CrossRoads: November 2016

Going

GREEN

for veterans

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VOL 13 | NO 11

Departments

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Around Town Local news and events

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Always an Adventure A picture is worth 1,000 words

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Moore on Life In due course

Published monthly with newsstand circulation to Wentzville and Lake Saint Louis plus newsstands in O’Fallon, Troy, Lake Sherwood and Augusta.

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Publisher Robert Huneke

Automobile Alley The 2017 Volkswagen Golf Alltrack an upscale crossover alternative

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Editor Mathew DeKinder

Business Western St. Charles County Chamber of Commerce

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Production Manager Rebecca Brockmann

Entertainment Reasons you should see ‘Arrival’ the fall’s sci-fi contender

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Food Holiday menu magic

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Medical Memo Medicare Open Enrollment 101

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Community Calendar: November

Contributors Avalanche, David Finkelstein, Tony Mathews, Cindy Moore, Russ Patton, Mike Snider Photographer Ray Rockwell Staff Writer Brett Auten

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Going green for veterans Gold Star Mother from O’Fallon honors her son by embracing Greenlight A Vet campaign

By Brett Auten

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Nonprofit Profile Veterans Return to Vietnam helps bring closure to vets

By Mike Snider, Founder/Executive Director of Veterans Return to Vietnam

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Family Living Keeping kids active in cooler temperatures

*Correction: In the October edition of CrossRoads in the story titled “Presbyterian Children’s Homes and Services of Missouri quietly serves survivors of trauma” the address of the organization was incorrectly listed. The correct address of Presbyterian Children’s Homes and Services of Missouri is 1220 N. Lindbergh Blvd. in Creve Coeur. Community News Publications regrets the error.

On the Cover: Photo by Ray Rockwell

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honored by Missouri Press Association

Photo courtesy Missouri Press Association Missouri Press Association President Dennis Warden (far right) presented awards to (from left) Mathew DeKinder, Donna Huneke and Robert Huneke who accepted them on behalf of the Community News staff at the Missouri Press Association awards banquet held in Branson, Missouri on Oct. 1.

From staff reports The Community News was the recipient of several awards presented by the Missouri Press Association at its annual awards banquet held in Branson, Missouri on Oct. 1.

The awards recognized achievements in the 2015 calendar year as the Community News competed against other weekly newspapers across the state.

Community News’ columnists were recognized as Joe Morice won first place in the Best Columnist-Humorous category. This was a posthumous award as Morice passed away in 2015. Cindy Moore received an honorable mention award in the same category.

Also receiving a first place award was reporter Sara Hardin who won Best Story About Education for her story about the Jennings School District. Hardin also won honorable mention for Best Military Story for a story about a World War II veteran.

Publisher Robert Huneke won third place for Best News or Feature Obituary for his remembrance of Morice.

The Community News also received an award for its CrossRoads magazine which won second place overall in the Magazine/Alternative Publication category.

“These awards are a reflection of all of the hard work and dedication that our staff puts into every edition of the Community News,” said Community News editor Mathew DeKinder. “I could not be prouder of their accomplishments.”

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Holt Senior named National Merit Scholarship semifinalist The Wentzville School District is proud to announce that Matthew Brawner from Holt High School has been selected as a semifinalist and Connor Monahan and Alexandra (“Ally”) Schulte from Timberland High School, as well as Cameron Dierks from Liberty High School, have been named Commended Students in the 62nd Annual National Merit Photo courtesy Wentzville School District Scholarship Program.

Semifinalists represent less than one percent of U.S. high school seniors, and have the opportunity to continue in the competition for some 7,500 National Merit Scholarships worth more than $33 million.

Merit Scholar designees are selected on the basis of their skills, accomplishments and potential for success in rigorous college studies. Additionally, about 34,000 Commended Students throughout the nation are being recognized for their exceptional academic promise. Commended Students placed among the top five percent of more than 1.6 million students who entered the 2017 competition by taking the 2015 Preliminary SAT/National Merit Scholarship Qualifying Test.

“These students represent a valuable national resource; recognizing their accomplishments, as well as the key role their schools play in their academic development, is vital to the advancement of educational excellence in our nation,” commented a spokesperson for the National Merit Scholarship Corporation (NMSC). “We hope that this recognition will help broaden their educational opportunities and encourage them as they continue their pursuit of academic success.”

Brawner has a GPA of 4.43 and scored a 35 on his ACT. He is an AP Scholar with Distinction, is currently enrolled in six AP courses and a member of National Honor Society. He is also on the award-winning Holt Scholar Bowl team and has attended both Missouri Scholars Academy and Missouri Boys State. Brawner plans to study chemistry and music at Washington University or Northwestern University following graduation.

Monahan currently has a GPA of 4.26 and scored a 35 on his ACT. He is a member of the National Honor Society and has been on the WSD Robotics Team for four years where he currently serves as a programming team leader. Monahan says he plans to study Computer Science at the Missouri University of Science & Technology following graduation.

Schulte has a GPA of 4.26, has been a member of the Timberland marching, symphonic and jazz bands for four years and currently serves as a marching band section leader. She plans to study Civil and Architectural Engineering at the Missouri University of Science & Technology in Rolla, Missouri.

Dierks has a GPA of 4.27 and scored a 34 on his ACT. He is an AP Scholar with Distinction and has been a member of the Liberty Band for four years. Dierks plans to study physics, chemistry or engineering in college.

