50plus LIFE Chester County October 2016

Complimentary | Chester County Edition | October 2016 • Vol. 13 No. 10

Once a Trombonist, Always a Trombonist page 4

Special Focus: Create a Great Funeral page 10

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Medicare Open Enrollment: 5 Things You Need to Do Routines help keep us focused, organized, and even healthy.

However, if your health routine doesn’t include preparing for Medicare’s Open Enrollment, now’s the time to kick-start a new, healthy habit.

If you have a Medicare health or prescription drug plan, Open Enrollment runs Oct. 15 through Dec. 7 and is the time you can make changes to your plan. Even if you’re happy with your current coverage, you might find something that’s a better fit for your budget or your health needs.

If you miss an Open Enrollment deadline, you’ll most likely have to wait a full year before you can make changes to your plan.

Here are five important things every Medicare beneficiary can do to get in the Medicare Open Enrollment routine.

1. Review your plan notice. Be sure to read any notices from your Medicare plan about changes for

next year, especially your “Annual Notice of Change” letter. Look at your plan’s information to make sure your drugs are still covered and your doctors are still in network.

2. Think about what matters most to you. Medicare health and drug plans change each year, and so can your health needs.

Do you need a new primarycare doctor? Does your network include the specialist you want for an upcoming surgery? Is your new medication covered by your current plan? Does another plan offer the

same value at a lower cost?

Take stock of your health status and determine if you need to make a change.

3. Find out if you qualify for help paying for your Medicare.

Learn about programs in your state to help with the costs of Medicare premiums, your Medicare Part A (hospital insurance) and Medicare Part B (medical insurance) deductibles, coinsurance and copayments, and Medicare prescription drug coverage costs.

You can do this by visiting

www.medicare.gov or making an appointment with a local State Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) counselor for free, one-on-one, nonbiased Medicare assistance.

4. Shop for plans that meet your needs and fit your budget. Starting in October, you can use Medicare’s plan finder tool at www.medicare.gov/ find-a-plan to see what other plans are offered in your area.

A new plan may cost less, cover your drugs, and let you go to the providers you want, like your doctor or pharmacy.

If you find that your current coverage still meets your needs, then you’re done.

Remember, during Medicare Open Enrollment, you can decide to stay in Original Medicare or join a Medicare Advantage Plan. If you’re already in a Medicare Advantage Plan, you can switch back to Original Medicare.

5. Check your plan’s star rating before you enroll. The Medicare Plan

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Plans are given an overall quality rating on a one- to five-star scale, with one star representing

poor performance and five stars representing excellent performance.

Use the star ratings to compare the quality of health and drug plans being offered.

These are a few easy ways to get a jumpstart on your Medicare Open Enrollment. For more information, you can call (800) MEDICARE and say “agent.” TTY users should call (877) 486-2048.

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The Birth of the Jack-o’-Lantern Have you ever wondered how the practice of turning a pumpkin into a scary jack-o’-lantern started? Here’s the story: Jack-o’-lantern sounds Irish because it is. The flickering, carved

pumpkin faces that animate the American Halloween derive from an old Irish custom

of creating rustic lanterns from vegetables.

The Irish child’s typical Halloween flashlight was a

hollowed-out turnip or potato with a candle inside. When the Irish landed in America in the 19th century, they were quick to spot the possibilities in the pumpkin, and a new tradition was born.

At Your Fingertips Helpful numbers, hotlines, and local businesses and organizations eager to serve you—all just a phone call away.

Continuing Care Retirement Communities Moravian Manor 300 W. Lemon St., Lititz (717) 626-0214

Arthritis Foundation (215) 665-9200

JEWELERS American Gold & Estate Buyers, Inc. 363 E. Lincoln Highway, Exton (484) 872-8216

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (800) 232-4636

Legal Services Lawyer Referral Service (610) 429-1500

Coatesville VA Medical Center (610) 383-7711

Legal Aid of Southeastern PA (610) 436-4510

Chester County Emergency Services (610) 344-5000

Domestic Violence (800) 799-7233

Salvation Army Coatesville (610) 384-2954

National Osteoporosis Foundation (800) 223-9994

Pine and Pine Law Offices 104 S. Church St., West Chester (610) 344-7100

Salvation Army West Chester (610) 696-8746

PACE (800) 225-7223

Nutrition Meals on Wheels Chester County Inc. (610) 430-8500

Emergency Numbers Central PA Poison Center (800) 521-6110

Senior Healthlink (610) 431-1852

Pennsylvania Hunger Action Center (800) 366-3997

Great Valley (610) 889-2121

Social Security Administration (800) 772-1213

Office of Aging Chester County Department of Aging Services (610) 344-6350

Kennett Square (610) 444-4819

orthopedics Premier Orthopaedic & Sports Medicine Associates LTD Kennett Square – (610) 444-1344 West Chester – (610) 692-6280 West Grove – (484) 748-6148

