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Temecula Nissan:

Shifting Expectations

Salvation Army | Meet Your Neighbor | Happy

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A note from your Neighbor, Mayor Maryann Edwards

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“Be bold and feel free to enjoy those ugly sweaters!! You’re not alone!”

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appy Holidays! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and that your Holiday Season is off to a great start. Old Town is looking nicely Chilled in its holiday décor.

To commemorate Temecula’s 25th Anniversary our 25 Days of Fun continue with an activity, event, carnival, or attraction featured every day. For details visit temeculaevents.org/temecula25/.

BTW - You may see me around town this year, sporting one of my 35+ ugly Christmas sweaters, collected over the past 38 years of marriage to Dr. Wonderful. Of course I know they’re ugly! But wearing them brings back such happy memories of the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s.

So ladies, be bold and feel free to enjoy those ugly sweaters!! You’re not alone!

At the Edwards’ house, the Annual Thanksgiving Day Brunch kicks off the official Holiday Season. This year was especially fun as it was grandbaby Morgan

Scarlett’s first Thanksgiving.

Born on December 3, 2013, this was her first Brunch experience, first peek at the Christmas china, her first lesson in ugly Christmas Sweater Appreciation 101, and her first real opportunity to explore the Colonial on Gopher Hill on her own two tiny feet. Yes, Morgan Scarlett is walking!

We have so much to be thankful for. Our three grown children have always lived close to home. After Handsome Son married Beautiful Daughter-in-Law they lived close enough to “just run by the house for a few minutes”. We have been wonderfully blessed, and now it’s time for us to share.

So we will say goodbye to the Young Edwards as they bid farewell to California in three weeks and head to their new home in Texas where they will help the inlaws run a very well-established family business. Morgan Scarlett will still have a Grandma and Grampa nearby to spoil and cuddle her. Handsome and Beauty will have the fun and excitement of moving into a new

home. And Temecula Grammy and Grampa will be racking up some frequent flyer miles over the next couple of years.

For those of you who will be staying close to home this beautiful Holiday Season, Temecula will have a lot of things to do during our 25th Anniversary year. We’re calling this year’s theme “Temecula Chilled” because so many events take place outside. It’s going to be a beautiful and very fun year, and I’ll see you at the Ice Skating Rink on December 12th for my annual “skate”. Check out “Temecula Chilled” for yourself at www.temeculachilled.com

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Special Features

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5 Publisher's Note

Happy Coconut Oil Recipes Local Artist

Cover Story 6 Temecula Nissan

Rising Star

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10 Nicholas Clay

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26 Blazing Tales

Ask the Expert 9 13 18 24

Giving Pest Control Senior Care Optimal Health

Meet Your Neighbor

Business Buzz

20 Luanne Jobgen

17 Sydnee’s Pet Grooming Salon 16 Lockhart Law

Community Corner 30 Local Happenings

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////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// My dear Temecula neighbors, Publisher & Editor in Chief Tracy Blanscet

Creative Director

Fara Asay

Staff Writer

Brittany-Rose Contributors

Maryann Edwards Laurie Blanscet

Catherine Shepard Tory R. Wadlington

Cover Photography by

Stevie Dee Photography

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I’m so grateful that we decided to move to this valley before my oldest child began school. I was so excited to live within a topnotch school district, but Temecula is so much more than a great school district.

I went through a very difficult time about 10 years ago when I experienced the hardship that divorce brings. It was a first hand introduction to the importance of a tight-knit community. Friends and neighbors cheered me on as I put myself through college to create a better life for my five children and myself. Two of my neighbors watched my younger kids after school at no charge while I attended my classes. I gave thanks in whatever small ways I could.

After graduating with a bachelor’s degree, I had a new understanding of the word perseverance.

During those tough years, my family was chosen one Christmas by an anonymous giver through the Salvation Army Adopt a Family program. I was humbled by the generosity of a stranger. Now adopting a family at Christmas is one of the most important holiday traditions we have. I still get choked up when I think about that Christmas we were adopted. Someone actually chose a family with 5 children…

I didn’t tell my kids until years later that we had been adopted.

It was my own secret until the first year we adopted a family. It really touched my children and changed their attitudes about giving to others.

Not only does it feel great to give to others, it helps us stay focused on something meaningful rather than just looking for gifts that can never give us the feeling of true joy.

If you don’t have the ability to give financially this year by donating a gift or adopting a family, perhaps there is another way you can give…

This season the adults in my extended family have agreed on exchanging gifts of service: painting a room, making a meal, yard work, sewing something, etc. I’m excited about this because when I suggested it, my mom knew immediately what she wanted from me.

It was something she considers a talent I have; yet I never really considered it. At the same time I was thinking how talented my mom is at crafting and arts and how I’d love her to make me something like that. Even my teenagers want to get involved and babysit or build something for a service gift.

