Argyle Living Magazine August 2020

AUGUST/SEPTEMBER 2020 Women In Business Issue

Keeping You And Your Family

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TABLE OF

Contents ASK THE EXPERTS

28 Gardening with Complete Solutions BUSINESS SPOTLIGHTS 09 Resiliency and Your Mental Health Journey with Connections Wellness Group

25 You Don’t Have to Go Far For Quality Furniture with Adams Furniture

PHOTOS FROM ARGYLE 29 Argyle ISD Photos 37 Argyle ISD Photos Continued ARTICLES 10 Women in Business 13 Foodie Friday of DFW: 1845 Taste Texas 14 Inside Community and Education 18 Welcome Home Mr. Herrin 19 Career Opportunities For Women in Dentistry 22 Sheriff’s Corner with Sheriff Tracy Murphree 26 If You Can Dream It He Can Make It 30 Sports Have Started Again at Least for Some 31 Pediatricians URGE Kids to Return to School 32 Young Entrepreneurs 35 Community Corner 36 Stressful Time Call For Positive Reinforcement

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Keeping You And Your Family

SMILING NO MATTER WHAT Cover Image Dr. John Shillingburg, owner of DFW Oral Surgeons in Flower Mound

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Publisher of Murray Media Group, kelly@murray-media.com

Publisher & Editor Scott & Kelly Murray

Administration

Managing Editor Jana Melton Sub-Editors

Bobbi Byrne

Together We Are In This

T

he back-to-school madness looked different this year.

No long lines in the school supply aisles, and we weren’t in a rush to run out and purchase the latest trends in school fashion.

By now, we all know that, schools may or may not be delaying in-person instruction. I know our district has had their hands tied waiting on instruction from state and federal entities, and we are thankful for their transparency.

For some, this decision comes as another blow because many want some kind of normalcy back in their lives or households having two full-time working parents. We understand that. Scott and I are full-time small business owners, and we will have to make some schedule changes ensuring our children are staying on top of their virtual check-ins and daily assignments.

There are many questions to be answered, and I do not envy school and administrative staff and everyone else who is involved in making these tough decisions. As we continue to take it all one day at a time, I encourage you to remember we are all in this together. If you have a question or have advice for families in the district, reach out to us. We’d love to hear from you.

In this issue, we are celebrating Women in Business. It is a perfect time to remind parents — looking to you Moms — that you are doing a great job. Many of the women in this issue spoke of being true to yourself and having strong allies in your corner. They spoke on balancing work and home life, how it comes with ups and downs, but to focus on the positive and find ways to do the things that make you happy.

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Writers & Editor

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Happiness makes the world go round!

We hope you enjoy this issue, and we wish you and your family the best of luck as we start the new school year.

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Business Spotlight

Resiliency

AND YOUR MENTAL HEALTH JOURNEY

by Steve Gamel

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he team of clinicians at Connections Wellness Group was recently bowled over with excitement when one of its regular patients came strolling through the door with a big smile on his face. This was a young man who, from the second he joined the mental health program seven weeks earlier, had this profound sense of sadness about him.

The way he carried himself, his halfhearted interactions with those around him, and that he insisted that he didn’t want to be there, made it clear that he was embarking on a potentially long journey. And yet, on this one day, he looked resilient.

“I remember saying, ‘I think I heard him laugh!’” said Vianey Reinhardt, LPC and Vice President of Business Development.

“You saw this incredible change as he moved through the program. The community he built and the connections he made became very valuable to him.”

Sydney Reece, LPC and Director of Intake and UR, agreed, saying, “It was one of the more impactful things I’ve ever seen.”

Real-life results like these are what this team of mental health experts churn out every day through their Partial Hospitalization Program and Intensive Outpatient Program — even in the face

care is consistent because everything is handled in one office as they progress through different levels. Connections

offers 4-hour programs per day for teens and adults that include a wide array of

of COVID-19. They’ve hired the best of the best to handle the most clinically challenging of circumstances, whether in-person or through teleservices, and the PHP and IOP programs have since become nationally accredited.

services in one packaged approach:

So when the most is on the line (feelings of loneliness, chronic depression, thoughts of suicide), and your symptoms are so profound that you question your ability to come out on the other side, these people have your back.

home to practice the skills learned and

“The work we do is fragile, and you have to be intentional about it every day,” said Baqi Martin, LCSW-S and VP of Outpatient Services. “We focus on our clients’ resiliency. We prepare them for the seen and the unseen.”

been forced to adjust their services.

In a typical setting, a patient may be coming from a hospital to a private practitioner only to receive care from several entities. At Connections, the client

Process groups, psycho-educational

groups, experiential groups, psychiatric evaluations, nursing evaluations, and medication education.

Each evening, the participants return return the next day.

Nicole Hoffman, LPC Intern, LCDC, helped launch the adult PHP program. She has been amazed by the results — even as

medical facilities across the nation have “We did all of this during a pandemic,”

she said. “You can still get the level of care you need, no matter the situation.”

The message on kicking the stigma on

mental health has always been the same: it’s okay not to be okay. If you need

someone to talk to, give Connections Wellness Group a call.

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Women in BUSINESS Inspirational quotes from successful businesswomen in Denton County

by Steve Gamel

Kimberley Shanklin, Kimberley Shanklin - Shanklin Law Hold onto your integrity even when it costs you relationships because your reputation is everything in business!

I learned early on in my career that it was easy to gain tons of clients with the lure of telling them what they wanted to hear and making false promises, but when clients asked me for my opinion I offered the truth- even when I knew it may cost me that client. Then suddenly I noticed those clients coming back to me after a horrible experience with someone who didn’t deliver. Then those clients referred clients who had bad experiences and didn’t trust lawyers and it was now people seeking me out based on reputation.

