New England Monthly Magazine January 2024

JANUARY 2024

2024?

WHAT’S IN STORE FOR

PREPARING FOR THE UNKNOWN AND REALIZING IT’S GOING TO BE WILD!

WE ARE THE SOUTH COAST

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Welcome our newest members of the Milbury and Company Team!

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has been a licensed real estate broker and Realtor® in Rhode Island and Massachusetts for thirty-five years. Well-versed in all aspects of real estate purchasing, developing, appraisal, analysis and sales, his knowledge of a multitude of segments of the real estate market helps his clients with successful real estate investments and transactions. Working with Tom, you receive quality, experienced, timely and concise information from start to completion of your real estate transaction. A resident of Little Compton, Tom is intimately familiar with the coastal towns and Villages of Rhode Island and Massachusetts.

Tom can be reached at 401.965.3259 or Tom@MilburyRE.com

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is a licensed real estate salesperson in Massachusetts. A lifelong South Coast resident, Roz has a special appreciation for the farm coast, while also having extensive knowledge of the Back Bay, Beacon Hill and Boston real estate market where he has worked for several years. Roz is a member of the Massachusetts and National Associations of Realtors. He brings a wealth of information and experience to the Milbury and Company team and looks forward to serving the South Coast communities. Roz resides in Westport with his wife and children and is a member of Spindle Rock Club and the Acoaxet Club.

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Now the holidays are over, keep an eye on the political road and at least one hand on your wheel of finance; we’re in for a ride, and it’s anyone’s guess what’s in store for the New Year

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IMPRESSIONS Touching verses of friendship and ice skates hit home, and the heart

INTIMACY Do you set personal boundaries, ignore red flags in your relationships, or tolerate bad behavior from friends and family? It’s time to demand respect from yourself and by others NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | JANUARY 2024 | 17

Facts are funny things; they interfere with personal partiality and self-interest, allowing the freedom to create one’s version of the news. Sadly, truth doesn’t prevent the manufacturing of inventive reality.

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Present HEALTH, WEALTH, & RISK IN 2024

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WARNING: Readers who cannot differentiate fact from fiction should avoid contact with this content.

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The White House, during their regularly scheduled press briefing, touts a miraculous turnaround to the economy—sharing they’re easing pressures on families nationwide. However, CNN reports that Moody’s Analytics found, “The typical American household spent $709 more in July 2023 than they did two years ago to buy the same goods and services.”

Since that date, little has changed.

To think families could be pressured by an increase of more than $8,500 annually is a difficult pill to swallow because breadwinners didn’t see their income rise at the same rate—especially for low-income populations.

The Administration also assures citizens they are safe from crime in

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… it’s better to be positive, but when the building is burning down, you don’t throw Champagne on the flames. public spaces and at home; yet according to Newsweek, “Over half of Americans feel like they’re in imminent danger at least once a day. In a poll taken in 2022 with a sample of 2,000 surveyed, 52 percent of respondents reported they feel on edge every day. Also startling is the fact that younger adults are most concerned for their safety, with a whopping 75 percent of those between 25-34 years of age, compared to 50 percent of those aged 45-54, fear being a victim of crime.

And finally, the Government uses the defense of a non-existent immigration policy by reminding voters we are a nation of immigrants. Yes, that is accurate, with most citizens welcoming new arrivals that play by the rules.

However, according to a recent Washington Examiner story with data supplied by the official U.S. Customs and Border Protection Agency, over 10 million individuals have illegally entered the U.S. since January 2021.

The report documents that the total number of new inhabitants is more than the population of 41 states.

The article claims, “The Department

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of Homeland Security Secretary, Alejandro Mayorkas, halted many preexisting border security policies, [and] advanced sweeping parole and other policies to release the greatest number of illegal foreign nationals into the country.” This finding is not an opinion—it’s been substantiated.

The current State of the Union, in relationship to the lackluster responses to monumental troubles, is reminiscent of Nero, fiddling while Rome is left to burn; the evidence surrounds us.

The country’s plummeting has reached a level causing pause and concern by both loyal Democrats and alarmist Republicans alike. Still, we’re told; Yes, all is good—nothing here to see—we have your back.

The public was forewarned about political promises when, in 1986, thenPresident Ronald Regan said, “The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, ‘I’m from the government, and I’m here to help.’” You have to wonder, what’s coming next?

If you believe the “malarkey” spewed as truth by the Administration, then you’re likely a card-holding member of the 63–41 percent club of adults who disapprove of President Biden’s efforts to run the country. According to two recent polls (CNN, November 1-30, 2023, and AP-NORC, November 30-December 4, 2023), along with what appears to be another slide in popularity as we go to press, there hasn’t been such strong dissatisfaction with a President or subterranial approval since Harry S. Trueman held the office from 1945-1953.

Adding to the cringe factor is listening to talk about how, “We’re going to tax corporations (those same ones who create jobs and expand the retirement wealth of union members, ordinary citizens with 401-K’s, and children who hope their 529 College Savings Plans continue to rise) and

expand the economy so we can improve the lives of everyone by building from the center out.”

Really? How about everyone paying their fair share? Some people are treated differently regarding taxes; do you know who it might be?

Uncertain if you heard about the recent debate between political party opponents, Presidential Candidate for the Republican Party, Florida Governor Ron DeSantis, and the ‘wannabe’ Democratic Presidential Candidate California Governor Gavin Newsom, allow us to fill you in on the yawn.

Take heed to this critical fact: nothing is coincidental; the event was planned and rehearsed, a warm-up to what may come, by a network fearful of former President Donald Trump winning the office if paired against President Joe Biden.

But there’s more; as of this writing, talk of other possible candidates, including Michelle Obama, is brewing behind closed doors. And, if ‘Joe’ doesn’t surrender the office, he can only expect tepid support from Barack and Hillary.

As a sidebar, the only point of interest taken from the bland debate was reported by CBS News. During the final minutes of the stand-off—on live television, an off-the-cuff agreement was made to extend the discussion for a full two hours, which was agreed to by both governors. What viewers weren’t privy to was Newsom’s wife taking to the stage during a commercial break and nixing the idea of continuing.

Rumors have it she didn’t like DeSantis sharing news of her father moving from California to Florida.

The silver lining is that Mrs. Newsom’s father will be better financially, whether his son-in-law wins or loses.

Regardless of the fodder, our sources tell us Joe Biden will not run for another term, and a negotiated settlement for

his ‘retirement’ is in the works—likely at the upcoming Democratic Convention— it’s just a rumor, but it makes sense.

believe 98-year-old Mrs. James depositing her monthly Social Security check is scrubbing cash for a cartel? C’mon

THE COST OF LIVING

SAFETY FIRST

We’re told our buying power is strengthening, and inflation is melting like an ice dam in April; still, many, including millionaires, are wracked with pain and forced to adjust to paying twice what most products and services should cost.

Combine this with the price gouging that began after COVID; obviously, our living standard has dropped considerably from three years ago. If we look at fuel costs alone, elevated prices are being forced by political policy; drilling for an abundant natural resource would almost immediately improve millions of lives by saving them money at the pump.

Many financial experts who predicted a significant recession are roiling because they’re forced into softening their prognoses. But, if the two current wars expand with the potential of another in Taiwan, the stock market and other investments could significantly underperform. There is always a chance the economy could mimic the devastation of 2008 resulting from the national debt.

The future is the roll of the dice; no one can accurately predict where we’ll find ourselves. We hedge for safety but earn less by being cautious. The housing market has been juiced up on steroids, only to go ‘cold turkey’ with above-average mortgage rates and low inventory, scooped up by investors making non-conditional cash offers, closing in days rather than months.

