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by diane sembrot

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3 DAYS AND 45 WAYS Thank goodness, it’s the weekend.

What now? Eat! Plus, a few other favorite things to do in Stamford. by joey m ac a ri

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LIGHT A FIRE Our gift to you: Heart-warming stories of friends and neighbors stepping in to help those who need it most.

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HOLIDAY SHOPPING! Don’t miss our gift picks, for everyone on your list

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Palace Theatre Gala; Fairfield County Giving Day; CT Compass Cares; Laurel House; CT Against Gun Violence; Emily Liebert 50 FINANCE

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then realized helping was entirely possible— and did so. I’m pointing out Stamford’s proud tradition of philanthropy and volunteering.

Inside, we feature our 2019 Light a Fire honorees, though maybe we should call them Giving Heroes. They saw a need and stepped up. Their stories are especially inspiring when you learn what set their good works in motion. Beyond the story, join us for the awards presentation. I promise, it’s the feel-good event we all need right now.

2. Gifts. The holidays are coming no matter how busy you are with other things. I get it.

For months the magazine’s team has been preparing to serve as your shopping-loving elves. Turn to page 18 to see the fun and stylish gifts we think you’ll enjoy wrapping up.

3. Food. After the work week you just had, it’s time for a healthy dose of fun this weekend.

TGIF! Streamline decision-making about what to do with our first-ever Weekend Guide for Foodies. You’ll find places to eat along with ideas about what to do, depending on whether you’re on a first date or catching up with old friends (brunch, then spa?). Pairing a sample of local restaurants and cafés with town activities naturally shows off Stamford’s many off-the-clock perks.

I hope you enjoy this issue. Let’s get out there and enjoy all that this wonderful place and its people have to give. It’s time to make even more good memories.

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tamford has given me amazing memories my whole life. I was born here, visited my beloved grandparents on Strawberry Hill, stopped by my mom’s and brother’s work at Stamford Hospital, attended First Presbyterian Church, shopped every store at the mall, went to probably too many Irish pubs with friends and shared a home with the best roomies imaginable (they gave me the big bedroom). And in this wonderful place, I also met a handsome Stamford resident and married him. It’s been a happy place at every age, and now I have a wealth of treasured memories of a town-turned-city in transition. This place has given me lifelong memories of family, friends and love—and I am unapologetically sentimental about it.

You, too, right?

What a perfect time for warm nostalgia— we’re in the holiday-season countdown.

That means being thankful, giving loved ones heartfelt gifts and setting a bountiful table. Stamford easily meets these seasonal thresholds, so this issue takes each up a notch.

1. Gratitude. Look around, there’s so much to enjoy: the active downtown, the pretty coastal neighborhoods, the peaceful backcountry. We are drawn together to enjoy shared spaces as a community; consider the upcoming tree lighting, new cooking events at the Stamford Museum, incredible shows at local theaters and family activities at Mill River. There’s too many to mention. What’s the connection? They are possible because of generous giving. Someone in town asked, “You know what this town needs?” And then did it.

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THE HOLIDAYS ARE NOT ALL ABOUT FOOD—THERE’S ALSO WORKING IT OFF. LET’S MOTIVATE ONE ANOTHER IN A NEW GROUP-CLASS FITNESS STUDIO by diane sembrot

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f you’re constantly running around trying to knock things off your to-do list in November and December, I have some advice: Put yourself first by hitting the gym. One place to consider is OrangeTheory Fitness, a national studio that fits right in at its latest location at High Ridge Shopping Center.

Circle the parking lot once or twice and drop in for a class, where you’ll bring your power, strength and endurance to the next level—into the orange. Let me explain…

Try It What’s it really like at an OTF class

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put off holiday planning, including gift and food shopping, until the last moment. The only thing I actually plan on is to find myself running all over town as the celebrations near. I’d love to have to-do list slaying count as workouts, but I know better.

Dropping into stores may boost my heart rate, but not like a class at OrangeTheory Fitness (orangetheoryfitness.com) does.

Locations are nationwide; Stamford got its first this past June. One recent quiet Sunday morning, I am first in line. Truth be told, I am so amped to take the class, I show up a whole session early and have to cool my heels by shopping at the nearby stores for an hour. Poor me.

Once I return, I am warmly greeted by reception as if nothing

awkward just happened. I stow my gear in a cubby, check in on the iPad and strap on my heartrate monitor. That last one’s important because the fitness program is based on tracking each participant’s heart rate throughout class. The immediate feedback is displayed on big screens so you can see easily if you’re pushing or slacking.

Each class cycles through three stations: Group 1 starts on rowing machines; Group 2 on treadmills; Group 3 in the weight station (hand weights, benches, bands, TR-X, not those massive weight machines or barbells).

Coach Jonathan welcomes us and gives a quick overview of what we’ll be doing: a partner class. I get paired with Rachel— as I run, she rows and does floor work; when she’s done, we switch; when I finish, we switch again. The music goes up, the lights go down, and we work for ourselves and to free our partner from her grueling station. I also get a kick out of

above: A coach welcomes a group to class. The full-body workouts are flexible enough to appeal to fitness newbies and experienced athletes.

Jennifer, who is killing it on a nearby rowing machine while cheering on her partner. Inspired indirectly, I dig deeper.

I leave the session so sweaty, I have to shower. With only two stalls, I am impressed with someone’s clever idea to tuck away a station for hair and makeup outside the shower rooms. Keep things moving, people.

OTF classes have a mix of men and women, ages and

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fitness levels. Workouts change daily—a creative mashup of the three stations with new moves and combos. During a workout, I don’t want to think; I want a coach to tell me what to do, and I’m happy to dump the motivation work onto him or her. Without a coach, I’d skip weights. That, plus the variety and the heart rate feedback add up to a workout that’s keeps me up to the challenge of running holiday errands.

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left: The spa has six private treatment rooms, each designed to be a unique healing environment that addresses specific concerns, such as finding balance, relief and inspiration. right: Co-owners Peter and Jessica Chichester

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hether you’d like to freshen up familiar locks or try something bold and rather noble for the holidays, Noble Salon (noblesalon.com) uses the latest and greatest products in its hair-care and styling services. The salon now offers an in-salon Kérastase Fusio Scrub service, which provides a relaxing, deep scalp treatment to address product buildup and clean the scalp and hair. It leaves hair feeling light and gives the roots a boost—and that means volume. The stylist will select the right formula for you. —Joey Macari

POWER DOWN THE HOLIDAYS ARE HEATING UP…SPA-LA-LA-LA

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ith gifts to buy, people to please and tables to set, it’s easy to lose sight of self-care. With holiday-prep season in mind, I dropped into Haute Healing Oasis (hautehealingoasis.com), a wellness spa and pain-treatment center that opened last December in Harbor Point. It’s co-owned

by Stamford natives Peter Chichester (a fire fighter) and Jessica Chichester (a teacher at Cloonan Middle School and Hall of Fame powerlifter). She has broken world records in her sport, but it also broke her: multiple injuries, herniations, torn ligaments; and Peter sustained a back injury on the job. Both found relief in treatments at infrared saunas, and they want others to experience it, too.

Bringing my nearly daily moderate-tosevere headaches and back pain into the spa’s lobby, I am immediately wrapped up in the soothing ambiance: warm colors, aromatic scents, Buddha décor and solfeggio healing frequencies (emotion-balancing harmonic tones). “We are vibrational beings,” Jessica explains. “Each of the six private infrared sauna suites at HHO utilizes sound, aroma and chromotherapy lighting to create incredible healing atmospheres. Each one of these custom-tailored environments focus upon a different chakra system within the body.” She adds that they’re also detoxifying, calorie burners, anti-aging and treat multiple health conditions. The blue hue of the Lotus stamfordmag.com

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Room, for example, promotes patience, purity and passion, and during my thirty-minute sauna session (hot, but not uncomfortable), I nestled in and my mind settled.

I also try BEMER (bio-electrical magnetic energy regulation), an FDA-regulated device that stimulates the circulatory system by sending electromagnetic waves throughout the body. Jessica places a thin, gray thin sheet over a knot in my back and presses start; there’s no noticeable change. Then, eight minutes later, my knot goes pop. No pain.

“You don’t need to be a doctor to understand that blood flow is the river of life,” Peter says.

“If you can improve that river, especially in the microcapillaries, every bodily system improves. Our body’s main purpose is to heal itself. The way BEMER is able to increase blood flow naturally and allows the body to be the miracle that it is.”

When I stop in again, I want to try the Hydro Massager, which uses heated water jets for deep-tissue massage. Otherwise, I might try one of the classes led by a healer or an energy coach.

“We will continue to add proven healing modalities that can help our guests with their health issues,” says Jessica, “as our goal is to enhance the quality of life for one another through mindfulness and science.”

Let’s call it a social season antidote.

—Joey Macari

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What can acupuncture treat?

The most common issues people see an acupuncturist for are anxiety, insomnia, headaches, digestive issues, fertility and hormonal issues, and pain. While acupuncture can help reduce pain and inflammation after an injury, it is always wise to have an evaluation done by a medical doctor to rule out fractures and structural damage before trying acupuncture.

Sarah Swanberg in her office at Indigo Acupuncture + Wellness

GET TO THE POINT

Does it hurt?

Acupuncture needles are hair-thin filiform needles (meaning solid, single-strand needles, not syringes used for injections or drawing blood, which are hollow), and their insertion is virtually painless.

Points on the hands and feet can sometimes feel a little sharp, but the sensation is brief. It is not uncommon to feel warmth or a dull ache around the point after the needle is inserted, and you might even feel a slight pulling sensation. Once the insertion of the needles, or needling, is finished, most people feel a sense of deep calm and relaxation— similar to a daydream state. I call this the acu-nap!

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alking into Sarah Swanberg’s sunny Stamford office on Morgan Street, the feeling of Zen almost immediately happens—this is clearly the place for wellness. The scent of lavender diffuses through the air, soft music plays in the background, and a prominent wall fixture is filled with the latest balms, tonics, candles, supplements and jade rollers.

This is INDIGO ACUPUNCTURE + WELLNESS, the practice Swanberg founded in 2018 in hopes of achieving just that for her patients: a place that combines ancient Chinese medicine with modern wellness practices.

“Anything that your body can heal from, acupuncture can help,”

explains Swanberg, a licensed acupuncturist and board-certified diplomate in Oriental medicine.

“We help to figure out where chi is stuck in order to balance the body.”

In simpler terms, Swanberg says that while acupuncture can help you to manage stress (among other issues), “it doesn’t change the stress that’s coming at us. It lowers the baseline. It takes you out of that fight-or-flight feeling and puts you into a rest-anddigest mode, where you feel less stressed and more balanced.”

Swanberg’s mission from the start has been to offer a range of wellness services, including LED light therapy, acufacials (which help target antiaging concerns), and cupping (a miracle cure for

effects are very small. The most common side effects are minor bleeding and bruising at the needle site or dizziness after a treatment. Acupuncture may not be suitable for people on blood-thinner medications, with pacemakers, or with a history of fainting and seizures.

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Is it expensive?

Private acupuncture can run anywhere from $70 to $150 per session. Several health insurance plans now cover acupuncture, so I always recommend checking with your insurer to see if you have acupuncture benefits.

