Lifestyles After 50 • Suncoast • May 2012

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We’ll be here to help you shape your days so you can live them to your greatest potential, whether in issues of health or exercise or creating tasty dishes in the kitchen.

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Dear Readers,

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ee those streamers on the cover? No, it’s not New Year’s Eve. Rather, it’s a celebration of Janice Doyle, publishing the first Editor copy of the new Lifestyles After 50 magazine.

The magazine you’ve known as Senior Connection / Mature Lifestyles is making changes to better serve YOU, our readers.

The change of name is all a part of our continuing effort to deliver the most up-to-date informational, educational and entertaining news items and stories.

Since there isn’t just one way to live life after the age of 50, we’re adjusting and adapting to help you find ways to take advantage of the many options available to you and to enrich your lives.

Our west central Florida location offers an infinite variety of options in lifestyles: start a business of your own, go back to school, develop cultural and recreational talents and so much more.

We are deeply committed to offering you new and fresh ideas for living the lifestyle you choose to the fullest.

What you’ll find in Lifestyles After 50 will be suggestions for ways to cut to the chase and drop right into the next chapter of your life.

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growth and diversity, both for the community and the individual reader.

As Editor, my search for content will include finding ways you can enhance your life, whether you have just turned 50 and have that new AARP card in your wallet or whether you’ve just turned 90 and are in training for the Senior Games. And if you’re somewhere in between, I’ll be cheering you on no matter what lifestyle you’ve chosen.

Kathy Beck is Publisher and Director of the many expos and events we sponsor. Watch for the next Senior Fun Fest or Senior Friendly Extravaganza in your area to find the very latest in products, services and information for your lifestyle. You’ll enjoy the entertainment, giveaways, prizes and fun at all of the events.

Drop me an email (janice@ lifestylesafter50.com). Give me your feedback and ideas on what new items you would like to see. Let me know how we can enhance your Lifestyles After 50 And I’m so glad you’re joining us for the journey forward.

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Meet Frankie Avalon and Other Greats on the Malt Shop Memories Cruise

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fter the extraordinary success of the first two Malt Shop Memories Cruises, the next annual cruise will expand to a sevenday trip with more ports of call and additional performances by an incredible array of stars from the ‘50s and ‘60s.

Departing on Oct. 27 (through Nov. 3) from Fort Lauderdale, the cruise will set sail on Holland America’s luxurious M.S. Eurodam for Turks & Caicos, San Juan, St. Thomas and the private island of Half Moon Cay. As a full ship charter, the Eurodam will be transformed into a floating ‘50s and ‘60s entertainment complex, treating passengers to concerts and special events such as sock hops, hula hoop contests, prom night, beach parties, and, of course, interaction with their favorite singers and much more.

Inspired by Time Life’s popular Malt Shop Memories CD series, the voyage will be highlighted by performances by some of the biggest artists of the era, including Dion, Frankie Avalon, Bobby Rydell, Ronnie Spector, Darlene Love, The Original Drifters, The Duprees, Sonny Turner (former lead singer of the Platters), Carl Gardner’s Coasters, Kenny Vance and the Planotones, The Chiffons, The Tymes, The Marvelettes, Al “Lil Fats” Jackson, John Kuse and the Excellents, The Dedications, The Encounters, The Acchords, Gino Monopoli/Dwight Icenhower and, returning as the cruise host, the wildly popular oldies DJ Jerry “The Geator with the Heater” Blavat.

“You’ll see some of the best entertainment from that wonderful era,” says Bobby Rydell. “Mix and mingle with all of us and bring back those great memories while making fabulous new ones.”

In addition to the incredible line-up of concerts, The Malt Shop Memories cruise will offer non-stop events, parties and ‘50s and ‘60s-themed activities throughout the ship and the entire length of the cruise.

Grab your blanket for the beach party, kick off your shoes for the sock hop, dress in your finest for Prom Night and get ready to meet the performers in person during specially designed meet and greets.

