Neapolitan Family Digital Issue May 2021

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COMPLIMENTARY

The Mother Load

What price did mothers pay during the pandemic?

Get Mom Hooked on Fishing Fishing isn’t just for Father’s Day

Teacher Appreciation Ideas for gifts teachers really want

Tax Questions Answered

Will stimulus payments and unemployment affect your refund?

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May 2021 TABLE OF CONTENTS

in every issue . . .

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FROM THE PUBLISHER

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YOUR COMMUNITY

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COLLIER COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS UPDATE

on the cover…

12 Get Hooked on Fishing for Mother’s Day. Jump on the fishing bandwagon and spend the day on the open water, celebrating the moms in your life.

by Anna Snyder 18 The Mother Load. Mothers earned their stripes during the pandemic. Were they gained at a fair cost?

by Lissa Carlson 21 Teacher of the Month. Meet Michelle Smith, an ESE teacher at Lehigh Senior High School.

Ayla Bryant is 7 years old and a first grader at Estates Elementary.

She is a big sister to 3-year-old Zoe, and the daughter of Ben, a superintendent for a construction company, and Barina, a dental assistant and family photographer at Barina Bryant Photography.

Ayla’s grandfather “Papa“ also lives with the family. Ayla loves gymnastics, mermaids, camping, and playing outdoors.

Cover photo by Rachel Durik of Savor Photography www.savorphotography.com 239-963-7750 • rachel@savorphotography.com

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22 Answers to Your Tax Questions. With the filing deadline extended to May 17, you have time to learn how stimulus payments and unemployment may impact your tax refund.

24 Gifts for Teachers. Ideas for appreciation gifts that teachers really want.

28 Have You Seen Rock City?

Take a summer road trip to this quirky collection of natural wonders and fairytale surprises in Georgia.

by Karen T. Bartlett

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THIS MONTH Happy Mother’s Day! Do you feel lighter? I do. Not physically, but emotionally. I gave into the COVID-19 eating plan about this time last year. By the time you read this, I will be fully vaccinated, and ready (if not entirely willing) to get back to some semblance of “normal“ life. The pandemic has weighed heavily on us all, and finally seeing the light at the end of this long tunnel has lightened that load. We aren’t homefree yet, but it feels good to know we are making progress.

We all know who carried the majority of the burden over the past 15 months – mothers. And while there have been benefits for us, such as increased time with our kids and a valid reason to wear pajamas all day, there have been very real costs to women. For a deeper dive into how the pandemic has affected women, read Lissa Carlson article “The Mother Load“on page 18.

So it’s even more important this year to celebrate the mothers in our lives, including ourselves. What better way to do that than to try something new with your family? Fishing has become increasingly popular over the past year as families are turning to safe, outdoor activities in droves. Check out Anna Snyder’s article on page 12 to find out why you should get out on the water this Mother’s Day. Happy Mother’s Day!

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he Village School of Naples has named Janna Outlaw as its new head of early childhood education and lower school. In this role, she will oversee the school’s preschool through fifth grade division and assist in strategic initiatives.

Most recently, Outlaw was head of school at St. Andrew’s Episcopal School and Warwick River Christian School in Newport News, Va. Before that, she taught in various lower school grade levels.

“I am delighted to welcome Janna to the TVS community,” said Dennis Chapman, head of school for The Village School.

“She has the skill needed to build upon the strong leadership of her predecessors and further advance our early childhood and lower school program.”

Outlaw holds a Master of Arts in education and human development from George Washington University. She also holds a Master of Education in educational leadership from Old Dominion University. Outlaw earned her Bachelor of Science in elementary education from Fayetteville State University.

The Village School serves students in preschool through 12th grade. Visit www.villageschoolnaples.org.

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Two diabetes screening training sessions were held recently; one at the Greater Naples YMCA and the other hosted by the FGCU Lions Club, whose student members are dedicated to providing fair access to basic health care such as hearing, vision, and diabetes screenings.

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COLLIER COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS

By Jennifer Kupiec

In-person Graduation Announced for CCPS’s Class of 2021

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commencement ceremony. Seating will be in the stands and/or field using marked seats to allow each participant’s guests to sit together, while socially distancing from others. All participants, including graduates and guests, will be required to wear a face covering/mask. Class of 2021 seniors and parents will receive details regarding ticket distribution, graduation photos, graduation practices, and related senior events from their respective high school principal.

he Class of 2021 will be “walking the stage” this year! While last year’s virtual commencements went well, Collier County Public Schools (CCPS) is excited to be able to bring back in-person graduations this year for high school seniors, albeit with some adjustments.