Interestingly—and troubling for every consumer is the beefing up of IRS enforcement and allowing them to abscond with millions of dollars and wealth from safe deposit boxes, leaving owners without recourse. This action, combined with a new Orwellian surveillance policy for identifying every deposit and withdrawal made at a financial institution violates our civil rights to privacy. Does anyone

What is most eye-opening is the unfathomable and unabashed acts of antisemitism by the liberal woke crowd and the Ivy elites. It’s not just the pink-haired radicals that protest as a hobby; we’re witnessing thousands upon thousands of people pile on the hate.

A hidden agenda that has lurked under the surface has come to light; the radicals who routinely deny the egregious attacks upon the Israeli people and others are being exposed. Elevating the horror and crimes committed by Hamas, these same people call for the elimination of the Jewish State and the death of its people worldwide.

Nobody would believe such a story could be told, yet we watch the savagery play on a loop—day and night.

To believe that the Jewish people will not take notice of this betrayal when they deserve support could change the next election and history.

The country’s plummeting has reached a level causing pause and concern by both loyal Democrats and alarmist Republicans alike.

Still, we’re told; Yes, all is good—nothing here to see—we have your back.

From Pew, polling research gathered in 2022 shows “seven in ten Jewish adults identified with or leaned toward the Democratic Party, and half describe their political views as liberal.” At the same time, three-quarters of those surveyed disapproved of President Trump’s performance. Surprisingly, results indicated when asked about his friendliness toward Israel, a majority of those surveyed (including more than half identifying as Democrats) said they considered Trump friendly toward the state of Israel.

As for violence on the streets, in the air, or anywhere people find themselves, it appears no one is truly safe from crime or violence. The calculated funding for the manipulation of the U.S. criminal justice system, also known as the election of ‘George Soros’ District Attorneys’ has manufactured a revolving door for habitual criminals. Either no bail, no sentencing, or lax law enforcement has allowed the most vicious to roam among us, looking for vulnerable targets. Looting has become a way of life in major cities, resulting in many retailers closing their doors.

We are hard-pressed to ignore the nation’s troubles, and yes, it’s better to be positive, but when the building is burning down, you don’t throw Champagne on the flames.

With all our uncertainty, Americans are resilient and determined to return their nation to a sanctuary of peace and prosperity. The majority of people of different political persuasions and ideologies have concluded it’s time to hose off the taint; they want equality and normalcy for all.

2024 is the turning point; the direction has yet to be determined, but the destination is clear: let’s get back to business and regain the status of being identified as the world’s leading nation again.

Happy New Year—we hope. H

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On Point

Distilling The Confabulation Of The Intended Mutual Exclusiveness Of News & Opinion And The Media’s Manipulation Of Content

BY JAMES HOLDEN

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hat—what does he mean? It was a surprising response from a younger team member who grew up regularly watching and listening to contemporary media, piloted by disingenuous pronouncements of unbiased reporting and the accurate presentation of facts.

The ongoing issue of partisan politics in the news has accelerated over the last few generations; when confronted with accusations of bias, the media’s strategy for avoiding culpability has been ‘our audience can decide what the truth is.’

But who’s kidding who? Today’s communication companies, talking heads, and bloggers claiming to be “Fair

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and Balanced” and “We Shine A Bright Light” are as complicit as those hosting familiar taglines such as “All The News That’s Fit To Print,” “Lean Forward,” or “Stay Informed;” all blend bias into their reporting.

For protection, you’ll notice they’ll dedicate a space or place for ‘commentary,’ but that’s window-dressing because the rest of their so-called news is contaminated with political substance with the intent to influence.

As a learning moment, a discussion ensued, overriding our agenda for the production meeting; our colleague was inquisitive about a message we received from a reader. She couldn’t wrap her mind around his comments; here’s what he had to say. [You should] “Provide a section explicitly on Editorials vs. weaving it into your [news] columns. Be explicit

Today’s communication companies, talking heads, and bloggers claiming to be “Fair and Balanced” and “We Shine A Bright Light” are as complicit as those hosting familiar taglines such as “All The News That’s Fit To Print,” “Lean Forward,” or “Stay Informed”; all blend bias into their reporting.

when providing an opinion and [sic] do not refer to third party ‘actors’ [sic] without naming them.”

It was agreed the suggestions are meant to be the governance of good journalism, reminiscent not of days past but more of an unattainable standard of excellence that no one has successfully achieved. Nevertheless, while the intent of the observations has standing, we concluded our reader is misinformed about the nature and content we provide our audiences.

time, other ‘rules of conduct’ are found on a long list of websites—too numerous to name individually. They write about the inclusion of personal values such as honesty, courage, fairness, balance, credibility, equity, and, of course, diversity in reporting.

In all, the ability to play the keys of each note above allows for vast interpretation, leading to the use of personal license to meet an objective.

HISTORY

INTENT

From Standford University, we learn the five ethics of journalism. They include accuracy, independence, impartiality, humanity, and accountability. At the same

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ensure a philosophy was made public.

This form of messaging carried on for centuries, although the practice lost steam to more generalized content being consumed, but not for long.

Taking a shortcut, you’ll learn, on the pages of Wikipedia, that during the 19th century, the printing of news (a term to be used loosely) and information was supported or sponsored by political parties, which was gleaned as ‘special interests,’ at the time—and still today.

From 1860-1870, reporting included “editorial, reprinted speeches, excerpts from novels, poetry, and [sic] a few small local ads.”

Once mass curiosity peaked and citizens sought newspapers at large, advertising by merchants followed.

Upon the discovery of scale, owners of the newspapers realized that to increase circulation, they had to appeal to a broader base and make it affordable.

The best option was to tap into the financial influence of the opposing political ideology.

Pages filled with commercial advertisers, with content following; the newly found media companies shifting to “Liberalism [as a means of] leading to freedom of the press, [including] allowing criticism and the maligning of individuals called ‘yellow journalism,’ because the political cartoons were printing in that color.’’

Dealing in facts, writers with far greater skills and knowledge than we, carrying lofty credentials, penned volumes of thoughtful articles (Walter G. Moss, to name one), who claimed— with little doubt, that “Bias [an] ‘attitude held towards a person or group that is not justified by facts’—in the U.S. media has long been present.”

Facts are funny things; they interfere with personal partiality and self-interest, allowing the freedom to create one’s version of the news. Sadly, truth doesn’t prevent the manufacturing of inventive reality.

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contributed to the pulverization of journalistic integrity, questioning the age of information and its overt claims of prudence, often recognizing when ‘Doth protest too much.’

Attacks and praise hit hard and consistently, resembling tennis balls across nets, well-recognized names appear throughout modern history— some offering admiration while others demonized. William Randolf Hearst was called “vicious” by Franklin Delano (FDR) for his reporting tactics, with Walter Cronkite polled as the “Most trusted public figure in America.”

(However, from a first-hand account, if you met him, you’d find he wasn’t a charming man in retirement.)

Then there was Edward R. Murrow, who, during the 50s, was credited with having gone to bat against Senator Joe McCarthy ‘in the pursuit of truth and diligence, and report it.’

More relevant to today’s reckless abandonment of journalistic standards is an observation by the History News Network, referencing Murrow in 1958, when he “criticized TV [as] being primarily ‘used to distract, delude, amuse and insulate Americans and for failing to reflect adequately’ the hard, unyielding realities of the world in which we live.”

Generally speaking, the current state of mass media, which has become an adulterated and biased profession—never to return to its original intent; has zero chance of resurrection and is preparing to reach a new low with the release of Artificial Intelligence (AI) that will further blur the lines of reality and dishonesty.

