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New Centenarian Featured on Area Billboard Strong bonds with family and friends are a common theme in Sara Slothower’s life. Loving and supportive parents shaped her childhood and brought her to Harrisburg, where she met her husband and raised her family.

Friendships formed through her volunteer work ultimately brought her to Homeland Center, a continuing care retirement community in Harrisburg, where she has lived for the past three years.

In October, Slothower celebrated her 100th birthday.

Slothower grew up in Brownsville, Pennsylvania, a small town close to Pittsburgh.

She was the eldest of four children and fondly remembers attending a small country school and playing baseball in her youth.

“I had wonderful parents,” Slothower recalls.

“We loved swimming and having picnics in the summer.”

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Clockwise, from top left, Sara Slothower taking a look at the billboard featuring Slothower and Homeland Center CEO Barry Ramper; Slothower, far right, with daughter Janet, left, and son Tom; and Sara and Wilber Slothower.

to adjust until I met my husband, Wilbur.”

After marrying, the Slothowers moved to Paxton Street in Harrisburg, where they raised their children, Janet, Tom, and Richard.

Like her childhood, Slothower loved summers with her husband and children. The family owned a cottage in Stoney Creek, Pennsylvania,

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Earlier Conversations about Alzheimer’s Warning Signs Needed November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month, and the Alzheimer’s Association, together with advocates in the early stages of the disease, are encouraging families to talk about memory and cognition concerns sooner.

These advocates know firsthand that an early diagnosis offers many benefits, including access to more effective medical and lifestyle interventions and the ability to take an active role in planning with family members for the future.

“Denial and rationalization are common responses to the early signs and symptoms of Alzheimer’s — it was a part of my experience,” said Darrell Foss, a member of the Alzheimer’s Association’s Early-Stage Advisory Group, which is composed of people in the early stages of Alzheimer’s disease.

“Too often, people experiencing symptoms, or family members seeing them, wait to speak up, even when they know something is wrong. It can be scary, but that is why I’m sharing my personal experience — to illustrate why talking about Alzheimer’s concerns early is so important,” Foss said.

“Unfortunately, people often avoid conversations due to denial, fear, anxiety, lack of awareness, and difficulty having hard conversations about health issues, particularly with Alzheimer’s or other dementias due to stigma and perceptions associated with the disease,” said Ruth Drew, director of Family and Information Services for the Alzheimer’s Association.

New findings from an Alzheimer’s Association survey found a majority of Americans would be concerned about offending a family member (76 percent), or ruining their relationship (69 percent), if they were to approach that person about observed signs of Alzheimer’s.

More alarming, 38 percent said they would wait until a family member’s Alzheimer’s symptoms worsened before approaching them with concerns.

Additionally, nearly 1 in 3 Americans (29 percent) would not say anything to a family member despite their concerns.

To help families overcome common communication obstacles, the Alzheimer’s Association is offering Six Tips for Approaching Alzheimer’s, a list of best practices for talking about the disease with someone who may be experiencing symptoms. These include: • Have the conversation as early as possible • Think about who’s best suited to have the conversation • Practice conversation starters • Offer support and companionship • A nticipate gaps in self-awareness • Recognize the conversation may not go as planned “We know that initiating conversations can be difficult; these tips are aimed at making a discussion about Alzheimer’s less daunting and more productive,” said Drew.

“We also know from talking to families that, while individuals may wish they didn’t have Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia, they never regret being able to prepare for the future, play an active role in their own financial and care planning, and make their wishes known to their family members.”

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November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month diagnosis — both for those living with the disease and their families. These include: • Accurate diagnosis – Can help determine if someone’s cognitive changes are truly due to Alzheimer’s or some other, perhaps even treatable, condition • Medical benefits – Allows individuals to explore medications for memory loss, sleep changes, and behavior changes resulting from the disease, as well as to adopt lifestyle changes that may help preserve their existing cognitive function for as long as possible, such as controlling one’s blood pressure, smoking cessation, and exercise • Participation in clinical trials – Enables individuals to enroll in clinical trials that advance research and may provide medical benefits • Planning for the future – Allows individuals more time to plan for the future while they are cognitively able to make legal, financial, and end-of-life decisions •E motional and social benefits – Provides individuals with the best opportunity to spend time doing meaningful activities and interacting with the most important people in their lives; it can also open doors to many educational and support programs Mary Tarbell, 66, an Alzheimer’s Association early-stage adviser who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in 2016, said getting her diagnosis has helped refocus her priorities.

“Learning I had Alzheimer’s was painful,” said Tarbell. “But getting an early

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Living with Alzheimer’s In addition to encouraging families to talk about Alzheimer’s openly and to seek diagnosis earlier, Alzheimer’s Association early-stage advisers are sharing their stories about life after an Alzheimer’s diagnosis, including steps individuals can take to move forward and live their best lives.

“Many see Alzheimer’s disease as the end of life and, while there is currently no cure, living with the disease is a complex experience that often runs the course of many years,” said Pam Montana, an early-stage adviser who was diagnosed in 2016 at age 61.

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The Alzheimer’s Association helps families and friends navigate challenges and considerations at each stage of the disease, through face-to-face conversations with experts in local communities, a free 24/7 helpline at (800) 272-3900, and comprehensive support and resources on www.alz.org.

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Music Activates Regions of the Brain Spared by Alzheimer’s Disease Ever get chills listening to a particularly moving piece of music?

You can thank the salience network of the brain for that emotional jolt.

Surprisingly, this region also remains an island of remembrance that is spared from the ravages of Alzheimer’s disease.

Researchers at the University of Utah Health (healthcare. utah.edu) are looking to this region of the brain to develop music-based treatments to help alleviate anxiety in patients with dementia.

“People with dementia are confronted by a world that is unfamiliar to them, which causes disorientation and anxiety,” said Jeff Anderson, M.D., Ph.D., associate professor in Radiology at U of U Health and contributing author on the study.

“We believe music will tap into the salience network of the brain that is still relatively functioning.”

Previous work demonstrated the effect of a personalized music program on mood for dementia patients. This study set out to examine a mechanism that activates the attentional network in the salience region of the brain.

The results offer a new way to approach anxiety, depression, and agitation in patients with dementia. Activation of neighboring

regions of the brain may also offer opportunities to delay the continued decline caused by the disease.

For three weeks, the researchers helped participants select meaningful songs and trained the patient and caregiver on how to use a portable media player loaded with the selfselected collection of music.

“When you put headphones on dementia patients and play familiar music, they come alive,” said Jace King, a graduate student in the Brain Network Lab and first author on the paper.

“Music is like an anchor, grounding the patient back in reality.”

Using a functional MRI, the researchers scanned the patients to image the regions of the brain that lit up when they listened to 20-second clips of music versus silence.