In collaboration with the Florida Department of Health-Collier, and in order to accommodate added safety procedures, CCPS has determined that graduation ceremonies will be held outside at each individual high school’s campus. Lorenzo Walker Technical High School will hold its ceremony at Paradise Coast Sports Park.

All ceremonies will take place at 9 a.m. on Friday, May 28.

“It is an honor that we get to walk,” said Andy Zamora, a senior at Golden Gate High School who plans to attend college to study finance following graduation. “I am also grateful that my family gets to see me through this rite of passage.”

“To say I am excited is an understatement,” said Barron Collier High School senior Hannah Page, who will be visiting family in England before heading to Pace University in New York City. “Graduating

Parents also should take note of a change to the 2020-21 academic calendar.

Because school staff will need to be available for graduation ceremonies, May 28 is now a virtual learning half day for students, instead of an early dismissal day.

[from] high school is a monumental moment in every student’s life; something they look forward to since freshman year. The amount of growth we experience within four years is incredible.”

Each graduate will receive a limited number of tickets; a livestream also will be available for each high school’s

“Knowing I will be able to celebrate my four years of hard work at Barron Collier with my friends and classmates is everything I could ever ask for,” Page concluded. “Not only is this exciting for the Class of 2021, but for the parents as well. I am so happy that Barron Collier and CCPS are able to provide us with an in-person graduation to commemorate this turning point in our lives.”

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MOTHER’S DAY

By Anna Snyder

Get Hooked on Fishing for Mother’s Day

If you have ever thought

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here is so much to love about fishing – the thrill of the hunt, the glory of the catch, and the romance of a completely other underwater world that we’re only just beginning to understand. In Southwest Florida, we’re blessed with the yearround ability to pursue fishing as a hobby and passion. For many anglers, the rhythm and variances of Southwest Florida waters keep us coming back day in and day out. There’s always another fish to catch, new mangroves to explore, more days on the water or at the beach to log. World-class fishing exists within reach, and success is just a wet hook away. Connecting with nature, absorbing some sun, staying physically active, and gaining understanding of the necessity of wildlife conservation are side benefits.

What happens when these realities of fishing intersect with a global pandemic? As we collectively face another summer of social distancing, millions of Americans are turning to the outdoors for recreation, exercise, and family activities. Over the past year, we’ve seen our behaviors change rapidly, and many of us are increasing our time 12

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about taking up fishing as a family activity, Mother’s Day is the perfect opportunity.

Go outdoors and celebrate the amazing mothers, wives, sisters, and friends in your life! outdoors pursuing wellness, peace and calm. We want to connect with family and friends in safe ways that contribute meaningfully to our overall physical and mental health. Spending on outdoor recreational activities has increased dramatically – with wellness, mental health, and family bonding as worthwhile goals. Amateur fishing rates have increased as families look for ways to spend time together outside.

Moreover, four in 10 new fishing participants are female, according to the Recreational Boating and Fishing Foundation (RBFF). Families are turning to the outdoors, and fishing gets the everyone out of the house for some fun and adventure!

“Even our team was surprised to see fishing become such a trend in 2020. It makes perfect sense, though,” said Stephanie Vatalaro, senior vice president of marketing and communications at RBFF. “Many longtime anglers have always said the thing they like most about fishing is the calmness and peacefulness of the water. It’s the perfect antidote to pandemic stress and anxiety. Fishing has social distancing built right into it.”

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The mental health benefits of fishing are a big draw for the sport.

“Going fishing ... can help you slow down mentally,” Vatalaro said.

“One of the best things about fishing is there’s no pressure to make a catch. The social experience of being in nature is a great way to connect with family and friends and relax together.”

Getting started Debbie Hanson is a freshwater fishing guide and owner of She Fishes 2 (www.shefishes2.com) in Estero. She routinely takes new anglers to the Everglades and the canal systems in Southwest Florida.

“My business has grown so much in the past year,” she noted. “I’ve taken more couples fishing than ever before. People are looking for recreational therapy. They’re looking for a way to decompress and to bond. They want to experience the outdoors in a new way.”

One such beginning angler is Naples resident Joseph Malovics.

“I started fishing when my wife thought she had COVID in March 2020. We quarantined for two weeks, so I ordered a rod and reel online.” Malovics’ neighbor encouraged him to pursue fly fishing. “At first it was very hard getting the motion down. The learning curve comes fast, and every time I practiced, I got a bit better. When you make a well-timed accurate throw, it’s very satisfying.”

Joseph has been lured by fishing on our local beaches. “Southwest Florida has one of the best beach snook fisheries in the world.