TODAY

Generally speaking, the current state of mass media, which has become an adulterated and biased profession— never to return to its original intent; has zero chance of resurrection and is preparing to reach a new low with the release of Artificial Intelligence (AI) that will further blur the lines of reality and dishonesty.

With the ability of ‘bad actors’ (in response to our reader’s comment— sorry, too many to point out) to infiltrate news cycles and deceive the public with fabrications and erroneous reporting, it becomes obvious severe consequences are due, the remnants of conscious efforts to polarize the country through political, racial, and cultural misinformation and propaganda.

Culprits spreading disinformation have been linked to the proliferation of cable television networks, beginning in the 80s and 90s, exasperated through the internet, on-demand news, and liveas-it-happens news via cellular phones.

OUR ROLE

We aren’t a news organization except by name because we cover newsworthy events and include facts in our features backed up by research, citings, and references. Our products and services are considered entertainment, allowing our publications to offer a variety of views and opinions, not just ours but yours included.

At the same time, common sense plays a significant role in deciding what goes to press. We often notice public officials and agencies attempting to influence voters with perfectly crafted announcements riddled with vague or incorrect information wrapped in fragments of truth. They spin the story to reporters who cannot see clearly or carry water for them, assuring future access, a clear violation of journalistic ethics.

Over the last 18 years, we’ve investigated and shared stories of murders and deceptions over government employment contracts, showing the

Culprits spreading disinformation have been linked to the proliferation of cable television networks, beginning in the 80s and 90s, exasperated through the internet, on-demand news, and live-as-it-happens news via cellular phones.

kindness of neighbors; our staff has worked in soup kitchens to learn firsthand the strife and perils of underserved populations. At the same time, and without apology, we also attend the most incredible and honored events ever produced by and for the elites. And, speaking to that very topic, we’ve met Presidents, world leaders, billionaires, entertainment giants, and top celebrities.

In all cases, we share our experiences and try to make sense of their opinions and lifestyles rather than launch into preconceived talking points.

With all of this, we never felt the need to switch lanes and do the reporting everyone else attempts; instead of

relying on a template of who, what, and where scattered with traces of bias, we prefer to look at the ‘why’ of a story, adding our point of view which we don’t disguise. By being candid, we offer those capable of critical thinking the ability to make their own decisions and not slight them if they differ. We aim to start the discussion, not end an exchange of opinions.

Amazingly, after nearly two decades, we can have a split agreement on a story at any given time, only to see a complete reversal of feelings a month later. Much of what we do is to offer facts—often hard to swallow but necessary to acknowledge. Our

bravery comes at the expense of threats, boycotts, and personal attacks; many have tried to suppress our freedom of the press and speech, which has become popular among half the members of our culture.

As they have come to be known, the ‘haters’ believe our publishing a point of view they disagree with will hurt their causes, as they should if intentions are nefarious, self-serving, ill-willed toward others, or wasteful of taxpayer money.

Transparency is our mission; rather than hiding behind a cloak of deception and misleading our readers and the rest of the public, we don’t thread the needle with ulterior motives; we share the back stories that might not ever come to light. Often, we share much less than we learn; you’d be amazed.

We have thousands upon thousands of loyal and very bright followers locally, around the country, and readers from overseas; our commitment to them is to provide a fresh and honest view on a spectrum of topics and events that is nearly impossible to find in a crowded field competition, and getting more complex every day.

We don’t fill our pages with useless information, meaningless filler, or boring content.

All feedback from readers is thoroughly reviewed and sometimes acted upon. We appreciate the willingness of readers to share their points of view as long as they remain respectful and aren’t linked to threats, sometimes made by angry readers who continue to pick us up month after month.

As we’ve always said, you can’t please everyone, but you can be your best through honesty, fairness, and integrity.

Our commitment is to document our culture and its people so that future generations will have access to points of view that don’t always align with popular notions that often deceive the public of truths. At the very least, they will see the power of free speech, which is being threatened daily. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | JANUARY 2024 | 27

Impressions

BY PEET NOURJIAN

It was December 28th / As flurries filled the winter sky When moving vans pulled up out front / A tear spilled from Rebecca’s eye She watched the men in uniform / Carrying chairs across the lawn Then rugs, a couch, the potted palm / Her Dad brought back from Old San Juan Her brother Neal packed bicycles / While Mom was stacking pots and plates Her whole world stuffed inside a truck / Rebecca grabbed her figure skates The frozen pond behind her house / Was dusted with new-fallen snow For one last time she’d figure 8 / Until they said she had to go High up from a bedroom window / Patsy watching the van next door Her best friend was about to leave / A teardrop fell, and then two more She couldn’t bear to say good-bye / Hiding up in her room all day But then she looked out on the ice / And knew she couldn’t stay away Afternoon turned into evening / A silver moon burned through the snow The moving vans were all packed up / That meant that it was time to go “Where’s Rebecca disappeared to?” / Neal’s voice echoed into the night His Mom and Dad walked out in back / To find a most enchanting sight The two girls dancing on the ice / As long as they could remember Performing their own ice ballet / The thirty-first of December Now they practiced for one last time / Vowing before she had to leave That no way would they ever miss / Skating again on New Year’s Eve A new town is a lonely place / Nothing ever belongs to you A different yard, a different street / A different school to get used to Her folks were doing all they could / To help Rebecca have some fun But Mom was busy decorating / And Dad’s new job had just begun The yellow school bus picked her up / A little after eight o’clock She stared out from her window seat / And listened to her classmates talk About the weekend plans they had / The hayride that they took each year Bonfire parties with their friends / Rebecca wiped away a tear While back in the old neighborhood / Houses dressed for the holidays Rooftop snowmen, front-yard angels / Presents filling up horse-drawn sleighs Each window seemed to have a glow / Except the windows right next door Patsy looked into the dark rooms / Imagining the joy before

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And then she thought her wish came true / While munching on a midday snack A moving van pulled up next door / “Rebecca’s folks are moving back!”

She changed her clothes, grabbed her skates / And ran around to their backdoor But then her heart sank when she saw / A boy she’d never seen before “He’s chubby, and he’s kind of short,” / Rebecca heard her best friend say They caught up with each other’s news / At 8 o’clock each Saturday “He’s older than us, curly hair / A bunch of freckles on his face It’s scary how they turned your house / Into a really boring space.”

“I’ve met a few kids on the bus / But no one skates,” Rebecca sighed “The only rink is miles away / That means I have to find a ride I wish we had our old pond back.” / A silence hung between the two “We’ll skate our ballet New Year’s Eve. / I’ve got to hang up. Love you, too.”

The ice rink opened up at 8 / Rebecca showed up on the dot She laced up her white figure skates / Put on the headphones she had brought Out on the ice, she circled wide / As Swan Lake whispered in her ear Gaining some speed, she made a leap / Then spun into a perfect sphere Backwards she pumped, weaving her way / Arms spread out, then into a tuck She leaned her face close to the ice / Wo-o-osh! Just missing a hockey puck At the other end of the rink / First two, then four, then there were six Rowdy young boys in uniforms / Slapping the ice with hockey sticks Rebecca ignored their noisy game / Trying to concentrate on her form But when a player knocked her down / She blew into a raging storm “You know this rink’s for everyone!” / She yelled as she got off her knees Then grabbed one of the hockey sticks / And took off like a sudden breeze The puck was passed from boy to boy / Rebecca tried to make a grab Left to right and back again / She aimed her stick and made a stab Quick as a flash, she had the puck / Backhand, forehand, across the rink Skating circles around each guy / Cutting faster than they could think Patsy wasn’t that excited / When visiting the town hall tree Sure, it was family tradition / But nothing like it used to be She skipped the eggnog afterward / And hid out in her room instead Looking through old photo albums / Forgetting it was time for bed The bedside clock read 8 AM / Patsy opened a sleepy eye Out of bed, into the shower / No time to let her wet hair dry She searched for clean clothes to put on / Deciding which shoes for her feet Then, a sound she feared the most / School bus brakes screeching on her street “Mom! I think I missed the bus.” / The driver had continued on Patsy hurried to the window / And noticed both the cars were gone “I’ve got a test! I need a ride!” / Reality was setting in She bundled up in heavy clothes / Her frigid walk would soon begin

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She opened up the door a crack / The frozen wind blew back her hair Then suddenly a putt-putt-putt / Echoing through cold morning air Mounted on a motor scooter / The boy next door was riding fast She ran outside to wave him down / “Room for a rider?” Patsy asked Rebecca had to call her friend / Or else she’d absolutely scream “You won’t believe what just happened! / They picked me for the hockey team!”

