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Features 12 Afterschool: Helping kids help themselves.

By Christina Katz

17 Private School Spotlight Student Chatter: Private school from a kid’s point of view.

By Angela Gartner

28 A Dad’s Life The balancing act of fatherhood and everything in between.

By Kristen Gough

50 31 Days of Halloween We share 31 ways for you to celebrate this spooky season.

52 Halloween Fun & Frolic Guide Lots of ways to have Halloween fun in Northeast Ohio.

68 Party Planning Guide

Columns & Departments

Kuba, Trisha and Nalah at Szalay’s Farm in Peninsula.

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A birthday or other celebration is a great way to have fun while showing off your entertainment savvy.

By Marie Elium

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Women’s Health: Breast Cancer Awareness Teens: It’s College Fair Season Compassion Corner: The Littlest Heroes Special Needs: Understanding a Siblings’ Needs

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Community Focus: Mentor

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October Calendar Ages & Stages: Etiquette Skills

On the cover: Kuba and Nalah featured on cover at Szalay’s Farm & Market, 4563 Riverview Road Peninsula, Open Daily, June-Oct. 31.

Photo by Greg Shepler

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Editor’s Note ISSN 2373-5120

By Angela Gartner

Get into the Holiday ‘Spirit’ When I was a kid, Halloween was always my favorite time of the year — the decorations, the pillowcase of candy, the costumes and the pumpkins scattered about the neighborhood.

Actually, I still love the holiday, and even more so as my children are “age-appropriate” when it comes to trick-or-treating.

My boys are still on the fence on how to dress up this year. Anton, my youngest, will likely be a firefighter, however, Noel, my oldest, will probably end up a Skylander, but he hasn’t completely committed to that yet.

While our costume hunt has begun, so has the countdown until Halloween. We have devised a month’s worth of how you and your family can prepare for ghoulish fun starting on page 30. Also look in that section for the “spirited” happenings around town that are enjoyable for all ages.

It’s also the time of year for making some education decisions.

Whether your teen will be going off to college next year or your school-aged child is looking for another option, we have articles to keep you informed.

For Breast Cancer Awareness month, we highlight a few local organizations that are doing their part to fight this terrible disease on page 10.

In our third edition of Aging Answers, which is in the center of this issue, we explore how caregivers can help their aging loved ones, from medical concerns to coming home for the holiday season.

Many of us not only care for aging parents, but also others in our family who are older and need assistance. Sometimes it’s not even your immediate family and “care” isn’t always complicated. It could be about picking up a phone and having a conversation with a neighbor or being a support system for those caring for others.

Finally, if you are planning to send your kids off on the trick-ortreat trail, look to NortheastOhioParent.com for ways to be safe, along with other resources throughout the month.

For me, I am excited to visit Anton’s classroom for his Halloween party. I can’t wait to bring some “mummy” treats.

Angela angela@northeastohioparent.com

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Reading Room Cozy up in your favorite place and explore the wonders of books with your child. From infants to teenagers, here are a few suggestions to purchase or pick up at your local library.

My Teacher Is A Monster! (No, I Am Not)

by Peter Brown Bobby thinks his teacher, Ms. Kirby, is horrible, but when he sees her outside of school and they spend a day in the park together, he discovers she might not be so bad after all. (Picture book.)

Recommendation courtesy of Avon Lake Public Library.

Absolutely Almost by Lisa Graff From the author of the National Book Award nominee “A Tangle of Knots” comes an inspiring novel about figuring out who you are and doing what you love. Albie has never been the smartest kid in his class or the tallest, or the best at gym, or the greatest artist, or the most musical. In fact, Albie has a long list of the things he’s not very good at. But then he gets a new babysitter, Calista, who helps him figure out all of the things he is good at and how he can take pride in himself. (For grades 3-7.)

Recommendation courtesy of Medina County Public Library.

Fake ID by Lamar Giles “Nick,” a teen in the Witness Protection Program, moves to a new town and finds himself trying to solve a murder mystery when his first friend is found dead.

Despite it being his fourth new identity and home in the last few years, Nick is trying his best to fit into his new life and school in Georgia. (For teens.)

Recommendation courtesy of Akron-Summit County Public Library.

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Virus Hitting Ohio: What You Need to Know to Protect Your Kids The mysterious “enterovirus D68” continues to spread across the U.S., and is making many children sick and even hospitalizing some. It has already affected more than 1,000 children in 10 states.

Dr. Giovanni Piedemonte, a pediatric pulmonologist at Cleveland Clinic Children’s, says the virus is characterized by flu-like symptoms, which in most cases can be managed at home.

“If it becomes a significant cough and a temperature, particularly if the child is having trouble breathing, definitely, in my opinion they should contact the pediatrician’s office,” he says.

It spreads like the common cold: coughing, sneezing or crossing paths with people and things already infected with the virus. There is no treatment for the virus and no anti-viral medications, but no cases have become fatal.

“Washing hands or disinfecting hands is going to reduce

the chance of getting infected,” Piedemonte says. He also notes that kids with asthma or other respiratory conditions may run the risk of being hospitalized.

For more information, visit health.clevelandclinic.org.

Parents — Be Car Care Aware

A WORD FROM AN ORTHODONTIST

With the weather soon changing from fall to winter, it’s a good idea to know how to maintain your car.

The “Car Care Guide” explains typical preventative maintenance, such as when to change the oil, replace brakes, wiper blades and other essential parts. It also provides answers on how to adjust driving and car care habitats to save money on fuel.

Visit carcare.org to get this free 20-page resource from the Car Care Council sent to your home.

Dr. John White, from Braces by White in Hudson, provides insight on Invisalign for teens.

Ohio Wants to Change How Students Graduate The Ohio Department of Education is looking to set new graduation requirements, which would take effect with the class of 2018.

Some of the proposed highlights are to phase out Ohio Graduation Tests. Instead, students could earn points toward graduation on seven end-of-course exams.

Students who do not earn the required points can still meet requirements of diploma if they earn a remediationfree score on a national college admission test, or can qualify by earning approved industry-recognized credential and achieving a workforce readiness score.

The state is also discussing paying for all 11th grade students in the class of 2018 and beyond to take the college admission exam. Visit education.ohio.gov.

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Moving teeth with Invisalign is different than with traditional braces. As for teens doing Invisalign, it has been my experience that they are more compliant than adults. Lost aligners are not a problem (even if they were, Invisalign replaces up to six at no charge for Invisalign Teen).

Just like traditional braces, auxiliaries like rubber bands are often needed, for the same reasons. The patient’s age is not a factor in case selection, except for those with incomplete eruption of teeth.

Two of the major benefits of Invisalign are improved access for hygiene compared to fixed braces and a more esthetic look to the appliance (although the small attachments added to the

tooth surface to increase control of movement are not great looking). Just like ceramic braces and braces on the inside, trying to improve esthetics while still getting the job done has tradeoffs.

There are basically no emergency visits with Invisalign that can’t be solved over the phone, and other than the logistics of planning visits when coming home from college, “remote control” Invisalign treatment is very common.

Finally, there’s cost.

Invisalign has been considered a premium service and does have a lab bill from Align that is substantial ($1,900). However, there are other cost savings for the orthodontist with Invisalign so many orthodontists charge the same for Invisalign as they do for braces or only add a small increase.

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Local organizations work to raise breast cancer awareness. By Denise Koeth Since it’s the most common cancer among women in the U.S. — affecting 1 in 8 women — chances are, breast cancer has impacted your own family or the family of someone you know. October — National Breast Cancer Awareness Month — is a great time to get involved in supporting the fight against the disease.

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There are dozens of local organizations that work to raise breast cancer awareness. Whether you’re simply looking for more information or would like to get involved, the list below is a good starting point.

The Dragon Dream Team (dragondreamteam.org) — Ohio’s first all breast cancer survivor dragon boat team — works beyond the April-to-October paddling season to offer support and raise funds for those diagnosed with breast cancer.

“In addition to being a dragon boat team of all breast cancer survivors, we have also become a unique support system for each other,” says team member Marilyn Purdy.

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“We start each practice with warm-up exercises and a circle of strength, where we all join hands and remember survivors or family members who are struggling.”

The team also holds fundraising events — like summer dragon boat festivals and a spring gala — to support its outreach program. The team works in conjunction with nine area hospitals to provide women undergoing treatment for breast cancer with pashminas boxed with a message of strength.

“It’s powerful because they’re receiving this pashmina and message from women who’ve been there,” Purdy says. “Our mission is to show that there is good quality of life following a breast cancer diagnosis.”

will feature players, coaches and referees wearing pink game apparel, on-field pink ribbon stencils, special game balls and pink coins to help raise awareness for the campaign, which focuses on the importance of annual screenings.

All apparel worn at games by players and coaches, along with special game balls and pink coins, will be auctioned off, with proceeds

benefiting the American Cancer Society. In addition, a portion of proceeds from sales of special NFL breast cancer awareness gear supports breast cancer research.

Visit NortheastOhioParent.com throughout the month of October for additional Breast Cancer Awareness information, including self-exams, area breast health resources and more.

The Celtic Club of Ohio’s “The Celtic Club Fights Breast Cancer/Bras Across the Crooked River” is a breast cancer awareness campaign that began in Kent in September 2010. The event started as a single display of donated bras hung on the Cuyahoga River bridge in downtown Kent and has grown to include eight displays in six Northeast Ohio counties this year.

Most recently, an 800-foot-long display was strung across the Barberton Viaduct over the Towpath.

In addition, the Celtic Club has held bra donation drives, collecting thousands of bras that are then donated to domestic violence shelters throughout Northeast Ohio.

Visit the Celtic Club Fights Breast Cancer Facebook page for more information.

Cleveland Browns – As part of the National Football League’s "A Crucial Catch" campaign, the Cleveland Browns (clevelandbrowns.com) are supporting the fight against breast cancer in partnership with the American Cancer Society.

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Help Kids Help Themselves:

By Christina Katz

After-School Activities For Well-Rounded Kids Parents, do you ever wonder if we may be taking the whole overscheduling taboo too seriously? For years, we have been hearing that kids have too many activities, too much homework, too-heavy backpacks, too much screen time, too much sugar…and on and on.

Fit, Confident Kids Motivating kids to get off the couch is not always easy for parents. Physical activities can increase coordination, inspire discipline and provide energy outlets for restless kids.

“Dance class is a great activity for children who are not involved in an organized sport,” Lisa Heltsley, director of Dance Beatz. “Physical exercise improves flexibility, physical strength and stamina.”

While we may like to think that our children are born complete individuals, kids often discover what they are made of once they become immersed in activities.

Artistic director Mia Klinger of Ballet Excel Ohio says, “Unlike other kinds of competitive games and sport, ballet is a solitary activity practiced in a group setting. As such, successful participation is possible by each child individually, and often determined more by personal effort and enjoyment than measureable markers.”

Engaging kids in activities where they feel fully engaged and responsible for their own mastery is a great way to introduce kids to their individuality and in turn let them discover what makes them tick.

Part of Something Greater Make sure the activity is a safe, fun, growthcentric place for your child. Often kids become attached to a center, a studio or an instructor as much as they do to a group of peers.

Wanda Wareham, director of communications and marketing at The Fine Arts Association, says, “After-school arts programming gives children an outlet to express themselves creatively so they can communicate in a safe and fun way how their day went and what they are

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feeling.” She also shares what a Fine Arts alum, now a successful artist in New York City, told her, “Every day I walked down the sidewalk to Fine Arts, I felt as though I was coming home.”

school literary journal and newspaper. She also sweated off some of her teenage angst on the soccer field, on the softball diamond and in the school pool.

Aptitude Rich Some students need extra help to keep up academically.

Others may need learning that addresses specific needs.

Some kids simply need help to become more satisfied students.

“An elementary student came to us two years ago with low self-confidence and reading and math scores below grade level,” says Rhoda Konigsberg, owner and director of The Tutoring Center. “He just left us last month having improved three grade levels in reading and four grade levels in math. He is now entering middle school in the honors math program, and knows he can do it.”

It’s about seeing the engagement, the smiles and the learning that are a daily reminder of each child’s success. — Jeannie FlemingGifford, director of education at The Fine Arts Association.

Often kids progress faster and more willingly when they work with mentors they don’t already know.

“While increasing focus is important for all students, especially in the age of electronic distractions, it is particularly beneficial to students with ADD/ADHD,” Konigsberg says. “Enrichment students benefit from a variety of options such as our Pre-SAT/ACT program, in which they can improve their critical reading, vocabulary and math skills toward the goal of better test scores when the time comes.”

Memorably Connected If there is one thing that all after-school activity professionals agree on, it’s the importance of making memories by making meaningful connections. According to Jeannie Fleming-Gifford, director of education at The Fine Arts Association, it’s all about “seeing the engagement, the smiles and the learning that are a daily reminder of each child’s success.”

Whether the activity happens in a place rife with variety or in a more specialized space, your child is sure to gain skills, make memories and learn to appreciate himself or herself more after engaging in an after-school activity.

Christina Katz is a journalist and author grateful for the opportunity to contribute to the Family Living At Its Best

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Teens

FOR THE COLLEGE FAIR SEASON

Tables filled with admissions reps await your teen. Here are ways to make the most of the search experience.

By Marie Elium October is college fair season and a great opportunity for high school juniors and seniors to focus on their college search.

An auditorium or convention hall filled with a hundred or more admissions representatives can be intimidating for both parents and students. Preparation can go a long way toward a productive college search. Students overwhelmed by the process often discover a college fair visit can shake those jitters by getting important questions answered.

Fair Basics College fairs generally take place in the fall and spring. Fall sessions attract seniors trying to make a final decision about where to apply, while the spring sessions draw juniors who want to plot summer and fall campus visits.

“Regardless of the timing, the best way to tackle a college fair is to have your child do some research by looking at the list of schools that will be represented. Students should determine beforehand (usually via an Internet search) which schools offer majors that interest them,” says Ross Grippi, president of the Ohio Association for College Admission Counseling and director of marketing and recruitment for Baldwin Wallace University in Berea. “If a student is considering a health field such as nursing, it would be a waste of time to visit with admissions representatives

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for schools that don’t have a nursing program.”

Parents and students need to remember that people who represent schools at college fairs are easy to talk to, friendly and knowledgeable. It’s their job. They want to help find the best college fit.

“With most students relying on the Internet and social media to search for colleges, a face-to-face meeting with an admissions counselor at a college fair offers an important dimension to the search process,” says Andrea Tracy, program director for LEAF, the Lake/Geauga Educational Assistance Foundation, which provides college information to high school students and their parents.

