50plus LIFE Chester County December 2018

Complimentary | Chester County Edition

December 2018 • Vol. 15 No. 12

Astronomy on the Susquehanna page 4

Emails: Fake or the Real Deal?

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special focus: orthopedics & pain

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Grief Relief

Grief Doesn’t Take a Holiday Victor Parachin

everywhere. Pace yourself carefully. Give yourself permission to reduce the festivities and decline some invitations.

When my wife, Linda, died earlier in the year, her loss left my family and me feeling confused about how to celebrate because she was the driving energy behind our holiday gatherings.

– Neal

2. Consider all the options for celebrating. Some grieving families maintain their tradition. Others find it helpful to change things up.

Have a conversation with family members about how to best gather for the holiday. If family members live a distance away, have the “conversation” via a group email.

After a long and happy marriage, my husband, whom I’d known since high school, died in October.

My grieving was intensified as I anticipated my first December without him.

– Paula The fact is that grief doesn’t take a holiday in December. While many of us are festive, those who grieve a loss often find their pain heightened during this time.

However, as many bereaved individuals can testify, it is possible to celebrate while grieving.

Here are 10 tips for managing loss this month.

3. Balance family time with alone time.

Because grieving is physically and emotionally draining, try to balance your time with family with some time alone. Rest when you need to. Retiring to a quiet place, even for a few minutes, can be renewing.

1. Avoid placing excessive expectations on yourself. Your energies are down as you grieve, so it may not be possible to do everything and be

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4. Take care of your physical self. This means getting proper rest; eating nutritious meals, always a challenge during the holidays; and avoiding too

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much sugar, caffeine, and alcohol. Work in time to exercise several days a week.

5. Forgive yourself. The holidays can dredge up regrets and guilt feelings about things said or not said, things done or not done. Do all you can to let it go and forgive yourself.

6. Give yourself a break from grieving. Set aside time to read a good book, watch some movies, attend a holiday concert, get a massage, or take a yoga class or two.

Of course you need to deal with your grief, but you don’t have to focus every minute on it. Give yourself some breaks from grieving.

7. Speak your loved one’s name. Some families try to ignore the fact of loss and grief by not talking about the deceased loved one. This is not productive.

A better approach is to speak about the person. Use his or her name. Some families report that it was helpful to take a few minutes before a meal to have members share favorite memories about the deceased.

8. Allow grief to move through you in a natural way. If you’re sad, be sad.

If you find reasons to be happy (even briefly), be happy. If you need to shed

tears, then cry. Don’t resist what is happening. Go with the ebb and flow of grief.

9. Remember that some relatives can be great resources. Because the holidays and family gatherings come together, remember that some of your extended family can be helpful.

Not every relative can handle a grieving person, while others can. Gravitate toward the ones who understand, are supportive, and are comforting to you.

Without being rude, gently distance yourself from those who just don’t get grief.

10. Buy a gift you would have given your loved one. Then, give it to a charity or someone who would truly appreciate the gift.

For example, one man had planned to buy his wife a new laptop computer.

After her death in the fall, he still made the purchase and gave the laptop to a student at a community college.

Victor M. Parachin, M.Div., is a grief counselor, bereavement educator, and author of several books, including Healing Grief.

At Your Fingertips Helpful numbers, hotlines, and local businesses and organizations eager to serve you—all just a phone call away.

Disasters American Red Cross Greater Brandywine (610) 692-1200 Chester County Emergency Services (610) 344-5000 Salvation Army Coatesville (610) 384-2954 Salvation Army West Chester (610) 696-8746 Emergency Numbers Central Pennsylvania Poison Center (800) 521-6110

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (800) 232-4636 Coatesville VA Medical Center (610) 383-7711 Domestic Violence (800) 799-7233

Legal Services Lawyer Referral Service (610) 429-1500

PACE (800) 225-7223

Legal Aid of Southeastern Pennsylvania (610) 436-4510

Senior Healthlink (610) 431-1852

Nutrition Meals on Wheels Chester County Inc. (610) 430-8500

Social Security Administration (800) 772-1213

Financial Services Internal Revenue Service (800) 829-3676

Southeastern Pennsylvania Medical Institute (610) 446-0662

Health & Medical Services Alzheimer’s Association (800) 272-3900 American Cancer Society (800) 227-2345 American Heart Association (610) 940-9540 Arthritis Foundation (215) 570-3060 www.50plusLifePA.com

JEWELERS American Gold & Estate Buyers, Inc. 363 E. Lincoln Highway, Exton (484) 872-8216

National Osteoporosis Foundation (800) 223-9994

Office of Aging (610) 344-6350/(800) 692-1100

Funeral & Cremation Services Cremation Society of Pennsylvania Serving Chester County (800) 720-8221

Housing Authority of Phoenixville (610) 933-8801

Hearing Services Pennsylvania Office for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing (800) 233-3008 V/TTY home equity loans Glendale Mortgage (610) 853-6500; (888) 456-0988 Housing Assistance Community Impact Legal Services (610) 876-0804 Housing Authority of Chester County (610) 436-9200

Pennsylvania Hunger Action Center (800) 366-3997 Office of Aging Chester County Department of Aging Services (610) 344-6350 Orthopedics Premier Orthopaedics Locations in Coatesville and Pottstown (610) 792-9292 Pharmacies CVS/pharmacy www.cvs.com

Physicians Gateway Medical Associates Locations in Coatesville, Downingtown, Lionville, and West Chester (610) 423-8181 retirement living Friends Home in Kennett 147 W. State St., Kennett Square (610) 444-2577 Harrison Senior Living Locations in Christiana and East Fallowfield (610) 384-6310 Senior Centers Coatesville (610) 383-6900 Downingtown (610) 269-3939 Great Valley (610) 889-2121 Kennett Square (610) 444-4819 Oxford (610) 932-5244 Phoenixville (610) 935-1515 Wayne (610) 688-6246 West Chester (610) 431-4242 Not an all-inclusive list of advertisers in your area.

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By Robert Naeye

Ryan went off to college at the University of Chicago, graduating in June 1972. In December 1976 he earned a law degree from the University of We live in a modern age awash in light. It’s inside Florida. For many years he practiced law in Chicago, our homes, on our streets, and on our computer eventually becoming screens. the chief environmental For amateur astronomers, attorney for the state of light is the bane of their Illinois. existence. It washes out the After changing jobs faint light of distant stars, several times, he ran his an environmental blight own law firm in Chicago known as “light pollution.” for eight years. His From a populated urban wife, Barbara, who is area, you can see a few originally from Harrisburg, dozen to a few hundred encouraged him to look stars at night. But venture for a job that would offer out into a remote area far steadier income. away from city lights, and Ryan ended up taking you can see thousands of Photo credit: Robert Naeye a position with the stars speckling the sky from Ryan, left, board member of the Philadelphia Electric horizon to horizon.