How many sessions will I need?

The more chronic the issue, the longer the course of treatment.

Because your acupuncturist is working to restore balance and promote your body’s own healing mechanisms, it can take some time to see results.

I typically recommend weekly treatments for four to six weeks before judging if acupuncture is helping your issue.

What are the risks?

Licensed acupuncturists receive thorough training in needling technique and safety, which means that risks of serious side

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Hair-thin needles target points to help the body manage a huge range of issues, such as stress and headaches.

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sore and tight muscles). She’s also on a mission to educate patients about the benefits of Chinese medicine. That said, her new book, A Patient’s Guide to Acupuncture, explains it all. (It’s for sale at her office as well as on Amazon.)

Here, and in her book, Swanberg answers her five most-asked questions about acupuncture:

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Holiday Gift Guide Holiday Gift Guide Give the gift of color (and okay, black and white) with festive finds in seasonal shades

WEST ELM Kraft + glitter silver leaf wreath; $54.

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J.CREW Lodge moccasins in metallic gold; $59.50.

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CHARLOTTE TILBURY Magic Star highlighter; $45. Sephora, Greenwich; charlottetilbury.com

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Nadeen top; $298.

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Classic gold slinky; $150.

The Glass House Design Store, New Canaan; theglasshouse.org

Baby, it’s gold outside

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JOHN M. KOSTICK Foldable star sculptures; $245 for set of three.

Design Within Reach, Stamford, Westport; dwr.com

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Hupo candle; $125. Grayson De Vere, Greenwich; graysondevere.com

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MASTOLONI Pearl spring gold cuff bracelet; $2,940.

Henry C. Reid, Fairfield; hcreidjewelers.com

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MARTONE CYCLING CO. Limited Edition Grand Step Thru bike; $1,700. martonecycling.com

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RALPH LAUREN HOME Garrett mixing glass; $195. ralphlauren.com

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FACE TIME

It’s French, so it must be good

DIPTYQUE Giant Ambre candle; $350. diptyqueparis.com

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MILÈO NEW YORK Elixir Oud collagen creating facial oil; $295. mileonewyork.com

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VINCE Double breasted long coat; $1,200. Greenwich, Westport; vince.com

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SHREVE, CRUMP & LOW 10.24 C Ruby three stone ring in platinum; price upon request. Greenwich; shrevecrumpandlow.com

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GIORGIO ARMANI Lip Maestro & Rouge D’Armani Matte set; $38.

Lord & Taylor, Stamford; lordandtaylor.com

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CHERRY CHRISTMAS Sweet picks in the season’s hottest shade

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Macmillan parka; $895.

Saks Fifth Avenue, Greenwich; saks.com

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HERMÈS 100% Calfskin leather bracelet in fuchsia and silver; $560. Greenwich; hermes.com

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TORY BURCH Heart statement earrings; $228. Greenwich; toryburch.com

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SILVER BELLES

TALBOTS Metallic short puffer in silver; $169. Stamford, Westport; talbots.com

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OLIVER THOMAS Wingwoman tote in silver metallic dot; $125.

Kirby and Company, Darien; kirbyandcompany.com

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BETTERIDGE Seven diamond chain drop earrings; $3,900.

Greenwich; betteridge.com

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JUDITH LEIBER COUTURE Silver crystal heart minaudière; $2,995.

Richards, Greenwich; mitchellstores.com

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SAINT LAURENT Small Lou Lou crystal messenger bag; $9,500. saks.com

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VERONICA BEARD Nila dress; $750. veronicabeard.com

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GROWN ALCHEMIST Hand care kit; $100. grownalchemist.com

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Beehive, Fairfield; thebeehivefairfield.com

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The stars of any holiday ensemble

JONATHAN ADLER Ornaments; $24 each. Bloomingdales, The SoNo Collection; bloomingdales.com

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Curated by color books by the foot; $150. juniperbooks.com

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All is calm, all is white

Alpine Chic, the Aspen robe; $189. Darien Sport Shop, dariensport.com

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BACCARAT Mille Nuits Flutissimo; $520 for set of two.

Greenwich; baccarat.com

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Because every doll needs a proper pram

Women’s refined slim fit tall rain boots; $165. hunterboots.com

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OLLI ELLA Strolley in white; $135.

Wee Mondine, Darien; weemondine.com

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Jessie boot; $750. Greenwich; stuartweitzman.com

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ANTHROPOLOGIE Farmstead round cheese board; $30. anthropologie.com

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SELF-PORTRAIT Lace trim cable knit sweater; $360. Nordstrom, The SoNo Collection; nordstrom.com

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All I want for Christmas is you

HENRY’S Notebook; $35. Greenwich; henrysleather.com

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Cape Cod watch; $15,400.

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Being naughty never looked so good

PYRO PET Dreki candle; $35.

Eleish Van Breems Home, Westport; evbantiques.com

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DESTINATION: PORTUGAL

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hile all the millennials are flocking to Lisbon, we suggest visiting the ancient city of Porto a few hours to the north, or the fairy-tale-like Sintra, just nineteen miles to the north and west. Whichever you choose, you’ll see why Portugal was just crowned the “Hottest Travel Destination of 2019” by the World Travel Awards. stamfordmag.com

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above left: Riverboats in Porto above right: What the Initiation Well was used for at Quinta da Regaleira in Sintra is still a mystery.

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A little rain can’t dampen our travel writer’s spirits as she strolls to Gaia.

STOP 1 / Porto

Porto is the second largest city in Portugal and is more than just home to its namesake after-dinner drink. This riverside town is a heady jumble of Art Nouveau and a hot culinary scene set amidst ancient architecture. The city is a UNESCO Heritage site with cobblestone alleyways laid in the middle ages, but the vibe is decidedly not stale.

GETTING THERE There are plenty of daily flights from New York to Lisbon, but you can fly to Porto directly from Newark for about half the price. After a few wine-soaked days exploring the local landscape, you can hop the train to Lisbon. The trip is only two and a half hours, and tickets are around $30.

WHERE TO STAY The Torel brand of hotels has three luxury properties in Porto—a town of fewer than 300,000 residents— and two were opened within the last year.

Torel Avantgarde features edgy rooms named after artists like Warhol, Pollack and Kahlo. Torel 1884 and the new Torel Palace are both housed in former

bourgeouis palaces but feel more like the well-decorated homes of your wealthiest jet-set friends.

Because 1884 and the Palace are newly opened, they are less expensive than Avantgarde. A Torel Palace room for spring break 2020 is just 120 euros ($132 at current rates).

The Flower Room at Torel Avantgarde

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DON’T MISS Hit Livraria Lello, the bookshop rumored to have inspired JK Rowling’s depiction of Hogwarts (she taught in Porto in the ‘90s). It still sells books but charges an entrance fee to stem the tide of selfie taking nonreaders.

MISS A fado show. Fado is traditional Portuguese folk music, generally sung by a Fadista with an accompanying guitar.

The songs are usually quite sad, not that you can understand the lyrics. The emotion is conveyed by a wailing vocalist. There are a variety of reasons that even the Portuguese aren’t fans. Don’t fall for the “To do in Portugal” lists; a Fado show is a to-don’t.

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: CONTRIBUTED; DUORO VALLEY BY ©KATE_RIN/STOCK.ADOBE.COM; CONTRIBUTED

DRINK If you can’t fit in a proper Duoro Valley wine tour (but you really should), walk fifteen minutes across the double decker Dom Luis bridge from the city center to the port wine lodges in Gaia (technically a separate town but is referred to as the Gaia side of Porto).

There are many tours and tasting rooms.

The one thing they won’t tell you is the secret production process behind the grape-spirit added to wine to make it port.

Also look for Vinho Verde, a Portuguese “green wine.” Where port has more alcohol than regular wine, Vinho Verde has less.

Stay along the river for a local meal but bring cash; many restaurants don’t take credit cards. We learned this one the hard way.

EAT Portugal is famous for its Pasteis (or Pastel) de Nata, an egg custard tart with an origin that involves monks, as all good origin stories do.

Though the treat is ubiquitous and found in every café in the country, you won’t find it almost anywhere else. The other dish that feels like a national treasure is anything made from cod, usually salted cod, or bacalhau. The north Atlantic fish is not local, so it takes a history lesson to understand why it’s on every menu. When the Brits took a liking to port in the 1500s, they began trading cod for barrels of wine. The pervasive presence of this bland fish says a lot about how much the English enjoyed the drink. Bacalhau is so ingrained in the Portuguese culture that it’s the main celebrational meal at Christmas. You’ll find it on every menu in every form you can imagine; try the popular bacalhau à Gomes de Sá (baked with potatoes, onions, boiled egg and olives).

Hitting the beach at Praia da Ribeira in Cascais

The stunning view of fairytale-like Sintra

GETTING THERE Sintra is a quick fortyminute train ride from the center of Lisbon and trains leave every half hour.

Or come directly from Porto by train or car, travel time is about three hours.

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Sintra

This tiny mountain village has hosted royalty and aristocrats escaping the Lisbon heat for centuries. The pine covered forests wind up the granite mountains and catch the salty breeze from the nearby ocean. Though it’s often thought of as a day trip from Lisbon, Sintra is a destination in its own right. The poet Lord Byron spent much of his youth in Sintra, and his description of the area as a “glorious Eden” is still accurate.

A little sand and surf for Kim-Marie

GETTING AROUND A day in Sintra can be an enchanting escape or a miserable slog of entrance lines to the many palaces and estates. Either stay overnight at one of the stately resorts like the Tivoli Palacio (around $300 per night) or book a proper VIP tour.

Scratch that, even if you stay overnight, book the tour; lines are for suckers. There are countless tour options available, but Flamingo Experiences is the only one that will zip you around Sintra in a vintage UMM Jeep (a seriously funky 4X4 built in Portugal that’s no longer in production). The guides are natives and have fabulous stories about the region.

Flamingo offers two VIP tour options.

The Cultural Tour includes front-of-line access and a private guide at both Pena Palace and Quinta da Regaleira. The Safari (our favorite) includes front-of-line access to Quinta da Regaleira only, a local lunch, an off-road ride to the coastline to find secret spots and visit beaches (Praia da Adraga and Azenhas do Mar depending on the day). The tour ends with a photo shoot at Cabo da Roca, the westernmost point in Europe, and a drop off at Cascais, the

upscale seaside town (think Nice without tiny dogs).

The tour is only $55 per person or book a private tour, $320 for up to five people, and choose which palace (or palaces) you want to explore. flamingoexperiences .com

WHERE TO VISIT Pick a palace, any palace; they’re all amazing examples of romantic architecture.

They all have cafés that serve wine, an important feature.

Quinta da Regaleira is a favorite, though it was never a palace.

The sprawling mansion and surrounding gardens were built in the early twentieth century by an eccentric millionaire. There are underground grottos, hidden walkways, Rapunzelesque turrets and, most strikingly, an eighty-eight-foot deep “Initiation Well.” What the well was used for nobody knows, but you can circle down the nine platforms of the stairway thought to represent Dante’s nine circles of hell.

The well and many of the buildings around the estate have symbolism tied to the Knights Templar and the Freemasons.

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DRINK The area’s most typical tipple is ginjinha, a sweet, cherry-based liqueur sold in shots.