Patsy said, “I’m not that surprised / You skate better than any guy.”

Rebecca laughed then whispered low / “I joined, so I won’t have to lie.”

“No!” had been her parent’s answer / To meet Patsy on New Year’s Eve She vowed she wouldn’t break their pact / And swore she’d find a way to leave “And then the coach asked me to play. / The first game at this city school Early morning on New Year’s Eve / Meet me there. It’ll be so cool!”

The motor scooter ride to school / Was just in time to take her test But Patsy never figured that / The boy next door was such a pest He waited for her after school / She told him that she had a ride Next morning, as she ate her eggs / He parked his scooter right outside Luckily, the school vacation / Started on the following week Patsy snuck out through the front door / Trying to avoid the next-door geek But when her Mom said she couldn’t / Meet Rebecca like they had planned She knew he was the only one / Who might provide a helping hand “How far can you drive that scooter?” / She called to him from her backdoor The neighbor answered nervously / “I haven’t rode that far before.”

Patsy strolled across his backyard / The girl knew what she had to do “I need a ride to the city / And thought that maybe me and you…”

Early morning on New Year’s Eve / The temperature was two below!

Shoppers crowded city sidewalks / Trudging through new-fallen snow A school bus skidded through the slush / It pulled up to the junior high Rebecca and her team got out / Underneath a threatening sky Patsy held on to her neighbor / Every time the scooter swerved He tried his best to keep control / As the slippery roadway curved “A scooter just can’t handle ice!” / He shouted through the frigid breeze “I think that we should turn around.” / Patsy answered him with “Ple-e-ease!”

Finally, in the blinding weather / She saw the Downtown Exit sign Patsy told him, “Take a right.” / The off-ramp was a steep incline He shifted to a lower gear / The scooter started gaining speed Then suddenly he lost control / “We’re going to crash!” they both agreed Patsy wore her skates that day / With skate-guards to protect each blade She tore the guards off, stretched her legs / Then told herself, “Don’t be afraid.”

Her skates slid on the icy road / She lifted herself up off the seat Scraping her blades slowed them down / Before they crossed a busy street

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The hockey game was 4 to 4 / Period three had just begun Rebecca’s line was on the ice / The other team played one on one Back and forth, they passed the puck / Determined faces out to win And then Rebecca made a break / They passed to her she slapped it in Rousing cheers filled up the place / As people chanted, “Go girl go!”

Surprising coaches and the teams / As folks sought refuge from the snow Row by row, the rink filled up / With shoppers stranded by the storm Commuters left abandoned cars / Policemen came in to get warm Patsy and her next-door neighbor / Joined the crowd inside the school Their frozen clothes began to melt / They stood there in a dripping pool “Rebecca’s team has got the lead!” / Her best friend shouted with delight The clock ticked down, a whistle blew / The referee broke up a fight Back home in Patsy’s living room / Dad filled up the fireplace bin While Mom set out some finger treats / For friends and neighbors dropping in They wondered where their daughter was / “She always makes those pecan balls” Looking out at the drifting snow / Mom began to make some calls Rebecca’s folks were worried too / What happened to their hockey star?

Her Father and her brother Neal / Went searching in the family car The plows had cleared the local roads / But when they reached the skating rink A workman told them, “They’re not back / They played a city team, I think” As afternoon turned into night / All driving on the streets was banned Inside the junior high school rink / They opened up the snack food stand Patsy and Rebecca shared / A milkshake and a bowl of stew Huddled on a wooden bench / They shared their heartfelt feelings too Patsy asked, “You think we’re dumb / To disappear on New Year’s Eve? I miss my parents and our home / But in my heart, I had to leave” “Sometimes friends are family too / Even though we’re not related.

A true friendship,” Rebecca said, / “Sparkles when it’s celebrated!”

A TV crew had wandered in / When they got stranded in the snow The cameraman with earphones on / Was told to shoot some video He aimed his camera at the crowd / But no one wore a happy face “It’s New Year’s Eve!” he shouted out / A gloom had spread throughout the place To make things worse, the lights went out / The storm knocked down a power line The cameraman had batteries / Those 12 volts made his spotlight shine He aimed it out across the rink / At two girls in a pirouette The scooter geek cranked his boom box / Upbeat rhythm from his cassette At Patsy’s house, the guests arrived / As police lights flashed their red and blue “We’ve searched the town, called everyone / There’s nothing more that we can do” Then Patsy’s brother shouted out / While watching TV in the den “Sis is skating with Rebecca / The late-night news on channel 10!”

When the two girls each got home / Their parents vowed that come next year They wouldn’t have to sneak around / To share the dance they held so dear “New Year’s Eve is time for family / But it’s also for best friends Let’s make a promise here and now / That your tradition never ends”. H 32 | JANUARY 2024 | NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA

Intimacy

Is It Too Much To Ask? Setting Boundaries & Acknowledging Your Value Is A Path To Healthy Relationships

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BY STEVEN CHAN

he song attributed to Charles Hart, written by Roy Turk and Lou Handman in 1926, and recorded many times over by a list of artists, including the ‘King of Rock & Roll,’ Elvis Presley, “Are You Lonesome Tonight,” begs the question; “Are you?”

If you haven‘t noticed, consideration and respect have become antiquated human behaviors less practiced, ignored, or attributed to ignorance; society—in general—has become intolerant of differences (while propagandizing inclusion). Offering wavering or insincere compassion, evident by the tsunami of antisemitism,

we’re witnessing and clinging to a diluted understanding of expectations within vital interpersonal relationships on social, professional, and intimate levels.

Those questioning these observations are welcome to reflect and examine their personal experiences that frustrate and add unnecessary stress to daily routines—they are too numerous to mention.

A lack of respectability by another can be explained by the activation of an incessant need to compete for acknowledgment or create an internal misinterpretation of achievement; it soothes the ego in the absence of real accomplishment and self-satisfaction tied to the process of healing past trauma. Often directed toward others, known and unknown, its toll inflicts emotional, physical, and financial harm on the intended target.

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Rules of common decency, etiquette, and decorum have vanished, leaving a compliment of rudeness and disdain exemplified as contemporaneous relationships where one party wins, leaving the other to experience feelings of failure or inadequacy.

What was believed to be well-preserved courtesies have been banished from today’s culture, including interpersonal communication with new acquaintances, business associates, friends, and family. Rules of common decency, etiquette, and decorum have vanished, leaving a compliment of rudeness and disdain exemplified as contemporaneous relationships where one party wins, leaving the other to experience feelings of failure or inadequacy.

As rampant as it is, the toxicity of disrespect should not be tolerated; it’s unhealthy, interferes with personal growth, and is offensive. Often, and most unfortunately, efforts made by those longing to achieve respect from peers et al. are, at best, confused by what leads to independence and a feeling of security. Confoundingly, they treat others harshly due to a lack of self-awareness and the tools necessary for creating rewarding interpersonal attractions and interactions.

