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And here we are, fifteen years later, celebrating the quinceñera of our beloved I remember my heart poundbilingual magazine, Motivos. ing hard in my chest as I Every young person who pulled the tape off of the has come closer to finding first-ever box of Motivos their voice and determining magazines fifteen years ago. their destiny through conSweaty palms marked both necting with resources and anticipation and trepidarole models by reading Motivos tion. So many months of or engaging in our dynamic Motivos Founder hard work had gone into youth programs has made the making this dream a reality. journey worthwhile. Questions flooded my mind: How would This edition focuses on faith. Even it look? How would it be received? Could with preparation, it takes faith to make I keep up the demands on my time, the the final step toward your dreams. I took strain on my finances, and the steep a giant leap of faith to start Motivos fiflearning curve of becoming an entrepreteen years ago after much preparation and neur? prayer, leaning in on my belief that God And then, there she was, in my hands. had put me where I was needed and would Like a mother holding her new baby, I open doors if this was the direction I was awe-struck as I slowly flipped each should take. I hope that each of you finds carefully crafted page. The faces of the stillness at the start of the new year to youth winked back at me from the pages, strengthen your own foundation of faith. the vibrant colors leapt up to embrace and From there, may you take a leap of faith enfold me in the celebration of finally with more confident footing and take a sharing our young people’s stories in a chance on something you love, something prestige magazine: Motivos. The expresyou know you were meant to do in 2022. sion of self; the exploration of other; the You will never know the unexpected and coming together of the two. I fell in love. amazing places that road will lead to Everything else faded to the background. unless you do. Con cariño,
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Work has been very exciting because, ever since taking part in the Motivos meeting [Gratitude edition Zoom launch event] and receiving advice, my fear has now been replaced with the desire to fulfill my tasks at work and outside. I no longer feel a blockage in my thoughts regarding my wishes. And as good news, NETL accepted me in a virtual boarding school in the United States, and the fear of language for participating in meetings has not held me back! ~Diana Díaz, Mechanical Engineer Student, Polytechnic University of Puerto Rico You are all doing amazing work! I love seeing the magazine posts, and I’m forever grateful that you have allowed me the space to share my story. ~Juan Quinonez Zepeda, Class of ’22, Dartmouth College, Hanover, NH I do not want to miss anything you produce! ~Lisa D. Watson, Library Media Specialist and Student/Community Liaison, Alexander Hamilton High School, Elmsford, NY What a wonderfully inspiring event—a privilege to attend [Motivos Gratitude edition Zoom launch]. Thanks for all you do! ~David November, Assistant Principal, Mariana Bracetti Charter Academy, Philadelphia, PA Big thanks! Y’all being here [Motivos Elevate edition Zoom launch event] giving us advice and saying congratulations and giving us thanks and praise makes me feel that I am valued and appreciated. So thank you, everyone, for all the kind words. ~Anthony Rodriguez, student, Mariana Bracetti Charter Academy, Philadelphia, PA If I had had the kind of quality advice offered today [at Motivos Elevate edition Zoom launch event] as I was developing and going through my career—whether it was from Steven, Karyme, Juan, Anthony, or any of you guys—it would have been off the charts. What you guys are doing and saying is magnificent and should be shared with everyone in any work environment. There is no substitute for good advice coming from your peers as you’re trying to matriculate through life. Again, congratulations! ~Reginald Ragland, former Journalism Education Association advisor, Washington, DC Your [Elevate edition] launch event was awesome. I was blessed to attend. ~Cadet Esther Mobley, Salvation Army Philadelphia West Corps, Philadelphia, PA
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Mientras quitaba la cinta de la primera caja de revistas Motivos, sentía mi corazón latir con fuerza. “¿Cómo se vería? ¿Cómo la recibirían? ¿Podría responder al tiempo que demandaría, a la presión económica y a la empinada curva de aprendizaje de convertirme en emprendedora?” Y entonces, ahí estaba ella, en mis manos. Como una madre sosteniendo a su bebé recién nacido, me asombraba al pasar lentamente cada una de las cuidadosamente elaboradas páginas. Los rostros de los jóvenes me guiñaban desde el papel, los colores vibrantes saltaban para abrazarme y envolverme en la celebración de compartir historias, finalmente, desde la perspectiva de nuestros jóvenes, en una revista de prestigio. La expresión de uno mismo; la exploración de los otros; las dos cosas a la vez. Me enamoré. Todo el trabajo duro pasó a un segundo plano: un sueño se había hecho realidad. Y aquí estamos, una década y media después, celebrando la fiesta de quince años de nuestra querida revista bilingüe, Motivos. Cada joven que se ha acercado al encuentro de su voz singular y a determinar
su destino a través del contenido de la revista o de nuestros programas ha hecho que la travesía valga la pena (p. 4). Esta edición se centra en la fe que nos lleva a lugares nuevos y significativos. Lee cómo Edwin Desamour transforma una comunidad que una vez lo envió a prisión (p. 14), cómo Alycia Wood construye puentes de entendimiento entre personas de diferentes creencias (p. 34) y cómo Anthony Ramos encontró su vocación después de un viaje de servicio a Haití (p. 18). El salto de fe para empezar Motivos se produjo solo después de mucha preparación y plegarias, afirmándome en mi creencia de que Dios me había ubicado donde era necesaria y de que proveería en el camino por delante. Mi deseo es que cada uno de ustedes encuentre al comienzo del nuevo año la calma para fortalecer las bases de su propia fe. A partir de allí, pisando sobre seguro, podrás dar un salto de fe, arriesgarte en lo que amas, algo que sabes que estás destinado a hacer en 2022. Nunca descubrirás los sorprendentes e inesperados lugares a los que te llevará esa carretera a menos que lo hagas.
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personal passions and professional backgrounds in cross-cultural exchange, education, and media. As I’ve often shared with my mentees: where your passion and purpose intersect with a need in this world, therein lies your destiny. And the rest is history. Thank you to our many sponsors over the past fifteen years for your belief in the importance of our work. I want to give a special shout-out to Temple University, Penn State Philadelphia Recruitment Center, and the Community College of Philadelphia for being our longest-standing and most faithful supporters, and to the National Hispanic Institute and the U.S. Hispanic Leadership Institute for your partnership and guidance. As my team and I map out the path ahead, we seek to continue co-creating content with the youth to change often negatively held social narratives within our communities. This goal, combined with experts’ advice on life, college, and career topics, aims to empower our readers to become more assertive as they navigate their future pathways. For educators, we will continue to be a supportive resource, encouraging your students to become readers, writers, and advocates to access all that life has to offer. For students, we will continue providing opportunities to join our team to co-create
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media with a social impact while connecting you with resources and role models to help you find your unique voice and determine your destiny. For educational institutions, we will continue connecting you with a diverse candidate pool of students desiring to further their education to amplify their impact in this world. And for parents, we will continue to be a trusted guide for your teen to turn to as they navigate life, college, and career pathways. We’re excited for what the future holds! New ways to reach our audience offer opportunities for growth; virtual platforms
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have opened doors for direct interaction with more readers over the past two years. Pay a visit to our social media @motivosmag, Linktr.ee.com/motivosmag and our YouTube channel MotivosMedia for opportunities to meet with writers, go behind-the-scenes with the team, join our college and career panels and writing workshops, read a digital edition, or apply to join our youth editorial board! To our 90,000 readers in 42 states and four countries, we continue to look forward to being your trusted confidant as you find your voice, step into your purpose, and determine your destiny.
La revista Motivos y sus programas para jóvenes celebran 15 años: Mirar atrás para mirar adelante
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In 2012 I traveled to Colombia, South Cheyenne at La America, with the Motivos Bilingual Chorrera, the tallest Media Ambassador Program for a waterfall in Colombia, June 2012 two-week cultural exchange service project. Living with a host family helped me become immersed in the culture and improved my Spanish. As part of the experience, I led the technology service project to co-create a bilingual website for a youth-led internet cafe in Cazucá, an impoverished community on the outskirts of Bogotá. This prepared me for my career in tech, driving global partnerships and collaborating with stakeholders around the world. I encourage you all to seek opportunities to experience different cultures and expand your horizons like I did with Motivos! Motivos Media Ambassadors in Cheyenne (far left) with Bogotá, Colombia, June 2012
En 2012 viajé a Colombia, Sudamérica, con el Programa de Embajadores de Medios Bilingües de Motivos para un proyecto de servicio e intercambio cultural de dos semanas. Vivir con una familia anfitriona me ayudó a sumergirme en la cultura y mejoró mi español. Como parte de la experiencia, lideré el proyecto de servicio tecnológico para cocrear el sitio web bilingüe de un cibercafé dirigido por jóvenes de Cazucá, una comunidad de bajos recursos en las afueras de Bogotá. Eso me preparó para mi carrera en tecnología, impulsando asociaciones globales y colaborando con actores de todo el mundo.
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¡Los aliento a todos a buscar oportunidades para experimentar diferentes culturas y expandir sus horizontes como lo hice con Motivos!
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I am currently working as a math teacher at Edison High school. I am a huge video game, fantasy, and sci-fi fan who loves playing and analyzing various games. I brought that analysis and passion for games and the stories that they tell to Motivos readers through authoring the Game Time column for close to a decade. But I initially started with the magazine just to have something productive to do over the summer before I started high school. Through my internship, I helped fix the team computers and did demographic research for the sales department, but I eventually expressed my interest in writing Game Time to get my passions out there. Being able to talk about the main hobby I carried with me my entire life in such a wide capacity was rewarding enough, but going to various meetand-greets and meeting fans of my writing was surreal. Sometimes I would feel a little self-conscious about expressing myself, but seeing that excitement from other readers and team members helped me be more comfortable putting myself out there. These days I try to help my students in a similar capacity. Many of my students are passionate about art, sports, and games themselves. So I try to do what I can to support them, even if it’s as small as complimenting them on their sketches in their sketchbook. A smiling face in the crowd as I spoke was all the validation I needed to keep going with Game Time. Now I try to offer that to others. Seeing my students’ faces light up when they get that little bit of encouragement makes my day. Whatever your passion is, pursue it; never let it out of your sight. You will connect with people who like the same things you do and find community.
