Lantana Living Magazine February 2020

February 21, 2020 - March 20, 2020 Pet Issue

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The Love

OF PETS Even If They Get Me In Trouble

B

eing that this is our pet issue, I am reminded by how much I love having pets around. It doesn’t matter if it’s a dog, cat, or a fish, each and every one of them deserves a home — my home.

I’m embellishing a little bit, but my husband, Scott, would be the first to tell you that I can’t say no to a cute furry face.

We currently have our dog, Jake, and two rescue animals, another dog named Bentley and a cat named Nugget. In each case, I didn’t tell Scott that I was coming home with another pet. The story about Nugget is actually pretty funny, as far as I’m concerned. I went to do a walk-in at a local shelter and walked away with a cat.

Scott was in Kansas for our son’s baseball tournament, so he had no idea. On top of that, I managed to hide the cat for two days before he finally noticed.

He wasn’t pleased. But luckily, Scott and our kids love a cute furry face, too, and ultimately, they quickly became an integral part of our family — as did many of our other pets over the years.

In this issue, you’ll find all sorts of articles on pets, from how to avoid poisons to combating allergies. You may even find a few cute photos. Speaking of photos, send us your favorite pet photos by email or through social media. You never know when we might publish stuff like that.

Thanks for reading, and enjoy this month’s issue!

Sincerely, Kelly Murray

Publisher of Murray Media Group, kelly@murray-media.com

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Table of

Contents

PET ISSUE

Look For the Icon articles 07 Spring Break Camps & Fun 08 Are You Allergic To Your Pet? 12 Inside Community and Education 14 Sheriff’s Corner with

Sheriff Tracy Murphree

16 What To Keep Out Of Pets Reach On the Cover is Paul Bosco Jr. Of Bosco Auto Group

37 Bringing The Community Together

Featured Article

One Event At A Time

32 Bringing Value Back To The Car-Buying Experience Ask the experts 20 Travel with Terri 26 Legal Advice with Balmos Law 40 Gardening with Complete Solutions 49 Fitness with Jesse James Fit 52 Dentistry with Country Lakes Family Dental 53 Edit This with Steve Gamel Business Spotlights

Editor’s Pick

With The 28 Write End In Mind

11 Lantana’s Family Sushi Restaurant 25 Fighting For You Every Step Of The Way 31 Seeing A Better Vision Of Yourself In 2020 39 Going Beyond Just A Great Meal

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19 Lantana Who Do I Call?

41 The Flu. Yes Again!

43 Helping Girls Survive

The Stress Of Their Teen Years

44 Nearby Family Fun Adventures For Spring Break

46 Denton Resident Shares Love Of Football With Youth

50 Care For Yourself So You Can Care For Them

55 Brush Up On Your Mobile Manners 56 6th Annual Boots & Blessings Gala 59 Foodie Friday DFW: Rustico 60 Deals and Steals 62 Guyer Softball Eager To Start Another Season

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Spring Break

Camps & Fun

D

uring Spring Break vacation, your kiddos can get bored. And when they get bored…well, you know the rest. Luckily, we have compiled a small list of local Spring Break Day Camps. If you have to work, it’s a fantastic way for your children to engage in enriching activities while they are out of school.

Studio B Performing Arts

Flower Mound Community Center

1200 Gerault Rd., Flower Mound, TX 75028 972.874.7275 website at flower-mound.com/cac Explorer camp or Adventure camp Every day from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m., there will be activities galore for these kids. They will swim, play games, have gym time, and do arts and crafts. Adventure Campers go on field trips every day. To sign up, go to the website at flower-mound.com/cac or go to the address listed above. Spend your school break at the CAC going on a field trip, doing arts and crafts, playing games, and hanging out with your friends. www.LantanaLiving.com

2400 FM 407, Ste. 1 Highland Village, TX 75077 972.966.2787 For Ages 5-13: Enjoy singing, dancing, and acting to a Disney Classic-The Jungle Book. CAMP DATES: Mon-Fri from 9am to 5pm, Mar. 16-20. PERFORMANCE at 6:30pm on Fri., Mar. 16.

Visit www.studiobtheater.com.

Excite Gym and Cheer

2225 Highland Village Rd. Highland Village, TX 75077 972.874.8500 Excite Gym and Cheer are offering Spring Break camps from 9:30 a.m. – 2 p.m.

Activities will include themed games and crafts. Ask about our members discount.

Ages: 3 (potty trained) and Up Visit www.excitegym.com to register.

Studio Art House

6100 Long Prairie Rd., Ste. 800 Flower Mound, TX 75028 214.285.0084 The perfect camp for artsy kids. They offer half-day camps and week-long camps for ages 5-16 in the morning and afternoon.

Visit Studioarthouse.com click on camps and then the Flower Mound campus.

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Pet Article

A r e Y o u A l lerg i c to

Your Pet?

Breathe Easy

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lthough many people have discovered the beneficial effects of caring for a furry friend, the fact remains that roughly 15 to 20% of the population is allergic to animals.

The result? Countless pet parents in unhappy, unhealthy situations — and their beloved pets are the cause! Allergen is the medical term for the actual substance that causes an allergic reaction. Touching or inhaling allergens leads to reactions in allergic individuals. Symptoms can include red, itchy, watery eyes and nose; sneezing; coughing; scratchy or sore throat; itchy skin, and most serious of all, difficulty breathing.

The most common pet allergens are proteins found in their dander (scales of old skin that are constantly shed by an animal), saliva, urine, and sebaceous cells. Any animal can trigger an allergic

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response, but cats are the most common culprits. People can also become allergic to exotic pets such as ferrets, guinea pigs, birds, rabbits, and rodents. There is no species or breed to which humans cannot develop allergies. Fur length and type will not affect or prevent allergies — sorry, Labradoodle lovers. Certain pets can be less irritating than others to those who suffer from allergies, but that is strictly on an individual basis and cannot be predicted.

Once the diagnosis of a pet allergy is made, a physician will often recommend eliminating the companion animal from the surroundings. Heartbreaking? Yes. Absolutely necessary? Not always. Keep in mind that most people are allergic to several things besides pets, such as dust mites, molds, and pollens, all of which can be found in the home. Allergic symptoms result from the total cumulative allergen load. That means that if you eliminate some of the other allergens, you may not have to get rid of your pet. (Conversely, should you decide to remove your pet from your home, this may not immediately solve your problems.) You must also be prepared to invest the time and effort needed to decontaminate your home environment, limit future exposure to allergens and find a physician who will work with you. Read on for helpful tips:

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Improving the Immediate Environment • Create an allergen-free room. A bedroom is often the best and most practical choice. By preventing your pet from entering this room, you can ensure at least eight hours of freedom from allergens every night.

• Limit fabrics. Allergens collect in rugs, drapes, and upholstery, so do your best to limit or eliminate them from your home. If you choose to keep some fabrics, steam-clean them regularly. You can also cover your furniture with sheets or blankets which you can remove and wash regularly.

• Vacuum frequently using a vacuum equipped with a HEPA (highefficiency particulate arresting) filter or a disposable electrostatic bag.

• Install an air purifier fitted with a HEPA filter. Our modern, energy-efficient homes lock in the air that is loaded with allergens, so it’s smart to let in some fresh air daily.

• Use anti-allergen room sprays. These sprays deactivate allergens, rendering them harmless. Ask your allergist for a product recommendation. www.LantanaLiving.com

Decontaminating Your Pet • Bathe your pet at least once a week.

Your veterinarian can recommend a shampoo that won’t dry out his skin. Bathing works to wash off the allergens that accumulate in an animal’s fur.

• Wipe your pet with a product formulated to prevent dander from building up and flaking off into the environment. Ask your veterinarian to suggest one that is safe to use on animals who groom themselves.

• Note any symptoms of dermatitis exhibited by your companion animal.

Dermatitis often leads to accelerated skin and fur shedding, which will up your allergen exposure.

• Brush or comb your pet frequently.

It’s best to do this outdoors, if possible.

Taking Care of Yourself • If possible, have someone other than yourself do the house cleaning, litter box work and pet washing, wiping, and brushing. If you must clean the house or change the litter, be sure to wear a dust mask.

