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TAKING

ACTION

IN 2019

T

he holiday season has passed, and as we settle into the new year we start to think about what we could better ourselves on. One of the big things that I hear everyone talking about is finances, and even though every person has a different problem with their financial standing, it all boils down to action.

For example, my friend has a terrible

Every person has a problem with this and it may not be in the financial area, but in a different area like staying on a diet or going to the gym. We all have our excuses for not fulfilling our goals, and even if they are legitimate, they are still excuses nonetheless. Wishing for a better life isn’t going to get you one. You have to be able to put it into action. In this issue, there are many different articles that can help you find a solution to your 2019 goal, like

things wasn’t working. So she had to

bettering your finances. You still need to put what you read into action, and that all comes down to you. If finances are your weak points you may need to have drastic rules in place to help keep you in check.

weakness when it comes to impulse

buying. She doesn’t even realize just how much she is spending since it’s just a

little here and a little there, but the little spontaneous purchases will add up to a whole lot of problems. She needed

help and telling her to just stop buying do something drastic. She gave herself a predetermined cash allowance every

month to spend on those spontaneous items. If she ran out before the month

ended, that was it. She wasn’t allowed to buy anything else.

It seems strange for an adult to have to

put such a rule in place, but sometimes that’s what we need.

When you think about what you want to change in 2019, think more about the

actions that need to be taken. Learning

your strategy is half the battle – the other half is taking action.

Sincerely, Kelly Murray

Publisher of Murray Media Group kelly@murray-media.com

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TABLE OF

CONTENTS

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On the Cover is: Eric and Stori Olson of Proper Design Home Improvement

Covering Your Every Home Improvement Need FEATURED:

ASK THE EXPERTS

ARTICLES

10 Gardening with

08 7 Tips on Teaching Your Kids About Money

Complete Solutions

14 Home Design with ML Group 18 Dentistry with Country Lakes Family Dental

22 Counseling with

Hopemead Counseling

28 School Days with Valorie McGilvra

36 Organizing with Cloud Nine Organizing

PHOTOS FROM ARGYLE 05 Argyle Resident’s New Year Photos

26 EDITORS PICK: Argyle Resident Overwhelmed by Community Support

12 Inside Community 13 Inside Education 18 Sheriff’s Corner with Sheriff Tracy Murphree

19 Cannabidiol & Why Is It So Popular?

24 Liberty Christian Football Back on the Map 30 Foodie Friday with Jay Marks Real Estate 32 Congrats to Debbie Sardone 33 Pet of the Month 34 Ready for Taxes? 5 Common Taxes Items You Need

The Financial

ISSUE Look for the icon above and get tips and tricks on how to manage your finances.

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7 Financial Article

TIPS ON HOW TO START TEACHING YOUR KIDS

ABOUT MONEY

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by Steve Gamel

M

any of us vaguely remember the day mom and dad first grabbed an old mason jar from the cabinet or bought a cute piggy bank from the dollar store and began taking the first steps toward teaching us about money. It was a critical time in our lives as we learned what money is, the value of it, and the importance of saving.

Looking back, those memories should also be a perfect reminder that it’s never too early to teach our own children.

But where do we start? Is it literally as simple as grabbing a piggy bank and a few quarters and nickels? The short answer is yes, but there are so many other tips and tricks that can make the process easy for both yourself and the kiddos.

In no particular order, here are seven

tips on how to start teaching your kids about money:

ENCOURAGE SAVING Yes, you can still grab a clear jar to create a visual experience for your child as they

GIVE THEM AN ALLOWANCE Remember, though, that an allowance

is something that’s both a privilege and

earned. As financial guru, Dave Ramsey, once wrote, “Don’t just give your kids

money for breathing.” Give them money

see their money grow, but piggy banks

for chores they complete around the

like PointBank even offer a free piggy bank

up their bedroom. More importantly, set

kids fill up their piggy bank on their own

chore is worth a dollar while another is

the bank. The important piece here is to

BREAK OUT THE OLD-SCHOOL

watching. They see what your spending habits are – good, bad, and indifferent

– and they are listening when you argue about financial troubles with your

significant other. Don’t just talk to your

kids about money, take it a step further by living what you preach every single day.

And if you mess up, don’t be shy about

work just fine, too, and many local banks

house, like folding towels or cleaning

if you open a kids’ savings account. Your

a value for each chore – perhaps one

EDUCATE THEM ON

time, and they look forward to taking it to

worth 50 cents.

As your children take hold of a debit

make a big deal out of it and reward them for how much they save.

PAY YOURSELF FIRST

Kids are so used to playing their Nintendo

pros and cons of credit and how to make

Switch or Playstation nowadays, but us

the adage of paying yourself first. Your

chance to physically hold “play money”

old enough to have a job and pay their

It’s a great teaching tool and something

to take a percentage out and immediately

another fantastic teaching tool.

first item on this list, it’s important to stress

Games like Monopoly give your kids a

kids will understand this more as they get

as they work through different scenarios.

own bills. With each paycheck, teach them

you can do together. The game Life is also SET A GOOD EXAMPLE

used to pay her 50 cents for a chore only

Even adults make poor choices with

savings account.

remember that if you have kids, they are

to take 25 of it away and sock it in her

card for the first time, it’s easy for them to think money just magically appears

adults grew up playing board games.

here at Murray Media told us how her dad

CREDIT/DEBIT CARDS

BOARD GAMES

To piggyback (no pun intended) off the

put it in their savings account. A coworker

explaining the consequences to them.

money; it happens all the time. Just

on it every time they use it. Explain the

responsible decisions, particularly with their bank accounts.

