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a golden year ahead It feels so good to be starting fresh, with a sparkly new year to unfold, blank pages filling with myriad new events, experiences, and especially, those single breathtaking moments that may pass quickly, but resonate for hours, days, and months afterward.

I’m very excited about this issue of Minnesota Parent for a couple of reasons. One, it looks as if the economy is picking up because we were able to add a few more pages in our January 2011 issue over last year’s issue. We thank you for your continued support, be it faithful reader or advertiser. I’m not sure you understand how much your support of this publication means to us, but … well … just take my word for it — it does.

And because we are projecting more pages this year, it means we get to add some new features to the mix.

You will notice a couple of things, I hope. First up is “Chatter” — a new section showcasing of all the wonderful tidbits of information I receive daily when I sit down at my computer or pick up my ringing telephone. You will find a blog of the month, an idea for a cheap date with that significant other of yours, thoughts on products we have tested, and other interesting things you just might want to know about.

We are also launching “Hot Stuff” — a look at certain products in a category that resonates with us — and hopefully with you as well. This month, it’s products that are environmentally-friendly. Upcoming months will focus on items for toddlers, good stuff for sick kids, and things to bring to camp.

Finally, there’s additional room for more wonderful features and columns, such as Matea Wasend’s in-depth examination of the trend in online learning for K–12 students, beginning on page 18; a great piece on our cover dad, Eric Van Wyk; and how to conquer the dread “mommy guilt” — i.e., allowing time to take care of yourself for once, instead of everybody else.

Looking forward to an information-packed year at Minnesota Parent, month after golden month. Happy New Year!

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40 real parent Justin Huenemann balances cultural traditions in his family of four

calendar 30 january events On the cover: Eric Van Wyk of the Children’s Theatre

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FREE FAMILY MUSIC SERIES

Movin’ and Groovin’ to the Sounds of Brass featuring the Copper Street Brass Quintet

Saturday, January 15, 2011, 11 a.m.–12 noon MacPhail Center for Music 501 S. 2nd Street, Minneapolis • Concert featuring fun, energetic music ranging from rock tunes and jazz to operatic arias • Meet the musicians and try out the instruments they play • Music-themed art project • Free treats

UPCOMING FILM PROGRAMS:

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Watch a collection of animated adventures set in wintry climes.

FREE & OPEN TO THE PUBLIC MOVIE TIMES: Saturday, Jan. 15, 10:30 AM Minneapolis Central Library 300 Nicollet Mall, Minneapolis Warm up with dancer Leah Nelson before the films!

Saturday, Feb. 12, 11 AM Ridgedale Library 12601 Ridgedale Dr., Minnetonka Decorate cookies with Whole Foods Market staff!

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For more information on MacPhail’s Free Family Music Series, visit macphail.org or call 612.321.0100.

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january chatter Testing the products so you don’t have to; pointing out places and things we find of interest.

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gender prediction test Our curiosity was piqued just enough parent to give this product a go, sending it to tested! someone who already had her sonogram and knew she was having a girl. IntelliGender’s Gender Prediction Test is a simple-to-use urine test that provides immediate results. In minutes, the test indicates the gender result based on an easy to read color match. Green indicates boy and orange indicates girl. Well … unless our test subject is in for a surprise in a few short months, the test predicted a boy. To be fair, accuracy rates will vary depending upon how closely the package directions are followed, among other variables. Three trials conducts by the company have shown a 90% success rate. $34.95 at major drugstore chains.

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in hundreds of round spike patterns. A modern take on the beds of nails yogis used thousands of years ago to naturally stimulate the release of endorphins and oxytocin, the body’s own pain relief hormone, the mat consists of 8,820 spikes that stimulate your body’s acupressure points. Simply lying on the mat for 10 minutes yields the benefits of increased blood circulation, lower blood pressure, and nutrient delivery throughout the body. Some users have found that using the mat has helped to reduce the appearance of cellulite, increase energy levels, and reduce muscle tension, headaches, and back pain. halsamat.com, about $50

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With her blog, Shubert isn’t looking for sympathy — her goal is to share her experiences and feelings with anyone who might be going through the same thing. “One thing I’ve learned,” says Shubert, “is that no two children on the spectrum are alike. [And] it’s much easier to go through such a thing when you feel you are not alone.”

Sample entry: Scout’s big sis had her 14 yearold birthday slumber party last night. A parent came to the door this morning to pick up one of the girls. It was pretty early, and Scout was still in his boxer-briefs. That’s how he likes to sleep … he starts out in jammies but typically ends up taking them off at some point in the night. ...