In celebration of the memory of the King of Rock ‘n Roll, Elvis Presley, the Malt Shop Memories Cruise will host the richest Elvis Tribute Artist Contest in the World. The event will feature some of the most well-known and talented tribute artists in the world competing for a cash prize of $5,000.

Notes the Executive Producer of Time Life’s Malt Shop Memories CD collection, Alan Rubens, “They say you can’t live in the past—but it sure is fun visiting for a few days!”

“Our staff had so much fun on the 2011 Malt Shop Memories

Cruise!” offers Michael Lazaroff of Entertainment Cruise Productions.

“It was a joy meeting the guests, engaging the artists and bringing Malt Shop Memories to life. By moving the cruise to 7 days and to Holland America, the cruise now becomes a ‘home game’ for us and we promise that it will run like clockwork and the upgrades in rooms, service, food and amenities will only add to the fantastic musical experience.”

The Malt Shop Memories Cruise was developed in association with Entertainment Cruise Productions, LLC. Tickets for the cruise are available now. Visit MaltShopCruise. com or call (877) 700-6258 (MALT).

Cabin prices start at $1550 per person including all meals, entertainment and onboard activities.

The Time Life Malt Shop Memories CD collection, featuring a 10-CD box set, a 4-CD set and a holiday disc, has sold nearly 4 million CDs and remains one of Time Life’s most popular sellers.

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Around Town

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Season Finale Concerts Dee Moses, Principal Bass © Thomas Bruce Studio

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on, Thurs. Fri. Exercise classes at New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, $3/ class. Pickleball Mon. through Fri., 6:30 – 10 p.m. $3.

(Facility usage extra.) For details, please call (727) 841-4560.

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hrough May 13 American Stage in the Park presents The Rocky Horror Show, Demen’s Landing Park. Tickets $11 to $14 at Box Office 163 3rd St. N. Info at (727) 823-7529 or americanstage.org.

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and 12 Tristan and Isolda, Wagner’s opera, sung in English at Tarpon Springs Performing Arts Center, 324 Pine St., Tarpon Springs. $22 tickets.

(727) 942-5605 or tarponarts.org.

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Coffee Concerts

Concert by South Pasadena Community Band at Galatea Garden, 7001 Sunset Dr. S., South Pasadena. Bring lawn chairs. Lights, fun music. 7:30 p.m. (727) 559-8859 or mgmcaw@tampabay.rr.com.

Once Upon a Time Stuart Malina conducts this morning concert featuring Ravel’s Beauty and the Beast from Mother Goose Suite, Tchaikovsky’s Waltz from Swan Lake, and Williams’ ET: Adventures on Earth. Join us one hour before curtain for a pre-concert conversation and complimentary coffee and doughnuts.

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Rays vs. Baltimore Orioles Game Watching Party on the beach at TradeWinds Island Grand, 5500 Gulf Blvd., St. Pete Beach.

7:05 p.m. Giveaways; food, beverage for purchase. No coolers. Bring chairs. $10 parking. JustLetGo.com/Rays or (727) 367-6461 for more info.

Wed, May 16, 10am Ruth Eckerd Hall

Thu, May 17, 11am

Progress Energy Center for the Performing Arts Mahaffey Theater

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Swiss Club meetings at The Club At Treasure Island, 400 Treasure Island Causeway, Treasure Island. 11:45 a.m. For more information, call (727) 367-4511.

Raymond James Pops

Postcards from Paris Enjoy a celebration of the City of Lights with romantic French melodies, Edith Piaf classics, Josephine Baker hits, Parisian café music, Django Reinhardt’s gypsy jazz, high-kicking can-cans, soaring film scores by Michel Legrand and more. Featuring vocalists Kersten Rodau and Robb Asklof, guitarist Gil Gutierrez, and accordion player Patrick Harison, Sarah Hicks conducts.

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Mother’s Day Display and Sale

by The African Violet Society of Pinellas County. St. Matthias Lutheran, 2751 Sunset Point Rd., Clearwater. 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Free admission. Info at (727) 398-7450.

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Upper Pinellas Singles picnic on Dunedin Causeway.