BE PATIENT

This is perhaps the most important tip of them all. Your children will undoubtedly be exposed to different scenarios, wins,

and even losses as they continue to learn

about money and saving. It is important as the parent to be patient and to keep the communication lines open so your child

feels like they can talk freely with you. This is huge when it comes to money.

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Ask The Expert: Gardening

WELCOME TO 2019!

W

e hope everyone had a GREAT CHRISTMAS and that you’re looking forward to this new

year. As the 2019 to-do lists come out, keep in mind projects can be exciting and the rewards enjoyed for years to

come. But just remember, as we always

say: “Good labor ain’t cheap and cheap labor ain’t good.” By hiring legitimate,

local contractors, you can protect your

investments and give yourself peace of

mind – ensuring that your time and money are being well spent.

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January is a great time to get that soft screen planted. Larger shrubs and

trees do well when planted in winter due to stored nutrients and the fact

that majority of root growth happens

in winter. Everyone appreciates some

level of privacy, especially in our larger

some structure. Pots, water & fire features, cedar or iron screen walls and accent rocks are all great for personalizing your space. If you’ve experienced standing water or drainage issues with the heavy rains we had this season, a dry creek bed might be a great option for you. A contrast of materials, colors, and texture add so much to the bed spaces as things come alive in the spring.

If you don’t have an outdoor space that’s covered, January could be the perfect time to get that patio cover drawn up and moving forward. Getting to enjoy a dinner on the patio (rain or shine) or an evening next to the fireplace under cover is an experience you’ll look forward to repeating!

communities where the lots are closer

together. So take advantage of the cooler temps and get to work!

While things are dormant, it’s also a

perfect time to get in your beds and add

by PJ Kratohvil of Complete Solutions completesolutionsdfw.com

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INSIDE COMMUNITY 2019 ARGYLE GENERAL ELECTION Want to be an Argyle Councilmember? Well now is your chance. The 2019 general municipal election will fall on Saturday May 4th. You can file for a place on the ballot beginning Wednesday, January 16th and ending Friday, February 15th. Councilmember, Place 2 and Councilmember Place 4 are up for election. The incumbents for these positions are Ronald Schmidt and Todd Mankin. Also, the position of Mayor, currently held by Donald Moser, is up for election. Candidate packets can be picked up at Town Hall or by emailing Town Secretary, Erika McComis.

KEEP ARGYLE BEAUTIFUL FLAMINGO MADNESS If it seems like there’s a higher than normal population of flamingos perusing through the streets of Argyle, you’re not wrong. In an attempt to raise funds, Keep Argyle Beautiful will “flock” a yard of your choosing with a whole slew of pink flamingos for $40.00. The flamingos stay for 3 days before mysteriously migrating to another requested-yard and your yard might be next. What a great way to show some love or poke fun at a neighbor, all while supporting KAB.

NEW PARKING ORDINANCE

ROANOKE FAMILY VALENTINE’S DANCE

There is a new parking ordinance in effect for The Oaks

Round up your sweethearts! The Roanoke Recreation Center

subdivision of Argyle. No one will be allowed to park on the street between the hours of 7:00am and 5:00pm Monday

will be rolling out the red carpet for the Family Valentine’s

through Friday without a parking sticker, which will only be

Dance on Friday, February 9th from 7:00-9:00pm. It will be an

available to The Oaks residents. The new parking ordinance

evening full of finger foods, dancing to a DJ’s hit list, and fun

was voted into place due to the high number of AHS students parking on the streets of the subdivision instead of in the high

now for $20 before the price goes up to $30.

school parking lot.

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for all ages. Get your tickets at the Roanoke Recreation Center

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INSIDE EDUCATION AISD CAREER DAY & FAIR AISD is getting ready for their 3rd annual Career Day & Fair at

Argyle Middle School on Friday, February 1st. The day will include classroom presentations, various employers present at the career fair and much more. If you are interested in being a career day sponsor and/or host & presenter please email argyleMSclubs@

photo courtesy of Argyle ISD

gmail.com.

NEW SCHOOL, NEW PRINCIPAL Congratulations to Mrs. Renee Funderburg who was recently named the new principal of Argyle ISD’s new elementary school. Mrs. Funderburg will be transferring from Argyle Intermediate School where she has been principal since fall of 2014. The new elementary school is set to open this fall in the Harvest community.

ARGYLE ISD

EVENTS Argyle Nights at Argyle Middle School January 19th 5-10pm at the MS Cafeteria Girl Scouts at Hilltop Cafeteria January 21st 6:45-7:45pm Night to Shine Prom February 8th from 11am-11pm

LIBERTY CHRISTIAN

FUN @ LIBERTY CHRISTIAN

PARTY WITH YOUR POSSE

Get ready for some fun things happening at

The Argyle Education Foundation Gala

Liberty Christian school. First is the Ministry

Fair Meet and Greet with local ministries on Thursday, Jan. 31st from10:45 – 11:45 a.m.

Second is the Preview Day where you can

learn more about Liberty on Tuesday, Feb.

5th at 9 a.m. Lastly is the Ladies Tea featuring guest speaker Christian author Melanie

Shankle on Wednesday, Feb. 20th at 11 a.m.