Our favorite was served in a chocolate cup filled with the sweet drink. It tastes a little like cough syrup and a Hershey bar, but oddly pretty good.

EAT Try any one of the fabulous local mom-and-pop restaurants. The goose barnacles, called precebes are a must. Much like truffles, these sea treasures can only be harvested, never cultivated. Divers risk their lives gathering these delicacies that fetch around $50 per pound.

They’re impossible to transport, so when you find them on a menu you need to order them. What they lack in beauty (they really do look like the crust gathered on the bottom of a boat), they make up for in extraordinary taste— a tiny salty cross between a lobster and a clam.

DON’T MISS Sintra is perched above the coastline.

All of the beaches are a part of the SintraCascais National Park and range from hidden coves to vast expanses of sand.

Closest to the main square of Cascais is the small Praia da Ribeira, also known as Fisherman’s Beach. Watch the the boats come and go as you lie on the sand. Larger beaches like Conceição and Praia da Duquesa are just up the coast, and it’s easier to find somewhere to lay your towel, though weekends can be packed with Lisbonites escaping the city for some sun and sand.

MISS Did we mention to avoid the lines?

Once you get past the looks, you’ll be glad you ordered precebes.

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THE SWEET SPOT TAKING MEASURE OF INFINITI’S NEW QX50

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the snowdrifts. Price for a wellequipped version undercuts much of the European competition.

The revolutionary engine, being a “variable compression” turbo, provides a pleasant thrust.

All I noticed was that it had pep enough for frisky moves on the Fairfield County back roads and returned acceptable fuel mileage.

Vehicle dashboards these days go all over the place, and any serious shopper needs to spend time working the controls of the QX50 to see if it fits their sensibilities. Adapting to the Infiniti’s dash came quickly for

The exterior lines are also refreshingly modern without any silly grills. This vehicle looks like it’s going somewhere. And it will likely hold its looks for a long time.

Infiniti also sells a more compact model, the spritely QX30, and bigger, beefier brothers, the QX60 and QX80. But our tester had plenty of hauling space and a refined poise and balance. While a basic version of the QX50 with front-wheel-drive can be had in the mid-30s, the luxe version with all wheel drive is the one to get. The drive system was utterly unobtrusive and will navigate

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me. But those discrete buttons won’t be handled by anyone wearing heavy work gloves.

Still, the QX50 had a dashing sense about it with just enough luxury to feel good and plenty of room in back for all the dogs.

It’s well worth a look.

STATS INFINITI QX50 Base price: $41,000 (luxe model) Drivetrain: 268-hp, 2.0-liter four AWD EPA mileage ratings: 24/31 mpg

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For one, the QX50 provides superb visibility. In an age of cocoon-like interiors, you get a feeling of light and space. The materials are impressive and the passenger space plentiful.

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Rush Hour

Burning Off Energy at the Track

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hh, the holidays! What with the celebrations, ever-present sweets and unpredictable schedules, we’re all just a bit “extra.”

Of course, there’s also those times when it’s just you and the kids…and they’re bored…and you can see the pent-up energy reaching a critical level—soon enough they'll be running around in circles.

Channel all that raw youthful power into a day of fun racing around the track. Too young? Maybe not.

Stamford’s RPM Raceway is an all-electric indoor karting for Juniors (ages six and up). Too cool? Nope. It has racing for the nonlicensed (ages thirteen and up). Too old? Nope. It appeals to adults who have a valid driver’s license; reach speeds of 45 MPH on RPM’s European-style racetrack. The Italian karts are designed to imitate Formula One race cars. As with everything's that's awesome, there’s more: bowling

at one of the fourteen lanes, pro-racing simulators, multiplayer virtual-reality adventures, state-of-the-art arcade games and plenty of food and drinks at the RPM Sports Bar and Restaurant.

Everything here is black, chrome, red and high-polished sleek.

Sample it with drop-in racing or grab your own group of eight and compete head-to-head (be sure to reserve your track time). If your kids really get into it, hone their racing skills at junior and youth-racing camps, which are led by instructors, or go for one-on-one clinics. Otherwise, you might try a league, which competes for bragging righs once a week.

Hold those turns, fire down the straightaways, swerve around the competition until they’re eating your dust. It’s a bit like driving High Ridge Road on a holiday weekend—but no speeding tickets. 600 West Ave.; rpmraceway.com/stamford

FROZEN IN TIME

above: Not your average karting track, RPM Raceway has plenty to keep you and the family entertained for hours.

2 Chelsea Piers This huge place has everything sports- related, so its no surprise that it also has ice-skating. The Rinks at Chelsea Piers has year-round skating, seven days a week for ice hockey and figure skating. Check drop-in schedule at chelseapiersct.com.

LET'S GO ICE SKATING

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Got it—when you go ice skating, you want your space. How’s 9,000 square feet of it? Should be good enough for you and 149 of your closest friends. The Steven & Alexandra Cohen Skating Center at Mill River (millriverpark.org) opened in 2018 and offers recreational ice skating seven days a week. It's $8–$10 per skater and $4 for rentals.

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Twin Rinks (stamford twinrinks.com) has two NHLsized rinks, which draws in competitive skaters, but public recreational skating is open daily throughout winter. $8.25–$9 per skater, with rentals at $4–$4.50.

Friday Glow Skate Nights bring out the black light, disco lights and music, 8-10 p.m. ($9-$10).

Built in 1973, the rink (tcrink.com) in The Cove is operated by the city. Public skating runs all year and has the advantage when the weather is bad, because the rink is inside. Rates run $6–$8, with rentals at $4. See times online. stamfordmag.com

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MILL RIVER ICE RINK BY BRITTNEY GARTH; RPM RACEWAY AND CHELSEA PIERS CONNECTICUT, CONTRIBUTED

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ut down that plate of holiday leftovers and grab friends and family. It’s time to enjoy winter’s coolest pastime: ice skating. Here are four local places that offer public skate or drop-in times. Have fun—and leave the hockey stops and triple salchows to the pros.

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he holidays are all about tradition—though in Stamford we like to give our traditions a big, jolly, heart-racing, eye-popping twist. Take, for example, HEIGHTS & LIGHTS on Sunday, December 8; gather with your family, friends, and neighbors to take it in. The merry elves of Reckson Associates are once again sponsoring Santa and his helpers, Brian Cashman and Bobby Valentine, who rappel down twenty-two floors of Landmark Square, followed by fireworks and the tree lighting—all set to the tunes of the Swingset Mamas—at Latham Park.

Yes, even hot cocoa. The fun kicks off at 5 p.m. Watch it live at stamford. itsrelevant.com/content/16617. Find details at stamford-downtown.com.

above: Search for a specific type of tree, such as shape, color, scent and origin, or just hunt for one that feels right—there are plenty of options in Stamford, no hike necessary.

INTO THE WOODS THE SEASON BEGINS WITH A SEARCH FOR THE PREFECT CHRISTMAS TREE

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aul out the lights and ornaments, Stamford—we have trees to decorate. Whether you’re looking for a Fraser fir from North Carolina or a balsam fir from Canada, local places have options, including sizes from eighteen inches to eight-feet tall—without any long-distance driving. Here a handful of places to go tree shopping locally (i.e., not at a tree farm).

Designs by Lee Inc. 129 Interlaken Rd. designsbylee.com

North Stamford Christmas Trees at Pine Hill 1392 High Ridge Rd. northstamford christmastrees.com

Eden Farms 947 Stillwater Rd. edenfarmsllc.com

Stamford Florist 625 Bedford St. stamfordflorist.com

Also consider, Springdale Florist & Greenhouses 28 Camp Ave., Darien; springdaleflorists.com

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Grab your spot at the DOWNTOWN PARADE If you love Thanksgiving, celebrate more than a great harvest and a full table of food—let us also be grateful for our community. THE GIANT BALLOON INFLATION PARTY, thanks to Coint72 Asset Management, is your inside peek at how the parade's giant helium balloons come to life (it's only partly magic). The inflating party is set for Saturday, November 23, from 3 to 6 p.m. Head to the intersection of Summer and Hoyt streets. Also be sure to find a sweet spot along Summer, Broad or Atlantic streets, by noon, on Sunday, November 24, to enjoy the Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular, presented by Stamford Advocate. Cheer on those helium balloon, marching bands and decked-out floats. Another reason to cheer: both family-friendly events are free. More at stamford-downtown.com. right: Hello, Stamford, it's Daniel Tiger like you've never seen him before.

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left: Grilled marinated octopus with olive oil, lemon and oregano right: Kouzina’s fresh, cozy bar area

GREEK REVIVAL

KOUZINA TAVERNA & BAR, SERVING AUTHENTIC TAVERNA FARE WITH A COASTAL VIBE FOR THOSE CRAVING THE REAL DEAL by eliz abeth keyser

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ith a brilliant white façade and bright Aegean blue trim, Kouzina sends a cheerful invitation. Step across the blue mosaic tile threshold, and you are transported to a bright, contemporary tavern on a Greek island, with white walls decorated with pewter pitchers, white country chairs with rush seats and wood tables set with blue-and-white napkins and brown-paper placemats.

On a recent Thursday night, Kouzina was buzzing, with tables filled with people having a good time. Kouzina opened in early May, and the convivial atmosphere and food remind you of how

good Greek food can be, particularly when a restaurateur decides to go beyond standard Greek-American fare. The cooking at Kouzina (which means kitchen in Greek), reminds you of the cuisine’s roots and ingredients from rocky lands and islands on the Mediterranean. Food is cooked simply and seasoned with fresh oregano, dill or rosemary as well as lemon and olive oil.

Sharing is part of the tradition of Greek meals, starting with meze, small plates of hot and cold dishes. Spreads, greens, beans, seafood, pies and patties are the backbone of the mezedes (that’s the plural). The choices at Kouzina are wide enough to

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eat offer vegetarians, pescatarians and omnivores a communal experience, an array of flavors and textures. No meh meze here.

From the spreads, we chose taramosalata, a briny blend of roe, soaked bread, garlic and lemon. Its hue was the natural beige of cod roe (rather than artificially dyed pink), and the chef garnished it with two thin wedges of vibrant fuschia-pink watermelon radish that made for healthy chips, along with seductive triangles of warm, soft pita. A kalamata olive crowned the dish, which was drizzled with olive oil that pooled around the edge of the bowl, luring us to dip spoons into the bowl and spread the fluffy taramosalata over pita.

Grilled octopus is a hot meze, though it’s really more like a warm salad, and it’s wonderful. An emulsion of olive oil and lemon juice bathes the charred tentacle while still warm off the grill.

Rough chopped fresh tomatoes and scallions, spooned across the plate, add color, flavor and more salad. This is a rustic dish that makes you want to stab a piece of octopus and swipe it through the lemon dressing. Sliced on a slant, the octopus reveals white interiors. The flavors blend sea, char and citrus and a balance of texture and tenderness.

I have mixed feelings about eating octopus because of what I have read about their intelligence, but my love of grilled octopus goes back to age six, when I first had it in Greece and Turkey. It’s one of those memories I’ve tried to re-encounter. Well, Kouzina’s grilled octopus absolutely hit it. Crisp-fried calamari, simply served with lemon, is a hot appetizer that the whole table can agree on. But the octopus will call me back.

