Conscious Rules for Interracial or Interfaith Dating

by Marni Battista

Every relationship comes with its own intricate obstacles, and an interracial or interfaith relationship can have its challenges.

Partnering with someone of a different ethnic or religious background can make even the most spectacular relationship a bit more complicated. Even though relationships of every imaginable combination are increasingly common in the modern-day dating scene, the concept hasn't completely shed the stigma yet—and many otherwise solid and healthy relationships suffer because of it.

To help those currently weathering the challenges of being in an interracial or interfaith relationship, here is simple Dating with Dignity rules to navigate these complicated waters toward happiness and harmony.

Investing time in learning more about your significant other's background and beliefs will not only express how much you care, but it can often bring the two of you closer together.

Respect each other's cultures and beliefs: It's important to be open and accepting of your partner's cultural and religious background. Try to learn and understand each other's values, customs, and traditions. For example, if you're far along enough in the interracial or interfaith relationship and your partner is comfortable with it, reach out to their family for a greater understanding and maybe even attend a religious service with them.

Beyond the invaluable bond, such a gesture will create a clear understanding of any major differences in cultural background or values that may have caused rifts between you two otherwise.

Don't forget to respect each other's boundaries: It's important to respect your partner's boundaries and not pressure them to compromise their values or beliefs.

Educate yourself: Learn about the history, struggles, and triumphs of your partner's culture and religion. This can help you understand their perspective and build a stronger connection.