Around Town

WSD elementary schools celebrate

International Walk to School Day

www.wentzville-mo.minutemanpress.com Photo courtesy Wentzville School District Heritage Primary and Green Tree Elementary in the Wentzville School District joined schools from around the world to celebrate International Walk to School Day.

Heritage Primary and Green Tree Elementary in the Wentzville School District joined schools from around the world to celebrate International Walk to School Day. More than 300 students from Green Tree walked to school from Boulevard Park along with parents, teachers, family pets and staff members on Oct. 6. Dozens of Heritage Primary students, parents and staff walked from Fireman’s Park to their school with an escort from the Wentzville Police Department on Oct. 5.

This marks the seventh year Green Tree has partnered with the Lake Saint Louis Police Department to celebrate International Walk to School Day which was originally organized as part of a “Safe Routes to School” grant from the Missouri Department of Transportation. Community Resource Officer Susan Ochs has helped to organize the walk every year and is happy that this event has become a tradition.

“The primary benefit is getting our community together,” said Officer Ochs. “It gets kids outside, promotes pedestrian safety

and it’s an opportunity for parents and kids to have a good time together on their way to school.”

Now in its 20th year, International Walk to School Day is celebrated at over 5,000 participating schools in 40 countries around the world. Walk to school events work to create safer routes for walking and bicycling and emphasize the importance of issues such as increasing physical activity among children, pedestrian safety, traffic congestion, concern for the environment and building connections between families, schools and the broader community.

A representative from Safe Kids St. Louis was also on hand at the Green Tree event.

“Many people today live a sedentary lifestyle and childhood obesity is a growing concern,” shared Lori Winkler, Safety Coordinator for Safe Kids St. Louis and Injury Prevention Nurse Coordinator for Cardinal Glennon Children’s Medical Center. “Walk to School is a great opportunity to promote safety with kids and adults alike so we can reduce pedestrian tragedies.”

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Lessons in lifesaving St. Charles County Ambulance District Lifesaver CPR classes for families credited with saving lives

By Brett Auten It is a skill that is attainable, but you never know when it will come in handy during a time of need.

A local youth found the knowledge learned at a free CPR course, offered by the St. Charles County Ambulance District, held at a neighboring library and helped save the life of his sibling.

Kyle Prater was sitting in the backseat, enjoying a leisurely late summer drive with his nine-year-old sister Camden with ice cream cones in tow. Suddenly, a piece of waffle lodged in the throat of his sister, rendering her unable to breathe. Kim Prater, the children’s mother, pulled to the side of the road and before she could act, Kyle handed his cone to his mom and went to work. After a few abdominal thrusts, he dislodged the obstruction and Camden’s breathing returned to normal and all was fine.

The 12-year-old Prater credited his calm, cool and collected demeanor in the situation to a free Lifesaver CPR class he took just a few weeks prior to the incident at the Middendorf Kredel Library in O’Fallon.

“I was pretty surprised at how calm I was,” Kyle Prater said. “I usually get nervous and anxious but I knew exactly what to do and how to do it and that kept me calm.”

Prater’s heroism came out of reluctance.

“I was with a friend and I didn’t want to take the class,” he said. “But my parents said I had to. I was soon extremely happy that I did take it.”

The St. Charles County Ambulance District’s Outreach Lifesaver course provides one-onone instruction to residents of all ages. Skills covered in Lifesaver classes include handsonly CPR and how to relieve choking. Prater’s actions and news of the story, which was picked up by ABC television affiliates from New York to Hawaii, has invigorated the SCCAD crew.

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Submitted photo Students work with St. Charles paramedics at the St. Charles County Ambulance District’s booth at the CHOMP! Food Truck, Music & Film Fest at St. Charles Community College in May.

the SCCAD. “Especially those who teach the sessions. It’s like, what I do does make a difference.”

The SCCAD courses were a big success over the summer held at several of the main branches of the St. Charles City/County Library District. Running from late May through August, an estimated 800 people attended sessions held at the library.

“It is something that we will definitely do again next year,” Gains said of the cluster of sessions.

SCCAD Outreach offers free lifesaver classes regularly at locations throughout the county as well as private sessions. The Lifesaver CPR courses are intended to get attendees comfortable with the idea of helping a victim of sudden cardiac arrest or choking until paramedics can arrive at the scene. Armed with the latest in interactive mannequins, the sessions are geared toward being more upbeat and fun and not mundane and dry as some would believe. The sessions are open format, meaning that individuals and families come anytime during the slotted advertised time

frame and most complete the training in about 20 minutes.

“The sessions are family-friendly and completely interactive,” Gains said. “It’s more like a Six Flags ride. Plus, it gives you the chance to get all sorts of questions, like some of the legal ramifications of an emergency situation, for example, answered.”

Of course, if you want to stick around for extra training by getting supervised by a professional, they are welcome to practice on the interactive mannequin as long as they’d like.

Completion of the class does not provide attendees with a certification card.

“I would definitely recommend taking the course,” Kyle Prater said. “Something as simple as eating an ice cream cone can cause a life or death or situation. It’s that easy and that quick.”