Greens are an integral part of Greek cuisine.

In the Greek islands, they pick wild greens, and cook bitter and mild together to make horta, a cold appetizer of greens dressed in olive oil, lemon and salt. At Kouzina, the horta is made from mild Swiss chard.

The prasini salad features raw greens, sliced and tossed with fresh dill, scallions and those gorgeous watermelon radishes shaved thin, all tossed in lemon vinaigrette. Traditionally a dish of spring, the salad features colder-weather

center, top to bottom: Prasini (greens, scallions, dill, shaved watermelon and radishes in a lemon vinaigrette); Oktapodi (grilled octopus); a Greek spread with pita

greens, vegetables and herbs, making it a good dish for fall. This standout salad fit in perfectly with our meze, a refreshing foil for the assertive taramosalata and the luxurious octopus. Plus, it was healthy and delicious.

How often do you find yourself raving about a salad? This rave-worthy salad is one of five on the menu, including chickpeas, kale and classic Greek-American.

Entrées also lend themselves to sharing, if you’re in the mood for variety. We were thrilled to see whole grilled fish on the menu because of the way cooking on the bone creates such succulent flesh. Tsipoura, imported from the Mediterranean, has been known since ancient stamfordmag.com

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days as being one of the most luscious fish. It’s also known as orata, dorado and sea bream.

And succulent it was, presented grilledside down, boned, the sides splayed, revealing soft, white flesh dusted with minced herbs.

What a treat, the fish plump with flavor. But be careful: There always will be a few bones.

Don’t be shy about pulling the sweet white meat from the fish’s collar. The pan-seared filet of Mediterranean sea bass, with rice and asparagus, is a less rustic and robust choice of fish.

The grilled lamb chops were juicy, rosy pink, tender, with the essence of the lemon and fresh oregano marinade. The chops had been

well trimmed of fat, and the bone “Frenched.”

The flavor was mild and, with the addition of sprinklings of sea salt from the shaker on the table, so primal and good that after using our forks and knives on most of the meat, we picked the bone up with our fingers and ate every last bit. The chops were topped with a few marinated cherry tomatoes. Oven-roasted lemon potato was a great touch (too many Greek restaurants succumb to French fries), but the night we dined, the asparagus stems hadn’t been properly peeled.

On the less expensive side, Kouzina serves souvlaki or shrimp skewers with pita and tzatziki, and pitas filled with gyro, tzatziki tomatoes and onions, with hand-cut fries.

There were a few bumps with our wellintentioned, yet inexperienced, server. This, of course, can happen in a new restaurant, making it easy to overlook.

A traditional Greek coffee ends the meal, though if have room for dessert, the Ekmek pairs crisp angle hair pastry with custard, honey and whipped cream. Next time.

KOUZINA TAVERNA & BAR 223 Main Street 203-588-0110 kouzinataverna.com

Cuisine Greek

HOURS Sunday & Tuesday-Thursday 11:30 a.m.–10 p.m.

Friday & Saturday 11:30 a.m.–11 p.m.

top row: Greek coffee can as menu holder • Ekmek, a Kataifi angel hair dough with honey syrup, creamy custard, whipped cream and cinnamon • friendly welcome bottom row: Paidakia, grilled marinated lamb chops with ovenroasted potatoes and grilled asparagus

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left: Mike Geller in the kitchen at Mike’s Organic; right: Just a few of the natural and organic choices in the market

LET’S GET REAL J

ust look at the calendar—right about now we’re all thinking about gift-giving, gatherings and sweaters (the uglier, the better)—but, mostly, food.

Obsess over dish details with Mike Geller of MIKE’S ORGANIC (mikesorganicdelivery .com). His Stamford market for organic produce, pastured meats, grass-fed dairy and coldpressed juices is now a place to

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take culinary classes (e.g. making dumplings), discuss health topics (like clean beauty) and enjoy social get-togethers (think, live music, sheep shearing, pig roasts and brew tastings).

Out of an industrial warehouse at 377 Fairfield Avenue, where he founded his farm-to-home grocery-delivery service a decade ago, he reveals the cool shopping space. “I started Mike’s Organic with the objective of directly connecting small, local farmers to consumers in our community,” he says. “We have grown into a retail location, delivery service and hub for members of our community to learn about what’s on our food, in our food, and where it’s from.”

He came to support sustainable farming after surviving near-death experiences in the Kalahari Desert; he no longer took his health for granted. Sustainable farming, in turn, shaped his market. “If we can’t tell you what’s on it, what’s in it, or when it was picked, we won’t sell it,” he notes.

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LET THE DISHES STAY DIRTY “While you may be inclined to get the kitchen all cleaned up as soon as the last bite has been finished, it’s best to spend as much of your time being present with your guests. I know, I know— for some of us, it makes our skin crawl to think about dirty dishes just lingering in the sink, but for one evening the dishes can wait.”

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REMEMBER WHY YOU’RE DOING ALL OF THIS “Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year because it is truly just about family. You might be Martha Stewart or it might be your first time roasting a turkey, but at the end of the day the literal meaning of the holiday is to give thanks.

Take your time, learn from your mistakes, put your heart into cooking and then just enjoy being with your friends, family, or whomever you’re with.”

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WHEN ENTERTAINING, CONSIDER EVERYONE “Special diets and diet restrictions have become the norm, so it’s important to be mindful of food preferences and limitations when entertaining.

Poll your guests ahead of time on any allergies or sensitivities and plan a menu that offers something for everyone, whether that be vegetarian, gluten-free or paleo.”

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PREP, PREP AND MORE PREP “The key to being a great host is to prepare as much as possible ahead of time.

Plan offerings that can mostly be made in advance and that require only a few last-minute steps before serving.

For example, at home I save loads of time by making the gravy the day before using chicken instead of turkey. Some people may think this is sacrilege, but to me it makes too much sense.

I simmer my pastured chicken, make my broth leisurely and my gravy is ready with no stress, guests running around or mayhem. Just heat in a pot on low the next day and you’re ready to rock.

With preparation, you can be a guest at your own party.”

Talking Turkey!

Mike’s Organic will be selling pasture-raised turkeys for Thanksgiving.

Here’s what the market’s founder says you need to know to find the right one for you.

GREAT FOOD GREAT SERVICE

Find the Best Bird “At Mike’s we always look at source above product. How they’re raised matters. Look for a 100 percent pasture-raised turkey from a small farm where the birds are fed non-GMO feed, can scratch in the sun, peck in the grass and are happy, healthy and treated with respect.”

Pick the Right Size “Depending upon the mix of adults and kids in your crowd, usually a twenty-fourpound turkey will feed approximately twelve to fourteen people. So you can use about one person to every two pounds of uncooked turkey as your guide—unless, of course, you want leftovers.”

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JOIN THE FUN! A PLANT-FORWARD THANKSGIVING Joy Pierson (Stamford cookbook author, nutritionist and cofounder of NYC’s famous Candle Cafe and Candle 79 restaurants) leads this cooking class using local, seasonal ingredients. Thurs., Nov. 14, 7–9 p.m.

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DVCC is the only domestic violence agency serving the communities of Stamford, Norwalk, Westport, Darien, New Canaan, Wilton and Weston.

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1 Gina Lucas, Julie Cannon, Toni Subramaniam, Kim Miller 2 Gail Khosla, Kathy Markby, Pat Caffray, Jean Marie Jamieson 3 Robin Druckman, Will Joseph, Shira Tarantino 4 Margo Cole, Melissa Nisenson, Sen. Alex Bergstein, Alexandra Friedman, Erin Glasebrook 5 Pat Caffray, Daisy Sanders, Mary Scott Himes, Nicole Heath, Amy Pines, Amy Ford Keohane 6 Donna Moffly, Erica Buchsbaum 7 Sara Keller, Kate Balanoff 8 Nancy Better, Mary Ellen Markowitz 9 Lisa Cunningham, Tasha Nagler, Aundrea Amine 10 Cynthia Blumenthal, Melissa Kane, Sarah Meindl, Nicole Heath, Donna Hascher

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WHAT-IF MONEY

THINKING BEYOND STOCKS, BONDS AND MUTUAL FUNDS IN A FINANCIAL PLAN

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And when it comes to building wealth, the same holds true for investment vehicles.

Peter Graham Jr. led the University of Notre Dame to a national football championship in 1988, then worked on Wall Street for twenty-five years, all the while ignoring requests from his dad to join Navesink Wealth Management, the financial advisory business that his father founded. At home in Darien, the younger Graham set up endowments for local nonprofit groups (he helped raise close to $10 million for the Darien Athletic Foundation), leading to hundreds of meetings with prospective donors. In the process, he discovered this: “In the area we live in, many people have the impression that we are sophisticated investors. Maybe a little ego comes into play—you have the fancy car and the big house. Maybe you’re afraid to ask questions.”

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THE BACKDOOR ROTH OPTION FOR HIGH-INCOME EARNERS

It’s great to be able to invest your before-tax money into a 401(k), and to let your returns compound tax-free until you take them out, but there’s a limit to how much you can stash in there. A Roth IRA lets you contribute your after-tax money into a retirement account, where your investments grow tax-free without a minimum distribution requirement. If, like many earners in lower Fairfield County, though, you earn too much to invest in a Roth IRA (more than $203,000 for a couple filing jointly), the Grahams suggest exploring a backdoor Roth, in which you contribute to an IRA, then in short order convert it to a Roth. There are some important caveats, so be sure to talk about the details with your financial adviser.

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lifestyle at least for the short-term if there’s a catastrophe. A milliondollar policy for a twenty-year term might cost a healthy fortyyear-old about $1,000 a year.

Consider a nonqualified annuity.

Annuities get a bad rap, because historically they’ve come attached with high and hidden fees. But greater transparency has led to more competitive products. If you’ve maxed out on your 401(k) contributions and you’re looking for a way to invest cash in excess of those limits, a nonqualified annuity (which is funded with after-tax dollars) allows your nest egg to grow tax-deferred. Ask your adviser to explain the fees and commissions.

Buy and hold real estate.

Where else can you secure a $500,000 investment, for example, using $100,000 down? The investment can generate rental income or long-term appreciation.

“I had a client who bought a house for rental for every child born, with the intention of selling the house when each child goes to college,” Peter Sr. says. “It’s a great avenue to appreciate money.”

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Lots of folks around here are buying into franchises, reports Peter Jr. One client opened Pilates studios, another opened car washes. Says Peter Sr., “These individuals are looking for nonpassive investments,” because they are still in their earningpower prime. S

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Father and son joined forces in 2015. Together they’ve discovered that while many folks here fund their 401(k)s and their 529 college plans with stocks, bonds and mutual funds, they miss the big picture. Asset allocation goes beyond figuring out which stocks and bonds to put in which basket, the elder Graham says. “We do a financial plan based on where they want to be and how to get there.

Then we do an asset allocation.”

Here’s what they suggest: Start early.

Stop procrastinating. A few years’ delay in investing can mean a sixfigure difference down the road.

A firm like Navesink can manage your assets for a fee, or, if you’re a do-it-yourselfer, provide a financial checkup and plan that costs about $2,500 (a reasonable outlay, considering the consequences).