In whatever way you can, I hope you’ll find a way to give this season. For more information on adopting a family through the Salvation Army, contact Lisa.Folden@usw.salvationarmy.org or call 951-677-1324. Warmest wishes!

Your Neighbor,

Tracy Blanscet

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“fast, fun, and fair.”

Shifting Expectations

By Brittany Rose

uying a new car can be a mixture of excitement and anxiety. On one hand there’s the new car smell, picking the right color, and of course, the endless pictures posted on social media. On the other hand, there’s the hassle of finding the right vehicle, the right dealer, and the right price.

The hassle can be quite the ordeal.

At the all new Temecula Nissan

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they put an end to all the confusion.

“We’re totally transparent,” general manager, Dan Ryan, says proudly.

“We don’t use felt pens or throw out obscure numbers. We use printouts, in black and white, and give facts so each customer can make an informed decision.”

In October of this year Dave Pedder of Pedder Automotives bought Temecula Nissan; their fifth

automobile dealership in the Inland Empire. They retained most of the existing staff members, and yet sales have doubled since the turn over.

Dan has worked in the auto industry for more than 30 years and attributes their success to making sure every transaction is “fast, fun, and fair.” It certainly doesn’t hurt that they have over a thousand Nissans to choose from, allowing them to have access

to one of the largest selections of Nissans in Southern California.

Dan Ryan and owner, Dave Pedder have been working together for over 20 years. Back then it was Dan in the driver’s seat giving Dave a job as a sales manager. “I could tell the day I met him that he had ambition,” he recalls. “Dave pursued his dream to one day own car dealerships, and now I’m proud to work for him. He helps his employees achieve their goals, just like he did.”

As the general manager, Dan’s goal is to lead his team to the number one Nissan dealership in America, by giving excellent customer service to each guest that visits Temecula Nissan. Dan’s mother left a legacy of dedication and service to live up to. As a single mother, with five children, she worked for Walt Disney for 40 years, never missing a single day of work! She loved her job so dearly and didn’t want anyone to take it from her.

At her retirement an executive of Disneyland presented her with a solid gold coin for the decades of service she provided to her co-workers and “guests” of the park.

To this day Dan carries that gold coin in his pocket, reminding him of the service he wants to provide to his community. Dan’s work ethic makes him unafraid to have his personal cell phone number printed on his cards. “It’s just part of the transparency we have here,” Dan explains. “We’re available to our community anytime!” One gentle-

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man bought a Nissan for his wife and wanted to present it to her that day for her birthday, the problem was that the car was over 100 miles away at another Nissan dealership.

Staff members hurried to transport the exact car she wanted. They made it just in time, driving it right to her birthday party. The dealership had a surprise for her too, they tinted windows for her new car.

At Nissan business is important, but so is being a part of a community; so, when an active duty service member brought a truck in for service, for safety repairs. Then, found out the warranty they had purchased from another dealer, wouldn’t cover the necessary repairs due to the fact that the truck was modified. Team member’s seeing this veteran, his wife and two daughter’s distress over the necessary work that was going to cost thousands of dollars started a chain reaction within the dealership. Though another dealer had issued the warranty wrongly, and would not refund the money for it, Temecula Nissan decided that the situation needed to be made right.

They were able to cover 90% of the costs and fixed the vehicle at minimal cost to the family.

“We really value our military men and women,” says Dan. “Their service to us is priceless, so we are happy to be able to give them significant savings on all of our vehicles as well as hire retired military members who want to begin a new career in the automobile industry.”

The dealership is also proud to

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support Temecula’s local youth by sharing their parking lot with car washing football players, cheerleaders, and other teens raising funds for various causes.

The all new Temecula Nissan has a short and simple motto, “We got this.” Their sales and supportive staff are dedicated to making transparent deals that meet the needs of all parties. Dave Pedder, Dan Ryan, and the whole Temecula Nissan team are taking the wheel and putting customer service back in the industry.

The dealership also promotes a local radio show called Car’s & Coffee, which is broadcast every Monday morning on 94.5 from 7am-8am and on 103.3 from 8am-9am. The subject matter is all things automotive; they review a different car each week and feature a local business of a recent customer. Another way this dealership sets itself apart from the rest and gives back to their local community.

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Ask The Expert / Giving /////////

❄ UPCYCLING THRIFT STORE TREASURES

“Thrifting” has become a trendy hobby as creative, do-it-yourself types have focused their efforts

on giving new life to old furniture, accessories, and dishes. Whereas recycling is the process of breaking things down, upcycling is the process of adding value to an old item by giving it new life!

The Salvation Army Thrift Stores are a great place to find items to repurpose.

There are some incredible bargains to be had in these stores, and not just old clothing.

It’s a brave new world in the thrift stores today. From furniture to kitchenware and artwork you can probably find what you need in a local thrift shop.

