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Adventure Draws Near S
ummer is officially here, and this issue is packed with ideas to help you make the most of it. Whether you’re looking for a quick weekend escape, planning a family staycation, or searching for the best water parks to beat the Texas heat, we’ve got you covered. There’s no shortage of adventure waiting just around the corner, and sometimes the best memories are made without traveling far from home.
This year also marks a historic milestone as our nation celebrates America’s 250th anniversary. Communities across Denton County and beyond are planning special events, celebrations, and patriotic gatherings to honor this incredible chapter in our nation’s history. Be sure to check out local festivities and take a moment to reflect on the people, freedoms, and opportunities that make our country so special.
We’re also proud to feature our Nonprofit of the Month, United Way of Denton County. Through its dedication to improving lives and strengthening our community, United Way continues to make a meaningful impact on families, children, and individuals throughout the county. We encourage you to learn more about their mission and discover ways you can get involved.
As you enjoy the longer days and warmer weather, don’t forget the importance of supporting the businesses and organizations that make our communities thrive. Shop local, dine local, attend local events, and consider volunteering with one of the many nonprofits serving our neighbors. Every dollar spent and every hour given helps strengthen the place we call home.
Thank you for reading, and as always, thank you for being part of this wonderful community. I hope your summer is filled with fun, laughter, and plenty of adventure.
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or many families, summer is synonymous with freedom: vacations, pool days, camps, sports tournaments, and long-awaited family memories. But for co-parents navigating custody schedules, summer can quickly become less “carefree” and more carefully choreographed.
In Texas, families operating under the Standard Possession Order (SPO), as outlined in the Texas Family Code, know that summer requires more than sunscreen and suitcases — it requires strategy.
By spring, many parents are already racing against important deadlines. Typically, the noncustodial parent must designate extended summer possession dates by April 1, while the custodial parent often has until April 15 to select specific weekends or vacation periods.
When everyone communicates early, calendars can come together smoothly, allowing families to coordinate camps, travel plans, and summer activities with minimal stress.
But when deadlines are missed, things can become complicated fast.
Under the SPO, if the noncustodial parent fails to make a timely election, their extended 30-day summer possession is generally locked into July 1 through July
Communication and Careful Planning Ease Summer Possession Schedules
31. That rigidity can create conflicts with camps, family vacations, or sports commitments that were planned months in advance. Meanwhile, the custodial parent may lose the ability to schedule a weekend inside that possession period, though they can usually still elect one weekend outside of the 30-day stretch if proper notice is given.
The result? A logistical puzzle with high emotional stakes.
And today’s summers are busier than ever. Children involved in competitive athletics often spend the season traveling for tournaments, attending mandatory training camps, or participating in clinics that can dominate the family calendar. Missing a registration date — or misunderstanding a custody order — can mean canceled vacations, lost deposits, or even a child missing out on a beloved summer experience.
That’s why attorneys consistently emphasize one key principle: know your order before you make your plans.
Understanding the details of summer possession schedules isn’t just about legal compliance; it’s about protecting opportunities for children to enjoy the moments that define childhood summers. From sleepaway camp to baseball champion-
Protect what matters most. Start the conversation with our Denton office today.
ships to beach trips with grandparents, thoughtful planning helps ensure kids don’t become caught in the middle of scheduling disputes.
But even the best-written custody order cannot account for every real-life situation. Successful co-parenting during the summer often depends on something equally important: flexibility.
Parents who communicate openly and work collaboratively are often better positioned to accommodate changing schedules, special opportunities, and the unexpected curveballs that summer inevitably brings.
A little cooperation can go a long way toward allowing children to participate in activities they love while still enjoying meaningful time with both parents.
Because at the end of the day, summer memories matter. And when co-parents prioritize planning, communication, and the children’s best interests, everyone has a better chance to enjoy the season.
JUSTIN WHIDDON ATTORNEY
Follow Your Internal
Travel Trends for 2026 COMPASS
As global events continue to unfold and affect casual travel plans, travel trends in 2026 feel like a deliberate balance between ambition and leisure. Spontaneous trips and lackadaisical vacations are being replaced by more intentional travel plans.
Simply put, travelers are putting a lot more thought into where they’re going and why. From bucket list trips to solo adventures, here are six travel trends that are guiding travelers toward experiences that hold deeper personal meaning.
MID-CAREER ADVENTURE SABBATICALS
For the mid-career traveler, a sabbatical with intent becomes an opportunity for growth rather than just a retreat from responsibility. Imagine taking a month’s long sabbatical to go on a mission to Central America, joining a guided Patagonia hiking trek while you work on your book, or taking up a desert photography
residency in Morocco for your portfolio.
For some, an adventure with purpose recharges their career ambitions, offers a chance to acquire new skills, or gives them a fresh new perspective of the world. Not only do we experience an adventure of a lifetime, but we return with sharpened skills, a richer sense of purpose, and stories that we will carry with us for the rest of our lives.
ANCESTRY TRAVEL
by Murray Media Group
literally walk in your ancestor’s footsteps, savor meals that have been passed down for generations, and sleep in places you were told about as a child.
With the rise of services like Ancestry. com, genealogical-inspired vacations have become an enlightening way to see the world. Ancestry travel invites you to
Picture visiting your grandmother’s Polish village, poring over parish birth and baptismal records in a local church’s archives, and sharing pierogi with hospitable locals as you swap stories. These journeys braid new memories with your family’s hallowed past, turning your heritage into an exploration of self-discovery.
SET-JETTING & LITERARY TRAVEL
Books and films have always created a storyboard for our imaginations, turning fiction into real-life adventures. “Set-jetting,” as it is called, invites you to walk Dubrovnik’s iconic stone stairways featured in the HBO show, Game of Thrones, or hike
through New Zealand’s pristine valleys that were filmed in the Lord of the Rings trilogy. For lovers of classic literature, your journey may take you to Shakespearean England or the Italian city of Verona, the setting for Romeo & Juliet. Visiting the places that helped bring these worlds to life can be an especially rewarding experience, leaving you with a newfound appreciation of the film or book that inspired your journey.
HUSH-PITALITY
EVENT TOURISM
In a world that never quite shuts off, hush-pitality offers you an opportunity to truly unplug from the digital world and reconnect with nature. Think of serene getaways tucked into misty forests, blissful coastlines, and cedar cabins where monitors don’t exist.
These intentionally calming vacations prioritize mindful nature walks, stargazing, and phone-free afternoons paired with nourishing, seasonal meals from local producers. The aim is to cancel the incessant din of technology and retune your ears to the sound of birds, wind, and water. You return with a softer cadence, clearer priorities, and a refreshing reminder that you can exist, and even flourish, without technology.
Major events become a great excuse to immerse yourself in a new culture or community. Event-driven travel invites you to explore the world beyond just the main event, whether it’s Munich’s Oktoberfest, New Orleans’ Mardi Gras, or Mexico City’s vibrant Dia de los Muertos.
Travelers can savor local music, crafts, and cuisine, weaving your pre- and post-event plans into a comprehensive experience. Event tourism revolves around more than merely watching a spectacle —i t’s about participating in the host city’s or region’s cultural heartbeat, collecting the sights, sounds, and tastes of a new environment that you can carry with you into future trips.
SOLO TRAVEL ADVENTURES
The solo journeys are evolving into a welcoming rite of passage. Women and singles increasingly seek curated group departures that honor independence
while offering camaraderie. Programs like G Adventures capitalize on this trend by offering group adventures for solo travelers to tag along. Picture safety-forward itineraries with local guides, small-group dining experiences, mindful hikes, and photo walks designed to empower and connect. You gain confidence, meet like-minded travelers, and return with a broader network and a reservoir of shared memories you’ll revisit long after the trip ends.
by Craig Hewitt
TUNCLE SAM WANTS YOU To Have Fun
here’s something timeless about the Fourth of July in North Texas, yet this year carries even more meaning as communities across the country celebrate America’s 250th anniversary. From lakeside festivals to hometown parades, many of our towns are pulling out all the stops. Whether you’re planning a family outing or a full day of festivities, here’s where to celebrate Independence Day in patriotic style.
Yankee Doodle Parade & Kiwanis Fireworks
DENTON
cityofdenton.com/954/Independence-Day-Celebration
Steeped in tradition, Denton’s Fourth of July celebration kicks off with the beloved Yankee Doodle Parade Saturday morning. Held in downtown Denton, the parade features decorated floats, marching bands, and community groups, beginning at 9 am.
Then the celebration continues into the evening with the Denton Noon Kiwanis Club Firework Show at the North Texas Fairgrounds, starting at 9:30 pm. Consider comfortable walking shoes for the parade and return later with blankets or chairs for the fireworks.
All-American Fireworks & Festival
ROANOKE
Roanoke City Hall Plaza, 500 S. Oak St., Roanoke, TX 76262
roanoketexas.gov/events
Celebrate America’s 250th anniversary with the City of Roanoke’s annual All-American Fireworks and Festival on Friday, July 3rd, from 5-10 pm. Visitors will enjoy a full lineup of activities, including carnival rides, bounce houses, face painting, a pie-eating competition, vendor booths, and a variety of delicious food trucks. At 7:30 pm, witness a high-energy dueling piano performance at City Hall Plaza, featuring live music, audience interaction, and nonstop entertainment, followed by a spectacular fireworks show that lights up the sky just after 9:15 pm.
