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Cover Story 24
Tom Paladino - Scalar Energy Healing
Health & Wellness 40 42
How Yoga and Holistic Chiropractic Care Can Alter Your Nervous System Treating Ovarian Cyst PCOS Naturally
Spirituality 54
The Art of Compassion
OM Living 60 64 68 72
5 Behaviors to be More Mindful and Change your Life The Tao of Organizing Your Email and Snail Mail Being Irrational in Business is a Gift How Parents Can Avoid Passing On Their Emotional Wounds to Their Kids
Relationships 80 82
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Secrets of Compassionate Relationships 3 Signs You are Suffering from Emotional Detachment in your Relationship The Pitfalls of On-Demand Summer Romance
Metaphysics 94
Initiation Blueprint
Astrology & Numerology
102 How the Astrological Signs Use Their Spare Time
Personal Growth
110 Mom, She Stole My Spot 114 Why Broken Promises Can (and Will) Steal Your Thunder 118 What Lurks Behind Your Mess and Clutter
Books
124 Our Secret Powers
Tom Paladino Scalar Energy to Heal the World Tom Paladino is a scalar energy researcher with 25 years of experience in helping people with chronic pathogenic illnesses. Tom Paladino began research with scalar energy during his under-graduate years. He was inspired by various scientists, especially Nikola Tesla, as to the existence of an energy that was not of the electromagnetic spectrum. With this inspiration, he pursued a course of independent study in order to better
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understand and subsequently harness scalar energy.
question. What exactly is this energy healing that you do?
Scalar energy is also known as prana, chi, radiant energy, zero point energy, qi, orgone, eloptic energy. After years of experimentation and modification, Tom has developed a technique using scalar energy that will transmute pathogens quickly and painlessly. This technique facilitates the use of photographs of people who desire to have pathogens transmuted in their bodies.
Tom Paladino: I am working with Scalar Energy. It’s not electricity. It’s not of the electromagnetic spectrum. Nickola Tesla was probably considered to be the founding father of Scalar Energy. Many of you have heard of that name, Nickola Tesla, a great scientist.
Tom has participated in clinical trials with a medical institution. In the lab, they watched the pathogens (protozoa) disassemble in front of their eyes. Emboldened by these discoveries, he desires to present the world with the solution for ALL bacterial, fungal, protozoan and viral infections. It is his belief and statement that the scalar energy is capable of transmuting ALL pathogens thus presenting the world with the SOLUTION for thousands of pathogenic diseases. Matt Connarton: Tom Paladino, let’s start with the obvious
Matt Connarton: Absolutely. Tom Paladino: Very simply, Scalar Energy is from the sun, from the stars. So, I am working with that perfect energy, Scalar Energy. Some people call it life force energy. From my studies and from what I’ve observed, the electromagnetic spectrum is a derivative from Scalar Energy. So, I am working with the first energy of the universe, so to speak. It’s the life force energy. And with that life force energy, Scalar Energy, you have control over matter. You have control over nature. Scalar Energy gives us a greater, more consummate control to perform work as opposed to that of the electromagnetic spectrum. Omtimes.com
5 Behaviors to be More Mindful and Change your Life OMTimes Staff
The Significant changes in our lives are preceded by a myriad of small but meaningful changes that have the power to steer our lives to a new path.
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Mindfulness is a way that can help us realize this, and these five suggested behaviors may empower us to learn how to be more present, more aware, Kinder and receptive to our feelings and the reality around us. We should point out that, when we speak of happiness, we realize that It depends on our personal dedication to achieve it. Hence Happiness is not a product of Fate. Changes start happening when we gradually train our mind to be more perceptive, more engaged on what is happening around us, and allow us to be present in the now.Mindfulness allow us to be maleable, fluid and adaptable. Our Greatest enemy that prevents us from crossing these thresholds of opportunity is unquestionably
the “wandering mind.” Through some studies, scholars concluded that we spend about 30 to 40% of our time in the “autopilot” behavior. This type of behavior commonly induces us to let our happiness to be the result of Fate. It is like to live a routine life where we become mere passengers rather than commanders-inchief is like leaving our own joy in the hands of fate. This is not the most appropriate. We offer you the suggested changes to include in your daily life these five keys to see fast and direct results 1. Train to stay in the present moment and access/deal with your emotions, as they happen. Mindfulness is, above all, a way of life; a means to grow consciousness of our present moment in its fullness.
