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ISSUE 10

OCTOBER 2016

8 FROM THE EDITOR

16 SCHOOL DAYS

24 ON BEHAVIOR

Comparison pitfalls

Afterschooling

Put an end to it

Your kid’s friend is an early reader.

Don’t let that freak you out.

Yes, it’s a thing. And I’m trying to make sure I practice it with my kids.

Here’s what to do — and what to avoid — if your child becomes a victim of bullying.

10 CHATTER

18 TEENS AND TWEENS

His first job

26 IN THE KITCHEN

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We love these kid-chef tools. They’re sharp, but include safety features.

I made a vow to stay out of my son’s business and I’m glad I did.

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20 GROWS ON TREES

28 BOOKSHELF

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Mommy myths

Helping others

Triumphant kids

Quit with the propaganda already.

Suffering isn’t noble.

Start with these basic ideas when teaching your kids philanthropy.

These characters struggle in school, but then they overcome adversity.

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If your ideas about politics have changed with parenthood, you’re not alone.

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Sharing is comparing W

hen you have kids, you can’t help but be proud of them.

Even the littlest things can make you swell up with almost unbearable pride — those first baby smiles, those early toddler dancing skills, those kindergarteners who can read before the start of school!

We just can’t help it.

They’re so impressive, we just have to tell our friends who have kids — humble bragging or just outright bragging — so they can understand what amazing kids we have, right?

And why shouldn’t we?

This gig is HARD. And if we can’t celebrate the little Photo by Tracy Walsh / tracywalshphoto.com victories, how will we carry on through the tantrums and other — nearly hourly — parenting fails?

The problem is, when we share, we can’t help but compare.

And comparing can be a tricky road to go down.

Why isn’t little Caleb reading chapter books like his buddy, Mason?

We can end up expecting our kids to develop at the exact same time — or perhaps with the same exact strengths — as all the “other” kids, especially when it comes to academics.

We can start to feel shame and doubt, comparing our kids only to the standout kids (versus the average ones), rather than celebrating our kids’ profound originality (which is what made us to so very proud in the first place).

In this issue — our annual Education Issue — Laura Ramsborg’s How to Grow a Reader article addresses this idea of “keeping up with the Joneses” when it comes to reading.

Her advice? Don’t rush it. Don’t “drill and kill.” There are things — best practices — families can try to inspire reading joy without spoiling the gift that is reading.

And yet, that doesn’t mean you should sit idly by if you notice reading delays — which are much different than a child not reading early.

In fact, the other incredibly important article in this issue is about dyslexia — a surprisingly common learning disorder that affects as many as 1 in 5 kids.

Read the signs to watch for and, if you suspect trouble, get help right away.

If a child with dyslexia doesn’t get intervention by the third grade, catching up can be far more difficult.

Fortunately, Minnesota offers some amazing supports for kids with dyslexia — including not just tutoring, but also assistive technologies, speech and language services and even career counseling to turn your little Tommy into the next Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein or Leonardo da Vinci. (Yes, they all reportedly struggled with dyslexia.)

Now that’s something to brag about!

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Supervision is recommended for all ages.

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Motherhood myths T

he mythology surrounding motherhood is something I could seriously do without.

From the supposedly “instinctual” nature of mothering to the notion that mothers are meant to suffer with a smile, I’ve had enough.

And I’d like to reassure you that you don’t need to let these ideas control your life.

Motherhood myths that set my teeth on edge abound:

⊲⊲Childbirth is natural OK, so it is. But you know what else is natural?

Earthquakes, floods and drought. Chaos is natural. Childbirth is chaos!

Sorry, forget you just read that. Childbirth was chaos for me. I have friends who had birth experiences that were profound, meaningful and “natural” and not the least bit traumatic.

I’ve noticed this whole “childbirth is natural” thing usually leads to a strong push (ha!) for “natural childbirth” (no painkilling drugs). And I’m totally cool with that! What I’m not so cool with is the way “natural” is often a euphemism for “better.”

And for those of us who fail at the “better” kind of birth, it can feel like a real slap in the face when we walk past the poster at the clinic that proclaims, “She thought she could do it, so she did.”

It’s OK if you didn’t “do it.”

Did you have a C-section, an epidural, a baby vacuumed out of your body while an emergency medical team of 15 gathered at the foot of your bed?

Me, too!

Maybe we should start a Facebook group.

Just kidding. Plenty of mothers have much more neutral reactions to the site of their newborns.

When my daughter was born, I vaguely recall the doctor bringing her over for a quick presentation.

“Well, there she is,” was pretty much my initial reaction.

⊲⊲You’ll learn to ‘read’ cries “Whenever she cries a certain way, I know exactly what’s wrong — her binky has fallen out of the crib and she can’t reach it!”

This is actually the essence of something I read on one of those mama message boards. (Another myth: Once you’re a mother, you’re supposed to use words like “binky” without a trace of irony.)

And, in fact, I’ve met many women who claim they can read their baby’s cries.

I’m super-envious. As for me, I still can’t read my daughter’s cries and she’s almost 5.

⊲⊲Trust your gut ⊲⊲You’ll fall in love instantly While claims of love at first sight between adults are usually pretty dubious, being swept away with an immediate, all-consuming love for your baby is apparently totally normal.

More than normal, actually — it’s expected.

Pretty much required. And you’re a bad mother if you don’t feel the right way!

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I know this is meant as an empowering command: “Go forth and follow what you believe to be true, Mama!

You know best what’s right for your baby!”

And I’m sure this works for many women. But not for me. What if your “gut” is telling you the best solution to your problems is to slip on your shoes, tiptoe out the front door and drive up to Duluth with nary a word to your family?

What if your ‘gut’ is telling you the best solution to your problems is to slip on your shoes, tiptoe out the front door and drive up to Duluth with nary a word to your family?

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And then the big reveal: “Guess who does this job day in and day out? Moms!”

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The parent vote B

y now you likely feel over-saturated with all the election hullaballoo — the commercials, the emails, the Facebook soapboxing, perhaps a tense conversation or two at the dinner table.

We’re almost there. It’s almost over.

While this probably isn’t your first election, it might be your first major election as a parent — as a toddler parent.

This may be the first election year in which you realize that the security of your well-practiced swaddle and ability to rock, cuddle and sing through your own sleepless stupor isn’t enough.

Your child is walking, talking, reaching out into this messy, magnificent world — mingling, mixing and exploring.

Then, soon, he’ll go to school.

In a little over a decade, he’ll leave home.

⊲⊲A new point of view As you raise your child from infancy to toddlerhood and — eventually — beyond, you may start to develop strong opinions about political issues with a newfound fervor, far beyond that of the college rallies you might have taken part in when you were voting in your very first election.

If it matters way more to you who we elect President NOW — as a parent — you’re not alone.

You may wish for the world to be as sweet and simple as when you were a kid, or you may expect more from your elected representatives.

You may even start to care — in earnest — about local

School Board officials.

It all matters now.

How it matters might surprise you, even with the possible result of flipping parties.

Maybe you’re considering your financial future — including eventually paying for college — and the tax dollars you pay on the modest income you make at a job that takes you away from your kids.

Maybe you want the government to butt out of your life and how you live it, leave well enough alone the choices you make for your children.

Maybe guns have become a hot topic in your house — safety and regulation versus the right to go hunting, come November, with Grandpa.

Maybe you have a daughter and want her to grow up without anything other than the knowledge that she can be absolutely anything. Even President.

Maybe your child has a disability and you’re looking for a U.S. senator who will fight for you.

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We often hear the yapping politicians say they want this or that ‘for the children.’ But you, as parents — in it right now — are the only ones who can determine what that looks like.

Maybe you’re burdened by how much you care now — now that the womb and the car seat and the high chair and the cradle and your arms are not all that protect them.

⊲⊲In it right now Quite possibly you’re disenchanted with your choices. Because no candidate, no policy, no referendum is good enough for your child. That’s fair. I feel you.

I encourage you to vote anyway. And by all means, vote with your Mama Heart and your Papa Voice — progressive, hard-working, hunting, fishing, wishing for simplicity and not taking any crap.

We often hear the yapping politicians say they want this or that “for the children.” But you, as parents — in it right now — are the only ones who can determine what that looks like.

You’re the most important vote of this election, because you have a real, goofy, yogurt-loving, tantrum-throwing investment in the future.

So the choices might not be what you want them to be. So it might be hard to get to the polls, what with the runny noses and deadlines at work and dinner to get on the table.

Breathe. Go. Vote. Be a voice for parents, for parenting.

Bring your toddler into the booth.

Give her the sticker. Start a new and important family tradition.