The researchers played eight clips of music from the patient’s music collection, eight clips of the same music played in reverse, and eight blocks of silence. The researchers compared the images from each scan and found that music activates the brain, causing whole regions to communicate.

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November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month showed significantly higher functional connectivity.

“This is objective evidence from brain imaging that shows personally meaningful music is an alternative route for communicating with patients who have Alzheimer’s disease,” said Norman Foster, M.D., director of the Center for Alzheimer’s Care at U of U Health and senior author on the paper.

“Language and visual memory pathways are damaged early as the disease progresses, but personalized music programs can activate the brain, especially for patients who are losing contact with their environment.”

However, these results are by no means conclusive. The researchers note the small sample size (17 participants) for this study.

In addition, the study only included a single imaging session for each patient. It is remains unclear whether the effects identified in this study persist beyond a brief period of stimulation or whether other areas of memory or mood are enhanced by changes in neural activation and connectivity for the long term.

“In our society, the diagnoses of dementia are snowballing and are taxing resources to the max,” Anderson said. “No one says playing music will be a cure for Alzheimer’s disease, but it might make the symptoms more manageable, decrease the cost of care, and improve a patient’s quality of life.”

Landmark Alzheimer’s Study Urgently Seeks Volunteers Alzheimer’s disease is the sixth leading cause of death overall in the United States and affects more than 5 million Americans. According to experts, this number could triple to nearly 16 million people by 2050.

A scientific study focused on early detection of Alzheimer’s disease, and tracking it over time, seeks healthy volunteers without memory problems, as well as people who have mild memory problems and those who have been diagnosed with mild dementia due to Alzheimer’s disease.

The Alzheimer’s Disease Neuroimaging Initiative — or ADNI — is funded by the National Institutes of Health and is one of the largest and longest-running Alzheimer’s disease trials in history.

Now in the third phase of trials, researchers are studying how quickly things like reasoning and the ability to perform certain functions change in the aging brain.

“We need to know how Alzheimer’s disease progresses in order to discover new treatments that could significantly improve the way we treat it in the future,” Michael Weiner, M.D., principal investigator of the study, said.

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money, a common warning sign of the disease.

“One of the biggest challenges researchers face is finding people to volunteer to take part in studies,” Weiner said. “We can beat Alzheimer’s, but we can’t do it without volunteers.”

The ADNI study needs 800 people ages 55-90 to enroll in sites across the United States and in Canada. No medication is involved.

Potential study volunteers can learn more by visiting www.adni3.org or by calling (888) 2-ADNI-95 (888) 223-6495).

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November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month Spotting 10 Early Alzheimer’s Symptoms The Alzheimer’s Association provides the following list of 10 early warning signs of Alzheimer’s disease.

If you or a loved one is experiencing any of these signs, schedule an appointment with your doctor.

4. Confusion with Time or Place. People with Alzheimer’s can lose track of dates, seasons, and the passage of time. They may have trouble understanding something if it is not happening immediately. Sometimes they may forget where they are or how they got there.

1. Memory Loss that Disrupts Daily Life. One of the most common signs of Alzheimer’s disease, especially in the early stage, is forgetting recently learned information. Others include forgetting important dates or events, asking for the same information over and over, and increasingly needing to rely on aids (e.g., reminder notes or electronic devices) or family members for things they used to handle on their own.

2. Challenges in Planning or Solving Problems. Some people may experience changes in their ability to develop and follow a plan or work with numbers.

They may have trouble following a familiar recipe or keeping track of monthly bills. They may have difficulty concentrating and take much longer to do things than they did before.

3. Difficulty Completing Familiar Tasks at Home, at Work, or at Leisure.

People with Alzheimer’s disease often find it hard to complete daily tasks.

Sometimes they may have trouble driving to a familiar location, managing a budget at work, or remembering the rules of a favorite game.

5. Trouble Understanding Visual Images and Spatial Relationships. For some people, having vision problems is a sign of Alzheimer’s. They may have difficulty reading, judging distance, and determining color or contrast, which may cause problems with driving.

6. New Problems with Words in Speaking or Writing. People with Alzheimer’s disease may have trouble following or joining a conversation. They may stop in the middle of a conversation and have no idea how to continue, or they may repeat themselves.

They may struggle with vocabulary, have problems finding the right word, or call things by the wrong name.

7. Misplacing Items and Losing the Ability to Retrace Steps. A person with Alzheimer’s may put things in unusual places. They may lose things and be unable to go back over their steps to find them again. Sometimes, they may accuse others of stealing.

This may occur more frequently over time.

8. Decreased or Poor Judgment. People with Alzheimer’s may experience changes in judgment or decision making. For example, they may use poor judgment when dealing with money, giving large amounts to telemarketers.

They may pay less attention to grooming or keeping themselves clean.

9. Withdrawal from Work or Social Activities. A person with Alzheimer’s disease may start to remove themselves from hobbies, social activities, work projects, or sports. They may have trouble keeping up with a favorite sports team or remembering how to complete a favorite hobby. They may also avoid being social because of the changes they have experienced.

10. Changes in Mood and Personality. The mood and personalities of people with Alzheimer’s can change. They can become confused, suspicious, depressed, fearful, or anxious. They may be easily upset at home, at work, with friends, or in places where they are out of their comfort zone.

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CENTENARIAN from page 2 where her husband would spend weekends at the cottage and return to work while Slothower and her children enjoyed the outdoors.

When her children were in school, Slothower went to work at Sears Service Center and then Feller’s Store in Harrisburg.

Slothower’s love of people led her to volunteering at Dauphin Manor. For 10 years, she volunteered at the gift shop and helped plan birthday parties for the residents. She enjoyed selecting the perfect cakes and making gifts to ensure residents felt special on their birthday.

While volunteering, Slothower met Barry Ramper II, now Homeland Center president and CEO. At the time, Ramper was administrator of Dauphin Manor. Slothower and Ramper became friends and stayed in touch over the years.

In 1997, Slothower’s husband, Wilbur, died. She lived independently for years, but at 95, she decided to stop driving and at 97 chose to move to Homeland Center.

There, Slothower enjoys playing bingo, pokeno, and the occasional game of pinochle. Her most cherished time is spent with her daughter, Janet, and son, Tom. Her son Richard lives in Georgia but makes regular calls to stay in touch.

In addition to her children, Slothower has four grandchildren and nine greatgrandchildren.

This spring, Slothower and Ramper were featured on billboards for Homeland Center. For Mother’s Day, Slothower’s son, Tom, drove his mother around Harrisburg to see the billboards. Slothower proudly displays the photo used on the billboards in her room.

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Talking about Death Won’t Kill You Terri Schlichenmeyer

home, but we spend very little time learning to Your mother can speak on just about any die — and that’s unfortunate. subject.

Family issues, money, old music, new Dying, she believes, is actually an important part of living, which is why you should have That technology, cooking, fashion … she’ll teach you Conversation. all day. Ask her about one certain topic, though, “Dying matters,” Kortes-Miller says, and until and her lips are sealed tight.