Red, White, & Beach
LITTLE ELM
Little Elm Park, 701 W. Eldorado Pkwy., Little Elm, TX, 75068 lakefrontlittleelm.com/events
The town of Little Elm’s signature Red, White & Beach celebration returns again, giving residents and non-residents a full day’s worth of sun and fun. Start the day with the Firecracker 5K and 1K Fun Run, which begins at 7:45 am on the Lakefront Trail. Post-race festivities include a brunch pass, hot dogs, and a drink at Towers Tap House.
The main event at Little Elm Park features live music, food trucks, and beach activities, and concludes with a fireworks show over Lewisville Lake at approximately 9:30 p.m. Little Elm residents can claim up to four free general admission tickets per household, but non-resident admission is $5 per attendee. General admission parking is $30 and sold on-site.
Independence Fest
FLOWER MOUND
flowermound.gov/festival
Flower Mound’s Independence Fest returns bigger and better than ever for 2026, celebrating America’s 250th birthday with a full day of family fun. The celebration begins Saturday morning with the Children’s Parade at Leonard and Helen Johns Community Park, featuring decorated bikes and family-friendly activities.
Freedom Festival
CASTLE HILLS
Castle Hills Village Shops, 2520 King Arthur Blvd. Lewisville, TX 75056 castlehills.com
A Castle Hills community tradition for more than 20 years, this free, family-friendly event will feature face painters, balloon artists, caricature artists, a bounce house/water slide combo, an ultimate bungee ride, a ninja tower, food trucks, live music, and, of course, a fireworks show at dusk. Concessions will be available for purchase from several Village Shops’ restaurants and food trucks. The highlight of the evening, a fireworks show, will start at dusk.
Liberty by the Lake
THE COLONY
thecolonytx.gov/609/Liberty-By-The-Lake
Set against the scenic backdrop of Lewisville Lake, Liberty by the Lake is a community favorite that captures the essence of a summer celebration. Held at Stewart Creek Park, the event will begin with the Liberty 5K and Fun Run Saturday morning, followed by the Independence Day Parade, and the Liberty by the Lake Festival at the Athletic Club.
Resuming at 5 pm, Bakersfield Park will host a vintage car show, an expanded Kid’s Zone, and a variety of vendors and food trucks. The main event features live music performances by Emerald City Band, Le Freak, and country music star, Gabby Barrett, followed by the biggest fireworks display ever staged in Flower Mound. Be sure to bring plenty of water and sunscreen and consider an umbrella for shade. Coolers and lawn chairs will be allowed, however, alcoholic beverages will be prohibited but can be purchased onsite.
Highlighted by a three-day carnival from July 2-5, revelers can expect carnival rides, festive foods, and family-friendly activities leading up to the main event. The fireworks finale reflects beautifully over the water, making it one of the most visually striking displays in North Texas.
Free on-site parking will be available at The Colony High School, 4301 Blair Oaks Dr. Parking can fill quickly, so arrive early or consider rideshare options. Pack a picnic, bug spray, and folding chairs. If you can, stake out a spot with a clear lake view for the full experience.
When the temperatures in North Texas soar, local families start looking for a fun-filled escape from the summer heat. From water slides and lazy rivers to resort-style lagoons and beaches, these 10 water parks are all easily accessible to Denton County residents and packed with water-drenched entertainment.
by Craig Hewitt
The Cove at The Lakefront – Little Elm
417 Lakefront Drive, Little Elm, TX 75068 | thecoveatthelakefront.com
This indoor, climate-controlled water park delivers year-round thrills with twisting slides, a lazy river, and splash zones that keep kids busy for hours. The 42,000-square-foot facility was designed for families, with cabanas, party rooms, and special events like toddler time and adult nights that make it feel like a mini vacation close to home.
Hawaiian Waters – The Colony
4400 Paige Road, The Colony, TX 75056 | hawaiianwaters.com
Tropical vibes meet big-thrill slides at Hawaiian Waters The Colony, where families can float the lazy river, tackle towering tube rides, or relax in shaded cabanas. Kids love the play structures and splash zones, while older adventurers gravitate to the high-speed attractions, making it a one-stop summer escape with a resort feel.
Rosemeade Rainforest Aquatic Complex –
Carrollton
1334 E. Rosemeade Parkway, Carrollton, TX 75007 cityofcarrollton.com/departments/departments-g-p/parks-recreation/aquatics
This rainforest-themed aquatic complex packs in a zero-depth entry pool, lazy river, dump bucket, and tall slides that appeal to both cautious kids and fearless tweens. Lush theming and a variety of play features give it the feel of a compact water park, without the drive or giant price tag, perfect for half-day outings.
Exclusive to Gaylord Texan guests, this 10-acre western-themed water park feels like a true resort getaway with a lazy river, slides, sun decks, and lawn games. Families can split time between poolside fun and exploring the resort’s indoor atriums, restaurants, and seasonal activities, turning a simple swim day into a fullblown staycation.
TAKE THE Cool Off With Wet and Wild Water Parks
PLUNGE
Great Wolf Lodge Water Park – Grapevine
100 Great Wolf Drive, Grapevine, TX 76051 | greatwolf.com/grapevine
Great Wolf Lodge’s massive 80,000-square-foot indoor water park stays at a comfy 84 degrees year-round, making it ideal for any-weather family fun. From big-name slides like Howlin’ Tornado to a lazy river, wave pool, and kiddie zones, plus on-site arcade, dining, and themed suites, it’s an easy “park once and play all weekend” option.
Hawaiian Falls – Roanoke
290 W. Byron Nelson Boulevard, Roanoke, TX 76262 | hfalls.com
Hawaiian Falls Roanoke blends community charm with serious water attractions, including winding slides, family raft rides, and shallow play areas for younger swimmers. The laid-back island theme, frequent special events, and manageable size make it especially appealing for families who want big fun without feeling overwhelmed by a mega-park.
Water Works Park – Denton
2400 Long Road, Denton, TX 76208 | dentonwaterworks.com
Denton’s Water Works Park offers something for every age, with giant slides, toddler slides, an indoor slide, lazy river, children’s play pool, and even sand volleyball. Families appreciate the balance of thrills and relaxed spaces, plus cabanas and concessions that make it easy to settle in for a full day of affordable summer fun.
Old Town Splash Park – Lewisville
535 W. College Street, Lewisville, TX 75057 | cityoflewisville.com (search “Old Town Splash Park”)
Tucked into charming Old Town Lewisville, this compact splash park is perfect for younger kids who love geysers, sprayers, and plenty of room to run without deep water. Parents enjoy the easy parking, nearby eateries, and the chance to pair water play with exploring downtown events, concerts, and public art just steps away.
Right in town, the Community Activity Center’s outdoor water park features two large water slides, a lazy river, zero-depth activity pool with tot slides, and a huge dumping bucket. Families love the convenience, shaded areas, and mix of play features that let toddlers splash, teens slide, and adults float within easy view of each other.
Epic Waters Indoor Waterpark – Grand Prairie
2970 Epic Place, Grand Prairie, TX 75052 | epicwatersgp.com
Epic Waters bills itself as a “cruise ship on land,” with indoor slides, a lazy river, wave pool, and arcade all under one giant retractable roof. Families appreciate the weatherproof fun, on-site dining, and variety of thrills and shallow play areas that make it an easy all-day outing for mixed-age groups.
ESSENTIALS water play day
Wby Murray Media Group
ater play days are a summer tradition. Whether you’re heading to the beach, the lake, the pool, or a water park, it’s a great way to relax and enjoy the sun and surf. To have fun and be comfortable, be sure to pack these essentials.
Sunscreen
Protecting your skin from harmful UV rays is crucial, so pack a broad-spectrum, waterproof sunscreen with at least SPF 30 or higher. Reapply frequently.
Beach towel
A beach towel is essential for laying on the sand, drying off after a swim, or wrapping around yourself if it gets chilly. Turkish towels are great if space is limited, and microfiber is more sand resistant.
Swimsuit
Pack the swimsuit that makes you feel comfortable — a onepiece, bikini, or full-coverage shirt/short set. Wear what makes you happy.
Sunglasses
Protect your eyes with sunglasses that offer 100% UV protection, blocking both UVA and UVB rays. Polarized will reduce glare, which is great if you’re around water.
Beach bag
A spacious beach bag to carry all the essentials should also be waterproof and dry quickly. Organization pockets help, as does the ability to stand on its own and not trap sand.
Water
The CDC recommends each person drinks 8 oz. water every 15-20 minutes or 24-32 oz. per hour when outside in the sun. Sip frequently, and watch for signs of dehydration.
Snacks
Pack some snacks like fruit, nuts, granola bars, or sandwiches to fuel your beach day.
Hat
A wide-brimmed hat can provide extra protection for your face and neck against the sun.
Flip-flops/sandals
A comfortable pair of flip-flops or sandals are easy to slip on and off for a walk on the sand. Waterproof are even better if you’re heading to a waterpark.
Beach umbrella or canopy
If you want to take a break from the sun, consider bringing an umbrella or canopy for some shade.
SUMMER 2026
CHARMING & MAIN
charmingandmain.com hello@charmingandmain.com
Local pickup at 308 FM1830, Ste. 18A Argyle, TX 76226
Charming & Main is an Argyle-based online boutique bringing you classic, ready-to-wear looks for summer and all your red, white, and blue moments. Our Made for the Fourth collection focuses on timeless Americana with denim, easy tops, dresses, skirts, and lightweight layers in patriotic hues — perfect for everything from Fourth of July celebrations to summer fireworks and everyday plans.
