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Contents Table of

Featured Stories and News

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Watch D.O.G.S. Pizza Dinner & P TA Meeting Sept 10 at 6 p.m. in The Blanton Cafeteria

School Grandparents Day

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Run Lantana 5k

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Helping a Hero Welcome Home Sept 26 at 4 p.m.

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Pg 32 On The Cover: The Burrows Family, Peggy, Dale, Adam, Joce and Jessica.

Photos from Lantana

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Hero Almost Home

Also featuring photos from Lantana residents throughout the magazine so be sure to check every page!

School Tips Be Ready Lay out clothes, pack lunches and organize backpacks each night before the school day.

Know the Teacher All teachers love their students but it’s good to build a friendship with the people who see your child for a large part of the day.

Early Bird. . .

Developing brains need restful sleep.

Be sure to take away any gadgets that might keep them up at night.

Quite Study Designate a quite space for studying and homework so your child gets into great learning habits Most Important Meal of The Day Last but definitely not least, be sure that your child eats a nutritional and whole breakfast.

A growing mind needs the nutrition to build brain cells. A growling tummy will distract anyone.

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Ink 4 Your Soul Guyer Volleyball Same Sex Marriage Harpool Diabetes Support Dr. Jennifer Bontreger Growth By Children Learning for Life

The Burrows Family Run Lantana 5k Happy Smiles, Happy Kids Guyer Marching Band Don’t Be So Sensitive Bridgeway Church Guyer Football Safe Internet Use GLAM

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A Message from The Community Editor

new friend recently quoted an old favorite for me, “We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what

we give!” – Winston Churchill

A “givers gain” I heard a long time ago and it is

so much truer in my life now. Of course you must

make a living and pay the bills but never turn down

of an attitude of gratitude for your own blessings, you find ways to serve others. Your contribution to the community or even the world is finding and

releasing your passions, gifts and personality…after

all, it’s YOURS to offer in service to meet the needs of others.

As amazing as it is in our community and the

Publisher & Editor Scott & Kelly Murray Administration Managing Editor Jana Melton

Sub-Editor Bobbi Byrne

Contributors Eric Williams Mark Miller Steve Gamel

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an opportunity to help someone especially when your

blessings that surround us all, there are profound

This “gut thing” has been a driving, constant in my

before school starts is to remind and teach our boys

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and wearing your heart on your sleeve not only helps

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gut tells you that it is the right thing to do.

life since probably even before my children. I believe

it’s instilled by both upbringing as well as birth-given.

As a child, our church family was a constant reminder of helping others. I’ll never forget the trying times

needs here, in our backyard. My goal in the days

the principles of “givers gain.” Showing your heart a friend, but also fills their hearts too.

The reality of the news often is troubling and

of when I lost grandparents. Specifically, watching

heart-wrenching. However, I believe finding the

my Mom lose her father remain among the most

“givers gain” into our daily lives and teaching them

my Dad lose his mother after years of illness and profound moments I can remember of giving

during grief.

Church family and friends stepped up with baked

goods, foiled-covered casseroles, condolence cards

and flowers. As an adult, I continue to watch my parents serve others during their grief. However, the “givers gain” that I have running through my blood

definitely is that and more. I truly feel my heart is

the most full when I am able to provide and help.

It ranges from my outreach, to watching a friend’s children, to cooking a meal, to a “just because” gift.

These are important to remember as we move

out of our summer fun and move into the normal chaos of back to school. The ways in which you

serve are uniquely yours and universally ours. So out

good, having positive intent and incorporating the to our legacies, is imperative. There really is so much

positive goodness in the world, particularly as we

realize that while we perceive, conceive, believe

and achieve a working positive lifestyle, more than anything else we receive it.

Go out, TEACH your children to SERVE within

their communities and ACT upon the kindness in their hearts. To tag onto Winston Churchill: “Do not withhold good from those to whom it

is due, when it is your power to act.”

– Proverbs 3:27

Kathryn Flores, Community Relations, Marketing and Advertising Manager Argyle Living and Lantana Living Kathryn@murray-media.com (214) 734-5783

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Lantana Living invites reader feedback, story suggestions and general comments. Email artwork@lantanaliving.com. All submissions become the sole property of Murray Media Group.

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Group of Guyer Students Part of Texas State Nine Guyer High School students were part of

In-N-Out Burgers Coming to Harpool on Sept. 9 Harpool Middle School students and parents

The district emphasizes this policy on any days where the temperature is at or above 100 degrees, with most coaches and band directors opting to practice in the morning or evening if possible.

a contingent of 30 from the Denton Independent

eager to try In-N-Out Burgers can do so right at

program sponsored by the American Legion.

there Sept. 9 from 6-8 p.m.

when their competitive seasons begin, but their

Erickson, Noah Hansen, Josh Kasitz, Cody Pence,

with tickets available for only $5 each on sale at

dangers of working out in this heat and we’re not

School District to compete in the Texas Boys State

the school when one of the chain’s trucks will be

Representing Guyer were Josh Burly, Josh

Meals will be available for pick up or sit down

Evan Samsky, Matt Shovlin, James Smith and

Matt Stusick.

Meanwhile five Guyer students took part in the

American Legion Auxiliary’s Bluebonnet Girls State Program.

Guyer’s Amiee Bourey, Ji Young Choi, Jade

Mongo, Tiffany Wang and Carson Williams joined

four Denton High School students to form the DISD contingent.

Blanton Welcomes New Assistant Principal for 2015-16 Landon Turrubiarte, a former math teacher

at Strickland Middle School in Denton, has

joined the Blanton Elementary School team as a

campus administrator.

The newest assistant principal met students and

parents during registration the first week of August and plans to meet even more as the 2015-16 school year progresses starting Aug. 24.

the school.

safety comes first. All coaches in Texas know the going to jeopardize anyone’s health by not having procedures in place to keep these kids safe,” said

Guyer to Celebrate 10th Anniversary Sept. 26

Denton ISD athletic director Joey Florence.

A celebration of the 10th anniversary of Guyer

High School will take place Sept. 26 at the C.H. Collins Complex in Denton.

Additional details will be available soon on

High school football players and marching band participants typically take on the brunt of the summer heat before school starts and leaders in both areas followed proper protocol to ensure their

events surrounding the “No Place Like Home”

students’ health and safety.

of 2005 honors its past and looks forward to the

Required Immunizations Remain Same for 2015-16

festivities as the school that launched in the fall next 10 years.

Guyer has grown from an enrollment of about

1,100 when it opened to more than 2,400 today, a good number of them Lantana residents.

Texas state law requires students attending

Denton Independent School District coaches

throughout the month of August to ensure students maintain proper hydration and body temperature extreme heat.

extra-curricular

practices

has made no changes to the number and type of before the start of the 2015-16 academic calendar.

and students have been following special procedures

during

The Texas Department of State Health Services vaccinations required of students in grades K-12

Denton ISD Following Special Heat Protocols

levels

in

DISD features an open water policy – with

students allowed water at all times – for the entirety

of all practice sessions, regardless of activity.

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“We always want our students to be successful

school to have immunizations for certain diseases at designated intervals. These diseases include diphtheria/tetanus/pertussis, polio, measles/mumps/ rubella, hepatitis B, varicella, meningococcal and hepatitis A. A chart explaining all the requirements is available at the DSHS web site at dshs.state.tx.us/ immunize or by calling 800-252-9152.

Summer

Camps!

Many residents chose to send their children to some amazing camps! Here are a few photos that Lantana residents have submitted.

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SSgt Johnnie Yellock II is almost HOME!

Welcome him home on September 26 at 4 p.m.

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find that quite often the men I work with think they are dressing professionally and look quite good when they head into the office. They don’t realize that the clothes on their back are ill fitting, out of style, and pieced together improperly.

I’d say wives often are the fashion experts of the family, but when the wife is just happy to see her husband in anything besides sweats and a t-shirt, she’ll give the thumbs up approval a little too soon. So here is my advice on what to clear out of your closet and the staples to make sure you are really looking your best.

Clothes that don’t fit you: Too big, too small, too short, and too long. If it’s any of those just get rid of it.

Don’t try convincing yourself that it fits, or that you can wear it as long as you wear a jacket with it. Just get rid of it and never buy anything else that doesn’t fit properly. For more of my advice visit yoursuitguy.com.

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Suits

Every guy needs at least one great fitting suit. If you wear suits every day for work then you need

a few. Start out with a nice navy or charcoal suit.

These are both very versatile and work for many

different occasions in and out of the office. Fit is the

most important thing, as a $600 suit can look like a $2,000 suit when it’s fit properly and vice versa.

Don’t:

By Jonny Willingham Your Suit Guy

Avoid heavy patterned or black suits. There are of course occasions for these but they should be your

fourth and fifth suits. Remember “quality over

quantity.” Three suits for $300 sounds great until

you realize you have three suits that fit terribly and you never want to wear. Three button suits, and pants with more than one pleat are also no-nos.

Do:

Shirts

You need 2-3 nice white shirts. They are perfect for the office, church, and just about anything else.

Guys love blue shirts and that’s OK because they are very versatile and also work great in and out of the office. Feel free to get some nice lighter colored shirts with subtle patterns that can easily match up with a variety of ties. I am going to say that a custom-fit shirt really will make a huge difference for you. Having the proper fit neck, sleeve length, and waist is so hard to find off the rack and it’s worth the investment for a few nice shirts.

Don’t:

Get rid of the parachute shirts. You know what I’m talking about, the shirts that are so big and fluffy you’re scared a nice breeze might lift you off the ground. Also avoid the dark plain colored shirts: the ones that you saw at your high school prom or on Family Feud.

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Lantana Mom

Starts Scratch, T-shirt Business from

Promotes Giving Back

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our years ago, Lantana resident Heather Searcy decided she wanted to start a small t-shirt business and run it out of her garage. She had the support of her husband and family, but zero experience in screen printing and no idea what the future might hold.

But she was committed to the idea, no matter how many times she scratched her head at the thought.

“I spent three years working from that garage.