SCCAD’s next Lifesaver courses are slated for December 10 at the O’Fallon Family YMCA and the Barnes BJC Day of Play. To keep up with the latest in the scheduling of Lifesaver course or for a contact visit the SCCAD Facebook page at www.facebook.com/sccadems.

Around Town

O’Fallon Fire Protection District receives $10,000 donation Sept. 29 was National Coffee Day and Folgers honored local heroes.

Folgers Perfect Measures brightened the morning of the O’Fallon Fire Protection District firefighters with coffee, some amazing treats and a $10,000 donation.

The money is going the O’Fallon Firefighters Community Outreach program and will be used to further their mission of giving back to the community. The O’Fallon Firefighters Community Outreach is an organization that focuses on the special needs of residents in the district. The O’Fallon Firefighters volunteer their time for these proj-

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ects and this donation will enable the group to continue brightening the days of those they serve.

Missouri state senator honors Daughters of the American Revolution chapter

Submitted photo The Caroline Close Stuart Chapter, National Society of the Daughters of the American Revolution was recognized recently by Missouri State Senator Bob Onder for their participation in setting a a Guinness World Record by sending more than 100,000 letters to military personnel serving overseas.

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The Caroline Close Stuart Chapter, National Society of the Daughters of the American Revolution (NSDAR) was recognized recently by Missouri State Senator Bob Onder for their participation in setting a world record in patriotism. Working with officials at Guinness World Records the Daughters of the American Revolution organization set a Guinness World Record by sending more than 100,000 letters to military personnel serving overseas.

The original goal was 10,000, but they shattered it with an incredible 100,904 letters sent in one month to servicemen and women, thanking them for their service.

Chapters in the greater St. Charles and St. Louis area took up the challenge contributing to this total.

One of the most rewarding aspects of DAR is the ability to express their love of country through the support of America’s Armed Forces. DAR members wrote and collected as many letters as possible in order to establish this new world record.

Senator Robert F. (Bob) Onder, Jr., serves the residents of Missouri’s Second Senatorial District in St. Charles County. In 2015, his first year in office, Senator Onder was elected by his peers to serve as the Assistant Majority Floor Leader in the Missouri Senate. He also was named a Champion of Freedom by the Missouri Alliance for Freedom, a group advocating for limited government and the growth of individual liberty. Senator Onder lives in Lake Saint Louis with his wife, Allison, and their six children.

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Always An Adventure

A picture is worth a 1000 words

After wrestling with the consequences of gravity, water and mud, it’s easy to forget why we choose to live here.

The view from the house serves as a good reminder.

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ast month’s column regaled readers with the unparalleled excitement of a mudslide running entirely too close to home. We’ve been working hard every day to clean up the mess, in addition to trying to complete fall chores, such as gathering firewood for the winter, and painting the

house - a long-overdue task. I haven’t been feeling verbose enough to write a column, and besides, many of my utterances over the last few weeks weren’t fit for print. Words didn’t adequately convey the scale of this muddy mess, so here is a pictorial account of the last month.

(From top) After a couple hours of digging with heavy equipment, I was able to remove rocks from under the truck by winching them out with the ATV. I’ve heard that some people actually pay good money for a mud bath, but I don’t recommend it; This is the road after the slide, and before heavy equipment arrived. Photos by Avalanche

BY AVALANCHE

Left: The area formerly known as the “Front Yard.” A friend inquired if I had to use a boat to cut the lawn.

Right: The new and improved, protected and elevated parking platform. All rocks were sourced from the pile on the road.

Had this wall been in place at the time of the slide we would have had a small mess to clean up.

A walk along the river in the evening is a good remedy for a long day’s toil.

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Avalanche is a functional illiterate who left the St. Louis area three decades ago in search of adventure. He enjoys motorcycling and all things outdoors. He lives with his wife and dogs.

Moore On Life

In due course Houston…we have lift off! Or lift out, whichever way you want to look at it.

Previously, I alerted everyone that my daughter was overdue one week plus with her second child. I am happy to say that the baby has arrived and mom and the little pellet are doing just fine.

Here’s how the morning of delivery went: Me to husband: “Well, it looks like this baby is going to take up permanent residency inside our daughter. I’m blaming your side of the family for this?”

Him: “Mine, why?”

“I distinctly recall that your brother didn’t budge out of your parent’s house until he was thirty-something.”

“Negative! Your idea of forcing her to watch the presidential debate was totally to blame for this.”

“Whatever do you mean?”

“I mean, after the poor little bean heard what kind of chaos she would enter into, it convinced her not to emerge and caused the escape hatch to pucker up tighter than the drawstring on an old pair of sweatpants.”

He had a point. We’ve tried everything from pineapple to push-ups to bring on labor and convince the little womb-dweller that it was time to cut loose the umbilical cord and

come out.

Someone suggested making elaborate plans for the day—a surefire way to induce labor.

Since my daughter and her family live in Florida, my husband and I proceeded to plan a full day of activities while there. First we would have a leisurely breakfast at some swanky outdoor restaurant where they would accept our two-for-one coupons and offer free refills; then we’d lounge at the beach and perhaps take a stroll on the sand and enjoy the surf. Since we weren’t typical beachgoers, our chubby bodies were going to appear a tad pasty. Full disclosure: we look as if Dracula drained our blood then injected White-Out into our veins. We would have to stay far from the tanned natives and make sure we mingled in with all other mid-westerners whose bodies resembled albino manatees with goiters.