• Wash your hands after handling your companion animal and before touching your face. The areas around your nose and eyes are particularly sensitive to allergens.

• Designate a “pet outfit” from among your most easily washed clothes.

Wear it when playing or cuddling with your companion, and you’ll leave other clothing uncontaminated.

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Business Spotlight

Lantana’s Family

sushi restaurant

by Steve Gamel

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sk Brian Kim what makes his Tokyo Samurai restaurant in Lantana different, and he’s going to mention one word first.

“Family,” Brian said.

photos courtesy of Tokyo Samurai

It might seem strange to hear that word used first to describe a restaurant. Most owners — especially one who has 15 years of experience as a sushi chef — might instead point to their tasty menu, worldclass bar, or superior customer service as the reason for their success. Trust us when we say that Tokyo Samurai can brag on all of that and more, but it’s their family atmosphere that has made this place Lantana’s premier neighborhood sushi and hibachi bar.

“About 90 percent of our customers are regulars, so we know them and what they like to eat and drink. It’s their neighborhood restaurant,” Brian said.

“Our staff has been the same from the beginning, so it’s a lot like a family.”

Tokyo Samurai has been in Lantana for five years. Brian took over as the owner two years ago after owning Mua Sushi in Coppell for five years. He brought his Hibachi Chef and General Manager with him and has received nothing but rave reviews. Tokyo Samurai offers a variety of sushi, sashimi, and rolls as well as options for those who are trying sushi for the first time. They also offer Asian-fusion dishes and the always-popular hibachi fire grill where your meals are cooked in front of you by chefs who want to make the viewing process a fun experience.

The restaurant is perfect for reunions, birthday parties, anniversaries, or a fun night out with friends and family.

“We are used to what we are doing, and our customers notice,” Brian said.

940.455.2223 | tokyosamurailantana.com | 3600 FM407, Ste.100 • Bartonville, TX 76226

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PAWS IN THE PARK Sat., March 28 | 9:30am - 2pm Lewisville Animal Services 995 E. Valley Ridge Blvd.

Lewisville, TX 75057

HUMANE TOMORROW GRAND OPENING Feb. 8 | 1961 Hickory Hill Rd., Ste. E • Argyle, TX 76226 On February 8th, Humane Tomorrow cut the ribbon on its’ new headquarters, The Glenn and Shirley Hulcher Family Animal Care Center. As the center for all operations, it will act as the intake point between shelter and foster home, provide emergency sheltering, and host adoption events. To learn more, visit www.humanetomorrow.org.

The 7th Annual Weenie/Wannabe race is upon us! Dachshunds and “mixed” small breeds, 20 pounds or less are welcome to register. Participation is free. To register your fur baby, visit www.facebook.com/ LewisvilleAnimalServices and click on the EVENTS link.

Inside Education WIZARD OF OZ Feb. 22 at 7pm Feb. 22-23 at 2pm Liberty Christian School 1301 S. HWY 377 Argyle, Texas 76226 Follow the yellow brick road to see Dorothy, Toto, and the gang, find their way to the Emerald City. You don’t need courage, just a heart, to come support this incredible musical classic.

Tickets are $10 each and can be purchased on the Liberty website. Please visit www. libertychristian.com/oz.

There’s no place like Liberty, there’s no place like Liberty! photo courtesy of Vivian Nichols

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REFLECTIONS Congratulations to the students who have advanced to the PTA Reflections at the state level! Outstanding Award of Excellence is presented to Macy Kanekkeberg- Visual Arts, Avery ParkerPhotography, Cindy Tran-Film Production, and Ashton Cartwright-Music Composition at Guyer High School; Makayla MahnsDance Choreography and Jaiden Martinez-Visual Arts at Harpool Middle School. Texas State PTA will announce students advancing to the national level on March 15. photo courtesy of Guyer PTSA

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Inside Community

MY LANTANA Resident Zoltan Dudar collected over 250 useful links for Lantana residents based on recommendations from neighbors and complied them all onto one webpage. www.MyLantana.com is your go-to list for contractors, HOA website, utilities, pet sitters, music classes, and more!

MOBILE CAR WASH Max Auciello, a junior at Guyer, has started a small business servicing the Lantana community. His goal is to become more involved with the community while saving money for college. His mobile car washing service allows you stay in the comfort of your home while he cleans your car. He uses professional grade cleaning solutions and brings his own equipment. Schedule your wash by emailing him at MaxAuciello@gmail.com.

READ ACROSS AMERICA Monday, March 2 is National Read Across America Day, held on the birthday of Dr. Seuss. This reading initiative began in 1997 and encourages students of all ages to grab your red and white hat and celebrate the joys of reading!

NORTHWEST STUDENT EXCHANGE Experience international culture by hosting a foreign exchange student for the 2020-2021 school year. Student exchanges are intended to improve the participants’ language skills and broaden their social horizons. To learn more about hosting, email Area Coordinator Karen Sweet at kkbsweet@hotmail.com.

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We are

SHERIFF’S W i t h

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S h e r i f f

T r a c y

he Denton County Sheriff’s Office Citizen Academy starts Monday, February 24, 2020. This is a 12week program that meets on Monday

HIRING

Detention

Officers!

If you are interested in a career in Law Enforcement, join our family and be a part of a great organization.

Detention Officer I positions start at $38,752.00 per year.

Visit our website to apply.

M u r p h r e e

evenings from 6:30-9 p.m. Come be a part of this program and get a comprehensive overview of DCSO operations. There is no cost to participants.

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Applications can be found on our website: DentonCounty.com/departments/sheriff.

For all questions contact Deputy Keffer 940.349.1549.

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ur pets here at Murray Media Group wanted to meet our readers. So here they are to say a little hi to everyone.

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Pet Article

WHAT TO GRAPES

For Dogs

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t can happen to even the best of pet lovers: You turn around for just a minute or accidentally leave your purse unattended, and your beloved furbaby ingests a potentially harmful or fatal pet poison.

So what can you do to try and prevent this from happening and to keep your babies safe from accidental harm? The first thing is to be educated on common pet poisons and remain diligent about keeping these items out of their reach.

Here is a list of commonly found items around your homes that can be dangerous to your pets.

For a complete list of pet toxins, visit the Pet Poison Helpline at www.petpoisonhelpline.com If you think your pet may have ingested a potentially poisonous item, contact your veterinarian or pet poison helpline immediately.

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Grapes sound like a great snack, except for the acute renal failure your dog might incur. Your kidneys won’t fail, but theirs might. Raisins are really just dried grapes, so they count, too.

For Cats

CHOCOLATE & COFFEE

ONIONS

LILIES

Chocolate tops the food warnings.

Caffeine and theobromine cause toxicosis and may bring seizures and death. Dark chocolate and cooking chocolate rank highest in harm, and we all know coffee has caffeine in it.

Onions kill canine blood cells, resulting Heinz Body Anemia which can be life-threatening. Onion powder in food is enough to do this, so attention to ingredients is crucial.

Lilies are particularly toxic, including the following varieties: Tiger lilies, Daylilies, Asiatic hybrid lilies, Japanese show lilies, Easter lilies, Rubrum lilies, Stargazer lilies, Red lilies, Western lilies, and Wood lilies.

MACADAMIA NUTS

CHICKEN BONES

DETERGENTS

Macadamia nuts are particularly poisonous to dogs, and it’s easy to forget if they’re in cookies and snacks, you might be tempted to share.

Chicken bones can splinter and do all sorts of harm. In fact, cooked bones of any kind may be brittle and hazardous.

Some household cleaning products, when ingested by a cat, can cause profuse drooling, chemical burns, vomiting, and difficulty breathing.

RAW MEAT

ALCOHOL

ASPIRIN

Raw meat thrown to the dog is something you see in the movies, but our domesticated dogs aren’t wild anymore, and some are susceptible to salmonella and other bacteria.

Alcohol can cause the same liver and kidney damage it does to humans. It can also cause acidosis in your dog and end in cardiac arrest.