It was a long three years,” laughed Searcy, who once manually produced 750 custom t-shirts for a client. “The shirts always looked great, but it took a long time. We started little and bought equipment off Craig’s List. There were definitely some growing pains, and I sometimes look back and wonder, what was I thinking?”

Searcy is modest about what happened next, but the bottom line is her dream came true.

Old Dog New Tricks T-shirts is now a wildly successful family-owned company – her husband Brian and their five kids help run the show – that specializes in custom screen printing, embroidery and promotional products.

Old Dog New Tricks T-shirts is now a wildly successful family-owned company – her husband Brian and their five kids help run the show – that specializes in custom screen printing, embroidery and promotional products.

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By Steve Gamel

Along the way, they added a ministry arm to the organization called Ink 4 Your Soul, and their following has grown to include everyone from local residents who bring in an idea drawn out on a simple piece of paper to large corporations, teams and non-profits.

What ties everything together is Ink 4 Your Soul. It has made this business more than just an everyday t-shirt company by having a strategic and focused approach toward bettering the

community as a whole.

In January 2014, the Searcys moved the business to a 1,400-square-foot facility in Argyle. The new office is decked out with a more efficient automatic press, flash dryer and exposure unit – opening the door for so many great ways to serve the community.

“Our business model is not one where we have a giant catalog to choose from,” Brian Searcy said. “We work directly with clients and figure out what they want so we can give them the artwork they really want.”

That’s because for the Searcys, every shirt designed by Old Dog New Tricks is an important

Staff: Noah Williams, Heather Searcy, Brian Searcy, Kaitlyn Mustico, Greg Venable, Jillian Mustico, Bill Bowden, Sherry Bowden

message in the lives of each person or group with whom they work. Whether it’s a design promoting your team championship, fraternity or special charity event, it’s a way to proudly communicate within the community.

What ties everything together is Ink 4 Your Soul. It has made this business more than just an everyday t-shirt company by having a strategic and focused approach toward bettering the community as a whole.

As the Searcys put it, the ministry specifically supports non-profits, faith-based organizations, charities and churches where the focus is an enduring message of hope, support, and encouragement.

Some of the organizations they have either helped or are in the process of working with include Helping A Hero, CCA in Denton, the Red Circle Foundation and various churches and fellowships.

“We do all the work and there is no money out of their pocket. All these organizations have to do is direct people to the website to buy the shirts we help design. Then we write them a check back,” Heather said. “Brian and I had a talk one day and realized we have got to give back. It can’t just be about us anymore.”

Where the business started, compared with its place in the community now, brings a smile to their faces.

“It’s humbling, and I hope it always feels this way,” Heather said.

Heather Searcy And Brian Searcy in Front of The Automatic

Some of the organizations they have either helped or are in the process of working with include Helping A Hero, CCA in Denton, the Red Circle Foundation and various churches and fellowships.

There always is something new to work on or shoot for, but Old Dog New Tricks is a business for which this family can be proud. And by the looks of it, it will be serving this community for a long time to come.

“This is now a business where the goal is to hand it down,” Heather said. “We wanted our kids to learn hard work and how that can mean something. It’s not the dollar you make, but the intrinsic value of seeing something well done.

There’s a joy you get in presenting a finished product to the client. That’s a value you can’t put a price on.”

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Volleyball Preview:

Lady Wildcats Look to Build on

Breakout

Season

By Steve Gamel

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on’t expect Guyer’s volleyball team to sneak The good news is, the cupboard is far from bare. up on any opponent in 2015. Following last year’s showing – the squad won 37 games, The nucleus of the team, Harden said, is the claimed a district title and rolled to the third senior trio of Emily Hill, Mallory McKnight and round of the Class 6A playoffs – the Lady Tabitha Spray. Hill, a Mississippi State University Wildcats are unquestionably on everyone’s radar commit and one of the more dominant outside as the early part of this season unfolds. hitters in the area, led But with the majority 6A players in Dallasof their starting lineup Following last year’s showing – the Fort Worth with 660 back in the fold, the extra squad won 37 games, claimed a district kills last year. attention may not matter. title and rolled to the third round of the She also racked This season may have Class 6A playoffs – the Lady Wildcats up 358 digs, 20 solo just started, but Guyer blocks and 65 block already is viewed as a are unquestionably on everyone’s radar playoff favorite after as the early part of this season unfolds. assists, with 53 service aces. The performance knocking off Plano and earned Hill all-state honors by the Texas Girls state-power Coppell in last year’s postseason. It Coaches Association. was the Lady Wildcats’ first playoff appearance But what took the team’s success to another as members of the state’s largest classification, level last year was a balanced attack. McKnight and they did it with several young players who have since become household names. provided a 1-2 punch up top that few teams in the area could duplicate – or defend. Mack felt Now it’s time to build on that, coaches say. that interchangeable strategy gave both girls an equal chance to cash in on offense and opened up “It’s going to take some hard work, for sure,” opportunities for other points of attack. said assistant coach Erin Harden, who is leading McKnight tallied 342 kills to go with 21solo the team for the first half of the season with head blocks and 84 block assists. Sophomore setter coach Addie Mack out on maternity leave. “We Miles Baker tallied 1,102 assists as a freshman lost nine seniors, but the core of the team is still while Spray often provided the kill shot from the here. We just need to stay focused and set bigger right side when opponents least expected it. goals. We know going into this season that we Add in a host of other returning players like have to prepare better to hopefully have a longer junior defensive specialist Shelby Heitkamp and playoff run.” sophomore DS Kate Cowan, and Harden thinks That includes a tougher preseason schedule Guyer will again be a tough out. with tournaments at Denton Ryan, Trophy Club “We are a well-oiled machine,” Harden said.

Byron Nelson and Arlington. The District 5-6A schedule starts Sept. 11 at Keller Timber Creek. “Our schedule has been set since November, so for Last year, the Lady Wildcats lost once in league us, we can focus on getting started with this season and do what we need to do to be a better team.” play, four times in non-district.

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Lantana Ladies League Kickoff Set for Aug. 25 The Lantana Ladies League will ring in its

2015-16 season with a Kickoff Party from 7-9 p.m.

Aug. 25 at Lantana Golf Club.

Tickets are $30 in advance online and $40 at the

door. The fees represent this season’s dues payment.

The club is not limited to Lantana residents.

Donations of non-perishable food items for

the August charity Kidz Kupboard Ministries will

be accepted.

The 2015-16 theme will be “Women Empowering

Women.” Visit the lantanaladiesleague.com web site

or the group’s Facebook page for more information.

Randy Fogle is Newest Fresh Water Board Member Randy Fogle, a resident of Lantana’s Azalea

subdivision, was appointed to fill an open spot on the Fresh Water Supply District No. 7 board of directors at the July monthly meeting.

Fogle replaces Jim Lieber, who resigned due to his

move to Bartonville. Fogle will serve the remainder of Lieber’s term which expires in May 2016.

The semi-retired Fogle is a member of the

executive board of Honor Flight DFW, a group that

flies World War II veterans to see the World War II Memorial in Washington, D.C.

UNT, Lantana Partner for Special Football Outing Lantana residents wanting a fun day of college

football at reduced prices can take advantage of a partnership between the Lantana Community Association and the University of North Texas

in Denton.

Fans can attend the Sept. 19 home opener at

Apogee Stadium and enjoy a private Lantana

resident tailgate party catered by Rudy’s Bar-B-Que and a t-shirt all for $15.

More information is available by calling the

association at 940-728-1660.

Lantana Fall Garage Sale Scheduled for Sept. 26 The 2015 Lantana Fall Garage Sale will take

place Sept. 26 from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m. at participating homes throughout the community.

Promotion of the sale will be handled by the

The new agreement, which goes into effect Jan.

Lantana Community Association which will

1, will feature a 7 percent increase in monthly

community entrance. Individual signs will not

the company sought in initial negotiations. That

include directional signs and a banner at the be allowed.

Residents wanting to take part need to call the

association at 940-728-1660 by Sept. 23.

Richardson Captures Ladies Lantana Club Golf Title Alyssa Richardson sank a key 10-foot putt on the

final hole to become the 2015 overall champion of the Lantana Golf Club Ladies Club.

Richardson had rounds of 78 and 77 for a

two-day total of 155 beating defending champion

Kaylin Skovron by two strokes. Skovron’s efforts

fees in the first year, down from the 10 percent translates to an average of $1.07 per home per month. In subsequent years, increases will be tied to the Consumer Price Index.

Community, County, Schools Closed for Labor Day Holiday All Lantana community and Denton County

offices and schools within the Denton Independent School District will be closed Sept. 7 in honor of the Labor Day holiday.

Normal business and classes will resume on

September 8.

still earned her the net and championship

flight titles.

Angie Barnett took the second flight while

Sharon Hill captured the third flight.

State Sheriffs Honor Denton County’s Travis The Sheriff ’s Association of Texas recognized

Denton County Sheriff Will Travis at its annual meeting in July for his efforts on several illegal

drug issues earlier this year before the Texas

State Legislature.

Travis was cited for his work in the fight against

the

legalization

of

marijuana, strengthening

penalties regarding K2 (synthetic marijuana) and other illicit drugs during the 84th Legislative session of the State Legislature. He was presented

his honor by Brazos County Sheriff Chris Kirk, the SAT’s legislative committee chair.

Travis was the SAT’s primary speaker when

the group presented its resolution about medical

marijuana, and minimalized penalties for possession of marijuana as part of the Texas Sheriff ’s Say NO campaign.

Waste Management to Continue Handling Services in Lantana Waste Management trucks will be around Lantana

for another five years thanks to an agreement on a new contract reached with the community.

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The premarital agreement provisions in the Texas Family Code refer to “prospective spouses” and “parties,” rather than the terms “man and woman.” The postmarital agreement provisions of the Texas Family Code use the term “spouse[s]” rather than the terms “husband and wife.” The provisions in the Texas Family Code with regard to dividing community property refer to “spouses” rather than husband and wife, as do the provisions for spousal maintenance (Texas’ alimony statute).

