MOTONERA magazine
A LETTER FROM THE EDITOR love findingselflove 1
When was the last time you looked in the mirror and told yourself, "I love you?"
For me, this simple ritual has become a daily practice It wasn’t always easy, but over time, as I nurtured my self-love, it became second nature
Since Valentine’s Day falls this month, the February 2025 issue is dedicated to love one of the most powerful emotions we can experience. I want this issue to remind us all that true love starts from within, rooted in the relationship we have with ourselves.
Inside this issue, we’ll explore love in all its forms You’ll find self-love affirmations, intimacy tips, insights on mastering partnership in home design, and a special guest-of-wedding edit, plus so much more goodness
Whether you ’ re focusing on deepening your self-love or strengthening your connection with a partner, I hope this month is filled with beautiful, heartfelt moments ��
Sending love,
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Brianna Cantore Editor-in-Chief Moto Nera Magazine @Shopmotonera
Editor’s love letter
Be my baby gift guide
The wedding guest edit: My top outfit picks for him and her
30 Find Your Perfect Match: Tips for Merging Interior Design Styles with Your Partner Travel
Santa Fe, NM: Where Spirituality Meets Southwest Beauty
8. Embrace Your Intimacy: Tips for better sexual wellness 36 Love Yourself in 2025: 10 affirmations to start your day with confidence
“Let it Glow” green juice recipe
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“BEMY,BEMYBABY”
Not gonna lie, I’m kind of obsessed with all things heart-printed. �� From charming accessories to romantic fashion and thoughtful gifts, this edit is filled with dreamy, love-inspired finds for him & her
“Loveisallyou need.And maybeanewpairof sunnies.”
EmpowerYourIntimacy
BringingSexyBack
2025 is all about glowing, growing, and prioritizing pleasure But let’s be honest between sky-high grocery bills, chaotic work schedules, and the mental load of adulting, keeping that fire burning isn’t always effortless. The good news? The days of whispering about sexual wellness are so over Now, there’s an endless supply of juicy intel (and some very fun products) designed to turn up the heat, boost your libido, and have you feeling like your most confident, turned-on self BRB, adding everything to cart. ��
Since pleasure is a vital part of self-care, let’s get into some easy ways to dial up intimacy plus a sexy little shopping list to help you play, explore, and indulge
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1. Reduce Alcohol Consumption: Consuming excessive alcohol can impact your nervous system, leading to impaired nerve function As a result, this can diminish sexual pleasure and may even contribute to erectile dysfunction in men.
2. Exercise Regularly: Exercise boosts endorphins and sex hormones, enhancing mood, confidence, and libido. Physical and mental well-being are key to a satisfying sex life.
3. Eat Your Way Sexy: Enhance your sex life by consuming nutrient-rich foods. Packed with amino acids, minerals, vitamins, and healthy fats, they not only boost your mood but also increase desire and performance. Some foods to consider are:
Nuts (Almonds, Walnuts, Brazil Nuts) – Rich in zinc, selenium, and healthy fats to support hormone balance.
Salmon – Rich in omega-3s, which boost mood and circulation
Cucumber & Celery – Improve hydration and blood circulation.
Oysters – High in zinc, which boosts testosterone and improves sperm quality
Eggs – High in B vitamins and cholesterol, essential for hormone production.
Watermelon – Contains citrulline, which relaxes blood vessels like Viagra.
Avocados – Loaded with healthy fats that support testosterone and estrogen production.
Bananas – Packed with potassium and B vitamins for sustained energy.
4 Manage Stress: Stress and anxiety can lower libido, affect arousal, and increase fatigue, among many other things. Practice meditation to reduce stress and anxiety and improve relaxation.
5 Prioritize Sleep: Lack of sleep can significantly impact your sex life by affecting hormones, energy levels, mood, and overall well-being. Get 79 hours of sleep per night to regulate hormones and increase energy. When I have trouble sleeping, I make a "sleepy girl" mocktail out of magnesium powder, which does the job!
BestProductsforSexualWellness
Alice Mushroom Chocolates for Arousal and Pleasure: An all-natural chocolate with 9 potent compounds to help balance hormones
Goop Ultra Plush SelfHeating G Spot Vibrator: I have this, and it's pretty lit. Not to mention, it's gorgeous looking
Cuffies: Handcuffs made from a strong but stretchy body-safe silicone, so they're resilient and ideal for getting into different positions
Moon Juice Sex Dust: Make your nighttime mocktail with this adaptogenic blend targeting stress to support healthy hormonal balance
Agent Nateur Holi (Sex)
Intimate Oil: A natural and luxurious oil formulated to hydrate, warm, and enhance intimacy (not compatible with latex condoms).
