Neapolitan Family May 2018 digital issue

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COMPLIMENTARY

Happy Mother’s Day!

PAWS in Parkland

A Reality Check on Dry Drowning

Pirate Festivals

VBS Directory

Gifts for Mom

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16 May 2018 TABLE OF CONTENTS

in every issue . . .

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FROM THE PUBLISHER

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FAMILY MOVIE PREVIEWS

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COLLIER COUNTY SCHOOL DISTRICT UPDATE

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CITY CONNECTION

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FAMILY LAW

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ESTATE PLANNING

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THE OUTNUMBERED MOTHER

16 PAWS in Parkland. How a local nonprofit is helping Parkland heal.

by Stacy Nicolau 18 Photo Essay. More than 3,000 people turned out for the Naples March for Our Lives.

by Lisette Morales 20 Destination: Florida Pirate Festivals. Meet Marrge and get your pirate on this summer and fall.

by Karen T. Bartlett 22 MOMentum Moms. Michelle Crombie focuses much of her energy on helping others, and even started a program in Naples that offers a break to those who need it most.

by Leigh Ann Newman

on the cover…

38 What Moms Really Want. Moms of toddlers are looking for a little peace and relaxation this Mother’s Day.

by Anna Snyder 40 A Reality Check on Dry Drowning. Facts from a pediatrician will alleviate your Facebook-inspired fears about your kids and water.

by Katherine H. Hensley, MD 42 Vacation Bible School Directory. Our annual roundup of free and low-cost religious education programs for summer.

Nicholas Albanis is 4 years old and attends preschool at The Village School in Naples. He is the son of Pete and Norell Albanis, and little brother to Alex. He loves to sing, dance, and wrestle!

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THIS MONTH: Mother’s Day

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When we featured the East Naples Library’s Pups ‘n’ Books event on our March cover, we had no idea that it would be the start of a special relationship with the PAWS Assistance Dogs organization. While dropping off copies of the issue, I was invited to stay and watch a training session.

During that visit, the volunteers began telling me of their experience helping the Stoneman Douglas students recover from their recent tragedy in Parkland. They invited me back the next week to spend time with Parkland teacher Ivy Schamis (p. 16) who will be receiving PAWS dog Luigi as her emotional support dog for her classroom later this summer.

We often wonder how we can help strangers in the wake of such a tragedy, beyond posting and sending our “thoughts and prayers.” One way is to support PAWS, a Collier County nonprofit that brings comfort and independence to wounded veterans, children with disabilities, and people surviving trauma. Another way that Collier County citizens have supported our Parkland neighbors was by attending the March for Our Lives on March 23 in Cambier Park (p. 18). The more than 3,000 participants gathered together to hear from educators and students alike.

Seeing a need, and using one’s own skills and passion to fill it, is a common theme among our MOMentum Moms. These women teach us so much about balancing a career and community service with raising a young family, and they often do so without a lot of personal resources.

We are proud to introduce May’s MOMentum Mom Michelle Crombie (p. 22), who saw a need for respite for families with special needs in Naples and brought to our community Buddy Break, a free monthly program that gives caregivers a much needed “break.”

May also means Mother’s Day, and writer Anna Snyder finds out what moms of young children really need to feel appreciated on p. 38. (Hint: It’s not just breakfast in bed, but who could refuse our darling cover boy?)

Happy Mother’s Day to all of our readers who are moms, and if you need to give your family members a copy of this issue to communicate what you want the most, be our guest.

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FAMILY MOVIES

Family Movie Previews for May New movies for May include another installment in the Star Wars saga and a family comedy about a canine detective.

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SOLO: A STAR WARS STORY

Rated PG for suggestive and rude humor, language, and some action In theaters 5/18 For kids 9+

Not yet rated; most likely PG for moderate violence In theaters 5/25 For kids 9+

Max, a rugged, lone-wolf Rottweiler police dog, and his human cop partner get a tip that an animal-trafficking ring is planning an attack on the Eastminster Dog Show.

Macho Max must undergo a makeover – mud baths, ballet lessons, a Brazilian waxing – to go undercover in order to thwart the plot. Directed by Raja Gosnell, this film features the voice talents of Alan Cumming, Stanley Tucci, Jordin Sparks, Gabriel Iglesias, Natasha Lyonne, RuPaul, Will Arnett, Chris “Ludacris” Bridges, and Shaquille O’Neal.

Board the Millennium Falcon and journey to a galaxy far, far away in an adventure with the most beloved scoundrel in the galaxy. Through a series of daring escapades deep within a dark and dangerous criminal underworld, Han Solo meets his mighty future copilot Chewbacca and encounters the notorious gambler Lando Calrissian in a journey that will set the course of one of the Star Wars saga’s most unlikely heroes.

Directed by Ron Howard, this movie stars Emilia Clarke, Woody Harrelson, Jon Favreau, Thandie Newton, and Donald Glover.

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hile most teenagers were relaxing during summer break, one Naples teen was launching a nonprofit designed to provide both clothing and a fun shopping experience for girls in need.

Last summer, Olivia Thornhill started Big Sister’s Closet to provide gently used clothing to at-need fifth grade girls at Parkside Elementary in Naples. She has been collecting donations since then, and she is now ready for her inaugural shopping spree event.

This first “pop-up” shopping experience will be held on May 23.

“I think every girl should have a fun shopping experience,” said Thornhill, a 15-year-old sophomore at Naples High School.

“I got the idea from reading a newsletter from my mom’s high school in Texas. A student there was starting a similar concept, and I thought that Naples could benefit from something like this also. While Naples is often seen as an affluent city, there are many families who are struggling financially and buying brand-new clothes for their daughters may not be an option. I want to change that. I want those girls to have fun “shopping” too.”

Thornhill continues to collect donations of gently used girls’ clothing in sizes 8-14 and women’s clothing in sizes small to large.

For more information, visit www.bigsistersnaples.com or contact Thornhill at ot.sisterscloset@gmail.com or at 239-227-3496.

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Apple Blossom Awards Honor Early Childhood Teachers

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hree early childhood Teachers of the Year were recognized at the annual Apple Blossom Awards last month. The Apple Blossom Awards, hosted by Collier Child Care Resources (CCCR), honor early childhood teachers who educate and care for children from birth to age five.

Elma Mejeune was named Infant/Toddler Teacher of the Year; Ana Solis was awarded Preschool Teacher of the Year; while Elena Hardy was honored as CCCR Teacher of the Year. Barbara Mainster received the prestigious Myra Shapiro Early Childhood Leadership Award for decades of advocacy and activism on behalf of Collier County’s children, particularly farm workers and their families.

The 2018 Apple Blossom Award nominees were: Silvia Magaly Arias, Linessa Barnhart, Soila Conde, Edith Galan, Sonia Garcia, Elena Hardy, Crystal Lanier, Elma Mejeune. Debra Moran, Keshia Parris, Lina Patino, Rachel Perez-Drawdy, Martha Posada, Marcelina Rodriguez, Mollie Skidmore, Ana Solis, Carmen Starkweather, and Gemma Tobey.

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Above: Niccole Howard (second from left), executive director of Collier Child Care Resources, with Apple Blossom Award winners Elena Hardy, Ana Solis, and Elma Mejeune.

Books for Collier Kids Achieves One Millionth Book Milestone

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ince 2005, Books for Collier Kids has donated one million books to local children in need. The nonprofit provides new books for low-income students in pre-K, kindergarten, and first and second grades across Collier County.

Books for Collier gives one new book each month to some 7,000 children, which adds up to more than 100,000 books each year. Early childhood experts select age-appropriate books that are purchased in-bulk, at heavily discounted prices, through The First Book Marketplace. Books for Collier Kids is an all volunteer-run nonprofit organization and relies on donations.

For more information, visit www.BooksForCollierKids.org or call 239-394-4062.

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Always something new and fun for budding artists, actors, chefs and dancers. Age specific classes of 15 students or less offer students individual attention while they explore the exciting, learning adventures available in the arts. Creative classes engage students in activities that use abstract and tactile problem solving skills while having fun. Opportunities for ages 4-18 include painting, cooking, sewing, dance, theater, music, and more.

New camps for Summer 2018 include 3D Design & Printing, S.T.E.A.M., Singing Intensive, Music Camp and Ship Wrecked. Generous discounts and scholarships are available to ensure art, music, theater and dance are affordable for all.

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YOUR COMMUNITY NEWS & EVENTS

Naples Art Association Awards Jade N. Riedel Scholarships

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he Naples Art Association (NAA) announced its annual Jade N. Riedel Scholarship recipients at a reception held last month at the NAA. The competition, a partnership with the NAA, the Naples Woman’s Club, and the Ringling College of Art and Design, is held each spring and is open to Collier County high school students in grades 11 and 12.

Patricia-Faith M. Ferretti of Seacrest Country Day School and Allison Wright of Naples High School each received a four-year Ringling College of Art and Design Scholarship worth $20,000.

Lindsey Martinez of Palmetto Ridge High School was awarded a $5,000 scholarship from NAA. Tiffany Shadden of Palmetto Ridge High School received a $2,500 scholarship from NAA. Olivia Clubley of Naples High School and Mia Hayes of Gulf Coast High School each won a $2,000 Naples Woman’s Club Scholarship for Art Supplies. Vanessa Scott of Gulf Coast High School and Alyssa Rausch of Naples High School each received a $1,000 scholarship from NAA. Alysia Turke of Gulf Coast High School won a $500 scholarship from NAA. NAA’s mission is to expand cultural opportunities, broaden education, and enrich Southwest Florida through the visual arts.

Visit www.NaplesArt.org or call 239-262-6517.

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COLLIER COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS

By Jennifer Kupiec, Communications & Community Engagement

It’s Time for Kindergarten Registration

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indergarten registration. It can be an uneasy time for some parents. You may be sending your child off to school for the first time. There are so many questions. Who will my child’s teacher be? How will my child handle the adjustment? Can I walk him or her into the classroom on the first day? Will my child make friends? I’m right there with you! I’ll be sending my first born to Collier County Public Schools in the fall.

In my position, I spend a lot of time in our schools. Here’s what I can tell you. Our teachers care! They care for your child’s well-being, they understand the adjustment, and they want your child to succeed, both academically and socially.

We have some amazing talent on our staff. I encourage you to communicate with your child’s teacher. If you have any concerns, reach out and have a discussion.

You may find that your child’s teacher is active on social media.

It is a great way to open the classroom window and feel as if you were right there with them. It also helps to start dinner table conversations.

Upon meeting your child’s teacher, ask if they have a classroom Twitter account that you can follow. It will help calm your nerves as you see your child participating in the amazing things that take place in our classrooms each day.