We will see in the future how Texas courts will handle same-sex divorces with regard to all of these issues.

With regard to children, will the Texas legislature make new laws regarding presumptions of parentage that will apply for married same-sex couples? The State of Massachusetts, which was the first state to legalize same-sex marriage, altered some of their parentage laws to make them gender neutral because children were going to be born to same-sex married couples.

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Members of the Harpool Diabetes Support Group are, from left: Annette Price, Sophia Barrera, Lexi Quilty, Bella Zindell, Randall Gray and Troy Barnes.

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Support Group Helping Students Cope with Type 1 Diabetes at Harpool

By Mark Miller

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eing a teenager today is tough enough without any additional outside distractions.

The same could be said for a kiddo suffering from Type 1 diabetes, the version that never takes a break.

Put those two together and daily life can be extra stressful. Helping reduce some of that pressure and offer a place to share experiences is the goal of a diabetes support group started last year at Harpool Middle School.

“It’s where like-minded and in-common people can come together and share their experiences and learn and grow from each other,” said Harpool counselor Annette Price, who works with the group at its weekly Wednesday meetings.

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because they said ‘yeah, that happened to me’ and they started opening up and started sharing more experiences, things that happened along the way for them. It’s a good place to share those things and to know there are like people in their situation.”

“It’s where like-minded and in-common people can come together and share their experiences and learn and grow from each other,” Price said while there’s always been students at Harpool with Type 1 diabetes, it took a while to launch the program.

“It’s been an eye-opening experience for me just to see how difficult it is and things I take for granted like simple things like sleepovers,” she said. “With diabetes you have to be monitored through the night. It’s a lifestyle change on how you do things but knowing you can be as close to functioning as possible.”

Eighth grader Troy Barnes has experienced the challenges for seven years. His parents, professional bowlers Chris and Lynda Barnes of Double Oak, are major players in the area chapter of the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation including hosting an annual bowling fund-raiser. They were ecstatic when they learned of the group forming especially after the participants had their photo taken at the end of the last school year.

“You could see they had a bond. They were all together,” said Lynda Barnes. “They’re not

alone and I think that’s the best reassurance they can have as teenagers that this is tough and diabetes is not an easy disease but they have support around them.”

Troy Barnes, who with twin brother Ryan turned age 13 in May, is equally glad to be part of the support group.

Barnes’ classmate Lexi Quilty has another reason to enjoy being part of the group.

“I feel it’s an extension to my family,” she said. “There’s so many other people out there and you’re only going to learn something from them. I’ve always been open with everything but the group has helped others open up.”

“Everyone at Harpool has been supportive, especially with Type 1,” Tamara said. “It’s unfortunate there are so many children within our community that are involved but just to see other mothers not originally be involved then become part of this group, sharing knowledge and fears and hopes and experiences, it’s really been neat to see.”

“There’s really no pressure. It’s relaxed,” he said. “It was one of most looked-forward to things of the school day for me. Ms. Price doesn’t let you get away without talking and meeting everyone.

“It’s great to have another couple of people to talk to if you need to. The whole purpose is to have someone to talk to if you need it, talk about what happened during your day or your week stuff like that.”

Lexi’s mom Tamara credits Harpool’s leadership with helping foster that feeling.

“Everyone at Harpool has been supportive, especially with Type 1,” Tamara said. “It’s unfortunate there are so many children within our community that are involved but just to see other mothers not originally be involved then become part of this group, sharing knowledge and fears and hopes and experiences, it’s really been neat to see.”

Last year two students who had graduated came back to talk to the Harpool participants about transitioning to Guyer High School for a person with Type 1 diabetes. Ironically, Guyer school nurse Cheryl Wills previously was at Harpool and was involved in early discussions on the support group.

“These kids are not just kids with diabetes.

It doesn’t define you, it’s just part of who you are,” Price said. “Sometimes I think people define them as such but really it’s just a small part of who they are.”

While the group has no official name, Price said hopes the students could consider doing this year. One thing’s for sure – this is one school group where it’s better to have less participants than more.

“Let’s hope this doesn’t grow,” Lynda Barnes said. “Let’s hope this stays at five or six. We don’t want more numbers added to that. I hope it stays small.”

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Game Changer: Local Doctor Breaks Down

Health care Walls,

E mpowe r s

I

P at i ents

By Steve Gamel

t’s Saturday afternoon and Dr. Jennifer Bontreger is answering a text message from a patient. Keep in mind, this particular text does not involve a life-threatening emergency, but Bontreger doesn’t take any patient issue lightly. And giving out her personal cell phone number is just the beginning.

“I want to give my patients a feel for how the

Take

for

example

a

39-year-old

patient

She has been published in various medical journals

membership plan, the patient could get fluids

certified physicians in the Dallas/Fort Worth area.

medical field should be,” said Bontreger, who is the

with severe food poisoning. Under Bontreger’s

Highland Village and considers herself perpetually

from an IV and anti-nausea medication for $40.

sole practitioner at Southern Horizon Healthcare in on-call for her patients. “Rushing through a thousand patients doesn’t help people. I want to

spend time with them, and give them access to me

Additional lab and blood work would cost around $36. Even with a monthly fee of $50 and visit

and also is one of a handful of concussion/impact-

She currently serves as one of Lewisville High School’s athletic team physicians.

At Southern Horizon, Bontreger has created

charge, the total cost for services is $136.

a one-stop experience for medical needs ranging

A passionate doctor who is personally on-call

room, not only would most of that time likely be

baseline testing, and wound care. She has developed

Bontreger – board certified in both internal

to $500. And that doesn’t include additional

any time they need me.”

24-7? It seems too good to be true, but Dr. medicine and primary care sports medicine – has the experience necessary to provide top-flight care

while also creating a highly-personalized approach to practicing medicine.

Because of that, her patients swear by her.

Dr. Bontreger insists she hasn’t re-invented the

Had that same patient gone to an emergency

spent with a nurse, but that co-pay could balloon costs for treatment.

All told, the bill for an ER visit could easily reach

$2,000, Dr. Bontreger said. There are physicians who offer similar plans to what Bontreger does, but none are in Denton County.

“Think of this like a gym membership,” Dr.

wheel when it comes to responsible healthcare,

Bontreger said. “At a gym, you can join for a year and

empowering patients.

of what the gym offers is part of the membership,

but she continues to break down walls while

The biggest way she is doing that is by offering

medical membership plans. Instead of working through the traditional insurance process – which can be costly and time consuming for both the

patient and doctor – patients have the option to

from wellness exams to ultrasounds, concussion

relationships with outside imaging centers and

other medical facilities to create a turnkey product for her patients.

Dawn

Sprayman

is

a

longtime

patient

and advocate of Dr. Bontreger and Southern Horizon Healthcare.

“In so many ways, Bontreger is a throwback to

how the medical field used to be,” Sprayman said.

The offices were smaller, so the doctor could

come in any time you want for a monthly fee. Most

spend more time with their patients. They knew

but if you want to use a personal trainer or take a

to take care of the entire family. Nowadays,

class, you pay a little extra. At the end of the year, the patient’s out of pocket cost is vastly lower in

comparison to having to meet a deductible first. The patients don’t have to deal with the insurance, I can

every bit of medical history, and had the knowledge

doctors are overloaded with patients and spend more time working with insurance companies than helping patients.

Nurses and physician assistants are brought in to

control the prices, and they have access to me 24-7.

handle patient loads, and if a patient has an issue

Horizon and receive access to all of Bontreger’s

insurance because you never know when a serious

care or ER.

With the cost of healthcare skyrocketing,

goal is to empower patients. I don’t have insurance

Sprayman said. “She knows your medical history,

me to schedule more face-to-face time with

whole health. She spends time with you and that is

instead pay a monthly fee based on predetermined

age ranges, plus a $10 per visit charge, to Southern services at a reduced cost.

Bontreger’s plan is a game changer for patients

who either have no insurance or are suffering the brunt of high deductibles and co-pays. In a traditional setting, patients can either be refused

services or spend thousands of dollars per year

“I always advocate keeping your existing

emergency may arise. At my office, though, my

companies telling me what to do. This allows my patients.”

And they are getting one heck of a doctor, too.

Prior

to

establishing

Southern

Horizon

for crucial medical needs without ever coming

Healthcare, Bontreger served as medical director

which exceed $5,000.

director at an urgent care facility on the East Coast.

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at Concentra in Las Colinas, and acted as interim

over the weekend, they are forced to go to an urgent “She does what a doctor is supposed to do,”

and she’s very interested in taking care of your

huge. She is the one who follows up with you. It’s never someone else. I feel like I have a doctor, and that’s a big deal.”

For Bontreger, it’s all in a day’s work – or a

night’s work, depending on when her patients need her most.

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Age by Age:

Growth for Children

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n last month’s article we discussed the importance of regular wellness exams for children, and that these visits are used to monitor your child’s growth and development. During these visits I often get questions regarding the rate of growth a child should experience.

As you know, all children grow and develop differently, but these are some general guidelines we can use.

I often get the question, “how tall will my child be”.

Most pediatricians can do a rough estimate based on the following formulas:

BOYS: Girls:

Add 5 inches to mom’s height and average that number with dad’s height.

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A baby drops 5-10% of body weight in first few days of life due to fluids lost in urine and stool.

Babies usually gain an ounce/day on average during this time and should be back to birth weight by 10-14 days of life. Growth surges happen around 3 weeks and then again at 6 weeks.

Babies should gain ½ pound every 2 weeks. By 6 months they should have doubled their birth weight.

A child should gain about 1 lb per month. This stage can shows dips in percentiles on the growth chart especially in breast fed babies. Babies may burn more calories because they are moving more while they are learning to cruise and crawl.

By their 1st birthday they should have grown 10 inches in length, tripled birth weight, and their head should have grown by about 4 inches.

Toddlers will grow at a slower pace this year but will gain about 1 to 2 pounds a month and will grow a total of 4 to 5 inches in height.

Subtract 5 inches from dad’s height and average that with mom’s height.