I chatted with the dad at the front door while

the girl was getting her stuff together. All of a sudden Scout appears in all his skivvie-glory and announces, “Don’t mind me in my underwear, this is how I sleep!” and then goes back to what he was doing in the other room. Ahhh, unabashed youth.

Or shall I say, Asperger youth…??!

Check it out: findingborneo.wordpress.com

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digging into her forearm, Lily Winnail invented Padalily, a stylish car seat handle pad that uses Velcro to attach. Colors and patterns abound. Reversible, too. Our parent tester approved of this product wholeheartedly! padalily.com, about $26

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or money? Is your babysitter 15 minutes late? Well, that’s not an issue if you are heading to an opening at a local art gallery. This month’s choice is Gallery360, at the intersection of Xerxes and 50th Street in southwest Minneapolis. From 7 to 10 p.m. on certain Saturday nights, Gallery360 hosts an opening that is always packed with great people watching — and great art. Say hello to owner Merry Beck and her attentive employees as they pour you a complimentary glass of wine or beer, then head to the back to ponder the featured artists’ work. Linger over the many interesting items for sale, sample appetizers usually supplied by Birchwood Café, and take as little or as much time as you’d like. Visit gallery360mpls. com for information on upcoming shows.

lice busters RNs Lisa Rudquist (Savage) and Rachel Knutson (Prior Lake) have opened Ladibugs Incorporated, the first Minnesota head lice removal service certified to use the “LouseBuster” device, a FDAcleared medical device to treat head lice and louse eggs (nits).

The device, similar to a blow dryer with a diffuser-like tip, generates enough heat to kill the pests, all while operating on a lower temperature than a blow dryer. A natural and organic hair care product is applied afterward; then the scalp is combed to rid it of the pests. Ladibugs makes housecalls but also is opening its first salon this month. Visit ladibugsinc.com for more information.

Sundays at Landmark Presents:

Winter Concerts at Landmark Center Minnesota Boychoir’s Annual Winter Concert - Star of Wonder January 2, 2011 | 1:00pm & 3:30pm | FREE The Rose Ensemble in Concert:

Voices of Ancient Mediterranean Christians, Jews and Muslims January 23, 2011 | 4:00 pm | FREE

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calming tool: memoves MeMoves™ is a multimedia product that transforms the mind and body through interactive “body puzzles,” — a program that simultaneously engages a person’s auditory, visual, motor planning and sequencing, and limbic parts of the brain. Each sequence is a combination of music, movement, and images, utilizing simple, geometric shapes. Organized into three categories, users select one of the 13 sequences on the DVD and imitate the actions on the screen. It can be used as an early childhood program for those as young as three, although it appeals to a wide range of ages and abilities. It is helpful for individuals living with an Autism Spectrum Disorder, Asperger’s, Sensory Integration Disorder, ADD/ ADHD, anxiety, and/or depression. Regardless of age, using it for just a few minutes each day decreases stress, improves mood, and enhances one’s ability to focus.

Says founder Roberta Scherf, who created the first iteration of this program for her young daughter, “In a month’s time, she went from not being able to read single letters to reading words and then chapter books. She began to make eye contact and spoke more fluently and easily. Her life changed.”

In less than a year of operation, the product has reached over 100 school districts (including in the Twin Cities) in over 45 states. Visit thinkingmoves.com for testimonials and purchase information.

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Hennepin County 2011 Citizen Advisory Boards Vacancies available on: – Adult Mental Health Advisory Council – Community Action Partnership of Suburban Hennepin Board – County Extension Committee (Minnesota Extension Service) – Human Resources Board – Library Board – Three Rivers Park District – Workforce Investment Board Application deadline: Jan. 7, 2011 For more information and to apply online: www.hennepin.us/volunteering.

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While the environmental movement has been growing since the first Earth Day in 1970, our children are of the generation that has recycling as a weekly chore, and understands that “green” is more than just a pretty color.

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new resolutions kickstarting your financial goals by kara mcguire I admit it. I’m not much for New Year’s resolutions. If I see something I’d like to change in my life, I’m more apt to tackle it right away, no matter what month it is. But for many, money matters top their list of desired changes going into the New Year. Need some direction? Here are some worthy goals.

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Plan for next holiday. Too many families start the New Year off with a holiday debt hangover. You fill your cart with dazzling Black Friday deals, blowing your budget. Or maybe your gift list is so long you feel pressured to spend more than you can afford.

Now would also be a good time to talk to

friends and family about your need to cut back next year. With the holiday months away, it should be a far easier conversation. Just remember to stick to your guns when November rolls around.