If your cat is experiencing joint pain, giving him even half a pill can be fatal. Consult your vet before giving your cat any medications.

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DOG FLEA MEDICATION Flea and tick topical medications for dogs are harmful to cats. Never apply an insecticide intended for dogs (even small dogs) to your cat.

These medications often contain high concentrations of a chemical that is highly toxic to cats.

ANTIDEPRESSANTS Human antidepressants are like catnip to cats. They love the smell of common antidepressants and can’t resist eating the pill. They can cause lethargy, tremors, seizures, vomiting, diarrhea, and hyperthermia in cats.

POISONOUS PLANTS Common household and garden plants are very dangerous for cats.

Licking the pollen or lapping up water from the vase can result in severe acute kidney failure.

ONIONS Onions kill blood cells, resulting Heinz Body Anemia which can be life-threatening. Onion powder in food is enough to do this, so attention to ingredients is crucial.

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Who Do I Call?

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information provided by Community Lifestyle Director Ashtin Slovak

FRESH WATER SUPPLY DISTRICT

940.728.5050 | www.lantanatx.org •

Trash Collection

antana is a unique community in that it does not rest inside the corporate limits of a municipality. Lantana is located in unincorporated Denton County. To provide some of the services that a municipality normally provides, Fresh Water Supply Districts 6 & 7 were created. This can be confusing sometimes for the residents of Lantana on which entity they should contact for a particular service or concern. Below is a small list to clarify who you can call for specific services.

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Water Bill

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Perimeter Stone & Brick Walls

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Right of Ways Along (Lantana Trail, Rayzor Rd., Branch Crossing, Stacee Ln.)

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Building Permits

Lantana Community Association

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Block Party Permits

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Streets

Emergency: 9.1.1

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Sidewalks (With more than 1 inch vertical movement)

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Traffic Concerns (Speeding, Reckless Driving)

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Street Regulatory Signs

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Crime Stoppers

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Neighborhood Parks

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Animal Control

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Hike & Bike Trails

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Jail Information

940.728.1660 | www.lantanalive.com After Hours emergency Line: 214.373.2412

Denton County sheriff’s Office

Non-Emergency: 940.349.1600

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Association Common Areas:

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North Amenity Center & North Pond

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South Amenity Center & Town Green

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Tennis Courts

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Jail Records

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And More

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Warrants

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Coserv Electric Street Light Outages

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Ask The Expert: Travel

Visit Inside The World Of

Claude

Monet G i v e r n y,

F r a n c e

by Terri Guthrie

G

iverny is absolutely gorgeous and a place I never expected to visit, but am so glad I did. What a treat to see the actual gardens and home that inspired this French Impressionist painter’s famous works of art. This is the birthplace of the Impressionist movement!

Painter Claude Monet moved to Giverny in northern France, just 45 miles outside of Paris, after seeing the charming village from a train while traveling to Normandy.

There are many ways to travel to Giverny from Paris – I chose a Fat Tire Bicycle Tour (a Texas Company), and it was a blast!

We met near the Eiffel Tower then took a private bus to the beautiful wheat and sunflower fields of Normandy on to the village of Vernon. There, we got our bikes, visited the local market for picnic supplies, and had lunch along the Seine River in a

After strolling through Monet’s private gardens with thousands of brilliantly colored flowers and water lilies floating on the pond, we toured Monet’s home.

It is truly as though you are walking through one of his beloved paintings.

photos courtesy by Terri Guthrie

Monet rented this farm in 1883 and moved in with his wife and their eight children. By the time Monet died in 1926, the 86-year-old painter had spent almost half his life in Giverny.

beautiful park. After lunch, we cycled the charming bike path to Giverny. We toured Monet’s house and gardens then leisurely pedaled back along the Seine River to the cemetery where Monet was laid to rest.

One of my favorite memories was simply looking out a window of Monet’s house.

Looking outside to the gardens through the window is literally like a framed painting. It was surreal.

It’s so easy to imagine Claude Monet painting in his gardens. This place is fabulous and truly a feast for the eyes and a dreamy French experience!

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Business Spotlight

Fighting

for You

Every Step OF the Way

by Brooke Ezzo

photo courtesy of Hail Fighters Auto Dent Repair

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ears back, a friend asked Eric Aviles what he would name his business if he ever owned one. Eric quickly screamed, “Hailfighters,” as he excitedly karate kicked the air. A few chuckles later, Eric decided the name was perfect.

If you don’t know the name now, you will.

Hailfighters Auto Dent Repair is a fullservice automotive restoration company gaining major popularity with the residents in our community.

Their mission to provide 100% customer satisfaction, along with the friendly and highly qualified technicians, is making them a household name.

His knowledge of the industry and strict qualifications for his employees has allowed him to recruit the best of the best.

“Our greatest strength is our team,” Eric said. “Having a reliable team is essential to making sure the customers always get the quality service they deserve.”

Eric has worked in the automotive industry for over a decade. Prior to starting Hailfighters, he was part of a repair facility in Dallas for many years.

Hailfighters works hard to allow you to drive off the lot a happy customer.

They also fight for you every step of the way. From hail damage to a fender bender, Eric and his team will walk you through the process.

“I quickly picked up the culture of the business by helping in every department,” Eric said.

“From the insurance claim to the pickup and drop off,” Eric said. “Count on us to value each vehicle with the upmost care.”

Starting in a small garage in

Highland Village less than three years ago, word of mouth through the community has helped Eric and

Hailfighters outgrow their space.

“We are happy to announce we are

now located at a brand-new gated facility in the Argyle Business Park,” Eric said. “ Our location includes full surveillance, making sure your vehicle is secure and safe.”

Hailfighters will host a Grand Opening sometime in the spring, and they are

excited to continue making a footprint within the community.

With their superhero reliability and

quality service, Hailfighters Auto Dent Repair should be your only stop for a heroic restoration solution.

469.993.6160 | 469.630.2444 | www.hailfightersauto.com | 308 FM 1830, Ste. 9B • Argyle, TX 76226

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Ask The Expert: Legal Advice

2020 new legislation

IS YOUR retirement

more SECURE?

by Jennifer Balmos, Owner of Balmos Law, PLLC

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he SECURE Act, effective on January 1, 2020, brings three major changes to retirement planning.

First, the age at which an individual must take required minimum distributions of his or her retirement account has been raised from 70½ to 72. This is great news for anyone who doesn’t need the income to cover their living expenses, as it gives the assets more time to grow.

Second, the SECURE Act removes the age restriction for qualified retirement accounts, meaning that individuals may continue to contribute to these accounts even after reaching age 70 ½.

Now for the not so great news. For many beneficiaries, the SECURE Act eliminates the “stretch” for inherited retirement funds. Prior to its enactment, those who inherited retirement funds could “stretch” the payments out over their life expectancies. For younger beneficiaries, this had the benefit of smaller annual distributions made over a longer period of time, which minimized the impact of income tax on the distributions.

The SECURE Act, however, requires that all retirement funds be paid out within 10 years, unless the beneficiary fits one of a few exceptions. Practically speaking, an individual who inherits a retirement fund during her peak earning years could

find herself unexpectedly bumped into

a higher tax bracket. The Congressional Research Service estimates that this

change could generate up to $15 billion in tax revenue over the next 10 years.

That said, there are some exceptions to

this rule. For example, minor children may continue to “stretch” out distributions

over their life expectancy. However, that

changes when the child reaches the age of majority. Once the child turns 18, he

or she will now be subject to the 10-year payout rule.

In light of these changes, both

retirement plans and estate plans should be carefully reviewed.

940.300.9834 | Balmoslaw.com | 2652 FM 407, STE. 215G • Bartonville, TX 76226

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Write

with the end in Mind

by Brooke Ezzo

S

andra Rhoads has a dream to live in a world where art communities are everywhere and artists would be

sharing and collaborating without being competitive.

Her hope for her debut novel, Mortal

“I weave Paradise Lost throughout the

book,” Sandra said. “Part of the premise of the book is that classical artists from the past have embedded messages in their art that hint

toward this other fantasy world.”