Rittenhouse Astronomical Society, Company in 1998, which With large cities such as with Ted Williams, RAS president, later merged with a utility Philadelphia, Lancaster, and outside the Muddy Run Observatory. in Chicago to form Exelon.

Harrisburg, southeastern As he was moving Pennsylvania is not exactly around, Ryan was raising a haven for astronomical two daughters. The observatories. younger of the two, Layla, This posed a challenge developed a strong interest to the Exelon Corporation, in astronomy. She majored whose top executives in astrophysics at the decided several years ago University of Illinois. to construct an observatory Ryan credits her with as a vehicle for inspiring rekindling his childhood students to pursue careers in interest in astronomy. He science and engineering.

Photo credit: Robert Naeye built and bought telescopes, But with the help of Williams adjusts the Celestron telescope each scope larger than amateur astronomer Al inside one of the observatory’s two towers. the previous one. He later Ryan, also the company’s constructed an observatory assistant general counsel, in the backyard of his house Exelon found a good site on in Glenside, Pennsylvania. its own land: Muddy Run Al and Layla frequently Recreation Park, about 15 visited Exelon’s Muddy Run miles south of Lancaster Recreation Park. Layla once along the Susquehanna mentioned that a helicopter River. landing pad inside the park The Muddy Run would be a great place to Observatory is now hosting build an observatory. public events that draw “At the time, I didn’t hundreds of people. really think much of it,” Ryan, who spearheaded Photo credit: Robert Naeye says Ryan. the effort to build the On the observatory’s outdoor projection Tragically, Layla passed Muddy Run Observatory, screen, speakers can show their photos and away from a long-term grew up in Florida, not far telescope images to the public. illness in 2006 at age 24. To from Cape Canaveral. As a honor Layla, her parents established a scholarship for child, he built telescopes and watched NASA launch astronomy students at the University of Illinois. rockets into space, which inspired a lifelong interest As Exelon started toying around with the idea of in astronomy. www.50plusLifePA.com

building a public observatory, it turned to Ryan to advise the company on where to build it and what equipment to include.

Ryan recalled his daughter’s idea of building an observatory on the Muddy Run helipad. To test this idea, he partnered with local amateur astronomers to hold a stargazing event at the site in 2015.

“Even though there were thunderstorms, we had a huge turnout, which surprised company management. We had 100-125 people on a stormy, cloudy night. People didn’t realize that we have enough interest in the region, so we made it an annual event,” recalls Ryan.

The next year’s stargaze drew an even larger crowd — and that’s when the whole idea blossomed to build the observatory at Muddy Run. Besides the helipad, the park had a visitor center, facilities for handicapped people, and parking spaces for hundreds of cars.

The night sky is dark enough so you can see around a thousand stars on a clear, moonless night. And yet it’s close enough to major population centers that public events draw large crowds.

Exelon based the observatory’s landscaping on a design created by Ryan’s wife Barbara, while Ryan decided on two large amateur telescopes, one built by Celestron and the other by PlaneWave.

Construction began in 2016, and the doors opened to the public in October 2017.

The Rittenhouse Astronomical Society of Philadelphia is the primary amateur organization that runs the observatory. Ryan is a member of its board of directors, making him the perfect liaison between company and club.

RAS president Ted Williams says his group was involved in the project from the very beginning, calling the observatory “the perfect merger for an astronomy club that was trapped in Philadelphia that wanted a darker site.”

But Williams is quick to add that running the observatory is a team effort. The Astronomy Enthusiasts of Lancaster County and the Harford County Astronomical Society in Maryland play important supporting roles, providing telescopes and educators. www.50plusLifePA.com

Muddy Run hosts a monthly open house for the public, where people can come to stargaze using the observatory’s two telescopes and additional portable scopes brought by amateurs. These events include talks by scientists and amateurs and workshops in astrophotography.

Exelon modified the visitor center to include an astronomy section, comprising a hallway of astronomical photos and models to help educate the public about space science. The visitor center also has several classrooms.

The observatory itself has a giant outdoor projection screen, where speakers can show their photos and where telescope images can be displayed to the public.

The observatory has already attracted significant interest from local companies, libraries, and schools.

Ryan says that Exelon hopes that Muddy Run will serve as an inspiring example for what corporations can do to reach out to their communities.

There’s even talk about adding more telescopes and a planetarium to bolster education programs.

Astronomy is one of the few remaining fields of science where amateurs can play important roles in cutting-edge research. Using the observatory’s two telescopes, club members will soon be studying stars that vary in brightness, asteroids that pass in front of stars, and planets in other systems that pass in front of their host stars.

“We’re really proud of the facility,” Ryan says. “But we’re even more ecstatic about all the possibilities available to us for extending our vision to the community, enlightening minds, and inspiring others.”

The observatory’s next free open house is Saturday, Dec. 15. Call (717) 284-5850 or visit www.facebook. com/muddyrunobservatory or www. muddyrunobservatory.com for more information.

On the cover: To further his and his daughter’s shared interest in astronomy, Al Ryan, here beside the Celestron telescope inside the Muddy Run Observatory, once built an observatory in their backyard.

Now, Ryan heads a combined team of amateur astronomers instrumental in the development and operation of the observatory.

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On Life and Love after 50

What Should Unwed, Age 50+ Couples Call Themselves?

Tom Blake

In the 24 years of writing newspaper columns about age 50+ dating and relationships, there is a question for which I’ve never had a good answer. Until now. Perhaps.

The question: What do unwed, age 50+ couples call themselves?

I was reminded of that question by Mark, who emailed: “Donna and I have been together for eight and a half years. We were having lunch with Wally Horn and his partner of 30 years, Bobbi, and this question arose: ‘What do we call ourselves? Partners? Companions? Significant others? Boyfriend/girlfriend?’”

I can relate to Mark’s question. My partner, Greta, and I have been together for 20 years. We aren’t married. I still find myself wondering how to introduce her.

Often, “life partner” comes to mind. It’s an OK term, but I still get a puzzled look from people who seem to be wondering what the heck a life partner is, or they think it’s a lame explanation for why we aren’t married.

Greta and I enjoy taking cruises. We always opt for open seating in the dining room, which means we are usually seated with different people every night.

Frequently, tablemates ask, “How long have you two been

married?”

Greta and I look at each other and one of us responds, “We’ve been together for 20 years.”

Most couples accept that answer, thinking we’re married. It’s easier to leave it that way than try to explain that we are “significant others” or “life partners” or whatever we are calling ourselves at that moment.

When Greta and I would visit my mom in her retirement community a few years back and we were out socially with Mom’s friends, Mom would introduce Greta by saying, “This is Tom’s Greta.”

That was her way of saying we were living together and not married, which she probably wasn’t entirely thrilled about.

