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CONTENTS

REGULAR FEATURES

SEASONAL

6 Editor’s Column 8 On Our Radar 10 Momaha Bookshelf 16 Get Organized 48 Be Well

12 Teacher Gifts 18 Sweet Treats 26 Handmade Holidays 39 Rudolph Ornament 42 Divorce and the Holidays 46 Wish List Unfulfilled

SPONSORED FEATURES 14 YMCA 17 Diventures 22 Marian High School 24 Fontenelle Forest 30 The Rose Theater 32 Holiday Gift Guide 40 Do Space 44 Huntington Learning Center

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VOLUME 9 . ISSUE 12 . DECEMBER 2018 editor in chief CHRIS CHRISTEN chris.christen@owh.com 402-444-1094

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Mom to Sam and Elliott.

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DECEMBER’S JOYS

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appy December! I’ve always found this month to be the most joyful of the year.

It’s also the month I first became a mom. Is there a better time to welcome a child than during the Christmas season? I think not.

This month we celebrate my son turning 5. I can’t believe it. How do I have a 5-year-old already?!

Another reason I love this month is pretty obvious — Christmas! I’m particularly excited for this year’s holiday because my kids are at an age where they get excited not only for the gifts, but also for the parties, the decorations and, of course, Santa Claus.

Elliott didn’t understand the concept last year

(he was only 1), but I’m looking forward to him being a little more excited this year alongside his big brother, Sam. (Whatever Sam is excited about, Elliott is excited about!)

If you’re looking for the perfect gift for that special someone, check out the suggestions from our advertising partners, beginning on page 32.

And don’t forget about your children’s teachers this holiday season. For ideas, turn to page 12.

However you are celebrating, I wish you all the happiness and peace during this joyous time of year.

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ON OUR RADAR // EDITOR’S PICKS New and Momaha-tested too!

HOLIDAY TUBES

THINGS TO TRY THIS MONTH

Want a fun stocking stuffer at a reasonable price? These 70-piece Mini Maker building sets in a tube allow you to make a candy cane and wreath, an elf or a Christmas tree.

It’s a fun activity you could even do while you’re on the road. $6.99, plus-plus.us/tubes

THE HALF ACRE FIELD This sturdy piece of turf with a wooden gate would be a great indoor fairy garden or rural scenery around a model railroad. It comes with a tractor, trailer, two horses, a sheep, a dog, a cow and fence pieces. Overall, mom says, an interesting toy that gets children away from their screens and that fosters imaginative play. $34.99 for Half Acre, $44.99 for The Field, amazon.com/thefield

SPACE EXPLORATION This talking telescope is not for looking at the stars. It comes loaded with 24 images from NASA and has audio recordings to teach you about space and what you are seeing. Some kids may tire of hearing the same facts over and over again. That said, the images and audio are clear and high quality once you install your own batteries and the tripod legs. Our mom reviewer says kids ages 4-8 would enjoy learning from this, and it might spark an interest in getting a real telescope. $49.99, Educationalinsights.com

MULTIPURPOSE BOTTLE

PERFECT FOR FUN The Multi reversible playmat is so cute with its contrasting designs of woodland creatures. The cushioning is thick and comfortable, and the mat doesn’t slide around on the floor. Out of the box, the mat had a strong odor. Although the package says non-toxic, our mom of three aired it outside for a couple of hours before letting the kids play on it.

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MOMAHA BOOKSHELF Hot off the presses from Nebraka adn Iowa authors COMPILED by the editors of Momaha Magazine

MR. REGINALD AND THE BUNNIES

Paula Wallace Spend the day with three bunnies as they romp through the quiet life of their uncle, Mr. Reginald — who likes things just so — and his tidy neighbor, Mrs. Paddock. Full of mischief, the youngsters bumble and tumble while the adults mumble and grumble through a chaotic spring holiday. With whimsical illustrations and read-aloud giggles, the book celebrates childhood and reminds us that sometimes it’s OK when things are not just so. Youngsters to first or second grade.

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I WON’T GIVE UP

Daniel Kenney Parents, guardians and mentors play a crucial role in teaching kids how to not give up. With the help of this book, you and your child can work together to explore how even the most daunting challenges can be navigated with a little creativity ... and a lot of determination.

With fun and silly pictures, and a simple but positive message, children will learn about their own super power. Volume 2 of the persistence project series. Ages 4 to 8.

EMPATHY IS MY SUPERPOWER

Bryan Smith Amelia is furious after being kept up all night because of her crybaby brother.

Amelia, like many, lacks patience and understanding when things that come naturally to her seem to be hard for others.

Luckily, Amelia’s mom is there to teach her about empathy. Enter Super E – Amelia’s alter ego, whose focus is on showing people she cares. Amelia has quite the time in school the following week, as Super E repeatedly comes to the aid of her classmates. Published

by Boys Town Press.

Preschool to second grade.

TWO OF A KIND

Kenny Onatolu The former University of Nebraska at Omaha and NFL player shares his personal story of growing up as a privileged African-American in a non-diverse community where it was assumed he came from a disadvantaged home. He met his best friend playing football in the NFL. Together they learned that many judgments were made about them because of the different colors of their skin. In the book he encourages children to ask questions and to be curious about the people around them.

All ages.

DOC: ZOO MEMORIES AND ANIMAL STORIES

Lee G. Simmons Throughout the course of his career as a veterinarian and zoo director, Dr. Simmons has seen just about everything in the zoo world. “Doc” is a collection of Simmons’ favorite animal stories and tales from traveling the world to celebrate his passion for animals. If you are a fan of the Omaha Henry Doorly Zoo & Aquarium, you’ll love this book. All ages.

SAVING EMILY DICKINSON

John Beecham In the year 2046, North America has been turned into an irradiated wasteland.

As humanity fights extinction, London Yardley ekes out an existence on the plains of Nebraska with her father, brother and a golden retriever mix named Emily Dickinson. Despite her father’s warnings not to leave the perimeter, London begins to cycle the country roads late at night, desperate to escape the isolation and pointlessness of her life. Not until pirates steal Emily Dickinson does she begin to map those roads, setting out on a quest that will put her on a collision course with evil. Young adult fiction.

RETURNING SANTA’S BOOT

Valerie Ondrejko Her daughter’s desire to hear the same bedtime story was Valerie’s inspiration for the story of three friends who discover that Santa has lost his boot in one of their chimneys. They want to return it in person.

Chaos and fun ensue as they try to stay connected via walkietalkies as they have a night like no other.

First through fourth grades.

RUNAWAYS: BEST FRIENDS FOREVER

Rainbow Rowell With the help of illustrator Kris Anka, Rowell brings back her favorite Marvel comic.

The original cast from the “it” book of the early 2000s is back.

Did Chase and Gert’s love survive their time apart? Have Karolina and Nico’s feelings made their friendship impossible? What emotional landmines lie in wait to destroy the Runaways? Young adults.

THE IMPOSSIBLE GIRL

Lydia Kang Set in 1850, Cora Lee is the only female resurrectionist in New York, and she has carved out a niche procuring bodies afflicted with the strangest of anomalies.

Cora’s specialty is not only profitable, it’s also a means to keep a finger on the pulse of those searching for her. She’s the girl born with two hearts — a legend among grave robbers and anatomists — sought after as an endangered prize. Now, as a series of murders unfolds closer and closer to Cora, she can no longer trust those she holds dear, including the young medical student she has fallen for. Young adult fiction.