6 p.m. All singles are welcome. Call Leslie at (727) 725-5453 for info.

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Book discussion Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy at St. Pete Beach Library, 365 73rd Ave., St. Pete Beach. 10:30 a.m.

Phone: (727) 363-9238.

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“The Music of America” concert by the Palm Harbor Community Chorus at the Palm Harbor Library, 2330 Nebraska Ave. 2 p.m. Free; donations accepted.

Call (727) 786-2610 for details.

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Weedon Island Park Photography Hike at 8 a.m.

Register at least one day in advance at (727) 453-6500.

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Memorial Day FunFest at The Armed Forces History Museum.

10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Military dress up photo ops, bounce house, climbing wall, power bungee jumping. $10/adults; $5/ages 4 – 12. Food for purchase by Mickey’s Game Time Vending and Dippin’ Dots. Music and karaoke. armedforcesmuseum.com or call 2050 34th Way N, Largo (727) 539-8371.

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Opera Events This Month

St Petersburg Opera presents: Opera Idol, St. Mary’s Church, 515 Fourth St. S., St. Pete. 7:30 p.m. $10.

Evenings with the Maestro: Preview to The Marriage of Figaro. 6 p.m. at Music Gallery, 5990 Ulmerton Road, Clearwater. $12 seniors.

Emerging Artist Spectacular: arias and ensembles at American Lithuanian Club, 4880 46th Ave. N., St. Pete. 7:30 p.m. $15.

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Diane Keaton Reflects on Her Career and Life

BY EVELYN MACKEY

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conic actress Diane Keaton is still blazing her own way. At 67 she’s the still-never-married mother of two adopted children, ages 17 and 12. She has 50 movies and TV shows under her belt. In the ‘70s, she started a fashion trend for unisex clothes. Indeed, Keaton can dress “like a bag lady, among a host of women in spectacular dresses, and look individual rather than ridiculous,” according to one writer.

Keaton is best known for playing eccentric, free-spirited characters who speak in rushed, awkward sentences and who laugh easily at life’s circumstances. It is those sentences and circumstances that make her endearing and charming to fans of all ages.

She and Woody Allen made a total of eight movies together.

This month marks the release of her autobiography titled Then Again, in which she reflects on the girl she was and the actress she became.

As her mother was suffering with Alzheimer’s and having watched her father die of a brain tumor, Keaton took her mother’s 85 journals and began mixing her mother’s life story gently with her own life and feelings.

One of the biggest revelations in Then Again is Keaton’s struggle with bulimia. “With bulimia, I never expected sympathy or for people to understand,” she said in an interview with AARP. “What I cared about was the secret I kept. It felt like a burden.

I never told my mother. It’s amazing how the dark secrets inside us don’t matter much to the outside world.”

Her track to stardom Her breakout role was on Broadway in the ‘60s in Hair. As understudy to the lead, she gained attention by not removing any of her clothing. In 1971, Keaton won a part in The Godfather, holding her own opposite legends like Al Pacino and Marlon Brando. Two years later she reprised her role in The Godfather: Part II, and in 1990, she finished the trilogy in Godfather III. Keaton had a long relationship with Woody Allen and rose to fame in part through a series of his hit comedies. She would later say of that time: “When I first got to know

Her salary for making The Godfather in 1972 was $35,000. In 1990, her salary for making The Godfather, Part III was $1,500,000.

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Woody and I was going out with him, What next?

I noticed that people never wanted In an exclusive interview with AARP to hear anything that I had to say the Magazine, Keaton revealed how at all. They just wanted to be in the she feels about reaching age 67. She shadow of his light and I remember said, “Let me tell you the best part really having a hard time with that.” about getting older. The best part is But it was Woody Allen whose that I’m still here and, because the 1977’s Annie Hall brought about her end is in sight, I treasure it all more. first and only Oscar for Best Actress.

