Lifestyles After 50 Sarasota Edition, May 2016

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Sarasota/Manatee May 2016 • Vol. 28

Blueberry Beautiful

By Teri Pizza

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ore and more women are adopting a new approach to beauty - and it’s a rather tasty one. Scaling back on expensive creams and procedures that promise to combat cellulite and banish blemishes forever, fans of the Eat Pretty movement are now using their beauty budget to buy blenders and organic vegetables.

Sparked by former beauty editor turned health coach Jolene Hart’s best-seller Eat Pretty, the “beautifying nutrition” trend approaches beauty from the inside out. Hart likens Eat Pretty to a “lifestyle transformation” that views good dietary choices as an alternative to the quick-fix products aimed at symptoms of a stressed body. Balanced, nourishing nutrition, she argues, is actually the very foundation of lasting beauty.

“After years of searching,” she shares, “I found changing what I put in my body could literally rebuild my beauty one molecule at a time by providing the most beautiful building blocks to nourish, repair and rejuvenate.”

With impressive science to back up her claims, Eat Pretty is chock full of research and recipes supporting the notion that nutrition is a key component to looking and feeling beautiful. One fruit highly touted in Hart’s book is the tiny, mighty blueberry. Tender morsels of pure delight, blueberries have been studied in great depth by researchers eager to unlock the power of the nutrient-dense little blue dynamos. Linked to everything from lower blood sugar levels, slowed mouth and neck cancer progression and even decreased heart attack risk, blueberries also have lesser

known benefits - they may hold the key to healthier hair and a clearer complexion. Deemed by dermatologists as one of the top five foods for promoting beautiful skin, studies suggest the berry can help reverse some of the skin damage caused by aging. The antioxidants and phytochemicals they contain strengthen blood vessels and heal broken capillaries, both of which help the skin appear brighter and more even.

In addition to beautifying your skin, blueberries may even help keep gray hairs at bay.

They’re high in vitamin B12, and deficiency of this crucial vitamin has been well-linked to premature graying. Blueberries also contain chemicals known to stimulate hair growth, helping you maintain the overall health and thickness of your gorgeous mane.

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Selection and storage: • Look for firm, plump, smoothskinned - and mold-free - deepblue-hued blueberries.

• Store unwashed berries in a plastic bag in your fridge’s high humidity drawer for up to a week.

• When ready to eat, remove stems and leaves. Wash in cold water, then place in lukewarm water - returning them to room temp. enriches taste and flavor.

• Or, place unwashed berries in a single layer on a baking sheet; freeze until firm and then transfer to freezer bags. Remember to wash them before using.

Alternative Beauty Uses: • Textiles: the only natural food colored blue, blueberries were used by American Indians to dye stunning textiles & garments.

• Homemade beauty products: Why buy when you can make your own? Find recipes at Bustle.com and StyleCraze.com for blueberry facial masks, skin toner, and blueberry hair masks.

Find more great tips and recipes in Teri’s books, Simplicity of Fresh Produce, and ENJOY! Recipes for Fresh Produce, available at Amazon. com. Teri resides in Ocala.

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Celebrating Our Coming of Age: A reader-inspired evolution on-and-offline Dear Readers, “It’s a very ancient saying, but a true and honest thought, that if you become a [writer], by your [readers] you’ll be taught.”

Amanda Smith, Editor

That’s my personal rendition of the spoken lines that open a classic tune from The King and I; and its message introducing “Getting to Know You” is a profound one - often times in trying to engage and impart knowledge on others, we end up receiving just as much in return.

As May marks my sixth published issue as editor of Lifestyles, I feel like I can finally claim the title of “Advocate for Greater Later Living.” Over my first half a year here at Lifestyles I’ve become intimate with my own ignorance of the complexity of the generation born between 1946 and 1964, as I’m now only just beginning to understand the profound impact they’ve had on every aspect of American culture.

Most importantly, I’ve come to the conclusion that any attempts to make broad sweeping generalizations about “baby boomers” as a sole entity is futile.

The fascinating and inspiring readers of Lifestyles have served as a perfect microcosm of the vast array of interests, hobbies and beliefs of older Americans - and I’ve learned that applying rigid definitions or uniform qualities to a group of people by examining their age rather than their impact is no more successful with those over 50 than it is for any other generation. It’s not so much about age, I’ve learned, it’s a lot more about...wait for it...lifestyle.

“Getting to know you, putting it my shot on film attached. Readers type us emails on iPads and I’ve even way, but nicely, you are precisely, conducted an interview via text with a my cup of tea...”

60+ woman. All preconceived notions Anyone at the office will tell you of the 50+ crowd are officially gone. there’s not much I like more than putting it my way; except maybe Just as this past six months have taught when you put it yours. Lately, we’ve me about an audience that runs the been receiving an influx of responses gamut of thought-systems, lifestyles and reactions from readers - giving and media consumption - both serious their opinions and lessons from life iPhone users and paper purists partial on topics ranging from the culture of to print - I’ve also learned how much American political campaigns to how tenderness I have for an age group pursuing methods aimed at personal too often marginalized by a society transcendence have translated to dead set on stereotyping. The truth is tangible results in their everyday lives. the technologically-savvy 50+ are the norm, as are those who aren’t so into electronic activity.

Some manage their finances through online banking, use smartphone wellness apps and smile at their grandkids on Skype and some spend time outside (what a novel idea!) with a book and not a cell phone ring in earshot.

And some do both.

The candid, diverse feedback we’ve received lately is so appreciated - and truly fascinating. To know advanced yoga practitioners read our publication right alongside devout Christian mothers tells me we must be doing something right. And when a retired school adminstrator turned author writes to share the incredible personal growth and success he found through local writing classes I know reinvention is real - right along with a second chance at love - thanks to pictures sent in by a longtime widower who now beams with new love.

But it’s not just the intellectuallystimulating stories and feel-good photos we receive that I find delightful - it’s also the way in which we receive it. Cards come in the mail in handwritten cursive with photos

In an effort to serve the undefinable (that’s you) we’re thrilled to announce an evolution your diversity inspired: the new LifestylesAfter50.com. Made with high functionality in mind, it’s got a sleek design, clear navigation and high usability. Our whole team is excited to share stories using videos, slideshows and audio clips, as well as webexclusive content that’ll make our site an exciting place to be. So welcome it as a tool to elevate our primary medium, print - because it’s not going anywhere. We expect the web’s ability for us to comment to readers in real time will only enhance our paper.