THE FINGERS OF GOD

Lisa Michele Neu Neu’s lifetime collection of inspirational and spiritual poetry, covering forgiveness, giving, power of prayer, faith in God, grief, healing and inspiration. The poems can be used as daily devotionals as they provide positive daily affirmations and encouragement. “I decided to publish my poetry as I want readers to know they are not alone and that God’s love touches each one of their lives through the good, bad, happy, uplifting, depressing and sometimes lonely situations experienced in their journey of life,” Neu says. Adults.

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TEACHER GIFTS THAT ROCK STORY Marjie Ducey PHOTO Kiley Cruse

Finding a suitable gift for your child’s teacher is probably on your holiday to-do list.

To help you out, we asked teachers what they like best.

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GIFT CARDS

SWEETS

HANDMADE

Gift cards for books, dinner out, supplies or coffee were a big favorite.

“A teacher’s currency is always Starbucks. I have also had students bring me Red Bull,’’ says Cassandra DeStefano, an English teacher at Bryan High School.

Sweet things like candy and desserts (especially chocolate!). “Brownies or cheesecake or pie,’’ Gross High School teacher Jacki Harris says.

But just as lovely for teachers is a kind note or a handmade gift.

“Something that shows true thought and expresses appreciation or words of encouragement,’’ says Kyle Sittler, a fourth-grade teacher at Manchester Elementary.

Molly Conway’s tree of handmade Christmas ornaments.

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OUT OF THE BOX

Unusual and touching gifts steal teachers’ hearts as well. Ten to remember:

“An Usborne First Math book for my baby when I was expecting. I am a math teacher so it was super thoughtful.” − Gross teacher Danielle Lyons

“I once had a student give me an antique grammar book that he found at his grandmother’s house. I love old books.’’ − Skutt teacher Sandra Drummond

“A group of physics students gave me a framed photo of us all from winter formal. The frame is decorated with physics equations.’’ − Skutt teacher Abbey Brockhouse

“One Christmas my human anatomy/physiology class gave me a Squatty Potty that they all autographed.’’ − Mercy biology teacher Heather Newville

“I once received a gift from a student who couldn’t keep it a secret and blurted out before I could open it, “IT’S A ROCK!” It really was a rock, but it was painted by a family member to say “Teachers rock”. Every time I look at it I giggle remembering how I received it. That rock is better than any other mug or ornament!’’ − Rebecca Haynes, Gilder Elementary kindergarten teacher “An intricate piece of Vietnamese paper artwork from an exchange student from Vietnam and a Christmas ornament from Mexico from my Spanish student.’’ − Gross teacher Pam Maxwell

“I always love receiving handmade Christmas ornaments from my students. I keep a classroom Christmas tree, and these are a yearly reminder of my past kiddos.’’ − Skutt teacher Molly Conway “My craziest best gift from a student came from a young lady whose mother was a stylist. It was a gift card to her mother’s salon that read, “Treat yourself Ms. Lane. Your roots are showing.” I had a really good laugh and was very grateful!’’ − Jacqelle Lane, Davis Middle School English language arts teacher

“Years and years ago I had my fifth-grade students bring in family recipes. We then made a cookbook for their parents. Years later a former student from that class found their original and sent me a copy of the recipe he had submitted back in December 1978. We still use that recipe for homemade meatballs!” − Skutt guidance counselor Suzie Klosterman “As a high school teacher, it is always a big surprise when a student chooses to give a gift during the holiday season because it is usually a rare endeavor. One year, a former student surprised me with a festive mug filled with ingredients to make hot cocoa as a thank you for helping her on an assignment. This was something I will cherish because it reminds me that our jobs come with many intangible rewards. It was a symbol for the relationships I am able to build with students.’’ − Cassandra DeStefano, Bryan High School English teacher

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ince the YMCA was founded in 1844, healthy living and wellness have been hallmarks of its programming and benefits of membership.

This is something the YMCA of Greater Omaha embraces, addressing the health of its community through programs like LIVESTRONG® at the YMCA and Delay the Disease™.

“Both of these programs are wonderful for helping people find a way to a healthier lifestyle after receiving a life-altering diagnosis,” said Association Director of Health & Wellness Theresa Lovings. “Exercise is proven to improve quality of life for many individuals with chronic disease.”

LIVESTRONG at the YMCA is a research-based physical activity and well-being program designed to help adult cancer survivors reclaim their total health.

This 12-week program is offered at no cost to any adult cancer survivor and includes a complimentary household membership to the YMCA for the duration of the program. LIVESTRONG at the YMCA meets twice a week for 75 minutes with sessions beginning in February, May and September at six locations in the metro area. A seventh location will be added in 2019.

“Because health history and medical clearance are required for this program, all registration is completed through a location

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coordinator,” said Amy Roux, LIVESTRONG at the YMCA project manager. “If a survivor or member is interested in the program, they can contact their local YMCA, and Welcome Center staff will connect them with the appropriate person.”

As participants in the LIVESTRONG at the YMCA program, members receive one-on-one attention in a small-group setting – providing a safe and comfortable workout environment.

The program focuses on increasing aerobic endurance, muscular strength, flexibility and balance. Roux said the YMCA of Greater Omaha has served more than 800 cancer survivors in the community through the LIVESTRONG at the YMCA program.

“Our staff are not only trained group exercise instructors and/or personal trainers, but they have also obtained an additional 16-hour

course certification specifically for working with cancer survivors,” she said.

Delay the Disease is an evidence-based fitness program created by Ohio Health and is led by certified instructors.

It’s designed to empower people with Parkinson’s disease with the opportunity to optimize their physical function – helping delay the progression of the disease’s symptoms as research has shown that exercise improves health and quality of life.

Participants work with certified personal trainers/ group fitness instructors who have been trained in the specific challenges of Parkinson’s disease.

Assessments are performed at the beginning of each session. Sessions start in January, March, June and September at specified locations. Participants can reenroll in as many sessions as

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The current session of Delay the Disease is being offered at Sarpy, Southwest, Maple Street and the Charles E. Lakin YMCA. Enrollment is about 45 people – some of those attend classes at multiple facilities to see the maximum benefit from the program.

“LIVESTRONG at the YMCA and Delay the Disease™ are currently our only communityhealth programs. However, we are continuously looking at the needs of the community, what programs are already being offered in our area and where we can help fill the gaps,” Roux said.

Along with these programs, the YMCA is working toward expanding its communitybased health offerings in 2019 to include the Y Weight Loss program, which is specifically designed to help people achieve their goals for a healthier weight.

This commitment to helping people overcome chronic conditions contributes to strengthening the community – which is the YMCA’s cause.

“Rather than advocate for specific or restrictive shortterm solutions, these programs help participants build skills for successful lifestyle changes and empower them to selfdesign their action plans,” Lovings said.

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GET ORGANIZED // AMY TOKOS Amy Tokos is a Certified Professional Organizer and the owner of Freshly Organized. You can find more organizing tips at freshlyorganized.com.

SANITY SAVERS

Holiday baking should be a treat, not a chore

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he holidays have arrived and so has the holiday baking season. Our best tip is to share the work. If you create a big baking list and tackle it all by yourself, it can become more work than fun. If you are doing the task alone, be sure you’re making things you like to make. Holiday baking should be enjoyable! Here are six steps to help make it so.

BRAINSTORM

Create a list of what you want to make. This is a great time to try a new recipe; it just may become a new family favorite.

STRATEGIZE

Determine your quantities of goodies by creating a list of who you’re baking for and how much of each item they will eat and/or receive as a gift.

PLAN

Pull all your recipes together and build your grocery list. If necessary, break your baking into phases.

Make items that keep well first.

Plan to do toppings and decorating

last. Purchase ingredients and supplies by phase. This will be helpful if storage space is limited.