But before your child can enter that classroom, you’ll need to complete the kindergarten registration.

There are three steps to the registration process: 1) pre-register online, 2) gather required documents, and 3) visit the appropriate registration location.

Kindergarten registration for the 2018-2019 school year is now open. To begin the process, visit www.collierschools.com/registration to pre-register online. After completing the online component, gather the required documents listed on the website and visit the appropriate registration location (listed to the right) to complete the process.

It is very important that you pay attention to the list of required documents. You must have all documentation in order to complete the registration process. A missing document means another trip to registration. Not good for us busy parents!

Here is another tip: register early. As the new school year approaches, the lines get longer. Trust me on this one. Visiting Student Registration the week before school starts can mean hours of waiting time. If you have your documentation ready, visit your registration location now. It will make for a quick and smooth experience.

Once your child is registered, you’ll probably have questions regarding school supplies, dress code, start times … the list goes on.

Your child’s school website is going to be the best source for backto-school information. Every school website will be updated at the end of the school year with a 2018-2019 school supply list as well as any dress code or school uniform requirements. Information about upcoming Meet the Teacher and Curriculum Night events will be posted in the summer. As a new parent with a kindergartner, you don’t want to miss Meet the Teacher night.

We cannot wait to have you and your child join our #CCPSFamily. I’ll see you in the registration line!

REGISTRATION LOCATIONS Naples (all Collier County residents) Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Administrative Center 5775 Osceola Trail, Naples Immokalee (Immokalee residents) Immokalee Technical College 508 N. 9th St., Immokalee Everglades City (Everglades City residents) Everglades City School 415 School Dr., Everglade City

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CITY CONNECTION PARKS DEPT.

By Laura Tichy-Smith

‘May’ Your Summer Be Wonderful Start planning your kids’ super fun summer now by enrolling your children in Naples City Park’s exciting themed specialty camps, as well as marking your calendar for free special family events offered by the City of Naples Community Services Department.

Summer Camps for Children Ages 3 to 18 With an astonishing variety of themes offered at nine park locations, you’re sure to find a day camp to please every child in your household. While the camps are educational, your kids will be having so much hands-on fun they won’t even realize they are really learning. The weekday camps run while school is out from June to August, and include offerings in: nature and junior naturalist research; arts and crafts; theater, stage magic, dance, and performance; scientific exploration; computer skills for web design, movie, and video game design; aquatics and snorkeling; and nearly any sport or outdoor recreation interest you can imagine. For a brochure with dates and registration information, call 239-213-3020 or visit ww.naplesgov.com, click on Parks and Recreation under the Departments tab, and click on the summer program guide.

Parents’ Night Out Hosted by Miss Cricket Want a Friday night out? Miss Cricket, the gymnastics and afterschool instructor at Fleischmann Park, has got you covered. Dinner,

games, and a big screen movie equal a tired kid to pick up. Call for this month’s date; $22. Pre-registration is required. Call 239-2133020. (1600 Fleischmann Blvd., Naples) After-School Solutions The Adventures and Gymnastics Club at Fleischmann Park is an after-school club hosted by an energetic, well-trained staff that offers great fun with many activity choices for your child. Your child will participate in gymnastics and sports fitness classes, as well as daily homework and enrichment time. Monday to Friday, 2:45-6 p.m. (also open on all early release days). $50/week for first child and $45/week for siblings (inquire for partial-week rates). Call 239-2486122 to register. (1600 Fleischmann Blvd., Naples) Baby Fitness (18 months and up) Instill healthy habits for life in your toddler by attending the dropin Mommy and Me Open Gym on Fridays, 10-11:30 a.m. $6 per child. Call 239-213-3020. (1600 Fleischmann Blvd., Naples) Swimming Stroke Clinic Prepare your kids for the summer youth recreational swim teams or just clean up their strokes for greater accuracy and efficiency at this swimming stroke clinic held at the River Park Aquatic Center.

They can gain speed and endurance with proper entries, flip-turns, streamlining, and more through three-week sessions of twice-weekly, 40-minute clinics with our certified instructors and coaches, in conjunction with the Paradise Coast Swim Conference. $85 per participant for 5:30-6:15 p.m. on Tuesdays and Thursdays from May 1-17. Call 239-213-3040. (451 11th St. N., Naples)

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FAMILY LAW

By Reuben Doupé and Dale Klaus

Parental Responsibility in Summer

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ummer is nearly upon us. For all parents in Southwest Florida, that means the days of school drop off and pick up are replaced by the more complicated days of finding the right camps and performing taxi duties to get your children to the various and potentially differing camps.

For divorced parents, coordination of summers requires communication and possibly agreement. This provides a good opportunity to discuss the law of shared parental responsibility. Every parenting plan includes a designation of “Parental Responsibility.” There are only two types of responsibility to choose from: a) shared parental responsibility and b) sole parental responsibility. This responsibility is focused on the decision-making powers for the major decisions in each child’s life. Parenting responsibility has nothing to do with the timesharing schedule. Someone with very little timesharing could still have shared parental responsibility, and someone with equal timesharing could have sole parental responsibility. Shared parental responsibility is the default setting, and sole parental responsibility is very rarely ordered and is typically reserved for very egregious circumstances.

Parents with shared responsibility are required to confer on major decisions affecting their children and must reach mutual decisions. There are two important parts of this statement of the law: 1) this only pertains to “major decisions” as op-

posed to the day-to-day decisions that have to be made when caring for a child; and 2) since there are only two parents, there is a very high likelihood of a split decision, which becomes problematic. Picking a summer camp could very well be a major decision. This potentially includes choosing whether or not to send a child to camp (versus staying home or some other option) and which camp to choose.

Most parents are able to work out their disagreements, compromise, and reach decisions for their children without outside assistance. For those that cannot, there is no secret recipe to solving such disagreements. The court is not a very good tie-breaker, usually because it takes time to file a motion or supplemental petition and get in front of a judge. By the time you get there, chances are that time has passed to resolve the issue. Perhaps parent coordinators can help parents work through their disagreements. Parent coordinators are trained to assist parents in communicating about their decisions and can urge parents

to compromise but, ultimately, they cannot force parents to change their minds.

Oddly enough, most divorced couples found themselves divorced because they could not effectively communicate and resolve their disagreements. For those with children, the law requires them to continue to work together for the benefit of the children. The legal system is not, though, set up to act as the arbiter of each and every disagreement you may have. The best strategy is to set up the necessary and appropriate decision-making protocols within your parenting plan and follow them. Treat each other with courtesy and respect when communicating, and try to make your parenting decisions with your child’s interest in mind, as opposed to your own.

DALE KLAUS and REUBEN DOUPÉ are Family Law and Divorce Attorneys with Coleman, Hazzard, Taylor, Klaus, Doupé & Diaz, PA. Visit www.CHTlegal.com or call 239-298-5200.

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PAWS in Parkland

How our Naples Community is Helping Parkland Heal

By Stacy Nicolau

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vy Schamis’ History of the Holocaust class is so popular with the students at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School that there is a waiting list to enroll. Schamis was teaching this class to seniors when Nikolas Cruz fired a barrage of shots into her classroom, killing two of her students and injuring several others. In an instant, Schamis’s curriculum changed from teaching about survivors to teaching children how to survive.

“We were about to start learning about the Berlin Olympics when all of this happened.” That’s how she refers to what has been named by the media as the Valentine’s Massacre: “All of this.” While she hovered among her frightened students, reassuring the survivors while holding the hands of the dying, she thought to herself, “what am I going to say if he comes back to my room? I am going to tell him, ‘Nik, we love you’.”

He didn’t return to her room and the SWAT team eventually evacuated the shocked teacher and students to safety. It was then that the tremendous work of healing began.

Meanwhile, in Naples, PAWS Assistance Dogs Lead Trainer Sally O’Neill was busy running training sessions of support dogs destined for veterans and others in need when she learned that there was a need in Parkland to comfort the students and staff of Stoneman Douglas. Executive Director Jeannie Bates and O’Neill did not hesitate to bring a whole team of PAWS dogs and handlers to Parkland to begin to do what they do best: heal wounded warriors.

In Parkland, PAWS volunteer handler Michael McCabe said that when the students approached the dogs, their sad and serious

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Photos By Lisette Morales faces immediately broke out in smiles and laughs. One parent told Michael that this was the first time his daughter had spoken a word in the week since the shooting.

Alyssa Fletcher, a student who particularly connected with PAWS dog Luigi, asked if the team could bring him to a memorial 5K in honor of fallen track coach and teacher Scott Biegel. It was there that Fletcher introduced Luigi to Ivy Schamis. “The connection between the teacher and dog was almost spiritual,” Sally O’Neill said of that meeting in Pine Trails Park. Sensing the healing effect the dogs had on the children, and experiencing her own connection with Luigi, Schamis asked if Luigi could stay to help the students return to class. She could use a support dog, too, she admitted.

Jeannie Bates decided at once that PAWS would permanently place Luigi with Ivy Schamis.

While one of the main jobs of a PAWS assistance dog is to help the disabled with retrieving and carrying items, opening and closing doors, turning on and off lights, and even taking clothes out of a dryer, they are also able to interrupt anxiety and panic-related episodes. The PAWS Assistance Crisis Team (PACT) is always ready to respond to a situation to assist adults and children in crisis after a tragic event.

The crew of dogs and volunteer handlers have been taking turns spending time with the students and staff, returning to Naples intermittently to give the dogs respite and training, often spending their own money for transportation and lodging near the high school.

Bates says that the dogs will continue to visit Parkland as long as they are needed.

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Meanwhile, Luigi (“Weejers” to the PAWS volunteers) has been finishing his two year training in preparation for his assignment to Schamis, who also travels to Naples with her husband Jeffrey to learn the commands and handling of a service dog at home and in public places. He will be ready to go home with the couple sometime this summer, when he turns two years old.

Now that the students have returned to school, Schamis says the presence of the dogs in the building give the children incentive to be in the classroom, and comfort when they are having a bad day. She rewards her students with “cuddle time” with the dogs if they have participated in class and have stayed focused.

She has picked up the curriculum in the classroom right where she left off, “when all of this happened,” teaching her students how to identify hate crimes around the world, at their future colleges and workplaces, on the internet, and here at home. She encourages her students to remember the heroes of the Holocaust, who had to live out their lives with courage in the face of death, or the lifelong trauma of having survived the experience. “I tell the children, these people had to find a way to survive, and they weren’t lucky like us to have such a supportive community like Parkland, and these service dogs.”