We’re online only but always open, with easy local pickup on FM1830 and detailed sizing guidance to help you find the perfect fit. Shop anytime at charmingandmain.com — where style is made simple.
Spring and summer fashion are all about easy, elevated pieces that feel light, fresh, and effortlessly chic. This season, we’re loving soft colors, relaxed silhouettes, playful textures, and styles that can take you from brunch with friends to warm summer nights with ease. At Mainstream Boutique, every piece is thoughtfully handpicked to help women feel confident, comfortable, and uniquely themselves.
Mainstream Boutique is a place where women can connect, feel inspired, and be welcomed. We believe fashion should empower you to show up confidently in every season of life while creating a community that feels supportive, uplifting, and fun. Whether you’re refreshing your wardrobe or simply stopping in for a smile and some style inspiration, we can’t wait to welcome you in.
FASHION GUIDE
CLOUD AND FEATHER BOUTIQUE
714.240.2897
CloudAndFeather.com
2660 Justin Rd., Ste. 100 | Bartonville, TX 76226
(Located inside Cloud 9 Salon and Spa)
Effortlessly chic and perfect for sunny summer days, this playful polka dot dress is the kind of piece you’ll reach for again and again. Whether you’re heading to brunch with friends, packing for a summer getaway, strolling through a weekend market, or enjoying a casual day out, this look brings easy style with a feminine touch. Paired with simple sandals and a woven sun hat, it’s the perfect blend of comfort, charm, and everyday elegance. Discover this look and so much more at Cloud & Feather Boutique inside Cloud 9 Salon — your destination for beautifully curated fashion, accessories, gifts, seasonal décor, and all the little details that make every season feel special.
TBK — THE BEES KNEES CLOTHING & GIFT BOUTIQUE
940.294.6743
NOW LOCATED AT: 606 US 377 N. | Argyle, TX 76226
tbkTheBeesKnees.com
TBK – The Bees Knees is a women’s clothing, gift, and lifestyle boutique located in the heart of Argyle, Texas. Our newly opened storefront combines effortless fashion, unique gifting, and a growing Mahjong community under one roof. This season, we’re embracing vibrant colors, bold prints, and easy-to-wear pieces that help women feel confident and stylish every day. Beyond shopping, TBK offers Mahjong lessons, open play, leagues, and curated events designed to bring women together through connection and community. Whether you’re refreshing your wardrobe, finding the perfect gift, or gathering around a Mahjong table, TBK is the place for you.
Challenge Rising to the
by Craig Hewitt
The United Way — it’s perhaps one of the most well-known nonprofits in the world, yet few of us know just how much this amazing organization does or how hard they work behind the scenes to make a difference in our communities. Take United Way of Denton County for example. As a locally governed affiliate of the global United Way network, the organization has spent more than 70 years working in Denton County to identify the community’s most pressing needs and to seek comprehensive solutions to address them.
In 2025 alone, the United Way of Denton County touched the lives of 55,640 people throughout our community. Yet this feat isn’t accomplished by just one organization, and that’s the point. This long-standing local nonprofit brings together conscientious donors, businesses, volunteers, governments, and partner agencies across Denton County for the singular purpose of improving life for our residents.
“We’re not trying to boil the ocean,” says Gary Henderson, the president and CEO of the United Way of Denton. “But by partnering with other agencies, we can mobilize community resources so that everyone can thrive.”
GUIDED BY FIRSTHAND EXPERIENCE
With decades of experience in the nonprofit field, Gary was attracted to the United Way because of the umbrella of services the organization provides. Before he took his current role, he served as the CEO for Communities in Schools of North Texas, where he saw how at-risk students were the victims of a ripple effect caused by underlying issues. Factors such as housing insecurity, food scarcity, and mental health issues all contribute to a systemic problem that affects the community as a whole.
Gary realized that simply addressing one issue alone doesn’t necessarily fix the root of the problem. Through partner agencies, impact grants, direct services, and collaborative initiatives, United Way of Denton County helps fill service gaps and coordinate long-term solutions for the community. These collective efforts help support children and families, veterans, people experiencing homelessness, and residents affected by mental health challenges, while also helping connect neighbors to local resources.
“As Denton County continues to grow, we all need to work together,” he emphasized, pointing to the fact that as of 2025, Denton County is now home to over a million residents.
| photos courtesy of United Way Denton County
GETTING TO THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM
Identifying who is at risk is a challenge unto itself. One of the methods the United Way employs is called the ALICE concept, an acronym which stands for “asset limited, income constrained, employed.” This model indicates that 1 in 3 households in Denton County fell below the sustainable survival rate. Single moms and seniors represent the most fragile households of this demographic.
“When we brought the ALICE concept to Denton County, we started to see the complexity of the issue,” Henderson shared. “Imagine being a single mom who works all day to care for children, pay rent, healthcare, groceries, and other necessities. It’s not hard to see how one misfortune could be disastrous.”
The organization also recognized the correlation of childhood literacy to graduation and incarceration rates. Children who aren’t proficient in reading by 3rd grade are four times more likely to drop out of high school. This remains one of the primary reasons the United Way is so dedicated to providing resources for at-risk and economically disadvantaged students.
On September 10, 2026, the organization will host the Rise & UNITE Community Impact Breakfast designed to bring the community together to take action on finding solutions. If you are interested in getting involved, scan the QR or visit: UnitedWayDenton.org/Breakfast
By acting as a backbone organization for collaborative efforts when no single nonprofit can solve an issue alone, the United Way of Denton County rallies and aligns community stakeholders around needs identified through their local research. Through their efforts, the United Way of Denton County is providing not only clarity but something even more gravely needed—hope.
“We need to deliver programs in a non-traditional way,” Gary said.
By strengthening local resilience, advancing health, supporting youth, and building financial security, the United Way of Denton County helps residents navigate challenging situations and builds a stronger community through shared action. For this reason, you are encouraged to join their cause, either by donating or volunteering in a variety of ways.
UNITED IS THE WAY
THE WORLD
IS COMING
by Murray Media Group
Soccer fans across North Texas are gearing up for one of the biggest sporting events in the world as the FIFA World Cup 2026 heads to North America. For the first time in history, the tournament is being co-hosted by three countries — the United States, Mexico, and Canada. Among the selected host cities, the Dallas-Fort Worth area is expected to take center stage, with matches being played at AT&T Stadium in Arlington. (Because of FIFA sponsorship rules, it’s Dallas Stadium for the duration of the World Cup.)
The FIFA World Cup is far more than just a soccer tournament. Organized by Fédération Internationale de Football Association, it is the largest and most watched sporting event on the planet, bringing together the best men’s national teams from around the globe every four years. Since the inaugural tournament in 1930, the World Cup has become a celebration of culture, national pride, and international unity through sport. The only interruptions came during World War II, when the tournaments scheduled for 1942 and 1946 were canceled.
The 2026 tournament, running from June 11 to July 19, is expected to be historic for several reasons. Not only is it the first World Cup hosted by three nations, but it will also feature an expanded format with 48 teams instead of the traditional 32. That means more matches, more fans, and more opportunities for communities across to experience the excitement. Even for those who aren’t diehard soccer
fans, the World Cup atmosphere is unlike anything else. Streets fill with fans waving flags, restaurants and entertainment venues transform into watch-party destinations, and communities unite behind the energy of the event. In North Texas, local venues are already preparing for the crowds and celebrations that will follow.
Popular entertainment destinations like Grandscape and Cosm are expected to become major gathering spots for watch parties, offering massive screens, food, drinks, and a festival-like environment where fans can cheer together. Even casual viewers often find themselves swept up in the excitement, especially during dramatic late-game moments or international rivalries.
For many local families, the tournament also offers an opportunity to introduce children to the global side of sports. Soccer continues to grow rapidly in popularity throughout Denton County, with youth leagues and community programs seeing record participation in recent years.
The World Cup provides a rare chance for these young athletes to witness the sport’s highest level practically in their own backyard.
One of the biggest questions for Denton County residents will be transportation to Arlington during tournament season. While traffic is expected to be intense around the stadium, there are convenient public transit options available using the Dallas Area Rapid Transit system.
Residents can begin by driving to nearby DART rail stations such as North Carrollton/Frankford Station or Trinity Mills Station. From there, travelers can ride the Green or Orange Line into downtown Dallas, then connect to Trinity Railway Express (TRE) service toward Arlington and Fort Worth. While Arlington does not currently have a direct rail station at AT&T Stadium, shuttle services and rideshare options are expected to be heavily utilized between TRE stops and the stadium district during World Cup events.
For many fans, simply being part of the atmosphere will be worth the trip. The World Cup creates memories that span generations, whether someone attends a match in person, gathers with friends at a local watch party, or simply enjoys the excitement spreading across the Metroplex.
With international visitors arriving from around the world and North Texas positioned as one of the tournament’s premier host regions, the summer of 2026 promises to be unforgettable.
From Arlington stadium lights to Denton County watch parties, the FIFA World Cup is set to bring the world together right here in our own community.
D ental Insuran c e & the standard of care
by Country Lakes Family Dental
Insurance seems to be quite a hot topic these days. Whether it is medical, dental, or, especially in North Texas, roofing insurance, there is no doubt that trying to stay ahead of the ever-changing policies and regulations seems to require a scholar’s level of legwork. While different types of insurance operate differently based on their purpose, it is important to understand the true nature of its function — a third-party payer.