I like to tell children and their parents that these estimates may change in either direction depending on health and nutrition. This is usually very good incentive for kids to eat their fruits and vegetables. When kids ask me how tall they will be, I take advantage of counseling them on diet, sleep, and adequate exercise.

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Expect 3 more inches in height by the end of their 3rd year and quadrupled birth weight by gaining about 4 more pounds.

A preschooler will grow about 2.5 inches and gain 4 pounds each year. You may also find that your child starts to shed the baby fat from their face and looks lankier.

Dr. Rebecca Butler is Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics. She is proud to be a resident of Lantana and the owner of Lantana Pediatrics.

For more information on Dr. Butler or to schedule an appointment, call 940-455-7200.

Kids will grow about 2 inches and gain 4 pounds each year until puberty. Girls often reach their full height about 2 years after their first period.

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Learning for Life: It’s All About Balance

By Frank and Erin Lundie. Franchise Owners, Primrose School of Lantana. www.primroselantana.com. flundie@primroselantana.com

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rom the moment children are born they start learning – soaking up information like a sponge from observing and exploring the world around them. Young children develop at a remarkable rate, especially during the first five years of their life. This period presents a once-ina-lifetime opportunity for children to build a well-rounded foundation of skills that will allow them to excel later in life. Parents and educators can help build this foundation by providing children with a balance of purposeful learning experiences early on.

“The first five years of a child’s life is the best time to engage her mind to develop skills that will allow her to thrive not only in school, but in life,” says Gloria Julius, Ed.D., vice president of education and professional development at Primrose Schools. “An ideal educational environment for young children blends child exploration with guidance from teachers to build on a child’s natural curiosity about the world through purposeful play.”

Child-initiated learning occurs as children play and interact with their environment, while teacher-guided learning occurs through

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guidance and modeling by adults. Environments that balance both approaches help ensure every child reaches his full potential.

Learning, however, is not limited to the classroom. Dr. Julius recommends the following at-home activities that balance exploration with guided learning and spark children’s cognitive, physical and social-emotional development.

Exercise decision-making and critical thinking skills by playing with puzzles together.

Let your child try different pieces rather than showing her the right ones.

natural curiosity will spark questions

and exploration as she watches seeds grow and transform.

Model important character traits such as

compassion and generosity for your child.

Volunteer at an animal shelter or share veggies

from your garden with a neighbor. Involve your child so he can learn the joy of giving back.

Help your little one build the foundation she needs for

learning and life by providing a nurturing environment

Build language and literacy skills by writing a story with your little one. Get his input on the storyline and ask him to add illustrations.

that encourages exploration and investigation while

Develop motor and traveling skills by tossing a ball with your child or chasing each other in a game of tag. Being active together helps build a love for physical activity.

accredited early education and care schools. To learn about

Explore science and nutrition by planting a fruit and vegetable garden together. Your child’s

balancing cognitive, physical and social-emotional skills.

Primrose Schools is a national family of dedicated leaders

serving children, families and communities in our premier Primrose School of Lantana, visit primroselantana.com or call 940-455-2550. For more parenting tips, visit our 360 Parenting blog at PrimroseSchools.com/360Parenting.

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See You On The Sidelines

Something to Prove, But Only to Myself

Hanging in a glass case in my office are nine finisher

By Steve Gamel

A year earlier, I ran the same event about 37 minutes

medals from various obstacle-course and distance races

faster, which made me question if I had simply lost a

the fleetest of foot – I was nowhere near finishing first

line, but when the officials handed me the medal this

I’ve competed in over the last six years. While I’m not in the majority of those races – I am nonetheless proud of all the medals I’ve earned.

Except for one.

few steps in my old age. Yes, I again crossed the finish time around, I basically dismissed it.

I haven’t competed in a race since.

Running disappointments, no matter how trivial

There’s a 10th medal that never made it into the

they may seem to an outsider looking in, hurt to

this past March. Most runners would be excited to have

sometimes guilt. Did I train enough? Perhaps I pushed

trophy case. It’s from the Cowtown Half Marathon

earned something like that, but mine lies scrunched up and almost completely out of sight.

If it weren’t for my son taking it off my desk to look

at it the other day, I would have forgot it was there.

He asked if I won that race, and sadly, I had to tell

the core. It can bring on depression, confusion and too hard? Did I get enough sleep last night? The

disappointment fades over time, but every once in a while you are reminded of what you couldn’t do in the heat of the moment. And it stinks.

I haven’t felt like myself for about a year now. I have

him no. Not only did I not finish first, I often thank

battled countless injuries with my back, feet, knees and

15 minutes, 9 seconds – was pitiful in my eyes. There

I’ve gained weight.

God that I didn’t come in dead last. My time – 3 hours, was no pip in my step, no acceleration, and at no point did I feel like I was in control.

shoulders. My workouts have, of course, suffered, and The Cowtown event in March simply made me

realize how far I had fallen.

That’s all about to change.

On March 12, I will compete in the Spartan Sprint in Hempstead, Texas. It’s a completely different style of race in that there will be 20-23 obstacles and mud stretched out over the 3-5 mile course.

Thousands of people from all over the globe have competed in this obstacle racing challenge. Instead of doing a typical 5K that allows you to focus on one skill (running) or a triathlon (run, bike, swim), Spartan races demand you to run, swim, climb, slide, dodge, jump, carry, throw and think on your feet. The event as a whole was created by eight ultra-endurance athletes and a marine to push competitors past their comfort zones, and sadly, there are plenty of people who simply can’t finish.

This will be my fifth obstacle-course event, and by race day, I’ll be a month shy of 40 years old. I’ve already signed up and paid my money – so there’s no backing out now.

I’ve also started back into training mode, and slowly but surely, I’m whipping myself back into racing shape.

For me, it’s an opportunity to erase the memories of Cowtown. And regardless of what happens out there, I will finish this next race. I just want a medal at the end for which I can be proud.

Until next time, I’ll see you on the sidelines.

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Real Estate

• HOA restrictions

• Failure to furnish a disclosure

restrictions (the “CCRs”) from the title company, the

required to do so, a buyer may terminate the contract

Once a buyer receives the HOA’s covenants and

Residential Sales Contract:

What Often is

Misunderstood

By Mark Barnes

Y

ou’ve been presented with an offer for the sale of your home, or you’ve already signed a contract to

sell, and it all looks pretty simple from here in terms of who does what. Or does it?

Despite the fact that almost all contracts for the sale of residential properties are completed on forms

promulgated (i.e., created and approved by) by the Texas Real Estate Commission, even seasoned veterans

can get it wrong when interpreting exactly what the

contract says. It’s not that it is that confusing, it’s simply that some things are taken for granted and over time misunderstood by experienced sellers.

So, imagine what an inexperienced seller can go through….It can be a mine field. But with some

education about what is and is not in the contract, and

what certain paragraphs really mean, problems can be averted and the transaction has a far better chance of being successful.

Here are the Top 10 contract items that are most often

misinterpreted, and what they really mean or what you

buyer may review them and terminate the contract,

and get the earnest money refunded within three days

of receipt. This is to protect the buyer from purchasing in a neighborhood with an unfamiliar HOA and does not agree with certain restrictions by that governing body.

• Earnest money

Sellers often think that any time a contract falls apart, they keep the earnest money. Usually all the seller

has a right to keep is the option fee paid. The earnest money almost always is returned to the buyer, unless the buyer is in default on the contract and fails to or refuses to perform.

• Speakers and flat screens

Often in contracts as being “excluded” from the sale, even though they are considered personal property

and do not convey with the house. Not a bad practice to write it in so as to not be misunderstood, but

technically the only things required to stay with

the property are the mounts and brackets (unless otherwise excluded).

• Utilities kept on by seller

If a seller does not furnish a Sellers Disclosure, and is at any time up to closing.

• Notices

The contract requires that any notices must be sent to

a specific place (filled in by each party). If the contract says that a buyer’s notice must be delivered to the

seller, then if it is delivered to the seller’s agent it may not be effective or enforceable.

• Repairs

Unless otherwise agreed to in writing, the contract states that repairs must be done by a person

commercially engaged in the business of such repairs, or licensed if one is required. If a seller wants to get

agreement to personally do the repairs, it needs to be stated as such in the written amendment.

What’s the bottom line? When you are ready to be

a buyer or a seller, make sure you are represented by a realtor engaged in the business of knowing and

understanding the contractual forms that are going to be used. The more you

know, the less you worry, and the better your sale or purchase!

In vacant homes, sellers occasionally turn off gas, electric and water to save a few dollars. But the

contract requires that the seller keep them on, insuring proper maintenance and operation, and keeping the home inspection-ready.

should expect.

• Buyer accepts the property “As Is”

This does NOT mean that the buyer is waiving the right to an inspection, nor does it mean you should not expect the buyer to come back to negotiate for

repairs once the inspection is done. All it means at the time of the contract is that, at that moment in time, the buyer is not aware of specific repairs that need • Termination option

Only the buyer has the unrestricted right to terminate the contract after it is signed, the seller has no such right. That right is typically in the first 7-10 days

(negotiated), and is the time in which the inspection is performed and repairs agreed upon. What’s important to know is that this right is UNRESTRICTED,

meaning the buyer is not required to have or give any reason to terminate.

• Buyer financing approval

Once the option period expires, there are more

time-sensitive hurdles. On the Third Party Financing Addendum, the buyer and seller agree to the number

of days the buyer has to give notice if unable to secure credit approval, usually 21 days or so. If the buyer

gives such notice in the prescribed time frame, the contract terminates and the buyer gets the earnest

money refunded. If that period expires and then the

buyer gives such notice, the contract still terminates,

but the seller has a right to claim the earnest money, or seek other remedies.

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A Family That

Works Together, Sticks Together

By Steve Gamel

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dam Burrows thought he was going to have another normal day in the courtroom assisting his father, Dale Burrows, a well-respected family law attorney in Highland Village.

But just before the hearing, Adam received a text message that changed his life and further solidified their father-son bond.

“Dad!” Adam said while clutching Dale’s arm.

“I just passed the bar exam.”