Sight, is that the story will start

The book is about a community

community where people can feel free to

of the story deals with the

conversations for art and create pockets of create with a true heart.

Sandra’s first love is

storytelling. From a young age, she has always

created — whether it was short stories for friends, poems, or contract

work for short films and

women’s retreats. Sandra has a gift of words.

With a degree in English and a Master’s in Milton, Sandra used these

influences to write Mortal Sight and create a world where the arts come to life.

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of emerging artists and part

protagonist having visions. Her

love interest is able to

“Artists and their art can speak a language that words themselves sometimes can’t do,”

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transcribe the visions for her. They are

depicted in the book but not drawn out.

This gave her an idea to reach out to the Guyer

High School art program and hold an art contest.

is to have the winning rendering be published in the sequel.”

Sandra also plans to have the

student’s artwork on her website, social media, and displayed at her book launch party.

“Since the book centers so much around art and artists, I thought this would be so neat,”

Sandra said.

She is also excited to introduce these

young artists to the old world. Twisting

the application of the classical arts and making it interesting for the readers.

“I have a passion for bridging old and new, that’s why I write young adult,” Sandra said.

“I would love for kids

Sandra hopes the book pushes young

to read some of the

aside fear, and do something creative

visions and see where

see them rise up and flourish and to help

Sandra said. “My hope

they fit in anywhere.

that are talented at art

people to take their first steps, pushing

descriptions of her

because it’s in them. She would love to

their minds take them,”

find a place for the kids who don’t think

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“Artists and their art can speak a language that words themselves sometimes can’t do,” Sandra said.

Her inspiration comes from other artists, and she is excited to share her debut novel in hopes that the readers are inspired to create. If you’re stuck on a project or don’t know where to start, Sandra’s advice is to “write with the end in mind.”

“For me, I do think having the end in mind, at least where you are headed, helps craft the story,” Sandra said.

“Because, you can get there a million different ways.”

No matter how she got there, we are happy she did. Mortal Sight is set to release on April 14, 2020. Its sequel will release sometime in 2021.

Sandra is deeply involved in the art world. She is going through a leadership program with Art House Dallas and volunteers her time once a month at the Flower Mound Teen Writers Group.

Sandra lives in Lantana with her husband, John, and their four children.

When she isn’t writing you might find her at an art gallery, a concert, or on the tennis courts.

Photos courtesy of Sandra Rhoads

To preorder your copy of Mortal Sight, visit Amazon or Barnes and Noble. For more information about the book, visit www.MortalSight.com.

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Business Spotlight

Seeing A

Better

Vision of yourself in 2020

by Steve Gamel

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or Guy T, image is everything. And he’s not just talking about himself when he says that, though you can take one look at his dynamic portfolio and quickly realize he’s not your average photographer.

“Helping my clients see a better vision of themselves is important to me,” said Guy T, owner of What’s That Guy’s Name? | PHOTOGRAPHY BY GUY T. “A lot of times, people will say, ‘Well, can I not just use the pictures off my iPhone?’

That’s not a good idea.”

He added, “It’s all about capturing a positive image of themselves. I want to help them capture that.”

include professional photos that aren’t just high quality but also speak to the heart of what you and your organization are all about — your story, personality, products and services, what makes you unique, and more.

“I want to make a connection between the photos and their story.”

These are images that help you stand out, and in this day and Guy T, who is recognized age, a bad image or one “It’s all about as a Certified Professional that doesn’t resonate with capturing a Photographer (CPP) and is your clients can cost you a positive image the only one in Highland lot of money. If you don’t of themselves.

Village, does all your know where to start, you can I want to help standard photography rest assured Guy T will take them capture sessions, including the reins. He has worked that.” corporate events, with individuals as well as headshots, portraits, and many media organizations senior photos. But where he truly stands to deliver hundreds of cover stories and out is through the magic he creates with feature articles and can guide you through branding sessions. Branding sessions the entire process.

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Bringing Value Back To The

car-buying

experience

by Steve Gamel | photography by Nick Allen Photography

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tep one foot inside the front door at Bosco Auto Group in Flower Mound, and it will be difficult to tell if the fresh smell is coming from all the shiny cars on the showroom floor or from the building itself.

Inside the new dealership and dedicated to bringing that high-quality used vehicle experience to the neighborhood are Paul Bosco Jr. and his team. He opened his new family-driven full-service dealership at 1401 Justin Road only a few short months ago. The place feels like home, and the staff members are as approachable as a neighbor of 20 years. The store will offer 300 quality pre-owned vehicles along with the ability to service and maintain vehicles in their service facility.

“Local people are finding us,” said Paul, a graduate of the University of North Texas. He was raised in Double Oak and Copper Canyon and now resides in Lantana, so the word local is in his blood.

Being a local owner operated business, he is focused on bringing an excellent automotive experience to an internet dominated industry.

“Internet consumers are driving the industry, which means most dealerships have lost focus on the local market.

My goal is to turn that part of the scale around for our store and bring value to shopping for automotive needs locally,” Paul said. www.LantanaLiving.com

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This location may be new, but Paul isn’t new to the industry. He started the business in February 2006 while in college. He was driven by a passion for cars and the business grew from there.

“ “It’s easier to deliver a quality vehicle

“I found something I loved to do and ran with it,” he said. “It’s easier to deliver a quality vehicle and experience when you are doing something you enjoy.”

and experience when

Over the last decade, the dealership has built strong relationships with national lenders and extended warranty

something you enjoy.”

you are doing

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The program allows customers to schedule a repair with the service center and have a loaner vehicle to use... companies to be able to offer low interest rates with flexible terms and reliable coverage. These relationships take time to establish but allow Bosco Auto Group to tailor a personalized buying experience.

“People sometimes have the misconception that just because we’re smaller and local that we are limited in some way. We can do all the same things the big highway stores can do, and in many cases, we do it better,” Paul said.

“We have built strong relationships, and we are not brand associated. That means we can offer something for everyone.”

He added, “We understand that this community is diverse, and we want the inventory we offer to fit. Whether they are a first-time buyer, upsizing or downsizing, or looking for their dream car — we can help.”

Everyone knows the Bosco Auto Group sells cars. What they don’t know is that they have a 14-bay state-of-the-art repair and maintenance facility. This has been one area of concentration for Paul and his staff, who not only make sure the vehicles they sell are ready for the next owner but are focused on the customers who haven’t bought from them.

“Our goal is to turn customers into clients,” he said. “You don’t have to buy a vehicle from us to take advantage of our service facility. We can maintain or service nearly any make or model, foreign or domestic,” Paul added.

From a basic oil change or alignment to complete engine replacement and anything in between, the team will get the job done right.

Bosco Auto Group’s service center is also separated from the local service competition with its service loaner program. The program allows customers to schedule a repair with the service center and have a loaner vehicle to use while their vehicle is getting the necessary repairs to put it safely back on the road.

“Nobody enjoys spending their free time sitting around a waiting room for their vehicle to be repaired. Some repairs take more than a couple hours, even days to

“We can do all the same things the big highway stores can do, and in many cases, we do it better.”

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complete properly. The loaner program allows us to keep our clients moving forward while we address their needs,” said Paul.

Do you want to sell Bosco Auto Group a vehicle? It’s a very simple and safe process compared to trying to do it yourself.

“Selling a vehicle as an individual can be risky and a headache. A lot of local sellers just want a quick selling experience. Come by the store, give us 15 to 20 minutes to review the vehicle and then grab a check. It’s that easy,” Paul stated. “Since we’ve opened this location, we’ve already had at least 30 local people walk in and sell us their vehicle after seeing how strong of a buyer we are.”

Bosco Auto Group is the certified Kelley Blue Book Buying Center for this area. This takes a large commitment and a strong partnership with KBB to be the store chosen by KBB to trust with their reputation.

Bottom line, the goal is to provide the community with a trusted and capable home for their full automotive needs.

The Bosco Auto Group has that down to a science — visit them and see for yourself!

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Bringing the Community

Together O ne E v ent at a T ime

by Brooke Ezzo

A

s simple as it may seem, some people never meet their neighbors. In a community

with over 3,000 homes, meeting other residents might seem impossible. The

idea behind a lifestyle program is to give

opportunities for residents to get to know each other and build up that community feeling.