The reason this is significant is because — especially in healthcare — it is the job of insurance to reimburse for benefits, not diagnose the disease. The reason this can complicate issues is evident in the way that you, as a patient, make a decision about your health. Though many diseases and disorders have options in regards to how they are treated, the diagnosis and optimal treatment do not and should not change based on the benefits of
insurance. The bottom line is insurance benefits and medical diagnosis are not the same thing.
From a provider's position, the balance is standard of care versus insurance claim requirements. The standard of care in any medical practice is governed by overseeing medical entities. In many cases, these standards include preventative practices that thwart irreversible damage. Too often, insurance benefits do not match these standards, whether they require signs of damage already visible, or if the frequency they allow treatment or diagnosis tools like radiographs to be performed. A patient and health provider should never compromise the standard of care to match claim requirements.
Finally, what many patients may not understand are cases of insurance fraud. Not only should providers not receive
benefits for unnecessary procedures, but in general, providers must treat all patients and responsible parties the same. It is outside the terms of insurance to not collect certain portions from some patients and not others.
While most offices work diligently to ensure taking the most advantage of insurance benefits, the priority is always your overall health. As always, be sure to have these conversations with you provider to better understand your care.
SUMMER THEMES
Party
BRING VARIETY TO YOUR GATHERINGS
by Murray Media Group
LEMONADE PARTY
Adult and child friendly, this is the perfect party to feature regular and spiked lemonade. Create a lemonade stand and the kids can take turns serving everyone! Design a photo backdrop stage so everyone can make memories of this fun party theme!
PICNIC PARTY
The beach and the ocean are lovely, and what better way to celebrate summertime by enjoying a big picnic with your friends and family. Decorate your space with fresh flowers, and spread out some pillows to go along with your floor blanket to make a cozy picnic space. Make a fruit and cheese board to go with the picnic supplies, along with fresh squeezed juices.
ICE CREAM PARTY
This is the perfect party for both kids and adults as everyone loves ice cream in the summertime. You can buy premade waffle cones and ice cream or you can buy a waffle cone maker and ice cream maker for a more eventful party.
YARD GAME PARTY
Yard games can be a lot of fun, especially at a summertime party. Games could be a water balloon toss, treasure hunt, giant tictac-toe, or even the ever popular cornhole. With the perfect summer playlist, this is the ultimate party theme!
MIXOLOGY PARTY
Do you and your friends love having fancy cocktails on a night out? Then this is the perfect party for you! For this party, everyone finds a recipe inspired by the flavors and colors of summer, brings the ingredients and garnishes, and makes a batch for everyone to try! Feature some fun games like a blind taste-test and vote on your favorites at the end. And don’t forget to bring extra copies for a recipe swap, and, of course, snacks to soak up all that alcohol!
CHRISTMAS IN JULY PARTY
Who doesn’t want to see Santa Claus in a Hawaiian shirt? Set up a non-traditional tree using beach volleyballs and cocktail umbrellas. Mix up your decor by using tropical plants instead of evergreen wreaths. Don't forget the milk & cookies!
LUAU PARTY
If you can’t make it to Hawaii this year, why not bring Hawaii to you! Decorate using pineapples and flowers, grass skirts, or a vintage Hawaii travel poster. Make sure your tiki bar is equipped with tiki mugs or coconut cups.
BBQ PARTY
Whether you go potluck-style or prep all the ingredients the night before, there is no better end of summer party than a BBQ. Create a country music playlist to go with the theme, and make sure to have plenty of fun games like cornhole available.
BLOCKBUSTER PARTY
Experience the magic of cinema under the starry night sky at our outdoor movie night extravaganza. Grab a blanket, cozy up with friends, and enjoy blockbuster hits on a giant screen. Indulge in gourmet popcorn, savor delicious snacks, and create unforgettable memories under the moonlit ambiance.
BACKYARD BOHO PARTY
Comfort is key at this party. The playlist and decorations are most important for this gathering. Choose songs that were popular in the Hippie era, and make sure there are plenty of floor blankets and pillows so people can mix and mingle in comfort. String up fairy lights for ambiance. Feature a face painting station so everyone can look like a bohemian goddess, or like you are going to a music festival. Set out a bucket of fresh flowers so guests can make their own crowns.
5 THINGS TO TRY
Make a day of it with these five excursions that deliver adventure close to home.
Wander through lush habitats filled with giraffes, big cats, and playful primates at one of the nation’s topranked zoos. Don’t miss the zoo’s adorable baby elephants, Lady Bird and Sam Houston, delighting visitors as they splash, explore, and charm crowds.
Fort Worth Zoo
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by Craig Hewitt
Roam dinosaur skeletons, sparkling gems, and handson science exhibits at the Perot, a perfect outing for curious kids and adults alike. Then, step outside to Klyde Warren Park for food trucks, lawn games, and people-watching under the downtown skyline.
Perot Museum
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Craft an artsy outing in the Dallas Arts District, home to the Dallas Museum of Art, the Crow Museum of Asian Art, and performing arts venues. After browsing galleries, linger over cocktails or dinner at a nearby rooftop bar, soaking in skyline views.
Dallas Arts District
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Meow Wolf
Meow Wolf is an immersive experience at Grapevine Mills, where interactive rooms and glowing installations make you feel like you’ve stepped into a video game. Afterward, head to Historic Downtown Grapevine for wine tastings, boutiques, shops, and dinner. meowwolf.com
For an easy outdoor adventure, let an outfitter guide you down a calm stretch of the Trinity, where you can paddle, chat, and enjoy skyline or greenbelt views from the water. After working up an appetite, indulge on tacos or burgers at a nearby riverside restaurant.
Trinity River
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photo courtesy Fort Worth Zoo social media
photo courtesy Meow Wolf Grapevine social media
photo courtesy Perot Museum social media
in pediatrics, including 12 years in the Navy as a pediatrician at Balboa hospital, and then with the Marines at Twentynine Palms. She considers herself privileged to be part of the journey of each child’s life, celebrating all the milestones between infancy and high school graduation.
The small community setting of Argyle Pediatrics gives Dr. Jones the ability to devote her full attention to children and their family’s needs. She and her dedicated staff are committed to helping parents raise happy, healthy children.
She is honored to be named the Best Pediatrician of Denton County for 2025!
photos courtesy of Ali Paraskevopoulos
Where the Hills Came Alive
Education in Adventure & Independence
by Ali Paraskevopoulos
The summer before my junior year of college, I got on a plane by myself and left North America for the very first time. After a flight I thought only existed in movies, I landed In Vienna, Austria, which is where I would call home for the next two months.
I got the amazing opportunity to study psychology in the birthplace of many of the greatest psychologists, and to this day, I refer to studying abroad as one of the best experiences of my life.
Does your student think they want to study abroad, or are you encouraging your new college kid to consider it? Here's a few things to help you with the decision.
I spent two months in Austria, but the study abroad opportunities — countries, length of stay, and courses — are truly endless, so first and foremost, find a program that works best for you!
Although my college doesn't have a dedicated program abroad — like my sister's which owns a manor house in England — it does have an international affairs office (most colleges do). They were the ones who made sure my classes would transfer back over, and more importantly, that I wasn't just hopping on a plane and hoping for the best.
My program was with IES, the Institute for the International Education of Students, which is one of many organizations that have programs going everywhere all-year round. Depending on your school, they’ve most likely worked with a lot of these programs before.
In Vienna, I lived in the more suburban 5th District, with five roommates from around the country — all of which I met the day that I arrived.
Because IES is dedicated to US students abroad, everything was designed to help. From the minute I stepped off the plane, there was someone who knew exactly what I was supposed to do and was able to direct me in doing it. Before I went to my apartment for the first time, a group of people helped me fill out my residency forms, get in contact with the head of the program in Vienna as well as the home office back in the US, and gave me a subway card for the rest of my trip.
We also had someone on-call at all times who spoke German in case something went wrong. I fell off a rental electric scooter in Prague, and a staff member took me to the ER to make sure I didn’t break my wrist and then walked me back to my apartment after.
When it came to classes, I only had two — beginners German and a psychology in Vienna class, where we took field trips around the city to see where some of the great psychologists lived (shockingly, a lot of their homes are now museums).
However, I learned more by living my dayto-day life in a new country than I did in a
classroom. Classes were in the 1st District, which is in the most metropolitan center of Vienna. I had a subway pass to take the train from my apartment to classes, as well as anywhere else I wanted to go.
As someone who was born and raised in Flower Mound, I had never used a subway like I did while I was there. I learned how to navigate the rail system, how to order coffee and basic foods in German. I also booked flights for myself and planned all my own activities in a way I never had before. I’ve always been relatively independent, but it in no way did it compare to the independence I felt in Vienna.
Because I was in Europe, I also had the opportunity to easily travel to other countries, which I did just about every chance I got. I ended up going to six different countries. I rode across country lines in a double decker bus, ate breakfast in a German border town next to the bluest water I'd ever seen, tried so many different foods, and learned a lot about the equivalence of different world currencies.
My favorite side quest was to Salzburg, Austria, which is where they filmed parts of the Sound of Music. It’s a town right out of a storybook, and my friend and I climbed a mountain to see the beautiful Sound of Music hills — they were definitely alive.
Parents, if your kid wants to study abroad, try not to stress too much. With a reputable program, everything is laid out in a way to help your student succeed and stay safe in a new environment. The professors and facilitators have done this before, know what to expect, and how to best help your kid. Plus, it can give you a great excuse to go visit another country yourself and explore a little with your family.
Overall, I wouldn’t trade my study abroad experience for the world, I’m so glad I ended up where I did, when I did, with the people that I did. So if you’re on the fence, I say go for it. You won’t regret it. Travel smart, and stay safe!
