FROM YOUR MENTOR Feedback is underrated but an essential part of professional and personal development, with an impressive 75% feeling that feedback is extremely valuable. When you enter a mentoring relationship, the goal is always to build a trusting relationship that allows you to obtain constructive feedback from your mentor. There's a reason why people say that feedback is a gift, because when you receive it, the possibilities are endless, allowing you to continually improve.

A good mentor will always supply their mentee with honest and constructive feedback, as a way to help support the growth and development of their mentee, instead of making them feel bad about themselves. A good mentor can identify strengths and weaknesses, and offer support and guidance on how you can better yourself going forward. An example of this is a mentor providing their mentee feedback on their CV to help them improve it to boost their odds of landing a dream role.

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4. MENTORING ALLOWS YOU TO GAIN NEW PERSPECTIVES Each conversation you have with someone new means you’re gaining a new perspective. When you speak to someone who has a dissimilar background, diverse experiences and fresh viewpoints, you get to learn from someone's personal experiences. Finding a mentor is a great way to gain new perspectives because they have been there and had the you develop the skills you need to be prosperA good mentor will always supply t-shirt. ous. When you have a mentor, you automatically their mentee with honest and Whether you find a mentor to help you learn and improve skills such as listening and constructive feedback, as a way on your career journey, or find one to help problem-solving, however, one of the key beneyou change your mindset, your mentor fits is the ability to help you develop new skills to to help support the growth and will be able to share practical advice and support your personal and professional developdevelopment of their mentee, insight that comes directly from their perment journey. instead of making them feel sonal journey. Your mentor knows exactly Whether you want to develop your leadwhat skills are needed to help you achieve ership skills or simply want to learn how to be bad about themselves. A good your goals and go further because they more engaging on social media, your mentor is mentor can identify strengths and have had to do it themselves to get where there to help you develop and grow your skill set. weaknesses, and offer support and Who better to learn from than someone who is they are.

A mentor allows you to learn from realalready an expert? An example of this could be guidance on how you can better life experiences, where they can share their connecting with a mentor who specializes in softyourself going forward. best tips and tricks for helping you overware that you need to learn to advance in your come any challenges you may face that career, you can work with your mentor to learn could potentially get in the way of your successes. For example, you may be how to do so to help you achieve your career goals. facing an issue in the workplace that your mentor has previously dealt with, they will be able to give you support on how you can combat these challenges 7. MENTORING LEADS TO IMPROVED WELL-BEING AND by providing you with insight into their own experiences.

MENTAL HEALTH Mentoring has been linked to improved mental health and well-being for the 5. MENTORS ACT AS A SOUNDING BOARD mentee. Studies have shown that mentoring is highly effective at improving Mentors are a great sounding board. When you have a mentor, you have some- things such as the self-confidence of the mentee, combating anxiety and one to bounce ideas off and discuss any issues you may be facing. The role of enhancing the overall satisfaction of the mentee within their career. That’s why the mentor is to provide unbiased advice and guidance, using their own expe- many believe this is one of the most important advantages of mentoring for rience, knowledge and wisdom to help come up with a suitable solution. No personal and professional development. matter the problem you face, your mentor is there to act as a listening ear, to With many professionals experiencing a mental health issue yearly, and the help you try and express your thoughts and feelings about specific situations, growing need for improved well-being, there's no shock that people are now while eventually providing you feedback on how you can handle the problems seeking out mentors to help them combat the burdens they face. From acting you encounter. as a sounding board to being there to offer advice in a time of need, mentoring Whether you have new ideas you want to share before taking them to your relationships time and time again have proven influential in helping individuals boss or just want to gain some honest feedback on a certain situation, the role feel happier. An example of this is a mentor and mentee connecting to work on of the mentor is to help you understand what steps you should be taking or if the self-confidence of the mentee, which will result in the mentee being more the idea just wouldn’t be appropriate. A great example of how a mentor can act engaged and confident in their abilities. When someone feels more confident, as a sounding board is a mentee reaching out to their mentor to seek advice on they can overcome barriers of self-doubt. how they should handle workplace conflict, with the mentor offering guidance based on personal experiences they may have faced in the bath, helping you FINAL THOUGHTS come up with a solution.