By knowing my worth I’m able to fight for my clients who trust me to help them with serious life-changing decisions and those clients spread the word that I am an attorney that will always be honest about what results I can deliver,

even when it’s not what they might not want to hear. The same holds true with how I handle work relationships. I know how to do my job well, I don’t compromise my integrity, don’t back down from a challenge, don’t tolerate being disrespected, and give God all the praise for the strength in tough times. I know that if I hold true to who I am as a person I will be successful.

I love working with positive people who encourage one another. I’m not concerned with the haters or their agendas because I honestly just don’t have time for it.

Luckily, I am blessed to work with some truly amazing men and women who spend countless hours trying to help people in need and these friends take me for what I am knowing I will always be there for them whenever they need me.

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“Hold onto your integrity even when it costs you relationships because your reputation is everything in business!”

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Kim Cloud Skidmore, Cloud 9 Salon & Spa I love being an entrepreneur! There are so many aspects of business ownership that bring me joy every day! I enjoy being behind the chair and making my customers look and feel beautiful. Strong relationships have been built over many years in the salon business.

My favorite part of being a business owner is leadership. Influencing the talented team at Cloud 9 and watching them gain momentum and success is delightful. My goal each day is to provide a stable environment for them to flourish in.

I believe that strong women in today’s business world are seen as movers and shakers! Consistency and persistence are keys to success in this modern world. Many great mentors have taught me nuggets of wisdom to encourage and motivate me. Leadership inspires me every day to share and duplicate. I want to make a difference in the business world!

Kim Gronberg, Gronberg Orthodontics “I think a roadblock is thinking that life is unfair and having a victim mentality.

First of all, life is not going to be fair, whether you are a man or a woman. So get over that! I feel like the biggest determinate of how “successful” you will be is your own attitude. I think the women who are truly successful don’t have time to talk or think about potential obstacles for them because they are too busy just doing what

needs to be done! If you have a goal and want to achieve it, just do it. You are the main person who can hold yourself back.”

“Just know it’s going to be a lot of work – but anything in life that is worthwhile is going to be a lot of work. Not everything is going to go 100% right – there will be a lot of tears. Just take each day as it comes, repeat the things that are working, and quickly re-evaluate and change the things that aren’t

working. Sometimes, we think we have to plan everything out perfectly before we get started. But I would say successful business owners many times are more of a “Ready, Fire, Aim” than “Ready, Aim, Fire.” Don’t waste years overanalyzing every small detail.”

Debbie Sardone, Buckets & Bows Maid Service “As a cleaning business owner, I had very few obstacles associated with being a woman. I think cleaning has always been perceived as “women’s work” so no one got in my way. But, when I was ready to invest in my growth, a local Flower Mound bank would only give me a business loan if my husband co-signed. I refused and decided to grow my business without the loan. It worked out.”

“Give, give, give. Struggling business owners tend to be desperate, and giving is the last thing they have on their mind. If you want to grow beyond your wildest dreams become an authentic giver. This doesn’t always have to be monetary. Find ways to give and serve others, not sparingly, but in abundance. When you give in abundance you reap in abundance. When you give sparingly you reap in scarcity. Adopt the go-givers mindset and you will be successful. Just don’t mistake giving for being a door mat; there is a difference.” www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

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1845 Taste Texas: Foodie Friday of DFW

1845

TASTE TEXAS

by Jay Marks | photos courtesy of Nick Allen Photography

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id you know that the year 1845 was when Texas allowed all of the other parts of our nation to join it? That’s what 1845 Taste Texas owner, Marty Bryan, told us.

And you know what? We believe him!

So, at 1845 Taste Texas, they celebrate all things “Texas.” From the food, to the music that’s played, to the decor of the restaurant. He says it’s “designed like Dallas and tastes like Fort Worth,” so it’s the perfect combination of all the best parts of the Metroplex.

There is so much incredible food at this new Lakeside DFW restaurant that we can’t waste any more time before talking about it. You really can’t go wrong no matter what you order. Here are some of the highlights.

Off the Appetizer menu, you need to try their Smoked Wings. Their 1845 Salad is a great healthy alternative if steaks aren’t your thing. They have so many great

comfort food options too - we love the Lockhart Fried Quail and the Prime Rib French Dip. Since 1845 is a steakhouse, let’s pause to really talk about their incredible cuts of meat. The show-stopper since they opened has been the 36-ounce Tomahawk Ribeye. Sure, it could feed a family of six, but eating it yourself sounds so much more fun. Our other favorite (and another one that’s sure to turn heads when it comes by) is the 30-ounce smoked pork chop.

All of 1845’s cuts of meat are hormone and antibiotic-free, are humanely-raised, and are fed an all-natural diet. All of that makes a huge difference in the quality of the food they put out.

Like we mentioned, that’s just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the food at 1845. They also have amazing burgers, fried foods, seafood, and desserts. Their bar seats 26 people and serves wine, beer, and signature cocktails like the Davey Crockett and Clyde Barrow.

Sitting on their outdoor patio is a great idea any day of the week, but especially on Thursdays and Saturdays when they’ll have live music out there. Fridays are a great evening to sit out there too so you can enjoy music from the Lakeside Music Series across the street.

And if you’re looking to host a bigger event, 1845 has you covered with their private banquet rooms that can accommodate up to 40 people each with large screen TVs, WiFi, and beautiful scenery!

There’s no shortage of amazing details at 1845 Taste Texas. Owners Marty and Alan have truly thought of everything and we are so excited to have them now in south Flower Mound as well with another fantastic restaurant.

We can’t wait for y’all to give this one a try!

1845 Taste Texas is located at 2401 Lakeside Parkway, Ste. 150 • Flower Mound, TX 75022.

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INSIDE COMMUNITY

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE, MAYOR MOSER

BLOOD SUPPLY IS LOW ACROSS NORTH TEXAS Carter BloodCare is experiencing a critical shortage in blood supply. All blood types are needed from all eligible blood donors. The blood center is showing their appreciation to those who are able to donate by providing no-cost COVID-19 antibody testing, for a limited time. To find a blood drive near you, visit www.CarterBloodCare.org.