In his email, Mark added, “Donna and I are a LAT (living apart together) couple. She is 69, still working.

I’m 71, retired, and live a few miles away. We go back and forth between the two cities a lot.”

Photo credit to Tom Blake.

Our friend Wally is 84 and Bobbi is 75. They Tom calls Greta his “significant other.” are both retired and have been together for almost 30 years. When we were talking about what to call ourselves, I floated an idea I’ve had for some time: “semispouse.”

It received a favorable response from our foursome. It isn’t perfect, but it seems to have qualities the other labels lack.

At first, I thought the semispouse term a little bizarre, visualizing a semitruck driver with his wife riding with him in the cab.

I looked up the term on the Urban Dictionary website. Its definition: “A significant other that plays the role of a spouse without being legally married.”

And then I decided, when written, the term semispouse would look better with a hyphen inserted: semi-spouse.

While semi-spouse for unwed, age 50+ couples will work for now, still, I’m all ears to hear suggestions from readers for what to call mature, unwed couples.

Just don’t call us, “Two old fogies living together.”

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Art & Antiques by Dr. Lori

The Market for Christmas Collectibles Lori Verderame

Many of us will be displaying our collection of Christmas collectibles — both old and new — this holiday season.

Personally, I am going to display a new holiday collectible, this Byers Choice Ltd. caroler in my likeness, which I expect will become a cherished holiday collectible for my family as time goes by.

I have many of these popular, handmade caroler figures made near my home in Bucks County, Pennsylvania.

Annually, they make their way onto windowsills, shelves, and holiday tables as seasonal decorations.

While this is the time to revisit Christmas collectibles, it is also the best time to sell off these items.

The values for your Christmas collectibles are high right now, and if you are a seller, you can help drive up the market prices by offering objects for sale that are seasonally themed for Christmas and in good shape.

Here are some of the popular holiday antiques and collectibles.

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Ornaments Antique ornaments, produced from circa 1880 to 1940, are highly collectible.

Since some of the most beautiful and handmade ornaments were made in that period of hand-blown glass, these ornaments are very difficult to find.

So, if you discover one entangled in the garland, hold onto it. One antique ornament may be valued at $100 or more at Christmastime.

Starting your own holiday ornament collection will cost you a pretty penny.

Some of the most popular ornaments are those made after World War II and represent everything from astronauts to zebras.

While seasoned collectors are looking for kugels and other glass-blown figural ornaments from Germany, new collectors are especially interested in vintage pieces made in America in the 1940s to the 1970s.

Holiday Villages Famous miniature holiday village “architectural firms,” such as the McLoughlin Brothers and Built-Rite Toys firms, sold miniature holiday town-and-village displays in the early 1900s. A Sears & Roebuck miniature Christmas village would have cost only 69 cents in the mid-1930s.

After World War II, Bachmann Brothers introduced the Plasticville line of miniature buildings to accompany model train setups.

These miniature Christmas villages command high prices today at auction and online, such as the Bliss Company village of lithographed cardboard featuring a pharmacy, opera house, bank, and post office, which sold for $16,500 recently.

That’s big money for some little cardboard houses.

Toys & Games Major board game companies, such as Milton Bradley, introduced games featuring Santa, including the seasonal favorite, The Santa Claus Game. Today, this holiday game in excellent condition is worth more at Christmastime.

When you decorate or display antique treasures during the holiday season, remember to consider pets, direct sunlight, warm fireplace hearths, and new traffic patterns made by hosting guests in your home so you retain those cherished objects in good condition for years to come.

Happy holidays.

Dr. Lori Verderame is an author, internationally syndicated columnist, Ph.D. antiques appraiser, and award-winning artifacts expert on the History channel’s The Curse of Oak Island. Dr. Lori appraises objects at her nationwide events (www.drloriv.com/ events) and on her YouTube channel (www.youtube.com/drloriv).

​Conference Focuses on Addiction in Older Adults Pennsylvania Department of Aging Secretary Teresa Osborne recently attended and spoke at the Phoebe Institute on Aging’s Fall Conference, “Understanding Addiction and Older Adults,” at DeSales University.

The conference explored both the trend of addiction in older adults and insights into treatment modalities to offer hope in a time of crisis.

“Older Pennsylvanians may be a minority among those seeking treatment for substance abuse, yet alcohol and drug problems, in particular prescription drug abuse, among older adults is one of the fastest-growing health problems facing the country,” said Osborne.

Today, 2.5 million older adults have an alcohol or drug problem.

Widowers over the age of 75 have the highest rate of alcoholism in the U.S., and older adults are hospitalized as often for alcohol-related problems as they are for heart attacks.

Nevertheless, addiction in older adults can be difficult to detect, as warning signs mimic insomnia, forgetfulness, and other common, age-related health issues. www.50plusLifePA.com

Growing older brings on many changes in health, lifestyle, family obligations, work roles, and sources of support. It can also bring physical pain, stress, loneliness, and loss of mobility.

The very real difficulties of aging can become overwhelming and drive seniors toward an unhealthy reliance on alcohol or drugs. In other cases, a preexisting addiction may worsen over the years.

The state’s opioid disaster declaration, initiated earlier this year by Gov. Wolf, expands access to evidence-based, medication-assisted treatment to help Pennsylvanians who suffer from the disease of addiction and ensure they have access to the care they need.

Pennsylvanians looking for information on treatment for themselves or a loved one can call (800) 662-HELP (4357) toll-free, 24/7, to be connected to resources in their community.

A live chat option is also available online or via text message at (717) 2160905 for those seeking help who may not be comfortable speaking to a helpline operator.

To learn more about the opioid epidemic and addiction treatment, visit www. pa.gov/opioids.

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Assisted Living Residences/Personal Care Homes The listings with a shaded background have additional information about their center in a display advertisement in this edition.

Bethany Village — MapleWood

325 Wesley Drive • Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 717-766-0279 • www.BethanyVillage.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 100 Assisted Living Residence: Yes Personal Care Home: No Private: 100 Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes

Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: One-bedroom suites; secured memory support neighborhood; skilled nursing – The Oaks.

Colonial Lodge Community

2015 North Reading Road • Denver, PA 17519 717-336-5501 • www.coloniallodgepa.com Total AL and/or PC Beds: 70 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: Yes Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

Health Fee-for-Service Available: No Alzheimer’s Care: No Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: A veteran-approved “home for heroes” facility, all in a beautiful, rural setting. Respite services available as space permits.

Homeland Center

1901 North Fifth Street • Harrisburg, PA 17102 717-221-7727 • www.homelandcenter.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 56 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes

Homewood at Plum Creek

425 Westminster Avenue • Hanover, PA 17331 717-637-4166 • www.homewood.com Total AL and/or PC Beds: 92 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

Harrison House of Chester County

Landis Homes

Total AL and/or PC Beds: 80 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

Total AL and/or PC Beds: 97 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

300 Strode Avenue • Coatesville, PA 19320 610-384-6310 • www.harrisonseniorliving.com Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: No Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Located in western Chester County, Harrison House provides an array of amenities with nursing care.

