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Heyyyyy! Myself (Bukasa) and my fellow SKY Live presenter Kgomotso are super excited about this issue of SKY Magazine! From the theme itself, “How To”, y’all can tell that the content will be fun and informative. We talk all things fashion and trends in an article dedicated to keeping us popping and true to our individual style. The ‘Body Beautiful’ segment offers us tips and advice on how to take care of our bodies as we reach for our other goals. Not only do we have those ‘how to’ tips, we also have tricks on how to prepare for summer… interesting right? And yes, we all know it’s exam season, so guess what bo babes?? We got that covered too. In this issue we feature SKY girl Nandi, who won the cover girl competition - she’ll be giving us tips on how to prepare for our examinations!
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We also have advice and answers to all the inbox questions we receive from SKY girls out there. And last but not least, the SKYscopes segment! Keep reading to get to know what your star says about you… Enjoyyyyyyyyy!
xoxo Bukasa and Kgomotso SKY Live presenters Listen to SKY Live every Saturday on RB2, 12.30 – 1pm.
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It seems bucket hats are back and we are loving it! Botswana is a really hot country and why not protect yourself from the heat in a super stylish and classic way? You can style them in a way that suits you, so you keep it authentic but super fun! Whether with a pair of jeans or a long summer dress, you can always find the perfect bucket hat to complete your look.
It is almost time for exams, and it’s important to plan but to also stick to what we have planned to do. You want to start that hobby? Then you should get to it. You set up a study timetable? Then you should follow it and study.
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We know that sometimes an outfit feels complete with high-heeled shoes but this is not always the case. Re shapo ka trying too hard to rock high heels because at the end of the day we are all about comfort and feeling confident in our own skin. If we are wearing heels, let’s do it but if not, wear flats! Re shapo ka shoes that can’t decide if they are high heels or not.
Re sure ka lona lotlhe, because you have made this sisterhood what it is today. For always engaging with us on Facebook, the magazine and even at events. It is amazing to be a part of this sisterhood and know that you can always count on your SKY sisters! RE SURE KA SKY NATION!
We are all unique and worthy and that is what we celebrate as SKY girls. Re shapo ka comparing ourselves to people on the internet because of their likes or followers, and just other people in general. We are all beautiful and intelligent. This is what makes us a SKY Nation because we embrace who we are as individuals :)
N O I H s c S i s a A F B Taking lessons or breaking the bank in order to look chic and stylish
are a thing of the past. There are so many ways to dress on a budget and still turn heads. Fashion is ever evolving, with new trends coming and going as the seasons do, celebrities influencing the way we dress and see different types of clothing, and even styles we come up with on our own. But at the same time, there are classic basic tips we can all follow for a great foundation,
Firstly, if you can’t seem to find anything to wear, go black! This color will go with anything else you have in your closet and is also very flattering, no matter what your colouring or body shape is. It is also one of the simplest colours to wear and still look very chic. A black outfit paired with a little jewellery makes a statement with minimal effort required.
before we put our own twist on an outfit. These ‘fashion basics’ will help you look your best at all times.
Secondly, it is essential to dress for your body shape as each item of clothing is cut and designed in a different way, and is not meant to fit everyone in the same way. There are four main body shapes that women fall into: hourglass, rectangle, pear and apple. Finding items of clothing that flatter your body shape will not only look good, but will also give you a great boost of confidence.
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The third fashion tip we have for you is introducing a bright color to an outfit you feel looks too bland, as this will switch the whole look up and add more life to it. The added pop of color could be in any form, be it shoes, a T-shirt, a blazer or even a scarf. Remember that it’s all about balance when it comes to adding a little highlight to your outfit.
Another great tip we have for you is to find vintage, high quality clothes that can become your closet classics. A lot of the clothes found in shops today are cheap ‘fast fashion’ which means they are low quality – they might rip, the zips might break and most likely they won’t fit nicely either. Clothes from the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s are generally higher quality, so raid your parents’ or grandparents’ wardrobes to see if they have any classic pieces you can wear today! Not only will you stand out from the crowd, you will also have something you can rely on to make you look great time and time again.
Lastly, less is more when it comes to achieving the perfect look. As cliché as the phrase may sound, it is very true and can be extremely useful when putting an outfit together, especially your go-to, daily outfits. Instead of piling on the layers and accessories, instead ask yourself ‘how minimal can I make this outfit?’ When put together correctly, not only does this style look
amazing, it is also very comfortable and affordable since you don’t need to fill a large wardrobe with clothes!