When creating your grocery list, don’t forget packaging and storage supplies. Plastic bags are great for storing in-process items, for example, sugar cookies to be frosted.

Designate shelf space for your ingredients and supplies by phase, if possible. It’s also a good idea to designate a holding area for giveaway treats so your family doesn’t eat them.

EXECUTE

How to do the baking depends on your space, appliances and how much help you have. If you have a small space, you may be able to do only one recipe at a time. If you have a larger space, you can set up stations for different recipes.

Enlist the family to help.

Smaller kids can help pull out the ingredients and supplies. They can also assist in measuring. Bigger kids can make the whole recipe with some parental guidance and

help do dishes. Teenagers can do your whole list of holiday baking if you so desire. All the kids, big and little, can help with decorating.

Decorated cookies are the hardest to store and keep pretty. The actual decorating can be the last task prior to packaging for delivery.

CONTAIN

There is typically a time when you have items baked but you have more baking to do. You will need supplies to contain all the completed items. Some items will freeze well. If you are making platters or trays to deliver, assemble them as soon as the last cookie is completed.

SHARE

Homemade breads and sweets make wonderful hostess gifts. Your office colleagues would probably love to taste your baking, too. Set up delivery days and enlist the whole family. The sooner you share, the more you’ll have to share … at least if you have cookie thieves living under your roof like me.

Christmas Biscotti This recipe is a Tokos family favorite.

• ¼ cup olive oil • ¾ cup white sugar • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract • ½ teaspoon almond extract • 2 eggs • 1¾ cup flour • ¼ teaspoon salt • 1 teaspoon baking powder • ¾ cup cranberries • 1½ cup pistachio nuts

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• White chocolate for drizzling

1. Heat oven to 300 F. 2. Combine flour, salt and baking powder in bowl.

3. In a separate large bowl, mix oil and sugar together until well-blended. Mix in vanilla and almond extracts; add eggs to sugar mixture. Gradually stir in flour. Mix in nuts and cranberries by hand. 4. Divide dough in half.

Form two 12-inch-by-2-inch logs on a cookie sheet lined with parchment

paper. Dough will be sticky so wet hands with cool water to shape and handle more easily. 5. Bake for 35 minutes or until logs are light brown.

Remove from oven and cool. 6. Set oven to 275 F. 7. Cut logs into ¾-inch pieces on the diagonal. Lay pieces on sides on parchment-covered cookie sheet. 8. Bake about 8-10 minutes, until dry and crisp. 9. Let cool then drizzle with white chocolate.

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nce the temperature drops and enthusiasm for sledding and snowmen is gone, parents are often left with cranky children who are tired of being stuck indoors all winter.

An Omaha aquatic center has a solution that could beat the winter blues for the entire family: Get in the water.

“It’s important for children – and adults – to stay active year-round to maintain mental health and physical fitness,” says Christine Hughey, chief marketing officer for Diventures, 303 S. 121st Plaza.

“Swimming is an excellent no-impact activity. It uses multiple muscles.”

The company’s 12,000-squarefoot facility offers open family swims; swimming lessons, stroke clinics and minimeets; snorkeling and scuba classes; and water fitness classes.

While leaving the house to go for a dip in the pool might sound unappealing in freezing weather, Diventures’ natatorium is always between 88 and 90 degrees.

“There isn’t that uncomfortable feeling of not wanting to get in or out of the water,” Hughey says. “Personally, I get a kick out of being in the pool in the winter.

It’s warm and toasty in the water, while watching the snow fall on the other side of our windows. It’s pretty surreal.”

Diventures hosts dozens of fun family events during the winter months, including dive-in movie nights, mermaid and shark camps, youth diving nights and Scuba Rangers, where children as young as 8 can learn scuba skills. One of the Scuba Rangers classes – called Night Rangers – allows students to jump in the 25-yard pool at night, in the dark.

“We host birthday parties for both youth scuba divers and those who just want to swim. You can even arrange a mermaid birthday party, and we provide a mermaid tail,” Hughey says. “We strive to offer something for everyone.”

Hughey adds that swimming helps children and adults develop flexibility and

body strength. It also improves posture and stamina, and it can help lift the spirits of a kid or grown-up who is experiencing a little cabin fever and feeling blah.

While seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is generally thought of as affecting only adults, children and adolescents are also susceptible, according to healthychildren.org, a division of the American Academy of Pediatrics. Regular exercise can help ease symptoms.

“Many people find the repetitive motions (of swimming) to be relaxing and meditative,” Hughey says. “Staying active is so important for your health and wellness.”

Diventures in Omaha was the first aquatic center to feature a retail store, service department and a 25-yard pool for swimmers and divers. It is the country’s largest and fastest-growing scuba and swim center with six locations across four states, including Omaha; Springfield, Missouri; Branson, Missouri; North Liberty, Iowa; and a swim school with two facilities in the Madison, Wisconsin, area.

Diventures is dedicated to providing concierge-level customer service, stateof-the-art facilities, and instructors with best-in-class curriculum, training and equipment. It also believes in giving back to the community.

“We always say that safety is our number one priority, and fun is our number one goal,” Hughey says.

Visit diventures.com for more information or call 402-933-6251.

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SWEET TREATS Chocolates and other goodies make perfect gifts for teachers or neighbors and are always a hit at holiday parties. Try some of these recipes from the ‘Cookies, Candies & Bars’ cookbook.

California White Fudge • 2 cups sugar • ¾ cup sour cream (not fat-free) • ½ cup (1 stick) butter • 12 ounces white chocolate chips • 1 teaspoon vanilla • 7-ounce jar marshmallow cream

1. Butter a 9-inch square baking pan and set aside.

2. Combine sugar, sour cream and butter in a pan.

Cook and stir until mixture reaches the soft-ball stage (about 235 to 240 F). 3. To see if it’s done, drop a small amount of the sugar syrup into very cold water; pause briefly and see if it will form a soft ball that flattens of its own accord when removed from the water. 4. Remove from heat and stir in white chocolate chips. When melted, stir in vanilla and marshmallow cream. Mix well. Pour into the buttered pan. Allow to cool before cutting into squares.

Easy Chocolate Fudge • 2 cups (12-ounce package) semisweet chocolate morsels • 1 can (14 ounces) sweetened condensed milk • 1 cup chopped walnuts (optional) • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1. Line an 8-inch square baking pan with foil. 2.

Combine chocolate morsels and sweetened condensed milk in medium, heavy-duty saucepan.

Warm over lowest heat setting, stirring until smooth.

3. Remove from heat; stir in vanilla extract and nuts, if using. 4. Spread evenly in the prepared baking pan. Refrigerate 2 hours or until firm. Lift the fudge from pan; remove foil and cut into 48 pieces.

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Dark Cherry Chocolate Fudge • 1½ cups sugar •

2/3

cup (5 ounce can) evaporated milk

• 2 tablespoons butter • ¼ teaspoon salt • 2 cups miniature marshmallows • 1 2/3 cups (10-ounce package) dark chocolate chips • ¾ cup (4 ounces) dried cherries, coarsely chopped • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1. Line an 8-inch square baking pan with aluminum foil; set aside. 2. Combine sugar, evaporated milk, butter and salt in a medium, heavy-duty saucepan. Bring to a full rolling boil over medium heat, stirring constantly. Once boiling, stir constantly for 4 to 5 minutes. 3.

Remove from heat. 4. Stir in marshmallows, chocolate chips, dried cherries and vanilla extract. Stir vigorously for 1 minute or until marshmallows are melted. Pour into the prepared baking pan. 5. Refrigerate for 2 hours or until firm. 6. Lift from pan; remove foil. Cut into 48 pieces.