Thanks to Ashtin Slovak, Lantana is doing just that.

photos from community director Ashtin Slovak

Ashtin started working in Lantana as an administrative assistant to

the community and meet other residents.

That’s what it’s all about.”

Ashtin has taken what Lantana started with, the Spring Festival, Music on the Greens series, the Halloween Event,

and she added on much more. Now the association hosts two to three events

each week; there are Adult Coloring Book nights, Senior Lunches, Storytime, and Bingo.

“We’ve tried a little bit of everything,” Ashtin said. “It is exciting.”

Ashtin works for Insight

the community manager

Association Management,

five years ago. She helped

the company that manages

organize lifestyle events

the association for

and quickly realized it was

Lantana. They manage

something she loved.

several master-planned

When the association

communities with lifestyle

decided to implement a

programs, so she is able to

full-time lifestyle program,

use other directors

Ashtin jumped at the

as resources.

opportunity. This fell under

“They help give ideas, we

her role as assistant so

share vendors, and we give

she had already worked

advice on how to set up

with vendors, was on site

events,” Ashtin said.

during events, and started

Looking toward the future

building rapport with the residents.

As Community Director, she organizes

monthly events for all types of residents, in effort to bring people together and have some fun while they’re at it.

“I just try to bring people on site,” Ashtin

said. “So people can get together here in www.LantanaLiving.com

and what to expect from

the association, Ashtin is very excited about the opening of the Lantana

Community Event Center in early March.

Strictly used for events; the center has

a full indoor space, a caterers kitchen, a great lawn, Japanese rock garden, and much more.

“The center is really going to help us expand our events,” Ashtin laughed. “We can host more than 30 people in a room.”

With the opening of the center, she is gearing up for Casino Nights and Murder Mystery Parties.

“This will give us an opportunity to allow residents to take a bigger advantage of our lifestyle program,” Ashtin said. “There will be a reservation system in place; organizations or clubs could rent out the space, or we will open it up for an indoor meeting space.”

Ashtin gives credit to Mark Norton, Lantana Community Manager, and

Bruce Crawford, Insight Association Management President, for supporting her ideas and partnering with her to build the lifestyle program to what it is today.

“I love working for Insight, they have a good mindset for the residents,” Ashtin said.

The residents are the part of the job Ashtin loves the most. She enjoys the relationships she has built while planning and hosting events. She even answers to “bingo lady!”

“I love people, I love the kids events, and I love hanging out at Senior Lunch and talking to all of my regulars,” Ashtin said. “I personally call Bingo once a month, it’s a lot of fun.”

Lantana is such a wonderful and unique place. Ashtin truly enjoys working in the community and being a connection to help guide residents.

“As it finishes up development and we look towards how we can keep the community together with the lifestyle program, we want Lantana to continue to be a wonderful place to live in the future,” Ashtin exclaimed.

When Ashtin isn’t in Lantana, she spends her time with her fiancée and three fur babies. She is also the managing director for the Love Pit, a foster and rescue organization.

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Business Spotlight

Going Beyond Just A

great meal

by Steve Gamel

B

efore Rick Valley and a group of his fellow restauranteurs decided to open an upscale dining place in Highland Village, the first thing they did was ask friends who live nearby where they go to get delicious food and a great experience.

“They said they went to this place or that place, but generally, they left and went to Southlake, Las Colinas, Uptown, Plano, and even Frisco,” Valley said.

“I just thought that was a real shame that they felt like they had to leave their town to go get the type of experience that we ultimately wanted to give them. Our goal was to keep people close to town.”

He added, “We didn’t want them to drive 22 miles one way to find an experience that was upscale, reasonably priced, and enjoyable.”

photos courtesy of Hillside Fine Grill

So far, Hillside Fine Grill has been the perfect answer for a community that deserves something of their own.

Not only can you get great food at

reasonable prices, but Hillside offers the ideal atmosphere for any night out — whether it be for date night, dinner with family and friends, or just an opportunity to sit at the bar for a few drinks. Hillside is locally-owned and is a welcome departure from the typical chain restaurants on every corner.

And the menu truly is to die for. If you like seafood and steaks, they’ve got the best in DFW. If you prefer a juicy burger, chicken, or pasta, there are plenty of options to satisfy your cravings. Add in a few craft drinks and a Kerrington’s Hot Fudge Sundae, and you’ll never want to eat anywhere else.

“This was meant to be a family-friendly neighborhood restaurant run by local people, and the response has been positive,” Valley said.

“The menu has a little bit of everything, but beyond that, we want to make sure we are best in class when it comes to service and providing a great experience.”

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Ask The Expert: Gardening

grass, mold, fungus, broken ankles, mosquito breeding, etc.

It’s almost a guarantee if you cruise

around the neighborhood during a rain event early in the morning that you’ll

see someone’s sprinkler system cycling through. Don’t be that guy. Even if you have a rain/freeze sensor, make sure

you’re paying attention to the forecast and adjusting per weather conditions when

possible. The ground can only absorb so much moisture, so be responsible with our water and ensure you are keeping

run off to a minimum. It’s Texas and water conservation is a huge issue. Its not

by PJ Kratohvil Owner of Complete Solutions

uncommon to be able to cut your “on days” totally off or down to a one-day

rotation weekly. It’s a good idea at least

W

elcome to the rainy season here in North Texas. As annoying as that may be and as tired as we get from all the tracking in and out with kids, dogs, muddy cars, and the constant cleaning, we need it -- so don’t complain too loud. Before we know it, the drought restrictions will be back in place and our irrigation costs will be through the roof!

The rain is good at pointing things out such as low spots around your property

once a month to turn the system on TEST

and even standing or pooling water. Sometimes, you can

get a sand-based soil blend, fill the area a couple inches at a time to eliminate them

but not kill out the grass while other times addressing with a drainage system is more efficient.

If you’re unsure of the best

solutions, it is always a good

The ground can only absorb so much moisture, so be responsible with our wateR

idea to consult a professional

to take action to help eliminate potential problems moving forward such as dead

Mode and run through the

zones, ensuring your heads are providing adequate

coverage and the system as a whole is operating efficiently (especially if it’s been

winterized the last couple of months).

A lot of our run off occurs from broken pipes, drip lines, and

heads that we just don’t notice because our systems are

going off early in the morning and they are not checked on a regular basis.

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The

REMINDERS AND UPDATES

by Dr. Rebecca Butler, Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics

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urprise! The latest news is that the flu vaccine is a “mismatch” for some of the most common strains of the flu. A universal vaccine is in the works, but until then, it is important to recognize the signs and symptoms and provide supportive care quickly.

Symptoms of the flu in kids can include sore throat, muscle aches, congestion, fever, chills, and fatigue. If your child is feeling sick, help them feel better by encouraging rest and keeping them hydrated. You can also try these kid-friendly flu home remedies to give relief.

Home remedies to help soothe a child’s cough: •

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Drink warm fluids: Warm liquids such as caffeine-free tea, broth, or hot water with lemon can help loosen up mucus and soothe a sore throat.

Consider using a humidifier: Consider placing a cool-mist humidifier in your child’s room, near where they sleep, to help ease their breathing.

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Breathe in warm water vapors: Let your child breathe in water vapors from a warm bath or shower.

This loosens mucus and calms your child before bed.

Try icy treats: Give your child cold items like popsicles or ice cream.

Saline and suction: A saline solution, such as a nose spray or mist, can help loosen mucus in the nose. Have your child blow their nose frequently, or if they are young, use a suction bulb to prevent drainage.

Give a spoonful of honey (over age 1): A teaspoon of honey can help combat coughing but

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should only be given to children over the age of 1.

Sleep/Rest: Encourage your child get plenty of rest and sleep to promote healing.

What temperature is a (high) fever for a child?

A normal body temperature is about 98.6°F. A temperature of 100.4°F or higher is considered a fever for a child.

Keep in mind that everyone’s body temp fluctuates and is usually lower in the morning and higher in the evening.