As part of Schamis’ personal healing journey (and Luigi’s public training) she visited the Southwest Florida Holocaust museum in Naples, with Luigi and the PAWS staff at her side. She says that it makes her proud to see small communities teaching this history through their own museums and exhibits. For Schamis, it is important to teach about the Holocaust and hate as both an educator and as a witness.

Schamis whispers to me that every day she watches the video of the shooting on her phone that a student recorded in her classroom. She hands me her phone and asks me to watch it with her.

After the seconds-long video is over, with the loud popping sound

Facing page: Stoneman Douglas teacher Ivy Schamis bonds with Luigi, her new emotional support dog, during a training session at the PAWS Assistance Dogs facility in Naples.

Above: Eight-week-old Luigi II is ready to begin the hard work of learning to become a service dog. of the gun and the screams of the students hanging heavy in the air, I notice that Ivy is crying. Luigi’s gaze is focused on her as he sits by her feet. Why does she watch this every day, I ask; is this a part of the healing?

“It’s important for me to watch it every day,” she says, “so that ‘all of this’ is never forgotten.”

How You Can Help PAWS Help our Parkland Neighbors

From the time a PAWS dog is born, it takes two years to raise, train, and ultimately match the dog with its eventual owner. The puppies are placed in volunteer foster homes and train at the PAWS facility in Naples when they are about eight weeks old. The lifetime cost of each dog from birth through adulthood is around $40,000. PAWS provides care for the dog throughout its lifespan and will assist the recipient with other costs as needed.

Volunteers must be over the age of 18. A wheelchair-bound volunteer like Joe Sullivan (photo) is particularly wonderful because, according to Lead Trainer Sally O’Neill, the dogs respond better to a real wheelchair-bound person rather than a volunteer sitting in a wheelchair, as the dogs sense that the able-bodied volunteers do not need their assistance. In this photo, PAWS dog Rocky is demonstrating how he would help Joe navigate his wheelchair up a steep incline.

In addition to assisting our Parkland neighbors and wounded veterans, PAWS partners with The Shelter for Abused Women and Children, David Lawrence Center Children’s Crisis Care Unit, Collier County Libraries and Schools Literacy programs, Hazelden Addiction Center, Lorenzo Walker Institute, and the Marine Corps League.

All of the work of PAWS is funded by private donors, corporate sponsors, family foundations, and fundraising events. Donations of any size are welcome. The typical census at any given time at PAWS is 18-25 service dogs. For more information, visit pawsassistancedogs. org or PAWS’ Facebook page; or call 239-775-1660.

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Photo: Stefica Miller, a student at Naples High School, speaks to the crowd gathered in Cambier Park in Naples during the recent March for Our Lives.

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With at least 850 marches taking place nationwide on March 23, March for our Lives Naples was held in Cambier Park and the nearby downtown blocks.

More than 3,000 students, parents, teachers, and other Collier County citizens wearing orange and holding homemade signs gathered to hear 18 bells rung in honor of each of the students who died at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, and one more bell rung for all other children who have died at the hands of a school shooter.

After the bells chimed, the March commenced, following a route along downtown streets and ending back at Cambier Park where several speakers addressed the crowd. In addition to local students and teachers, speakers included former Stoneman Douglas Principal Mike Kinghorn and Congressional candidate David Holden.

“I’ve never known a world where mass school shootings weren’t a threat,” Naples High School student Emily Parry told the crowd. “My cousin is starting kindergarten next year and he will be living in a world where he will learn how to get out of a shooting situation before he learns to spell shooter.

NEAPOLITANfamily • May 2018 We are the change we want to see in this world, that change starts now, with us.”

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TRAVEL

By Karen T. Bartlett

Destination: Florida Pirate Festivals

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ood day, me hearties, it’s me, Marrge the Pie-rat. Get it?

Pie…Rat! Ye warn’t born yesterday, I see. Actually, I was.

Born yesterday, that is. I’m the newest spokes-creature for ye Mostly Kids’ Guides, the most awesome family guidebooks on the planet. I’m fresh off the drawing board of me namesake, Marrgie Olsen.

As ye can see, I’m happiest when I’m bootdeep in pie. Especially Key lime pie. It’s me first public appearance. The rest of the world will meet me in the second edition of A (mostly) Kids’ Guide to Naples, Marco Island & The Everglades.

Meanwhile, that nefarious wench what usually writes this page, Blithesome Bartlett, be swashbuckling and marauding with the crew on the Isle of Eight Flags and left me in charge.

She did sware me to write naught about pirate business. But be it known that Marrge the Pie-Rat is not famous for following directions.

So, here ye are, mateys, me own tips for an excellent summer of pirate shenanigans from Florida’s stem to stern. Thar’ll be plenty of pillaging and plundering, food and grub, games, face painting, pirate costume contests, and treasure for kids and grownups alike.

Isle of Eight Flags Shrimp Festival, Fernandina Beach, May 4-6 ’Twill be quite a crowd for the pirate parade, so stake yer spot early to catch necklaces and other booty, and have fun in the Kids Zone. shrimpfestival.com King’s Bay Pirate Fest, Crystal River, May 19 Avast! Captain Jack Sparrow will be there, ‘tis told, along with other scurvy dogs, sea wenches, and landlubbers like yerself. Thar’ll be pirate floats and raft races, fire dancers and, arrg, fancy’d up live mermaids! kingsbaypiratefest.com Drake’s Raid, St. Augustine, June 2 Do ye fancy a battle with swords and black powder muskets?

Head up to St. Augustine for a day of military drills and encampments, and a parade re-enacting the 16th century raid by that nasty piece of work, Sir Francis Drake. There’s admission to the encampments at Fountain of Youth Archaeological Park, but the march to the Old City re-enacting the sacking and burning of the town is free. visitstaugustine.com Billy Bowlegs Festival, Ft. Walton Beach, June 1-2 The notorious ship of Billy Bowlegs has been spy’d approaching land in the emerald seas off the Florida Panhandle. So chart yer course for Fort Walton Beach. Thar’s a torchlight parade and skirmishes fer sure. billybowlegsfestival.com Pirate Festival, Fort Myers Beach, Oct. 5-7 Three days of musket fire and pirate ship battles, swashbuckling, storytelling, treasure hunts, and even a pirate bazaar! Wear yer best pirate garb to meet the pirates and wenches around town. The Black Pearl is even in port if ye care to book a cruise! fmbpiratefest.com Haunted Pirate Fest & Mermaid Splash, Boynton Beach, Oct. 27-28 Ware yer pirate, mermaid, or fairy costume (or any Halloween costume ye please). Slide down the pirate ship inflatable, watch the parade with 100,000 of yer best mateys, meet dastardly pirates, wenches, live mermaids, and more. bbpiratefest.com Children’s Gasparilla Extravaganza, Jan. 19, Tampa Gasparilla Pirate Festival, Jan. 26, Tampa It be world famous, this one! A whole fleet of noisy pirate ships invades Tampa Bay, and me mateys take over the town. Thar be big parades and pira-technics (get it? Fireworks!) plus beads and booty the likes of which ye’ve never seen. Take especial note, me wee hearties, of the bodacious Children’s Gasparilla Extravaganza on Jan. 19. gasparillapiratefest.com

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ESTATE PLANNING

By Norell Albanis

What Every Single Parent Needs to Know About Estate Planning

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f you are a single parent, life for you right now probably couldn’t get any busier. You are likely being pulled between work, school activities, sports teams, and the inevitable emergencies that fill the lives of single parents everywhere.

Being a single parent is a huge responsibility. So what would happen to your children if something happened to you? Who would take care of them, pay for their housing, food, and education? These are questions you need to get answered, and the best way to do that is through estate planning. Having an estate plan that covers the care of your children in case you should die or become incapacitated provides welcome peace of mind for the single parent.

A will lets you name the person responsible for your estate as well as who will inherit your assets. Most importantly, it is the legal vehicle you use to name a guardian for your children. Without a will, the state will decide their fate.

But this can be a bit more complicated for single parents.

When parents are divorced or no longer together, and the children are subject to a custody order, things like will appointments, assumptions over custody, and control over inheritance become complicated. Ask yourself: • Could the other parent easily transition into taking full custody of the children? Would he or she want to? Is he or she fit to?

• Do you trust the other parent to manage the inheritance you leave behind for your children? Is he or she good with money?

Does the other parent have any self-interests or problems with substance abuse?

No matter who you name in your will as guardian of your children, the surviving natural parent has an inherent, constitutional right in the rearing of their minor children. This can cause great concern for parents where the other is absentee or otherwise unfit to raise children, or even in situations where the other parent’s work and lifestyle make full custody a challenge. It’s up to the probate court to decide whether the parent shall have guardianship of the children, but your family can petition the court for full or concurrent guardianship. And it’s up to you to legally document your concerns and choices so that the court has a complete picture of the family dynamic.

This is where a Kids Protection Plan® becomes a crucial part of comprehensive planning. In addition to making guardian nominations in a will, the Kids Protection Plan® includes, among other things, standalone guardianship nominations and confidential exclusions of guardians which clearly state your wishes in detail.

Although a surviving parent has inherent rights to raise their children, that right does not extend to the management of their children’s inheritance. As part of your estate plan, you can set up a trust and name anyone of your choosing as trustee to manage the assets you leave for your children. If you don’t plan – or if you plan NEAPOLITANfamily • May 2018

and fail to name a trustee – then the court will appoint the guardian (most likely the surviving parent) to manage the inheritance. Worse yet, when your children turn 18, they will receive whatever money is left, outright, without any restrictions. This can all be avoided with proper estate planning.

Finally, you need to think about who would take care of you if you are unable to manage your financial and legal affairs or make your own healthcare decisions. As a single parent, you are likely the only signatory on your mortgage, your bank accounts, and other financial instruments. What would happen if you became incapacitated and there was no one to pay the mortgage or the bills?

That is why it is important to have a durable power of attorney in place. And an advance medical directive gives you the legal power to have someone you select make your health care decisions in case you are not capable of doing so yourself.

If you would like to learn more about estate planning for the single parent, join us on May 25 from 12-1 p.m. for a free estate planning workshop, with a special focus on planning for single parents, at our office at 5660 Strand Court, Naples. Lunch will be provided. Email rsvp@albanislaw.com or visit www.albanislaw.com to reserve your spot.

NORELL ALBANIS is an estate planning attorney, and can be reached at 239-314-2353 or by visiting albanislaw.com.

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ichelle Crombie helps people.

It’s what she does, as a professional, a volunteer, and a mom.

This Canadian transplant to Naples is a home health physical therapy assistant and mother of four. She also launched and directs the Buddy Break program in Naples, to help other parents of children with special needs by providing an evening of respite care so that the adults can enjoy a break.