But with Talking About Death Won’t Kill You by a few decades ago, that was a given; people were much more comfortable with death and the Dr. Kathy Kortes-Miller, you can school Mom on a thing or two. things attached to it. Death was a social event, as it is today, but it seems now as though we’re afraid One year prior to her second go-around for a to have a discussion about it, lest we invite it.

Ph.D. program, Kathy Kortes-Miller received a The important thing is, everybody dies diagnosis of cancer, which altered her life and her sometime, so we may as well get comfortable with career path.

Naturally, she was fearful. She said aloud that.

Photo credit: Jessica L. Wyatt photography When having That Conversation, gently tease that she didn’t want to die, and her statement Talking About Death Won’t Kill You was brushed aside. Nobody would even discuss out whatever fears remain, and face them by

By Kathy Kortes-Miller becoming “death literate.” death, she says, and though she obviously lived, c. 2018, ECW Press Talk about “advance care planning” and the she wishes today that someone had taken time to 209 pages legacy you want. talk to her about her fears and the outcome she Know that family relations are complicated and might’ve had.

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Know how to use it right.

You don’t have to be elderly to get a lot out of Talking About Death Won’t Kill You. You don’t even have to be dying to read this book.

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325 Wesley Drive • Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 (717) 766-0279 • www.bethanyvillage.org Number of Beds: 69 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: CARF; Eagle, LeadingAge PA Comments: Maplewood Assisted Living also available.

Conestoga View

900 East King Street • Lancaster, PA 17602 (717) 299-7850 • www.conestogaviewnursing.com Number of Beds: 436 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Respiratory, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes

24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes

Homeland Center

1901 North Fifth Street • Harrisburg, PA 17102-1598 (717) 221-7902 • www.homelandcenter.org Number of Beds: 95 Rehabilitation Unit: No Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Short-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: AAHSA, LeadingAge PA (PANPHA), NHPCO, PHN, HPNA Comments: A beautiful, full-service continuing care retirement community with a history of more than 150 years of exemplary care.

Claremont Nursing & Rehabilitation Center 1000 Claremont Road • Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 243-2031 • www.ccpa.net/cnrc Number of Beds: 282 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: No Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Comments: Featuring Transitions at Claremont, a dedicated, 39-bed, shortterm rehab unit. Claremont provides quality skilled nursing and secured dementia care.

Mennonite Home Communities

1520 Harrisburg Pike • Lancaster, PA 17601 (717) 393-1301 • www.mennonitehome.org Number of Beds: 188 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: Equal Housing, LeadingAge PA Comments: Person-centered care with reputation for compassion and excellence. Established in 1903. Respite care available w/minimum stay.

Transitions Healthcare – Gettysburg

595 Biglerville Road • Gettysburg, PA 17325 (717) 334-6249 • www.transitionshealthcarellc.com Number of Beds: 135 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Respiratory, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes

Scheduled Entertainment: Yes Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: PHCA, PACA Comments: Fully staffed Transitions Healthcare employees in skilled nursing and sub-acute rehab. Tours are encouraged!

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Harrisburg Hosts Inaugural Statewide LGBTQ Aging Summit regarding LGBTQ cultural competency and inclusion.

The Wolf administration, in partnership with LGBTQ aging advocates and After Adams’ remarks, the summit hosted a provider panel comprising Dr. stakeholders, hosted Pennsylvania’s inaugural LGBTQ Aging Summit Oct. 9-10 at the Sheraton Harrisburg Hershey Hotel, Harrisburg.

Imani Woody, founding director and CEO, Mary’s House for Older Adults; Rabbi Erica Steelman, director of LGBT+ initiatives and staff chaplain, Secretary of Aging Teresa Osborne kicked off the summit and introduced Abramson Center for Jewish Life; Doreen day one’s keynote speaker, the Hon. Kathy Hespell, director, Montgomery County Area Greenlee, vice president of aging and health Agency on Aging; Linda Marucci, social policy, Center for Practical Bioethics, and former assistant secretary of aging, U.S. worker, Southwest Senior Center; and Arthur Breese, director of diversity and inclusion, Department of Human Health & Services.

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Greenlee traveled from Kansas to attend the The panel discussed best practices for inaugural summit and shared experiences and serving LGBTQ older adults and the obstacles regarding her sexuality from high importance of being culturally competent school to present day; presented on the urgency within provider networks. for provider networks to be LGBTQ-friendly; and discussed the barriers that many LGBTQ At the conclusion of the provider panel, the A provider panel discusses best practices for serving summit organized a regional planning session elders face.

LGBTQ older adults and the importance of being culturally with a focus on tangible community action “With over 300 participants from across competent within provider networks during the for the varying regions of summit attendees, the state convening in Harrisburg for the LGBTQ Aging Summit in Harrisburg. specifically regarding how Pennsylvania can sole purpose of connecting communities and inspiring change, we are confident that our build better connections between the older LGBTQ community and providers. efforts to better serve, support, enable, and empower LGBTQ seniors will continue to move forward due the foundation that was laid,” Osborne said.

After lunch, which featured speaker Dr. Nii-Quartelai Quartey, national LGBT liaison for AARP, the regional planning groups reported their Day one of the summit also featured a community panel discussion with LGBTQ older adults, moderated by Carol Harris of Dering Consulting Group, recommendations and findings from the earlier planning session.

The summit concluded with a state panel, featuring Osborne, Levine, and which allowed the panelists to share their lived experiences and highlight the Todd Snovel, executive director, Pennsylvania’s Commission on LGBTQ various difficulties many experience as older LGBTQ individuals.

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Secretary of Health Dr. Rachel Levine opened day two and introduced the Panelists shared insight on the Wolf administration’s efforts to improve keynote speaker, Michael Adams, CEO of SAGE, who spoke to the audience

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“The inaugural statewide LGBTQ Aging Summit allowed us the opportunity to continue to provide resources and answer questions for the older LGBTQ population,”

Levine said.

“This first summit is essential to providing information to people in these communities and allowing them to share their stories. We are committed to ensuring that the health community understands and provides for the health needs of this population.”

Bill Would Train Retailers, Financial Institutions to Spot Fraudulent Transactions Recently, U.S. Sen. Bob Casey (D-PA), ranking member of the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging, and Sen. Jerry Moran (R-KS), chairman of the Senate Committee on Commerce Subcommittee on Consumer Protection, introduced the Senior Scams Prevention Act (S. 3522).

“Far too many older Americans have been targeted by scam artists.

These criminals threaten legal action against seniors or loved ones if ‘payment’ is not made immediately through a wire transfer or gift card,” said Casey.

“The Senior Scams Prevention Act would help stop a payment before it is ever made so that seniors don’t lose one more penny to a fraud or scam.”