When your child has a fever, it is a sign that their immune system is fighting off an infection. Reducing fever may relieve some discomfort and allow for an opportunity to hydrate and re-evaluate your child. Oftentimes, it is beneficial to allow your child to run a fever of 100.4 to 101-102 degrees. Increasing body temperature is what will stop the replicating and potentially allow a quicker recovery.

When should you worry about a fever?

Call your primary care physician if your child is: •

Younger than 3 months of age with a temperature of 100.4°F or higher.

•

Age 3 to 6 months with a temperature up to 102°F and appears very lethargic or irritable.

•

Age 6 to 24 months with a temperature above 102°F, lasting more than a day with worsening symptoms.

The flu is highly contagious, and we should do as much as possible to prevent the spread. Wash your hands frequently, do not touch your face, stay clear of those who are coughing, and keep your children home if they are ill.

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Helping G irls

Survive

The Stress

of Their Teen Years

A

by Jana Sosnowski

current trend in teenage circles is claiming bragging rights over who is the most stressed, which is often translated into who received the least amount of sleep each night. With a society that moves faster and faster with increases in technology, your daughter might be suffering from heightened levels of stress, particularly if her peer group comprises high achievers.

Dr.

Roni Cohen-Sandler describes the stresses that plague teenage girls today as fear of exposure, need for autonomy, fear of repercussion, fear of raising parental anxiety, avoidance of flaws, and comparison to a perceived ideal. The need for autonomy is a typical rite of passage, but adults can help girls change their desire to hide flaws and avoid exposure to perceived weakness.

Dealing with stress as early as possible may prevent the drive to be the “most stressed out” or the student with the least amount of sleep. It can also prevent larger issues, including increased illness, craving for stimulants, lack of physical activity, and diminished academic achievement.

Helping a teenage girl develop a realistic view of herself and the world around her is key to her reducing her own stress. Parents who openly communicate about their own stresses with work may help a teen

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girl realistically evaluate her perception of her school work and lower her fear of disappointing her parents. According to Dr. Cohen-Sandler, the root of stress is often found in family expectations, cultural pressures, and self-esteem issues. Open communication between parent and daughter can begin to ease some of these stresses. If beginning communication is difficult, assistance from a psychologist can increase both parent and daughter’s willingness to talk.

Stress management is also assisted by the education of the parent and development of the girl’s self-esteem via an understanding – by both parent and child – that perfect does not exist and the quest for the Ivy League school is often more damaging than encouraging.

Girls who do not succumb to heightened levels of stress know from parents that enjoying themselves and finding their place in the world are more practical and sensible goals.

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Nearby

Family

Fun

Ad venT ures

for Spring Break

by Steve Gamel

TOPGOLF – THE COLONY topgolf.com/us/the-colony/

DALLAS ZOO www.dallaszoo.com

great venue to have a birthday party at or

Grow your game with TopGolf Spring Break Academy. Three days of non-stop entertainment and learning that kids will love and includes all components that make up the great game of golf.

Everything you need to improve your game.

The zoo is always fun, and there’s plenty for the kids to see and do. The Keeper Encounters and Training Demonstrations are always interesting for a behind-thescenes look. There’s even a guide to Pokémon Go on their website. You can save with CityPass if you’re planning to experience other nearby venues.

ZONE ACTION PARK

PINSTACK BOWLING pinstackbowl.com/locations/ plano-texas A perfect indoor option if the weather just isn’t right. Located in Plano, Pinstack is your standard venue for bowling, games, a rock climbing wall, laser tag, and more.

There’s a full-service restaurant to keep your bellies full while you have fun all day long.

DALLAS WORLD AQUARIUM www.dwazoo.com Much like the zoo, it’s hard to go wrong with a trip to the aquarium. It’s educational, it’s fun, and it’s cool to see sharks. There also aren’t a ton of lines, so you and the family can go at your own pace and enjoy every exhibit.

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SHARKAROSA WILDLIFE RANCH IN PILOT POINT www.sharkarosa.com

even have a private guided tour.

www.thezoneactionparktexas.com/ There are go-karts, 2 18-hole miniature golf courses, 6 station baseball and

softball batting cages along with bounce houses, as well as loads of games and

fun inside. It’s nothing fancy, but it is fun.

Groupons are sometimes available.

SIX FLAGS OVER TEXAS ARLINGTON www.sixflags.com/overtexas

Another hidden gem in North Texas, Sharkarosa is a non-profit ranch licensed and regulated by the USDA. Families can get an up-close-and-personal zoo experience featuring endangered exotic wildlife – without spending an arm and a leg.

What kind of list would this be if it didn’t

FRANK BUCK ZOO IN GAINESVILLE www.gainesville.tx.us/index. aspx?nid=108

www.fortworthstockyards.org

Dubbed the Star of North Texas, the Frank Buck Zoo offers all your traditional zoo experiences and more without having to drive into Dallas or Fort Worth. This is a

hour, and there are lots of shops, dining,

include Six Flags? A staple of family fun, this park is huge and has a happiness

factor to suit both young and old. There

are lots of rides to please everyone from kiddie rides to serious roller coasters.

FORT WORTH STOCKYARDS

Take a trip back in time. The Fort Worth cattle drive comes through twice an

museums, and history to be seen. For extra fun, take the Grapevine Vintage Railroad there and back.

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Denton resident

shares love of football

with youth

by Dawn Cobb photo courtesy of Dawn Cobb

H

arold Jackson, a Denton County maintenance assistant for 38 years, still recalls his three years as a tight end for the Denton High School Broncos in the late 70s.

The then 13-year-old from Tallulah in

northeast Louisiana found friends and a sense of belonging with his teammates both on and off the football field.

It is that teamwork he has tried to instill in generations of southeast Denton youth for more than 20 years through mentoring, music, and football.

Starting as a volunteer in 1985 for the Martin Luther King Jr. Recreation Center, not long after he graduated DHS in 1980, Jackson crafted a plan to create activities for youth at Fred Moore Park.

Using money he collected from mowing yards as a side job, Jackson bought prizes to give away as part of a youth talent competition that he and Roger “Dollar Bill” Johnson called Apollo Nights.

Each week, boys and girls gathered at the pavilion in Fred Moore Park to compete for prizes and showcase their talents.

A short time later, Jackson and Johnson started the annual football tournament for kids of all ages as part of the Martin Luther King Jr. Day celebrations. Jackson said the evening celebrations left most of the day open, so it made sense to create something for the kids to enjoy during the afternoon.

“We’d just start practicing, and they’d come out,” Jackson said, describing how the flag football tournament draws youth from across Denton each year.

“Then, they’d come during the holidays.”

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Jackson worked with local businesses and organizations to cover costs for the annual tournament so that he could give each participant a t-shirt, snacks, and a trophy.

He also made connections with former football players, who volunteer their time to mentor and coach.

Mike Green, a former safety and cornerback who played eight years with the Chicago Bears, Seattle Seahawks, and Washington Redskins, said Jackson’s work, “does a lot for the community. It brings kids together, teaching them leadership and teamwork.”

Tramain Jones, who played defensive back for the Florida Bobcats, Orlando Predators, Carolina Cobras, and the Tampa Bay Storm as part of the Arena Football League, agreed.

“It’s a great thing Harold is doing for the kids and letting the kids have fun.”

Both traditions continued for decades with the final Apollo Nights competition in 2018. The football tournament continues, finishing its 20th event this past January.

In his spare time, Jackson saves all of the newspaper photos of the students he has worked with and frames them to present along with copies of DVDs from the Apollo Nights competitions.

Both the keepsakes and the events serve as lifelong memories for the many youth who have enjoyed these neighborhood traditions over the past two decades.

Dawn Cobb is the Director of Community Relations for Denton County. She can be reached at dawn.cobb@dentoncounty. com or at 940-349-4672. www.LantanaLiving.com

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Fitness: Ask The Expert

What’s Good for Both

Your Health &

LOVE LIFE?