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The Basic Essentials! The best way to feel beautiful is to believe it hunny! Walk the talk. Here are some tips on how to feel like the beautiful queen that you are! Dipata di phunyegile, so we can’t always rely on those Kylie lip balms and Kim’s contour to feel beautiful. You can choose to use reasonably priced products or even none at all, no judgement. Actress Yara Shahidi said it so well “Use make-up to express yourself rather than to cover yourself”. You just gotta be comfortable and feel good about yourself. Also, make sure to make others feel good about themselves too. Use your social media platforms to empower and spread kindness. Love that for us.
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Love Yourself
First and foremost, one important beauty essential is loving yourself. Loving your skin, your face, your legs, your lips, your smile, just everything because that’s you! Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are the baddest, you are beautiful. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not. Sometimes people who are insecure about their own selves tend to try to bring others down, don’t let them get to you hunny. This includes body positivity. As musician Lizzo told us, to feel good as hell with ourselves “do your hair flip, check your nails”. This is the only body you will have, so love it. Take care of it. Your body is growing and it will constantly change. Your body will look different at 14 and at 21, even at 36. You will always be changing and growing and you gotta love every minute of it. Loving yourself also means taking care of you. Eating well, drinking lots of water, exercising, reading, laughing, no smoking, having me-time, getting enough rest, limiting your social media, and just staying true.
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Menstrual Hygiene Our favourite quote is from our girl Sho Madjozi “You don’t have to hide just because you’re on your period.” We know periods treat us all different. Sometimes we feel weak, nauseous, tired, and the stigma around periods has made us feel unclean. Your period is not going anywhere babes, right now you gotta learn how to be healthy and stay fresh when the girls arrive every month. Do some simple stretches daily. Drink less coffee. Shower daily, make sure to only use clean water without any products. The best girl friend to have is the one who always have an extra pad in their bag. Be that friend. We love to see it.
Face Yes, wash your face every day with clean water, don’t scrub it, and wash off any make-up before going to bed. But, what would we never leave the house without? Zendaya says “Lipgloss” and we agree. Nobody wants to walk around with some ashy lips. At least get yourself a Vaseline kana Zambuk tsala. Having some glowing lips is back now and we love to see it. Wear that lipgloss with confidence and don’t look back. Zendaya also shared some other amazing advice about self-care: “continue to be fearless in your activism and individuality” which we just love. Working on confidence is another great way to shine from the inside out.
Dear Maxine, School is probably irritating you right now, except art. You love art class. Your friends, especially Laura, make art class fun, and you look forward to them. But you pretty much want to grow up! You probably can’t wait to be an adult, so that you can do anything you want, whenever you want, buy yourself as many shoes and chocolate as your heart desires. Hahaha. Well, it doesn’t work that way. Adulting doesn’t work that way.
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Maxine is a beauty creative who specializes in makeup artistry, based in Gaborone, Botswana.
Don’t. Please don’t grow up. Stay young, and curious. Keep a positive mind, in a negative world. Stay excited. Adventurous in spirit, but guarding of your body and your heart. Many will try and steal both, but you are your main protector. Love. Dance when no-one is looking. Dance, even when everyone is looking. Be different. A burning light, which cannot be put out because it is fuelled by uniqueness no-one can replicate. Don’t let anyone tell you your body size, complexion, hair, and the clothes you can afford dictate who you are. Again, love. Everyone.
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And don’t grow up.
Love, Maxine xxx
SKY VIBE We know we got the fly vibe like eagles, The one that always keep us high! With emotion and trust in us. We strive to keep loyal to ourselves, We never try to be someone else! We are hard rock, we never crack for pressure even if temptations say it’s leisure!
Our vibe makes us help our fallen mates To stand out and say no to losing again! We don’t flow with hypocriticism who is cold and full of criticism. Our pledge helps us keep our style firm, and fine Sure with what we admire Shapo with what we detest!
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It’s all about choices, To raise our voices! And be heard distinctly. World know this! That’s our SKY way We aim forth for our reign!
Laletsang Reuben Sento Laletsang is from Ramotswa but lives in Hukuntsi. He dreams of becoming a presenter of SKY Live in future! “I am a boy who never gave up in life, always working hard to achieve his goals. I am also sure ka fashion”
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This SKY brother wrote an awesome poem for the SKY Nation, enjoy!
