50plus LIFE Dauphin County February 2019

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February 2019 • Vol. 21 No. 2

UKES ON THE RISE page 4

Vietnam Pilot Faces His Toughest Challenge page 6

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With Presidents President Wilson Day upon us, there let sheep graze on is an interest in the White House the ways that our lawn, along presidents relax with a tobaccoand enjoy family chewing ram time. named Old Ike. Eisenhower Not to played golf and be outdone, painted landscapes, President Calvin Reagan rode Coolidge horses, and Obama maintained a played basketball. mini-zoo at the But, many of our White House past presidents also with many Millie’s Book (Barbara Bush) enjoyed downtime breeds of dog and with a first family various canaries, Presidents Day: pet. geese, and Monday, Feb. 18 During the mockingbirds. first decades of Foreign the 1900s, the White House was full dignitaries brought exotic pets to of pets. President William McKinley the White House as gifts, such as a owned an exotic Mexican yellowwallaby, pigmy hippo, bear, and lion headed parrot. cubs.

President Teddy Roosevelt, a Rough The Roosevelts, the Coolidges, and Rider and big-game hunter who the Kennedys had a great many — decorated the State Dining Room nearly 25 — pets. with his taxidermy hunting trophies, Some of the most interesting brought pets to the White House. presidential pets at the White House The Roosevelts kept owls, lizards, since the middle of the 1900s followed roosters, badgers, guinea pigs, snakes, in the paw-steps of President Franklin raccoons, hyenas, ponies, and a macaw Delano Roosevelt’s faithful companion named Eli Yale at 1600 Pennsylvania named Fala, a black Scottish terrier.

Ave. Fala traveled with Roosevelt on trips William Taft brought the last cow, abroad and was often photographed the most common U.S. presidential by the press. He did tricks and pet at the time, to the White House. entertained the president, diplomats, and others during the period before and during World War II. Are you 62+ Fala resembled Miss Beazley, or Older? another Scottish terrier that arrived Welcome to at the White House in January 2005 your new home! during George W. Bush’s time in office. Miss Beazley was a birthday utilities included! present for first lady Laura Bush.

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In terms of animal vigor, Teddy Roosevelt’s pony Algonquin not only took a ride in a White House elevator, but also rivaled Caroline Kennedy’s pony named Macaroni, a gift from Vice President Lyndon B. Johnson. Macaroni was one of many pet gifts that the Kennedy children received during their father’s term.

In 1960, Premier Nikita Khrushchev of the Soviet Union gave Caroline Kennedy a 6-month-old white, mixed-breed dog named Pushinka (“Fluffy”), as noted on the dog’s Russian passport. Pushinka had gone into space on Sputnik 2.

The Clintons had a dog and a cat. President Obama had two large Portuguese water dogs, Bo and Sunny. In 2009, Bo was a gift from Sen. Ted Kennedy, who helped Obama keep a promise to his young daughters that if he won the 2008 election, they would get a puppy.

When it comes to pet names, President Johnson had two beagles whose names were hard to forget. The pair were national celebrities, the focus of press photos and magazine articles, lived in a newly redesigned doghouse, and had the run of the Johnson White House.

The beagles were named simply “Him” and “Her.” Happy Presidents Day! Dr. Lori Verderame is an author and award-winning TV personality who appears on History channel and Fox Business Network. With a Ph.D. from Penn State University and experience appraising 20,000 antiques every year from audiences nationwide, Dr. Lori presents antique appraisal events. Visit www.DrLoriV.com or call (888) 4311010.

A New Year’s Resolution for Fiscal Fitness Most New Year’s resolutions revolve around getting fit. Although that frequently means losing weight, one area you want to fatten up is your money supply.

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By Megan Joyce In America, the ukulele has struggled to attain a cachet of legitimacy since folk musician Tiny Tim employed the petite, stringed instrument to score his kitschy pop single, “Tiptoe through the Tulips,” more than 50 years ago.

Members of Ukulele Uprising!, a community ukulele orchestra based in Lancaster, love that the uke is a simple — but not simplistic — instrument, and know that much of its charm lies in its relative ease of play.

Dana Edsall, a retired postal employee from Washington Boro and integral member of UU!, first picked up a ukulele more than a decade ago while visiting Hawaii. He found the fingering to be similar to that of a traditional guitar, which Edsall had played — “albeit poorly,” he said — for a number of years.

“The uke is easy to learn,” Edsall said.

“It only has four strings, and these are generally made of nylon, which is easier on the fingers than guitar strings. That ease of playing and the sweetness of sound are what attract so many people.”

Fellow Lancastrian Steve Patterson founded Ukulele Uprising! in 2012, and since its inception, the group has grown from just four attendees at the group’s first weekly meeting to now more than 75, about 20 of whom are “regulars.”

UU! is open to anyone interested, and membership is free. Novices can learn on loaner ukuleles, funded through the group’s collaboration with Music for Everyone, a nonprofit charitable organization that raises awareness and resources to strengthen the role music plays in local schools and communities, according to its website (musicforeveryone. org).

UU! players’ skill levels range from complete beginner to intermediate; membership age also spans a wide range.

“Right now, our youngest regular is 14, and on any given week, at least a couple of Medicare-eligible players are there,” Edsall said. “We also have one family represented by three generations: a father, daughter, and granddaughter.”

The club’s weekly strum sessions feature a variety of musical genres, from folk, standards, and Hawaiian and Latin songs

Photo credit: Eric Max

Dana Edsall, right, with wife Sherry Getz at the 2017 Ukulele Harmonic Convergence.

Uke players of all ages and skill levels are welcome to attend the group’s Tuesday-evening practices in the lobby of VisionCorps in downtown Lancaster.

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Members of Ukulele Uprising! perform on stage during the 2018 Ukulele Harmonic Convergence held at Tellus360 in Lancaster.

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to Bob Dylan, the Grateful Dead, and the Beatles. as performances at Barnstormers games, the Ware “Rock ’n’ roll is well represented,” Edsall said.

Center, and the Red Rose Run. “We’ve added a ukulele version of Guns N’ Roses’ Summertime is usually busiest, when the demand ‘Sweet Child of Mine’ that’s really pretty. A couple of for luau-themed parties is higher. our members become ‘Axlettes’ in the chorus on that “Our favorite venue, though, is playing on the one.” street for one of MFE’s Music Fridays,” Edsall said.