Being respected is found within the individual; having selfrespect is the foothold for establishing an internal compass leading to a course of action in all aspects of one’s life.

Understanding self-worth and solidifying boundaries that will hold up against personal violations are first and foremost in protecting the psyche while simultaneously mapping out longterm objectives and deciding who is allowed to engage with you socially or intimately.

Everyone has value, albeit more difficult to find at times—yet we mindlessly erode our protective barrier with the rumination

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of negative thoughts and internal commentary. Consider this: If you don’t reinforce your finest traits and achievements, who will? Self-admiration is based on practices of kindness, loyalty, and honesty; such virtues yield an intrinsic wealth of personality development to be shared with others of equal beliefs and standing. Conversely, the option to focus one’s life on materialism or advancement at any cost while consciously deciding to only congregate with like-minded individuals will ultimately lead to an unfulfilled and spurious existence— a zero-sum game.

Such a theory does not shadow the creation of wealth and security; rather, it indicates how psychological health and financial success can be integrated into one’s life within the context of morality and ethics. Extolling satisfaction and a sense of personal achievement without exploitation or exhibition is a sign of true accomplishment.

There are probably a minimum of 10-20 interpersonal events— each day—wearing upon a person’s self-esteem, leaving a wake of frustration and emotional fatigue. Unless avoided or consciously addressed, with each episode comes the unintentional conjoining of negative thoughts projected by others. A toxic mixture, not conducive to emotional balance or health, makes it crucial to deflect negativity—rather than allow it to be internalized. Being proactive in managing your well-being by reflecting positivity through thoughts, words, and actions will aid in emotional development and be noticed, causing an immediacy of attracting healthy relationships.

Given the diversity of personalities, minimizing or terminating interaction with the person may be required when red flags appear (a negative response or warning sign of an unhealthy disposition or attack on personal values). If social interaction is unavoidable, it’s wise to set parameters and explain the reason for establishing rules of disengagment.

Certainly, don’t feel you did anything to create their defensive response or negativity—that is for them to own and you to escape.

Boundaries. It’s a proactive concept exercised in defense against those exhibiting behaviors or treatment in violation of your person. Establishing boundaries must include physical space, unwarranted touching, dignity, language, feelings, tone and topics of conversation, acknowledgment of personal achievements, acceptance or openness to beliefs and opinions, empathy and understanding, politeness, value, and compassion.

It might seem like a long list—challenging to apply in every case, but an easy way to guard against those who would ‘tear you down’ rather than ‘build you up.’ During an interaction, pay attention to how you feel while with them.

Do you sense comfort or anxiety, safety or insecurity? Is the person challenging you without cause or reason? Do you notice behaviors that indicate insincerity, manipulation, or gaslighting? All are techniques used to elevate a person’s selfimportance at your expense. Criticizing or ‘speaking down’ to others is a red flag violation.

When feeling distressed, it is essential to point out—not

the person’s actions but instead how they’re making you feel.

Through assertiveness and balanced emotions, let them know you’re uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation or the physical interaction; acknowledge they’re invading your personal space, values, or comfort zone. The awareness will probably direct compliance, but if not, always feel free to excuse yourself and decide if further interactions will be supportive and healthy for your well-being.

Developing appropriate social skills and requiring others to meet a similar standard carries a cost that you should be cognizant of; your circle of friends will probably diminish, with a few projecting blame or making personal attacks because of the distance you’ve invoked. Your choices in finding a mate will suffer to varying degrees because you must decide between engaging in a healthy or dysfunctional relationship. And know this: once you’re on track to greater self-understanding, those carrying baggage are more easily identified. Professionally, it’s complicated, but through awareness and communication, disarmament of those with questionable motives can be identified and dealt with effectively.

Don’t despair; surround yourself with healthy people and prioritize relationships that add to your satisfaction. An awareness and the authenticity of your ‘Emotional Intelligence’ (EI) will help you become the person you were meant to be in the first place.

Good vibes to all in 2024. H

Do you sense comfort or anxiety, safety or insecurity?

Is the person challenging you without cause or reason?

Do you notice behaviors that indicate insincerity, manipulation, or gaslighting?

All are techniques used to elevate a person’s selfimportance at your expense.

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Well Being

COULD PERSONALITY INCREASE ADDICTION RISK?

BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED

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hile traveling on life’s wintry road, we encounter blind curves, deep ruts, slippery conditions, and dense fog; it’s easy to veer off course. Sadly, there isn’t always the protection of a guardrail.

Britton was just 22 when he became addicted to prescription opioids. He began taking them after injuring his shoulder as a 19-year-old serving in the U.S. Army. His behavior was reinforced by his wife’s substance abuse and that of fellow soldiers. He struggled for over a decade, separating from his wife and eventually losing the relationship to her drug addiction, as well as the custody of his children. In 2018, he hit rock bottom and was jailed, but found

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redemption through Veterans Treatment Court. Thankfully, he’s back on track, remarried, and reunited with his kids; he’s now focused on achieving personal and professional goals.1 At a Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, in a video testimonial, the veteran wants everyone to know the disease of opioid addiction “can happen to anyone.”

While Britton’s assertion is true, could certain people also harbor personality traits that put them at higher risk for addictive behavior? It’s worth a look.

AN ONGOING CRISIS

Opioid abuse typically involves semi-synthetics, like oxycodone, with fentanyl and heroin illegally made synthetic opioids derived from morphine.

We may not be hearing as much about the opioid epidemic since it was deemed a public health emergency in 2017, but it’s still very much a pressing issue. According to the National Center for Drug Abuse Statistics, some 10 million Americans abuse opioids each year (up from two million in 2017), resulting in close to 50,000 deaths annually.2,3 Astonishingly, overdose deaths from opioids in the U.S. rose nearly 520 percent between 1999 and 2019, with threequarters of all drug overdose deaths now involving opioids.2

The likelihood of addiction entails personal choices, support systems, genetic factors, and environmental influences.

OVERDOSE DEATHS

There’s no reason to believe overdose deaths will decline as societal stressors tighten their grip on Americans and selfmedicating is a readily available option. Worse, new synthetic opioids called nitazenes are now snaking their way into the illegal drug supply and are 10 times more potent than fentanyl.5

All Drugs Versus Opioids Per 100,000 U.S. Residents 2

THE ETIOLOGY OF OPIOID ADDICTION

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1999

6.1

2 .9

2003

8.9

4.5

2007

11.9

6.1

2011

13.2

7. 3

2014

14.7

9

2015

16. 3

10.4

2016

19.5

13. 3

2017

21.7

14.9

2018

20.7

14.6

2019

21.6

15.5

Surprisingly, new governmental data reveals pain pill volume declined 45 percent from 2011-2019, as overdose deaths rose precipitously. Investigators say people first became addicted to ubiquitous pain pills; then, as supplies dwindled, switched to heroin and (later) illicit fentanyl, which are cheaper and easy to get on the street.4

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Prescribed for centuries, opioids can help manage chronic pain and severe cough when used precisely as prescribed and discontinued when instructed. Otherwise, symptoms of addiction can set in.

Since 2013, opioid use disorder (OUD) has been the official term for opioid addiction in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition (DSM-5), used by clinicians to assess mental health. The manual describes OUD as a manner of taking opioids that cause life problems or distress. Indications of a problem can include, for example, feeling compelled to take opioids and not being able to stop; taking opioids in larger amounts and/or for longer periods than instructed; spending much time obtaining, using, and/or recuperating from opioids; having difficulty completing daily tasks due to opioid use; and losing interest in normal activity because of opioids.6 Opioid receptors are proteins on the outside of nerve cells that attach to a neurotransmitter or opioid molecule. These receptors are found inside the brain and throughout the body.