Registration for Ladies tea starts January 24th and tickets sell fast!

will be held on Saturday, February 23rd at Chapel Creek Ranch in Denton. Beginning at 6:30pm there will be cocktails and a silent auction, followed by a family style dinner with a complimentary bar. The live auction begins at 8:00pm with entertainment and dancing to follow. For more information visit, www.supportargyleisd.org/gala.html. photo courtesy of Argyle Education Foundation

EVENTS

Sadi Hawkins Masquerade January 19th at 11pm in the Commons Place NHS Annual Canned Food Drive Starts January 22nd and runs until February 6th Help replenish the Denton County Food Pantry JANUARY 2019 | ARGYLE LIVING | 13

Ask The Expert: Home Design

WHY BUYING HOUSE PLANS

ISN’T A SMART

INVESTMENT

G

iven the popularity of home improvement and DIY shows these days, it seems like there’s

nothing we as homeowners can’t do on our own with a little elbow grease.

They make everything look so easy, too, whether it’s remodeling a home, flipping a

money in the end than if they’d had

plan from a book or online defeating

an architect customizing the process

the purpose?

from the start.

Here are three reasons why: •

code – Building codes and inspection

house, or designing one from scratch.

requirements differ per state and per city. If you give generic house plans to

Believe it or not, you can even bypass

a builder, he’s just going to take them

hiring a licensed architect by purchasing

to his preferred architect to ensure

house plans online or in a book at your nearest Barnes & Noble. While this seems incredibly cost-effective on paper, is it the best idea?

Those house plans likely aren’t up to

•

partial to architects here at The ML Group, but most homeowners who buy house

force you to start from scratch, which ultimately, leads to increased costs.

We realize you have a choice when it comes to hiring an architect. Working with experienced architects will ensure your project meets all building requirements

It’s impossible to find your exact style

Give us a call today to discuss ideas for your next custom home.

those from a book aren’t likely to be exactly what you want. So you end up settling or mixing and matching different plans. Not to mention, if you

getting off on a cheap date spend more

want a custom home, isn’t choosing a

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plot of land – Simply put, this would

and is designed for the way you live.

plans on their own thinking that they are

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The plans might not fit your desired

everything is up to code. and taste in a book – Online plans or

The quick answer is no. I realize we are

•

by Mike Love ML Group, LLC. 972.355.8700 MLGroupTexas.com

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Ask The Expert: Dentistry

NEW SMILES for a

I

New Year

t’s a new year, and as I reflect on the intimate time spent over the holidays with family and friends, celebrating the

season and appreciating those cherished

moments of joy and giving, I can only sum it all up in four simple words: I ate too

much. Yes, once again, we start the new

year off with resolutions to shake off those habits so easily picked up during the time of merriness and cheer. Now, with the

holidays behind us, we can focus on some new ways to improve ourselves, even our

oral health. Here are some dental ideas for how you can start the year with a great smile.

Every good resolution starts with a solid foundation. With your oral health, it’s back to the basics of brushing, flossing, and regular dental visits. Brushing after meals, or at least twice a day is a common understanding, but flossing can be a tricky habit to start. Some tips for flossing can include setting up a reminder in your phone or creating a progress chart. It

SHERIFF ’S

CORNER T

with Sheriff Tracy Murphree

he Denton County Sheriff’s Office hopes everyone had a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

We want to start 2019 by introducing you all to our communications team. They are the men and women who work hard behind the scenes.

and relief supervisors also train the new dispatchers; training of new hires is between six and eight months.

Communications is covered 24/7/365 to maintain the safety of the citizens of Denton County as well as the Deputies, Police Officers, EMT, and Fire Fighters.

The Communications section is managed by one communications manager, one assistant manager, one training coordinator, one criminal justice information coordinator, and 26 dispatchers. Our shift supervisors

During the day and evening shifts, there are six dispatchers plus one supervisor, during the night shift there are four dispatchers plus one supervisor working at once answering all types of calls. When calling 911, the first question asked is,

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may even be helpful to place floss next to your sink as a daily reminder to floss.

Over course, educating yourself on the importance of flossing can be an essential motivator, as well.

When it comes to improving the aesthetics of your smile, there is a wide spectrum of dental treatment that is available. If you have never tried whitening, this is a simple and easy way to enhance the look of your teeth. If you have ever considered straightening your teeth, this may be the year to consider orthodontic or Invisalign treatment.

As you start off 2019 with new resolutions for a healthy, happier you,

make sure to keep your oral health as a part of that package. Happy New Year and Happy Smiling!

by Dr. Matt owner of Country Lakes Family Dental CountryLakesDental.com

“What is the address of your emergency?”

The communications officers need to make sure of the address to send the first responders to the correct location. So make sure of your address or location!

Our communications officers answer 911, Police, and Fire calls then dispatch the appropriate first responders to the location. Our communications officers are trained to help callers before first responders arrive.

We answer an average of 900 telephone calls per day, 1,000 calls for service per day, which includes officer-initiated calls. Are you looking for a career in law enforcement as a communications officer? We will be trying to fill four vacancies in 2019.

We will be offering the Woman’s Empowerment Program on February 16 and March 23, 2019. It is a free selfdefense class for women. Registration is required at WEP@dentoncounty.com.

cannabidiol lowered inflammatory

and neuropathic pain without causing significant psychoactive side effects

or analgesic tolerance. Clinical trials

investigating cannabidiol’s effect on chronic pain in humans have just begun.

CANNABIDIOL, &Why Is It SO POPULAR?

Dr. Rebecca Butler is Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics.

She is proud to be a resident of Lantana and the owner of Lantana Pediatrics. For more information on Lantana Pediatrics, Dr. Butler and/or Melanie Bitzer, CPNP or to schedule an appointment with one of these providers, call the office at 940.455.7200.

C

annabidiol can now be found as an ingredient in all sorts of over-the-counter products, including body lotion, face scrub, bath bombs, lip balm, bottled water, beer, vape oil, olive oil, gummy candies, coffee, jam, and even dog treats. But what is it? And why is it suddenly so popular?