Bussi, Baba! (Kisses, Goodbye)
GET THE MOST OUT OF YOUR
There’s a myth that sometimes keeps people from being motivated to start working out. It’s a misconception of how long it takes to get into shape. People hear constantly that you can’t expect overnight results from exercise. While this is true, it’s also true that when you work out the right way, you can start to see some major changes in as little as six weeks.
That’s right, six weeks of working out consistently the right way, can result in visible changes quickly.
Did you notice the word “consistency” there? That’s one of the important factors in quick results. The other important factor is working out the right way.
When you join Outlaw FitCamp, it will help you with workout consistency and our certified personal trainers will teach you the best workout methods for quick results. You’ll be surprised to see changes in about six weeks when you start an Outlaw FitCamp program.
GETTING THE MOST FROM YOUR WORKOUT
The key to seeing changes quickly is to maximize your workouts. Outlaw FitCamp’s personal trainers know how.
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by Jesse J. Leyva, Owner of Outlaw Fitcamp
FULL-BODY WORKOUT PLANS
Outlaw FitCamp group classes hit each muscle group every week to give you the maximum results in the shortest time. We have fitness classes on different days of each week that concentrate on all the muscle groups. Upper-body day includes chest, arms, and core. There’s a class for back and shoulders, a leg day for glutes, quads, hamstrings, and calves, and a core day. You can read more about all our Outlaw FitCamp classes by visiting our website.
CARDIO
With our functional interval training style, you’ll get an effective workout in a shorter amount of time. In fact, with a few minor adjustments, you can make shorter workouts even more effective than longer ones! Outlaw FitCamp get quicker results using these training methods:
HIIT (HIGH INTENSITY INTERVAL TRAINING)
HIIT workouts mix short bursts of activity with even shorter rest periods. Ideally, you work to your maximum capacity during the short bursts of activity. HIIT workouts are ideal for shorter workouts and faster results — since you’re working out to your maximum level, you burn more calories in less time. Even a shorter workout with HIIT can burn up to 30 percent more calories than a moderate-intensity workout.
Our fitness classes are designed to give you a good cardio workout because we know that keeping your heart rate up helps burn more calories—and this helps you get those quick results. Raising your heart rate to just 50 percent of its maximum level results in 85 percent of the calories you burn coming from fat, and that’s exactly what you want! It’s a well-known and simple concept, but it bears repeating — the more calories you burn above the total you get from what you eat each day, the more weight you will lose or keep off. And cardio helps you burn those calories.
MINIMIZE TIME BETWEEN SETS
Our classes help you minimize the time between sets. Most of us take longer breaks than we really need. This unnecessarily lengthens your workout time without added benefit of recovery.
At Outlaw FitCamp, we have knowledgeable, certified personal trainers with classes and programs to help meet your fitness goals as quickly as possible. Call us today to see how Outlaw FitCamp can help you see the results you want — just in time for summer!
to pursue your curiosity
Plant Parenting Keeping Houseplants Alive without a Green Thumb
Life gets busy, routines take over, and many of us quietly put our interests on hold. Open Invitation is a feature that encourages readers to reconnect with curiosity by exploring hobbies, activities, and passions they’ve always wanted to try — without the intimidation factor. Each feature, we’ll break down the basics, offer beginner-friendly guidance, and prove it’s never too late to start something new. | by Murray Media Group
Walk through any garden center this time of year, and it’s hard not to get tempted. Lush fiddle leaf figs. Tiny pots of cheerful, teeny, tiny succulents. Hanging baskets overflowing with vines. Indoor gardening looks beautiful, calming, and somehow like the kind of hobby people who have their lives together do.
Then reality sets in. What kind of dirt do you buy? How often do you water them? Why did that cute little plant die three days after I brought it home?
If you’ve always wanted to become a plant person but think you don’t have a green thumb, the good news is that most plant owners aren’t naturally gifted. They just learned a few basics.
First Things First: What Do Houseplants Need?
The good news is plants are not as complicated as Instagram makes them seem. Most houseplants need just a few things in order to survive — and thrive:
LIGHT — This is usually the biggest factor to whether your plant survives. Some plants thrive beside bright windows, while others tolerate darker rooms. Before buying anything, figure out where your plant will live. Remember: "Low light tolerant" does NOT mean "no light."
A good rule to know — If you could comfortably read a book there during the day without turning on lights, many beginner plants can probably survive there.
WATER — Ironically, most beginner plant deaths happen from too much love, not
too little. Many plants prefer drying out between waterings.
PROPER DRAINAGE — Pots without drainage holes can create problems fast. Excess water needs somewhere to go.
THE RIGHT SOIL — You don’t need a bunch of specialty mixes. A simple indoor potting mix will work for most beginner plants.
Which Plants Are Easiest for Beginners?
Skip the dramatic, high-maintenance plants until you feel more confident, and start with simple and forgiving — snake plants, pothos, ZZ plants, and spider plants. See the sidebar for info.
What about a succulent? Succulents have a reputation for being easy because they require less watering. The problem is that they often need more sunlight than people realize. If your home has bright south-facing windows, succulents can work well.
Better Beginner Plants for Pet Owners
Beginner favorites snake plants, pothos, and ZZ plants can be toxic if chewed by dogs or cats. If you have curious pets, consider pet-friendly options like spider plants or a parlor palm (easy-ish for beginners), calathea (slightly fussier), areca palm (larger statement plant), or african violet (which is good for small spaces).
Where To Shop Locally
Southern Denton County has plenty of options for finding houseplants. Home Depot and Lowe's are options, but shop locally — and get specialized care — at Calloway's Nursery in Flower Mound, Lewisville, or Denton; Meador's Garden Center in Denton; and Tractor Supply in Bartonville. Also check out True Leaf Studio in Denton for coffee, plants, and plant classes.
Another great option is to check out farmer's markets and pop-up plant vendors, where you may find unique varieties of plants, get helpful advice from growers, and support local small businesses.
Check Out the Plant First
Choose the healthiest-looking plant you can find. Look for firm leaves, avoid yellowing or mushy growth, and skip anything sitting in swampy soil. Do a quick check for pests. Remember, your first plant
should make success easier, not harder. Buy from the area of the store where plants look actively maintained. If an entire section looks neglected, move on.
What Else Do You Need?
Thankfully, not much — one plant, a pot with a drainage hole, indoor potting soil, an optional small watering can, and some patience. That's honestly enough.
What Plant Did I Buy?
Take advantage of the helpful plant people at the garden center — a passionate plant person loves to help you become a plant person, too. If your plant starts looking sickly, snap a few photos and show them. They might be able to help.
You can also get online. Plant Net is free and great for identification. Picture This is beginner friendly. And Google Lens is good for quick identification.
Your First Challenge
1. Start with one plant. Put it where you'll see it everyday.
2. Keep it alive for one month.
3. Decide if you want another plant.
Becoming a plant person rarely happens all at once. Usually, it starts with one little pot on a windowsill.
Best Beginner-Friendly plants
Snake Plant "Ignore
Me"
LIGHT: Bright indirect light is best, but also tolerates low light. Can survive in darker rooms than many plants.
WATER: Water only when soil is completely dry, usually 2-4 weeks, and even less in winter.
BEGINNER RULE: If you're wondering, "Should I water it?" the answer is usually wait.
BIGGEST MISTAKE: overwatering.
Pothos
"Check on me Occasionally"
LIGHT: Medium to bright indirect light is best, but it tolerates lower light. Avoid intense direct afternoon sun.
WATER: Water when the top inch or two of soil feels dry, every 1-2 weeks.
BEGINNER RULE: Stick your finger into the soil. Dry? Water. Damp? Wait.
BIGGEST MISTAKE: Keeping soil constantly wet.
ZZ Plant
"Seriously, ignore me"
(Zamioculcas zamiifolia — thankfully everyone calls it ZZ)
LIGHT: Thrives in bright indirect light. Also extremely tolerant of lower light, making it one of the best office plants
WATER: Let soil dry almost completely, every 2-4 weeks.
BEGINNER RULE: ZZ plants prefer neglect over attention.
BIGGEST MISTAKE: Treating it like a thirsty tropical plant.
Spider Plant
"I'll let you know when I'm thirsty"
LIGHT: Bright, indirect light is ideal. Can tolerate medium light. Avoid direct sun.
WATER: Water when the top inch or two of soil feels dry, every 1-2 weeks.
BEGINNER RULE: If the soil feels slightly damp, wait a few more days before watering.
BIGGEST MISTAKE: Overwatering or a pot without drainage.
The Murray Media Group Art Team tries to keep the office monstera alive by repotting.
Denton County: Focused on the Future
With just over 1.069 million people and almost 90 people moving in each day, Denton County remains focused on the important issues of economic development, transportation, public safety, and more to ensure the best use of taxpayer dollars while providing quality of life.
Our fast-growing population demands that we continue to plan, not months but years in advance, to accommodate the tens of thousands of newcomers choosing to move here every single year.
In 2024, we added an estimated 31,635 to our population, the fourth highest among 16 North Central Texas counties. The top three were Collin, Dallas, and Tarrant.
In the past year, we’ve brought more than $2 billion in major investments and more than 3,000 jobs into the county. With plentiful housing stock, an educated civilian workforce, and a transportation
system that keeps commutes under 30 minutes, we offer a quality of life that few can match.
Funds from a recent $650 million transportation bond package continue to lay the groundwork for improvements along interstates 35W and 35E – two major transportation and development corridors in our region – as well as helping our communities with infrastructure costs to support their transportation initiatives.