Important in everyday life, we make natural opioids, like endorphins and dopamine, that attach to these receptors in response to pleasure or pain. When an opioid medication is taken, its pleasurable feeling is imprinted on the brain, and this can lead to cravings after the drug’s effect has worn off.6

Astonishingly, overdose deaths from opioids in the U.S. rose nearly 520 percent between 1999 and 2019, with three-quarters of all drug overdose deaths now involving opioids.2

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Opioid addiction is very complex, and its root cause is often multifactorial. Still, it stands to reason that awareness of one’s potential for addiction can’t hurt when deciding on opioids for medical reasons.

Further, taking the same dose of opioids can make the drug less effective over time, as the brain’s opioid receptors gradually become less responsive. However, increasing opioid amount and/ or frequency without a doctor’s permission can change brain chemistry and lead to feelings of need and want, or addiction.6 WHY SOME-NOT OTHERS?

In 2013, researchers in Sarajevo, Bosnia, and Herzegovina discovered multiple factors that might make a person susceptible to veering off their prescribed course of opioids. In the peer-reviewed Bosnian Journal of Basic Medical Sciences, the researchers state that while “there is a general attitude on equal liability to opioid addiction, latest genetic analysis findings imply there are certain quantifiable factors that could lead to elevated individual liability towards the development of opioid addiction.” 7 The researchers say that previous Bosnian research suggests genes have a significant influence on individual susceptibility to drug addiction. First-degree relatives are eight times more susceptible to drug addiction. Structural changes in the dopamine receptor type 2 (DRD2) gene have been found to be a potential cause of opioid addiction. Environment and, especially, personality are also influences, they note. The team wanted to explore whether DRD2 changes and personality traits may (individually and collectively) produce an inherited vulnerability to heroin addiction.

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healthy controls who had no history of substance abuse or psychological disorders. Both groups were matched by age and sex.

All individuals were medically and psychologically assessed, looking at DRD2 genetic variation and personality traits.

Interestingly, they found no significant genetic variation between groups, suggesting that genes alone can’t always determine opioid addiction susceptibility. They instead found that certain personality traits and environmental factors were linked to higher OUD risk. These traits included neuroticism, psychoticism, and either extraversion (outgoingness) or introversion (inwardness), coupled with environmental determinants such as being raised in a single-parent household or by a parent who also used psychoactive drugs.

Neuroticism reflects emotional stability, say experts, involving negative emotions, lack of self-control, poor stress management, overreaction, nonexistent threats, and an inclination to complain. Psychoticism, a concept developed by British psychologist Hans Eysenck, is a personality type involving aggression, impulsivity, and anti-social behavior.

OTHER RESEARCH SUPPORTS THESE FINDINGS.

A 2023 study in India, for example, looked at 70 people with DSM-5-diagnosed OUD. Most were males from an urban background who, like Britton, started on opioids before age 20. Patients with low opioid dependence were found to have high neuroticism and extraversion, while patients with high dependence were found to have very low conscientiousness (self-control) and very high neuroticism. The researchers concluded there was a significant link between personality factors and OUD severity.8 ADDICTIVE PERSONALITY

Such findings point to what’s known colloquially as an “addictive personality,” a term ironically coined by the pharmaceutical industry in the 1990s.9 Though an addictive personality isn’t a diagnosable condition, the Mayo Clinic Health System describes traits that can make a person more prone to addiction to drugs, alcohol, gaming, sex, gambling, etc. Echoing the above research, these traits can include the desire for immediate gratification, a lack of selfregulation, an inclination to risk-taking, difficulty accepting responsibility, early childhood trauma, neuroticism, impulsivity, family history of addiction, mental health disorders such as depression and anxiety, and obsessive-compulsive behavior.10 Having any or all of these traits doesn’t doom a person to addiction, notes the Mayo Clinic. The likelihood of addiction entails personal choices, support systems, genetic factors, and environmental influences.

Still, not all experts are on board with the notion of an addictive personality and say some individuals may be at higher risk for OUD than others based on personality traits.

Purdue Pharma defended its promotion of the addictive painkiller OxyContin by telling physicians only people with addictive tendencies would become hooked—despite knowing its highly addictive nature and widespread abuse. To University of York ad-

diction professor Ian Hamilton, the idea of an addictive personality wrongly shifts the onus onto the patient. “The message is: ‘If you’re weak enough to develop a problem with our product, it’s due to your personality; it’s nothing to do with us.’” 9 As the Mayo Clinic points out, there isn’t a single personality trait or personality type that’s predictive of addictive behavior alone.10 High neuroticism and low self-control seem to be common denominators in dozens of addiction studies, as people tend to use addiction as a way of managing underlying issues like neuroticism and depression. But there’s no research showing that all addicted people are neurotic. Thus, neuroticism is linked to, but not predictive of, addiction.9 It can also be difficult to discern which came first, addiction or neuroticism, as long-term addiction can lead to mood disturbance that may not have been there initially.9 Experts’ main concern is that an addict who has determined they have an addictive personality may lose hope and make no effort to get better.9

6. Sutherby, R. (2022, January 31). Why Can Opioids Lead to Addiction? PsychCentral.

ARE YOU AT HIGHER RISK FOR ADDICTION?

7. Mehić-Basara, N., Oruč, L., Kapur-Pojskić, L., & Ramić, J. (2013, August). Association of dopamine receptor gene polymorphism and psychological personality traits in liability for opioid addiction. Bosnian Journal of Basic Medical Sciences, 13(3), 158-162.

Opioid addiction is very complex, and its root cause is often multifactorial. Still, it stands to reason that awareness of one’s potential for addiction can’t hurt when deciding on opioids for medical reasons.

As for risk assessment, FHE Health offers a free quiz that can

help determine whether a person may be in greater danger of addiction. Visit fherehab.com/learning/addictive-personality-quiz/.

For those who may be struggling with OUD or know someone who is, Britton wants them to know that help is available, but it must be pursued. “Addiction is hard. You have to reach out for help.” He adds, “The recovery side of it is amazing; you get to a place where you’re proud of yourself again.”

For more information regarding addiction recovery, go to cdc.gov/RxAwareness. Treatment generally involves medication coupled with counseling or other psychotherapies. H 1. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center for Injury Prevention and Control. (2020, July 23). Rx Awareness | Real Stories | Britton.

2. National Center for Drug Abuse Statistics. (n.d.). Opioid Epidemic: Addiction Statistics.

3. Swain, E. (2023, November 22). The Many Categories of the Most Popular & Addictive Drugs. Addiction Group.

4. Rich, S. & Ovalle, D. (2023, September 12). Overdoses soared even as prescription pain pills plunged. The Washington Post.

5. Mozes, A. (2023, September 5). New opioids are joining the illegal drug supply, and they’re more potent than fentanyl. Medical Xpress.

8. Saha, S., Chattopadhyay, S., Datta, S., Debnath, S., & Heramani Singhe, N. (2023, January-March). A Cross Sectional Study of Personality Profile of Patients with Opioid Related Disorders in a Medical College of Eastern India. Indian Journal of Public Health Research and Development, 14(1).

9. Gerretsen, I. (2023, May 9). Is there such a thing as an addictive personality? BBC. 10. Gleeson, B. (2023, September 18). Do you have addictive personality traits? Mayo Clinic Health System.

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Debate

Newport Preservation Society of Newport County, Rhode Island, Files Federal Appeals Highlighting Legal Errors Of Offshore Wind Farm CHARACTER & VALUE ARE AT QUESTION

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his past November, The Preservation Society of Newport County, Rhode Island’s largest and nationally respected steward of historic preservation, appealed a federal agency’s decision to approve massive wind farms off the coast of Rhode Island, ostensibly obstructing the views of the millions of tourists visiting the Gilded Age Mansion of the Newport pristine coastline.