HERE ARE SOME FABULOUS IDEAS FOR GIVING NEW LIFE TO YOUR THRIFT STORE FINDS:

▲ TEACUPS: Teacups can be repurposed to hold a homemade candle, a pincushion, or use a little glue to transform cup and saucer into a bird feeder.

▲ PICTURE FRAMES: Chalk paint can transform an old picture frame into a shabbychic masterpiece. Use it to frame a pinboard, chalkboard or photo.

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FURNITURE: Don’t be turned away because that old wood furniture looks outdated. The right paint will transform a piece into a modern work of art. Even fabric can be painted with the right materials.

Giving new life to your thrift store finds goes hand in hand with the work that the Salvation Army Adult Rehabilitation Center (ARC) does with people. The Riverside County ARC has helped hundreds of men battling addiction to transform their lives. It’s not as easy as a few coats of paint but when there is a desire to change and the right tools available, recovery is possible.

The Salvation Army ARC is the only addiction treatment program in the county available at absolutely no cost to the participants. The program is completely supported through donations of your used items which are sold in the Salvation Army thrift stores and by the work efforts of the men in the program.

GLASSWARE: Glassware can be renovated to look like pottery using white or colored paint.

▲ CLOTHING: Cut a cable knit sweater to make your own handmade stockings. Help a child to develop their fashion skills by giving them old clothes to convert into something trendy.

Give the gift of new life this season, by donating your used items to the Salvation Army and upcycling your thrift store finds.

For more great ideas and DIY thrift store projects visit SincerelySaraD.com.

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FINDING A VOICE IN PODCASTING:

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owadays teenagers are scrutinized for the time they spend on the computer. From social media to YouTube, it seems that technology is a major part of teen life.

Well 16-year-old Nicholas Clay is no different, but what sets this young man apart is that he doesn’t just plug into technology; he produces it.

As a part of Teen Radio Temecula (TRT), Nicholas has learned the skills of podcasting; skills such as setting up production equipment, interviewing people, research, creative writing, public speaking, and so much more.

Podcasting is a modern way of broadcasting which is downloadable to iPods or other handheld devices to listen to. The teen radio program is offered through the Temecula Community Services Department for kids from 12 to 17 years old. Episodes are written, produced and performed by the young talent with guidance and assistance from Tony Moramarco and Jeff Waddleton of Big Giant Media.

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Radio Temecula from the moment it started about three years ago,” explains Michelle, Nicholas’ mom.

“He had taken many drawing and graphic classes thru Big Giant Media, so when they created Teen Radio Temecula, he wanted to be involved.

He is their Senior Staff Member and has been with them the longest.”

Nicholas was pleased to be named 2013 Teen Podcaster of the Year by TRT. “I love being involved with Teen Radio Temecula.” Nicholas exclaims.

“Not only do we get to do the podcasts, we’ve also been able to emcee the local 4th of July and Christmas Parades thru the City of Temecula.”

Getting involved in the radio program has helped Nicholas to be more social and allowed him to find a hobby he truly enjoys.

Besides being part of a podcasting team, Nicholas decided to create a YouTube channel, of his own. He has enjoyed making several short videos featuring video game characters in dialog. Although he uses this as

voice-over practice, this “little hobby” has gained him a large fan base of over 1.5 million viewers! Many of these fans subscribe to his channel and anxiously await watching the new videos he produces.

Having his own YouTube Channel has been a great creative outlet for practicing the skills Nicholas wants to develop for his future, which he hopes will be in animated filmmaking. He also enjoys playing video games and making music mash ups. On the less technical side, Nicholas plays on the Varsity Golf Team at Temecula Preparatory School and enjoys drawing and riding quads with his younger brother and parents.

In the midst of all the bytes and pixels, Nicholas has found a voice online. This outlet has allowed him to connect with others around the world that share his interests and inspired him to set a relevant career goal. Find Nicholas on YouTube by searching sonicmario01.

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The Holiday Buzz…

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t’s a nice time of year in the pest industry. Ants tend to remain at bay, less spiders are out spinning webs, and with all the hustle and bustle of the season most people are thinking about the out of town “pests” coming to visit (I mean family). However, there are a few pests that don’t hibernate during the winter, like bees. One type of bee with a particularly harsh stigma is the Africanized honey bee, also known as the Killer Bee. Africanized bees are a cross breed between Western honey bees and African honey bees. Originally the bees were kept quarantined in Brazil to make honey; but in the 50’s, some 26 swarms escaped and made their way to the US. They were first discovered in our nearby San Joaquin Valley and have been pollinating California ever since.

Africanized Bees are actually no more poisonous than any other bee, but they have a raging temper. Their intense reaction to anything slightly aggravating is what makes them known as killer bees. They will vengefully chase down predators, and innocents bystanders alike, including pets if they feel the slightest threat. They, along with other bees, hornets and wasps are responsible for up to 100 deaths per year.