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by Jesse J. Leyva,Owner of Jesse James Fit & Outlaw Fitcamp

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Trying something new together brings closeness to a relationship. Using a personal trainer and learning new workouts together will help a couple feel more connected.

month when the candy has been eaten

Flowers and candy are nice, but later this and the flowers have died, think about something long-lasting — getting fit

together. It not only lasts longer, but it’s good for your relationship too!

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So You Can Care FOR Them

Care For Yourself B

by Contributing Writer

eing a mom is gratifying and rewarding.

At the same time, it can be exhausting and draining. When I think about the toddler years, I remember the busyness, the occasional chaos, and that long list of all the things that "only Mommy" could do. Now that the kids are older and more independent, I can look back at those early parenting years with some perspective, and I'd like to share a few suggestions for younger moms.

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Look

Look In around Find your people. Even though we will always need people around us who are in different stages of life, we also need mom friends who are going through the same things we are. When you have a baby or a toddler -- or both -it's sometimes the hardest thing in the world to get out, do stuff, or make plans.

Let me encourage you: instead of letting the babies be the reason why you can't get out of the house, find a way to let them be the reason why you do.

Believe it or not, children's activities aren't just about the kids. Many moms find their mom-friend crowd through kids' events.

Does your library have a baby storytime?

Give it a try. Is there a preschool mom’s group in your community? Find out if you can visit a meeting. Do you have a nearby playground? Pick a day to eat your sandwiches at the park and see if someone with kids wants to join you.

Mirror

Being a mom changes everything -- or does it? Every now and then, be sure to look in the mirror and remember the "you" that you were before having kids. She's still in there. She's got ideas and hobbies, and she's good at so many things. Once in a while, try to carve out a little time to do something you love that's not just a momjob. It can be refreshing and renewing to pick up a forsaken hobby, a good book, or a favorite pastime.

While you're at it, think of one healthy habit you can focus on for yourself.

Remembering to drink an extra glass of water daily? Getting outside in the fresh air and sunshine for a couple of minutes?

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Look outward

Make someone smile when you have the chance. Ask for advice from someone you admire. Send a friend a text message just to say, "I'm thinking about you.� Learn something new. Snatch five minutes when the kids are in bed and read a few pages of a good book. Ask a friend (and her kids) if she wants to stop by for a coffee (and animal crackers). Reach out. Say a kind word. You'll be glad you did.

Sometimes, it seems like life is all about the kids. We spend most of our waking hours doing everything for them.

And they're worth it! But don't forget that you're worth it, too. It's important to take care of yourself so that you can take care of them. www.LantanaLiving.com

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Ask The Expert: Dentistry

MORE SUGAR. MORE CAVITIES.

by Dr. Matt Artho, Owner of Country Lakes Family Dental

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y son came home from school recently all excited about telling me a joke: “Dad, if Joey has 10 candy bars and eats five of them, what does he have...?

Cavities!” As true as it rang in my ears, I’m also not surprised that Joey had 10 candy bars, considering my kids sometimes bring home bags full of candy from school.

Now, as a dentist, I may not take candy restriction as serious as the father of Willy Wonka, but I am amazed at the amount of overall sugar exposure our children receive -- not only from school but also holidays, birthday parties, sport events,

and ironically, sometimes even from doctors or dentists at the local fair.

With sugar consumption on the rise, as well as increased risks of diabetes and child obesity, here are some reasons why we should combat an excessive “sweet tooth.”

Cavities are the result of sugar, as oral bacteria consume the simple carbohydrates and produce tooth destroying acid as a result. In addition to the amount of consumption, the duration and frequency of exposure to sugar throughout can inhibit the buffers in your saliva to naturally decrease the acidity of your mouth -- further causing decay.

The most obvious way to combat sugar consumption is to limit it. This, of course, is easier said than done. Other methods include encouraging children to brush, or at the very least, drink or rinse with water after eating sugar.

Like all things, this may require a gradual change in habits but possesses promising future results. So, keep up the good fight and your smile with thank you.

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How active listening Can Make You A Better Writer

I

by Steve Gamel, Owner of Edit This

used to mentor a young journalist. He was a good kid who was eager to learn, so much so that each time he got ready to do another interview with someone, he’d want to sit down with me and go over the list of questions he had prepared.

Usually, he was pretty spot-on, but one thing I’d always preach in those sitdowns was this: rather than worry about questions you think you should ask, focus on being the best listener you can be.

1. You And The Person You Are Interviewing Are At Ease

Here are 4 reasons why being a better listener will make you a great writer.

that you are listening.

Not everyone you interview has done this before. Ask the right questions, but first put them at ease by showing 2. You Learn Something You Didn’t Know

Edit This: Ask The Expert I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone into an interview and come out with a completely different story simply because I was willing to shut up and listen.

3. You Build Better Relationships Duh! People want to know they are being heard, that you empathize, and that you will get the story right.

4. You Avoid Misunderstandings Just like when you get into a spat with a loved one, each person wants to know their individual concerns are being heard.

I get to know the individuals or companies I am writing about so that I can tell the best story possible. Active listening makes me look a lot smarter than any predetermined question.

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Brush

Mobile Manners Up On

Your

by Contributing Writer

Respect for Waitstaff: If anybody is waiting on you, whether it be the barista at Starbucks or the waitress waiting to take your order, do them (and anybody around you waiting for service) a courtesy and pay attention. Should there be a call or text you have to respond to, step out of line or have a buddy hold your place or get your food for you.

In addition to these general rules for good mobile manners, remember to watch your language. If you're at a place where you wouldn't be spouting out curse words, don't do it on your phone – especially if there are children around. If you know a conversation is going to get heated, either save it for later or find a more remote location. As for distance, the general rule is to maintain at least ten feet between yourself and others around you. For all other situations, exercise good judgment - and never text or talk while driving.

Universal Quiet Zones: There are some places where it's never appropriate to take calls and send texts under any circumstances. Some of these universal quiet zones include theaters (unless you want to be pelted with popcorn), churches, funerals, weddings (maybe at the reception, but never during the ceremony), at plays (or anything having to do with the theater), at hospitals (except for the waiting room) and in the library.

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early everyone has a cellphone, so it's as good a time as any for a refresher course on appropriate cellphone manners. Not only will having a grasp of mobile manners make a good impression on others, but it could also save you some unwanted hostility from strangers at the bus stop to servers, fellow diners, and dates.

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Dates: Ideally, the focus of a date should be on the person you're with at the moment, not on who may be suddenly texting or calling you. If you don't have enough willpower to let calls go to voicemail or ignore texts, put your phone in your pocket or purse and ignore. Placing it on the table is never wise, especially if you have it on vibrate or have a crazy ringtone that's likely to have everyone in the place looking to see who's playing "Super Freak."

Call Volume: Even though cellphones are getting smaller and smaller, the speakers on newer phones are perfectly capable of picking up your voice – so there's no need to yell. Be mindful of who's around you and adjust your vocal tone accordingly. If your call suddenly gets heated, try to find a place with a little more privacy where you can have such a conversation without bothering everyone around you.

Face-to-Face Interactions: If someone is taking the time to have lunch with you or meet with you for business reasons, suddenly taking a call or texting is just plain rude. Such behavior can be disastrous if you're meeting with a client or going through a job interview. If you know you can't resist the urge, either turn your cellphone off completely or leave it in the car.

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6th Annual

Boots & Blessings Gala

Benefiting Ally’s Wish photo courtesy of Danielle Cornett

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oin Ally’s Wish for a boot scootin’ great cause! The gala evening will include a cocktail hour, a seated dinner buffet, and live Country-Western entertainment.

We are honored to announce that Dallas Cowboys legend, Tony Casillas and his wife, Tamara, will be this years event chairs. Also with Real Housewives of Dallas Star, LeeAnne Locken and Rich Emberlin serving as honorary chairs.

Funds raised from this event will benefit Ally’s Wish. The Flower Mound-based organization grants wishes to young mothers battling terminal illnesses so they may create lasting memories with their children and loved ones. Individual tickets are $150 and tables of 10 are available for $1,500. Corporate and individual sponsorship levels begin at $2,500.