“Looking on the web or social media (can make) the college search intimidating,” she says. “Once you’ve met a person, all of a sudden it’s not that intimidating.”

Interacting with Admissions With anywhere from 100 to 200 colleges represented at a typical college fair, the jumble of tables and crowd of students and parents can be overwhelming.

“Let the student make the decision and let them interact and engage,” Grippi says. “As a parent, don’t push your student to a school he or she really isn’t interested in just because you think it’s a good fit. On the other hand, don’t discourage your child from looking at a school because of cost.

There are so many opportunities for scholarships and financial aid.”

Tracy noted that students can discuss their ACT and grade-point averages with admissions counselors and get honest, critical assessments about their chances of gaining admission or qualifying for scholarships.

“They may tell you to take the ACT

one more time and if you raise it a point, you may get $5,000 or more,” she says. “If you don’t meet their minimum standards, they will tell you to get your ACT score up or to go to community college.”

Go ahead and have your student fill out contact cards for colleges of interest, even if catalogs and emails from the school already are arriving.

Colleges often use the information to begin files on prospective students.

Recording attendance at a fair indicates higher-than-average interest.

Explore Careers Before Search Talking to your child about career interests and finding career-related part-time jobs or internships in high school can be important steps to take before making a college decision, Tracy says.

Her agency sees many students described as “reverse transfers.” They head off to a four-year college without any idea of what they may want to do.

After a year or so, they end up back at a less-expensive community college to sort things out. Career exploration while in high school can make the college search — and college fair visit — much more focused.

Grippi says parents should reassure their kids that a college fair can help them with the overwhelming search process.

“There’s no judgment at a college fair,” he says. “Have an open mind.

Be engaged and don’t be afraid to ask questions. There’s never a question that’s not relevant. We’re there to help parents and families find the right fit.”

Visit NortheastOhioParent.com this month for a listing of college fairs in your area.

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Student Chatter — Private Schools

By Angela Gartner

Private school is a different learning experience for many kids. Parents might ask what it’s like and what kinds of things are offered. Students in the region offered some insight on what life is like at some area schools.

Montessori Education as a Boarder Savannah Heller, senior at Montessori High School at University Circle, has been in Montessori education throughout her school career.

“The most unique things about Montessori is the freedom of choice,” she says. “When you are given an assignment, certain requirements have to be reached, however, you can work with the teacher to make the project more interesting to you. If you make the project more interesting, therefore it’s a better learning experience. Montessori has helped me become independent. I can manage my own time, am organized and (I learned to be) more gracious. We are

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taught the environment is very important, and to leave it better (than how you found it).”

When entering into her last four years of school, Savannah was offered not only the traditional Montessori education, but also an experience as a boarder at MHS. Her family’s home is an hour away from the school, so it was too far to travel each day and boarding seemed like a logical choice.

She talks about life as this type of student, saying at first she was really nervous. “I wasn’t used to (living at school) 24/7,” she says, “(however), I made more friends and got used to the schedule of school. It’s really is a community, and you get to know everyone in it.”

She gives advice to those looking to board, “Don’t shut yourself out. Get to know people, get comfortable, make a lot of new friends.”

Homeschool to Bricks-and-Mortar Jacob Kessler, 17, senior, didn’t know what to expect and was a little nervous when first attending classes at Open Door Christian Schools. He had been homeschooled and then decided to attend the school in Elyria in his freshman

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Education Corner year. It’s not always easy to make a move from home learning to bricks-and-mortar, however, the school environment helped him make a smooth transition.

“The main difference is you are learning with people rather than by yourself,” he says. “In homeschooling you go at the pace you want and in school you are learning more with a group, which helps build character traits outside of school. I have a lot more opportunity to be involved in things. The school’s academics, athletics, arts, spiritual focus and encouragement to serve, gives me a well-rounded biblical worldview and I learn various attributes about myself. Learning who you are gives you a better view of the world and your place in it."

He also immersed himself in the available clubs and sports at the school.

“To be involved in a lot of different things is normal here, “ he says. “If you don't try new things, you won’t know if God has gifted in you in certain areas. My school encourages me in all these different situations and pushes me to be my best and try things I wouldn’t have normally.”

Getting Around School During the school day, some students might not have an opportunity to interact with their upper classman.

Erin Adams, who attends Hudson Montessori, talks about how the mix of students fosters working with others.

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“This allows the younger students to have good role models and have access to assistance with older students the majority of the time,” she says. “It also provides the older students the opportunity to volunteer in leadership roles, and teach and help.” She added, she’s been in both positions on a myriad of occasions.

Hudson Montessori School students also participate in group learning. “(This) encourages students to take charge and be able to lead a group to get the job done,” says Joshua Junko, an eighth-grader at Hudson Montessori. “This also helps with being able to help other students if they are struggling.”

School isn’t always about academics or activities, it’s also about taking time out to eat a meal and talk to your peers.

Andrew Rinaldi from Hudson Montessori says every six weeks, two or three students are chosen to prepare a meal for the classmates.

“The students choose the meals, and also invite different staff or people who help our community to come as a guest,” he says. “It allows us to eat in a formal setting together, once a week.”

Sam and his sister Ellie

Learning a Different Culture Sam York, an eighth grader at The Lippman School in Akron, is captain of the school’s soccer team.

He started at The Lippman School in kindergarten, “but I went to the JCC

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(Jewish Community Center) Early Childhood Department daycare since I was 3 months old,” he says.

When asked about activities at Lippman, Sam mentioned learning a foreign language early. He tells us what it’s like to learn beyond the language.

“You learn Spanish or Hebrew starting in kindergarten,” he says. “The field trips in seventh and eighth grade are incredible. This year I get to go to Israel, which is cool because we have been learning and talking about Israel since I was in kindergarten.”

Last year, he went to learn about the Indian culture on the Cheyenne Reservation in Montana.

“The experience of the Montana trip last year was amazing,” he says. “It was a lot of fun, but we learned a lot about ourselves and each other too. We participated in a Sweat Lodge, built TeePees, hiked canyons and lived with the Cheyenne Tribe. We were so far out of our comfort zone that we were forced to try new things, and rely on each other for support to get through the experience. It was an eye-opening learning experience.”

Learning to Be a Leader Isaiah Williams began taking classes at University School (US) in Hunting Valley his freshman year. He plans to pursue a degree in management in college, but also would like to continue to conduct qualitative research.

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When asked what the culture and class sizes were like at the all-boys school, he says, “The classes here are very small, intimate and engaging. The Harkness tables* allow student-led discussions and I find them particularly engaging. I found my sense of self early here during my freshman year, and I feel at home every time I walk in the doors of the school.” (*The Harkness method is a teaching and learning method involving students seated in a large, oval shape in order to discuss ideas in an encouraging, open-minded environment with only occasional or minimal teacher intervention.)

With the small settings, he is able to learn leadership skills and pursue different opportunities that he’s interested in.“The Anderson Scholars Program (of the Entrepreneur Institute) at US in particular helped me develop my leadership skills tremendously,” he says.

“Taking the classes, running the school’s student businesses and listening to the tremendous guest speakers have all helped me develop leadership skills.”

Being a leader, he also took part in helping his fellow classmates and making the school better.

“Most meaningful to me is my involvement in heading the Student Life Research Committee (SLRC) here at US,” he says. “The committee does research on student life at the school and I took part in our diversity project. I helped design and lead focus group protocol and the focus groups themselves.”

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Open House Listings

Open House Listings The Agnon School

Beyond Our Dreams Academy

Oct. 24, 8:30-10 a.m. and Nov. 21, 1-2:15 p.m.

26500 Shaker Blvd., Beachwood, theagnonschool.org

Andrews Osborne Academy Oct. 18, 1-3 p.m.

38588 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-942-3600, andrewsosborne.org

Bethlehem Christian Academy March 10, April 14 and May 12 27250 Emery Road, Cleveland, 216-292-4685, bethlehembaptist.org

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Oct. 24, 7-9 p.m.

7435 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-954-9100, bodacademy@outlook.com, bodacademy.com

Beaumont School Oct. 5, noon-2 p.m. Nov. 12, 5:30-7 p.m.

3301 North Park Boulevard, Cleveland Heights 216-321-2954, beaumontschool.org

Birchwood School Oct. 19, 2-4 p.m.

4400 W. 140th St., Cleveland 216-251-2321, birchwoodschool.org

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“Education is the key to unlock the golden door of freedom.”

George Washington Carver

Cleveland Montessori Nov. 1, 2-4 p.m.

12009 Mayfield Road, Cleveland, 216-421-0700, clevelandmontessori.org

Hawken School Oct. 26, 1-3 p.m., grades PS-12, Lyndhurst and Gates Mills 12465 County Line Road, Gates Mills, 440-423-2950, hawken.edu

Cuyahoga Valley Christian Academy Oct. 24, 5-7 p.m.

4687 Wyoga Lake Road, Cuyahoga Falls, 330-929-0575, cvcaroyals.org

Gilmour Academy Oct. 5, noon and Nov. 12, 6 p.m.

Lower School, 440-473-8165 Upper School, 440-473-8050 34001 Cedar Road, Gates Mills gilmour.org

Hathaway Brown School Oct. 19, 1:30-3:30 p.m., Middle and Upper Schools Nov. 8, 10-11:30 a.m., Infant & Toddler, Early Childhood and Kindergarten 19600 N. Park Blvd., Shaker Heights, 216-932-4214, Hb.edu

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Hershey Montessori School Check website for dates.

10229 Prouty Road, Concord 11530 Madison Road, Huntsburg 440-357-0918, hershey-montessori.org

Holy Name High School Oct. 19, 1-4 p.m.

6000 Queens Highway, Parma Heights, 440-886-0300, Holynamehs.com

Lawrence School Oct. 22, 9-11 a.m., Lower School (grades K-6) 1551 E. Wallings Road, Broadview Heights Oct. 23, 6-8 p.m., Upper School (grades 7-12) 10036 Olde Eight Road, Sagamore Hills

Laurel School Nov. 2, 1-3 p.m.

Girls K-12 and Coed Pre-Primary 1 Lyman Circle, Shaker Heights, 216-464-1441, laurelschool.org

The Lippman School Interactive Open House, Nov. 9, 1-2:30 p.m. and Open House, Nov. 11, 10-11:30 a.m.

750 White Pond Dr., Akron, 330-836-0419, thelippmanschool.org

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Montessori High School at University Circle Oct. 8, 6:30 p.m., Oct. 19, 2 p.m. and Nov. 5, 6:30 p.m.

10923 Magnolia Dr., Suite C, Cleveland, 216-421-3033, montessorihighschool.org

Old Trail School Nov. 1, 9:15-10:45 a.m., Early Childhood; 8:45-10:15 a.m., All School 2315 Ira Road, Bath,

330-666-1118 ext.314, admission@oldtrail.org, oldtrail.org

Notre Dame Elementary School Oct. 7, Nov. 4 and Dec. 2, 9:30 a.m.

13000 Auburn Road, Chardon, 440-279-1127, notredameelementary.org

Notre Dame – Cathedral Latin School Oct. 9 and Nov. 5, 6-8 p.m.

13000 Auburn Road, Chardon, 440-279-1088, Michael.suso@ndcl.org, ndcl.org

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Open Door Christian Schools Oct. 17, 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

8287 W. Ridge Road, Elyria, 440-322-6386, odcs.org

Our Lady of the Elms School Oct. 29, 5-7 p.m. and Nov. 9, noon-2 p.m.

Middle and High School Open House 1375 W. Exchange St., Akron 330-836-9384, theelms.org

Padua Franciscan High School Oct. 26, 1-4 p.m. and Nov. 13, 6-8 p.m.

6740 State Road, Parma, 440-845-2444, PaduaFranciscan.com

Ratner School Oct. 28, 9:30 a.m.

27575 Shaker Blvd., Pepper Pike, 216-464-0033, theratnerschool.org

Ruffing Montessori Nov. 2, 2-4 p.m.

3380 Fairmount Blvd., Cleveland Heights, 216-321-7571, ruffingmontessori.net

Seton Catholic School of Hudson Nov. 16 and Jan. 25, 2-4 p.m.

6923 Stow Road, Hudson, 330-342-4200 ext. 226, setoncatholicschool.org

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Spring Garden Waldorf School Oct. 15, 9 a.m. (tour while school is in session) and Nov. 16, 1-3 p.m., Walk Through the Grades 1791 Jacoby Road, Copley, 330-666-0574, sgws.org

St. Anselm School Make appointment for shadow days 13013 Chillicothe Road, Chesterland 440-729-7806, stanselmschool.org

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St. Gabriel School Oct. 14, Nov. 18, Dec. 16, 9 a.m.

9935 Johnnycake Ridge Road, Concord Township, 440-352-6169, st-gabrielschool.org

St. Vincent - St. Mary High School Nov. 5, 6:30-8 p.m.

15 N. Maple St., Akron, 330-253-9113, stvm.com

University School Oct. 5, 1:30-4 p.m.

2785 SOM Center Road, Hunting Valley, 216-831-2200, us.edu

Western Reserve Academy Oct. 19, 1 p.m.

115 S. College St., Hudson, 330-650-4400, wra.net

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The balancing act of fatherhood and everything in between.

By the time he gets home at 5:45 p.m., Tiger LaVerde has already had a full day from his heavy teaching schedule, including AP Calculus and Statistics, to his afternoon as head coach of Kirtland High School’s football team.

Tiger LaVerde and his family

“I could spend more time filming practice and staying after to watch film, but I never want to wish I had spent more time with my kids later in life,” explains the father of four, ages 7-11, who is also a past Ohio football coach of the year (awarded by the Ohio High School Football Coaches Association). “My wife and the kids absolutely come first and they know it.”

With careers encroaching more and more on home life, many dads like LaVerde have to actively work to make — and keep — family a priority. Here’s how several dads in the Northeast Ohio area are finding a balance between fatherhood and their careers.

Getting Into a Routine The current favorite cereal around the Berthiaume family’s house is Cocoa Pebbles, although dad Justin usually has a bowl filled with Special K. “My kids go through cereal phases, we just finished a Froot Loops phase,” says Berthiaume, laughing.

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He rises at 6:30 a.m. with his 4-yearold son Kellen, letting his wife snooze a little longer. His 2-year-old son Bryson gets up an hour later.

Berthiaume, who works as the membership manager at LifeStyles – West at the Akron General Health & Wellness Center and as a realtor with Howard Hanna, gets the kids ready in the morning before heading out.