Edsall said the group is eager to expand the “Those are vibrant evenings in downtown Lancaster, diversity of its members; Music for Everyone has with lots of people wandering around and lots of undertaken targeted outreach programs to connect energy in the air. We play for others those nights, but with the rich cultural diversity in Lancaster city. we play for ourselves, too.”

“Every new member brings their own tastes, The group will also be participating in its fourth expressed through song,” he said. “Expanding our annual Ukulele Harmonic Convergence on March cultural base would help us grow and improve as 2 from noon to 6 p.m. at Tellus360 in Lancaster. musicians and people.”

UU! co-hosts the event with Hummelstown’s Central Bringing authentic culture to Ukulele Uprising Pennsylvania Ukulele Club and the Philadelphia is Hawaiian native Mika Cox McDougall, now a Main Line Ukulele Group. longtime UU! member who adds hula dancing to “Everyone is welcome, it’s free, and you’ll hear over some of the group’s performances.

100 ukuleles from across Pennsylvania and nearby McDougall, now of Peach Bottom, moved to states playing together,” Edsall said.

Philadelphia in 1997 and then to Lancaster in 2002.

Ukulele Uprising! meets at 7:30 p.m. each Tuesday “When I moved … I was missing home, and going in the lobby of VisionCorps at 244 N. Queen St., back to hula dance and Hawaiian music really kind Lancaster. The group pays VisionCorps a lease of $1 Photo credit: Eric Max of helped me with my homesickness and made me per year and, in return, teaches ukulele classes to kids Native Hawaiian Mika Cox McDougall adds hula dancing to some of the feel more in touch with back home,” McDougall, a who are part of the VisionCorps community. group’s performances.

Hawaiian hula dance instructor and mother of two “You can’t help smiling when you play a ukulele,” daughters, said.

Edsall said. “Being around so many people, singing, Although the instrument originated on the playing, and smiling together is just wonderful.” islands, its appeal has extended beyond Hawaiian music, McDougall said, For more information on Ukulele Uprising!, email uke.rise@gmail.com, call with many millennials being drawn to the “bright, happy instrument.” Each (717) 872-7991, or visit sites.google.com/site/ukeuplanc or www.facebook.com/ year, McDougall teaches a master class on the ukulele at Franklin & Marshall ukuleleuprising.

College.

“Of course, [people] don’t take it seriously; they think it’s a toy,” she said of the ukulele. “But it has a really rich history to the islands, and it’s really changed Hawaiian music through the years.”

McDougall joined Ukulele Uprising! several years ago, bringing not only her cultural heritage, but also her musical chops to the burgeoning group of uke players. In addition to playing her six ukuleles of varying shapes and sizes, McDougall has played the violin since childhood.

“I’m able to easily play music [on the ukulele] without being such a trained musician like you kind of have to do on the violin,” she said. “It’s just more casual and inviting.”

A welcome side effect of the group’s visibility is the increased interest and “legitimization” of the ukulele in the local community.

Read it online, in print, and UU! contributes to a summer arts program run by the YWCA, and they on mobile/tablet devices. have “started getting requests for ukuleles in schools,” McDougall said. “Even onlinepub.com some of our members — a lot are elementary school music teachers — now teach the ukulele to their students.”

Ukulele Uprising!’s performance schedule is busy and includes regular gigs at parties, fundraisers, senior centers, retirement homes, and weddings, as well

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Soldier Stories

Robert Naeye

Vietnam Medevac Pilot Faces His Toughest Challenge

John Travers was once a larger-than-life character. This Vietnam War hero was a star basketball player, prolific prankster, and an outgoing husband and father who was admired by almost everybody who came in contact with him.

Yet today, this Harrisburg native is living in a California healthcare facility due to exposure to Agent Orange, a defoliant widely deployed

by American aircraft during the war. This toxic chemical has caused physical ailments and brain damage that limit his activities, speech, and quality of life.

Travers’s story is one of resilience and hope in the face of daunting odds. And it’s a story powerfully documented in the new film All Were Forgotten and Then Came John.

Travers was born in Harrisburg in 1948.

His father, John Sr., was a B-17 bomber pilot in World War II. “Big John,” as he was known to family and friends, later became a highly regarded sports writer and editor for Harrisburg’s

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John Travers holding a photo of a challenge coin created in his honor.

two major daily newspapers: The Patriot-News and The Evening News.

Big John’s love of sports filtered down to his son.

The father recommended that John Jr. focus all of his energy and attention on one sport. Travers decided on basketball. He chose well, leading an undersized Bishop McDevitt High School squad to the Pennsylvania state championship game in 1966, his senior year.

During his high school years, he befriended his fellow student Kathleen Torchia. Travers would frequently walk her home from school. They went to the senior prom together but lost touch after high school and would not see each other for 36 years.

Photo credit: Calvin Ligh “I had a huge crush on him; a lot of girls did,” After more than recalls Torchia.

30 years, Kathleen Penn State and Notre Dame offered Travers an Torchia and John athletic scholarship. He chose to stay close to home.

Travers reconnected at a high school reunion His parents had raised him as a strict Catholic and did not allow him to date in high school. That all changed committee meeting.

They married in 2005. when he got to State College.

“They turned me loose on a campus with 20,000

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females and all this alcohol and then expect that I was going to have some kind of bodily control,” Travers said years ago.

Travers neglected his classes and became academically ineligible after his freshman year. He and Penn State agreed to part ways. Shortly thereafter, Travers received a draft notice in the mail.

“I said to myself, ‘I’m not going to get drafted,’” he recalled. After speaking to an Army recruiter, he signed up to be an Army helicopter pilot.

Travers became a Dustoff pilot, flying medevac missions into active combat zones. Travers’s chopper frequently took hits from enemy fire. But he flew these incredibly dangerous missions 10 hours a day, six days a week.

He estimates that he evacuated more than 2,100 patients during the war.

Time was of the essence because 99 percent of wounded Americans who survived the first 24 hours after their injuries would live.