Mennonite Home Communities

Total AL and/or PC Beds: 114 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

Total AL and/or PC Beds: 150 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: Yes Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

Health Fee-for-Service Available: No Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Nonprofit personal care community in downtown West Chester. Includes secure dementia care neighborhood. Call to schedule a personal tour.

Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: Excellent care in a lovely environment. Call to schedule a visit.

1001 East Oregon Road • Lititz, PA 17543 717-569-3271 • www.LandisHomes.org

The Hickman Friends Senior Community

400 North Walnut Street • West Chester, PA 19380 484-760-6300 • www.TheHickman.org

Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Providing exemplary care in a beautiful environment for more than 150 years. Our continuum includes a hospice program, therapy services, home care and home health services, and 24-hour medical staffing. All-private rooms with full baths and kitchenettes.

Health Fee-for-Service Available: No Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Attached to wellness center and pool without going outside.

1520 Harrisburg Pike • Lancaster, PA 17601 717-393-1301 • www.mennonitehome.org Health Fee-for-Service Available: No Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: Supportive, encouraging environment. Various room types and suites available. Secure memory care offered.

This is not an all-inclusive list of agencies and providers. These advertisers are eager to provide additional information about their services.

Assisted Living Residences/Personal Care Homes The listings with a shaded background have additional information about their center in a display advertisement in this edition.

Normandie Ridge

1700 Normandie Drive • York, PA 17408 717-764-6262 • https://normandieridge.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 35 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes

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‘Those Were the Days’ Randal Hill

Gene and Francesca Riskin. The tune featured a haunting Beatle Paul McCartney first heard of Mary Hopkin Russian melody but, courtesy of Gene Riskin, employed when he was eating dinner at his father’s Liverpool home English lyrics and arrangement. one night.

The song had originated as a 1925 Russian romance Included at the table that evening were friends piece called “Dorogoi Dinnoyu” — literally “By the Long Twiggy (the British supermodel) and her manager. The Road” — and dealt with reminiscences upon youth and conversation turned to TV talent-discovery shows, and romantic idealism. The Riskins always closed their shows the younger McCartney wondered aloud whether anyone with “Those Were the Days.” was ever really discovered on such programs?

McCartney loved the song and suggested it to friends Twiggy responded that she had recently seen a cute Donovan and the Moody Blues, but neither showed 17-year-old Welsh girl named Mary Hopkin on a show interest. Later, McCartney decided to produce the tune called Opportunity Knocks. Twiggy, impressed with the himself with Hopkin. young lady’s high, clear voice, predicted — correctly — “I thought it was very catchy, it had something, it that Hopkin would win on the next week’s broadcast. was a good treatment of nostalgia,” McCartney said.

McCartney became intrigued enough to tune in. He too quickly fell under the spell of Hopkin’s voice and her “[Hopkin] picked it up very easily, as if she’d known it for years.” striking and wholesome looks. The Beatles had recently The future 8-million seller became Apple’s second started their own label — Apple Records — and were on released single, immediately following the Beatles’ “Hey the lookout for talent other than themselves to promote.

Jude.”

McCartney: “So I thought, OK. Quite right. We “Those Were the Days” McCartney had been prescient in picking “Those should sign her up for Apple, maybe make an interesting Mary Hopkin Were the Days” for his new artist. The song reached No. record with her.”

December 1968 2 on Billboard, and eventually numerous other artists, To Hopkin’s amazement, McCartney phoned her and including Bing Crosby and Dolly Parton, recorded the suggested that they meet for lunch in London. They did (along with Mary’s mother), and on the same day visited a neighborhood rousing tune.

McCartney also felt the work had international appeal and asked Hopkin recording studio where Hopkin taped several songs.

Years earlier, at a London club called the Blue Angel, McCartney had heard please see HOPKIN page 11 “Those Were the Days,” at the time sung by touring American performers www.50plusLifePA.com 50plus LIFE u December 2018 9

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Emails: Fake or the Real Deal?

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Question: I receive lots of emails on a daily basis, and some emails look like they are from legitimate companies but seem too good to be true. How do I know they’re really from that company?

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Phishing emails are generated by robots the same way spam is generated and spread throughout the internet. These emails are fishing for information.

Move the mouse so that the cursor hovers over the link and look at the bottom left of your screen.

This link goes to vhjzwv.tk, not target.com

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Tricksie the actual address until you hover your mouse over it, and then it will display the address at the bottom.

The email pictured here is from FedEx, and the link’s address shows that it’s from www.fedex.com. This is a good sign that the email is legitimate.

Some links in the email could be valid, however, while others are not. It’s always a good idea to investigate links this way before clicking on them to make sure they are taking you somewhere you want to go.

The other image is an example of an email claiming to be from Target. If you hover your mouse over the link that they are eager for you to click for your $50 reward card, you’ll see you’re not going to target.com but to vhjzwv. tk, which is in Tokyo.

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HOPKIN from page 9 to record versions in Italian, Farsi, Spanish, French, and German — sung phonetically, just as the Beatles had done when they cut German versions of “She Loves You” and “I Want to Hold Your Hand” in 1964.

Alas, Hopkin’s star soon faded, but not before leaving behind two more Top 40 winners with the McCartney-produced singles “Goodbye” and “Temma Harbor.”

A downbeat footnote: On Christmas Eve 1975, Francisco Macias Nguema, the president of Equitorial Guinea, ordered the execution of 150 coup plotters in a football stadium while powerful amplifiers blasted — yes — Hopkin’s “Those Were the Days.”

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More than 160 countries around the world celebrate Christmas. Overseas and elsewhere, some holiday traditions may seem wonderfully weird — and maybe even a bit bizarre.

For some chuckles, let’s check out the yearly happenings in:

Greenland: Folks relish holiday treats of mattak (whale skin with a strip of blubber inside) and kiviak, the raw flesh of auks (a type of Arctic bird) that has been buried whole in sealskin for seven months until it has reached a certain level of decomposition.

(Seconds, anyone?)

Slovakia: During Christmas Eve dinner, the oldest male resident tosses a spoonful of loksa pudding (a mixture of sweetened poppy seeds, bread, and water) onto the ceiling — the more that sticks, the better his crops or business will do during the next year.

Guatemala: Each neighborhood sweeps dirt into one large pile and then plants an effigy of the devil on top before setting it on fire.

England: The idea of kissing under the mistletoe began here. Refusing a smooch was said to bring bad luck, and one tradition required that, with each kiss, the participants pluck a berry from the mistletoe bunch.

New Zealand: Summertime Santa often appears in “jandals� (New Zealand sandals) and an All Blacks (their national rugby team) shirt. Kids leave beer and pineapple chunks for Mr. Claus and carrots for his reindeer.