He isn’t always home in time for dinner so he treasures his morning time with his kids.

“We are all trying to multitask in this fast-paced life, and I tell myself constantly to stop and focus on the task you are currently doing rather than thinking about the 10 other things you need to do,” Berthiaume says. “I know when my son says to me, ‘Daddy look at me’ when he is trying to show me something that I am not focusing at the task at hand, which is him trying to share something very important to him with me. He doesn’t know he is doing it, but it reminds me to stop and give him the attention he deserves and I love him for it.”

For Macedonia dad Kuba Njie and his daughter, 3-year-old Nalah, he says fatherhood has given him a new perspective on work life.

Working in IT, Njie can have 24-hour workdays where he’s trouble-shooting computer systems or implementing new ones.

“I can be impatient, but she’s helped me step back and think before I react.

She’s helped me learn to be more patient,” he says. “Sometimes work is very, very tough, but when I come home it’s a clean slate every day and I can focus at home on her so the next day I’m ready to get back at it. She’s the best thing I’ve ever done.”

Balancing Act Finding time to spend with their kids is a common struggle for dads. Some are

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already at work when their kids get up, while others don’t get home until the kids are in bed at night. With long workdays, time with children can dwindle.

That’s one reason Chuck Embley tries to avoid bringing work home with him, Justin Berthiaume and his family especially on weekends.

“I’m very careful about weekends and evening time,” says Embley, director of finance for global manufacturing at Goodyear. He makes a point to plan family weekend activities whether it’s going to a movie together or simply working in the yard.

The Hudson father of three, with one teenage son at home, says the challenge as kids get older is to find something you all enjoy doing together.

His solution is to attend as many of his son’s activities, whether it be his band performances or church youth activities.

“The advantage of church activities is that I work with the youth his age so I’m able to help out there and be with him,” Embley says.

Mixing work and family is often a way for modern dads to not only spend more time with their kids, but also to share their interests with them.

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football games, bus rides, meetings, team dinners and more. It helps that his wife is a teacher at Kirtland High School, which is located on the same campus as the elementary and middle schools. “My whole family is at the same place every day,” LaVerde says.

Living in the Moment Njie notices that Nalah runs to him when she wants to play.

“She’ll climb on my back or neck and say, ‘Daddy, spin me,’” he says.

“We have this Donkey Kong Game that we play where I throw her into the air or spin her around. We have a great time together.”

Since time with his kids may be less Kuba Njie and family than that of his wife, Kristin, who is at home with their youngsters, Berthiaume tries to follow her advice.

“She tells me all the time, ‘Stay in the moment when you get time with the kids and family.’” In fact, Berthiaume has become an expert at playing Captain America, Iron Man or the current favorite, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, with his sons.

He doesn’t mind admitting it’s important to be silly with young kids.

“I am a professional 10 hours a day,” he says. “I try to be silly when I can (with my kids). It is a great stress reliever.”

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Compassion Corner Helping Families Who Have Children With Cancer The Littlest Heroes is a nonprofit organization that assists children with cancer and their families no matter what their financial situation may be.

The organization coordinates its efforts with volunteers, donors and physicians at partner institutions to help meet any and all needs of these families with education, assistance and community efforts.

The Littlest Heroes was founded in 1999 and became operational on April 1, 2010, when the first meal was served to 15 children with cancer and their family members at University Hospitals Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital.

More than 90 percent of the service referrals are received direct from social work staff at Rainbows, Cleveland Clinic Children’s Hospital, Hospice of the Western Reserve Pediatric Division and Ronald McDonald House of Cleveland.

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The Littlest Heroes was founded for and is dedicated solely to Northeast Ohio families.

Programs include Art for Children’s Sake, Adopt-a-Family, meal programs and more.

Joanne MacDougall explains the Adopt-a-Family program, “The families complete a wish list and we match them up with our donors depending on the size of that family. Next, the gifts come into our office. We wrap the gifts and then deliver them. Last year, we had 62 families and we wrapped between 1,200 and 1,500 gifts.”

“The monthly meal program is where we serve two meals at the Cleveland Clinic and University Hospitals Rainbow Babies & Children’s Hospital, where we have different area restaurants donate the food for about 40 people,” she says.

“We pick up the meals and deliver them to the hospital. This gives families a break from hospital food and

it’s a nice time to have a meal with the family.”

Volunteers are the core of the agency and utilized in every capacity possible.

Office work, direct servicing, and event planning and execution, with new opportunities available monthly.

Also, attendance is encouraged at the second annual Bowling for Heroes Event Nov. 1 at Freeway Lanes in Solon.

The proceeds go directly to help families in Northeast Ohio that have a child suffering from cancer by providing parking, gas and grocery cards.

If you are interested in doing more for the non-profit group, they are in need. Anyone interested in a position on The Littlest Heroes Board of Directors or Advisory Board can email chelsea.mikula@tuckerellis.com.

For more information, visit thelittlestheroes.org or call 440-498-9200.

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Do you need the flu shot? The Ohio Department of Aging gives us the scoop.

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Feeling at Home for the 10 Holidays

By Anne Schleicher Creating a “new normal� for your aging loved ones during the holiday season.

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Reasons to Get a Flu Shot Immune systems weaken as we grow older, so getting a flu shot helps older adults stay healthier throughout the flu season. A flu shot especially helps those who are managing chronic diseases avoid compromising their wellness efforts.

Three kinds of influenza viruses commonly circulate among people today: influenza A (H1N1) viruses, influenza A (H3N2) viruses and influenza B viruses.

Adults 65 and older typically account for more than half (60 percent) of flu-related hospitalizations and almost all (90 percent) of flurelated deaths.

The biggest reason people don’t get flu shots is they think they

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don’t need them. Seasonal flu shots keep you healthy and safe along with help prevent spreading the flu to your loved ones.

You benefit anytime you get the flu shot, but experience greater protection when the shot is done earlier in the season, such as October.

Also, wash your hands regularly, as this is the simplest way to prevent spreading germs.

Adults 65 years of age and older have flu vaccine options. They can have a traditional, standard-dose vaccine or a higher-dose vaccine specifically designed to address the age-related weakening of the immune system. The vaccination is a Medicare Part B benefit, which

means there is no copay for eligible beneficiaries.

Older adults should speak with their doctor or pharmacist to find out more about simple steps they can take to help prevent the flu for themselves, the people they care about and the best vaccine option.

The Ohio Department of Aging promotes healthy, active and engaged lifestyles for all of its constituents, and sponsors chronic disease management programs to remain active and healthier longer. Visit the department at aging.ohio.gov, and the Ohio Department of Health at odh.ohio.gov.

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Hearing Loss and Its Connections to

Quality of Life

By John Kandare We know from experience that as we age certain parts of our bodies quit working the way they used to. This is

especially true with hearing. There are 48 million adults with some form of hearing loss in the U.S., including one out of three people between the ages of 65 and 75, and almost 50 percent of seniors aged 75 and older.

As hearing declines, so do other parts of the body. As an individual’s hearing loss progresses, so do the chances of getting certain diseases and developing debilitating conditions.

Health Issues Rise Due to Loss Audiologists use the term “auditory deprivation” to describe such cases. A typical hearing evaluation measures two main things: the softest levels at which sounds are heard and speech understanding.

Often, hearing loss goes undiagnosed or untreated for many years before it’s found.

Historically, the average time from initial diagnosis to fitting of a hearing aid is 10 years and only 20 percent of people with a treatable hearing loss actually get fit with hearing aids.

While hearing loss has strong correlations with other health issues, even more concerning is that the loss can also lead seniors to isolate themselves from social interaction and eventually develop cognitive decline and dementia.

Falls can be very dangerous for older adults and research shows that seniors have increased risk of falling when they have greater hearing loss.

There is a greater likelihood for hearing loss when someone has a disease like high blood pressure or diabetes as well. Research shows that hearing loss is two times more common in people who have diabetes than their peers.

Remembering Hearing Aids

If an individual has hearing loss and does not wear hearing aids, their speech understanding can get worse and make successful rehabilitation with hearing aids significantly more challenging.

Often, a person will only wear their hearing aids when they go to a restaurant or to church and complain about how they do not work for them. A person who only wears their hearing aids in difficult listening environments will

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not see the most benefit from them.

The more often a person wears a hearing aid, the better the typical outcome.

Receiving Help

Because hearing is tied to other health centers in the body and can have devastating effects on quality of life, it is vitally important to diagnose and treat it.

If you know an older adult who has been either struggling to hear or has withdrawn from their normal social circles, encourage them to get their hearing tested. Doctors often test and find hearing loss with people who do not self-report having hearing difficul-

ties, but the loved ones around them do. These individuals usually benefit the most from a hearing test and discussion of their concerns and key challenges.

Properly fit hearing aids can not only increase an individual’s quality of life, but also decrease his or her chances of dementia and Alzheimer’s due to social isolation. This gives their loved ones peace of mind and ensures your time together will once again become quality time together.

John Kandare, Au.D. is an audiologist at Zounds Hearing, which offers free, comprehensive hearing evaluations in Brooklyn, North Canton and Mayfield Heights offices.

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Helping to Improve Memory Loss A treatment offered at Eliza Jennings is bringing hope to older adults living with dementia and their families. SAIDO Learning® is a non-pharmacological treatment that has been shown to improve the symptoms of memory loss and dementia among individuals with cognitive impairment.

Older adults participating in SAIDO Learning are more engaged in daily activities, socializing more with family members and caregivers, and eating better.

Many are enjoying a renewed optimism for life and daily living.

In 2011, Eliza Jennings partnered with Kumon Institute for Education to become the first site in the U.S. to conduct an exciting research trial to examine the results of SAIDO Learning when provided to residents of one of

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Eliza Jennings’ communities for older adults. The results of the trial indicated measurable improvement in cognitive function.

SAIDO Learning has been practiced for more than a decade in more than 1,600 nursing facilities across Japan, showing stunning results in over 18,000 older adults.

The SAIDO Learning method involves a caregiver (called a “Supporter”) trained to work with two older adults (called “Learners”) by engaging them in a series of precise, yet simple, arithmetic, writing and reading exercises.

Learners progress through a planned succession of scientifically developed worksheets suited to their individual needs. The sessions are conducted five times per week and last 30 minutes, in order to stimulate the prefrontal cortex

of the brain. Most notably, the result is an improvement in cognitive function.

Through SAIDO Learning, we can do more than just care for older adults with Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias — we can now treat the symptoms without the use of drugs and set goals for improvement.

Eliza Jennings, the recognized expert in innovative aging services, offers SAIDO Learning at each of its communities, including the assisted living community at its Retirement Campus at The Renaissance in Olmsted Township, and Eliza Jennings Assisted Living Community at Devon Oaks in Westlake.

For more information about SAIDO Learning at Eliza Jennings, please call 216-325-1266.

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‘New Normal’ for the Holidays

Creating a

Being flexible and communicating your relative’s (and your own) needs can make the season brighter for everyone.

Aging can bring changes to many family traditions.

Your parent or grandparent might live in an assisted living or skilled care facility, and can’t be part of holiday events like she or he once was. For many older people, the holidays are bittersweet.

Don’t be afraid to adjust your traditions. Communication with family and those involved in your relative’s care will help you avoid more holiday stress.

Loved Ones Away From Home

Residential facilities have busy activities departments whose job is to provide socialization each day of the year, even during holidays for those who are unable to go home.

“We have special holiday meals that we invite families to,” explains Robin Hanna, director of life enrichment at St. Mary’s of the Woods in Avon. “We bring in entertainers and school kids to do crafts, sing carols and decorate cookies.”

Hanna says families are welcome to decorate residents’ rooms. Many share events like school recitals on devices like an iPad. It’s a good idea to call ahead if more than one person will be visiting at the same time. That way staff can find a setting that will allow for a comfortable visit.

If you’re feeling overextended and unable to visit, find others who can help.

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Home for the Holidays

In many instances, you can still include your relative in some part of your holidays at home.

“Nursing home residents have the right to leave the facility for holidays, overnight stays and other ‘leaves’ without creating any disruption in their care or services,” says Sam McCoy, vice president of elder rights for the Akron/Canton Area Agency on Aging.

When you make this decision, “You have to make sure it’s your loved one’s needs being met, not just yours,” explains Dr. Lori Stevic-Rust, a clinical psychologist who is director of senior services at Lake Health and president of the Lake County Council on Aging. “Don’t do it just because that’s the way it’s always been done.”

Planning ahead is best for all involved. “Give the staff at least a few days’ notice, especially if it’s going to be overnight,” McCoy says. “This gives them time to organize medications, clothing and personal care items.”

Pam Turos, a social worker with the Greater Cleveland chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association, suggests asking the staff to pick out a nice outfit for your relative and get her hair done.

“She’ll receive a lot compliments and will feel special,” she says.

When bringing a person with dementia to a holiday event at your home, adult children can brief other family members on the older person’s limitations and behavior, says Stevic-Rust.

“You might have to say, ‘Don’t be offended if Grandma gets upset because it’s too noisy,” she says.

This is particularly important now that many families have four generations.

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By Anne Schleicher Smaller gatherings are better for people with dementia. Have only immediate family at an event if your loved one is likely to become confused or agitated.

With Alzheimer’s patients, try to meet them where they are mentally; even a toy might have a lot of meaning. Ask staff for suggestions, including what not to get.

Planning for the holidays will set your compass for self-care as well.

“The number-one rule, you have to take care of yourself, before you can take care of anyone else,” Turos adds.

Before Holiday Festivities

“There are several ways to involve them in holiday traditions, like cooking and gift wrapping,” says Turos, who has cared for two family members with Alzheimer’s disease.

This can be done days or weeks before an actual holiday, with just you and your relative.

“I even took my grandmother shopping, but to smaller stores,” Turos says.

Playing holiday music can reconnect those with memory loss to fond memories.

Keep gifts simple, sentimental and practical. Write your loved one a letter on special paper about how much he or she means to you. Have a new print made of a favorite photo or put together a photo album.

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Keeping Pets and Older Adults Safe In Their Home Here are some simple tips to minimize health risks when caring for a pet.

By Dr. Anna M. Van Heeckeren at One Health Organization

As many of you know, pets can be a very important part of keeping an aging loved one engaged in a happy life. There are many benefits of having a pet.

However, pets are an added responsibility that involves making sure they are fed and have water, and have an opportunity to go out for walks or use the kitty litter pan.

An unhealthy pet may lead to health problems for older adults (and other higher risk individuals).