Also, consider a “Christmas Club Savings Account.” Save a small amount each month and the bank will make the money available in time for holiday shopping, plus interest. Online piggy bank smartypig.com has a goal-setting feature that would also work for this purpose. Plus it pays around 1.75 percent interest, one of the highest rates for savings accounts in this low-rate age.

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Save more. If you’re like me, I have two large financial goals in my future: paying for college and affording retirement. While both goals are daunting, I employ the same savings strategy I

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parent pages suggested for buying gifts without credit — save small amounts over time. For retirement, look to your workplace retirement plan first. Make sure you’re saving enough of your own paycheck in your 401(k) or 403(b) to receive free matching money from your employer, if your company offers it.

Next, consider a Roth IRA, a retirement account you set up outside your workplace through a bank or investment company. The account, which begins to phase out for couples making more than $167,000, is attractive because you invest after-tax dollars, which grow and can be withdrawn in retirement without being taxed.

Plus it’s flexible for life’s curveballs, allowing you to use the money you contribute before retirement for any reason.

For college, first talk to your partner about your college contribution strategy. Do you want to foot the entire bill, or do you plan to contribute a small fixed amount per year and require your child to handle the rest? Then, check collegeboard.com or savingforcollege.com to research college prices and calculate how much you need

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to save. While an account such as a Roth or plain savings account can be used for college savings, 529 college savings plans, which work kind of like 401(k) plans, are a popular and affordable option.

Resolve to visit a few of these sites this month to get your finances in order:

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Take care of your family. Who wants to think about death? But it’s important to plan for the unthinkable so your family isn’t left grieving and broke. Research life insurance. Term insurance, which covers you for a set period of time, is much more affordable than you think, with a 10-year, $250,000 policy for a healthy 35-year-old costing less than a couple of pizzas per month. Research prices at a site such as insure.com and insurance options at lifehappens.org.

Finally, get your will in order. I’m guilty, too.

Our will predates our third child. You can fork over some cash to meet with a lawyer specializing in wills or check out a program such as Quicken WillMaker.

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Kara McGuire is the Star Tribune’s personal finance columnist. Visit her at karamcguire.com.

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about death what teens can learn from their pets by joy riggs July was a tough month for our family. The melancholy images still flit through my mind, six months later, like pictures in a digital photo frame.

First came the earnest backyard funerals for our 3-year-old pet rats, Harry and Scabbers, brothers who died a day apart. A few weeks later, we treated our elderly dog, Sparky, to his own bowl of macaroni and cheese before saying our goodbyes.

Nine-year-old Elias hugged the blind and nearly deaf dog, whispering, “See you in another life, brother.” Louisa, 14, disappeared into her bedroom to escape the sorrowful scene.

Sebastian, 12, put a consoling arm around his younger brother’s shoulders as my husband and I left for the vet clinic.

Even though we tried to prepare ourselves for the eventuality of Sparky’s death, asking the vet to euthanize our 16-year-old family pet was one of the most emotionally difficult decisions I’ve had to make. Fortunately, the kids were old enough to understand why we made that choice.

We were able to talk about it, and allow each other time to express our grief in ways that felt right.

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— Jeannine Moga Center, says parents should be truthful with their kids about what’s happening, and avoid using fancy medical words or trivializing the situation.

“For most kids, their first meaningful experience with death is when a pet dies,” Moga says. “It’s a really important opportunity for kids and parents to have an honest conversation about why death happens, what it looks like, how we let go of those we love, and how we remember those we love.”

Moga says kids should never have to make the decision to euthanize a pet — that’s a parent’s responsibility. But they should be encouraged to decide how they want to say goodbye to a pet, and how they want to remember that pet, whether it’s by creating a scrapbook, drawing a picture, or assembling a memory box.

Parents should alert teachers when a family pet is ill or has died, because it often causes students to lose concentration or sleep. They also should encourage their kids to continue to express their feelings after a pet has died, and to ask for help if they need it.

“It’s something we don’t do a good job of in this culture, but it’s extremely important for kids,”

Moga says.

With all the potential for stress and sadness, why do families take on the responsibilities of pet ownership? How does having a pet benefit kids, besides providing the chance to learn lessons about life and death?

Moga says most research on the psychological benefits of pet ownership involves younger children or adults, not kids in the 12 to 18 age range. But it’s clear from those studies that animals can be a tremendous source of social and emotional support within the family and can provide youth with a sense of security.

Although research shows that moms are the ones in the family who end up doing most of the pet care, kids do get the chance to take on responsibilities and learn care giving and nurturing behaviors. For teens, having a pet can be a way to connect with parents in a neutral, non-contentious way. “‘Let’s take Rocky for a walk.’