There you have it, a list of some of the incredible benefits associated with having a mentor. While this is just a short list of benefits, ultimately, the benefits of 6. FINDING A MENTOR CAN HELP YOU DEVELOP SKILLS mentoring are endless when you find an awesome mentor who adds value to Not only can mentors be highly useful for helping you identify what skills you your life. If you want to flourish in 2024, strongly consider finding a mentor to need to meet your objectives, but they are also particularly effective at helping help you accomplish your goals and become the best version of yourself.

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FLORIDA SCOPE

LEGISLATION FILED TO HELP FARMERS

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BISHOP T.D. JAKES PLANS AFFORDABLE HOUSING IN MIAMI

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everend T.D. Jakes Real Estate Ventures, has announced a partnership with Miami real estate developer New Urban Development, an affiliate of the Urban League of Miami. “We’re constructing hope and opportunity for those often left on the margins,” Reverend Jakes said of planned rental complexes in Miami Gardens and Hallandale Beach. “Our partnership is a testament to the power of purpose-driven real estate, reflecting a commitment to providing affordable housing that not only transforms physical landscapes but also revitalizes the very heart of South Florida communities.” – Miami Herald INTERNATIONAL BUYERS HELP FLORIDA REAL ESTATE One in five of all U.S. international home sales happen in Florida and, of those, one in two are in the Miami metro market. In 2023, $5.1 billion worth of homes were sold to international buyers in South Florida, according to a report

by Miami Realtors. The state as a whole brought in $12.6 billion in real estate transactions with foreign buyers, according to another report by Florida Realtors. – The Messenger AVERAGE LONG-TERM U.S. MORTGAGE RATE FALLS TO 6.67% Home loan financing costs eased again, bringing the average long-term U.S. mortgage rate down to a six-month low. The average rate on a 30-year mortgage dropped to 6.67% from 6.95% last week. The latest drop in rates is the eighth in as many weeks — the average rate is now back to where it was this summer. – Florida Realtors 52 ONYX MAGAZINE

lorida Commissioner of Agriculture Wilton Simpson, Senator Jay Collins, and Representative Danny Alvarez announced the filing of legislation to support Florida agriculture and Florida’s farmers, ranchers, and growers; expand options for customers to apply for and renew concealed weapon and other professional licenses; prohibit the manufacture or sale of “cultivated meat;” expand consumer protections and transparency across a number of regulated industries, and more. Commissioner Wilton Simpson said, “This legislation reflects our continued commitment to supporting and protecting Florida's farmers, ranchers, and growers, enhancing consumer protection and transparency, and building upon good governance. By supporting our future farmers’ 4-H and FFA activities, banning “cultivated meat,” and expanding safeguards for agricultural producers and consumers, we aim to promote a stronger, safer, and more prosperous Florida.”

The legislation introduces a number of proposals across the Florida Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services’ variety of duties and responsibilities, including but not limited to:

PROTECTING AGRICULTURAL PRODUCERS AND FLORIDA’S FOOD SUPPLY Protecting Florida's food and fiber production by providing criminal penalties for trespassing on commercial agricultural property with the intent to commit a crime.

Combatting saw palmetto berry theft by prohibiting the harvest, transport, processing, or purchase of saw palmetto berries without a valid permit and permission from landowners.

SUPPORTING FLORIDA’S FUTURE FARMERS Providing Florida school districts with the ability to approve 4-H and FFA related activities as excused absences.

INCREASING CUSTOMER CONVENIENCE Making it more convenient for Floridians to renew and replace a variety of professional licenses and concealed weapon licenses, if they choose to receive one.

SUPPORTING FLORIDA’S CONSUMERS Protecting Florida consumers by making it unlawful for any person to manufacture, sell or deliver, hold, or offer for sale “cultivated meat” for human consumption.

