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Contents

Getting Started 12 Engagement Photos 14 Wedding Rings 18 Invitations 21 D.I.Y. Reality Check

Real Weddings 22 Four Stunning Celebrations

Decision Time 40 Bridal Showers 42 Color Inspiration

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Bridal University

Attire 50 Makeup 52 Gowns 60 Hair 62 Foundations 64 For the Men

Ceremony

Marriage License 84

65 Survival Kit 66 Flowers 68 Vows

Guide to Gratuity 85

Celebrate

Omaha Weather 86

71 Guestbook 74 Cakes 76 Music

Bridal Checklist 82 Photo Checklist 83

Ultimate Reception Guide 88-91

Ever After 78 Gifts for Parents 80 Honeymoon in Style 96 Advice from Miss Behave

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Volume 10 Issue 1 Spring-Summer 2012

J a n ua r y 8, 2012 at t h e m i d - a m e r i c a c e n t e r

Editor-in-Chief Chris Christen 402-444-1094 Chris.Christen@owh.com Creative Director & Designer Ananda Spadt 402-444-1351 Ananda.Spadt@owh.com Copy Editor Amy LaMar Imaging & Production Coordinator Patricia “Murphy” Benoit Production Manager Wayne Harty Writers Heather Winkel, Meghan Townley, Wendy Townley, Daisy Hutzell-Rodman, Madelyn Shae

Did you know?

Nebraska and Iowa brides, on average, have the largest weddings, with 213 and 200 guests, respectively.* Compare that with Nevada's average of 59 guests and we might seem out of our wedding planning minds. But with good organization and a little luck, throwing a large or small wedding doesn't need to be a daunting task.

Merchandise Coordinator Angela Rogers Photographers for General Features Daniel Johnson, Lane Hickenbottom, Kurt A. Keeler, Heather Winkel

Real Wedding Images Janine McClintock Studios, Lane Weddings, Memrical, Midwest Photo Pro, Multi-Images Photography

Events and Custom Publishing Manager Tam Webb 402-444-3125 Tam.Webb@owh.com

Local Sales Manager Carrie Kentch 402-444-1448 Carrie.Kentch@owh.com

We minimize the guesswork.

Refer to pages 82 - 87 for your crash course in all things bridal.

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Did you attend Bridal University on January 8, 2012?

See photos from the First Look Runway and get more information about the event at WeddingEssentialsMagazine.com.

Events Coordinator Jennifer Tyler 402-444-1161 jennifer.tyler@owh.com Advertising Associates Michaela Haney 402-444-1498 Michaela.Haney@owh.com

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Mark your calendars for the October 21, 2012 Wedding Essentials Idea Show.

See photos from the last show on pages 92 & 93.

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Congratulations: You're Engaged!

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ur whole purpose for being is to inspire you and to ease some of the anxiety that goes with planning the biggest event of your life. Like your bestie, we're loaded with ideas, encouragement and humor. We'll help you see tons of beautiful possibilities with your wedding day look ("A Modern Twist on Vintage Style," page 52); drool over the perfect diamond ("Rings That Rock," page 14); and tell you when you're crazy to tackle something yourself ("D.I.Y. Reality Check," page 21). We'll even keep you on track with decisions and arrangements ("Wedding Planning 101," page 82), and introduce you to bridal professionals who can help you realize your dream wedding (Bridal University, Jan. 8 and the Idea Show, Oct. 21).

Of course, we know you love to see what other brides are doing, too. Sejal Patel and Stephen Skakandy (Real Weddings, page 34) spared no expense on a weekend-long extravaganza for nearly 400, which included traditional Indian customs.

There's more ahead as we bring you loads of inspiration through our newly launched blog, WEloveweddings at WeddingEssentialsMagazine.com/blog.

Chris Christen Editor, Wedding Essentials Magazine

Kari Lanoha and Chris Wozniak, October 21, 2011 at St. Wenceslaus Catholic Church multi-images photography

ON OUR COVER Keyla, represented by Image Modeling Inc. Photographed by Lane Weddings at The Durham Museum, Omaha.

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Getting Started

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Picture Perfect

Let your love for each other shine through your engagement photos.

Your poses reflect your personality as a couple. Think about different shots you would like to try before meeting with your photographer. Mix serious poses with fun and romantic moments. Don’t be shy about doing a lot of smiling, kissing, nose-rubbing and cheek-brushing because those adorable moments create the most amazing pictures.

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Getting Started Sculpted wedding band; Round bezel-set diamond flanked by diamonds; Round brilliant solitaire with micropave diamonds. Custom designs from Perspective.

Frederic Sage white and rose gold split-shank band with .58 ct. tw. and 2 ct. tw. cubic zirconia, from Elisa Ilana. Platinum wedding set from Goldsmith Silversmith.

Rings That Rock

For many couples, an engagement ring is the most significant piece of jewelry they’ve purchased and they want to get it right. So when it’s time to go shopping, keep these tips in mind from Diamondologist Lindsey Tavlin of Nebraska Diamond in Lincoln: 1. Give the jeweler a budget range in private and request that you are only shown rings that you can love. 2. Describe the ring style you want. Bring photos. 3. Pick the setting and the stone. 4. If he's shopping alone, make sure he knows the diamond shape you want. Have the jeweler put the diamond in a basic setting for “the ask,” and then return to the jeweler as a couple to select the permanent setting. 5. If your eyes are glazing over at the price of a Tacori or Verragio: Buy the setting and put the diamond on layaway. Have the jeweler substitute a cubic zirconia for the time being. Nobody will know.

6. Don’t get caught up in the grade of a diamond. “It’s never about the piece of paper,” Tavlin said.

Above: Eternity setting with scrolled pave band and matching wedding ring from Brodkey’s; Deveres elegance cathedral pave, $2,900 from 14 Karat. MaeVona Eriskay Solitare, $1,700 from 14 Karat.

Left: Durnell split-shank with pave diamonds, $2,300; A. Jaffe split-shank, $4,500, both from 14 Karat.

Right: Split-shank with tension-set diamond from Goldsmith Silversmith; Wedding set with square diamond in pave halo from Brodkey’s; Tri-tone engagement and wedding ring from Goldsmith Silversmith.

Text by Chris Christen Photo styling by Ananda Spadt Photography by Daniel Johnson

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Getting Started Right: Round brilliant solitaire with baguettes; Square solitaire with matching wedding band; both from Brodkey’s.

Left: Frederic Sage ring with 2 ct. tw. diamond center with .96 ct. tw. graduating diamonds on band, $4,295; Frederic Sage rose and white gold ring with 1 ct. tw. center and .37 ct. tw. on band, $2,595; both from Elisa Ilana.

Above: Valina wedding set, $6,880; Frank Reubel Designs modern setting, $2,595; both from Malashocks.

Below: Tri-row band with 1.56 cts. tw. center diamond, $10,500; Gold band with CZ center, $2,930; both from Malashocks.

For the groom Grooms are taking a shine to diamonds, too. The 2011 Wedding Report found an increase in men adding white or black diamonds to their wedding bands. Men tend to look for the simple details in a ring. More than one-fourth of couples in the survey engraved their bands with their wedding date, initials or a short message. Matchy-matchy wedding sets, however, no longer are the trend. More commonly the bride’s wedding ring will match her engagement ring, but the groom’s band style will be completely different. The metals, however, tend to be the same.

Right: Men’s platinum bands from Brodkey’s.

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Idea 2

Invitation Inspiration Original ways to spread the word about your big event.

Text by Ananda Spadt Photography by Kurt A. Keeler

Your invitation is the first and only impression you get to make on your guests in advance of your wedding.

Every detail gives clues to the theme, the level of formality and the variety of fun. You don’t have to go over the top to make a good impression, just consider all the details before dropping that invite in the mail.

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Idea 1

Location, location Prepare guests for takeoff to a first-class destination wedding by bringing a little bit of the locale to their doorstep. This beach destination invitation was designed by Méldeen.

Seen at the Idea Show

Think about color differently Don’t just slap your wedding colors on your invite and call it a day. Look for creative ways to use your theme to enhance your invitations.

Inclosed Studio incorporated a peach theme into a suite of elements. Each was on handmade peach-scented paper printed on a vintage letterpress. The designer (who happened to be the bride) mixed peach cover stock with a grey accent color to make the colors pop. Each piece of the invitation shared the peachy theme.

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Idea 3

Unexpected materials

Seen Match the feel of your at the Idea wedding to the feel of Show your invite. Tying the knot in a barn? Convey a rustic tone with burlap like Méldeen did at left. Going glam? Include rhinestones in a velvet drawstring bag.

Idea 4

Monogram Your initials look good together, don't they?

Brand your wedding with a monogram design using the first letter of your names with your last initial-to-be in the center. This design can go on your invites at your wedding site, on your cake, on your napkins ... heck, you could embroider it on a set of bath towels. This monogrammed boxed set was created by Inkblot Studio.

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Idea 5

Personal touches Seen The groom's watercolor at the Idea painting of Audubon Show Park, where the wedding was to take place, became inspiration for Inclosed Studio.

If you have an artistic bent, work with your designer to incorporate a creation of your own into the design. A custom schedule of the day assures that everyone knows how to get to various venues, what to do and why they should be excited to attend.

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Getting Started Start

Do I have skills in this area?

YES

Do I have detailed instructions and a supply list?

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D.I.Y. Reality Check

Do I really have time to learn?

YES

Instructions NO

NO

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Add up supply costs.

Is it cheaper to make than to buy or rent?

1. Make a list of all the wedding do-it-yourself projects you are planning.

2. Run each project through the flow chart.

Can I figure it out without numerous error purchases?

YES

3. Cross off projects that fail the test.

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You should do this yourself.

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Go for it!

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Save money

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Will I need help?

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Have I already enlisted helpers?

Take the estimated time to complete the project and double it. Do I have this much time to spare?

Call helpers NOW.

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Real Weddings photography Janine McClintock Studios

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Christin Goetz + Matt Merwald

Country-Grown Romance

By Meghan Townley his country wedding in Hays, Kansas, was made possible with a little help from the couple’s friends … and just about everyone else in the bride’s hometown of 150.

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The cake was from a local baker who doubled as the day-of coordinator, and the flowers were from a local florist. “We got our hair done at the local beauty salon, and my mom’s best friend catered the dinner,” said Christin.

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The food was local and very fresh. “My mom grew most of the potatoes and corn, and the rest came from local farmers,” said Christin. “My family owns feedlots, and it is a tradition to continued on page 24

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buy a steer for the wedding. In February of last year, my dad picked out the calf that they fatted for our wedding.”

The church that the couple was married in was the same church in which Christin’s parents and grandparents were married. “It was really neat to be in the same place where a lot of my childhood was spent

Ceremony site Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Park, Kan. Reception site 4-H Building, Oakley, Kan. Dress Allure Bridals Groom's attire Jos A Bank Rings Borsheims Photography Janine McClintock Studios Videographer Friend of the couple

Rentals Family member purchased all china, flatware, stemware, etc.

Honeymoon destination Eldorado Royale, Riviera Maya Travel agency Teresa Kopietz of Enchanted Honeymoons Invitation and program design Carrie Ratcliff of Bozell Music Local musicians sang and three close friends helped out as DJs at the reception

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and where I received all my sacraments.”

After the ceremony, the wedding party snapped pictures while they posed in places throughout Hays.

They sat on hay bales and stood in a cornfield and in front of the local gas station.

Christin was overjoyed by how involved her family and friends were. “We asked them to help out

with everything from the decorations to the caterer.

One of my friends made our playlist so we didn’t have to hire a DJ. It was touching, and it made us feel really special.”

After a last-minute venue snafu, the couple was worried that the decorations would not be complete. But, again, their friends stepped in to help. “It was a really

wonderful surprise that all the groomsmen and my friend Carrie pitched in to finish the decorations. It was a very special moment to see it all completed,” said Christin.

Dinner was served on vintage china. Each place setting was different. During the planning, the bride developed a passion for vintage dishes. She now has her own dish rental business.