Venezuela: Caracas streets close to all traffic when Christmas Eve arrives.

This is a safety measure as many city dwellers roller-skate — nobody seems to know why — to late-night Mass.

Norway: All brooms are hidden in order to keep witches from finding them and riding off into the Christmas Eve night. Men also fire their guns into the evening sky.

Japan: Since 1974 the power of persuasive American advertising has established a newer tradition: enjoying a Christmas Day feast at the nearest

Wales: Some villages in South Wales celebrate Mari Lwyd, a wassailing folk custom in which a local man parades through the streets, his identity hidden under a sackcloth while bearing a horse’s skull on the end of a stick.

Germany: Each Dec. 5, German children leave a shoe outside the house.

Well-behaved kiddies awake to find the shoe stuffed with sweets. Those behaving otherwise are likely to find a tree branch instead.

Canada: There’s an actual postal code used in Canada to send letters to the North Pole: HOHOHO. All the letters received, even those in Braille, are answered by thousands of volunteers who donate their time every year.

Czech Republic: Some folks fast on Christmas Eve in the hope that they will visualize a golden pig — a sign of good luck — appearing on a wall before dinner.

South Africa: After residents enjoy a traditional Christmas Day meal, they eagerly tuck into after-dinner treats of plump, fuzzy caterpillars that have been fried in oil.

Final thought: Doesn’t it make you wonder how some of our own Christmas traditions might seem strange to others, as well?

Randal C. Hill can be reached at wryterhill@msn.com.

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Like many Vietnam War veterans, Rich Burton feels he was victimized by government lies.

Those lies started with the war itself and continue to this day, Burton says, where every effort is made to deny our nation’s wounded warriors desperately needed healthcare.

Burton has responded by helping local veterans get the benefits they earned and by helping to form the Central Pennsylvania Vietnam Round Table.

Burton was born in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania, just outside Philadelphia, in 1946. His father served in the Navy during World War II, but he never talked about his experiences as Burton was growing up.

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Rich Burton with a display he uses when giving talks about his Vietnam experiences to various groups.

The family moved to Central Pennsylvania when Burton was about 10, and he graduated from high school in 1964.

Burton joined the ROTC while attending Furman University in South Carolina, graduating in 1968. He decided early on that he wanted to be an Army infantry officer. At that young age, Burton believed the government propaganda that it was urgent for the United States to stop the spread of communism in Southeast Asia.

Burton trained to become an officer at Fort Bragg and Fort Benning, where he earned his airborne jump wings and became a Special Forces officer. He flew to Vietnam in November 1969 to serve as a replacement. But when he arrived, an enlisted clerk told him that the Army didn’t need any more Special

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Looking at Burton’s military records, the clerk noticed that Burton had taken courses in psychology. He said the Marines were looking for psychological operations officers in the Da Nang area and asked Burton if he wanted to go there.

“I said to myself that I’d be dead in two months as an infantry lieutenant, so if I go with the Marines, maybe I’ll survive,” recalls Burton.

After being shipped to Da Nang, Burton joined the Army’s 7th Psychological Operations Battalion, which was attached to the 1st Marine Division.

During his one-year deployment, this unit went into villages and hamlets during the daytime. With help from a Vietnamese interpreter, they made broadcasts, dropped leaflets, and assisted Marines in treating locals for various ailments. At night they showed movies.

“I was out with the locals because my job was to win their hearts and minds,” says Burton.

Winning hearts and minds also meant playing soccer. Burton recalls four games between Americans and barefooted Vietnamese, with each side winning twice. But before the games could begin, Marines would have to clear the field of possible landmines.

Burton never had to fire his weapon. Marines protected his unit, and the enemy didn’t think it was prudent to attack while movies were being shown.

But Burton had the uneasy feeling that North Vietnamese and Viet Cong soldiers were sitting in the audience.

Even if the locals felt sympathy for the Americans, enemy guerillas would return at night to terrorize or murder any civilians who cooperated too closely with the foreigners. But on occasion, the locals would surrender weapons and ammunition to Burton’s unit that would have otherwise been used to kill Marines.

Burton points to a vast gulf between what the U.S. government was saying about the war and what he was seeing on the ground.

It was obvious to Burton that the U.S. was not winning. No matter how many enemy combatants were killed, they could always replenish their numbers while the American public was growing war weary.

“When I went over to Vietnam, I believed all the lies the government said that we’re winning the war, and we just need a few more troops to come in to pacify the country. But when I was there on the ground, it didn’t take very long to figure out that it was all a lie,” he says, with a tone of bitterness.

He came to believe many years later that the U.S. never should have been in Vietnam. According to Burton, it was a civil war between the Vietnamese, and that “58,000 American men and women died for no reason, and hundreds of thousands were screwed up mentally and physically.”

Burton is still angry at Johnson, Nixon, and Kissinger for prolonging the war for political purposes, even though they knew it was unwinnable.

“None of it happened the way the government said it did,” he says. “I know it’s shocking to some people that the government lies, but Vietnam was never a place we had to go.”

According to Burton, the Veterans Administration (VA) still doesn’t want to

compensate Vietnam vets for their physical and mental wounds. In particular, it continues to deny payments to veterans exposed to Agent Orange, a defoliant widely used by the U.S. military during the war that causes many forms of cancer and other diseases.

“It’s all about the money. If the VA would pay every Vietnam veteran, the VA wouldn’t have any money left in its budget,” says Burton, who is active with the Vietnam Veterans of America.

Burton says the VA hopes that veterans who are denied claims will give up.

Instead, he encourages veterans to consult an attorney or a veteran’s service officer. Vets who appeal over and over sometimes receive compensation.

Burton worked 27 years for Pennsylvania’s Department of Public Welfare, Labor and Industry, retiring in 2005. He and his wife, Evelyn, have two sons and three grandchildren.

Burton wrote many letters to his parents from Vietnam, but he didn’t read them until long after the war, when Evelyn encouraged him.

“I blocked out 90 percent of whatever I did in Vietnam. I didn’t remember because I didn’t want to remember,” he says.

Burton and several veterans founded the Central Pennsylvania Vietnam Round Table in January 2013.

This nonprofit is the only known Vietnam-specific oral history group in the country. Vietnam veterans share their stories every month at free meetings.

It also serves as a safe haven for Vietnam veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder.

The round table has also donated $7,000 to local veterans’ organizations.

The meetings are held every second Thursday of the month at 8000 Derry St., Harrisburg.

For more information about the Central Pennsylvania Vietnam Round Table, visit http://centralpavietnamroundtable.com.

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The 6 Best Foods to Eat if You Have Arthritis Suzy Cohen

If you have arthritis, you know what to expect every day when you get up in the morning: trying to find a comfortable way to sit; grocery shopping, where it’s one painful step in front of the other; or difficulty buttoning your shirt.