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PERSPECTIVE

THE CURIOUS JOY OF

BEING WRONG INTELLECTUAL HUMILITY MEANS BEING OPEN TO NEW INFORMATION AND WILLING TO CHANGE YOUR MIND. MAKE 2024 THE YEAR YOU CHANGE.

BY DARYL VAN TONGEREN

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ark Twain apocryphally said, “I’m in favor of progress; it’s change I don’t like.” This quote pithily underscores the human tendency to desire growth while also harboring strong resistance to the hard work that comes with it. I can certainly resonate with this sentiment.

I was raised in a conservative evangelical home.

Like many who grew up in a similar environment, I learned a set of religious beliefs that framed how I understood myself and the world around me. I was taught that God is loving and powerful, and God’s faithful followers are protected. I was taught that the world is fair and that God is good. The world seemed simple and predictable—and most of all, safe.

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These beliefs were shattered when my brother unexpectedly passed away when I was 27 years old.

His death at 34 with three young children shocked our family and community. In addition to reeling with grief, some of my deepest assumptions were challenged. Was God not good or not powerful?

Why didn’t God save my brother, who was a kind and loving father and husband? And how unfair, uncaring and random is the universe?

This deep loss started a period where I questioned all of my beliefs in light of the evidence of my own experiences. Over a considerable amount of time, and thanks to an exemplary therapist, I was able to revise my worldview in a way that felt authentic. I changed my mind, about a lot things. The process sure wasn’t pleasant. It took

more sleepless nights than I care to recall, but I was able to revise some of my core beliefs.

I didn’t realize it then, but this experience falls under what social science researchers call intellectual humility. And honestly, it is probably a large part of why, as a psychology professor, I am so interested in studying it. Intellectual humility has been gaining more attention, and it seems critically important for our cultural moment, when it’s more common to defend your position than change your mind.

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INTELLECTUALLY HUMBLE Intellectual humility is a particular kind of humility that has to do with beliefs, ideas or worldviews.

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PERSPECTIVE This is not only about religious beliefs; it can show up in political views, various social attitudes, areas of knowledge or expertise or any other strong convictions.

It has both internal- and external-facing dimensions.

Within yourself, intellectual humility involves awareness and ownership of the limitations and biases in what you know and how you know it. It requires a willingness to revise your views in light of strong evidence.

Interpersonally, it means keeping your ego in check so you can present your ideas in a modest and respectful manner. It calls for presenting your beliefs in ways that are not defensive and admitting when you’re wrong. It involves showing that you care more about learning and preserving relationships than about being “right” or demonstrating intellectual superiority.

Another way of thinking about humility, intellectual or otherwise, is being the right size in any given situation: not too big (which is arrogance), but also not too small (which is self-deprecation).

I know a fair amount about psychology, but not much about opera. When I’m in professional settings, I can embrace the expertise that I’ve earned over the years. But when visiting the opera house with more cultured friends, I should listen and ask more questions, rather than confidently assert my highly uninformed opinion.

Four main aspects of intellectual humility include being: • Open-minded, avoiding dogmatism and being willing to revise your beliefs.

• Curious, seeking new ideas, ways to expand and grow, and changing your mind to align with strong evidence.

• Realistic, owning and admitting your flaws and limitations, seeing the world as it is rather than as you wish it to be.

• Teachable, responding nondefensively and changing your behavior to align with new knowledge.

Intellectual humility is often hard work, especially when the stakes are high.

Starting with the admission that you, like everyone else, have cognitive biases and flaws that limit how much you know, intellectual humility might look like taking genuine interest in learning about your relative’s beliefs during a conversation at a family get-together, rather than waiting for them to finish so you can prove them wrong by sharing your—superior—opinion.

responsive to information. When you limit yourself to only doing things the way you’ve always done them, you miss out on countless opportunities for growth, expansion and novelty—things that strike you with awe, fill you with wonder and make life worth living.

Humility can unlock authenticity and personal development.

