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A Mother’s Greatest Gift: Donating a Kidney to Save Her Son
BY CHERYL CONWAY STAFF WRITER AREA - Two years ago, Daisy Vasquez, 61, of Elizabeth, did one of the noblest things a mother can do and that was to donate an organ to save her child. In March 2023, the mother of three, donated one of her kidneys to her 40-year-old son Carlos Vasquez. The surgery was conducted at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center in Livingston. Without her generous donation, her son would have been put on a list with thousands of other New Jersey residents waiting about five years for a lifesaving organ transplant. With mother and son both doing well after their success-
ful transplant, Mother’s Day is truly a huge celebration in the Vasquez family. Mother’s Day is that time of year “to reflect on the love and care mothers provide and to express gratitude for their unwavering support; to acknowledge the incredible sacrifices and efforts mothers make in raising children. It’s a day to express love, gratitude and appreciation for all mothers.” Daisey Vasquez surely deserves a huge bouquet this Mother’s Day for the unconditional gift she gave to her son so he could thrive and live a healthy life. “It is the greatest gift you can give anyone,” says Vasquez. “I
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was able to give birth to my son twice. I kept my son from the five to seven years wait. I’d encourage anyone to get on the donor list.” Vasquez shares her story. “In 2017, Carlos began experiencing persistent headaches, allergy-like symptoms, leg swelling, and a spike in blood pressure,” explains Vasquez who works as an insurance broker. “This led to him being diagnosed with vasculitis, which attacked his kidneys, leading to kidney failure.” Rather than putting him at risk by having him wait years for a transplant, Vasquez jumped to the front of the line. “He never went on the list,” she says. “I decided to get tested and once we found out we were a match, Carlos did not list.” Surgery can be scary, but Vasquez set any fears aside as she knew it could save her son’s life. “I felt very safe,” she says. “They do a tremendous amount of testing, and I felt very safe every step of the process. Especially since I was doing it for
my son, I was more encouraged to do it.” Maintaining her own health played a vital role. “The fact that I am in excellent health,” made her an excellent match as a donor,” she says. “I had all my annual checkups up to date and everything was able to move quickly. I started the process in August and in November we found out we matched. I was eager to donate for my son. I never had any fear and felt very secure and safe with the hospital.” Dr. Stuart Geffner, chairman and surgeon-in-chief of the Department of Surgery and the director of Renal and Pancreas Transplant Surgery at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center, performed the transplant. An expert in the procedure, Geffner has worked with the Division of Renal and Pancreas Transplant since 1995. The Renal and Pancreas Division at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center is the sixth-largest kidney transplant program in the United States and the largest in the tri-state area, he says. “CBMC is one of the
country’s top centers for living donations,” says Geffner. “Family members can become living donors by undergoing compatibility testing and evaluations through programs like The Living Donor Institute at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center.” In 2024, the center performed 391 transplants, he adds. But with the number of individuals needing transplants, the waitlist for donors continues. According to the NJ Sharing Network, nearly 4,000 N.J. residents are waiting for a lifesaving organ transplant, says Geffner. Nationally, approximately
87% of people awaiting transplant are waiting for a kidney transplant, he adds. “There are far more people in need than available donor organs,” says Geffner. “The average wait time in N.J. is about five years.” Many people do not have that many years to wait before their lives are cut short. “According to the United Network for Organ Sharing, an average of 17 people die each day in the U.S. waiting for an organ transplant,” says Geffner. More donors are always needed to help save a life. PLEASE SEE MOTHER’S GREATEST GIFT, PAGE 2
Hanover Park High School Senior Garners Success in the Arts
BY STEVE SEARS STAFF WRITER Photo by Dave L. Kramer
FLORHAM PARK - The sixth Taste of Florham Park and fourth consecutive held at the Vanderbilt-Twombly Mansion on the Florham Campus of Fairleigh Dickinson is coming Monday, May 19! This is the annual festive food extravaganza that benefits the Florham Park Rotary Scholarship Fund and thus Florham Park resident students who have demonstrated community volunteerism and who are Seniors in any local high school. The event is a fun town-wide fundraiser that rewards scholarships to community-minded students growing up in Florham Park, a town that prides itself as “A Community of Volunteers”. “Indeed the annual success of the Taste of Florham Park event has contributed to the increase in the number of Florham Park Rotary scholarships for many deserving students who live in Florham Park and commit to being part of a “community of volunteers”. - Damion Bernard, Rotary club president. Event Date and Time: Monday, May 19, 2024, 6-8 PM (Tours of the Mansion begin at 5:30pm for early arrivals and continue during the event.) Event Location The Vanderbilt-Twombly Mansion is on the Florham campus of Fairleigh