On November 22, 2023, in the

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U.S. District Court for the District of Columbia, the plaintiff issued an appeal detailing the failure of the Bureau of Ocean Energy Management (BOEM) to comply with the heightened levels of review required under the National Environmental Policy Act and the National Historic Preservation Act. BOEM improperly approved wind farms that will damage historic resources within the City of Newport, heavily dependent on heritage tourism.

The appeal focuses on a Federal law detailing that “viewsheds” of historic resources are as important as bricks

and mortar. These complaints seek to preserve historic and pristine views from offshore industrial-scale development.

BOEM approved almost 200 wind turbines over 800 feet tall—taller than an 80-story skyscraper—as close as 12 miles from Newport’s coast. The massive project of unprecedented scale with six additional wind farms slated for future approval could add 800 turbines in total.

Newport’s National Historic Landmark districts, including the Bellevue Avenue Historic District, Ocean Drive Historic District, and

“Green energy projects need not come at the unnecessary loss to our community’s irreplaceable character and sense of place. For more than a century, millions of people have visited Newport to walk Cliff Walk, enjoy our beautiful beaches, and tour Ocean Drive. These historic resources deserve the due process mandated by federal law.”

Ochre Point-Cliffs Historic District, as well as Brenton Point State Park and Sachuest National Wildlife Refuge, will see massive wind turbines across the entire horizon to the dismay of many invested in tourism and the economic engine the Preservation Society provides the state of Rhode Island.

BOEM determined during the permitting review, Newport would experience adverse effects but was negligent in efforts to eliminate or mitigate them, as required by federal law.

Cultural Heritage Partners, a law firm specializing in historic preservation

and cultural heritage law, represents the Preservation Society in the appeals.

“Our federal laws must be enforced as Congress intended and all adverse effects minimized or mitigated as required by law,” said Will Cook, the Preservation Society’s counsel for offshore wind.

“In rushing to issue permits for these massive energy development projects, BOEM skipped steps and failed to meet its legal obligations. Our appeals highlight BOEM’s errors and ask that the process be done correctly. The people of Newport County deserve better.”

Facing unknown consequences, Preservation Society CEO Trudy Coxe sent notice to the media outlining the importance of not infringing on what has taken years to build, restore, and preserve for generations of education and enjoyment.

“We support green energy,” Coxe commented in a press release. “For two years, we pointed out serious problems with the federal permitting process, but BOEM never listened. Green

energy projects need not come at the unnecessary loss to our community’s irreplaceable character and sense of place. For more than a century, millions of people have visited Newport to walk Cliff Walk, enjoy our beautiful beaches, and tour Ocean Drive. These historic resources deserve the due process mandated by federal law.”

The Preservation Society of Newport County is a nonprofit organization accredited by the American Alliance of Museums. It is dedicated to preserving and interpreting the area’s historic architecture, landscapes, decorative arts, and social history. Its 11 historic properties—seven ranking as National Historic Landmarks—span more than 250 years of American architectural and social development.

Read the appeals by visiting culturalheritagepartners.com/offshorewind-appeals/ H (We will follow this case and report accordingly).

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Travel

Where’s The Fun? Where’s The Party?

The Best Of The Best: How Northeast Ski Resorts Rank In 2024 STAFF CONTRIBUTION

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inter activities play a significant role during the darker days of the season, with many longing for the snow to arrive because it comes with reestablishing contacts, staying in shape, and keeping a positive attitude while daylight is scarce.

Now the best days for skiing and riding have arrived, we’re here to update changes and share our experiences that will serve as a quick guide so you don’t have to waste time researching details.

We’ve listed a few of our favorites, but you can find affordable packages and great amenities at all mountain properties; each caters to individuals and families depending on what makes them happy and their particular lifestyle.

What’s important is to get ‘on snow’ and learn what the attraction and excitement are all about.

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LOON MOUNTAIN SOUTH PEAK, NEW HAMPSHIRE loonmtn.com

OVERALL SCORE: FOOD: LODGING: ACCESS: SNOW QUALITY: WHAT’S GOOD:

❄ Easy to get to; plus, most hotels and condos provide shuttle services to the mountain

❄ Weekdays offer uncrowded, wide-open trails NOT SO GOOD:

❄ Parking at the mountain is challenging; get there early or be destined for the South Peak lots

❄ Shuttles shut down much too early, so if you party after skiing or riding— and who doesn’t—you’ll miss your ride home CROWD:

❄ Lots of novices, students, families, and day-trippers, primarily from Rhode Island and Massachusetts. It is evolving but still is a resort for weekend warriors APRÈS SKI:

❄ Uneventful/disappointing off-mountain options

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incoln/Woodstock doesn’t keep up with other ski towns regarding entertainment options. However, owner-company Boyne Resorts is working hard to update the reliable mountain’s infrastructure, which shows flair and a feel of an ‘out-west’ upscale resort. We’d like to suggest an upscale restaurant/nightclub with a mountainowned shuttle on weekends—that would rock!

With the expansion of South Peak providing acres of new trails and more development on the way, plus construction of on-mountain multimillion dollar homes—second to none, money is flowing into the area, putting pressure on the community to meet the tourism demands.

Loon has always had a reputation for exceptional snowmaking and grooming. It offers plenty of daily activities all winter long, including their famous January Fireworks and Torch-Light Parade, and decent Après Ski at the Babe’s Blue Ox, atop the Governor’s Lodge, or at “The Bunyan” Room, over the Octagon Lodge.

Unfortunately, except for a few decent restaurants—shared between the two neighboring towns of Lincoln and Woodstock, the area’s nightlife is marginal, to the point of being stagnant, not what you’d expect for a community that has the potential to become the #1 Resort in New England. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | JANUARY 2024 | 45

WATERVILLE VALLEY RESORT WATERVILLE VALLEY, NEW HAMPSHIRE waterville.com

OVERALL SCORE:

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FOOD: LODGING: ACCESS: SNOW QUALITY:

WHAT’S GOOD:

❄ A traditional mountain ski experience; challenging to find

❄ Affordable and a good value ❄ Low-key atmosphere NOT SO GOOD:

❄ The streets roll up once the mountain closes

❄ Can get crowded quickly ❄ The uphill climb from the parking lots, with slow-to-arrive shuttles CROWD:

❄ Delightful, extremely chill, and fun to be around; they’re lots of fun!

APRÈS SKI:

❄ At the lodge, in the late afternoon, for a few hours; a great time!