But wouldn’t it be nice to be flexible around the holidays? I don’t mean in terms of parties, events, and trips — I mean with your joints.

Eating certain foods reduces inflammation and pain. But first, here are three food groups you should avoid, since these harm your brain, joints, and cartilage: • Anything with artificial colors, flavors, or sweeteners • GMO foods, which are so “hardy” they pierce the gut, leaching toxins into your body and poisoning your bloodstream • Pesticides (organic is better, especially if you have a PON1 gene SNP) Now, let’s look at six of the best foods to include in your diet if you have arthritis pain:

3. Garlic Garlic is good for so many healthpromoting effects in the body. It’s cancer preventative and a potent antiinflammatory food.

In one study of 1,082 twins, researchers found that those who ate the most garlic experienced the fewest symptoms from osteoarthritis.

4. Fennel Fennel has long been used as medicine, dating back to ancient Rome and Greece.

Fennel is a delicious way to spice up a salad, making it virtually cancerpreventative and helping to drastically reduce inflammation in the joints and tissues.

5. Beet Greens Dark, leafy greens, such as beet greens, are full of phytonutrients, vitamins and minerals that reduce inflammation all over the body.

Beet greens (not beets) are extremely high in vitamin K, another potent antiinflammatory. Two cups of these will deliver about 4,700 mg of potassium, which can help regulate blood pressure.

Sauté beet greens with garlic in some grass-fed butter. They wilt within a minute.

1. Organic ginger Ginger is highly anti-inflammatory.

Researchers found that ginger relieves pain in patients with osteoarthritis, helping 63 percent of participants.

Another study found that ginger can block the manufacture of inflammatory cytokines in the body. Make ginger tea or grate it into meals.

6. Spinach A 2017 study showed how kaempferol (which is found in spinach) reduces inflammation and prevents the progression of osteoarthritis, the wear-and-tear type of arthritis.

Kaempferol also decreases the effects of inflammatory cytokines associated with rheumatoid arthritis, the autoimmune form that affects bone marrow.

2. Tart cherries Like blueberries, cherries are rich in a compound called anthocyanin, which gives cherries their deep, blue-red hue.

A 2013 study found that patients who drink tart cherry juice found they improved levels of pain and stiffness from arthritis. It’s known to help with gouty arthritis too.

If you want to be more flexible, now and into the new year, think clean, green, organic, non-nitrate, natural foods as best you can. It may sound difficult, if not stifling, but if you set your mind to it, you’ll notice changes within a month.

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Orthopedics & Pain Advances in Treatment for Big Toe Arthritis Provide Pain Relief, Faster Recovery The big toe plays a crucial role in standing, walking, and many other daily activities. It makes it possible for humans to walk and run upright, and it absorbs forces equal to nearly twice a person’s body weight when walking.

With all that the big toe endures, it comes as no surprise that overuse can erode the joint cartilage and cause serious pain and even physical deformities.

Despite the obvious signs, big toe arthritis — which occurs when cartilage in the joints wears down and exposed bones rub against each other — is often overlooked.

Foot and ankle surgeons urge people to pay attention to these signs early.

With more treatment options and recent advancements, foot and ankle surgeons can help patients get back to doing the activities they love sooner.

According to Brett Sachs, D.P.M., a Colorado foot and ankle surgeon and fellow member of American College of Foot and Ankle Surgeons, big toe arthritis usually develops in adults between the ages of 40 and 60 years and is a progressive deformity that can be caused by regular wear-and-tear and sometimes even mechanical changes due to injury.

Symptoms include stiffness, loss of range of motion, swelling, and sometimes even noticeable cracking.

Individuals with mid- to end-stage arthritis tend to experience more severe pain because the cartilage has almost completely eroded, and the bones are actually rubbing together. For these cases, foot and ankle surgeons look to next-step treatments, including advancements in the area of implants.

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between the bones, allowing for more movement than other alternatives.

Patients who undergo implant surgery are usually able to walk and move the joint as early as the next day.

Newer, up-and-coming methods, including the use of synthetics and other types of implant materials, are also low risk and help patients with big toe arthritis return to their normal routine and activities.

Surgical removal (cheilectomy): To help give the toe better movement and relieve pain, foot and ankle surgeons surgically remove damaged cartilage around the joint, along with spurs or overgrowths, which may develop on top of the bone during mid-stage toe arthritis.

Patients are able to fully weight bear immediately after the procedure.

Joint fusion: Also called “arthrodesis,” this procedure removes the worn-down cartilage and uses plates and screws to hold the joint in the right position to alleviate pain.

Patients tend to fully recover in approximately six to eight weeks and usually return to all their regular activities, from walking to running marathons.

For early-stage big toe arthritis, foot and ankle surgeons look first to conservative treatments to decrease pain in the joint, such as prescribing anti-inflammatory medication and

increasing arch support with custom shoe inserts.

“The sooner patients see a foot and ankle surgeon, the better options there are to treat them,” said Sachs. “In a majority of the time, we can alleviate the symptoms and possibly slow down the progression of the disease with less invasive procedures.”

According to Suneel Basra, D.P.M.,

a New Jersey foot and ankle surgeon and fellow member of ACFAS, ultimately, patients should decide on the best treatment for their situation with their foot and ankle surgeon.

“There are standards and many different clinical studies that support each method,” said Basra. “But, there’s more than meets the eye, and depending on lifestyle, age, and other habits, some methods will be better than others.”

For more information on big toe arthritis and the latest treatments, or to find a local foot and ankle surgeon in your area, visit Foot Health Facts (www.foothealthfacts.org), the patienteducation website of the American College of Foot and Ankle Surgeons.

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Orthopedics & Pain Best Home Remedies for Back-Pain Relief

By Dr. Kaliq Chang With low back pain affecting 8 in 10 Americans at some point in their lives, many people wonder what their options are for treating the occasional back pain flare-up safely and effectively at home.

Fortunately, a wide variety of home-based treatments can ease the ache when your back acts up, according to Kaliq Chang, M.D., interventional pain management specialist with Atlantic Spine Center.

“Whether your back pain is caused by lifting something heavy, from bending the wrong way, or because of an ongoing issue like osteoarthritis, most back pain is mild and occasional,” Chang explains.

“For routine back pain, certain tried-and-true approaches can be done at home when you’re able, offering relief at a time that’s convenient for you.”

Home Treatments for Back Pain What remedies for back pain are accessible at home?

Pain relievers: Over-the-counter anti-inflammatory drugs, such as ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin) and naproxen (Aleve, Naprosyn), target not only back pain itself, but also the inflammation often fueling the hurt.

Check with your doctor of pharmacist about any potential drug interactions between these medications and others you may be taking.

Exercise: It may seem counterintuitive, but moving your body — within limits — actually helps ease back pain, Chang says.