The bipartisan Senior Scams Prevention Act would create a federal advisory council to develop educational materials for retailers, financial institutions, and wire

transfer companies to use to train employees on how to spot a scam.

Often times, unbeknownst to employees of retail stores, fraudsters ask senior victims to send “payment” or “gifts” through gift cards, which are purchased at various retail locations.

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Social Security News

2.8 Percent COLA Increase Announced for 2019

By John Johnston

Social Security and Supplemental Security Income benefits for more than 67 million Americans will increase 2.8 percent in 2019, the Social Security Administration announced recently.

The 2.8 percent cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) will begin with benefits payable to more than 62 million Social Security beneficiaries in January 2019.

Increased payments to more than 8 million SSI beneficiaries will begin on Dec. 31, 2018.

The Social Security Act ties the annual COLA to the increase in the Consumer Price Index as determined by the Department of Labor’s Bureau of Labor Statistics.

Some other adjustments that take effect in January of each year are based on the increase in average

wages. Based on that increase, the maximum amount of earnings subject to the Social Security tax (taxable maximum) will increase to $132,900

from $128,400.

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Information about Medicare changes for 2019, when announced, will be available at www.medicare. gov.

For Social Security beneficiaries receiving Medicare, Social Security will not be able to compute their new benefit amount until after the Medicare premium amounts for 2019 are announced.

Final 2019 benefit amounts will be communicated to beneficiaries in December through the mailed COLA notice and My Social Security’s Message Center.

To read more, visit www. socialsecurity.gov/cola.

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Beverly Washburn’s Favorite Co-stars Nick Thomas

Beginning her Washburn, too, career as a talented possessed that talent. child actress, Beverly “I could cry on cue, Washburn worked which was usually alongside Hollywood’s required for playing most popular actors, the poor little orphan and her list of favorites girl-type roles I often is long (see www. had. I would try to feel beverlywashburn.com). what the character was While she appeared feeling, and it would in several Wagon Train invariably make me cry. episodes, her favorite “I suppose I’ve always was “The Tobias Jones been an emotional Story,” where Lou person, too. My brother Costello plays a drunk Beverly Washburn, then and now.

Lou Costello in a 1958 Wagon Train episode with would tease me and say accused of murder — a I cried at supermarket Beverly Washburn (NBC publicity photo). rare dramatic role for openings!” the comedian and one More than just of his final acting appearances. a young actress who could cry on demand, her “I was a big Abbott & Costello fan, so it was a co-stars were quick to praise young Washburn’s thrill to work with Lou,” said Washburn from Las mature acting skills. After they worked together, Vegas, where she has lived for over 20 years.

Lou Costello publicly acknowledged her for helping “I just loved him; he was such a sweet man. But bring out his credible dramatic performance. he was so used to ad-libbing in the comedy routines In her book, Reel Tears: The Beverly Washburn that he actually found it hard to stick to the script.

Story, Take Two rereleased in 2013 by BearManor When he forgot a line, he would look into the Media, Washburn shares many more stories from camera and say, ‘So how are ya?’ which always made her career. me giggle.”

“It hasn’t all been roses, as I talk about in my Washburn appeared in the 1956 film version of book,” she adds, “but I have a lot of fond memories The Lone Ranger. for sure.”

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she said, laughing. “Clayton Moore was just of The Lone Ranger (Warner Bros.).

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In his contract, he wasn’t allowed to be photographed without his mask on.

“Well, a lady recognized him at the pool and asked for a photo, so he jumped up and grabbed his mask. Seeing the Lone Ranger in just swimming trunks and a mask was hilarious!”

In The New Loretta Young Show’s 1962-63 season, Young played a widow with seven children. Washburn was a series regular as one of the kids.

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Melinda’s Garden

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Holiday Gifts that Keep on Giving

Make giftorchids and are giving easy quite striking with unique with maroongreen gifts striped green that provide petals. The weeks and, narrow, in some chartreuse, cases, months lily-like and years blossoms of of beauty.

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European holiday plant is gaining Provide some aromatherapy, flavor, popularity in holiday celebrations here and beauty with fragrant flowers and in the U.S. herbs. Lily-of-the-valley may be a Recipients will enjoy up to two bully in the garden, but it’s a fragrant months of blossoms indoors when beauty sure to brighten a winter day grown in a cool, bright location. Once when planted in a container and the danger of frost has passed, it can enjoyed indoors. be moved outdoors into a full or The calming fragrance of Spanish partially shaded spot in the garden for lavender can be enjoyed fresh or the years of added beauty. stems and flowers snipped, dried, and Even non-gardeners will be added to bouquets and sachets. fascinated by the amaryllis as its Rosemary’s flavor makes it a perfect beauty erupts from the bulb. Everyone gift for the foodies on your list. And will eagerly watch for the bulb to everyone, including non-cooks, will sprout, for flower stems to quickly enjoy its fragrance. Grow it indoors in grow, and for it to eventually produce a cool location with morning sun or several large, trumpet-shaped blooms. under artificial lights.

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Fall for a Flavorful Cheese Board Some of the most beloved flavors are inspired during the fall, and there are few better ways to enjoy the season’s best than with a group of friends and family. Get ready to wow guests with seasonal treats that invite everyone to indulge in fall flavors.

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Apple Pepita Stackers • 4 ounces apple butter • 1 bag Crunchmaster Pumpkin Harvest Crackers • 3 ounces toasted pepitas match the flavors as they wish. Then expand your offering with a dairyfree, vegan alternative and introduce another fall favorite like apple butter.

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Pumpkin Prosciutto Stackers • 2 ounces prosciutto • 1 ounce aged balsamic vinegar (syrupy consistency) • 4 ounces gorgonzola

• 4 ounces aged parmesan, shaved • 1 bag Crunchmaster Pumpkin Harvest Crackers Cut prosciutto into cracker-size pieces, about 1.5 inches in diameter.

Pour vinegar into small carafe or dish with serving spoon.

Layer gorgonzola, one to two pieces prosciutto, and one to two pieces shaved parmesan on one cracker.

Drizzle lightly with vinegar.

Plate remaining prosciutto, gorgonzola, parmesan, and crackers

• 12 slivers fresh sage Spread apple butter over one cracker and sprinkle with pinch of pepitas. Top with sage sliver.

For serving, scoop apple butter into small crock or serving vessel. Place pepitas and sage in serving dishes.

Place assembled stacker on platter with crackers. Add serving dishes, if space allows, or position around platter.

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Cumberland County

Calendar of Events

Support Groups Free and open to the public Sundays, 7:15 p.m.

Outreach Al-Anon Family Group Meeting Chapel Hill United Church of Christ 701 Poplar Church Road, Camp Hill (717) 448-7881 Other meeting times/locations at www.pa-al-anon.org Mondays, 7 p.m.