Go vintage If you’re looking for more personality in your dishes, go vintage. Christin’s great aunt loves attending auctions and estate sales, so she came up with all the plates, silverware, coffee mugs, water and wine glasses for the wedding. If you are short on time, rent vintage table settings.

Check out this bride’s new business at withloveeventdesignandrental.com.

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photography Lane Weddings

05.28.11

K a i t y Fu c i n a ro + To m M o r row

Together at Last

By Meghan Townley his traditional, family-centered wedding was packed with 550 guests and lots and lots of love.

Kaity and Tom have known each other for nine years. They met while living on the same floor as freshmen at the University of Kansas. After college, Tom joined the U.S. Marine Corps. By the time the wedding finally came around, the couple couldn’t wait to tie the knot.

“Tom and I waited quite a long time to get married because he was deployed twice, so it felt very special that we could finally be together,” said Kaity.

Family is very special to the bride and groom, so they did everything they could to honor their loved ones. Kaity wore her mother’s veil and her grandmother’s pearl ring, and the couple displayed their

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ancestors’ vintage wedding photos near the guestbook. During the ceremony, they used Kaity’s grandmother’s Bible, which she had taken notes in. Tom wore his grandfather's wedding band.

The reception was held at the Fucinaros' family restaurant. “Anthony’s has been my family’s restaurant since it opened. It has always been a dream of mine to have my reception there.”

Kaity and Tom incorporated some Marine Corps traditions, such as cutting the cake with a sword and walking under a sword arch as they left the church.

Tom admits that his favorite part of the day was seeing Kaity come down the aisle.

“My favorite part was after they announced us and we turned around to face the congregation,” Kaity said. “It was very special to see everyone there and to be with Tom.” The bridesmaids walked in to Eva Cassidy’s “Somewhere Over the Rainbow,” and Tom and Kaity walked out to a beautiful rendition of “Oh Happy Day.” And what a happy day it was, Kaity gushed.

“Everything was perfect. It was the best day ever and I wouldn’t change anything about it.”

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A different kind of guestbook In lieu of a traditional guestbook, the couple had a large canvas made with a picture of a tree and “Happily Ever After” scrolled at the bottom. “Katie ‘n’ Tom” and their wedding date were etched into the tree. All of the guests signed their names under the tree. The guestbook is displayed in their home as a beautiful piece of art and as a reminder of everyone who shared in their big day.

Ceremony site Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Omaha Reception site Anthony's Steakhouse Groom's attire U.S. Marine Corps dress blue uniform Ring Engagement ring from the New York Diamond District.

Bride's wedding band is from Borsheims Flowers Mulhall's

Cakes Cake Gallery Photography Lane Weddings Honeymoon destination Qamea, Fiji Invitation design Village Stationery Church vocals Nikki Boulay, Jim Bogess and Mike Gurciullo Reception music Las Vegas Lab Band and DJ Shif-D

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Allison Stangel + Brandon Kovar

Home Sweet Home

By Meghan Townley randon and Allison’s reception was held right in their own backyard.

The couple met in Omaha while completing their residencies in family practice. They later moved to Onawa, Iowa, Allison’s hometown, where they work in the same practice. They live on an acreage outside of town.

“Originally I thought it was going to be a ‘farmy’ outdoorsy wedding. I thought about borrowing my friend’s cowboy boots, but it ended up being pretty formal,” said Allison.

The tent was more of a ballroom with carpet and heaters that kept the temperature just right for guests. The room twinkled with dimmed chandeliers and candles. The couple’s house and barn were lit up and luminarias lined the long drive.

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no place like home Location is everything.

While you may not be able to host your wedding reception at your home like this couple did, you can pick a location that you can visit to relive your magical day. Maybe it's a favorite restaurant or a local park. Allison loves recalling their wedding day at home: “We get to enjoy that memory forever!”

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tea lights hung from nearby trees.

Contrasting tables were set with votive candles and white flowers.

“We used a lot of crystals. Every candle had a crystal,” Allison said.

During the cocktail hour, chefs from Blue Sushi Sake Grill in downtown Omaha served fresh sushi rolls.

The couple’s “first look” took place at their front door. “We were running a bit behind schedule for photos, so Brandon stood there with strict instructions to not turn around for about an hour. Poor guy.”

Then the wedding party took outdoor pictures with family

Ceremony site St. John Catholic Church, Onawa, Iowa Reception site Allison and Brandon's acreage Wedding dress Bridal Designs at Suburban Bridal Groom's attire Jos A Bank Rings Borsheims Florist Florals etcetera

members. “We were in the country on our acreage. It ended up being a very pretty day,” said Allison.

The couple skipped the traditional speeches at the reception.

Instead, Allison’s dad and Brandon spoke. “In Brandon’s speech, he said it was so special that we could start the first day of the rest of our lives at home, and that he couldn’t wait to start a family here,” recalled Allison.

“The day was magical and sparkly,” Allison added. “The clear tent with the stars and white lights was just perfect for us. We had some hiccups in the day, but to us it was perfect.”

Cake The Cake Specialist Photography A Better Exposure Rentals AAA Rents & Event Services Wedding planner Tracey Fricke, Special Occasions By Design Honeymoon destination Cayman Islands Music Cactus Hill

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Real Weddings Friday, 5 p.m.

Mehndi Party

LaVista Conference Center The bride's hands and feet were decorated with henna the night before the wedding. Each design has a special meaning. The peacock on Sejal’s left palm symbolizes love.

While Mehndi parties traditionally are for females only, the Embassy Suites ballroom was set up so that about 300 of the couple’s friends and family members could eat, drink and be merry.

Saturday, 9 a.m.

Christian Ceremony St. Martha Episcopal Church, Papillion

11a.m.

Lunch

LaVista Conference Center

2 p.m.

Indian Wedding Hasta Melap Reception

LaVista Conference Center The ceremony is performed in Sanskrit (with English translations), and each step has a symbolic, philosophical and spiritual meaning. The Lagna (marriage) is a collection of traditional rituals performed by a Maharaj (priest).

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Cocktails & Reception

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photography Memrical

11.26.11

A bridegroom in India travels to his wedding on horseback, often accompanied by his family, his guests, a band and dancers. For the procession, known as Baraat, Stephen wore his military dress uniform while his groomsmen wore traditional Indian tunics with white pants.

Sejal Patel + Stephen Skakandy

An International Affair

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By Daisy Hutzell-Rodman ejal Patel wanted a traditional Indian extravaganza with lots of sparkle and color for her wedding ceremony. She moved into full-time planning mode the minute Stephen proposed in July 2011.

“There is about one Indian wedding a month in Omaha, but everything is brought in from outside the area,” the bride said.

She and her mother, Sumitra Patel, set out to find a way to use local vendors for Sejal and Stephen's elaborate Thanksgiving weekend wedding, which included two days of Indian rituals.

Memrical, an Omaha-based wedding planning boutique, helped the Patels execute a Friday night Mehndi party for 300 guests, which included henna painting for the women. There also was a bridal shower with guests from India, England, Germany and Africa – as well as from across the United States.

Saturday morning, nearly 375 guests attended Stephen and Sejal’s Christian ceremony at St. Martha Episcopal Church in Papillion. Sejal wore a beaded gown by Vera Wang.

While guests were enjoying lunch at Embassy Suites La Vista, Sejal changed into her Indian wedding dress.

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Real Weddings The priest puts a tilak on the groom’s forehead and issues a blessing. The bride and groom place a garland of flowers around each other's necks in a pledge to accept and love each other for the rest of their lives.

Sejal and Stephen were married on a beautifully decorated stage called a mandap. For their marriage to be officially recognized in the Hindu tradition, the couple had to take seven steps together around a sacred fire and make seven sacred vows. The mandap is traditionally in the form of a circle, but Sejal chose to have the sides of her mandap removed so guests could more easily view the wedding.

Between 300 and 350 roses were brought in from Miami for the stage, walkway and outdoor entrance. The walkway was created with monogram-like “S” shapes.

Sejal and Stephen cleaned the statue of the Hindu god Ganesha as part of the ceremony. Ganesha is the primary Hindu god of marriage.

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Guests participate in Raas dancing during the reception. Men and women dance in two circles or rows with 18-inch Dandiya sticks in each hand. This is generally done in a fourbeat rhythm, with participants hitting the sticks at the same time. One circle flows clockwise and the other, counterclockwise.

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At 1 p.m., the Baraat, or bridal procession, began with the groom dressed in his military whites on horseback.

The wedding ceremony, which is known as Hasta Melap, began at 2 p.m. inside the hotel ballroom. A traditional Indian wedding lasts five to six hours, but Sejal modified hers to two hours.

In the Indian tradition, games help guests get acquainted. In one of the most popular games, the groom removes his shoes during the ceremony. The bride’s family makes wacky plans to steal the shoes and hide them, while the groom’s family tries to protect the shoes. The person who manages to steal the shoes asks for a large sum of money,

which the groom must pay in order for his shoes to be returned.

A 6 p.m. cocktail party had a New York lounge theme complete with white furniture, ice sculptures, fountains and a bar in the middle of the room.

A second staging area was created for the 7 p.m. introduction of family members and the wedding

party. Afterward, Theatrical Media Services switched up the lighting for a dinner buffet and Lucite bar.

“My most memorable moment was seeing the surprise and excitement in our guests with everything they saw and ate,” Sejal said. “It was wonderful to experience the joy of putting smiles on continued on page 39

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Forget the traditional place card Instead of using numbers, assign guests to tables with creative names. This avoids a guest thinking, “I got stuck at table 40!” Sejal, for example, used tree species such as “willow” and “oak.” The tree names were carved out of wood.

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everyone's faces.”

Dancing is a large part of Indian culture, and guests at this wedding danced until midnight. A lively after-party for close friends went

until 2 a.m.

Sunday morning, guests had brunch with the bride and groom before returning home.

“Stephen and I are most thankful for my family to love us enough to put

together such a glorious event, and to Stephen’s family for embracing the cultural differences and thoroughly enjoying the moments. I’m thankful to be able to unite our families with these weddings.”

Dresses Vera Wang Groom's attire Tip Top Tux Rings Custom-designed

by Kanji Savalia Flowers Memrical Caterer Sandip Patel of Chowpatty in New Jersey Cake Sweet Cakes and Roses, Arbor Hall Photographer Marc Climie Transportation Ollie the Trolley Rentals Memrical Invitation/program design Nilesh Patel of Sudarshan Cards

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Spring Showers

Three lovely themes for an afternoon with friends.

tea time

A tea party among friends is a great way to catch up with the bride and hear all about her wedding plans. Ask each guest to bring a teacup for the bride’s collection, and switch out store-bought teabag tags for customized seating cards. Gather a variety of organic herbs (you can order in bulk from www.mountainroseherbs.com) and have each guest create a one-of-a-kind bath tea.

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Tying the Knot

Help the bride tie the knot with a yarn-filled party. Use cardboard letters for the centerpiece, opt for yarn balls instead of flowers and use knotted yarn to wrap game prizes. Pass a ball of string from one guest to another (never to the person next to you) while standing in a circle. When it’s your turn, give the bride a piece of advice about marriage. There will be a web of string at the end of the exchange. The host can point out that marriage is about joining families and lives together.

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classic Love

Shower the Mrs.-to-be with love. Keep everything black and white using silhouettes as the main attraction. Let each guest create a work of art featuring his or her silhouette. Use a light projector and trace the outline of each guest’s head on beautiful paper. Once traced, fill in the outlines with black paint. Add a quote about love to mark the special day. heather winkel

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Perfect Pairings

Pink & Red This dynamic duo is on-trend, yet forever romantic.

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Orange Crush, Nectar, Sterling & Ocean Blue Cool, inviting & complimentary

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Signature cocktail The Blush is a blend of Cointreau, fresh lime, pink grapefruit juice and a dash of soda served over ice in a tall chilled glass.