INSIDE EDUCATION

On Monday, July 27 Donald Moser announced his resignation as mayor of the Town of Argyle. Moser cited health issues as the reason for his resignation.

He has been battling cancer since 2017, shortly after being elected to his position as mayor. We are keeping the Moser family in our thoughts and prayers. photo courtesy of Haley Pittman

WELCOME, MS. DONA LUMSDEN!

CURRENT PLANS UNANIMOUSLY APPROVED As of July 27 after a Special Board meeting, the Argyle ISD Board of Trustees unanimously approved keeping the District’s current plans in place for a safe start to the school year for in-person learning. Following feedback from community members, parents, the CDC and American Academy of Pediatrics the District decided this was best for its Eagle students. All schools will follow recommended guidelines and procedures for safety and prevention.

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The Argyle ISD Board of Trustees approved Dona Lumsden as the new Hilltop Elementary School Principal Monday, August 3 during their Special Board Meeting. With over 15 years of experience in public education and coming to Hilltop from Argyle Middle as the Assistant Principal, she will provide valuable leadership in her new role.

Welcome to Hilltop, Principal Lumsden! photo courtesy of Rick Herrin

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BOARD + BRIE VIRTUAL CLASSES With people still practicing social distancing, Lane Tunstall, owner of Board + Brie has taken her charcuterie board classes online. Get some friends together for a virtually pleasing experience as Lane teaches you how to pick and pair foods to create a visually pleasing and delicious charcuterie board. For her virtual class dates visit, www.boardbrie.com/classes. photo courtesy of Lane Tunstall

NORTH TEXAS FAIR AND RODEO October 16-24 | Fair Grounds 2217 N. Carroll Blvd. • Denton, TX 76201 Due to the rising COVID-19 cases the 2020 North Texas Fair and Rodeo has been postponed to October in hopes that the pandemic will be slowing down y then. The fair hopes to still include the rodeos, live music, livestock shows, carnival, and attractions.

For updates, visit their website www.NTfair.com.

ARGYLE WEST ELEMENTARY WISH LIST

STAAR TESTING Governor Greg Abbott said in a press conference on July 27 that the State of Texas Assessments of Academic Readiness, also known as STAAR, test requirement for grade promotion for students in 5 and 8 grade has been waived for this upcoming school year.

Gov. Abbott hopes this waiver will provide greater flexibility for students and teachers.

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Argyle West families are graciously encouraged to visit the Argyle West Elementary School’s Amazon Wish List.

The list was created to help PTA gather school items that will be used in the staff lounge and workroom, and to help the staff get back to school. This isn’t for any one specific teacher or member but to support Argyle West collectively. Visit the PTA’s Facebook page for their Wish List link, www.Facebook.com/ArgyleWestPTA.

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Welcome

HOME Mr. Herrin

by Brooke Ezzo

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n his closet was a vintage Argyle Eagles T-shirt his mother, a former Argyle ISD educator, gave him years ago. While working for other districts, the shirt was only worn around the house. But now, Rick Herrin is wearing that shirt everywhere with pride.

As an Argyle native, Rick and his family are excited to be back to his hometown, to put down more roots, and to assist and inform the families within the Eagles’ district.

“This is such a rewarding experience returning to my hometown to serve in Argyle ISD,” Rick said. “Coming back has been such a flashback of so many great memories growing up in this wonderful community.”

Rick is the new Director of Communications for the district. His position includes internal and external communications and building strategic communications for the district to effectively keep staff, students, and parents connected, informed, and engaged.

“This is a critical time for our Eagle families with the start of school amid a pandemic, and our communications are so vital to keeping them informed regarding our safety protocols and guidelines to keep our children safe,” Rick said.

Rick has a Broadcast Journalism degree, has an impressive journalism background, and with over 10 years in education, he is a great addition to the Eagle system.

There is a lot to know about Rick, his education, and former work experience. But at Murray Media Group, we thought asking Rick the hard-hitting questions to get him to open up would be better. Luckily for us, he didn’t hold back.

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What is your favorite movie(s) of all time?

Star Wars and The Shawshank Redemption What is your biggest fear?

Snakes. My fear of snakes is a running joke in my family.

Favorite genre of music?

Well, that would be several…

Classic Country, Red Dirt Country, 80s and 90s hip hop and rock!

What is your favorite sport to play? To watch?

Basketball. College Football.

If you could visit one place in the world, where would it be and why?

Bora Bora. It looks like a tropical paradise completely off the grid. We love fun in the sun and beautiful beaches and this would be a dream getaway.

If you could have dinner with anyone, who would it be?

Jon Gordon Would you rather live by the ocean or the mountains?

Ocean. No Question.

What is your favorite thing about your job?

The real enjoyable part of this job is that very few days are exactly the same. The diversity of workload allows the position to be refreshing, challenging and rewarding.

Helping students find a passion and skill they didn't previously know they had is very exciting to experience.

Hobbies? Family?

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CAREER OPPORTUNITIES

For Women In Dentistry

by Dr. Matt Artho who is a proud resident of Argyle and his kids attend all four schools in the district.

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umility is all about knowing oneself. There are situations in the medical field where proper practice appears beyond a provider’s expertise. Of course, in those difficult situations, I default to the old maxim that “dentists are not real doctors.” And that seems to hold up. In fact, I find I gain more credibility by keeping several “real doctors” in my company. Keeping in the theme “Women in Business” for this current issue, it goes without saying that I lack much, if any, expertise practicing as a businesswoman. But between having six daughters, a wife, and working with mostly women, I may have surrounded myself enough to have credible experience to speak on the subject.

In terms of business opportunities for women, the field of dentistry itself holds many areas that can fulfill multiple life goals. Here are some examples.