HUMILITY DOESN’T MEAN BEING A PUSHOVER It could look like considering the merits of an alternative viewpoint on a hot-button political issue and why respectable, intelligent people might disagree with you. When you approach these challenging discussions with curiosity and humility, they become opportunities to learn and grow.

WHY INTELLECTUAL HUMILITY IS AN ASSET Though I’ve been studying humility for years, I’ve not yet mastered it personally. It’s hard to swim against cultural norms that reward being right and punish mistakes. It takes constant work to develop, but psychological science has documented numerous benefits.

First, there are social, cultural and technological advances to consider. Any significant breakthrough in medicine, technology or culture has come from someone admitting they didn’t know something—and then passionately pursuing knowledge with curiosity and humility. Progress requires admitting what you don’t know and seeking to learn something new.

Relationships improve when people are intellectually humble. Research has found that intellectual humility is associated with greater tolerance toward people with whom you disagree.

For example, intellectually humble people are more accepting of people who hold differing religious and political views. A central part of it is an openness to new ideas, so folks are less defensive to potentially challenging perspectives. They’re more likely to forgive, which can help repair and maintain relationships.

Finally, humility helps facilitate personal growth. Being intellectually humble allows you to have a more accurate view of yourself.

When you can admit and take ownership of your limitations, you can seek help in areas where you have room to grow, and you’re more

Despite these benefits, sometimes humility gets a bad rap. People can have misconceptions about intellectual humility, so it’s important to dispel some myths.

Intellectual humility isn’t lacking conviction; you can believe something strongly until your mind is changed and you believe something else. It also isn’t being wishy-washy. You should have a high bar for what evidence you require to change your mind. It also doesn’t mean being self-deprecating or always agreeing with others. Remember, it’s being the right size, not too small.

Researchers are working hard to validate reliable ways to cultivate intellectual humility. I’m part of a team that is overseeing a set of projects designed to test different interventions to develop intellectual humility.

Some scholars are examining different ways to engage in discussions, and some are exploring the role of enhancing listening. Others are testing educational programs, and still others are looking at whether different kinds of feedback and exposure to diverse social networks might boost intellectual humility.

Prior work in this area suggests that humility can be cultivated, so we’re excited to see what emerges as the most promising avenues from this new endeavor.

There was one other thing that religion taught me that was slightly askew. I was told that too much learning could be ruinous; after all, you wouldn’t want to learn so much that you might lose your faith.

But in my experience, what I learned through loss may have salvaged a version of my faith that I can genuinely endorse and feels authentic to my experiences. The sooner we can open our minds and stop resisting change, the sooner we’ll find the freedom offered by humility.

Daryl Van Tongeren is an associate professor of Psychology at Hope College.

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ART OF BLACK MIAMI ART ON THE PLAZA: CHRIS FRIDAY’S NARCISSIST MUSEUM OF CONTEMPORARY ART, NORTH MIAMI Now - February 18, 2024 RECURRING DAILY All Day As part of MOCA’s Art on the Plaza series, artist Chris Friday's large-scale, free-standing metal figure Narcissist will be on view at MOCA's Plaza from Wednesday, November 29 through Sunday, February 18. Appearing to be captivated by its own reflection in the waters of the Museum's fountain, Narcissist symbolizes Black art that is concerned with itself; celebrating its own inherent beauty and essence, without exposing deeper emotions or meanings, especially when placed in a public contemporary art space.

JAMEA RICHMONDEDWARDS: ANCIENT FUTURE MUSEUM OF CONTEMPORARY ART, NORTH MIAMI Now - March 17, 2024 RECURRING WEEKLY ON SUNDAY, WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY, SATURDAY Wed: 12pm-7pm Thurs-Sun: 10am-5pm Delve into the world of Afro-futurism and Black mythologies through Jamea

Richmond-Edwards’ multidisciplinary exhibition Ancient Future. On display from Wednesday, October 25, 2023 through Sunday, March 17, 2024, the exhibition showcases Richmond-Edwards’ vibrant paintings, film explorations, and immersive installations. Richmond-Edwards transforms artistic norms with innovative techniques such as integrating soft sculpture into her paintings, creating imagined realms that merge with history, fantasy, and cultural commentary.