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Initially I started with Motivos by editing the advice column for high school and college students. Then I went on to lead the editorial team during Motivos Summer Media Institute and travel to three national conferences to present with Jenée and the team. I developed a passion for helping youth. Until recently, I worked at Temple University in the honors program as an academic advisor. Now I’m the associate director for La Casa Latina at the University of Pennsylvania. Roseilyn (far right) with Motivos team ready to present Jenée has helped me live out one of my favorite quotes: “Success occurs when oppor- at the National Council of La Raza national conference in tunity meets preparation.” Motivos has helped Chicago, IL, Fall 2009 me do public speaking, be prepared, understand what college means as a first-generation student and what my community needs, even if they are older or younger than me. Jenée has encouraged me to put my fears aside, use my introversion in a positive way to impact people through one-on-one relationships, and speak up and let my voice be heard. And now, I empower my students through the work that I do, allowing their voices to be heard. In the Latino community, turning fifteen years old is a pivotal point in a young woman’s life. I am looking forward to fifteen more years. So, I see this as a turning point for Motivos. I’m super excited to see what’s next. Empecé en Motivos editando la columna de consejos para estudiantes secundarios y universitarios. Luego pasé a liderar el equipo editorial en el Motivos Summer Media Institute y viajé a tres conferencias nacionales para hacer presentaciones con Jenée y el equipo. Desarrollé la pasión de ayudar a los jóvenes. Hasta hace poco trabajaba en Temple University como asesora académica en el programa de honores. Roseilyn mentoring the next generation Ahora soy directora asociada de La Casa of Motivos mentees, November, 2021 Latina en la Universidad de Pensilvania. Jenée me ha ayudado a vivir una de mis frases favoritas: “El éxito ocurre cuando la oportunidad se encuentra con la preparación”. Motivos me ha ayudado a hablar en público, estar preparada, comprender lo que significa la universidad siendo primera generación de estudiantes y lo que necesita mi comunidad, incluso los mayores y menores que yo. Jenée me alentó a dejar de lado el miedo, usar mi introversión de manera positiva para impactar en las personas a través de relaciones uno a uno, hablar y hacer escuchar mi voz. Y ahora empodero a mis alumnos por medio de mi trabajo, permitiendo que su voz sea escuchada. En la comunidad latina, cumplir quince años es una bisagra en la vida de una joven. Entonces, creo que este es un punto de inflexión para Motivos. Vamos por quince años más. Estoy ansiosa por lo que vendrá. ~ Roseilyn Guzman, Associate Director, La Casa Latina, University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia, PA
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Actualmente trabajo como profesor de Matemáticas en la secundaria Edison. Soy un gran fanático de los videojuegos, el fantasy y la ciencia ficción al que le encanta Andy presents on Game Time at a Motivos jugar y analizar edition launch event in Philadelphia, PA juegos. Durante casi una década llevé a los lectores de Motivos mis análisis y mi pasión por los juegos y sus relatos a través de la columna Game Time. Pero cuando empecé con la revista lo hice solo por tener algo productivo que hacer durante el verano antes de iniciar las clases en la secundaria. A lo largo de mi pasantía, ayudé a reparar las computadoras del equipo e hice una investigación demográfica para el departamento de ventas, pero finalmente opté por expresar mis pasiones en Game Time. Poder hablar sobre mi pasatiempo principal de toda la vida con tanta libertad en fue suficiente gratificación, pero ir a encuentros y conocer a fanáticos de lo que escribía fue surrealista. A veces me sentía un poco inhibido para expresarme, pero ver la emoción de otros lectores y miembros del equipo me ayudó a sentirme más cómodo. En estos días trato de ayudar a mis alumnos de la misma forma. A muchos les apasionan el arte, los deportes y los juegos, así que trato de hacer lo que puedo para alentarlos, aunque no sea más que felicitándolos por sus bocetos. Ver una sonrisa entre la multitud mientras hablaba era toda la validación que necesitaba para avanzar con Game Time. Eso es lo que ahora trato de ofrecer a los demás. Ver iluminarse la cara de mis alumnos al recibir aliento me alegra el día. Sea cual sea tu pasión, síguela; nunca la pierdas de vista. Te conectarás con personas a las que les gusta lo mismo que a ti y encontrarás una comunidad.
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Cuando empecé mi maestría en estudios biculturales bilingües no tenía el objetivo de lanzar una revista, pero me alegra mucho haberlo hecho. Una búsqueda inicial de estar mejor equipada para atender a una comunidad en la que ya trabajaba, aprender más sobre mi propia herencia y profundizar en lo que me interesaba de la educación y los negocios, se convirtió en una tesis y luego en un plan de negocios para abordar las disparidades educativas y la realización del potencial de la comunidad hispana. Motivos fue la unión de mis pasiones personales y experiencias profesionales en el intercambio cultural, la educación y los medios. Como suelo decirles a mis alumnos: ahí donde tu pasión y tu propósito se encuentran con una necesidad de este mundo, ahí radica tu Motivos youth and alumni at our 15th Year Anniversary destino. celebration, Taller Puertorriqueño, Philadelphia, PA, 2021 Y el resto es historia. Instituciones educativas: continuaremos Gracias a nuestros numerosos patrocinadores, ligándolas a un grupo diverso de candidatos que en todos estos años han creído en la impora estudiantes que desean avanzar en su tancia de nuestro trabajo. Gracias especialmente educación para amplificar su impacto en el a Temple University, Penn State Philadelphia mundo. Recruitment Center y Community College of Padres: seguiremos siendo un recurso Philadelphia por ser nuestros más antiguos y confiable para los adolescentes mientras fieles patrocinadores, y al National Hispanic navegan por los caminos de la vida, la uniInstitute y al US Hispanic Leadership Institute versidad y la carrera. por su colaboración y guía. ¡Nos entusiasma lo que nos depara el Mi equipo y yo buscamos continuar cocrefuturo! Nuevas formas de llegar a nuestra ando con los jóvenes contenidos que cambien audiencia ofrecen oportunidades de crecilos relatos sociales, a menudo negativos, de miento. Las plataformas virtuales han abinuestras comunidades. Este objetivo, junto con erto las puertas para la interacción directa la asesoría de expertos en temas de la vida, la con más lectores en los últimos dos años. universidad y la carrera profesional, pretende Visita nuestras redes sociales @motivosmag, dar a los lectores el poder de ser más asertivos Linktr.ee.com/motivosmag y el canal de Youal navegar el futuro. Motivos at JEA/NSPA national conference in Tube @motivosmedia para encontrarte con Educadores: continuaremos siendo un recurso Seattle, WA, 2012 colaboradores, ver el detrás de escena del de apoyo que aliente a sus estudiantes a conequipo, participar de nuestros paneles universitarios y profesiovertirse en lectores, escritores y defensores de sus deseos, para nales y talleres de escritura, leer una edición digital o postularte acceder a todo lo que la vida tiene para ofrecerles. para integrar nuestro consejo editorial juvenil. Estudiantes: seguiremos conectándolos con recursos y modelos A nuestros 90.000 lectores en 42 estados y cuatro países: para ayudarlos a encontrar su voz singular y determinar su desseguimos deseando ser su confidente mientras encuentran su voz, tino, y también brindándoles oportunidades de unirse a nuestro dan un paso hacia su propósito y determinan su destino. equipo y cocrear medios de impacto social.
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Motivos founder with Girard College students after she was their Chapel Talk speaker, Philadelphia, PA, 2018
Motivos builds schools in Honduras with Students Helping Honduras, 2014
Motivos Team training retreat, Philadelphia, PA, 2019
Motivos elementary school summer campers, Salvation Army, Philadelphia, PA, 2016
Motivos founder Jenée Chizick Agüero with those who attended her workshop at the 2018 US Hispanic Leadership conference, Chicago, IL
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The eyes are the window of a truth teller.
Being a Truth Teller A truth-teller fights Fights the unprecedented, the unknown Persevering through uncertainty Standing strong through adversity Spirits blazing, burning throughout the night In the midst of any storm, plague, or obstacle in sight Proud yet humble, strong but gentle, brilliant and creative individuals That blind the sun with their excellence When we fall We fall together We don’t look down at each other in shame We look up at each other in praise Uplifting one another to fight another day Because we want to make a change
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This world isn’t perfect Neither are we But accepting that And still bringing the best of you, to be Building and breaking Building and breaking Building and breaking Never stopping, never ending Until we succeed
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The Mountain of Self-Sabotage By Jessica Janniere
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n life, there are great obstacles we may have to overcome. I call them mountains because they appear too big to overtake or move beyond. These faulty thinking patterns are developed in childhood and are often trauma-induced. As a way to cope and survive, we create a pattern of behaviors that makes us feel safe.
Self-sabotage: • Faulty thinking patterns. • Trapped in these patterns that create problems in your life and keep you from achieving your goals. • You try to make changes and disrupt these patterns, but somehow you end up in the same place, again and again. • This behavior can affect every aspect of your life, be it a relationship, a career goal, or a personal goal like weight loss.
How do we move the mountain of self-sabotage?
It can be very emotionally painful and embarrassing when you recognize that you have been holding yourself back. Many people struggle to come to terms with it, but awareness is powerful and the first step to breaking the negative cycle.
• Look for the triggers that put self-sabotage into motion, such as: - Boredom - Fear - Self-doubt - When things are going really well
• Procrastination - It can happen for any reason but typically has an underlying issue, such as feeling overwhelmed by the “to-do” list, trouble with time management, or doubting your abilities. - Procrastination is avoidance, which can be addictive because it feels safe. It also allows us to blame outside factors like not having enough time, which means we don’t take responsibility for our actions.
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• Putting Yourself Down - We tend to set higher standards for ourselves than we do for others. When you fail to meet these standards, you might give yourself harsh feedback like: - “I can’t do anything right.” - “I won’t make it, so why should I even bother?” - “Wow. I really messed up. I am terrible at this.” - If you criticize yourself in front of others or have a habit of negative self-talk, the unfortunate outcome will be this: your words may eventually be taken as truth.
• It’s impossible to discover our potential and God-given purpose when we are engaged in self-sabotaging behaviors.
Here are a few of the top self-sabotaging behaviors:
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- When conflict arises at work, we can sabotage our professional success by leaving the job to go elsewhere. By avoiding conflict, we miss an opportunity to grow and develop our character, communication skills, and leadership capacity.
• Jumping Ship - This can happen any time a challenge or conflict arises. - If you fear intimacy (closeness and vulnerability), there is a barrier to connection. Jumping ship when things get serious is a way to feel safe and avoid getting hurt.
• Track your triggers in a journal. Look for patterns throughout your life. • Speak with a trusted counselor, therapist, or adult who can help you process what’s going on. • Practice mindfulness and non-judgmental awareness of your thoughts and behaviors in the present moment. • Create positive affirming statements to replace the negative self-talk. • If you are a person of faith, pray and ask God to heal you, help you, and equip you with the ability to create new and empowering behaviors and habits. To learn more about identifying the obstacles that may be holding you back from success, you can take this fun quiz and get a free report emailed right to your inbox: http://lookupandbeyond.com/quiz/
La montaña del autoboicot
Autoboicot:
• Patrones de pensamiento defectuosos. • Estás atrapado en estos patrones que traen problemas e impiden alcanzar objetivos. • Intentas hacer cambios y cortar estos patrones, pero de alguna manera terminas en el mismo lugar, una y otra vez. • Este comportamiento puede afectar todos los aspectos de tu vida, ya sea una relación, una meta profesional o una meta personal, como perder peso. • Es imposible descubrir nuestro potencial y el propósito que Dios nos dio si estamos metidos en comportamientos de autoboicot. Reconocer que uno ha estado reprimiéndose puede ser muy doloroso y vergonzoso. A muchas personas les cuesta aceptarlo. Pero la conciencia es poderosa y es el primer paso para romper el ciclo negativo.
Algunos de los principales comportamientos de autoboicot son: • Procrastinación - Puede suceder por cualquier motivo, pero por lo general responde a un problema subyacente, como sentirse abrumado por una lista de "tareas pendientes", problemas para administrar el tiempo y dudas sobre las propias capacidades. - La procrastinación es evitar los problemas, y puede ser un comportamiento adictivo, porque da sensación de seguridad. También nos permite culpar a factores externos, como no tener el tiempo suficiente, y ser una forma de no responsabilizarnos por nuestras acciones. • Abandonar el barco - Puede suceder en cualquier momento ante un desafío o conflicto. - Si le temes a la intimidad (cercanía y vulnerabilidad), hay una barrera para la conexión y saltas del barco cuando las cosas se ponen serias. Es una forma de sentirte seguro/evitar lastimarte. - Podemos sabotear nuestro éxito profesional, porque cuando surge un conflicto en el trabajo dejamos el trabajo y buscamos otro. Esto significa que perdemos la oportunidad de crecer y desarrollar nuestro carácter, nuestras capacidades comunicativas y la oportunidad de desarrollar nuestra capacidad de liderazgo.
• Echarte abajo - Tendemos a establecer estándares más altos para nosotros que para los demás. Cuando no cumples esos estándares, puede que pienses algo tan duro como: - "No puedo hacer nada bien." - "No lo lograré, así que ¿por qué debería molestarme?" - "Guau. Lo arruiné completamente. Soy pésimo en esto." Si te criticas frente a otros o simplemente tienes el hábito de dialogar contigo mismo negativamente, el desafortunado resultado será que tus palabras acabarán siendo tomadas como verdaderas.