Woo More Play's She Cums
First Set: An edible coconut sex oil with 100% organic ingredients (LOVE) paired with a 5-speed vibrator
Lelo Tor 2 Vibrating Ring: Surprise your dude with vibrating penetration.
The Etoile Bullet Vibe: The most chic and compact vibrator you will ever see with 10 vibration modes and an 18k gold finish
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OAt the end of the day, sexual wellness is about more than just pleasure it’s about power. It’s about feeling super confident in your body, tapping into your deepest desires, and letting that magnetic energy spill into every part of your life Whether you're teasing your senses, unlocking new levels of intimacy with your partner, or indulging in a solo rendezvous that leaves you breathless, your pleasure is yours to claim. So dim the lights, turn up the heat, and remember: when you take care of your desires, you don’t just glow you radiate ����
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NSantaFe,ewMexico
Where spirituality meets southwest beauty
SpiritualSantaFe
When I was 19, I was blessed with the opportunity to travel to Santa Fe, New Mexico, with one of my favorite people in the world my late grandmother, whom I lovingly called Mima Santa Fe remains one of the most special and spiritual places I’ve ever visited The dirt roads winding toward art galleries, the talented artists lining the streets with their breathtaking creations, the centuries-old churches, and the city’s rich historic culture—it all felt like a dream. Both Mima and I, as creative souls, were completely captivated by the vibrant artistry and unique charm of this magical city. Although I haven’t been back since that unforgettable trip, I hold onto the hope of returning one day with my grandmother present in spirit Over the years, I’ve done a lot of research to plan for a future visit, and I’d love to share my insights with you in hopes of inspiring your own journey to this extraordinary destination
WheretoStay
The Inn Of Five Graces: This is where my grandmother and I stayed, and I will stay there again. It is a luxury hotel and spa located in the heart of Santa Fe's historic district. We were completely in awe of the unique blend of East Indian and Tibetan furnishings, creating a cozy and creative environment in our rooms
Bishop's Lodge Auberge Resorts: A luxury resort situated on 317 acres in the foothills of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains near Santa Fe, New Mexico. This is a great place to stay if you want to start your morning with a hike. Horseback riding, or even fly fishing. They even offer art classes!
El Dorado Hotel & Spa: A luxury resort in the heart of downtown Santa Fe, it is within walking distance of world-class restaurants and shopping venues Guests enjoy live music in the lounge Thursday through Saturday and their rooftop pool with city-wide views.
Four Seasons Resort Rancho Encantado
Santa Fe: A luxury retreat situated on 57 acres in the foothills of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains, approximately 10 miles north of downtown Santa Fe Renovated in 2024, guests enjoy outdoor excursions. Spa treatments, food made with local ingredients.
DininginSantaFe
The Shed: A local spot serving southwestern cuisine perfect for a casual lunch or dinner.
Geronimo: An elegant, fine-dining experience located in the "Borrego House" which was built by Geronimo Lopez in 1756 The menu is "New American" so there is something for everyone at this spot.
Cake's Cafe: A favorite for breakfast or coffee run, try things like their Mexican mocha or cinnamon roll!
Sazon: A fine-dining restaurant serving the best of the Southwest Their specialty is flavorful moles, which is a Mexican sauce that typically combines chili peppers, nuts, seeds, spices, chocolate, and other ingredients to create a deep, layered flavor.
La Boca: A celebrated restaurant serving Spanish cuisine, you can enjoy live music in the Taberna dining room
Market Steer Steakhouse: A premier dining destination known for its prime steaks and regional American cuisine.
Horno Restaurant: A gastropub with a creative, seasonally changing menu that blends global street food influences with fine dining techniques
Mima, 19year oldme, a ndlots ofchips!
SightstoSee
I was captivated by the city's incredible art scene and its rich, historic culture. Here are some must-visit spots you won’t want to miss:
Santa Fe Plaza: Located in the heart of the city, here you will find festivals, markets, and live music
Canyon Road: My grandmother and I loved walking this. There are over 100 galleries, all within a half mile! It is incredible.
Georgia O'Keeffe Museum: Dedicated to the 'Mother of American Modernism,' this museum houses an extensive collection of O'Keeffe's paintings, drawings, and sculptures
San Miguel Chapel: The oldest church in the United States! I remember parts of the chapel being restored during our visit
Loretto Chapel: Famous for its "Miraculous Staircase," this historic chapel features a spiral staircase with no visible means of support, intriguing both architects and visitors alike.