Cannabidiol is not cannabis. But it is

claim it has all sorts of benefits, such as

of the cannabis sativa plant, otherwise

relieving chronic pain, treating PTSD,

one of the many chemical components known as marijuana. The psychoactive

improving sleep, easing cravings for

compound in marijuana that causes a

harmful drugs, and other benefits that are

in cannabidiol.

many of these claims come from websites

“high,” tetrahydrocannabinol (THC), is not Most manufacturers that put cannabidiol

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lowering inflammation, reducing anxiety,

making it popular among patients. But selling cannabidiol products.

as an ingredient in their products source it

Thus far the scientific research on

marijuana that yields cannabidiol. Recently

are as follows:

from the hemp plant, a botanical cousin to

cannabidiol’s effects in different conditions

the US Drug Enforcement Administration

•

approved cannabidiol as a classification of drugs with an approved medical use and low potential for abuse.

“In humans, cannabidiol exhibits no effects indicative of any abuse or

dependence potential,” according to

a report on cannabidiol by the World

Health Organization. “To date, there is no evidence of public health related

problems associated with the use of pure cannabidiol.” Proponents of cannabidiol

•

•

Anxiety. Preclinical evidence

“conclusively demonstrates” that cannabidiol effectively reduces

symptoms of a variety of anxiety

disorders—including generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder,

and social anxiety disorder. These

studies mostly involved acute dosing, so further research is needed to

determine whether chronic dosing of cannabidiol is similarly effective.

Just like any parent, I am sure you are

concerned about the safety of CBD oil for your children. As I read through online

forums, I couldn’t unearth any reputable

site that points to negative side effects of CBD among children.

However, it is important that you do not

administer just any CBD product to your children. Ensure that you only buy from

trusted, reputable, and reliable sources.

More than anything else, prioritize your

child’s safety rather than the price and talk with your pediatrician regarding uses and dosing. CBD oil is most effective when

administered sublingually, but parents

Epilepsy. The most research on

should choose the best mode of delivery

focused on its use to treat epilepsy.

It is important to note that any product

solution of cannabidiol (Epidiolex) for

loses some of its efficacy.

cannabidiol’s effectiveness has

depending on their child and preference.

The FDA has approved an oral

that goes through the digestive system

the treatment of seizures.

Research is ongoing and more and more

Chronic pain. Given the current

products are becoming readily available,

for newer therapies for chronic pain

tell your doctor what supplements

produce unwanted side effects. In one

medications and supplements are

opioid crisis, researchers are looking

so talk with trusted sources and always

because so many of the current drugs

you are using when other prescription

trial in mice, researchers showed that

being considered.

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FLU SEA SO I N Plea S HER E. se s che you dul r flu sho e ts.

HOME Covering Your Every

IMPROVEMENT

NEED

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by Steve Gamel

N

ot too long ago, Stori and Eric Olson were on a casual dinner date when the couple they were with excitedly shared the news that they were in the middle of a kitchen remodel. The Olsons couldn’t have been happier for their friends, but the first question that ran through their minds was, “How come they didn’t call us?”

Stori and Eric have owned Proper Design

easy and cost-effective. Stori and Eric

handrails, painting and wallpaper, and

since 2014, and Stori has been an interior

one of the many benefits to working with

the materials and installs them, too.

Home Improvement in Flower Mound

design guru longer than that. On top of that, those same friends previously had them work on a bathroom renovation.

As far as Stori knew, the first remodel went great. So naturally, confusion quickly set in.

welcome that take-charge mindset, but

Proper Design Home Improvement is that you can avoid opening yourself up to

all the first-time mistakes DIYers fall into – which often results in spending more

money than you planned on. For example,

maybe you bought three items from Home Depot but only

“They just said, ‘Oh, we

needed one of them.

didn’t want to spend a lot of money and photography by Your Candid Memories (YourCandidMemories.com)

figured we could do it ourselves. We didn’t want to bother

you with such a

small project,’” Stori

recalled. “We cringe

when people say they

“...We pride ourselves on catering to the Do it Yourself-er just as much as we work with the person who needs someone to take the lead.”

don’t want to bother us,

it yourself … great. But you can still get

everything from us. We pride ourselves on catering to the Do it Yourself-er just

as much as we work with the person who needs someone to take the lead.”

She added, “I remember waking up the next morning still thinking about it and wondering, ‘What happened?’”

It used to be that nearly every homeowner relied heavily on the direct aid of experts and professionals for any project around the house, but an increasing number of

people these days don’t mind tackling a home improvement project.

units and two didn’t fit or were the wrong

materials. Now you have a garage full

of stuff you might

never use and

can’t return.

“Maybe you have a

because we like the small

ones, too. If you want to do

Or, you bought five

brother-in-law who installs

cabinets. But we could measure for you

onsite, tell you what materials you need,

order everything for you, and arrange to

have it delivered to you or ready for you to pick up here.”

Eric agreed.

“We don’t know anyone who isn’t on a

budget. We help you organize everything, so the project doesn’t cost more money.”

What separates them from the

competition is that they have four experienced interior designers

on staff who pride themselves on

building relationships with clients while walking them through the process and answering every question.

“We have people who come in, and they

aren’t sure what color tile they should get, or if wood floors will look good in their

house,” Stori said. “We help them shop for color, flow, durability, and lifestyle.

If you decide to work with an interior

designer, we come to your house to look at everything and even measure for you.

Other places don’t do that.”

“We take all the guesswork out,” Stori

added. “We use all the same installers,

and customers can walk in here six days

a week and find someone who can help

them. That beats chasing down an outside contractor when doing a project.”