¿Cómo movemos la montaña del autoboicot? • Busca los factores desencadenantes del autoboicot, como: - el aburrimiento - el miedo - las dudas de uno mismo cuando las cosas van bien • Registra los factores desencadenantes en un diario. Busca patrones a lo largo de tu vida. • Habla con un consejero, terapeuta o adulto de confianza que pueda ayudarte a procesar lo que te pasa. • Practica mindfulness y la conciencia sin prejuicios de tus pensamientos y comportamientos en el momento presente. • Crea afirmaciones positivas para reemplazar la negatividad de tu diálogo interior, si es que te abruma. • Si eres una persona de fe, ora y pídele a Dios que te sane, te ayude y te dé la capacidad de generar comportamientos y hábitos nuevos y empoderadores. Para más información sobre cómo identificar los obstáculos que pueden estar impidiéndote el éxito, puedes completar este divertido cuestionario y recibir un informe gratuito por email: http://lookupandbeyond.com/quiz/
About the Author Jessica Janniere is a national adversity expert, sought-after keynote speaker, workshop facilitator, and the founder of Look Up and Beyond Inc. She is the best-selling author of two books: My Colored World and Look Up and Beyond. Jessica inspires and empowers people to live on the other side of adversity every day.
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n la vida quizás tengamos que superar grandes obstáculos. Yo los llamo montañas porque parecen demasiado grandes para pasarlas y avanzar más allá. Estos patrones de pensamiento defectuosos se desarrollan en los años de la infancia y, a menudo, son inducidos por traumas. Como forma de sobrellevar la situación y sobrevivir, creamos un patrón de comportamiento que nos hace sentir seguros.
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C OM MUN IT Y VOICE Tell us about a time you relied on faith in someone or something in your life. How did it go? What did it lead to? Any advice? I’ve had to put faith in myself While it is vital that you find that thing or person that you can put faith into, it is nearly impossible to do so without putting faith in yourself. Whether it’s trying out for a soccer team, the school play, or preparing for a big test, I’ve had to put PAULA faith in myself. Sometimes it is best to take a step back, knowing you’re prepared to the best of your ability because the rest is left to faith and self-confidence. Know that you’re ready for that job interview, exam, or tryout and have faith in your ability to do well. ~Paula Jarmul, 9th grade, Abington Junior High School, Abington, PA Only put your faith in people you trust I had to have faith in my friend to show up to our school’s homecoming dance. I had brought my Nintendo Switch to the dance, and we were just going to set up in some corner and play games. He showed up, and eventually, a small crowd joined us. We JOSIAH also got positive attention from adults. The advice I would give is to only put your faith in people you trust. ~ Josiah Sprague, 10th grade, Falconer Central School, Falconer, NY Have faith in God I always rely on faith 24/7, and because of my faith in God, my life is a blessing. Always have faith in God with all your heart.
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Over the past year, God has truly guided my footsteps. He is leading me into the purpose and plan He has for me. I am content with placing my full trust in Him because I know He has blessed my life in ways I would have never imagined.
Gaining faith in the adventure! My daughter had always wanted to study abroad. Before the pandemic, she got straight A’s and had a nice group of friends. She was happy and productive— generally a model teenager. During the pandemic, she started to isolate herself, SOFIA & DANIE lost interest in activities, and her selfesteem was at an all-time low; she was not the same. Eventually, she asked for therapy and help reorganizing her life. I was so proud of her. She started playing the guitar, took up art again, and started to want to socialize more. Coincidentally, the opportunity arose for her to study during the fall semester in Spain. At first, I was afraid that she would fall again and I wouldn’t be there to support her. But she seemed to have confidence in herself, and I decided to have faith in her and support the adventure. She recently returned and is more confident, with improved Spanish and proud of herself for getting through it. She has been home for less than a month and was offered another opportunity to study abroad in Germany over the summer! How could I say no? That spirit of taking pride in overcoming obstacles and not being afraid of the next one can only be good for her! ~Danie Moss-Velasco, attendee at Concilio’s Stroll the Harbor Event, Philadelphia, PA Don’t give up on any opportunities! The year 2021 was crazy. Dealing with the pandemic and trying to maintain a healthy mindset was challenging. I realized I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life, and I didn’t know how to move forward. Life is moving quickly, adulthood is close, LORENZ and I’ll be going to college soon; however, maintaining my mental stability and life goals has been a challenge. I felt lost and depressed, but then I remembered my mother’s words: “All you need to do is believe in yourself, because with effort, you can do great things; don’t give up on any opportunities if you want to have doors open for you.” By putting faith and trust in those words, I am motivated every day to do better. ~Lorenz Merard, 12th grade, Mariana Bracetti Academy Charter School, Philadelphia, PA
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To visit my parents when I was studying, I had to travel around five hours by bus from Pérez Zeledón to Ciudad Neily, Costa Rica. The trip was full of green landscapes, mountains, and rivers; dry and rainy days over fruiting trees, and the cluttered sale of native crafts on the side of the road. During an unusually quiet trip, I heard the talk of the passengers traveling in front of me; it was a nephew with his uncle. While looking out the window, the young man asked, "Uncle, what a mighty river! What is it called?" "I don't know!" answered the uncle. "What is this town called?" the young man asked minutes later. "I don't know, nephew!" replied the uncle. "Uncle, what are the natives of this area called?" the young man asked later. "I don't know!" the uncle repeated. After a pause, the uncle commented, "I really like when you ask questions. I have faith that you will learn a lot in life!"
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Apparently, neither of them knew the place or its surroundings well. Perhaps, as I listened to the conversation, I could have answered the young man's questions, but we all have to be very careful when participating in a discussion that we are not invited to; that can lead to altercations. Asking questions is very important. In my study times, those who asked questions were frowned upon, and those with answers were rewarded. Times have changed. Do not be afraid to ask questions or to clarify your doubts. Today, there is a phrase that says, "There is no foolish question; foolish is the one who does not ask." Yes, indeed! Just make sure you ask questions to the right person! Until next time!
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Para visitar a mis padres cuando estudiaba en Costa Rica tenía que viajar alrededor de cinco horas en autobús, desde Pérez Zeledón hasta Ciudad Neily. Era un viaje lleno de verdes paisajes, montañas, ríos, con días secos o lluviosos, árboles llenos de frutas y mucha venta de artesanía de las personas locales en la orilla de la calle. Durante un inusualmente silencioso viaje escuché la plática de los pasajeros que viajaban delante de mí, un sobrino con su tío. El jovencito hablaba y pregunta a su tío mientras miraba por la ventana: —Tío, qué río más caudaloso. ¿Cómo se llama? —No sé —respondió el tío. —¿Cómo se llamará este pueblo? —preguntó el joven minutos después. —No sé, sobrino —respondió el tío. —Tío, ¿cómo se llaman las personas nacidas en esta zona? — preguntó el joven más tarde. —No sé —respondió nuevamente el tío. Después de una pausa, el adulto comentó: —Me gusta mucho que preguntes. Tengo fe en que vas a aprender mucho en la vida.
¡Moraleja!
Por lo visto, ninguno de los dos conocía bien el lugar y sus alrededores. Quizá, así como escuché la conversación, también pude haber aclarado las dudas al joven, pero hay que tener mucho cuidado a la hora de participar en una conversación cuando no se está invitado. Eso puede traer altercados. Preguntar es muy importante. En mis tiempos de estudio, el que hacía preguntas era mal visto, y premiaban al que tenía las respuestas. Los tiempos han cambiado y no hay que tener miedo a preguntar. Debemos aclarar nuestras incógnitas y dudas. Hoy en día hay un refrán que dice: “No hay pregunta tonta. Tonto es el que no pregunta”. Eso sí, hay que asegurarse de hacerle las preguntas a la persona adecuada. ¡Hasta la próxima!
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Illustration credit: Illustration by Yohel Agüero, age 25, tattoo artist, Cuidad Neily, Costa Rica; IG: @yohelagueroart
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Journey of Redemption:
The Fight for a Neighborhood's Youth By Allen Williams
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espite being nicknamed "The Badlands" and being the heroin capital of the world, Edwin Desamour sees Kensington as a place full of opportunity and positivity that only needs a push in the right direction. As a youth, Edwin roamed the streets of Kensington—an area of Philadelphia, plagued by drug addiction and violent crime. A lack of role models for young people was the norm in this area for decades, which ultimately led Edwin down a path characterized by drug trafficking and physical altercations during his teenage years. Eventually, Edwin became involved in a street brawl that left one dead and resulted in Edwin serving eight and a half years in prison. However, his story didn't end there. Upon his release in 1997, Edwin decided to become the role model that was missing during his teenage years, turning his life around in the process. Edwin created Men in Motion in the Community; which provided social and emotional support along with role Upon his release models to young men of color in in 1997, Edwin Philadelphia. Edwin also worked decided to be the with the Philadelphia Anti-Drug kind of role model Network, Women Against Rape, in Kensington and Congreso de Latinos Unidos. From 2017 to 2021, he served as that was missing dean at his alma mater, John B. during his teenage Stetson Charter School, where he years, turning his advocated for troubled youth and life around in the provided solutions for schoolprocess. based incidents. By working with
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The Lighthouse Somerset Community Center team on the stairs leading to the gymnasium from top left to bottom right: Michael Lopez, Julian Makarechi, Teresa Fetzer, Gilbert Vega and Edwin Desamour
such organizations, Edwin has now become a community beacon "I'm a big believer of hope. in looking at the In these roles, Edwin aimed obstacles that are to eradicate many of the factors put in the way of in his childhood environment our children and that influenced him to make asking how we can poor decisions in the past. "I'm move them so they a big believer in looking at the obstacles that are put in the can go forward," way of our children and asking Desamour says. how we can move them so they can go forward," Desamour says. These heartfelt words reveal his desire to heal his community; he sees the potential in Kensington youth who struggle in the same ways he did. However, Edwin has his work cut out for him. According to The Trace, "over 1,450 people in Philadelphia were shot in 2020". In addition, children in the city are often direct or indirect victims of community violence. As the dean of John B. Stetson Charter School, Edwin often worked to convince local drug dealers to avoid recruiting kids into their circles, as he was acutely aware of how negative influences can shape a child's development and decision making. As a dean, he was in a unique position to see the correlations between educational struggle and environment. Edwin uses his personal experience and firsthand knowledge to provide the best support possible for children, but it isn't easy. "Many children have the expectation that they will see a prison cell at some point in their life," he says. "Some simply think prison is a part of life because they've seen so many people go." Even though prison seems to be the norm for many in the Kensington area, Edwin does not believe it has to be this way. Edwin Desamour Edwin's own journey
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pesar de que lo llamen “The Badlands” y sea la capital mundial de la heroína, Edwin Desamour ve en Kensington un lugar lleno de oportunidades y positividad que solo necesita un empujón en la dirección correcta. De joven, Edwin vagaba por las calles de Kensington, una zona de Filadelfia plagada de adicción a las drogas y delitos violentos. La falta de modelos para los jóvenes fue la norma aquí durante décadas, y llevó a Edwin por un camino caracterizado por el tráfico de drogas y los altercados físicos durante su adolescencia. Finalmente, Edwin se involucró en una pelea callejera que dejó un muerto y le deparó 8 años y medio de prisión. Sin embargo, Edwin se aseguró de que su historia no terminara allí.