One of Travers’s fellow Dustoff pilots, Bernie Goldensweig, said of him, “John had a reputation as an excellent Dustoff pilot. He was very competent and fearless. Like all of us, he would accept any mission and would do whatever was necessary to help the wounded soldiers on the ground.”

“You’re talking about a real, true American hero,” adds retired Sgt. Joseph Novak Sr., president of Vietnam Veterans Association Chapter 542, to which Travers belongs.

Travers’s exemplary service did not end when he returned to Harrisburg.

During 1972’s Hurricane Agnes, Travers was based at Fort Indiantown Gap while serving in the National Guard. He flew helicopter missions to rescue people from their roofs. During one mission, he flew his chopper under a bridge to save people trapped in the Susquehanna River.

Travers returned to Penn State. This time, he earned a master’s degree in European history, graduating summa cum laude.

Travers had married and had a daughter before going off to war, but he received a “Dear John” letter while serving in Vietnam. He remarried and had another daughter after his return, but this marriage did not last, although he still maintains a very close relationship with his daughter.

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a high school reunion committee meeting. It was there that he laid eyes on Kathleen Torchia for the first time since 1966. She had returned to Harrisburg from California to stay with her father, who was living alone.

“I walked in the door and there was John Travers,” she recalls.

They talked for two hours. Torchia found him very interesting and intelligent and a man with strong moral values. The two became best friends.

Travers asked Torchia if she would consider dating him, but she was turned off by the smoking and drinking he used to cope with his war memories.

Eventually, he agreed to refrain from smoking and drinking in her presence.

After an 18-month courtship, they married in September 2005.

“We were so happy. We were best friends and we had a beautiful, beautiful marriage, and I just couldn’t have been happier,” says Torchia.

During this period, Travers was deeply active in veterans’ affairs.

He helped breathe new life into the struggling Harrisburg chapter of the Vietnam Veterans Association, tripling its membership and expanding its activities while serving as president.

“John Travers got the Vietnam vets in south-central Pennsylvania organized; he got them out of their shells. He got them to take pride in the service they had provided to the country. And he gave them a unified voice,” says former Harrisburg mayor Stephen R. Reed.

Travers also lobbied the Army and Congress on behalf of the hundreds of Dustoff crews who served valiantly in Vietnam but who were never awarded their own Combat Medical Badge.

Inexplicably, this campaign has yet to bear fruit.

Just six months after their wedding, Torchia started noticing that her husband was behaving abnormally.

Travers was at first reluctant to visit a doctor, but finally he received a diagnosis of a rare form of lymphoma — the result of exposure to Agent Orange in Vietnam.

“He had already seen so many of his comrades die from various cancers caused by Agent Orange. He thought now it was his turn. It was horrible,” says Torchia.

And this was just the start of Travers’s medical ordeals. His treatments for lymphoma were

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PILOT from page 7 successful and have kept him alive to the present day.

But around the same time, his speech began to slur, and then he had trouble walking. A neurologist diagnosed him with a form of brain degeneration, also triggered by Agent Orange. The brain damage would eventually affect his speech, emotions, and impulse control.

Travers was bedridden for two years and was prone to outbursts of screaming.

“The PTSD was just raging at this point,” recalls Torchia, referring to post-traumatic stress disorder.

Travers spent time in a Veterans

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Administration hospital in California, but his conditioned worsened due to neglect. His situation started to improve after Torchia transferred him to another hospital, where he received more attention and medication.

Torchia later took him to the Brain Treatment Center in Newport Beach, California. There, he received experimental stem cell and regenerative medicine treatments. Miraculously, Travers’s physical and mental condition has improved dramatically in the past few years thanks to these treatments.

During these 12 years of ordeal and anguish, Torchia has patiently stood by her husband, constantly searching for

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“Many others would not have had the courage, the stamina, the persistence, the devotion, the love to do such things. But Kathy has,” says Reed. “Frankly, John Travers would probably not be around today if Kathleen had not stayed by his side.”

In a recent email, Torchia wrote, “John is currently the best he has been mentally, since the onset of his illness.”

She says he is present, sharp, and able to carry on conversations despite impaired speech. She describes his demeanor and attitude as “pleasant,” and says he smiles and laughs more.

These medications and treatments

have given Travers and Torchia new hope.

“John is a fighter!” Torchia says.

“He has physical therapy three times a week, and he hopes and prays that he will walk again one day. I continue to encourage him in his hope of coming home and being a husband again.”

To learn more about Travers’s inspiring story and the documentary film All Were Forgotten and Then Came John, visit katalinafilmworks.com.

Robert Naeye is a freelance journalist living in Derry Township. He is the former editor-in-chief of Sky & Telescope magazine.

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Dear Pharmacist

Suzy Cohen

Can You Eat Dark Chocolate with a Milk Allergy?

Dark chocolate is a staple in my house. What are you supposed to do if you’re allergic to milk and want to eat dark chocolate?

It’s a good question.

Milk is actually allowed as an ingredient in “dark” chocolate, but sometimes it produces a harmful allergy in dairy-sensitive individuals. The reality is that most chocolates contain some milk, and it’s undisclosed.

The FDA actually tested 100 different brands of dark chocolate bars, and they specifically tested it for the presence of milk. Of these 100 bars, only six of them listed milk as an ingredient!

The other 88 bars did not disclose milk as an ingredient, yet 51 of them contained milk. Dairytainted chocolates are among the most frequently reported allergic reactions.

It’s unfortunate but true that milk can get into a dark-chocolate product even when it’s not directly added. The problem happens because dark chocolate is often produced on the same equipment that makes milk-chocolate bars, and traces of milk often inadvertently wind up in the dark-chocolate batter. It’s essentially a problem of cross-contamination.

My best suggestion to you is to completely avoid dark chocolate (if you’re allergic to milk or dairy) unless the brand you’re buying is made on equipment dedicated to dark-chocolate bars only. This is hard to find, but possible.

The food industry doesn’t mean to make people sick, but these oversights can lead to pain and suffering for some of you. As a result, you see warnings on the label that serve as a wink of sorts: This product “may contain dairy” or “may contain traces of milk,” or this one: “manufactured in a facility that uses milk.”

There are others, but if you’re my best friend, I would tell you to replace the word “may” with “probably”!

The take-home message is you should not assume that your dark chocolate is free of milk, and you should not consume it if you have serious allergic reactions to milk, regardless of the label.