Born and raised in Alberta, Canada, Michelle met her husband, Philip, after graduating from high school. They will celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary this year. After Philip finished his physical therapy degree, the couple moved to Naples from Edmonton, Alberta, in 1994. Since then, the Crombies moved to Washington state twice, but “Naples has always called us back and we call it home,” said Michelle.

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sistant in 1996. She later received a bachelor of science in technology management from Devry University.

Career? I currently work as a home health physical therapist assistant. I enjoy home health and being a part of helping people regain their independence and function once home from hospital or rehab.

Home health also allows me the flexibility I need to manage family and fun.

Tell us about your children. James is 21, currently in the FSW nursing program, and will graduate in December. He also works as a real estate agent. He plays men’s league hockey at Germain arena on weekends and enjoys league tennis here in Naples.

Josiah is 17. He has been away playing U18AAA travel ice hockey for Wenatchee Wolves in Washington state. He currently is homeschooled and will graduate this year. He is a Collier County lifeguard and hockey referee.

Jared is 15 and is also homeschooled.

He is a TESLA enthusiast. He currently plays rugby for the U19 Naples Bears Rugby Club and enjoying the sport in his second year.

Jaylee is 11. She loves just about anything, especially Buddy Break night.

Born in the Philippines, Jaylee came to her forever home in 2009. She is a joyous completion to our family. Jaylee is the inspiration behind starting Buddy Break in Naples. She has recently been diagnosed with Kabuki syndrome and for the past seven years, her special needs have required close educational management. Parenting a child with special needs brings you into a whole new world of advocacy in the education and health fields. It was through our personal experience that we understood why parents of children with special needs truly need a break to renew themselves.

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years, the entire lives of my children. When Jaylee came home to us, it opened a different world into special needs. For Jaylee, it is at a cognitive/intellectual learning level for the most part. Giving back and serving has always been a source of joy. At a Children’s Ministry event I attended, Nathaniel’s Hope (the parent organization of Buddy Break) had an educational booth. In speaking with co-founder Marie Kuck about the program, I instantly felt that Buddy Break needed to be started in Southwest Florida.

While attending multiple doctor appointments with Jaylee, I could see there was a need for respite care for families.

Buddy Break opened its doors to the community in October 2015, and is hosted for free at the Naples Seventh-day Adventist Church. Each month, families get a threehour break of free respite. Buddy Break also takes in typical siblings. We have yet to turn away a family because we couldn’t handle their child’s special need. Each month volunteers have inquired to help out, and each month we have just enough volunteers. The program is 100% funded by donations from the community and support of various volunteers. We have grown to the point that more churches need to open their doors in Marco Island, Bonita Springs, Estero, and Fort Myers.

Do you volunteer with any other organizations? I am the director liaison for GR3 International, helping to coordinate volunteers for deployment when a disaster strikes. I’ve worked on deployments to Haiti, Nepal, Philippines, and a little bit state side. I always find joy in service when working with so many different people and simply helping others.

How do you balance work, volun-

Facing page: (L-R) Josiah, Jared, JayC the dog, Jaylee, Michelle, Philip, and James Crombie. Above: Jaylee and Michelle Crombie enjoy some mother-daughter time.

Photos by Lisette Morales. teering, and your family? With older children, life doesn’t require too much balancing anymore. Two children now drive, and they pitch in a lot to help with getting to various activities.

What does a typical weeknight look like for you? Our typical week varies because the older children work and the younger kids have piano or sports. Not sure what I would do without my iPhone calendar! The weekend is when we all connect together. We love watching movies and playing cards or board games.

Your proudest personal accomplishment? Surviving raising four children and starting Buddy Break in Naples.

What advice would you offer other parents? Be real to your kids. Talk about life and events and ask how they are doing and if they need help with anything. Be the parent because you are the one to show

them love, nurturing, kindness, and respect for both themselves and others.

What are the best and worst things about your kids’ current ages? They grow up too fast! I look at my 21-year-old and still see him as four years old, going to preschool! The best part is having the front seat for their accomplishments in sports and school. The worst part is knowing they are becoming young adults and won’t be home with me for much longer.

What are your hopes and goals for the rest of 2018? Continue to support my kids in their academic and sports goals, and live to celebrate another 25 years with my husband. I hope to see Buddy Break grow in SW Florida as a whole. I’d love to see an annual special needs carnival-type event in a park with multiple vendors, games, special guests, and great food … all put together by community organizers and business.

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10:00 a.m. Free Kids’ Crafts. Kids from toddlers to 12 are invited to participate in fun activities. Located at Miromar Outlets, 10801 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239948-3766 or check www. miromaroutlets.com.

3:30 p.m. Meals of Hope Mobile Food Pantry. In the YMCA parking every Tuesday from 3:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m.

Frozen food, fresh produce, and canned goods will all be given away to families in need. Everyone is welcome.

Greater Naples YMCA, 5450 YMCA Rd., Naples.

9:30 a.m. Essentials of Digital Photography Workshop. If you want to get the best pictures possible, and truly understanding your camera’s features, this is the class for you. Rookery Bay, 300 Tower Rd., Naples. Call 239-417-6310 or check rookerybay.org.

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3:30 p.m. Hands On Herpetology.

Frogs, snakes, and salamanders, oh my. Just what makes these animals reptiles? Learn all about Florida’s reptiles and amphibians. Ages 5-11.

Golden Gate Library, 2432 Lucerne Rd., Naples. Call 239-252-4542 or check collierlibrary.org.

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7:00 p.m. Mary P o p p i n s J r . The CFABS Youth Players present Mary Poppins Jr. Center for Performing Arts – Hinman Auditorium, 10150 Bonita Beach Rd., Bonita Springs. Call 239495-8989 or check www. artcenterbonita.org.

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9:00 a.m. Internati on a l Mi g ra tory Bird Day BOGO. Buy one, get one free admission. Higher price prevails.

Cannot be combined with other offers. Rookery Bay Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Rd., Naples. Call 239-417-6310 or check rookerybay.org.

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10:00 a.m. Junior Ranger Program.

Discover and learn about plants, animals, and other secrets of the park. Ideal for children ages 6-12.

Parental presence required.

Koreshan State Park, 3800 Corkscrew Rd., Estero.

Call 239-992-0311 or check www.floridastateparks.org.

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Put on your party dress and enjoy refreshments, snacks, and Mother’s Day activities along with entertainment. $20. Must pre-register by May 7. Vineyards Community Park, 6231 Arbor Rd., Naples. Call 239-363-9669 or check colliergov.net.

10:00 a.m. Extraordinary Everglades.

Explore every corner of the Everglades, a beautiful national park in our backyard. Learn about animals that you might find there, and meet an ambassador animal. Conservancy, 1495 Smith Preserve Way, Naples.

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12:00 p.m. Community Day at Artis-Naples. Free community day with performances, face painting, and an opportunity to explore the museum exhibitions and galleries. Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-1111 or check artisnaples.org.

5:00 p.m. The Amazing Chemistry Show.

A fun-filled, family-friendly, Gospel-infused evening of science-oriented fun for the whole family. Free (except for food). Covenant Church of Naples, 6926 Trail Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-3464 or visit covenantnaples.com.

4:00 p.m. Girls Who Code Club. Join us to become part of the national movement for girls to have a voice in tech. Creativity and fun guaranteed. Middle school and older. Registration is not required. Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Call 239-262-6853 or check collierlibrary.org.

10:30 a.m. Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. Select dates through May 20. $19 for kids includes lunch and show. Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre, 1380 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers.

Call 239-278-4422 or visit www.BroadwayPalm.com.

4:00 p.m. Free Afternoon Movie.

Every Tuesday in May, join us for an afternoon movie.

Popcorn and water will be served. Middle school age and older. Registration is not required. Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Visit collierlibrary.org.

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7:30 p.m. KidzAct Presents Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat.

Performances on select days from May 7-15. Sugden Community Theatre, 701 Fifth Ave. S., Naples. Call 239-263-7990 or check naplesplayers.org.

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10:00 a.m. Tai Chi in the Garden. Instructor Karen McNeil hosts this energy-flow exercise in the South Grove.

Every Thursday. Naples Botanical Garden, 4820 Bayshore Dr., Naples. Call 239-643-7275 or check www.naplesgarden.org.

6:00 p.m. Art After Hours. Enjoy free admission to The Baker Museum the last Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. View the galleries and learn from our docents. Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-1111 or check artisnaples.org.

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10:00 a.m. Tremendous Turtles. Learn about all turtles you might find here in SWFL. Also discover how the Conservancy helps sea turtles, and how you can help, too.

Conservancy, 1495 Smith Preserve Way, Naples. Call 239-262-0304 or check www.conservancy.org.

9:00 a.m. Pee Wee Play Dates. Children and their caretakers are invited to a play date. Have fun with our toys and games and listen to music.

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9:00 a.m. Find it Fridays. Kids enjoy a scavenger hunt all day. Ask for more details at the ticket counter. Everglades Wonder Gardens, 27180 Old 41 Rd., Bonita Springs. Call 239-992-2591 or check www.evergladeswondergardens.com.

10:00 a.m. Magic Carpet Family Concert. For ages 3-9. Features musicians from the Naples Phil performing a 45-minute program, demonstrating their instruments, and answering questions. ArtisNaples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239597-1111 or check artisnaples.org.

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6:00 p.m. Chess Instruction K-12. Join Antonio as he shares his skills at chess with students entering K-12. Only for beginner players. Space is limited to the first 24 walkin students. Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Call 239-593-0870 or check collierlibrary.org. 29

5:00 p.m. Sensory Night at C’mon. For children with sensory integration disorders. Lighting and sound are muted, cool down spaces provided. Limited participation.

Registration is required.

C’mon, 15080 Livingston Rd., Naples. Call 239514-0084 or check www. cmon.org.

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6:00 p.m. Art Classes for Kids. Learn and explore art in a fun environment, applying different methods and media. Fun projects with acrylic on canvases, watercolor, collages, STEAM projects, and more. Fleischmann Park, 1600 Fleischmann Dr., Naples. Call 239-2133020.

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2:00 p.m. Snow White. Also May 26 at 7 p.m. Local dancers will be joined by guest dancer from Miami City Ballet in what promises to be a memorable performance. Sugden Community Theatre, 701 Fifth Ave. S., Naples. Call 239-732-1000 or check naplesballet.org.

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10:00 a.m. Family Fun Day on the Farm. Free admission.

Playground, petting zoo, children’s craft activities, face painting, vendors, food trucks, live entertainment, and more. Southern Fresh Farms, 8500 Penzance Blvd., Fort Myers. Visit www.southernfresh.farm.