Proper Design Home Improvement

delivers high-end services with a high-end look at prices that are often cheaper than what customers could find elsewhere.

Business has been booming since they

And that’s just for customers who want to

moved to Parker Square in April, and they

Proper Design with the intention of

“So far so good,” Stori said. “We just want

do it themselves. Stori and Eric opened

creating a one-stop shop that can handle any home renovation need – for rookies

They are called DIYers, and there’s plenty

and professionals alike. That includes

to them while making everything look

hardwood flooring and tile, staircases and

of television shows that cater specifically

window treatments. Proper Homes sells

kitchens, bathrooms, custom cabinet work,

can’t wait to see what the future brings.

to make sure people know that whether

they are new to remodeling, or they want to handle a renovation themselves, they

can come here and find everything they need under one roof.”

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Ask The Expert: Counseling

The

GIFT

of Being

plan to attain their goal; instead, you

would encourage and help them get back on track with empathy and support. Give yourself the gift of becoming your own cheerleader, and be as kind to yourself

as you would be to your best friend. Next time you find yourself berating yourself

for having a misstep on the way to your

goal, what would be the harm in talking

to yourself kindly? Try instead to remind yourself that each moment is another

opportunity to shift, reboot, and get back on track!

Being kind and giving ourselves grace is not something we are often told as

children or adults, so I understand it may be a bit foreign and uncomfortable.

J

anuary begins for most of us with the promise to follow through with our New Year’s resolutions. We start

this endeavor with enthusiasm and hope – this is the year we will finally follow through, and it will

culminate with our dreams

through with your New Year’s resolution might be to give yourself the grace of knowing that eventually, you will get there and that each step towards your goal will look a little different on any given day or any given moment.

Goals are excellent guides to get us to move Give yourself the gift changing for the better towards the change we of becoming your own forever. Oh, and there are trying to make and cheerleader, and be as will be world peace! that we need to give kind to yourself as you My point is that each ourselves the space would be to your year we set goals with to falter, as well as give best friend. unrealistic expectations, ourselves the grace and which tends to lead us to understanding that we give up on them shortly after would give our best friends. we make them. I want to propose You would never berate a friend for that perhaps the best way to follow being unable to perfectly execute their coming true and our life

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Society gives us a lot of external information on what and how we “should be.”

Let 2019 be the year you practice

giving yourself grace and treating yourself kindly on the pathway to

attaining your New Year’s resolutions!

I am certain that if you practice grace

and kindness towards yourself, you will feel more peace and joy while moving towards attaining your goals.

by Dr. Lori Runge LMFT-Associate Hopemead Counseling and Trauma Center www.hopemead.com

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Liberty Christian Football

BACK ON THE MAP

by Steve Gamel

W

hen Liberty Christian hired Steven Greek as its new football coach this

past offseason, the hope was that he could provide an instant shot in the arm for a

program that desperately wanted to get back to the top of the mountain.

Mission accomplished.

While the Warriors did not win a TAPPS state championship in Greek’s first

season, he did lead them to the Division I state semifinals – one step away from playing in the title game. Liberty’s 8-5

record was its best overall record since 2013 and included a huge playoff

win over defending champion, Plano Prestonwood Christian.

Liberty was one of only two Denton-area programs to come within a win of a title game appearance.

Greek would be the first to tell you,

though, that not all of the credit goes to

him. His players completely bought into

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his new system and outplayed everyone’s

Players like that helped Liberty secure

averaged 395.1 yards and 34.8 points per

against. Former state champion Brock

expectations. Offensively, the Warriors

game while overcoming a 2-4 start to win six of their final seven games.

Senior running back Andre Washington rushed for 2,064 yards and 22

touchdowns while also adding 807

receiving yards and 10 more scores in

the passing game. Daniel Greek, Steven Greek’s son, took over as Liberty’s new

starting quarterback as a sophomore and threw for 2,495 yards an 21 touchdowns compared to just eight interceptions.

Defensively, Liberty had a bend-but-don’t-

break philosophy and got production from a host of players. That included Cristian

wins over teams they ordinarily struggle came to Argyle early in the season and

left having been dismantled, 21-0. Liberty followed that a few weeks later with a

41-34 statement win over then-unbeaten Midland Christian. Once in the playoffs,

the Warriors cruised to a 56-38 win over San Antonio Central Catholic before upsetting Prestonwood 24-21 in the second round.

The win was huge for Liberty, which lost to the Lions 49-20 in Week 4. It was also big for coach Greek, who was the offensive coordinator at Prestonwood before coming to Liberty Christian.

Driver, a freshman defensive back who

Bottom line, the foundation of success

(he returned one for a score). Cornerback

Christian years ago. But with a new head

tallied 67 tackles and two interceptions

Collin Gamble racked up 42 tackles and

four interceptions, including two returned for touchdowns.

was already established at Liberty

coach and a revitalized winning attitude,

the Warriors are expecting bigger things in the years to come.

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Overwhelmed by Argyle Resident

COMMUNITY

SUPPORT

by Steve Gamel

Mark estimated that more than 200

people purchased shirts through the

studio, but that number exploded not

too long after when Hilltop Elementary

counselor Michael Ball bought a shirt and offered to spread the word at Argyle ISD.

“I remember telling the owner that there’d

be staff and kids at the schools who would be willing to buy shirts,” Ball said. “We

placed the order before Thanksgiving, and the shirts were ready shortly after

the break. Mark is such a great guy; he’s

served as a Watchdog at the school, and

he’s always giving back. We wanted to be there for his family.”

Argyle has always been a community that rallies together, and for years the Burt

family has been eager participants. As Ball

D

eep down, Mark Burt always knew he and his family had an amazing

support system to turn to if they ever needed help or encouragement. What he didn’t realize was how fast that group could grow in such a short amount of time.