DENTIST Obviously, practicing as a dentist is a great opportunity to meet multiple lifestyle needs. Not only are dentists able to serve patients in a medical capacity, but prospects exist to pursue life as a business owner, associate, educator, or even a military provider. In each circumstance, full or part-time employment may be possible to coordinate with family or extracurricular routines.

main task to assist the dentist during

DENTAL HYGIENIST The focus of a dental hygienist is to provide oral care associated with the gum and periodontal health of the patient. This is accomplished mainly through various degrees of teeth cleaning. The hygienist also provides support to the dentist in helping address necessary treatment needs and dental habits of the patient.

scenes to keep up dental records,

DENTAL ASSISTANT A dental assistant encompasses a variety of supportive responsibilities with the

treatment to improve the comfort of the patient and the speed of the treatment.

Dental assistants also support hygiene,

perform proper cleaning and sterilization duties, and help guide the overall flow of the office.

ADMINISTRATIVE SUPPORT Administrative support is

another crucial role. Front office coordinators work behind the assist with insurance needs, and maintain accounting

records, all while sustaining a working schedule for patient appointments. In many

offices, the administrative role of office manager

exists to oversee all aspects of the office to create a

comfortable, friendly, and efficient environment.

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Opportunities abound in the grand field of dentistry, and no doubt, women have played a great role in advancing the discipline. As a future career, it is worth a consideration. Happy Smiling! www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

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Keeping You And Your Family

SMILING NO MATTER WHAT

by Steve Gamel | photography by Your Candid Memories (YourCandidMemories.com)

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hen the COVID-19 pandemic hit, and many businesses were either forced to close temporarily or asked to limit their services, Dr. John Shillingburg and his amazing team at DFW Oral Surgeons in Flower Mound had everything under control. Granted, they weren’t allowed to perform elective procedures such as wisdom teeth removal, dental implants, bone and tissue grafting, etc., but they were more than ready to expedite care for their patients in emergency situations.

And according to Dr. Shillingburg, there was a surprisingly high number of those over the last few months.

“We treated multiple jaw fractures for kids who were home and either got hurt riding their skateboard or were playing around in some other way and got seriously injured,” Dr. Shillingburg said. “I had a gentleman yesterday who had a horrible abscessed tooth pop up out of the blue on him.”

He added, “It’s hard to understand why these emergencies happened now, but they did. And we were here to help.”

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dentoalveolar surgery, facial cosmetic surgery, implant surgery, orthognathic surgery, facial reconstructive oral surgery, and dental anesthesiology. This allows him to treat everything from a simple tooth extraction to replacing every tooth in a patient’s mouth. He holds membership with the American Dental Association and is a Diplomate of both the American Dental Society of Anesthesiology and American Board of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons.

When you have an emergency, there’s no reason to go anywhere else because DFW Oral Surgeons is equipped for it all.

There are a few reasons why Dr. Shillingburg is the go-to guy for even the most complicated of emergency procedures. For starters, he’s a boardcertified oral and maxillofacial surgeon and is trained and credentialed in

Dr. Shillingburg has also spared no expense in surrounding himself with top-of-the-line technology that makes his job seamless. Along with that was his insistence on investing in the facility as a whole, which is a true outpatient surgery center capable of treating any mouth and jaw condition with ease. When you have an emergency, there’s no reason to go anywhere else www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

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because DFW Oral Surgeons is equipped for it all.

Simply put, they do it all, and they do it right.

“There are plenty of things that we

do all the time that we haven’t been

able to do because of the guidelines that are in place, but we have been open the entire time from an emergency basis.

Our goal was to be as safe as possible,”

Dr. Shillingburg said. “We recently added an air purification system that goes well

beyond what we already have. All of our procedure rooms are positive pressure rooms and have fan filter units with

HEPA filters — just like a true operating environment. It’s 100% purified and

extremely safe. We wear N95 masks

per CDC guidelines and even wear a

traditional Level 3 mask over those for

another layer of safety. It’s enabled us to remain safe and provide the best care possible for our patients when they need us most.”

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“I got used to managing patients in that environment, where we were extremely concerned about safety for a lot of reasons. Having that type of training in that type of environment prepared me.”

Beyond the accolades and credentials mentioned earlier in this article, perhaps what truly prepared Dr. Shillingburg for the coronavirus crisis and how he would maintain a high standard of care was his military experience.

“I was military trained in the Army.

When I was in my residency, we were at the height of Iraq and Afghanistan and saw a lot of wounded soldiers and military service members who would come back with some really strange infections.

I got used to managing patients in that environment, where we were extremely concerned about safety for a lot of reasons. Having that type of training in that type of environment prepared me.”

Many of us take our oral and dental health for granted, and when we are

suddenly faced with severe problems, the consequences can be overwhelming.

Having a doctor like John Shillingburg in your corner is a lifesaver.

Dr. Shillingburg and the amazing team at DFW Oral Surgeons are proud to serve the residents in and around Argyle, Bartonville, Highland Village, Lantana, Double Oak, South Denton, Denton County, and surrounding areas. We are conveniently located on the west side of Long Prairie Road between College Parkway and Cross Timbers Road.

“As an oral surgeon, my job is to manage complications,” Dr. Shillingburg said.

“We’ve been pretty busy considering the circumstances with the coronavirus.

But we were there for our patients when they needed us most.”

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SHERIFF’S W I T H

S H E R I F F

T R A C Y

Texas Commission

JAIL STANDARDS

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he Denton County Jail was inspected by the Texas Commission on Jail Standards in July, and we are proud to report that once again, we passed the State Jail Inspection.

The Texas Legislature created the Commission on Jail Standards in 1975 to implement a declared state policy that all county jail facilities conform to minimum standards of construction, maintenance, and operation. It is the duty of the commission to promulgate reasonable written rules and procedures establishing minimum standards, inspection procedures, enforcement policies, and technical assistance for: 1. The construction, equipment, maintenance, and operation of jail facilities under its jurisdiction.

2. The custody, care, and treatment of inmates.

M U R P H R E E

WE ARE

HIRING

If you are interested in a career in Law Enforcement, join our family and be a part of a great organization.

Detention Officer I positions start at $38,752.00 per year.