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The deadline for print calendar events is the 12th of the month preceding publication. You can submit events anytime for the online calendar.

Note: Please check dates and times before attending events. As we do not enter all calendar data, we cannot guarantee its accuracy.

6:30 a.m. Fitness Camp. A 60-minute fitness class offered by a certified fitness professional and designed specifically for women. Every Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday at the WINK Playland. Located at Miromar Outlets, 10801 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-9483766 or check www.miromaroutlets.com.

3:30 p.m. Meals of Hope Mobile Food Pantry.

In the YMCA parking every Tuesday from 3:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. Frozen food, fresh produce, and canned goods will all be given away to families in need. Everyone is welcome. Located at Greater Naples YMCA, 5450 YMCA Rd., Naples.

4:00 p.m. Free Afternoon Movie. Every Tuesday in May. Looking for a way to spend your afternoon after you’ve finished your homework? Join us for an afternoon movie. Popcorn and water will be served.

Middle school age and older. Registration is not required. Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Check collierlibrary.org.

6:00 p.m. Free Healthy Living Series. Also May 15.

Educational sessions to help you prevent, manage, or even reverse chronic diseases, lose a few pounds, or just learn how to become healthier. Located at Greater Naples YMCA, 5450 YMCA Rd., Naples. Call 239-9633777 or visit ymcahealthylivingseries.eventbrite.com.

6:00 p.m. Chess Instruction K-12. Join Antonio as he shares his skills at chess with students entering kindergarten through twelfth grade. Only for beginner

players. Registration is not required; space is limited to the first 24 walk-in students. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Call 239593-0870 or check collierlibrary.org.

2 WEDNESDAY Call for times. Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. Select dates through May 20. $19 for kids of all ages includes lunch and show. Located at Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre, 1380 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers. Call 239-278-4422 or check www.BroadwayPalm.com.

9:00 a.m. Pee Wee Play Dates. Children and their caretakers are invited to a play date. Have fun with our toys and games and listen to music. For children 9 months to pre-K. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Call 239-5930870 or check collierlibrary.org.

10:00 a.m. Free Kids’ Crafts. Kids from toddlers to 12 are invited to participate in fun activities. Located at Miromar Outlets, 10801 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-948-3766 or check www.miromaroutlets.com.

10:00 a.m. Preschool Story Time. Parents and caregivers encourage independence by waiting nearby in the library for this program. The stories and activities may be longer but just as fun. You must register for each week of the six-week session. Located at South County Regional Library, 21100 Three Oaks Pkwy., Estero. Call 239-479-4636 or check collierlibrary.org.

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10:30 a.m. Family Story Time. This program is for the whole family and lasts about 30 minutes. Located at Bonita Springs Public Library, 26876 Pine Ave., Bonita Springs. Call 239-992-0101 or check www.Leegov.com/library.

2:00 p.m. Guided Tours of Historical Koreshan Settlement. Explore structures and gardens of the 19th century utopian settlement and learn about these idealistic pioneers. The walking tour is about 90 minutes and is accessible. Located at Koreshan State Park, 3800 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-992-0311 or check www. floridastateparks.org for additional information.

5:30 p.m. Sewing Classes for Kids. Learn to sew by hand every Wednesday. $20 per child. All materials included. Located at Fleischmann Park, 1600 Fleischmann Dr., Naples. Call 239-213-3020 for additional information.

5:30 p.m. Parent/Teen/Child Mental Health Support Group. For parents/ caregivers and children ages 6+ with a mental illness. Opportunity for diagnosed youth ages 6-18 to socialize, receive support, and enjoy refreshments. Located at NAMI of Collier County, 6324 Trail Blvd., Bldg. C, Naples. Call 239-434-6726 or check namicollier.org for additional information.

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3 THURSDAY 6:05 a.m. Community Prayer Breakfast. Breakfast begins at 6:05 a.m. and is being held in observance of the 2018 National Day of Prayer. Located at City of Palms Park, 2201 Edison Ave., Fort Myers. Visit cypresslakeumc.com/prayerbreakfast, email cpbreakfast@yahoo.com, or call 239-223-8458.

10:00 a.m. Tai Chi in the Garden. Instructor Karen McNeil hosts this energy-flow exercise in the South Grove. Every Thursday. Located at Naples Botanical Garden, 4820 Bayshore Dr., Naples. Call 239-643-7275 or check www.naplesgarden.org.

4:00 p.m. Girls Who Code Club. Join us on Thursdays to become part of the national movement for girls to have a voice in tech. Creativity and fun guaranteed.

Middle school and older. Registration is not required. Visit GirlsWhoCode.com.

Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Call 239-262-6853 or check collierlibrary.org.

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4 FRIDAY 9:00 a.m. Find it Fridays. Kids enjoy a scavenger hunt all day. Ask for more details at the ticket counter. Located at Everglades Wonder Gardens, 27180 Old 41 Rd., Bonita Springs. Call 239-992-2591 or check www.evergladeswondergardens.com.

10:00 a.m. Drop-In Baby Fitness Mommy and Me. Instill healthy habits for life in your toddler by attending the class every Friday. $5 per child. Located at Fleischmann Park, 1600 Fleischmann Dr., Naples. Call 239-213-3020.

5:00 p.m. The Amazing Chemistry Show. A fun-filled, family-friendly, Gospelinfused evening of science-oriented fun for the whole family. Free (except for food).

Located at Covenant Church of Naples, 6926 Trail Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-3464 or visit covenantnaples.com for additional information.

5:30 p.m. Mommy/Daddy & Me Painting Afternoon. First Friday of the month.

Parent and child will paint their own canvas. Every month a different theme. Usually super cute animals. All materials included. Registration required. Located at Fleischmann Park, 1600 Fleischmann Dr., Naples. Call 239-213-3020.

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7:30 a.m. Third Street South Farmer’s Market. Parking lot behind Tommy Bahama’s. Located at Third Street South, Naples. Call 239-434-6533 or check www. napleschamber.org for additional information.

8:00 a.m. Farmer’s Market. Every Saturday. Fresh fruits and vegetables, seafood, honey, prepared foods, wears, specialty foods, and more. Located at Shoppes at Vanderbilt, 2355 Vanderbilt Beach Rd., Naples. Call 239-273-2350.

9:00 a.m. Greenmarket. Join us on our 10-acre campus every Saturday to find an exclusive selection of locally grown, caught, and cultivated foods and other products available to sample and purchase. Located at Alliance for the Arts, 10091 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. Call 239-939-2787 or check www.artinlee.org.

10:00 a.m. Chess Club. Also May 12. Join the chess club for students in K-12.

For all playing levels, beginner to advanced. Registration is not required. Located at Marco Island Branch Library, 210 S. Heathwood Dr., Marco Island. Call 239394-3272 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

10:30 a.m. WONDER Kids. Drop in anytime between 9:30 a.m. and 2 p.m. on Saturday and Sunday to the Smith Children’s Garden for fun activities. Located at Naples Botanical Garden, 4820 Bayshore Dr., Naples. Call 239-643-7275 or check www.naplesgarden.org for additional information.

11:00 a.m. Barnes and Noble Storytime. Every Saturday. Located at Barnes & Noble, 5377 Tamiami Tr. N., Naples. Call 239-597-2040 or check bn.com.

12:00 p.m. Community Day at Artis-Naples. Free community day with performances, face painting, and an opportunity to explore the museum exhibitions and galleries. Located at Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239-5971111 or check artisnaples.org for additional information.

1:00 p.m. Origami Yoda Make and Take. Kids create their own Origami Yoda to carry with them or to share the “wisdom” with their friends. All ages welcome.

Registration is not required. Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

2:00 p.m. Recycled Boats. Join us to design, build, and float boats constructed of recycled materials. We will use the STEAM principles of science, technology, engineering, art, and math. Ages 6-11 years. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Call 239-593-0870 or check collierlibrary.org.

2:00 p.m. Star Wars Party. Dress like you favorite Star Wars character and come enjoy a Star Wars film at the library. All ages welcome. Seating is available on firstcome, first-served basis. Doors will open 30 minutes before presentation. Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Call 239-262-6853 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

4:00 p.m. Improv Cafe. Bring your family out to “Little Shop of Improv”, the first Saturday of every month. Located at Center for the Arts of Bonita Springs, 10150 Bonita Beach Rd., Bonita Springs. Call 239-495-8989 or check artcenterbonita.org.

6 SUNDAY 8:00 a.m. Farmer’s Market and Native Plant Sale. Local fresh produce, seafood, honey, arts and crafts, native plants and trees, and more. $1 per vehicle admission.

Located at Koreshan State Park, 3800 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-992-0311 or check www.floridastateparks.org for additional information.

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9:00 a.m. Yoga in the Park. Traditional yoga class focuses on breathing, stretching, and postures. Modifiable for all ages and levels of participants. Beginners welcome.

Some mats provided. $10 cash. Park admission free. Located at Koreshan State Park, 3800 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-992-0311 or check www.floridastateparks.org.

11:00 a.m. Taste of Collier 2018. Taste of Collier, a long-standing Naples tradition, is an afternoon of family fun featuring live music by area musicians, crowd-pleasing ice-carving demonstrations, cooking competitions with local top chefs, and of course, savory samples. Located at Bayfront Place, corner of Goodlette-Frank Road and 5th Avenue South, Naples. Check www.tasteofcollier.com.

11:00 a.m. Taste of Fort Myers Beach. Live entertainment and food samples for $1-5. Located at Fort Myers Beach, , Fort Myers Beach. Check www.visitfortmyersbeach.com for additional information.

11:30 a.m. Spanish Church Service. St. Monica’s church, in support of the Latino community, will hold a Spanish speaking service every Sunday. Located at St. Monica’s Church, 7070 Immokalee Rd., Naples. Call 239-591-4550 or check www.stmonicasnaples.org for additional information.

7 MONDAY 4:30 p.m. Pups ‘n’ Books. Stop by to read to a pup or just pet one. The service dogsin-training are provided by PAWS Assistance and Therapy dogs. All ages welcome.

Registration is not required. Located at East Naples Library, 8787 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples. Call 239-775-5592 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

5:30 p.m. Fish Biology 101. Tish from 4-H will be here with some marine creatures that you can help dissect. You’ll learn the differences in the aquatic structure of fish compared to humans. Lots of hands-on activities. Ages 7-11 years. Registration required. Located at Estates Branch Library, 1266 Golden Gate Blvd. W., Naples.

Call 239-455-8088 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

6:00 p.m. Art Classes for Kids. Learn and explore art in a fun environment applying different methods and media. Fun projects with acrylic on canvases, watercolor, collages, STEAM projects, and more. Located at Fleischmann Park, 1600 Fleischmann Dr., Naples. Call 239-213-3020 for additional information.