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Afterschooling 101 I

consider myself a lifelong learner. This is reflected in my vocation (I’m an educator at a public school) and in my hobbies, which include fiber art, cooking, soap-making, photography and blogging, to name a few.

My hobbies are creative outlets that are not only enriching and fun, but also good for my own well being. My hobbies help me to manage (in a healthy way) the stress associated with working full time while parenting four children.

They’re ultimately non-essential; I could certainly buy soap or artisan bread at a store. However. I consider these endeavors to be a purposeful break from my adult responsibilities.

As my children grow up, I want them to have a solid educational foundation. But I also want to help them nurture their sense of wonder and curiosity, as I have, so that they, too, develop habits of lifelong learning.

To instill these habits, I have committed to “afterschooling” my own children with a whole-child approach.

⊲⊲What is afterschooling?

Afterschooling is a thing. There are forums, websites and even some books devoted to the topic. Most sources describe afterschooling as extra activities that can be used to supplement materials offered in a traditional school (or homeschooling) day.

However, I have a different take on the experience, which is less academic, a bit more holistic and heavy on the element of connection.

We afterschool in our family by creating enriching pockets of time with our children outside of the school day — nurturing experiences that encourage family connection, curiosity and play.

One the keywords in our afterschooling philosophy is with.

I’m talking mindful, present, hands-on time with my children each day. My reality is that I spend more waking hours of the day with other people’s kids than I do with my own children, so I want to make the time I’m able to spend with them meaningful.

⊲⊲Balance In the full and rich pace of family life, finding time during the work/school week for genuine family connection can be a challenge. Homework, extracurriculars, laundry, grocery shopping and making dinner are all part of the package of family life. I try to make afterschooling a reality in our family

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by committing to at least 30 minutes of time each day with my kids for this type of connection. (It’s easier to work it into your day if you develop a routine, I’ve found.)

⊲⊲Be flexible Sometimes afterschooling time is with an individual child. Other times it’s with all four of my children. And, sometimes, it just doesn’t work out. However, the intent is there to make some sort of fun connection with each other every day, rather than all doing our separate things under the same roof.

⊲⊲Getting started We all afterschool to some degree if we have children in our home. I encourage you to bump it up a notch and make it an intentional habit. Find ways to create, explore and nourish small pockets of time during the week with your child.

Here are a few simple ideas for afterschooling that take about 30 minutes each: ⊲⊲Make a dessert.

⊲⊲Play a card or board game. ⊲⊲Read a chapter of a children’s novel together. ⊲⊲Play catch in the backyard. ⊲⊲Start a project from a kit (like a sewing or construction project). ⊲⊲Take a walk around the neighborhood. ⊲⊲Collect and press some leaves. ⊲⊲Paint a pumpkin. ⊲⊲Roast pumpkin seeds. ⊲⊲Go for a bike ride. ⊲⊲Make a batch of play dough. ⊲⊲Color, draw or create something. ⊲⊲Work on a puzzle. ⊲⊲Look through photo albums. ⊲⊲Try something new: Find a tutorial or book to teach you how to do it!

Megan Devine is an elementary school teacher who lives with her husband and four children in Northeastern Minnesota. Follow her on Instagram @megtdevine. Write her at mdevine@mnparent.com.

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With both of us starting our first jobs as young teens, it was pretty much a no-brainer for us to ask our son, at 15, to find a part-time summer job.

We left what it was up to him. The only caveat we had was that it would be a place he could bike to if he worked on a day when the Mom Taxi was busy.

⊲⊲Leaving it to him

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was 14 years old when my mom sent me off from my home in Central California to stay for a summer with my aunt in Hinckley, Minn. The trip was intended to ease me into a new move, which included changing high schools.

I spent my summer canoeing on the local lake, experiencing my first thunderstorms and tasting my first brats from the grill. The understanding was that I would also get my first job.

I ended up working the drive-thru window at Hardee’s.

⊲⊲First jobs It wasn’t that bad.

While the dark-brown polyester shirt and slacks weren’t totally up my fashion alley, I got to talk to all kinds of people, usually on the road to their summer cabins. I made new friends at work and had my own money to spend when I was out with them.

I enjoyed a delightful new freedom: I didn’t have to ask if it was OK to have ice cream or money for a movie. I could make such decisions myself.

My husband also had his first job at 14. It wasn’t an illustrious one. His dad knew the owner of the local dump. This meant his first summer as a money maker was spent separating cans and other recyclables out of people’s black trash bags. (Obviously, the advent of the recycling bin was a good thing.)

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He ended up being a runner at a local restaurant. His charm got him hired on the spot.

He spent his summer working a couple four-hour shifts per week — a perfect amount of time with his summer rugby, football and SAT-tutoring schedule.

Truth be told, I’ve always had a hard time keeping my worried self away from all of his stuff. This includes — but isn’t limited to — checking school grading system, keeping track of his extra-curricular schedule and looking to see if he’s put his laundry away.

But I decided — from the beginning — that his job would be his deal.

I vowed to stay out of it.

⊲⊲Time, money management Not to sound too surprised, but I must admit he did a great job!

I didn’t fill out his application. I didn’t sit through his interview. I didn’t manage his weekly schedule and how things would fit in with the scrimmages and matches that came up for sports. He told me when he needed to leave the house.

I also didn’t tell him how to manage his money. All on his own, he decided to put every paycheck into his savings and used his tip money for his social expenses.

While he was working, he still could have asked me for money. But instead he made decisions to economize what activities he did with his friends.

And I never had to tell him: It’s time for

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work. He was the one downstairs, all showered, telling me to get into the car.

⊲⊲Growing up I feel as though I’m watching him transform from a boy into a man right before my eyes.

Could he be this grown up already?

Of course — becasue I’m learning to let myself let go a bit — I don’t know all of the details. I’m sure there were days he didn’t do everything right at work.

But he’s hanging in there for sure.

As I reflect on his growth over the past few months — and his folded laundry still piled on his bean bag chair from three days ago — I can see he maybe isn’t “all grown up” yet.

But he’s on his way.

Jennifer Wizbowski lives in Excelsior with her husband, and daughter and son, ages 13 and 15.

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Helping kids help others The key, I’ve found, is to let kids lead the process as much as possible.

When they do, they feel invested.

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ost of us want our kids to be generous and thoughtful, and we want them to have a broad view of the world.

So why not encourage them to donate some of their money or allowance to a worthy cause?

Figuring out how much to give — and who to give it to — is good practice for kids learning to be smart and deliberate with money.

The problem is, encouraging our kids to give to a cause can easily become one of those great parenting ideas that dies out, because actually following through becomes too complicated — or simply gets lost amidst the one million day-to-day details of regular life.

I have a lot of friends who regularly give time and money to support causes important to them, including many who encourage their kids to do the same.

I’m constantly impressed by what some of the kids I know are doing: Several kids we know have asked for charity donations instead of birthday presents. A group of y0ungsters in our neighborhood recently spearheaded a food drive. And one first-grader we know raised hundreds of dollars to support natural disaster victims.

But for some reason, converting those philanthropic impulses into consistent donations has eluded our family — and many others I’ve discussed it with. And it’s that word — consistent — that leads to real lessons being learned (and real differences being made).

Maybe, like us, you’ve tried the classic “spend some, save some, donate some” strategy. And maybe, like it did for us, it fizzled out after not too long. We went with the classic three-envelope strategy — one each for spending, saving and donating.

But I can barely remember to have cash for allowances much

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less gather and mail those crumpled “donate some” bills to our boys’ chosen charity.

The key, I’ve found, is to let kids lead the process as much as possible. When they do, they feel invested.

Here are a few guidelines to help you get — and stay — on track.

⊲⊲Start with the basics Help your kids brainstorm what matters most to them and where they want their donations to go by starting with a choice between three broad categories: ⊲⊲People. They can decide to support

organizations that search for cures for diseases, help feed people or provide other assistance to folks in need. ⊲⊲Animals. Many kids are attracted to the idea

of supporting organizations that rescue sick or abandoned pets, or groups that speak out against the cruel testing of products on animals. ⊲⊲The environment. Most kids have heard a lot

about helping the environment by the time they reach early elementary school. They can help by supporting groups that work to reduce pollution, protect rainforests or clean up oceans, rivers and lakes.

⊲⊲Keep it local or go bigger?

In all three categories, kids can choose a charity that’s local, national or international. A local charity could be a women’s shelter or water-protection organization. On the other hand, many disaster-relief charities are international. Your family’s money is more likely to make an immediate impact if you keep it local.

But sometimes larger organizations are the only ones that support the causes your kids are interested in right now.

Another way to make a bigger difference is to choose an organization with specific goals. It might be easy to donate to a big, general environmental charity.