The Denton County Commissioners Court has made a concerted effort in recent years to bolster our law enforcement for public safety and plan for future growth with our upcoming Denton County Civil Courts Building while maintaining a conservative approach in our budgeting practices.
In fact, S&P Global Ratings in late May once again reaffirmed our AAA long-term rating on limited-tax debt outstanding,
indicating the stable outlook reflects that we maintain a favorable reserve position, underpinned by strong tax base growth and our historical use of conversative budgeting practices.
We do this while also keeping our tax rate the lowest it has been since 1986 – 40 years ago. As we delve into our budget process for Fiscal Year 2027, a key factor we consider is to continue our momentum while keeping taxpayers top of mind.
PAYING TRIBUTE TO OUR DADS
Father’s Day is June 21, and it is the perfect time to pay tribute to the men in our lives who have given us guidance and demonstrated daily what it takes to be supportive and strong.
My father, Sidney Eads, is a perfect example of someone who quietly stands strong on what he believes while supporting us in all that we do. I’m fortunate to have a dad like him, one who – to this day – will go out of his way to help someone or make them smile. Happy Father’s Day, Dad, and to all the fathers out there.
photo courtesy of Denton County social media
Road Trip Movie Picks
Spark an Adventure Without Leaving Your Couch
by Kelly Murray
There’s nothing like a good roadtrip movie to make you want to toss some snacks in a bag, argue over the playlist, and see where the highway takes you.
These are the movies that feel like vacation even if you never leave the couch — perfect for families with bigger kids and teens who are dreaming about their own adventures someday.
This list leans into PG and PG-13 picks with heart, humor, and wide-open roads. Some are truly family films, others are better for an “older kids and parents” night, but all of them deliver that itch to go somewhere new and make a memory or two along the way.
RV (2006, PG)
A stressed-out dad secretly swaps the family’s tropical vacation for an RV road trip to Colorado so he can squeeze in a work meeting — what could possibly go wrong?
Why watch: It’s goofy, clean family fun with classic road-trip mishaps that somehow bring everyone closer by the end.
Are We There Yet? (2005, PG)
A bachelor trying to impress a single mom agrees to drive her two kids on a long road trip, only to discover they are absolutely determined to chase him off.
Why watch: It’s silly, kid-centered chaos with a sweet “maybe this guy is family material” heart underneath.
Little Miss Sunshine (2006, PG-13)
A wonderfully imperfect family piles into a yellow VW bus to drive their young daughter to a beauty pageant, breakdowns — emotional and mechanical — very much included.
Why watch: Best for older teens, it’s quirky, heartfelt, and a reminder that the most memorable trips are rarely the smooth ones.
Cars (2006, G)
A hotshot race car gets stranded on old Route 66 and has to slow down long enough to actually see the town — and people — around him.
Why watch: Even though it’s animated, it’s a fantastic family-night pick that celebrates small towns, friendship, and the joy of the journey.
The Bucket List (2007, PG-13)
Two strangers sharing a hospital room decide to hit the road — and the skies — to chase a list of “someday” adventures while they still can.
Why watch: It’s more “grown-up family” viewing, but the travel scenes and life-lessons-in-disguise will stick with older teens and parents alike.
Finding Dory (2016, PG)
This time, the road trip happens underwater as forgetful, determined Dory sets out
across the ocean to find the family she lost.
Why watch: It’s bright, funny, and surprisingly moving — a great choice for when you want adventure, laughs, and a gentle tug at the heartstrings.
Homeward Bound: The Incredible Journey (1993, G)
Two dogs and a cat cross mountains, rivers, and all kinds of wilderness to find their humans again when they think they’ve been left behind.
Why watch: It’s technically a “pet road trip,” but the scenery, loyalty, and big reunion energy make it perfect for all ages.
Mr. Bean’s Holiday (2007, G)
After winning a trip to France, Mr. Bean turns a simple journey to Cannes into a string of ridiculous detours, misunderstandings, and laugh-out-loud moments.
Why watch: Almost no dialogue, tons of
physical comedy — great when you want something light that the whole family can giggle through.
The Wizard of Oz (1939, PG)
A Kansas girl’s “road trip” just happens to involve a tornado, a yellow brick road, and a few very unusual travel companions.
Why watch: It’s a classic for a reason, and it doubles as a conversation starter about courage, home, and choosing your path.
Up (2009, PG)
A retired balloon salesman turns his house into a makeshift airship and accidentally takes a young Wilderness Explorer along for the ride to South America.
Why watch: Once you’ve survived the first ten minutes, it’s a beautiful, funny, imaginative “road trip in the sky” that celebrates adventure at any age.
Road-Trip Questions to Spark a Chat
Keep the “let’s go” energy rolling on your next real-life drive with a few easy conversation starters:
• If our road trip had a theme song, what would it be?
• What’s your all-time favorite road-trip snack — and what should we pack next time?
• Where is one place you’d love for our family to drive to someday?
• What’s the funniest thing that’s ever happened to you on a trip?
• When you’re grown, what kind of road trips do you hope you’ll take with your own family?
SSheriff Tracy Murphree
SHERIFF'S CORNER
ummer has arrived, bringing many opportunities for celebrations and outdoor activities across Denton County. First, congratulations to all the graduates in the area. Reaching this milestone reflects hard work and dedication, and we celebrate your achievements. As you enjoy this special time with friends and family, remember to do so responsibly. We wish you success in your future pursuits.
Looking ahead to a safe and enjoyable summer, residents are encouraged to stay vigilant on the roads. Children will be out playing, riding bikes, and soaking up the sunshine, so drivers should exercise caution.
Additionally, with increased outdoor activities, it’s important to stay cool, hydrated, and aware of the risks posed by extreme heat, which can cause heat exhaustion, heat stroke, or other heat-related illnesses.
Many families will be traveling during this season. Drivers should obey traffic laws, remain attentive, and drive safely to prevent accidents. Before leaving for vacation, consider precautions such as asking trusted neighbors or family members to watch your home,
The Denon County Sheriff’s Office wishes everyone a safe, healthy, and enjoyable summer. S a f e S u m m e r A h e a d Safe Summer
gathering your mail and packages, ensuring your doors and windows are secure, and using timers or motion-sensor lights to deter burglars. Keep valuables out of sight and avoid sharing your travel plans on social media to protect your belongings. Most importantly, never drink and drive. Always designate a sober driver or call for a ride home. Impaired driving endangers your life and the safety of others sharing the road. By staying cautious and prepared, everyone can enjoy a summer filled with fun, relaxation, and safety.
Build Your Summer Bucket List
by Murray Media Group
Go to the Beach
Visiting the beach — even if it’s at a local lake — is usually on everyone’s summer bucket list. The beach provides a place for families to disconnect from reality and relax from life’s daily stresses. Not only that, but the extra vitamin D can help naturally relieve stress, and the waves create negative ions that aid in stress relief and give a feeling of overall calm in people.
Take a Road Trip
Not everyone has seen all of the U.S. states so taking a multiple state road trip to see two or three will be an adventure all on its own. Create a road trip playlist and schedule out a few strategic stops along the way, and you’ll make a summer memory like no other!
See
Back-To-Back Movies
During the summer when it gets swelteringly hot, seeing back-to-back movies is a great way to escape the heat. You will be sure to have a blast no matter if you choose to go with your significant other, your family, or a group of your best friends.
Visit an Aquarium
If you’re craving the ocean that’s too far away, you might consider seeing sea life another way by going to an aquarium! This is a fun activity for the entire family or it can make for a great date adventure.
Try Something New
Try a new water activity like paddleboarding, jet skis, or kayaking. Many local parks have rental facilities. Or try pickleball, darts, badminton, croquet. Take a class in something you’ve always wanted to learn. Read a book in a different genre than you’re used to. Explore — and expand — your boundaries.
Look at the
Stars
Head out of the Metroplex and find some nature. Set up camp and experience the excitement and adventure. From setting up tents amidst nature to exploring trails and enjoying outdoor activities, every moment is a blend of relaxation and exhilaration. Take time to lay out at night and see the sky in a whole new (lack of) light.
BBQShrimp
Grilled shrimp is, of course, fabulous. Add Homemade BBQ Sauce to put these incredible crustaceans on the culinary map! Grilled of fabulous. put these crustaceans map!
BBQ Sauce
INGREDIENTS
1 tbsp chili powder
1½ tsp salt
1 tsp black pepper
2 cups ketchup
1 cup brown sugar dark
½ cup yellow mustard
½ cup apple cider vinegar
⅓ cup Worcestershire sauce
¼ cup lemon juice
INSTRUCTIONS
¼ cup steak sauce (A-1)
¼ cup molasses
¼ cup honey
1 tsp hot sauce (Tobasco, Franks, etc)
2 tbsp bourbon optional
3 tbsp vegetable oil
1 medium onion chopped
4 cloves garlic minced
Mix chili powder, salt, and pepper in a small bowl. Set aside.
In a large bowl, mix ketchup, brown sugar, mustard, vinegar, Worcestershire sauce, lemon juice, steak sauce, molasses, honey, hot sauce, and bourbon (if using). Set aside.
Heat the oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add onion and sauté, stirring often, until soft, about 4 minutes. Add the garlic and cook for 30 seconds. Add chili mixture and stir until the onions are coated. Sauté about 2 minutes.
Carefully pour the ketchup mixture into the skillet and stir to fully combine. Bring to a simmer for 15 minutes and lower heat.