Visit our website to apply. www.governmentjobs.com/ careers/dentoncounty

3. Programs of rehabilitation, education, and recreation for inmates confined in county and municipal jail facilities under its jurisdiction.

“Passing the State Jail Inspection is a testament to the dedication and hard work of our Detention Officers and Detention Staff. They do an amazing job every day to ensure the safety and security of the inmates under their care,” stated Sheriff Tracy Murphree.

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Business Spotlight

YOU DON’T HAVE

TO GO FAR FOR Quality Furniture

by Steve Gamel | photos courtesy of Adams Furniture

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dams Furniture in Justin has been serving Denton County homeowners just like you for more than 90 years but has somehow remained a relative unknown to many of us due to our infatuation with large retail and chain stores. southwest corner of farm-to-market roads 407 and 156 in Justin. Although Adams offers a wide-array of Amish and other

American-made furniture, it specializes in many custom-made options that bigger chain stores simply can’t do.

“We have created a

niche for people who

sofa or bedroom set that you may never find.

Adams Furniture is a simple, yet inviting, 10,000 square-foot store located on the

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‘Here’s what’s on our floor.’ It’s a what-yousee-is-what-you-get type thing. That’s not the case at Adams Furniture in Justin.”

Come in today and see why generations of families continue to choose Adams

homes. Visiting Adams is truly an

pop business.

end up driving farther looking for a quality

bigger store, and the service rep will say,

customers see Adams Furniture as one of mom-and-

you live in Argyle or Robson Ranch, you

or even the wood floor. They’ll walk into a

Furniture as their go-to place to find

the last vestiges of a

everywhere and have decent stuff. But if

with everything else in that particular room

While the store has evolved substantially from its early days as a general store,

Yes, big-box furniture stores are practically

they’re looking for a table that will work

don’t want that cookiecutter look. They want their own look,” said owner Jim Smith,

unique and quality furniture for their

“A lot has changed over the years, but in many ways, we’ve stayed exactly the same. Our goal is to continue to offer quality Americanmade products.”

experience of genuine,

warm, and personal service.

“A lot has changed over the years, but in many ways,

we’ve stayed exactly the same,” Smith said. “Our

goal is to continue to offer quality American-made

products. We may not be

came to work at Adams Furniture in 1969

able to cover the entire spectrum, but we

He has been there every day since. “The

possible. And we’ll spend all the time

when he was a freshman in high school.

can at least give people the best options

options we provide here at Adams are

necessary with the customers to make

almost endless. People will come in, and

that happen.”

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If You Can

DREAM IT He Can

MAKE IT

by Brooke Ezzo | photos courtesy of Christopher Lyle

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e didn’t look like a magician. He needed a magician’s suit. Call it what you will, but when his grandmother purchased his first performance suit back in the 90s, it was either going to break him or make him. Luckily for us, the mustard yellow get-up and her maternal instinct made The Guy in the Yellow Suit a household name.

He also goes by Christopher Lyle, and he has been entertaining people with his comedic magic shows and balloon creations since his teenage years. After receiving his first magic set at the age of 7

and putting on shows for neighborhood kids, Christopher was hooked.

Growing up, he suffered from ADD and

an auditory processing defect; he didn’t comprehend information the same way

others did. He had trouble in school, but the one subject he could really dial into

was magic. He got his hands on as many

magic books as possible, and for whatever reason, those books just clicked for him.

“I felt pretty charged up that I was able to

interested in him if he also included

grown-ups couldn’t even do,” Christopher

“I wanted to work and get my magic

do something as a young kid that most

said. “It was empowering for me. I enjoyed being able to basically play around while blowing people away. That gave me a lot of confidence.”

out there, so I learned how to do a dog, a flower, and a sword. When I tried to book restaurants, and they asked if I did balloons, I was able to say, ‘Yes I

do,’” Christopher said. “It just grew from

performing for customers at local

were the only three balloons I could do.

restaurants. But booking magic gigs

were harder than he thought. It seemed

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balloon art.

As he got older, he tried making his

way into the entertainment world by

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as though each owner was really only

there. I got tired of telling people these

Three decades later, I probably do more balloons than I do magic now.”

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By the time Christopher rolled around to learning how to create balloon art, the niche was small but growing. He reached out to a few clowns in his area and read about basic twists and shapes from books.

But had to expand on his own from there.

Booked to perform at a magic convention in Las Vegas in the early 2000s, Christopher would have a chance meeting that would help propel his career forward.

Call it serendipitous because when Christopher met fellow performer, Buster Balloon, the pieces quickly fell into place.

“I didn’t know there was a balloon industry at that time,” Christopher said. “I basically hung out with the rock God of balloon artists for a week. It was a turning point for me because it really showed me what could be done with balloons.”

From simple twists to incredible masterpieces, Christopher has completed some remarkable balloon creations for his clients. This talent has come in handy these past few months, when not even Christopher could control the cards we were all dealt.

Christopher ran his business. But, it’s not about the cards; it’s how you play the hand. And, The Guy in the Yellow Suit would be the only one pulling tricks out of his hat.

Due to the shut downs and stay-in-place order, Christopher was no longer able

“BALLOON ART HAS TAKEN ME PLACES MAGIC WOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO TAKE ME.” to perform in restaurants, at parties, or for business events. So he stuck strictly to balloon creations. Not sure if it would be able to support him and his family, he

is loving it. Bringing smiles to people all over North Texas and creating some of the biggest and wildest balloon creations has given him a new kind of confidence.

“Balloon art has taken me places magic would have never been able to take me,” Christopher said. “If you can dream it, I can make it.”

Christopher lives in Justin with his wife, Jennifer, and their two daughters.

For your own balloon creation, follow Christopher Lyle on Facebook or visit his website, www.ChristopherLyle.com.

Christopher is serious about the safety and health of his clients. All balloons are manufactured in Dallas, sanitized, and delivered contact-free.

promoted balloon deliveries anyway.