Does this mean you need to get rid of the household pet? No. It just means you need to know the three simple ways you can support your aging loved one so they can live safely at home with their pet.

Vet Up: Make sure your loved one’s pet is seen at least once a year by a primary care veterinarian to keep current on parasite control and essential vaccinations. This is the best defense for preventing diseases that can accidentally be spread from the pet to the owner or young children, pregnant women or people with certain medical conditions. This also helps the pet live a long and healthy life with the least amount of pain and distress.

Pick Up: Pick up pet waste promptly. Even if a pet is allowed outdoors, waste needs to be cleaned up from the yard (best if cleaned up immediately) and discarded properly. Many tools out there can help pick up pet waste without the need to bend down and get close to the waste. It’s recommend double bag-

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ging the waste before placing it in the garbage can for proper disposal.

Keeping the home clean and tidy is also necessary.

Wash Up: Wash hands after handling pet waste (and before handling food or eating). For example, my grandmother had dementia, and I saw that she did not remember that she needed to wash her hands after disposing of her dog’s waste. The benefits of her having the dog far outweighed any potential drawback, she just needed extra support to live safely with her pet.

Responsible pet care is essential for healthy living. The day-to-day needs of a pet to stay happy and healthy may require special considerations. If you or your loved one needs extra support in caring for a pet, many people can help. While you may be inclined to consider a typical pet owner, it might not be the best choice. There are people who have the credentials as a professional pet sitter, pet groomer, animal behaviorist, veterinary technician, pet waste manager or others who can support the specific needs of any pet.

Understanding what each of these professionals do can help preserve the special bond your aging loved one has with their pet and gives you peace of mind that you don’t have to have the added extra worry of what to do with their pet in times of crisis.

For more guidance than is given here, please see the accompanying One Health Organization ad at left.

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Book Clubs for Seniors

By Sharon Schnall

Go Beyond Review and Discussion

The monthly drive from her job in Akron to the Regina Health Center in Richfield is one that Mary Popio welcomes. For five years, Popio has led a book discussion with a group of center residents, representing ages 60s through 90s, held at the center’s assisted living and nursing home campus.

“These people are readers. They have incredible perspective to bring,” says Popio, a librarian with Library Express Delivery Service (LEDS) with the Akron-Summit County Public Library.

and talk,” she says. “The socializing is very important.”

Terrano joined the Solon book club two years ago, and was previously a member of three book clubs in Massachusetts where she lived before returning to Northeast Ohio. She joined these clubs in 2008 following the deaths a year prior of her husband, mother and aunt. Before joining those clubs, she was devoted extensively to caregiving duties and later with settling family affairs.

Moderating the Best Discussions

Continuing Learning Experience

Certainly, book clubs are engaging, bringing together a diverse group of people, ready to talk about likes and dislikes concerning the selection. However, the value and benefits go beyond the book review.

“It’s a continuing learning experience. You meet people. You meet new people. It gets you out of the house,” says Barbara Terrano, 81, a member of a book club run by Solon branch staff of the Cuyahoga County Public Library.

“Sometimes after book group, two or three of us stop for lunch in the snack shop (of the center) and sit

The materials are important.

Barbara Wilson, a public service assistant with the Brook Park branch of the Cuyahoga County Public Library, routinely orders 10 large-print books, 10 regular-print books and three CD format or audio books for the Brook Park branch club, recognizing there are some who can only read largeprint and others who prefer audio listening.

However, member participation is a hallmark of book clubs.

Skilled moderators strike a balance among discussions about the book itself; participant reminiscing, particularly with a member-

ship that brings collective living history and life experience; and quite simply, general asides and digressions.

After reading “A Secret Gift,”’ by Ted Gup, about his family’s Depression-era life in Canton, “They commented on what their parents did to save money or how they did not have fruit at Christmas,” Wilson says. “They got emotional. The book was personal. It wasn’t just facts.”

With some personal timelines dating back to the 1920s and 1930s, senior members of book clubs bring history to life.

While club members enjoy memoirs and historical fiction, contemporary works are among the notable selections. For example, “The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo,” “Orange is the New Black: My Year in a Woman’s Prison” and “The Hunger Games” were past discussion generators of the Regina Health Center’s book club in Richfield.

“There’s always someone who will come up with some insight that the rest of us did not pick up on,” Wilson says.

Sharon Schnall is based in Northeast Ohio.

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Event Listings October, November & December Monthly The Mended Hearts Greater Akron Chapter #59 (Heart Disease Support Group), 1-2 p.m.

Second Tuesday of every month Chapters invite healthcare professionals to present valuable information and answer questions. Summa Rehab Hospital, 29 N. Adams St., Akron. Contact Glenn Reeder, 330-688-4418 or Jim Patterson, 330-334-1236, MendedHearts.org.

Cleveland Clinic’s Supper Club at Euclid Hospital. Supper Club features bingo and dinner on the second Thursday of each month. Reservations required, call 216-448-1210. $5 payable at the door.

Life Goes On (Amputee Support Group), 7-8 p.m. Last Thursday of every month, free. Health professional staff facilitates the meeting with community speakers lending their expertise. Summa Rehab Hospital, 29 N. Adams St., Akron. Contact Herbert Neal, 330-572-7300.

Life After Stroke (Stroke Support Group), 10 a.m.-noon, second Friday of every month.

Provides a forum for stroke survivors and their families to share ideas and solve problems.

Summa Rehab Hospital, 29 N. Adams St., Akron. Contact Dr. Cathy Torcasio, 330-686-4455 or 330-572-7300.

Caregiver Support Group, free, last Saturday of every month.

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for caregivers of parents/grandparents/children to connect and talk about their experiences and Westbay Rehab and Care Center, 27601 Westchester Parkway, Westlake, 866-824-8174

Mondays and Tuesdays Open Gym, Mondays, 6-7 p.m., Tuesdays, noon-1 p.m. All ages, physical abilities or experience levels are welcome. Passes must be purchased in advance — no drop-ins please. Lyndhurst Campus, 1950 Richmond Road. Call 877-331-9355 or email Lifestylemed@ccf.org.

Visit my.clevelandclinic.org.

Thursdays Parkinson’s Group Exercise Program, 11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m., free. Exercise program to help ease the daily struggles of Parkinson’s. Summa Rehab Hospital, 29 N. Adams St., Akron. Contact Kelly Rutan, 330-572-7300.

October 2 Medina Hospital Health Fair, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Sponsored by Cleveland Clinic’s Healthwise Connection and PNG (Professional Networking Group) specializing in senior services.1000 E. Washington St., Entrance A, Medina, 330-725-1000 my.clevelandclinic.org

October 3 Summit Senior Expo at Summit Mall, 8 a.m.-2:30 p.m.

Exhibits, health screenings, flu vaccinations, music, dancing, bingo, the Price is Right game show, food and a lot of fun.

3265 W. Market St., Akron

Fall Wellness Expo, 9-11:30 a.m. UH Bedford Medical Center Senior Network. Solon Senior Community Center, 35000 Portz Parkway, Solon

October 2 Parma Senior Wellness Expo, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. This expo provides resources from Western Reserve Area Agency on Aging. UAW Local 1005, 5615 Chevrolet Blvd., Parma

October 15 Healthy Cooking Series: Soups, 6-8 p.m. Join Center for Lifestyle Medicine’s Chef Perko as he teaches how easy it is to make some fall favorites. Registration required, $35 for class and dinner. Cleveland Clinic Lyndhurst Campus – Kitchen, First Floor East, 1950 Richmond Road, Lyndhurst, 216-448-8500

October 9 Amputee Support Group, 23:30 p.m. TriPoint Medical Center, 7590 Auburn Road, Concord Township. To register, call 800-454-9800 or visit lakehealth.org.

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speaker Jane Ehrman, M.Ed., CHES, to learn effective and easy ways to enter a state of peace to benefit your health and well-being. Cleveland Clinic’s Lyndhurst Campus - First Floor West Auditorium, 1950 Richmond Road.

Lake County’s Annual Walk for White Cane Safety Awareness Day, 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Learn what it’s like to walk without sight. Meet and learn about service dogs. Proceeds benefit the visually impaired children and adults of Lake County.

Willoughby Municipal Pool, 36900 Euclid Ave., 440-479-2163

October 14 Wellness Free Speaker Series: This is Your Brain on Peace and Calm, 7-8 p.m. Join

October 16 Community Health Lecture: Facts Concerning Prostate Cancer, 6-7 pm., ongoing free lecture series. Presented by Lake Health Urologist Zurab Davili, MD. To register, call the West Medical Center, 36000 Euclid Ave., Willoughby, at 800-454-9800 or visit lakehealth.org.

October 17 Celebration of Life Gala, 6-11 p.m. The Village at Marymount will host its fifth annual gala at Executive Caterers at Landerhaven, 6111 Landerhaven Dr., Mayfield Heights. Ticket info, call 216-332-1751 or thecelebrationoflifegala.org.

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Send your event listings to: calendar@NortheastOhioParent.com October 17 Medicare Check-Up Day, 10 a.m. Unbiased information about Medicare and the Plan D prescription drug benefit from the Lake County Council on Aging. Bring a list of your prescriptions. Register by calling 440-9446010. Wickliffe Public Library, 1713 Lincoln Road, Wickliffe, wickliffe.lib.oh.us.

Sweet & Savvy Presentation: Medicare A to Z, 1 p.m. Medicare Updates and 2015 changes. RSVP by Oct. 10. The Gables of Hudson, 5400 Darrow Road, Hudson, 330653-9170

October 22 Center for Functional Medicine: Dr. Mark Hyman and screening of film “Fed Up,” 5:30-7:30 p.m. Concerned about heart disease, diabetes, cancer or Alzheimer’s? Dr. Hyman will share his thoughts, answer questions and invite you to join the Fed Up Challenge. Free, registration required. Richard E. Jacobs Health Center, 33100 Cleveland Clinic Blvd., Avon, 216-448-8500

my.clevelandclinic.org/Documents/ Wellness/CIM/womens-wellness-retreatbooklet.pdf.

November 13 Annual Caregiving Conference & Luncheon, What Works: Effective Methods for Improving Caregivers’ Quality of Life.

Featured speaker: Laura N. Gitlin, PhD. Sessions in evidence-based programs, awards, lunch and a caregiver panel. Benjamin Rose Institute, 11890 Fairhill Road, Cleveland, 216-791-8000, benrose.org/education.

Senior Craft Night, 10 a.m.-noon. Make a mini album. $5 donation. Pre-registration is required as space is limited. Medina County Recreation Center, 855 Weymouth Road, Medina, 330-721-6932, medinarec.org

December 2 Grandparenting Today, 7-9 p.m., free.

Designed to help prepare grandparents for

their new role before and after the birth of a grandchild. Topics include: childbirth and infant care today, and a safe home environment. To register, call 216-844-4000.

University Hospital Landerbrook Health Center, 5850 Landerbrook Dr., Cleveland.

December 4-6 Christmas Extravaganza, 11a.m.- 4 p.m., Lavish holiday decorations, over 55 Christmas trees, wreaths, ribbons, garlands and more. Lake County History Center, 415 Riverside Dr., Painesville Township, Lakehistory.org.

December 8 Caregiver Support Group, 6-7:30 p.m. This group provides education and emotional support for those who are helping someone with cancer. Stewart’s Caring Place: A Cancer Wellness Center; free for those touched by cancer. 2955 W. Market St., Akron, 330-836-1772, stewartscaringplace.org

Stroke Survivor Support Group, 6-7 p.m.

TriPoint Medical Center, 7590 Auburn Road, Concord Township. To register, call 800-454-9800 or visit lakehealth.org.

October 23 Knowing the 10 Signs, 6:30 p.m., presented by the Alzheimer’s Association.

Refreshments will be served. RSVP by Oct. 19. The Gables of Hudson, 5400 Darrow Road, Hudson, 330-653-9170

October 24 Know Your Numbers Heart Event, 8 a.m.noon. Get heart screenings and learn more about heart rhythm disorders and peripheral vascular disease. TriPoint Medical Center, 7590 Auburn Road, Concord Township. To register, call 800-454-9800.

November 6-16 Women’s Wellness Week Retreat in Captiva Island, Fla. Join experts from Cleveland Clinic’s Center for Integrative Medicine at Women’s Wellness Week. Visit October 2014 Aging Answers

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Siblings with Special Needs Catering to typical and special needs children requires a strategy. By Denise Koeth Families who have a child with special needs have different parenting challenges. Additional doctor visits, therapy and other specialty care add to a family’s already packed schedule. For siblings of those children, it’s a typical day.

However, for parents, juggling the multitudes of activities can lead to stress — and some guilt.

Juggling Act Time — or lack of it — is perhaps a parent’s biggest hurdle.

“A child who has any kind of disability just takes more time, whether it’s the use of equipment, going to therapy or the amount of attention they require because of behavioral problems,” says Kaye Stanley Bryson, Ph.D., director of children’s services for the Medina County Board of Developmental Disabilities. “It’s difficult for parents to meet the needs of all their children, whether they have disabilities or not, (and) adding one that has a greater time need makes it even harder.”

Judy Doyle, parent advisor coordinator for the Parent Mentor program at Akron Children’s Hospital and a mother of three — 20-year-old Madison, 18-year-old Sally and 16year-old Jack, who has cardio facio cutaneous (CFC) syndrome — recalls that early on, it was difficult to do all the activities her daughters wanted to do.

“For example, it’s hard to take a medically fragile kid to a soccer game,” she says. “My husband ended up coaching, so he was able to take the girls to soccer and be there with them. We just figured out ways to let them get out and do their own activities.”

“I am married, but my husband and I both work full-time, so we divide and conquer,” says Leslie Rotsky, education project manager for Milestones Autism Resources and mother of two, 9-year-old Annie and 11-year old Jacob, who was diagnosed

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with autism. “We used to both try to do everything for both kids, from Annie’s soccer games to Jacob’s therapy sessions. We ended up very, very tired.

Because there’s two parents and two kids, we take turns spending equal time with both kids.”

Rotsky adds it’s important to know when to ask for help. “We’ve tried to build a support network by engaging family and others when we need help.

In the beginning, parents may feel guilty or embarrassed asking for help, but the other caretakers are genuinely glad to help.”

Understanding and Support It’s also important to help your typical child understand what makes their sibling unique and educate them regarding their care.

“When Annie was 3 or 4 she asked, ‘Mom, does Jacob have autism?’”

Rotsky says. “I knew then that we had to have a formal conversation with her about Jacob’s needs.”