Graduated color wedding cake by Whisked Away Cake Boutique

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Tahari rosette shantung dress, $139, Von Maur

Chinese Laundry “Haylie” pump, $89.99, Dillard’s

Freshwater pearl necklace, $68, Dillard’s

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Get the Look

“Just say NO to a last-minute spray tan” and other tips from James Sawyer, Chanel expert at Von Maur.

Do choose photo-friendly foundation with a low SPF to avoid a white halo effect.

Don’t go overboard on glitter.

Choose a superfine shimmer and apply only to your cheekbones, the bridge of your nose, the high point of your forehead and the center of your chin.

Do take really good care of your skin in the weeks leading up to your wedding. Avoid last-minute facials and spray tans that could irritate skin and cause a breakout.

Don’t use your whole face when being trendy. Pick one trend for one feature, such as a matte color on your lips. Go classic with everything else. You’ll thank me in 50 years.

Do choose products that say “longer wear.” Don’t kid yourself; you won’t have time to retouch your makeup.

Don’t attempt false lashes for the first time. That’s the last thing you should be worrying about on your wedding day.

Do settle on a makeup plan well in advance. Book a makeup run-through about two months ahead of your wedding. Your makeup artist will suggest an approach that looks best with your skin tone and features.

Do set your makeup with translucent powder. Relax knowing that your makeup will look flawless throughout the night.

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Trendy Bride

Hollywood Glam Fortunately, what’s trendy is also timeless. Get that 1950s Hollywood starlet look with champagne eye shadow, a bright red lip and high-intensity mascara.

Laura Geller Balance-nBrighten foundation, $31, Ulta

Chanel Matte Lipstick Rouge Allure Luminous Satin Lip Colour, $32, Von Maur Bobbi Brown Pink Quartz Shimmer, $39, Sephora

MAC False Lashes Extreme Black mascara, $19, Dillard’s

Natural Bride

Classic Bride

Soft and Beautiful

Fresh and Glowing

Mauve colors photograph very well.

Choose rosy earth tones to look your best.

MAC Iridescent Loose Powder, $23, Dillard’s

Chanel blush duo in Tweed, $45, Von Maur

Clinique Colour Surge Eye Shadow Quad, $25.50, Dillard’s Dior 5-Colour Eyeshadow in Stylish Move, $59, Sephora

Chanel Glossimer in Wild Rose, $28.50, Von Maur

Laura Geller Blush-n-Brighten Baked Cheek Color Tropic Hues, $29.50, Ulta

MAC Pro Longwear Lipcreme in Dress It Up, $17, Dillard’s

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Perhaps you intend to modify your mother's or grandmother’s gown into your own modern-bride look or model yourself after a 1940s Hollywood siren. Old or new, borrowed or blue, it doesn’t matter. Your wedding style must speak to you and to you alone. If you're after a romantic, vintage feel, you'll be in heaven trying on the newest drop-dead gorgeous doupioni and shantung silk gowns with pleated tulle underskirts and lace overlays. They're classically fresh in ivory, champagne, latte and blush. Silhouettes of the moment are ballerina ballgowns with yards and yards of tulle and modified mermaids with dropped waists and short pleated trains. Strapless dresses, still lovely of course, look less modern next to gowns with a hint of sleeve. Bodices are lightly embellished with pearls, Swarovski crystals and metallic embroidery.

Elegantly beaded belts and satin sashes continue to be a great way to personalize your wedding look.

As you're shopping, stay focused on dresses that fit your budget and vision. If you’ve set aside $1,000 for your gown, avoid trying on gowns that retail for $3,000 (unless they’re deeply discounted and now are within financial reach). Once you’ve made your selection, relax and know that you’re going to rock it.

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Justin Alexander sweetheart chapel train dress from Sublime Couture, $1,125; Nadri jewelry from Von Maur, earrings $70, bracelet $136, necklace $136; blusher veil from Von Maur, $38.

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Kathy Ireland mermaid dress from Sublime Couture, $1,450; Margaret Rowe cuff bracelet from Von Maur, $298; Margaret Rowe earrings from Von Maur, $195; feather hair accessory from Sublime Couture, $29.95.

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Sue Wong antique white feather dress from Von Maur, $568; Margaret Rowe necklace from Von Maur, $265; JWY earrings from Sublime Couture, $24.50; satin bag from Von Maur $42.

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Tadashi Shoji lace and chiffon gown, $548; Givenchy earrings and bracelet, $45 each; Caparros shoes, $59; beaded bag, $42; all from Von Maur.

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Justin Alexander lace gown from Sublime Couture, $1,190; Margaret Rowe earrings, $95, and Margaret Rowe bracelet, $248, both from Von Maur.

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Attire Model Sarah Lorsung Tvrdik of fashflood.com Hair Rebecca Forsyth at Bungalow/8 PHOTOGRAPHY Daniel Johnson PHOTO STYLIST Ananda Spadt Location Paxton Ballroom

A Breezy Demi-Twist This polished, romantic hairstyle is surprisingly easy to create.

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1. Prepare the hair for the style by blowdrying with a volumizing product (such as Bumble & Bumble’s Thickening Hairspray) to encourage hold and style memory. Curl blow-dried hair with a 1 1/4-inch iron, spraying each 1-inch section with hairspray. This provides both hold and protection from heat (we used Spray de Mode by Bumble & Bumble).

2. Create a foundation by back-combing.

Elevate strands at top of head 90 degrees (or more) from their growing point, and use a sturdy comb to push shorter hairs within each section toward the scalp, creating a sort of "nest." For Sarah’s look, we back-combed not only the top, but also a bit beyond the round of her head for a stronger foundation and less Bump-It!-like volume.

Use a brush with small bristles to lightly smooth the surface of the area, only skimming hair, so as not to remove the "nest."

3. Smooth one side of your hair back, leaving out your bangs/fringe or tendrils around your face if you desire them in the finished look. You can smooth with a brush or with your hands for a looser, more organic finish. Pin with 3-4 bobby pins in a vertical column near the center back of your head. The back-combing from step 2 will provide a great cushion for the pins and make the hair easier to mold.

4. Twist the remaining side back. The twisted portion of hair should be placed over the pins from step 3. A tighter twist will cause the look to appear more classic, while a looser twist offers a more modern look. Hold the twisted hair over the previous pins and use a few more pins to secure the twist into your back-combing.

For maximum stability, pin at both the top and bottom of the twist.

Finish with a bit more hairspray and dance the night away!

Tips

To achieve your dream wedding hair, do a test run and show your stylist pictures. Don’t be afraid to ask for adjustments if you aren’t 100 percent thrilled.

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If you want to enhance your cleavage, go for silicone shapers. They'll achieve the desired look better than fabric push-ups.

Under Where?

A flawless silhouette starts with a good foundation.

Wedding attire calls for extra-special attention, both in the front and rear. Cameras will be capturing you from all angles, and the last thing you want to worry about is panty lines. Before you say yes to the dress, make sure you have the right foundation to get the right fit. “You’ll set yourself up for disappointment or an alterations nightmare if you are fitted without the correct undergarments,” cautioned Mary Anne Vaccaro, style consultant and designer. Choose shapewear made for your specific problem areas to smooth most ripples and puckers. Shapewear is made for adding lift and plump, too.

Your alterations specialist, for example, might suggest shapewear that gives your tush or bust a lift for a sexier silhouette. If the fit still doesn't thrill you, walk away. It’s a big mistake to buy a dress that’s too tight, Vaccaro said.

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love the lift Give cleavage a lift with Naomi & Nicole’s bra slip with built-in panty. Our favorite, overall, for its firm control, flat seams and no-ride banding at the hem (no running to the powder room every hour for an adjustment). $56, Younkers.

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Have no fear of panty lines in Flexees

by Maidenform’s everyday control brief with high-cut leg. $24, Younkers.

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Love Your Assets by Spanx are light as air without compromising shaping power. A tummy-firming panel and engineered edges attack bulges through the hips. We like this one for daylong comfort, especially in sweltering heat. A steal at $26, Target.

polished & firm Get firm legs, thighs, tummy and tush with Assets pantyhose $9, Target.

“Nothing beats old-fashioned controltop pantyhose,” said Vacarro, who pointed to Kate Middleton’s sensibility.

“She looks polished and ladylike in her nude sheers."

long & lean

If you need firm control, try this long-leg shaper from Flexees by Maidenform. It means business in targeting the tummy, bottom and thighs. $37, Younkers.

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Look & Feel sexy As lingerie shapewear goes, this cami rates high in beauty but low in effectiveness for all body shapes. Curvier figures will find that the shaping mesh tends to roll up. From Love Your Assets

by Sara Blakely, a Spanx brand. $34, Target.

curve enhancer Flexees by Maidenform gives firm control through the waist, tummy and thighs and a slight lift in the tush. No front or back seams; ideal for body-hugging dresses. $57, Younkers.

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Men’s Style Girls shouldn’t have all the fun when it comes to wedding day attire. Declare equal opportunity for the guys and start thinking outside the box. Let your groom’s personality guide you in putting together his wedding day look.

Dapper to the core While black is the quintessential tuxedo choice, midnight blue and charcoal gray are more modern and every bit as formal. Pick one of your bridal colors for the tie and pocket square. For an evening wedding, add a coordinating vest.

Old-school cool

Pocket

square Put your dreamboat in a retro one-button black tuxedo jacket with narrow satin lapels and black tuxedo pants. Finish the look from Tip Top Tux with a black bow tie (hand-tied) and a plain white tuxedo shirt (no ruffles or pleats).

Quirky Celebrate his offbeat nature by letting him wear Chucks with his tux. Converse's black patent style really is a lot of fun (and comfortable). If your wedding style is contemporary, consider putting the guys in black tuxes, white shirts and white neckties. Introduce your wedding colors in flowers for their lapels.

Black patent Chuck Taylors from Men's Wearhouse Adventurous

Not exactly radical but attention-getting just the same: A black tux with zebra-print tie and matching pocket square, black vest and black and white Spectator shoes. A stunner with Barbie pink or sunbeam yellow.

Casual through and through Put the guys in navy blazers and khaki trousers, and match their shirts, pocket squares, ties, belts and socks with your overall color scheme. If it’s possible to order extra fabric from the bridesmaid dresses, make matching ties for the groomsmen.

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Zebra tie from Tip Top Tux

Ceremony Earring backs so you don’t look lopsided if one goes missing.

Bandages to match your skin tone or to double as bonus bling when blisters surface.

Bobby pins to thwart any hair emergency.

They’re also great bookmarks and money clips.

Survival Kit

Carry these items in your bridal bag and you won’t be caught unprepared.

Straws to keep hydrated without messing up lipstick.

Nail polish in clear for fixing almost anything (hose runs, chipped nails) and in the color of the bride’s polish for touchups.

Q-Tips dipped in shades from the makeup artist for touchups.

Vaseline to keep lips shimmery and to elongate eyelashes.

Sewing kit with thread to match wedding and bridesmaid dresses.

Breath mints for the bride, groom, wedding party or guests – or all of the above.

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Ceremony Minimal & Modern A tightly packed nosegay may be small in scale but the wow factor isn't diminished in this lush, deep-hued interpretation.

In true Victorian fashion, the stems are cut to a uniform length and are tightly wrapped in satin ribbon. Select sturdy flowers like roses, berries and delias that will hold up to hours of handling.

Designer: Garden Flowers

Anatomy of a stunning bouquet Romantic & Relaxed Naturally gathered blooms either anchored in a bouquet holder, wired or hand-tied with ribbon or raffia are perfect for a garden wedding or an informal affair. Pastels are ultra-feminine; vivid shades can have a more modern feel. Think wildflowers such as cosmos and daisies, as well as garden tulips, roses and delphinium.

Designer: Garden Flowers

Fresh & Lively This carefully tailored bouquet has a lively but classic formality.

The domed shape is best achieved with roses, lilies, mums, peonies, hydrangeas or stephanotis. For a fresh twist, stick with only one or two blooms in a monochromatic color scheme. To keep costs down, use hydrangea from your garden and wear a gardina in your hair.