Buy term life insurance.

The Grahams were working with the young parents of two little girls when the father developed colon cancer and died.

“When you lose that income, it’s devastating,” says Peter Sr. Make sure you have a hedge—in this case, a term-life insurance policy—that can support your

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Nothing has more of that Friday excess of energy than settling in for dinner as waiters, banging empty San Marzano cans, jump on top of your table and offer you complimentary shots of Limoncello. That’s Fortina (fortinapizza.com), a loud-and-proud Italian restaurant in Stamford.

At the helm of this energetic eatery is celebrity chef Christian Petroni— winner of Food Network Star and guest judge on Chopped and Beat Bobby Flay, among other boasts. Chef Petroni opened up the third Fortina location in October 2015 and has created quite the buzz with his towers of spaghetti, polenta poured and served right on the table and arugula salad made just how you like it: with heaps of fresh parm on top. TRY: Luigi Bianco pizza with burrata, robiolona, parmesan and black truffle; fried meatballs with tomato ragu and parm. GO: Blackout Brunch, a dimly lit dining event meant to mimic a night club party scene with a DJ, neon lights and sparklers, held at various points throughout the year.

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Bottoms up!

WHAT TO DO, SEE AND TRY

HITCH A RIDE

If your plans mean jumping from bar A to B to C, you may need to let go of the wheel.

By hitching a ride on the Harbor Point Trolly, a nostalgic, shuttle service across Downtown Stamford, you’ll definitely remember the trip down was fun, safe, easy—and free. stamford-downtown.com

DRINK BEER

Throughout the year, microbrewery Half Full Brewery hosts Comedy Craft Beer Nights. Each one features local comics to entertain you while you savor a taste of Stamford: its signature craft beer. The next show is set for December 12, from 6:30 to 9 p.m. halffullbrewery.com

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A local mainstay, Brickhouse Bar & Grill recently installed a crane machine filled with White Claw Hard Cider cans and other prizes. Nab a can, and you get a cold one at the bar. That screams millennial gold; plus, there’s darts and delicious pub grub. brickhousebarngrill.com

HIT THE TRACK

Release work week frustrations by crushing the competition in a friendly round of go-karts at RPM Raceway, a new entertainment complex. You can also make reservations for private bowling alleys or experience the arcade and virtualreality simulator. There’s also a plush, fully stocked bar, but don’t drink and drive. (See page 30 for more.) rpmraceway.com

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Kouzina Grab mom, dad and pappouli for an uzo-filled drink up and dine. The newest taverna to hit Stamford is a scene right out of Mamma Mia! You could never go wrong with a gyro with homemade tzatziki—a Greek classic. Psst: We hear the owner, Peter Valis, DJs on certain nights of the week. (More on page 34.) kouzinataverna.com

Mexicue What great Friday night didn’t start with a margarita…or two…or three? Find yours at this Harbor Point eatery.

Mexicue is a great spot for locals with a zest for life, and for cocktails. And while there are quesadillas and burritos, this place has next-level Mexican food: the quesarrito. mexicue.com

Sign of the Whale Home of the “Bowtied Bartender” Erik Zeiss (aka Stamford magazine’s Best Bartender winner), Sign of the Whale is a no-brainer when it comes to Friday night fun.

The menu features countless appetizers to split among friends, and cocktails like the big-and-boozy “Tidal Wave” to kick things up a notch. signofthewhalect.com

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The Stamford Portal is an interactive universe inside a colorful shipping container. Step inside and talk to someone from Nigeria, Afghanistan, Germany and more in just a matter of seconds. It will be at the UConn Campus through the end of 2019. Slots can be booked online at stamford-downtown.com.

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What better way to beat the potential winter blahs than with a relaxing yoga session or healing massage? Noëlle spa, one of Stamford’s go-to’s for hair, beauty and wellness for more than thirty years. Gift yourself some “me time.” (Stop back in for the Holiday Open House on Thurs., Dec. 5, 5-8 p.m.) noelle.com

ESCAPE THE EVERYDAY

Now that you’ve escaped the morning hangover trap, show off your other mad skills. Grab a group of friends and together strategically solve clues to get out of a themed escape room at Trap’t Escape Room. traptct.com

GET ARTSY

For a relaxing afternoon to savor interesting art with a good cup of coffee, head to Franklin Street Works. Save the Date: This art gallery with an adjoining café is hosting its annual benefit party on Sat., Nov. 9. franklinstreetworks.org

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Wake up a little late (and why not) and ease into the day. Before you get a jumpstart on errands, much-needed pampering or fun with friends, grab a bite to eat. Flinders Lane (flinderslane.com), Best of the Gold Coast winner for Best New Restaurant, has you covered with authentic Aussie cuisine.

Although the menu takes root in flavors of Southeast Asia, its British side is revealed in items like the Big Aussie Brekkie: eggs any style, with mushrooms, roasted tomato, bacon, pork sausage and baked beans. Plus, if you’ve ever been curious as to what Vegemite tastes like, this may be your opportunity, mate. TRY: Chocolate Espresso French Toast with chocolate espresso sauce, milo cream and fresh berries; smashed pea and avocado toast. GO: Dim Sum Brunch, an all-you-can-eat brunch consisting of tacos, bao buns, dumplings, small plates and drinks for a flat $25.

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Remember: Brunch without booze is just a cheerless breakfast.

If you and your best friend love to dig for hidden gems, meet up at The Antique and Artisan Gallery, an antiques store like no other. Bruce Wylie and Mari Ann Maher opened it for those who like the thrill of the hunt for furniture, jewelry, clothing and keepsakes from top vendors in the tristate area. Plus, you can sell your treasures here. theantiqueandartisangallery.com

SWEAT IT OUT

Tons of energy to burn? Head out solo or bring a competitive friend or two to Row House, the latest addition to Stamford's ever-evolving workout scene. These group indoor rowing classes are lead by a coach who guides you through a full-body workout. therowhouse.com/location/ stamford

Bedford Hall The newly renovated space on Bedford Street is perfect for a cozy brunch. Chow down on crab Eggs Benedict while warming up by the giant mantled fireplace. Don’t miss the industrial high beams, fit for Sherlock Holmes (the Benedict Cumberbatch version, of course). bedfordhallstamford.com

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Prime For white-linen brunch-goers, Prime is the upscale-yet-nuanced restaurant of choice. This is a great place to impress your inlaws who are in town for a visit.

Try the Wellington or Prime Omelet with asparagus, Gruyère and fresh fine herbs—and don’t forget: pinky up. restaurantprime .com

Noir Stamford Ditch the Google search, this French bistronomie—a blend of a bistro and a gastronomie— is the peak of sophistication that you and your most dramatic girlfriends need for brunch. Noir gives a nod to French cinema through its chic black-and-white interior and its ritzy menu, darling. noirstamford.com

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WHAT TO DO, SEE AND TRY

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saturday date night

PHOTOGRAPHY FOR BARCELONA BY THOMAS MCGOVERN; COLUMBUS PARK BY JULIE BIDWELL; FISH BY JARED VERGILIS

Saturday night has all the romantic vibes, so it’s the best time for a date. Where to go? You want a warm glow, delicious food and a good drink to ease the nerves. Consider Café Silvium (cafesilviumct.com), voted Best Italian Restaurant in Stamford magazine’s Best of the Gold Coast Connecticut several years in a row. Stamfordites call it “Silvium,” and brothers Nick and Vincenzo Petrafesa have kept customers coming back like old friends with their old-world, Southern-style cooking since 2001. Locals know Silvium offers a “generous pour” when it comes to the wine, and the food— consisting of fresh homemade pasta, locally sourced meat and fish and other Italian dishes—is equally generous in size and quality. TRY: Cavatelli con Cime di Rape (cavatelli with broccoli rabe, sausage, garlic and EVO) and Lava di Cioccolato (chocolate souffle with vanilla ice cream).

GO: On a weekday. Reservations for weekends need to be booked well in advance—unless you’re feeling lucky and just want to roll the dice.

FANCY FEAST

Show off your boarding-school etiquette at an elegant place.

NIGHT. We haven't been this

excited about Saturday night since last Saturday night.

WHAT TO DO, SEE AND TRY

SEE A LIVE SHOW

Opened in 1927, The Palace has been one of the landmark centers for the performing arts in Stamford. Take your date to see Ken Ludwig’s 'Twas the Night Before Christmas on Sat., Nov. 30, or catch any of the awesome shows throughout the week. palacestamford.org

BE DRAMATIC

Impress your date by showing off your taste of indie and classic films at The Avon on Bedford Street. Catch a limited release, a cult classic, a documentary or a free holiday screening at this historic theater. Shhh, the lights are going down. avontheatre.org

TOAST YOUR INNER ARTIST

Show off your refined palate for both wine and art by taking your current crush to a fun evening painting class at Pinot's Palette at Harbor Point. The two-hour class is paired with delicious local wines for just $39. pinotspalette.com

GET COOKING

Here's a secret: The way to nearly anyone's heart is through their stomach. Sharpen up your culinary skills at The Knobloch Family Farmhouse, which hosts both singular and six-week-long cooking classes.

Stop back in to the Stamford Museum & Nature Center on Nov. 21 to create and taste-test craft cocktails, including holiday drinks, under the direction of a mixologist. stamfordmuseum.org

UNPLUG

Barcelona Wine Bar On a first-date, you're hoping to make a connection. Barcelona is a solid choice for sharing— yes, about yourself, but also your food. This upscale Spanish restaurant prioritizes tapas.

Leave room to taste the paella and sip a few choices from the wine list; it includes some of the most sophisticated wines in the world. barcelonawinebar.com

Columbus Park This Italian restaurant feels like a hideaway gem. Its coziness sets the stage for intimate conversation. Don’t worry if you’re distracted by the enticing aroma of chicken scarpariello from another table.

Just say, “I’ll have what he/ she’s having,” then get back to your moony-eyed romance. columbusparktrattoria.com

Fish Restaurant & Bar There’s plenty of fish in the sea. What if you’ve caught yours? Boasting its location in the heart of Stamford, Fish will keep date night beating strong with its impressive seafood prowess. Nearly every dish incorporates fresh seafood— perhaps you'll have the oysters? fishstamford.com

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A come-as-you-are hotspot, Brennan's by the Beach attracts couples and groups of friends to have a drink while catching up in Shippan. Located next to West Beach, this nautical eatery and bar gets decked out for the holidays and is a low-key option for a date that lingers into the after-hours. brennansbythebeach.com

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Catch a matinee! Curtain Call is Stamford’s longest running and only nonprofit theater dedicated to bringing classic plays, hit musicals and new works to the city. A Christmas Story, The Musical runs from Nov. 15 to Dec. 14 and is the perfect way to get your family into the holiday spirit. curtaincallinc.com

SHARE A PIE

Round out your weekend agenda with unfussy comfort food at the iconic Colony Grill. The original location, here in Stamford, opened in 1935 and features the famous, thin-crust hot oil pie. Join other fans in its Ninth Annual “Hot Oil” 5K on Sun., Nov. 10, at 9 a.m. colonygrill.com

GIVE BACK

Gratitude and kindness go a long way in our city, that’s why we think volunteering at the Connecticut Food Bank is a good example of a way to give back. Stamford has over a dozen pantries that need your help. Donations of nonperishable goods accepted year-round. ctfoodbank.org

Morning" by Maroon 5 softly in the background.

a little R&R

They don’t call it “Sunday Funday” for nothing.