Hope on Simpson Al-Anon Family Group Meeting First United Methodist Church 135 W. Simpson St., Mechanicsburg (717) 448-7881 Other meeting times/locations at www.pa-al-anon.org Tuesdays, noon Anchor Al-Anon Family Group Meeting The Harbor 55 W. King St., Shippensburg (717) 448-7881 Other meeting times/locations at www.pa-al-anon.org Nov. 1, 5:30-7 p.m.

Better Breathers Chronic Lung Disease Support Group Ortenzio Heart Clinic at Geisinger Holy Spirit 503 N. 21st St., Camp Hill (717) 763-2775 Nov. 1, 6:30 p.m.

Too Sweet: Diabetes Support Group Chapel Hill United Church of Christ 701 Poplar Church Road, Camp Hill (717) 557-9041 Nov. 5, 4-5 p.m.

Caregivers Support Group Messiah Lifeways Meetinghouse 1155 Walnut Bottom Road, Carlisle (717) 243-0447

Nov. 6, 6 p.m.

CanSurmount Cancer Support Group HealthSouth Acute Rehab Hospital 175 Lancaster Blvd., Mechanicsburg (717) 691-6786 Nov. 6, 6-7 p.m.

Alzheimer’s Support Group Senior Helpers 3806 Market St., Suite 3 Camp Hill (717) 920-0707 Nov. 7, 1:30 p.m.

The Bridges Support Group for the Alzheimer’s Association The Bridges at Bent Creek 2100 Bent Creek Blvd., Mechanicsburg (717) 795-1100 Nov. 7, 5:30-6:30 p.m.

Caregivers Support Group Cumberland County Office of Aging 1100 Claremont Road, Carlisle (717) 240-6110 Nov. 12, 1:30-3 p.m.

Caregivers Support Group St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church 310 Hertzler Road Upper Allen Township (717) 766-8806 Nov. 12, 5-6 p.m.

Weight Loss Support Group Geisinger Holy Spirit Hospital Auditorium 503 N. 21st St., Camp Hill (717) 761-7244, ext. 5 https://events.geisinger.org Nov. 12, 6 p.m.

A Touch of Sugar: Diabetes Support Group Wegmans 6416 Carlisle Pike, Mechanicsburg (717) 763-2466 https://events.geisinger.org

Senior Center Activities Nov. 13, 6:30-8 p.m.

Carlisle Area Men’s Cancer Support Group The Live Well Center 3 Alexandria Court, Carlisle (717) 877-7561 sirbrady12@gmail.com

Big Spring Senior Center – (717) 776-4478 91 Doubling Gap Road, Suite 1, Newville Nov. 9, 12:30-4:30 p.m. – A ARP Driver’s Refresher Course Nov. 14, 9:30 a.m. – MindMatters: Betsy Ross – The Making of the Myth Nov. 27, 9 a.m. – Make a Holiday Pine Arrangement

Nov. 14, 1:30 p.m.

Parkinson’s Support Group Bethany Village West Springfield Room 325 Asbury Drive, Mechanicsburg (717) 877-0624

Branch Creek Place – (717) 300-3563 115 N. Fayette St., Shippensburg

Nov. 14, 6:30 p.m.

Amputee Support Team Meeting Outback Steakhouse 25 Gateway Drive, Mechanicsburg (717) 834-5705 www.astamputees.com Nov. 15, 1 p.m.

Caregiver Support Group Mechanicsburg Church of the Brethren 501 Gale St., Mechanicsburg (717) 766-8880 Nov. 20, 6:30 p.m.

Alzheimer’s/Dementia Caregivers Support Group Cumberland Crossings 1 Longsdorf Way, Carlisle (717) 243-0113 Nov. 27, 6 p.m.

Multiple Sclerosis Support Group HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital 175 Lancaster Blvd.

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Community Programs Nov. 14, 11:30 a.m.

NARFE West Shore Chapter 1465 VFW Post 7530 4545 Westport Drive, Mechanicsburg (717) 774-4031 www.narfe1465.org Visitors welcome; meeting is free but fee for food.

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Mary Schaner Senior Citizens Center (717) 732-3915 98 S. Enola Drive, Enola Mechanicsburg Place – (717) 697-5947 97 W. Portland St., Mechanicsburg West Shore Senior Citizens Center (717) 774-0409 122 Geary St., New Cumberland Submit senior center events to mjoyce@onlinepub.com.

Library Programs Amelia Givin Library, 114 N. Baltimore Ave., Mt. Holly Springs, (717) 486-3688 Bosler Memorial Library, 158 W. High St., Carlisle, (717) 243-4642 Nov. 2, 7 p.m. – Music @ Bosler Nov. 14, 1-2 p.m. – Wicked Wednesday Book Discussion Group Nov. 23, 1-2 p.m. – Just Mysteries! Book Club Cleve J. Fredricksen Library, 100 N. 19th St., Camp Hill, (717) 761-3900 Nov. 9, 4-7:30 p.m. – Blood Drive Nov. 11, 1:30 p.m. – A n Afternoon of Ella’s Greatest Hits Nov. 26, 7 p.m. – Fredricksen Reads: The Radium Girls

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Mondays and Wednesdays, noon SilverSneakers Exercise Class Susquehanna View Apartments Community Room 208 Senate Ave., Camp Hill (717) 439-4070 jesseswoyer.com@gmail.com

Carlisle Senior Action Center – (717) 249-5007 20 E. Pomfret St., Carlisle

New Cumberland Public Library, 1 Benjamin Plaza, New Cumberland, (717) 774-7820 Nov. 13, 10: 30-11:30 a.m. – Book Review Program: The Amish Teacher’s Gift by Rachel J. Good Nov. 1 9, 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. – Great Books Discussion Group: The Taming of the Shrew by William Shakespeare Nov. 28, 6:30-8 p.m. – C rafting for Adults: Yo-Yo Crafts

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Got Diabetes? Get off the Couch and Work Your Core

By Sheri R. Colberg, Ph.D., FACSM

If you suffer from diabetes, you already know that staying fit greatly benefits your health.

Yet, many of the complications caused by diabetes can make it difficult to get the exercise you need; in fact, they can make a normal exercise routine difficult or even dangerous.

These complications don’t have to prevent you from doing safe and healthy exercise. You can still get a beneficial workout — minus the risks — by exercising your core.

Here are six of the 10 core exercises I recommend for people with diabetes from my new book with the American Diabetes Association, Diabetes & Keeping Fit for Dummies.

Side Planks 1. Start out on the floor on your side with your feet together and one forearm directly below your shoulder.

2. Contract your core muscles and raise your hips until your body is in a straight line from head to feet.

3. Hold this position without letting your hips drop for as long as you can.

4. Repeat steps one through three on the other side.

Switch back and forth between sides as many times as you can.

Bridging Remember to breathe throughout this exercise.