Their extreme defensiveness is just one of their stinging traits; they also swarm without cause and are much more territorial than other types of bees. Clearly designed for survival, Africanized bees make more honey, travel farther, and

require more space than their European counterparts.

If there are Africanized bees around a home or business, calling a professional exterminator is the number one solution. The number two solution is to run or find water immediately. These particular bees are like scorned ex-girlfriends, shooing them away will only make matters worse. Pools, lakes and other large bodies of water are the only safe haven from a swarm. Also, a little soap diluted in water sprayed with a hose or poured with buckets will cause the bees to flee and possibly save a life.

To prevent encounters altogether get an exterminator to do an inspection of the property. It’s most helpful if neighbors also want the inspection so a technician can sweep multiple spots where hives are normally found: under eaves, trees and over hangs. Also, for the handyman/woman, wire mesh strategically placed in these areas can prevent hives from forming altogether.

Keep the holiday cheer alive and the killer bees away. An inspection can be preventative maintenance to ensure there are no hives around your home or business. During this season the last thing anyone wants their guests buzzing about is… bees.

“To prevent encounters altogether get an exterminator to do an inspection of the property.”

Call today for a FREE inspection with Lakeside Pest Control (951) 678-1812

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“Happiness is a funny thing. It’s tangible and easily felt. Like a snowflake, one minute it’s on the tip of your nose, the next moment it can melt away.”

By Brittany Rose

now-life was new to me, so it was no surprise that I slid and fell on the icy path while on the way to the car. I was wearing boots (well… California boots)… but there, in Sweden, they might as well have been ice skates.

It had snowed the night before and the powder was three feet high!

It shined like glitter and covered everything. The scenery was completely foreign to me. Crash, SMASH! A huge icicle fell from the roof and stabbed the ground next to me. My friend walked passed me and threw me a disappointed glance, “Gotta watch out for those things… they kill two people a year,” he said.

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north of the Arctic Circle. After four hours of endless trees and counting moose crossings, it was time for lunch. (Much to my chagrin, there was never a moose sighting.

Apparently, they don’t bother to read the signs.)

We stopped in a college town where the kids were starting school and the small village streets were full of people. We ate our homemade tuna sandwiches in the car.

With full stomachs and happy hearts we were ready for… more trees.

My friend started the engine and right on cue the perfect song came on, “Because I’m haaapppy. Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.” The Swede sang along, bobbing his head, which he only did on rare, delightful occasions, “Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth…” We sang along, “Because I’m haaappeeey!”

Suddenly my driver hit the

brakes so hard I thought we hit a wall. He honked his horn angrily.

My eyes adjusted to see a young man in a hoodie, wearing headphones, standing two inches from our car. The clueless kid looked up in horror, the horn still blaring, and made his way to the sidewalk in a startled daze.

I looked toward the driver’s seat; my normally gentle Swede was red-faced and sputtering, “Get out of the way!” I remained silent as his rant continued about this young man’s carelessness for important traffic laws. Finally he fell silent, the radio continued “…because I’m happeeeeeey….”

The air was tight; I turned toward my friend and with a puppylike nudge and smiled gently. He broke into a giggle and I did too.

“How silly that was,” he said. “I think I overreacted.” In one moment we were happily singing like free

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The next day we arrived at the Ice Hotel. The lodging grounds were full of trees bent in half from the heavy snow and gorgeous ice sculptures in shapes of bears, hearts and chandeliers. We toured through the ice church and followed it with a drink from the ice bar.

By night fall, I was ready for my 800 dollar a night bed. We were led to our room which was essentially a walk-in freezer behind a curtain. In the middle of the room was a block of ice covered in dear skins and sleeping bags. I faked a smile and said “Can we upgrade to a real room?” My companion loved my reaction; “This is the upgrade” he jarred.

As we lay down we tried to look at each other, but it was proving dif-

ficult. I was completely covered except a small little breathing hole.

He was more brave and had most of his eyes showing. We wiggled around like inch worms calling to each other. Then he said, “Do you have to go to the bathroom?” We laughed ourselves to sleep and prayed for daylight.

Morning came and I was happy to be awakened with hot lingonberry juice. The sweet and sour mixture was our liquid courage to make a mad dash to the hotel restroom.

Once inside the lodge we congratulated each other on surviving the night.

As we drove from the hotel, I stared out the passenger window; the iridescent scenery looked like a fantasy. My thoughts were interrupted with the memory of the young man we nearly hit. I wished that on his

journey we could have shared with him the happiness we felt while singing in the car.

Happiness is a funny thing. It’s tangible and easily felt. Like a snowflake, one minute it’s on the tip of your nose, the next moment it can melt away. There’s only one way to create happiness and that is from within. The world is only filled with happiness if we make it, share it and send it to land on someone else’s nose.

I looked out into the white wonderland and realized Sweden had taught me a lot: wear boots with traction, don’t stand under icicles and share the “happy.”