No sooner were we about to step out for our day of adventure when the texts came.

Baby’s coming. Get here fast!

We hopped into the car and sped down the road on two wheels dodging slow-moving fire trucks and ambulances, then swerved to avoid annoying pedestrians on the sidewalk and sent cyclists clambering up telephone poles with their bicycles on their backs.

More texts.

This kid ain’t waiting!

Panicking, I Googled “emergency childbirth delivery”. I texted ahead to reassure my daughter that I had just certified myself in home-delivery. I said I would need oven mitts, tongs and a large container of boiling water.

Are you serious?

I texted back, “Absolutely, and don’t worry, if the baby’s born before we get there I can always use those supplies to whip up a batch of tortellini. Believe me, you’ll be famished afterwards!”

Thankfully, my newly acquired skills were not needed. The little sugarplum came soon after they arrived at the hospital. The baby is adorable and the tortellini was superb!

BY CINDY MOORE

Cindy Moore is the mother of three superlative kids, servant of two self-indulgent felines and wife to one nifty husband.

Her ficticious occupation?

Archeological Humorist: someone who unearths absurdity and hilarity in strange and unusual places including public restrooms, the lint filter, and church meetings. Most recently, she excavated a find in her neighbor’s bird feeder.

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Going

GREEN for veterans

By Brett Auten

Gold Star Mother from O’Fallon honors her son by embracing Greenlight A Vet campaign

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ynthia Blakey is on a mission to turn her town green.

Blakey’s son, Army Specialist Mark Blakey Jr., died in 2013 at the age of 22. Mark was a 2009 Fort Zumwalt North graduate where he excelled at wrestling and football. Soon after graduation, Mark joined the Army where he proudly served a tour of duty in Iraq. Known by his fellow soldiers and superiors as an exceptional soldier, always willing to go the extra mile for his comrades, Mark had a patented, famous smile and he was passionate about his hometown of O’Fallon.

It was just the two of them, Cynthia and Mark, around 13 years ago when the pair moved to O’Fallon and Mark was just 12.

“It was just us,” Cynthia said. “He was my only child and now I have nothing.”

Through diligence and an unrelenting pursuit, Cynthia Blakey has gotten significant portions of O’Fallon to embrace the Greenlight A Vet campaign.

The idea behind the program is simple, but its reach wide. Residents, no matter the community, are invited help shine a light on America’s veterans, especially during the month of November when the country celebrates Veterans Day on Nov. 11.

Blakey knows it can be difficult to show veterans the appreciation each deserves when, back home and out of uniform, they’re more camouflaged than ever. Greenlight A Vet’s goal is to establish a visible national support for veterans by changing one light on the front of your house, porch or business to green.

Green is known as the color of hope, renewal and well-being. Greenlight is also a term commonly used to spur forward movement. Blakey, and thousands just like her, believe the simple action of changing one light to green can spark a national conversation regarding the recognition of veterans, and greenlight them 10 | CROSSROADS | NOVEMBER 2016

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forward as valued members of our communities.

“My goal is to have all of O’Fallon lit up and show these veterans that we care,” Blakey said. “If one day a veteran stands a little taller, sits up a little higher because they have seen one our lights, then we have done our job. We have to let them know some way, somehow that yes, we do care about you.”

A recent Reuters report states that in the most extensive study yet by the U.S. government on suicide among military veterans shows more veterans are killing themselves than previously thought, with 22 deaths a day—or one every 65 minutes, on average.

“Twenty-two a day is too many. I won’t stop until that number is zero,” Blakey said.

O’Fallon mayor Bill Hennessy has jumped on board with the cause, and drivers and bystanders in and around Main Street have noticed.

“We have put green lights in every third light pole from Pitman Street to St. Joseph Street,” Hennessy said. “Also, the inside the

“My goal is to have all of O’Fallon lit up and show these veterans that we care” rotunda at city hall and the east entrance has green lights as well.”

Plenty of businesses and fire departments along Main Street in O’Fallon have also gotten behind the cause.

“The Green Light Project is something not everyone is aware of and we’re trying to help change that,” Hennessy said. “It is going to be there next year and the year after. We have to show our veterans the support they deserve.”

Hennessy said the city is still working on a proposal that will name a veteran’s memorial flagpole in the O’Fallon City Park after Mark Blakey.

Men and women have served the country for nearly 300 years to give Americans the privilege to live in a free society and Blakey feels it is the least we can do.

“The main thing to remember, and why this is so important, is that somewhere in your family someone has fought and probably died for your freedom,” Blakey said.

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Automobile Alley

The 2017 Volkswagen Golf Alltrack an upscale crossover alternative Competing with the likes of the Subaru Outback, the Volkswagen Golf Alltrack for 2017 is a close derivative of the Golf SportWagen. Alltrack tends to jointly solidify the vehicle’s overall practicality and fun-todrive nature with the capabilities offered with their standard 4Motion all-wheel drive system.

The ‘17 Golf Alltrack tends to be an upscale alternative to existing all-wheel-drive wagons and small crossovers that are currently on the market. Being a direct descendent of the Golf SportWagen body design, Alltrack’s differences are immediately evident; however, there is absolutely no mistaking the two.