That’s why I don’t worry about crying After Woody, she was in a scene anymore. Now soon paired with Warren it comes easily. I know Beatty. He cast Diane in the emotion’s all there. his sweeping historical You have to live life that epic Reds (1981), though way, you know? Take the two broke up risks. Do things you shortly following the can’t imagine. ’Cause release of the film. hey, why not, right?”

Her comedy hits Would she have plastic included co-starring with surgery? She told the Steve Martin in Father interviewer: “I haven’t of the Bride in 1991 had it, but never say Diane Keaton wins an and Father of the Bride, Oscar for Best Actress never. Because when you Part II in 1995 and with do, you are definitely goGoldie Hawn in The First Wives Club. ing to go there. . . I’ve done all kinds Capitalizing on senior audiences to of things I said I wouldn’t do and, understand later-life love, Keaton of course, now I’m glad. Thrilled.” co-starred with Jack Nicholson in And what does her future hold? What 2003’s Something’s Gotta Give, which would she like to find as an actor? “A grossed $125 million in North Ameri- really out-there role where I let it all ca. Roger Ebert wrote that “Nicholson hang out. Get totally enraged. Go to an and Keaton bring so much experience, extreme. I have not really had that opknowledge and humor to their charportunity, and I hope it will happen.” acters that the film works in ways the You can view AARP the screenplay might not have even hoped Magazine’s entire article at for.” The following year, Keaton www.aarp.org/entertainment/ received her fourth Academy Award movies-for-grownups/info-03-2012/ nomination for her role in the film. age-defying-diane-keaton.html.

1995: Chosen by Empire magazine as one of the “100 Sexiest Stars in Film History” (#46).

2006: Her performance as Annie Hall in Annie Hall is ranked #60 on Premiere Magazine’s 100 Greatest Performances of All Time.

Next up, she stars in Darling Companion.

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Gulfport: Where Natural Beauty and Independent Business Thrive

BY JANICE DOYLE

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little town. It’s like old Florida. We have old oaks and colorful cottages and streets filled with independent businessmen. Our main street has probably 15 restaurants from hot dogs to fine dining and all ethnic choices.”

on’t let summer’s heat slow you down when there’s all the activity in Gulfport to enjoy! Think artwalks, the weekly Tuesday Fresh Market, 15 mom Tuesday Fresh Market Trivia: Did you and pop restaurants know? Gulfport for every taste, was named one dancing lessons of six national and just strolling. small-town The Gulport Merfinalists in the chants Association “Best For Food” website states: “We category during have an interesting the 2011 Rand collection of people McNally/USA to meet, places to Today Road Rally. visit and things to do in our undiscovered little community.”

This waterfront district is right on In fact, it’s easy to love what one Boca Ciega Bay. On Tuesdays, the writer called the ”...eclectic bohemian street becomes a patchwork of tents throwback to the ‘60s.” Daniel and shelters as vendors claim their arHodge, Coordinator for the Gulfport eas. Hodge said, “It’s really something Merchants Association, is a San to see and realize you have all these Francisco transplant who loves his mom and pop businesses setting up. I adopted town. “It’s the most charming feel very lucky to have them all here

and be a part of it all. I feel the market Hodge said there are other ways they is an entity where people feel good give back to the community through about lifting each other the Market up and there’s a good Association. A deal of mutual respect free spot is given among the vendors.” every week to Besides two regular a community produce vendors, non-profit to use visitors find fresh for an outreach seafood, cheese, baked or to promote breads, bagels and their services. scones, herbs, teas, A growing artists’ Entertainment at the Art Walk live plants, nuts and community particgranola, local honey, ipates in first and candy and sauces. There are also local third Saturday night Art Walks where artists showing off their wares from artists display their work on the streets hand made jewelry to signs, funky or by opening galleries and studios. hand-painted accessories, tie-dyes, The Merchants Association also hand-crafted pet toys and accessories. sponsors festivals throughout On the second Tuesday of every the year. Watch for the Gecko month, Gulfport’s free clothing Festival on Labor Day weekend. swap takes place on the corner The Fresh Market is in the area of of Beach Blvd. and 30th Ave. S. 3000 Beach Blvd. S, Gulfport. For You can swap up to five pieces information, see the Gulfportma.com. or purchase $3 vouchers to shop Photos courtesy of Gulfport (proceeds go to CASA).