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SKY is by girls, for girls, but we never forget our SKY brothers! We appreciate them and we always love hearing from them when they get in touch. This issue we wanted to bring you 3 SKY Guys who we’ve been talking to recently. Re sure ka bone!
This SKYGuy is doing Form 5 at Naledi SSS in Gaborone. He says “Well I’m an aspiring person, and wherever I am I make sure people smile and laugh each and every moment.” Ke sure ka: Self-respect Education Discipline Ke shapo ka: Smoking Bad company Negativity
One Thing Since this is the ‘How To’ issue, what better content than some GREAT life lessons from some local, young inspirations? We asked Katlego Ntirang, Tumi Nthutang, Jordan MoOzy, Poloko Mosarwa and Phenyo Oaitse to tell us one thing they know… about stress, school, relationships and more!
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Well, this is the ‘How To’ issue, and it’s exam season, so what could be better than some amazing study tips? First up we have this issue’s covergirl, 16-year-old Nandi Maphanyane, bringing you her TOP TIPS.
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Here are my 5 study tips which are very effective and quite interesting... I hope they could also work out for other girls.
Label everything around you with a topic that challenges you the most.
Play with the information from your notebook and textbooks.
When I actually say this to my friends, they probably think, “O tshameka eng a le motona tota,” which is the same thing I said when my mom taught me the technique. I usually use a jump rope to recite everything I learnt and keep it in my brain, or I could try to shoot a ball into a bucket while repeating definitions and formulas until I finally get a goal for each of them, although go kgona go lapisa as I could repeat one definition 12 times without a goal but it’s worth it.
Make songs out of different concepts or simply listen to readymade songs if you aren’t really creative.
Make crazy videos with your friends using terms from a certain subject or create memes that your friends could share using educational stuff.
Utilise the time you have at school if you’re not a night crawler.
Well... I thought of having charts in my room and around the house too, but due to having a strict rule of ‘do not stick anything on the wall,’ I developed a new habit of giving almost everything around me a name. Take an outfit for example, I call my school uniform “The Mole Concept”. Someone would think that’s pretty crazy right? But look at it this way, the three buttons on my dress represent the principles we use for calculations, the jersey is the Avogadro’s constant and so on.... Trust me, it actually works if you struggle with remembering everything you read from a book.
I listen to songs on different topics in all subjects on YouTube on Mr Parr’s channel and others. They usually substitute the lyrics of hit songs with explanations in those concepts which can really stick into your brain if you’re a music person. If you find any of the songs boring or ‘not your taste’, it’s okay, just use the alphabet tune to make it easier for you to remember.
Ke gore go nne top tlerere hela go nne monate. I created a study group last year where I once shared a video about cell specialization by just having different characters (the mini actors in the hood) with names related to the topic and realised that they understood better this way. Just have fun when doing this and it’ll totally pay off.
Tbh it’s really hard for me to study during the night... instead of pushing myself and trying to study nonstop through the night, I make sure I get enough sleep so that I can be highly active during school hours. This actually prevents you from feeling sleepy during lessons and it helps me make the most of the time that I can study. I guess you should know yourself because not everyone will be like me, but if you think about your sleep patterns and the best time for you to study, you can work around it.
That’s all I had in mind. Good luck to all the SKY Sisters out there in your exams and I hope these tips were helpful for you!
Nandi gave you her top 5 tips, and now we have another 5 amazing ‘how to’ lessons from 16-year-old Leinah. With all these great tips, we are sure to slay our exams!
Mind Mapping This is a creative study tool that can be used for any subject at any level, be it PSLE, JC, or BGCSE. When I use a mind map to study, it takes me a much shorter time yet covers a lot of material, and this enables me to remember and understand more. A good mind map should have a main heading in the centre with arrows connecting all the subtopics, and sub sub topics. Note that the further you move away from the main topic is an indication of how well you understand the main topic. All you need is some bright highlighters & pens, a notepad, notebook and textbook to get your facts right and you are ready to kick start.
Exam Question Analysis
Most of us students don’t know what the questions want from us, but understanding the question is key to getting good marks. Learn how to analyse the question like this: • Identify the subject by asking yourself ‘what is this question about?’ • Identify the instruction (this is the word that tells you how the examiner expects you to present your answer, like for example ‘explain’ or ‘describe’ or ‘calculate’) • Identify which aspects; in other words specifically which areas of the subject the question is directed to. This means that when you know which chapter the question is asking about, you will have almost answered the question. • Identify any other significant words you need to take into account • Are there any terms which need definition (do you need to show you understand what the words mean?)