Christopher is busier than he could have ever imagined, and the best part is that he

Like many other performers, the impact from the coronavirus changed the way

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Ask The Expert: Gardening

Crazy What A

FEW MONTHS

by PJ Kratohvil, Owner of Complete Solutions

W

ith everyone’s schedule being thrown out the window this year, you probably fit into one of two categories. Either you’ve enjoyed being home, having extra time for yourself, getting things done, and spending extra time with family. Or, you’re going CRAZY trying to balance work, kids, and home – and not much of anything has gotten done.

If you’re one trying to hang on to sanity – whether kids are getting back in school or staying at home – this piece is for you. This is a quick reminder just hitting the highlights of things to remember this time of year.

IRRIGATION IT’S HOT, so check that irrigation system.

With the average household spending 40-50% of its summer water bill on irrigation, make sure you’re water-wise.

Sure, everyone says water infrequently and deep, but in most of our smaller

lot communities, you will experience enormous amounts of runoff or water loss that never makes it into the ground if you run certain zones too long. Since all terrain is different, make sure you run a test on your irrigation to ensure you’re not experiencing this type of water loss, that all your heads are spraying efficiently providing adequate coverage, and that you don’t have any leaks. If you find you’re only running a zone for a couple of minutes before you see water runoff, then it’s going to be better to set your system up to run shorter times more frequently. Also, keep in mind that once established, your trees and shrubs need less water than the turf. Adjust your controller accordingly.

CUTTING When it is hotter outside, try to keep the amount you prune off of your shrubs as well as your lawn to a minimum. Trees and shrubs can react harshly if you cut back too much when temperatures are

hot. On your grass spaces, letting the grass become a little taller and thicker will help hold moisture at the base of the sod – allowing you to water less and keep things greener in between cuttings. It’s nice to have a tight, low-cut lawn. But the shorter you go, you expose more of the base of the grass blades and run the risk of burning.

MULCHING This is one of the best ways to grow healthy plants and conserve water, as it protects the plantings, helps to hold moisture closer to the roots, prevents erosion, and suppresses weed growth.

Three inches of mulch is typically a reasonable amount for this area.

Remember to keep it as even as possible and do not to let it build up against tree trunks or the bases of the plantings themselves.

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SPORTS HAVE STARTED

AGAIN At Least For Some

by Steve Gamel | photo courtesy of UIL

T

he fall sports season has started. Well, at least for some. The University Interscholastic League announced a tiered 2020-2021 athletic calendar on July 21 that would allow some schools to start fall practices on-time on Aug. 3 while delaying others until Sept. 7.

As part of the plan, Class 1A-4A fall sports programs like Argyle started volleyball games Aug. 10. Cross Country and team tennis started on the 17th. The Eagles’ football team plays its season opener on the 27th. Meanwhile, Class 5A and 6A schools can’t start practicing until Sept. 7, with games starting in the weeks after. This new start date for the UIL’s two highest classifications is roughly five weeks later than normal and is in direct response to COVID-19 concerns. For Murray Media’s coverage area, the 5A/6A schools affected are Guyer, Lake Dallas, Marcus, Flower Mound, Hebron, The Colony, and Justin Northwest. provide a path forward for Texas students and schools,” UIL Executive Director Charles Breithaupt said in a press release. “While understanding situations change and there will likely be interruptions that will require flexibility and patience, we are hopeful this plan 30 | ARGYLE LIVING

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school and every school district around the state.” Webb was spot-on. The new plan changes the entire makeup of the

allows students to participate in the

typical athletic calendar. Not only have

way that prioritizes safety and mitigates

schedules to fit the new plan, but playoffs

education-based activities they love in a

teams been forced to alter their game

risk of COVID-19 spread.”

and state championship games also have

There haven’t been any games at the

high school level since the UIL suspended practices and games in mid-March as concerns over the coronavirus were

running rampant. The UIL allowed schools to begin strength and conditioning and sports-specific training in early June,

but questions continued to linger over whether or not athletics would resume in the fall. That all changed with the

latest announcement, though the UIL made it very clear that this is a fluid

“Our goal in releasing this plan is to

be impossible to make it ideal for every

significant date changes.

The state title games for 1A-4A in volleyball and football remain Nov. 18-21 and Dec. 18-19, respectively. But the larger school playoffs begin in early December for football — as opposed to November. The title games will be in January. Meanwhile, the volleyball state tournament for 5A and 6A schools will be Dec. 11-12 rather than before Thanksgiving.

process and that plenty can change

As you attend games, you may notice

coronavirus cases.

also to limit spectators to a 50% maximum

if there is another spike in confirmed “At some point in time, we’ve got to

set dates, and we’ve got to say, ‘These are the dates. We’re playing,’” Guyer

football coach Rodney Webb told the

Dallas Morning News. “It was going to

fewer spectators. Part of the UIL’s plan was capacity for each stadium or gym to allow for social distancing to continue. Everyone must wear face masks.

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Pediatricians URGE Kids TO RETURN TO SCHOOL

by Dr. Rebecca Butler, Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics

I

t is crunch time, and parents are facing a difficult decision and personal debate about whether to send their kiddos back to school. Recommendations seem to change daily, and every school district is implementing its own protocols.

However, if possible, it is very important that our children be physically present in a classroom setting for various reasons.

A few reasons include:

make based on the particular school’s

•

Mental and emotional health and wellbeing

policies, community transmission, and the

•

Structured learning environment with trained educators that proves to accelerate learning

family in general.

specific needs of their children and their “Send children back to the classroom

•

Extra help from in-school services in areas of need specific to each child

this fall”, says the American Academy

•

Social skills development and interaction

pediatricians “strongly advocates

•

An established routine and regular exercise

coming school year should start with

•

that all policy considerations for the

The development of friendships and real life experiences

a goal of having students physically present in school.”

“The importance of in-person learning is

The mental health of parents is also a

very important consideration. The stress

of working and/or trying to homeschool

your children is a full-time job and can be extremely frustrating and overwhelming.