Phoenixville (610) 935-1515

Disasters American Red Cross Greater Brandywine (610) 692-1200

Office of Aging (610) 344-6350/(800) 692-1100 Financial Services Internal Revenue Service (800) 829-3676 Fitness Aquatics Is, Inc. (484) 354-2720 Funeral & Cremation Services Cremation Society of Pennsylvania Serving Chester County (800) 720-8221 Health & Medical Services Alzheimer’s Association (800) 272-3900 American Cancer Society (800) 227-2345 www.50plusLifePA.com

American Heart Association (610) 940-9540

Southeastern PA Medical Institute (610) 446-0662 Hearing Services Advanced Hearing Solutions 111 Arrandale Blvd., Exton (610) 968-1039 Pennsylvania Office for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing (800) 233-3008 V/TTY Housing Assistance Community Impact Legal Services (610) 876-0804 Housing Authority of Chester County (610) 436-9200

Physicians The Center for Interventional Pain & Spine Locations in Bryn Mawr, Exton, and Wilmington (844) 365-7246 Gateway Medical Associates Locations in Coatesville, Downingtown, Lionville, and West Chester (610) 423-8181

personal services Butler-Ette Services (484) 770-8059

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501(c)3 nonprofit, was made up of engineers, factory workers, doctors, When Bob Troxell was lawyers, and all sorts of 11 years old, his neighbor busy musicians who didn’t said, “You look like a want to play in dive bars trombonist. Let’s make you on the weekends but loved a trombonist!” to play and jumped at His response was, the chance to perform for “What is that?” audiences who were just as Troxell’s neighbor, who eager to listen and dance. was a band director, helped Members of the Big Big Jazz Band Troxell’s Big Big Jazz him to order a trombone range in age from their 20s to their 90s.

Band focused on playing for $13 from the Searsbenefits for nonprofit Roebuck catalog and get organizations throughout started. the county. One year the And now at age 92, group was brainstorming Troxell has decades of ideas for a fun new venue experience playing as a to mix things up. trombonist and leading the “At first someone Big Big Jazz Band that he said, ‘What about a fall started. tailgate?’” Troxell recalled.

“Once a trombonist, “But someone else said, always a trombonist,” ‘No, why don’t we do laughed Troxell, who grew The band is made up of musicians something in the winter up in the coal region of from all kinds of professions. when the blahs set in?’

Shamokin in an era when And that’s how we came big bands and jazz music up with the Beat the were thriving.

Armstrong World Industries and Winter Blahs Ball.”

He served in the United worked at plants in Pittsburgh and About 800 people showed up, States Navy during World War Macon, Georgia, before ending and they ran out of seats.

II. He then used the G.I. bill and “People wanted to come and supported himself through school up in Central Pennsylvania. He worked for Armstrong for 40 years dance, and it was delightful,” said at Penn State University. and made lifelong friends that he Troxell.

“I was the first one in my The Beat the Winter Blahs Ball family to go to college, so nobody stills sees on a regular basis.

“It was a lot like playing the is still going strong 34 years later, knew anything about college,” he trombone,” he said. “There are and continues to draw crowds explained. always some new tunes.” every March.

Troxell was toying with the He was even able to play Troxell led the band until about idea of pursuing a career in music trombone in a jazz combo with three years ago, when he decided when his professor pulled him some of his coworkers, and he wanted a break from all of the aside to offer a bit of wisdom. He administrative work and to “just cautioned Troxell against majoring in 1968 he worked with Don Goldstrom, who put together a have fun.” in music and encouraged him to show that spoofed politics at the The Big Big Jazz Band is now consider engineering instead.

Fulton Theatre. led by Gary Peters and has 18 “He said music is a tough “He and Sen. Dick Snyder members. More information on racket, but if you become an wrote the show, and I handled the band is available at www. engineer you’ll always have a job the musicians and the musical bigbigjazzband.org. and you can make music your conducting,” Troxell said.

“Some of the musicians are avocation,” recalled Troxell.