If desired, strain the sauce through a sieve or colander (if you prefer a smoother version; keep if you like rustic sauce). Let cool and transfer to a vessel with a lid. The sauce will keep in the fridge for up to 2 weeks.
Note: Although you can use the sauce immediately, it tastes better if you let it sit in the fridge for 24 hours to give the spices and acides time to fully integrate.
Kris Longwell and Wesley Loon are Denton County food bloggers. Check out HowToFeedALoon.com to watch them make the Turkey Burrito Bowl.
Grilled Shrimp
EQUIPMENT
Grill (gas, charcoal, or electric)
4 skewers (if using wood, soak in water for 30 minutes to avoid them catching fire)
INGREDIENTS
1 lb extra large shrimp, shells removed & deveined (leave the tail on if desired)
2 tbsp olive oil
1 tbsp Cajun seasoning
3 cups BBQ sauce (2 for basting, 1 for serving)
INSTRUCTIONS
Place the cleaned shrimp in a large bowl. Add the olive oil and Creole (or Cajun) seasoning. Stir to fully coat. Place in the refrigerator for 1 hour.
Fire up your grill.
Add 5 to 6 shrimp to each skewer.
Baste the shrimp on both sides. Carefully place the shrimp over direct heat on your grill. Grill for about 3 minutes per side, basting each side liberally with more BBQ sauce. The shrimp is done when it is pink and lightly charred. (Be careful not to overcook
Serve at once with reserved BBQ sauce on the side. Keep plenty of napkins or paper towels on hand, as BBQ Shrimp are messy!
Expert Tip: Apply the shrimp liberally with the BBQ sauce as it is grilling. The heat will cause the sugar in the sauce to caramelize and make an amazing crispness to the shrimp. It’s okay if the tails char a bit, it adds flavor and looks impressive.
Summer’s Secrets
WATERS! Infused
Dby Kelly Murray
uring these warm summer months, your body’s need for fluid can easily go up twofold with the climbing temps. Too often we reach for more than plain water to hydrate, but grabbing sports drinks, sweetened teas, fruit drinks and sodas for refreshment can add unwanted sugar and calories and also shortchanges you on good nutrition. Infused waters to the rescue! These simple DIY drinks combine the goodness of fresh herbs like mint or basil with fresh fruit and even vegetables in chilled water.
Lemon Mint Water
Here’s an interesting and ultra-refreshing infused water for you. Lemon mint water combines two great aids that can improve your looks while helping you to feel great. Lemons promote digestion and gastric action. They’re excellent at preventing kidney stones as well, and it would be irresponsible to forget that they help clear up your skin. Mint is also a great herb for digestion, so having it with lemon should make a lot of sense. All you have to do is place some lemon slices in a gallon of water with some mint sprigs and let them sit overnight. The next day you will have excellent infused water that can help you lose weight and stay hydrated!
Blueberry Orange Water
If you’re looking for something a little bit different you can try making blueberry orange-infused water. These two flavors meet wonderfully, and these fruit in combination are great for the elimination of free radicals. Take an orange and remove the peel. Carefully cut the orange into slices and place them into a large mason jar. Then add ½ cup of blueberries. Cover with water and place it into the refrigerator overnight. The next day you can try some of your delicious water.
Straw-melon Cucumber
Watermelon pieces are an essential part of summer, so it’s a cool idea to make sure that you find a way to get them into your water. It’s also highly beneficial for circulation. Strawberries, like all berries, are antioxidant-rich, and they have a great taste. To make this infused water, you simply get some freshly cut watermelon cubes and place about 2 oz. into a large jar. Take a ½ cup of halved strawberries and dump them into the jar. Let it sit overnight in the fridge so that it’s nicely chilled for the next day.
by Murray Media
HealthyHomemade Popsicles
Strawberry Cheesecake Protein Pops
Ingredients:
1 cup cottage cheese
1 cup strawberries
2 tbsp cream cheese
1–2 tbsp honey
½ tsp vanilla extract
Elevated but simple.
Directions:
Blend all ingredients until smooth. Pour into popsicle molds and freeze for at least 4 hours.
Protein boost: Approximately 8–10g protein per pop (depending on mold size).
Watermelon Lime Pops
Ingredients:
3 cups seedless watermelon cubes
Juice from 1 lime
1 tbsp honey
Small handful fresh mint
Directions:
Blend until smooth. Pour into molds and freeze.
Tip: Toss in small watermelon chunks before freezing for texture.
The easiest possible summer popsicle.
Chocolate Banana Protein Pops
Ingredients:
2 ripe bananas
1 cup Greek yogurt
2 tbsp cocoa powder
1–2 tbsp maple syrup or honey
Splash of milk
Directions:
Blend until smooth. Pour into molds and freeze 4–6 hours.
Protein boost: About 7–9g protein per pop.
Cold and creamy like frozen chocolate pudding.
Peach Raspberry Cream Pops
Ingredients:
2 peaches, sliced
1 cup raspberries
½ cup vanilla yogurt
1 tbsp honey
Directions:
Blend peaches, yogurt, and honey until smooth. Add raspberries and pulse briefly (leave some texture). Pour into molds and freeze.
Creamy, sweet, and tastes like dessert.
RACK 'EM UP
1. Mount Olympus residents 5. Band booking
Eye of ____ and toe of frog (ingredients in witches' brew)
12. Writer Roberts or Ephron
13. Leaks out slowly
15. Kid's boo-boo
16. Peter Lorre and Burgess Meredith
19. Shirt stiffener
20. Flurry's in Flo-Mo - on Lakeside or Long Prairie
21. Moo goo____ pan
22. Valentine's Day flower
23. Internet bubble burst of early 2000s
28. Banned chemical compound
31. Astronomical belt wearer
32. DFW stat.
33. High school subj.
34. Enjoy a book or magazine
35. Word repeated in "Ring Around the Rosy" before "We all fall down"
37. Beatle's Penny____
38. "But wait, there's____!"
39. By way of
40. Bamboo-eating animal, inaccurately called a bear
41. Retirement benefits org.
42. Tasty morsel in stir-fry
45. Autos
46. Letters after Daniel Moynihan's name, indicatiing party affiliation and state
47. Guided adventure in the Serengeti
50. Joltless javas
54. Tile game with growing popularity and a hint to the starts of 16-Across, 23-Across, and 42-Across
58. In____ straits (undesirable)
59. ____ sign (same)
60. I smell____ (be suspicious)
61. Scout groups or where bears hibernate
62. Cozy lodging
63. Seized vehicle, for short
DOWN
1. Health products chain
2. ____ and aahs; sounds
at a fireworks show
3. "Dagnabit"
4. Actress Gilbert or dessert brand Lee
5. "American ____" (painting with couple and pitch fork)
6. Ending that makes a noun into a verb
7. Berlin's land: Abbr.
8. ____ Dame; France landmark
9. Furry creature in "Return of the Jedi"
10. Barbed-____ -Fence
11. The "T" of S.A.T.
13. Philosopher known for his "razor" that says the simplest explanation is the most likely one
14. Triangular stuffed Indian appetizers
17. Nobel gas that can be used in lasers
18. Bills and coins
22. Assign stars to
23. College accommodations
24. Cookies that appear in crosswords frequently
25. Princess's headwear
26. The "C" in U.P.C.
27. Postsurgical program
28. It has 88 black and white keys
29. House alternative
30. Cry from a goat
33. Meh
35. Greed; one of the seven deadly sins
36. Best-selling computer game from the early 2000s, with "The"
40. Intimidate, with "out"
42. His Italian restaurant is on Long Prairie Road
Most people are professionals at planning their summer vacation. They’ve got everything down to an exact science, from where they are traveling and how long they will be there to finding ways to stay within budget. Even if they go over budget, that’s okay so long as they’ve gone out of their way to create family memories to last a lifetime.
But no matter how detail-oriented you are, you will undoubtedly be scratching your head trying to figure out how to entertain the kiddos on that long car ride or plane flight.
Here are a few crafty ways to entertain the kids that you might not have thought of.
TURN YOUR BACKSEAT INTO A MOVIE THEATER
This will take some creativity on your part, but take the traditional movie watching experience a step further by decking out the backseat with dark blankets to cover the windows, popcorn and drinks, and even a few Hollywoodthemed decorations. The kids will forget they are in the backseat of the SUV.
THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX ON CAR RIDE GAMES
There are always car ride staples like an old-fashioned game of Uno or Dominos, but give Road Trip Bingo a try. Or better yet, play a game of I Spy or see how many cars
you can pass that are the same color or have a driver who is wearing sunglasses. This is a great way to keep the kids engaged for hours.
DOWNLOAD A FEW KID-FRIENDLY PHONE APPS
There are plenty of free phone and iPad apps that are kid friendly and can keep them busy for days. If Netflix isn’t doing the trick, have them give an app like Disney Now a try.
WORKBOOKS AND COLORING BOOKS
There are plenty of workbooks out there that are educational and give kids plenty of things to do. A longtime staple is a coloring book. Just make sure you bring lots of crayons and markers.
ENGAGE YOUR CHILDREN
To piggyback off the previous tip, take an active interest in what they are reading. Ask questions and have them explain what’s going on in the book.
BUILD YOUR OWN ART BIN
Keeping a variety of toys and games on hand is the name of the game on long trips, and this is a great option whether you are taking a car ride or plane flight. All you have to do is find a small bin with a cover and let your child fill it with everything from legos to crayons, small toys, stuffed animals, etc.