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Snickers • 16-ounces milk chocolate chips • 2 tablespoons shortening • 30 caramels • 2 teaspoons margarine • 2 teaspoons water • 1 cup chopped peanuts

1. Line an 8-inch square baking dish with foil and spray with cooking spray. In a saucepan, melt chocolate chips and shortening. Pour half of the mixture into baking pan, refrigerate. 2. Next, melt caramels, margarine and water. Add peanuts. Pour over cooled chocolate. Refrigerate for 30 minutes. 3. Top caramel mixture with the rest of melted chocolate. 4. Refrigerate for 1 hour. Cut into squares or bars.

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Steffany’s chocolate peanut butter awesomeness • 1 cup (2 sticks) butter • 1½ cups sugar • 2 eggs • 2 teaspoons vanilla • 2 cups flour •

2/3

cup unsweetened cocoa

• ¾ teaspoon baking soda • ½ teaspoon salt • 10-ounce package peanut butter chips

1. Heat oven to 350 F. 2. Cream butter, sugar, eggs and vanilla until light and fluffy. 3. In a separate bowl, combine flour, cocoa, baking soda and salt. 4. With the mixer on low speed, blend the dry ingredients into the creamed mixture.

Stir in peanut butter chips by hand. 5.

Drop by teaspoonfuls onto ungreased cookie sheets. Bake 8 to 10 minutes. Cool cookies 1 minute on the baking sheet before removing them to a wire rack to cool completely. 6. Makes about 5 dozen cookies.

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Terrific toffee • 2 cups (4 sticks) butter, unsalted (minus 2 tablespoons) • 2¼ cups sugar • ½ cup water • 1 teaspoon salt • 1 cup almonds, cut in halves or coarsely chopped • ½ cup almonds, made into crumbs in a blender • ½ teaspoon baking soda • 7- to 8-ounce Hershey chocolate bar

1. Combine butter, sugar, water and salt in a heavy-duty pot. Bring to a boil and add 1 cup cut-up or chopped almonds. 2. Boil on medium-high heat, stirring constantly until mixture reaches 290 F — approximately 18 to 20 minutes. 3. Add baking soda, mix well and pour on a lightly greased cookie sheet. Cool. 4. Melt Hershey bar and spread ½ on one side, then dust/sprinkle with half of the almond crumbs. Let set.

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5. When set, flip toffee onto waxed paper and spread with remaining melted Hershey bar. Sprinkle with remaining almond crumbs on this side. Let set. 6. When

cooled and set, break into pieces. 7. Note: Mixture turns brown when ready and begins to smoke. Melt half of the Hershey bar at a time in microwave.

Chocolate marshmallow cookies • ½ cup shortening • 1 cup sugar • 1 egg • 1 teaspoon vanilla • ¼ cup milk • 1¾ cups flour • ½ teaspoon salt • ½ teaspoon baking powder • Scant ½ cup unsweetened cocoa • 18 large marshmallows, halved

For the frosting • ½ cup brown sugar • ¼ cup water • 3 tablespoons butter • 2 tablespoons cocoa • 1½ cups powdered sugar • 1 teaspoon vanilla

1. Heat oven to 350 F. 2. Cream together shortening, sugar, egg and vanilla. Add milk and mix well.

Add flour, salt, baking powder and cocoa. Mix well. 3. Drop by rounded tablespoons onto greased cookie sheet. Bake for 8 minutes.

Remove from oven and place a half marshmallow, cut-side down, on each cookie. Bake 2 minutes more

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to partially melt the marshmallows.

Remove and cool. 4. For the frosting: Mix the sugar, water, butter and cocoa in a saucepan and bring to a boil.

Remove and add powdered sugar

and vanilla. 5. Beat until smooth.

Let cool until set up. Frost the top of each cooled cookie so that the melted marshmallow is a surprise. 6. Makes 3 dozen cookies.

We asked readers for their best cookie, candy and bar recipes, and they came through with a wide array of tasty treats. Try their recipes in this cookbook and enjoy the mouth-watering results.

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making private school affordable Aid is available – you just need to know how to access it TEXT Mary Higgins, Marian High School president

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ou’ve combed the website, talked with friends and family, toured the school, and your child can’t wait to enroll. If you have decided that a private school is right for your child, you may be wondering how you are going to pay for it. Particularly for high school, private school is a major investment. To make private schools affordable to all, tuition assistance is available. Depending on the school, anywhere from 20 percent to 50 percent of the student body receives aid.

As a parent, you need to know what’s available and how to access it.

TUITION ASSISTANCE 101

Plan early. Contact the business office for information about tuition and fees, payment plans and the tuition assistance program. Request an estimate of your potential tuition reduction. Private schools welcome your call, even if your child is years away from high school.

Once you have confirmed the application process, fill out forms before the deadline. Many Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of Omaha use the FACTS:

Grant and Aid Assessment. FACTS is an online application process that takes into consideration all factors that may determine the tuition assistance award.

Family income is the base factor for aid.

The number of children in the family, number in Catholic schools, number in college, and special circumstances, such as health issues or debt, are also considered. Applications and links are available via the school website.

Options for tuition assistance include: Academic scholarships: Incoming freshmen who take the placement exam at their school of choice in January are eligible. Omaha Catholic high schools award academic scholarships to eighthgraders who score the highest on the exam taken at their school.

Work-study program: Many schools offer a tuition credit for work completed at school. Students typically apply to work during the summer or before or after school. The work is intended to fit the student’s schedule.

Your parish: Many area parishes offer scholarships or other tuition

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assistance that can be applied to high school tuition. Contact your pastor for information.

Omaha Archdiocesan Educational Foundation: The archdiocese offers tuition grants to low-income families who send their children to Catholic schools.

With your consent, your high school will forward your FACTS application to the Omaha Archdiocesan Educational Foundation if your income falls within the guidelines.

Research how to find grants for private high school tuition. The Internet, book stores and public libraries are good resources.

Once you receive your tuition assistance award, if you find it is not manageable for you, set an appointment to discuss an acceptable award.

Many schools refer to this process as “negotiated tuition.” Many factors are considered when determining the amount of aid distributed to each family. Schools are eager to partner with families, but your participation in the process is essential.

ABOUT MARIAN Keeping tuition affordable has been central to Marian’s mission for more than 60 years. When the Servants of Mary founded Marian in 1955, they made the promise that no girl would be turned away for financial reasons. Today, we remain committed to that promise. This year, 50 percent of the student body received tuition assistance, totaling $1.5 million. Marian is a Catholic, all-girls college preparatory school twice recognized by the U.S. Department of Education as a Blue Ribbon School of Excellence. For more information, visit www.marianhighschool.net. To learn more about tuition assistance at Marian, contact Donna Schroeder, assistant to the vice president for finance, at 402-571-2618, ext. 1135, or dschr@ omahamarian.org.

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Clever crafts Your DIY holiday starts here.

Roll-up your sleeves and get crafting.

NO-SEW FELT GIFT CARD HOLDERS • Sheets of felt (as many as you will need for the number of card holders you are making, we used brown, red, white and green) • Embroidery floss • Embroidery needle (large gauge)

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1. Draw a pattern for your shape (stocking, gingerbread man, tree, etc.) on a piece of cardstock. 2. Trace the pattern onto the felt. You’ll need two of each shape for a front and back. 3. Place the shapes together. Whip stitch them together leaving the top open so you can later slide in the gift card. We used contrasting embroidery floss to set it off. 4. Glue on details as desired. 5. Write the name of the gift recipient in black marker if you wish. 6. For the cord, glue each end inside each side of the stocking to form a loop.