After explaining that Jacob’s brain doesn’t work like hers and that he needs extra help, Rotsky and her husband began engaging Annie in Jacob’s activities.

“Annie has had opportunities to engage in what’s different about Jacob’s life so she understands it better,” she says. “She’s seen therapists and teachers working with him and can imitate some of what they’re doing to help him.”

Doyle says that because her daughters were so young when Jack was born, they didn’t know any differently. “From an early age, they

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learned this was their normal,” she says.

Because CFC syndrome is so rare, the Doyles have networked with other families that have children also diagnosed with the disorder. This has helped Madison and Sally to see that they aren’t alone and that other children have needs like Jack’s.

“Families often struggle to keep that balance, because while they want a typical child to understand and be involved in their sibling’s care, they also want that typical child to have a typical life,” Bryson notes.

She recommends Sibshops — a curriculum offered by various agencies that is designed to help typical children understand their siblings’ needs — as well as the local library.

For children age 3 and younger, each county offers a Help Me Grow program, which helps parents find available resources, Bryson says, adding that once children are in school, special education directors, school psychologists and teachers are great resources.

Also check with your child’s pediatrician, advises Doyle.

Rotsky also recommends resources such as Milestones, Autism Speaks and the Autism Society of Greater Cleveland.

She adds to never overlook the advice and experiences of other parents. “I learned a lot in the parking lot of Jacob’s schools, when all the parents were waiting to pick up their children. Other parents know the really good therapists and support groups in the area. Get out of your car and talk to the driver next to you.”

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Grab a bag of googly eyes and get ready for some Halloween fun. Crafts, costumes, party games and delicious treats are enjoyable ways to celebrate the season. The links will take you to all the gory details.

1. Turn small canvases into toddler Halloween art. Little ones’ hand and footprints turn into ghosts and spiders. bit.ly/ParentPainting 2. Kids and grown-ups alike will love a spooky, kooky mummy pillow from Pottery Barn. It adds just the right amount of silly style for Halloween. bit.ly/ParentPillow 3. Either surprise the kiddos with Halloween Hot Cocoa idea from Family Fresh Meals, or have them help out creating the marshmallow ghosts by drawing small ghost faces on using a food coloring marker. bit.ly/ParentCocoa 4. Candy Corn Monster Munch – Adding orange and black candy melts, candy corn M&M's, candy corn and edible monster eyes to popcorn makes the perfect snack for watching Halloween movies, courtesy of A Pumpkin & A Princess. bit.ly/ParentMunch 5. With just a toilet paper roll, black and green markers and/or paint, googly eyes, glue, golf tees and scissors, your kids can create their own little Frankenstein. bit.ly/ParentFrank 6. Who says you can’t play with your food? Create edible masks with decorated shaped cookies and attach them to cookie sticks with melted Candy Melts candy. Set up a

photo station at your party, so guests can take pictures with their cookie mask creations before eating them. bit.ly/ParentTreats 7. Make Martha Stewart’s Witch’s Broom Favors with lunchsize paper bags (two per broomstick), scissors, small branch, candy and black twine. See how at bit.ly/ParentBroom.

8. Midnight potions: Spice up the night with candy corn drinks served in containers guests can devour, making cleanup easy and delicious. Or, toast the night with the Witch’s Brew Mocktail. bit.ly/ParentTreats 9. Cut eyes out of two large sheets of black construction paper to make spooky windows . Back each with orange wrapping paper, then affix to windows. bit.ly/ParentWindow 10. Glowing Eyes: Take empty toilet paper rolls and cut eye shapes out of them and put glow sticks inside. Then place outside in bushes at night. bit.ly/ParentGlow 11. White balloons filled in various sizes, a cute shower cap, rubber duckies and a scrubby make for an adorable Bubble Bath Costume. bit.ly/ParentBubbles 12. Create a cute scarecrow with overalls, a plaid shirt and burlap to make patches and a hat. Brown eyeliner can be used to draw up a little brown scarecrow nose. bit.ly/ParentScarecrow 13. Join the Brecksville Branch Library for a Halloween Makeup Workshop Oct. 13, 7-8:30 p.m. with Bloodview’s own Katie Lane, make-up artist for the Legion of Terror. bit.ly/ParentMakeup 14. Movie night: Stay in and watch a family-friendly movie, such as “Monsters Inc.,” “It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown,” “Spooky Buddies,” “Hocus Pocus,” “Toy Story of Terror!” or “Curious George: A Halloween Boo Fest.”

15. Start the day off with pumpkin pancakes. Go out or make them at home with a recipe from A Family Feast. bit.ly/ParentPancakes

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your own with this recipe from The Kitchn.com: bit.ly/ParentLatte.

16. Make s’mores with ghostshaped marshmallow Peeps.

17. Wrap your summer sandbox bucket with gauze and add two large googly eyes to make a low-cost mummy trickor-treat carrier.

18. A black long-sleeved T-shirt, black leggings, a fluffy black tutu, tail and ears make for a quick and easy cat costume for a little one.

19. Make your pumpkins sparkle with a little glitter and glue. bit.ly/ParentGlitter 20. This pumpkin roll recipe from Gimme Some Oven is easier to make than you might think, and filled with a delicious cream cheese frosting: bit.ly/ParentRoll 21. A wreath made with ping-pong balls and googly eyes makes everybody smile. See how to make your own at bit.ly/ParentWreath.

22. For a fun party game, try this Poke a Pumpkin game. Prizes are hidden inside each cup. bit.ly/ParentGame

24. Learn tips and tricks to upgrade your Halloween costume Oct. 15, 7-8 p.m. at Brook Park Branch Library. bit.ly/ParentCostumeTricks

29. By adding black pipe cleaners and small googly eyes to lollipops, Philippa from the House of Baby Piranha blog crafted this cute Spider Pops treat: bit.ly/ParentSpider.

25. Coat a pumpkin with chalkboard paint and let little ones design with orange chalk. Tip: Protect your designs with a clear spray fixative that prevents smudging. Added touches: to turn your pumpkin into a bat, glue on felt wings or ears for a cat. bit.ly/ParentChalk

30. Googly eyes, spray paint, pipe cleaners and a few other items turn baby food jars into Glitter Slime Monsters. This craft from The 36th Avenue lets the kids do most of the work — perfect for a Halloween Party: bit.ly/ParentSlime.

26. Does your little girl love SpiderMan? Turn a boy’s costume into SpiderGirl with a red and blue tutu.

31. With a few rolls of paper towels, a foam pumpkin, tape, googly eye (of course!) the team from It’s Written on the Wall has created a simple but cute game of Boo Bowling. bit.ly/ParentBoo.

27. Amy from Sometimes Creative suggests a witch’s hat ring toss, using colored foam board, black poster board and a little creativity for a fun party game. bit.ly/ParentToss 28. Desarae from Oh So Delicioso adds dry ice to a rootbeer recipe for her kid-friendly witch’s brew. bit.ly/ParentBrew

23. Treat yourself to a pumpkin latte!

Stop by a local coffee shop or make

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and pirates. $5; kids 3 and younger free. Szalay’s Farm, 4563 Riverview Road, Peninsula, szalaysfarm.com

Through November 1 HalloWeekends at Cedar Point – With even more familyfriendly fun during the day and frightfully haunting experiences after the sun goes down, including a new witch-themed haunted house. Cedar Point Amusement Park, 1 Cedar Point Dr., Sandusky, 419-627-2350, cedarpoint.com

Through November 2 Enjoy festive weekends at Derthick’s Corn Maze and Farm Experience. The corn maze trails over 17 acres of farmland and is sure to entertain families of all ages. Farm experience offers a chance to meet American legends Annie Oakley, Paul Bunyan and more. Enjoy pumpkin patches, corn cannons, pony rides, farm animals and other activities.

Derthick’s Corn Maze and Farm Experience, 5182 State Route 82, Mantua, 330-352-0429, Derthickscornmaze.com

October 10-11 Main Street Medina’s Halloween Harvest Festival – A family-friendly spooktacular festival with activities and events around Medina Square featuring trick-or-treating, kids costume contest, doggy costume contest, prizes, games, music and much more. Medina Square, Medina, 330-952-0910, mainstreetmedina.com

Through October 30 Patterson Fruit Farm Fun Fest is designed for families with preschool and elementary-age children. Includes outdoor play area, wooden tractor playground and farmthemed fun for children, corn maze, paint-your-own pumpkin, horse-drawn wagon rides. See website for specific ride hours. Patterson Fruit Farm, 8765 Mulberry Road, Chesterland, 440-729-9809, pattersonfarm.com

Through October 31 Szalay’s Farm Fall Corn Maze, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Corn maze is theme designed from ghosts and goblins to dinosaurs

North Ridgeville Lions Club Spookville 2014, 6-9 p.m.

Two haunted paths from which to choose: family-friendly halloween walk or face-your-fears haunted path. Children 10 and under are welcome to wear costumes. South Central Park Safetyville Area, NorthRidgevilleLions.org

October 10-25 Halloween Hayrides, Fridays and Saturdays, ride times: 6:30, 7, 7:30, 8, 8:30 p.m. A narrated hayride along a trail filled with family-oriented thrills, chills and adventures.

Walk along a haunted trail through Festival Field. Rain, snow or shine. Tickets must be purchased in advance. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, 440-256-2122, lakemetroparks.com

October 12 Akron Zoo’s Boo at the Zoo

October 11-12, 18-19, 25-26, 11:30 a.m.-7:30 p.m. – Dress your little ghosts and goblins in their costumes for everyone’s favorite non-scary Halloween event. Use your candy passport to find 12 treat stations through the zoo.

Enjoy more than 700 animals from around the world and Halloween decorations throughout the entire zoo. Take a spin on the carousel, ride the train and much more.

Akron Zoo, 500 Edgewood Ave., Akron, 330-375-2550, akronzoo.org

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The 43rd annual Pumpkin Festival, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Enjoy a spook-tacular Haunted Hay Maze, BOO-tiful Pumpkin Patch, festival food and refreshments, animals, games, rides, music, entertainment, autumn colors, pumpkins, mums and s’mores. Free for kids under age 12.

Adult tickets cost $5. 75 Hiram House Camp, Hiram Trail, Chagrin Falls, 216-831-5045, hiramhousecamp.org

October 17 Spooky Kooky Halloween Show, 1:30 p.m. Spend your school-free day with a spooktacular family magic show featuring Mr. Zap and friends. All ages are invited to this fun Halloween magic show. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

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BOOtique Trick-or-Treat Halloween starts early at Eton Chagrin Boulevard with an indoor trick-or-treat event on Thursday, Oct. 30, 5-7 p.m.

Kids will also enjoy games and entertainment inside the mall. For more information and store hours, visit EtonChagrinBlvd.com.

Howl-O-Ween Party for Dogs, 5:30-6:45 p.m. Yep, this party’s gone to the dogs ... complete with costume contest, games and more. Free admission. Mentor Dog Park, 6647 Hopkins Road, Mentor

October 17-18 Magical Whooloween, 5:30-10:30 p.m. This is a non-scary Halloween alternative for families with children ages 2-11, featuring storytelling, crafts, games, night hike, nature facts, snack and miniature steam train ride. Preregistration, fee applies. lakemetroparks.com or 440-3587275 or 800-669-9226 Lake Metroparks, Penitentiary Glen Reservation, 8668 Kirtland-Chardon Road, Kirtland

October 17 through November 1 Lorain County Metro Parks’ Halloween Fair, Fridays and Saturdays, 5-10 p.m. The Halloween Fair Trail (Carlisle Reservation’s Short Loop Trail) is designated as “familyfriendly” during the hours of 5-7 p.m. The trail turns “scary” from 7 to 10 p.m. Little Green Choo and Tractor-pulled Wagon rides are free. metroparks.cc/halloween.php. Lake County Metro Parks, Carlisle Visitor Center, 12882 Diagonal Road, LaGrange

October 18 Halloween Town, 10 a.m. PlayhouseSquare’s first Halloween party for families. Come dressed in costume and enjoy Halloween crafts, festive photo-op, apple cider, cookie decorating, raffle prizes and more. Connor Palace (formerly Palace Theatre), 1501 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216-241-6000, playhousesquare.org Halloween All Aboard, 2-4 p.m. and 6:30-8:30 p.m. Bring your family and friends out to Lester Rail Trail for this “spooktacular” event. Members of the NEOLS miniature railroad group will offer free train rides. Free. Medina County Park District, Lester Rail Trail, 3654 Lester Road, Medina, 330-722-9364, medinacountyparks.com

October 18-19, 25-26 I-X Trick or Treat Street – Come in costume and trick-or-treat your way through 12 spooktacular-themed candy stations, all indoors. Rides and attractions. Find your way through the 3D Mystery Family Living At Its Best

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Halloween Guide Manor, a not-so-scary 3D maze. I-X Center, 1 I-X Center Dr., Cleveland, 216-676-6000, ixtrickortreatstreet.com

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Ghost Town, 4 p.m. – Kids 5-12 can make a spooky town and take it home with them. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

Halloween Roller Skating Party, 6:30-8:30 p.m. Everyone is welcome.

Wear your costume and join for games, raffles and prizes. Fun for the whole family. Skater’s admission is $5 and skate rental is available for $2. Mentor Skateland Roller Rink, 5615 Andrews Road, Mentor on the Lake, 440-2573387, mentorskateland.com

October 23 Family Day: Trick or Treat on South High Street, 6-8 pm. Break out your costume early and trek to the museum for a night of art-making fun and surprise and trick-or-treat in the galleries. Cost is $5/participating child. Registration is required. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org

October 24 Boo Bash, 4 p.m. Read some scary stories, riddles and activities. Run in a human toilet paper mummy race, make a spooky treat and hear Halloween music. Costumes are encouraged.

Register in advance. Nordonia Hills Branch Library, 9458 Olde Eight Road, Northfield, 330-467-8595, nordoniahillsbranch.akronlibrary.org Spooky Hike and Fire, 6:30-8 p.m.

Enjoy a short night hike to see what might be lurking in the woods, then relax and enjoy marshmallows while listening to campfire tales. Bring your own stick and marshmallows will be provided. Halloween costumes welcome. Summit County Metro Parks, Nature Realm, Campfire Area, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, summitmetroparks.org

October 25 Spooky Saturday, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Spooky face painting and crafts; decorate pumpkins (BYOP), spooky storytime, spooky costume parade; trick or treat at the library.