Valentine’s Day: Thursday, Feb. 14

I have a checklist of 14 alias names for milkderived ingredients that may be hidden in your food. My list will help you find undisclosed milk in your candy bars and chocolates. Visit my website (suzycohen.com) for more information.

I’ll also tell you why some chocolate bars aren’t good for vegans. Here’s a fun fact: White chocolate doesn’t contain any cacao whatsoever.

It’s just a combination of cocoa butter, sugar, and milk, but it contains no cocoa solids, like dark and milk chocolate have. It’s definitely something to avoid if you’re dairy intolerant or allergic to milk.

In closing, when it comes to dark chocolate, the dairy-free claims and statements on the label are best completely disregarded if the manufacturer fails to use dedicated machinery and equipment to avoid cross-contamination.

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— Tours and Trips — How to Get Started Traveling Post-Retirement

By Joan K. Lacy Maybe you’re one of those people who worked hard all your life and didn’t take — or have! — the time to travel and see this wonderful world of ours.

And now, in retirement, you find yourself with lots of time and itching to travel, but you don’t know where to get started.

The good news is that travel is so easy today.

There are many, many options available now to suit whatever you envision for your next travel experience.

Whether you enjoy wine tasting or want to try bungee jumping, those options are available to you.

You can choose anything from local events to aroundthe-world cruises. You might want to experience whitewater rafting, hiking, spelunking — if you like exploring underground.

There is a world of adventure just waiting for you!

My early interest in travel and languages led me to take an opportunity to live and study in Europe for a year — best year ever! I loved meeting people in other countries and learning at least a few words of their languages.

I’m older now, and the love of traveling around our own United States and revisiting locations, friends, and acquaintances, both here and abroad, still holds its charm for me.

If you haven’t had the chance to experience the fun of travel until now, a whole new world of experiences is waiting for you! Here are five easy tips to keep in mind if you are a new traveler: 1. Take advantage of your scheduling flexibility and travel during nonpeak

periods. Costs are usually less for everything from flights and accommodations, to entrance fees and attractions. And, there are fewer crowds.

2. Use any discounts you qualify for. One of the perks of being a senior citizen is the wide range of travel discounts that are now available to you.

3. Go for longer visits.

Spend more time at your destination. Plan to see just one city, or one country, and experience it thoroughly. That’s the best way to soak in the local flavor.

4. Let someone else do the booking. Many travelers appreciate someone else making the arrangements, and group travel provides security for solo travelers or those not confident in planning all the details on their own. Group travel eliminates worries about finding transportation, missing an important site, or not speaking the language.

5. Day tours are your friend! If you prefer to go it alone and have any concerns about getting around or being able to visit popular sites, look for day tours with reliable companies, especially those offering frontof-the-line access or other methods for avoiding the crowds.

Seek out new experiences. Wherever you go, you will make new friends and create a storehouse of happy memories.

Travel and living abroad, coupled with Joan Lacy’s interests in archaeology, science, myths, and legends, inspired her to write the novel A Shadow Away, the first book in the Alex Cort Adventures series. For more information, visit joanklacy.com.

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— Tours and Trips — Top Considerations for Retirees Purchasing Travel Insurance There are several key points retirees should consider in regard to travel insurance before they hit the road in the coming year.

“While travel can be complicated at any age, retirees are faced with additional considerations, especially when it comes to medical coverage,” said Stan Sandberg, co-founder of TravelInsurance.com.

“There are not only ways to save on your next travel insurance policy, but also things to keep in mind to ensure you are taken care of under unforeseen circumstances.”

Here are five things retirees should consider when purchasing travel insurance: Medicare doesn’t provide coverage outside the United States. Healthcare received outside the U.S. is generally not covered under standard Medicare plans.

Travel insurance can provide emergency travel medical coverage with limits that can reach $250,000 per person or more.

For extreme situations where an overseas hospital can’t handle the emergency, most travel insurance plans offer emergency evacuation coverage with limits up to $1 million per person.

Retirees planning to travel overseas multiple times a year should consider purchasing Medicare supplement insurance or a Medigap plan.

However, since Medigap plans can have deductibles, lifetime coverage limits up to $50,000, and limits on the length of trip, most retiree travelers may find single-trip travel insurance a better option.

Purchase travel insurance early to qualify for a preexisting condition waiver. Most travel insurance plans will exclude coverage for losses that stem from a preexisting condition.

However, many plans offer a preexisting condition exclusion waiver (meaning preexisting conditions will be covered).

To qualify, one must meet certain requirements, the most important being to purchase the travel insurance plan within a strict time window — usually 7-21 days — from when the initial payment was made.

Also, travelers typically need to insure 100 percent of their prepaid and nonrefundable trip costs.

For travelers with preexisting conditions, this is one of the most important considerations in purchasing a plan, as prior injuries, illnesses, diseases, or other types of medical conditions in which any treatment or care was sought in the six- to 12-month period prior to the policy-effective date all fall into this category. www.50plusLifePA.com

If you’re traveling with a group, you can save money with group travel plans. Some group travel plans do not factor in traveler ages when pricing the cost of travel insurance, which can make plans more affordable to older travelers.

Typically, to qualify for this coverage, the group must include at least 10 individuals all traveling on the same itinerary on similar dates.

Group plans are also designed for easy administration by a group leader who can manage sign-ups and changes on behalf of each individual.

Travelers should speak to a licensed agent to see if they qualify for a preexisting condition waiver or read full coverage details prior to buying.

Trip cancellation provides greater flexibility for those who need it. Unlike Medigap coverage, travel insurance can offer trip cancellation and interruption coverage.

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2 Chanticleer in Spring and Lancaster County Greenhouses $99pp 6 Mansions of Fairmont Park $135pp 9 Flight 93, Fallingwater & Kentuck Knob $131pp 13-18 Charleston & Savannah $999pp Dble $1299pp Sngle 21 Blue Angels Experience $115pp

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15 Cape May a Day on Own $75pp 23-30 Great Gardens of the Midwest $1999pp Dble $2699pp Sngle 29 Annapolis – A Day On Own $65pp

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13 Fingerlakes Wine Fest $99pp 20 NYC a Day on Own $40pp 26-28 Garden Walk Buffalo’s 25th Anniversary $539pp Dble

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— Tours and Trips — 5 Tips to Keep in Mind before Booking Your Next Cruise

By Matthew Phillips Baby boomers make up a large portion of American cruisers; in fact, 30 percent of boomers indicate one or more of their international trips will be via a cruise ship, according to the 2019 Boomer Travel Trends report by AARP. This audience is looking for a variety of options, from river cruises through Europe to more traditional ships for family vacations and multigenerational travel.