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The Birth Place of Freestyle Skiing

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he only reason this is a 3-star* is its isolation from higher-end accommodations and the lack of restaurants; it doesn’t take away from the enjoyment and quality of this popular New England resort. Waterville is one of the few resorts privately owned, in this case by New Hampshire's Governor Chris Sununu's family, part of an investment group since 2010. With bragging rights as home to the development of freestyle skiing, legends Wayne Wong, Doug Pfeiffer, and Nick Preston put the resort on the map; these snow stars made the mountain famous by displaying their talents on national television. Other acknowledgments include Waterville Valley, hosting the Final World Cup Ski Races in 1969. Fast forward to this year, the mountain is hosting the 2024 U.S. Freestyle National Championships this spring, and the Mogul U.S. Championships will be held March 23-24. Plain and simple, you have to get to Waterville Valley this winter. H

KILLINGTON RESORT KILLINGTON, VERMONT killington.com

OVERALL SCORE: FOOD: LODGING: ACCESS: SNOW QUALITY: WHAT’S GOOD:

❄ Slopes and trials geared to intermediate and experts

❄ The vibe and tribes are metros— they know how to travel and enjoy a vacation

❄ Offers a feeling of being far away from home, leaving stress behind NOT SO GOOD:

❄ It’s overly expensive all around ❄ Parking results in an unwanted workout ❄ Police patrols on the access road— be careful, they’re everywhere

❄ Some of the hotels and inns on the mountain road need updating; they’re showing wear and tear except on the rack rate CROWD:

❄ The beautiful people—of course APRÈS SKI:

❄ It’s party-central; once the boards come off, a carefree lifestyle takes over

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tarting in the early afternoon, the mountain party with indoor/ outdoor spaces fill; it’s an ideal environment for making friends before heading down the access road to continue the debauchery—ah, we mean fun. The mixed crowd comes from all points of New England and beyond, with a concentration from Connecticut, New York, and Massachusetts. Visitors’ style and incomes exemplify the attraction of big-mountain skiing; Killington isn't known for budget winter vacations. Newly learned, their annual Women’s World Cup Event, which had been free, drawing thousands of spectators, has turned into a pure profit machine. Charging for practically anything and everything—including cold aluminum bench seats, its popularity is at a new low and barely noticeable due to a lack of media coverage this past Thanksgiving. We hope this changes next year.

When the season ramps up, Killington will once again become King. The new K-1 lodge, boasting three levels connecting 58,000 square-feet of space, offers 180-degree views and an escalator—cool!

Having few evening entertainment venues, the one that has made history over generations (and is responsible for many hangovers) is the Wobbly Barn. You haven’t been to Killington without visiting this room. Best of all, they offer a free shuttle. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | JANUARY 2024 | 47

STOWE MOUNTAIN RESORT STOWE, VERMONT stowe.com

OVERALL SCORE: FOOD: LODGING: LODGE AT SPRUCE PEAK: ACCESS: SNOW QUALITY: WHAT’S GOOD:

❄ An all-class, luxury resort ❄ Dramatic, tony, with a feel of exclusivity and extraordinary amenities NOT SO GOOD:

❄ The drive ❄ Cold; Vermont's Highest Peak ❄ Mellow; don’t go alone; bring a close friend CROWD:

❄ Privileged and wealthy for the most part; they travel from afar APRÈS SKI:

❄ It’s not lighting the world on fire; it’s pleasant but sedate

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A Premium Vermont Mountain Experience

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towe is an all-class, luxurious resort with the location and experience to offer guests a unique and stellar winter vacation. Being at a distance, Stowe is considered a destination resort, with most visitors opting for extended stays of three to five or more days. The result is fewer daytrippers, creating a more exclusive and relaxed atmosphere.

Not for the faint of heart or pocketbook, its mountains, and cost are steep, but worth a stay. Experts in hospitality, Vail Resorts purchased this east coast wonderland for $41 million in 2017.

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WHITE FACE MOUNTAIN WILMINGTON NEW YORK

whiteface.com | lakeplacid.com

OVERALL SCORE: FOOD: LODGING: ACCESS: SNOW QUALITY: WHAT’S GOOD:

❄ Lots to do at this former Olympic Winter Games site twice hosted in 1932 and 1980

❄ World-class skiing and riding with a host of winter events scheduled for 2024

❄ Unspoiled mountain experience ❄ Historic Lake Placid, which is stunningly beautiful and close by NOT SO GOOD:

❄ Pick your days—it can be unbearably cold ❄ Plan well; it’s a long drive; leave early and bring snacks

❄ Hotel rates skyrocket during peak holiday periods—avoid them at all costs CROWD:

❄ Die hards looking for bragging rights by conquering the intense doubleblack-diamond known as ‘The Slides,’ and those who want an incredible ski town experience like no other APRÈS SKI:

A Taste Of The West Without The Hassle

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he excitement and thrills found at this New York winter resort community resembles a Winter Disneyland. Whether it be ice skating, touring the nose-bleed height of an Olympic Ski Jumping tower, taking an unnerving ride on an authentic bobsled, or the heart-racing experience of a skeleton ride down Mt. Van Hoevenberg that will take your breath away; you’ ll want to be part of this one-of-a-kind escape. Finally, be sure your vehicle’s battery is charged and in excellent condition. Also, have a winter emergency kit packed; during our trip, nearly half the cars in town wouldn’t start. H

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In Closing T H E W H Y ’S H AV E I T !

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LIZ WARREN, AND HER FIGHT OVER THE LUNCH LINE

ere are a few thoughts and updates on stories we’ve run and events that are making news or provoking our readers to want more.

We haven’t heard much from Massachusetts Democratic Senator Elizabeth Warren during the last couple of years, but we found she hasn’t lost her appetite for stepping into the limelight. It seems she’s shifted her focus from legislation to sandwich wars. In August of 2023, a deal between Subway and a private equity firm owning five other restaurants, known as Roark Capital, was in play, only to catch the attention of the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) when, in November of the same year, began a probe focused on the buyout. In response to the FTC’s vigorous intervention, Senator Warren used her valuable time to post her thoughts on X: “The FTC is right to investigate whether the purchase of Subway by the same firm that owns Jimmy John’s and McAlister’s Deli creates a sandwich shop monopoly.”

OMG, we are fortunate to have a watchdog in Washington like Liz. What will we do if Honey Dew follows this trend and sells to Dunkin Donuts? Could prices rise by a nickel? Such a corporate action might result in all-out warfare, limiting our dining options (as they are proposed to do if Subway is sold). As for the rest of us—we don’t care; fast food isn’t healthy, regardless of what they advertise.

DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM?

Uncertain if this is happening to you, but our people are being asked to either show an ID or use a videotape ATM that records (and likely stores your image and sends it to a database without your knowledge) when making a deposit. It makes sense if someone is cashing a check against your account, but to put money into it is senseless. Recognize it’s not a law, so you don’t need to comply; feel free not to show your license.

When asked why this rule has been enacted, the standard and false response is, “For your safety.” That’s doubtful and a fabrication—don’t you deserve a truthful answer?

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Wow, the wires lit up after our recent piece about the school. The public hoped to tell their stories of how the college’s administration treated them and share their knowledge of its far-reaching influence on international affairs and questionable issues regarding the safety of seafarers. We heard from investigators, litigants, and even our contact who signed the contracts the school refused to honor. Confessing, she lost a battle when the trustees at the school by the sea wouldn’t support her, forcing a dismissal. So numerous the responses, we haven’t had time to discuss the next steps—but we will. Shining a light on MMA will be the beacon of light obscured by darkness for a long time.

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MASSACHUSETTS MARITIME ACADEMY (MMA)—WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN HIDING?

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Our recent feature on the New Bedford/Fall River commuter train must have caught the attention of the Massachusetts Bay Transportation Authority (MBTA) because after waiting for what seemed like an eternity, followed by a timely press announcement stating the “South Coast Rail / Phase I Opening end of 2023,” the agency canceled the ribbon cutting. In place of a celebration, the chain of command devised a plausible excuse for putting off a grand opening, telling the public they needed months to test the engines and crossings.

Has anyone noticed trains or crossings being tested? And, how long or the number of trips does it take to confirm its safety and operation? The stall gives rise to a different perspective: either the project is incomplete and missed the deadline, or, more likely the reason, proponents of the rail didn’t want to memorialize the first ride during the holidays when few, if any, would make it a priority to attend a back-

slapping event at a deserted whistle stop; it would make for an embarrassing optic.

And you know, some media members would jump at an opportunity to photograph an empty lot under gray skies.

We believe the testing will conclude once temperatures improve and there’s nothing else to do but watch a train run down the tracks.

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