Al recobrar la libertad en 1997, Edwin decidió ser la clase de modelo que durante su adolescencia Al recobrar la faltaba en Kensington, cambiando su vida en el libertad en 1997, proceso. Creó Men in Motion in the Community, Edwin decidió ser que ofreció apoyo socioemocional y modelos para la clase de modelo los jóvenes de color de Filadelfia, cosas que necesitaban desesperadamente. También trabajó con la que durante su Philadelphia Anti-Drug Network, Women Against adolescencia Rape y el Congreso de Latinos Unidos. Entre 2017 faltaba en y 2021, se desempeñó como decano en su alma Kensington, mater, la John B. Stetson Charter School, donde cambiando su vida defendió a los jóvenes con problemas, dando en el proceso. soluciones a los incidentes escolares. A partir de trabajar con estas organizaciones, Edwin se ha convertido en un faro comunitario de esperanza de cambio. ~sigue en la página 21
Youth enjoy eSports at The Lighthouse Somerset Community Center on West Somerset Street in North Philadelphia
Hay ride at Fall Harvest Fest
Brothers Isaac and Benji at The Lighthouse Fall Harvest Fest
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Photography by Mishelle Severino, Abigail Melendez and courtesy of Edwin Desamour
to redemption meant confronting his past. Edwin reflected, "I didn't like what I went through; I knew I could have accomplished so much more." In the heart of North Philadelphia, Edwin continues his journey at the Lighthouse Field, an often overlooked, somewhat overgrown plot of land on Erie Avenue. At the request of the board president of The Lighthouse, Felix Agosto, Edwin raised $70,000 to invest in the community center at the Lighthouse Field to create a safe space for all children in the surrounding neighborhoods. "Edwin hit the ground running. He's already done more with the 15-acre field we oversee than others have done in the last fifteen years," says Mr. Agosto about Edwin's community development work. Edwin's Harvest Fest event in the fall was well-received by the neighborhood. Abigail Melendez, a resident of North Philadelphia, attended with her family and excitedly described "hayrides, food trucks, pumpkin picking, prizes, train rides, moon bounces, face painting, live music, and more". Edwin's "dedication to our community has been a huge blessing, and the fruits of his labor have been felt for years," she said. As Director of Community Services and Program Development at Lighthouse Field, Edwin can provide children with mentorship programs, music and dance classes, and even basketball classes that help keep kids safe. According to the Boys & Girls Clubs of America, providing children with alternative and positive activities in a violent area is beneficial, as it decreases the juvenile crime rate in a neighborhood by 13%. The reliable, safe environment that Edwin provides ensures other children do not make the same decisions he made as a child. In a recent Zoom conversation with Motivos members, Edwin shared that seeing at-risk youth grow and have a future inspires him to continue moving forward. Edwin's "community-driven"
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Fashion tips! By Madeleine Janz
Tops: Chunky sweaters in bright colors and macro prints are huge this winter. Go thrifting for affordable, vintage wool sweaters that match any neutral bottom. I love repurposing my summer dresses by throwing sweaters over them and layering them with warm tights. You can also look to thrift stores for vintage cashmere and knit tops—like uber-trendy sweater vests—to pair with statement blazers. Take advantage of the sixties trend by wearing collared blouses and oversized floral prints.
Bottoms: Wide-leg pants and comfy tights are a go-to this season, but don't forget to incorporate skirts and dresses too! Midi-length skirts, especially pleated, will pair perfectly with your sixtiesstyle tops. Anything denim is super on trend this winter, so mix it up with jeans, skirts, and even overalls and pinafores. Want to streamline getting ready? Try a matching top and pant set that makes it easy to do monochromatic layers while staying chic and warm.
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Madeleine Janz is a graduate student at The New School in Manhattan, New York, where she studies creative publishing and critical journalism. She has written for Motivos since her sophomore year at McCaskey High School in Lancaster, PA. Madeleine aspires to continue working in magazines and one-day become an editor. You can follow her on Instagram and Twitter @madilonglegs24.
Loafers and a solid pair of black boots are a must-have this season. Both shoes can help you dress any outfit up or down. When looking for sneakers, go for more weather-proof brands like New Balance and Allbirds. Incredibly trendy this season, tall boots with wider leg silhouettes are perfect for layering under billowing pants, skirts, or dresses.
Accessories: Draw inspiration from Nancy Drew's iconic sixties-inspired wardrobe to hone your layers and accessories. This season, simple gold necklaces, dainty bracelets, and a solid, comfy cardigan will be your best friends. When dressing up, go for chunkier accessories and glamorous earrings.
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his winter, prepare to get cozy in monochromatic layers, statement sweaters, and billowy pants. Although comfort is always king in these colder months, activewear trends make it easy to stay fashionable and cozy. Don't shy away from wearing your most beloved leggings or skinny jeans—accent them with colorful sweaters, long coats, and chunky accessories. Draw inspiration from fashion icons to use color like Zendaya, style statement neutrals like Adele, and embrace chic activewear like Princess Diana.
Tips de moda!
Arriba: Los suéteres gruesos de colores brillantes y macroestampados son lo máximo este invierno. Busca suéteres usados de lana vintage para una salida económica, combinándolos con cualquier prenda neutra abajo. Me encanta reutilizar mis vestidos de verano poniéndome un suéter encima y agregando capas con medias abrigadas. También puedes buscar en las tiendas de segunda mano prendas de cachemira vintage y prendas tejidas, como los chalecos tipo suéter que están súper de moda, para combinar con blazers llamativos. Aprovecha la tendencia de los sesenta usando blusas con cuello y estampados florales oversize.
Abajo: Los pantalones anchos y las medias cómodas son la opción para esta temporada, ¡pero no olvides incorporar faldas y vestidos también! Las faldas midi, especialmente las plisadas,
combinarán perfectamente con tus blusas de los sesentas. Toda prenda de mezclilla estará súper de moda este invierno, así que combínala con jeans, faldas e incluso monos y pinafores. ¿Quieres vestirte rápido? Ve por una combinación de pantalón y blusa en juego que permita aplicar capas monocromáticas sin dejar la elegancia y el abrigo.
Calzado: Un par de mocasines y uno de botas negras son los imprescindibles de esta temporada. Ambos te ayudarán a hacer más o menos formal un atuendo. Si buscas zapatillas, elige marcas más resistentes a la intemperie, como New Balance y Allbirds. Muy buscadas esta temporada, las botas altas con silueta de pierna ancha son perfectas para usar con pantalones holgados, faldas o vestidos.
Accessorios: Inspírate en Nancy Drew, icónico de la moda en los años sesenta, para perfeccionar tus capas y accesorios. Esta temporada, los collares simples de oro, las pulseras delicadas y un cárdigan sólido y cómodo serán tus mejores compañeros. Al vestirte formal, ve por accesorios con textura y aretes glamorosos.
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ste invierno prepárate para la comodidad con capas monocromáticas, suéteres que no pasan desapercibidos y pantalones holgados. Aunque la comodidad es siempre el rey en estos meses más fríos, las tendencias en ropa deportiva arriman la moda a la comodidad. No temas usar tus leggings o jeans ajustados que más te gustan. Acentúalos con suéteres coloridos, abrigos largos y accesorios voluminosos. Inspírate en los íconos de la moda para usar colores como Zendaya, neutros audaces como Adele y prendas deportivas chic como la princesa Diana.
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INSPIRATION IN OUR COMMUNITY
A Lesson in Community By Eliot Olaya
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Anthony Ramos and his family
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Age: 29 Born In: Leominster, MA Lives In: Philadelphia, PA Heritage: Puerto Rican Education: Master of Divinity, Missio Seminary, 2018; Bachelor of Social Work, Eastern University, 2016; co-valedictorian, Esperanza College, 2011. Awards and Achievements: Eastern University Distinguished Young Alumnus of the Year, 2021; The Forum for Theological Exploration (FTE) Ministry Exploration Grant & Young Preacher Scholarship Recipient, 2014; Orlando E. Costas Student Award, 2012 Additional Professional Pursuits: Hip Hop Artist, A-Ram Volunteer Work: Coach/Mentor, Timoteo Sports, 7 years Future Goal: Manage a Café that would be a Internet hub for youth and young adults and a community serving ministry. Favorite Quote: “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ~ Maya Angelou Learn more: https://www.esperanza.us/national-programs/; http:// www.timoteosports.org/ How to Connect: https://linktr.ee/a.ram_official; https://www.linkedin.com/in/ anthony-ramos-73092a7a/, Instagram: @a.ram_official Once Anthony was uplifted from a difAt his lowest point, ficult time in his life, he sought to uplift others. His path led him to Haiti, where, Anthony's uncle cut in 2012, Anthony volunteered to rebuild through the haze of houses and orphanages after the devashopelessness. tating earthquake. He didn't want to go to Haiti just to put bricks down, though. "I was really interested in engaging with the young people there. They would have this joke that I was too busy interacting with everyone—that I wasn't assisting put up roofs on the orphanages," he said about his style of community-building. The work in Haiti inspired Anthony to get more involved in transforming his neighborThe work in Haiti hood back home. He believes that there is inspired Anthony to power in believing in people rather than the get more involved stereotypes. "Their projection in life, that is just like a theory from someone else that in transforming his is delivered down to them, and they don't neighborhood back have to believe that," he said about those in home. his community. He wanted to be a mentor to
Photography by Joseph Novales @jo.novales and courtesy of Anthony Ramos
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ur lives are like books," Anthony Ramos says. "Whatever insecurity, doubts, worries about future and purpose… that is just a chapter in the book. But that book isn't over. Their story still has so much to be told." Anthony Ramos has spent his life in outreach and community building, unifying youth from his home in North Philadelphia to abroad in Haiti. Anthony's early experience with his high school led him to create a better community experiences for others. The culture there pressured him into alcohol abuse, sending him on a dark path. Eventually, he dropped out, got a job on Jewelers' Row in downtown Philadelphia, and pursued his GED—but prioritizing partying over work ended up getting him fired. To make it worse, he discovered that his GED provider was a fraudulent establishment. At his lowest point, Anthony's uncle cut through the haze of hopelessness. After returning from prison himself, his uncle empowered Anthony; inspiring him to slowly turn his life around. Anthony replaced suicidal thoughts with love and faith in God, holding onto hope for the future even when the path ahead seemed dark.