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8 TUESDAY Call for time. Mother’s Day Craft. Come into the library and make a Mother’s Day craft to give to mom, grandma, auntie, or sister. All ages. Registration is not required. Located at Vanderbilt Beach Library, 788 Vanderbilt Beach Rd., Naples.

Call 239-597-8444 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

9:00 a.m. Mother’s Day Make and Take. Mother’s Day is coming. The Immokalee library will have tables set up in the lobby with crafts to create and take home to Mom on her special day. All ages. Registration is not required. All day. Located at Immokalee Branch Library, 417 N. First St., Immokalee. Call 239-657-2882 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

10:00 a.m. Extraordinary Everglades. Also May 10. Explore every corner of the Everglades, a beautiful national park in our backyard. Learn about animals that you might find there, and meet an ambassador animal. Located at Conservancy, 1495 Smith Preserve Way, Naples. Call 239-262-0304 or check www.conservancy.org.

5:00 p.m. Open House. Join us for an Open House at Montessori Academy of Naples. Meet our staff and tour our facility. Located at Montessori Academy of Naples, 2659 Professional Cr., Suite 1118, Naples. Call 239-597-2255 or check www.naplesmontessori.org for additional information.

9 WEDNESDAY 3:30 p.m. Lego Club. Join the club and share ideas, be creative, make new friends, and have fun. Bricks will be provided. Ages 5-11 years. Registration is not required.

Located at South Regional Library, 8065 Lely Cultural Pkwy., Naples. Call 239252-7542 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

3:30 p.m. Hands On Herpetology. Frogs, snakes, and salamanders, oh my. Just what makes these animals reptiles? Learn all about Florida’s reptiles and amphibians.

Ages 5-11 years. Registration is not required. Located at Golden Gate Library, 2432

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4:00 p.m. Lego Club. Share ideas, be creative, make new friends, and have fun.

Bricks will be provided and your creation will be put on display at the library. Ages 5-11 years. Registration is not required. Located at Estates Branch Library, 1266 Golden Gate Blvd. W., Naples. Call 239-455-8088 or check collierlibrary.org.

10 THURSDAY 3:30 p.m. Lego Club. Join the club and share ideas, be creative, make new friends and have fun. Bricks will be provided. Ages 5-11 years. Registration is not required.

Located at Marco Island Branch Library, 210 S. Heathwood Dr., Marco Island. Call 239-394-3272 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

4:00 p.m. Girls Who Code Club. Join us to become part of the national movement for girls to have a voice in tech. Creativity and fun guaranteed. Middle school and older.

Registration is not required. Visit GirlsWhoCode.com. Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Call 239-262-6853 or check collierlibrary.org.

5:00 p.m. Needlework Makerspace: Button and Felt Flowers. Come learn to sew on buttons and make felt flowers to make a special Mother’s Day gift. Bring a friend, your mom or dad, or even a grandparent and learn a new skill together. All ages. Registration is recommended. Located at South Regional Library, 8065 Lely Cultural Pkwy., Naples. Call 239-252-7542 or check collierlibrary.org.

11 FRIDAY 9:00 a.m. International Migratory Bird Day BOGO. Rookery Bay Environmental Learning Center offers buy one, get one free admission. Higher price prevails. Cannot be combined with other offers. Located at Rookery Bay Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Rd., Naples. Call 239-417-6310 or check rookerybay.org.

10:00 a.m. Art Smarts. This month’s theme will be Mother’s Day. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Call 239-593-0870 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

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School dance. Tickets on sale two weeks prior to dance. Includes pizza and a drink.

Located at Max A. Hasse Jr. Community Park, 3390 Golden Gate Blvd., Naples.

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6:00 a.m. Dentistry from the Heart. Park Family Dentistry is hosting its 5th Annual Dentistry From the Heart event, during which the first 200 patients (18+) to register, starting at 6 a.m., will receive their choice of a free extraction, filling, or cleaning. Located at Park Family Dentistry, 690 Goodlette Rd. N., Naples. Call 239-206-1498 or check www.myparkdental.com for additional information.

7:00 a.m. Lover’s Key Turtle Trot and Family Fun Day. Proceeds benefit Friends of Lovers Key. Located at Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Estero. Call 239-463-4588 for additional information.

8:00 a.m. Great Dock Canoe Races. Get up close and personal for Naples’s most storied tradition, and enjoy live music, food trucks, and family-friendly activities throughout the day. Located at Crayton Cove, Naples. Call 239-594-8875 or check greatdockcanoerace.com for additional information.

10:30 a.m. Mother’s Day Tea Party. Put on your party dress and enjoy refreshments, snacks, and Mother’s Day activities along with entertainment. $20. Must pre-register by May 7. Located at Vineyards Community Park, 6231 Arbor Rd., Naples. Call 239-363-9669 or check colliergov.net for additional information.

11:00 a.m. Mother/Daughter/Granddaughter Look-Alike Contest. Mothers, daughters, and granddaughters compete together for prizes in this annual family event. Located at Miromar Outlets, 10801 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-9483766 or check www.miromaroutlets.com for additional information.

12:00 p.m. Marco Police Rib Cook-Off. There will be fun, music, raffles, and each $25 ticket includes a fully served meal at this family event. All proceeds benefit the Marco Police Foundation. Located at Marco Island Brewery, 1089 N. Collier Blvd., Marco Island. Call 239-970-0461 for additional information.

2:00 p.m. Mother’s Day Craft. Surprise Mom with an unforgettable handmade gift. Ages 12-17 years. Registration required. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Call 239-593-0870 or check collierlibrary.org for additional information.

14 MONDAY 9:30 a.m. Essentials of Digital Photography Workshop. If you want to get the best pictures possible, and truly understanding your camera’s features, this is the class for you. Located at Rookery Bay Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Rd., Naples. Call 239-417-6310 or check rookerybay.org.

15 TUESDAY 9:30 a.m. Breakfast with the Birds: Connecting the Globe through Bird Migration. Learn about birds at this lecture series. Located at Rookery Bay Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Rd., Naples. Call 239-417-6310 or check rookerybay.org.

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17 THURSDAY 4:00 p.m. Book Poetry. Use old books to create book poetry. Choose and decorate a page to your heart’s content, highlighting words to express yourself. Ages 11-17 years. Seating is available on first-come, first-served basis. Doors will open 30 minutes before presentation. Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples.

Call 239-262-6853 or check collierlibrary.org.

7:00 p.m. PFLAG Support Group Meeting. The Naples chapter of PFLAG (Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) meets on the third Thursday of each month. Call 239-513-4568 for location.

18 FRIDAY 6:30 p.m. Buddy Break Respite Program for Kids With Special Needs. Threehour monthly session of free respite care for children with special needs and their siblings. Registration required. Located at Naples Seventh-day Adventist Church, 5050 Davis Blvd., Naples. Call 239-272-8031 or check www.naplessdachurch.org.

7:00 p.m. Mary Poppins Jr. The Centers for the Arts of Bonita Springs Youth Players present Mary Poppins Jr. Located at Center for Performing Arts – Hinman Auditorium, 10150 Bonita Beach Rd., Bonita Springs. Call 239-495-8989 or check www.artcenterbonita.org.

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19 SATURDAY 10:00 a.m. Junior Ranger Program. Discover and learn about plants, animals, and other secrets of the park. Ideal for children ages 6-12. Located at Koreshan State Park, 3800 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Call 239-992-0311 or check www.floridastateparks.org.

20 SUNDAY 10:00 a.m. Family Fun Day on the Farm. Free admission. Playground, petting zoo, children’s craft activities, face painting, vendors, food trucks, live entertainment, and more. Located at Southern Fresh Farms, 8500 Penzance Blvd., Fort Myers.

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22 TUESDAY 10:00 a.m. Tremendous Turtles. Also May 24. Celebrate World Turtle Day by learning about all turtles you might find in SWFL. Also learn about how the Conservancy helps sea turtles, and how you can help, too. Located at Conservancy of Southwest Florida, 1495 Smith Preserve Way, Naples. Call 239-262-0304 or check www.conservancy.org.

5:00 p.m. Sensory Night at C’mon. For children on the autism spectrum and/ or with other sensory integration disorders. Lighting and sound are muted and cool down spaces are provided. Limited participation in order to minimize crowds, and registration is required. Located at Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, 15080 Livingston Rd., Naples. Call 239-514-0084 or check www.cmon.org.

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10:00 a.m. Magic Carpet Family Concert. For ages 3-9, the concerts features musicians from the Naples Philharmonic performing a 45-minute program while demonstrating their instruments and answering questions. Located at Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-1111 or check artisnaples.org for additional information.

7:00 p.m. Snow White. Also May 27 at 2 p.m. Local dancers will be joined by guest dancer from Miami City Ballet. Located at Sugden Community Theatre, 701 Fifth Ave. S., Naples. Call 239-732-1000 or check naplesballet.org.

30 WEDNESDAY 6:00 p.m. Art After Hours. Enjoy free admission to The Baker Museum the last Wednesday of each month from 6 to 9 p.m. A local band offers musical entertainment and audiences of all ages are welcome to view the galleries and learn from our docents. Located at Artis-Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-1111 or check artisnaples.org for additional information.

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espite clinical experience and years of education as a psychologist of children and families, when it comes to my own children (two boys ages two and eight), I am often in the same boat as many other moms. I do my best to apply my techniques and coping strategies, but kids are kids, and they challenge me not only as a mom but also as a professional.

I have come to terms that this is my sweet reality for now; I cannot escape from the terrible twos/the terrifying threes and the in-betweenness of eight. But what I can do is to try to find joy in the middle of chaos, as this bittersweet chaos will never repeat again.

How do you deal with the stress that comes with motherhood?

Take care of yourself first! There is no way you can take care of others, run your house, go to work, get errands done, drop off and pick up kids to and from school and to other activities, keep up with the family calendar, and have a social life if you do not put yourself first. I truly believe that meeting basic human needs can help us get through the mommy marathon. I often talk to my patients about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, categorized in three main domains: basic, psychological, and self-fulfillment. When it comes to protecting your sanity and health, those basic and psychological needs play a huge role in the way we tackle and conquer every day.

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Basic needs For our body to function correctly we need vital things, such as air to breath, water to drink, food to eat, sleep to rest, and a feeling of safety. Moms often forget about their own basic needs while tending to their children, especially the little ones who have so many needs.

I like to emphasize the most basic needs: air, water, food, and sleep.

Air. This is an easy one. Just remember to inhale and exhale, slowly and deeply, during stressful moments.