The performance was such a right out of college in their early Troxell heeded his advice success that they held it for three 20s, and the oldest goes all the and graduated with a degree in nights in a row for the next three way up to me,” said Troxell with a engineering in 1948. years to a sold-out crowd every laugh.

“He said, ‘Sixty years from Music has certainly been one now, you’ll thank me.’ And I have time. When somebody suggested thanked him every night for many they organize a big band, they did of the key components in making that too. retirement so enjoyable and full years.”

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“The essential thing is that you need to have something that you enjoy, and something that is meaningful,” he said. “And not just watching football on TV or even reading a book, but something where physically you’re interfacing with other people. That’s what keeps you going.”

In addition to playing in the Big Big Jazz Band, Troxell is a substitute trombonist for other big bands and plays in pickup bands and at his church.

He and his wife, Kay, have been married for 65 years and have two children. For the past 20 years, the

couple has traveled to the North Carolina Jazz Festival in Wilmington each February.

“These are the best traditional jazz musicians in the world,” said Troxell, explaining that a highlight of the festival is when the performers invite musicians in the crowd to come onstage and play along.

“We get to play with the best, and it’s just a very wonderful feeling,” he continued. “It’s sort of like walking back in time to when you were a kid and you thought about doing this, and now you are.”

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Flu Shots Available Throughout County The Chester County Health Department will be offering flu vaccinations this fall at a variety of community locations.

Most insurance will be accepted.

If individuals have insurance, they should bring their cards with them to the clinic.

Available vaccines will include the Fluzone High-Dose vaccine for people aged 65 and older; the quadrivalent injectable for people aged 6 months and older; and the Flublok trivalent for people aged 18 and older who have an egg allergy.

For individuals who do not have insurance, or whose insurance does not cover the cost of a flu vaccine, a flu shot will be provided at no charge.

In addition to the clinics below, vaccinations can also be obtained at the Government Services Center, 601 Westtown Road, West Chester.

Individuals interested in scheduling an appointment to receive a flu vaccine at the center should go to www.chesco. org/health/flu or call (610) 344-6252.

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It Was 50 Years Ago Today

‘Walk Away Renée’ Randal Hill

Was there ever a real Renée from “Walk Away Renée,” and was the sad story true about her devastated lover sending her home? Renée did exist, but the rest of the tale? Sadly, it was simply the figment of a forlorn 16-year-old’s imagination.

Renée Fladen was an aspiring teenage ballerina whose boyfriend, Tom Finn, played guitar in a New York City rock band called the Left Banke. One night, Finn brought Fladen to a rehearsal. Michael Brown, the group’s keyboardist/songwriter, fell instantly in (puppy) love with the tall, striking blonde.

In agony from his unrequited crush, the highly strung, emotional wordsmith started writing love songs about Fladen. Brown would later confess to Bob Shannon in Behind the Hits, “I was just sort of mythologically

in love.” one way When he The lot we used to pass by wrote his band’s every day future millionJust walk seller, Brown wanted to set away Renée You won’t see his fantasyme follow you crush story in back home a real place.

As a boy in Brooklyn, he Brown’s “Walk Away Renée” violinist father had sometimes The Left Banke hunted praying was Harry October 1966 Lookofsky mantises in a (Brown’s real surname). Lookofsky covacant lot at the corner of Falmouth owned New York’s tiny World United and Hampton avenues.

Studios, where his son and his pals It was there that Brown pictured Fladen and himself standing together often hung out after school.

The Left Banke members weren’t in the rain below a “one way” sign on Falmouth: skilled instrumentalists, but Lookofsky realized that they could harmonize well and in the style of the thenAnd when I see the sign that points

popular British Invasion groups.

Lookofsky had the quartet tape a couple of songs to see how they’d sound on a record, but nothing worked until the night Renée Fladen sauntered into World United.

For the 1966 recording of the tearsoaked, minor-key lament “Walk Away Renée,” Lookofsky brought in a string quartet to create a moody, “baroque rock” atmosphere. He also added a lilting flute solo inspired by the Mamas & the Papas’ “California Dreamin’.”

Lookofsky then hit the streets to pitch the unusual song that featured reedy lead vocals by band member Steve Martin Cano. Smash Records liked the tune, released it that fall, and watched in amazement as “Walk Away Renée” catapulted to No. 5 on Billboard’s singles chart.

Two years later, the Four Tops took

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a soulful Motown remake to the Top 20.