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Your bouquet is your most important accessory. In fact, its color and shape will reveal your wedding style more than your dress.

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Wild at Heart Peacock feathers, lily grass and tropical foliage give dramatic volume to a cluster of calla lilies. Another gorgeous combo for a modern bride: White orchids interspersed with whispy white feathers.

For summer: Hot pink carnations and orchids with hosta leaves.

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Heartfelt Promises

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Getting Beyond Your Writer’s Block Avoid blanking on what to say when you start to write your vows. Jot down answers to the following questions to get the wheels turning. 1. What are the three greatest things about the person you are about to marry? 2.

When did you know that you were in love/know that this was the person that you wanted to marry? 3. What does marriage mean to you? 4. What will change about your relationship once you are married/What will stay the same? 5. What is your favorite memory of your partner? 6. What are the most important things in a relationship? 7. What would you like the whole world to know about your partner? 8. What would you like to promise your partner? If you’re still stuck, these examples from offbeatbride.com might inspire you.

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Today is mostly an ordinary day ... the sun rose, babies were born, people slept in and we just so happened to be getting married.

But the not-so-ordinary part is how we are making promises to each other for the rest of our days, no matter how ordinary or unusual they may be.

So I promise, to always laugh with you and to never go to bed angry.

To comfort you in times of sorrow, including rough Husker and Bluejays seasons.

To always listen to what you have to say, even when we don’t see eye to eye, to remember that love is saying "I feel differently."

But most of all, I promise to love you, under any circumstances; happy or sad, easy or difficult, through the sunshine and through the rain for the rest of my days.

I am the luckiest person and I couldn’t imagine growing old with anyone else.

Short and sweet I, [name], take you, [name], to be my [husband/wife], in equal love, as a mirror for my true self, as a partner on my path, to honor and to cherish in sorrow and in joy, till death do us part.

best friends I am proud to take you as my husband/wife.

You have helped me triumph over challenges, encouraged my personal growth and boosted my self-esteem.

You have helped me become the person I am today.

And with your help, I will be a better person tomorrow than I was yesterday.

I vow to trust and value your opinions and to stand by your actions.

I pledge to always treat you as my best friend and equal.

I will ask for help when I need it, and offer help to you always.

Let us be friends and lovers, and grow old gracefully together.

EDGAR ALLAN POE-Inspired Once upon an evening splendid we all gathered and intended, To witness marriage of two people we most certainly adore After that unique procession there might be some apprehension If there will be more digression from what we thought would be in store But now we must all get serious for the rest that is in store, Just the vows and nothing more How distinctly you’ll remember on this Tuesday in December when each and every family member traveled to the Regency Lake shore So eagerly you planned this wedding that sometimes you were forgetting with all the stressful days of fretting what the ceremony’s for As you vow forever more.

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Groom: I promise to leave my apple cores and dirty butter knives on the counter I promise to overdraft the checking account I promise to complain about the kitty litter I vow to encourage us to try new and strange things Although I will be imperfect, I pledge to be sensitive and respectful of your unique talents, abilities and quirks I pledge to lend you strength for all of your dreams Through our union we can accomplish more than I could alone I believe in you.

Bride: I promise to forget to stack the dishes on the right and leave stagnant water in the sink I promise to always drive the speed limit, even on the freeway I vow to make you really really laugh out loud I vow to be the best parts of me that fit perfectly with the best parts of you Although I will be imperfect, I pledge to be sensitive and respectful of your unique talents, abilities and quirks I pledge to lend you strength for all of your dreams Through our union we can accomplish more than I could alone I believe in you.

adventure I promise today to be your navigator, best friend and wife; to honor, love and cherish you through all of life’s adventures. I swear to always and forever be your confidant and you mine. I vow to grow old with you and to keep the kid in you alive. I take you today to be my co-captain of team (last name).

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Judge: For information on Douglas County judges' fees or hours or a judge for a weekend ceremony, call the court administrator's office at 402-444-5428. Request a list of judges when you go to the courthouse to obtain your marriage license.

Chaplain: If you don’t belong to a church or synagogue but still want a faith-based service, check out Inclusive Life. The Omaha-based organization specializes in personalized, nondenominational wedding ceremonies performed by ordained chaplains.

Celebrate

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Wall Hanging Enlarge a favorite picture of the two of you. Display the art piece at your reception with instructions for guests to write their well wishes on the “canvas.”

GuestBook Box

No Book Necessary Unique ways for guests to leave their names and good wishes.

Decorate a heart-shaped box (with a lid). Either buy heart-shaped cards or cut hearts from thin cardboard for each guest. Set up a table or have someone hand out the hearts during dinner. After guests write their messages, the hearts are placed into the box, which is sealed until your first anniversary.

wishing tree In this Dutch custom, guests write happy wishes for the bride and groom on tags that hang from branches on a tree. The tree usually sits at the entrance of the reception site. Smaller trees also could double as centerpieces for tables.

Place Mat Questionnaire

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Keep guests busy and add another décor element to your tables. Type or write questions about you or your guests on cardstock. Put a copy at each place setting.

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snail mail Keep guests’ best wishes coming with an idea from Méldeen Paper and Ink. Guests pen a special message on postcards, which a designated person collects and randomly mails to the newlyweds throughout their first year.

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Two of a kind This is an idea for the King and Queen of Hearts. Set out a deck (or two) of cards for guests to write messages on with permanent markers.

You’ll be reminded of your wedding day every time you challenge your honey to a game of Speed or Rummy.

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Recipe box

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For a sweet (or savory) reminder of loved ones, include a blank recipe card with your invitation. Instruct guests to share a favorite recipe with you, along with a sentence or two about the recipe’s origin. Set up a cute recipe box to collect the cards as guests arrive for the wedding.

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tree of love Work with your invitation designer to create a wedding tree that incorporates your names and wedding date. Instruct guests to “Leaf a fingerprint and watch our tree grow with love.” Be sure to use archival paper and ink because you’ll certainly want to frame this keepsake for display in your home.

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jenga You stack the pieces to a Jenga game. Guests remove a block, write a message with a fine-point Sharpie and replace the block in the stack.

As you play the game throughout your married life, you have a special reminder of your day. Guests will enjoy playing, too!

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gown details A single gown detail like pleating, ruching, laser-cut flowers or ruffles replicated in icing can be an exquisite focal point for your cake. Another economical option: Fabric ribbon in your bridal color and icing in a pattern that suggests lace or Dotted Swiss.

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Project Cake Lace, flowers & delicate

details inspired by your gown.

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Maybe a swirl of organza or an overlay of Alencon lace would look best; possibly a bit of crystal beading. Style considerations for the bridal shop, right? Yes, and now they are invading the cake shop, too. The latest trend is for cake designers to replicate lacework, 3D flowers and other details from bridal gowns. Celebrated cake designer Ron Ben-Israel is the trendsetter with fashion cakes commissioned for Martha Stewart Weddings, Modern Bride and Vogue, among others. Fashion cakes with edible bling are works of art, sometimes requiring 15 hours or more to complete. All that laborintensive fussing adds at least 30 percent to the cost. But, oh, those edible pearls, colored stones and diamonds are scrumptious attention-getters.

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THE trendSETTER Ron Ben-Israel is “The King of Edible Bling.” The pastry artisan gets his inspiration from the New York Fashion District.

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The perfect wedding.

Florals • Design • Planning multi-images photography

It’s personal The groom’s cake can be served at the reception or the rehearsal dinner, but the reception usually wins out in the Midwest.

The bride typically orders the cake in the groom’s favorite flavor but keeps the theme a secret. A passion, sport or profession can inspire a theme that brings smiles and serves as a conversation piece.

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Find more cake inspiration from local bakers and artisans on our blog, WeddingEssentialsMagazine.com/blog

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Reception Music

Tunes to get the crowd jumping “I got a feeling … that tonight’s gonna be a good, good night.”

The Black Eyed Peas sing about it, but your reception DJ is the one who’s going to make it happen.

“It’s not difficult to get people on the dance floor if your DJ can read the crowd,” said Dane Peterson, DJ-turnedgeneral manager for Complete Music’s Omaha franchise.

Rigid playlists, he said, can spoil a party faster than your obnoxious Uncle Fred. “There really is no right formula” for a great dance party, said Peterson.

The trend of DJs serving as reception emcees has been good for keeping things moving. Let your DJ work the room, take requests and create or modify playlists for the crowd, Peterson said.

After your initial booking, one meeting with your DJ should be sufficient for setting your reception format.

“Meet in person the week of your wedding. That allows you to establish a relationship with the DJ and keeps the party fresh in the DJ’s mind,” Peterson suggested. janine mcclintock studios

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Planning • Ask your DJ to greet guests at the door, start toasts and release tables to the buffet line. The more your DJ interacts with you and your guests the better.

• Use planning sheets to identify genres of music you like and are expecting at your reception. What you dislike is just as important as what you like to the DJ. • If you and your groom like different styles of music, ask your DJ to come up with a playful mix and banter to match. Your guests will eat it up.

Special dances • If you have a large reception, think twice about the Dollar Dance. Guests will be bored with a party that drags on without them.

Attempt to talk with everyone during the night and skip the dollar collection.

• A choreographed dance as bride and groom can entertain guests, but do you really want to devote precious time to learning and practicing your steps?

• After your first dance as husband and wife, bring your bridal party out for the Snowball Dance. How it works: The DJ plays an upbeat song, lets you dance for 30 seconds or so and then sends you off to find another dance partner by shouting “Snowball!” This cycle continues until everyone is on the dance floor.

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Word from the wise Introducing your bridal party with a snippet of a song that captures their personalities sounds cute but doesn’t always go over well.

Top of the Charts Songs topping the charts now may be passé by your wedding date. Check the Top 40 two weeks before your wedding for a party starter. Or pick one of these sure bets from your DJ’s party library: • "Celebration" by Kool & the Gang • "Shout" by Otis Redding • "Ice Ice Baby" by Vanilla Ice • "Brown-Eyed Girl" by Van Morrison • "Play That Funky Music" by K.C. and the Sunshine Band

DO-NOT-PLAY LIST Songs like "Love Will Tear Us Apart" and "All My Ex's Live in Texas" definitely shouldn't be on your playlist. Other topics to avoid: • Infidelity • Mistrust • Divorce • Death • Gold digging

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Ever After

Parents' gifts Personalize your gratitude with a thoughtful keepsake.

The

Finishing Touches Custom Fresh or Silk Floral Bouquets Cake Tops Balloons Candles Tiaras Custom Centerpieces Mint Molds Veils Invitations & Thank Yous Guest Books Toasting Glasses

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Turn a shoe box filled with your parents' family photos and other keepsakes into a beautiful book they will treasure for years to come. Good Stock takes your piles of photos and your box of stuff and – with your help – generates a story outline. The artists design each page, print everything on high-quality paper and bind your book the old-fashioned way – with a skilled pair of hands. From Good Stock Press & Bindery, www.good-stock.com, starting at $1,350.

Commission a sentimental piece of artwork made from a chain of paper hearts cut from a personal message or a thankyou poem of your choice. Available at SuzyShoppe.etsy.com, $65.

Design an ice cream flavor just for the F.O.B. (father of the bride), the M.O.G. (mother of the groom) or the M.O.B. (you get the gist) complete with a personal message right on the label. eCreamery will either make it on-the-spot in Dundee or ship your order from eCreamery.com, $49.99 plus shipping for a half-gallon.

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Create a box that instantly becomes a place for life’s most cherished mementos.

Personalize the box with your parents' names and the date of your wedding, and fill with a wedding photo, keepsake jewelry, your newspaper announcement and more.

Wooden keepsake box with personalized tile from palomasnest.com, $64.

Ask your wedding stationer to create personalized stationery for your parents.

Match the style to their favorite colors or interests. While you are at it, order a set for yourself that matches your wedding invitation design.