“You may not feel like moving if your back aches, but your body will thank you for making the effort,” he says. “Spines are meant to move.”

Even everyday movement, such as taking a walk or making the bed, helps ease sore back muscles, and a light workout is certainly fine as long as you don’t overdo it, he says.

Stretching: Every 20 minutes or so, get up and bend lightly in various directions, carefully stretching out back muscles.

“This gentle stretching helps strains and sprains to recover gradually, keeping muscles limber,” Chang says. “Some people find back-pain relief by maintaining a regular stretching routine.”

Apply cold: Cold compresses or ice is optimal in the first 24-48 hours after a minor injury that results in back pain, Chang says.

“The cold will help dampen inflammation from developing as well as feel good,” he says. Apply cold packs in 20-minute segments.

Apply heat: Warmth (hot water bottle, heating pad) not only feels good on a sore back, but it helps relax muscles.

Heat therapy should only be used on older injuries, not right after a fresh injury, Chang notes. Again, apply in 20-minute periods.

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Physical therapy: While not strictly a home-based treatment, physical therapy often ends up continuing at home.

With a physical therapist’s advice and guidance, back-pain patients become aware of the best exercises to do at home to improve back pain and keep it away, Chang says.

If your back pain doesn’t subside after a week or so of home treatments — or becomes more severe, hurting even when you’re at rest — it’s time to call a doctor, Chang advises.

“Immediate medical attention is necessary if you have weakness or numbness in your legs or ‘saddle area’ of your crotch, or if you have trouble standing or walking,” he adds. “Forget home-based treatments at that point and seek an expert opinion.”

Prevention Starts at Home, Too Since prevention is always the best treatment, avoiding back pain can start at home as well, Chang notes. These measures can stop back pain from developing in the first place: • Watch your weight: Being overweight puts excess strain on the spine and back muscles.

• Quit smoking: Smoking ups the odds of bone problems in the spine and of suffering low back pain.

• Wear low heels: Heels higher than 1 inch can create unstable posture, increasing pressure on the lower spine.

• Pay attention to posture: Many of us slump without noticing, but this can make it harder for your back to support your weight, Chang says. Keep your back erect when walking or sitting, and don’t bend from the waist while lifting heavy objects.

• Ergonomics count: Design your desk and workspace to avoid needing to hunch forward while using your computer or reach for your mouse, Chang advises.

Use a desk chair that’s supportive of the lower back and allows you to keep your feet planted on the floor,” he adds.

• Exercise your core: Our core muscles support the lower back and abdomen, Chang says, and keeping them strong helps combat lower back pain.

“Proper posture and spine alignment is enabled by a strong core,” he says.

“Exercises, such as those in Pilates classes, help firm and tone these key muscles.”

Kaliq Chang, M.D., is an interventional pain management specialist board certified in anesthesiology at Atlantic Spine Center. www.atlanticspinecenter.com

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What You’ll Pay for Medicare in 2019 Jim Miller

Dear Savvy Senior, I know there will be a small 2.8 percent cost-of-living increase in Social Security benefits next year, but what about Medicare? What will our Medicare Part B monthly premiums and other Medicare costs be in 2019?

– Curious Jim

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Dear Jim, The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services recently announced their cost adjustments for 2019, and you’ll be happy to know that the standard Medicare Part B monthly premium for most beneficiaries starting in January will be $135.50, a modest increase of just $1.50 per month over 2018’s standard premium.

There are, however, a small group of Medicare beneficiaries (about 2 million people) who will actually pay less than $135.50 because the 2.8 percent cost-ofliving increase in their Social Security checks will not be large enough to cover the full premium increase.

Thanks to the Social Security Act’s “hold harmless” provision, Medicare cannot pass along premium increases greater than the dollar increase in their Social Security checks.

In addition, there is also a small group of high-income beneficiaries (about 3 million people) who will pay higher Part B premiums because their income is above $85,000 as a single person or $170,000 as a married couple filing jointly.

Medicare uses modified adjusted gross income from your tax return from two years ago to determine your premiums, which means that 2019 Part B premiums are determined by 2017 income.

So, if your income was $85,001 to $107,000 (or $170,001 to $214,000 if filing jointly), your monthly premium will increase from $187.50 to $189.60.

Monthly premiums for singles with an income of $107,001 to $133,500

(joint filers with income of $214,001 to $267,000) will rise from $267.90 to $270.90.

And premiums for singles earning $133,501 to $160,000 ($267,001 to $320,000 for joint filers) will increase from $348.30 to $352.20.

If you had higher income than that, your monthly premium for 2018 was $428.60. In 2019, there will be an extra surcharge tier for people with the highest income.

If your income is between $160,001 and $499,999 ($320,001 to $749,999 for joint filers), you’ll pay $433.40 per month. Single filers with income of $500,000 or more ($750,000 or more for joint filers) will pay $460.50 per month.

If you fall into any of these high-income categories and you’ve experienced certain life-changing events that have reduced your income since 2017 — such as retirement, divorce, or the death of a spouse — you can contest the surcharge.

For more information about contesting or reducing the high-income surcharge, see Medicare Premiums: Rules for HigherIncome Beneficiaries at www.ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10536.pdf.

In addition to the Part B premium increases, the annual deductible for Medicare Part B, which covers physician services and other outpatient services, will see a mild bump from $183 to $185 in 2019.

The deductible for Medicare Part A, which covers hospital services, will increase from $1,340 in 2018 to $1,364 in 2019.

For more information on all the Medicare costs for 2019, visit www. medicare.gov and click on “Find out how much Medicare costs in 2019,” or call (800) 633-4227.

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Sunshine Memory Café United Methodist Church of West Chester 129 S. High St., West Chester (610) 349-3401 adean0413@gmail.com

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Bereavement Support Group Jennersville Hospital Conference Room B 1015 W. Baltimore Pike, West Grove (610) 998-1700, ext. 226

Dec. 4, 1:30 p.m.

Grief Support Group Phoenixville Senior Center 153 Church St., Phoenixville (610) 327-7216

Dec. 12, 1:30 p.m.

Family Caregiver Support Group Sarah Care 425 Technology Drive, Suite 200, Malvern (610) 251-0801

Coatesville Area Senior Center (610) 383-6900 250 Harmony St., Coatesville www.coatesvilleseniorcenter.org Mondays, Wedn esdays, and Fridays, 10:30-11:15 a.m. – Going Fit Exercise Program Dec. 6 and 20, 11 a.m. to noon – Veterans Coffee Club Dec. 12 and 26, 1-2 p.m. – Bingo

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Bereavement Support Group Brandywine Hospital Conference Room 2N 201 Reeceville Road, Coatesville (610) 998-1700, ext. 226

Dec. 12, 7-8:30 p.m.