Besides, from a Millennial with an iPhone addiction and a journalism degree, the smell of newspaper ink and the crinkling of a page as you turn it will never get old.

Sincerely, Amanda Smith

Sarasota Edition Published monthly by News Connection U.S.A., Inc President Richard Reeves richard@lifestylesafter50.com Publisher/Director of Events & Marketing Kathy J. Beck kathy@lifestylesafter50.com Editor Amanda Smith editor@lifestylesafter50.com Office Manager Vicki Willis vicki@lifestylesafter50.com Administrative Assistant Allie Shaw allie@lifestylesafter50.com Production Supervisor/Graphic Design 813-689-6104 Distribution Nancy Spencer: (941) 244-0500 nancy@lifestylesafter50.com

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Around Town

WHAT’S HAPPENING MAY 2016

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month long. Alabama Story. In 1959, in Montgomery, Alabama, the Civil Rights Movement is flowering.

A children’s book with hidden messages stirs the passions of a segregationist senator and a no - nonsense state librarian.

Inspired by true events.$20 - $50.1241 North Palm Avenue, Downtown Sarasota, 34236. (941) 366-9000. Gompertz Theatre. Floridastudiotheatre.org for days and time.

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Food and Wine on Pine. Join us for the 6th Annual Food and Wine on Pine. A culinary and cultural experience showcasing the very best in food, wine, art and music that our area has to offer.1:30 a.m. - 6:30 p.m. Pine Avenue, Anna Maria, 34216. (941) 778- 8705.

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Mother’s Day Brunch at the Powel Crosley Estate. 10 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Adults $42.(Children 3 - 10 $24, and under 3 complimentary.) 8374 N. Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, 34243. (941) 312 - 0000. Go to crosleysupperclub. com/reservations to make reservations.

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Yesterday. Take a journey back to a time of peace, love and everything in between with songs such as “Let It Be”, “Satisfaction”, and “You Really Got Me Going”.Dine with us prior to your show in the cabaret. Reservations are not required. Playing in the Goldstein Cabaret.Florida Studio Theatre, 1241 North Palm Ave., Sarasota, 34236.

Tickets $32 - $36 and can be purchased by calling the box office at (941) 3669000 tickets.floridastudiotheatre.org.

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Balance Movement Class.

Strengthen your core muscles and improve your sense of balance. Reduce your risk of falling, while improving your balance, flexibility, strength and confidence through one of our Balance Movement Classes. 9 - 10 a.m. Rubin Center for Healthy Aging, Sarasota, 34236. Call (941) 556 -3259 for fee.

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Restorative Yoga Class. Relax and unwind in this all – level class. Beginners welcome. Please bring a mat or towel. Free. Downtown Central Library: 1301 Barcarrota Blvd. W. Bradenton, 34205. Please register at (941) 748- 5555.

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St. Francis Animal Rescue Cat’s Meow Gala. Featuring dinner, entertainment, music, dancing, raffle & prices, silent auction and more.

6-11 p.m. $45. Plantation Golf and Country Club, 500 Rockley Blvd, Venice.Tickets available at the St. Francis Animal Shelter or at (941) 492 – 6200.

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Ringling by the Bay. Join us on the Bolger Campiello for live music and dancing. Food and beverage are available for purchase on Bayfront.

Outside food/beverage, chairs and coolers are not permitted. Limited seating is available. $10/ Free for members. 5 p.m.

Bayfront Gardens, Sarasota, 34243.

(941) 358 - 3180.

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The Annual Venice Area Memorial Day. American Legion NO-VEL Post 159 will be hosting the ceremony. All the area Veterans Organizations will be participating. Bring a folding chair. Ceremonies begin at 10 a.m. Patriots Park, 800 Venetia Bay Blvd. (941) 486 – 2626.

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Welcome – Friendship Dancing! Fun, friends, dancing, refreshments! $5. 10 a.m. -12 p.m. Friendship Center Sarasota, 1888 Brother Greenen Ways, Sarasota, 34236. Call (941) 556- 3265 with any inquiries.

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A TRIBU TE TO MOTHERHOOD A book of timeless words from famous faces celebrate mothers’ impact in a gorgeous way.

In need of a last-minute Mother’s Day gift? Check out Jena Pincott’s Mom Candy: 1,000 Quotes of Inspiration for Mothers. Filled with delightfully relatable musings from favorite notable women, the book shares the hilarious and sensitive sides of motherhood. Here’s a peek at a few quotes on pages designed by the publisher:

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THE SUN’LL COME OUT AT THE PLAYERS IN MAY

Aging in a New Light: Lifestyles reader honors friend as a new face of aging

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n March, we ran a feature story titled “Aging: the bigger picture” featuring the winners of a British photo contest - the focus of which was to disprove some of the less enlightened stereotypes about aging. Then, we asked our readers to submit similar images of themselves, or nominate friends and loved ones who depict “aging in a new light.”

Our impressive readers heeded the call - the images they sent in redefine later life in a modern age and celebrate each other’s accomplishments, like the following kind words and photograph of Martha Dean submitted by her inspired friend and reader Kathy Megyeri.

Kathy’s kind words about Martha: Martha Dean, 86, a retired teacher living in Cypress Cove, in Ft. Myers is the new face of aging. This vital, affable, intellectual, and social octogenarian participates in a book club that numbers almost 150 members, collects supplies for a group that is attempting to halt human trafficking, and counsels and gives respite to other women who need breaks from caring for ailing spouses. She also counsels friends who are attempting to

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Martha Dean Martha claims she “can’t live up to all the praise” but her active, engaged life offers much inspiration. downsize their possessions as they contemplate moving to senior communities.

She holds small cocktail parties she calls “Drink and Run” sessions before dinner so newcomers in her community get to know one another. She is currently planning a month long trip to Europe this summer to see sights still on her “bucket list.” With her grace, smile and charm, Martha is an inspiration to others who are facing major life changes.