The Left Banke hit big once more with Brown’s second Fladen-inspired composition, the hauntingly ethereal “Pretty Ballerina,” which continued Brown’s infatuation with the blond beauty: Her hair so brilliant that it hurt my eyes And Fladen, that unintentional heartbreaker? As Renée Fladen-

Kamm, she forsook ballet to eventually become a highly respected classical singer and vocal coach in the San Francisco Bay area.

Undoubtedly to her chagrin, though, she will be forever linked to the tune that, during the ’80s, was certified as one of history’s few pop songs to ever receive more than 1 million radio airplays.

Randal C. Hill is a rock ’n’ roll historian who lives at the Oregon coast. He may be reached at wryterhill@msn.com.

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By John Johnston

You Can Still File and Suspend Despite Recent Changes

You probably heard that changes in the law now affect the way you file for certain benefits.

These changes place limits on when voluntary suspension and reinstatement can begin for you and your family members who might also be entitled to benefits on that record.

This is not the demise of “file and suspend.” It’s still one of your best tools for boosting your Social Security benefit after you reach your full retirement age.

The Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015 made changes to the Social Security claims filed by married couples. The law affected an unintended loophole primarily used by married couples to gain more money.

If you’re full retirement age or older and apply for Social Security retirement benefits, you can suspend your benefits for any amount of time up to age 70.

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credits on or after April 30, 2016, you will no longer be able to receive spouse’s or widow(er)’s benefits during this voluntary delay period.

In addition, if you suspend your benefit, any benefits payable to your spouse and children on your record (except for a divorced spouse) will also be suspended for the same time period.

There is an exception. A request for voluntary suspension will not suspend a divorced spouse’s benefit. Also, your divorced spouse can receive benefits on your record during this voluntary delay period.

Remember, you can still plan and make the most of your retirement benefit by filing and suspending.

These new rules don’t prevent you from doing what’s best for you and your family. We have a wealth of retirement information at www. socialsecurity.gov/planners/retire.

For more information and answer to your questions about these changes in the law, go to www.socialsecurity.gov/planners/retire/ claiming.html.

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Carnegie Hall Performers in the ’50 and ’60s Find the names of these famous musicians and vocalists who performed at least once in Carnegie Hall during the ’50s and ’60s: 1. 1950 – vocalist Ma_____ Ja_____ 2. 1953 – violinist Ja_____ He_____ 3. 1956 – vocalist Bi_____ Ho_____ 4. 1958 – vocalist Pa_____ Ro_____ 5. 1959 – vocalist Ha_____ Be_____ 6. 1961 – vocalist Ju_____ Ga_____ 7. 1963 – violinist It_____ Pe_____ 8. 1963 – vocalist Bo_____ Dy_____ 9. 1963 – jazz musician Da_____ Br_____ 10. 1968 – pianist Vl_____ Ho_____

Federal Actions of the ’50s and ’60s Find the missing words from the federal agencies, programs, acts, and laws that started in the ’50s and ’60s: 1. 1950 – National S_____ Foundation 2. 1950 – Federal Civil D_____ Act 3. 1956 – Interstate H_____ System 4. 1960 – Federal Te_____ System 5. 1961 – P_____ Corps 6. 1964 – V_____ in Service to America 7. 1964 – Food S_____ Act 8. 1965 – Me_____ 9. 1965 – Project H_____ Start 10. 1968 – C_____ Rights Act

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Year Est.: 1981 Counties Served: Chester, Delaware RNs: Yes LPNs: Yes CNAs: Yes Home Aides: Yes Medicare Certified?: No

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Other Certifications and Services: Surrey, a nonprofit, provides complete inhome services including the following: certified geriatric care managers and aging life care professionals, RNs, LPNs, CNAs, licensed clinical social workers (LSCW), and home health aides (HHA). Additional services include transportation and house cleaning.

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On the way to signing our wills, my husband, Bob, said, “I know it’s hard to talk about, but what do you want done with your body?”

“Just take it to the dump.”

“This is no time for jokes,” he said.

“OK, I’ll be serious. I promise.”

“I don’t even know if you want to be cremated or buried.”

“Cremated. Just make sure I’m dead. And that I’m wearing clean underwear.”