It is with great pleasure that I share my top 5 tips with my fellow SKY sisters and brothers. I use these tips every day and they have given me excellent grades that I want to see other students having and excelling academically. Thank you, with all love!
Laws of Memory These are 3 easy-to-learn laws that will help you remember whatever you have been studying. Law of frequency • I often recite the short notes that I make time and again and this is helpful as l am able to remember them and helps me to perform much better. Law of distributed practice • It is more effective to space out your study material or times of study than sitting for long hours trying to cover everything in one set. I tend to have short breaks, and listen to music but it’s best to think about what works for you and take time to get it right. Law of multiplicity of senses • The greater the number of senses involved in study, the more effective the memory will function. Anything heard, seen, and written down will be remembered more than when you use only one of the senses.
Spreadsheet Technique This technique actually enables me to know my strengths and weaknesses when it comes to various subjects. All I do is make a table with 4 columns which have the headings: subject, easy, easy but hard, hard. Under the subject column list all the subjects then indicate whether I find them easy, easy but hard or hard for me. Then I get into each subject and list all the topics and classify them. This analysis has given me a chance to be able to improve in the bad grades I had for subjects I saw as ‘easy but hard’ or ‘hard’ as I pull up my socks on those subjects.
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Design a table with five columns and in each column have the following headings: Topic • Where you write down the maths topic you wish to study e.g. simple algebra Formula • Where you write down the formula to the topic you are studying; if there is a formula. If none then put a dash. Sum/problem • Where you write down a sum/ problem you are studying which you could have done with the teacher or picked from the text book. Application: • Where you write down the working shown in your note book or in the text book. However this time you should number the various working steps shown as in 1,2,3 etc. Notes: • Now look at everything in the application column then using your own words, explain that which you see happening. Explain every single step. If you get stuck somewhere ask a teacher or another student for help. If you can explain this topic in full then you will always be able to work out any sum :)
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What is PCOS? Most people ask.
It’s Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and it’s a condition of the female reproductive system which I discovered I had 3 years agođ&#x;˜Š. It can be accompanied by other conditions such as cyclical mastalgia, endometriosis and the like. According to statistics, approximately 1 in 10 women in the world live with PCOS including stars like Victoria Beckham and Emma Thompson. I must say that Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome is genuinely the pits. From the weight gain to the weight loss, the stress, the food cravings, the PAINFUL MENSTRUAL CYCLE and the depression. One minute you’re happy and next minute you’re sad. You can get angry really quickly because your hormones are all over the place. It’s really draining omw. I’ve lost some people because I couldn’t exactly explain the reason behind the mood swings, because I was so ashamed of myself, and it’s something I kept to myself.
Having cysts in your ovary is not a good look. From the “drink a lot of water, you need a full bladder to do your scan now� to “ let’s draw blood and check your hormone levels� to “ mommy I want pizza, magwinya, menoto, legapu�, to “you might not be able to have kids� to “ you can’t have sex, you’ll confuse your hormonal patterns�, it’s mentally draining to live like this as a young woman who wants to explore their femininity. It’s also scary having to live with such pressure of “what if I don’t have kids� “will I find love yet I feel so less of a woman I can’t even bear kids to save my life�. The breakdowns are hectic. The depression is real and the confusion. Whew. PCOS can confuse your body so much you’d wonder if you even know your own body. The body hair can be so disturbing and the gradual weight gain can be so
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overwhelming, the acne is the worst and as a 17-yearold living with PCOS , I must tell you that it’s not easy. But all we have to do is hold on and fight the battle because women are strong and they DON’T QUIT. So if you’re there and you have irregular PAINFUL periods, horrible mood swings and wild food cravings please visit a gynaecologist to get checked so as to find out if you have PCOS. September was PCOS awareness month and as a young PCOS fighter I advise each female gets checked out. Also to the parents, assist your daughters in this fight so they never have to feel alone. It stings to bring yourself to acceptance that this is what you’re going to live with for the rest of your life but it’s still better safe than sorry. With much love,
Ame-Dionne x
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Can you find all 10 words in the wordsearch? ADVICE EXCELLENCE FULLMARKS HOWTO KNOWLEDGE PASSING SUCCESS TIPS TRICKS YOUGOTTHIS
Re-arrange the letters to find the names of different places in Botswana! AREAS OF NATURAL BEAUTY 6. Goetaonakdvla 7. Moggeireorm 8. Gaakipagmdnaidks 9. Holliidolsst 10. Keglaarilnactadg
ANSWERS 1. Selibe Phikwe 2. Kasane 3. Tshabong 4. Mahalapye 5. Lobatse 6. Okavango Delta 7. Moremi Gorge 8. Makgadikgadi Pans 9. Tsodilo Hills 10. Central Kgalagadi
TOWNS 1. Liipebsekhew 2. Aakens 3. Sontabhg 4. Ahmeaaply 5. Oblaste
E A B A K A W MATS ’ R E T A L R A ONE YE
As much as ke rata go nna mo America, it’s always so good to catch up with my girls!