You can walk the beaches for miles and have so many opportunities to target fish. And you don’t need a boat! I can wake up on a Saturday morning, beat the beach crowd, walk the beach, and be back home before breakfast,” he said. continued on page 14

Facing page: Courtney Darnell of Naples fly fishing.

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Another Naples native, Courtney Darnell, turned to fly fishing during the pandemic as a way to be intentional with her time. “I grew up in Naples and always bait-fished, but left for Maine when the lockdown was at its peak. I wanted to be outside, connect with nature, and pursue personal health. I started doing some freshwater fly fishing there.” After things opened up, Darnell returned to Naples and met Nick Davis, owner of 239 Flies. “I fell in love with Nick, who opened my eyes to saltwater fly fishing. I’m still learning so much; I’ve always loved being on the water, but now I’m all about the challenge of fly fishing.”

When asked how fishing has contributed to her overall health, Darnell commented: “Fly fishing is definitely an arm and core workout, which I didn’t expect. And fly fishing helps me clear my head.

Nick and I are both business owners – it’s important to carve out time to check out and sink into all the nature and wildlife Southwest Florida has to offer.”

Use your resources There are so many wonderful ways to get into the sport in Southwest Florida – and the barrier to entry is lower than you might think.

We have abundant resources and opportunities in our corner of the world. A great day in the great outdoors is just an errand or two away.

“Hire a guide, especially if you’re new to the area,” suggested Hanson. “Guides are on the water every day; they understand the seasonal patterns of fish, and can match bait and lures to these patterns. You can maximize your time by going out with a guide.”

If hiring a guide isn’t in your budget, don’t worry – there are many different ways to get involved. “I’ve interacted with a lot of single moms who don’t have experience fishing but who want to take their kids out fishing,” Hanson said. “Keep your eyes open for fishing seminars and small group instruction at fishing shops or places like Bass Pro. These organizations are social distancing; they have professional staff providing instruction on skills and gear safely.”

The great thing about fishing is that you don’t need much to get started. “Fishing isn’t only for the very wealthy,” Hanson explained.

“Fresh water fishing is a great way to get started. We have a lot of lakes and ponds in Southwest Florida – you can fish right in your back yard. People have this mindset that you need a lot of money or a boat to get started, but that’s not the case. A simple rod and reel combo and some good old fashioned Wonder Bread often does the trick!”

Hanson noted that there is a wealth of information online for both beginner and veteran anglers. “We have some amazing online resources now – resources anglers didn’t have 15-20 years ago,” she said.

One such resource is Take Me Fishing, an organization within the RBFF that seeks to increase the number of recreational anglers.

“Takemefishing.org is a one-stop beginner resource with tips, videos, and even an interactive map of fishing places in Southwest Florida and around the country,” said Vatalaro. “Fishing can seem like a commitment, but it doesn’t have to be a big trip if you don’t want it to be. Places to fish are actually closer than many people expect, even in more populated areas.”

For more information on getting hooked on fishing, visit www. takemefishing.org or www.shefishes2.com.

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7:30 a.m. Miniature Horse Yoga. Suggested donation is $10-$20, and 50% of the proceeds go to NTRC’s miniature horse therapy program. Naples Therapeutic Riding Center, 206 Ridge Dr., Naples.

Call 239-596-2988 or visit www.NaplesTherapeuticRidingCenter.org.

12:30 p.m. Camp Vitamin C. Teaching kids ages 5-12 movement, strength training, and meditation.

Limited class size. Email campvitaminckids@gmail. com to register. Paradise Coast Sports Complex, 3940 City Gate Blvd. N., Naples. Call 239-2524386 or visit www.sportsforceparksnaples.com. 2

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8:30 a.m. School’s Out Camp. For ages 7-14.

Campers spend their day off exploring the nature center and learning all about Southwest Florida’s unique ecology. Calusa Nature Center, 3450 Ortiz Ave., Fort Myers. Visit www. calusanature.org/camps or call 239-275-3435.

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5:00 p.m. Broadway Bootcamp: Revolting Children. Ages 6-12. A fun-filled class focusing on the music and choreography from Matilda the Musical. Gulfshore Playhouse, 755 8th Ave. S., Naples.

Call 239-261-7529 or visit www.gulfshoreplayhouse. org.

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Naples Ballet: The Sleeping Beauty. Professional dancers join young dancers from Naples Ballet for this performance. Tickets $20$35. Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples.

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10:00 a.m. Little Leapers. Ages 6-12. Ages 7 and younger. Session includes a mix of structured and unstructured activities. $12.99. Sky Zone Trampoline Park, 14181 S. Tamiami Tr., Suite 140, Fort Myers. Call 239-3135448 or visit www.skyzone.com.