ShoppinginSantaFe
Shiprock Gallery: A gallery with a premiere curation of high-quality pieces, you are sure to find a gorgeous Navajo rug or turquoise jewelry piece here.
Santa Fe Farmers Market: I am obsessed with farmers' markets and love going to different ones when I travel. Supposedly, the Santa Fe farmers market is one of the best in the USA.
Roots in Santa Fe: A popular boutique offering western boots, hats, handbags, jewelry, and gifts
BestSpas
Many people are drawn to Santa Fe to slow down and immerse themselves in wellness activities. One of my favorite forms of self-care is indulging in a monthly facial, and I remember the spa experiences I had in Santa Fe being truly exceptional Whether you're looking for deep relaxation, holistic healing, or a rejuvenating skincare treatment, Santa Fe has a spa for you Here are some top spas to check out during your visit:
The Spa at Loretto: This is where I went for a facial. It is a beautiful boutique spa known for its customized treatments and signature aromatherapy experiences
Four Seasons Resort Rancho Encantado Spa: A five-star spa offering an extensive range of massages, facials, and body treatments.
Ten Thousand Waves: A Japanese-inspired retreat with serene outdoor hot tubs and world-class massage therapies
Ojo Santa Fe Spa Resort: A tranquil escape featuring spring-fed thermal pools and holistic treatments.
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ot sure what to pack for your trip to Santa Fe? No worries I’ve got you covered! Whether you ’ re exploring the art-filled streets of Canyon Road, unwinding at a luxury spa, or dining under the desert sky, your wardrobe should blend effortless style with Southwestern charm Check out my curated selection of Southwestern-inspired styles to elevate your Santa Fe getaway!
FindyourSerenity
Whether you're planning a trip to Santa Fe (which I truly hope you are) or simply browsing this article, thank you for being here. Writing this piece was incredibly therapeutic for me, as it brought back memories of one of the most special trips I ever took—with my grandmother, whom I dearly miss. I even found myself tearing up at one point, but I reminded myself that she is always with me in spirit
Santa Fe holds a unique kind of magic, and I sincerely hope you get to experience it for yourself one day. It’s a place that stays with you long after you leave. ✨
Sending Serenity, Bri
TheWedding GuestEdit
ElevatingyourEveningStyle MYTOPPICKSFORHIMANDHER
Wedding season can feel overwhelming As a guest, the endless Friday and Saturday nights spent getting dressed up might start to feel like a chore not because you don’t want to celebrate love, but because it’s a long night!
I used to feel the same way until I changed my mindset Instead of seeing it as an obligation, I started romanticizing the experience Now, I look forward to the opportunity to truly dress up and embrace the magic of the evening
I imagine stepping back into the Roaring ‘20s, an era where women embraced glamour, independence, and social freedom A time of bold fashion, red lips, and a carefree spirit So why not bring that energy into wedding season?
Get ready to roar like it’s the 1920s and slay in style In this article, you’ll find a curated list of stores with the best evening wear selections and mood boards for both him & her all shoppable and perfect for making an unforgettable entrance
Let’s make wedding season a celebration in every way
FavoriteShopsForEveningWear
Revolve: Good for women's dresses of all different colors, budgets, and styles
Abercrombie & Fitch: This brand is great for men's and women's evening styles. The price point is very reasonable, and seasonal sales happen often.
Shop Bop: Higher price point styles but has a nicely curated collection of highend dresses for women
Meshki: Great for a trend-forward gown for a reasonable price. They have some really fun and sexy styles.
Reformation: They always have stunning options, plus I love that they are sustainably made
Zara: Trendy, European-inspired evening options for both men and women on a budget. I always look here first for when I need some serious style on a budget
Aritzia: Beautiful dresses at a great price point
Nordstrom: They have a nice selection of men's evening wear online.
Banana Republic: If you are a dude, run, don't walk to BR They have a great aesthetic for men overall
Anthropologie: A great source for women's dresses but not many super affordable options.
Suit Supply: A great resource for guys looking to invest in a nice suit They even offer custom options
House of CB: If you are looking for a dress that is both elegant and sexy, than look here.
H&M: A great spot for both men and women looking for style on a budget I created a full H&M look, included later in this article
GuestofWeddingMoodBoards
I’m here to take the stress out of getting dressed for wedding season! To make things effortless, I’ve created curated mood boards with stunning looks for both him and her so you can feel confident and stylish for every celebration. I styled some of the looks with designer pieces, but in the full edit, I included nondesigner alternatives that are just as amazing
Every piece in the boards is shoppable in our LTK Edit just click the button below to browse and shop with ease.