You guys look so GOOD! Wow Mimi, beauty business ya
gago is obviously booming
It’s going so amazingly well. Just
I am NOT trending Mimi,
stress-a over our exams. But look
been going well. It was the
trending
year.
think one year ago today, ne re
at us now, wow. Chedza’s is even
haha. But my music has
right choice go tsaya gap
Yes, girl! Ke ntse ke
Well as much as I can’t
live music scene that
all alone, aren’t we
Just think, soon you
dira research ya the
me this side Chedza!
side and I have so many
could even be joining
ideas…
WAIT go re le ntlogele
supposed to be having a vlog meeting?
Oh, yes! We are
launching our new project, an online
vlog ko re kgonang go dira scrapbook
and share our songs and poems with the world, and keep in touch forever
@hashtagdima
After 3 years and 6 seasons, Matswaka Bae has finally come to an end. Every episode is available to listen to on the skygirlsbw Facebook page, in the videos section. For the final episode ever, Lerato, Mimi and Chedza made a real life video too - if you haven’t seen it yet, check it out also on the skygirlsbw Facebook page!
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THEO OFETOTSE “When I came to university as a 19-year-old who hadn’t had much exposure to the Gabs life, I was excited at the prospect of having so much freedom, and one thing I did not expect was the pressure that came with juggling and maintaining my social and academic life. I had to learn how to balance school, social life and sleep. Very few people will care about you, your school work or personal growth, so take care of yourself, because no one else will.”
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INEELENG GABA “College life paves a way to society life. For a girl, one has to be emotionally ready for being played by boys pretending to love them. Peer pressure exists and you need to be able to stand your ground or you might find yourself living a life out of your character. To those just starting out and those that dream of being in uni, be ready to work hard, spend sleepless nights studying and growing at large.”
VICTORIA MARUMO “When you are in high school, you have this fantasy idea of varsity, mostly influenced by what you see on TV, however, it’s not really as colourful as you are made to believe it is. The one thing I didn’t expect in varsity was depression. It is a serious condition that can build up over the years, and it is important to see someone if you must, don’t let it destroy you. Expect self-realization and growth. The environment will force you to grow because you shoot straight from being a baby into a serious world of adulting. Friendships will surely end and you must let them, don’t hold onto people just because you were a squad in high school.”
OBONOLO BENN “You will find yourself wanting to belong to a particular group but this should not be the case because it often leads to one straying away from the sole reason as to why they’re in varsity. I did not expect to have all this freedom to make major decisions, but it comes with huge responsibility. My advice for those about to start or who just started is to get information on what you are studying, ask for help and network. Lastly, enjoy your stay in the university.”
Every day SKY receives messages asking for advice on lots of different problems. In this issue of the Magazine, we feature 4 questions that we get asked a lot, we hope it will help those of you out there going through the same problems!
SKY Girl Tshepi: SKY HEELLLPP!
SKY: Hey babes, wassup?
SKY Girl Tshepi: My bf cheated on me with a girl in my school, waitse I’m embarrassed. I’ve been crying I’m so hurt the bathong.
SKY Girl Tshepi: I really love him mme kana. SKY: Mmhh,I know it hurts and you feel like you can never love or be loved again. Just know that boys come and go, le rona re hitile hoo. You can’t change people. You’re gonna grow up, change, meet new people, and realize gore mole e ne e le matshamekwane. Someone that loves and cares for you should not purposefully hurt you and disrespect you. They shouldn’t make you feel uncomfortable. You have your whole life ahead of you. One thing you should try your best not to do ke go lelela ngwana wa mosimane. Tu! Not today sweetie. Oska letelela mfana hela a go ira matho mahibidu! *rolls eyes*. And another thing, don’t even approach the girl. This is between you and him.