Thanks Kathy & Martha! To join us in evolving views on aging, email photos of yourself or others to editor@LifestylesAfter50.com.

n May 21st and 22nd it’s going to be a hard-knock life on The Players’ main stage as the Performing Arts Studio kids perform Annie Jr. Since September, these talented kids have been learning and rehearsing in order to bring you the story of that cheeky little carrot-top urchin you know and love. Based on the popular comic strip and its adaptation as a Tony Award-winning musical, with a renowned score by Tony Awardwinners Thomas Meehan, Charles Strouse and Martin Charnin, Annie Jr. features everyone’s favorite little redhead in her very first adventure. With equal measures of pluck and positivity, little orphan Annie charms everyone’s hearts despite a next-to-nothing start in 1930s New York City. Determined to find the parents who abandoned her on the doorstep of an orphanage years ago, Annie manages to foil the cruel orphanage director Miss Hannigan’s evil machinations before finding a new home and family in billionaire

Oliver Warbucks, his personal secretary, Grace Farrell, and a lovable mutt named Sandy. Get your tickets online at theplayers.org or call The Players Theatre at (941) 365-2494. Remember - you’re never fully dressed without a smile… and a ticket to Annie Jr! The Players Theatre is Sarasota’s premier Community Theatre, dedicated to delivering quality productions of mainstage classics everyone can enjoy. Visit www.ThePlayers.org.

Pickleball - The Unofficial Sport of RVers

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Closed Wed. Weekends by appointment only.

Venice Ranch is a quiet, clean, 55+ manufactured home community in a super location. Here’s what is nearby:

• Shopping ...............................1/2 mile • Hospital ............................ 3-1/2 miles • Restaurants ............................1/4 mile • Banking .................................1/4 mile • Quaint, cultural, and BEST OF ALL … historic Venice Center ............... 3 miles • Homes starting at $2,000 and up, on larger • Four golf courses ...................1-3 miles than normal manufactured home lots • Beaches ................................... 4 miles • New solar heated pool • Interstate 75 ..........................3/4 mile • We have all kinds of clubs and amenities

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ver heard of pickleball? If you are retired, a baby-boomer or you drive an RV, chances are you have! With over 3,600 locations and 150,000 players, pickleball is one of the fastest growing sports in the U.S. In fact, pickleball is so wildly popular, it has been adopted as the unofficial sport of RVers everywhere.

Pickleball is a racquet sport that combines elements of badminton, tennis and table tennis.

Played with an oversized paddle and plastic ball, pickleball is great exercise and perfect for every level of athleticism.

Donna Christiansen, President of the Pickleball Club in the Palm Creek Golf and RV Resort in Casa Grande, Arizona, boasts the sport as having the largest membership at the Club.

“We have 32 courts and over 800 players. It’s great for seniors,” says Christiansen. “It’s easy to learn and you can instantly play. Plus, it’s very social.”

How did pickleball, the backyard pastime created by two dads to entertain bored children, evolve into a sport with so many passionate followers and win the hearts of the RV community?

“The rules are simple, and it’s fun for all ages and skill levels. It’s a unique, multigenerational game,” says Rusty Howes of

www.PickleballChannel. com, the sport’s premiere media outlet, dedicated to providing professional online videos and content for pickleball players and organizations nationwide.

“I’ve seen 20-year-olds playing with 70-yearolds. How many sports can you say that about?”

Interested in a friendly game with fellow RVers or participating in a national tournament? Learn more about Pickleball online at www.

PickleballChannel.com or www.USAPA.org.

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BLAZE A TRAIL TO REINVENTION The pursuit of new work, new relationships and new discoveries of purpose and passion are revolutionizing “retirement” as the bold blaze a trail and dare to dream. port unseen jumps in consumer spending, notions of the family unit began to change, and life in America became almost unrecognizable.

It makes sense then, that as their labyrinthine journey continues, and the first wave of the generation greet their 70s, that the traditional idea of retirement would be questioned and redefined too.

That’s exactly how they’re seen by the Administration for Community Living, as their annual leadership of Older Amerhe infamous American ican’s Month (OAM) in May generation born between is celebrated in 2016 with the 1946 and 1964 aren’t exactly theme, Blaze a Trail. known for maintaining status Blaze a Trail celebrates the quo. A product of a bonafide growing and increasingly vital baby boom following the end part older Americans play in of World War II, at 76 millionour country, highlighting their strong, their births presented varied and deeply rooted roles such an unprecedented popuin local communities, and their lation surge in America that large influence on the nation’s they’ve been altering the culeconomy, politics, and the arts. tural landscape ever since.

From 69-year-old NASA AdAs they first crowded classministrator Charles Bolden, rooms and then the workplace, Jr. to 84-year-old actress Rita their sheer volume caused inevMoreno to 83-year-old Ruth itable change to every phase of Bader Ginsberg, who took her life they encountered. Life soon seat as a Supreme Court Justice revealed there were advantages at age 60, older adults are blazand challenges to having size ing trails in all aspects of Ameron your side. Career advanceican life, with some trailblazers ment was met with fierce com- Generation Ageless petition, as so many vied for Even the names don’t seem to rising to the task of unexpected the same job, but some histo- fit - “elder,” “senior citizen,” events in life and others reinrians credit that very need for even “baby boomer” itself seems venting themselves entirely. an edge in the environment as a all wrong. The generation of Lovingly referred to as Second The single strike of a match can start a whole new fire...what will you set ablaze? catalyst for a time of incredible change-agents reveal themselves Acts, personal reinvention and business in California for 16 three at the time and learning innovation and prosperity. as far more interesting and pow- the pursuit of lifelong dreams years while pursuing his art on the skill herself.

While unexpected economic erful than those names suggest. are being embraced by more the side, at age 53 Overbey took Overbey’s upheaval and the massive im- Besides, the changes they’ve cre- trailblazers everyday as they a risk, took a job in Michigan first book, plications of automation would ated are really just beginning, as open themselves to new work that proved a disaster, and not published force boomers to redefine the these rebels are predicted to live and new passions, creating a long after discovered his wife in his very nature of work in America, longer than any generation in our positive impact on the lives of was - surprise! - pregnant.