But you and your kids might feel better putting your

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GIVE THEM THE OPPORTUNITY TO DREAM THEIR BIGGEST DREAMS.

START SAVING NOW. money into an organization that’s working to clean up a lake in your community, for example.

⊲⊲Research and choose Once you know what kind of organization you want to donate to, it’s easy to do a little research to find charities that fit that category. Find a few that match your kids’ criteria, then keep digging to learn more about those organizations. One place to look is Charity Navigator (charitynavigator.org).

This website gives lots of advice for choosing charities. It looks at how effective and ethical they are. And it provides a list of questions to ask of a charity before making a donation — like how much of every dollar goes to the cause and how much is for overhead?

Depending how old your kids are, they may not be interested in this last step, but you’ll want to feel good about choosing an organization that will use your family’s money wisely.

If you’re interested in giving your child the opportunity to go to college in the future, it’s time to start saving now.

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Dr. Peter Dehnel

What is thrush?

My baby boy has white patches on the insides of his cheeks. What is it?

Generally, when parents notice white patches on the insides of their infants’ cheeks, it’s usually a condition known as thrush. Thrush is an excessive growth of a yeast (fungus) in the mouth and is very common among infants in the first few months of life.

The white patches adhere to the mucous membranes on the sides of the cheeks. Severe cases can involve the inside of the lips, and may even be uncomfortable for your child. The surface of the tongue may also show a white coating in these cases.

The main reason why thrush can frequently happen in young infants is that their immune systems are still forming. Infants who are on antibiotics will have a higher likelihood of developing thrush. Also, moms who are breastfeeding and also taking antibiotics are more likely to have infants who develop thrush.

There are a number of medications that can help treat thrush, including a liquid that contains nystatin (an antifungal agent). While thrush isn’t dangerous or disfiguring, it can be stubborn when you’re trying to get rid of it. And it can come back easily once treatment is completed. If you believe your child may have thrush, talk to your child’s clinician.

My daughter has started playing hockey. What do I need to know to keep her from ending up in the ER? In the State of Hockey, it almost seems as if some children are born with hockey sticks in their hands and skates on their feet.

Fortunately, organized youth hockey programs have made safety a priority and have taken a number of steps to reduce the likelihood of injuries, especially for kids in younger age groups. These steps include safeguards such as full protective gear, restrictions on checking (and other collision activities) and tighter refereeing.

In addition, a lot of ice time is spent on the basics of skating, puck control and stick handling, which can also help reduce the risk of injuries.

Hockey is a fast-paced, high-impact sport that presents a higher risk for injuries than other sports, but there’s been considerable progress in reducing the risk for participants. And that is a very good thing.

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What do you think of chiropractic care for babies?

I’ve heard it can cure colic and help with many other infant problems.

There are a variety of opinions regarding the effectiveness of chiropractic care for infants.

I believe if the purpose of the care is mainly to help with soothing, muscle relaxation and using muscle groups differently, then chiropractic care can be safe and helpful.

As a pediatrician in practice for a number of years, I’ve found it can be challenging to see how spinal manipulation will give the promised results, especially with conditions such as acid reflux, ear infections, sleep problems or troubles with breastfeeding.

On the other hand, some parents claim that a series of visits to a chiropractor can be life-changing, producing infants who appear to be much happier after their treatments.

Others warn that there are risks associated with such treatments and little research to back up claims.

Many chiropractors are now specializing in infant care. As with any type of care for your infant, do your homework ahead of time and find out what your child’s clinicians recommend for treatment options.

Then, if — despite treatment — your child doesn’t seem to be improving or is getting worse, talk to your clinicians right away to see if you should consider another diagnosis or a different treatment.

Dr. Peter Dehnel is a board-certified pediatrician and medical director with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Minnesota. Send questions to drdehnel@mnparent.com.

This column is intended to provide general information only and not medical advice.

Contact your health care provider with questions about your child.

Julie Hertzog

Is your young child being bullied?

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ennifer, a busy mom of three, wondered if something was wrong when her middle child, Ava, abruptly stopped talking about school. Ava, a first-grader, usually bubbled over with enthusiastic chatter about her friends and her adored teacher, Miss Garcia.

Ava had started complaining about feeling sick just before it was time to go to school. One morning she complained of a tummy ache; the next day she said her head hurt; one morning she said, quite seriously, “Mommy, I think I should stay home and rest.”

⊲⊲Taking action Jennifer vowed to talk to Ava that evening and find out what was going on.

Things were hectic that night and Jennifer forgot all about talking to Ava until it was bath time. When Ava got into the tub, Jennifer noticed a large bruise on the front of her daughter’s shin.

“Wow, that looks like it hurts,” Jennifer said, wondering if Ava had tripped and fallen. “What happened, honey?”

Ava burst into tears. “Chloe kicked me,” she sobbed. “She’s so mean!”

Jennifer asked gentle questions. She learned that Chloe was excluding Ava at recess, belittling her and calling her names.

Chloe had twisted Ava’s arm, and yesterday she kicked Ava under the table, causing the bruised leg.

Jennifer forced herself to act calm, not wanting to upset Ava further. Inside she was furious; her heart was racing and her

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head was pounding. Why was Chloe treating Ava this way? How long had it been going on? How should she react?

Her protective instincts kicked in. She said, reassuringly, “Ava, I will talk to Miss Garcia, and I will make sure this stops.”

How to deal with bullying behavior depends on the child’s age.

You can talk to an older child about options for dealing with bullying behavior, but with a young child, the emphasis should be on comforting and protecting.

Children who are bullied sometimes find it hard to tell their parents what’s going on. They often feel scared and ashamed or that they’re at fault. If a child is very young, it’s especially important that the parent be calm, reassuring and supportive — just as Jennifer was with Ava. Stress to your child that no one deserves to be bullied and that you will protect her.

⊲⊲What to do Watch for signs that your child is being bullied, including not wanting to go to school, complaining of illness, no longer wanting to play with a certain friend and, of course physical evidence, like Ava’s bruise.

Encourage your child to tell you when something is wrong. Let her know that she doesn’t need to fix it on her own, that you’re there for her.

Listen and respond. If your child complains about a specific child or says things such as “I’m so dumb,” or “Everybody hates me,” start a conversation and probe gently for details.

Get involved Run, Walk, Roll Against Bullying: PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center will host its annual fund-raiser from 9 a.m. to noon Oct. 1 at Mount Normandale Lake Park in Bloomington. Register at pacer.org.

Unity Day: Wear orange to school or work — or out and about — on Wednesday, Oct. 19 to unite against bullying as part of a worldwide event to build awareness. Share stories and pictures on Facebook and Instagram with the hashtag #UnityDay2016.

Order orange T-shirts and shoe laces at pacer.org/bullying.

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Assure your child that it’s not his fault.

Let him know that no one deserves to be bullied.

Involve the school. If the incidents happened at school, talk with the adults in charge and enlist their support in making sure that the behavior stops right away.

Check in regularly to make sure that steps are taken to stop the bullying.

⊲⊲What not to do Don’t use name calling. Rather than referring to a child as a bully, explain that the behavior is wrong.

Don’t directly confront a child or parent if the behavior is occurring at school or on the school bus. It’s better to let the school handle the situation.

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Don’t tell your child to ignore the behavior. He may have already tried that.

It’s hard to ignore someone you see every day, and the child doing the bullying may feel encouraged to act out more, since his or her behavior is getting a reaction from your child.

Julie Hertzog is the director of PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center. October 2016 marks the 10th anniversary of National Bullying Prevention month, an international event started by The PACER Center, which is based in Bloomington.

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IN THE KITCHEN

EASY-PREP DINNER

By Danielle Walker

Yep, it’s fall, the perfect time to break out the slow cooker for easy school-night eats.

This recipe, despite requiring only about 20 minutes of prep time and just five key ingredients, delivers a surprising amount of flavor. Serve the chicken over cauliflower “rice” (tinyurl.com/aga-rice) and sauteed zucchini or a simple salad.

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SLOW-COOKER CHICKEN VERDE INGREDIENTS 1 tablespoon ghee or coconut oil 6 chicken hind quarters (thighs with legs attached), bone-in and skin-on Sea salt and cracked black pepper 2 cloves garlic, minced 2 teaspoons ground cumin 1 teaspoon ground coriander 2 cups roasted tomatillo salsa, divided

DIRECTIONS Season the chicken generously with salt and pepper.

Mix the garlic, cumin and coriander in a small bowl, and rub it all over the chicken.

Heat the ghee in a heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven over medium-high heat.

Brown the chicken on all sides, working in batches, for about two minutes per side.