Sending children back to school is a very important decision that parents must

of Pediatrics. This large group of

well-documented, and there is already evidence of the negative impacts on

children because of school closures in

the spring of 2020,” states the AAP. I can personally vouch for the complications

I have personally seen and dealt with in my office with children of all ages.

The AAP says that “schools are

fundamental to child and adolescent development and well-being.” The

nation’s pediatricians argue that remote

learning can actually be detrimental to our children’s health, that it can, in fact, result

in severe learning loss and social isolation.

As I agree with all of the above and

advocate for reopening of school, a onesize-fits-all approach is not appropriate for return to school. Parents should

weigh the risks and benefits to their

families and make an educated decision after reviewing the school’s specific

methods of implementation and safety procedures for minimizing the risk of COVID-19 transmission.

Remember, there is not one right answer for every family. This is a very personal decision that only you as a parent can

make for the health of your children and

family. Please make a wise and educated decision for your family.

We are all in this together, and together we will overcome.

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YOUNG ENTREPRENEURS Learning the Value of a Dollar and Hard Work

by Brooke Ezzo

T

eenage summer jobs are like a rite of passage; car hop at the local Sonic, movie attendant at the theater, or birthday host at the trampoline park. But due to the coronavirus, this summer looked a bit different.

With many business closings or limited staff and availability, getting a summer job for many teens in the area was harder than summers past. The shortage in opportunities and the on-going break from school led to a rise in creativity and entrepreneurial spirit. Side businesses seem to be popping up all over social media with kids posting advertisements for their new job ventures.

It is nice to see this age group full of excitement and determination, to see their work ethic, even doing some jobs that most adults don’t like to do. And many are saving their money for future goals.

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PAZ MOLNAR Business: Trash can cleaning photo courtesy of Karen Molner

One resident chose to spend her summer days cleaning trash cans in her neighborhood. And, the best part is, she is only 11-years-old.

but the work and on-going upkeep of the

Paz Molnar and her mother, Karen, came up with the idea last summer but never got it off the ground. With all the time available these past few months, Paz decided it was time to start her business.

very busy this summer.

“Last summer we cleaned our own trash cans, and my mother pointed out that it would be a good business,” Paz said.

“During COVID, there was really nothing to do, so we decided to get started.”

After her mother made a simple post on

it,” Paz said. “It’s taught me how much a

dollar is. When you don’t work, a dollar is

just a dollar. But when you start working, a dollar is everything.”

Paz has continued working hard to save for college. She wants to go to medical

school to become a surgeon. Her parents could not be more proud.

Joel and Collin believe supporting young business owners helps create better college opportunities and career options for them. It also encourages creative thinking for bigger and better solutions to everyday problems.

business, Expressure Power Washing.

Best friends, Joel Polley and Collin

Carpentier, decided to get ahead of their parent’s quarantine-laziness-

complaints and start a business for the great learning experience.

“The idea for a power washing business

stemmed from a mission to help people

be happy and safe when they go outside and enjoy themselves,” Joel said. “We pressure wash driveways, sidewalks, patios, and pool decks.”

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“I enjoy it, and I make good money doing

Paz isn’t the only young person with

this summer after launching their

photo courtesy of Joel Polley

cleaning after trash pickup, Paz has stayed

“I tell her all the time, ‘you’re 11-years-old,

school seniors have made a splash

Business: Power washing driveways, sidewalks, patios, and pool decks

Averaging eight houses a week, normally

Facebook, Paz immediately gained the attention of many neighbors. She started work on June 4. Her parents helped her with the initial investment in cleaning supplies,

an entrepreneurial spirit. Two high

JOEL POLLEY & COLLIN CARPENTIER

business has been fully left up to Paz.

The pair started their business this past May with plans to continue working part-time during the school year. They even have

future goals of expanding their services.

“Being two young entrepreneurs is

great. You learn so much along the way

like patience, perseverance, and how to

manage money,” Joel said. “It is so cool to meet a variety of people and be able to play a part in their happiness.”

and this is a big accomplishment,’” Karen said. “It’s nice that she is learning this value. It’s a good feeling.”

“A big lesson we have learned is to not be afraid of setbacks because they are bound to happen,” Joel said. “Some advice we have for teens trying to start their own business is to create a plan and learn from the people who are the best at what you are trying to start.”

There are many other young entrepreneurs in our area making names for themselves, starting businesses from the ground up and learning the value of hard work. Just as much as we promote the community supporting local small businesses, it is important to support and encourage these young minds and their entrepreneurial spirit, as well.

“A dream without a goal is just a wish,” Paz said. “You need to plan it out and take the leap. Just go for it.”

If children are our future, our future looks bright.

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RELIEF EFFORTS IN PROGRESS

COUNTY: COVID-19 RELIEF AN IMPORTANT TASK

H

elping you during the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic is a role we take very seriously in

Denton County.

The Denton County Commissioners

Court earmarked more than $50 million of the $147 million received from the federal government for housing and

food assistance, business grants and non-profit grants.

Our intent is to make sure our Denton

County residents receive needed help during the COVID-19 pandemic. We want to make sure small businesses

can continue to operate and employ

by Precinct 4 Commissioner Dianne Edmondson

individuals as well as keep people facing

photo courtesy by Commissioner Dianne Edmondson

food to feed their families.

hardships in their homes with enough Denton County has given more than

$2 million in grants to area non-profits

with the assistance of the United Way of

TAXPAYER RELIEF IMPORTANT TO DENTON COUNTY COMMISSIONERS COURT

R

elief for taxpayers has been at the forefront as we continue to review our Denton County budgets each

year. Not only have we kept the county’s portion of property taxes low, we also

decreased it to the lowest rate since 1986 at $0.225278.

On June 30, the Denton County

Commissioners Court approved a

residence homestead exemption of

up to 1 percent or $5,000, whichever is greater to all homeowners of the

county. This means that the taxable

value of your homestead will be lowered by these amounts, thus reducing your

county property taxes. This exemption is

applicable to the current year’s property tax bill, which you will see this fall.