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4:30 & 5:00 p.m. Golf Lessons for Ages 3+.

Jump Start Kids Golf is designed to give kids ages 3-6 a fun way to learn golf.

Ages 3-4 at 4:30 p.m. Ages 5-6 at 5:00 p.m. Veterans Park, 1895 Veterans Park Dr., Naples. Call 239946-4776 or check www. jumpstartkidsgolf.com.

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6:30 p.m. Buddy Break.

Three-hour monthly session of free respite care for children with special needs and siblings. Crafts, games, movies, and special activities. Pre-registration required. Call 240-8937072 or visit https://growchurch.com/buddy-break.

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2:00 p.m. Pony Fun Day. Ages 5 and older learn safety rules, grooming, and riding. Horse related craft or activity. Cornerstone Farm South, 3375 Vanderbilt Beach Rd., Naples. Check https://cornerstonefarmsouth.com or call 239-5957618.

12:00 p.m. Auditions for The Little Mermaid & The Wizard of Oz. Ages 9-14. Walk-ins welcome but reserving an audition time is encouraged. The Naples Players, Sugden Community Theatre, 701 5th Ave. S., Naples. Call 239-434-7340 or visit https://naplesplayers.org.

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12:00 p.m. Sunday Market. Vintage, handmade goods, furnishings, healthy foods, mobile shops, and more at this family- and dog-friendly market. Kava Culture, 8925 Tamiami Tr. N., Naples. Visit www. kavaculture.com/naples.

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3:00 p.m. Meals of Hope Mobile Food Pantry. Frozen food, fresh produce, and canned goods will be given away to families in need. Everyone is welcome.

River Park Rec Center, 301 11th St. N., Naples. Visit https://meals-ofhope.org.

12:00 p.m. Robinhood the Musical. A children’s theater production. All tickets $19, and include lunch and show. Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre, 1380 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers. Visit https://broadwaypalm.com or call 239-278-4422.

2:00 p.m. & 7:00 p.m.

Free Youth Philharmonic Concerts. Wind, brass, and percussion ensemble concert at 2 p.m.; string ensemble at 7 p.m. Free tickets must be reserved.

Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Visit https://artisnaples.org or call 239-597-1900.

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11:00 a.m. Toddler Storytime & Craft. Low capacity fun in a clean, safe, and controlled environment. Call to reserve your spot. We Rock the Spectrum Kid’s Gym, 17640 Tamiami Tr. S., Suite 309, Fort Myers. Call 239362-3378 or check www. werockthespectrumfortmyers.com.

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10:00 a.m. Homeschool Program: Welcoming Diversity. Final session in series. Presentations by students on a culture different from theirs. Limited space.

RSVP and masks required.

Collier Museum, 3331 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples.

Call 239-252-2611 or visit https://colliermuseums. com.

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6:00 p.m. Water Safety Month. A fun and creative day spent learning how to be safe around all bodies of water. Take pictures with Stewie the Duck. All ages.

Free. Golden Gate Community Park, 3300 Santa Barbara Blvd., Naples.

Call 239-252-3527 or visit www.collierparks.com.

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6:00 p.m. Golden Gate Community Farmers Market. Come out and support our local vendors.

Golden Gate Community Center, 4701 Golden Gate Pkwy., Naples. Call 239206-4339 or visit www. farmermarket2.com.

6:00 p.m. Family Open Gym. Ages 5 and younger.

Children must be strictly supervised by the attending parent at all times. Gymnastic World Naples, 2187 Trade Center Way, Naples.

Check www.gwnaples.com or call 239-592-0608.

10:15 a.m. Mini Wonders. A great introduction to the formal school classroom with a casual and playful twist that’s just right for children 2-5 years old. Every Thursday and Friday. C’mon, 15080 Livingston Rd., Naples.

Check https://cmon.org or call 239-514-0084.

9:00 a.m. Safari Squad: Wacky Wings. Member event for ages 3-5 plus an adult. Animal encounter, storybook reading, creative art, and free-choice play stations. Naples Zoo, 1590 Goodlette-Frank Rd., Naples. Visit www.napleszoo. org or call 239-262-5409, ext. 158.

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9:00 a.m. Family Fun day.

Arts & crafts, kayaking, and other activities held safely outdoors. Hot dogs and other snacks available.

Fun for the entire family.

Sky Family YMCA, Estero Camp, 8791 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Visit www. swflymca.org or call 239221-7560.