Pour 1 cup of the salsa into a slow cooker and arrange the browned legs on top.

Cover and cook on low for 8 hours.

Serve the chicken with the remaining cup of the salsa.

Source: Danielle Walker, an acclaimed food-blogger and bestselling cookbook author, is the founder of the hugely popular cooking website, againstallgrain. com. Her latest book is Against All Grain Celebrations: A Year of Gluten-Free, DairyFree and Paleo Recipes for Every Occasion.Â

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This misunderstood learning disorder has no cure.

But kids, when equipped with the right resources — early and often — can succeed in school and beyond.

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By Abbie Burgess

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or young children with dyslexia, just opening a book can cause anxiety and a drop in selfesteem.

The letters might jumble into a code nearly impossible to decipher, making reading slower and more demanding than it is for their classmates.

And it’s not just reading and writing.

Kids with dyslexia often struggle with spelling, penmanship and reading comprehension. Word problems can make math a challenge, too.

Dyslexia is surprisingly common language-based learning disorder that children don’t outgrow.

In fact, it affects as many as 1 in 5 students to some degree, according to a 2015 report from the National Center on Learning Disabilities.

It occurs in children with normal vision and intelligence and can go undiagnosed well into adulthood.

There’s no cure for dyslexia.

But kids who get consistent help — such as specialized tutoring and teaching, speech therapy and emotional supports — can absolutely succeed in school.

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One family’s journey Amy DeLong of Vadnais Heights learned her son, Colin, was affected by dyslexia at the end of his second-grade year.

She was at a parent-teacher conference when she was told Colin wasn’t reading at grade level. Dyslexia has been linked to certain genes and appears to

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“When the teachers are saying, ‘He’s having trouble,’ you feel PHOTO COURTESY OF GROVES ACADEMY overwhelmed at that point, thinking, ‘Where do I go? What do I do?’”

DeLong said.

Colin’s private school had no special education program and referred Colin to a dyslexia tutor, who Delong refers to as “a gift from heaven.”

After getting an official dyslexia diagnosis, followed by years of specialized tutoring, Colin, now 15, has learned to read at grade level and is in his sophomore year of high school.

Early intervention Groves Academy in St. Louis Park is a Minnesota’s only school that exclusively caters to students with learning disabilities and attention disorders, including dyslexia.

Students from other area schools can take advantage of Groves’ learning center services, which also includes intervention programming for kids as well as informational classes for parents.

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Dyslexia symptoms Signs of dyslexia in preschoolers can include: ⊲⊲Late talking ⊲⊲Learning new words slowly ⊲⊲Difficulty learning nursery rhymes and playing rhyming games ⊲⊲Trouble recognizing the letters of the alphabet ⊲⊲Problems matching letters to sounds, such as not knowing what sounds B or H make ⊲⊲Difficulty blending sounds into words, such as connecting C-H-A-T to make the word chat ⊲⊲Trouble learning to count or say the days of the week and other common word sequences.

School-age children can have difficulty with: ⊲⊲Reading at grade level ⊲⊲Processing and understanding what he or she hears ⊲⊲Comprehending rapid instructions ⊲⊲Remembering a sequence of things ⊲⊲Seeing (and occasionally hearing) similarities and differences in letters and words ⊲⊲Sounding out the pronunciation of an unfamiliar word ⊲⊲Spelling

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Teens and adults may experience difficulty with: ⊲⊲Reading, including reading aloud ⊲⊲Understanding jokes or expressions that have meanings rooted in idioms, such as “piece of cake” (meaning “easy”) ⊲⊲Time management ⊲⊲Summarizing a story ⊲⊲Learning a foreign language ⊲⊲Memorizing ⊲⊲Math problems.

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THE EVERYTHING PARENT’S GUIDE TO CHILDREN WITH DYSLEXIA Written in 2013 by Abigail Marshall — the mother of an adult son with dyslexia — this book tackles reading techniques and strategies for dealing with the disorder. Marshall manages dyslexia.com, dyslexiatalk.com and dyslegia.com.

Currently, 83 percent of Groves’ student body is diagnosed with dyslexia, including 93 percent of the institution’s Lower School students.

Signs of dyslexia can be seen as early as kindergarten, said Groves Academy Head of School John Alexander.

But more often it goes undetected until third or fourth grade, when students are expected to know how to read in order to do their work in a variety of subjects, Alexander said.

Unfortunately, parents and teachers often mistakenly assume that their students’ reading delays are caused by a lack of maturity or a child not being ready to read yet.

“Waiting for the light bulb to go on is the wrong approach,” Alexander said.

“Students hit a proverbial brick wall when they can’t read their textbooks. But by then they’re not getting the needed services to succeed until it’s too late.”

Alexander, citing studies funded by the National Institutes of Health, said there’s only a 25 percent chance that a student with dyslexia will catch up in reading if the disorder isn’t addressed during the third grade or earlier.

DeLong knows her family was fortunate to catch her son’s dyslexia early. She’s seen other families with later diagnoses, and often those students have to struggle even more to catch up to grade level in various subjects.

“It made a huge difference. He’s more confident because he knows he can read now,” DeLong said. “He doesn’t have a big interest in it, but he can.”

What is dyslexia?

Many people believe dyslexia involves swapping similar letters such as Bs and Ds or Ps and Qs or even reading words backwards.

Dyslexia, however, is actually an inability to assign the correct sounds to the abstract concepts of letters, Alexander said.

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“[Dyslexic] kids can’t sequence and segment sounds within words,” said Alexander. “It’s a phonological issue.”

Children in the middle of kindergarten who can’t identify three distinct letter sounds — C, A and T — in the word “cat” might be dealing with dyslexia.

(Swapping similar letters is a common mistake of many early readers — and not a sign of dyslexia.)

The solution is to “teach at the sound level,” said Alexander.

That’s why speech language pathologists well versed in dyslexia and alternative reading techniques are so important in working with dyslexic kids, Alexander said.

It’s also why multisensory learning models such the phonics-based Orton-Gillingham approach — that use hearing, touch, movement and sight to make language connections — are used to help kids with dyslexia.

In her book The Everything Parent’s Guide to Children with Dyslexia, Abigail Marshall argues that dyslexic children may need intervention and supplementary programs regardless of the types of schools they attend.

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Some parents find their children benefit from educational philosophies based on hands-on learning such as those found at Montessori or Waldorf schools. Others seek out private schools with smaller class sizes or work to find the right resources in public schools, which offer special reading groups and other supports.

↑↑Groves Academy middle school teacher Kandi Retzlaff works with students on a project-based learning exercise.

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Ways to adapt For Colin, adaptive technologies have played a crucial role.

That includes audio books and iPad applications that dictate essays and take notes, DeLong said.

Though sometimes Colin is reluctant to use the tools — for fear of standing out — they’ve made his

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“In this day and age of electronics, it’s the best time ever to have dyslexia,” DeLong said.

Colin’s private Minnesota high school offers special accommodations, including tutoring and access to a resource room.

Students with dyslexia may be allowed longer test-taking periods, exemptions from being called on to read out loud in class and reduced or waived foreignlanguage requirements.

Colin is excited that his high school offers American Sign Language, a second language he can study that won’t be impeded by his dyslexia.

In a few years, college will bring a new set of challenges for Colin.

“You can get accommodations in college, but you need to know what they are and go ask for them yourself,” DeLong said, adding that her son will have to be his own advocate.

Getting an evaluation Arriving at a dyslexia diagnosis is an important step in receiving academic accommodations, regardless of grade level.

Assessments for possible learning disabilities like dyslexia are completed by a variety of professionals such as school psychologists, clinical psychologists

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and/or educational specialists and teachers certified in special education.

A child’s pediatrician can rule out medical problems and typically recommend preferred sources for learning disability assessments, too.

Minnesota schools offer basic assessments that can qualify students with reading disorders for special education services, including 504 Plans or IEP Plans (Individualized Education Plans). Schools, however, may not actually use the label dyslexia, but instead may substitute the term “specific learning disability,” a category of disability that includes dyslexia.

Parents often seek out more extensive testing from outside sources — such as a testing department at a specialty school like Groves Academy or psychologists who specialize in neuropsychological or educational assessments.

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far more detailed and investigative and can cost more than $2,000. (And they’re not usually covered by insurance.)

Jennifer Bennett is a Minnetonka-based licensed psychologist who specializes in neuropsychological assessments. She’s also on the board of directors for the International Dyslexia Association’s Upper Midwest Branch.

Bennett said kids typically find the assessment process engaging and enjoyable, not intimidating or scary.

“Parents have really good intuition,” Bennett said. “They know when something is going on; they just don’t know what.”