Adam and Dale have different versions of what happened next. Dale said his son shot out of his chair so fast he nearly hit the ceiling. Adam argued it was Dale who couldn’t contain himself.

“I told the judge, ‘Your honor, before we call the first witness, I have to announce that he – my son – just passed the bar,’ ” said Dale, who owns the Law Office of Dale A. Burrows, P.C. “Everyone was so excited, even the clients who couldn’t stand

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each other were clapping. A few days later, we were standing in front of a judge in Denton and Adam was getting sworn in. It was a special moment.”

The people Adam wanted to share that moment with first were his mom and dad, and his wife, Jessica, who owns NextGen Counseling PLLC in Flower Mound where she focuses on teen therapy.

Jessica could see Adam was calling her, but she was on the other line with her adviser planning out the final components of her Ph.D. program.

When they finally had a chance to talk, both were speechless. All their hard work – dreams of getting through school, being successful, and finding new ways to help people – was paying off.

“I was so happy for him,” Jessica said. “We like to spin plates, and we are always looking at what’s next in our lives.”

There’s a saying in the Burrows house that “Dad’s Plan” is the only plan. The plan was to see Adam grow up and one day join Dale, who would eventually hand over the keys to his law office.

None of it happened quite the way Dale expected, but he knows they’re heading down the right road.

“It’s been a long road, but we couldn’t be more excited for them both,” Dale said.

The long road to “Dad’s Plan”

If there was a textbook for how to follow the conventional path, Dale Burrows would likely be the author. Dale has practiced law in Texas for more than 20 years and has extensive courtroom experience as a litigator of family law cases, having tried 24 jury trials in his career. After graduating from St. Mary’s University Law School and passing the bar in 1992, Mr. Burrows moved to Tyler and was appointed as an assistant district attorney in Upshur County.

In 1996, he moved to the Metroplex with his wife Peggy and Adam. Dale has since worked for the Texas Attorney General’s Office, Child Support Enforcement Division and with private practice law firms. Dale has been board certified as a specialist in family law since 2001, and he runs his practice in Highland Village with the upmost integrity. He recently was selected as co-director for the Flower Mound Bar. He always saw Adam following in his footsteps.

“While Adam was growing up, that’s when I was going to law school. When he was in the second grade, there was a fair at school and a fortune teller asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up.

He said, ‘I want to be a law student like my dad,’” Dale chuckled. “I always thought that was pretty cool. It was all he knew.”

Things didn’t exactly run smooth along the way, though – for Adam or Jessica.

Both followed a winding road that saw them fail out of college and waffle on which direction they wanted to go in life – most of which happened

before they met one another. When they met, it was love at first sight. They were finding their way, and it wasn’t long before they got married and then had their daughter, Joce.

Adam credits Jessica’s renewed perseverance with initially helping him get on track.

Jessica was back at the University of North Texas rebuilding her college career. She admits she had a .69 grade point average when she started, but retook all her classes and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in psychology. And by the way, she went into labor with Joce shortly after taking her last final exam.

“That’s dedication right there,” Adam laughed.

Jessica went on to get her Master of Art in Counseling from Dallas Baptist University, with an emphasis on adolescents who were victims of sexual abuse.

“I came from a small town called Rio Vista, Texas, and I didn’t have a steady father figure,” Jessica said. “It was a rough upbringing, and I think that helps me relate to kids I work with. I made a lot of mistakes, though. Somehow, through Adam and his family, I found my way back.”

So did Adam, who despite an open door back home, opted to figure things out on his own. At 16 years old, Adam was discovered by a modeling agency in Dallas and eventually spent two summers in New York. He did well, but quickly realized modeling wasn’t for him.

He graduated from high school and was accepted to the University of Oklahoma, but partied too hard and decided school wasn’t for him, either. He came back home and had a steady job in sales when he met Jessica.

“I watched her graduate, and was so proud of her. I remember thinking, I can do this,” he said.

A revelation, and a family comes together

Adam was doing well for himself working in jewelry sales. Then late one night he woke up with a thought running through his head.

“I was going to law school,” Adam said. “The light bulb had gone off and I was ready.”

There were a few problems, though. Jessica was still getting her master’s degree, working on her practicum hours at Denton County Child Advocacy Center, Adam was their only source of income, and they had Joce. Jessica was nervous, but had been telling Adam he needed to finish school.

To make it work, Adam and Jessica committed themselves to an all-in approach. They took summer classes and the max number per semester to finish as quickly as possible.

“There were weekends where we’d be sitting in bed together studying, with paperwork all over,” Jessica said. “It was one of those things where we both decided, ‘let’s do this together.’ ” In the meantime, Dale and Peggy helped

support them in every way possible, even taking the time to be mentors, set goals and care for Joce.

“The entire family worked together to help them realize their dreams, which means Dale and I reached our dreams,” Peggy said. “We could see it was taking a lot of dedication on their part, and we wanted them to succeed. We encouraged them and helped them get where they had to be.”

Adam graduated from UNT with a B.A. in Psychology, then earned his Doctorate of Jurisprudence degree in 2014 from Texas A&M School of Law in Fort Worth.

“Without that village mentality, I don’t think we would have got as far as we did,” Adam said.

“We did the work, but we supported each other along the way. We set goals, met those goals, and now we’ll set more.”

The finished product

Jessica cringed when someone congratulated them for achieving their goals. Yes, the school part of the experience may be over, but for Adam and Jessica they’re just getting started.

Jessica’s next goal at NextGen Counseling is to hire and teach more counselors so she can reach more teens who need that lifeline of support. She’s already hired one counselor and is in the process of bringing in another to help take their message of hope to the next level.

Adam is working with Dale in the law firm and is still showing how fast a learner he is.

“He puts a spin on things and I’m thinking, ‘Wow, I need to try that,’ ” Dale said. “There’s been days where he’s in front of my desk half a dozen times asking questions or having me look over his work. Now it’s not as often, and it thrills him. It’s going to be sad when he doesn’t need me anymore.

But I’ll always be available.”

After all, that’s the biggest part of “Dad’s Plan.”

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Coaching Corner

T Move F-o-r-w-a-r-d oday

By Stacy L. Allen, CACP

A

s I talk with people, I notice two common things that can keep us stuck mentally, physically and spiritually: regret over the past and fear of the future. When we spend too much energy disappointed about yesterday or worrying about tomorrow, we miss living today.

today wiser, stronger and healthier because of

attention. This moment is the one you can

Worry about the future

help, try, speak, dream, give, breathe, think,

the distance. Making some plans is necessary

potential. Regardless of what has happened in

Regret over the past First, stop looking behind you. We don’t have eyes in the back of our heads for a reason. We’ve all made mistakes. Life is more about where we’re going than it is about where we’ve been. Our past negative choices and experiences can become valuable if we let them. Make an agreement with yourself that, from this point forward, you will choose to use what you have learned to grow personally and to help someone else. Forgiving yourself and others often is necessary to clear the negativity of the past from your heart and mind.

Don’t allow your past to define you. Simply live

on what may or may not happen, it becomes

have the power to make now as wonderful as it

trouble from tomorrow when today needs our

forward one step at a time is a gift we can give

what you now understand.

maximize to the fullest. Laugh, work, play, sing,

Next, quit straining to look too far ahead in

exercise, believe – each moment has unique

and beneficial, but when the focus is too much

the past or what may happen in the future, we

counterproductive. Why should we borrow

can be. Choosing a positive path and moving

best investment? Much of what we worry about

never happens, and many problems we feel anxious about are beyond our control. Worry

has zero power to change the future, but the choices made today definitely will. Simply take

action now.

Do your best today

Instead, look directly at the steps you want

to take today. This is the day that needs your

ourselves each day. Our minds, bodies and spirits will thank us.

Stacy L. Allen, CACP is a Certified Coaching

Practitioner who helps people find their value and

reach their personal, relationship or professional

goals. Ask Stacy your questions at questions@ stacylallen.com or contact her for more info about her services at 972-965-6487.

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Run Lantana 5K

Sept. 19 Event to Benefit Corinth’s

Spirit Horse Therapeutic Center

By Mark Miller

P

articipants in the sixth-annual Run

Lantana 5K Run and Walk will be helping a new beneficiary.

Spirit Horse Therapeutic Center will be the

recipient of the proceeds from the 2015 event

scheduled for Sept. 19 at 8:30 a.m. at Blanton Elementary School. The Corinth-based facility helps children with special needs reach their full

“They make the best therapy horses,” he said. “They are gentle and well-trained. Each child develops a relationship with the horse and pony.”

Children’s Advocacy Center of Denton County

(2010), the Hydrocephalus Foundation (2011), PediPlace (2012) and Cumberland Presbyterian Children’s Home (2013 and 2014).

“We always look for local charities in the

Denton County area to help,” said Mark Norton,

Lantana’s community manager and event chair.

“There are so many that need help. We wanted

Charles (Fletcher, Spirit Horse’s founder and chief executive officer) and was blown away.”

The 76-year-old Fletcher, who donated 17 acres of property he’s owned since 1977 and where he raised his family in starting Spirit Horse in 2002, was overjoyed when Norton contacted him in June.

“We really appreciate their help,” Fletcher said.

to look for somebody new and through the

“Since everything here is free of charge, we have

helped children and Spirit Horse came up. I met

of our size in the country that doesn’t charge.”

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funding

comes

from

charitable

foundations. Corporations like Subaru, Met Life, McAfee, IKEA, Co-Serv, Deloitte, and Grande Communications also are very helpful as are area Lions and Rotary clubs.

Interestingly, Fletcher and Lantana are no

strangers as he hunted coyotes, foxes, and bobcats in the 1980s and 1990s on the land where the

potential through interaction with horses.

Previous groups the run has helped were the

Fletcher said about 60 percent of Spirit

Horse’s

to work hard to raise funds. We’re the only center

community sits. He said red tinted coyotes roamed the south part of the area while grey coyotes and bobcats preferred the north end. He said the only other creatures around were cattle.