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Timoteo graduates connecting and sharing resources with each other, with fifty more being mentored at Timoteo this year. "We mentor students through sports; we still have connections with them after they graduate the program. It's a brotherhood," Anthony said. In writing a new chapter for himself, Anthony empowers other young men to add new chapters to their own stories. Anthony Ramos serves as a mentor and coach through Timoteo Sports for young men between the ages of 13-18. Pictured here with the Timoteo Flag Football league, Philadelphia, PA, 2018
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them, so he joined Timoteo, a Philadelphia-based religiouslyaffiliated sports league. Timoteo partners with Esperanza, a national faith-based non-profit that supports and develops communities. It was there that Esperanza's Director of National Today, there is a Programs, Reverend Rubén Ortiz, network of over 170 met Anthony at a youth event. Two Timoteo graduates years later, Anthony was working connected and for him as an Associate Project Director. Impressed with his years sharing resources of dedication and performance, with each other, Rev. Ortiz promoted Anthony to with 50 more Project Director, a position he still being mentored at holds. Timoteo this year After six years of working there, Anthony found that North Philadelphia's religious communities were suffering and that pastors needed to support each other. His work didn't go unnoticed in religious circles. Reverend Gilbert Alfaro, his pastor and friend of twelve years, said, "In coaching Timoteo football league or serving in or out of the church, Anthony loves to serve, and he demonstrates that in his walk." Within five years, nearly one-hundred youth leaders enrolled together in Timoteo. Today, there is a network of over 170
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la esperanza en el futuro incluso cuando parecía no haber camino. Una vez que Anthony se recuperó, buscó ayudar a los demás. Así llegó a Haití, donde en 2012 se ofreció como voluntario para reconstruir casas y orfanatos después del devastador terremoto. Sin embargo, no quería ir allí a poner ladrillos y nada más. “Me interesaba mucho relacionarme con los jóvenes. Bromeaban con que yo estaba tan ocupado hablando con todos que no ayudaba a poner el techo de los orfanatos”, dice sobre a vida de cada uno es como un su estilo de construcción comunitaria. libro”, dice Anthony Ramos. El trabajo en Haití inspiró a Anthony a “Toda inseguridad, duda, preoinvolucrarse más en la transformación de su cupación sobre el futuro y los propósitos es propio barrio. Él sostiene que hay poder en solo un capítulo. Pero ese libro no terminó, creer en las personas más que en los estereotiene mucho que contar todavía”. tipos. “Su proyección en la vida es como una Anthony Ramos ha dedicado su vida a teoría de otro que se les aplica, y no tienen la participación y la construcción comunipor qué creer eso”, dice sobre los miembros taria, uniendo de su comunidad. Quería ser un mentor para a jóvenes desde ellos, por lo que se unió a Timoteo, una liga En su punto más su hogar en el deportiva con filiación religiosa de Filadelfia. bajo, el tío de norte de Filadel- Timoteo está asociada con Esperanza, una fia hasta Haití. organización religiosa nacional sin fines de Anthony atravesó La temprana lucro que apoya y desarrolla comunidades. la bruma de la experiencia de Fue allí donde el director de programas desesperanza. Anthony en nacionales de Esperanza, el reverendo Rubén la comunidad Ortiz, conoció a Anthony en un evento juvede su escuela secundaria lo llevó a crear nil. Dos años después, Anthony trabajaba mejores experiencias comunitarias para para él como director asociado de proyectos. los demás. La cultura allí lo presionaba Impresionado por sus años de dedicación a abusar del alcohol, enviándolo por un y desempeño, Ortiz ascendió a Anthony a camino oscuro. Al final abandirector de proyectos, cargo donó, consiguió un trabajo que todavía ocupa. El trabajo en Haití en Jewelers Row en el centro Tras seis años de trainspiró a Anthony a de Filadelfia y buscó aprobar bajar allí, descubrió que involucrarse más en la GED. Pero al priorizar las comunidades religiola transformación las fiestas sobre el trabajo sas del norte de Filadelfia de su propio barrio. logró que lo despidieran. estaban sufriendo y que Para peor, descubrió que los pastores necesitaban gestionaba su GED en un establecimiento apoyarse unos a otros. Su trabajo no pasó fraudulento. desapercibido en los círculos religiosos. En su punto más bajo, el tío de Anthony El reverendo Gilbert Alfaro, su pastor y atravesó la bruma de la desesperanza. Tras amigo desde hace doce años, dice: “Como regresar de prisión, le dio poder a Anthony, entrenador de la liga de fútbol de Timoteo inspirándolo a cambiar lentamente su vida. o aportando dentro o fuera de la iglesia, a Anthony reemplazó pensamientos suiciAnthony le encanta servir a los demás y lo das por amor y fe en Dios, manteniendo demuestra en su andar”.
INSPIRACIÓN EN NUESTRA COMUNIDAD
Un aprendizaje en comunidad
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Anthony Ramos AKA “A-Ram” has released multiple singles and amassed over 230,000 streams, reaching over 89 countries with his music. His music and lyrics are one way he encourages young people to follow their God-designed destiny, an ideology that A-Ram seeks to embody
Hoy hay una red de más de 170 graduados de Timoteo conectados y compartiendo recursos entre ellos, y 50 más están en mentorías este año. En cinco años, cerca de cien líderes juveniles se incorporaron a Timoteo. Hoy hay una red de más de 170 graduados conectados y compartiendo recursos entre ellos, y 50 más están en mentorías este año. "Mentoreamos a los estudiantes por medio de los deportes. Seguimos conectados con ellos una vez que se gradúan del programa. Es una hermandad”, dice Anthony. Escribiendo un nuevo capítulo para sí mismo, Anthony empodera a otros jóvenes para que añadan nuevos capítulos a su propia historia.
Anthony with his friends Eugene and Joseph Valentin, volunteering in Haiti
About the Author Eliot Olaya is a recent graduate of Drexel University. He is an editorial fellow for Motivos magazine and loves writing creatively and spending time with family.
Photography by Vanessa Media and courtesy of Anthony Ramos and Joseph Valentin
Anthony and his mentor Rev. Gilbert Alfaro, who officiated his wedding
En estos roles, Edwin se propuso erradiEn el corazón del norte de Filadelfia, car muchos de los factores del entorno de Edwin sigue su viaje en el Lighthouse su infancia que lo influenciaron mal. “Creo Field, un terreno de 15 acres parcialmente mucho en observar los obstáculos que se cubierto de vegetación, que suele pasarse interponen en el camino de nuestros niños por alto. A pedido del presidente de la y preguntar cómo podemos quitarlos para junta de Lighthouse, Felix Agosto, Edwin que ellos puedan avanzar”, dice Desamour. pudo recaudar $70.000 para invertir en Edwin tiene el deseo de sanar a su comuel centro comunitario y crear un espanidad; ve el potencial de los jóvenes que cio seguro para los niños de los barrios batallan como lo hizo él. circundantes. “Edwin se puso en marcha Tiene mucho trabajo por delante. Según de inmediato. Ya ha hecho con el campo TheTrace.org, más de 1450 personas recibimás que otros en 15 años”, dice Agosto eron disparos en Filadelfia durante 2020. sobre el trabajo de desarrollo comunitario Los niños de la ciudad suelen ser víctimas de Edwin. directas o indirectas de la violencia comuEl Festival de la Cosecha de Edwin en el nitaria. Como decano en Stetson, Edwin a otoño fue bien recibido por el vecindario. menudo se esforzaba por Abigail Meléndez, resiconvencer a los traficantes dente del norte de Filadel“Creo mucho en de drogas de que no recluobservar los obstáculos fia, asistió con su familia taran niños en sus círcuy describe con entusiasmo que se interponen en los. Era muy consciente “paseos en carro, food el camino de nuestros de cómo las influencias trucks, recolección de niños y preguntar negativas pueden moldear calabazas, premios, viajes el desarrollo y las decisioen tren, juegos inflables, cómo podemos nes de un niño. Él estaba pintura facial, música quitarlos para que en una posición única ellos puedan avanzar”, en vivo” y mucho más. para ver las correlaciones Que Edwin se dedique "a dice Desamour. entre la batalla educativa nuestra comunidad ha y el medio. sido una gran bendición, Edwin usa su experiencia personal y y los frutos de su trabajo se han sentido su conocimiento de primera mano para durante años", dice. brindar el mejor apoyo posible, pero no es Como director de Servicios Comunitarios fácil. “Muchos niños piensan que se verán y Desarrollo de Programas en Lighthouse en una celda de prisión en algún momento Field, Edwin puede brindar a los niños de su vida”, dice. “Algunos piensan que programas de tutorías, clases de música, la prisión es parte de la vida porque de baile e incluso de baloncesto, que los han visto ir a mucha gente”. Aunque ayudan a mantenerse a salvo. Según esa parece ser la norma para muchos en Boys and Girls Clubs of America, dar a los Kensington, Edwin no cree que tenga que niños actividades alternativas y positivas ser así. Su propio viaje a la redención en un área violenta es beneficioso para significó confrontar su pasado. “No me ellos, ya que puede reducir un 13% la tasa gustó lo que pasé; sabía que podría haber de delincuencia juvenil en un barrio. El logrado mucho más". entorno confiable y seguro que ofrece Edwin le permite asegurarse de que otros niños no tomen las mismas decisiones que él tomó. En una conversación reciente por Zoom con miembros de Motivos, Edwin contó que ver a los jóvenes en riesgo crecer y tener un futuro lo inspira a seguir avanzando. Su voluntad, "impulsada por la comunidad", es un verdadero testimonio del poder que surge de tener esperanza y fe en un futuro mejor, lleno de modelos como Somerset Community Center Edwin Desamour.
Activities at Lighthouse Field
Joshua Quintero (left) and Danny Diaz Jr. (right) are instructors for the Violence Intervention Program
Natalie Ramirez
Ethan DeJesus
Youth participate in sports like flag football, basketball, boxing and mixed martial arts at The Lighthouse Field and at the Somerset Community Center and Lighthouse Sports Complex, left and above.
About the Author Allen Williams is a recent graduate of the University of Virginia with a B.S. in Cognitive Science. He has been writing for Motivos since 2014 and currently focuses on cryptocurrency investments as well as financial literacy.
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FAITH and RELATIONSHIPS
Question: How important is faith in a relationship? How can it impact a relationship, both for better or for worse?
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ne's faith is the blueprint to how they interact with the world and how they feel about themselves. If someone holds firm to their convictions, it is the very foundation of who they are and will significantly impact their decisions on how they live their life. Having a partner of a different faith likely can and will substantially impact the relationship, especially concerning future decisions if the relationship grows beyond dating.
Let's consider some decisions in a serious relationship, like premarital sex—does one partner want to wait because of their faith? How about attending weekly services—are the partners ok with attending different services? Also, does one faith even acknowledge the other? If the relationship moves to marriage, which church does the couple get married in? Many churches have premarital counseling—which church does that take place in? What if the couple wants to have children— what faith is taught to them? As you can see, the questions are endless. Sharing one's faith—belief in a higher power, worshipping that higher power together, and creating a life that reflects that faith—is the main reason why we choose partners with the same faith. Our beliefs are central to who we are and how we live our lives. Having a partner with a different belief system adds more strain to an already difficult union. Sharing similar faiths strengthens the partner bond in ways that having different views cannot.
Illustration by Isaac Rivers, senior, Kensington Creative and Performing Arts High School, Philadelphia, PA
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La fe y las relaciones Pregunta: ¿Qué importancia tiene la fe en una relación? ¿Cómo puede afectar una relación, para bien o para mal?
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a fe de una persona es su guía de interacción con el mundo y de relación consigo mismo. Si alguien se mantiene firme en sus convicciones, estas serán la base de su personalidad y afectarán significativamente sus decisiones para la vida. Tener una pareja de una fe distinta posiblemente afectará de forma sustancial la relación, en especial con respecto a las decisiones futuras si la cosa va más allá de las citas. Consideremos algunas decisiones de una relación seria, como el sexo prematrimonial. ¿Alguno en la pareja quiere esperar, por
sus creencias? ¿Qué hay de asistir a servicios semanales? ¿Están de acuerdo en asistir a diferentes servicios? Además, ¿ambas religiones se reconocen entre sí? Si la relación pasa al matrimonio, ¿en qué templo se casarán? Muchos lugares de culto tienen consejería prematrimonial, ¿a cuál asistirán? ¿Qué pasa si la pareja quiere tener hijos? ¿Qué fe se les transmitirá? Como puedes ver, las preguntas son infinitas. Compartir la fe (creer en un poder superior, adorarlo juntos y crear una vida que refleje esa fe) es la razón principal por la que elegimos una pareja con nuestras mismas creencias. Nuestra fe es fundamental para determinar quiénes somos y cómo vivimos la vida. Tener una pareja con un sistema de creencias diferente suma tensión a una unión que de por sí es difícil. Compartir la fe fortalece la pareja de una manera que de otro modo es imposible.
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Your decisions about which Spend time college to attend have major implications for your next getting the best four years and beyond. While financial aid overall, going to college is an package from each excellent investment, there college. are far too many examples of students who choose poorly and end up in too much debt or on a campus that is a bad academic or personal fit. So take all the time you need until the final deadline to make the best choice.
Take time to negotiate:
Keep Calm and Consider All of Your College Options
If you have multiple universities offering you admission to their incoming class, spend time getting the best financial aid package from each college. Most students believe that a college’s initial financial aid offer is the best they will get. But every year, we help students appeal the initial financial aid decision. Sometimes we share additional context about why the family needs more support, and that’s enough to get thousands more in aid. Other times we tell the college that the student really Think about wants to go to their college, but which college will a comparable college has offered provide the best better assistance. That often opportunity for leads to additional money.