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• Quick-dry fabric adhesive or hot glue

DIY Gingerbread Tree Ornaments

Gingerbread cookie dough and icing

• 1 batch gingerbread cookie dough and

• 3 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened

icing (recipe follows) • Thin twine

• ¾ cup firmly packed brown sugar

• Piping tip to cut the holes • Baking trays

• ½ cup unsweetened applesauce

• Silpat liners

• 1 large egg

• Extra flour for dusting the surface

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• Rolling pin

• 3 cups all-purpose flour plus

• Cookie cutters

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more for dusting • 1 teaspoon baking soda

1. You can use any gingerbread dough recipe you want, or use the one that follows. For the icing, you won’t need food coloring unless you want colored icing, and you may want to double it depending on how you design the cookies. 2. Heat the oven to 350 F. Generously dust the surface of your working area with flour before rolling out the dough. Work with one ball of dough at a time; keep the other refrigerated while you do so. 3. Roll the dough out to 1/8-inch thickness, sprinkle a little flour on top of the dough if it’s sticky. Place flour on the cookie cutters so the dough doesn’t stick and cut the shapes. 4. Use a round piping tip to cut the holes. 5. Place the cookies 1 or 2 inches apart on a silpat-lined baking sheet. Bake 1012 minutes. Let the cookies cool, then pipe the designs. 6. Let it dry completely before hanging. Tie the strings after piping.

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• 2 teaspoons ground ginger • 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon • ½ teaspoon allspice • ¼ teaspoon ground cloves

For the Icing • 1½ tablespoons egg whites, room temperature • ¼ teaspoon fresh lemon juice • 1 cup powdered sugar • 5 to 6 drops green food coloring • Colored sprinkles

For the cookies: 1. In a large mixing bowl, beat the butter, sugar and applesauce until smooth. Add the egg and molasses, mix well. 2. In another large bowl, combine flour, baking soda and spices. Add to sugar and molasses mixture, stirring well with the mixer. Use your hands to form a large ball; the dough will be a little sticky.

3. Wash and dry your hands. Place flour on your hands so the dough doesn’t stick to you, then divide the dough into two flat balls; cover with plastic wrap and chill in the refrigerator for at least 2 hours.

4. After the dough has chilled 2 hours, preheat the oven to 350 F. Generously dust the surface of your working area with flour before rolling out the dough. Work with one ball of dough at a time, keep the other refrigerated while you do so.

5. Roll the dough out to 1/8-inch thickness, sprinkle a little flour on top of the dough if it’s sticky. Place flour on the cookie cutters so the dough doesn’t stick and cut the shapes.

6. Place the cookies 1 or 2 inches apart on a silpat-lined baking sheet.

Bake 10-12 minutes. 7. Makes about 60 ornaments.

For the icing: 1. Mix the egg whites with lemon juice. Combine with powdered sugar, mixing well. Add a few drops of food coloring, if using, until you get the color you desire.

2. If the icing is too thin, add a little more powdered sugar, if it’s too thick add a drop of lemon juice or water.

Transfer to a piping bag to decorate cookies when cookies are cooled.

3. To decorate, pipe the cookies with the frosting one at a time, quickly adding the sprinkles before it hardens.

Button Snowman ornament • Black buttons, 3 medium, 1 large • White buttons, about 12 of various sizes • Elastic cord

1. Arrange loose buttons so that when stacked they form a white snowman with a black hat.

2. In order, thread elastic cord through one hole on each button. Then, thread in the opposite direction through a second hole in each button.

3. Tie a knot in the cord at the top of the snowman to hold the buttons together.

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Spa Sock Cupcakes • Spa socks, a thick fuzzy style • Rubber band • Solid or decorative paper cardstock or scrapbook paper • Clear tape • Glue dots • Ribbon to coordinate with your paper and sock colors • Buttons, tags, sparkles or other bling of your choice • Cellophane cupcake bags

Equipment • Paper cutter or a ruler and scissors • Scalloped edge punch • Optional: paper crimper • Hot glue gun or strong quick-drying glue

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1. Remove all tags from the socks. Lay socks flat, one on top of the other.

Beginning at the toe end, roll the socks, keeping the “non-heel” edge even as you roll. Place a rubber band on the lower half of the sock roll to secure it. One edge of the sock roll will be flat; that is the bottom of your cupcake. 2. Set the cupcake on its bottom. Using your fingers, pull on the top edges of the cupcake to make the edges of the sock look like swirls of frosting. Start by gently pulling up on the middle of the sock and rolling upward to make a slight peak and work down from there. If you pull the “frosting” too high, smash it down with your hand until you get the look you like.

If you need more instruction on how to fashion the socks there are videos available online. 3. To make a cupcake wrapper, cut paper 2½ inches wide and long enough to encircle the rolled up sock and to overlap by an inch. This is typically 6 to 7 inches.

4. Use a scalloped or decorative border punch and punch along the top edge of your 2½-by-7-inch paper strip. If you have

a paper crimper, you can run the trimmed strip through the crimper to resemble a cupcake liner. 5. Roll the paper strip into a circular shape. Overlap the edges by ½ to 1 inch and secure with tape. 6. Insert the rolled sock into the cupcake wrapper and position it to your liking. (There is no paper for the bottom of the cupcake.) 7. Use coordinating ribbon and make a bow to adhere to the wrapper front. Use buttons, snowflakes, flowers or stamped tags to decorate your bow. 8. Create a cupcake topper if desired. You can use buttons, bows or red pompoms. You can also make toppers using a toothpick inserted between two stickers or a stamped topper of your own design. (In our example, a Cricut was used to cut 1¼-inch scalloped circles out of white cardstock and 1½inch scalloped circles out of a darker coordinating card stock. Images were stamped using coordinating ink colors.)

9. For a finishing touch, place your cupcake in a clear cellophane bag and tie the top with coordinating ribbon.

Corn Husk Wreath • Rit liquid dye in color of your choice (we used dark green) • Corn husks (50 for an 18-inch wreath) • Craft paper or newspaper • 18-inch straw wreath form • Floral U-pins • Satin ribbon in color of your choice • Rubber gloves

1. Separate the corn husks from one another and submerge them in a large bowl of warm water. Once they are all submerged, add dye. Add at least two teaspoons of dye to the bath, more if desired. The more dye in the water, the darker the husks will get. 2. Place a second bowl on top of the husks in the first bowl to keep them submerged. Soak for 24 hours, or until they reach the desired color. 3. Wearing rubber gloves so you don’t dye your hands, remove the husks from the bowl and lay them on craft paper or newspaper to dry slightly.

4. While the husks are still damp, tear them in half lengthwise along the natural grain. Working in rows, loop the husks in half lengthwise and pin them to the wreath form with a U-pin. Continue until form is covered. 5. Hang the wreath using a satin ribbon, or place a bow at the top or bottom of the wreath once it is dry. 6. Note: Corn husks can be found at international grocery stores.

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Stamped gift wrap • Brown packaging paper (available at craft stores) • Stamps of your choice • Ink pads (at least two colors work best) • Yarn • Raffia • Decorative ribbon or cord • Branches, pine cones, berries or other natural items you can find in your yard or around your neighborhood • Tape • Scissors

1. For stamped paper, roll out enough brown paper to fit the box you are going to wrap. Begin to stamp at random over the piece of paper. 2. Wash first ink color off of stamp. Dip the same stamp in a different color of ink and stamp over the first set. Remember, imperfection is key when making the stamped paper.