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The Tao of Organizing Your Email and Snail Mail by Kartar Diamond
I’m old enough to remember life before email. Nowadays we have to deal with both email and regular mail. To stay organized and de-clutter, the “Touch Once” concept dictates that you deal with your regular paper mail immediately instead of allowing letters and junk mail
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to pile up somewhere in your house or office. Instead of procrastinating or shuffling the mail from one pile to the next, you touch it once and decide right then and there what to do with it. Some people don’t even let the junk mail into the house, taking the junk mail from the mailbox directly to the outdoor trash cans. If you are the type of person who cuts coupons and wants to look at the junk mail, then I recommend that it at least go in a special location for that purpose. One needs to then make sure they deal with the junk mail on a weekly basis. Let your weekly Trash Pick Up day be your incentive. With the Touch Once policy, the bills would be placed in one folder (to be dealt with weekly or monthly), other correspondence in another folder. You need a filing system so that you can take action on anything with a deadline (like a bill) or an expiration date. If you don’t like bill paying or going through your mail, try doing it at the same time as a more mindless task like watching TV.
When I get my Bed Bath and Beyond coupons in the mail, they go directly next to my purse so that I can put them in the glove compartment the next time I go to my car. I may have taken the Touch Once principle to the extreme in that I pay a bill the day I get it instead of doing all my bills at the same time. I personally just like to get the bill off my desk and not have to look at it again. I don’t like seeing bills! Many of you may be laughing at this practice since so many people pay their bills online and have gone paperless a long time ago. And the ultimate would be the auto-pay options for many bills. Let the computers pay your bills! That said, many people from my generation are still a little skittish about auto-bill paying. If you ever got caught up in one of those multi-level marketing products where you were put on a monthly bill/ delivery program without your permission, you know it is not always easy to get off the autobill merry-go-round. When it comes to email, many of you already have a system
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You’ll often hear me say, if you wake up in the morning and have blood running in your veins, you’re in business. And what you can achieve in business is often beyond what this world would regard as ‘rational.’ Rationality and irrationality are very misunderstood
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concepts, especially when it comes to business. Contrary to what we tend to believe, being irrational is actually a gift that allows your business to become more successful. Most people try to achieve in business by emulating successful people or repeating what has worked in the past. That’s being
totally rational. The trouble is, when you replicate what’s already been done, you fail to acknowledge whether or not it will actually work for you now, and you limit your ability to recognize other – greater – possibilities. Being rational also means you build your business purely based on facts and figures. Rationality is based on judgment; always looking for what’s right or wrong. You’re trying to prove why your choices are smart, why they will work or why they should have worked. In doing so, you become locked into the mindset of projections and expectations. You prevent your business from expanding and becoming more successful in all the irrational ways it can. To be truly rich and successful with your business, you have to be irrational. This means choosing options and following opportunities that don’t actually exist yet. When you are irrational in business, it doesn’t mean you want to totally ignore all the successful people and businesses around you. Ask
successful people you know about the choices they made that enhance their business. If a particular business grabs your attention, research more about the actions and decisions that led to their success. Then, ask yourself how you can take what you’ve learned and allowed it to contribute to your business in irrational ways. What parts work for you and what doesn’t? What else can you do with the information that allows it to work for you? Irrationality is not disregarding the bits and pieces of other peoples’ choices that appeal to you; it’s willing to know what works for you and your business even when it doesn’t make rational sense. It’s the gift of creating based on what you instinctively know. The power of the question To function from irrationality, you have to give up believing you have (or can find) the answers to everything, and start asking questions. Questions will give you more control than anything. They allow you to go beyond everything you’ve seen or been told, to instead choose from knowing what actually Omtimes.com
Signs You are Suffering from Emotional Detachment in your Relationship By Ascending Hearts
Emotional Detachment is a clear indicator that there is a crisis in the relationship. This bond is closely related to intimacy, sharing and enjoying each other, being one of
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the essential pillars. That is why this emotional bonding requires continuous care. When we care about the relationship we are living with that person we consider so unique, we wait, pay attention, and take care of all the aspects that reinforce the bond. Also, we do this for no other purpose than to look together for a shared future.