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Ever After

Straw hat, $10, Target; Sequin ballet flats, $128, J. Crew; Handbag with convertible strap, $44, and disc necklace, $24, Francesca’s; Crochet filigree earrings, $22, Francesca’s.

Honeymooners Pack your bags and travel in style.

Chances are your honeymoon will involve sightseeing, exploration and a bit of adventure. It can be tough deciding what to pack for all that spontaneous fun. We can see it now: Clothes strewn all over your bedroom floor, an open suitcase and panic on your face. What to bring? It’s such a dilemma because you want to look terrific wherever you go. If you’re heading for tropical climates, here are a few treasures you shouldn’t leave home without.

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Simply elegant. Naturally beautiful.

Receptions

Vera Bradley satchel (Eloise in Folkloric), $74, Landmark Luggage and Gifts; Nappa passport cover, $24.95, Landmark Luggage and Gifts; Set of three bangles, $28, J. Crew; Xhilaration sunglasses, $12.99, Target; Bead necklace, $24, Francesca’s; Scarf, $49.50, J. Crew.

Prenuptial Dinners

Bridal Showers

Photography

Ceremonies

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If you have a long flight, tuck these items into your carry-on bag and arrive well-rested: Eye mask, $1, Target; Lug travel blanket and pillow, $30, Landmark Luggage and Gifts.

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Bridal University

O n e S h o w , E v e r y t h i n g Yo u N e e d t o K n o w j a n ua r y 8, 2012 at t h e m i d - a m e r i c a c e n t e r

We understand what goes into planning a wedding – lots of time, well-honed organizational skills and the focus of a circus juggler with an itchy nose. Welcome to Bridal University, a crash course packed with quick, informative tips to guide you through the maze of decisions and arrangements.

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Steps to a Well-Planned Wedding Step 1

Step 2

Step 3

Final Countdown

Setting the Stage 9-12 months before wedding

Plan is taking shape 6-9 months before wedding

the finer details 3-6 months before wedding

2-3 months before wedding

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Set wedding date Decide on style and size of wedding Decide budget Select wedding consultant Begin guest list Shop for gown and accessories Arrange hair and makeup consultation Meet with clergy or officiant Choose members of wedding party Order invitations, stationery and save-the-date cards

Select and reserve:  Ceremony site  Reception site  Photographer  Videographer

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Choose caterer Reserve rehearsal dinner site Reserve musicians Meet with florist Order gown and bridesmaid dresses Create wedding registry Reserve equipment such as tables, chairs or tents Reserve men’s attire Finalize guest list Devise a recordkeeping system for gifts and thank-you notes Send save-the-date cards Begin planning wedding ceremony Make honeymoon reservations Begin dance lessons

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Select and order wedding cake Finalize reception menu Make sure deposits are paid and contracts are signed Refine guest list; be sure to have all addresses Start addressing envelopes Arrange gown preservation Finalize honeymoon; get passports Arrange out-of-town guest accommodations Arrange wedding transportation Schedule fittings for gown, tuxedo and attendants’ dresses Purchase wedding rings Attend showers and parties in your honor!

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Select music Mail invitations Get marriage license Decide rehearsal date and time Write a toast Finalize details with vendors Order wedding favors Buy gifts for parents and attendants Select ceremony readings; write vows Purchase wedding shoes; begin breaking them in

2 weeks before wedding:  Provide caterer with final head count  Buy guestbook  Pick up rings  Pack for honeymoon  Prepare payment envelopes for fees and gratuities

Bridal University

Photo Checklist

We Make it Happen.

A week or so before the ceremony, supply the photographer with a list of moments that are important to you. Keep in mind that each shot will take about four minutes.

Getting Ready        

Bride having hair and makeup done Bride’s gown hanging on hanger Still-life shots of the bride’s shoes, something old, new, borrowed and blue Detailed shots of the bouquets Candid shots of the bridesmaids Mother helping the bride with veil Full-length shot of the bride in her gown looking at herself in a mirror Groom getting ready with his father and groomsmen

The Ceremony         

Exterior and interior shots of the site before guests arrive Close-up of groom’s expression while waiting for the bride Bride walking down the aisle Groom reacting to seeing bride Bride and groom at altar or chuppah Close-up of the bride and groom’s hands as they exchange rings The kiss!

Bride and groom hugging guests Bride and groom leaving

Before the Reception

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Bride and groom together Family photos with all combinations of family members  Bride and groom with wedding party  

The Reception 

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Still-life shots of place cards, menus, centerpieces, decorations, table settings, favors, invitation and champagne glasses The cake Close-ups of friends and family making toasts Bride and groom’s first dance Bride dancing with her father and groom dancing with his mother Guests dancing Bride and groom cutting the cake Newlyweds’ vehicle Bride and groom leaving the reception

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An Unforget†able Event

How to Obtain Your Marriage License Step 1

Download the application worksheet at douglascountyclerk.org/marriage-licenses

Step 2

Submit application in person to:

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Douglas County Clerk’s Office, 1819 Farnam St., Room H08 in Omaha or Sarpy County Marriage License Dept., Administration wing of main courthouse, 1210 Golden Gate Drive in Papillion (84th Street and Highway 370).

Step 3

Make sure you have the following: 1. $15 cash or credit card (no personal checks) to pay fee for marriage license.

2. Cash to prepay for certified copies of the license ($5 each). A certified copy is required for the bride to change her name on her driver’s license and Social Security records.

3. Proof of identity/age: valid driver’s license, passport or certified copy of birth certificate.

4. Bride and groom’s Social Security numbers.

5. The names of the bride and groom’s parents (including mother’s maiden name), and their parents’ birthplaces (city and state or foreign country).

6. If either applicant has been married previously, the date the previous marriage ended will be needed (court date or date of death).

Pertinent Info

Marriage license is good for one year from date of issuance in any county in Nebraska.

Your marriage license must be obtained in the state in which you will be married.

There is no waiting period.

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All marriage licenses obtained in Nebraska are public records.

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Instructions and forms for obtaining a marriage license in Pottawattamie County (including Council Bluffs) can be found at www.pottcounty.com/government/ recorder/vital-records.php.

Bridal University

Guide to Gratuity Whom to tip, how much and when

Hairstylist/Makeup Artist

How much: 15 to 25 percent; 30 percent if work done on-site When: Time of service

Ceremony Musician

How much: $20 to $25 per musician When: After the ceremony

DJ

How much: $50 to $150 When: At the end of the night or within a few days with a thank-you note

Wedding Planner

How much: 15 to 20 percent When: At the end of the night or within a few days with a thank-you note

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On-Site Coordinator

How much: 15 to 20 percent of the food and drink fee (usually between $100 and $300) When: At the end of the night

Wait Staff/Bartenders

How much: $20 to $30 per waiter and $25 to $40 for each bartender, depending on the type of bar service, if not already included in your total price When: At the end of the night (give the money to banquet manager)

Rental Delivery People

How much: $5 to $10 per worker When: Time of service

Officiant

How much: Often a donation to the house of worship – from $100 to $500 – will be made in lieu of payment/gratuity. For nondenominational officiants, $50 to $100 (on top of the fee). An invite to the reception is a nice gesture too.

When: After the ceremony

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Drivers

How much: 15 to 20 percent, often included in the contract When: Time of service CTW Features

TIP

Delegate. Put tips and thank-you notes in marked envelopes and give them to a trusted member of your family or bridal party for distribution. You’ll have other tasks to worry about on the day of your wedding.

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Omaha Temperatures January

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15th

Average High

32

32

Average Low

13

13

Sunrise Time

7:50 a.m.

7:48 a.m.

Sunset Time

5:05 p.m.

5:20 p.m.

Average Monthly Precipitation: .7 inches

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February

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Average Monthly Precipitation: .9 inches march

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 2.1 inches april

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Sunrise Time

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 3.4 inches may

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Sunrise Time

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 4.7 inches june

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 4.1 inches

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On Average July is the warmest month.

January is the coolest month.

May is the wettest month.

January is the driest month and has the most cloudy days.

October has the most clear days.

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july

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15th

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Average Low

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Sunrise Time

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6:04 a.m.

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 4 inches august

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Average Low

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8:41 p.m.

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 3.5 inches september

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15th

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76

Average Low

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53

Sunrise Time

6:50 a.m.

7:04 a.m.

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7:34 p.m.

Average Monthly Precipitation: 2.9 inches october

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15th

Average High

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64

Average Low

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41

Sunrise Time

7:21 a.m.

7:36 a.m.

Sunset Time

7:06 p.m.

6:43 p.m.

Average Monthly Precipitation: 2.4 inches november

1st

15th

Average High

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48

Average Low

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28

Sunrise Time

7:55 a.m.

7:12 a.m.

Sunset Time

6:19 p.m.

5:05 p.m.

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Average Monthly Precipitation: 1.5 inches december

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15th

Average High

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33

Average Low

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15

Sunrise Time

7:31 a.m.

7:43 a.m.

Sunset Time

4:55 p.m.

4:55 p.m.

Average Monthly Precipitation: 1 inch

here comes the sun Consider timing your outdoor wedding for sunset when your guests will see you take your vows in the warm glow of the sun. If you’re having a daytime outdoor wedding, orient the ceremony so that the sun will be on guests’ backs, not in their eyes.

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Ultimate Omaha Area Reception Site Guide Location

Contact

Max Inside

Max Outside

Min. Cost

Ceremony Site

Outside Caterer

See Ad

Features

A VIEW IN FONTENELLE HILLS 1102 Country Club Court, Bellevue

402-291-2582 www.aviewfh.com

325

300

varies

Y

Y

Inside Cover

A View offers a venue coordinator and professional event staff. Table linens are included in the rental price.

A View West 4141 N. 156th St.

402-991-9872 www.aviewest.com

450

475

varies

Y

Y

Inside Cover

A second location for the View has a greater capacity than the original, but provides the same quality and level of staffing and coordination.

AMERICAN LEGION GRETNA 11690 S. 216th St., Gretna

402-332-4441 www.gretnanepost216.org

300

__

varies

Y

Y

A relaxed atmosphere for entertaining a lot of guests on a budget.

AMERICAN LEGION POST NO. 32 230 W. Lincoln St., Papillion

402-339-3395 www.papillionlegion32.org

250

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$450

Y

Y

A neighborhood park located next to the hall is the perfect backdrop for photos of your wedding party.

7811 Davenport St. 402-392-0444

400

__

varies

N

Y

This spacious hall can accommodate 400 guests with ease. It's no problem if you'd like to use an outside caterer.

712-328-8888 www.ameristar.com/council_bluffs.aspx

350

__

varies

Y

N

402-884-0911 www.aobfineart.com

150

__

$1600

Y

Y

402-331-7575 www.anthonyssteakhouse.com

350

150

No rental fees; food & bar minimums apply

N

N

402-884-2269 www.arborhallomaha.com

325

250

varies

Y

N

402-558-1442 www.archomaha.org

200

__

varies

Y

N

402-944-3344 www.ashlandgolfclub.com

425

__

$750

Y

Y

402-502-1885 www.aspenroomomaha.com

250

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$700-$900

Y

N

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A fenced patio provides privacy for an outdoor wedding. The rustic interior offers a cozy setting for dinner and drinks.

ATRIUM banquet facility 14333 S. Highway 31, Gretna

402-706-8983 www.atriumatnecrossings.com

400

__

varies

Y

N

2

Perfectly situated for Lincoln and Omaha guests. High ceilings, pillars and natural light. Cakes, catering, DJ, full bar and dedicated wait staff.

Bayliss Park Hall 530 First Ave., Council Bluffs

712-325-8388 www.baylissparkhall.com

200

__

varies

Y

Y

Historic property with loads of yesteryear charm. Stately parlor, grand staircase, ballroom and balcony overlooking picturesque Bayliss Park in downtown Council Bluffs.

THE BEL AIR BANQUET ROOM 12100 West Center Road, Suite 520

402-333-5505 www.belairbanquet.com

250

__

varies

Y

N

Spacious banquet room; decorating, cake, bar packages.