It should look homemade. Don’t worry about small mistakes. 3. Let paper dry and wrap box. Finish with bow of yarn or with ribbon of your choice. 4. For the natural wrap, cut a plain length of brown paper to fit your box and wrap the box. 5. Secure the natural items — we used a pine cone and a cut stem of yew — on the box using a length of raffia, string or strong yarn.

6. Fold a second length of raffia mixed with decorative ribbon of your choice and tie around knot. Trim ends if necessary.

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ENJOYING NATURE The fun doesn’t stop in the winter at Fontenelle Forest

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on’t become inactive this winter – there is plenty to do outdoors with the family at Fontenelle Forest in Bellevue.

Children spend up to 50 hours per week on devices, according to the Kaiser Family Foundation. That number increases in the winter. More startling, children spend 90 percent of their time indoors, according to the International Journal of Time Use Research.

How much time will YOUR children spend inside, glued to a screen this winter break?

Luckily, the forest becomes a wonderland in the winter, with winter birds and other animals keeping the trails lively.

Check out what you can do just minutes from home.

WINTER CAMPS

Camps aren’t just for summer. This holiday break, enjoy camp at the forest.

“Join us this winter to experience Fontenelle Forest on and off trails. During camp, we’ll be outdoors hiking, exploring, discovering, and inside playing games, making crafts and so much more,” says Whitney Drahota, naturalist at Fontenelle Forest.

Each day will have a different winter theme. Campers ages 6 to 12 can attend one day or more. Dates are Dec. 27 and 28, and Jan. 2, 3 and 5. Each camp runs from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., with drop-off

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To register, go to fontenelleforest.org, call 402-731-3140 or sign up at the forest.

the Nature Center,” says Molly Mullen, manager of marketing and events at Fontenelle Forest.

MUD PIES

HIKING AND SNOWSHOEING

Winter is a great time to try the Mud Pies program. There’s plenty to occupy your little ones, and you can remain cozy indoors.

Mud Pies is a drop-in-and-play program that encourages interaction between parent and child. Each week, a natural science topic is explored through station-based activities, free play and a guided walk.

Mud Pies meets every Monday through Thursday from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. The program is for kids ages 5 and younger accompanied by an adult. One adult is required for every two children. Mud Pies costs $3 per child for members or $5 per child with daily admission. A Mud Pies membership is available for $100 per year.

WINTER WONDERLAND

While a forest trail will be lit up throughout December, there is only one opening ceremony that includes Santa!

Meet Santa at the end of the forest’s Trail of Lights Dec. 1 from 5 to 7 p.m. Warm up by the fire. Enjoy crafts, snacks and all things winter!

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If you’re looking to exercise and enjoy your surroundings, hike or snowshoe through the forest.

“Come hike the trails, take the strollers down our boardwalk or snowshoe when there is at least 6 inches of snow on the ground,” Mullen says. “No reservations for programming necessary, just make your way to the Nature Center in Bellevue between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. and embark on your own winter adventure at the forest. We have snowshoes to rent and 19 miles of trails to explore, not to mention plenty of winter birds to see and hear.”

NATURE’S NEW YEAR’S EVE

Ring in the new year at the forest Dec. 31 from 3:30 to 5 p.m. Kids will make noisemakers, have a bubble-wrap stomp, learn what animals do for winter, listen to a story or two and go on a short hike.

Everyone will have a snack and toast the new year with hot cocoa after an outdoor adventure. Registration is required.

Space is limited, so reserve your spot at fontenelleforest.org. Best for children ages 3 to 12 and their families.

A family membership is a perfect gift for a new mother, a cherished teacher or a nature-loving neighbor.

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The gift of theater Delight the kids in your life with Rose show tickets, drama classes and more

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inding the perfect present for today’s kids can seem like an impossible task. Where do you go for something that is educational, will hold their interest, get them off their digital screens, help them build lifelong skills – and oh, yeah – seem fun, too?

The best gift, research suggests, is an experience. The Journal of Consumer Research recently found that giving an experience as a gift instead of a thing forges stronger bonds between people.

The Rose Theater has a variety of experiential gifts for children ages 3 to 18.

“Live theater and theater education have a crucial role in developing the minds and hearts of our young people,” Rose artistic director Matthew Gutschick says. “Plus, it’s an experience that involves enjoyable quality time spent as a family.”

Here are four ways you can give the gift of theater this holiday season.

BUY TICKETS TO A SHOW

You can experience the magic of theater at The Rose for just $20 to $27 per ticket (less, if you purchase them at any Hy-Vee customer service counter). A performance at The Rose is certain to give children an experience they will remember for a lifetime.

Gift-giving suggestions: “Winnie the Pooh”: Wrap up tickets with a cuddly plush character from “Winnie the Pooh” and make plans to see

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the show live on stage this spring.

“Dragons Love Tacos”: Pick up a copy of the book to read during the holiday break, and then plan a special night together in anticipation of seeing The Rose’s production later this season.

“Return to Niobrara” and “The Doll Maker’s Gift”: Inspire an interest in history with older kids with tickets to “Return to Niobrara” and “The Doll Maker’s Gift.” Both shows will introduce students to historical events while helping them develop empathy and compassion. Pair tickets to “Return to Niobrara” with nonfiction books about Nebraska history or a pass to one of the many history museums in the area. Place tickets to “A Doll Maker’s Gift” inside a Russian nesting doll and wrap them up with books

about Jewish culture.

“Thumbelina”: Introduce the youngest children in your life to theater with tickets to see “Thumbelina,” a Rose First Stage production designed specifically for very young children that costs just $12.

Paired with a special doll, these tickets will provide special memories for all ages. (Bonus gift for you, the gift-giver, if you get to tag along and see the wonder and excitement of a child having his or her first theater experience!)

“Matilda”: Families of all ages will appreciate the messages of empowerment in Matilda, playing at The Rose this June. Put together a package of the original Broadway soundtrack and Roald Dahl’s book that inspired the musical and you will all be singing along with the show.

CREATE MEMORIES WITH A FAMILY MEMBERSHIP

When you give a Rose family membership, you give a family the opportunity to spend quality time together in a fun, entertaining atmosphere.

A basic Rose membership for a family of four includes four tickets to each of the remaining shows in the season: “Return to Niobrara,” “The Doll Maker’s Gift,” “Winnie the Pooh” and “Dragons Love Tacos” – a total of 16 tickets for just $105!

Other packages are available for larger families, so there are no worries about finding the perfect fit.

Gift-giving suggestions: Family membership: Package a gift membership with a photo album and

encourage the recipients to take a picture of themselves at each show. Include gift certificates for a favorite restaurant or ice cream shop to help them start a family theater night tradition.

NURTURE A BUDDING ARTIST’S TALENTS

For a true gift that keeps on giving, give the children in your life a Rose class.

The Broadway at The Rose program offers dance, musical theater, voice and acting technique classes throughout the school year. Enrollments are accepted through Jan. 1, 2019, which will allow students to be featured in the spring concerts on stage at The Rose, complete with costumes, sets, professional lighting and more. Classes are available for students ages 2 to 18, with prices starting at $30 per month.

Gift-giving suggestions: Dance class: An embroidered shoe bag featuring the gift recipient’s name ensures your student is ready for ballet, tap, hip hop, jazz and more. You can even add fun attire to wear to class.

Musical theater class: Purchase your performer a favorite Broadway soundtrack and vocal music book.

BUILD CONFIDENCE WITH A DRAMA CLASS OR CAMP

Camping takes on a whole new meaning at The Rose. Information about its popular summer camps will

be available in early January, so pick up a gift certificate and let your kids see what it means to spend summer on the stage. Camp experiences span one to four weeks in a variety of genres. Don’t want to wait until summer?