But that’s just my view… from the window seat.

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Just yesterday I heard mom saying I hardly ever get in trouble anymore. That’s because I have changed my ways… no more sneaking out the door, chewing shoes or digging holes for me...

In fact, I’ve been on my best behavior for months. When I hear a knock at the door, I let my people know right away. And when they check to see who’s there, I don’t even run away.

So Santa, I would like some great gifts this year that will properly reward me for my good behavior. You know, back when I was still chewing things up, I destroyed my leash. It was an accident… sort of. I was just carrying it around to get my people to take me for a walk, but when they wouldn’t, I just used my energy for chewing and before I realized it, I had chewed through it completely.  My people parents didn’t replace it yet, so I’ve been using my cousins leash… the problem is its as thin as dental floss.

And… it’s pink. I know they say real dogs wear pink, but I really miss my green leash. If I promise not to chew it up, will you bring me a new leash under the tree?

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ive years ago Krystal Vallem had a dream to work with animals. She wanted to improve the lives of the furry friends within her community and started as a receptionist for Sydnee’s Pet Grooming Salon. Three short months later, she began sneaking to the back room to learn how to be a pet stylist.

Krystal knew it was her calling to be a professional groomer and worked her tail off to learn as much as she could about the business.

Now she owns her own franchise of Sydnee’s Pet Grooming in Temecula. “I decided to open this store because I love what I do,” she says. “I loved the company I worked for, and I wanted to carry out their brand. Our mission is to help people and pets in our community to live happy, healthy lives.”

Sydnee’s Pet Grooming is not your average shampoo and cut for your pet. It’s a full service salon that includes pet styling, dental services, small dog day care, and photo

shoots. It’s truly a pet lover’s dream.

They specialize in customized cuts and are the original developers of the Furry Facials. This allows each pet owner to choose from a variety of scented fragrances that are used to put each pet in the right frame of mind. The all natural shampoos and after sprays are included with every grooming and come in vanilla for brightening, lavender for calming, and mango for refreshing.

As a modern pet salon they can give your pet an update with a doggy dye or feather extensions.

Krystal says the pet styling is her favorite part. “Once each dog is finished, I love to watch them prance around and show off their new ‘do’.“ Sydnee’s Pet Groming takes great pride in supporting the animals that are often left out of fancy styling. The salon hosts various events to support the Protect.Act.Cure.

(PAC) program which raises money for different organizations such as rescue groups, shelters and therapy

dogs. Also Krystal is happy to reward families that have adopted pets with a free pet styling (within two weeks of adoption date).

The Troop Pooch Makeover is another incredible program Sydnee’s developed along with Twin Oaks Animal Hospital in San Marcos.

“We are big supporters of our military and want to give back to them in any way we can,” explains Krystal. Once a month a service member is chosen from a drawing and their pet will recieve a complete makeover including: a physical exam from a veterinarian, a dental cleaning, styling and a photo shoot!

Krystal’s ambition, skill, and love for our furry friends are the key ingredients that will have her business thriving… and that’s what has everyone’s tails wagging!

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A Great Time for Eldercare Discussions

By Catharine Shepard

Co-Founder of Senior Care Referral Specialists, Inc.

olidays are a natural time for families to gather together, presenting an opportunity to jointly address the needs of aging parents or relatives. But what are the best guidelines to promote conversation in a positive, cohesive, and productive manner? With many variables including potentially differing thoughts on care options, it is important to create a plan of action.

This is a process, and typically, everything cannot be addressed in one meeting. It’s generally best to start with an initial discussion to lay the groundwork. Include key members involved in the lives of those needing care – whether it be children, siblings, close relatives, trusted friends or religious advisors.

Set a meeting time and place that is clear for all involved, and keep it free from distractions.

This first meeting should address evidence of care need, types of care options, the pros and cons of such a transition, finances if known, and each person’s potential role in the process.

These roles could include coordinating efforts, overseeing research, and gaining an understanding of the available finances. If left to one person, it is a recipe for misinterpretation, miscommunication, and stress.

Having everyone on the same page, with a willingness to compromise, will help reduce potential confusion in future discussions with the elderly family members in need.

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Everyone should be heard, and the focus kept on the best solutions for your loved ones. If family dynamics make this type of discussion difficult, it may be advisable to have a neutral third party involved – such as a social worker or other eldercare professional.

Next, set a time for a few of the key group to meet with the elderly family members in need.

This can happen soon after the initial meeting or within a reasonable period of time. This meeting is simply to express concern and explore options that can help them handle changes as they are aging. Putting yourself in their shoes will help you be sensitive in your approach.

Sharing the family’s concerns and asking for their input and ideas will help them feel empowered rather than victimized.

Discuss the pros and cons of various care options with them directly. Be prepared to offer ideas and gain an understanding of their perspective.