Brunswick Branch Library, 3649 Center Road, 330-273-4150, mcdl.info

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Halloween Guide Halloween Spooktacular, 10:3011:30 a.m. Ages birth-age 8. Miss JoAnna will use a variety of songs, stories and movement to celebrate. A Halloween parade, trick-or-treating and craft will conclude this event. Costumes and siblings are welcome. Highland Square Branch Library, 807 W. Market St., Akron, 330-376-2927, highlandsquarebranch.akronlibrary.org Haunted Gingerbread Houses, 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. Families are invited to assemble and decorate a Haunted Gingerbread House together. Families with children in grades 5 and under. Register. Two sessions. Space is limited to 15 families per session. Kent Free Library, 312 W. Main St., Kent, 330-673-4414, kentfreelibrary.org Family Build-a-Scarecrow Day, noon-1 p.m. Build a scarecrow, take a hayride and roast marshmallows at this fun, fall event. Preregistration required, 440-974-5720.

Mentor Lagoons Nature Preserve, 8365 Harbor Drive, Mentor Halloween Spooktacular, 2 p.m. Join Mentor Library for an afternoon of ghost stories and a scavenger hunt with tricks and treats. Kids can make their own spooky lantern.

Mentor-on-the-Lake Branch Library, 5642 Andrews Road, Mentor-on-the-Lake, 440-257-2512, mentorpl.org Boo-tanical Bash, 5:30-8 p.m. Your little ghosts, witches, goblins and superheroes get to play in Hershey Children’s Garden during the evening hours, go trick-or-treating on spooky garden paths and engage in a variety of fun activities. Register in advance, 216-721-1600 x100.

Cleveland Botanical Garden, 11030 East Blvd., Cleveland, cbgarden.org

Pumpkin Patch Train Ride Field Trips Through October 30 – Bring your class or group to the Lodi Station Outlets Pumpkin Patch Train Ride this October. Cost for groups of 10 or more: $3.50; includes one pumpkin and train ride. To register, visit tinyurl.com/lodistationevents. Or go to lodistation.com. Free for children 6 months and younger. Parents ride free when participating in field trip with children. All passengers must have a reservation with a group in advance in order to qualify. Lodi Station Outlets, 9911 Avon Lake Road, Lodi, 330-948-1239, lodistation.com 32649 Electric Blvd., Avon Lake, 440-933-8128, alpl.org

October 29 Pumpkin Decorating, 4 p.m. The library will entertain with spooky stories. Kids in grades K-5 can decorate a small pumpkin to take home. Mentor Headlands Branch Library, 4669 Corduroy Road, Mentor Headlands, 440-257-2000, mentorpl.org Next Top Monster, 4 p.m. Come dressed in monster clothing and you’ll have 15 minutes to uglify yourself before you strut your stuff down the monster runway. Prizes will be given for best costumes. For grades 5 and up.

Registration is required, 440-516-READ. Wickliffe Public Library, 1713 Lincoln Road, Wickliffe, 440-944-6010, wickliffe.lib.oh.us

October 30 October 28 Jan Campbell Author Visit, 7-8 p.m. Join Jan Campbell as she reads her picture book, “The Witch Who Loved Small Children.” Do a Halloween craft. Wear your Halloween costume to join in the library parade. Avon Lake Public Library,

Halloween Magic Show and Treat Walk, 6:30-7:30 p.m.

Come dressed in costume for Magician Dennis Regling’s Wonder Show and the spooky Halloween walk for treats and books. Program ideal for families with young children.

Register in advance. Norton Branch Library, 3930 S. Cleveland-Massillon Road, 330-825-7800, nortonbranch.akronlibrary.org

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October 25, noon-8 p.m.

Celebrate Halloween with a day of fall fun at Crocker Park!

Highlights include a pet costume contest benefiting the Cleveland APL as well as trick-or-treating for kids, rides on the Halloween Express, performance by Monica Robins and the Ninja Cowboys and Cleveland’s favorite food trucks. For more information, visit CrockerPark.com.

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Trick-or-Treat Tracks, 6-7:30 p.m. 400 chocolate trains will be given to the first kids (12 and under) in costume.

Balloon animals with Fingerprint the Clown. Bring your creatively carved pumpkins for the Jack-O-Lantern Contest at 7 p.m. Lodi Station Outlets, 9911 Avon Lake Road, Lodi, 330-948-1239, lodistation.com

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October 31 Bones, Bugs & Dead Animals Adult Halloween Party, 8 p.m.-midnight – Join for a night of terrifying fun. Dance the night away to Abby Normal. Participate in the annual costume contest. Tickets include light snacks and one drink ticket. Ages 21 and over. $35 in advance, $40 at the door.

Cleveland Museum of Natural History, 1 Wade Oval Dr., Cleveland, 216-231-4600, cmnh.org

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When you visit the city of Mentor, it’s likely you will see residents who have clothes or cars embellished with a cardinal. The state bird is also the mascot of Mentor High School. The citizens have a sense of pride when it comes to their town. And while it’s the biggest city in Lake County, it still has a close-knit feel.

Growing up there, the feeling of “it’s better in Mentor” stays with you, whether you move away or not. There are many reasons to visit Mentor — but for parents, its assortment of family-friendly locations, and continued dedication to its development makes it a place to watch.

Here are 10 ways to spend your time in the city, along with why it’s a good place to bring the family.

Spend the Day at a Park Mentor has a wealth of parks for recreation, to teach your kids about nature — like at the Mentor Lagoons Nature Preserve — have a party or bring along the four-legged member of the family. Here are some the parks’ highlights.

Edward R. Walsh Park, formerly known as Bellflower Park, has a water spray park, is a great way for younger children to cool off in the summer. Eleanor B. Garfield Park, located close to Great Lakes Mall, features the “All People’s Playground” and families can visit the pond.

For your teen skaters, there’s a unique concrete half pipe, launch ramp and grind box at Bellflower Skatepark on Reynolds Road for them to enjoy.

For more information about Mentor Recreation and its programs, visit cityofmentor.com.

A U.S. President Lived Here It’s likely that most of us will not meet a U.S. president. While we can learn about them through history books, it’s much more fun to find other ways to connect. Going to a president’s house is one option, especially if you live in Mentor. The 20th

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U.S. President, James A. Garfield, lived in Mentor, and the National Park Service manages his former estate. The home is currently closed through Spring 2015, but the community can still see the exhibits in the Visitor’s Center, located in an 1864 carriage house behind the house, or walk around the grounds. Visit nps.gov/jaga.

Mentor’s CityFest The two-day festival, which is typically held in August, benefits both parents and children. Activities such as bounce houses, inflatables and ziplines and more. This year, kids had fun “surfing” and, in 2013, they were able to experience a controlled mechanical bull.

Parents and kids can see the whole festival by riding the trackless train.

Families can learn about the variety of community activities from dance, hockey, scouts, along with enjoy the annual Mentor CityFest parade and family-friendly performing acts.

Great Lakes Mall Great Lakes Mall, which is located on Mentor Avenue, offers plenty of shopping opportunities for visitors and community members. Dick’s Sporting Goods is a new addition anchored to the mall that also includes stores such as Macy’s, Sears, JCPenney and Dillard’s, along with more than 120 specialty shops as well as a variety of dining options.

The mall is also home to a monthly Simon Kidgits Club, in which kids and parents can spend time doing crafts and activities during the themed events.

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Distance From: Akron — 48 miles, 54 minutes on I-271S to Route 8 Cleveland — 23 miles, 25 minutes on Route 2W Westlake — 38 miles, 42 minutes on Route 2W Solon — 31 miles, 33 minutes on I-271S

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October 17 — Howl-O-Ween Party for Dogs at Mentor Dog Park November 1 — Gingerbread House and Contest Display April 22 — 4th Annual Restaurant Showcase at Mentor Civic Arena July 25 — Headlands BeachFest August 28 & 29 — CityFest

Every year, family-friendly activities such as the Annual KidShow, produced by ProMark Enterprises, are featured at the indoor mall. The event, held in March, has two fun-filled days of live entertainment, activities for kids of all ages, prizes, giveaways and fun for the whole family.

Accessibility to Every Need Finding restaurants, shopping, transportation, medical centers and easy access to a freeway isn’t difficult to do in Mentor.

The city has plenty of dining styles that meet all ages and tastes and most are easily found on the Mentor Avenue strip.

Family-friendly locations are abound in the city and so are the activities. Parents can take their children to dance lessons, karate, art classes, theater and more.

The Mentor Library’s Read House, along with the main library branches, offers a variety of unique children’s programming and more.

Travel is easy in Mentor with Laketran, Lake County’s regional public transportation system, which provides local bus routes and Park-n-Ride for Cleveland commuters.

Mentor Headlands and Scooters Headlands Beach State Park has a mile-long natural sand beach — the largest in the state, according to the Ohio Department of Natural Resources.

Headlands is also home to BeachFest, an annual free, family-friendly outdoor event. The lakefront is filled with colorful flying kites, sand castles, live music, strolling Family Living At Its Best

performers, kayaking, dancing and tents filled with children’s activities, arts & craft vendors and food. Kids can get involved in a number of beach art projects, games, art performances, inflatables, face painting and more.

However, before you head to the beach, don’t forget to stop at Scooter’s Dawg House for a specialty dog or ice cream.

Schools Mentor School District has been making strides to implement several initiatives.

For example, the district, in partnership with Kirtland Schools, was awarded a $13.8 million Straight A Fund grant recently titled High School Blended and Online Pathways to Success through the Ohio Department of Education.

The grant funding will provide a variety of new learning opportunities for students, including access to tablets, along with construction and remodeling projects including an upto-date media center at the high school for both students and the community, and a professional development center.

Sports Town Whether your child wants to play baseball, hockey or football, there’s an opportunity in Mentor to play.

During fall, football season heightens as residents cheer for the Mentor High Fighting Cardinals’ Division 1 team.

If you’re looking for some ice time, the Mentor Civic Ice Arena offers kids and adults opportunities to skate for fun or play competitive sports.

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Whether it’s looking for something to do on a rainy day, an outing with family and friends, or an afterschool activity, Mentor has several places around town.

Keeping Up with Film Atlas Cinemas is the place to share the magic of the big screen. With five area locations, Atlas Cinemas is still a local family owned and operated theater company.

With digital and Real D digital 3D screens, Atlas Cinemas features the most diverse viewing options, with alternative content such as independent and foreign films, and all the best that Hollywood has to offer.

Every Monday Atlas Cinemas celebrates Customer Appreciation Day with bargain pricing of just $5 for all standard shows and $8 for Real D 3D. If your business or group needs a

place to meet or have a fun outing, Atlas Cinemas hosts parties and group events that can be customized for any size. The theater management team turns your event ideas into a reality.

For a big screen experience without the budget-breaking price, visit Atlas Cinemas Lakeshore 7 in Euclid, which offers a XXDLP, 60-foot digital widescreen with custom true digital picture and sound, the largest in the Cleveland area, at no extra charge.

Atlas Cinemas has two locations in Mentor as well as Euclid, Mayfield Heights and Elyria. Visit atlascinemas.net.

Being On-Stage Imagine an education and performance center with all the arts all under one roof. That place is The Fine Arts Association, near the Mentor border and neighboring The AndrewsOsborne Academy.

“If you walk down our halls you may hear a trumpet playing scales, see a young ballerina practicing her moves or hear 30 preschoolers singing the theme from ‘Frozen’ during a theatre class,” CEO Linda Wise says. “You may also see adults taking a ceramics class, actors rehearsing an upcoming play, students on a ‘day of the arts’ fieldtrip and seniors enjoying an afternoon performance event.”

Since 1957, The Fine Arts Association has offered classes and private instruction for all ages and ability levels in every arts discipline.

Wise adds “We are currently adding a new entrance and parking lot to serve our community better and to provide easier access to people of all abilities.

Call 440-951-7500 ext. 104 or visit fineartsassociation.org.

Kicking It with Activities Learning how to defend oneself is a common reason for seeking out martial arts training. While this is a major component of the programs at Family Karate in Mentor, it is not the only one. Development and improvement of the self — physically, mentally and spiritually — through training is just as important.

“The family that kicks together, sticks together,” is the simplest way to sum up Family Karate’s strongest belief: the importance of family. Visit Karate4Family.com.

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like Mentor’s CityFest and a live demonstration at the annual KidShow at Mentor Mall in March. Visit mentorata.com.

Creating Memories in Mentor Portraits with personality is the tag line of Prelude Photography located in Mentor at Great Lakes Mall. A full-service portrait studio, Prelude Photography not only does portraits of families, children and pets, but also weddings, schools and other offsite events.

They are locally owned and operated by a small, dedicated and creative staff.

“We are immersed in the community,” says Mathew Huested, owner. “Whether we are photographing a local school, attending a Chamber of Commerce event, participating in various wedding shows or just doing some of the networking that always seems to drive our business, it is the community that drives and sustains us.”

Prelude’s Christmas specials start Nov. 1.

But check out their Facebook page for random specials, offers and contests as well as a little behind the scenes of how a small business operates. preludephoto.net or 440-266-1677.

Article courtesy of the Mentor Area Chamber of Commerce.

Visit mentorchamber.org or call 440-255-1616.

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Soon-to-be parents make time for a date night days before their little one’s arrival.

By Jason Lea

“Are you taking photos of me?” my wife Jennifer asks, gingerly lowering herself into her chair at Yours Truly.

“We need photos to go along with the article,” I say.

“But not of me.”

“You look beautiful,” I say, meaning it.

“I’m enormous,” she answers, also meaning it.

My wife is 39 weeks pregnant, so she isn’t just being camera shy. She sits and her face twists into a grimace.

“He’s kicking?” I guess.

“More like a barrel roll.”

“Are you OK?” My wife nods. She’s reached that point in the pregnancy where nothing is easy. At best, she’s uncomfortable; more often, she’s in pain. However, she bears it the best she can, because what other option does she have? Besides, she’s not wasting a night out.

The next time we do this, we’ll need a sitter; and we’ll probably spend the entire evening worrying anyhow.

So, yeah, this is pretty much our last worry-free night out — ever.

We are at Yours Truly in Mentor for the evening. First, the waitress asks us what we want to drink. My wife gets pop and doesn’t make me feel bad when I get a mimosa. For our entrees, she gets the chicken ranch sandwich and I ask for the eggs bruschetta, because no matter what time I go to Yours Truly — morning, noon or night — I always order breakfast.

When I used to work full time as a reporter, I’d stake out Yours Truly and wait for whatever city official I needed to interview to walk through the door (as they inevitably did).