Despite the overall length and width remaining roughly the same, the cars allembracing height has been increased somewhat. This proportional change helps to make for a bolder, more capable appearance without compromising the rock-solid foundation of Volkswagen’s design DNA. Starting with Alltrack’s front design, it telegraphs a robust character with a redesigned bumper and showcases a lower silver crossbar that incorporates standard fog lights and LED daytime running lights on all trim levels If we transition towards the sports wagon’s rear, the vehicle has dark-red taillights, a new bumper as well as chrome exhaust tailpipe outlets on both sides plus special and distinctive body badging. Alltrack’s spacious interior offers up just under 95 cubic feet of passenger volume as well as 30.4 cubic feet of cargo room behind the rear seats.

Driver operating controls are positioned to help optimize ergonomics and usability.

The seat position, height of the shifter and the spacing between the pedals are finetuned for increased driver comfort. This driver-centric design focus is evident from the center stack, which is angled towards the driver. This feature is frequently seen with premium luxury or performance vehicles.

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tertainment features. The Alltrack S entry model is equipped with an eight-speaker audio system. Available security related features offered include Automatic Crash Notification, which can seamlessly notify an operator who can contact first responders in the event of a collision.

The new Alltrack shares its proven 1.8-liter TSI Turbo gasoline direct-injected engine with other members of the Golf lineup.

Output is rated at 170 horsepower at 4500 rpm and 199 pound-feet of torque.

The EPA-estimated fuel economy is 30 mpg highway and 22 mpg city. Thanks to the extensive use of modern construction techniques, there is both “high” and “ultra-high” strength steels used throughout. Alltrack’s chassis manages to remain lightweight, despite its upscale features and enhanced crash structure. The design provides an intelligent combination of both passive and active safety systems. Alltrack achieves a 5-star overall safety rating from the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration. It will be available in three trim levels: S, SE and SEL and comes with Volkswagen’s standard five-year/60,000-mile (whichever occurs first) powertrain limited warranty and three-year/36,000-mile (whichever occurs first) new vehicle limited warranty. The base pricing is $25,850 excluding destination and shipping charges of $820.

BY DAVID FINKELSTEIN

David Finkelstein is a Master/ Skill Automotive Service Technician, maintaining that role for over 45 years, coupled with being a shop owner in that time frame as well. He’s also invented a number of garage service tools for mechanics and has served on both National as well as local Automotive Trade Industry Boards. Additionally, he pioneered “Car Talk Radio” over 40 years ago, starting out with KMOX/CBS Radio as well as hosted “Auto Talk” on KFTK/FOX News Radio for some 15-years. David tests and evaluates new vehicles weekly and also does some consulting with various auto manufactures, both import as well as with domestic nameplates.

Business

WESTERN ST. CHARLES COUNTY CHAMBER OF COMMERCE Serving Wentzville, Lake St. Louis, and Dardenne Prairie

Pay It Forward Holiday Raffle – enter for the chance to win $500 The Western St. Charles County Chamber of Commerce is excited to announce their Fifth Annual Pay It Forward Raffle. There will be two grand prize winners this year. Each winner will receive a $500 Visa Gift Card. With each ticket purchased the chamber will be paying it forward and donating $1,500 from the sales to Operation Food Search and $1,500 will go towards the four $750 scholarships the chamber awards annually for local students.

Tickets are only $10 apiece and the chamber is selling only 400 tickets. With each ticket you buy you are providing food for local families and scholarships for local students. The drawing will be held in December.

You can purchase your tickets by calling the chamber office at 636327-6914, visiting their offices at 207 S. Linn Ave. in Wentzville, or online at http://westernstcharlescountychamber.com.

Chamber Mystery Dinner Theater performance set

BY TONY MATHEWS

Tony Mathews is the President and CEO of the Western St. Charles County Chamber of Commerce

For more on any of this information or the chamber in general, please call the chamber office at 636.327.6914 or visit the website http://westernstcharlescountychamber.com.

Located at 207 South Linn Avenue in Wentzville.

Wentzville EDC Business Spotlight

USA Resale is located at 1251 Wentzville Parkway, with a second location at #10 Town & Country Marketplace in Warrenton. The business opened in 2011 and was attracted to Wentzville because of its growth.

USA Resale is a consignment business offering a variety of goods including furniture, home décor, women’s clothing, purses, jewelry, kitchen and bedding. They even have a men’s area! They recently added a full-service postal operation. The owner, Deborah Dillon, invites you to their locations “Where America Buys & Sells.” Come shop in our safe, vibrant 8,000 square foot facility.

The Western St. Charles County Chamber of Commerce is hosting their Sixth Annual Mystery Dinner Theater on Nov. 4 and Nov. 5.

The cast will be performing – “Alice in Zombieland” by Craig Sodaro.

The event will be held at the Andrews Academy located at 1701 Feise Road in Lake St. Louis. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. and the play starts at 7:00 p.m. Admission is $35 per person. Admission includes dinner, wine, beer, tea, soda, dessert and a wonderful play.

For reservations contact the Western St. Charles County Chamber of Commerce at 636-327-6914 or please visit them online at http:// westernstcharlescountychamber.com. Seating is limited, so please make your reservations early because tickets sell out fast.