SILHOUETTES: IMAGE AND WORD IN THE HARLEM RENAISSANCE THE WOLFSONIAN–FIU Now - April 07, 2024 RECURRING DAILY From: 10:00 AM To 06:00 PM Friday 9:00 PM The flourishing of literary, visual, and musical arts between the 1920s and ‘40s known as the Harlem Renaissance projected a new picture of Black life to the world. Silhouettes considers the role of art in this movement, paying special attention to collaboration between artists and writers on illustrated books—works that reached a broad audience with stories and images that challenged

demeaning stereotypes and asserted African Americans’ capacity for selfdetermination. Silhouettes: Image and Word in the Harlem Renaissance is organized by The Wolfsonian– FIU and is curated by Christopher Norwood, founder of Hampton Art Lovers, in consultation with Shawn Christian, professor of English at Florida International University, and Wolfsonian staff.

We gratefully acknowledge Historical Design for a gift of books and photographs that inspired this exhibition, and we thank the lenders to the project: Beth Rudin DeWoody, Family of Aaron Douglas, Fisk University Galleries, the Archives at Florida Memorial University, the Norwood Collection and Hampton Art Lovers, Kenkeleba Gallery, and Norton Museum of Art. The exhibition is sponsored by Cowles Charitable Trust and Tamara L. Harris Foundation.

GARY SIMMONS: PUBLIC ENEMY PÉREZ ART MUSEUM MIAMI (PAMM) Now - April 28, 2024 RECURRING WEEKLY ON SUNDAY, MONDAY, TUESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY, SATURDAY

Thurs: 11:00 AM - 9:00 PM | Fri - Mon: 11:00 AM - 6:00 PM Explore the biggest and most comprehensive retrospective of work by renowned conceptual artist Gary Simmons at PAMM from December 5, 2023 through April 28, 2024.

Composed of approximately 70 works, Gary Simmons: Public Enemy covers thirty years of the artist's career.

Since the late 1980s, Simmons has created art works that examine race, class and gender identity as reflected in multiple aspects of American culture such as cinema, music, literature, sports and urbanism.

Drawing on popular genres such as hip-hop, cult horror flicks, science fiction and vintage cartoons, he's created an arresting body of work that includes large-scale paintings, sculptures and video, most of which will be on display at this timely exhibit.

Gary Simmons: Public Enemy is curated by René Morales, James W. Alsdorf Chief Curator, and Jadine Collingwood, Assistant Curator, with Jack Schneider, Curatorial Associate, of the Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago.

The exhibition will be accompanied by a major exhibition catalogue and slate of related programming.

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WISDOM FOR THE AGES ELDERS SHARE 10 THINGS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

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magine having the opportunity to access the wisdom of those who have lived a full life and have the perspective to see what actually made a real difference, and what did not.

That is the kind of insight you may gain by reading this.

Although we have rapidly developed technology, allowing new generations to be better than ever at staying informed, time seems to stand still when it comes to life choices. We are more or less the same people we have always been. We have the same basic needs we have always had: love, security, and happiness. Back in the day, people faced many of the same life choices as we do today.

So, how do our elders look back on the choices they made, and what are the most important lessons they want to pass on to younger people?

Karl Pillemer, a professor of Gerontology at Cornell University, interviewed nearly 1,500 individuals age 70 years and older for the book “30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans.” From his extensive interviews, Pillemer found 10 pieces of advice that the elders wanted to pass on to younger generations: 1. Invest in a career that gives you a sense of purpose — not just money.

2. Take care of your body today like you will live to 100 years old. A healthy body will give you a greater chance to enjoy old age without illness or chronic disease.

3. Say yes to new opportunities. You’re more likely to regret a ‘no’ than a ‘yes.’

4. Choose your life-partner carefully. Do not make any hasty decisions when it comes to deciding with whom to spend your life.