Resistance is common, so focusing on “planting ideas” rather than making final plans is paramount at

this stage. Respecting the dignity of their right to their own choices about their life is critical to reaching a successful solution.

Finally, keep an eye on your loved ones. Be sure someone continues to monitor the situation for further decline, whether it’s a family member, a neighbor, or a home care provider. Commit to regular discussions (perhaps quarterly) among the key people involved in your first meeting to stay current with your loved ones’ needs, and keep the process moving forward. Engage your elderly loved ones in the process by implementing short term solutions and long term planning. For guidance on how to accomplish this, reach out to professionals in the eldercare industry.

Do you have a question or concern about a senior in your life?

SENIOR CARE REFERRAL SPECIALISTS, Inc. Phone: 951-824-8299 Email: help@SRcareinfo.com website: www.SRcareinfo.com

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A LOCAL

TREASURE LUANNE JOBGEN

“Luanne volunteers so many hours of her time and is always there to help at Chamber events.

She always makes people feel welcome and is willing to do whatever is needed,”

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his season gives cause to reflect on what great people we have in our community; specifically people who give of their resources, embodying the spirit of volunteerism. One such volunteer is Luanne Jobgen, a woman with a heart of gold who works daily to serve others despite her own trials.

When Luanne moved to Temecula in 1980, she had recently been diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis; a painful, debilitating disease that she had little knowledge of at the time.

“When the doctor told me that I had MS, all I could say was ‘I’m Going to Die?’” Luanne recalls, “The doctor was adamant that I was not going to die! He told me to live happy, eat well, and enjoy my life!”

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She’s taken her doctor’s advice and not only enjoyed her life, but found a way to help others enjoy their lives too. After retiring, Luanne began to volunteer in different capacities. Currently she serves as a board member for Habitat for Humanity, the treasurer for a local women’s networking group, and as an ambassador for both the Temecula and Murrieta Chambers of Commerce.

“Luanne volunteers so many hours of her time and is always there to help at Chamber events. She always makes people feel welcome and is willing to do whatever is needed,” says Lynn Collett, Temecula Chamber Resource Coordinator and a long–time friend of Luanne’s. Luanne has been the Temecula Chamber’s “Ambassador of the Year” in the past and was nominated as the Murrieta Chamber’s “Volunteer of the Year” for 2014.

Serving individuals is just as important to Luanne as serving organizations. Luanne’s friends most appreciate that she is so caring of everyone she knows... and she seems to find friends everywhere. A couple of years ago at a garage sale, Luanne befriended a 93-year-old-woman named Marie. Luanne has introduced Marie to others who appreciate and share her time and talents, an example of Luanne’s ability to connect people in her community. Besides the great feeling Luanne gets from volunteering, she explains that it helps with her own illness to focus on the needs of others.

“It’s important to get to know people, find out their needs, and help in any way we can regardless of your circumstances,” Luanne shares. She is is not only thriving in this beautiful city that she moved to 34 years ago, she is a treasured part of the community. Luanne’s selfless service has been a two-way blessing, helping her cope with illness while giving from her heart to her Temecula family.

The Wonderful Benefits of Coconut Oil

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“In island cultures where 30-60% of the caloric intake comes from coconut oil, heart disease is virtually nonexistent.”

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or many decades, most health care officials have been saying that saturated fats are bad for your health. As Americans became diligent about keeping fat out of their diets, the population’s levels of heart disease, obesity, blood cholesterol, and Alzheimer's climbed more than ever. Current research has debunked the low-fat diet myth and shown that healthy fats are essential to good health!

“The fact is, all saturated fats are not created equal,” explains Joseph Mercola, Doctor of Osteopathy.

While many have embraced this new thinking, it’s a bit harder for our parents and grandparents to let go of their beloved shortening.

The Benefits of Coconut Oil While coconut oil has been a hot topic of research for a few years now, the information has really started to catch the attention of the general public. Dr. Mercola is one of the leading educators on the subject helping to distribute scientific findings to the public through his website mercola.com.

Unlike the latest “super berry” on the Internet, coconut oil is no fad.

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Researchers have examined cultures around the world who rely on coconut oil as a primary source of calories, as well as conducting studies in the lab and in clinical trials.

Here are some of the proven benefits of coconut oil: • Promotes heart health • Promotes weight loss, when needed (especially harmful belly fat) • Supports immune system health • Supports healthy metabolism • Provides an immediate energy source • Keeps skin healthy and youthful looking • Supports the proper functioning of the thyroid gland Why is coconut oil so much better than other oils? Well, one reason is that 50% of the fat in coconut oil is a fat rarely found in nature: lauric acid. When consumed this “secret weapon” can destroy bacteria and viruses, including lipid-coated viruses like HIV, Herpes, Measles, Influenza, and Protozoa. Besides wiping out those little bad guys that may be hanging out in your system, coconut oil enhances health in many ways.