1. K eeping your shoulders on the floor, slowly raise your buttocks from the floor with your stomach tight and your lower back straight.

2. Gently lower your back to the ground.

3. Repeat steps one and two.

November is National Abdominal Squeezes 1. Put one of your hands against your upper Diabetes Month stomach and the other facing the other direction below your belly button.

2. Inhale to expand your stomach.

Pelvic Tilt 3. Exhale and try to pull your abdominal muscles halfway toward your spine.

1. Lie on your back on the floor with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor.

This is your starting position.

2. Place your hands either by your sides or supporting your head.

4. Contract your abdominal muscles more deeply in toward your spine while 3. Tighten your bottom, forcing your lower back flat against the floor, and then counting to two. relax.

Return to the starting position from step three for another count of two.

4. Repeat steps two and three as many times as you can.

Work up to doing 100 repetitions per workout session.

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ie on your stomach with your arms straight out in front of your head on Plank or Modified Plank the floor.

1. Start on the floor on your stomach and bend your elbows 90 degrees, resting 2. R est your chin on the floor between your arms. your weight on your forearms.

3. Keeping your arms and legs straight, simultaneously lift your feet and your 2. Place your elbows directly beneath your shoulders and form a straight line hands as high off the floor as you can. Aim for at least 3 inches. from your head to your feet.

4. Hold that position (sort of a superhero flying position) for 10 seconds if 3. Hold this position as long as you can. possible, and then relax your arms and legs back onto the floor.

Repeat this exercise as many times as possible during each workout.

Whether you’re still active or sedentary, working your core is a safe and smart way to improve your balance, keep you as fit as possible, and elevate your overall quality of life.

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Aid & Attendance Veterans’ Benefit Savvy Senior

Financial Aid for Family Caregivers Jim Miller

Dear Savvy Senior, Do you know of any resources that help family caregivers monetarily? I have to miss a lot of work to take care of my elderly mother and it’s financially stressing me.

– Stretched Thin Dear Stretched, Caring for an elder parent can be challenging in many ways, but it can be especially difficult financially if you have to miss work or quit your job to provide care.

Fortunately, there are a number of government programs, tax breaks, and other tips that may be able to help you monetarily while you care for your mother. Here are some options to explore.

disability, you can claim her as a dependent on your taxes and get a $500 tax credit.

For more information, go to the Interactive Tax Assistant page on the IRS’s website (www.irs.gov/ help/ita) and click on “Whom May I Claim as a Dependent?”

If you can’t claim her as a dependent, you may still be able to get a tax break if you’re paying more than half her living expenses including medical and longterm care costs, and they exceed 7.5 percent of your adjusted gross income.

You can include your own medical expenses in calculating the total. See IRS publication 502, Medical and Dental Expenses (www.irs.gov/pub/irspdf/p502.pdf) for details.

Long-term care insurance: If your mother has long-term care insurance, check whether it covers inhome care. Some policies permit family members to be paid, although they may exclude people who live in the same household.

State assistance: Most states have programs that help low-income seniors pay for in-home care services, including paying family members for care.

These programs — which go by various names, such as “cash and counseling” or “consumerNovember is National directed”— vary greatly depending on where you Paid caregiver leave and financial support: A Family Caregivers Month live and, in some states, on whether your mom is on small but growing number of companies offer paid Medicaid. caregiving leave as a way to recruit and retain their To find out what’s available in your state, contact your local Medicaid office. workforce. Check with your employer to see what, if any, benefits are available to you.

Veterans benefits: Veterans who need assistance with daily living activities Additionally, the Pennsylvania Caregiver Support Program aims to reduce can enroll in the Veteran-Directed Care program. stress on primary, informal, unpaid caregivers through a variety of potential This program, available through VA Medical Centers in 40 states, as well as benefits, such as financial assistance for services, supplies, and assistive devices. in Washington, D.C., and Puerto Rico, provides as much as $2,000 a month, To find out if you qualify, visit the Pennsylvania Department of Aging’s which can be used to pay family members for home care. website (www.aging.pa.gov) or call your county’s Area Agency on Aging.

Visit the “Home and Community-Based Services” section at www.va.gov/ geriatrics for information.

Family funds: If your mother has some savings or other assets, discuss the Also available to wartime veterans and their surviving spouses is a benefit possibility of her paying you for the care you provide. called Aid and Attendance, which helps pay for in-home care as well as assisted If she agrees, consult with an elder law attorney about drafting a shortliving and nursing home care. This benefit can also be used to pay family written contract that details the terms of the work and payment arrangements, caregivers. so everyone involved knows what to expect.

To be eligible, your mother must need assistance with daily living activities, such as bathing, dressing, or going to the bathroom.

You should also check BenefitsCheckUp (www.benefitscheckup.org), a free, Changes to income and asset limits — including a new 36-month lookconfidential web tool that can help you search for financial assistance programs back period on asset transfers — went into effect Oct. 18. To learn more about that your mom or you may be eligible for. eligibility requirements, go to www.vets.gov/pension.

Tax breaks: If you pay at least half of your mom’s yearly expenses, and her gross income is below $4,050 (in 2017) not counting her Social Security or

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Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit www.savvysenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of The Savvy Senior book.

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If you need help with your daily activities, or you’re housebound, you may qualify for Aid and Attendance or Housebound allowances in addition to your pension benefits.

Veterans and surviving spouses may qualify for Aid and Attendance if you get a VA pension and you meet at least one of the requirements listed below.

• You need another person to help you perform daily activities, like bathing, feeding, and dressing • You have to stay in bed — or spend a large portion of the day in bed — because of illness • You are a patient in a nursing home due to the loss of mental or physical abilities related to a disability • Your eyesight is limited (even with glasses or contact lenses, you have only 5/200 or less in both eyes or concentric contraction of the visual field to 5 degrees or less) You may qualify for Housebound benefits if you get a VA pension and you spend most of your time in your home because of a permanent disability (a disability that doesn’t go away).

Note: You can’t get Aid and Attendance benefits and Housebound benefits at the same time.

To apply for these benefits, veterans and surviving spouses need an application (downloadable at www.vets.gov/pension/aid-attendancehousebound) as well as the following information:

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But it may have included cranberries, which Native Americans used in a variety of foods (including pemmican, made from berries, dried venison, and melted fat) as well as for medicinal purposes.

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for colonists and their neighbors, the Wampanoag tribe, to celebrate a successful harvest.

The harvest had thrived thanks in part to Squanto, a native of the Patuxet tribe who had learned English as a slave before returning to his native land.

Squanto taught the pilgrims how to grow corn, catch eels and fish, and avoid poisonous plants in the surrounding forest, as well as helping them to forge a relationship with the Wampanoag and its chief, Massasoit.