Lack of intimacy and sexual contact Many difficulties presented in the relationship serve as indicators that something is not right. To make ears of the merchant or put a blindfold on not only complicates everything but also is the prelude to the destruction of the affective bond between the couple.
That would be ideal; however, many relationships begin when those involved are filled with expectations, past stories, fears, and insecurities. This dramatically complicates communication, causes misunderstandings, and ultimately generates an emotional distance.
Intimacy in the relationship is one of the critical keys to attending since a little carelessness destroys communication, trust, sexual desire and the desire to share tastes and passions. When situations of intimacy with our partner bother us, we must pay attention to the problem that lies behind.
Being aware of these critical moments, given the signs that are appearing, can help us build a stable relationship that will not end in the face of a small conflict.
Sexual contact can, in turn, be destroyed, since there is less appetite, less passion, and sexual encounters are less and less frequent. These signs, if other more severe problems
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The Pitfalls of On-Demand Summer Romance By Marcia Sirota, MD.
Summer is in full swing, and lots of singles are starting to stress out about not having a date for that summer wedding, pool party or family reunion. For many people, it’s awkward to show up solo
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at these types of events. It’s stressful not knowing that there will be at least one person at the party who they can talk to. Showing up alone at a big event can make a person feel like everyone’s staring, wondering why you’re the only single there. You could feel embarrassed, maybe even like a bit of a loser. Some people can be pushed to take desperate measures. These individuals might not be interested in starting a relationship, but they’re superkeen to find a date for their upcoming summer events. Fortunately for these desperate individuals, all they have to do is click or swipe on their favorite online site and bingo, they’re set up with a suitable date for the backyard barbecue or the banquet hall reception. Think of it as on-demand dating. An individual has a specific need, they check
out what’s available, and they choose from the most attractive options. It’s online shopping, but for people. When it comes to ondemand dating, the person looking for a date has only one thing in mind: to avoid the unpleasantness and/or embarrassment of showing up to their summer events unaccompanied. Since they aren’t looking for an actual relationship, they’re not interested in getting to know the other person on any meaningful level. And the expiry date for such an arrangement would be at the latest, Labor Day weekend. The person being chosen as the on-demand date is in an awkward situation. More often than not, the individual who sought them out wasn’t honest about what they were looking for. This is unfair, but the on-demand dater isn’t focused on ethical concerns; they just want to avoid showing up unaccompanied
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Initiation Blueprint by Carl Greer, Ph.D., PsyD
To undergo an initiation is to become aware of your spiritual essence. Whether or not the process is accompanied by a ritual, or marked by it afterward, an initiation involves a profound shift in perspective. Afterward, whatever life challenges you
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face, the internal change you’ve experienced will ensure that you can engage these challenges differently.
our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. We can think of initiation, then, as an archetype or archetypal energy.
Initiation expands your identity beyond “me” to “me, as part of the we that has always been and always will be.” A spiritual initiation ushers in what has been called rebirth, enlightenment, or a peak experience.
But the idea of archetypal forces is actually not unique to Jung. There are similar concepts in ancient wisdom traditions. Indigenous medicine men and women of old as well as shamans of today believe we are all connected to each other and to all that exists, and that energies in forms such as spirit animals affect our very being.