Take time to be rational:
you to flourish as a scholar and professional.
Some students mistakenly pick a college because a friend or a significant other is also going there. Others pick a college because “it has their major” only to switch majors during college later. I have also seen students choose a college because of the name brand or because it was a dream school, even though they cannot afford it. Finally, some students turn down great college opportunities in other ast year, one of my TeenSHARP students states because they want to stay close to home. I can assure you executed one of the “bossest” of all college Take the time to think about which college will there is power in admissions boss moves. provide the best environment for you to flourpatience. Before he decided which college he would ish as a scholar and professional. Try to block attend, he asked to meet with the presidents out all the noise and emotions and choose of his two top choice colleges. And one of the wisely. college presidents agreed to meet with him! Unfortunately, he could not meet with the president at the college he ultimately Take time to research and compare: selected, but his conversation with a vice president about the One of our alumni made her final decision after speaking to college’s history of social justice was enough to win him over. a few colleges about their available support for students with At a time when many of his peers were feeling rushed, presspecial needs. As a student who is deaf, she was amazed that sured, or desperate, this student kept calm and considered all of the college she now attends had a pretty active deaf commuhis options. nity and great resources. Another one of our alumni picked Although National College Decision Day does not occur until her college because it had more opportunities to do research May 1st, every year I see students rushing to commit to a colthan another college that also gave her a full scholarship. If lege well before they have all the information to make the best you can, take time to visit the campuses, meet with student decision. It is hard to keep calm and weigh your options when groups and professors, and compare the wide range of available you look around and see your peers announcing where they are resources. going to college or when you’re feeling pressured by adults who I don’t expect you to line up meetings with several college want you to have solid plans. But from my organization’s work presidents. But I want you to feel empowered to get everything helping hundreds of students of color get into top colleges, I you have worked so hard to achieve. can assure you there is power in patience.
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l año pasado, uno de mis estudiantes de TeenSHARP llevó a cabo una movida de los más genios de los genios en términos de admisiones universitarias. Antes de decidir a qué universidad iba a asistir, pidió reunirse con los rectores de las dos universidades que prefería. ¡Y uno de ellos aceptó! No pudo reunirse con el rector de la universidad que finalmente eligió, pero conversar con el vicerrector sobre la historia de justicia social de la institución fue suficiente para ganárselo. En una instancia en que muchos de sus compañeros se sentían apurados, presionados o desesperados, él mantuvo la calma y consideró todas sus opciones.
TeenSHARP students visit University of Connecticut to help determine best fit
Aunque el National College Pidió reunirse con Decision Day es recién el 1.º de mayo, todos los años veo a estudilos rectores de dos antes apresurarse a comprometerse universidades. ¡Y uno con una universidad mucho antes de ellos aceptó! de tener toda la información necesaria para tomar la mejor decisión. Es difícil mantener la calma y sopesar las opciones cuando alrededor ves a tus compañeros anunciar a qué universidad van a ir o estás presionado por los adultos que buscan certezas sobre tus planes. Pero desde el trabajo de mi organización para ayudar a cientos de estudiantes de color a ingresar a las mejores universidades, puedo asegurarte que la paciencia es poder. La decisión que tomarás sobre a qué universidad asistir tendrá importantes implicancias en tus próximos cuatro años y después. Si bien, en general, ir a la universidad es una gran inversión, hay muchísimos Al considerar casos de estudiantes que eligen mal y universidades, terminan endeudadísimos o en un camla paciencia pus que no va con su perfil académico o es poder. personal. Por lo tanto, a menos que te hayas presentado para Early Decision y ya tengas un lugar y una buena ayuda económica en la universidad de tu elección, tómate todo el tiempo que necesites antes de la fecha límite para tomar la mejor decisión.
Tómate el tiempo para negociar: Si varias univer-
sidades te ofrecen entrar en el próximo inicio de clases, dedica tiempo a obtener el mejor paquete de ayuda económica de cada una. La mayoría de los estudiantes creen que la primera oferta es la mejor que obtendrán. Pero todos los años ayudamos a estudiantes a apelarla. A veces comunicamos algo más sobre el contexto de la familia, y eso es suficiente para obtener algunos miles más.
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Otras veces le decimos a la universidad que el estudiante realmente quiere ir a su institución, pero que otra comparable ha ofrecido una ayuda mejor. Eso suele conducir a dinero adicional.
Tómate el tiempo para ser racional: Algunos
Hay muchísimos casos de estudiantes que eligen mal y terminan endeudadísimos o en un campus que no va con su perfil académico o personal.
estudiantes eligen erróneamente una universidad porque su pareja o un amigo irán allí. Otros la eligen porque "tiene su especialización", sólo para luego cambiar de rumbo, ya en la universidad. También he visto estudiantes elegir una universidad por el nombre o porque era una institución de ensueño a pesar de que no podían afrontar los costos. Algunos rechazan grandes oportunidades en otros estados porque quieren quedarse "cerca de casa". Tómate el tiempo para pensar qué universidad te dará la mejor oportunidad para prosperar en lo académico y profesional. Trata de bloquear todo el ruido y las emociones, y elegir con sabiduría.
Tómate el tiempo de investigar y comparar: Una de nuestras alumnas terminó de decidir
tras hablar con las universidades sobre el apoyo disponible para los estudiantes con necesidades especiales. Siendo sorda, le sorprendió que la universidad a la que ahora asiste tuviera una comunidad de sordos bastante activa y excelentes recursos. Otra de nuestras alumnas eligió su universidad porque tenía más oportunidades de investigación que otra, que también le daba una beca completa. Si puedes, visita los campus, reúnete con grupos de estudiantes y profesores, y compara la amplia gama de recursos disponibles. No pretendo que organices reuniones con varios rectores. Pero quiero que te sientas capacitado para tomar todo aquello por lo que tan duro has trabajado.
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Atnre Alleyne is the co-founder and CEO of TeenSHARP, an organization that prepares students of color for top colleges and equity-centered leadership. He is also the founder of The Proximity Project, a diversity and inclusion firm that helps organizations build deeper and more authentic connections with marginalized communities. Atnre previously served as a Director of Talent Management at the Delaware Department of Education. He is an alumnus of Pahara NextGen and serves on the advisory board of the Center for Education Policy Research at Harvard.
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rowing up, I aspired to be a College Division I baseball player on a full scholarship. As I got older and college applications were piling in, I began to understand how much more went into playing baseball in college than just the fancy scholarship. I still continued working hard to achieve that goal until I realized other options were out there. Every generation in my family has The military had at least one person serve in the military. This tradition continued all was always a the way up to my father, who served goal and dream in the United States Navy. Our house of mine, but it was always filled with stories about his seemed out of service, how he loved his time in the reach and not Navy, and that he would have stayed for me. in longer if he could do it again. These stories gave me the idea that I would join the military and follow in his footsteps. I decided that I wanted to do Navy ROTC while earning my degree. I thought it would be everything I dreamed of: I would serve in the military, earn my degree, and keep up a family tradition. Unfortunately, it seemed better on paper than in reality. I did not feel at home in Navy ROTC. At the time, I was shy, and it was hard for me to speak up to those of a higher ranking to voice my concerns. The program did not seem like it was the right fit for me. In the second semester of my freshman year, I decided to drop the program. I spoke with my parents, complaining that I made a mistake and should have continued playing baseball in college with the
James Graves (front), competing in Operation Night Owl, a physical and mental test of army knowledge hosted by Temple University, February 2020
scholarships and perks offered to me. I began contacting my old coaches and even planning to transfer schools and play baseball again. I was very lost and was not sure what I wanted anymore. The military was always a goal and dream of mine, but it seemed out of reach and not for me. Right before I was going to meet I realized with a coach to go over the paperI could still work, I ran into one of my best pursue my dream friends from my hometown who was of continuing the a part of an Army ROTC program at a different school. He loved everything family legacy, about the Army. He felt it was very even if I weren’t welcoming and told me about certain in the Navy. teams and extracurriculars you could do inside the program. All of this information intrigued me. It made me realize that I could still pursue my dream of continuing the family legacy, even if I weren’t in the Navy. So I scheduled a meeting with the Army ROTC program at my campus. I thought the meeting went great, so I spoke to my parents, and I got the courage to give the ROTC program another try in I joined Army my new home in the Army. ROTC my I joined Army ROTC my sophomore sophomore year year and couldn’t have been happier. and couldn’t Everyone was nice, caring, and wanted you to succeed, which made me happy. have been I began meeting and getting closer to happier. many people that ended up becoming lifelong friends. They are people that I eventually lived with and would keep in contact with even after college ended. Army ROTC ended up being the best decision of my life, allowing me to be more outgoing, learn great leadership skills, and become a better person to my friends and loved ones. I achieved my dreams and goal by graduating from college and becoming a Second Lieutenant in the United States Military.
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James Graves and William Graves (his Dad) conducting James' first salute after being commissioned into the United States Military, May, 2021. William Graves served in the US Navy.
James Graves is a Second Lieutenant in the United States Military and a graduate of the Temple University ROTC program. He recently completed Signal Basic Officer Leaders Course and will join 1st Brigade Combat Team, 10th Mountain Division to become a platoon leader.
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e niño aspiraba a ser jugador de béisbol de la 1ra División Universitaria con una beca completa. A medida que fui creciendo y acumulando solicitudes para la universidad, comencé a entender cuánto más implicaba jugar béisbol en la universidad aparte de la elegante beca ofrecida. Seguí trabajando duro para lograr ese objetivo, hasta que un día me di cuenta de que había otras opciones viables. En todas las generaciones de mi familia, al menos una persona ha pasado por el ejército. Esta tradición incluyó a mi padre, que sirvió en la Marina de los Estados Unidos. Nuestra casa siempre estuvo llena de historias sobre su servicio y cómo le gustaba estar allí. De haber podido, se habría quedado más tiempo. Estas historias me dieron la idea de unirme yo también al ejército y seguir sus pasos. Decidí que quería hacer el programa ROTC de la Marina mientras obtenía El ejército mi título. Pensé que sería todo lo que siempre había soñaba. Serviría en el ejército, consido un objetivo seguiría mi título y mantendría una y un sueño, pero tradición familiar. Desafortunadamente, parecía mejor en la teoría que en la parecía fuera práctica. No me sentí cómodo en el ROTC de mi alcance y de la Marina. En ese momento era tímido algo que no era y me era difícil hablar con mis superiores para mí. para expresar mis preocupaciones. Sencillamente, el programa no me parecía adecuado para mí. El segundo semestre de mi primer año decidí dejar el programa. Hablé con mis padres, molesto porque había cometido un error y debería haber seguido jugando béisbol en la universidad con la beca y los beneficios que me ofrecían. Comencé a ponerme en contacto con mis antiguos entrenadores e incluso a planear cambiar de universidad y volver a jugar. Estaba muy perdido y ya no estaba seguro de lo que quería. El ejército siempre había sido un objetivo y un sueño, pero parecía fuera de mi alcance y algo que no era para mí. Justo antes de ver a un entrenador para revisar el papeleo, me encontré con uno de mis mejores amigos de mi ciudad, que integraba el ROTC en otra universidad. Le encantaba todo lo relacionado con el ejército. Se sentía muy bienvenido allí, y me habló de ciertos equipos y actividades extracurriculares que se podían hacer dentro del programa. Toda esa
James Graves commissioned into the United States Army. He's shown here with his family at Lincoln Financial Field in Philadelphia, PA, May, 2021.
información me intrigó mucho. Me hizo darme cuenta de que todavía podía Me di cuenta perseguir mi sueño de continuar con el legado familiar, incluso fuera de la de que todavía Marina. Programé una reunión con el podía perseguir programa ROTC del Ejército en mi cammi sueño de pus. La reunión fue genial, hablé con continuar con el mis padres y tuve el valor de darle otra legado familiar, oportunidad al programa ROTC, ahora en incluso fuera de el Ejército. la Marina. Me uní al ROTC del Ejército en mi segundo año, y no podría haber sido más feliz. Todos eran amables, amistosos y querían que tuvieras éxito. Eso me hizo Me uní al ROTC feliz. Empecé a conocer y a acercarme a del Ejército en muchas personas que terminaron conmi segundo año, virtiéndose en amigos para toda la vida. y no podría Con ellos hasta viví y me mantuve en haber sido más contacto incluso después de terminar la feliz. universidad. El ROTC del Ejército terminó siendo la mejor decisión de mi vida. Me permitió ser más extrovertido, aprender grandes destrezas de liderazgo y convertirme en una mejor persona hacia mis amigos y seres queridos. Pude lograr mis sueños y mi objetivo al graduarme de la universidad y convertirme en subteniente de las Fuerzas Armadas de los Estados Unidos.