Today, his facility features horses, 33 of

them to be exact, who serve approximately 400 families from 10 North Texas counties in the

fall and spring. About 40-50% of those helped have autism.

The animals generally are ages 15-33 and

retired from a show career.

“They make the best therapy horses,” he said.

Lantanaresident

“They are gentle and well-trained. Each child

develops a relationship with the horse and pony.”

This

year’s

run/walk

course

will

take

participants down Stacee Lane, then down the bike and hike trail, to Lantana Trail, then back to Stacee before finishing back at Blanton.

The entry fee will be $25 for adults and $15

for children through Aug. 31. It will be $30 and $20 from Sept. 1 until race day, then $35 and $25 on-site.

Vendor tents will be erected to pass out food

and beverage and participants will receive a

The entry fee will be $25 for adults and $15 for children through Aug. 31.

T-shirt and bag. Norton said the event has raised

It will be $30 and $20 from Sept. 1 until race day,

“We started to offer prize money a few years

then $35 and $25 on-site.

nearly $35,000 in the first five years.

ago which brought some more elite racers but

we’re looking for families to come have a great time and support a great cause,” Norton said.

More information and registration is available

at the runlantana5K.com web site. Norton also can answer questions at 940-728-2000.

Vendor tents will be erected to pass out food and beverage and participants will receive a T-shirt and bag. www.RunLantana5k.com

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Gardening

Improve SimpleIdeas with

Your Outdoor Living Space

By PJ Kratohvil Complete Exterior Solutions 214-735-1364

Is your outdoor living space in need of a makeover, or does one even exist? Now that it’s August and summer is coming to a close, do you remember looking out back and cringing at the thought of inviting friends over for a BBQ? Whether you have a small space, or a wide open entertaining area there are simple, cost efficient solutions for converting that “Drab to Fab!” Here are six ways to dress up your outdoor living space.

Arbor/Pergola

Seating

Adding one to your outdoor living space will help define your patio and “hangout zone” from the rest of your backyard. It can lend your space more privacy and shade leaving you with a more finished look whether you’re under it or inside looking out at it.

The right seating for your outdoor living space can make all the difference. Whether it’s a custom stone bench around the fire pit, or some built-in seat walls you can never have enough seating.

Knowing all your options and planning the space correctly won’t only serve an update but will allow you to maximize your square footage.

Bar/Kitchen Turn your patio into the ultimate hot spot with a customized bar stocked with all the necessary items to make every weekend the perfect outdoor party.

Not having to push around that old grill but having a built-in structure with ample counter space makes a night and day difference when you’re cooking for the family or entertaining a backyard full of friends.

Fire Pits Fire pits are a nice addition to any outdoor space.

These can be used all year long to create a glowing backyard on any evening. They not only serve as a place to get warm but add another destination or spot to gather.

Garden Fountain A water feature looks great in both large and small outdoor living spaces. Not only does it look great but the tranquility it can bring is priceless!

Potted Plantings At the end of the day when you have the space just about how you want it try setting out some adequate size pots (different sizes/shapes) and fill’em up. Placing some good size pots with a nice balance of plant material really helps to finish off any space and soften the environment, helping to blend all the textures and lines you’ve created throughout.

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INGREDIENTS

Cornbread IN A

CAN Makes 1 loaf

1 egg beaten 1 Tbsp sugar 1/3 cup whole milk 1/2 cup All purpose flour 1/2 cup organic cornmeal 1 1/2 tsp baking powder 1/4 tsp black pepper half jalapeño pepper, seeded and chopped 1 corn cob roasted and cut off the cob or if need a can use 1/2 cup corn from 14oz can drained 341 ml can clean 1/4 cup green onions pinch of kosher salt vegetable spray parchment paper

Butter

SERVE and enjoy or let us do it and visit us at Prime Farm to Table Restaurant for cornbread in a can with your meal.

soften butter whipped with toasted TX pecans, local honey and pinch of gray sea salt

INSTRUCTIONS

1. PREHEAT oven to 375°F. Remove

the label from can. Rinse out and dry well.

Cut a 6” x 12” piece of parchment paper.

Spray the interior of the Can with cooking spray. Line the inside of the can with

Lantanaresident

PrimeFarmTotable

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parchment that extends a few inches above the rim of the can. Spray the inside of the parchment with cooking spray and set aside.

2. STIR in egg with sugar and milk in a medium bowl. Combine in separate bowl flour with cornmeal, baking powder, salt and pepper. Stir dry ingredients into wet and add jalapeño,corn, and green onions until combined.

3. SPOON the mixture into the can. The parchment will let it rise higher then the can without it going over.

4. BAKE in the center of the oven for 40 to 45 minutes, or until a skewer inserted into the cornbread comes out clean. Let cool and rest for five minutes.

Thank you Chef Chris Flahaven

Open Table (Reservations Online)

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pediatric dentistry yields

healthy smiles, H A P P Y

K I D S

Romney Pediatric Dentistry may be the proverbial new kid on the block, but that won’t stop its staff from making its mark on the neighborhood — and brightening each child’s smile along the way.

By: Steve Gamel Located in Bartonville Town Center across from FM 407 near Lantana, Romney Pediatric has earned quite a following for a business that is so new to the community. Dr. Nathan Romney has eight years of experience in the industry and is overjoyed to bring his own brand of child-centered dental care to the area.

“I can’t tell you how excited I am,” Romney said. “I’ve always wanted to do something like this, and it’s finally the right time in my life to make it happen. Lantana has a great atmosphere and is known as a tight-knit community. That’s why we moved here as a family. My goal is to be a contributing part of this community, raise my family here and keep Lantana smiling!”

Romney, who with his wife Lanni have four children under the age of eight, is a true professional who lives and breathes for

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his patients and craft. He spent several years working in general dentistry in Mansfield, but realized his most rewarding days were spent treating children. That’s when he went back to school to focus on pediatric dentistry, with a goal of one day opening his own practice.

Three years later, Romney Pediatric Dentistry is finally here.

A child’s trip to the dentist doesn’t have to be scary; it should be fun! This is at the heart of everything Romney plans on doing with his new business.

It starts with the realization that parents have options in North Texas for pediatric dentistry. Not only is Romney Pediatric an option close to home, but the staff members differentiates themselves by catering to each child’s individual needs rather than promote a cookie-cutter solution for everyone.

940.455.7339 3600 FM 407 Suite 160 www.romneykidsdental.com Romney Pediatric Dentistry attacks dental care from all angles, including routine dental cleanings and exams to X-rays, extractions, fluoride treatments and parent-patient education.

As Romney explains, “I’m trying to create a positive experience for kids at a young age so they continue to seek help with their dental needs over time. We want to be known as a compassionate and caring providers who set children up for a lifetime of healthy smiles.”

Dr. Romney invites you and yours to join Team Romney!

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Lantana Duo Among Leaders for 2015

Marching Season When the 2015 Guyer High School marching

band takes to the football field for the first

time Aug. 28 at Allen, it will feature a large contingent of Lantana students led by two of the

we got to change some things. Also there were

instruments;

had worked.”

percussion

able to maintain a number of traditions we knew Woody said a lot of time and effort was required

community’s own.

to make the changes which she believes is paying off

while fellow senior Nicole Mendyka is one of two

and up from 140 last year.

Elizabeth Rivera is this year’s head drum major

assistants along with senior Austin Talia. They hope to make Amy Woody’s second year as Guyer’s director of bands even better than the first.

“It was exciting and extremely daunting,” Woody

said of her debut which came after seven years as an

for the 165-member band, largest in school history “Already the second year feels much calmer

which is good,” she said. “I think there’s a lot of excitement around the new things we’re doing with the program.”

Woody and her staff revamped the marching

Ellis

Hampton, and

drum

corps; Susan Hanggi, color

guard; and Alan Miller, program coordinator.

That group will lead the Wildcat band in its

2015 field production called “Game of Cards.” It’s somewhat of a play on the “Game of Thrones” book/ movie series where two sides battle it out on the field through card games.

“Literally we’re going to have gigantic cards,”

Woody said. “There will be a lot of effects on the

associate director. “It was easy that I knew the kids

program focusing on more efficient rehearsal time

things to get done, things to refresh in the program

that the Guyer band isn’t just about high school

going to have a giant king of hearts and a king of

Middle School in Lantana and Crownover Middle

dueling. So the whole story is being told on which

because I had been here but there also was a lot of and the image of the program.

“Last year we got a chance to look at what had

worked in the past and where we needed to refresh because we’re a much bigger school than

we were 10 years ago. With a new person in charge

use similar to a drum corps. They also re-emphasized

field associated with card games. We’re literally

students but actually starts in sixth grade at Harpool

spades on the field and two houses are going to be

School in Corinth.

side is going to win.”

Working with Woody this year is new teacher

Tyler

Brinkman,

who

specializes

in

brass

The music will be from the original soundtrack

of the video game Destiny by a compilation of composers including Paul McCartney. Miller is

arranging it for Guyer’s show which was granted free licensing rights, quite unusual for high school bands.

The first public viewing of this year’s show will

be at the Wildcat Showcase on Aug. 21 at the

C.H. Collins Complex in Denton where Woody

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hopes to have Part 1 ready. The first home game is Sept. 3 against Ennis which also will be Middle School Night.

The contest season will be in October first with

the U.S. Bands event at Collins on Oct. 3, the

Bands of America regional in Arlington on Oct. 10, the University Interscholastic League regional Oct. 21 at Collins and another U.S. Bands event Oct. 31 in Midlothian.

Woody’s ultimate goal is to grow the band to

where it can compete in the BOA Super Regional

in San Antonio and BOA Nationals in Indianapolis.

But the concert band will be on a major stage

this school year playing New York’s Carnegie Hall in March.

“We have a big freshman class so we’ve got a lot

of younger kids who are real excited,” Woody said.

“The show so far is going great. The biggest thing

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them on how to rehearse.”

Sensitive Don’t Be So

H

ave you ever been upset, and a wellintentioned friend tells you not to be so sensitive? Does this piece of advice ever help?

• How do I know if I have sensitive skin?