Embrace all the goodness by spending the day eating foods that require two hands. For instance, drink an aesthetic-worthy cup of coffee in one hand while dipping a crunchy, soft churro into warm chocolate sauce in the other at Lorca (lorcacoffeebar.com). Stamford’s home for artists, busy professionals and longtime-no-see gatherings, Lorca is the perfect place to wind down and talk about a weekend well-spent. With an array of freshly made baked goods, tea, hot chocolate, soups, salads and sandwiches, there’s enough to go around to keep you fully satisfied. It’s the kind of safe, creative place for you and a friend to plan out your big life goals, what with all the chocolate and coffee at hand. TRY: Churros with chocolate sauce; toast with smashed avocado and whipped ricotta topped with curried pumpkin seeds and sumac on toasted multigrain; hot cortado. GO: Coffee and Connection Nights offer a fourcourse dessert series with drink pairings and a coffee discussion.

HANGRY FOOD

Here are effortless picks for when you really "just can't."

SEE THE FAM

Did you know the Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular is one of the largest helium balloon parades in the country?

Bring the whole family downtown to catch marching bands, floats, balloon characters and a special visit from the big man in the red suit on Nov. 24. See page 32. stamford-downtown.com

BE AMAZED

The First Presbyterian Church, affectionately known as the Fish Church, is one of the city’s finest architectural achievements. Dedicated in 1854, it is known for its fish-like shape. Inside, marvel at the 20,000-piece, stained-glass windows. Sunday worship is at 10 a.m. fishchurch.org

Capriccio Cafe Capriccio’s has some of the best paninis in town. This café is a year-round haunt for many locals. Don’t skip the Cotoletta panini made with chicken cutlet, mozzarella and tomato— it’s a must. Capriccio's can be booked for private parties and happy hours to get your family, office or friend group excited for the holidays. capricciocafe.com

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The Village Table This Hope Street luncheonette has practically dominated the sandwich game in Springdale since it opened in 2014. While there are dozens of wedges and wraps to choose from, you won’t go wrong with an Italian combo—a wedge piled with ham, salami, pepperoni, provolone, lettuce, tomato, red onion and oil and vinegar. thevillagetable.net

Lakeside Diner $1 sugar-coated, homemade donuts. Do we really have to say anything else? OK, fine.

This fifty-year-old diner was featured on the Food Network’s Top Places to Eat, the movie Road Trip with Raven Simone and the Governor declared June 6 National Donut Day in honor of Lakeside’s Donuts.

Enough said?

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WHAT TO DO, SEE AND TRY

MORNING. Play "Sunday

top, left: Lorca's churros with velvety chocolate and caramel sauce top, right: Pumpkin muffins with maple glaze bottom, left: Alfajores (shortbread cookies filled with dulce de leche and rolled in coconut) and an almond honey cup bottom, right: Cortados and alfajores

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last hurrah

Stamford is a melting pot of cultures with a knack for flavors that pack a punch. Before the workweek kicks off, commiserate with friends with Asian comfort food. The recently opened Mecha Noodle Bar (mechanoodlebar.com) offers big, hearty bowls of ramen and pho.

Ramen, which is a Japanese dish, and pho, which is a traditional Vietnamese food, hangs on the noodle perfected. Long, slurpy noodles swimming in a hot and aromatic broth are paired with toppings of your preference and spice tolerance. Consider adding togarashi chili oil to your bowl for a kick of heat.

Driving up to SoNo for a Mecha fix is a thing of the past now that it’s open on Bedford Street. Also, slurping is 100 percent encouraged. TRY: Kale salad with fresh and crispy kale, miso vinaigrette and avocado, steamed bao with gochujang, pickled daikon-carrots and kewpie, or try Tonkotsu ramen with pork, chasu, spicy sprouts, egg and scallion. GO: Wine Dinner nights, a family-style five-course meal paired with standout wine distributors.

KICK IT UP A NOTCH

Live life with a little spice—or as much as you'd like.

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WHAT TO DO, SEE AND TRY

BE A SPORT

Catch the Sunday night football game at the home of Stamford’s own sports legend, Bobby Valentine. Bobby V's Restaurant & Sports Bar, a super-sized sports space with thirty-two draft beers, 200+ HDTVs and an indoor golf simulator for a truly dynamic, sports-watching experience. bobbyvsrestaurant.com

ICE SKATE

Starting December 6, you and your family can head to Mill River Park Skating Rink to ice skate across 9,000 square feet of ice at the Steven & Alexandra Cohen Skating Center. Admission for children is $8 while adult tickets are $10. (See more on page 30.) millriverpark.org

FOLLOW THE CROWD

You may not be able to catch Santa climbing down your chimney on the night before Christmas, but you can see the jolly man and guest rappelers descend down one of Stamford’s tallest buildings, Heights & Lights comes to Landmark Square on Dec. 8. Following the daredevil event, join Santa and guests at Lantham Park to watch the tree lighting. (See more on page 32.) stamford-downtown.com

EAT LIKE A KID

Ask the majority of customers why they visit Elm Street Diner, and they’ll most likely say something like, “We saw it on Instagram!” With over-the-top decadent, decorated milkshakes and waffles, this mainstay diner is the perfect place to treat little ones before another big week at school. elmstreetdiner.com Peter Chang Famed Chef Peter Chang opened up this new Chinese restaurant in 2018 and locals have raved about its authenticity and creativity ever since. Must-try options are the pork dumplings and, for those who can handle the heat, the Beef with Vermicelli Hot Pot really does the trick. peterchangct.com

Dinosaur Bar-B-Que Dinosaur Bar-B-Que brings the heat. With the enormous smokers cooking up your favorite ribs, brisket and pulled pork, you can kick your Southern taste buds into high gear with their wicked hot sauces. For the truly brave, the Devil’s Duel sauce to coat your BBQ chicken wings is killer. dinosaurbarbque.com

Navaratna We couldn’t compile a foodie’s weekend agenda without a vegetarian option for all our herbivores out there. This purely vegetarian restaurant offers authentic dishes and flavors from North and South India, focusing on zesty vegetables, lentils, rice and naan with a spicy edge. navaratnact.com

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CATCH A MOVIE

Go to the movies! Seriously. The Bow Tie Cinemas Majestic 6 movie theater on Summer Street got a makeover, complete with plush leather electric recliner seats, Dolby surround sound and a fully updated snack bar, complete with an “Ultimate” menu: pizza, mac & cheese, Philly cheesesteaks and more. S

meet our 2019 light a fire honorees

TOGETHER WE RISE Their causes are varied, their goals are not—change lives and leave your corner of the world better than when you found it by jill johnson | phot o gr aphs by mel ani lust giovanna miller

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s the year comes to a close and we reflect on the ups and downs in our lives, we here at Moffly Media would like to take a moment to celebrate the people and organizations that make it their mission to bring others up. Year after year our Light a Fire honorees prove that the desire to help others burns brightly.

The class of 2019 continues the tradition: They engage kids with disabilities through animals; empower teenage girls; fund scholarships and mentor students; provide supplies to those wounded in combat; spend Sundays teaching peers coding; help immigrants integrate into the community; connect those in poverty with businesses that can guide them; give those with mental health issues a safe haven. One of these organizations touches 134 million lives each year. Another gives every one of its 32,000 employees two days off annually for volunteering.

We have also partnered with Fairfield County’s Community Foundation, an organization that promotes philanthropy as a means to create lasting change. We invited FCCF to highlight two groups that are closing the opportunity gap for the underserved of Fairfield County. This year’s honorees, Connect-Us and Building One Community, will each receive a $2,500 grant from FCCF. Our other honorees were chosen through nominations submitted by readers who were touched by their fortitude and compassion—as we know you will be as well. » greenwichmag.com

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purab angreji

pam lewis

michael parker

tracy mchale stuart

sheri west

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dr. nol an zeide & dr. steven zeide

LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT AWARD

a. reynolds gordon

organizations: Myron L. and Claire B. Gordon Foundation, Princeton, Yale, the Fugees (an immigrant soccer team), among numerous others

inspiration “My father founded our family’s foundation, so part of my inspiration is simply continuing in his footsteps,” says Renn Gordon, an Easton resident. “Part of it is that I consider myself very lucky. I was born from bright parents and I was able to go to the very best schools from grade school through law school.” The foundation’s focus is education, and Gordon, who attended Princeton and Yale Law School, actually funds half of the scholarship donations himself.

Mary Kay Frost, V.P. of Scholarships for the High School Scholarship Foundation of Fairfield, applauds Gordon’s generosity, humility and dedication to helping students “with substantial financial need attend college. Mr. Gordon shares with our graduating seniors the rules for a successful life that he inherited from his father—namely, work hard, be kind and do a good deed each day.”

courage into action The Myron L. and Claire B. Gordon Foundation has donated over $500,000 to Fairfield, Bridgeport and Easton schools. Gordon credits his father with funding the foundation, but he has added to the fund for the past decade and his commitment goes beyond finances. “He shines light through the interest he exhibits in the students and the advice he so willingly gives,” says Frost. “He meets with the proposed recipients, asks them about their interests and their goals, makes a connection with them and then offers advice that will be helpful in their individual situations.

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In addition, Renn and Janet, his bride of twenty-five years, have been mentors for Princeton students interning in Connecticut, through Project 55, a Princeton class of ’55 project. Gordon has donated to Princeton annually for sixtyfour straight years and to Yale Law School for sixty-one years. The Gordons also have established a charitable remainder trust. “Upon our death, the money is Princeton’s, to be used for a series of lectures on the Rule of Law,” explains Gordon.

Always humble, he’s quiet about the fact that the remainder trust reaches seven figures.

Gordon sat on the Board of Directors of Park City Hospital in Bridgeport for over twenty years, and enjoyed being a Junior Achievement advisor in Bridgeport in the past. “I also had fun playing Santa Claus at Mercy Learning Center and handing out gifts to the poor at Christmas parties,” he says.

Gordon is active in the Democratic Town Committee in Easton and is a recipient of their Neary Award for community service. He has served on both the Pension and Benefits Committee and the Tax Relief for the Aging Committee for two decades.

hopes & dreams Grateful for the educational doors that have opened to him in his life, Gordon says, “I would love for other people to have the same opportunities I’ve had—as much and as many as possible.”

OUTSTANDING LEADER

giovanna miller organizations: American Red Cross, Greenwich United Way, YWCA, Stanwich School, Greenwich Country Day School, Greenwich Hospital, Breast Cancer Alliance, Junior League of Greenwich

inspiration “Inspiration came very early on,” says Greenwich resident Giovanna Miller. “My parents were both immigrants. They worked very hard. My grandmother always said no matter what you have, you have the capacity to give something. I was a Girl Scout. I volunteered at food banks. I learned that no matter what our financial responsibilities are, we have the responsibility to give back, and that’s what I try to teach my kids.” Miller put her career on hold to raise her boys and expected to return to work. “I started volunteering and was so moved, I never looked back,” she says. Once she learned the scope of the work of the Red Cross and that of every dollar, ninety-one cents goes to programs and services, she was hooked.

courage into action “Giovanna is the current Board Chair of the Metro NY North Chapter of the American Red Cross. Under her leadership over the past six years, she has grown the size of the board to forty members. It is now considered one of the most active and engaged American Red Cross boards in the country,” says Mary Young, CEO of the Metro NY North Chapter. “She also motivates a 700-plus volunteer workforce with her enthusiasm.