Although planning your cruise may seem daunting, here are five tips to keep in mind before booking your next cruise, whether it’s with the entire family, a solo adventure, or your first time taking a cruise vacation.

1. Determine your cruise personality: Before planning any trip, I ask myself, “What am I looking to experience?” This question helps me to decide whether I want to travel through an Alaskan glacier or relax in a beach villa.

I always like to remind people who are thinking of cruising that there are now so many types of cruises. In addition to the large mega-ships that offer a plethora of options, there are smaller ships that go where the big ships cannot, both in the U.S. as well as the Caribbean and overseas, which provide incredible experiences.

Also, consider whether you want the abundance of options that the large ships offer or if you prefer a smaller, more intimate sailing experience. I encourage people to then think about their personal needs and wants to determine their cruise personality.

2. Decide where to set sail: For those looking for a warmer climate to escape the winter, my vote is for a cruise that stops at Grand Cayman Island, but there are plenty of nontraditional options as well.

If you’re looking to dive into history and explore different cultures overseas, I suggest river cruises in Europe or Asia. On cruises through Italy, guests will visit popular sites in Rome, such as the Colosseum; float through Venice; and experience several other famous Italian cities.

For any nature lover or adventure seeker, Alaska is the perfect destination and a popular option from May through September. On your way, you’ll be surrounded by whales; then, off the boat, you can break out your hiking boots and explore the glaciers.

3. Take advantage of savings: When booking your cruise, make sure to take advantage of all the cruise sales and savings available to you. From January through March, many cruise providers are offering limited-time deals, as this is a popular season for consumers to book cruises.

Many cruise lines offer onboard credits to be used for extras, such as shore excursions, spa visits, and bar service. Anywhere you can save in the planning process gives you extra pocket change for excursions and souvenirs!

4. Tips for first-time cruisers: I suggest finding a trusted travel agent, especially if it’s your first cruise experience, as this can save you from some major headaches.

Travel agents are full of knowledge and can help you navigate your best options for not only getting to and from your destination, but also for getting value by suggesting itinerary ideas that you may never have considered on your own.

5. For packing, start with the essentials: Sometimes the simplest items are the ones overlooked, such as a pen and paper or cash. I also find making lists incredibly useful to avoid forgetting essentials.

If possible, think through the clothing you’ll need during the day and evenings so you don’t overpack. Most standard cruise cabins don’t offer an abundance of storage space, and you’ll want to leave room in your luggage for anything purchased on shore excursions.

Once I have the essentials, I consider any helpful gadgets or apps. On trips to foreign countries, I find Google Translate to be my best friend. I highly suggest downloading it prior to your trip to be able to effortlessly navigate language barriers.

Other travel essentials for your cruise include sunglasses, travel-size toiletries, and insurance plans.

Following these tips will help simplify the planning process for your next cruise vacation and put your mind at ease so that, once on board, all you have to do is sit back, relax, and enjoy yourself. Happy sailing!

Matthew Phillips is the director of travel for AARP Services, Inc. AARP Member Benefits is a resource for AARP Members but is free for anyone to check out, with a variety of savings across many categories, including travel. Visit AARPBenefits.com for more information.

INSURANCE from page 11 costs due to a range of unexpected circumstances, from last-minute illnesses to severe weather and natural disasters.

For the most flexibility, travelers may consider purchasing a plan with a “cancel for any reason” (CFAR) upgrade, which provides reimbursement for up to 75 percent of the total trip costs for a cancellation for any reason, as long as the cancellation occurs more than 48 hours prior to the trip departure date.

This benefit is usually only available if the policy is purchased within seven to 21 days of the initial trip payment and 100 percent of prepaid and nonrefundable trip costs are insured.

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You can buy travel insurance for your activities, too. Just because travelers are retired doesn’t mean they aren’t adventurous.

For the active or adventure traveler, check out plans that offer hazardous or adventure sports coverage, which provide coverage for higher-risk activities, such as heli-skiing, off-trail snowboarding, bungee jumping, rock climbing, or SCUBA diving below a certain depth.

If travel entails any of those activities, travelers will need travel insurance plans that offer coverage for those specific activities.

For more information, visit TravelInsurance.com.

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Tech Talk

Mark Rinaudo

Internet Not Working?

Here’s How to Troubleshoot

Question: What steps should I take to troubleshoot when my internet isn’t working before calling my internet service provider?

We’ve all been there. At the most inopportune time when you need your internet to be working, it’s either completely off or it’s cutting in and out.

Internet access is another utility almost as important as electricity.

If you’re without it, you’re stuck disconnected from the outside world. As more internet service providers are offering other products to piggyback on your internet access, such as phone service, these outages are causing more of a disconnect for their customers.

There are a few simple steps you can perform at home that may help bring your service back without having to call your internet service provider.

If you find that your computer or smartphone is not connecting to the internet, the first step is to look at your modem/router. If this device is not lit up, that can definitely indicate a problem on your end.

Power cycling the modem, which means unplugging its power and then plugging it back in after 30 seconds, is usually the first step given by internet service providers’ support staff.

Service interruptions are commonly caused by work being performed in the area, and a simple power cycle of your modem can restore the service. The modem would eventually perform a reset after a certain amount of time, but manually power cycling the modem speeds up the process and restores your service sooner.

If you find that your modem is lit up, everything looks like normal, and a power cycle does not fix the issue, then you may have a problem somewhere else on your system. If you only have a computer that’s using your internet service, then you may have an issue with the computer itself.

The first step I usually recommend to customers when something is acting awry on a computer is to reboot it. The beauty of rebooting a computer is that it’s like starting over new and fresh, leaving behind whatever bugs have crept in and possibly caused the issue.

If after rebooting you still have no internet access, the next thing to check is whether you have connectivity to your modem. Your computer may be connected via wired connection or a wireless connection.