Look1:ClassyandCool
Navy is just one of those colors that screams regal Paired with my favorite look for a man, a total black-on-black situation, this pair will definitely turn heads Both apparel looks are from Abercrombie & Fitch, a great source for affordable evening wear. This mood works great for a fall or winter wedding.
Look2:EarthyElegance
Embracing earth tones is a fashion must, with shades of brown and green more significant than ever I love this earth-tone moment, which works great for fall, winter, and even early spring. The men's apparel is from Banana Republic, one of my favorite stores for men, and the women's dress is from Anthropologie.
There's something about a fitted black dress that always hits the spot Paired alongside a Gray suit, this pair gives Mr. and Mrs. Smith vibes. This look works all year long, but for warmer temperatures, you will want to have a lighterweight suit than the one shown here. Look3:AlwaysSexy
Look5:BlackTie
Whether you are attending a destination wedding on the Amalfi coast, or a rustic wedding set in a beautiful barn, this look exudes "Summer in Europe " Perfect for any spring or summer wedding, remember that if the wedding is indeed in Europe, you are going to want a chunkier heel (I learned this lesson attending a wedding in Ravello - we had a steep walk on stone to the venue).
A "Black Tie Wedding" means the couple requests you show up in your most formal attire It's not the most-loved request by guests, but it's important to respect the couple's wishes For men, you either have to finally invest in a tux and bow tie (if you don't have them already) or go and rent one. For the ladies, that means floor-length gowns I love the gown shown here because it will literally never go out of style, and it has a super low back, so you can sneak in some sexy without breaking the "black tie rules."
And as for those passive-aggressive "Black Tie Optional" requests? That basically means they want you to be in a tux and gown but don't want to force you to spend money to rent a tux or buy a new dress. If it's not within your budget to rent a tux, then I would say at least wear a black or navy suit. Refrain from anything light-colored, like gray or beige The same goes for women If your dress is not full-length, at least
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OtherResources
The Black Tux: An easy tuxedo rental service with nationwide locations PLUS they even have a free home try-on service
VIVRELLE: If you want to elevate your wedding season looks with designer jewelry and handbags but are unsure of what to purchase, or maybe you aren't ready to take the plunge, then you can subscribe to this monthly rental service with options to buy the items!
Rent the Runway: Maybe you want to wear something awesome but don't want to buy a new dress, or you want something designer for an affordable price; that's where Rent the Runway comes in I have used this service in the past, and it is very reliable The only con is that you can't alter the clothing, and sometimes, my frame doesn't fit certain pieces.
DresstoCelebrate
Weddings are a time for love, laughter, and unforgettable style. With these curated looks, you’ll feel confident, chic, and ready to celebrate in fashion. Whether you ’ re channeling vintage glamour or modern elegance, let your outfit set the tone for a night to remember.
Shop the edit, embrace the moment, and slay wedding season in style! ✨����
Sending Style, Bri
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Dress: Mara Hoffman Bag: Chanel
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Sunglasses: Saint Laurent
Sweater: Jenni Kayne
Button Up: Abercrombie & Fitch
Legwarmers: Capezio
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Tips for Merging Interior Design Styles with Your Partner
FindYourPerfectMatch
Identifying your personal interior design style can be challenging enough, let alone blending it seamlessly with your partner’s While I have yet to cross this bridge myself, I know it’s something I’ll have to navigate in the future As a passionate designer (and, let’s be real, a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to my home), the idea of design compromise is something I may need to work on
That being said, I’d like to believe my future partner will think everything I do is amazing and just let me take the reins
Kidding (Kind of )
In all honesty, I don’t want to be one of those wives who controls every little detail. Life and design is more fun when it’s a true collaboration Plus, I’ve found that my designs actually improve when I have to think creatively and make compromises. After talking to many of my couple friends, one thing is clear: most people are never 100% aligned on what they want their home to look like
But that doesn’t mean merging styles has to be a struggle it can actually be a fun and exciting process.
To make things easier (and keep arguments to a minimum), I’ve put together a list of the best tips I’ve come across ones that I fully intend to use myself when the time comes. Let’s dive in!
WatchAHomeShowTogether
I’m a full-blown HGTV junkie There’s just something about watching home transformations that I find to be so entertaining Binge-watching shows like Fixer to Fabulous or Help! I Wrecked My House with your partner is not only a cozy way to unwind, but it also exposes you both to different design styles, renovation ideas, and smart home investments.