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Nonprofit Profile

VETERANS RETURN TO VIETNAM HELPS BRING CLOSURE TO VETS

By Mike Snider – Founder/Executive Director of Veterans Return to Vietnam Veterans Return to Vietnam began in early 2015 after I made contact with a friend with whom I graduated high school. We began communicating nightly on Facebook and he slowly began telling me about the nightly nightmares that would wake him up after no more than 45 minutes sleep, falling into a deep depression that may last a few minutes or several months; and earlier thoughts of suicide after going through one therapy or another. He told me that he would not go through any more therapy because he feared he was no longer strong enough to resist committing suicide. My heart broke listening to his agony. He told me the only thing he really wanted to do was to go back to Vietnam to gain forgiveness and release from stress and trauma issues. I told him that if that was what he wanted to do and he thought it would help then I would raise the money to pay for the trip because he had already paid more than enough.

I began a crowd-funding site that did well in the early days but then ran out of steam. I also did some research on organizations that take veterans to Vietnam and I ran across Soldiers Heart, and organization in New York that is co-directed by Ed Tick, a Psychologist who has worked with Vietnam veterans for over 40 years and his wife Kate Dahlstedt, a counselor, who works with veterans’ families.

My friend was unable to go to Vietnam last year, so I went to learn what the trip was about and it was truly amazing to see the country and meet the most amazing people I have ever met. The country is thriving and beautiful and the people are very loving and welcoming.

I learned that they have great love and affection for Americans and they totally adore veterans who were there before 1975! We visited with many former North and South Vietnamese army personnel and received the same reception: open, welcoming and generous.

The trip to Vietnam is for two weeks and the cost for Soldiers Heart, which covers all in-country expenses, food, lodging, transportation, etc., is $3,900. They not only take veterans, but the trip is open to anyone who wants to learn more about Vietnam and the war and also how to help veterans gain closure and release from issues associated to combat. VRV also pays for the roundtrip flight to Vietnam, 14 | CROSSROADS | NOVEMBER 2016

passport and visa fees.

For contact please call Mike Snider at 314-952-8753 or email mike@ veteransreturntovietnam.com. Your help is essential as our trip leaves in less than a month.

UPDATE Two weeks ago, after writing this article, my wife went out to lunch on Sunday afternoon and as was walking to the table I passed a couple having lunch and he was wearing a hat with “Vietnam Veteran” on it. Normally I would immediately stop and introduce myself but this time I made the decision to let them eat in peace. I took no more than two or three steps further and I got a very clear and very loud message, “STOP and go back. You need to talk to this man!” I do not know from where the message came but it was right on target. I went back and introduced myself and told them that I was raising money to pay for Vietnam veterans to go back to Vietnam. When they heard that she said, “Thank you God!” and he looked at me and told me that he was a retired minister and he had been praying every day for an opportunity to go back to Vietnam, to which I responded, “Then that is why I got the message to come back and talk to you!” He replied, “This is a miracle!”

We met again last week for lunch and he told me that even though I had said that I would be able to take them next year, as I did not have enough money this year he said, “Mike if there is any way I can go this year I would love to do that. If someone drops out or if you get money, I want to go now. Not just because I really want to go, but also because I am beginning to have health issues due to the effects of Agent Orange and I am not sure I will be able to go next year.”

I told him in that case, keep praying for another miracle. If anyone would like to help please go to www.veteransreturntovietnam.com and click on the ‘Donate’ button. 100 percent of money raised goes to pay the expenses of veterans going to Vietnam. Veterans Return to Vietnam is a 501c3 tax deductible organization designated by the IRS.

Family Living

KEEPING KIDS ACTIVE IN COOLER TEMPERATURES As the weather gets colder, it can be harder to motivate kids to step away from their computers and devices and get off the couch. However, it’s essential for kids to participate in active play all year round.

According to research from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, regular physical activity helps build and maintain healthy bones and muscles, promotes psychological well-being and reduces feelings of depression and anxiety.

Sadly, physical activity is becoming less of a priority in kids’ daily routines. A recent survey conducted by Let’s Play, an initiative from Dr Pepper Snapple Group to make active play a daily priority, found that 64 percent of parents said busy schedules stand in the way of more active play for their children, up from 56 percent in 2015.

Each season brings its own opportunities for play, and fall is no exception. Families can beat the cold weather blues and stay active together by trying some of the following activities: Plan a nature walk to find inspiration and materials for art.

Even though it’s chilly outside, your family can still get out and enjoy the outdoors. Bundle up and take a nature hike with your kids around the neighborhood or at a local, national or state park. Encourage your kids to collect items like pinecones, acorns and leaves as you go and to be on the lookout for wildlife to observe. After the hike, take out art and craft supplies and help them create projects with the items they found.

Plan an indoor scavenger hunt. When a really cold day comes along, send your kids on a fun and active scavenger hunt around the house, searching for items that you can hide in advance. Work together as a family to locate the items or create some friendly family competition to see who can find all the items first. Having the family move around the house with a mission prevents the temptation of staying on the couch in front of the television all day.

Join a class or indoor sports team. Whether you are playing a favorite sport or learning a new one, it is always more fun with other people. Longer stretches of active play are often more likely to occur with friends or siblings. Sign your children up for an indoor sport or class they have never tried before, such as gymnastics, rock climbing, swimming or dance. This allows your children to learn something new, meet kids their age and be active for an extended period of time.