If your computer is connected via a wire, you can always trace from the modem back to your computer to ensure both ends of the cable are plugged in.

Sometimes hardware can lock up, and simply unplugging the cable and plugging it back in can reset the hardware. Find the place on your modem where the cable from your computer is plugged in. Unplug from there and then simply plug it back in.

Most modems have a set of status lights on the front that give a good indication of whether your service is up or if it’s experiencing an issue. If power cycling does not change the status lights on your modem, then it’s most likely an issue on your service provider’s end. www.50plusLifePA.com

All service providers have a way for their customers to check if any outages are occurring on their network by visiting their website.

This, however, does you no good when your internet is down.

But if you have a smartphone with a data plan, you can simply turn off your WiFi connection on your phone and then you’ll be able to use your carrier’s data network to visit your service provider’s website to see if they are indeed having trouble.

With a little troubleshooting, it’s quite possible that you can restore your internet service on your own when you need it the most.

Mark Rinaudo has worked in IT in Shreveport, La., for more than 20 years. He is the owner and operator of Preferred Data Solutions. Email mark@preferreddatasolutions. com to submit a question for this column.

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Tinseltown Talks

Living with Rodney Dangerfield Nick Thomas

The Christmas season may be over, but last Despite their clearly different backgrounds — December held special significance for Joan Joan was raised in a Utah Mormon family — the Dangerfield, who married comedian Rodney two hit it off immediately.

Dangerfield 25 years ago on Dec. 26.

“I felt like the luckiest person in the world,” The pair had dated for 10 years following a she said. “To have your own personal comedian chance meeting in 1983 when Dangerfield strolled constantly surprising you, I couldn’t wait to wake passed Joan’s Santa Monica flower shop. up each day.”

“Being a diehard fan, I recognized Rodney Joan remembers Dangerfield working hard at his immediately,” Joan recalled from her West craft, writing his own standup material and often Hollywood home. taking months to perfect a joke. He would dash off “I was 16 when I first saw him on The Tonight to local comedy clubs in the evenings, sometimes Show, and suddenly there he was, 14 years later, two or three a night, to try out a new joke and walking towards me, the funniest man in the experiment with its delivery and placement within a world. routine.

“For me, it was love at first sight, the holy grail Although Dangerfield experienced an unhappy of encounters. He was fascinating and had those childhood, Joan says he used humor to tackle Photo provided by Aaron Stipkovich at Stipko.com. soulful, azure-blue eyes, the color of the sky on a depression.

Rodney and Joan Dangerfield. clear day. I couldn’t look at him without smiling.”

“If you can lift everyone’s spirits around you, you The bug-eyed, tie-fidgeting comedian who can feel a bit better too.” cracked up audiences for decades with his often self-deprecating, “no respect” Toward the end of their two-decade marriage, Dangerfield’s physical health style of rapid-fire one-liners began dropping by each morning to watch Joan declined, requiring multiple aneurysm, brain, and heart surgeries and long arrange flowers. periods of recovery with Joan by his side throughout.

“He joked that, at his age, all the phone numbers in his little black book were doctors,” she said. “It was certainly true and brought out my nurturing The April issue of 50plus LIFE will include side. I did everything I could to comfort him.” a special focus on foot health in recognition of Dangerfield died in 2004, aged 82, and Joan has since worked to keep her husband’s memory alive. His website (rodney.com) has been revamped, and the Rodney Dangerfield Institute for the Study of Comedy is now housed at Los Angeles City College and offers classes including standup, improvisational comedy, and joke writing.

“Rodney’s social media presence is building, and it’s fun to see the reaction from his loyal fans as well as new ones,” she says. “I am also very excited that Many adults don’t give Paradigm Talent Agency is currently fielding offers for a biopic or documentary their feet the attention film about Rodney’s remarkable life. I am sure that will deepen his impression on the world.” they deserve!

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It Was 50 Years Ago Today

‘Proud Mary’ Randal Hill

Creedence Clearwater Revival lead singer John Fogerty once recalled seeing a Will Rogers movie about old-time paddle-wheelers.

“I believe at one point they actually sing ‘Rolling on the river,’” Fogerty says. “I know that buried deep inside of me are all these little bits and pieces of Americana. It’s deep in my heart, deep in my soul. As I learned in English 101, write about what you know.”

Fogerty stayed behind that day and overdubbed all the background vocal parts himself after the other members had left the studio.

A longtime fan of black music, he sought a more authentic feel and claimed to channel rhythm-and-blues icons Wilson Pickett and Howlin’ Wolf for the rerecording. It was Wolf’s bluesy influence that led Fogerty to pronounce turnin’ as toinin’ and burnin’ as boinin’.

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Starting in the late 1960s, Fogerty’s band “Proud Mary” — a Billboard No. 2 chart brought images of rural America to the world hit — came from CCR’s second album, Bayou with a unique musical style dubbed “swamp Country, a million-seller that fed the music-fromrock,” which featured Southern country music, the-South rumor even more.

“Proud Mary” gritty blues, and a heavy, danceable beat.

For Ike and Tina Turner, their sizzling 1971 Creedence Clearwater Revival CCR hailed from California, and none of its remake became a million-seller — and their February 1969 members had ever been to the South before fame biggest single ever. came their way. The Bay Area quartet had started Randal C. Hill is a rock ’n’ roll historian who lives at the Oregon coast. He may be as the Blue Velvets and then became the Golliwogs before military obligations reached at wryterhill@msn.com. caused a temporary breakup.

When the band members came together again, they gleaned a new name from three sources: Creedence from mutual pal Credence Newball, Clearwater from a TV beer commercial that promoted the brew as coming “from the land advertisement of sky-blue waters,” and Revival for the band members’ commitment to their reformation.

The group’s debut album — Creedence Clearwater Revival — featured the minor swamp-rock hit “Susie-Q,” a tune first recorded by Louisianan Dale Hawkins in 1957.

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Fogerty had a small notebook in which he scribbled song-title ideas.

“My first entry was ‘Proud Mary,’” he says. “I didn’t know what those two words meant, but I liked how they sounded together.”

Fogerty took his guitar and began playing a song introduction he had been working on, the chord riff based on the opening to Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony.