Bellevue Berry & Pumpkin Ranch 11001 S. 48th St.

402-331-5500 www.bellevueberryfarm.com

350

__

varies

Y

N

Wide range of ceremony possibilities both indoors or under a tent. Western Barn, Hungry Moose Lodge and Frontier Room with rustic appeal.

402-657-5543 www.bellaterrewinery.com

400

__

varies

Y

N

402-291-5717 www.bellevuesocial.com

400

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$950

Y

Y

With a chapel just off of the reception hall, this venue offers guests the convenience of a one-stop wedding.

402-291-8100 www.bellevue.edu/about/ locations/facilities-rental.aspx

300

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varies

N

Y

The recently renovated student center is ideal for a relaxed sit-down dinner.

402-592-5117 www.belvederehall.com

250

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$695

N

N

The hall has a richly adorned stage, dance floor and spacious seating area. Full bar facilities and experienced catering service.

402-965-9800 www.biaggis.com

75

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N

Y

Authentic Italian food, affordable pricing and choice of private spaces, including the Wine Room with Old World charm and display of wine reserve.

Carlisle Hotel 10909 M St.

402-331-8220 www.carlislehotelomaha.com

400

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$1500

N

N

A grand ballroom and pre-function area has an elegant, intimate atmosphere.

Cascio’s SteakHouse 1620 S. 10th St.

402-345-8313 www.casciossteakhouse.com

400

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varies

N

N

Since 1946, Cascio’s Steakhouse has been giving Omaha bragging rights as a nationally known "steak town." Party space for 20 to 400 guests.

Castle BARRETT 4330 Leavenworth St.

402-558-5520 www.BarrettsOmaha.com

250

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$1200

Y

Y

Castle UNICORN 57034 Deacon Road, Pacific Junction, Iowa

712-527-5930 www.castleunicorn.com

75

400

varies

Y

N

Only 20 minutes from Omaha, this indoor and outdoor space has enough room and imagination for any bride who wants a fairytale wedding.

402-341-1500 www.centurylinkcenteromaha.com

2,100

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varies

Y

N

The atrium makes a stunning setting for a day or evening wedding. When dancing is on the agenda, most brides opt for one of the ballrooms.

402-289-0900, ext. 25 www.theclubatindiancreek.com

400

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varies

Y

N

You're covered with a ceremony site overlooking the green, a gorgeous outdoor veranda and an elegant full-service banquet room with high ceilings.

402-593-8099 www.theclubomaha.com

400

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varies

N

N

The Club offers full-service amenities including full-menu catering and fullservice bars. Space can be adjusted to hold a cocktail reception or plated meal.

College of St. Mary 7000 Mercy Road

402-399-2463 www.csm.edu/About_CSM/ Facilities/

325

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varies

Y

N

With catering provided, this reception space easily accommodates up to 325 guests. Lovely gardens on premises for your wedding photos. Ample parking.

Comfort Inn & Suites 7007 Grover St.

402-934-4900 www.comfortinn.com/hotelomaha-nebraska-NE090

250

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varies

N

N

Traditional reception space; catering for up to 250 guests.

Cornerstone Mansion 140 N. 39th St.

402-558-7600 www.cornerstonemansion.com

50

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$150

Y

Y

This ornate mansion provides the perfect setting for small, intimate weddings with access to the main floor, the grand staircase, sun porch and gazebos in the patio area. Room for dancing.

Council Bluffs Country Club 4500 Piute St., Council Bluffs

712-366-0525 www.councilbluffscountryclub.com

250

200

$1000

Y

N

A dock and patio offer a beautiful backdrop for your wedding photos.

Creighton University Harper Center 602 N. 20th St.

402-280-1423 www.creighton.edu/harpercenter

370

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varies

N

N

Located on Creighton University’s campus along with St. John’s Cathedral, the Harper Center is centrally located and easily found by out-of-towners.

AMERICAN LEGION OMAHA POST NO. 1 7811 Davenport St. Ameristar Casino Hotel Interstate 29 & Nebraska Avenue, Council Bluffs Anderson O’Brien Fine Art Old Market 1108 Jackson St. ANTHONY’S STEAKHOUSE 7220 F St. ARBOR HALL 14040 Arbor St. Archdiocesan Retreat & Conference Center 3330 N. 60th St., Building D ASHLAND COUNTRY CLUB 16119 Highway 6, Ashland the aspen room 9809 M St.

Bella Terre Reception Hall & Vineyard 52399 230th St., Glenwood, Iowa Bellevue Social Centre 1308 Fort Crook Road South, Bellevue Bellevue University 1000 Galvin Road South, Bellevue The Belvedere Hall 201 E. First St., Papillion Biaggi’s Ristorante 13655 California St.

centurylink center omaha 455 N. 10th St. The Club at Indian Creek 3825 N. 202nd St. The Club Convention Center 1010 W. Lincoln St., Papillion

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An elegant ballroom with a dedicated staff; free valet parking; onsite child center. Outdoor site for receptions and ceremonies.

A contemporary, refined space for an intimate celebration.

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The recently updated Grand Ballroom has 9,000 square feet for dinner and dancing; 3 full-service bar stations; audio/visual capabilities; private patio.

Hold your wedding in the outdoor garden and move inside for the reception. One-stop venue for catering, cake, flowers, hair and makeup, photography and DJ services.

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Gorgeous Art Deco venue that can be just a reception location, or you can also house guests, host your wedding and serve brunch the next day. You choose.

Exchange your vows and celebrate your marriage at a private country club in a tranquil suburban setting.

46

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Bella Terre Vineyard gets its inspiration from the villas and vistas in Italy's wine region. Elegant outdoor party space with menu to match.

Unique upper-level ceremony site; the perfect reception space below.

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Creighton University V.J. & Angela Skutt Student Center 2500 California Plaza

402-280-1493 www.creighton.edu/skutt

370

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varies

N

N

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You can't beat the discounts for Creighton alums. The student center's proximity to St. John's adds to the appeal.

Dave & Buster’s 2502 S. 133rd Plaza

402-778-3921 www.daveandbusters.com

175-300

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$250

Y

N

A perfect space for fun-loving couples who want to provide their guests with some not-so-traditional reception activities like arcade games.

402-393-7431 www.dccentre.com

1,200

__

varies

Y

N

This versatile and attractive space is designed to handle everything from intimate gatherings to extravagant affairs.

Doubletree Hilton Guest Suites 7270 Cedar St.

402-397-5141 www.doubletree1.hilton.com

900

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varies

Y

N

A perfect place for couples who have traveling family members.

Doubletree by HILTON Omaha Downtown 1616 Dodge St.

402-636-4994 www.doubletree1.hilton.com

650

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varies

Y

N

402-444-5071 www.durhammuseum.org

800

__

varies

N

Y

Rent the entire Art Deco museum or choose from the Great Hall or one of the spacious galleries. Dine track-side and soak in the history.

402-341-3663 www.eaglehills.org

200

varies

N

N

Located on a golf course, this reception location is proud to have Attitude on Food as its exclusive caterer.

402-733-5444 www.eddiescatering.com

120

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$150

Y

N

Eddie's has an excellent reputation built on high-quality ingredients and outstanding service. Full range of catering services.

402-339-3557 www.elks.org

300

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$900

Y

Y

Room for creativity while providing a comfortable and elegant backdrop for your reception.

402-346-9000 www.omaha.embassysuites.com

1,000

__

varies

N

N

Located in the historic Old Market, this elegant location offers online planning tools and a personalized group Web page for your guests.

Embassy Suites La Vista 12520 Westport Parkway, La Vista

402-331-7400 www.embassysuites omahalavista.com

2,000

__

varies

Y

N

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Sleep, eat and celebrate all in one location. Embassy Suites has several ballrooms and a state-of-the-art sound system.

Erin Court 4714 N. 120th St.

402-496-3000 www.erincourt.com

300

__

varies

N

N

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Mix the charm of an Italian villa with the crisp feel of the Greek Islands and the grandeur of a Bollywood wedding and you have Erin Court.

Field Club of Omaha 3615 Woolworth Ave.

402-345-6343 www.fcomaha.com

190

__

varies

N

N

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With a deck that wraps around the entire reception area, this space is not only beautiful but it is perfect for large weddings.

402-933-0259 www.filmstreams.org

170

__

varies

N

Y

The spacious and inviting lobby/lounge has an adjacent kitchen for catering services and a second-floor conference room facing the downtown skyline, as well as two theaters.

Five Star Stables 23203 Dutch Hall Road, Bennington

402-690-1969 www.omahastables.com

750

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varies

Y

Y

A perfect indoor and outdoor setting with unforgettable photo opportunities and room for up to 750 guests.

Fontenelle FORESt NATURE CENTER 1111 Bellevue Blvd. N., Bellevue

402-731-3140 www.fontenelleforest.org

200

200

varies

Y

Y

The two-story wall of windows frames an inspiring and ever-changing view of Fontenelle Forest from the Great Hall. With soaring ceilings supported by naturally hewn pillars of Douglas fir logs, the inside is almost as gorgeous as the forest itself.

712-526-2426 www.thefountainsballroom.com

580

__

$8500-$9000

Y

Y

FOX and HOUND 17602 Wright St.

402-334-3133 www.foxandhound.com

150

__

varies

N

N

Private rooms have the energy and excitement of the Fox and Hound.

Enjoy a custom buffet and cash or open bar options.

FOX and HOUND 510 N. 120th St.

402-964-9074 www.foxandhound.com

400

__

varies

N

N

With room for up to 400 guests, Fox and Hound is all about memorable times, delicious food and great bar service.

The Gallery & LOFT 207 N. Spruce St., Valley

402-660-7040 www.wendydeaneartist.com

75

__

$35/per guest

Y

N

This contemporary location showcases art by local artist Wendy Deane.

General Crook House 5730 N. 30th St.

402-455-9990 www.omahahistory.org/museum. htm

70-220

__

varies

Y

N

With gardens and patios available in warmer months, this historic property is ideal for the bride who adores all things vintage, including Heritage Roses.

The Georgetowne Club 2440 S. 141st Circle

402-334-5446 www.brandeiscatering.com

500

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$500-$1000

N

N

Elegant decor, fireplaces and plenty of parking make wedding planning easy at this full-service catering facility. Tables, chairs and linens provided at no additional cost.

German-American Society 3717 S. 120th St.

402-333-6615 www.germanamericansociety.org

400

__

$800-$900

Y

N

Both small weddings or receptions of up to 400 guests will be comfortable at this members-only location.

Harrah’s Casino & Hotel 1 Harrah’s Blvd., Council Bluffs

712-329-6449 www.harrahs.com

800

__

varies

Y

N

Perfect for couples who aim to show their guests a fun, exciting time.

Henry Doorly Zoo 3701 S. 10th St.

402-738-2088 www.omahazoo.com

350

__

varies

Y

Y

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Appetizers while gazing at penguins, or cocktails and dinner with sharks swimming overhead make for an exceptional atmosphere.

Several event locations available on the grounds.

Hilton Garden Inn 1005 Dodge St.

402-341-4400 www.hiltongardeninn.com

80

__

$450

N

N

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With delicious catering, an event staff and a beautiful and convenient location, this hotel takes care of the bride’s every need.

HILTON GARDEN INN AT HORSESHOE CASINO 2702 Mid-America Drive, Council Bluffs

712-345-7064 www.omahaeastcouncilbluffs. hgi.com

225

__

varies

N

N

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Located in Council Bluffs, the Hilton not only shows your guests your elegant side, but your fun side as well.

Hilton Garden INN Omaha West 17879 Chicago St.

402-289-9696 www.omahawest.stayhgi.com

120

__

varies

N

N

With room for 120 people and delicious catering, the Hilton makes your big day easy.

402-998-3400 www.hilton.omaha.com

700

__

varies

N

N

Out-of-town guests get the advantage of a downtown hotel that's within easy walking distance of the Old Market and CenturyLink Center Omaha.