Smartly ignoring my responses, he

I said, “If I go first, solemnly said, “Would and you even glance you want a beautiful ceremony and have at another woman, I your ashes scattered in will haunt you every the ocean?” night. I’ll make the bed levitate. I’ll appear in “Just toss them in the cat litter.” a long, white, flowing In spite of himself, gown, and I’ll bring he laughed, then grew your evil mother with very serious and said, me. I’ll—” Saralee and Bob. “If I go first, I want you He cut me off. “We’ve to go on with your life. Find someone never discussed life support. I don’t want to be kept alive on machines.” else and be happy.”

“I do. Just make sure the place is kept clean, the laundry’s constantly getting done, and that I’m well fed.”

“I do all that now.”

“And make sure there’s a TV.” We continued our drive to the appointment with our lawyer. He’s a gentle, fine man. The only lie I’ve ever told him was when he asked me to swear I was of sound mind.

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Don’t Fly Over Nebraska

By Andrea Gross

In my years of traveling I’ve flown over Nebraska many, many times. I’d look out the window and see neat plots of farmland and the winding ribbon of the Platte River, but not much else.

I wasn’t surprised. After all, what else is there between the Miracle Mile of Chicago and the mountains of Colorado? Last summer my husband and I decided to find out.

A former state slogan asserts that “Nebraska is where the West begins” and, as we soon learn, it begins just a few minutes after we cross the Missouri River Bridge that runs between Iowa and Nebraska.

There, in the middle of downtown Omaha, bronze bison crash through buildings, Canadian geese fly through the air, and a giant wagon train prepares to depart for points unknown. More than 100 larger-

It doesn’t take long to fly over Nebraska, but it’s much more interesting to drive.

than-life sculptures, arranged in two nonadjacent but coordinating parks, provide a glimpse of what the pioneers were about to face.

As we fill up our gas tank, a typically pragmatic Nebraskan puts it another way.

Photo credit: Omaha Convention & Visitors Bureau

The Spirit of Nebraska’s Wilderness and Pioneer Courage Parks in downtown Omaha feature more than 100 larger-than-life bronze pieces that depict Nebraska’s past.

“Once those pioneers got to Omaha, they didn’t have much choice.

They were pretty much in the middle of what is now the United States, not counting Alaska or Hawaii. No matter

which direction they turned, they had 1,500 miles to go before reaching the country’s edge.”

Our journey suddenly sounds embarrassingly easy. We only have 450 miles to go before reaching the western edge of Nebraska, and we’ll be traveling in a Honda rather than a covered wagon.

But before leaving the town where the West begins, we have to see where Warren Buffett — arguably Nebraska’s most well-known citizen — began.

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Buffett stories and sightings are easy to come by in Omaha. An elderly gentleman tells us that he asked the billionaire if he’d ever used senior discounts. He enclosed a stamped, self-addressed envelope with his query, and Buffett answered immediately.

“I did get in as a senior citizen at the movies the other night,” he wrote, “and take note: I used your stamped envelope for the reply.”

A woman says she saw Buffett and Microsoft founder Bill Gates, the world’s wealthiest person, at Petrow’s, a family diner replete with fountain bar, where they each ordered the value-priced daily special.

But for a quick snack, Buffett is said to prefer Dairy Queen, a holding of his Berkshire-Hathaway company. He usually orders a small Dusty Sundae, which is soft vanilla ice cream topped with malted milk powder. We decide to splurge by spending 60 cents more for a large.

Omaha is one place where we can afford to eat better than a billionaire.

Following our grand indulgence, we head west on Interstate 80,

Photo credit: Visit Nebraska

Warren Buffett and his bridge buddy, Bill Gates, enjoy the atmosphere and prices at Omaha’s Petrow’s Restaurant.

Floating down the river in an old feeding tank is a popular activity in western Nebraska.

roughly paralleling the route taken by nearly a half million settlers during the mid-19th century. The Great Platte River Road, as it was called back then, was the main path for the Oregon Trail, the Mormon Trail, and the Gold Rush Trail. Today it’s an interstate trail for modern travelers.

We get another sense of the country’s vastness at Kearney’s Archway, a two-story museum that, as the name implies, arches over the interstate. Inside, a host of exhibits detail Nebraska’s transportation history, from wagons to trains to

speeding cars.

About 25 miles past North Platte, where we stop to see Buffalo Bill’s ranch and Union Pacific’s giant railroad yard, a small sign advises us that we’re about to enter Mountain Time Zone.

We have to adjust our watches as well as our mindset, for it’s here that the West of our imagination really begins. The neat plots of farmland filled with rows of corn become vast fields filled with grazing cattle. And the traffic — as well as the number of rest stops — thins out.

having had the chance to see how beautifully his garden had grown.