James Graves participating in Military Science Lab, March 2020 at Temple University in Philadelphia, PA.
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hether for college acceptance, a study abroad opportunity, or a scholarship application, the essay is often your ticket in. Rather than bash your head against the blank screen or procrastinate 'til the eleventh hour, use these five tips to ensure your essay is the key to unlocking future opportunities. 1. HEART If the essay topic is something about yourself, start with what you care about and why. Share your hopes, dreams, or fears, and readers will connect with you. Evoke empathy, trust, or sorrow, and your readers will remember your story. When you write from the heart, your words will come alive and help the reader feel and experience what you're writing about. This gets to the core of who you are and helps the reader get to know you better. It's also a great way to let colleges know what you, as a person, will bring to their campus and in what ways you may enrich their student body. 2. CAPE When you think of a superhero, you think of someone who sees a problem and finds a way to solve it or someone who is faced with a challenge and overcomes it. This is a great way to structure your essay. For example, you can present the problem or challenge at a personal level, then pan out to show the impact of the problem at a larger level, making the connection to why the reader should also care. Finally, show how you are working toward a solution. If you write about a challenge and how you overcame it, be sure to describe how the situation contributed to building your character. Showing that you are a problem solver lets colleges know that you are more likely to make it through tough times and persevere to graduation.
4. BLINDFOLD The reader of your essay can't see you. They do not know your back story, the issues you face, or your hopes for the future. They only have your words to paint a picture, so use your words like brush strokes to add as much detail as possible. Include context, characters, and emotion. Let your voice shine through your word choices. Choose action verbs to create images in your reader's mind that relate to the overall feel you want them to have about you or your essay topic. 5. HOOK You need to grab your reader's attention from the start. An easy way to do this is to write down the Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the story you want to tell. Choose the most compelling one and start your essay with that. Having trouble? Pretend you are calling your best friend to share your story. What would you start with? That is usually the most exciting part of your story. Quick and interesting ways to start are: a. Use sounds; b. Describe a situation that brings the reader into a moment in time at the crux of the challenge or tension that your essay will describe; c. Use a series of descriptive words to offer clues about the essay's topic to pique the reader's curiosity.
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Another method to structure your essay is to think about a rubber band. It builds up tension as you stretch it. When you let go, the tension is released. Start with something that caused much tension for you, explain what contributed to it building up over time, and finish with how you are working toward alleviating that tension.
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5 consejos para un ensayo ganador Por Jenée Chizick Agüero
1. ALMA Si en el ensayo tienes que escribir algo sobre ti, empieza con aquello que te importa y por qué. Comparte tus sueños o temores y los lectores conectarán contigo. Evoca esperanza, empatía, confianza o dolor y tus lectores recordarán tu historia. Cuando escribas desde el corazón, tus palabras cobrarán vida y ayudarán al lector a sentir y experimentar lo que escribes. Esto llega al centro de tu ser y ayuda al lector a conocerte mejor. También es una excelente manera de informar a las universidades lo que tú, como persona, aportarás a su campus y de qué manera puedes enriquecer su estudiantado. 2. CAPA Cuando piensas en un superhéroe, piensas en alguien que ve un problema y encuentra la manera de resolverlo, o que se enfrenta a un desafío y lo supera. Esa es una excelente forma de estructurar tu ensayo. Por ejemplo, puedes presentar el problema o el desafío en un nivel personal, luego mostrar el impacto del problema a un nivel más amplio, conectar por qué el lector también debería preocuparse, y luego mostrar cómo estás trabajando por una solución. Si escribes sobre un desafío y cómo lo superaste, asegúrate de describir cómo la situación contribuyó a construir tu carácter. Así mostrarás a las universidades que solucionas problemas y que es probable que superes las dificultades y perseveres hasta la graduación. 3. BANDA ELÁSTICA Otra estructura para tu ensayo es la de la banda elástica. A medida que la estiras, la tensión aumenta. Cuando la sueltas, la tensión se libera. Empieza con algo que te causó mucha tensión, qué contribuyó a sumar más tensión en el tiempo, y luego qué estás haciendo para aliviar esa tensión.
4. A CIEGAS Tu lector no te ve. No conoce tu historia, tus problemas, por qué te levantaste tarde hoy o qué esperas del futuro. Solo tiene tus palabras para hacerse una imagen, así que úsalas como pinceladas para agregar tantos detalles como puedas. Incluye contexto, personajes y emoción. Deja que tu voz brille a través de los términos que elijas. Opta por verbos de acción que ayuden a crear imágenes en la mente del lector y que se relacionen con la sensación general que quieras transmitir sobre ti y tu tema. 5. GANCHO Necesitas captar la atención del lector desde el principio. Una manera fácil de hacerlo es escribir los Quién, Qué, Dónde, Cuándo, Por Qué y Cómo de la historia que quieres contar. Elige el más atractivo y empieza el ensayo por ahí. ¿Te da problemas? Imagina que le estás contando la historia a tu mejor amigo. ¿Por dónde empezarías? Esa suele ser la parte más emocionante de la historia. Empieza por ahí. Formas rápidas e interesantes de empezar: a. usa sonidos; b. describe una situación que lleve al lector a un momento en el centro del desafío o la tensión que presentará el ensayo; c. Usa una serie de palabras descriptivas para dar pistas sobre el tema del ensayo y despertar la curiosidad del lector. Para ver listas de becas, consulta la sección Insider Tips from the Top de la revista Motivos. También puedes encontrar listas de becas y más recursos en www.linktr.ee/motivosmag
About the Author Jenée Chizick Agüero is a speaker, workshop facilitator, and the founder of Motivos magazine. Passionate about helping youth find their voice to determine their destiny, her speaking engagements, youth development conferences, workshops, and one-on-one mentorship have personally impacted over 30,000 students and supported many on their path to win prestigious scholarships. She can be reached at jenee@motivosmag.com.
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From Student to Teacher:
OMAR VICENTE PAYS IT FORWARD AT CHURCH FARM SCHOOL
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ngaging in thought-provoking conversations that consider a variety of perspectives was something Omar Vicente enjoyed while in college. “We had a weekly meditation group that would gather over pizza for conversations about faith,” he says. “Because I wasn’t affiliated with a specific religion, I was always the one they would bounce topics off.” Today, Vincente gets to engage in deep conversations about faith, growth, and leadership every day at Church Farm School, where he teaches World Religions, runs a student dormitory, and leads the ninth grade. Vincente can relate well to Church Farm School students, as he was one from 2010-2014. Founded in 1918, Church Farm School is a private Episcopal college preparatory school for boys in grades nine to twelve whose mission is to “prepare a diverse group of boys with academic ability and good character to lead productive and fulfilling lives by making a college preparatory education financially accessible.” It is a testament to the connections cultivated at the Church Farm School campus that many alumni go to college, explore the world, and return to pay it forward as faculty members. “My philosophy is to listen and relate to our students; once you find out how to captivate them, you help them to see themselves in the bigger picture and how they fit into the larger context of the whole school and even the world.” Vincente graduated from Church Farm School in 2014, planning to study business administration and finance at the University of Richmond. Realizing his lack of interest in the major during his sophomore year, he pivoted to a double-major in psychology and religious studies. When he graduated, he applied to City Year, a program of AmeriCorps, and taught at a public dual-language Omar Vicente elementary school in East Harlem.
He felt connected to the students and found he had an affinity for teaching. When he saw a posting for a residential life position at Church Farm School in 2019, he applied and was hired. Vincente is well-suited to his mentorship of today’s Griffins. Like many of Church Farm School’s student body, he matriculated to the school through a community-based organization—in his case, New Jersey SEEDS—which identifies motivated, highachieving students from low-income families and assists them in preparation for and application to private school. This background, his Hispanic heritage, and his growth at the school from a quiet young man to one who learned how to “put himself out there” positions Vincente as a mentor many students relate to. Newly stepping into the role of freshmen grade level leader in 2021, Vincente focuses on finding points of connection, especially with so many young men away from home at a boarding school for the first time. “Mr. Vicente has really helped me adjust to Church Farm School as my soccer coach and as the ninth grade level chair. It was also nice to know that he was related to an old friend from back home. He is a really good leader who all the freshmen can count on,” says Hector Audelo Gutierrez, Class of ’25.
CFS AT A GLANCE Church Farm School is a private Episcopal college preparatory school for boys in grades 9-12 located 30 miles from Philadelphia in Exton, PA. Founded in 1918 as a school for “boys of ability and promise,” CFS continues to make the school affordable for every family. • Tuition only covers 10% of the school’s operating budget; all families pay what they can afford, with most paying less than $5,000 annually. • More than 90% of the student body receives generous financial aid from the school. • As one of the most diverse private schools in the U.S., more than 80% of the student body is Black and Latinx. • 100% of graduates go on to leading colleges and universities, many with significant grants and scholarships.
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Omar Vicente pasa el favor en la Church Farm School se matriculó allí por medio de una organización comunitaria (en su caso, New Jersey SEEDS), que identifica a los estudiantes motivados y de alto rendimiento de familias de bajos ingresos y los ayuda a prepararse y presentarse a escuelas privadas. Esta condición, su herencia hispana y su propio crecimiento en la escuela, de ser un joven tranquilo a uno que aprendió a "salir adelante", perfilan a Vicente como un mentor con el que muchos estudiantes pueden identificarse. Asumiendo el rol de líder de los estudiantes que ingresaron en 2021, Vicente se enfoca en encontrar puntos de conexión, especialmente con tantos jóvenes que se van de casa a un internado por primera vez. “El Sr. Vicente me ha ayudado mucho a adaptarme a la Church Farm School, como mi entrenador de fútbol y como director del nivel de noveno grado. También me gustó saber que conoce a un viejo amigo de donde vengo. Es un líder muy bueno con el que todos los estudiantes de primer año pueden contar”, dice Héctor Audelo Gutiérrez, promoción 2025.
UN VISTAZO A LA CFS La Church Farm School es una escuela episcopal privada, preparatoria para la universidad, para niños en los grados noveno a duodécimo, ubicada a 30 millas de Filadelfia en Exton, PA. Fundada en 1918 como una escuela para “niños capaces y prometedores”, la CFS sigue haciendo que la educación esté al alcance de todas las familias. • La matrícula solo cubre el 10% del presupuesto operativo de la escuela; todas las familias pagan lo que pueden, y la mayoría paga menos de $5000 al año. • Más del 90% del alumnado recibe una generosa ayuda económica de la escuela. • Es una de las escuelas privadas más diversas de los EE. UU.: más del 80% del cuerpo estudiantil es negro y latino. • El 100% de los graduados ingresan a los principales colleges y universidades, muchos de ellos con importantes becas.