Mark and wife, Ashley, have been bowled over by overwhelming support from

things like that, but it’s also the acts and movements – people going out of their way to show support. That’s what means

said, Mark has been described as a gentle soul who would give a stranger the shirt

off his back. More importantly, his positive spirit is inspiring – even now as he battles

the most to me,” Mark said. “That’s what

what could be a very long fight.

has really been filling my tank every day.

Mark said he finds comfort in

Everyone wants to do something, not just for me but for my wife and kids, too.”

knowing he and his family are not alone in that journey.

friends, family, and the Argyle community following Mark’s cancer diagnosis in early October. Mark has a fast-growing form of Lymphoma and could see up to six rounds of aggressive chemotherapy as he courageously battles the disease.

“I’m fighting for my wife, my kids, the community, and anyone who has received bad news of their own that I can one day sit with and tell them everything will be fine.”

A movement to stand with him on that journey had humble beginnings but declared November 30 Mark Burt Day. On that day, students and staff at Hilltop Elementary and other campuses wore

Mark pointed out that while Argyle ISD took the ball and ran with it in a big way, the idea for the t-shirts originated at his daughters’ dance studio in Lantana,

custom t-shirts with the phrase “In this

Imagery in Motion Dance. The studio

family no one fights alone” followed by

owners had become close friends with

the hashtag #Burt4TheWin. Proceeds from

the Burts over the years and went out of

t-shirt sales go to the Burt family. Mark and Ashley have three children in Ellie (11), Libby (8), and Jack (7).

their way to help out by covering Ellie they also had the ability to print t-shirts in-house and did so with the idea that all

receiving, like food and gift cards and

proceeds would go to the Burts.

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not just fighting for myself,” he said.

“I’m fighting for my wife, my kids, the

community, and anyone who has received bad news of their own that I can one day sit with and tell them everything will be fine. Life is about choices and how you respond. I choose happiness.”

and Libby’s tuition and team dues. But

“It’s not only the things we’ve been

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“And I want everyone to know that I’m

For more information on how you can

help the Burts, contact Imagery in Motion Dance or Argyle ISD.

photos courtesy of Pam Arrington

took on a life of its own when Argyle ISD

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Ask The Expert: School Days

THE MOST

IMPORTANT INVESTMENT OF YOUR LIFE:

YOUR

CHILD

R

by Valorie McGilvra, Certified Teacher and Life Coach

emember the birth of your child? Your emotions were all over the place.

Excited, happy, nervous? As you were holding your baby, did you wonder what kind of parent you were going to be? Were you wishing for a manual?

The only reference material we had was from our own upbringing, good or bad.

If you grew up in the 70s and 80s generation, you may remember hearing wise advice about money, character, making the right choices, and how to respect others.

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•

Lessons on finance: “Money doesn’t grow on trees you know....”

•

Or about learning good habits: ”Close the door! - were you raised in a barn?”

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Or when your parents told you not to do something and you asked why?

“Because I said so.”

However, that was another time. Since

then, the Internet and cellular technology have sent parents of today a few curve

balls. It is quite challenging to keep up with it all. Gaming, Social Networking, YouTube… and there still isn’t a Child

Rearing Manual. But fortunately, there are

lots of websites, blogs, and other experts, such as teachers who can provide us with guidance.

As an educational coach and teacher for 16 years, I’ve had many conversations

with parents and fellow teachers about how our kids are changing. There are many areas in which we can help our

children but the most important is T.I.M.E. (Technology, Interest, Model, Equip) Technology

We see so many students getting Smart

Phones at a younger age every year. My

son’s buddy was given a phone for his 8th birthday. I asked if there were restrictions

on his phone. He said no my mom doesn’t know how to do that. I know from my

own pains of trying to find ways to put

restrictions on my older son’s phone that it is impossible to completely protect

your child when they have access to the

internet. With just a touch of a button, they

can see, hear and read anything. It is worth your time to add restrictions.

Use it wisely, set parameters, monitor activity. Have a family plan for all

electronics. When, where, and how

are questions that need to be clearly

established with your child. There is an

excellent website called, “Healthy Child” which has an awesome fill in the blank form (with suggestions) that you can

complete with your child in just a matter of moments.

Children want and need to know your

expectations. They may gripe or complain initially, but in the long run, they WILL

thank you. You and your child will benefit from creating a Technology Plan in three important ways:

1. It provides the foundation for building a strong relationship with your child.

2. You will learn what they believe is a “fair” consequence, acceptable

solution or approach. (which means buy-in).

3. There is nothing to argue about

because expectations have been agreed upon.

she would rather be in her room at a desk where it is quiet.

Model

Like the song by Rodney Akin, “I’ve been

watching you, dad,” our kids see the good and the bad and all the in-between. Step back for a day and look at your life in the

To ensure your wishes are followed, set-

eyes of your child. What are the behaviors

internet router, or using an App such

your child do?

up the rules/restrictions through your

as Net Nanny. If your child has a game

platform like Xbox you can use a Microsoft account, it will send you a report of your child’s activity daily or weekly. If they

break a rule follow-through with your

predetermined consequences. And why is this all advisable? Well according to

Professor Jim Taylor, Ph.D., in his article in Psychology Today, entitled, “How

Technology is Changing the Way Children Think and Focus,”:

that you do that you would not want to see Commenting with offensive language and/ or actions to another driver. (Remember,

they can’t see or hear you, but your child can.) Try, “see, that driver was not being

courteous on how they cut in front of me.

When you drive you to need to...”