• Evidence, like a doctor’s report, that shows you need Aid and Attendance or Housebound care, or VA Form 21-2680 (Examination for Housebound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance), which your doctor can fill out • Details about what you normally do during the day and how you get places • Details that help show what kind of illness, injury, or mental or physical disability affects your ability to perform activities, like bathing, on your own In Pennsylvania, the application and relevant information can be mailed to the Department of Veterans Affairs, Claims Intake Center, Attention: Philadelphia Pension Center, P.O. Box 5206, Janesville, WI 53547-5206.

Or, you may apply in person by bringing your information to a regional benefit office near you.

Source: www.vets.gov

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The Beauty in Nature

Courtship Timing Clyde McMillan-Gamber

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Every November, over the years, I mother deer have plenty of food to have enjoyed the courting of whiteproduce ample milk for their single or tailed deer and great horned owls twin fawns. among the woods, fields, and thickets And, being born late in May of southeastern Pennsylvania. ensures warmth and the whole Being adaptable, the beautiful, summer and autumn to grow strong graceful deer and and fat to be able the handsome, to cope with the stately owls coming winter. are abundant Deer born any in this area, other time might allowing us many not have as good a opportunities to chance at survival experience them to maturity. through the year, Pairs of local especially during horned owls court November. by hooting to each At that time, other at dusk and White-tailed deer deer are less dawn in November cautious and, into December. therefore, more In January, each obvious. The pair of owls usurps owls frequently a stick cradle hoot “hoo, hoo, made by hawks, hoo — hoooooo, herons, or crows hoooooo,” which high in a tall tree gives away their in a woodland or presence. older suburb. Each The rutting female owl lays one season of whiteto three eggs in tails in this area her nursery late in starts around the January.

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Such is Life

Reminders, Notes, and Calendars Saralee Perel

I have an attitude when I’m told that nothing can be done. It just makes me all the more determined to find answers. What else was I going to do? Give up? Why would I? We went to three more neurologists until we finally found one who actually asked to hear from me. He said, “How can I know what’s going on when the patient can’t remember?”

He specializes in Bob’s diagnosis. Along with cognitive memory impairment, he has primary progressive aphasia, which essentially involves word loss.

The doctor recommended medication that has helped tremendously. He was the one who referred us to Lee. Yet, this doctor’s greatest gift to us? Hope.

You know how you often can’t remember what you did last week? Or even just yesterday? There’s a cure for that. With Lee’s advice, Bob keeps a calendar in which, daily, he writes down what he’s done. He reviews it again and again.

There aren’t many people I know who can remember things they did last month. But my sweet husband can.

Bob used to avoid socializing for fear that he’d lose common words. When inevitably that would happen, he’d so sadly and desperately look to me for help.

He felt humiliation and shame and embarrassment.

Now, he still looks to me for help, but you know what? He could not care less. We’ve learned that if anyone thinks less of him for not knowing a word, then they’re probably not tolerant of others as well and certainly not the kind of person we’d want as a valuable, trusted friend.

We’ve learned that acceptance doesn’t mean hopelessness. We’ve learned that inevitable doesn’t have a definite date. Inevitable doesn’t mean giving up.

You know what it means? It means it’s fight-back time!

Bob never did come up with the word “camel” that day. But that doesn’t matter. As long as he can say, “I love you,” then he’s remembered everything that’s important.

Award-winning columnist Saralee Perel can be reached at sperel@saraleeperel.com or via her website: www.SaraleePerel.com.

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“What’s the word for the thing we use every day that has a monitor and a keyboard?” I asked my husband, Bob. That question was not a test. It was part of a wordfinding teaching program that Lee, Bob’s speech therapist, has taught us to practice.

“A computer,” Bob said. Elated that he got it right, we gave each other a high five.

“Want to keep going?” I asked.

My husband is so very brave. “Sure,” he said.

It stuns me that we’re at this stage.

“OK,” I said, showing him a picture of a camel.

“What is this called?”

He thought for a moment. His shoulders drooped when he said, “I don’t know.”

Lee taught us about clues. She said, “The words are still there. It’s like a well, and the word is at the bottom. You just need a line to pull it up.”

So I said to Bob, “It starts with a C.” I waited until he asked me for another clue. “It lives in the desert.”

Still nothing registered.

Ten years ago Bob began having memory problems, the most obvious of which was word-finding.

Our first neurologist was a smug know-it-all. Bob passed the neuropsych paper and pencil testing just fine. As I began to speak of the varied problems I’ve noticed at home, the doctor wouldn’t hear a word of it.

And so, nothing was done.

The second neurologist sped through the appointment. He also wouldn’t/ couldn’t allow any time for me to speak. He ordered an MRI. The results were seemingly normal, though we were told differently, eventually, by a doctor who had the time to examine the films more closely.

And so, nothing was done.

One day it made me cry (silently) when I heard Bob on the phone, stuck on a word I could tell would be “blizzard.” I quickly wrote it on paper, and then rushed the note to him. There just had to be a better way than this.

In the middle of the night, a vicious beast I call “the future” hovers directly over me.

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Fifties Flashback

You’re Traveling through Another Dimension …

Randal C. Hill

In 1964, weary of railing against censorship and other ongoing battles, creator Rod Serling chose not to oppose the third cancellation of his series The Twilight Zone.

Running for five seasons, the show had garnered critical acclaim and numerous awards, but the ratings were never more than middling, and the program had twice been axed and then revived.

Serling was born into a Jewish family on Christmas Day 1924 and grew up in Binghamton, New York.

In high school he earned a place on the debate team, wrote for and edited the school newspaper (establishing himself as a social activist), and spoke at his graduation.

Army enlistment followed in 1943.

In the military, Serling was awarded the Purple Heart and the Bronze Star, although his combat experiences left him with flashbacks and nightmares for the rest of his life.

“I was bitter about everything,” he once admitted. “I think I turned to writing to get it off my chest.”

At Antioch College in Ohio, he became involved in the school’s radio station, where he wrote, directed, and acted in several radio programs on campus.

But Serling could see that such stories were on the decline and being replaced by television dramas.

After earning a B.A. in literature at Antioch, he began writing for

WKRC-TV in twist or a macabre ending.

In October 1959 Cincinnati.

Serling always wanted to use the groundbreaking Serling soon The Twilight Zone as a vehicle for anthology series became a freelance important social commentaries. premiered on CBSwriter and began TV. Each half-hour In reality, though, he still had to churning out scripts frequently fight for creative control, episode included for major network TV as his scripts incorporated his views studies in fantasy, anthology shows. In on current events and social concerns, science fiction, 1955 Kraft Television such as war, racism, mass hysteria, suspense, and horror.

Theater broadcast The dramas dealt politics, and gender issues. his play Patterns.