Volunteer. While giving back is always in season, this time of year is a perfect opportunity to teach kids about giving back to those in need and being grateful for what they have. Sign the whole family up to volunteer at a local soup kitchen, participate in a toy drive for a children’s hospital or help out at an animal rescue shelter. Your children will not only be active, but will also grow emotionally, socially and intellectually as a result.

For more tips on how to keep kids active and to find play inspiration for all seasons, visit LetsPlay.com. Photo courtesy of Getty Images NOVEMBER 2016 | CROSSROADS | 15

Entertainment

reasons you should see

‘ARRIVAL’ the fall’s sci-fi contender

As we’re reaching near the end of the year (or smack in the middle of awards season) there is a film in the science-fiction genre set for release on Nov. 11. It’s the kind of film that is sweeping in with early positive-buzz as an intelligent thriller that will demand your attention. This ever-promising film has been receiving reviews – at least – a couple months before it opens and there’s a reason… they’re all positive. It’s not part of a franchise, nor does it have a prior fan base. This original film clearly wants to be heard, let alone, seen. The film’s early word-of-mouth is quite extraordinary with words like “masterpiece” already being publicly shared.

One of the biggest key players here is the film’s director, Denis Villeneuve. He’s already become one of the most sought-after directors in the business today. The big deal about him is that he’s on a hot-streak of well-received films - and “Arrival” is about to become his third in a row, let alone another possible Oscar contender. His films just keep getting better and his latest could become his greatest yet.

“Prisoners” The streak began with this film back in 2013, featuring Hugh Jackman, Jake Gyllenhaal, Viola Davis, Maria Bello, Terrence Howard, Melissa Leo and Paul Dano among others. On the production side, his frequent collaborators are cinematographer Roger Deakins and music composer Jóhann Jóhannsson. As terrific as the reviews were for this film, it wasn’t the strongest in this competitive year of excellent movies. It did snag an Academy Award Nomination for Deakins – which was his 11th at the time. Under Villeneuve’s direction, this carefully paced film is steadily photographed with occasional tracking shots that are slow, but with a tight visual grip. It’s a natural way to build up suspense, 16 | CROSSROADS | NOVEMBER 2016

some actions scenes when it’s called – and he turns out to be a pro. The occasional shootout scenes are so sharp that they would even make action masters like Michael Mann (“Heat” and “Collateral”) proud. However, like in his previous film, it’s the actors that are driving force in the film and Villeneuve makes sure of it. “Sicario” was nominated for three Oscars including one for each of Villeneuve’s frequent collaborators, Roger Deakins (his 13 nomination for Best Cinematography) and Jóhann Jóhannsson (for Best Original Score).

Josh Brolin and Benicio Del Toro (both perfectly cast) also star in the film.

“Arrival”

a kind of visual style that’s similarly used in a film by Clint Eastwood or even Sam Mendes.

“Prisoners” is a story about a Keller Dover (Jackman), a father looking for his young daughter and her friend who’d been randomly kidnapped right in front of his family home during a Thanksgiving gathering. It’s the kind of film where you find out how far Keller is willing to go to find his daughter and friend even though the cops, headed by Det. Loki (Gyllenhaal) are on hot leads of their own in finding the two girls.

“Sicario” Denis Villeneuve outdoes himself here with this realistic action thriller about an FBI agent (Emily Blunt – terrific) enlisted by a government task force who are set out to take down those responsible for the ongoing drug war at the U.S. and Mexican border. Villeneuve’s strengths in “Prisoners” is also here, but in the addition of his strong ability to execute

The film is lead by Amy Adams as Dr. Louise Banks, a linguist sent to one of the dozen landing sites of hovering crafts to help communicate with extra-terrestrials inside. It’s also about coping with emotional loss as Banks is going through the stages of mourning the death of her daughter. As this is happening the world will be at stake as Banks could be the only key in figuring out the language, let alone the reasoning, for the aliens’ visit. The world is at stake as certain other countries could take action on their own that could cost the existence of the human race. Rumor has it that Adams’ performance is off the charts and I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s Oscar talk for her, let alone the movie itself. Forest Whitaker and Jeremy Renner also star.

“Arrival” photos courtesy Paramount Pictures

BY BRIAN GUERRERO

Brian Guerrero is a former resident of Los Angeles and a current resident of New York City with extensive experience in front of and behind the camera for film and television.

For the Love of Food

HOLIDAY

Pan Chicken with Grapefruit Shallots & Mint Sauce Servings: 4

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Planning ahead for family meals around the holidays can be a headache-inducing practice, but putting to work recipes that everyone can enjoy makes it a much more enjoyable process. Find more holiday recipes at culinary.net.

Culinary Education Center House Fondue Servings: 6 | Cook time: 45 minutes

Ingredients: 3/4 pound Grand Cru Original, shredded 3/4 pound Grand Cru Reserve, shredded 1/2 pound Roth Fontina, shredded

16 ounces Pinot Grigio or other light- to medium-bodied white wine 1 loaf crusty artisan bread fresh apples, grapes and pears black and white pepper optional) nutmeg (optional)

Directions: In ceramic fondue pot, combine cheeses and wine; stir to combine. Allow mixture to soak 15-30 minutes.

Heat mixture over low heat, approximately 7-10 minutes, stirring constantly with wooden spoon. Do not allow mixture to boil. When cheese has melted completely, remove from heat and transfer to tabletop burner.