50s, was they also altered social norms history with many working way people of all ages. inspired by “When I found out Sophia to an enormous extent. The first past retirement age - by choice, One trailblazer, Taylor Over- was coming, I was doing odd his young generation to grow up with tele- not necessity. daughter. bey, welcomed a new career, jobs, and knew I had to find vision as a central part of their In all actuality, they have a new baby and a new artistic something secure to ensure she “It’s definitely unexpected lives, they were also the first to the potential to forever change venture rendering delightful was well provided for,” he ex- that I’m raising a small child as be bombarded with advertising the American perception of ag- success when he least expected plains. “Instead of taking any old I approach 60,” he admits. “I’ve - and some say, its subliminal ing, suggesting a new name for it - all after the age of 50. Af- job I could find, I took a chance got a young family when most effects. Economic figures re- boomers - the “trail blazers.” ter owning a successful window and went back to school for my people my age have grandkids. dream degree - a master’s in digi- And starting a new career at the tal media. As it turns out, I now typical retirement age is unbeOPERATION REINVENTION: FOllOw yOuR PAssION, usE yOuR skIlls teach at that very Institute and lievable also. But it’s my dream Pursue a second career offering personal and financial reward. It’s time to miraculously, I found my real job and she’s my dream baby, pursue your dreams. What were you good at as a child? Why not at least try it? calling when I took an elective and they’re two twists of fate I in children’s book illustration. wouldn’t trade for the world.”

Embrace the arts to express yourself. Learn to paint, take dance classes, maybe Serendipity got my first book in See the book trailer for Overbey’s even try stand-up comedy. To become an artist, kiss your comfort zone goodbye. front of a publisher who signed “The I-Wants and the Gimmies” Keep learning and growing. Learn a language, enroll in a computer class or take me and have since agreed to pub- at LifestylesAfter50.com & learn lish my second one.” more about his illustration work that bucket list trip. Challenging yourself keeps you happy, healthy & connected.

Written as a humor-filled at Taylor-O-Studios.com. If you’re Use your vast experience to serve others. Volunteers help keep their local com- fable about the value of shar- blazing your own trail, we’d love to ing, Overbey says he wrote the hear about it - email your story to munity thriving - and even alive. Find opportunities in your area at Serve.Gov/ book for his daughter, who was editor@lifestylesafter50.com.

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Forever Fashion As fashion hotly pursues long-ignored 50+ women, thanks to

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increasing social status and purchasing power, let’s not forget a few trusted looks - beyond trends - that never go out of style.

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emale fashion fans. Feminists chide them for dressing for men and sustaining cultural vanity, minimalists scold them for perpetuating a wasteful, materialist world and Tiger Moms ream them for dangerously digressing in development - cultivating sex appeal rather than self-reliance and intellectual pursuits. But fashion lovers privy to a brand of punishment all their own have long been women over 50 - whose knack for an evolved personal style is often ignored by clothing designs based on obsolete stereotypes. Lines aimed at 50+ females often consist of flat shoes and baggy, shapeless garments, that play up nothing but their age and greatly limit their fashion options in a way that seems neither fair nor reflective of real world consumers.

As women over 50 gain more social status and purchasing power in the modern world, fashion industry leaders may finally be awakening to their wealthiest potential market, women who do indeed still seek fashion as an expression of their dynamic, vibrant personalities and lifestyles. Women who live longer, travel and stay fit for decades more than ever before, want to do so in clothes that are individual, interesting and reasonably priced. While the industry plays catch-up to a shifting cultural dynamic, here’s our take on three timeless trends that serve women of any age - our favorite trusted methods of personal expression that truly never go out of style.

Statement jewelry. Maybe it’s the wisdom or the life experience, but 50+ women are often refreshingly genuine and at ease. Less concerned with others’ opinions and more sure of who they are, self-expression comes naturally - and fashion’s one of many avenues to share it. To express the confident, unique you try out some bright and bold statement jewelry. If you’ve worn it before, step out of your comfort zone and select a piece you’d usually consider too bold then balance it with a neutral solid shirt.

With your jewelry’s fun color and shape, you’re sure to feel your brightest you.

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Eternal Bloom

Local yoga legend’s evolution proves the best things often blossom over time

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trong, radiant and oh so peaceful, at 57 Wendy O’Lenic may as well be the picture of health - and beauty. With glowing skin, a toned and flexible physique, long, thick hair and a pauseworthy sense of poise, Wendy often finds herself fielding countless questions from class attendees at her Wendy Fit Yoga, Pilates & Personal Training Studio in Palm Harbor. And they all seem to ask the same thing - “How do you do it?”

If you’re looking for tips and tricks that let you cut corners while promising rapid results - Wendy’s wisdom is sure to disappoint. Her secrets to wellness are frustratingly simple and undeniably well-known: drink lots of water, eat a diet of fresh whole foods, participate in some kind of social and physical activity everyday and yes indeed, pray for good luck in the gene department. The closest thing she’s got to a secret, she says, are two four-letter words...“Slow. Down.”

As deceptively simple as her advice may sound, Wendy’s the first to admit that decelerating the pace of modern living - and the modern mind - is asking one to paddle upstream. At first it feels utterly impossible, but with diligent practice, tenacity and just enough madness to believe it’s actually achievable, you begin to make your own current in the world.

“Modern society isn’t exactly conducive to wellness,” Wendy laments, “especially for women (and specifically mothers) who have been taught their whole life to put everyone else first. To truly live a life revering slowness, rest and intention you’ve definitely got to go against the grain - but honestly, sometimes life doesn’t give you much choice.”

Making the mind-body connection For as long as Wendy can remember, she’s been involved in dance and fitness.

After cheerleading in high school and enrolling at USF to study psychology, she soon racked up so many credits in dance and fitness she graduated with a Bachelor of Arts with a major in dance and a minor

Wendy O’Lenic of WendyFit.com in exercise physiology. Having paid some of her way through college by teaching fitness classes, Wendy knew she’d found her passion, and although she took a few detours along the way, her heart always remained in fitness. While the unbelievable physique she sports as she approaches 60 definitely owes some of its lasting power to her diehard dedication to fitness for decades, she admits her relationship with exercise wasn’t always healthy.

“During periods of stress I always exercised more; it was my most dependable stress reliever,” she shares. “But as I confronted the most stressful time of my life the constant rigorous exercise went from a

Wendy’s top 3 reasons why it’s never too late to start yoga

no impact with yoga, so Speaking of joints, yoga combats The key components of yoga are 1ing Theres it’s perfect for those reintroduc- 2 arthritic pain. Practicing yoga circu- 3 the breath, and simply showing up. themselves to exercise or even just lates synovial fluid, an important fluid of Even if all you do is sit there with your starting out. The lack of impact makes yoga a perfect exercise option for anyone sensitive to pain in their joints.