GO EDUCATIONAL
Before you go on your trip, take the kids on a special visit to the local library. Let them pick out any book they want (picture book, magazine, comics, etc.) for the trip. Maybe even suggest a few books that have something to do with where you are going, especially if it’s someplace historical. Summer is meant for fun, but where’s the negative side of your kids having fun and learning at the same time?
10 HOT Weekend Escapes
When summer hits North Texas, many of us try to get as far away as possible, but sometimes the best getaway might be just a tank of gas away. From pine-shaded cabins and waterfall hikes to wine-soaked Hill Country weekends and sleek downtown staycations, here are 10 hot getaways tailor-made for local DFW residents craving a convenient weekend escape.
by Craig Hewitt
photo of Dinosaur Valley
GRANBURY ESCAPE
Granbury Square
100 E. Pearl St. | Granbury, TX visitgranbury.com
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Less than two hours away, Granbury pairs small-town charm with a sandy lake beach, wine tasting, and a historic downtown square lined with boutiques. Spend your days on Lake Granbury, then wander the square at sunset before retreating to a cozy B&B or lakeside cottage.
GLEN ROSE & DINOSAUR VALLEY
Dinosaur Valley State Park 1629 Park Rd. 59 | Glen Rose, TX
TYLER ROSE COUNTRY & PINEY WOODS
Tyler Rose Garden
420 Rose Park Dr. | Tyler, TX visittyler.com
TURNER FALLS PARK & ARBUCKLE MOUNTAINS
Turner Falls Park
5191 US-77 | Davis, OK turnerfallspark.com
tpwd.texas.gov/state-parks/dinosaur-valley
Perfect for a two-day adventure, Glen Rose offers hiking among limestone bluffs, superb stargazing, and real dinosaur tracks preserved in the riverbed at Dinosaur Valley State Park. Families and couples alike love the mix of scenic trails, river wading, and quirky local shops in town.
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LAKE TEXOMA RETREAT
(Denison / Pottsboro)
Eisenhower State Park 50 Park Rd 20 | Denison, TX
tpwd.texas.gov/state-parks/eisenhower
Just over an hour north of Dallas, Lake Texoma is a go-to for weekenders craving open water, striper fishing, and lazy afternoons in a hammock. Book a lakeside cabin or glamping site, rent a boat, and catch sunset at the marinas before dinner in historic downtown Denison.
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WACO RIVERFRONT & MAGNOLIA WEEKEND
Magnolia Market
601 Webster Ave. | Waco, TX wacoheartoftexas.com
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Two hours away, Waco offers Magnolia Market, local coffee roasters, and the Brazos Riverwalk. Blend Instagram-friendly photo ops with culture at the Dr Pepper Museum and a riverside sunset on the Brazos.
East Texas’ piney woods make Tyler feel worlds away from Dallas-Fort Worth, with towering trees, lake breezes, and a slower pace. Spend your two days exploring the Tyler Rose Garden, winery tastings, and hiking or fishing on nearby lakes before unwinding at a wooded B&B or cabin.
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BROKEN BOW
HOCHATOWN CABINS
Beavers Bend State Park
4350 S. Hwy. 259A | Broken Bow, OK visitmccurtaincounty.com
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About three hours from Dallas-Fort Worth, Broken Bow is a beloved summer escape for glassy-lake mornings, tall pines, and luxury cabins with hot tubs and firepits. Hike in Beavers Bend State Park, rent a boat on the Lake, then return to your cabin for s’mores under a star-filled sky.
Turner Falls Park is a two-day road trip tucked in the Arbuckle Mountains. Swim below the 77-foot waterfall, hike canyon trails, and explore natural caves before settling into a nearby cabin or lodge for a quiet mountain evening.
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FREDERICKSBURG HILL COUNTRY
Fredericksburg Visitor Center
302 E. Austin St. | Fredericksburg, TX visitfredericksburgtx.com
Fredericksburg makes a dreamy longweekend-style trip that still fits into two days if you leave early from DFW. Sip your way along Highway 290’s wineries, wander the German-influenced Main Street shops, and stay in a chic B&B or cabin amid rolling Hill Country views and wildflowers.
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FORT WORTH STOCKYARDS
Fort Worth Stockyards
131 E. Exchange Ave. | Fort Worth, TX fortworth.com
Lean into a close-to-home staycation with big personality. Split your two days between the world-class museums in the Cultural District and the Fort Worth Stockyards’ rodeos, live music, and Western shops. Then, sleep in a boutique hotel downtown or at Mule Alley.
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DOWNTOWN DALLAS
BOUTIQUE
HOTEL
Dallas Arts District
750 N. Harwood St. | Dallas, TX visitdallas.com
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Treat yourself to a car-light weekend in your own backyard with a stylish downtown Dallas hotel and a walkable itinerary. Pair pool time and craft cocktails with an evening on the Katy Trail, a visit to the Arts District, and dinner in a glitzy Uptown or Deep Ellum restaurant.
photo from Fort Worth Stockyards Station's socials
photo from Texoma Rose Retreat's socials
SameTrip, Different MAPS
How to Travel Happily When Your Companion is Your Complete Opposite
by Murray Media Group
Travel has a funny way of revealing things about a relationship, whether it's a married couple, friends, or parents and children.
You may discover your spouse believes vacation means seeing every landmark within a 50-mile radius before noon, while your ideal itinerary involves coffee, wandering aimlessly, and maybe sitting in a pretty square for three hours people-watching. Perhaps one of you has color-coded spreadsheets, backup reservations, and restaurant lists organized by neighborhood, while the other believes “we’ll figure it out” is a perfectly acceptable vacation strategy.
The truth is, traveling with someone who experiences travel differently can either become your favorite memories—or the
story you dramatically retell for years. Fortunately, a few simple shifts can turn opposite traveler syndrome into something surprisingly fun.
FIRST: Identify
Your Travel Personality
Before you even open the booking websites, talk about what each person actually wants from the trip. Do you travel to relax, explore, learn, eat, adventure, rest, or simply collect experiences?
Many travel conflicts happen because couples assume they want the same things simply because they picked the same destination. A quick conversation beforehand can uncover major differences early by asking questions like: What would make this trip feel successful? What is one thing
Sometimes the biggest travel breakthrough is simply realizing neither person is wrong — they're just traveling for different reasons.
you absolutely want to do? What would make this trip disappointing? And perhaps most importantly, how much structure actually feels good?
Knowing whether you're traveling with a museum enthusiast, adrenaline seeker, beach lounger, foodie, planner, or spontaneous explorer helps avoid surprises later. Sometimes the biggest travel breakthrough is simply realizing neither person is wrong — they're just traveling for different reasons.
The 70/30 Rule Works Wonders
One of the easiest ways to travel together is to stop trying to compromise every single decision. Instead, divide the trip.
Give roughly 70 percent of the itinerary to shared experiences and reserve about 30 percent for individual priorities. If one person dreams of spending an entire morning inside a centuries-old art museum while the other would rather zipline through a forest canopy, great — do both.
You do not receive extra relationship points for being together every minute. In fact, a little independence often makes the shared experiences better. Sometimes the healthiest sentence on vacation is simply: “You go have fun. I’ll meet you at lunch.”
Alternate Who's In Charge
The planner often ends up accidentally becoming cruise director, while the spontaneous partner accidentally says, “I don’t care,” often enough that eventually everyone becomes stressed.
Try assigning leadership roles instead. Maybe one person controls mornings while the other controls evenings. Maybe one plans odd-numbered days while the other handles even-numbered days. Creating clear ownership removes the pressure of negotiating every decision in real time and gives both people space to travel the way they naturally prefer.
As a bonus, you may discover experiences you never would have chosen yourself— and those often become the stories you remember most.
Schedule Recovery Time
Travel — even fun travel — is still tiring, and when opposite personalities clash, exhaustion tends to amplify everything.
Build intentional blank space into the schedule. That might mean leaving one afternoon completely unscheduled, lingering over a slow breakfast every other day, returning to the hotel for an hour before dinner, or simply planning fewer activities than you think you can fit.
Counterintuitively, leaving room often creates better memories than maximizing every minute. The best travel days are not always the fullest ones.
Create Two Lists
Try this simple exercise before departure: each person creates two lists.
The first is a Must-Do List containing three
Traveling with your opposite may not produce the most efficient vacation. It may produce something better — a trip that surprises both of you.
things they absolutely want from the trip. The second is a Nice-to-Have List that includes everything else. Then compare.
This prevents one partner from silently assuming everyone understands what matters most to them, and it often reveals easy overlaps. Maybe the history buff wants museums while the thrill seeker wants adventure — but both have “find incredible local food” somewhere on their lists.
Congratulations. You’ve found common ground — and win-win situations.
Learn The Travel Pivot
Sometimes the plan fails. The museum is closed. The weather ruins the hiking day. Someone gets cranky after walking 18,000 steps and discovering there are somehow still more stairs.
Successful travel partners become good at pivoting quickly. Instead of asking,
“Whose fault is this?” ask, “What’s our next best option?”
Flexibility often matters more than compatibility because almost every trip eventually requires some improvisation.
Remember What You're Actually Collecting
Years later, most people don’t remember the perfect itinerary.
But you'll remember getting lost together. You'll remember accidentally ordering something unrecognizable and loving it. You'll remember the things that didn't go as planned, and you'll remember the disastrous day that somehow became everyone’s favorite story.
Traveling with your opposite may not produce the most efficient vacation. It may produce something better — a trip that surprises both of you.