Humans naturally yearn to reconnect with their sacred nature and realize they are not confined to one particular time and physical body, but eternal spiritual beings that are connected to all other beings, to the cosmos, and to all consciousness. This longing may be thought of as a quest for connection and belonging, for purpose and for healing. Initiation takes place within our minds but also within the great mind of the cosmos. In the early twentieth century, Carl Jung identified a collective unconscious, of which we are all a part and which we all contain within us. He also identified the existence of archetypes, the energies that influence
You might think of initiation as being a shift in experiencing a great matrix that intertwines all of creation, and which consists of energy and consciousness. Imagine that you, like everyone, is just one expression of this creative, divine force. An initiation reminds you of your connection to the matrix and permanently expands your ways of seeing and operating in your everyday life. Initiations can take various forms. An initiator might transmit knowledge or energy to the initiate. The initiate might also receive this wisdom and energy directly from Source. You can Omtimes.com
How
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In the battle of the day-to-day stress, through the immense tasks that must be done, and redone every day, we all need a break. To avoid emotional and physical exhaustion, we need to look for things that can bring us joy, relaxation and rest. Here is the list of activities preferred by people accordingly with their Zodiacal sign.
Aries (March 21-April 19) This sign is a movement lover, and their idea of relaxation is to exercise and do some physical activities to the have the satisfaction of deep sleep and rest. Taurus (April 20-May 20) This is a very “sensorial” zodiac sign. Whether it's shopping, having coffee or having lunch if they are doing it with a friend, for them it is synonymous with relaxation.
Gemini (May 21-June 20) This is a cerebrally charged Zodiac sign. Any activities that can challenge and sometimes complement their intellect are considered pleasure. Their contradictions are also noticeable here since he can relax either reading a book quietly or a fun ride with his friends in a passionate debate.
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Cancer (June 21-July 22) Here is a sign that loves to be nourishing people. They love staying at home and meeting with the family and friends, preferably at the table, sharing a meal they cooked. Yet, an immersion bath, with candlelight and aromatherapy is also very inviting. Leo (July 23-August 22) Reign by the Sun Leos are fascinated by performances, theater, shows and concerts, and movies. They love the spotlight, being on it or not. They always have some fun, that's for sure! Either going to the movies, dancing or dating they are always opened to many options. Virgo (August 23-September 22) Let’s face it, they are control Freaks. Methodical by nature, Virgos may have problems relaxing, no matter how you slice it. They may find joy and easing by putting things in order. Organizing drawers, clothes, accessories, papers and other’s people’s lives are their source of enjoyment and satisfaction Libra (September 23-October 22) Libra tend to be very dreamy and romantic. They like to share the moments and memories. They preferred activity is to be hanging out with their partner, talking to friends in an intimate environment, or going somewhere they know they can have their idealistic Interactions.
Scorpio (October 23-November 21) They sexuality is a dominant element in their lives. This sign is moved by passion, by seduction games and they have a lot of relaxation (and pleasure) delighting their partner under the sheets.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) They are adventurous of the Zodiac. They love to travel, and They enjoy doing it through many unconventional ways. They are Lovers of outdoors activities. Even if it is something of a day, the important thing is to unwind outside of their everyday environment, and with a hint of the quest, such as outdoor climbing, kayaking or hiking. Capricorn (December 22-January 19) Sometimes Capricorns, despite their age range, can behave like old people. Any times, solving what is pending at work, for example, is enough to be considered a relaxing activity. They can find pleasure in revising projects. When they adopt activities such as gardening, it can serve as sound therapy: climbing, kayaking or hiking.
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Mom, She Stole My Spot!