Registration is currently open for winter and spring drama classes.

Gift-giving suggestions: Drama class: Get crafty and create a personalized star door hanger for your aspiring actor, packaged with a gift certificate for a Rose drama class.

Acting and playwriting classes: Every aspiring actor or young playwright needs an inspirational notebook or journal to record their thoughts.

Summer camp gift certificate: Fill a clear reusable water bottle or cool lunch box with Starburst candy and include a tag that reads, “You are sure to be the STAR at theater camp!” along with the camp gift certificate and a Rose Theater T-shirt (available at the theater’s Rose Boutique).

No matter what you choose, the real gift you are giving is the gift of memories.

When you give an experience, children learn to value knowledge, creativity and personal interactions, rather than material possessions.

And that is truly a gift of a lifetime.

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THE MOST FAMOUS REINDEER OF ALL KEEP YOUR TREE SHINING BRIGHT WITH THIS FUN AND EASY RUDOLPH ORNAMENT STORY + PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Winkel

RUDOLPH ORNAMENT • Round ornaments • Red pompoms • Antler-colored craft foam • Hot glue gun • Scissors • Ribbon

1. Cut antler shapes out of craft foam. 2. Run a ribbon of hot glue along the bottom of each antler and attach antlers to the sides of the ornament hanger. 3. Use a dot of hot glue to attach a red pompom to the front center of the ornament. 4. Cut a 6-inch length of ribbon, string it through the ornament hanger and knot the ends to create a loop for hanging.

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Members enjoy free access to all of Do Space’s technology, including software, regular and 3D printers, laser cutters, laptops and tablets, along with creative and technical workshops and classes that help sharpen skills.

Veeve Holtz discovered Do Space after her family moved to Omaha and she began looking for supplemental learning possibilities for her three children, who are home-schooled.

“I was blown away by the opportunities at Do Space,” she said.

Holtz uses Do Space as an incentive for her children. If they do well on coursework, they get to come along and play games while mom volunteers for one of Do Space’s most popular offerings – Wednesday morning’s Cyber Seniors.

Participants bring their questions and mobile devices for technology help in a relaxed how-to session.

Another popular Do Space offering is Tech Help Tuesdays, an open time in the evening when volunteers are available to answer questions about technology.

For younger members, Do Space has classes such as Kid Coders, for ages 6 to 12, and Make.Hack.Build, where 12- to 18-year-olds learn how to create art and animation with digital applications.

Other free classes include Adobe Illustrator and InDesign basics and Social Media Marketing. Kids can check out kits and learn about robotics and engineering by playing. One-on-one mentoring is also available.

Do Space has built a membership of 60,000 people, and about 500 people use it each day at the organization’s highprofile location at 72nd and Dodge Streets.

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DO SPACE Address: 7205 Dodge St. Hours: 7 a.m. to 9 p.m. Monday through Friday; 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Saturday and Sunday Michael Sauers, director of technology.

Sauers said many members take advantage of more than 50 public computers or bring their own devices to connect with Do Space’s gigabit bandwidth.

Students can stop in before school to print assignments or projects. They can also use special software – for free – rather than purchase it for home use.

Members have access to the 3D lab, where they can work on their own projects. The 3D Lab Crash Course and 3D Printing Basics help beginners get started.

A calendar and list of classes are on the Do Space website, www.dospace.org.

Omahan Kindsey Rowe said one of the great things about Do Space is that there are always people with different levels

of experience working on all kinds of projects at their own pace, and people are available if you need help.

Last year, she and her son, who is now in seventh grade, used Do Space as if it were a summer camp. Her son tried the Inventor’s and Makey Makey classes and enjoyed playing with other kids on the high-speed gaming computers.

Rowe studied tutorials on how to use Adobe Photoshop and Illustrator. She participated in a coding class.

“The teacher and the other students and assistants were so nice and had so much information to share for no cost,” she said. “There were so many cool resources and learning opportunities included in that class.”

Rowe eventually tackled the 3D lab, which she said became her favorite place in Do Space “because I really liked talking to the people working in there about the projects they were working on.”

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Divorce and the holidays Tips for making the most out of your situation STORY Marjie Ducey

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In the best scenario, Rene Pretorius-Parks says, the holidays would be a time when fractured families magically come together for a day of celebration, all acrimony forgotten.

But divorce isn’t that easy.

“This is a really tough topic,’’ says PretoriusParks, a child and family therapist and licensed independent mental health practitioner at Children’s Hospital & Medical Center.

Holiday or not, parents can still be hurting and angry with each other. Money issues can arise, and children still are left wondering if they

caused Mom or Dad to leave. Or even worse, disappear completely.

Pretorius-Parks says she has seen a lot of heartbreak in 14 years of practice. But she has also worked with many families whose parents get along well.

“There are a lot of families who do it the right way. So, it’s possible,’’ she says. “It’s so heartwarming to see that.’’

Most parents want what’s best for their children. She offers these tips to get your kids — and yourself — through the holidays.

• Try to make the celebration as normal as possible, especially in those first years following a divorce.

Maintain as many family traditions as you can. Have the other parent drop in for opening presents or doing something small and then leaving. As the years go on, work with the kids to create new traditions.

Younger children often hope their parents will get back together. So, if you are spending time together on a holiday, set very clear boundaries so there are no misunderstandings. If you are having problems getting along, it might be good to have a separate holiday this time around. You don’t want to turn a special day into another shouting match.

• It’s always best to exactly follow the court’s plan for the children. But if you and your spouse are getting along well, Pretorius-Parks says, it’s possible to provide more leeway on the holidays. Maybe one parent can stop by for a short visit with the kids even if it isn’t their day. Just make sure that everyone knows in advance what to expect and that everyone is in agreement with the plan and believes that it is in the best interest of the children.

• It’s hard to overcome the hurt and resentment that stem from a divorce, especially if your spouse did something unforgivable. But when it comes to the children, you need to get past that, Pretorius-Parks says.

They still have a relationship with their parent that you should respect. As hard as it may be, be happy if they have a great day together.

• If a parent promises to spend time with the kids over the holidays and is a no-show, ask your children what you can do to make it better. Provide emotional support and be there for them without speaking negatively about the other person. Say you are sorry they didn’t show up and try to distract them. » Money can create problems, especially if one parent can provide more extravagant gifts than the other. If parents are getting along, they can jointly set limits on spending. If that’s not possible, remember you can’t control what the other person does. Talk with your children about the difference in gifts. Make sure they understand that big presents don’t mean that one parent loves them more.

None of this is easy, so Pretorius-Parks says it’s important to have a good support system. Be consistent. Set appropriate boundaries, and don’t try to control the situation through your children. And again, don’t put the other parent down.

“Eventually, the kids are going to grow up and realize for themselves what is happening between their parents,’’ she says.

Always remember, too, that the more you don’t get along with your former spouse, the harder it is on the kids.

“I think some parents don’t realize what they’re doing,’’ Pretorius-Parks says. “They can’t help themselves because they are so angry or hurt by what the other spouse has done to them.’’

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The right to love and be loved by both of your parents without feeling guilt or disapproval.

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The right to be protected from your parents’ anger with each other.

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The right to be kept out of the middle of your parents’ conflict, including the right not to pick sides, carry messages or hear complaints about the other parent.

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The right not to have to choose one of your parents over the other.

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The right not to have to be responsible for the burden of either of your parents’ emotional problems.

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The right to know well in advance about important changes that will affect your life; for example, when one of your parents is going to move or get remarried.

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The right to reasonable financial support during your childhood and through your college years.