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LOCATION, DATE & TIME: April 18, 2020 | 6:30 - 11pm Austin Ranch at Hilton DFW Lakes 2009 Anderson Gibson Rd. Grapevine, TX 76051 817.481.1536 WEBSITE: allyswish.org/boots-blessings-gala/ CONTACT: Missy Phipps • 469.261.8990 missy@allyswish.org FACEBOOK EVENT: www.facebook.com/allyswish14

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Rustico: Foodie Friday DFW

Rustico

photography by Nick Allen Photography

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he moment we heard that Marty B’s owner, Marty Bryan, and his business partner, Alan Mann, were working on a new restaurant concept in Flower Mound, we knew we needed to be one of the first to tell their story and check this place out.

Rustico is everything we were promised it would be - an upscale, intimate

restaurant setting right here in Flower

Mound. No need to drive to Downtown

Dallas or Fort Worth to enjoy that kind of dining experience!

Appetizers Rustico makes the best first impression

with some of their signature appetizers like their take on a Cheese Board with

artisan cheese, charcuterie, glazed pecans, pistachios, and a Tabasco jelly and the

They have put a lot of work into sourcing

Prime Filet Marsala which is beautiful filet

menu. You won’t find any hormones

marsala drizzle.

the best ingredients possible for their

served on top of crostini with a mushroom

or antibiotics and everything has been

Signature Dishes

humanely raised, so you’re only eating the cleanest and best food.

We tried out a TON of Rustico’s dishes

while filming, so we’ll highlight some of

the dishes we think are absolute All-Stars.

I love sea bass and Rustico’s hit the spot

for me. Their Pan Seared Sea Bass comes topped with a lemon butter and is the

perfect amount of decadence without being too heavy.

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Their signature chicken dish is their

Chicken Rustico topped with prosciutto and fontina and served with a marsala wine sauce.

And their Prime Filet is out-of-this-world,

oh-my-gosh, you-have-to-try-this amazing!

Perfectly grilled and simply served to let

the star of the dish truly be the filet.

You would pay big money for this kind of steak anywhere else.

Desserts Whether you choose their Quatro Leches Cake, Turtle Cheesecake, or their killer “Chocolate Something,” you cannot go wrong! Each option is the perfect ending to an incredible meal.

Next time you’re looking for an intimate date night spot, or a place to have a quiet night out with friends or colleagues, Rustico needs to be top of your list.

We guarantee everyone in your party will leave happy!

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Deals and Steals

Three Websites for Finding the Best Deals Online

by Kelly Murray

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re you on a never-ending quest for the best deals? Do you love to hunt and search for treasures at amazingly low prices? These web sites are fabulous resources for you in your deal-finding journey.

every community. These are Facebook groups, typically managed by a local

person, where members can list their

items for sale locally. The great benefit

Shopgoodwill.com

Bradsdeals.com

of Facebook for Sale pages is that you

This web site is a hub for Goodwill

If you love getting the best deal on new

work with local people. The pages are

for auction. The site has items nicely

online retailers, you must give Bradsdeals

locations to submit their items up

categorized, so you can easily find what you need by category or by keyword.

Before bidding, you can estimate shipping

for your item to be sure you don't overpay.

You can find original paintings, high-end new and vintage purses, bulk costume

jewelry, electronics, sporting goods, and much more. Nearly anything that can be donated can be found on this site.

Keep in mind that stores only submit

items they feel are worth their time to list, so you typically find the best of

their inventory on this site. You will be

absolutely amazed at what you will find.

Shopping Tips: Check out the "Top 50"

items, which can be found on the home

items from popular (and not-so-popular)

a try. Bradsdeals is a service that delivers daily emails to subscribers, detailing the

best deals on the internet. Bradsdeals has a team of experts scouring the internet daily to collect and post the best deals

online. Their staff then categorizes each

item, so finding what you need is easy by keyword or category. You can sign up to receive the site's deal alerts every day,

twice per week, or weekly. The Bradsdeals staff often negotiates additional savings for their followers typically by using a

search options are 'nwt' (new with tags), and 'nib' (new in box). Sometimes, the pictures for the items on this site are not the best, so feel free to email that store for more information, if needed.

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you need. You can search by keywords,

but people don't always enter the correct

keywords in their listings. Each item that is

added to the page bumps the prior listing down the page. This means your item

could easily become lost in the shuffle as

new items are added. Since Facebook for Sale groups are regulated by a variety of people, you must follow their rules, and rules vary greatly from group to group.

additional percentage off, and it can

anything, and be sure to follow them.

group before interacting or selling

be a jaw-dropping deal.

Know how much money you want to get

emails, since the deals often sell out.

keyword search box. Other helpful keyword

be categorized, so it's hard to find what

deal. This can be free shipping or an

will also be higher than others. If you prefer seek, and then type the word 'new' into the

are some disadvantages. Items cannot

Shopping Tips: Read the rules of the

Shopping Tips: If you are serious about

only new items, choose the category you

free to set up and list on; however, there

coupon code provided along with the

page. Do keep in mind that the top 50 items likely receive the most views, so their prices

do not need to ship the item, and you

deal hunting, you should receive daily

Read the daily email immediately for the

same reason. During the holiday season, be sure to sign up for their Black Friday

deals also, giving you a leg up on finding

for your item before placing it for sale

because people typically like to bargain on Facebook for Sale pages. Be careful

when meeting people to sell or buy your items. Meet at a busy location, and bring a friend if possible. Be sure you trust the person before meeting them.

the best seasonal deals.

Use these three websites, and you will

Local Facebook For Sale Pages

brand-name items, and the things you

Local sale pages are popping up in nearly

be on your way to getting vintage finds, need at amazingly low prices.

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Guyer softball eager to start

another season

by Steve Gamel

C

oming into the first wave of practices this season, Guyer softball coach Keith Medford did what any coach whose team was coming off a deep playoff run would do: he told his team that last year doesn’t matter anymore. After all, coaches at all levels never want their players to rely on past success or look too far ahead — because that’s what gets you beat.

But even Medford, who is the only coach the Lady Wildcats have known, admits their winning tradition is hard to overlook.

“We always tell them it’s a new year and new people, but it’s always nice to have successes to hang your hat on — not just last year, but for the last 14 years,” said Medford, who is entering his 15th season at Guyer. “That puts a little pressure on them, too, because they see all those banners in the outfield and want to keep that tradition going.”

While Guyer has yet to win a state title, it is consistently in the hunt and is coming off back-to-back runs to the third round of the Class 6A playoffs. Last year’s team finished 26-9 and was led by a dominant senior class that featured the likes of Morgan Medford, Kara Debruin, Bailey Anderson, Eva Myers, Jenna Rover, and Abby Willis.

All those players have graduated, but unsurprisingly, coach Medford has plenty of weapons left in the lineup.

Heading into the Mid-Cities Tournament on February 20-22, the team’s first of three tournaments to start the year, the Lady Wildcats have a healthy mix of returning stars and girls who weren’t starters but still logged considerable time on the field in key situations. This includes the duo of pitcher Ranci Willis and second baseman Ryan Gallegos. Willis stepped up in a big way as a sophomore, going 19-8 with a 5.44 ERA and 142 strikeouts in 137 1/3

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innings. Gallegos, a Syracuse commit, is a four-year starter and finished last year with a .341 average, 29 RBIs and 25 runs as a junior.

Flanking them are new faces such as right fielder Nikki Overton, who came on late last year to lock down the starting role. Catchers Maddison Slater and Kate Wentworth split time last year and will be competing for the starting nod. Kate Moala also returns at third base, leaving center field, left field, shortstop, and first base as the biggest holes.

The goal is to get everyone up to speed heading into what should be another murderer’s row of tough competition in District 5-6A. The district opener is set for March 9 against Keller Central.

“It’s going to be a good combination of kids. We’ll have some young ones, but we still have the experience. And we’ll have a pretty big roster,” Medford said. “District is going to be a dogfight every night. We have a lot of respect for the Keller schools, and Eaton looks to be the best team in the district on paper. If we can just get out of the district and into the playoffs, we will be battle-tested. That’s what happened last year, and we were very successful.”

He added, “Just make it out, and you’ll be in good shape.”

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