5. Prioritize traveling! Experiences create the best memories. Stuff is perishable.

6. Say it while you still can. Do not regret that you held something back when it’s too late to say it.

7. Do not waste any time. Live life like it is short–because it is.

8. Happiness isn’t something that occurs when conditions are more or less perfect in your life, you have to make a conscious choice to be happy.

9. Time spent worrying is wasted, so stop doing it!

10. If you want to get as much as possible out of life, focus on the little things. Find joy in the small moments and events that occur every day.

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ENVIRONMENT

Statewide Projects to Protect Water

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oday, Governor Ron DeSantis announced the award of $210 million through the Water Quality Improvement Grant Program for 27 statewide projects that will reduce harmful nutrients in Florida’s waterways. The awards include septic-to-sewer projects, wastewater treatment upgrades, stormwater projects, wastewater improvement projects and a regional agricultural project.

“It is important to protect and restore our waterways and to preserve the Florida way of life that has made us the Fishing and Boating Capital of the World,” said Governor Ron DeSantis.

“These awards will help keep our waterways clean for residents and visitors to enjoy.”

These grants assist communities across the state with funding projects to improve and restore impaired waterbodies. The selected projects will reduce total nitrogen loading by more than 1 million cumulative pounds per year, which will help to reduce harmful algal blooms.

“Governor DeSantis has made our state’s water quality a top priority,” said Department of Envi-

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ronmental Protection Secretary Shawn Hamilton.

“The state of Florida continues to provide communities with the means to tackle water quality improvement projects, with the goal of safeguarding and restoring our natural and water resources.”

On Dec. 5, 2023, Governor DeSantis announced his Focus on Florida’s Future budget proposal for Fiscal Year 2024-25, continuing the administration’s legacy of environmental protection. $1.1 billion is included to implement important projects that protect Florida’s water resources, including $135 million for the Water Quality Improvement Grant Program.

Since the former Wastewater Grant Program’s creation in 2020, the Department of Environmental Protection has awarded nearly $763 million for 135 projects to protect Florida’s water resources. Following the 2023 Legislative Session, Governor DeSantis signed House Bill 1379 which expanded the program to now include additional types of eligible projects – including upgrades and repairs to wastewater and stormwater infrastructure, septic-to-sewer conversions and projects to address agricultural nonpoint sources – as well as additional areas of the state that are now eligible for this program.

The commitment of recurring funding for water quality projects has allowed local governments to plan and proceed with important projects, knowing the state is a strong partner and committed to funding initiatives that protect the health and safety of Florida’s residents and visitors.

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WINE & FOOD

SPARKLING RED! SPARKLING RED WINES ARE A LITTLE-KNOWN VARIETY OF THE WINE WORLD, BUT THEY NOW APPEAR REGULARLY ON WINE LISTS. SO, IT COULD BE TIME TO BRING IN THE NEW YEAR WITH SOMETHING NEW! CONSIDER EXPANDING YOUR CELEBRATION PALATE FROM YOUR USUAL PROSECCO TO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. HERE ARE A FEW SPARKLING REDS TO TRY. CHEERS!

Brachetto d’Acqui is a lighter, sweet sparkling wine that goes great with dessert. It is also lower in ABV*, so go ahead and have that extra glass.

Sparkling Shiraz pairs well with meats and dishes with tang and spice, like BBQ.

HOW TO SERVE SPARKLING RED WINE Like with all sparkling wines, serve sparkling reds chilled. The key, however, is to serve it less cold so the flavor gets muted. Try putting it in the refrigerator for about 30 minutes to get it to the right temperature before serving. To spice up the ambiance, you can substitute sparkling reds in classic champagne cocktails.

*Alcohol by volume, or ABV, is the amount of ethanol in a volume of liquid, expressed as a percentage.

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Lambrusco is a low-alcohol, fruit-forward wine that is easy to drink. It is labeled a ‘breakfast wine’ for those who like a glass of red with their pancakes.

Sweet Lambrusco is a winner with desserts. Dry wines are great for pairing with heavier dinners like pizza or burgers.

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