SKY Girl Tshepi: I’ve talked to him and he says he’s sorry. But I saw gore he was still texting her. A re I’m not giving him what he wants.
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SKY: Eish, basimane baa tena waitse sometimes, *annoyed emoji*. I’m so sorry this happened babe. We got you. It’s not nice to be cheated on and your feelings are valid. It’s ok to feel sad about this. Just know that the pain will go away with time.
SKY: Haebo! Yah neh. You gotta set boundaries babes. His ‘love’ for you should not be a transaction. Ha go na ka mphe se to show me your love. Ha go na ka bo “or else”. So if your boyfriend cheated, it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship. Is it worth staying with someone who hurt you in that way? I don’t think so. You’re too young to stay in relationships that only bring you stress. 2019 is almost over, exams are approaching, It’s time to focus on yourself for a healthy you. Be selfish with your happiness. Your happiness should not revolve around a boy, it is in your hands. Find activities that make you happy and do more of that. Arts, sports, writing, going for walks, school clubs, cooking, talking to friends, reading, learning a new DIY project. Cheating boyfriends must go! Stay true to yourself. xx
SKY Girl Tshepi: Thanks SKY. I’m just glad I have my friends to cheer me up.
SKY: Anytime girl. We’re also here for you.
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Zendayasbabe
Fam, waitse I don’t know how to be a confident person. I’ve tried tota it’s really tough to stand in front of people and believe in myself.
SKY
To be honest, this one e tricky because e personale, some people are shy to even speak to other people. Mara there are so many things you can do to boost your confidence. Some people take public speaking classes, while others join sports or clubs to improve their selfesteem. Remember, this is all within you and only YOU can change that.
Zendayasbabe
Do you have any tips nebathong that I can try?
SKY
Fo sho. Here are 5 tips you can try, to believe in yourself, to gain self-esteem and self-confidence. 1.
Improve your posture This might be small and unrecognizable but goes a long way. Try not to hunch your back when you sit or as you walk. Push your shoulders back, chest out, and raise your chin. This helps make you feel in charge and in control. It can also help you to speak up. There’s nothing wrong with voicing your opinion.
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Create your own affirmations I am beautiful. I am strong. I am smart. I can do this. I am confident. Ke sure ka myself. Ke shapo ka negative vibes. I am me. Write these down and stick them on your bedroom wall, locker, or notebook. Read them all the time and believe them. Find quotes from SKY magazines and read them for motivation. Remember, never give up.
3.
Accept yourself Sometimes we lack confidence because we believe other people are better than us. You can’t let the world dictate your worth. You are the only you in this world. Do not beat yourself down, accept your mistakes, get back up and do better. Do not focus on what you can’t do and can’t control, recognize your achievements and be happy about them. Love yourself fully, you deserve it. Have some me time.
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Avoid negative people Some of the people you have in your life might be toxic and that’s not good. It might be tough to stand up to them but you can always remove yourself from that group. Remember, this is one stage in life. You won’t have all those people as your friends forever. One day you’ll be in a different place and you don’t need people that drain your energy and make you feel small. Find friends that make you smile, and they don’t have to be popular. It’s fun to have genuine friends that make us laugh. If it’s at home, you might not be able to call a family meeting to address your problem, so try talking to your favorite aunt/uncle, cousin, or grandparent to help you.
5.
Face your fears Join a sport, chess, dance crew, painting crew, book club, any club you feel you either belong to or you might be anxious about. It doesn’t hurt to try something new that may add value to your life. Learning a new skill can boost your confidence. Facing your fears can help you feel good about yourself and you can create new friends that have similar interests.
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Poet_Rati: Hi SKY Girls, I’m trying to improve my grades go thata. I don’t wanna disappoint my parents with my results. Please help.
Poet_Rati: I just don’t know where to start, it’s like when I study I forget gore ke badile eng. Gape some of my friends are enjoying themselves and I feel some pressure to join them sometimes.
SKY: Diacha! Where will we go without school tota? This is the time and place you are allowed to actually fall down many times and get back up. Try, try, and try again till you get it right. It has always been here and it will always be around. If you’re an A student, keep up the good work. If you’re a B/C student, know that there is so much room for improvement. You have a chance to bump your grades up. Don’t believe the category you’ve been put in determines who you are forever. If you are below these grades, it’s time to wake up babe. We have study tips featured in this mag, make sure to give yourself the time to read them and put them in practice. Talk to your teachers, tell them about what you’re struggling with and ask them for help. Stay disciplined. Go monate go pasa and you deserve that.