Don’t talk about someone in a negative way. Show them how to change their attitude about a situation, because

EVERYTHING is a situation and it is how

The bottom line is that too much screen

you think and feel about it that makes it

as reading, playing games, and good old

later article).

time and not enough other activities, such unstructured and imaginative play, will

result in your children having their brains

wired in ways that may make them less, not more, prepared to thrive in this crazy new world of technology.

Interest

Take interest in your child’s life. Watch or

play the games they play or watch movies or view what they watch on YouTube. Be on all of their Social Media Accounts. If

they use Apple products you can easily

do this through the “Cloud.” Know their friends and support their hobbies or

favorite things to do. Make it a game in

the car to “Guess My Favorite…” each of you take turns, give three choices and one is correct.

positive or negative. (More on this in a Equip

Equip your child with the tools to be

successful in life. Teaching your child

responsibility and respect will go a long

way. In education, it is called, “Scaffolding.”

Just like a carpenter uses scaffolds to

reach high places, you provide support

and training so your child will learn how to

reach their greatest challenge. Teach them step by step and slowly remove scaffolds as they meet each new goal. If they fail, that’s ok it just meant that they weren’t

quite ready or needed a different path.

Teach your child to say Thank You when speaking to others. This one action can go a long way epecially when using a

I remember one year I gave my students

cell phone, opening a door, waiting their

was, “How do you like to study and do

common courtesy and manners aren’t

parent shared with me that they always

hope. Our children are like a piece of clay

what their child preferred. But after

wonderful, productive adult. All they need

a survey and one of the questions

turn to speak. It seems strange to say but

homework?” At a parent conference, the

the norms anymore. But there is still

thought sitting at the kitchen table was

that is just waiting to be sculpted into a

reading the survey, the parent saw that

is your TIME.

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Foodie Friday DFW: Mike’s Bakery

MIKE’S Bakery I

f you know, you know. And everyone who’s been to Mike’s Bakery in Corinth knows that everything Mike bakes is full of “love and tenderness.” That’s a direct quote. But you’ve got to watch the video to get the full effect.

Owner, Mike Dauti, moved to the area

agreed to make her a wedding cake by

almost exactly one year ago to be closer

the next day. Basically, he saved the day.

to his grandchildren. And upon his arrival, he determined that there was a great need for a made-from-scratch bakery. So, who better to bring baked goods full of “love and tenderness” to the community than him?

His cheesecakes are... notorious. And it’s because they’re so light and fluffy.

We are sorry to say that the

That’s just Mike’s personality. In the short 60 minutes we were with him, we already felt like we were best friends. He has the ability to make every

That’s just Mike’s personality. In the short 60 minutes we were with him, we already felt like we were best friends.

only bit of Mike’s secret to

person who walks through his bakery doors feel like they’re a part of his big, extended Italian family. And we love that. And that’s what people in the community love about him.

his delicious cheesecakes we were able

So, the next time you’re in need of pastries

to get out of him is that he bakes them for

like danishes and croissants, pies, cakes,

four hours. But just go eat them. Let him

cheesecakes, or cookies - make the trip up

do all the hard work.

to Mike’s Bakery for some sweets and an

Mike’s also well known for his beautiful assortment of cakes. And he can make a cake for any occasion. Wedding cakes,

experience you’re not likely to forget any time soon.

940.218.6979 4251 FM 2181, Corinth, TX 76210

engagement cakes, first birthday cakes you name it, he’ll make it. We were wowed by a story he told us of a bride who called him the day before her wedding because something happened with her original wedding cake. No questions asked, Mike

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Congrats to Debbie Sardone ON LATEST DISTINGUISHED SERVICE AWARD

by Steve Gamel

F

lower Mound resident Debbie Sardone, owner of Buckets & Bows Maid Service and the driving force

behind the wildly-popular nonprofit,

Cleaning for a Reason, recently took home the cleaning industry’s highest honor as she was awarded the Jack D. Ramaley

Industry Distinguished Service Award at ISSA’s annual convention in Dallas.

Since 2006, Buckets & Bows and Cleaning For A Reason has provided free services

for more than 300 cancer-stricken families right here in Denton County. And in

that same amount of time, Debbie has

recruited more than 1,200 maid services

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nationwide to join the cause, resulting in more than 30,000 women being helped through the network. Debbie was recognized for her leadership, innovation, and commitment to upholding the industry’s highest standards of service.

To date, Cleaning for a Reason’s free house cleaning services have been valued at more than $10,000,000. Within the last two years, the nonprofit has merged with ISSA, The World Wide Cleaning Association, where she is on the board.

Debbie has worked tirelessly over the years to not only spread the critical message and importance of Cleaning For

A Reason with loyal clients of Buckets & Bows, but she also shares her knowledge with other business owners who could use a mentor in a variety of areas, including using their business to give back. She recently launched a comprehensive cleaning business training system for residential cleaning companies that trains the owner, the trainer, and the cleaner – making it the only training program that addresses all three areas for residential cleaning businesses.

She’s also in the middle of writing her next book, which is aptly titled, Maid For More.

Congratulations, Debbie!

PET

ADOPTION Of The Month

This is Rufus!!

He is a 2-5 year old Doberman/ Hound mix who was surrendered by his owner. He is HOUSEBROKEN and friendly with children, other dogs and cats. This sweet boy is up-to-date on all vaccines, HW(-), and neutered.

(Pet ID: 78812) City of Denton Animal Shelter 3717 N Elm St Denton, Texas 76207 940.349.7594 | 10am-5pm, Mon-Sat Info and photo courtesy of The City of Denton Animal Shelter

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Financial Article

Ready For Taxes?