6:00 p.m. Open Gym with Coach Aussie. Every second Friday of the month, kids enjoy an hour with Super Science & Amazing Art’s gymnastics instructor. $7. Discounts for two or more siblings. Fleischmann Park, 1600 Fleischmann Blvd., Naples. Visit https:// supersciencefl.com or call 239-213-3020.

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6:30 p.m. Evening on Fifth. An array of live music up and down Fifth Avenue South, dining, shopping, and more.

Downtown Naples, Fifth Avenue South. Visit www. fifthavenuesouth.com or call 239-692-8436.

10:00 a.m. Preschool Program: Everyone Deserves Respect. Age appropriate lessons that foster appreciation of diverse cultures. Limited space.

RSVP and masks required.

Collier Museum, 3331 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples.

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MOTHER’S DAY

By Lissa Carlson

The Mother Load Mothers earned their stripes during COVID-19.

Were they gained at a fair cost?

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f there’s ever been a year mothers are due a medal in May, it’s this one. So what if we nearly lost our minds for it?

The COVID-19 pandemic revealed systemic flaws related to health, economics, race, and even gender, particularly as they correspond to motherhood. The topic has dominated headlines since February. The New York Times devoted an entire series called The Primal Scream to “America’s mothers in crisis,” featuring audio from real moms who called a hotline where, for up to one full minute, they could vent or just scream.

Homeschooling and quarantine intensified motherhood, compounded by work demands, health fears, and financial uncertainty for most of us. It was painful.

Yet throughout history, collective suffering can lead to growth. Many are enthused by the prospect of what lies post-pandemic, perhaps even as a direct result of it, including the likelihood of federal paid leave and normalization of mental health challenges.

How did we get here?

Jodi Vandenberg-Daves teaches the history of motherhood at the University of WisconsinLa Crosse and wrote the book Modern Motherhood: An American History (Rutgers University Press, 2014). In the early 20th century, she says, mothers received their first legal protection – the Mothers’ Pension Movement, which provided payments to widows with small children. The 1970s brought a second wave of economic protection for women with the Pregnancy Discrimination Act of 1978, making it illegal to fire based on pregnancy.

Still, rigid cultural expectations about motherhood prevented other advances that would have served working women well, causing many to dub it an “unfinished revolution” (there’s even a 2011 book, The Unfinished Revolution, by Kathleen Gerson). Essentially, Vandenberg-Daves says, women gained the right to compete for the same jobs as men, but employers were not expected to recognize the caregiving role of motherhood by providing flexibility to attend to sick kids or dental appointments.

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Is caregiving an issue distinct to mothers?

Yes, says Vandenberg-Daves. “We don’t tend to talk about gender. We treat it as a non-issue and instead use the term ‘parents.’ Kids don’t treat their parents as parents; they treat them

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as Mom and Dad if they’re in a heterosexual Mason says. “What’s particularly encouraging It’s not your fault like we check things like our child's teeth, eyes and ears, it’s important totomepay attention to any situation.” is that we see economic advisors calling When there’s a household failure, it’s changes in their spines. Regular cantend helpto with detection of which To exemplify the distinction between checks outany how spinal essentialissues, it is to have these social moms who make early it personal and genders, Vandenberg-Daves has students resupports in place so everyone can participate, berate their parenting abilities, Rytilahti says. includes scoliosis. All girls should be checked before the age of 10 and boys before 12. call who completed various household tasks and get and hold jobs; and that this type of Moms wonder why they can’t manage it all; We also treat adults for scoliosis and kyphosis issues that have gone uncorrected and worsened as they grew up, from emotional labor (who support is at the center of our economy just as employers can contribute to this sentiment over the years. listened to your problems) to basic housemuch as building a road or a bridge.” rather than recognizing an outdated system hold management (who remembered your The National Partnership, working to and lack of support.

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A mother’s lack of support affects her whole family. “The pandemic really drove home that women and their families cannot thrive unless they have the support they need for their health and their economic security,” Mason says. “We saw that when people didn’t have paid sick time, they had to go into work sick anyway because they couldn’t afford to lose a paycheck. Health and economics are inextricably intertwined.”

Beyond federal measures There are opportunities at the local level that will help just as much as paid leave for all. Rytilahti lists options such as onsite child care and company-wide plans for no-school days. It is supporting a culture where it’s okay to leave a meeting early because your child has a soccer game, she says. It’s generating creative ways to provide access to leadership roles for all, such as offering job-share positions. And it’s normalizing caregiving roles for men as well.

“We have to raise our voices,” Vandenberg-Daves says. “Some of us can’t do this for whatever reason – we need the job too desperately, we’re in a difficult work relationship. But those of us who can advocate, we should, and we should make that visible.”