Giovanna leads by example—you can often see her donating blood, installing free smoke alarms, participating in CPR training, compiling medevac bags for wounded military members at

Walter Reed Medical Center, writing Holiday Mail for Heroes cards at Greenwich Hospital, or encouraging others to join our mission.”

Miller says: “It’s easy to write a check, and I’m always happy to do that; but what is most rewarding is being on the ground, helping the actual wounded and their families, walking the halls at Kids in Crisis or the YWCA, doing smoke alarm installations. We knock on doors in lower income housing, where often residents don’t have smoke alarms. That $10 alarm really may save lives.”

Miller reflects on her first visit to Walter Reed Medical Center: “It was so eye-opening seeing the patients there on crutches and in wheelchairs. We now put together medevac bags for them: basic hygiene items, snacks, water, blankets. We are Skyping with installations overseas to see what supplies we can send. We are constantly taking on these projects that no other board in the U.S. has taken on. The enthusiasm and passion among our board is infectious.”

hopes & dreams “I hope that more people get involved. Think of something you are passionate about. You are never too busy. In every area, there are people who have a need and don’t have the opportunities many of us have.

I hope my kids will follow in my footsteps, and it will continue for generations and generations.” »

BEST FRIENDS TO ANIMALS

dr. nolan zeide & dr. steven zeide

organizations: Stamford Animal Shelter Alliance, Project Precious, Save a Lab, Stamford Regional Agriscience & Technology Center, Stamford Dog Park (founder), Stamford Arboretum, St. Paul’s Day School, AVID Program and more

inspiration “It starts with the kids,” says Dr. Steven Zeide, who runs Bull’s Head Pet Hospital in Stamford with his son, Dr. Nolan Zeide.

“Pets and kids are so similar.

They’re honest, sincere and, in their own way, extremely appreciative. I’ve had a few people guide me along the way, and I feel we are on this earth to help, whether two-legged or four-legged creatures.”

The Zeides enjoy educating young people about pets and career options in veterinary medicine and animal science.

“Encouraging them to reach for their dreams is rewarding.

In some cases, kids don’t have direction, and we help them get back on track,” explains Steve. “I think our enthusiasm is contagious; we love what we do!”

Nolan adds, “When I was five or six, my dad would take my brother, me and our dogs to a senior home. This is what my dad had us doing when we were little kids. It has been a lifestyle for him and for us our entire lives.” Nolan was born and raised in Stamford. “I love this city and our schools,” he says. “I want to give back to the community that gives to me.”

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extend a 50 percent discount to nonprofit rescue organizations and mentor student volunteers.

“I’ll brag that five out of five [students] we’ve written recommendations for have gotten into vet school,” says Steve.

The heartwarming anecdotes are abundant. “I remember going to Stillmeadows School and speaking to some kids who had significant disabilities,” says Steve. “A month later I was at a cancer walk with my dog, and this girl in a wheelchair who could not speak indicated she recognized me and the dog. I had a similar experience at the Jewish Center, with a kid in the pool with an aide. When they remember you and they smile, you know you’ve touched them. It’s nice to feel you have made a mark.”

Nolan recounts coming full circle at an Earth Day Festival: “I spoke to 300 kids in the auditorium at Cloonan Middle School; I used to sit in those seats!”

hopes & dreams Nolan: “I want to inspire my kids so they inspire others.

I want them to take it to another level in spreading love and positivity.”

Steve: “For me, the future is now! It’s also important to look back, improve on who I am and the role our family plays in making this city a better place. I hope to continue helping pets and teaching people how to care for them.”

BEST FRIEND TO GIRLS

organization: LiveGirl

sheri west inspiration “I grew up in a small town in Michigan, and giving back was something we always did as a family,” says New Canaan resident Sheri West. “Working in corporate finance at GE, I had great success, but I also encountered obstacles that are unique to women. When I had kids, I began thinking more about this issue. About six years ago, we hosted a middle school girl through Fresh Air Fund. She was the same age as our middle child, and it really struck us that she had all the smarts our daughter has but none of the access to opportunities or mentors. At that moment, we sat down as a family and discussed starting LiveGirl.”

courage into action Since founding LiveGirl in 2014, West says she “spends every moment, even in my dreams, thinking about how to close the female leadership gap and how to achieve gender parity.”

In 2018, LiveGirl enrolled over 1,200 girls in its free leadership and mentoring programs in Bridgeport, Greenwich, New Canaan, Norwalk, Ridgefield, Stamford, Waterbury, Westport and Wilton. This year, LiveGirl partnered with the Connecticut Alliance of Boys & Girls Clubs to expand its middle school program statewide, and last summer 200 girls attended LiveGirl’s annual summer camp in New Canaan, with transportation provided from as far away as Waterbury.

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my friends, LiveGirl allowed them to aim for goals or roles they had never pictured themselves in. For many middle-schoolers, LiveGirl is a community of kindness and support in a time when girls are so often taught to judge and compete. Sheri has mastered the art of empowering girls to empower each other.

This work is more vital than ever. Middle school girls face quickly decreasing rates of selfconfidence, which often continue into adulthood, manifesting in workforce trends where women are less likely to ask for a raise or less likely to speak highly of themselves in interviews. Sheri has identified this crisis and created an organization that teaches girls how to support each other, shows them the success they can achieve, and inspires them to advocate for themselves and one another.”

West is now established as an expert in girls’ leadership.

“It’s really rewarding to have organizations coming to us and asking us to run workshops,” she says, adding, “What we do resonates with parents now more than ever. The world we live in is challenging for girls, especially girls of color. We need to build up girls’ self-esteem and social and emotional intelligence.” She has a practical outlook regarding social media and the ills it feeds: “Teens aren’t going to give it up, so we have to teach them how to curate a positive experience.”

hopes & dreams “I have many: I dream of gender parity, of a female president, of more young women having the confidence to raise their hands and to step up into leadership positions.” »

inspiration “I believe it’s really important to give back,” says Michael Parker of Greenwich. “I started with Laurel House because I wanted to help people who were completely underserved. The stigma around mental health made it unpopular.

I liked that we were working with people who had no champions.”

Parker had no relatives plagued by mental illness but was aware of the scope of the problem.

“Seventy to eighty percent of the homeless were suffering from mental illness,” he explains.

OUTSTANDING HEALTH ADVOCATE

michael parker organizations: Laurel House, St. Barnabas Episcopal Church, Nicholas School of the Environment at Duke University, Americares, Baker Institute at Cornell University

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which is what Laurel House does,” says Parker, who became involved when he joined its board in 1994. “I’m very proud of the progress we’ve made, especially over the last ten years.”

Linda Autore, Laurel House president and CEO, says: “During its thirty-five-year history, Laurel House has been served by many talented board directors, but none have devoted more time or energy or been more dedicated to mental health recovery than Michael. He has served an unprecedented two terms as chairman of the board. In his early years, Michael played a key role in the Capital Campaign Committee, which raised the funds for Laurel House to purchase the building it currently occupies in Stamford.

During his second term, he led a strategic planning process and search for a president and CEO. In 2014 Michael participated in the planning of two key initiatives: the Thinking Well program, addressing cognitive impairment associated with mental illness, and rtor.org, a website for those seeking help for mental health.”

Parker has overseen Laurel House’s transition to an organization with metrics showing outcomes. “We maximize services across a much broader age range than before.

Mental illness is now manifesting younger, unfortunately,” he says.

Over the decades with Laurel House, Parker’s children have taken notice. “They understand how good it feels to give back.

That legacy is the tremendous gift of this whole process.”

hopes & dreams “That Laurel House will continue to do what it’s doing and evolve to meet needs. I’ll continue to support Americares—I love the mission and that it’s local. We all need to look for the greater good. There’s nothing better than giving back.”

MOST DEDICATED BOARD MEMBER

tracy mchale stuart organization: Save the Children

inspiration “I’ve always felt a deep commitment to helping people, particularly those who are most vulnerable,” says Tracy McHale Stuart of Fairfield, who is a member of the Board of Trustees at Save the Children.

“Save the Children focuses on the most vulnerable populations in the world and delivers amazing work on a huge, huge scale. I’ve gone to see its work in several locations and each time I’m more impressed by the commitment and talent of its people. I’m very business oriented, and these people could work wherever they want and they choose to commit their time to this organization. It’s really humbling.”

Stuart, who is managing partner and CEO at New York City-based investment firm Corbin Capital Partners, supports more than a dozen local charities and has gotten her children involved in giving back through Southport Congregational Church. But despite running a business and having young kids, she’s eager to contribute on a larger scale.

“Save the Children is going to places where people are in desperate situations and dire conditions, and they are making an incredible impact. They get involved in the communities and just make things happen.”

courage into action Stuart was making things happen at Save the Children long before joining the board last February.

“For three years Tracy cochaired the Illumination Gala, our biggest

fundraiser of the year,” says Ann Marie Miles, senior director of Individual Philanthropy. “She has visited our programs around the world and taken the time to understand and support our mission to reach every last child.”

Save the Children has touched the lives of 134 million children in 120 countries this year alone.

“That’s a mind-boggling number,” notes Stuart, who took her family to Indonesia to see the work Save the Children is doing there. “Save the Children is so important to their community. It was fantastic to have our kids get a sense of what’s happening around the world outside their bubble.”

hopes & dreams “I’m on several committees, diving headfirst into the board, and going out to see the programs as much as I can. There is a lot going on at the organization regarding effectiveness: how to take the best ideas and best practices from any given location and apply them and scale up.

The businessperson in me is interested in how to operate more effectively and more efficiently over time.

But for now I have to earn my stripes.” »

high school at Greenwich’s India Cultural Center (ICC).

Perhaps Angreji’s pressing urge to give back developed in Scouts. “I started scouting in kindergarten,” he says, now an Eagle Scout. As a child of immigrants from India and a new kid in town, Angreji found it difficult to meet kids. “Scouting was a great way to get involved in the community, and it blossomed into meeting a group of people who were engaged and had a shared goal of creating a better future for people around us.”

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inspiration “When I was younger, I thought a lot about how I could amplify the impact I have on the world,” says Purab Angreji. “It was kind of like a midlife crisis but in eighth grade. How do I benefit others rather than living in a bubble?”

When his sister asked for help with her Girl Scouts Gold Award, Angreji started brainstorming.

“I gave her ideas on how to benefit the community longterm,” he explains. “With the current global state, a lot of professions will become our future, and the most important is technology. Tech coding classes for youth would help the next generation be prosperous.” The result was a coding curriculum he created and taught throughout

MOST DEDICATED TEEN

purab angreji

organizations: India Cultural Center, Scouts (Eagle Scout), Wilton High School Model Congress, WHS Debate Team, WHS International Club, WHS Band

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“Since he was a freshman, Purab traveled from Wilton to Greenwich twenty-four Sunday mornings a year to teach coding to grade-school students at ICC,” says Margie French, executive director. “Purab’s impact on ICC and on his students has been enormous,” she continues. “He is motivated to do good and do well. He is a role model to ICC children and admired by parents.”