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Omar Vicente and classmates at The Union League of Philadelphia’s Good Citizenship Awards Ceremony
Willie Jackson ‘23 forms clay at CFS’s new Center for the Arts
Raphael Tinio, ‘21 Valedictorian, plays guitar at commencement
Learn more about joining the Church Farm School community as a faculty member or student at gocfs.net.
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articipar en conversaciones que invitan a la reflexión y que consideran una variedad de perspectivas es algo que Omar Vicente disfrutaba en la universidad. “Teníamos un grupo de meditación semanal que se reunía alrededor de una pizza para conversar sobre la fe. Como yo no estaba afiliado a una religión específica, los temas siempre rebotaban en mí”. Hoy Vicente participa en conversaciones profundas sobre fe, crecimiento y liderazgo todos los días en la Church Farm School, donde enseña Religiones del Mundo, dirige un dormitorio estudiantil y el noveno grado. Vicente conecta bien con los estudiantes de la Church Farm School; él mismo estudió ahí entre 2010 y 2014. Fundada en 1918, es una escuela episcopal privada, preparatoria para la universidad, para niños de noveno a duodécimo grado, cuya misión es “preparar un grupo diverso de niños con capacidad académica y buen carácter para llevar una vida productiva y satisfactoria, haciendo económicamente accesible la educación preparatoria para la universidad”. El hecho de que muchos exalumnos vayan a la universidad, exploren el mundo y regresen para enseñar en la facultad es un testimonio de los lazos cultivados en el campus de la Church Farm School. “Mi filosofía es escuchar y relacionarme con nuestros alumnos; una vez que descubres cómo cautivarlos, los ayudas a verse en un panorama más amplio y cómo encajan en el contexto de la escuela y hasta del mundo”. Vicente se graduó de la Church Farm School en 2014 y planeaba estudiar Administración de Empresas y Finanzas en la Universidad de Richmond. Durante su segundo año se dio cuenta de que no le interesaba la especialidad y se pasó a una doble especialización en Psicología y Estudios de Religión. Cuando se graduó, se presentó a City Year, un programa de AmeriCorps, y enseñó en una escuela primaria pública bilingüe en East Harlem. Se sintió conectado con los estudiantes y descubrió que tenía vocación de enseñar. Cuando en 2019 vio que había un puesto disponible en la Church Farm School para vida residencial, se presentó y lo contrataron. Vicente da la talla para su tutoría de los "Griffins" de hoy; como muchos de los estudiantes de la Church Farm School,
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magine that you're traveling to your friend's house in the What got you into apologetics? Poconos. You walk up to her door to find that it's wide open Although it may be surprising, Wood initially wanted to and the knob is destroyed. All her belongings are on the pursue forensic science, sociology, and criminal justice. "From floor, torn to pieces. You know that your friend is unfortunately a young age, I was pretty analytical about things," she said. in an abusive relationship, and the condition of the empty Growing up in a Christian household, she had questions as a house causes you to think the worst. Out of fear, you proceed to child, such as "How does the concept of the Trinity work?" call the police. They come to your friend's home to investigate or "If there was no God, what would exist?" Analytics about when, all of a sudden, you receive a call from your friend who the surrounding world and beyond was Wood's natural way of tells you that she and her husband are on a couple's retreat. thinking. It fueled her passion for completing an undergraduAn officer comes out of the kitchen holding three empty jars ate degree in sociology and criminal justice and a master's of honey and says there are large scratch marks on the walls. in social justice. This passion, intertwined with her faith in You realize that your friend lives in a wooded area and that it's Christ, successfully became the foundation for her career in likely a bear that managed to break into her home and wreak apologetics. havoc. Was it right for you to call the police based on your suspicion? Yes! Because it is important to follow the facts where What are some interesting discoveries you've had they lead! But it’s equally important to consider changing your within your career? original stance when presented with further evidence. When Alycia Wood presented me with this hypothetical In the time that Wood has built her career in apologetics, she's scenario during my Zoom interview with her, I learned that met many interesting people. For example, Wood once met with she analyzes Christianity in a similar way: by a university group called the Secular Humanist breaking down scenarios into logical questions. Club. Of course, she expected questions and chalGrowing up This was why she pursued a career in Christian lenges to her faith in God and Christianity; despite in a Christian apologetics. the anxiety felt by some involved in the situahousehold, she Apologetics is the practice of taking a deeper tion, the event went well. The club members even had questions as a dive into religion and answering tough quesreturned to more apologetics events that Wood child, such as "How presented to hear her speak. She would even go on tions, exploring the vast stories and doctrines does the concept of within the faith. It means tackling hard questo develop personal relationships with the memtions from skeptical people in a systemized, bers. Through this experience, Wood demonstrated the Trinity work?" logical, and evidential manner. Wood explains, and enjoyed a central concept that is often missing or "If there was no "Apologists get called to answer the questions from today's world: to love and coexist with one God, what would that non-Christians have." another despite our differences. exist?" Because Wood graduated from the Oxford As Wood described, "I think that in our society, Centre for Christian Apologetics and spoke to we think that religious people and non-religious audiences at Harvard, MIT, Brown, and other colleges, I knew people are at odds, and then you sit down at a table like that, she would have many interesting and credible insights. I jumped and you find, actually, that people are willing to dialogue… at the chance to interview her the evening before she flew to Maybe nobody's changed or convinced at the end, but we each Hawaii to present at a Youth With a Mission training session. learn something, and we each have become closer as friends."
Why do you believe Christianity to be true? For a long time, many have studied the case of Christ's death and resurrection. The Apostle Paul comments on the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ in 1 Corinthians 15:14-17, saying that if Christ hasn't risen from the dead, our faith is futile. Christianity hinges upon the belief that Jesus, as God's son, died for the redemption of humanity. With a mind for forensics, Wood approached the case for the truth of Christianity from an analytical point of view. Like in the hypothetical case of the bear in our friend's house, she broke down the problem and came to a conclusion based on the evidence available. Wood points toward the fact that hundreds of people saw Jesus after His resurrection; additionally, many of the details of Jesus’ life, such as the fact that Pontius Pilate crucified him, are documented outside the Bible. Using these facts and other information, Wood and other scholars pull together a convincing argument for the case of Christianity, employing this style of evidence gathering to develop a logical response to this faith-based question. By doing so, she strengthens my own convictions and allows me to engage others in dialogue on the topic of faith without fear.
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Alycia Wood speaking to students at a university in Canada on "Does God remember us in our moments of loneliness, grief and depression?"
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magina que vas a casa de una amiga en Poconos y al llegar a su puerta encuentras que está abierta de par en par, con la cerradura destruida. Todas las cosas están por el suelo, destrozadas, rotas y desmanteladas. Sabes que, lamentablemente, tu amiga está en una relación abusiva y lo que ves te hace pensar lo peor. Por miedo, procedes a llamar a la policía. Vienen a investigar, y de repente recibes una llamada de tu amiga, que te dice que está con su marido en un retiro en pareja. Un oficial sale de la cocina con tres tarros de miel vacíos y dice que hay grandes arañazos en la cocina. Te das cuenta de que tu amiga vive en una zona boscosa y que probablemente haya sido un oso el que logró entrar y causar estragos. ¿Fue correcto llamar a la policía basándote en sus sospechas? ¡Sí! Porque es importante seguir el camino de los hechos. Pero igual de importante es considerar un cambio de postura ante nuevas evidencias. Cuando Alycia Wood me presentó este escenario hipotético durante nuestra entrevista por Zoom, entendí que ella analiza el cristianismo de una manera similar, dividiendo los escenarios en preguntas lógicas, y por eso había seguido una carrera en apologética cristiana. La apologética es la práctica de sumergirse más profundamente en la religión y responder las preguntas difíciles, explorando los vastos relatos y doctrinas dentro de la fe. Significa abordar las preguntas
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hogar cristiano, cuando era niña tenía muchas preguntas: "¿Cómo funciona el concepto de la Trinidad?" o "Si no hubiera Dios, ¿qué existiría?". Para Alycia, analizar el mundo circundante y más allá era la forma natural de pensar. Eso alimentó su pasión por completar un título de pregrado en justicia penal y sociología, y una maestría en justicia social, lo que, entrelazado con su fe en Cristo, se volvió una buena base para su carrera en apologética.
¿Qué cosas interesantes has descubierto en tu carrera?
¿Qué te atrajo de la apologética? Aunque suene sorprendente, Alycia primero quería dedicarse a la ciencia forense, la sociología y la justicia penal. "Desde chica fui bastante analítica con las cosas", dice. Como me crié en un
¿Por qué crees que el cristianismo es verdadero? Durante mucho tiempo, muchos han estudiado el caso de la muerte y resurrección de Cristo. El apóstol Pablo comenta la muerte y resurrección de Jesucristo en 1 Corintios 15:14-17, diciendo que si Cristo no ha resucitado de entre los muertos, nuestra fe es inútil. El cristianismo depende de la creencia de que Jesús, como Hijo de Dios, murió por la redención de la humanidad. Con vocación forense, Alycia abordó esta situación desde un punto de vista analítico y, al igual que en el caso hipotético del oso en la casa de nuestra amiga, evaluó la situación y llegó a una conclusión basada en la evidencia disponible. Wood señala que cientos de personas vieron a Jesús después de su resurrección; además, muchos detalles de la vida de Jesús, como el hecho de que Poncio Pilatos lo crucificara, están documentados más allá de la Biblia. Basándose en estos y otros hechos, Wood y otros investigadores arman un argumento convincente para el caso de la cristiandad, usando este estilo de recopilación de pruebas para dar una respuesta lógica a esta pregunta basada en la fe. Al hacerlo, fortalece mis propias convicciones y me permite, sin miedo, involucrar a otros en un diálogo sin miedo sobre la fe.
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Alycia Wood works as an Apologist at The Lighten Group: a Christian Apologetics organization that extends God’s invitation to those who ask why. Their website is www.lightengroup.org
Steven D. Ramsey Jr. is a Christian, aspiring polyglot, and exotic pet enthusiast. He currently attends Temple University as an undergraduate in Liberal Arts. Steven aspires to combine his faith and love of languages into a wonderful and fruitful career.
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difíciles de quienes son escépticos de una manera sistemática y organizada. Alycia explica: "Se llama a los apologistas para responder las preguntas que tienen quienes no son cristianos". Como Alycia se graduó del Oxford Centre for Christian Apologetics y ha hablado con audiencias en Harvard, el MIT, Brown y otras universidades, sabía que tendría muchas ideas interesantes para compartir, así que aproveché la oportunidad de entrevistarla la noche antes de que volara a Hawái para dar una capacitación a Youth With a Mission.
Mientras Alycia desarrollaba su carrera en apologética, conoció a mucha gente interesante. Por ejemplo, una vez se reunió con un grupo universitario llamado Secular Humanist Club. Por supuesto, esperaba preguntas y desafíos a su fe en Dios y el cristianismo. A pesar de la ansiedad por la situación, el evento salió bien y los miembros del Secular Humanist Club incluso volvieron a otros eventos de apologética para escuchar a Alycia. Ella, además, continuaría desarrollando una relación personal con ellos. En esta experiencia, Alycia demostró y aprendió más sobre un concepto central que a menudo falta en el mundo de hoy, y es poder amarnos Como me crié y existir unos con otros a pesar de en un hogar nuestras diferencias. cristiano, cuando Como describe Alycia: “Creo que era niña tenía en nuestra sociedad pensamos que las muchas preguntas: personas religiosas y las no religio"¿Cómo funciona sas están en desacuerdo, y luego te sientas a una mesa y te das cuenta el concepto de la de que la gente está dispuesta a diaTrinidad?" o "Si no logar... Tal vez nadie haya cambiado hubiera Dios, ¿qué o termine convencido, pero cada uno existiría?" aprendió algo y ha estrechado una amistad".
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