And, while waiting, I’d order breakfast.

Grabbing a quick meal before a city council meeting?

Breakfast.

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Going to the annual Mentor Schools Foundation pancake breakfast that Yours Truly hosts every Thanksgiving? Breakfast.

Obviously.

It’s not that the lunch and dinner offerings at Yours Truly aren’t tasty, but, when you love something, you don’t waste time.

Which brings me back to my wife.

“Would you like to do something after dinner?” I offer.

My wife chortles because doing something is so second trimester. Our date nights used to consist of going to ballroom dance lessons, swimming at Headlands Beach and I’m not too proud to admit that we’ve coopted a few ski-ball lanes at Chuck E. Cheese in our time. (When our son is old enough, we’ll pretend going to Chuck E. Cheese was his idea.)

Nowadays, date nights are sitting when you’re too tired to walk and lying on your side when you’re too tired to sit.

My wife is a good sport — she would have to be to marry me — so she asks me what I have in mind.

After batting back and forth a couple of ideas — I suggest skydiving; she suggests braining me with a crowbar — we agree to do a little shopping at Great Lakes Mall.

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After dessert, we also visit Barnes & Noble.

Bookstores are my catnip, kryptonite and my cosmic center; libraries too — anywhere I can spend hours combing through the stacks looking for my new favorite book. (Full disclosure: My day job is at Mentor Public Library. Granted, I used to spend most of my days there even when I wasn’t paid to do so.)

My wife disappears into the movie section and later finds me searching the fiction shelves. She smiles and is too considerate to complain, but I know she’s very tired and pregnant. It’s time go home.

When we get home, we agree to watch a movie. I vote for “Army of Darkness.” She suggests “The Lego Movie.” She wins for the obvious reasons.

We fall asleep on the couch as soon as “Everything Is Awesome” starts playing. Because, at a certain point in your life, date night means falling asleep halfway through the movie.

While that may sound less exciting than ballroom dancing or skydiving, anyone who’s been there knows how beautiful it is.

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October CALENDAR OF EVENTS more. Columbia Woods Park, 4060 Columbia Woods Dr., Norton, nortonciderfestival.com

Brunswick, 330-273-4150, mcdl.info

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Fun on the Farm October 3, 10:30 a.m.-noon Jumping in Leaves – Enjoy a craft, a story, rhyme or song, snack and a visit to a museum site. Recommended for ages 2-6. Reservations required. Book: “There Was An Old Lady Who Swallowed Some Leaves!” by Lucille Colandro. Hale Farm & Village, 2686 Oak Hill Road, Bath, 330-666-3711, wrhs.org October 1 American Girl Book Club, Meet Molly, 4 p.m. Girls 8-12 meet for a craft and snack for each of the historical American Girl dolls. Be sure to read “Meet Molly” before this program. Registration is necessary.

Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-2558811, mentorpl.org The Wiggles, 6:30 p.m. Akron Civic Theatre, 182 S. Main St., Akron, 330-253-2488, akroncivic.com

October 2 The Big Draw – Participate in a collective drawing activity in the museum’s lobby. All day. Free.

Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org

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Creative Playdate: Ghost Trains, Planes and Automobiles, 11:15 a.m.-12:30 p.m. For little ones 0-5 and an adult. Registration required.

Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org

October 2-5 48th Annual Ohio Mart – An artisan crafts showcase. ThursdaySaturday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Sunday, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, 330-836-5533, stanhywet.org

October 3-5 26th Annual Norton Cider Festival – Enjoy the parade and hometown heroes, musical entertainment, apple decorating contest, magical train and inflatables, crafters, outdoor movie and fireworks and

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Annual Avon Early Childhood PTA Fall Kid’s Kloset resale event.

Over 70 families bring their baby and kids’ items to sell at bargain prices.The Early Bird sale ($5) is 79 a.m. General sale ($2) hours are 9 a.m.-noon. Visit avonecpta.org.

Avon High School, 37545 Detroit Road, Avon Astronomy Day, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Participate in hands-on activities, watch demonstrations, catch shows in the Shafran Planetarium and tour the Ralph Mueller Observatory. Free with general admission. Cleveland Museum of Natural History, 1 Wade Oval Drive, Cleveland, 216-231-4600, cmnh.org Teen Book Club, 2:30 p.m. This month’s book is “Nation” by Terry Pratchett. Call to register. Mentoron-the-Lake Branch Library, 5642 Andrews Road, Mentor-on-theLake, 440-257-2512, mentorpl.org

October 4-5 Stuffed Animal Sleepover – Drop off your favorite stuffed animal at the library. The animals will read stories and do crafts. Registration required. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., Avon Lake, 440-933-8128, alpl.org

October 6-11 Brunswick Art Works ’14, 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Join for the 6th annual art exhibit. Brunswick Branch Library, 3649 Center Road,

Comics Club, 7 p.m. Children 8-12 are invited to join to read, discuss and make their own comics.

Registration is required. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

October 8 Wordplay Creative Writing Club, 4:30 p.m. Kids in grades 3-6 are welcome to bring their imaginations to the library’s new writing club. Registration is required. Call 440-255-8811, ext. 221 for more information or to register. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, mentorpl.org

October 9 Animal Crackers, 10-11:15 a.m.

Kids ages 3-5 with adult can join Miss Jenny to celebrate our five senses with a hike, activities and a craft. Register beginning Oct.1.

Free. Also Oct. 15. Cleveland Metroparks, Brecksville Reservation Nature Center, 9000 Chippewa Creek Dr., Brecksville, 440-526-1012, clevelandmetroparks.com

October 9-24 Murder In The Mansion, Thursdays and Fridays, 6:45-9:15 p.m. Another murder has taken place in the Manor House. Join the suspects to help figure out this whodunit. For ages 17 and above.

Members: $35, non-members: $44. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, 330-836-5533, stanhywet.org

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October 10 Family Friday Night: Eyes at Night, 7-8:30 p.m. Bring the whole family to discover what goes bump in the night forest. Free. Cleveland Metroparks, Squire’s Castle at the North Chagrin Reservation, Willoughby Hills, 440-473-3370

October 10-11

combo costume contest at 2:30.

Children wearing a costume will get a treat at each of the 14 game areas. All are welcome. Dogs must be leashed. Admission is free.

Event held rain or shine. All proceeds benefit Save Ohio Strays.

Sharon Center Veterinary Hospital, 2131 Sharon Copley Road, Medina, 330-239-111, sharoncentervethospital.com

Fall Fest, 5-9 p.m. Celebrate autumn with a horse-drawn wagon ride to stations exploring cool facts about nature in the fall, as well as hands-on activities for all ages.

Rides are first-come, first-served from 5 to 8 p.m. Free. Geauga Park District, Frohring Meadows, 16780 Savage Road, Chagrin Falls, 440286-9516 geaugaparkdistrict.org

Fall Family Outing, 6-9 p.m. Free hayrides, bonfires, naturalist activities, live music and more. A wheelchair-accessible hay wagon is available. Summit County Metro Parks, Silver Creek, 5000 Hametown Road, Norton, summitmetroparks.org

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October 13

“Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing,” based on the book by Judy Blume. Most enjoyed by families ages 5 and up. Visit site for show times. Magical Theatre, 565 W. Tuscarawas Ave., Barberton, 330-848-3708, magicaltheatre.org

3rd-4th Grade Book Club, 4 p.m.

“Loser” by Jerry Spinelli is featured. Nordonia Hills Branch Library, 9458 Olde Eight Road, Northfield, 330-467-8595, nordoniahillsbranch.akronlibrary.org

October 11 Where You Live: Mentor Marsh Prepares for Winter, 2 p.m. Becky Donaldson will have hands-on items for kids to touch and explore, as well as sounds of the marsh wildlife. Registration is required.

Mentor Headlands Branch Library, 4669 Corduroy Road, Mentor Headlands, 440-257-2000, mentorpl.org Star Wars Reads Day, 2-3:30 p.m.

Calling all Jedi knights: join for crafts, activities and trivia.

Costumes encouraged. For kids in grade 6 or lower. Medina Library, 3649 Center Road, Brunswick, 330-273-4150, mcdl.info Akron Takes Steps for Crohn’s & Colitis – The largest local fundraiser of the Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation of America. Visit ccfa.org. Lock 3, Main Street, Downtown Akron, 330-375-2877, lock3live.com 6th annual Howl-O-Ween Carnival, 2-4 p.m. There will be games for dogs, kids and adults, pooch pictures, 50/50 and Chinese raffles. Most creative dog costume contest and best owner/dog

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Monday University: “It Came from Ohio” with James Renner, 6 p.m.

Investigative reporter James Renner will discuss his book “It Came from Ohio: True Tales of the Weird, Wild, and Unexplained.”

Registration is required. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org Taste of Autumn Benefit, 6-9 p.m. at the Beachland Ballroom. Hosted

by Fred Griffith of “Good Morning Cleveland,” features live music by Albert Dennis & friends and a local harvest buffet from area farmers prepared by the region’s finest chefs. Proceeds support operation of the Coit Market during winter months. Visit coitmarket.org.

Beachland Ballroom, 15711 Waterloo Road, Cleveland Teen Writers Guild: “Wonder” Fanfiction, 6:30-8 p.m. What would Augie’s first day of 6th grade be like? Use your imagination to write the first chapter of Augie’s life after the book “Wonder” by R.J. Palacio ends. For grades 6-12.

Medina Library, 3649 Center Road, Brunswick, 330-273-4150, mcdl.info

Pumpkin Festival October 12 43rd Annual Pumpkin Festival at Hiram House Camp, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Enjoy the SPOOK-tacular Haunted Hay Maze, BOO-tiful Pumpkin Patch, delicious festival food and refreshments, animals, games, rides, music, entertainment, autumn colors, pumpkins, mums and s’mores. Rain or shine, great outdoor and indoor attractions. For more information, map and directions, visit hiramhousecamp.org/support-us/pumpkin-festival.

Hiram House Camp, 33775 Hiram Trail, Chagrin Falls, 216-831-5045

October 14 “A Is for Akron,” 6-7:30 p.m. Join Karen Starr and Joanna Wilson as they discuss their book, “A Is for Akron an A To Z List of Akron’s Places and Things That Make Us Smile.” Register in advance. Odom Branch Library, 600 Vernon Odom Blvd., Akron, 330-434-8726, odomboulevardbranch. akronlibrary.org

October 16 Story Time in the Galleries: Transportation, 11:15 a.m.-12:30 p.m. The Adventures of Taxi Dog; Lisa’s Airplane Trip; Chugga

Chugga Choo-Choo; How Artists See: Trains and other stories about transportation. Art activity follows.

Free. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org Mystery Night at the Library, 78:30 p.m. A crime has been committed in the library and you can solve the mystery. For students in grades 5-8. Solon Branch Library, 34125 Portz Parkway, Solon, 440248-8777, cuyahogalibrary.org/ Branches/Solon.aspx

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Stella Queen of the Snow, Nov. 1, 11 a.m and 2 p.m. and Nov. 2, 2 p.m.

A story of two children spending the day playing in the snow. The production features whimsical puppets, striking scenic effects and evocative original music that have earned international recognition for Mermaid Theatre of Nova Scotia. Adapted from the Stella and Sam books by Louise-Marie Gay. Running time: 60 minutes.

Children’s Theater Series Season Tickets are available now by calling Moira Beale at 216-640-8608. Ohio Theatre, 1501 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216-241-6000, playhousesquare.org

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October CALENDAR OF EVENTS October 17 All the Arts Camp, 9 a.m.-3 p.m.

Kids in grades K-5 will enjoy hands-on arts explorations in dance, music, visual arts and theatre. Cost: $45/camper. Call or log on to register. The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org We First: Bullying Prevention Performance, 1-2 p.m. Beacon Street Performing Arts uses songs, games and puppets to address bullying behavior. Presented by the Center for Arts-Inspired Learning.

For grades K-5. Brunswick Branch Library, 3649 Center Road, Brunswick, 330-273-4150, mcdl.info

October 18 NatureConnect Pumpkin Fall Fun,

noon-1 p.m. Celebrate fall with a pumpkin party. There will be pumpkins for painting and decorating, pumpkin snacks, and pumpkin games and contests.

Maple Valley Branch Library, 1187 Copley Road, Akron, 330-864-5721, maplevalleybranch.akronlibrary.org Play-Along Wizard of Oz, 2-3 p.m.

Blow bubbles with Glinda, click your heels with Dorothy and hiss at the Wicked Witch. For all ages, children must be accompanied by a caregiver. Firestone Park Branch Library, 1486 Aster Ave., Akron, 330-724-2126, firestonepark branch.akronlibrary.org I Spy, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Earn hiking spree credit while playing the familiar I Spy game. Pick up your scavenger hunt list at the Nature

“Blithe Spirit” October 22 “Blithe Spirit,” 1 p.m.

In this classic Noël Coward comedy, eccentric medium Madame Arcati inadvertently conjures up havoc-wreaking spirits for novelist Charles Condomine and his new wife. For tickets to call 440-951-7500 or reserve online at fineartsassociation.org. Reservations are not required, but recommended. All programs include a cookie and punch reception following the performance. Corning Auditorium of The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby Realm between 10 a.m. and 3 p.m., then hit the trail searching for some unusual objects. Return your list to the front desk for a prize.

Summit County Metro Parks, Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, summitmetroparks.org

October 19 GPS/Geocaching Basics, 1-3:30 p.m. Discover geocaches hidden throughout the park. Dress for the weather in layers. GPS units will be provided. For ages 10 and over with participating adult. Register at 216-341-1704. Garfield Park Nature Center 11350 Broadway Ave., Garfield Heights, clevelandmetroparks.com

October 20 Studio MPL Art Club, 4 p.m.

Calling all creative kids in grades 1-5. Come make, move and learn.

Each month, kids will celebrate a different form of artistic expression, from watercolor to textiles to sculpture. Registration is necessary. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., Mentor, 440-2558811, mentorpl.org So You Think You Can Dance, 7:30 p.m. The show’s 11th-season Top 10 finalists are performing the season’s most popular routines as well as original pieces created for the tour. Connor Palace (formerly

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Palace Theatre), 1501 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216-241-6000, playhousesquare.org

October 23 Art Babes: Light and Shadow Play, 11:15-11:45 a.m. Explore the elements of art fit for wee hands.

For children 0-18 months old and their grown-ups. Registration required. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org Ladies Night Out, 5:30-8:30 p.m., presented by Cleveland Clinic and Speaking of Women’s Health at Executive Caterers at Landerhaven in Mayfield Heights. Includes health screenings, wellness information, sit-down dinner and Q&A with a panel of Cleveland Clinic experts.