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The right to have feelings, to express your feelings and to have both parents listen to how you feel.

The right to have a life that is a close as possible to what it would have been if your parents stayed together.

The right to be a kid.

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child used to enjoy school and now seems uninterested or upset whenever you try to help with homework, explore what’s going on behind the scenes.

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Regular declarations of feeling too sick to go to school.

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Skipped homework (or frequent claims that no homework was assigned). All are signs that your child is losing interest in school. That avoidance could stem from school struggles. Talk with your child to understand what’s actually happening.

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Is your child helpless when it comes to starting on homework each night? Does he or she struggle to prioritize homework and waste time on meaningless tasks? Study habits are not inherent for most students and must be taught and practiced. Look at your child’s notes and in-class worksheets and watch how he or she approaches homework.

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Wish list unfulfilled How to keep the holiday joy even if your child isn’t getting that most-wanted gift STORY Jessica Royer Ocken, CTW Features

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any children today have raised the holiday wish list or letter to Santa to an art form: a document to be labored over and carefully considered, perhaps even rewritten or reordered a few times before completion.

It receives more attention and focus than homework assignments. But sometimes, no matter how elegantly it has been crafted, problems arise in the execution.

Like the time a few years ago when Michelle Bocci’s daughter requested a Furby for Christmas — and there were no Furbies around. Bocci, of Scranton, Pennsylvania, finally managed to buy one on eBay for close to $400, but when she met the seller at a local restaurant, the woman tried to demand even more money. And a Merry Christmas to you!

Clearly this is not the holiday vibe you want, nor the blow to the budget, but what’s a parent … er, Santa … to do when the coveted item, the listtopper, the pièce de résistance, just can’t be acquired?

To start, take a deep breath.

“Children 20 years down the road are not going to fault their parents for the latest electronic gizmo they didn’t get,” says parenting expert Susan Newman, Ph.D., author of “Little Things Long Remembered: Making Your Children Feel Special Every Day” (Iron Gate Press, 2014 — 2nd edition).

“They’ll find other things to fault you for, so don’t worry,” she adds with a laugh.

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stored in a child’s memory bank, Newman says. Instead, family rituals and traditions make a lasting impression.

“That’s what’s remembered as a highlight of growing up, not the trendy toy they didn’t get,” she says.

So be sure your holiday preparations and celebrations include more than just frantic shopping. Participate in religious activities if that’s part of your tradition, bake cookies with your children, share gifts or food with those less fortunate, or create handmade ornaments for the tree, Newman suggests.

But, of course, you can’t entirely overlook presents. Yes, your child is telling you he’ll die without the latest whatever-it-is, but does that sound like something he’s actually interested in? Will he enjoy it after the wrapping is ripped off? Or does he just want it because everyone else does, too?

“Always listen to what kids are talking about before the holidays,” says Jane Erickson of River Forest, Illinois, whose two children now are in their 20s. “Ellie always wanted a dog, so one year we got her a batteryoperated dog that did tricks. The glee on her face when she opened it was magic, and it wasn’t even on her list.”

LOWER EXPECTATIONS

It also may be helpful to emphasize that just because something’s on your child’s list, that doesn’t guarantee delivery.

“Sometimes the sleigh was too full, so Santa brought this instead,” Erickson says.

And because her family celebrates the birth of Jesus at Christmas,

Erickson also linked her children’s wish lists to the three gifts Jesus received when he was born.

“They knew they’d get three things from their list,” she says. “And it might not be the top three, so that gave us some wiggle room.”

Plus, with a little finesse, you could still pull off getting the most-desired gift — even if it doesn’t make it on the right day. One year Anu Varma Panchal’s daughter Radha requested a Squinkies carriage that could not be located, so Santa brought her a note on Christmas morning saying it was taking a little extra time to make.

“The day it finally arrived — via my sister and Amazon Prime — I rang some jingle bells and said, ‘Hey, did you hear those bells?’ ” recalls Varma Panchal, who lives in Tampa, Florida.

“Then we went to the door, and the present was waiting outside. Radha was so excited she was pounding the box in joy.”

However, even if you’re going to be a hero a little later, there’s still the question of how to make Christmas morning or Hanukkah a magical time for your little ones.

Build traditions, Newman says. If your kids love pancakes, start the holiday with a special batch. Or play a family game of Monopoly. When you do open gifts, take turns so kids can see what others got and how they like it. “Have them look away from themselves to see how others feel,” she says.

Then maybe pile in the car with some hot chocolate and drive around to look at decorations.

“Just create memories with your children,” Erickson says. “That’s what they remember, not a toy.”

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Be well Setting your kids up for social success STORY Marjie Ducey

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he holiday season conjures visions of presents, days off and fun trips to visit the cousins.

But just like adults, youngsters need to work out how to interact with family members they may see only a few times a year.

There are lots of social events, too, some of which may seem neverending and not very entertaining if you Dr. Kimberly are 10 years old.

Vogel Parents can hope that their youngsters are perfect angels at every occasion. But it’s not going to happen without some work at home first. Dr. Kimberly Vogel, a pediatric psychologist at Children’s Hospital & Medical Center, says coaching can help make holiday visits less stressful for you and your children.

There’s lots to learn if you’re a kid.

Things like saying hello and goodbye and answering questions from aunts, uncles and grandparents. Or letting company fill your plates first, waiting to open presents and not reacting with obvious dismay over a gift you don’t like.

It’s also a time to learn how to tolerate boredom without a computer screen. Maybe it’s a long church service or a wait at a restaurant.

All are important life lessons, Vogel says.

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prioritizing the skills you think are the most important and focusing on two or three.

And remember. Kids are going to play (socialize) like they practice. “If children cannot display these skills at home, it’s unlikely they will be able to display them in public,’’ Vogel says.

THINGS TO PRACTICE

Social skills. Develop scripts for greetings, saying goodbye, answering difficult questions (especially if the child is struggling).

Identify potential questions children can ask specific adults to express interest (ask an uncle about his new car).

Hosting. Give kids a specific task to do (show adults where to put coats/purses, offer to take drink orders, show kids where the toys/ bathrooms are).

Restaurants. Practice ordering a meal, asking a server questions, talking with others, identifying nonscreen activities and games to pass the time (coloring, I-Spy). Implement a no-screen rule at meal time and practice asking/answering questions about each other’s day and favorite activities.

Long stretches. Identify nonscreen activities to enterain kids during car rides and have a plan for scheduled breaks/bathroom trips.

Bring coloring books for long church services. Have snacks and water in case shopping, car rides or other events take longer than expected.

Gifts. Practice how to respond when you love a gift, when you don’t like a gift or when you already have that gift. Teach empathy by

helping your child consider how an ungrateful reaction might make the giver feel. Practice how to handle it if a family member receives a gift that you really want to play with (Give them plenty of time to play first, ask nicely for a turn, accept no and understand that kids often have difficulty sharing new toys).

REWARDS AND CONSEQUENCES

• Remember that these skills can be new and difficult for many kids.

Review expectations prior to an event and check for comprehension.

Provide praise in the moment for younger children and consider tangible rewards as needed (earning extra screen time or a chore pass for sharing toys with a non-preferred cousin). Follow up with teenagers afterward to share appreciation for appropriate skills used.

• Check in with kids frequently during play time with relatives to offer praise for appropriate behavior.

Frequent supervision decreases the likelihood of conflict or mischief.

• Use consequences that are immediate and realistic. Don’t threaten to take away presents or a favorite food if it is extremely unlikely that you will be able to follow through.

• Don’t be afraid to use timeout in public. Create a potential plan in advance (e.g., go to the car or identify a room in the host home).

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