“I didn’t like how Beethoven had composed it. I preferred hitting the first chord hard for emphasis, not the fourth … When I added rhythm to the chords, the song had the motion of a boat. I had always loved Mark Twain’s writing and the music of Stephen Foster, so I wrote lyrics about a riverboat …

“I finished most of the song in two hours. Then I opened my notebook for a song title. There was ‘Proud Mary.’”

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Calendar of Events

Support Groups Free and open to the public Tuesdays, noon Al-Anon Family Group at Work Meeting Penn State Hershey Medical Center Seventh Floor, Room C7521 500 University Drive, Hershey (717) 448-7881 Other meeting times/locations at www.pa-al-anon.org Wednesdays, 6 p.m.

Swatara Serenity Al-Anon Family Group Meeting Unitarian Church of Harrisburg 1280 Clover Lane, Harrisburg (717) 448-7881 Other meeting times/locations at www.pa-al-anon.org Wednesdays, 7:30 p.m.

Adult Children of Alcoholics Support Group St. Mark’s Lutheran Church 2200 Londonderry Road, Harrisburg (717) 526-9252 ymt57@comcast.net Feb. 1, 10:30 a.m.

Parkinson’s Disease Support Group Helen M. Simpson Rehabilitation Hospital – Second Floor Pinnacle Conference Room 2 4300 Londonderry Road, Harrisburg (717) 216-2730 elcassel@simpson-rehab.com

Feb. 6 and 20, 7-8:30 p.m.

ANAD Eating Disorders Support Group PinnacleHealth Polyclinic Landis Building, Sixth Floor Classroom 1 2501 N. Third St., Harrisburg (717) 712-9535 Feb. 7, 7-8 p.m.

Fibromyalgia Support Group LeVan Chiropractic 1000 Briarsdale Road, Suite C Harrisburg (717) 558-3500 Feb. 12, 6-7 p.m.

Alzheimer’s Caregivers Support Group Greenfield Senior Living at Graysonview 150 Kempton Ave., Harrisburg (717) 561-8010 Feb. 13, 6-7 p.m.

Alzheimer’s Support Group Brookdale Harrisburg 3560 N. Progress Ave., Harrisburg (717) 671-4700 Feb. 18, 6:30 p.m.

Support Group for Families of Those with Memory-Related Illnesses Frey Village 1020 N. Union St., Middletown (717) 930-1218

Senior Center Activities Feb. 19, 6-8 p.m.

Harrisburg Area Parkinson’s Disease Caregiver Support Group Giant Food Stores – Second Floor 2300 Linglestown Road, Harrisburg (717) 580-7772 Feb. 20, 2-4 p.m.

Parkinson’s Support Group The Residence of the Jewish Home Second Floor Library 4004 Linglestown Road, Harrisburg (717) 697-2513 Feb. 21, 6 p.m.

Alzheimer’s Support Group Country Meadows of Hershey Second Floor Training Room 451 Sand Hill Road, Hershey (717) 533-6996 astoner@countrymeadows.com Feb. 27, 7-8 p.m.

Connections Support Group: Families of Memory Impaired Ecumenical Retirement Community Building 3, Second Floor 3525 Canby St., Harrisburg (717) 561-2590

Feb. 7, 7 p.m.

Central Pennsylvania World War II Roundtable Meeting Grace United Methodist Church 433 E. Main St., Hummelstown (717) 503-2862 charlie.centralpaww2rt@gmail.com www.centralpaww2roundtable.org Feb. 14, 7:30 p.m.

Central Pennsylvania Vietnam Roundtable Meeting Vietnam Veterans of America, Michael Novosel MOH Chapter 542 8000 Derry St., Harrisburg (717) 545-2336 centralpavietnamrt@verizon.net www.centralpavietnamroundtable.org

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Susquehanna Rovers Volksmarch Walking Club Bass Pro Shop – Hunt Room

Harrisburg Mall 3501 Paxton St., Harrisburg (717) 805-9540 Feb. 27, 7 p.m.

Piecemakers Quilt Guild of Middletown St. Peter’s Lutheran Church Spring and Union streets Middletown (717) 915-5555 gsk1308@gmail.com

PARKS & RECREATION Feb. 16, 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. – The Great Backyard Bird Count, Wildwood Park Feb. 24, 1-3 p.m. – Winter Tree ID, Wildwood Park Feb. 26, 7-8:30 p.m. – Winter Lecture Series: Wellness in Your Woods, Wildwood Park If you have an event you would like to include, please email information to mjoyce@onlinepub.com for consideration.

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Library Programs East Shore Area Library, 4501 Ethel St., Harrisburg, (717) 652-9380 Feb. 8, 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. – Basic Email I Feb. 8, 7-8 p.m. – A fter Hours Concert: The Dreadnought Brigade Elizabethville Area Library, 80 N. Market St., Elizabethville, (717) 362-9825 Tuesdays through April 7, 10:30 a .m. to 2 p.m. – AARP Tax Help Feb. 28, 6-8 p.m. – Knit 1, Crochet Too! Hershey Public Library, 701 Cocoa Ave., Hershey, (717) 533-6555

Kline Library, 530 S. 29th St., Harrisburg, (717) 2343934 Feb. 9, 1-2 p.m. – Essential Oils 101 Feb. 20, 1-2:30 p.m. – Resume Writing Series

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Feb. 22, 6:30-9:30 p.m.