Teacher awareness Students who receive dyslexia diagnoses will find they’re in good company. Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Leonardo da Vinci and Winston Churchill all had it, according to the International Dyslexia Association.

Other famous dyslexic folks include: ⊲⊲Ann Bancroft, a Minnesotan, one of the world’s pre-eminent explorers and the first female to cross both the North and South poles; ⊲⊲John Irving, a best-selling American author and Academy Award-winning screenwriter; ⊲⊲Ted Turner, an American media mogul and philanthropist, best known as the founder of CNN. An estimated 20 percent of the population reportedly have some symptoms of dyslexia with boys and girls affected equally. Despite dyslexia’s prevalence, Minnesota teachers often receive no training specifically on the needs of dyslexic students.

Alexander believes the state of Minnesota should require teachers to take dyslexia courses as part of their licensing.

DeLong agrees.

Colin has flourished with teachers who understand his unique needs and make adjustments, such as one who let him tell her the answers verbally instead of writing out a short-answer essay.

“Having a teacher like that is a gift, and it’s what the students need — to know there’s nothing wrong with them,” DeLong said. “They’re very smart kids. The schools teach one size fits all, and it doesn’t.”

Her advice for other parents involves a three-step approach: “Become educated on dyslexia. Identify what your child’s needs are. Then become their advocate.”

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How to grow a reader INSTILL A LOVE OF BOOKS IN YOUR CHILDREN WITH SIMPLE, RESEARCH-BACKED, NO-PRESSURE STRATEGIES YOU CAN TRY AT HOME

BY LAURA RAMSBORG

“LILA IS ALREADY READING!” “Jayden started reading when he was 3 years old.” • “Jesse has been reading chapter books since kindergarten.” • As a licensed reading specialist and the parent of a kindergartner, I can’t help but notice the push for children to start reading before kindergarten.

• What once was rare — and only for children who were developmentally ready — now seems to be the trend and an expectation among parents. • It’s the latest “keeping up with the Joneses” related to our children’s academic performance, and it’s starting before our kids have started formal education. • When I hear these pronouncements, the mother in me wonders if my daughter, the child of a licensed reading specialist, should be zipping through Magic Tree House books at age 5. • But then the trained educator in mnparent.com • October 2016

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me takes over: While some children are developmentally ready and eager to read before kindergarten, most are not.

Jim Trelease, author of The Read-Aloud Handbook, cautions parents (who often feel guilty if their children aren’t early readers): “There should be no rush to have a child reading before age 6 or 7. That’s developmentally the natural time.”

Comparing reading progress among pre-K kids isn’t logical because every child develops at a different pace. Just as every child doesn’t walk or learn to talk at precisely 12 months, the same is true with developmental readiness for learning to read. My educational training, research and experience have taught me to focus on what matters most — helping my daughters grow into lifelong readers.

Therefore, the bigger question is, really, how do you help your child grow into a reader?

BUILD READING VALUE How many books are in your home? Does your child get to see you reading and enjoying books, magazines and newspapers?

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home, the higher value kids place on reading and the more enjoyment they get out of it.

Parents can reinforce a value of reading by purchasing books or by making regular trips to the library. Research conducted by the National Literacy Trust found that kids who own books display positive attitudes toward reading and become stronger readers as a result.

Consistent library visits have, of course, also been shown to boost kids’ reading attitudes. And kids especially enjoy getting their own library cards.

EXPAND ON INTERESTS Children should choose books based on their interests: In fact, picking out, or self-selecting, books based on personal interests is one of the Minnesota state standards for reading.

Children are expected to begin practicing this self-selecting skill in kindergarten and to become adept at it by second grade.

Brainstorm a list of your child’s current interests. What fascinates him or her right now? Is it trains, dinosaurs or horses?

Studies have shown that the more books there are in the home, the higher value kids place on reading and the more enjoyment they get out of it.

Perhaps you’re trying to prepare your kiddo for a major change, such as getting a pet, a first-time dentist visit or starting kindergarten? Books are an excellent way to expand upon your children’s interests or ease them through a big change by providing context. Kids can experience something new through a beloved character before taking a big risk themselves.

Even if your child’s obsessive interest in airplanes, insects or volcanoes is driving you crazy — or you think you’ll lose it if you have to read another Pinkalicious or Pete the Cat book — continue to fan those flames.

Kids who are given the choice of what to read become kids who love to read.

Daniel Willingham, author of Raising Kids Who Read, concurs: “Choice is enormously important for motivation.”

Test scores and research studies have shown that kids who read for pleasure consistently outscore kids who read because they have to.

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How to grow a reader Find a time in your family’s schedule to curl up together with a pile of good books.

DEAR time can be right before bedtime, but it doesn’t have to be. Choose a time that works best for your family, or try out different times until you find the right fit.

Aim for at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted reading time. If it feels difficult at first, set a timer for 15 minutes and slowly build up to more time.

Setting a timer also helps you (and your kids) avoid getting fixated on the clock.

You might even find yourselves going far longer than 30 minutes once you settle in and let yourself get lost in the stories.

Begin family DEAR time with read-aloud books for children who can’t read on their own. “Reading aloud is the catalyst for the child wanting to read on his own,” Trelease said. “The more often a child is read to, the more likely it is the child will associate reading with a daily pleasure experience.”

As your children learn to read, DEAR time can include each family member independently reading a self-selected book. Be sure the parents and caregivers in the house are reading as well. It could be a book, magazine, newspaper or even the mail, but everyone should be reading something.

The International Literacy Association supports the importance of adults modeling literacy skills. Young children, according to the association, learn the uses of print in their lives by watching adults read, make lists and use of literacy as they go about their everyday lives.

Although eventually transitioning to independent reading is the goal, don’t stop reading aloud to your kids entirely.

Reading aloud provides benefits for kids of all ages — even teenagers — including an enriched vocabulary, increased reading fluency and a pleasurable association with reading.

FIND JUST-RIGHT BOOKS Just-right books are books kids can read independently while comprehending 98 percent or more of the information. This means your child doesn’t struggle with more than five words per page.

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their own personal go-to books — predictable, repetitious books that build vocabulary and sight-word knowledge from repeated readings, such as Brown Bear, Brown Bear and Chicka Chicka Boom Boom.

If your child demonstrates an interest in learning to read, you can try leveled books designed for new readers with simple text and targeted phonics, such as Scholastic’s BOB books or HarperCollins’ I Can Read titles.

However, it’s important to let kids take the lead on reading these books. Nothing kills a love of reading faster than forcing children to struggle through a book with words that are too difficult for them as “reading practice.”

The same goes for sight-word flash cards, phonics workbooks and similar activities known as “drill and kill” methods because they provide reading “drill” practice and lead to the “kill” of any intrinsic reading motivation.

THE GIFT OF READING Remember, learning to read is a developmental task and kids will do it when they’re developmentally ready. As a parent, it’s your duty to wait for your child to be ready and not push reading development.

The single best thing you can do to prepare your children for learning to read is to read aloud to them from books they love and are excited to read.

As Kate DiCamillo, nationally recognized Minneapolis children’s author, advises: “Reading should not be presented to a child as a chore, a duty. It should be offered as a gift.”

Laura Ramsborg is a licensed K-12 reading specialist, middle school teacher and freelance writer. She is a mother of two daughters and lives in Bloomington. Follow her on Twitter at @MsRamsborgReads.

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GREAT PUMPKIN PATCHES!

YOUR QUEST FOR THAT PERFECT GOURD — AND A FAB FALL DAY OUT WITH THE FAMILY — STARTS HERE

By Amanda Williams When it comes to fall family fun, it’s hard to beat a local pumpkin patch on a crisp, clear October day in Minnesota.

Not only are our local farms glorious in autumn — with beautiful fields of U-pick pumpkins and golden mazes of rustling corn stalks — they’re also packed with other kid-friendly attractions, including hayrides, bouncy houses, giant slides, petting zoos and, a Minnesota classic, corn pits!

And that’s only the beginning: You’ll also find pig races, gourd trebuchets, apple cannons and, increasingly, kiddie zip lines.

Check out the following local farms to make the most of this most picturesque season.

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NORTHEAST

LENDT’S PUMPKIN PATCH Grab a wagon and explore 40 acres of U-pick pumpkin fields. Then check out the new indoor corn pit featuring colorful characters.

Face painting and concessions are offered on weekends in October. One-hour hayrides (available only by reservation) include one U-pick pumpkin per rider and feature three stops — the pumpkin fields, the farm’s beehives and the corn field, where each participant can pick an ear of Indian corn plus an ear of popping corn (that comes with microwave popping instructions).