Will greater economic and healthcare protections for families be COVID’s silver lining? In the words of author Zora Neale Hurston, “There are years that ask questions and years that answer.” Perhaps 2021 holds answers.

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Michelle Smith Our May Teacher of the Month winner received a sightseeing cruise for 4 from Pure Florida, teaching supplies from Marco Office Supply, a gift certificate to Shangri-La Springs Spa, and other prizes from local businesses. Michelle Smith is an ESE teacher at Lehigh Senior High School in Lee County. Here’s an excerpt and Larry Smith from her nomination: “Mrs. Michelle with their grandson, Lucas.

Smith has a passion and a zest for teaching. She is also in tune with her families.

She is proactive in checking in, helping out, and listening to her students, their families, and her colleagues. Mrs. Smith takes the time to build a sense of community in her learning environment. She is an exceptional educator that impacts your student’s life like no other.”

Where are you from? I am originally from Burton, Mich., and have been living in Lehigh Acres for 23 years, after a teaching opportunity brought me here.

Tell us about your family. This July, my husband Larry and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. Together we have a son, Matthew, who is finishing 8th grade and is an Eagle Scout candidate.

I also have a stepson, Brad, and stepdaughter, Stephanie, from my husband’s first marriage. With them I gained a future daughter-inlaw, Christine, a son-in-law, Brandon, and a grandson, Lucas.

When did you know you wanted to be a teacher? I knew by middle school that I wanted to be there for students who felt they couldn’t talk to their parents. I came from a single parent home and was an only child who often confided in my teachers.

Where did you go to college? I attended Central Michigan University and graduated in 1997 with a major in special education and a double minor in psychology and industrial arts.

How did you decide on your teaching specialty? While at the university I began working with our Industrial Engineering Technology Club, which brought in local students with intellectual disabilities. We would make jigs for them to use the power tools and create a variety of projects. I fell in love working with this population and changed my major in my junior year.

What is your favorite part of teaching these students? My favorite part of teaching students with intellectual disabilities is they remind me not to take life too seriously, to love with all my heart, and appreciate the little things in life. They teach me every day how to live!

How has COVID-19 made your job harder, easier, or more creative? I expected it to all be so much harder than it ended up being. Skills I wasn’t sure my students would be able to do on the computer, they learned very quickly. We have spent most of this year learning more technology together, exploring various websites, and learning to do research.

What have been your favorite teacher appreciation gifts? I always love a card from parents and students expressing their appreciation. I keep them around my room to remind me of the difference I make. I always appreciate a gift card to Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks, but my favorite tangible gift I’ve received is a blanket from one of my students. I use it nightly and it travels everywhere with me.

What do you like to do in your free time? I’m a BSA assistant scout master and Aktion BOLTS/Best Buddies advisor, and I help in the community where I can. I love camping, kayaking, and being out in nature. Traveling to new places is also a passion of mine.

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YOUR FINANCES

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n 2020, Americans experienced firsts across virtually every aspect of life. Now, with an extended federal tax deadline of May 17 approaching, the implications for such an unusual year have some people wondering how all those changes might affect their refund.

From job loss to new tax breaks for unemployment benefits, plus three economic stimulus payments, many Americans will see an impact to their tax refund. According to a survey by H&R Block, most tax filers have more questions about taxes than they did last year. The top concern on most taxpayers’ minds is how stimulus checks will impact their refunds (52%), followed by questions related to unemployment.

If you haven’t filed your taxes yet, you can find answers to your most pressing tax questions with help from the experts at H&R Block.

Stimulus payments The first thing to know about the 2020 stimulus payments is they are not taxable income, so you don’t need to report them as income on your tax return.

However, some life changes could mean even more money for you through the Recovery Rebate Credit. If you added a child to your family in 2020 or you’re filing taxes for the first time on your own, not as a dependent, you may be eligible for an additional stimulus payment when you file your return.

There’s also good news if your stimulus payments were too high because your income increased, or your kids turned 17 in 2020.

You do not have to repay any overpayments, and your refund won’t be reduced.

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Have You Filed Your Taxes?

For the third stimulus payment, there are two ways you could receive additional stimulus money. Depending on when or if your 2020 tax return was processed, your third stimulus payment might not have reflected a new child or significantly lower income from 2019 to 2020. This could be fixed through a “plus up” payment later this year or on your 2021 return. For the “plus up” payment, the IRS will re-determine your eligibility for an additional payment after you file your 2020 tax return. If you are due more, you’ll receive another payment from the IRS for the difference.