Water. Daily water intake is good for your overall health. Water prevents dehydration (which can cause confusion and mood changes), can relieve constipation, prevents kidney stones, and helps you cope with the heat. Make sure to have a water bottle with you at all times so it is easier to remember to get your daily water intake.

Food. Healthy eating is the fuel of the body and the mind. Our bodies respond to what we eat; a poor diet can negatively impact our overall physical and psychological health. Unhealthy eating is associated with mood changes, feeling tired/sleepy, difficulty concentrating, poor work/school performance, and health risks including cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, and obesity. A healthy diet is simple. Eat foods that are as close as possible to the way nature made it; avoid processed and artificial-looking foods. Pick colorful foods

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Psychological needs After basic needs have been met, this is where I focus next. Psychological needs can be met through feeling connected and supported to our family, friends, and/or community. Staying in touch with your social support system can be challenging for a busy mom. It is very important to continue to feel connected socially and to have a space to share, laugh, or cry with others about life. And yes, super mom, it is more than okay to ask for help. We cannot do it all by ourselves!

Technology helps us stay in touch with others. However, be cautious. When spending too much time on social media, you can be at risk of developing FOMO (fear of missing out). This addictive pattern of having to check social media constantly can bring about many unsettling emotions, such as jealousy and feeling left out. Most importantly, it wastes our time and keeps us from living in the present.

Just like you ask your kids to get off electronic devices, you need to also limit your own screen time. Be aware when you are being sucked in by others’ posts that are impacting the way you feel and behave.

Another way to meet our psychological needs is exercise.

Daily physical activity has multiple benefits to our health and overall well-being. Physical activity can help the body and mind cope with stressors while making your body stronger. Enjoy yourself by adopting any type of activity that you actually enjoy doing. It can be running, walking, CrossFit, Zumba, weight lifting, or a combination of multiple activities.

Self-fulfillment Self-fulfillment needs develop throughout your life. They fluctuate especially during motherhood when many take on different roles, put careers on hold, or redefine their purpose in life.

As moms we actually excel in this one as we are constantly using all sorts of resources and specific areas of the brain that allow us to keep going, raising our kids the best we can. Yes, there are many ups and downs during this time, but at the end of the day when you see your children sleeping sweetly, you cannot help but think that being a mom is worth it all!

DR. VICTORIA FREHE-TORRES is the director of Behavioral Health and a practicing psychologist at Healthcare Network of Southwest Florida.

She also is the mother of two boys.

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MOTHER’S DAY

By Anna Snyder

What Moms of Littles Really Want for Mother’s Day

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ttention: spouses, significant others, extended family members, and friends! I have your all-access, definitive guide on what to get that special woman in your life for Mother’s Day, particularly as it relates to moms of little ones.

(For the sake of this article, “littles” are children who still need help getting meals/ snacks, putting shoes on, getting into car seats, going to bed without a fuss, etc.)

I’ll start by outlining what we don’t want. The moms in your life don’t really

want to cook brunch for their extended family or eat soggy cereal on a tray in bed amidst the piles of yesterday’s dirty clothes on the floor. Most of us don’t want cut flowers that eventually will wither and start to smell (or be eaten by the cat) before we remember to put them in the overflowing garbage underneath the kitchen sink. And while we love and treasure handmade gifts and cards from our children, don’t stop there!

Moms of little ones typically feel some type of tension when expressing their hopes

and dreams in terms of gifts. We love our little ones, but for many of us, our greatest desire is to spend some quality time away from them. Though it’s easy to experience “Mom Guilt” about wanting to spend time apart from one’s children, that guilt is misplaced. Though it seems counter intuitive to ask for “time off” from mothering for Mother’s Day, it’s okay, and even necessary, to take a break. Often, when we do, we miss our little brood all the more. We can look forward to this break, enjoy it, and reunite with our children refreshed and renewed and ready to take on the next mothering adventure. Alternatively, many mothers dream of having a day during which they can enjoy their children without having to do the “tough stuff,” such as: dressing little ones, preparing food and cleaning dishes, planning activities, or wrestling unruly toddlers into car seats.

And so, the best Mother’s Day gifts are usually situational and very specific. I did an informal poll of moms in the Naples Moms group on Facebook of what they really want for Mother’s Day. A lot of women talked about having a clean house and all the laundry folded and put away. Others wanted to go on a family adventure that they didn’t have to plan. Still others talked about a night or two in a hotel, either alone or with their significant other. Many simply long for uninterrupted sleep. One Naples mom, Katie G., said: “I’ve been begging my husband to give me an afternoon alone at home so I can just nap without interruption.” Another mom, Jessica M., proposed the following: “It would be awesome to have a facilitated family date – nothing

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too extravagant. Something where I don’t have to worry about the details, don’t have to pack the lunches, don’t have to worry about what care we’re taking, when to leave, when to get back, or if I have enough quarters.”

Mother’s Day Gift Guide So, without further ado, take careful note of my definitive 2018 Mother’s Day Gift Guide.

A clean house. In some way, shape, or form, get the mom of littles in your life out of her home and get that home clean. Hire a cleaner – or a team of cleaners – if you’d like, OR attempt to clean the home yourself. Make it sparkly, picked up, clutter-free, and get those clean clothes put away! There is no shortage of house cleaning companies in Southwest Florida. Ask a friend or neighbor for a recommendation.

A day to herself. Give your spouse or significant other the day to herself. Allow her to choose whatever she’d like to do, and give her some cash or a gift card. She may enjoy shopping, eating alone in a restaurant, or going to the beach. Let her leave and ask her not to return for at least several hours. Again, depending upon Mother’s Day extended family plans, a coupon for this type of situation may be appropriate, but get a firm date on the calendar as soon as possible.

Time at home by herself. Take the kids, and allow the mom in your life to sit at home for an extended period of time. She may enjoy taking a nap, ordering pizza, eating ice cream out of the carton, or catching up on her favorite shows.

A family day, planned and executed by someone else. Plan a day of fun – book tickets, make reservations, pack the snacks, and coordinate everything. Make sure she doesn’t have to lift a finger to make the day go smoothly. Some ideas: Miami Zoo, Myakka River State Park, Everglades City airboat tour, boat rental and beach day, or biking Sanibel Island.

Spa treatments and/or a hotel room. We have many fancy spas, quality nail salons, and hotels in Southwest Florida. Summer is approaching, and some of these places offer resident discounts during our off-season. Any mom of little children would love an uninterrupted night of sleep, time to read and relax next to a nice pool, and a massage or pedicure during this type of dreamy weekend. The Hyatt Regency Coconut Point Resort and Spa would be perfect for this, along with the Marco Marriott, or a host of other, more cost-conscious Naples resorts.

A weekend away with her significant other. So many lovely areas exist within a few hours’ drive of Naples: Islamorada, St. Augustine, Jupiter, even Sanibel Island or Marco Island. Enlist a grandparent or two to spend a weekend of fun with your children, and get ready for the trip of a lifetime.

These gifts – some expensive and some not – involve effort and planning. However, the mom in your life will be ecstatic, especially if she has little ones requiring her constant attention. So, ask her what she would really, honestly like for Mother’s Day. Listen carefully to what she has to say, and then get creative!

When considering what to get a special mom, remember that the best gifts in life really ARE free. You don’t need to spend a lot on us. We love and appreciate all the sacrifices those closest to us make in order to give us some much-needed, stress-free time – whether it is alone or with our children. Happy Mother’s Day to my fellow Neapolitan mamas!

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NATIONAL WATER SAFETY MONTH

By Katherine H. Hensley, MD

A Reality Check on Dry Drowning Katherine H. Hensley, MD, FAAP, is a pediatrician at The Children’s Clinic in Corpus Christi, Texas. This article first appeared on her blog at dockatevaccineblog. wordpress.com.

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et’s talk about dry drowning. I’ve been encountering a lot of misunderstanding about dry drowning (which, by the way, is not an accepted medical term; drowning is drowning, with or without mortality). Delayed mortality from drowning has hallmark symptoms and parents need to know what those look like as well (and also when not to worry). In short, your child is not going to go swimming, swallow some water, have no issues in the water whatsoever, and then suddenly die without warning four days later from “dry drowning”. I know the stories you’ve been reading – they’re all over my newsfeed, too. I know how the thought of losing your child makes you have actual physical chest pain because it does that to me, too. I don’t have a pool at my house and that is intentional. I don’t want to take the risk that my kid could end up in it unsupervised. But I don’t want the kids of the world never going near the water again because their parents were frightened by a poorly researched Facebook article.

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Many authors do not care about delivering accurate, useful information. They care about the sensational headline.

My major issues with the stories I’ve been reading lately are these: first, their misuse of the word “swallowing” when they mean aspiration. Second, their lack of discussion about real symptoms of actual drowning that parents should be watching for. Far too many kids die from drowning

every year and it would be wonderful if the press would talk to some medical experts and get better information about drowning prevention out there to parents. Most of the stories I’ve read, however, give parents the impression that kids who have drowning with morbidity (the accepted medical term, check out the links below) swallowed some water, were fine for a few days, and then suddenly died. It doesn’t really work like that. Drowning is more dramatic.

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Lucky for me, the emergency medicine docs of the world have already knocked this topic out of the park, so go read their stuff. You’ll feel better.

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Here’s the deal, in brief: a human may experience inflammation in the lungs (pneumonitis) with massive fluid production and death after aspirating water. This is not the same thing as swallowing water and many people don’t understand the difference. Swallowed water goes into the esophagus and down through the digestive tract. Swallowing chlorinated pool water may make you throw up but it will not make you die of flash pulmonary edema. Aspiration is when the water goes into the trachea and down into the lungs.

In this case, the patient in question will have an episode of distress after they come out (or are pulled out) of the water. You will see it and you will know they are not okay. They will take longer to recover than they would after choking on a little orange juice at the dinner table. They will cough and gasp and sputter. They may even require intervention like CPR. And I’m pretty sure everyone understands that a child who is down in the water, gets pulled out, and requires resuscitation needs immediate medical attention, even if they seem to recover. If your child has an episode like this and then later continues to have coughing, vomiting, wheezing, chest or belly pain, or seems abnormally tired, we have a problem. Get to the ER. If your child goes swimming and does not have an aspiration event and afterwards they are perfectly fine ... they are perfectly fine. Go ahead and go to the beach this weekend, people.

The key to preventing drowning?

Supervision. There needs to be a designated child watcher. Just because there are 10 adults present doesn’t mean one of them is paying attention to the kids. Have a plan. If it’s a party where you don’t really know anyone, this is not the time to make new friends. Watch your kids.

If you’re watching them and they have an aspiration event, you will see it and you will get them the medical attention they need. If your child is participating in swimming activities when they are not with you, be the annoying parent. Ask questions about who will be supervising.