Hearing Loss Support Group Christ Community Church 1190 Phoenixville Pike, West Chester (610) 444-445 www.hearinglosschesco.com

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Memory Loss and Dementia Support Group Sunrise Assisted Living of Paoli 324 W. Lancaster Ave., Malvern (610) 251-9994

Dec. 18, 6 p.m.

Family Caregiver Support Group Sunrise of Westtown 501 Skiles Blvd., West Chester (610) 399-4464

Dec. 10 and 24, 10:30 a.m. to noon Caregiver Coffee Break/Support Group Active Day of Exton 201 Sharp Lane, Exton (610) 363-8044

Dec. 26, 6 p.m.

Living with Cancer Support Group Paoli Hospital Cancer Center 255 W. Lancaster Ave., Paoli (484) 565-1253

Dec. 11, 5-6:30 p.m.

Bereavement Support Group Main Line Unitarian Church 816 S. Valley Forge Road, Devon (610) 585-6604 phoenixbereavement@yahoo.com Nondenominational; all are welcome.

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Community Programs Free and open to the public Dec. 1 and 15, 5-10 p.m.

Bingo Night Marine Corps League Detachment 430 Chestnut St., Downingtown (610) 429-8174 Dec. 4, 11:30 a.m.

West Chester University Retirees Luncheon For restaurant location, please email darsie@verizon.net

Dec. 6, 7:30 p.m.

Compassionate Friends Valley Forge Chapter Good Shepherd Lutheran Church 132 E. Valley Forge Road, King of Prussia (484) 919-0820 www.tcfvalleyforge.org Dec. 18, noon AARP Valley Forge Chapter Meeting St. Luke Evangelical Lutheran Church 203 N. Valley Forge Road, Devon (610) 647-1823

parks and recreation Dec. 8, 4 p.m. – Giving Back Holiday Movie Night, Springton Manor Farm Dec. 8, 4:30 p.m. – Luminaries Hike, Hibernia County Park Dec. 22, 6:45 a.m. – Sunrise after Solstice Hike, Wolf’s Hollow County Park

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Library Programs Avon Grove Library, 117 Rose Hill Ave., West Grove, (610) 869-2004 Dec. 3, 3-4:30 p.m. – Slipper Knitting Class Dec. 8, 2 p.m. – 19th-Century Christmastide Dec. 20, 6:30 p.m. – Book Club Downingtown Library, 330 E. Lancaster Ave., Downingtown, (610) 269-2741 Dec. 4 and 18, 6 p.m. – Knitters Club Dec. 20, 6:30 p.m. – Downingtown Library’s Writers Group Dec. 27, 1 p.m. – Senior Book Club Paoli Library, 18 Darby Road, Paoli, (610) 296-7996 Mystery Book Club – Call for dates/times

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Drug Coverage Expansion Would Cover 17,000 More Seniors In late October, legislation to expand eligibility for the state’s PACENET prescription drug coverage program passed the House and Senate and is now awaiting the governor’s consideration.

House Bill 270 would increase the income eligibility guidelines for the PACENET program, extending

prescription drug coverage to more than 17,000 older Pennsylvanians.

The PACE and PACENET programs provide low-cost prescription drugs to Pennsylvania seniors age 65 and older. Both programs are funded from proceeds of the Pennsylvania Lottery.

House Bill 270 would increase the

annual maximum income limits in the PACENET program to $27,500 for a single person and to $35,500 for a married couple.

Current maximum income requirements for the PACENET program, which covers those individuals with incomes exceeding PACE maximums, are $23,500 for a

single individual and $31,500 for a married couple annually.

This would be the first increase in the program since 2004.

Additionally, the bill would allow two new pharmacy-based programs to be developed under the PACE program to assist seniors in monitoring their prescription drug usage.

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Beavers and Porcupines Clyde McMillan-Gamber

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Beavers and porcupines have and certain maples — with their strong much in common. These interesting teeth. They eat the twigs, buds, and species are large rodents that live in bark from those trees and use the logs Pennsylvania’s forests, as well as in and branches to make dams and lodges. woods across much of North America.

Dams back up streams and form Both have large, orange teeth they ponds. Beavers build secure homes use to consume tree bark, twigs, and of logs and limbs in the ponds, with other tough vegetation. Both are underwater entrances to their homes. fairly common in There, each pair woodlands these lives and raises days. young.

And, as with Porcupines all rodents, grow to be 3 feet their teeth grow long and up to throughout their 20 pounds. They lives, which is are solitary, except essential because when mating or of the wear those raising a single Beaver teeth sustain while young each year. gnawing bark and Each porky dens twigs. in a tree cavity But beavers or a hole in the and porcupines ground. have differences, Porcupines are too, which make famous for their them distinct white-tipped, species. Beavers black quills that live at ponds are modified hairs they create on used to protect Porcupine woodland streams these creatures. by damming those The tip of each waterways. quill is barbed, which allows it to be Porkies mostly dwell in tall trees better imbedded in an attacker. in the woods. These different niches When threatened, each porcupine reduce competition for living space and turns its back to the aggressor, lowers food between these woodland rodents. its head, raises the quills on its body Beavers have luxurious, dark-brown and tail, and swings its tail from side fur and weigh up to 50 pounds. Each to side. Few critters try to get through beaver has a 10-inch-long, 6-inch-wide, that defense! flattened, hairless tail that is covered Porcupines are also famous for their with scales. craving of salt and other minerals. They It uses its tail for steering while consume shed deer antlers for calcium swimming with its back legs, storing and other minerals. And they chew on fat, patting down mud on log-and-twig axe handles and other wooden tools left dams and lodges, and slapping water in the woods because of the salt on the surfaces to warn of danger. wood from sweaty human hands.

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The Family Gourmet Feast 2 (5 oz.) Filet Mignons 2 (5 oz.) Top Sirloins 2 (4 oz.) Boneless Pork Chops 4 Boneless Chicken Breasts (1 lb. pkg.)

4 (3 oz.) Kielbasa Sausages 4 (4 oz.) Omaha Steaks Burgers 4 (3 oz.) Potatoes au Gratin 4 (4 oz.) Caramel Apple Tartlets Omaha Steaks Seasoning Packet

49

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2

FILET MIGNONS

2

TOP SIRLOINS

30 � �GOURMET

55586AZP | $199.91* separately

$ Combo Price

2

PORK CHOPS

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4

BONELESS CHICKEN BREASTS

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4

KIELBASA SAUSAGES

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OMAHA STEAKS BURGERS

1-844-295-8988 ask for 55586AZP | www.OmahaSteaks.com/good32 *Savings shown over aggregated single item base price. Limit 2 Family Gourmet Feast packages. Your 4 free burgers will be sent to each shipping address that includes the Family Gourmet Feast (55586). Standard S&H will be added per address. Flat rate shipping and reward cards and codes cannot be used with this offer.

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