Where: Wyoming, about 35 minutes northeast of St. Paul When: Open daily through Oct. 31 Cost: Admission is free. U-pick pumpkins from the field are $4 each for any size, shape or color. Pre-picked pumpkins (weighing up to 200 pounds!) cost more. Hayride reservations — with a 15-person minimum and 120-person maximum are required — and cost $8 per person.

Info: lendtspumpkinpatch.com

WALDOCH FARM GARDEN CENTER Every fall, this 100-year-old farm and garden center is transformed into a family-fun mecca. On weekends, check out hayrides, a corn cannon, face painting and a food trailer with a menu full of kid-friendly staples. Daily attractions include the pumpkin patch, a corn box, pedal carts and a barnyard with pigs, horses, pygmy goats, sheep, chickens and donkeys.

Where: Lino Lakes, about 25 minutes north of St. Paul When: Open daily through Oct. 31 Cost: $10 for ages 3 and older Info: waldochfarm.com

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PINEHAVEN FARM Last year this popular family farm was proclaimed Best Pumpkin Patch in Minnesota by WCCO-TV. Here you’ll find hayrides, a jumping pillow, pine-duck derby races, a pumpkin cannon, a petting zoo, a pumpkin-eating dragon, a sweet shop, a children’s play area, fun mazes, an animatronic scarecrow, a mini train ride, a giant slide, trikes for kids and a new 5-acre corn maze. Special activities include magic shows, a pirate impersonator, live music and Halloween parties.

Where: Wyoming, about 35 minutes northeast of St. Paul When: Open daily through Oct. 31 Cost: $7.50 to $9.99 plus tax for ages 3 and older depending on the day of the week; look online for coupons.

Info: pinehavenfarm.com

NORTHWEST

ANOKA COUNTY FARMS Warning! The next three words are reason enough for your kids to beg to go to this farm — dump truck hill! It’s not much more than a bunch of toy trucks on a hill of woodchips, but it’s heaven for little vehicle lovers. This destination also offers hay and pony rides, tractors to sit on, a bouncy house, a big inflatable slide, pumpkin painting, pumpkin bowling and other games, plus goats, ducks and bunnies. And you’ll find plenty of pumpkins to choose from in all shapes and sizes.

Where: Ham Lake, about 30 minutes north of Minneapolis When: Open daily through Oct. 31 Cost: You’ll find free activities (including pumpkin games, farm animals and dump truck hill) as well as paid activities (such as hay rides and inflatables). There’s a $5 admission per car at the gate on Saturdays, Sundays and Oct. 20–21.

Info: anokacountyfarms.com

APPLE JACK ORCHARDS Apple cannons! Jumping pillows! And a new zip line for kids.

Need we say more? This farm boasts numerous best-appleorchard honors from area news stations and even Huffington Post, which named it one of the “10 Best Places in America for Apple Picking.” (This year, due to a late frost in May, apple picking isn’t an option. Fresh-picked apples will be available in the market.) There’s also a corn pit, wagon rides, a barrel train, an animal park, face painting and a corn maze, plus U-pick and prepicked pumpkins. There’s a gift shop and market, plus a cafe and, new this year, a pizza shack.

Where: Delano, about 30 minutes west of Minneapolis When: Fall-fun activities are Saturday and Sundays through Oct. 31 and Oct. 20–21; the farm cafe, store and bakery are open daily.

Cost: Most attractions cost $3 each. Corn maze admission is $6 for ages 5 and older.

Info: applejackorchards.com

TWIN CITIES HARVEST FESTIVAL AND MAZE This seventh-annual festival boasts Minnesota’s largest corn maze at nearly 20 acres, all just a short drive from Twin Cities’ urban core. This year the maze will pay homage to the Minnesota Vikings with U.S. Bank Stadium and skyline motifs. We recommend budgeting two to three hours at this event to take full advantage of admission, which includes a corn pit, a play area, a petting zoo and other fun activities. Hard-to-resist add-ons such as the climbing wall and pumpkin slinger cost extra. Feel-good bonus: In the past five years of operating the maze, festival organizers have raised more than $150,000 for local charities including the Twins Community Fund, the Minnesota Wild Foundation and the Minnesota Military Family Foundation.

Where: Brooklyn Park, about 20 minutes northwest of Minneapolis When: Open Saturdays and Sundays through Oct. 30, plus Oct. 20–21 Cost: Tickets are $11 online or $12 at the gate. Children shorter than 36 inches tall are admitted for free.

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EMMA KRUMBEE’S ORCHARD AND FARM This farm boasts a U-pick pumpkin patch as well as a 45-acre U-pick apple orchard, plus an annual Scarecrow Festival, now in its 33rd year with 100 handmade scarecrows on display ranging from traditional to pop-culture characters from film and TV. Other attractions for kids include a monster-truck play area, a goat trail and other farm animals, a tombstone forest, a barrel train, a giant haystack, all-terrain farm trikes, a slide and more. Fresh-baked apple goodies are available here, too, including apple flips and turnovers, caramel apples and fresh apple cider. Stop at the 10,000-squarefoot General Store for treats daily and/or buy concessions at the festival. Inside the store, you’ll find reasonably priced meals at Fizzy’s Soda Fountain. Stop by the Greenhouse & Farm Market for mums and more farm produce.

Where: Belle Plaine, about 45 southwest of Minneapolis When: Open daily for the festival through Oct. 30 Cost: Scarecrow festival admission is $5.50 plus tax for ages 3 and older.

Info: emmakrumbees.com

Did you know?

The Kakai variety of pumpkin-like winter squash produces completely hull-less seeds that are superb for roasting. These delicately ribbed fruits — a specialty of Pinehaven Farm in Wyoming, Minn. — are an unusual shade of yellow-orange with dark green mottling so they’re ideal for decorating, too.

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SEVER’S CORN MAZE AND FALL FESTIVAL Similar to Disney World, Sever’s is so beloved in Minnesota the venue has a Fast Pass line for pre-ticketed customers.

This is the 20th anniversary of the festival and Sever’s has spared no detail in planning the fun for this season, including a new-this-year obstacle course. In addition to pumpkins available for purchase by the pound, you’ll find corn and hay-bale mazes, an exotic petting zoo, jumping pillows, a giant slide, hayrides, pumpkin blasters, pig races, zip lines, a tire mountain, an extreme corn pit, camel rides, face painting and many other activities and special events such as wildlife presentations and magic shows.

When: Open Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays through Oct. 30, plus Oct. 20–21 Where: Shakopee, about 30 minutes southwest of Minneapolis Cost: $15 for ages 4 and older at the door. Go online for discounted tickets and coupons. Some activities, such as the giant slide, face painting, pumpkin blasters and hay, camel and pony rides, cost extra.

Info: severscornmaze.com

Twin Cities

Fall registration is now open!

Register NOW! Students may enroll at any time during the session! Call 855.366.3866 to schedule your FREE trial today!

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WHEN SCHOOL IS OUT THE Y IS IN! Full day programs during M.E.A. weekend & vacation breaks for kids in grades K-12.

SCHOOL RELEASE DAYS Grades K – 6

Enjoy friends, fun & field trips.

DAY CAMP ADVENTURES Grades K – 6

Get outside, into nature & explore.

• DayCroix at Camp St. Croix in Hudson, WI • Day Camp Spring Lake – near Dakota County’s Spring Lake Park Reserve

OVERNIGHT AND TEEN WILDERNESS CAMPS Engage in the ultimate camp experience.

• Camp Menogyn – Ages 11-18 • Camp Warren – Ages 7-16 • Camp Widjiwagan – Ages 11-18

For more details go online to

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LOOKING FOR YOUR OWN NIGHT OUT?

Parent’s Night Out is Saturday, October 15.

Drop off the kids ages 2 – 10 at the Y for a night of food, fun & games. Registration

is required. or call 612-230-9622

Membership not required to enroll.

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AFTON APPLE ORCHARD Want a challenge? Try six-plus miles of paths through the 15-acre corn maze. When you tire of the twists and turns, pick your own apples or pumpkins on this 200-acre farm! You’ll also find a jumping pad, a straw mountain, a tire hill, a petting farm, barrel train rides and hayrides.

We love the Johnny Combine play area, featuring a repurposed combine with slides and climbers coming out of it. Best of all, there’s also a huge playground with a super-sized spider web feature, plus tire swings shaped like cars, motorcycles and elephants.

Where: Hastings, about 15 minutes southeast of St. Paul When: Open daily through Oct. 31 for apple and pumpkin picking. Corn maze hours are Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays through Oct. 31 and other days by reservation. Apple festival dates are Oct. 1–2, 8–9 and 15–16 and will feature cider-pressing demonstrations, magic shows, cow train rides, live bluegrass and folk music and face painting.