In 2019, we approved a tax limitation for properties receiving an over 65 or disabled person exemption. The over 65 exemption the county offers is $55,000 and the disabled person exemption is $15,000.

The Denton Central Appraisal District, which is a separate entity from Denton County and not governed by the Court, is where homeowners must go to apply for any of the above exemptions.

You can find out more information at www.dentoncad.com or contact them at 940.349.3800.

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Denton County. All 501c3, 501c4 and

501c6 organizations can apply for grants through the Denton County CARES

portal at www.unitedwaydenton.org/ DentonCountyCARES.

Our food pantries have reported seeing a 40 percent increase in new individuals

seeking food each week. Since March 23,

the county has spent more than $1 million to keep an estimated 937 families in their homes.

In March and early April, we provided

$31,000 to $46,000 each week in rental

assistance to property owners on behalf of residents facing eviction. From July 13-17, about $134,955 covered rent

for 90 households. From July 20-24, an estimated $159,692.98 was spent for rent relief.

If you or someone you know is in

need of housing assistance, please contact the United Way of Denton County at 940.566.2688.

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“When children are in a stress response, their brains are basically offline and in a 100% emotional state at that time,” Dr.

Trotter said. “The parents’ job is to help

their child calm down. Once they are calm, then use reasoning to try and talk about the issue.”

Signs to Look For: • If a child consistently tells you they

have a stomachache or headache, or

Stressful Times Positive Reinforcement

CALL

FOR

A

by Brooke Ezzo | photo courtesy of Dr. Kay Trotter

• If a child all of a sudden starts avoiding people or places.

• Refusal to go anywhere or leave the house.

• Meltdowns and tantrums.

• Hard time winding down before

s the founder of Kaleidoscope Behavioral Health in Flower Mound, a published author, international conference speaker, and a pioneer in the research of Equine-Assisted Mental Health, Dr. Kay Trotter, Ph.D. is an incredible resource to the community. Over the last few months, adults and school-aged children have been feeling stress and confusion over the impact of COVID-19.

With the uncertainty of the economy, businesses closing, tough decisions being made about starting the school year, and the shelter-in-place order, the rise in questions about our mental health needs to be addressed.

to school stress is normal. What I want to

“Right now, there is a lot of stress and anxiety. And because of that, it means that our window of tolerance is smaller. We are not as patient; even our children are on edge,” Dr. Trotter said. “But, going back

We react to the hormones in either a

help people to understand is how they react to all the stress.”

When we are anxious, our body has a

stress response — like an alarm that goes

off. We are flooded with stress hormones. fight, flight, or freeze response, and it is

important to know which one you are so you can identify the response in your children.

3 Stress Responses: Fight- This would be aggressive behavior, both physical and verbal. In children,

this looks like talking back, name calling, becoming angry, and being enraged.

Flight- This would be avoidance behavior.

In children, this looks like procrastination, retreating to their room, or hiding under something.

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going to bed and difficulty with transitions.

The spectrum of worry is broad, but Dr. Trotter hopes to ease some of that with

some advice for parents as we enter a new school year.

Helpful Tips to Reduce Stress and Anxiety:

• Increase the connection with your

children. Using mirror neurons, like

“if I yawn, you yawn,” helps to refocus the emotion. If you are calm, they tend to be calm.

• Be consistent. This creates

predictability and increases the

sense of control. Start with a bedtime routine, as most children respond to schedules.

• Provide boundaries. It provides

structure and guidance on what is acceptable. The structure equals safety.

“Parents are the most important thing to a child, no matter the situation,” Dr. Trotter said. “It is important as parents to first

Freeze- This would be detachment

know who you are, then you can respond

like shutting down and depression.

them navigate their own responses.”

behavior. In children, this looks

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UIL NOT AWARDING 2019-20

LONE STAR CUP

by Steve Gamel

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or Argyle High School, the annual Lone Star Cup isn’t just an award. It’s the standard upon which its coaches, students, athletes, and administration base each school year. It’s a symbol of excellence, and as of mid-March, the Eagles were on their way to hoisting the trophy once again.

Sadly, they won’t get that chance —

certainly our athletic platforms. We like it,

but not because they came up short

and we had a good solid lead.”

to another school.

That’s the factor that stings the most.

The University Interscholastic League announced on June 25 that they would not award the Cup for the 2019-20 school year. The decision was based solely on the fact that all spring events were canceled because of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Those events included boys basketball, robotics, boys and girls soccer, academics, one-act play, track and field, golf, tennis, softball, and baseball.

Rather than award winners in each classification based on incomplete points, the UIL felt it was best not to award the trophy at all — much to Argyle’s chagrin.

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The Lone Star Cup, which began during the 1997-1998 school year, is awarded annually to one high school in each of

the state’s six classifications and is based on points accumulated from victories

throughout the yearw in athletics, fine arts, and academics. Argyle has won the

trophy for its classification in each of the

“Our accomplishments are important here,” Rodgers said. “We’re trying to take kids wherever they are and maximize them in whatever they wish to participate in.”

The good news is that there is always next year, and there’s no doubt Argyle will be in the hunt.

Argyle has won a Lone Star Cup in three different classifications dating back to 2006, including every year since 2009.

Winning schools in each classification receive the Cup trophy and a $1,000 scholarship. Below are the final Top 10 Class 4A standings, as provided by the UIL.

last eight years.

Despite the school year being cut short, Argyle had amassed 73 points in Class

4A and a whopping 25-point lead over

second-place Canyon. The Eagles likely

would have maintained that cushion for

the rest of the school year. Just based on athletics alone, its boys basketball team

advanced to the state tournament before

it was canceled, and its baseball team was

primed to compete for a state title, as well.

Girls soccer, track and field, and numerous other sports would have contributed

Argyle – 73 Canyon — 48 Hereford — 45 Carthage — 44 Liberty Hill — 43 Decatur — 39 Kennedale — 38 Texarkana Pleasant Grove — 38 China Spring — 37 Lamar Fulshear — 37

points, too.

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