Y U NEED

W

you’re an employee working for someone

e’re barely through

or if you own a business or received money for contract work.

the first month of 2019, so let’s talk

about taxes, shall we?

You’re probably saying to yourself that it’s way too soon to talk about that and, in many ways, you’re right – tax day isn’t until April 15, and

even then, you can always file an extension.

But waiting until the last minute only makes things worse. So why not start now?

Here’s a simple, yet important list of five common tax items everyone should be rounding up right now:

ALL DOCUMENTS THAT PROVE WHAT YOU MADE IN 2018

This includes everything from W-2 forms to

unemployment income, investment income, rental property income, social security

benefits, and even 1099s depending on if

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PERSONAL INFORMATION If you’re doing a single filing, this is as simple as knowing your social security number. But if you’re married and have children, you will need the same information for each person in your family. If you’re relying on a CPA to handle your tax return, make sure they have birthdates, etc., and have previous years’ tax returns available.

A DETAILED LIST OF ALL YOUR DEDUCTIONS This is a perfect example of something that will take some time, especially if you are relying on crumpled up receipts between the seats of your car. Be mindful of anything that can help out your case, including childcare and educational expenses, property tax and mortgage interest, retirement accounts, etc.

by Steve Gamel

5 COMMON TAX ITEMS A LIST OF ALL YOUR CREDITS

Credits are another great way to lower your tax burden, but you need documentation to prove you deserve them. Examples of common credits include child credit, premium tax credits, and lifetime learning credits.

DIRECT DEPOSIT INFORMATION Assuming you are one of the lucky ones to get money back on your taxes, make sure you have your bank account information handy. This includes routing and account numbers.

We’d be silly if we didn’t add in here that Murray Media Group is not tax advisors.

This is merely a basic list of information you should consider pulling together now rather than waiting until the last minute.

There are plenty of qualified CPAs in and around Denton County who can help answer specific tax questions as they relate to your situation.

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Ask The Expert: Organizing

Getting Your Home

Office

ORGANIZED W

hether you use your home office to run a small business, pay personal bills, or do craft projects, it’s a good idea to keep it organized. An organized home office space inspires productivity and efficiency. Here are a few things you can do to create a more organized home office.

Purge: The first step to getting your office

you can quickly and easily find what you

don’t need. Take stock of your supplies.

identify document categories. It’s also

organized is to get rid of things you really Do you have hundreds of paperclips, countless pens and several boxes of

unopened file folders? Let go of all the unnecessary office supplies.

Have a filing system: You can use file

folders or a binder system to keep your important documents organized. Label

each file folder or tab with bold print so

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are looking for. Color coding also helps

important to keep business and personal files separate.

Deal with the old documents: Make room in your filing cabinet, desk, or shelves by storing older, important

documents inside portable file boxes that can be put away in the attic or scan and store them digitally.

Use a shredder: Always securely and safely dispose of documents with sensitive information. Don’t leave these hanging around.

Make your office comfortable and inviting: If your office is a place you have to spend hours working then make it a place you enjoy being. Hang pictures of loved ones and art that inspires you.

Use furniture that is comfortable and represents your personality.

Always clean up: At the end of each project put away all work supplies. At the end of each day clear off your desk.

This is your area, so make it work for you.

Increase your productivity by surrounding yourself with a clutter-free workspace that represents your personality.

by Crystal Nerpel Cloud Nine Organizing Cloudnineorganizing.com

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ARGYLE FO OT BALL

District 7-4A Division I All-District Team For 2018

MVP:

Defensive Lineman of The Year:

LB Chase Petter, Sr., Argyle Offensive Player of The Year: QB Bo Hogeboom, Jr., Argyle Defensive Player of The Year: DB Hayden Clearman, Sr., Argyle Offensive Newcomer of The Year:

DL Collin O’Neal, Sr., Melissa Utility Player of The Year:

WR Dillon Carter, Sr., Argyle Coaching Staff of The Year: Argyle

First Team Offense:

QB Brendon Lewis, Jr., Melissa; RB Ja’bray

RB Tito Byce, So., Argyle

Young, Jr., Melissa; WR Trae Johnson, Jr.,

Defensive Newcomer of The Year:

WR Noah Ross, Sr., Celina; WR Kennedy

Paris; WR Alex Gonzales, Jr., Argyle;

LB Braylon Brown, So., Melissa

Lewis, Sr., Melissa; WR Junior Castleberry,

Offensive Lineman of The Year:

C Rylan Shobe, Sr., Argyle; C Cooper

OL Preston Wilson, Sr., Argyle

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Sr., Melissa; TE JD Crowder, Sr., Argyle; Buchanan, Sr., Celina; G Brandon

Michels, Sr., Argyle; G Trevor Duggan, Sr., Melissa; G Andrew Murphy, Sr., Paris; T Connor Homeyer, Sr., Argyle; T Austin Sanders, Sr., Melissa.

First Team Defense: DT Brandon Lancaster, Sr., Argyle; DT Landry Barnett, Sr., Argyle; DE Vershaud Richardson, Sr., Paris; DE Kaghen Roach, Sr., Celina; ILB Gerald Palmer, Sr., Paris; ILB Logan Engle, Jr., Celina; OLB James Neal, Sr., Paris; OLB Mason Ramsey, Sr., Argyle; CB Brenden Dixon, Sr., Argyle; CB BJ Lewis, Sr., Melissa; CB Jaylen Henderson, Sr., Paris; S Ryan Nebeker, Sr., Celina; S Kobe Savage, Sr., Paris; K Grant Shaw, Sr., Argyle; P Eli Price, Sr., Celina.