SKY: One of the best strategies is to listen in class and take down notes. Something you’ve heard first hand makes it easier to remember when you study. One other thing, you know when they always say “Basimane ga ba ye gope” kana, “Monate ga o fele”? That’s sooooo true shem. All this excitement and fun will always be here whether you’re in primary school, junior school, UB, or wherever. Find friends that can help you do better, not those who only bring you down. Gape, don’t believe banyana ba re they didn’t study, o tlaa sala gonehoo! Ipalele. Lastly, as much as you work hard and study, you also need balance. So sleep and wake up early, get enough rest, eat well, exercise, read some fiction, drink lots of water, go for a walk, get a hobbynyana. To be honest, the main thing here is to stay disciplined. Reward yourself after completing a task, a reading, or finishing an assignment. That will motivate you even more.
Prettygirl_Tsotso: Hey SKY *smile emoji*
Prettygirl_Tsotso: What should I do? SKY: What do you wanna do?
SKY: Well, you can like someone but it doesn’t mean you have to do anything about it. You probably like their style, or how they play a sport, or that they’re a nice person. But that doesn’t mean you have to do anything. He probably likes you for who you are too and nothing else. It could just be a crush that might go away after a few days/weeks.
SKY: Hi Tsotso Prettygirl_Tsotso: I have a crush *blush emoji* SKY: Yes?
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Prettygirl_Tsotso: I don’t know, I just like him mara I’m scared gore he doesn’t like me.
Prettygirl_Tsotso: I reeeaally like him. Should I tell him? SKY: I mean it’s up to you babes. Ask yourself a few questions: why do you wanna tell him? What do you want from this? Are you guys friends? Would this affect your friendship? Does he seem interested?
Prettygirl_Tsotso: OK, I’ve asked his friend and he says he’s shy. I’m just gonna talk to him. He’s not really my friend but I know his friends, they are in my class.
SKY: Good luck babes. However this goes, know that you are so brave and super dope. Self-care comes first. Stay true xx
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Call_Me_Kago
Friends, waitse there are people just always talking about me. I really don’t even like going to school cos I’ve heard RUMOURS ABOUT ME. Please help!! *crying face*
SKY: Kana batho ba bangwe ba tsaa gore they live in reality shows kana mo Scandal! Ha go monate hela mo go bone when there is peace and everyone is getting along! Anyways hun, the best way to have a good experience at school is to be more mature about these things. Sometimes it’s fun to gossip and be a part of conspiracies tsa batho. Mara it stops being fun when lies escalate and hurt people. Try not to focus too much on these things. It’s best not to comment and stick to being true to yourself till a rumour dies. Some people like to start unnecessary drama for entertainment purposes.
Call_Me_Kago
Kana it’s not easy to just let things go. This girl a re I started talking about her I don’t know gore when! Ah!
SKY: Well sometimes you might just be chatting with your girls and yo mongwe might take it the
wrong way. Gongwe someone told them something that wasn’t intended to be hurtful. If you are confident enough, call them out on it to stop. They wouldn’t like it if that’s done to them. If it’s you, you know that you wouldn’t like it if there was a nasty rumour spread about you, and it’s not worth it. When someone comes to you ka maaka, mmotse gore o a tsaa kae, if s/he doesn’t have anything to say they can move along. Sometimes it’s good to be the bigger person and apologize since something was said and you didn’t have any intentions to start anything. It’s better to let it all rest.
Call_Me_Kago
Guys, kana this is serious. Now some guys are sending me DMs talking about a rumour that’s not true and I don’t like it.
SKY: Shem. This might also get on social media. The best way to not keep the rumour alive is to
ignore it and mind your own business. Don’t feed the trolls. You will look back and realize gore some fights were not worth your time. If you wanna throw shade and be petty about things, it will come back and bite you in the back. It’s better to let things go. Mara you can bring an adult into this if you feel like it’s getting out of hand. Sometimes these things follow us way too long. Bring in the people involved and resolve the matter with each other face to face. It’s probably a silly misunderstanding. We hope it all works out hun. Stay true to yaself boo. xoxo
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y d a e r u o Are y ? s m a x e for your Exams are right around the corner. There is stress in the air, you’re sleeping less, eating more and it just feels like everything is crumbling down! Well, if you’ve ever searched for a fun escape, we have just the quiz you need to cross-check if you’re ready for exams or if you need to revisit those books again. Enjoy the quiz and good luck with your exam season!