I pictured sleepless nights with our cat in my arms, without Bob beside me to share in a three-way embrace.

And I thought about never having my husband make fun of me again for wearing my 20-year-old blue bathrobe, which has holes bigger than the biggest pancake ever made.

I touched Bob’s lovely face. He opened his sleepy eyes and merely said, “I know. I feel the same way.”

We fell asleep holding hands, aware that although the years have gone by so quickly, we have each other to hold on to, for right now, for this night, for this moment.

Maybe I’ll be blessed to fall asleep holding hands with my best friend

Off to the north are the Sandhills, a seemingly endless rolling prairie that covers nearly a third of the state.

Highway 2, which bisects the region from east to west, is ranked as one of the 10 most beautiful highways in the nation.

Interspersed amongst the cattle ranches, there’s water, lots of it. In fact, the Sandhills are a recreational wonderland, filled with rivers and lakes that are perfect for fishing, swimming, tubing, and — my favorite — tanking. This is a Nebraska specialty that consists of using a feeding tank meant for livestock, outfitting it with cushy seating, and taking it on a float down a river.

Thoroughly relaxed and slightly damp, we return to Interstate 80 and head out to Wyoming. We’ve driven the length of Nebraska and one thing is certain: The best way to see Nebraska is by car — not through an airplane window.

For more on Warren Buffett’s favorite haunts as well as other great Nebraska destinations, see www.traveltizers.com.

Photos © Irv Green unless otherwise noted; story by Andrea Gross (www. andreagross.com).

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we held hands as we walked outside.

I can’t fathom life without Bob. In the middle of that night, I lay awake, crying. I pictured coming home alone someday, and feeding our pets all by myself. I’d need a stool to reach their food.

I pictured seeing the first blossom of our salvia—a hummingbird drinking the nectar—without Bob

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for many nights to come, to hear his laughter upon seeing me in my blue bathrobe, to feed our pets together.

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Chester County

Calendar of Events

Support Groups Free and open to the public

Senior Center Activities

Oct. 4, 1:30 p.m.

Grief Support Group Phoenixville Senior Center 153 Church St., Phoenixville (610) 327-7216

Coatesville Area Senior Center – (610) 383-6900 250 Harmony St., Coatesville – www.coatesvilleseniorcenter.org Monthly Veterans Coffee Hour – Call for date and time

Oct. 4 and 18, 6:30 to 8 p.m.

Bereavement Support Group Brandywine Hospital Conference Room 2N 201 Reeceville Road, Coatesville (610) 998-1700, ext. 226 Oct. 5, 6 p.m.

Memory Loss and Dementia Support Group Sunrise Assisted Living of Paoli 324 W. Lancaster Ave., Malvern (610) 251-9994 Oct. 10, 6:30-7:30 p.m.

Caregiver Support Group Ashbridge Manor Senior Living 971 E. Lancaster Ave., Downingtown (610) 269-8800 Oct. 10 and 24, 10:30 a.m. to noon Caregiver Support Group Adult Care of Chester County 201 Sharp Lane, Exton (610) 363-8044 Oct. 11, 7 p.m.

Hearing Loss Support Group Christ Community Church 1190 Phoenixville Pike, West Chester (610) 444-445 www.hearinglosschesco.com

Oct. 11 and 25, 5 to 6:30 p.m.

Bereavement Support Group Main Line Unitarian Church 816 S. Valley Forge Road, Devon (610) 585-6604 phoenixbereavement@yahoo.com Nondenominational; all are welcome.

Oct. 11 and 25, 6:30 to 8 p.m.

Bereavement Support Group Jennersville Hospital Conference Room B 1015 W. Baltimore Pike, West Grove (610) 998-1700, ext. 226

Oct. 4, 11:30 a.m.

West Chester University Retirees Luncheon For restaurant location, please email darsie@ verizon.net

Kennett Area Senior Center – (610) 444-4819 427 S. Walnut St., Kennett Square – www.kennettseniorcenter.org Oct. 13, 10-11 a.m. – A ssisted Senior Program Welcome Reception

Oct. 18, 6 p.m.

Family Caregiver Support Group Sunrise of Westtown 501 Skiles Blvd., West Chester (610) 399-4464

Oxford Senior Center – (610) 932-5244 12 E. Locust St., Oxford – www.oxfordseniors.org

Oct. 26, 6 p.m.