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eyes closed, reintroducing your body to deep breathing, you’re giving your mind a break and relaxing your whole system.

helpful tool to a hurtful one. It was clear to others I was imbalanced, but with so much on my mind, I couldn’t hear their warnings or see what was happening to me.”

As the stress piled up and Wendy found herself buying a new business and a new house, getting divorced, and facing single motherhood all at once, her body started to give.

“Our bodies can only take so much,” she warns, “and that period of my life pushed mine to the limit. I was over-exercising and underweight, working too hard and too long - and soon enough, my stress level began manifesting itself as internal issues. I had ulcers, skin irritations, and anyone who caught a glimpse of me could feel my chronic stress...looking back on that time, I can’t believe I thought I was ok, but what happened next was the painful wake-up call I desperately needed, it ushered in the best thing that’s ever happened to me in my life.”

The breaking point Wendy’s recalling came in the form of a painful herniated disc in her back that left her debilitated.

“It’s awful, and anyone who’s faced this injury knows the pain it causes,” she says. “But it also caused a real shift in me.

It was the injury that brought me within.”

While on ordered rest, she says, it became clear she needed to shift her focus.

Wendy reflected, and disciplined her inner world and her thoughts like she had done with her body. As meditation became a way life, her wellness underwent a silent hurricane of transformation.

“That’s how I learned to slow down, to listen, to respect limits. The injury taught me healing the mind is often key to healing the body.”

These days, curious folks wander into her studio and meet this Wise Woman with awe. If her body reflects a dedicated physical practice, her new demeanor reflects a deep, meditative one.

Freedom After 50 While Wendy acknowledges that a lifelong exercise habit does correlate to higher bone density, she’s quick to encourage 50+ women without a fitness background to embrace their unique opportunity.

“My 50s are the least stressful time of my life,” she says. “I’ve raised my children, I’ve fulfilled a lot of traditional duties. And so many women my age can relate. A lot of major stress is over, and I want women embarking on their later years to finally start prioritizing their own wellness. I want women to know it’s never too late to bloom,” she says. “And in fact, your bloom is really only just beginning.”

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A recent Lifestyles “Share Your Story” challenge asked readers if etiquette’s role in our nation’s election process is devolving. Does the lack of civility demonstrated in the current Presidential race signal an escalation in vulgarity or has election season in America actually always been this way? This month’s winner and big-picture thinker Kathy Megyeri offers her thoughts on the issue, along with a broader perspective on the absence of etiquette as it relates to American culture in general. Thanks to all who participated, and we hope you will continue to “Share Your Story.” - Editor

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h ear many people bemoaning the crassness they are observing during this current election cycle, but it makes me wonder how selective our memories are. I remember all too Brash and brazen, a culture lacking etiquette is the American way well when Tampa’s long serving Congressman Sam Gibbons was temporary Chairman of the House Ways and Means Committee following the former Chair’s abrupt departure. Gibbons was a gentleman and well respected member of Congress for 20 years and still, in a moment of anger, he grabbed the tie of a colleague and looked as though he was about to hit this fellow Congressman. Onlookers were sure the incident would have escalated without the intervention of security police and Congressional staff members. This event ended Gibbons’ ambition to attain the full Chairmanship of this most powerful Congressional committee.

My point is that with so much at stake during elections and the ambition necessary to try and attain such powerful positions, the worst in humanity surfaces, showcasing people’s anger, duplicity, envy, greed, hate and pettiness. The system can never be mended to mirror ideal values because it is we humans that comprise “the system.”

Thus, it is up to each voter to cast his ballot for the candidate whose good values most reflect what we desire all politicians to emulate and then just hope for the best, all the while remembering the “Share Your Story” column’s included quote from Winston Churchill, “No part of the education of a politician is more indispensable than the fighting of elections.” Like reality television shows, modern music lyrics, and some of our literary best-sellers, the absence of etiquette is all part of life in America, and we are a loud, bold and vibrant democracy because of it.

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ccording to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), heart disease is the leading cause of death in the United States even thoughthe death ratehas dropped more than 35 percent since 1990. Similarly, the cancer death rate has dropped about 9percent. However, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), has risen from the fifth leading cause of death to the third, and its mortality rate has increased by over 30 percent.

According to the American Lung Association, 11 million Americans have COPD, and an estimated 1 million are Floridians.

Jim D., whose last name is abbreviated for medical privacy, has been a patient at Lung Institute since 2014. Jim believes COPD “hasn’t seen the news media awareness campaigns needed to stimulate research funding.”

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However, stem cells are slow to react, and in someone who is chronically ill, they’re even slower. Realizing this, the physicians at the Lung Institute developed a procedure to help the stem cells do their job more efficiently.

The physicians extract a patient’s stem cells from blood or bone marrow tissue, separate them and return them intravenously. The cells then travel through the heart, straight to the lungs where they are trapped. Once there, the cells can promote healing of the lungs, potentially improving lung function.

The company operates affiliate clinics in Tampa, FL; Nashville, TN; Pittsburgh, PA; Scottsdale, AZ and Dallas, TX. During the past three years, the Lung Institute has treated over 2,000 patients. A recent Lung Institute study indicated that 82% of patients report an increase in quality of life after stem cell treatment, and 60 % of those who took a pulmonary function test reported an increase in lung function.

While the mortality rates for heart disease and cancer are on the decline, lung disease mortality has seen a sharp increase in the last 20 years.

For the 1 million Floridians with COPD, the mortality ranking of COPD isn’t as significant as their struggle to breathe and live their lives. After 25 years of the growing COPD diagnosis rate and little medical advancement, it seems like there is hope on the horizon with clinics like the Lung Institute and stem cell therapy.

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While most all of us are familiar with the term fiduciary, it’s not necessarily easy to establish a single definition for it.

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Commonly thought of by consumers as the norm in the financial services industry, acting with fiduciary responsibility is actually the exception. Most advisors, operating either as employees or independent contractors of their respective firms, are only held to a suitability standard. This means the advisors are required to make investment recommendations to their clients that are “suitable” for their specific situation, but not necessarily always in the client’s best interests.