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Matinee Moments

BY JUNE HURLEY YOUNG

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e seniors agree that our favorite shows are matinee performances because they eliminate any after dark driving. I review many of the shows and, in this column, will share the best of the best. My goal is to give you the most for your entertainment dollars.

Sundays are famous for 2 p.m. matinees. “Music and Dance: Broadway’s Best” features numbers from many of your favorite musical comedies, with

performances May 6 and 13 at Eight O Clock Theater. It’s a presentation of the Largo Cultural Center on East Bay Drive.

For tickets, call (727) 587-6793.

St. Petersburg’s City Theatre presents “Catch Catch Me If You Can Me If You Can” for one matinee, May 6. It’s a mystery comedy that promises to be pure entertainment.

The historic theatre is located at 4025 31st St. S., St.Petersburg. Call (727) 866-1973 for reservations.

The French farce “Fallen Angels” has matinee performances May 12 and 13 at Asolo Repertory Theatre, Route 41, Sarasota. Call 1-800-361-8388 for reservations.

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Communal Living Attracting More 60-Something Women

BY GINNY GRIMSLEY

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ome say the ‘60s hippies are going back to the commune.

Others call the growing number of female baby boomers rooming together “The Golden Girls phenomenon.”

Author Martha Nelson, who at 65 is on the leading edge of a tsunami of retiring boomers, says it’s really all about choosing the company of friends.

“As a group, we’ve been empowered more than past generations of women,” says Nelson, whose debut novel, Black Chokeberry (BlackChokeberryTheBook. com), is the story of three disparate older women who unexpectedly end up sharing a home. “We’re more worldly, stronger, financially savvy and healthier than our ancestors—through no fault of their own—and we know what we want.”

Increasingly, what they want is to actively age with the camaraderie, laughter, understanding and support of other women who share their ideas of healthy lifestyles, good food from their own gardens, green living and myriad activities on a moment’s notice.

In 2010, 480,000 baby boom women lived with a least one unrelated female, according to an AARP analysis. The growing number of U.S. HomeShare programs, which help connect people interested in sharing a house, say their numbers have been steadily rising since the economy belly-flopped.

Nelson notes that there are several reasons why women more than men

are gravitating to communal living as an alternative lifestyle.

“Women typically live longer than men, and men are more likely to remarry quickly after a divorce or the death of a spouse,” she says.

“And fundamentally I think it’s as much about the special bonds women share. We form these wonderful, supportive, ‘tell the truth’ friendships, which survive the demands of husbands, children and careers. Whether living alone or with a spouse or partner, women cling to their friendships. When a woman considers living alone as she ages, it’s a natural progression to seek the company of her best friends.”

That’s what happened to Nelson, a former journalist and educator, whose long marriage ended in divorce when she was in her 50s. In regaining her balance as a single woman, she sought time alone to heal, then turned to her trusted friends as she stepped back into life. Her happiest moments came from long conversations over coffee, laughter over meals

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and movies and, occasionally, indulgent tears she felt safe to shed.

The movement for cohousing—where residents have private living spaces but share common areas and tasks such as cooking—started in Denmark and is catching on in the United States.

Practical considerations of creating close living communities include health and safety, care in times of an accident or medical emergency, and saving money, Nelson says.

But boomers are renowned for demanding more than creature comforts from life, she adds.

“We want to be happy; we’re healthy, active and we want to enjoy ourselves as we age. We want to travel, go to a movie with a neighbor or housemate, cook a meal, share a garden, and feel that we are contributing to our communities.

“What started with Rosie the Riveter has brought us to this,” says Nelson who is happily married again, but fascinated by the new movement of cohousing.

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Is a New Patio in Your Future?

W hether putting in a new patio or redoing an existing one, your creative side will love today’s options in design, style and surface finishes available. Patio books are available at stores like Lowe’s and Home Depot, but one of the best sources for advice is a good contractor who can look at your individual setup and make recommendations from his experience.