Cost: Farm admission is $4 for ages 5 and older and $3 for ages 4 and younger. Some special activities cost extra (such as the jumping pad for $2). Admission to the corn maze, which includes access to a no-left turn straw bale maze, a rubber-hose maze and a rope maze, is $7 for ages 2 to 10 and $9 for ages 11 and older. Ages 10 and younger must be accompanied by a paid adult.

Info: aftonapple.com

TWEITE’S FAMILY FARM This fifth-generation family farm is a 1.5-hour drive from the Twin Cities, but its worth it for the staggeringly large (22 acres) Fun Park, featuring imaginative and exciting playscapes, including life-size Lincoln Logs, unlimited wagon rides, an enchanted forest with gnomes and fairies, giant board games, a trike-racing track and too many other homespun attractions to list here. There’s also a 12-acre corn maze that’s smartphone compatible. Oversized mini golf (six holes in all) costs $3 per person.

When: Open weekends in October through Oct. 23, plus Oct. 19–21 Where: Byron, about 90 minutes southeast of St. Paul Cost: There’s no charge to visit the pumpkin patch or the food court. Passes for the Fun Park and the corn maze are $10 and $8 respectively for ages 3 and older, or you can buy a combo pass for both attractions for $15.

Info: tweitesfamilyfarm.com Amanda Williams lives in rural Minnesota with her two energetic sons and husband.

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Our readers’ recommendations Minnesota Parent readers’ top picks for fall fun were Sever’s Corn Maze and Fall Festival and Emma Krumbee’s Apple Orchard. But they also gave a shout-out to these local family farms! ⊲⊲ Barten Pumpkins, New Prague bartenpumpkins.com ⊲⊲ Dehn’s Pumpkins, Dayton dehnspumpkins.com ⊲⊲ Doehling’s Countryside Farm Market, Minnetonka facebook.com/DoehlingsCountryside

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⊲⊲ Peter’s Pumpkins, Shakopee peterspumpkins.com ⊲⊲ Pine Tree Apple Orchard, White Bear Lake pinetreeappleorchard.com ⊲⊲ Nelson Farm, Litchfield nelsonfarm.com ⊲⊲ McDougall’s Apple Junction, Hastings apple-junction.com ⊲⊲ Minnetonka Orchards, Minnetrista minnetonkaorchards.com ⊲⊲ Shafer Corn Maze, Shafer shafercornmaze.com Did we miss your pumpkin patch or fall destination? Write us at editor@ mnparent.com and tell us all about it!

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Older kids?

Check out these spooky destinations and events for tweens and teens. ⊲⊲ BareBones Annual Halloween Outdoor Puppet Extravaganza, Minneapolis barebonespuppets.org ⊲⊲ Scream Town, Shakopee screamtown.com ⊲⊲ The Dead End Hayride, Wyoming thedeadendhayride.com ⊲⊲ Zywiecs Haunting Experience, Cottage Grove hauntingexperience.com

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Out & About HALLOWEEN EVENTS

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OCT. 14–OCT. 31

Pumpkin Nights ⊲⊲Founded by the creators of The Color Run, this new all-ages event features a 1-mile walking path lined with more than 3,000 hand-carved pumpkins in 12 unique areas, including a space ship-themed Pumpkin Galaxy, an underwater world with mermaids and jelly fish (The Great Pumpkin Reef), an interactive Scarecrow Row and a locally inspired Picture Minnesota section, too.

When: Oct. 14–Oct. 31 Where: Minnesota State Fairgrounds, St. Paul Cost: $18 for ages 4 to 12 and ages 65 and older, $23 for ages 13 to 64; online tickets purchased in advanced are $2 to $3 cheaper.

Info: pumpkinnights.com

SEPT. 30–OCT. 30

Spookley the Square Pumpkin ⊲⊲Filled with music and memorable characters, this all-ages puppetry extravaganza — based on the book and movie, The Legend of Spookley the Square Pumpkin — follows Spookley, who faces relentless teasing from all the other round pumpkins. When Spookley’s boisterous spider friends (Edgar, Allen and Poe) try to convince him to run for the Pick of the Patch contest, he isn’t sure he should “dare to be square.”

When: Sept. 30–Oct. 30

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Where: Stages Theatre Company, Hopkins Cost: $12–$16 Info: stagestheatre.org

OCT. 10–30

Anoka Halloween ⊲⊲This north-metro-area suburb is believed to be the first city in the U.S. to put on a Halloween celebration to divert its youngsters from Halloween pranks back in the 1920s. Today, the city is hard to beat for Halloween festivities, including bingo, a bonfire, a scavenger hunt, costume contests, pumpkin-carving

contests, a movie night and parades, including a Big Parade of Little People on Oct. 28, and a Spooktacular Carnival and a Grand Day Parade (both on Oct. 29).

When: Oct. 10–30 Where: Anoka Cost: FREE Info: anokahalloween.com

OCT. 15

Old-Fashioned Trick-or-Treat ⊲⊲Ride a horse-drawn trolley, enjoy hot cider and follow candlelit paths dotted

with costumed characters at this 19thcentury-style farmstead.

When: 4–8 p.m. Oct. 15. Reservations — available by phone only (763-5596700) — are recommended. Walk-ins will be allowed based on availability.

Where: The Landing, Shakopee Cost: $9 for ages 2–17 and $5 ages 18 and older; ages 17 years and younger must be accompanied by a registered adult.

Info: tinyurl.com/landing-treats or threeriversparks.org

OCT. 21–22

35th Annual Halloween Party ⊲⊲Celebrate fall with costumes and characters at this all-ages family-friendly event, featuring indoor and outdoor games, activities and themed trails.

When: 6:30–9 p.m. Oct. 21–22 Where: Westwood Hills Nature Center, St. Louis Park Cost: $8.50–$9.50 for ages 2 and older before Oct. 12 or $10.50–$11.50 after Oct. 12 Info: tinyurl.com/westwood-35th or stlouispark.org

OCT. 22

Pumpkin Fest ⊲⊲Kids activities at this annual event will include trick-or-treating at area businesses, a petting zoo, a bouncy house, a cake walk, face painting and more for ages 12 and younger.

When: Oct. 22 Where: 50th & France Business District, Edina Cost: FREE Info: 50thandfrance.com

OCT. 22–23, 29–30

ZooBoo ⊲⊲The Como Zoo is transformed into a non-scary, family-friendly celebration with live entertainment, animal visitors and craft projects for ages 3 to 8.

When: 4:30–7:30 p.m. Oct. 22–23 and 29–30 Where: Como Park Zoo and Conservatory, St. Paul Cost: $6 to $7 Info: comozooconservatory.org

OCT. 23

BooFest on Grand ⊲⊲This family-friendly event includes a costume contest, pony rides, a karaoke contest and more.

When: Oct. 23 Where: Grand Avenue, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: grandave.com

OCT. 28

Halloween Extravaganza ⊲⊲Take a hike on themed trails and check out nature shows, face painting, a DJ dance, a costume contest, live animals and concessions, too.

When: Oct. 28 with family activities from 5:30 to 9:30 p.m. and the Scary Trail from 7 to 10 p.m.

Where: Dodge Nature Center, West St. Paul Cost: Admission — $10 per person for ages 3 and older — includes one Scary Trail pass. Admission is $8 if you register online before noon on Oct. 27.

Info: dodgenaturecenter.org

OCT. 30

Great Pumpkin Halloween Festival ⊲⊲This annual event offers all the fun of Halloween without the fright, featuring staff dressed as costumed characters, storytelling, music, crafts, face painting, treats and a costume parade with free candy.

When: 1 p.m. Oct. 30 Where: Landmark Center, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: landmarkcenter.org mnparent.com • October 2016

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ONGOING

Forces at Play ⊲⊲This new exhibit — the first of 10 new features coming to the museum as part of a $30 million expansion — encourages critical thinking through open-ended, hands-on activities. Kids can create ball launchers with a variety of hoses, tubes, connectors and valves; test their own contraptions; set up chain reactions using unusual materials; and imagine new ways to configure water hoses and sprayers.

When: Ongoing Where: Minnesota Children’s Museum, St. Paul Cost: Museum admission is $9.95 for ages 1 and older.

Info: mcm.org

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Out & About OCTOBER

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THROUGH OCT. 23

Elephant & Piggie’s We Are in a Play! ⊲⊲Gerald is no good at dancing. But the pessimistic pachyderm has the help of his pal, Piggie, to help him. Based on The New York Times best-selling book series

by Mo Willems, this musical for preschoolers is billed as a “jazzy, jolly and joyful vaudevillian romp,” complete with nutty back-up singers, The Squirelles.