This suitability vs. fiduciary standard is the crux of what the Department of Labor was striving to address - establishing a single fiduciary standard which would govern investment advice to retirement assets, such as those in IRA’s and 401(k)’s, which would require advisors to avoid payments that create conflicts of interest. This would also entail making prudent investment recommendations without regard to any interests other than those of the customer, charging only reasonable compensation on investment transactions that result from

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With its vastness, daunting winters and landscapes full of intrigue and allure, Alaska exudes a rare majestic quality. For those seeking its special aura and a trip of a lifetime, it doesn’t disappoint - especially if you invest in what makes it special. When deciding how best to balance a dream trip and a modest budget, here are our picks for those things “uniquely Alaska” that are truly worth every penny.

Put stock in a solid wardrobe of layers.

Even Alaska’s summer months see temperatures drop deeply at night - and rain often appears out of nowhere. Invest in quality, water-resistant layers so the state’s notoriously fickle weather doesn’t compromise an unforgettable excursion to the base of a towering glacier or a stunning (freezing) sunrise observed with awe.

Above all, book a balcony cabin. If there’s ever a time to splurge for a balcony cabin, it’s Alaska. Nothing’s more magical than opening up the balcony door, still groggy with sleep, to see how the scenery changed overnight (photo above taken from Princess cabin balcony). Rolling into a new port early each morning, the balcony scene was hushed and peaceful, offering intimate moments with the land.

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Many seasoned travelers on a bucket list trip relish in the “cruise” aspect of cruising - relaxing on the deck, their cabin’s private balcony area, and of course the ship’s observation lounges offering spectacular views of scenery passing by.

Others with a penchant for a bit more excitement get off the ship at every opportunity - but still enjoy the moving panorama while taking a breather between wild expeditions. Every cruise in Alaska in scenic of course, but those situated closer to shore offer easily seen and enjoyed wildlife, and the stunning natural beauty that Alaska is revered for.

Cruising the Scene: Best Scenic Cruise to Alaska Princess Cruises (Fleetwide) and Holland America (Fleetwide)

Both fleets feature high levels of comfort, service and personal attention - making them excellent choices for those seeking reliable levels of customer service and traveler accommodation. Just as important as your onboard experience, Princess and Holland America have some major clout in the world of Alaskan National Parks, due to their pioneering efforts to bring Alaskan cruising to the mainstream. These historic connections help them secure coveted permits to enter Glacier Bay National Park, so a higher percentage of their itineraries include this iconic locale. Truly, everything is Alaska is beautiful, but it doesn’t get much better than Glacier Bay.

Unleashing the Adventurer Within: Best Expedition Cruise to Alaska Un-Cruise Adventures (Fleetwide)

For those cruisers craving closer encounters with the wilds of Alaska, this eightship, naturalist-led cruise line offers incredibly intimate interactions with glaciers and wildlife - including getting you face-to-face with salmon fishing bears - and they manage to do it all with pampering and style. Un-Cruise’s most popular shore excursions are those trips featuring hiking, fishing and canoeing.

You’ll get a real taste of Alaska with the onboard cuisine, thanks to almost exclusive reliance on locally procured meats and seafood, and the meals are communal, quickly promoting a great sense of camaraderie among passengers, naturalists and the crew. The fares aren’t cheap, but they are all nearly all-inclusive.

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HOW TO KNOW WHEN TO GO In Alaska, it really is all subjective

One of (if not the only) drawback of an Alaskan cruise is that you’re always at the mercy of the weather. At the outset, you’re limited to a six month booking window as most lines only cruise Alaska from May to September due to its harsh winters. Even in the summer, excursions like helicopter glacier tours are often cancelled due to heavy rain, so just be prepared to stay flexible.

For maximum savings: Budget travellers will find the least expensive rates at the start and end of cruising season when crowds are still too wary of the weather; the chills of which leave less options for wildlife excursions.

For most climate comfort: June, July and August are the warmest months, with temperatures in the 50s - 70s, but these months are also quite rainy. Still, summer is your best chance at fishing and wildlife spotting expeditions.

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Known to be Alaskan waters’ choppiest month (not recommended for those who get seasick), September offers the best possibility for witnessing the Northern Lights - Mother Nature’s light show that’s truly once-in-a-lifetime.

April’s “Share YourVOLUNTEER Story” Challenge: SPOTLIGHT: Cat Depot’s Peggy Miller ETIQUETTE & ELECTION SEASON

“No part of the education of a politician is more indispensable than the fighting of elections.” - Winston Churchill

A lifelong “dog person” finds new meaning as a Floridian, retiree, avid volunteer and surprisingly, a feline fan.

Sarasota with her husband so they could enjoy a little 200 beautiful and colorful blankets that went over so more sunshine in their lives. As active as ever, Peggy’s well, she then made 40 beds by covering litter boxes Observing the chaos of our current presiMost life and location have changed, but not Florida’s her sense ofRead with fleece. When Cat Depot decided to stop using dential race might make the innocence of 50+ Publication duty to the community - and its cats. towels to line their cages, Peggy donated another 170 America’s earliest election - Washington “When I attended the big adoption fair at the Fair- cage liners of different sizes. ran unopposed, heroically agreeing to do I was always dog person,” ad- grounds on Fruitville Rd., there were 200-300 cats from “The fleece is preferred because it washes and dries so onlyoatbe thehonest, people’s insistence - aalittle Peggy Miller, nothing Michigan hard tomits believe.

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The Voices of Lifestyles After 50: Mother, writer and reader Gloria Raskin gets Vulnerable A primary focus of Lifestyles After 50 is to promote healthy attitudes towards aging and inspire readers to embrace the gifts of their later years. A most inspiring action is sharing raw honesty, bringing to light those familiar - and uncomfortable - thoughts we’ve learned to keep concealed. In her courageous essay below, Lifestyles reader Gloria Raskin reveals the unspoken, letting us know it’s ok to acknowledge all aspects of getting older. - Editor

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hen did I cross the line from carefree, secure female to frightened, insecure, older woman? When did my enthusiasm for life take on an air of caution? When did I start watching myself walk, so I would not trip and fall?

When did falling even come into the picture?

When did traveling, become an ordeal and not a pleasure? When did I start to refuse chances to go away?

When did I start to constantly say “what if”?

When did I begin monitoring my speech with my adult children so as not to offend and just when did my children begin to pass knowing glances between themselves after I spoke? When did my children decide I was too “negative?” When did I feel I was out of the loop?

When did I start not wanting to call attention to myself and hopefully fade into the background? When did only the familiar become comfortable to me? When did encounters with the sun start only taking place under a hat and sunscreen?