Living with Cancer Support Group Paoli Hospital Cancer Center 255 W. Lancaster Ave., Paoli (484) 565-1253

West Chester Area Senior Center – (610) 431-4242 530 E. Union St., West Chester – www.wcseniors.org

Phoenixville Area Senior Center – (610) 935-1515 153 Church St., Phoenixville – www.phoenixvilleseniorcenter.org

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Oct. 6, 7:30 p.m.

Compassionate Friends Valley Forge Chapter Good Shepherd Lutheran Church 132 E. Valley Forge Road, King of Prussia (484) 919-0820 www.tcfvalleyforge.org Oct. 18, 1 p.m.

AARP Valley Forge Chapter Meeting St. Luke Evangelical Lutheran Church 203 N. Valley Forge Road, Devon (610) 688-5733

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Great Valley Senior Center – (610) 889-2121 47 Church Road, Malvern

Oct. 12, 1:30 p.m.

Family Caregiver Support Group Sarah Care 425 Technology Drive, Suite 200, Malvern (610) 251-0801

Community Programs Free and open to the public Oct. 1 and 15, 5 to 10 p.m.

Bingo Night Marine Corps League Detachment 430 Chestnut St., Downingtown (610) 429-8174

Downingtown Senior Center – (610) 269-3939 983 E. Lancaster Ave., Downingtown – www.downingtownseniors.org Oct. 5, 12:45 p.m. – “Rhythm of Life” Drumming Oct. 6, 9-11 a.m. – Flu Shot Clinic Oct. 28, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. – Craft Fair

Oct. 1, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. – Nottingham Country Fair, Nottingham County Park Oct. 15 and 16, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. – Hibernia Native American Harvest Festival, Hibernia County Park Oct. 19, 6-8 p.m. – A Great Autumn Evening, Hibernia Mansion, Hibernia County Park

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Agent Orange: What Vietnam Veterans Can Do to Help Future Generations

By Rebecca Hanlon No one noticed it at first. The herbicide used to clear tracts of rainforest during the Vietnam War was given the name “Agent Orange” for the brightly colored stripes on the barrels. And while it did its job of killing vegetation, it also was doing something else in the DNA of men and women who served in the Armed Forces.

While U.S. forces would withdraw in 1973, the Vietnam War didn’t end until 1975. But between 1962 and 1971, the United States sprayed approximately 20 million gallons of dioxin-contaminated herbicides over some 6 million acres of Vietnam, according to a report by the National Organization on Disability.

All the while, veterans who were exposed to Agent Orange and other herbicides were slowly starting to experience their own changes. The

Department of Veterans Affairs received its first reports of conditions related to Agent Orange in 1977.

Since then, it has been a long road of determining how Agent Orange might have affected those exposed to its chemicals—even plaguing future generations—and how the government can now provide assistance.

Vietnam Veterans of America, based in Silver Spring, Md., has been pushing legislation to help collect data from veterans and find ways to help the generations that

continue to suffer from some of the effects, including spina bifida and an incomplete closing of a fetus’ spine, as well as issues related to learning, attention, and weak immune systems.

For decades, Vietnam veterans were denied disability and health benefits for exposure to Agent Orange. It wasn’t until 1991 that certain illnesses were finally linked to the herbicide.

But hope might finally be in sight. In 2015, senators pushed for a bipartisan bill that would allow veterans who served in Vietnam and on the surrounding shoreline

and have a disease associated with Agent Orange to receive health and disability benefits.

Betty Mekdeci of Birth Defect Research For Children, Inc., in Florida knows how hard of a struggle it has been to provide relief for Vietnam veterans.

“It’s a shame that these veterans waited so long for someone to take notice,” Mekdeci said. “The research wasn’t there for such a long time, and it was like we were starting from scratch to get it.”

Working with the Vietnam Veterans of America, Mekdeci was able to start a national birth defect registry to help determine how children and grandchildren of veterans were reacting to Agent Orange exposure.

While spina bifida is the main defect seen in future generations of male veterans, there are 18 birth defects found in the children and

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grandchildren of female veterans, Mekdeci said.

As the data rolled in, Mekdeci said, they expected to see cleft palate and spina bifida pop up in the listings. But it was the nonphysical defects—the pattern of children with learning, attention, and immune disabilities—that caught her attention.

“Doctors didn’t know what to do.

Families were frustrated,” she said.

“We needed to do more research.”