Dickinson University (FDU). Just a short drive from the center of Florham Park, enter either via Park Avenue or Madison Avenue. The Mansion was completed in 1897 and was one of the 10 largest homes in the United States. It was the Spring and Autumn home of two of the founders of Florham Park – Florence Vanderbilt-Twombly and Hamilton Twombly! The Taste is a must attend party for food lovers. It is also a celebration and an opportunity to enjoy the evening with family and friends – and neighbors – at a historic mansion. Florham Park’s eating establishments graciously provide samples of some of their popular dishes. Florham Park Liquors greets guests with wine, beer and spirits. These merchants show their commitment to our local community via their support of the students in this fundraiser. Tours of the Vanderbilt-Twombly Mansion will be offered throughout the event. Adding to the ambiance of food and history, music by Florham Park resident violinist Marilyn Tepper will waft through the Great Hall of the Mansion. Ticket Locations Tickets may be purchased at the Florham Park Diner (182 Ridgedale Avenue), at the Event, by check mailed to Florham Park Rotary, PO Box 40, Florham Park, NJ 07932 or via the QR Code found on posters at local businesses. Tickets via Venmo - @RotaryClubOfFlorhamPark Ticket Prices General Admission $50pp (that includes a mini tour of the Mansion). More Fun The Taste of Florham Park includes a “Tricky Tray” with merchandise from many local vendors and other contributors and Event Sponsors. Tricky Tray tickets may be purchased separately upon entry. $20 for a book of 20 tickets! For further information, please contact Florham Park Rotarians George Gregor (917 848 0982) or Peter Nicolas (973 520 8654). Also check https://www.facebook.com/ groups/428768947164657 for the pre and post event updates.
HANOVER PARK - Hanover Park High School junior, Kelly Lu, recently scored quite an aggressive feat with her art endeavors. Lu submitted the maximum three works of art, and all were selected for the Blackwell Street Center for the Arts Student Art Show at the Atrium Gallery in Morristown. “Nostalgia,” “Light at the End of the Tunnel,” and “Elusivity of Time” are on display from March 25 - April 29. Lu said of her work, “Light at the End of the Tunnel’ is a self-portrait. No matter what your current situation is, there is always, as the title says, a ‘Light at the End of the Tunnel,’ and there is hope for the future. The second piece, ‘Nostalgia,’ represents my childhood self, when I was young and carefree and I would just make art on the floor. I wanted to recreate those warm and fuzzy feelings that I had when I was making art at that age. My final piece I called ‘The Elusivity of Time.’
It is sort of a representation of a clock; there are 12 pieces of paper, and at the top of the clock is the hare, which is slowly transitioning into a tortoise. Through it, I wanted to show how the passage of time is kind of irregular. In a way, I feel sometimes time seems to be speeding by, and other times it is just crawling by really slowly. I represented that through the transitioning between the tortoise and the hare as you pass through the clock.” In addition to her art endeavors, Lu also takes part in the Girls Who Code club and Art club, which connect her interests in technology and website design, and she is also a member of the Hanover Park Academic Decathlon Team, with whom she placed in quite a few categories at the New Jersey state finals. She was awarded a gold medal in the Art, Economics, and Math categories, silver in Literature and Essays, and bronze in Social Science, attaining a highest overall rating
Winner from April’s “Find Hank the Hornet Mascot” Contest
AREA - The winners from April’s “Find Hank the Hornet Mascot” are Nancy Bush; East Hanover, Cindy Vrablik; Florham Park, Michele Kiska; East Hanover and Lisa Monticello; East Hanover. The ads that “Hank the
Hornet” were in: Magaletta Design, Spicy Chef Chinese Restaurant, Hancliff Home for Funerals, 200 Club, Zoom Drain and V&V Construction. Thanks to everyone who enter and congratulations to our winners!
Kelly Lu with “Light at the End of the Tunnel,” her first-place entry in the Blackwell Street Center for the Arts Student Art Show (credit: The Lu family)
of silver among attendees. Lu said, “Academic Decathlon has really helped me go outside my comfort zone and shown me that I am capable of a lot more than I think. It has really been pretty pivotal in my personal growth.” Lu also is a member of the FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America), and during December 2024’s State Leadership Conference at Harrah’s Resort in Atlantic City, she came in second in Website Design, but also won first place in the Pin Design category with her entry “Unlock Your Potential.” She will be attending the National Competition in Anaheim, California in June. Lu said, “Every state runs a
Pin Design competition. They will pick one winner, and they will take that design and actually manufacture it into a real pin. Then at the national level conference, people from each state will have their state pins that they can trade with other conference attendees.” Suzanne Apicella, Hanover Park High School Art Department Coordinator, said of Lu, “I am very proud of Kelly. She is incredibly talented, and it has been such a pleasure to witness the evolution of her art since her freshman year. She manages to balance a rigorous schedule, both inside and outside of school, while creating artwork that is both thought-provoking and powerful.”
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