Coconut oil is made up of medium-chain fatty acids, which are considered so nutritious that they are used in baby formulas and in hospi-

tals to feed the critically ill and others with special needs. Coconut oil is exceptionally helpful for pregnant women, nursing moms, the elderly, athletes, and those who just want to enhance their overall health.

Like a carbohydrate, coconut oil metabolizes quickly and is a powerful source of instant energy to the body. However, it has no insulin spike, which is great for dieters and diabetics. They love that this healthy oil stimulates metabolism and is not stored as fat.

Coconut oil has also proven to be a superstar for heart and brain function! In island cultures where 30-60% of the caloric intake comes from coconut oil, heart disease is virtually nonexistent. Just two tablespoons a day (with food) has shown to benefit mental health. In fact, many caretakers of those with Dementia or Alzheimer’s have reported drastic improvements in abilities, conversation skills and memory.

Other healthy fats to include in your diet are avocado and olive oil.

Olive oil is great for salads and should not be subjected to heat as it causes oxidative damage. Coconut oil has a high smoke point, is great for cooking, and tastes fantastic.

The next time you’re at the grocery store, let go of the Crisco and reach for some healthy coconut oil instead.

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//////// Ask the Expert / Health

Dear Dr. Blanscet, I’m a 45-year old woman and for the last year I have not really been feeling all that great. I don’t feel sick or anything, I just don’t feel right. I have gained about 15 pounds in 12 months. I often have trouble sleeping now, which was never a problem before. I’m tired a lot lately and get headaches more than what I think is normal. I’m not really interested in intimacy with my husband and we seem to be arguing a lot.

I just feel like things are off. When I told my primary doctor this, he did some tests and said everything is fine.

Is this just a normal part of aging?

-Sarah H. Sarah, After going through some of those symptoms myself, I decided to get further education on bioidentical hormones and healthy aging. Helping men and women achieve optimal health is something I’m very passionate about.

When a primary doctor looks at your blood tests, they are often only checking to see whether your results are “normal.” The problem is, in our society “normal” is based on people who are overweight, fatigued and in general, not feeling that great. You don’t necessarily want to be normal; you want optimal health.

Trust your intuition. If you are feeling like your body is “off,” then it probably is. If you’re doctor isn’t trained in bioidentical hormones, you should really find someone who is. Bioidentical hormones are usually plant based and are made to be biologically equivalent to the natural hormones your body produces. It just makes sense that a product with the exact chemical structure as your body makes will be safer and more effective.

Problems that are associated with hormonal changes in females include a decrease in energy, trouble going to sleep or staying asleep, night sweats, low libido, weight gain, migraines, hot flashes, vaginal dryness, mood swings, a general feeling of malaise, and more. Men share many of these same symptoms as they experience hormonal changes.

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Experts in bio-identical hormone replacement therapy strive to achieve optimal results by working with each individual's unique biochemistry. Every person is different and will receive a plan customized to their needs. It takes time to properly evaluate your symptoms, interpret your lab work, and be educated on treatments. There are several ways to restore hormone balance in men and women: creams, oral capsules, implanted pellets, etc.

It is unfortunate, but current medical insurances do not cover the expense of a proper hormone consultation and treatment. This may change in the future, but if you are experiencing hormonal imbalance, it’s best not to wait. Feel free to come and learn more at our free hormone discussion for women held each month.

Dr. Laurie Blanscet owns and operates a concierge medical practice specializing in anti-aging, bioidentical hormones & integrative health.

Laurie Blanscet, D.O. – An Optimal You 29995 Technology Dr, Ste 203 | Murrieta, CA 92563 www.anoptimalyou.com | 951-541-3577

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BACON WRAPPED DATES

Hippie Holidays / Primal Recipes /////////

INGREDIENTS

1 pack uncooked bacon (12 slices) 24 whole, pitted dates 24 toothpicks INSTRUCTIONS

Pre-heat oven to 450 degrees Cut strips of bacon in half width-wise Wrap individual dates in half-strips of bacon, secure with toothpick at overlap Place on rimmed baking sheet and bake for 10 minutes, checking at 8 minutes Flip dates over to brown the other side and cook for an additional 5-‐7 mins Let cool for 5 to 10 minutes Can also be stuffed with goat cheese, almonds, or even chorizo!

PALEO PUMPKIN SPICE LATTE INGREDIENTS

• 6 oz. unsweetened vanilla almond milk • 1 tsp. honey (or 100% pure maple syrup) • ¼ tsp. pumpkin pie spice • 1 tbsp. grass-fed butter (totally optional, but recommended for ultimate froth & creaminess) • 6 oz. freshly brewed hot coffee INSTRUCTIONS

Heat the almond milk in the microwave for 1 minute and 30 seconds, then pour it into a high-speed blender. A ninja or hand immersion blender is perfect!