Which one of best sums up with m
A penny saved is a penny earned How do you prepare for your exams?
Study group with friends Do you listen to music when you study?
YEs
No Do you analyze your failures?
Yes You are definitely sure about your studying. You take your time in planning how to go about your studies and if your exam was tomorrow, you would rightfully be ready to write.
No You have not done a lot wrong. You’ve put in all your effort and time in getting ready for exams. Maybe look at asking for help once in a while and you’ll be ready.
Mind- Map How long do you study for?
I take 3-4 hours
I study for 1-2 hrs
Do you exercise during your breaks?
Sometimes Just a few more tweaks to your study plan. You have the right frame of mind and with a little more determination, you will be ready for your exams.
I don’t Think about getting assistance with your studying. There are a few distractions in your studying routine and maybe getting a study buddy will get you focused and ready.
SKY
these sayings your attitude money?
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Money is the root of all evil How well in advance do you prepare for your exams?
A month in advance How long are your study breaks?
30-35 minutes
1h302hrs
How many hours do you sleep?
Between 4-5 Discipline, Discipline, Discipline. If you are looking for motivation to study, let this test be it. Spend a little less time on your breaks and more on your studies.
Around 6-8 More sleep doesn’t always mean you’re ready for your exams. Sometimes making sacrifices for your studies will pay off. But don’t completely disregard your sleeping. Rest is important.
Last minute, usually a week before Do you panic before exams?
No, always in control
Yes!
Do you ask for help when stuck?
No, I hate asking for help Work on studying well in advance before your exam and there’s no shame in asking for help when stuck. Ask your teacher or parent for extra help and you will be ready for your exams.
Yes There isn’t a lot of time left before your exams. Immediately after this quiz, make a studying schedule and prioritize the topics you struggle the most with. Exams are right around the corner.
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TAURUS (Apr 20 - May 20)
MAG• •A ZINE
You may be facing a bit of fear as exams approach, but believe in yourself. Continue to put in the hard work you have been putting in. You will reap great rewards!
GEMINI (May 21 - Jun 20) Trust your instincts at all times, even if it means confronting yourself or your friends. Always ensure that the people around you have your best interests at heart. You know what is best for you :)
SCOPES
CANCER (Jun 21 - Jul 22) Babes, you have been working really hard so don’t worry or stress about what may happen in the future. The exams coming up? You got this! Anything else worrying you? You got it! Remind yourself that YOU GOT IT!
LEO (Jul 23 - Aug 22) Feed your mind with positivity because it is needed. You need a constant supply of refreshing and fresh news and activities. This will be helpful as you deal with pressure from family and friends during this upcoming exam
CAPRICORN (Dec 22 - Jan 19) You may be feeling a bit nervous as the new season approaches, but this is your body telling you to prepare yourself. Organize your study space or even schoolwork so that you can tackle your studies. Remember that your SKY sisters are here to help you out so fear not! :)
AQUARIUS (Jan 20 - Feb 18) As you try something new, you should do so without fear and take that leap of faith. Know that everything you are working towards will pay off! Trust your process babes, YOU GOT THIS!
PISCES (Feb 19 - Mar 20) You are changing gears in this new season and you are being your best self! This will translate even into your studies and your work ethic. Keep it up, you are doing
season.
VIRGO (Aug 23 - Sept 21) You naturally get along with everyone and people gravitate towards you. This is a blessing as you can get help from the people around you, especially at school. You are a people’s person and it will pay off!
LIBRA (Sept 22 - Oct 23) Trust yourself and consider putting your problemsolving skills to use. As exams approach, put to action what you know deep down you are capable of. All the best!
SCORPIO (Oct 24 - Nov 21) You tend to care for other people and as much as this is a good quality, remember to put yourself first. You
amazing sweetie.
MATTER and your goals and dreams are valid.
ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
Stick to your usual standards and ethics, do not let other people try to control or change you. Focus on yourself, your studies and your goals. This will help you become who you are meant to be.
You might get caught up in some excitement or a hobby. As fun as this is, you need to prioritize what is important. After exams, you will have the festive season to focus on other things, it is important for you to focus on school right now.
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