When did the sun become something else to worry about? When did I start taking medications with me every time I left the house? When did I begin to measure all trips in terms of physical discomfort?

When did others on buses start offering me their seat? When did I start losing inches off my physical, mental and emotional stature? When did sleeping become a struggle? When did trips to the bathroom become so frequent? When did some days have to be endured, instead of enjoyed? When did the gift of a busy day become an obstacle course?

When did I become a nervous passenger in a car being driven by someone I loved and trusted? When did I start to brace myself for a car accident that fortunately has not happened? When did a low level of anxiety become a constant companion?

When did I cross this invisible line and change the core of my very being?

When did my sense of invincibility desert me? When did I become...my mother?

Gloria Raskin is a retired schoolteacher turned freelance writer. Over 50 of her personal essays have appeared in countless publications including Newsday & Mature Years.

Florida Gardening Guide: Tips & Tasks for May All year long, we’re featuring tips and tasks for successful gardening in the Sunshine State - and the month of May is all about the virtue of maintenance. For a head start on hurricane sea-

May in the Garden:

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son, sharpen all those pruning tools now - this ensures you’ll have time to chip and compost the prunings before big storms turn them into projectiles. Next up, check the lawn for bad patches, indicative of early insect problems. Catch them now and you may be able to nip them in the proverbial bud.

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hen you start feeling like you are accomplished, that’s when you stop accomplishing anything,” says Kristy Andersen, Emmy-award winning filmmaker and president of Bay Bottom News.

Returning to graduate school recently, Andersen says she doesn’t see many other 64-year-old students in her classes at University of South Florida, St. Petersburg (USFSP), but she remains undaunted. She was awarded a graduate assistantship and says the Florida Studies Master’s program is her perfect match.

“They appreciate my skills, and I appreciate being part of something that helps me feel like my life is fulfilling, instead of diminished,” she shares. “I feel like I am still growing.”

Clearly, Andersen has been growing since graduating from University of Florida with a Bachelor of Science in Broadcast Journalism in 1974. She was one of a handful of women operating cameras at ABC Sports, WTVT, WTOG and independent film production companies.

She wanted to create documentaries. So she founded Bay Bottom News in 1987 and became a successful grant writer to fund her projects. She built her portfolio with film projects focused on Florida’s environment, literature, culture, history and social issues.

Her 1985 documentary, Bay Bottom Blues, revealed

problems with water quality in Tampa Bay. Andersen recalls how interviewing scientists and other environmental experts led to “a pulling together of discordant voices.

They realized they had common goals and a lot of common ground. We did make a lot of progress in Tampa Bay, and it remains a concern because the ecosystem is so fragile, and the environment is part of Florida’s culture.”

Andersen’s EMMY award-winning documentary, Sea Turtles’ Last Dance, aired nationwide on PBS from 1988 to 1990. As the producer and writer of Zora Neale Hurston: Jump at the Sun in 2008, Andersen was awarded a Primetime EMMY for Outstanding Non-fiction Series in PBS’ American Masters. Her work-in-progress film Jack Kerouac: Lonesome Traveler, funded by Florida Division of Cultural Affairs, was screened before a full house at Studio 620, as part of the Sun Lit Festival in March.

Current projects include My Everglades Home, funded

by Florida Division of Cultural Affairs and Growing Up Positive, a documentary about HIV funded by USF, USFSP and Florida Division of Cultural Affairs.

Grateful for support from grantors, Andersen also appreciates how much digital technology has reduced the cost of independent filmmaking. Today, she uses a digital camera and editing software allowing her to work at home.

When technical glitches emerge, she finds ways to resolve them with online resources. Laser-focused on meaningful content, documentaries continue to be her passion.

“It’s what you create that counts,” she says, “so you keep your focus on quality.”

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YOSEMITE IN BLOOM “Now is the birth-time of leaves; the pines are retassled, and the oaks are sprayed with young purple.”

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s thawing snow fills the park’s streams and replenishes waterfalls so they may regain their stunning power, spring in Yosemite is nothing short of majestic. All signs point to the reawakening of the park in April, but visiting Yosemite in early May, often around Mother’s Day, offers a special surprise - the blooming of the Pacific dogwood trees.

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The Pacific dogwoods found in Yosemite make their home in wet, mild habitats anywhere from British Columbia to southern California and are only found in one color - white. Classified as a wildflower, the Pacific dogwood may not be as bold as some of its colorful counterparts, but it still knows how to create a striking scene. In May, Yosemite welcomes these gleaming white dogwood blossoms as they emerge from thick, dark tree trunks to create a visual vibrance and contrast that stops park visitors in their tracks. If you’re lucky, you’ll catch a view of the blossoms in their most spectacular surroundings, set against a background of one of Yosemite’s many gushing waterfalls with little rainbows sparkling in their mighty flow.

When admired up close, the dogwood adds a splash of life to the darker surrounding forest. But viewed from afar, the plant that has come to symbolize the peak of spring in Yosemite actually resembles a flurry of giant snowflakes floating in the forest air.

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Yosemite National Park, California - Mother Earth births the dogwood blossoms in early May. ant conifers, dogwood blooms are notoriously hard to photograph. If you’re looking for a little guidance on how to shoot these spring gems, you’re in luck - dogwoods are a primary focus of Yosemite’s Camera Walks, free two-hour tours provided by the National Park Service. The tours begin annually in mid-April and are led by local professional photographers who share secrets on how to capture the various treasures found in Yosemite National Park. If you’re a Yosemite newbie, the Camera

Walks are especially valuable, as they guide you to prime park locations that are off-the-beaten path, and may just provide the perfect opportunity to take a photograph you will never forget.

To check the current status of dogwood blooms in Yosemite, as well as learn more about NPS Camera Walks at Yosemite, visit www.nps.gov/yose. Do you have a favorite National Park? Memories of a special visit? Please email your story to Editor@LifestylesAfter50.com.

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His research reveals behavioral change is actually quite formulaic, with the same steps and skills correlating to achieving goals of all kinds. Whether it’s sticking to a budget, losing weight or de-stressing, the ability to achieve and sustain change is not so much magical or purely “willpowered” as it is a science achieved with specific skills and a whole lot of desire.