Years later, Mekdeci has closely followed legislators who debate the passing of bills that would bring benefits to veterans and their children.

“Agent Orange turned birth defect research on its head,” she said. “We thought of birth defects as structural things—heart defects, cleft palate, missing limbs. But it isn’t just bones and organs that form during pregnancy. It’s all the things that make our bodies function.”

But getting help for veterans exposed to Agent Orange is still a challenge.

The official list of diseases recognized as related to Agent Orange has grown slowly and sporadically, mostly because of underfunding and uneven research, according to the National Organization on Disability.

More than a decade after the war, the skin disease chloracne, which causes disfiguration, was the only illness officially associated with Agent Orange exposure. Others have been added, including chronic B-cell leukemia, Hodgkin’s disease, ischemic heart disease, Parkinson’s disease, prostate cancer, respiratory cancers, and several groups of cancers found in soft tissue, such as

muscle, fat, and blood.

Today, 14 illnesses are recognized by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs as being a result of Agent Orange exposure.

According to the Department of Veterans Affairs, biological children of veterans exposed to Agent Orange may receive a monthly monetary allowance based on their level of disability, as well as vocational training for job placement and healthcare benefits.

While Vietnam Veterans of America has focused on the families of veterans, veterans of more recent wars have reported similar heath issues in younger generations.

With hopes of initiating research on all toxic exposures to those in the Armed Forces, the Vietnam Veterans of America’s Agent Orange/Dioxin Committee has been hard at work pushing new legislation.

The organization introduced identical bills in both chambers of Congress, H.R. 1769 and S.901— the Toxic Exposure Research Act of 2015. Both bills have bipartisan sponsorship.

The Toxic Exposure Research Act of 2015 directs the VA secretary to select one VA Medical Center to serve as the national center for the research and diagnosis and treatment of health conditions of descendants of individuals exposed to toxic substances during service, according to a news release.

“We needed this type of research done years ago,” Mekdeci said. “It really can’t wait any longer. The more time passes, the more time we’re missing out on opportunities to prevent more harm. Our veterans deserve more than that.”

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Tom’s response to Brenda: Brenda, I understand your frustration. Your marriage of 30 years to a loving and devoted husband has set the bar very high for another loving relationship.

And I commend you for putting yourself out there on the internet.

Here are five suggestions: 1. Reconsider the number of available men. At age 60, the ratio is not four or five women to each available man, but closer to threeto-one. At 68, it is a bit wider. So, although the ratio is daunting, it’s not quite as bad as you have suggested.

Plus, the lack of men doesn’t appear to be your problem.

You say you’ve met 12 to 13 men for coffee dates, over about a year’s time. www.50plusLifePA.com

That is pretty darned good. Many women who write me haven’t had a date in several years, and you are out with a new guy on average about once a month?

Also, in that year, four of the men you dated “for more than a few dates.”

That’s pretty darned good also. Again, it’s not the shortage of men that is the issue.

2. Soften your attitude toward dating and the men you are meeting.

You say you “hate dating.” Drop the word “hate” from your dating vocabulary.

Also, regarding those 12-13 coffee dates you had, you said you would not be “caught dead” with any of them. Drop those words from your dating vocabulary as well.

You also said, “… so many loser men out there.” No man will match what you had with your husband. Lighten up a little on men; there are good ones available.

3. Your problem isn’t meeting men; it is meeting the wrong type of men.

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Try different internet dating sites.

Make a written list of the qualities

you want in a mate and date only men who have those qualities.

4. From what you say, you’ve got many positives. You’re fortunate.

Appreciate what you have and get out there and help others who are less fortunate. Give back. Volunteer in several places, not just one or two.

5. How soon is too soon to give up seeking a mate? At 68, you are way too young to give up. Just make a few changes and you will be fine. I know women in their 80s who have met nice partners.

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Tailgating with Vintage Flair Lori Verderame

Collectors look for team spirit and old kitchen collectibles when shopping for tailgating items. Autumn is the season for every type of tailgate … football, soccer, whatever the sport.

Team colors are always in style, and vintage pieces from tailgates gone by are sure to make your tailgate party a winner. Condition is important, as is the age of the vintage tailgating items.

Table Settings Printed tablecloths from the 1940s will make that old folding table look great all season long. Some of the best folding tables are the wooden poker tables from the 1950s or the notvery-vintage plastic tables from office supply stores.

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These won’t cost too much, about $10 each in good condition, because they are easy to come by and always very useful.

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Happy tailgating!

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