Most patios will be concrete or a layout in stone or brick.

With modern advances in concrete, you can color or paint the concrete to simulate different products, such as marble or stoneware, all for a lesser cost. You may also use molds, stamps or impressions to make different shapes and mimic styles.

If you go with stoneware, there are many different types to choose from, ranging from stepping stones to large stone slabs. Some of the most popu-

lar and user-friendly stoneware is flagstone. Stones also come in a variety of textures and shades, so you can select what works best with your personal preferences and functional needs.

The results of laying out a patio with concrete, stones or brick will add the finishing touches to a comfortable and inviting backyard.

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If Today Was Your Last Day… I f today was your last day, would you die with no regrets? The Top 5 Regrets of the Dying began as a blog post, quickly garnering thousands of views and shares and becoming one of the most popular blog posts of 2012.

With three million followers, Bronnie Ware collected years of insight into a new bestselling book that focuses on how we, the living, can make the most out of our lives right now.

After switching from a career in finance to palliative care, Bronnie realized that almost every person she cared for shared at least one of five common regrets:

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4. I wish I’d stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish I’d let myself be happier.

These sound like simple wishes, but as she traveled through her clients’ despair, Bronnie was able to engage with the retroactive intentions of the departing to improve her own life, removing layers of personal doubt and sadness in order to live more freely and consciously choose happiness.

Squaring off with death is a universal reality that touches us all. The book’s insights urge readers to live actively in the here and now.

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Veterans Corner

Honor Guards Represent Military Well At a recent Senior Fun Fest, Honor Guard from American Legion Chapter 14, St. Petersburg, folded an antique 48-star American flag. It was presented to the oldest veteran present, 97-year-old Alexander E. Forbes, Army Air Corps (below). He piloted C-47s, mostly paratroop carriers in the European theater of war.

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Veterans who join a group such as an American Legion all agree that providing funeral honors is an honor.”

Mourners at these funerals often assume the military coordinates the ceremony, but in reality, the military is only required to send two active duty personnel to fold and present the flag. Other than that, the family or funeral home will request the presence of the Honor Guard.

Joan Arcand was a Navy nurse during the Korean War. Today she serves as chaplain of Suncoast Chapter of the Korean War Veterans, Chapter 14, Pinellas Park.

“We provide military funerals,” she said. “It doesn’t matter what war they served in, we will accept an assignment wherever a veteran has a service.”

Her group is one of several in the area that provide this important service for veterans. “It’s a final thank you for their service. All veterans have stories to tell.” The honor guards represent those stories to the families.

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“I do a eulogy,” said Arcand, “and give a synopsis of their military life. Ministers who come take care of the vet’s soul; I take care of their military service. When I close, then we play Taps.”

Arcand considers it “an honor to be serving people and doing this. I seldom have a difficult time getting people to serve with me at a funeral.”

Besides participating in funerals, Chapter 14 also participates in other occasions when the “colors” require official presentation at ceremonies.

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Here’s another tip from the book Solace: How Caregivers and Others Can Relate, Listen, and Respond Effectively to a Chronically Ill Person by Walter St. John, Ed.D. Know when (and how) to say “I don’t know.” Whether the patient asks a spiritual or theological question that catches you off guard or she wants to know about the side effects of a medication, it helps to learn how to be noncommittal without seeming evasive. You don’t want him to think

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“Don’t feel pressured to say something you don’t want to,” instructs St. John. “However, do try to formulate an answer that lets the patient know you are taking him and his concerns seriously. Honest yet noncommittal answers might include: ‘I’m not the right person to answer that, but I’ll help you find out,’ or ‘Wow, that’s the $64,000 question, isn’t it?

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Celebrate Older Americans Month M ay is Older Americans Month. Since 1963, communities across the nation have joined in the annual commemoration of Older Americans Month—a proud tradition that shows our nation’s commitment to celebrating the contributions and achievements of older Americans.