712-322-2406 www.dodgehouse.org

60

__

$500

N

Y

The Ballroom is perfect for an intimate wedding or event, and the beautiful gardens are in bloom throughout the spring, summer and early fall.

712-328-5638 www.pottcoconservation.com

70

__

$275

Y

Y

Located in the beautiful Loess Hills, this new facility features scenic overlooks, equal-access restrooms and two unique rental spaces.

712-322-5050 www.holidayinn.com

200

__

varies

N

N

Proximity to Omaha's Old Market and other 10th Street attractions will appeal to out-of-towners eager to explore the metro area.

402-345-0202 www.omahaperformingarts.org

300

__

varies

Y

N

402-991-4981 www.hoteldecoomaha.com

250

__

$500 to $2,500

Y

N

DC Centre 11830 Stonegate Circle

THE Durham Museum 801 S. 10th St. Eagle Hills 501 Eagle Hills Drive Eddie’s Catering & Social Hall 5009 S. 24th St. Elks Lodge 6410 S. 96th St. Embassy Suites Omaha Downtown/Old Market 555 S. 10th St.

Film Streams 1340 Mike Fahey St.

tHE Fountains Ballroom 51496 230th St., Glenwood, Iowa

Hilton Omaha 1001 Cass St. Historic General Dodge House 621 Third St., Council Bluffs Loess Hills lodge at Hitchcock Nature Center

27792 Ski Hill Loop, Honey Creek, Iowa

Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites at Ameristar 2202 River Road, Council Bluffs Holland Performing Arts Center 1200 Douglas St. HoTEL DECO 1504 Harney St.

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Downtown location, grand decor, world-class service.

The Fountains Ballroom sits on 10 acres of rolling hills and includes a landscaped garden with a tiered waterfall, stone platform with pergola, pond and river bed. The ballroom has a 30-foot vaulted ceiling and grand staircase.

With unparalleled views of the downtown skyline and Gene Leahy Mall, this dramatic venue has a two-story glass staircase and contemporary ambience.

Built in 1930, and recently remodeled with Deco-glam decor, this hotel’s lobby and guest suites leave an impression.

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402-391-9088 www.blondosocialhall.com

450

__

varies

N

N

Formerly Blondo Social Hall. Large dance floor, professional decorating, buffet packages, open bar and cash bar options.

402-731-4774 www.johnnyscafe.com

200

__

varies

N

N

An Omaha landmark with quality food; elegant, family friendly atmosphere.

402-342-3300 www.joslyn.org

400

500

varies

N

N

Exchange vows beside a soaring Chihuly sculpture, snap photos in the sculpture garden and dance the night away under a 45-foot-high glass ceiling in the iconic pink marble atrium.

402-595-3209 www.joslyncastle.com

200

200

varies

Y

Y

Exclusive access to a 5.5-acre estate and magnificent 35-room mansion. Wellmanicured grounds for your outdoor ceremony; stately interior for reception.

Karen’s Fireside 1214 N. Monroe St., Papillion

402-592-4413 www.karensfireside.com

350

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varies

Y

N

The oak mantel fireplace is the centerpiece of this full-service catering facility.

Known for bountiful buffets and creative decorations.

L & L Hall 132nd Street and Highway 370

402-895-9719

175

__

varies

N

Y

This hall lets you create your own style. With affordable pricing and a convenient location, you can create your own unique day.

Lauritzen Gardens 100 Bancroft St.

402-346-4002 www.omahabotanicalgardens.org

300

__

varies

Y

N

Legacy Hall 6104 Irvington Road

402-573-8864 www.legacyhall.com

475

__

$1295-$1695

Y

Y

One of the largest dance floors in Omaha, spacious main floor, tile entryway and picturesque gazebo.

402-592-2622 www.libertysocialhall.com

400

__

$1500

N

N

Fireplace, cozy atmosphere, large oak dance floor, big-screen TV with DVD player, podium, parking, in-house catering service and on-request decorating services.

402-873-8768 www.liedlodge.org

300

200

$450

Y

N

Located on 260-acre Arbor Day Farm, this naturally gorgeous backdrop has traditional banquet rooms, historic barns and rustic lodges.

402-334-5446 www.brandeiscatering.com

400

__

varies

N

N

402-345-5656 www.losolemio.com

225

__

varies

N

N

Welcoming atmosphere with chandeliers, columns, classic Roman art and Italian music playing in the background. Hearty Italian food from an Omaha classic.

402-341-3100 www.lucilesoldmarket.com

100

__

varies

N

Y

The foyer, grand living room, dining room and courtyard have the classic Old Market charm. Large spaces and intimate nooks boast architectural detailing.

402-341-2500 www.magnoliahotelomaha.com

250

150

varies

Y

N

Outdoor courtyard; elegant architecture inside and out; unique downtown atmosphere; steps away from the Orpheum Theater.

402-445-4380 www.mahoganyprime.com

40

__

varies

N

N

If you are looking for a modern, intimate reception, then Mahogany has the ideal setting and the menu to match.

402-341-9276 amerryoccasion.com

100

__

varies

Y

N

A charming Midtown historical house built in 1911, to which a beautiful chapel was added in 1937. The chapel features stained-glass windows and wonderful acoustics.

Mid-America Center One Arena Way, Council Bluffs

712-323-0536 www.midamericacenter.com

1,200

__

varies

Y

N

This venue can house up to 1,000 guests while still providing quality and elegance.

Millard plaza ballroom 5339 S. 139th Plaza

402-891-0779 www.millardplazaballroom.com

350

__

varies

Y

N

402-895-1440 www.eddiescatering.com

400

__

varies

N

N

A flexible environment to best-suit your needs for your event. Eddie's Catering provides a memorable day with savory cuisine and remarkable service.

oak hills country club 12325 Golfing Green Drive

402-895-3636 www.oakhillscountryclub.com

240

__

$1,000

Y

N

Catering, a beautiful ceremony site and a helpful staff, this venue will make sure your day runs smoothly.

Old Mattress Factory 501 N. 13th St.

402-346-9116 www.themattomaha.com

240

__

varies

N

N

Charming loft space has soaring ceilings, giant windows with views of downtown, a private bar and several seating areas.

402-553-4890, ext. 147 www.omahaplayhouse.com

300

__

varies

Y

Y

Available spaces include: Howard and Rhonda Hawks Mainstage Theatre, Howard Drew Theatre, Owen Lobby, Scott Lobby and Drew Foundation Plaza.

Omaha Executive Inn 3650 S. 72nd St.

402-397-3700 www.omahaexecutiveinns.com

350

__

$1400

Y

Y

With room for up to 350 guests, this venue will help you create your own special day.

Omaha Fire fighters Union Hall 6005 Grover St.

402-551-5760 www.omahafirefightershall.com

350

__

varies

N

Y

Full-service bar, full kitchen, accessible bathrooms, raised bandstand area, large dance floor and a large video screen; cleanup included.

Omaha healing arts center 1216 Howard St.

402-345-5078 www.omahahallrental.com

120

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$1000

Y

Y

Event hall features a full kitchen, natural skylight, rustic plank cherrywood floors, professional sound system and stage lighting.

Omaha Marriott 10220 Regency Circle

402-399-9000 www.omahamarriott.com

350

__

varies

Y

N

Indoor/outdoor pool with landscaped outdoor pool deck for wedding ceremonies or receptions, two elegant ballrooms and spacious reception rooms.

402-505-9698 www.omahapoa.com

500

__

varies

N

Y

Ample parking, large dance floor, kitchen, plenty of tables and chairs, as well as a podium and microphones and a large-screen TV.

402-345-8008 www.omahapressclub.com

225-275

__

varies

Y

N

Located on the rooftop, this contemporary and urban setting has an unbelievable view of downtown Omaha.

402-345-0202 www.omahaperformingarts.org

200

__

varies

Y

N

402-330-4359 www.pacificsprings.com

100

50

varies

N

N

Spacious deck, broad catering menu and charming decor.

Passport Restaurant 1101 Jackson St.

402-344-3200 www.passport-restaurant.com

300

__

varies

Y

N

In Omaha’s Old Market, this restaurant is a contemporary space with a tasteful menu.

The paxton ballroom 1403 Farnam St.

402-342-1403 www.paxtonballroom.com

370

__

varies

Y

N

402-291-5883 www.platteviewcc.com

200

20

$1500

Y

Y

402-963-9950 www.playersclubomaha.com

325

75

varies

Y

N

402-944-6004 www.quarryoaks.com

200

__

varies

N

N

Beautiful patio overlooking the 18th hole, event coordination, exceptional menu selections, event room with vaulted ceilings and natural light.

402-592-2380

200

__

varies

N

Y

Customizable space with parking, accessible bathrooms and tables available.

It's An Event! Social Hall 8045 Blondo St.

Johnny’s Café 4702 S. 27th St. Joslyn Art Museum 2200 Dodge St. joslyn castle 3902 Davenport St.

Liberty Social Hall 711 Olson Drive, Papillion Lied Lodge & Conference Center 2700 Sylvan Road, Nebraska City Livestock Exchange Building 4920 S. 30th St. Lo Sole Mio Villa 3020 S. 32nd Ave. Lucile’s old market 510 S. 10th St. Magnolia Hotel 1615 Howard St. Mahogany prime steakhouse 13665 California St. A Merry Occasion 3205 Harney St.

Millard social hall 10508 S. 144th St.

Omaha Community Playhouse 6915 Cass St.

Omaha Police Union Hall 13445 Cryer Ave. Omaha Press Club 1620 Dodge St., 22nd floor Orpheum Theater 409 S. 16th St. Pacific Springs Golf Course 16810 Harney St.

Platteview Country Club 4215 Platteview Road, Bellevue The Players Club golf & country club 12101 Deer Creek Drive quarry oaks 16600 Quarry Oaks Drive, Ashland Ralston American Legion Post No. 373 7400 Q St., Ralston

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Exquisitely decorated gardens and reception spaces include the Great Hall with Colorado red sandstone and wood flooring and smaller rooms for intimate events.

Two magnificent 10th-floor ballrooms with 22-foot ceilings and elegant Romanesque and Northern Italian Renaissance Revival architecture. Omaha skyline views.

This ballroom has a beautiful and traditional setting, but still provides you with unique décor and catering.

Crystal sconces, mirrored walls and antique chandeliers fashioned from Czech crystal await you in this extravagant Omaha landmark.

Ornate Art Deco finishes adorn the mezzanine and ballroom at this downtown location. Stage, coat area and soaring ceilings set this space apart.

The newly renovated clubhouse has a spacious lounge and gorgeous views. Rental includes decorations, dedicated staff and more. Pool available to rent as well.

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Numerous floor plan designs, in-house catering and event staff, selection of linens and centerpieces, breathtaking golf course views from the new deck and patio and event coordinator throughout your entire event.

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402-393-3950 www.ramadaplazaomaha.com

1500

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varies

N

N

Elegant space that provides centerpiece items, setup, cleaning, tear-down, cake-cutting, decorated head table, marble dance floor and covered entryway.

402-391-8686 www.regencylakeandtennis.com

150

300

varies

Y

Y

Indoor and outdoor reception options, all with views of Regency Lake. Separate dance floor and bar area provides entertainment for all types of guests.

402-397-8971 www.regencylodge.com

300

__

varies

N

N

Signature grand staircase, beautiful ballroom, spacious guest accommodations, sophisticated amenities, attentive customer service and affordable menus.

402-346-2990 www.renaissancemansion.com

225

__

varies

Y

N

The ballroom is a large open room with two sets of French doors used for dining or dancing. There is also a wine cellar. Courtyards and handsome main floor.

The Ridge banquet facility 20033 Elkhorn Ridge Drive, Elkhorn

402-289-2859 www.elkhornridge.net

350

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$1,500

Y

N

Catering includes china, flatware, centerpieces, table linens – not to mention complete setup and cleanup. Beautiful unobstructed views.