I believe there is not a quicker way to get a more painful reaction. Telling somebody to be different, without the ability to teach one how, never is helpful. You already were feeling bad, then someone points out your faults, “you need to be more thick-skinned” and then they wonder why you feel even worse.

damaged skin presents as hyperpigmentation,

There is an entry in the Oxford English Dictionary, earliest quotation 1582, for thick skin which states “a person dull or slow of feeling.”

Hmmm, is this really what I would like to be?

For all of my sensitive, thin-skinned friends

By Rebecca Romanucci,

RN Advanced Aesthetic Registered Nurse Injector Owner/Manager RSR Medical Skin Rejuvenation, L.L.C.

Rejuvenation

Don’t be so sensitive • The No. 1 one way to protect your skin is to minimize exposure to UV light, wear a broad-spectrum sunscreen.

constantly susceptible to damage. As we age,

• Apply a topical antioxidant such as a Vitamin C Serum, which will defend the skin against oxidative stress.

dullness, lines and wrinkles, laxity and

• Apply a retinoid, Vitamin A, which will

The skin is a living, ever-changing organ

experience burning, stinging or redness

boost collagen to reduce fine lines and speed cell turnover to even out discoloration and smooth the skin, as well as unclog pores.

signs of sensitivity may present in the form of

• Stay hydrated.

dehydration. Patients with sensitive ski

after applying skin care products. Severe pustules, scaling, or rash-like symptoms.

• Who is most likely to have sensitive skin?

Sensitive skin can affect anyone, however, we see it more often in individuals with

thin, dry skin. These individuals generally have a damaged skin barrier function,

which could be hereditary but also may

result from environmental damage such as cold, wind, heat, dryness, pollution and even contact dermatitis.

• Apply a good moisturizer, which holds moisture, preventing water loss improving hydration to the skin.

• Wear rubber kitchen gloves when using hot water and chemicals.

• In the winter, don’t take hot showers, don’t overheat your house, and use a humidifier to keep moisture in the air.

Hopefully, the next time you hear a person say, “Don’t be so sensitive,” you already will have the tools to teach them how to do exactly that.

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From Dr. Matt

Does Your Child Require a

Dental Specialist?

A

s a father of seven, many like to assume that handling children is a walk in the park, and

for the most part, it’s true. However, we recently

young children or children who lack adequate behavior control during dental treatment, a

pediatric referral by your family dentist may

spent a weekend family getaway to SeaWorld’s

be warranted.

herd fish, we quickly realized that this situation

can help you determine if your child needs

waterpark, and as my wife and I attempted to called for professional help.

If you ever are in doubt, your family dentist

special attention. Most dental treatment and

Sometimes, the same can be true for your child

routine cleanings can be managed by your family

a dental professional. With that in mind, let’s

a parent may remain with the child during the

your child visit a pediatric dentist.

help avoid any additional professional fees

when special situations require the attention of

dentist, and unlike some specialized treatments,

discuss why your family dentist may recommend

appointment. In addition, these visits also may

Most family dentists are happy to treat your

child, but there are some circumstances that require the aid of a pediatric dentist. If your child is at high risk of tooth decay or requires a significant amount of treatment, a pediatric dentist can complete the treatment with fewer

visits, either under sedation or in a hospital setting depending on the severity of the case. When

extensive dental treatment is necessary for very

required by a specialist. In either case, the true

bottom line is ensuring your child is getting the proper dental care.

Enjoy the rest of your summer and don’t forget

to get your child’s dental appointment in for the

school year. Happy smiling!

Dr. Matt is a practicing dentist and owner of Country Lakes Family Dental

www.CountryLakesDental.com

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“Q

uest of the Keys

Aims to Entertain, Build Character

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By Eric Williams

cotty Sanders wanted to write a great fantasy adventure novel, but not simply as a vehicle to entertain. The Lantana grandfather has enjoyed success in business ownership, non-profit organization leadership and speaking/instructing as a consultant. Like a lot of successful people, he wants to share what he’s learned.

“My purpose in life is to encourage and empower others,” Sanders explained. Thus while “Quest of the Keys” is a compelling tale, the characters exhibit traits that are foundational to productive lives and successful relationships.

The book, aimed at audiences in middle schools and high schools, is popular as a character education resource.

“What we are trying to say is relate to the character, relate to the story and learn life-changing principles along the way,” Sanders explained in an interview with “Lantana Living.”

Sanders has been successful in marketing the book to schools and teachers around the country for use in character education programs though it also can be used as an English/Language Arts resource. Sanders said schools in 30 states are using the book including a number of campuses around the Metroplex. He’s hopeful that creation of a non-profit corporation will make the books, student guides, teacher guides, posters and other resources available for simply the cost of shipping.

Lantanaresident

Central to the book’s success are compelling characters and a powerful narrative. The hero in “Quest of the Keys” is Decklen and the book tells his story of redemption. He is introduced in promotional materials as follows: “After suffering a tragic loss, Decklen turned his back on everything he loved and set out to find himself in the world. Like so many before, Decklen found solace in the pleasures and promises of Arygros. But the pleasures cost all he had, and the promises soon faded into a never-ending con game. Trapped for years in the blackness of the nearby silver mines, Decklen at last risks a daring escape accompanied by a young and impetuous companion.”

Among “Quest of the Keys’ ” great fans is Abby Grace LoBello, 10, entering fifth grade at E.P. Rayzor Elementary School. Sanders’ granddaughter, she is an avid reader and took on a book aimed at an older audience. She said her favorite character in the book is Camberly, a character with whom she can identify.

“She is a feisty and fearless,” Abby said. “She loves adventures even when it gets her in trouble or puts her in danger. Camberly would do anything to save her brother.”

“I really love Decklen’s character He is a hero!

He braves dangerous situations and is trying to find himself throughout the story.”

Abby actually appears in some of the promotional materials for “Quest of the Keys.” She worked in the company of professional actors to portray Camberly.

“It was a wonderful experience,” she said. “The atmosphere was fun with the other characters. I loved my red wig with out-of-control curls. It is actually like my real hair except red.”

Sanders said the book seeks to impart important social and emotional learning so critical to success.

Middle school is an especially important time to reach students. Often frustrations that lead to dropping out become manifest in middle school.

Youngsters that age have to deal with issues like temptation and bullying.

“We’re using an engaging story to capture the imagination,” Sanders said. “Students are engaged and entertained while they learn character development principles.”

Sanders is passionate about the mission to reach

these youngsters.

“The next generation matters,” he said. “I have

four granddaughters in that generation.”

He wants all of them to have solid character

and be able to write well, speak well and engage in lifelong learning.

Sanders and Cindy, his wife of 37 years, have

lived in Lantana for eight years.

“We love it here…we love the people and the

community,” he said. They are especially pleased to have a son, a daughter, two granddaughters and a son-in-law living just three minutes away.

For more information on “Quest of the Keys”

visit the website questofthekeys.com.

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Upscale Home

Consider Exotic Elements When Planning for Your Comfort Space

Y

es, school is starting up with the streets lined with moms and dads walking their children to and from school when they can

get in that leisurely stroll. Then there are the others who will be back to the insanity of getting everyone

up and dressed, fed, teeth brushed, finding shoes, insisting on a shirt change because somehow the one they wanted to wear didn’t get dry even though

it was hung under the vent, and so it goes as you’re off to a full work day.

It’s time for you to take a minute and make your

home that comfort space that you seriously need

at the end of your day. The space that will change

everything the minute you open the door and are met with a warm welcome that takes you to another

place. This is your place, the space that has been

created with the features and feel that allow you to instantly know how good life is. Your energy level rises, you’re smiling as you go toward the bedroom to get comfortable, you might even pull off a real meal yourself. Hey, it could happen!

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It could but not without a little planning and with your schedule, you’ll need a little help. Think about what makes you comfortable and feel relaxed.

There are so many ways to add those inspirational features to your home. Think about adding an exotic element to your decor for a surprising touch. It creates conversation and personalizes your home.

What do you consider an exotic home element?

That definition has changed over time as our worlds have become smaller, and our population more diverse. We have more access to purchasing interior design elements from other cultures, in addition to bringing them home from our own travels. Most people consider the following as exotic elements to add to their home décor: • • • • • • • •

Indian or East Asian fabrics Moroccan or Indonesian end tables and lanterns Japanese ceramic stools Asian stone sculptures Exotic woods with dramatic grains and textures Carpets and artifacts from the Southwest U.S. Tiles from almost any country Rugs from Turkey, Kashmir, and many other countries

The trick is to add enough exotic to make a room interesting, but not so much that the room is cluttered or looks out of place for your lifestyle.

A little goes a long way with exotic elements. Most of these items are hand-crafted so you won’t see the same piece in a friend or neighbor’s home! And you’re adding to the individuality of your home, especially if you brought the piece back from a special trip.

Even in minimalist décor, one or two touches of the exotic can stand out; actually they’ll stand out even more than in a cluttered room. And even if the pieces are exotic and special, they can be in neutral colors that keep the Zen feeling going strong.

Personalize your decor with an exotic element or two this year. It’s a conversation starter that will add personality and energy to your home.

By Paula Kratohvil, Owner Complete Interior Solutions 972-436-9083

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G

uyer football coach John Walsh said his team’s jump last year to Class 6A was not what cut short its playoff run.

The Wildcats have been perennial playoff favorites regardless of classification, competing in three state title games in two different classes over the last five seasons.

Walsh’s squad had all the necessary pieces

By Steve Gamel

He’ll have a new-look wide receiver core

where the Wildcats gave up 31 first-half points in a

on offense to make another run in 2014,

around him, including sophomores Donovan

“It’s totally different now,” said Walsh, who led

Mwaniki and seniors J.T. Ashcraft and Brandon

since 2011.

receiver – Ashcraft is the only returner from

linebacker Mike Carrillo, last year’s District 5-6A

but not on defense.

Guyer to back-to-back Class 4A titles in 2012 and

2013. “Not only do we still have the offense – and a quarterback – to go win us a championship, but we feel like we have that championship defense, too. So long as we have that combo, we have a shot.”

