Finding My Place

By Benewa Donkor

I have only attended Miss Porter’s School for about four months, but not long after my transition, I felt at home and like I had been here for most of my life. I have attended four schools during my lifetime and the transition to Porter’s has felt much easier than the others. I have really enjoyed being in a diverse school community and enjoyed being able to see reflections of myself as I walk around campus, sit in class, and hang out in my dorm common room. Before MPS, I attended a junior boarding school and while it had more diversity than my previous public schools, I still found that I was frequently the only black person in my classes. At Porter’s, I love that we have different affinity groups and alliances for students to join no matter how you identify.

Another characteristic I enjoy about MPS is the traditions that help community members get to know each other and work to ensure that everyone feels connected. As soon as I stepped on campus, I was welcomed by my Old Girl. This is a relationship that I value and has helped me get to know students in other grades. One of my favorite traditions so far has been German. This had been because though stressful I got to learn a few words in a new language and had fun creating posters for the event.

I love how the community cherishes moments together. One of my favorite places on campus is the common room in New Place. From the day I moved into my dorm, there have always been people hanging out in the common room watching TV, playing card games, working side by side, and even doing karaoke or Just Dance.

Walking across campus and feeling seen and known is monumental for me. This is the first school community where I feel a strong sense of belonging.