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Older Americans also strengthen our communities by encouraging others to stay active. Young people who have significant relationships with a grandparent or elder report that these relationships helped shape their values, goals and life choices.

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he overuse of antibiotics is “slowly killing us,” said Shane Ellison, author of Overthe-Counter Natural Cures.

“My daughter was three years old when she had her first emergency room visit. Suffering from high fever and chest pain, every muscle in her fragile body tensed for air. Her lungs were being attacked by pneumonia.

The antibiotic penicillin saved her life,” said Ellison, who is known as “The People’s Chemist.”

“Today, antibiotics are a luxury that previous generations didn’t have. But antibiotic overuse is slowly killing us. Igniting massive amounts of side effects, they’re also training bacteria how to evade our most potent medicines,” said Ellison.

He notes that if current use of antibiotics continues, antibiotic resistance will soon yield all current medications useless according to the World Health Organization (WHO). And that means we have no more defenses against biological nasties—our longevity would go back to the Stone Age, where every infection was life threatening.

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Ellison said prescription antibiotics should not be used for: • Ear infection • Strep throat • Flu • Bee Stings • Common cold • Urinary tract infection • Preventive medicine during or after birth in hospital

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Mysterious Red-Faced Disorder Leaves 16 Million Feeling Blue W hile rosacea has become increasingly recognized as a common and conspicuous red-faced disorder, mounting evidence has shown that it can cause far more emotional stress and physical pain than previously known. More than 16 million Americans have rosacea.

Health “Emotional stress frequently exacerbates or induces rosacea symptoms, creating a tailspin for many patients,” said Dr. Richard Granstein, chairman of dermatology at Cornell University.

“Combine this with the physical discomforts and the social impact of the disorder, and there are many aspects of rosacea that go well beyond its effects on personal appearance alone.”

Rosacea usually first strikes individuals between the ages of 30 and 60 and may initially resemble a simple sunburn or an inexplicable blush. Suddenly, without warning, a flush comes

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In severe cases, especially in men, the nose may become enlarged from the development of excess tissue. This is the condition that gave comedian W.C. Fields his trademark red, bulbous nose. In some people the eyes are also affected, feeling irritated and appearing watery or bloodshot. Severe cases of this condition, known as ocular rosacea, can result in reduced visual acuity.

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“It would be hard to invent a more embarrassing disease than rosacea,” said Dr. Ted Grossbart, a psychologist at Harvard Medical School. “It affects the one part of the body that cannot be hidden—the face—and can leave its victims feeling isolated and even alienated from society.”

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5. Practice Your Photography Skills Not only does taking photos give you a visual memoir of your adventures, but taking someone’s picture is a great conversation starter. You’ll find that in some countries people will flock to the camera spotlight and even ask for you to take their photo. Taking photos is also a great way to ease some initial awkwardness you might feel when roaming the streets alone.

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ore than 400 years ago, Henry Hudson said of the Hudson River Valley, “Nowhere have I ever beheld such a rich and pleasant land.” That remains a fitting description and tribute today.

Remember Ichabod Crane and the Headless Horseman? How about Rip Van Winkle? These three Hudson River Valley literary characters were from the first literature defined as American. In fact, the first purely American art style began here as well—the Hudson River school of art.

Travel History is at every turn along the Hudson River, and the area has remained vital with a major presence by a variety of research/development, high tech and manufacturing firms.

Just 90 minutes from New York City, Dutchess County, with Poughkeepsie at its center, my husband and I settled in for a few days to explore.

Seven ‘don’t miss’ things to experience in Dutchess County:

Springwood, FDR’s family home

Franklin and Eleanor Roosevelt homes and presidential library in Hyde Park: The family home (Springwood), Eleanor’s cottage (Val-Kil) and the FDR Presidential Library make history come alive through excellent displays and stories by the docents. There are impressive Depression and WWII exhibits.

My three favorite parts of the FDR complex included sections about FDR’s privileged childhood, his battles with the crippling effects of polio and the section telling the story of Eleanor Roosevelt as “first lady of the world” following WWII.