Ask if anyone present has had lifeguard training. If you don’t like the answers you get, don’t send your kid. Hosting a pool party yourself this summer? Consider hiring a lifeguard.

Oh, and wear sunscreen.

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Top 10 Tips for Water Safety

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rowning is the number one cause of death in Florida for children ages 1-4, and this is a statistic we can all help to change. Here are 10 tips for keeping your family safe in and around water from Leigh Ann Newman, Neapolitan Family co-publisher and a PediaSwim-certified survival swimming instructor.

1. Adult supervision. And I don’t mean sitting by the pool with a book or your phone (although you should keep your phone handy in case of an emergency). Drownings are silent. You won’t hear a scream or a splash. A child can lose consciousness after being submerged for two minutes. After 4-6 minutes, permanent brain damage can occur.

2. Swimming lessons. Children can learn to float as young as six months old, and kids at any age need to know how to keep themselves safe in the water. There are a variety of programs and instructors out there. Ask your pediatrician and friends for recommendations.

3. Throw out the water wings. Water wings are toys – dangerous toys. If you are using a flotation device, make sure it is U.S. Coast Guard approved. However, never depend on flotation devices to take the place of adult supervision. Young children can, and do, take off puddle jumpers and life jackets.

4. Physical barriers. A must for any backyard pool is a fence at least four feet high, with a self-latching and self-locking gate. Pool fences save lives. Period. But they are not foolproof. Even self-latching gates don’t always close. Older siblings and even adults can forget to latch the pool fence, so check the fence and the gate regularly.

5. Check the furniture on the lanai. Children have climbed over pool fences and drowned. If a table or chair is light enough for a toddler to pick up or push, don’t leave it on the lanai.

6. Hire a lifeguard for parties. For $100-$200, you keep everyone safe and lessen your own stress. If that’s out of your price range, designate an adult (who can swim AND has not been drinking) as the pool watcher. Switch every 30 minutes.

7. Learn CPR and first aid. Be prepared in case of an accident; minutes matter.

8. Take the toys out of the pool. Many babies and toddlers fall into pools while reaching for a toy. Remove the temptation when you are done swimming for the day, and you’ll have the added benefit of your pool filter and chemicals working more efficiently.

9. Talk to your kids. Start early. Go over the pool rules every day your kids are in the water. Your words will sink in and can prevent accidents.

10. Get in the water with your kids! Once you get over getting your hair wet, you’ll discover what a blast you can have with your kids in the water, especially while they are young enough to still want Mom and Dad in the pool. neafamily.com

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Vacation Bible School Directory

If you are looking for a few days of Christian education for your child, you’re sure to find a program that will meet your needs. Vacation Bible Schools are either free of charge or low cost to congregants and guests of the religious institutions listed in our guide. Programs fill up quickly, so be sure to call for information and register as early as possible.

CENTER POINT COMMUNITY CHURCH 6590 Golden Gate Pkwy., Naples 239-261-7486 www.cpccnaples.org/vbs-registration June 11-15; 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. For children entering grades K-5. The theme will be Time Lab: Discovering Jesus From Eternity Past to Eternity Future. The cost is $12 per child which includes crafts, snacks, and a t-shirt, and will be collected on the first day of VBS. COVENANT CHURCH OF NAPLES 6926 Trail Blvd., Naples 239-597-3464 www.covenantnaples.com June 18-22, 8:45 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. An exciting new VBS is coming to Covenant Church. Basic Elements is a science-inspired, Christfocused VBS program for children 4 years old to those entering 6th grade. The Biblical truth combined with hands-on science exploration equals unforgettable faith lessons for your children. Register online.

EAST NAPLES BAPTIST CHURCH 1697 Shadowlawn Dr., Naples 239-774-1282 www.eastnaplesbaptist.org July 15-20 (Sunday through Friday), 6-8:30 p.m. VBS is for all ages, babies - adults. For children 4 and under, a parent or guardian must be on-site in the adult VBS. The theme for 2018 is Game On! EAST NAPLES UNITED METHODIST CHURCH 2701 Airport Rd. S., Naples 239-774-4696 www.enaples.org June 18-22, 5:30-8 p.m. For ages 4 through 5th grade, youth, and adults. Nursery care available for children 3 and younger. This year’s theme is Rolling River Rampage: Experience the Ride of a Lifetime With God. A light dinner is provided. Email kristin@enaples.org.

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EMMANUEL LUTHERAN CHURCH 777 Mooring Line Dr., Naples June 4-8, 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. For children in grades K-5.

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FAITH BIBLE CHURCH 6464 Immokalee Rd., Naples 239-514-4986 www.faithnaples.com June 3-7 (Sunday-Thursday), 6-8:30 p.m. For children entering grades K-7. The theme for 2018 will be Time Lab: Discovering Jesus From Eternity Past to Eternity Future.

FAITH LUTHERAN CHURCH 4150 Goodlette Rd. N., Naples 239-434-5811 June 11-15, 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. The theme for 2018 is Splash Canyon: God’s Promise on Life’s Wild Ride.

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FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH 3000 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples 239-596-8600, x2 www.fbcn.org/VBS June 4-8, 9 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. This fun week is for current pre-K 3-year-olds (must be 4 by Sept. 1) through 5th grade.

GRACE LUTHERAN CHURCH 860 Banyan Blvd., Naples 239-261-7421, x7 www.graceofnaples.com June 11-15, 9 a.m.-12 p.m. $20 per family. For ages 4 through 5th grade. Register with Kami Jo Mogelvang, director of Christian Education, at dce@graceofnaples.com.

MOORINGS PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH 791 Harbour Dr., Naples June 25-29, 8 a.m. to 12 p.m. For children ages 4 through 5th grade. $35.

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NAPLES CHRISTIAN CHURCH 8000 Goodlette Rd. N., Naples 239-597-4411 www.napleschristian.org June 18-22, 9 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Free VBS for ages 4 years through 5th grade. The theme for 2018 is Shipwrecked – Rescued by Jesus.

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NAPLES CHURCH OF CHRIST 12760 Livingston Rd., Naples 239-455-5252 www.napleschurchofchrist.com June 24-27 (Sunday-Wednesday), 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Free VBS for preschool through fifth grade. The theme is Time Lab: Discovering Jesus From Eternity Past to Eternity Future. T-shirts, snacks, cool contests, and songs. Email NaplesChurchofChrist@gmail.com.

NAPLES UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST 5200 Crayton Rd., Naples 239-293-7748 www.naplesucc.org June 4-8, 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. Wrap around care available until 6 p.m. For children in grades K-6. This year’s theme is Rolling River Rampage: Experience the Ride of a Lifetime With God. NEW LIFE CHURCH 3971 Via Del Rey, Bonita Springs 239-992-2952 www.nlcbonita.com June 18-22, 6:30-8 p.m. This year theme is Game On! Lace up your cleats, put on your jerseys, grab your pom poms, and get ready to encourage one another as we look into God’s ultimate playbook.

NORTH NAPLES BAPTIST CHURCH 1811 Oakes Blvd., Naples 239-597-2201 June 4-8, 9 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Children must be 3 years old and potty trained through completed 5th grade.

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1955 Curling Ave., Naples 239-597-4091 www.oursaviornaples.org OUR SAVIOR LUTHERAN CHURCH July 9-13, 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Free. For children ages 4 through 8th grade. The Alpha Omega VBS will include Bible lessons, music, crafts, snacks, and games.

851 San Marco Rd., Marco Island 239-394-5181 www.sanmarcochurch.org SAN MARC0 CATHOLIC CHURCH June 25-29, 9 a.m. to noon. For ages 3 years (potty trained) through high school. Teens are used as group leaders. Fun, games, crafts, snacks, music, and Bible stories and action. This year’s theme is Splash Canyon: God’s Promise on Life’s Wild Ride.

ROARING NOW - JUNE 3 Take a trip back in time to discover what these creatures were all about! Discover 10 life-size animatronic dinosaurs on display, uncover your inner-paleontologist at the fossil dig, and snap a pic at the dinosaur photo station.

Roaring Daily! 9am-5pm February 17 - June 3, 2018 Regular Garden admission 4820 Bayshore Drive, Naples, FL / 239.643.7275

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Best Summer Ever Starts June 4th!

YMCA Summer Day Camp (Ages *5-13) Greater Naples YMCA

REGISTRATION OPENS: March 3rd WEEKLY COST: YMCA Members: $100/YMCA Guests: $125 GET MORE INFO: www.GreaterNaplesYMCA.org *Must have completed kindergarten. One time $100 registration fee applies for camp registrations.

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RED CROSS SWIM LESSONS

Group/Private Your Pool or Mine Infant - Adult Over 30 yrs Experience Reasonable Rates Certified & Insured

239-465-8602 Naples only Mother/Daughter team!

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CHILD CARE SERVICES

Masters Degree CPR, First Aid Certified Clean driving and FBI record Day/Evening/Overnight 239-631-3041

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Children’s Birthday

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We will furnish:

18 Holes of Golf Plates, forks, napkins & candles Tables & Chairs Drinks: Coke, Sprite, etc.

Only $10.00 per person Bi (the Birthday Child is Free and gets 1 year of free golf) These figures are based upon a minimum of 10 people. We will require 10 days notice.

Thank you!

2205 E. Tamiami Trail Naples, FL 34112

(239) 793-4999 www.coralcaygolf.com

(239) 641-1982

Home Organizing Office Organizing Moving Prep Serving Naples, Ave Maria, and surrounding areas.

Memorable Mobile Parties

Themed spa parties for girls that come to you!

Serving all of Collier & Lee Counties

239-963-5595

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Naples Princess Parties Character-themed* parties or one-on-one visits.

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Easterseals Academy and LEAP ENROLLING NOW - Full time private school accepting McKay scholarships* - Free afterschool readiness program* - Adult Day Training Program - Approved provider for the Agency for Persons with Disabilities - On the Job Training course* - Employment services through Vocational Rehabilitation* *Please contact for age restrictions, availability, and eligibility

Call 239.403.0366 or visit easterseals.com/florida

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239.596.5200 maidpro.com Servicing Marco Island, Naples, Bonita Springs and Fort Myers Area

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Protecting Southwest Florida’s unique natural environment and quality of life ... now and forever.

See the world through their eyes.

E N D A N G E R E D S P E C I E S D AY You can help protect our endangered species. When you see the world through the eyes of our wildlife you begin to see how you can help save their lives. Special activities for families and guests of all ages to help protect Southwest Florida’s endangered species.

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Just South of Naples Zoo off Goodlette-Frank Rd.