Add the honey, pumpkin pie spice, and grass-fed butter (if using).

Blend for 15 to 30 seconds. Pour over freshly-brewed hot coffee, and enjoy!

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Temecula’s Master of Metal is

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It all started with a dinosaur.

After watching the movie, Jurassic Park, with his daughter, Lianna, who was 6 at the time, Ricardo Breceda couldn’t refuse when she asked him to make her a dinosaur. Even though he had no formal training as an artist, Ricardo was determined to grant his little girl’s wish. After months of cutting, welding, and fastening huge pieces of metal together, he finally presented Lianna with an astonishing life-sized dinosaur! Seeing the joy on her face was the spark that fueled his dedication to metal sculpting over the last decade and a half.

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known pieces locally are the magnificent metal horses jumping over the 79 South, near Vail Lake. On a broader scale, his 350 foot long “Serpent” is a delightful surprise in the Borrego desert. The attention to detail is truly awe-inspiring! He now has 133 sculptures peppered across Borrego Springs giving travelers something to watch for in the barren landscape.

Although, Ricardo Breceda is an internationally renowned sculptor, he’s still the same humble guy that grew up on a farm in Durango, Mexico. His days are now spent bringing life to the art in his imagination amidst the sparks from his

torch in his Temecula workshop.

His studio and warehouse is situated just inside the gate of Vail Lake; a metal wonderland and perfect place for a daytrip with the family.

“The kids love to come down here and watch me work,” Ricardo says.

“They ask questions and it’s very educational for the whole family.”

It’s free to visit the workshop and see the art the experience is worth its weight in….metal.

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Tea Time for Temecula’s NCL

The Temecula Valley Chapter of National Charity League, Inc. (NCL), hosted its second Annual Chapter Tea last month. One hundred and fifty members of the Temecula Valley chapter were in attendance showcasing their favorite tea hats as mothers and daughters spent the afternoon together experiencing a traditional tea.

The mission of NCL is to foster mother-daughter relationships in a philanthropic organization committed to community service, leadership development and cultural experiences. The younger participants are in 7th12th grades. Members of the Temecula Valley Chapter work throughout the local communities with the following philanthropies; Jacob’s House, Michelle’s Place, Service From the Heart, Temecula Valley Champions, Binky Patrol, Community Mission of Hope, Littlefield at the Park, City of Temecula, City of Murrieta, and Susan G. Komen. For information about the National Charity League, Inc. Temecula Valley Chapter, please visit ncltemeculavalley.org.

Holiday Lunch for Seniors

On Thursday, December 18, 2014 the City of Temecula – Human Services Division, will host a holiday lunch party at the Mary Phillips Senior Center from 10am12pm. Come celebrate the Holiday Season with friends, entertainment by the Mary Phillips Senior Center Choir, good food, and even a special visit from Santa Claus.

The event is open to all seniors over 60 years. Space is limited, so please reserve by Monday, December 15th. All are welcome, but a donation of three dollars is suggested to help cover the costs. For more information call the Mary Phillips Senior Center at 951-694-6464.

SPERO Vineyards Receives Grant

One of the largest nonprofit autism organizations in the US recently awarded a $25,000 grant to SPERO Vineyards. SPERO Vineyards is a local nonprofit working with the city of Temeucla to secure vocational training and job opportunities in the wine processing and hospitality industries for young adults with developmental disorders. The city is committed to help the special needs population transition into productive members of the community with as much independence as possible.

SPERO Vineyards was founded by Eva and Mark Woodsmall and currently has 880 vines under cultivation. Participants will receive classroom and field instruction by the City of Temecula’s Global Citizens Viticulture/Hospitality Vocational Program, which teaches basic computer skills, local vineyard history, hospitality and customer service skills in addition to the agriculture that is a part of the wine making business.

Great news for Temecula and it’s residents!

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Temecula Chilled

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The chill of winter is softened with hundreds of glowing lights in Old Town Temecula. Stroll the streets while enjoying live caroling Thursday – Sunday, sampling special holiday drinks and treats, and ice skating in front of Temecula’s beautiful City Hall. Check the calendar daily to find out what activities are going on: www.temeculachilled.com

New Years Eve Great Temecula Grape Drop

Looking for a special activity for New Year’s Eve that the whole family can enjoy? Old Town Temecula offers plenty of festivities all around with live music and special New Year’s Eve menus at many of the restaurants. The Great Temecula Grape Drop takes place in front of the Temecula Civic Center clock tower at 9pm and again at midnight to celebrate the new year on in both the Pacific and Eastern time zones.

The earlier celebration is the perfect timing for kiddos who want to celebrate without staying up so late.

Countdowns are preludes to the descent of the grand, illuminated, grape bunch and the welcoming of a fresh, new year.

When: December 31, 2014 Address: 41000 Main St., Temecula, CA 92590 Admission price: free

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