The Vanderbilt mansion: Next door to the FDR complex, you see “how the other half lived.” Tour the mansion, hear the stories, see the Roman statues and the rose garden; then find a place to sit and enjoy the view over the Hudson River to feel the elegance of a bygone era.

Vassar College campus—You can get your exercise with a walk around campus to enjoy the trees and architecture; then tour the free world class Francis Loebman Art Gallery, one of the best small galleries in America.

Vassar’s original 1861 charter included having an art museum, so the collection begins with early American works and continues with impressive additions from around the world. This is a good place to see paintings by Hudson River school painters such as Thomas Cole and Frederic Church. Also take advantage of the college’s Powerhouse Theater for top-notch stage works.

Culinary Institute of America, Hyde Park

Culinary Institute of America, Hyde Park with a breathtaking hilltop view of the Hudson River. The grounds are beautiful; student-led tours take you past windows to watch classes in action as students of all ages master baking and blending. Dining here is very popular. Reservations are recommended at the restaurants, including Caterina de Medici, American Bounty and Escoffier.

The Hudson River school of art was a mid-19th century art movement embodied by a group of landscape painters. Its earliest landscapes depicted the Hudson River, the Catskill and the Adirondack Mountains using light in new ways. The movement flourished for 40 years, until the mid-1870s. Many of the artists’ homes and studios are open to visitors.

The Walkway Over the Hudson is an old wooden railroad bridge across the Hudson rebuilt into a popular walkway.

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informational / historical signs along the way. (The bridge is higher above the water than ordinary because the original bridge had to accommodate the tall masts of sailing vessels.)

Sprout Creek Farm is a community of people, plants and animals. Like hundreds of school children every year, we admired the chickens and goats as well as watching cheesemaking and gardening in action. Be sure to buy some of their cheese and produce for a tasty snack.

Pick up a local paper and find seasonal festivals, fairs and special events. We were in the area over July 4 weekend last year and joined thousands at the county fairgrounds for an outdoor concert and fireworks.

And just take time to stop in the area’s small towns and villages—places like Millbrook. Spend some time.

Shop the shops. Read some history.

Have lunch. Attend church. Enjoy!

If you go: We stayed at the centrally located Courtyard Marriott on Route 9 in Poughkeepsie. The nearest large airport is Albany.

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“The key thing to balance is the difference between what you think you’ll need and what you can afford between your liquid assets and insurance coverage,” Casto said. “If you don’t start by asking yourself the right questions, you’ll never get to the answers that will lead to a successful long-term care plan.”

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“These are just a few of the issues,” Casto says. “A good starting point for those planning early is to completely discount the idea of getting a dime from Medicare. Even if it is still around when you need long-term care, the restrictions on Medicare are tightening. You’ll be lucky to get the program to pay for 10 percent of a nursing home stay.

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ast month, our astute Declarer remembered that his opponent had opened the bidding, sensibly deduced that said opponent must have the missing high cards, and then played the hand accordingly.

This week’s deal is a bit more difficult, as Declarer must be alert to something which did not happen!

Stuff That Doesn’t Happen

N-S stumble into 4♠ after a Stayman auction and West leads the ♣J. It looks like a simple enough hand, and so it is. Declarer loses two trumps and must avoid also losing two Heart tricks.

How would you play the hand?

You win the first trick with the ♣K and lead the ♠Q. East wins that, then cashes his second high Spade, and exits a Spade. You can cash some minor suit winners if you like but you already have all the information that you need to make the contract a virtual certainty.

What was it which “did not happen”?

That’s right, East did not open the bidding! He has already shown up with the ♠AK … and West’s lead of the ♣J denied the Queen. That gives East 9 HCP, so surely he cannot also hold the ♥K, that would be 12 HCP, and enough to open. So, you cash the ♥A and lead low towards the board. West is an expert and nonchalantly plays low, perhaps while stifling a yawn.

But you are having none of that malarkey! You confidently call for the Queen and it’s 10 tricks for the good guys!

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