Angreji recalls a highlight of teaching: “A group of kids decided to take what I was teaching them out of the context of making a game and think about how it could be applied in other fields, like medicine. That was rewarding, watching these kids who are just ten years old, applying what I was teaching them to better the world.”

hopes & dreams “I’m young still, so I tend to be quite optimistic,” says Angreji, who is a freshman at NYU’s Stern School, studying business and political economy.

“Business I think holds the most versatility for an individual to have the biggest impact.”

When he graduates, Angreji hopes to move up the corporate ladder in a larger firm so that he can implement programs for social good. “I’m interested in how to use business and capitalist benefits to directly benefit the social flow,” he says.

CORPORATE GOOD NEIGHBOR

organizations: Kids in Crisis, Bridgeport Rescue Mission, Norwalk Mentor Program, Connecticut Food Bank, Homes for the Brave, Ronald McDonald House, Catherine Violet Hubbard Animal Sanctuary, Habitat for Humanity, Ludlow Senior Center

reed exhibitions inspiration “Giving back is very important to our company,” says Yancy Weinrich, COO of Reed Exhibitions. The 32,000 employees at the U.K.-based company, with North American headquarters in Norwalk, are given two paid days off each year for charity work. “We encourage volunteering, and this goes from the top down across all our business units,” says Weinrich.

In the past few years, Reed Exhibitions employees have started volunteering together— forming teams, choosing a project and working together.

“For example, building a house for Habitat for Humanity,” she explains. “They spend a day together and feel good about what they’ve accomplished. It really builds morale.”

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“Employees at Reed Exhibitions are some of Kids In Crisis’ most dedicated and passionate volunteers,” says Beth Jabick, Corporate Partnerships Manager at Kids in Crisis. “Many volunteer on their own time, in addition to using their RE Cares time [their paid days off for volunteering].”

Beyond helping at the shelter, a holiday gift drive and monthly pizza dinners for Lighthouse meetings (for LGBTQ youth), Reed Exhibitions’ parent company, RELX, has helped fund the Kids in Crisis Teen Talk Program through an annual grant.

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employees mentor children in Norwalk schools through the Norwalk Mentor Program.

Reed Exhibitions also donates to Connecticut Food Bank throughout the year; and employees did seven projects with the Food Bank in 2018 alone. They also volunteer to create, serve and share a dinner with the homeless veterans served by Homes for the Brave.

“Our company has a number of veterans on staff, and this project is very close to their hearts,” comments Weinrich.

Other partners include Ludlow Senior Center, where Reed volunteers host a Christmas party annually; Ronald McDonald House, where volunteers create healthy lunches and give their time to help with Trees of Hope, the annual fundraiser; and the Catherine Violet Hubbard Animal Sanctuary in Newtown, being built in honor of a first-grader killed at Sandy Hook in 2012.

hopes & dreams “We hope that even more employees will get involved in volunteering,” says Weinrich.

“We hope to broaden our partnerships and footprint in the community. We are also moving to a new location where we are focused on creating a company culture our employees want to tell their friends about. We want to be known as a place that really cares.” »

FAIRFIELD COUNTY’S COMMUNITY FOUNDATION COMMUNITY IMPACT AWARD q&a with executive director of connect-us

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to twenty-five, come together to take responsibility for supporting the growth of other young people.

They watch a lot of documentaries to understand what’s going on in the world and become critical thinkers. They invite others to participate in our programs. Since 2014, over 2,400 young people and their families have been engaged with Connect-Us.

What’s the mission of Connect-Us?

We bring together suburban and urban neighbors to improve the quality of outcomes for young people living in communities of concentrated poverty.

How does your mission fit with Fairfield County Community Foundation’s values?

One of the programs FCCF supports is our Connect-Us Academy. The academy is for young people, ages sixteen to twenty-one, who want to cultivate skills and learn to work in a professional business setting.

For fourteen weeks students attend after-school workshops at companies throughout Fairfield County. It helps all involved—not just the kids—to better navigate this increasingly complex world. We have corporate partners in various fields: finance, law, marketing, energy, interior design, fashion design, health administration.

The graduates are placed in paid summer internships. We placed twenty-four interns last summer, working for $14 an hour. FCCF actually had two interns.

State officials complain that it’s hard to attract businesses to Connecticut. I’ve spoken up about working to impact the culture. Businesses should

What does the future hold for Connect-Us?

I’m excited about the growth of our business partnerships. I think we could place twice as many interns next year. We are finding ways to tap into resources to support the growth of our kids. We have twenty-five partners, including Bridgewater, which leads résumé writing workshops. JPMorgan Chase is coming up to lead workshops. We are getting traction, and I’m excited about that.

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invest in the kids of Bridgeport.

Millennials want to work for companies that are socially responsible. We are that bridge— between the kids and the community/businesses. Our goal is to continue to find ways to bring people together who don’t normally come together. There’s no reason Connecticut couldn’t

be a good model for the country, given the level of inequality that exists in Fairfield County.

What is your organization’s biggest accomplishment?

I think it’s our youth leadership team. The team meets every Tuesday, September through May. These young people, ages fifteen

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Jill Egan, event planner at Bridgewater Associates, comments: “Pam’s after-school program adds huge value to the underprivileged population.

Connect-Us teaches important social skills, gives academic resources and really captures the essence of what it is to develop young leaders for society.”

FAIRFIELD COUNTY’S COMMUNITY FOUNDATION COMMUNITY IMPACT AWARD q&a with executive director of building one community

catalina horak we understand that fear and we address it and work with local elected officials, our partners and the community at large to provide the stable environment that everyone needs, that kids need.

We are committed to advocacy and applying our knowledge to shape immigration policies. We are a new organization—we are only eight years old—so also making sure people know who we are, build our brand, and be the go-to place for area immigrants.

What is the mission of Building One Community?

To support local immigrants on their journey toward being successful members of the community—what we call their integration journey. Our goal is to advance successful integration of all immigrants and their families regardless of where they are on that journey.

Some have been here working for ten years, with a basic level of education, and they still are not speaking English. Others, from the Middle East for example, have been exposed to English and a higher level of education and learn English rapidly. Each has different needs on their path to becoming contributing members of the community.

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How does your mission fit with Fairfield County Community Foundation’s values?

Immigration is one of FCCF’s core issues. They are all about closing the opportunity gap, serving the community, making sure everyone has a fair chance.

It’s exactly what we do. Ethnic diversity and inclusion— 80 percent of our staff are people of color, so we represent the people we are serving. We are about equity and collaboration.

the solutions many times are at the local level. We are part of the local solution.

What is your organization’s biggest accomplishment?

Making sure that we stay true to our values and mission during a time of very rapid growth and that we continue to facilitate the programs based on real needs and not our perception.

Immigration is such a national issue but also a local issue, and

What does the future hold for Building One Community?

These are very challenging times for many of the people we serve.

It’s a time of uncertainty and fear, so we need to make sure that

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Robert Wells, program coordinator of MAV Foundation (an organization dedicated to eradicating hunger) comments, “Through its Workforce Development Program, B1C offers an underserved immigrant population a chance to participate in certificate-based training in culinary and catering, home health aide, and construction and landscaping at no cost. B1C offers English language learning instruction for all ages. True to its name, B1C collaborates with over fifty organizations to provide access to education, healthcare, childcare, legal advice and more.

These collaborations are vital for the holistic, wraparound services that B1C supplies to over 3,300 community members a year.” S

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Light the Way

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 5TH Moffly Media’s twelfth annual Light a Fire event is making its return to the Westport Country Playhouse. This event celebrates individuals and organizations throughout Fairfield County who have shown selfless dedication and kindness to the community and its people. Actor James Naughton will once again emcee, with tickets for the event starting at $64.

Get your tickets at lightafireawards.com.

NOVEMBER THURS. 7 HEALTH

The American Cancer Society will host its sixth annual Women Leading the Way to Wellness Luncheon at the Stamford Marriott Hotel and Spa. The event, which offers women in Fairfield County a place to share personal struggles and triumphs and create new discussions and conversations about cancer screenings and health, starts at 11 a.m. and goes to 1:30 p.m. For more info, visit cancer.org.

WED. 13 BEER-TASTING

Stamford Alive and Lock City Brewing is hosting a Business at the Brewery night at Lock City Brewery

starting at 5:30 p.m. Join your colleagues or meet some fellow business professionals in a fun networking and beertasting event.

THURS. 14 FOOD

New Covenant Center will hold its fall fundraiser, Harvest Table, at the Italian Center. The ninth annual event to benefit the Catholic charity will feature a cocktail hour, seasonal dinner, silent auction and a special program from 6 to 9 p.m. To register or make a donation, visit newcovenantcenter.org.

THURS. 14 SHOPPING

The Stamford Museum & Nature Center invites locals and out-of-towners to browse works of art,

ceramics, apparel and accessories and other novelty goods at the annual Holiday Market.

The market runs in conjunction with the opening reception for the Chagall for Children exhibit by Marc Chagall.

For more info, visit stamfordmuseum.org.

WED. 20 THEATER

The music of Motown is coming to The Palace Theater for a one night only, not-to-be-missed event. The legendary group The Temptations and The Four Tops will have the audience singing and grooving to hits like “My Girl,” “Baby I Need Your Loving,” and more.

Show starts at 7:30 p.m. with tickets starting at $55. To buy tickets, visit palacestamford.org.

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You don’t have to travel to the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in NYC to find one of the largest helium balloon parades in the county.

There’s one right here in town! Stamford Downtown’s Parade Spectacular starts at noon and features marching bands, floats, fun character balloons and a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. For more info, visit stamforddowntown.com.

DECEMBER FRI. 6 INTERVIEW

Actor Alec Baldwin, famous for his roles in Beetlejuice, The Aviator and his comedic sketches on SNL, will be performing at The Palace at 8 p.m. The actor will discuss his opinions on life, politics and Hollywood in a special conversation titled, “Uncensored.” Stamford comic Michael “Motts” Pelazza will be moderating the event. For tickets, go to palacestamford.com.

SUN. 8 HOLIDAY

Look up! Santa will be rappelling once again from

One Landmark Square with some local celebrity guests at 5 p.m. during Stamford Downtown’s Heights & Lights event. Afterward, join Santa and guests down at Lantham Park for an evening of holiday fun followed by the annual holiday tree lighting in countdown to Christmas.

More info at stamforddowntown.com.

FRI. 13 THEATER

See Charles Dickens’ beloved tale A Christmas Carol with your family for a fun-filled Sunday activity at The Palace.

The 7:30 p.m. show tells the story of a wealthy man who learns to appreciate the spirit of Christmas through a band of ghostly visits. Tickets start at just $31. For tickets, visit palacestamford.com.

THURS. 26 MUSIC

Take a short drive to the historic Capitol Theatre in Port Chester to catch singer Citizen Cope perform his classic hits and songs from his new album, Heroin and Helicopters. Tickets for this concert start at $40, with the performance starting at 8 p.m. For tickets and more event info, visit thecapitoltheatre.com. S

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