When you file taxes next year, you could receive an additional payment on your tax return with the 2021 Recovery Rebate Credit if in 2021 you have a child, your income drops significantly, or you file for the first time.

Unemployment income The American Rescue Plan Act Congress passed in March gave tax breaks to the record number of people who received unemployment income in 2020. You can exclude up to $10,200 of unemployment benefits as income if your household income is less than $150,000.

If you already filed your 2020 taxes and your return included unemployment income, there is no need to file an amended return in most cases. In May, the IRS will begin calculating and issuing refunds for overpayments. However, because everyone’s situation will be unique, this benefit may make some people eligible for additional credits or deductions, including the Earned Income Credit. Working with a tax professional to evaluate if you have become newly eligible for a credit will help you know what actions you may need to take to ensure the best tax outcome.

Newly self-employed Many Americans got creative to overcome uncertainty in 2020 and generate more income. You may not realize it, but if you earned money through gig work last year, like driving for a ride-sharing app, you’re likely self-employed.

It might surprise you to learn that unlike a paycheck from an employer, no taxes are withheld from income received from gig work. That means federal income taxes and self-employment taxes are due on your self-employment income, and you are responsible for paying estimated payments or face penalties. Working with an H&R Block tax pro can help you understand your situation, explain the outcomes, and help plan for the year ahead.

Getting help With so many changes in the past year and many people experiencing firsts like unemployment or gig work, it is important to understand your situation and file an accurate tax return. Getting help is easy with H&R Block, whether you prefer filing on your own or working with a tax pro – virtually, online, or in-person. If you’re used to meeting your tax professional in person but want to stay socially distant, there are digital tools available.

You can drop off documents at a local office or send scans or photos of essential documents, and when forms are finished, you can review and approve them online. You also can use the myBlock app to get updates on your tax return, to connect with a tax pro year-round, explore mobile banking, and plan for next year.

For more information, visit www.hrblock.com.

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TEACHER APPRECIATION MONTH

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nder normal circumstances, teachers deserve our gratitude and recognition. The pandemic has taken that up to a whole new level, which has left the earth’s atmosphere. May 3-7 is the official Teacher Appreciation Week and is the perfect time to show your kids’ teachers your gratitude for the blood, sweat, and tears they put into their work.

We’ve put together a list of gifts that teachers love.

Gift cards. You might hesitate, thinking they seem impersonal, but to a

teacher dipping into their own pocket to buy classroom supplies or desperate for a caffeine injection before school, there is nothing better. Target, Amazon, and Starbucks all are great options, but you can also select more local and personalized gift cards, for businesses such as Classroom A+, Silverspot Cinema, Kunjani Craft Coffee, Angelic Desserts, or a restaurant or spa.

Notes and drawings. You and your child can make a teacher’s day simply by

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sharing with them what they mean to your family. It’s free and doesn’t take much time.

While you are at it, write a note to your school’s principal or district superintendent explaining how this teacher has made a difference in your child’s life. This simple gesture can have a positive effect on a teacher’s career.

Digital gifts. If you prefer to communicate digitally, have your child make a short video thank you, or send an e-card or email.

Again, don’t forget to reach out to school administrators about your favorite teachers.

Amazon wish list. Many teachers create lists on Amazon of items they need for their classrooms. Do a quick search on Amazon, or simply ask your child’s teacher if they have one.

School supplies. Yes, this may sound boring, but it’s not to a teacher who continuously runs out of white board markers, tissues, and hand sanitizer.

Check with your PTO. At many schools, the PTO organizes events and gifts for teachers, and usually is looking for help with planning, executing, and funding. They know what teachers want and need, and are a great resource for parents.

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Since 1972, Youth Haven has provided a safe, nurturing, and healing environment for children and teens who have been abused. With 73 beds available, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, children can learn to be children again as they begin to heal from their trauma. Youth Haven’s 25-acre therapeutic campus provides youth with specialized care and transformational programs such as art therapy, animal assisted therapy, and individual and group counseling. More importantly, however, Youth Haven provides a place where children and teens can learn to trust, heal, grow, and can dream about the future.

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May is National Foster Care Awareness Month and, with the shortage of foster care homes in Collier County, the need for care is more critical now than ever. There are many ways to help the children and teens in need; visit www.myflfamilies.com to learn more about becoming a foster parent, or consider a financial gift to the organizations in Collier County working to better the lives of children in foster care.

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TRAVEL

By Karen T. Bartlett

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Above: One of the many iconic signs encouraging visitors to See Rock City.