Serve fondue with chunks of bread and fruit. If desired, provide pepper and/or nutmeg guests can sprinkle onto a plate and use for dipping bread and cheese. Pair with chilled dry Riesling and a shot of authentic Swiss kirschwasser.

Ingredients: 1/4 teaspoon salt, plus additional, to taste 1/4 teaspoon coarse black pepper, plus additional, to taste 4 boneless skinless chicken breasts, halved 3 teaspoons olive oil, divided

1/4 cup shallots 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper 1 cup chicken broth 1/2 cup fresh grapefruit juice 1 tablespoon minced mint, divided 2 teaspoons all-purpose flour 4 mint leaves

Directions: Salt and pepper chicken.

In large skillet, heat half the oil over medium-high heat. Add chicken and sear until both sides are browned well, about 3 minutes on each side.

Transfer chicken to plate and tent with foil.

Reduce heat to medium and add remaining oil to pan. Add shallots and crushed red pepper. Cook about 2 minutes, stirring constantly. Remove from heat.

In small bowl, whisk together broth, grapefruit juice, half the minced mint and flour. Add to skillet. Cook, whisking until slightly thickened, about 3 minutes.

Return chicken to skillet with juices; reduce heat to low. Season with additional salt and pepper, to taste. Simmer until chicken is cooked through, about 4 minutes.

Serve chicken with sauce spooned over. Use remaining minced mint and mint leaves to garnish.

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Medical Memo

MEDICARE OPEN ENROLLMENT 101 Know your options and get free help

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s autumn progresses, it’s important to keep your health in mind. Medicare’s fall open enrollment period will allow you to review your plan options.

Maybe you have a new prescription that is not covered by your current drug plan or you have a new health condition. To ensure you get the most from Medicare in 2017, you should research your Medicare plan options during Medicare open enrollment.

Open enrollment begins Oct. 15 and closes Dec. 7. Changes made during this time will take effect on Jan. 1, 2017.

During open enrollment, you can: • Adjust Medicare Advantage or Medicare prescription drug coverage.

• Change from original Medicare to a Medicare Advantage plan (or vice versa).

• Switch between Medicare Advantage 18 | CROSSROADS | NOVEMBER 2016

• •

plans.

Join a Medicare Prescription Drug Plan.

Switch existing drug plans or drop Medicare prescription drug coverage.

If you’re unsure where to start, your local State Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) can help.

SHIPs offer free one-on-one assistance yearround to Medicare-eligible beneficiaries, their families and caregivers. Trained counselors in your area can help with understanding Medicare benefits and the enrollment process. Assistance is personalized, so SHIP counselors can help you find available options that fit your unique situation.

The program – funded by the Administration for Community Living, part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services – provides services in every state as

well as in the District of Columbia, Puerto Rico, Guam and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Learn more at ACL.gov.

Don’t wait until the last minute. Take care of your health now and find your SHIP at shiptacenter.org, or contact Medicare directly at 1-800-633-4227 or Medicare.gov.

Community Calendar

November 1 – All Saints’ Day 2 – Pancake & Sausage Day The O’Fallon Kiwanis Club will host their 54th Annual Pancake & Sausage Day. Doors open at 6:30 a.m. at Holy Cross Lutheran Church at 8945 Veterans Memorial Parkway in O’Fallon. Pancakes will be served until 6 p.m. Tickets are $7 for adults (12 years and older), $6 for seniors, $5 for children (ages six-11) and kids under age 6 and over 100 are free!

One hundred percent of the money raised from Pancakes & Sausages will be used to support children and our community. For tickets or information call Don at 636-724-8408.

6 – Daylight Saving Time Ends 8 – Election Day 10 – Marine Corps Birthday 11 – Veterans Day 16 – Tree lighting ceremony Gather your family for the Countdown to the Lighting of the Great Tree in the O’Fallon Municipal Centre Rotunda at 100 North Main St. in O’Fallon with Mayor Bill Hennessy from 6 – 8 p.m., and officially welcome Santa and the holiday season to O’Fallon. Enjoy holiday games, craft-making, choir music by local school children, visits with Santa and rides on the “O’Fallon Express” City Train (weather permitting). Vendors’ booths will be stocked with holiday gifts, decorations and tasty treats for sale. Admission is free, but in the spirit of giving, please bring donations of canned and boxed groceries and personal care items for distribution to local food pantries. For more information call 636-379-5614.

18 – Holiday bazaar Immanuel Lutheran Church Wentzville, at 632 E. Hwy. N in Wentzville will host Immanuel’s Women in Mission Holiday Bazaar from 7:30 a.m.

– 2 p.m. featuring homemade baked goods and lots of crafts. They are raffling a handmade quilt, need not be present to win.

A lunch is served from 11 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. consisting of roast beef, hot dogs, homemade chili, German potato salad, slaw and homemade pies.

19 – National Family Volunteer Day O’Fallon families are invited to spend the morning from 10 a.m. - noon working together to strengthen our community and bring joy to others this holiday season. Registration is required and two impact projects are offered at O’Fallon Municipal Centre (city hall) at 100 North Main St. in O’Fallon. They are: sort and box food donated to the Cornucopia of Care for delivery to local pantries in time for holiday meals or decorate Thanksgiving-themed placements for citizens living in residential care facilities and homebound seniors.

For more information or to register contact: 636-379-5417 or volunteer@ofallon.mo.us.

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