The Rose Theater 2001 Farnam St.

402-502-4631 www.rosetheater.org

150

__

varies

N

Y

An Omaha landmark, the Rose provides a dramatic setting for a wedding on the main stage and a lobby reception.

Royal View Hall 3734 S. 13th St.

402-731-1876 www.royalviewhall.com

170

__

varies

Y

Y

Features 14 stained-glass windows, wood floor, stage and buffet room off the main hall. Excellent acoustics for live music. Tables and chairs provided.

Scott Conference Center 6450 Pine St.

402-778-6313 www.scott-center.com

500

__

varies

N

Y

Handsome, versatile space with full-service catering options to fit any theme or culture.

402-342-1300 www.scottishriteomaha.org

300

__

varies

Y

Y

The lounge area is second-to-none with its marble top and fireplace and large bar. Decorations are only needed on the tables, as the venue is ornate.

402-533-1058 www.scottlynyards.com/TheLoft

180

170

varies

Y

Y

This rustic 1900s Dutch barn has antique wood floors and impressive views.

Ceremony sites include a garden, a hilltop with a view for miles, a vineyard and The Hollow. Open-air patio available for cocktail hour.

402-449-1424 www.scoularballroom.com

400

__

varies

Y

Y

402-397-4275

200

__

varies

N

Y

Sheraton hotel Omaha 655 N. 108th Ave.

402-496-0850 www.sheraton.com/omaha

325

__

varies

N

N

Shoreline Golf Course 210 E. Locust St., Carter Lake

712-347-5173 www.golfshoreline.com

200

__

varies

Y

N

Renovated conference room and lounge have views of the golf course.

Sokol Auditorium 2234 S. 13th St.

402-346-9802 www.sokolomaha.com

750

__

varies

Y

Y

Marble entrance leads to the frosted glass and wood doors of the Grand Ballroom. The crystal chandelier can be lowered or raised.

402-784-3154 www.starliteballroom.net

1,000

__

varies

Y

N

A 5,000-square-foot wooden dance floor, two well-stocked bars, full kitchen and 5 acres of parking.

402-944-3100, ext. 253 www.sacmuseum.org

2,000

__

varies

Y

Y

This venue is truly unique and contemporary, perfect for couples looking for something out-of-the-box.

402-342-0077 www.sullivansteakhouse.com

100

__

varies

N

N

402-392-0404 www.tangiershrine.com

300

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$1,250

Y

Y

Choose from the Crescent Room or the Oasis Room.

Tara Hills Golf Course 1410 Western Hills Drive, Papillion

402-592-7550 www.eaglehills.org

60

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varies

N

Y

Clubhouse with seating for up to 100 guests; overlooks the 18th hole.

Gourmet catering services.

1316 Jones Street 13th and Jones Streets, Old Market

402-415-8222 www.1316jones.com

295

130

varies

Y

N

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This historic part of downtown Omaha is a landmark that is sure to provide an elegant ambience with a dance floor, fully lighted deck and two portable bars.

the Thompson Center at UNO 67th and Dodge Streets

402-554-3368 www.brandeiscatering.com

350

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varies

Y

N

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After the ceremony, your guests may move to the patio for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres and then inside for dinner and dancing.

Tiburon Golf Club 10302 S. 168th St.

402-896-1323 www.tiburongolf.com

400

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varies

Y

N

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With different rooms to choose from, patios and a scenic golf course, this venue is picture-perfect.

Tip Top Ballroom 1502 Cuming St.

402-334-5446 www.brandeiscatering.com

600

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$500-$1000

N

N

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Access to the Grand Foyer for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres; the Grand Ballroom, which can be divided into 3 areas; the Junior Ballroom; or Executive Ballroom.

402-292-2745 www.tregarongolf.com

175

40

varies

N

N

UNMC Truhlsen - Campus Events Center 619 S. 42nd St.

402-559-5192 www.unmc.edu/eventscenter

350

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varies

Y

Y

Upstream Brewing Company 514 S. 11th St.

402-344-0200 www.upstreambrewing.com

85-125

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varies

N

N

Located on the lower level, the party room has more than 1,500 square feet and features a beautifully restored antique bar, side room with pocket billiards table and private restrooms.

Upstream Brewing Company 17070 Wright St.

402-778-0100 www.upstreambrewing.com

135

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varies

N

N

The second location in west Omaha can seat up to 135 people and provides the same quality menu as the Old Market location.

VFW Post No. 2503 8904 Military Road

402-571-8397 www.vfwwebcom.org/ne/post2503

230

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varies

Y

Y

Call for details.

VFW Post No. 8334 5083 S. 136th St.

402-895-5656

130

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varies

Y

N

Call for details.

Venice Inn 6920 Pacific St.

402-556-3111 www.canigliasveniceinn.com

175

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varies

N

N

"Relaxed elegance" describes the party room. Enjoy seafood, pasta and chicken in a restaurant made famous for its family recipes.

Viking Ship 2582 Redick Ave.

402-457-5585

300

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$515

Y

Y

Winding staircase, dance floor, kitchen. Named for the North High Vikings, not for its decor.

402-238-3000 www.benningtonwarehouse.com

300

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varies

Y

N

The ballroom has a full bar, stage and plenty of room for dancing. Great for weddings, dances, parties and larger events. Catering provided by Hy-Vee.

402-390-3380 www.access66catering.com

300

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varies

Y

N

Consider events in the Westside Banquet Room, Lighthouse Dining Suite, Alumni Executive Boardroom and gym.

712-483-2435 www.willowcreekglasschapel.com

350

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$1,000-S2,800

Y

Y

Ramada Plaza Hotel & convention center 3321 S. 72nd St. Regency Lake & Tennis Club 606 Regency Parkway Regency Lodge 909 S. 107th Ave. The Renaissance Mansion 401 S. 39th St.

Scottish Rite Masonic Center 202 S. 20th St. Scottlyn Yards 6817 County Road P35, Blair Scoular Building Ballroom 2027 Dodge St. Shark Club 2808 S. 72nd St.

Starlite ballroom 2045 County Road K, Wahoo Strategic Air & Space Museum 28210 W. Park Highway, Ashland Sullivan’s Steakhouse 222 S. 15th St. Tangier Shriners’ Center 2823 S. 84th St.

Tregaron Golf Course 13909 Glengarry Circle, Bellevue

The Warehouse 15409 S. Second St., Bennington Westside Community Conference Center 3534 S. 108th St. Willow Creek Glass Chapel 4072 325th St., Shelby, Iowa

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Banquet room offers a bar, dance floor and raised space for live music.

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Warm hospitality and custom menus featuring our finest steak and seafood, as well as personalized beverage service. Impressive wine cellar.

Spacious clubhouse can be set up for a buffet or sit-down meal.

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Modern architecture, neutral colors, glass foyer. Tables, chairs, room setup and cleanup, coat racks, CD player and access to the kitchen and parking.

Featuring high vaulted ceilings and rustic charm, this space has everything you'll need, including a chapel, dance floor and access to the grounds.

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Seen at the

Get inspired!

Six of our favorite scenes from the 2011 Wedding Essentials Idea Show.

Save the date for the next show October 21, 2012.

1 straight from the runway Our all-day fashion show gives you a chance to see wedding gowns and tuxes from the perspective of your guests. If you love something on our stage, it will play even better on your wedding day.

2 texture Incorporate texture into your cake and other sweets.

Dramatic lighting on serving tables will enhance every artful angle.

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3 let loose Weddings are supposed to be fun! Activities like a photo booth can be enjoyed by guests of all ages.

Bonus: The photos make great party favors.

4 ambiance The smallest details make the biggest impression.

Candlelight has an amazing effect on a room.

Crystal pieces that shimmer and glow give a tablescape unforgettable elegance.

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snacks

Taste-test everything. You might find your new favorite in an appetizer or dessert.

Small bites or fancy hors d'oeuvres bring a lot of personality and flavor to a reception menu.

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Announcement

C ELEBRATIONS Make it really official

AS YOU IMAGINED

You changed your status on Facebook, and now it's time to tell the rest of the world about your engagement and wedding through the Omaha World-Herald's Celebrations section.

For your family Engagement announcements are usually placed by the bride's parents or immediate family to announce their happiness to the community. The write-ups are a time-honored tradition that can be sent to out-of-state relatives and kept in scrapbooks.

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What to say Typically, announcements include information about the two of you, including your careers and education, plus your parents' names and cities where they live. You can be vague about your wedding date if you wish. But something like "a fall wedding is planned" helps decrease the number of "So, when's the wedding?" questions people will inevitably ask.

When the announcement will appear The Celebration section is a regular feature in the Sunday World-Herald.

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First Central Congregational Church, 86 firstcentral.org Fountains Ballroom, 9 thefountainsballroom.com Henry Doorly Zoo, 86 omahazoo.com

Millard Plaza Ballroom, 3 millardplazaballroom.com Orpheum Theater, 45 omahaperformingarts.org The Players Club at Deer Creek, 84 playersclubomaha.com Scoular Ballroom, 5 scoularballroom.com Sheraton Hotel Omaha, 87 sheraton.com/omaha Sullivan's Steakhouse, 85 sullivansteakhouse.com The Thompson Center, 67 brandeiscatering.com

Bella Terre, 46 bellaterrewinery.com

Hilton Garden Inn at the Horseshoe Casino, 94 omahaeastcouncilbluffs. hgi.com

Lane Photography, 59 laneweddings.com

Castle Barrett, 73 barrettsomaha.com

Holland Center, 45 omahaperformingarts.org

UNMC Truhlsen Center, 47 unmc.edu/eventscenter

Midwest Photo Pro, 72 midwestphotopro.com

Creighton University V.J. & Angela Skutt Student Center, 79 creighton.edu/skutt

Lauritzen Gardens, 81 omahabotanicalgardens.org

Willow Creek, 49 willowcreekglasschapel.com

Janine McClintock Studios, 50 janinemcclintock.com

Multi-Images Photography, 77 multi-images.com

Tiburon Golf Club, 85 tiburongolf.com

Doubletree by Hilton Omaha Downtown, 81 doubletree1.hilton.com

BRIDAL registry Celebrity China and Crystal, 17 celebritychina.com Dillard's, 1 dillards.com

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Ever After

Ananda Spadt

A Note From Miss Behave

Leave the food to the professionals Dear Miss Behave: I’m trying to make my wedding stand out and impress my friends, but I don’t want to put myself in debt over this.

My aunt offered to make the hors d’oeuvres as her gift to us. Normally we’d be thrilled, but she’s a horrible cook. How do I get out of this one?

Sincerely, With Standards Dear Standards, Honey, you and your main squeeze need to remember above all else, this wedding is about the two of you.

Reconsider your priorities on this oh-soimportant day if “wowing” your loved ones is a primary goal.

However, Miss Behave certainly understands your predicament. You are smart not to break the bank. There are ways to make your wedding day meal delicious and affordable.

Your aunt might have the right idea to opt for heavy hors d’oeuvres and cocktails instead of a traditional sit-down

meal at the reception. I have been to far too many receptions where a lengthy buffet or four-course plated dinner has taken away from mingling and dancing.

And let’s face it, that chicken could be a hockey puck by the time the waiter gets to the last table. A variety of hors d’oeuvres allows your guests to make a plate (or two), grab a cocktail and either take a seat or work the room.

When it comes to adult beverages, present each guest with two drink tickets. That’s more than enough liquid to lubricate this social experience. The rest of the night, it’s up to them.

Oh, and wedding mints make Miss Behave’s mouth water like a happy puppy, so stock up on those.

Thank your dear sweet aunt for her kind gesture, but let her know that you have already talked to a caterer. But you'd love to hear her ideas on which hors d’oeuvres you should choose. Buy that woman a gorgeous corsage and she will be over the moon.

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$540

is what the average bride spends for a traditional tiered wedding cake, which is the most popular dessert option.

13%

of brides have interactive food stations, such as a sommelier with wine tastings, a sushi chef or a cheesemonger.

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