When: Through Oct. 23 Where: Children Theatre Company, Minneapolis Cost: Tickets start at $10.

Info: childrenstheatre.org

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⊲⊲Maybe you know someone with Asperger syndrome, or perhaps you have a child or student who is on the ASD spectrum. Learn about the inner lives of those who struggle with this developmental disability through the story of Caitlin, an unforgettable character who first appeared in the National Book Award-winning young adult novel of the same name.

When: Sept. 30–Oct. 16 Where: Youth Performance Company, Minneapolis Cost: $12–$15 Info: youthperformanceco.org

Magic Tree House: A Night in New Orleans ⊲⊲Based on the beloved Mary Pope Osborne chapter-book series, this all-ages production follows Jack and Annie as they meet a 14-year-old Louis Armstrong and help set him on the path to becoming the King of Jazz.

When: Through Oct. 20 Where: Stages Theatre Company, Hopkins Cost: $12–$16 Info: stagestheatre.org

The Last Firefly

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APPLE ORCHARD

⊲⊲Geared toward kids in grade three or higher, this production tells the story of Boom, the son of Thunder, as he sets out on an epic search for his father, ultimately discovering his true self.

When: Sept. 27–Nov. 13 Where: Children’s Theatre Company, Minneapolis Cost: Tickets start at $10.

Info: childrenstheatre.org

Apples, of course, and Apple Cider, Apple Bakery - A Family Outing -

Jacobson’s

Visit hobt.org or call 612.721.2535 for more info.

651-429-7202

North of White Bear Lake Off E. Hwy. 96 on Apple Orchard Rd. www.pinetreeappleorchard.com

OCT. 1

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⊲⊲This family-friendly event will kick off National Bullying Prevention Month, which was founded by PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center in 2006.

When: Oct. 1. Check-in and onsite registration begins at 9 a.m.; the run and walk/roll begins at 10 a.m.

Where: Mount Normandale Lake Park, Bloomington Cost: Registration, which includes a complimentary T-shirt, is $20 for adults, $10 for ages 7 to 15 and free for ages 6 and younger.

Info: To register, visit PACER.org/rwr.

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Twin Cities Birth and Baby Expo ⊲⊲Expert speakers, educational events and numerous exhibitors will share what’s new for families, along with freebies, activities for kids, live entertainment, face painting and concessions.

When: 9:30 a.m.–3 p.m. Oct. 1 Where: Central High School, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: twincitiesbirthandbaby.com mnparent.com • October 2016

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Out & About OCT. 6

MoMs Mixer ⊲⊲Welcome Baby Care hosts a meeting for veteran and expecting moms of multiples four times a year, including helpful information, refreshments, giveaways and camaraderie.

When: 6–8:30 p.m. Oct. 6.

Where: Pacifier, North Loop, Minneapolis Cost: FREE. RSVP to tory@welcomebabycare.com or 952-942-5676 Info: welcomebabycare.com

OCT. 15

BT5K ⊲⊲This second-annual family-friendly event benefits the American Brain Tumor Association. Children’s activities will include a blow-up walk-in brain.

When: 9 a.m. Oct. 15 Where: Como Lake, St. Paul Cost: $35 for adults, $20 for children Info: BT5K.org

Twin Cities Book Festival ⊲⊲This day-long festival, now in its 16th year, presents internationally renowned visiting authors, local literary heroes and kids activities (including a children’s pavilion and a teen stage), as well as a book fair that offers a snapshot of the local publishing scene, plus great deals on new and used books.

When: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Oct. 15 Where: Minnesota State Fairgrounds, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: raintaxi.com/twin-cities-bookfestival

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OCT. 9

Kellogg’s Tour of Gymnastics Champions ⊲⊲This nationally touring event will showcase gymnasts from the 2012 and 2016 Olympic Games plus local gymnasts. Those scheduled to appear include Gabby Douglas (above), Simone Biles and Laurie Hernandez, among others.

When: 5 p.m. Oct. 9 Where: Target Center, Minneapolis Cost: Tickets start at $36.

Info: kelloggstour.com

Divorcing Divas ⊲⊲This eighth-annual conference aims to give women going through divorce hope, encouragement, inspiration and empowerment, including advice from financial advisors, attorneys, realtors, life coaches and psychologists.

When: Oct. 15 Where: DoubleTree by Hilton, St. Louis Park Cost: $50–$60 Info: divorcingdivas.com

OCT. 20–21

Stay Play MEA ⊲⊲The Saint Paul Public Library presents a series of music, dance and fitness programs over MEA break for gradeschool students, ages 8 and older.

When: Oct. 20–21 Where: Libraries in St. Paul Cost: FREE. Space is limited.

Reservations are recommended.

Info: sppl.org/mea

Ski & Snowboard Expo ⊲⊲The Minnesota Ski Areas Association and Explore Minnesota will promote an array of downhill slope destinations for skiers and snowboarders, including deals on season passes.

When: 10 a.m.–9:30 p.m. Oct. 21–22 Where: Rotunda at the Mall of America, Bloomington Cost: FREE Info: exploreminnesota.com/slopes and skiandboardmn.com

OCT. 23–MAY 14

Sundays at Landmark ⊲⊲This annual fall-to-spring series of mostly free cultural and arts events is designed to entertain, enrich and

educate all ages.

Be Someone’s Sunshine When Their Skies Are Gray

When: Events start at 1 p.m. and are Surrogates needed free, except where noted: Oct. 23 in Minnesota (Saint Paul Civic Symphony); Oct. 30 MINNESOTA ONLINE HIGH SCHOOL Contact us for more (Great Pumpkin Festival); 4 p.m. Nov. information today SMALL CLASSES • CREATIVE TEACHERS 13 (Saint Martin’s Day); Dec. 11 (Santa’s Compensation starting CONNECTED LEARNING Workshop); 1 and 3:30 p.m. Jan. 8 at $25,000 (Minnesota Boychoir); 3 p.m. Jan. 29 (Saint Paul Civic Symphony); Feb. 19 (Carpathian Celebration, $4–$6); 11 a.m. March 19 (Day of Dance, $6); 11 IARC Fertility FertilityHelp Now a.m. April 1 (Scottish Ramble, $6); 3 www.mnohs.org 763.494.8800 | www.surrogates-eggdonors.com Enrolling p.m. May 7 (Rose Ensemble); May 14 (Saint Paul Civic Symphony Mother’s Day Concert).

International Assisted Reproductive Center MNP 1016 12.indd 9/22/16 2 MN 9:50Online AM High School MNP 1016 12.indd 1 9/22/16 11:19 AM Celebrating 40 Years of Family Fun! Where: Landmark Center, St. Paul Cost: Except where noted, admission is free.

Hayrides • Petting Zoo • Apple Picking • Corn Maze Info: landmarkcenter.org

Open Daily from 10 am–7 pm

OCT. 24

Octonauts Live ⊲⊲The Octonauts and the Deep Sea Volcano Adventure — a new interactive stage show, based on the hit Disney Junior TV show and book series — features fan-favorite songs led by the Octonauts’ eight-member crew, including Captain Barnacles, Lieutenant Kwazii and Medic Peso.

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When: 6 p.m. Oct. 24 Where: Northrop, University of Minnesota, Minneapolis Cost: $31–$46 Info: northrop.umn.edu

OCT. 30

Slice of the Twin Cities ⊲⊲This new Minnesota Monthly event features local pizzerias competing to be named the best by a panel of culinary experts.

Where: Minnetonka Orchards, Minnetrista When: 1–5 p.m. Oct. 30 Cost: Tickets are $25 in advance, $30 at the door for ages 21 and older, $10 for ages 11–20 and free for ages 10 and younger.

Info: minnesotamonthly.com

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FROM OUR READERS

And they’re …

Back to school!

↑↑Maurice Regguinti, 7, of Edina

↑↑James and Anne Lawler, 7 and 5, of St. Louis Park

↑↑Ellie and Harley Hinkle, 4 and 3, of Woodbury

↑↑Clay Barsness, 3, of Woodbury

↑↑Benton Younker, 4, of Blaine

↑↑The Hansons of Plymouth: Sophie 8, Parker, 1, Jack, 6

GIVEAWAY!

We want your photos with Santa!

Parents: How would you like to see your little darlings on this page in our December issue AND win four free, no-expiration passes to the Minnesota Children’s Museum?

Send us your favorite photos of your kid(s) — silly, sweet or even sulking — with Santa from years’ past and we’ll enter you to win!

Please include your child’s first and last name, age in the photo and your city of residence to editor@mnparent.com by Nov. 1!

Want to see your kid on this page? Send photos with your child’s first/last name, age and city to editor@mnparent.com.

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