What spots have we claimed to be ours? What spots have we denied ourselves from occupying? Expressing our personalities and identity isn’t always what we announce,
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it’s also what we don’t say or show. The light and shadow of all spots exist. We can see how both are gifts once we explore their connection to what attracted us in the first place. Mom, she put her feet on my side of the couch! Mom, she put her game on my side of the car! Mom, she won’t get out of my room! Claiming our spot, putting a stake in the ground, identifying the perimeter lines, we do this to state our presence, our value, but we also do this to feel safe, and to know what area to guard, to protect, and to have something we own that we can design and create to express ourselves from. Our spot has a relationship to our identity. It’s where we feel comfortable, where we retreat to, where we operate from. It’s also where others recognize us. People connect us to the
“spot” we choose in life. We often recognize someone at their work or in a uniform or driving a certain color car however when we run into them outside of those familiar places and “spots” we look right past them. We also do this when we change our external look including our attitudes. We can feel and appear to others as very different people when we are stressed compared to when we are relaxed or having fun. But what happens when we are told that we can’t have the spot we want? What happens when we are guilted from or punished for expressing which spot feels right to us? When my sister and I were growing up we both loved our toys, as most children do, we had our favorites of course but to make things
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Why Broken Promises Can (and Will) Steal your Thunder 8 ways Negative Motivation will ruin your plans. By Humanity Healing
Many of us can remember one occasion or another where we promised ourselves something. We have promised ourselves that we will be happier when we lose weight, when we get that Job, or when we arrive
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at a perceived destination in life. We promise ourselves we are going to stop smoking, to start saving, to be happier. At the end of the day, many of us had only broken our personal promises to ourselves, but what could be the danger of that, if any. It Can’t be that bad, right? Wrong.
aspect of living in alignment with our life goals, intentions, and Purpose. To succeed in life and to be able to surf all life’s ebbs, one must be self-reliant, confident and trust your own guts. To have a negative motivation does not necessarily mean to have destructive intent.
Breaking promise to ourselves is single handed the most damaging behavior we can have towards ourselves, and it is also an act of negative motivation because in doing so, we stop to trust in ourselves.
Think with me: if you do not trust yourself, then who will?
Breaking promise to ourselves and others function as a clog on the energy flow of your life. Just like it is difficult to heal when we are still too attached to energies of the past, the hurt caused by broken promises can compromise, the way we see ourselves, in the way we relate to ourselves, how we relate to others and our ability to trust. To trust oneself is an essential
The process of trusting oneself, in this case, must happen from the inside out and not the opposite. Rigorous examination of our mental and emotional processes may lead us to find that to a large extent they are negatively motivated. Our Ego tends to create barriers around us to “protect “us from potential suffering and to guarantee our self -preservation. Many of these artificially created Ego devices are based on fear and discouragement., and let’s face it, negative motivations. This negative shield of suppressed emotions does not
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What lurks behind your mess and clutter? By Cathedral of the Soul
It is said that several of the great geniuses were true masters of their mess. Einstein’s office, or Mark Twain’s, among others, were supposed to be a real nest of spiders. Objects on all sides, rolled up papers, accumulated garbage -
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Anyway, a really messy and cluttered zone. However, being disorganized does not necessarily convert anyone into a genius. Just as being overly organized also does not make someone a better person. To foster extremes are never good when it comes to our human reality, like Buddha said, the Balance in life resides in a middle way. In today’s world, the readily available time has become infrequent. It is no longer possible to clean floors leaving them as a mirror, nor to keep the four corners of the house sparkling shining. Having someone to do the housework is a luxury that just a few can afford, and spending time in the house doing housework is not that easy now. But, this does not mean that everything in our life and house must be turned upside down. It is possible to keep a basically tidy space, without the need to invest much time in it. It’s all about getting
organized and adopting some new habits. But why do some people fail in doing such? What’s really lurking behind your compulsive mess? The Real meaning of the mess In general, the untidiness in the spaces we inhabit is a sign of disorder in our inner world, and the inability to deal with specific emotional challenges. Staying saturated with objects means being saturated with unresolved ideas and projects. The mess sends a message of internal confusion, lack of structuring, and lack of definitions. Also, Feng Shui scholars and similar practices ensure that the mess has different meanings depending on where it accumulates. This is what they have to say about it: The mess or the objects lodged in areas that are at the entrance of a house means a deep fear of relating to other people.
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