In an attempt to establish the elements of lasting change, Switzler studied the progress of a group’s attempts at losing weight. Of the 5,000 participants, only 600 (just over 10%) changed behavior, achieved their desired weight-loss and kept it off for over two years. As Swit-

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• 4 Fever Tree tonic water ice cubes* • 3 oz. 92 Bluecoat American Dry Gin (American-made gin, distilled in Philadelphia, PA) • 4 oz. Fever Tree tonic water • 3 strawberries, quartered • 8 blueberries • 1 tbsp. freshly squeezed lime juice • a sprig of mint • festive straws Prepare the ice cubes: Fill an empty ice cube tray with tonic water and let the cubes freeze. It will take just a few hours. Covered well, the cubes will remain fresh-tasting in the freezer for at least a few weeks.

Prepare the cocktail: Alternate placing pieces of fruit and ice cubes in a narrow glass. Add the gin, then the tonic water, then the lime juice. Stirring well, but carefully to not damage the fruit. Garnish with a sprig of mint and fun straws.

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Prepare the toast: The Day’s beginnings date all the way back to May of 1868, when Union General John A. Logan declared a “Decoration Day” to decorate the graves of Civil War soldiers. Its name was changed to “Memorial Day” 20 years later and in 1950 its meaning was expounded upon by Congress when they passed a resolution requesting the President issue a proclamation asking Americans to observe Memorial Day as a day of prayer for permanent peace and designating a period on that day when the people of the United States might unite in

prayer. 21 years later, President Richard Nixon declared Memorial Day a federal holiday and occasion to honor the men and women who died in all wars, and in 2000, a “National Moment of Remembrance” resolution was passed, asking all Americans (at 3 p.m. local time) to voluntarily and in their own way observe a Moment of remembrance and respect.

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The secret habit the happiest couples The Voices of of Lifestyles After 50: A“Share pair of relationship claimwinner a Your experts Story” Jaime Nicole Graham willingness to fight - fairly - may be the A recent Lifestyles “Share Your Story” challenge asked readers for thoughts on “mind key to unlocking relationship bliss.

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over matter” - a transcendence of physical or situational limitations through the here’s always relation- a response from a devout Christian whose power of the mind. some In April,new we published ship advice out there, but this one strong faith offered her transcendence, and May’s perspective below telling of finding might take the cake. A married pair of rehealth, happiness and success through devotion to the ancient practice of yoga. The lationship experts just put out a new book complexity of our readership continues to reveal a rich depth of diversity in belief syscalled The Heart of the Fight, because, tems, opinions and experience.

But one thing ties them all together: they all give the according to co-author Dr. Judith Wright, gift of outlook and idea expansion graciously sharing their heart’s truth. Thanks “Arguing is the most powerful toolbythat to all who participated, and we hope you a couple has for growing stronger. Only will continue to “Share Your Story.” - Editor

when a couple masters the art of productive fighting can they reach the highest levels of intimacy and closeness.”

Much like mine, if your eyebrows raised at this premise, Dr. Wright elaboby Jaime Nicole Graham rates: “Happy couples are happy because mom of three and anIt’saquarian they’re willing to fight! actuallywith how great zeal for all aspects you fight that really matters.”of life, I can comeHer off new a bitbook scattered is notatsotimes. muchThen, about a fighting few years ago I was drawn to ahow yoga advocacy as it is about to teacher training at a beautiful studio on turn ugly fights into golden opportunithe Coast.

Straight Here’s away I abegan tiesEmerald for greater intimacy. brief preparing, dedicating my early mornings rundown of The Heart of the Fight’s to“Seven the practice of contemplation, Rules for Fighting Fair.” physical asana, breath work, and meditation.

1. Reduce negativity.

Avoid I’ve continued this practice for destructive over three tactics (blaming, sarcasm, etc.)

Nolocal fight years, working closely with two is perfect but low blows get you nowhere. monks who lovingly offer their gentle guidance at an Ashram nestled between a Chili’s and Dunkin’ Doughnuts.

I’ve often contemplated the differences that have revealed themselves in my life since beginning my practice and at times even longed for more visible improvements. What is clearly verifiable (and admittedly a bit embarrassing) is that I have not lost my phone or wallet in over three years. I’ve had no speeding tickets nor car accidents since delving into the study of yoga. I no longer require biweekly chiropractic appointments and hardly get migraines anymore either. I recover from life’s bumps much more quickly and can identify the lessons embedded in the struggle more readily now.

I am able to calm my breath, body and mind in times of stress rendering me able to teach these skills to my children, friend, family members, and clients from an authentic place. Possibly most importantly, I now exude a sense of unshakable self confidence that I hadn’t possessed prior to dedicating my time to this practice.

This personal evolution has been remarkable and most recently came to a pivotal moment when I was faced with the dilemma of having to take a state licensing exam with little time to study. Having been licensed to practice counseling for children and adults in Colorado for over a decade I hadn’t believed I would be required to retest yet Florida’s rules are

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2. Promote positivity. Pair each complaint with a way your partner matters to you.

3. Never take or give over 50% of the blame. It’s not easy, but if you can stick to this rule, you’ll be amazed how much more productive your fight will be.

4. Be 100% responsible for your own happiness. It’s your job. If you need help, a partner is not a mind reader. Be direct.

5. Express & agree with the truth, always. Fights reveal a lot of truth, but we don’t admit it. If you were wrong, fess up.

6. Fight for, not against. Identify your desired outcome and go towards that.

7. Assume goodwill. Extend the benefit of the doubt by keeping in mind your love. quite stringent in my area of practice. I had little more than two weeks to study for an exam while working full-time on an Air Force base, in the process of selling our home and caring for our three children while my husband is getting his doctorate. I had scarcely been able to spend more than an hour preparing in the two weeks prior to the test. The morning of the test I woke up around 4 a.m. as usual. Rather than study I performed my routine and prior to meditation I asked my higher self to draw on all the knowledge that had ever been imparted to me and was accessible.

I envisioned myself passing the exam and obtaining licensure with ease. When I got to the exam I wrote “You Passed” on the pad next to the computer station and I proceeded to take the test without stress or nervousness. At one point during the test I noticed how fun it actually was. When I was finished I obtained my printout and I had indeed passed the exam that “3 out of 10 professionals failed.” I believe the study of yoga and the mindfulness practices that I employ daily were hugely responsible for this achievement and many others. Most importantly, embracing yoga as a way of life continues to improve my outlook and my overall existence in ways I never imagined, making me happier, more confident and more able to retain my peace of mind.

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