When Guyer takes the field against defending

state champion Allen on Aug. 28, it will feature a defense loaded with six returning starters. Not to be

outdone, last year’s prolific offensive unit returns five starters, including all-everything junior quarterback Shawn Robinson.

It starts with Robinson, a Texas Christian

University commit who is listed as the state’s

No. 1 dual-threat quarterback in his class by 247

Greenhoward and Colton Phillips, junior Thabo

Daniel. Despite having to start over at wide 2014 – Walsh said this year’s group could be just as strong, especially with Robinson throwing them the ball.

Guyer looks just as deep in the running game.

Last year’s primary threat, Anthony Taylor, has been replaced by Christian Moore, Myron Mason and Noah Cain. Returning fullback

Austin Luna will again play a huge role this year, as will an offensive line anchored by Gunnar

Chance, Gage Mallory, Cesar Vidana and tight end Brian Polendey.

“Last year, Anthony was our home run

58-42 loss to Southlake Carroll.

That loss marked the team’s earliest playoff exit Leading this year’s charge defensively is senior

Defensive Most Valuable Player. Carrillo posted

110 tackles last season, 20 of those coming behind

the line of scrimmage, and is viewed as one of the hardest pure hitters in the area.

He is one of three big-time linebackers for

the Wildcats, including Dharius Timmons and

Dante Ramacher. Defensive ends Cameron Wax and Tevan McAdams are expected to have big

seasons up front while returning defensive starters

Daniel and Mwaniki split time in the secondary and at receiver.

“Carrillo sets the tempo for the entire defense,

Sports. Last year as a sophomore, Robinson passed

hitter at running back, but these guys all have

touchdowns. Guyer finished the season ranked No.

hitters everywhere.”

Walsh said. “We knew last year that the biggest

per game.

defense was picked apart by injury early in the

We don’t see it that way this time around, and we’re

scratched in that breakout season, but he

Wildcats gave up nearly 30 points per game. It all

some key spots, so I think we’re ready to go make

for 2,779 yards, rushed for 1,416 and had 50 total

2 in 6A in offense with just more than 542 yards Many believe Robinson’s ceiling was barely

can’t do it alone.

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that ability,” Walsh said. “We have home run

and he’s as physical a player as I have ever coached,”

As good as Guyer’s offense was last season, its

hurdle we would have to overcome was our defense.

season and never fully recovered. On the year, the

ready to show it. We’ve got some playmakers in

reached a head in the second round of the playoffs,

another run at it.”

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Choices and Consequences:

they are communicating with on their devices (text, instant message, etc.), what they are communicating about, and what sites they are visiting on the Internet.

You must be consistent in your monitoring. The key to success is what you do with the information that you gain while monitoring.

It is important that you teach your kids through the poor choices they make so you build their trust and they learn that they can ask you for advice in advance. In our family, we generally engage our kids in a discussion to educate them on what is appropriate and discipline for a repeat violation of a clear rule.

Our strict monitoring has been very helpful in teaching our kids how to communicate more effectively with their peers.

Five Rules for Safe Internet Use

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hen I was growing up, cartoons were only on Saturday mornings, it was rude to use call waiting, and the poor choices you made were “life lessons” that generally resulted in a sore bottom, being grounded, or both. The lessons would be learned and the consequences suffered in a relatively small circle (your home or community), but would long be forgotten by the time you entered the job market.

Today, the Internet and easy access to it through mobile devices allows the sharing of information at unprecedented rates. Mobile devices allow us to record our lives, share information to the world, and make comments on the information shared by others.

Information that used to be relatively closely held is now public and available to be used by anyone who finds it. The problem is that people (especially our kids) may have a greater desire to be popular than respected and what they post, like, or otherwise share on the Internet, may not be a true reflection of who they are or who they will become. As a result, the choices our kids make in how they use the Internet may have unexpected consequences.

In September 2013, a United States Court of Appeals court ruled that “Liking” a post on a social media site is a “substantive statement” being made by the user and is entitled to the same free speech protections as other modes of expression. In other words, if you “Like” a post on Facebook you are adopting the statement or endorsing it as your own statement. Yes, a simple click is the same as publishing text that states you agree with or support whatever was liked.

From your “Likes” and other posts on social media sites, social profiles are built and your digital brand is born. This digital brand is used by companies to market their products and services to you. More concerning is that more than 90 percent of employers utilize information found on social media sites when making a hiring decision. Information found on the Internet is used in my practice as a family lawyer and we use it in our home to monitor who our kids are with and what our kids are doing when we are not with them.

The technological culture that parents face

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often is overwhelming and causes many parents to ignore the threat or to simply throw up their hands insisting they cannot master this unfamiliar new culture. But understanding our technological world and the potential consequences of the improper use of it are now a necessity that must be undertaken to protect your child’s future opportunities, health, and safety.

Our children need to understand that their digital choices today may have consequences that are long term and presently totally unexpected. Here are five rules to help you manage safe Internet use with your family.

Know Which Sites/Applications Your Child Uses (and Might Use)

Every parent needs to be up-to-date on the latest applications and social media trends. Twitter, Snapchat and Instagram have largely replaced Facebook among younger users. Keep track of what is trending in social media and consistently look at the applications that your child is using. Monitor the sites they visit and make sure you are following them and their friends. Currently, you can gather a lot of information about the choices your kids and their friends are making via Instagram.

Get All Logins and Passwords

The most important thing to remember is that Internet use is a privilege not a right. You should require your child to provide you with his or her logins and passwords to each and every site, social media account, and/or device. If this demand sparks a tantrum, then your child is not ready for his or her own device or instant access to the Internet!

If your child does not want to provide you with this information you should ask yourself what they are hiding.

Make it Clear – NO Privacy

Your child should not have an expectation of privacy with their electronic devices, the applications on the devices, or the Internet sites they visit. Make it clear to your child that you will be looking at who

No Deleting Rule (Automatically Back Up Your Child’s Postings) In our house our kids are not allowed to delete anything on their devices. If they do delete something, it is an automatic loss of the privilege of using any device. This rule reduces the likelihood that a problematic post or inappropriate text message will be deleted before you see it. If you set your devices to back up automatically to the cloud (wirelessly) you can restore a back up to confirm any suspected deletions. A number of tools, such as the Uknowkids app, can help you accomplish this.

Set a Good Example

What messages do your “likes” convey? Do your postings convey an accurate picture of who you are? Do your postings lift others up or tear them down? Are your posts positive or beneficial to the reader? What does your social profile say about you? These questions need to be considered by all of us and when we are using the Internet we must lead by example.

If you want your child to be safe on the Internet and protect its future opportunities, you need to model intelligent Internet use. After all, when we practice what we preach, we are in a much stronger position when it comes to enforcing family rules.

It is important to remember that the proper use of technology is a life skill that parents must now teach to their kids. We cannot turn the World Wide Web over to our kids and expect them to know how to manage it. Educate your kids on the proper use of the Internet and the potentially life-alerting impact of poor choices. Teach your kids how to communicate in today’s digital age. Inform them of situations that may arise that require a face to face meeting or phone call and that a text should not be sent.

Finally, remember that the electronic device is our kid’s lifeline. If you do not take control and set boundaries now, you may quickly lose control. In the event you feel you have or are losing control, put all devices in “time out” and get back to focusing on family time.

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#GLAM

Girls Learning About Marketing

Hello!

As a business owner and a mom, I am very passionate. However; for a few years I’ve been struggling to find what I’m most impassioned about. I have had the pleasure of meeting awesome people, and I have also felt the sadness of meeting people who lack two things: a strong sense of self-worth and positive, inspiring role models. I especially see this need in women and girls.

I’ve decided to start a business for my two girls, Courtney and Maddie, ages fifteen and eight. I want to impress upon them these life and business skills and empower them. I feel that this is my job as a mom. This ties into my second passion: entrepreneurship and small business ownership.

Below is an explanation of my vision. I’d love to have you and your daughter embark on this journey with me and other like-minded moms.

The Product One of the things that was important to me when starting this business for my girls was it had to be fun. It had to offer an amazing product, great customer service, and have a giving spirit.

Then one day - my lightning bolt moment - I realized that it was right in front of me: Initials Inc..

I had been placing my back-to-school order. We were going through the Style Book, and my daughter was circling the items she liked, making suggestions, and even telling me what teacher- and birthday gifts she wished to order.

The company offers free monogramming on every item, and we can pick the font and letter color. My daughters LOVE this.

I’ve realized this with a heavy heart and I’ve wanted to do more to help. I believe that when you ask for God’s assistance, He always delivers.

The key was watching carefully for a sign. His signs are not always a lightning bolt, but one came to me. This was my realization: I believe that we give our kids everything we can. We’re moms, and there is no better feeling than that. However, what I see everyday is a generation of kids who are not learning life skills. These children never get to experience a feeling of accomplishment. Too often, kids today are sheltered from the pain of not achieving a goal at first, and are therefore never given the gift of trying again.

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At that moment, it was just so obvious what I wanted- and needed- to do. I love the idea of an organization such as the Girl Scouts, but honestly, I don’t care if my girls can sew or build a campfire. I want them to learn about real life and to attain necessary skills to be successful, no matter what they do.

The Vision I envision a group of like-minded moms helping each other, while helping their children as well.

Instead of selling Girl Scout cookies (and that’s OK for them- they do great things), the money you and your daughter earn will go to you as a 25% commission. Together, we will teach these young people to set goals, network, carry on conversations outside of texting, and more. We can educate them through business principlesfor example, taking a portion of earned revenue to reinvest in one’s business, and- I hope- so much more!

As an added bonus- imagine if your daughter was able to put on her college resume that she started a successful business, led a sales team, and had her own sales website!

Sincerely,

Kelly Murray, Founder, #GLAM Owner, Murray Media Group

To join our team, visit our site:

http://www.myinitials-inc.com/ KELLYMURRAY /content/EnrollNow.aspx For more information email info@glamdfw.com Or visit us on Facebook at /myglamgirls We will add you to upcoming events and opportunities.

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