Below: Fiddle player Matt Downer often performs during Rock City’s Summer Music Weekends. Facing page, top: The tunnel entrance to Fairyland Caverns.

Facing page, bottom: A boy enjoying ice cream in Rock City.

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f you had a farm between the 1930s and 1960s, and your barn faced a country road or a blacktop highway within a day’s drive of the GeorgiaTennessee border, and if your barn was in serious need of a free paint job and you wouldn’t mind a bit of extra cash, a Tennessee entrepreneur named Garnet Carter was your new best friend. For some sort of financial arrangement plus free passes to his wife Frieda’s quirky attraction high atop Georgia’s Lookout Mountain, your freshly painted barn might proclaim in colossal black and white letters “See Rock City,” or “See 7 States from Rock City,” or “200 miles to Beautiful Rock City.”

For a family headed out on a road trip in those years (and even today) part of the anticipation was being the first one to spot a “See Rock City” sign. But no worries – there’d be another one around the next bend. At one time there were about 900 hand-painted “See Rock City” barns within a thousand miles of Lookout Mountain.

Many were lost to interstates and gentrification, but when you encounter one the magic is still there. Nowadays you’re also sure to spot miniature barn-like “See Rock City” birdhouses on tall poles (which happen to be available in Rock City gift shops).

So what is this Rock City anyway?

Well, it’s a natural wonder, pure and simple, and also a kind of fairytale land tucked into natural caverns, behind red painted garden gates, and through mysterious, ancient-looking stone arches. To reach the peak of Lookout Mountain, with its 90-foot sheer-drop waterfall, legend-infused Lover’s Leap, and stunning views, the Carters carved narrow trails through the 200 million-year-old limestone rock and primeval forests, between giant natural boulders, and across trickling springs. They put in flagstone steps and edged the trails in native stone walls. Where a path wasn’t possible, they built a bridge. The iconic one is the 180-foot-long Swing-A-Long Bridge (oh yes, it swings), and in every possible spot, Frieda created rock gardens and planted wildflowers. And then they opened their Enchanted Trail to the public.

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10 Things to Know  Lookout Mountain spans the Georgia/Tennessee border, 6 miles south of downtown Chattanooga.  Admission currently is by timed reservation with capacity limits.  On a clear day, you really may see seven states from the overlook.  Dogs are welcome (leashed) on the trails and at outdoor dining.  Café 7, on the deck at the edge of Lover’s Leap, also has pizza and other kid-friendly meals, and a pet menu, too.  Parts of the trails and the Lovers Leap overlook are wheelchair friendly.  Besides the fudge kitchen, there are quirky ice cream carts, snack bars, a Starbucks, a rock shop, and gift shops.  Autumn foliage is spectacular in late October/early November.  Rhododendron and mountain laurel are in bloom from early spring to late summer.  Rock City is still family owned. They also own the family- and pet-friendly RiverView Inn nearby. www.StayatRiverviewInn.com.

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caverns. Because Frieda collected gnome figures from her native Germany, gnomes became a Rock City thing. Throughout the park, visitors can spot the red-hatted creatures napping in grottos or going about their daily gnome business.

I wonder if the couple ever imagined the legend they’d create, or the pictureperfect memories of generations to come. I hadn’t had occasion to “See Rock City” since I was 10 or 12 years old. In the meantime I became a travel writer, with interests skewed more toward African safaris, Mediterranean isles, and sophisticated resorts. Besides, Rock City belonged to my childhood, not now. Still, when a road trip last year took my grownup partner and me right past a big old “See Rock City” barn, we made a snap decision – as one can do on vacation – and detoured west. As I watched some kids giggle their way through the narrow crevice

called Fat Man’s Squeeze (probably not so P.C. these days), I was shocked to feel the same decades-old thrill. Even my grownup companion was charmed by the trails, the vistas, and surprises.

We had places to be, so we didn’t linger at Café 7 for a platter of fried green tomatoes (me) or Southern fried chicken (him). But I bought the postcards. I bought the T-shirt. And if there were no watchful condo association in my life, I suspect I’d have bought a “See Rock City” bird feeder for my garden.

Summer Music Weekends When there’s no major event in the park, like the holiday Enchanted Garden of Lights, Rocktoberfest, or Earth Dayz, you can do the Rock City experience in about two hours. But plan to spend half a day if you’re lucky enough to visit during Summer Music Weekends. There’s live bluegrass and folk music throughout the park, plus raptor shows (small extra admission) and more, including craft projects for kids like glow-in-the-dark firefly jars.

Oh, there’s that memory surge again.

Now I want to catch (and release) some fireflies.

Visit www.SeeRockCity.com.

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