And even though his messages with paranormal, Critics hailed it as futuristic, or otherwise were cleverly veiled within the fantasy “a creative triumph,” unusual or disturbing and science fiction parameters of the and Serling found show’s programs, they still managed events, with the himself inundated to make some viewers squirm. characters involved with requests for more As uncomfortable truths often will. having crossed over Publicity photo portrait of original stories. into the surreal Rod Serling for the premiere “Twilight Zone.” The Although Randal C. Hill’s heart lives Requiem for a of the television program Heavyweight for always-gripping stories in the past, the rest of him resides in The Twilight Zone.

Bandon, Ore. He can be reached at Playhouse 90 added usually featured a wryterhill@msn.com. to his growing and moral and either a highly regarded oeuvre. Encouraged by his success, he moved to California advertisement and became a full-time writer for television in 1957.

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Community Connections the Foundation of Cumberland County 50plus EXPO

By Megan Joyce Cumberland County’s baby boomers, seniors, and caregivers connected with community resources during the Cumberland County 50plus EXPO, which returned to the Carlisle Expo Center for its 19th year on Oct. 17.

OLP Events and Cumberland County Aging and Community Services presented the event, a day designed for the area’s 50+ community.

More than 90 exhibitors displayed products and services for travel, housing, medical services, nutrition, home improvements, finances, healthcare, and other needs.

“I just came out to … be more educated on some things that I might sit and wonder about and never took the time to research,” Mary Price, of Enola, said. “They’ve got all kinds of information that you can pick up, and the people are all friendly.”

A first-time visitor, Price found out that, as someone with a hearing loss, she may be entitled to a free captioned telephone through the PA Captioned Telephone Relay Service.

“I wouldn’t have known anything about it had they not been here, so that was very helpful to me,” Price said.

Guests were eligible for a variety of health screenings, all offered free.

Screenings included blood pressure, grip strength, glucose, hearing, bone density, and more.

Kmart provided flu shots to visitors, and students from Divine Crown Academy of Cosmetology offered free mini manicures.

Attendee Carol Souders, from Enola, got the all-clear after a hearing check from Miracle-Ear. “They looked in my ears on both sides with a scope … and they tested both ears to see how high or how low I can hear,” Souders said. “I’m an EMT, and I wear [ear] plugs when I ride in there because the sirens are so loud.”

Kenneth L. Rapp, CFP with Turner Wealth Advisors/An Ameriprise Private Wealth Advisory Practice, started the morning’s stage presentations.

Using both his professional expertise and his own experience caring for his aging father, Rapp shared advice for dealing with situations that can arise in long-term care and rehabilitation facilities.

He also urged seniors to consider naming a trusted younger adult as power of attorney rather than their spouse.

“Think about bringing kids in or somebody else you trust, because what if both of you get sick at the same time? Then you can’t take care of each other,” Rapp said.

Michael A. Hasco, AIFD, with Stauffers of Kissel Hill in Mechanicsburg, shared his passion for designing seasonal, mixed containers of annual plants and natural objects — such as birch branches — to create potted gardens as well as tabletop displays.

“My goal today is to get you excited about decorating in general, and I hope to give you some tips and some tricks so that you can take what I share with you and mold it to your own design aesthetic and kind of tweak it to what you like,” Hasco said.

Dr. Matthew Christian, orthopedic foot and ankle surgeon with OSS Health, spoke on the common foot deformity known as a bunion: why it develops and options for pain management and treatment.

Christian also discussed the benefits of minimally invasive bunion surgery.

“There’s a quicker recovery postoperatively and less pain, all associated with the fact that you can make smaller incisions,” he said.

Similarly, Michael M. Gilbert, DPT, with Gilbert Physical Therapy, talked about the ways physical therapy can heal shoulder pain naturally. He said at

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the start of therapy, many patients are leery of making their shoulder pain worse.

“If movement of the shoulder already hurts, how can coming into physical therapy and moving more make it any better?” Gilbert said. “Most people struggle to get through that concept, when in reality, if you can learn how to move the right way, the movement is actually the fix.”

Finally, handwriting analyst Mitzi Jones explained why handwriting is still important in today’s digital world and shared some insight on what a person’s handwriting says about their personality.

The 50plus EXPO was a way to reach a branch of the community for exhibitor Lu Flickinger, resource development director with United Way of Carlisle & Cumberland County, which is celebrating its 100th anniversary this year.

“We’re just here to educate and share,” Flickinger said. “Many seniors don’t realize the resources that we offer or the agencies that are available to them.”

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You Will Never Look at Pumpkin Pie the Same

The other day I was eating a banana and decided to dip it in some fresh pumpkin butter that I had bought. At no other time of year would this “pumpkin” thought-seed ever float through my head.

With the holiday season upon us, and pumpkin pie everywhere, allow me to share what I know about these medicinal and delicious spices. You’ll never look at pumpkin pie the same way again after reading this.

Here’s how they heal you: Cinnamon Cinnamon is thought to aid in regulating blood sugar in people with hyperglycemia, pre-diabetes, and diabetes. It works by blocking digestive enzymes, such as alphaglucosidase, sucrose, and pancreatic amylase, which blunt the amount of sugar released into your bloodstream.

Cinnamon also contains MHCP (methylhydroxychalcone polymer), which acts similar to your own insulin by shuttling sugar out of your bloodstream and into your cells.

Clove We call it “clove” because none of us want to call it by its botanical name: syzygium aromaticum! If you love chai tea or masala chai, you obviously like the taste of clove because it is an integral part of chai recipes.

If you have dental pain, you can put a drop of clove essential oil in water and have sips. You can also put the oil onto a cotton swab and dab your achy tooth.

Aside from toothaches and gum problems, clove can help with many respiratory diseases, candida infections, headaches, and throat infections.

Some men report that it improves their libido, which makes sense because clove is known to enhance testosterone, at least in animal studies.

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Nutmeg is your antidepressant spice and can be sprinkled on coffee, hot chocolate, pumpkin pie, and sweet potato dishes.

Nutmeg extract was given to mice for three days, and it reduced signs of depression. The researchers concluded it was so profound, it was virtually comparable to shots of antidepressant drugs, namely imipramine (Tofranil) and fluoxetine (Prozac).

Another interesting, littleknown fact is that nutmeg can help mice with lung inflammation and asthma symptoms due to its high content of another compound called macelignan.

You know how you have been trained to breathe in relaxing aromas of lavender in order to sleep at night? Well, inhaling nutmeg scent is actually better!

According to a study in The International Journal of Molecular Science, “Nutmeg oil afforded a greater inhibitory effect than did lavender oil.”

The reason it works is because nutmeg is a CNS (central nervous system) tonic that contains a potent anxiolytic called 4-terpineol. It increases activity of GABA in your body and dampens down glutamate.

I need to caution those of you in the benzo community who are still struggling to recover. If you are in PAWS (post acute withdrawal syndrome), then avoid nutmeg until your receptors up-regulate and heal. They will do that if you hold on, and please hold on! The topic of benzos and PAWS is covered in some of my other articles at my website.

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