Cost is $15; reservations required, clevelandclinic.org/swhmayfield or by phone at 440-312-4804.

Northern Cheyenne Campfire, 6:30-8:30 p.m. As part of The Lippman School’s cultural exchange program with the Northern Cheyenne Nation, the community is invited to a free campfire at Firestone Metro Park.

Northern Cheyenne tribe members will sing, dance and drum ceremonial and celebratory music.

Firestone Metro Park, Tuscarawas Meadows Area, 2620 Harrington

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Road, Akron, 330-836-0419, summitmetroparks.org

October 24 Ballerina Stories, 11-11:30 a.m.

Join a professional ballerina from Lakeshore DreamDance School for a fall dance story as well as a chance to learn a few classical ballet moves. Registration required, beginning Oct. 20. Ages 3-5. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., Avon Lake, 440-933-8128, alpl.org Mask-Making Workshop, 5:307:45 p.m. Kids ages 6-10 will love this fun workshop and pizza dinner. Cost: $27. Call or log on to register. The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org Friends of Medina County District Library Gala Fundraiser, 7 p.m.

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Masks, magicians, live music, food and more will greet guests in the Medina Library. Tickets are $40, on sale at friendsofmcdl.info. Email mcdlfriends@gmail.com or call 330-635-7991. Medina Library, 210 S. Broadway St., Medina, 330-725-0588, mcdl.info

October 24-25 GroundWorks Dance Theater Cleveland State University Department of Theatre and Dance, 7:30 p.m. Allen Theatre, 1501 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216241-6000, playhousesquare.org

October 25 Make A Difference Day 5K Run/Walk, benefiting Shore Middle School PTSA and St. Bede’s Food Pantry. Registration at 7:30 a.m., race at 9 a.m. Participants are encouraged to bring food donations. Register online at greaterclevelandxc.com/Make_a_

Difference_Day.html. Shore Middle School, 5670 Hopkins Road, Mentor National Chemistry Week: The Sweet Side of Chemistry – Candy, 3-4 p.m. Young people in grades 3-6 can join for fun, hands-on activities that let you get close to the action. Be prepared to get in and get messy. Brook Park Branch Library, 6155 Engle Road, Brook Park, 216-267-5250 and North Olmsted Branch Library, 27403 Lorain Road, North Olmsted, 440777-6211, cuyahogalibrary.org Ballet in Cleveland Presents: The Ashley Bouder Project, 8 p.m.

Ohio Theatre, 1501 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216-241-6000, playhousesquare.org

October 26 Lake County YMCA Fall Festival, noon-3 p.m. Various activities planned for kids and families,

including hayrides, crafts, face painting and a Trick or Treat Trail.

Lake County YMCA, 4540 River Road, Perry, 440-259-2724, lakecountyymca.org

October 31 “The Monkey’s Paw,” 7:30 p.m.

Based on the short story “All Summer in a Day” by Ray Bradbury. Most enjoyed by ages 10 and up. Magical Theatre, 565 W. Tuscarawas Ave., Barberton, 330-848-3708, magicaltheatre.org Nature In Disguise, 6:30-8 p.m.

Hike and meet nocturnal animals along a lighted trail. Stay for a fire and marshmallows. Registration is required and begins Oct. 21, call 330-865-8065. Summit County Metro Parks, Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, summitmetroparks.org

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By Marie Elium

Are You a Party Planning

Embrace your inner party animal. A kid’s birthday or other celebration is a great way to have fun while showing off (just a little) your entertainment savvy.

Fortunately, even the most party-challenged among us can find plenty of help. Websites have opened up an impressive array of party ideas ranging from themes to food to decorations to entertainment.

Scavenger hunts, favorite children’s books, movies (Disney’s movie “Frozen” is currently a popular kid’s party theme), spa days — parents have come up with creative themes that help keep the little ones active and engaged while providing plenty of fun for adults who want to hang around and help.

Get the Party Theme Started “Consider the kids’ interests and find a theme through a party planner or on your own,” says Laura Broyles, coowner of Tiaras & Treasures in Green.

She and Brooke Trizzino have been in the party business for nine years.

Melissa Sink of Kent plans teas for adults and children.

“I think a smaller party is a nicer party; six kids is plenty. If you get too many, it’s too much for the child,” Sink says.

One of her favorite parties is a children’s tea where kids are encouraged to dress up, wear hats and enjoy the ritual of a tea — with a definite kid-focus.

At a recent party for 5 year olds, Sink provided material cut in the shape of simple pink poodles. The kids sewed the pieces together by hand, stuffed them and went home with their own soft dog.

Sink prefers Davidson’s tea, which carries a non-caffeinated, not-toostrong “children’s tea.” Pizza slices and iced cookies completed the menu.

A tea party gives little ones a chance to

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practice manners while having fun.

After all, nothing is too formal when kids are on the guest list.

And watch the time, Sink advises.

Two hours is plenty. This is the type of party that is great for both adults and children to enjoy.

Whitney Neidus owns Party Couture in Gates Mills and said party opportunities are plentiful. She’s hosted events for kids when a group of parents plan date night and when an adults-only wedding reception calls for kids-only entertainment.

Neidus has rented a hotel suite or conference room and planned parties for a range of ages. One time she put together an event on a Lake Erie tour boat with adult reception on one level and the kids on another.

Her sister, Kathryn Neidus, owns Rustic Radish catering and handles the food. Local entertainers and businesses are called in for other duties.

Neidus and Broyles both said that spa-style parties, pirate themes and princesses are hot trends. Summertime is for outdoor carnivals. Autumn calls for fall festivals with hayrides. Winter can bring anything from cheerleading to outer space themes.

Gingerbread house decorating is always a popular winter choice.

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The theme, location and activities dictate the number of children to invite. A spa party, in which kids get manicures and pedicures, hair updos and other “beauty” treatments usually accommodates up to 15. A neighborhood-wide carnival with an ice cream truck and games is a perfect event for 40 kids or more.

Party planners are happy to suggest themes, but many moms and dads have their own ideas. “Parents now send me Pinterest pictures. I have a bakery that can copy any cake,” Neidus said.

Time or Budget Crunch When it comes to parties, adults can have as much or as little involvement as they wish. A spa party can be for moms and daughters. A fall theme brings together all ages with a visit to a corn maze, chili for the adults and a burger bar for the kids.

Do-it-yourselfers can find hundreds of themes, decorations, clever food and craft ideas on Pinterest or dozens of other websites such as birthdayinabox.com.

kabobs along with cheese and meat kabobs make any event seem festive and appeal to adults as well as children.

She adds pizza is by far the number one choice for parties, but food platters from Chick-fil-A and Panera Bread also are popular.

Home parties usually edge out other locations such as parks, bowling alleys or a special destination like a zoo simply because of convenience and because kids feel comfortable in their own space. Parents like outdoor parties because they don’t have to clean.

Broyles says she doesn’t worry about entertaining adults because if they choose to stay they usually enjoy watching the little ones have fun.

Is a party planner in your future?

“Hiring a pro isn’t as expensive as parents might think,” Broyles says.

The cost of buying craft supplies, decorations, party favors and invitations — plus time — adds up quickly depending on how elaborate the party becomes.

Professional planners generally have connections to secure entertainment and party paraphernalia.

“After parents try it themselves they find we’re more affordable,” Browles says. “We’re here for the parents who’d rather hire someone to take care of the party so they can sit back and enjoy it.”

Visit NortheastOhioParent.com to find your party-planning time table.

“Consider the kids’ interests and find a theme through a party planner or on your own,” says Laura Broyle.s If you’re crunched for time or can’t find inspiration on go-to websites such as Pinterest, then place all or some of the party in the hands of a professional.

Even then, a party planner can do as much or as little as needed. Most are eager to work within a budget. Their goal is to keep the event exciting while allowing parents to sit back and enjoy.

Those on a strict budget can use a party planner to take care of decorations and crafts. Parents can then order sheet pizzas, get bottled water and paper products from a dollar store, make a cake and email invitations.

Broyles said one parent using a mermaid theme for her daughter and made “sushi rolls” using homemade Rice Krispies treats and fruit rollups. Fruit Family Living At Its Best

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Party Planning Your guide for planning the perfect party.

All City Candy The place to go for special or hard-tofind candy. A 5,000-square-foot candy supermarket featuring bulk candy, nostalgic candy, candy by color, fine chocolates and fudge, gift baskets, corporate gifts, trays, candy buffets and more. We do birthday parties too. 746 Richmond Road, Richmond Heights, 216-487-7070, Allcitycandy.com Cafe O’ Play Located in Stow, Cafe O’Play is a diversified destination indoor play cafe combining recreation, entertainment and physically active play in a 9,000square-foot facility featuring a comfortable, relaxing coffeehouse/cafe, large indoor playground and three party rooms. Visit cafeoplay.com.

Elaborate Eyes Northeast Ohio’s premier face painter, specializing in family and corporate party entertainment. Painting on smiles, one party at a time. Amanda@ ElaborateEyes.com or find us on Facebook. Contact 216-990-5929, ElaborateEyes.com Imagine Hat Your custom party hats and accessories company. Ideal for all ages and celebrations, each festive creation is made with premium fabrics and material. Unique in design and use, the hats double as puppets, encouraging children to unleash their imagination and creative potential long after the party. ImagineHat.com

Ivan’s Catering Ivan’s Catering brings more than 30 years of experience to the table with full-service catering and meal preparation. Available for corporate events, family celebrations and more, Ivan’s will accommodate any need or budget. Order for Christmas and holiday parties now. 2927 W. Market St., Fairlawn, 330-836-3553, ivansdiner.com Mad Science It transforms laboratory science into fun, interactive learning experiences for kids in grades K-6. The programs are divided into six areas of business: After-School Programs, In-Class Workshops, Birthday Parties, Summer and Vacation Camps, Special Events and Preschool Programs.

330-498-0033, madscience.org Magical Theatre Company Northeast Ohio’s only professional resident and touring theatre for young audiences. Dedicated to bringing the finest quality theatre to the young and young at heart, we’ve brought “theatre magic” to thousands of families for 40 years. Upcoming performances are: “Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing” and “The Monkey’s Paw” – one night only. magicaltheatre.org, 330-848-3708 Michael Roy’s Cirque du Papier Cirque du Papier: With only a paper square and the finesse of a close-up magician, Michael Roy, Folder Fantastique, dazzles event guests with colorful creations of exquisite artistry, elegantly executed right before their eyes. Guests go home with a bona fide

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keepsake, an artful remembrance of your special occasion.

MichaelRoyFolds.com Party Couture A full-service children’s event planning company that specializes in hosting birthday parties, playgroups, corporate events, school events, fundraising events, get-togethers and more to celebrate any occasion. Designed for children of all ages, we offer anything and everything you could possibly need for your event. 805 Village Trail, Gates Mills, 440-785-0249, partycouture.com Romp n Stomp Inflatables in Medina Specializes in private, stress-free parties, kids camps, parents night out and inflatable rentals. 866-655JUMP(5867), 900 Medina Road, rompnstompcenter.net Teddy & Me Parties They specialize in parties for all ages.

The goal is to create a “beary” special event and offers many choices of themes. The entire entertainment part of the party is run by the staff including cooperative theme related games.

216-990-2538, teddynmeparties.com Thirty-One Like it...place an order. Love it...host a party. Have to have it...join my team.

Seventeen new products and 10 new patterns for the fall. Four of the Retro Metro Collection pieces are on sale in October! Contact me, Kellie Wertz, today to book your party (home or Facebook/catalog). 330-265-9354, 31repkw@gmail.com

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Why Etiquette Still Matters Tips on how to teach your kids to be more polite.

By Kristen Gough

Helping kids understand etiquette and how to be polite in social situations goes way beyond knowing what fork to use at a nice restaurant.

“Etiquette is about feeling comfortable and knowing what’s expected,” explains Colleen Harding, founder of the Cleveland School of Etiquette and Corporate Protocol. “When kids know how to act and how to carry themselves they have this confidence about them — they feel prepared and they’re not as scared in new situations.”

Manners, Harding believes, are less about a set of rules and more about developing an attitude of respect toward others.

Making a Good First Impression Kids are often shy about introducing themselves, especially to adults.

Practice with your child how to meet and greet a new person.

First, let them know that when they meet an adult they should say something along the lines of, “Hello, Mrs. Smith or Mr. Jones, my name is Suzie, thanks for having me over for dinner tonight.” Young children might have fun acting out these types of introductions.

For tweens and teens, remind them to look at the person when they’re greeting them, too.

A good, solid handshake never goes out of style. But how — and when — do you teach children how to properly shake hands when greeting someone?

Harding says the earlier you start teaching children how to shake hands the better.

“When starting out, the posture, grip and eye contact are the most important,” she says. “You always stand up straight, look a person in the eyes and give a firm grip. You introduce yourself and include, ‘It's nice to meet you,’ after the other person introduces themselves.’”

Learning Table Manners One of the top reasons parents call Cathi R. Fallon, from the Etiquette Institute based in Columbus, is because they’re concerned about their kids’ etiquette at dinner.

She reviews with the kids in her classes that they should place napkins on their laps and keep elbows — and other body parts — off the table. When it comes to eating, kids need to know to keep their mouths closed while they’re chewing and not talk until they’ve swallowed their food.

Fallon also advises kids,“Don’t say, ‘Oh yuck.’ If you don’t like something, you can say ‘No, thank you.’”

To hone your kids’ skills you might break out the nice plates at home and plan a formal dinner where they can be on their best behavior during the meal.

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Being a Good Guest — and Host or Hostess When your child has someone over, his or her goal should be to make the guest feel comfortable. That can be as simple as having your child ask what the other person wants to do. Even younger children can be taught to ask questions like these during play dates, Harding says. “Keep planting the seed that your child should be thinking about the other person and it will become a habit.”

On the flipside, when your child is a guest in someone else’s home they should be willing to share — whether it’s taking turns with toys or picking a TV show to watch.

Considering Tech Etiquette As kids become more tech savvy there’s a need to remind them how manners come into play.

“We’re seeing a big problem with children who are so engrossed in their iPads or cell phones that they’re losing good speaking skills,” Fallon says.

She says it’s importance to have faceto-face conversations and that when talking to someone, avoid answering texts or calls.

Good manners are not only appreciated by adults, but are also a great way to help children feel more comfortable and confident in social situations.

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