20th Annual Chili Cook-Off and Square Dance Derry Seniors Derry Presbyterian Church 248 E. Derry Road, Hershey (717) 533-9667 www.derrypres.org

Rutherford House – (717) 564-5682 www.rutherfordcenter.org Weekdays, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. – Billiards (Open to Members) Mondays and Fridays, 11 a.m. – Chair Yoga Wednesdays, 9 a.m. to noon – Computer Assistance

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Friendship Senior Center – (717) 657-1547 Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, 8-9 a.m . – Light Aerobics Wednesdays, 12:30 p.m. – Mah Jong

Madeline L. Olewine Memorial Library, 2410 N. Third St., Harrisburg, (717) 232-7286 Feb. 12 and 26, 1-2:30 p.m. – Job Seekers Resources Feb. 25, 6-7 p.m. – Cookbook Book Club: Soul Food McCormick Riverfront Library, 101 Walnut St., Harrisburg, (717) 234-4976 Wednesdays in February, 11:30 a .m.–1:30 p.m. – Midday Getaway Feb. 15, 6-8 p.m. – Farmhouse Chic Art Middletown Public Library, 20 N. Catherine St., Middletown, (717) 944-6412 Feb. 7, 6-7 p.m. – Book Club Feb. 5, 19, 26, 6-7 p.m. – Evening Family Yoga Feb. 18, 6-7 p.m. – Mystery Book Club Northern Dauphin Library, 683 Main St., Lykens, (717) 453-9315 Feb. 20, 6-7:30 p.m. – Basic Email II William H. & Marion C. Alexander Family Library, 200 W. Second St., Hummelstown, (717) 566-0949 Feb. 7, 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. – eReader Resources Feb. 19, 1-3 p.m. – Novel Thoughts Too Book Club

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Savvy Senior

Jim Miller

Can You Deduct Medicare Costs on Your Income Taxes?

Dear Savvy Senior, Can I deduct my Medicare premiums, deductibles, and copayments on my income taxes? I had a knee replacement surgery last year and spent quite a bit on medical care out of pocket and would like to know what I can write off.

– Frugal Dave

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit www.savvysenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of The Savvy Senior book.

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Dear Dave, The short answer is yes, you can deduct your Medicare costs, but only if you meet certain conditions required by the IRS. Here’s how it works.

As a taxpayer, you’re allowed to deduct many medical and dental expenses as well as your Medicare out-of-pocket costs. But you can deduct only those expenses that exceed 7.5 percent of your 2018 adjusted gross income (AGI), and you’ll also need to itemize your deductions.

Next year (2019 tax season), the threshold will rise to 10 percent.

Here’s an example. Let’s say that your AGI in 2018 was $50,000. Of that, 7.5 percent is $3,750. If your total allowable medical expenses last year were $8,000, you’d be able to deduct $4,250 ($8,000 minus $3,750).

But, if your medical expenses were less than $3,750, you couldn’t claim any as a deduction.

You also need to understand that when taking a medical expense deduction, you don’t actually get back every dollar you claim.

While a tax credit reduces your taxes dollar-for-dollar, tax deductions simply reduce your taxable income, and your savings ultimately depend on the effective rate at which you’re taxed.

So, for example, if you qualify for a $4,250 deduction and your effective tax rate is 22 percent, you would get $935 in savings from that particular deduction.

To get this deduction you will need to file an itemized Schedule A (1040) tax return. You cannot claim medical expenses on Form 1040A or Form 1040EZ.

Allowable Medical Expenses The list of allowable medical expenses, as defined by the IRS, is long and fairly flexible.

As a Medicare beneficiary, you can deduct your monthly premiums for Part B, Part C (Medicare Advantage plans), Part D drug plans, and any supplemental (Medigap) insurance you have.

If you have to pay a premium for Part A, that’s allowed too. You can also deduct the cost of all your deductibles, coinsurance, and copayments under Medicare.

In addition, you’re also allowed to deduct the cost of medical services not covered by Medicare, including dental treatment, vision care, prescription eyeglasses, hearing aids, and even long-term care.

They also allow transportation to and from medical treatment to count as an eligible medical expense. And if necessary, you may even be able to deduct home alterations and equipment — such as entrance ramps, grab bars, stair lifts, etc. — that can help you age in place.

Some things, however, you cannot deduct, such as vitamins and supplements, unless recommended by a physician to treat a specific medical condition.

You are also unable to deduct Medicare late penalties added to Part B or Part D premiums. Medicare beneficiaries who fail to sign up during their initial enrollment period are typically hit with a penalty that gets added to their monthly premiums, but these additional costs won’t count for tax purposes.

For more information, including a detailed rundown of allowable and unallowable medical expenses, see IRS Publication 502 Medical and Dental Expenses at irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p502.pdf or call the IRS at (800) 829-3676 and ask them to mail you a copy.

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On Life and Love after 50

Senior Dating Guilt: Let It Go

Reach Active, Affluent Boomers & Seniors!

Tom Blake

It surprises me how many seniors contact me regarding their guilt over dating. Take Donna, for example.

A widow since 2011, Donna emailed, “My friend passed away from cancer two years ago. Her ex-husband is the man I am writing to ask you about. We live in two different eastern states, not too far from each other. We are both in our early 60s, and at the end of 2018, we retired.

“I didn’t know him at all. I have seen him three times in the past 30 years for about 10 minutes just to say hi.

My friend said she and he never got along during 25 years of marriage.

“My friend — rest her soul — was very opinionated, controlling, and bossy with her husband and the children, which I witnessed one of the three times I saw him. ​It got to a point that when my friend and I talked over the phone, we never talked about him.

“We talked three times​a year, but I was the one who would call, until​that one day she called me to tell me she had cancer. By this time, she and he had been separated 10 years.​Now she is gone … their​children are grown and on their own and are not close to him, because of her.

“He and I have been talking over the phone for two years. We have become​good friends and have a lot in common​. I would like to see him, but I have the guilt​that he was my friend’s​husband hanging​over my head.

“Now, we are just friends. ​But what I am feeling ​guilty​​about is: If we do start​seeing each other, how would his www.50plusLifePA.com

grown children feel about us being​ together?

“His marriage and family life were​ calmly dysfunctional​, if you can picture that. We are both reluctant, but I know we will see each other soon. We are not getting any younger.

“We are both​healthy​​and able to still have fun before we die​, so why not? But the guilt?”

My response to Donna: Your friend had been separated for 10 years. She had a miserable marriage. Why worry about his children?

You say he is not close to them. They probably won’t care if you two start dating.

If you enjoy each other, go for it, now!

Live in the present.

Have you been together in person at all? Do that. You might find you want to be together or you may find you don’t.

You and your friend weren’t that close, talking to each other only three times a year.

One concern: If the family is dysfunctional, do you want to get involved in that?

For people age 60 and older, it’s hard enough to meet potential mates.

You’ve met a man you have much in common with.

Ditch the guilt. Wait no longer.

Get together in person and see what happens.

For dating information, previous articles, or to sign up for Tom’s complimentary, weekly e-newsletter, go to www.

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