Plus, many of the design choices made on these shows aren’t just about aesthetics they're also about increasing resale value So, if one of you is more function-focused and the other is all about the vibe, HGTV can be a great way to meet in the middle.
MakeASharedPinterestBoard
I love Pinterest Like, truly love it It’s my happy place pure inspiration without any of the stressful, chaotic content you find on other social media platforms. And when it comes to home design, it’s gold.
Creating a shared Pinterest board with your partner is a game-changer It allows you both to visually communicate your ideas, explore new styles, and discover unexpected common ground. You might think your styles clash, but once you start pinning, you’ll likely find elements that work well together Plus, this process helps you identify what you actually love versus what just looks cool in someone else’s home.
TakePicturesofItemsyouWanttoKeep
If you ’ re combining households, you both probably have furniture or decor pieces you want to keep To avoid last-minute disagreements, take inventory by photographing your must-keep items and compiling them in a digital or printed mood board (I love using Canva for this).
By mixing these images together, you can see which pieces complement each other and which ones need to go Compare your existing furniture with your Pinterest board to determine what works and what doesn’t. If something doesn’t make the cut, sell it on Facebook Marketplace and use the extra cash toward new pieces you both love
A cohesive color palette is one of the easiest ways to make a home feel intentional, even if your styles are different My personal rule of thumb? Keep the walls neutral and introduce color through decor, textiles, and accent pieces
Photo via Pinterest Click here to view our Interior Design Pinterest Board
Some of my favorite neutral wall shades from Ecos Paint (that are also nontoxic and zero-VOC) include:
Sugar Dust – a soft, warm white Luna Moon – a muted off-white with a hint of gray Nilla Vanilla – a creamy, inviting beige
I’ve also been obsessed with limewashing walls I even had my condo walls painted this way, and it completely transformed the space If one partner wants neutral walls and the other craves texture and depth, this technique is the perfect compromise. I highly recommend Portola Paints for this look!
BalanceMasculineand FeminineEnergy
Right now, I’m in my bachelorette era, which means my home is very feminine think soft color palettes, vintage gold accents, and even a white oven. I love how elegant and romantic it feels, but when the time comes to merge my space with someone else’s, I’m excited to incorporate more masculine elements for balance. If your styles lean heavily in one direction, try incorporating:
Dark-colored furniture (rich woods, deep blues, or charcoal tones)
Clean lines and structured silhouettes (less ornate, more geometric)
Metal elements (black iron, brass, or steel for an edgier feel)
It’s easy to go overboard on one end of the spectrum (hello, pink overload or ultra-industrial vibes), but finding a middle ground creates a space that feels both stylish and inviting
A well balanced entry way Photo via Pinterest
BeOpentoEvolving
Your home and your style will evolve over time. What you love today might not be what you love in five years, and that’s okay The key is to keep an open mind, experiment, and adjust as needed
By treating design as a team effort and respecting each other’s tastes, you’ll create a home that reflects both of your personalities while strengthening your connection in the process. After all, the best spaces aren’t just beautiful they tell a story And yours should be a reflection of both of you
Merging interior styles with a partner doesn’t have to be stressful it can actually be a bonding experience. By making design decisions together, you’ll create a home that represents your relationship and feels like a true reflection of your life as a couple
So, whether you ’ re pinning away on Pinterest, making deals on Facebook Marketplace, or debating over the perfect shade of white (spoiler: they’re all slightly different), embrace the process. Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about the furniture and decor—it’s about building a home together
Wishing you a beautiful home and a beautiful life! Bri
TrusttheProcess
Jacket: The Frankie Shop
Bodysuit: Rue Sophie
Hot Pants: Amanda Uprichard
Tights: Capezio
Boots: Raye
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RecipeoftheMonth
LetItGlow
GREENJUICE
This juice is an anti-inflammatory, collagen-boosting, and detoxifying powerhouse that will help your skin look clearer, more hydrated, and naturally radiant. It’s the perfect way to glow from the inside out! ✨
I make my juices using my Nama J2 cold press juicer. I highly recommend juicing at home to avoid preservatives and unnecessary ingredients in your juices
INGREDIENTS
1 Organic Pineapple: Rich in Vitamin C, pineapple juice supports collagen production for firmer skin.
1 Organic Apple: high in water content, apple juice keeps your skin hydrated.
1 Organic Lemon: Aids in flushing out toxins, which can help clear up breakouts.
1 TBSP Organic Ginger: Reduces redness, swelling, and irritation.
2 cups of Organic Spinach: Supports cell turnover, protects against free radicals, and keep skin supple.
1 cup of Organic Arugula: Helps clear up acne and support collagen production.