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that would be young enough to train and would be with us for many years.

Our family pet drama had a happy ending in October when we adopted a 1-year-old poodle/ daschund mix from a shelter.

The kids named him Waffles because he’s warm, sweet, and waffle-colored. When I asked Elias at the end of the first day what he thought of the new dog, he told me that Waffles “exceeded his expectations.”

Elias has high standards, so Waffles should feel special. We feel special, too. Once again, we have won the doggie lottery.

Resources The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement Children and Pet Loss aplb.org

Delta Society The Human-Animal Health Connection deltasociety.org

University of Minnesota Veterinary Medical Center Client Support Services

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goodbye, mother guilt the secret to keeping your new year’s fitness resolution is letting go by laurie kocanda

If you’re like most moms, it will take more than good intentions to stick to your fitness resolutions this year. Don’t sweat the holiday cookies you consumed; what’s really standing in your way is an overdose of something much more toxic: Mother Guilt.

You’re not alone if you feel torn between your duties as a mom and your own obligation to personal health. In an international survey of over 200 fit moms, 77 percent admitted to having felt a sense of guilt when choosing to work out over another task. More often than any other reason, these moms cite family time as the most guilt-inducing alternative.

Overcoming Mother Guilt — maybe just locking her in the closet for an hour at a time — is essential if you want to carve out time to get fit. First you need to free up a little mental space so you are strong enough to make the appropriate compromises.

lose the preconceptions & misconceptions Start by identifying your preconceptions of motherhood; you’ll probably realize what you thought were parenting no-nos might actually have a place in your life. For example, maybe it’s not so bad to let your kids watch television if it means you can jump on the treadmill or tune into FitTV for an hour. Junk food might be okay if it gets your kids into the jogging stroller. Perhaps you can miss a soccer practice to go for a quick power walk or run. The point is to challenge what you’ve accepted as parenting truths and get realistic about what life is really like.

take inventory Take some time to write down what’s important to you, what values you want to impart on your children (hopefully health and fitness are near the top of the list). Then, take inventory of one or two typical days and see where you are actually spending your time. Like it or not, top entries for your day translate into your top priorities.

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You’re not alone if you feel torn between your duties as a mom and your own obligation to personal health.

Work to make health and fitness an actual, not just perceived, priority. Then, remember who is watching because, as always, we lead by example.

protect your priorities Once you’ve established what your actual priorities are, it’s easier to fight to protect them. Allocating the right amount of time to each of your priorities leads to a certain type of contentment; the alternatives are resentment and (you guessed it) guilt. Saying “no” to something that isn’t a priority starts to feel good when you use the time freed to attend to something that is. You’ve likely finetuned your ability to say “no” to walking the aisles of Target with your kids. It’s time to put those skills to good use and clear a little clutter from your life.

remember, it’s a balancing act Learning to say “no” is important because sometimes we have to say it to something that is a priority — including fitness. When life throws you a curve ball, make a decision on how you will react. If fitness doesn’t fit in during a particularly hard week, let it go. In making that decision, you stay in control — there is no resentment, no anger, no feeling as if you are the victim. Keep those priorities in check and realize it’s okay to experience temporary imbalances. Sooner or later, you’ll find equilibrium again and your fitness will return.

This can be the year you successfully adopt a fit lifestyle. If you’ve had a hard time maintaining a regular fitness routine in the past, try focusing some attention on the mental components first.

Physical fitness requires mental training; knock Mother Guilt out of the picture and the possibilities are endless.

Laurie Lethert Kocanda is co-author of the forthcoming book Hot (Sweaty) Mamas: Five Secrets to Life as a Fit Mom (Andrews McMeel 2011). She lives and blogs seemomsweat.blogspot.com in Minneapolis with her husband and two young daughters.

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ancy Spadgenske knew she had a bright kid. At the tender age of five, her son, Noah, was grasping upper-elementary math concepts and reading at a fifth grade level — and he hadn’t even started kindergarten yet. So, when it came time to consider options for his education, she worried that the pace of a traditional classroom in her Cold Spring, MN town might be too slow to challenge him.

Spadgenske instead chose a route that more parents are embracing: online education.

Virtually non-existent even 15 years ago, online elementary, middle, and high schools have cropped up all over the country in the last decade and established themselves as a legitimate alternative to traditional brick-and-mortar schools. In 2008 The New York Times estimated that about half a million American children took classes online. This year, Florida Virtual School, the

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nation’s largest public internet school, boasted an enrollment of more than 97,000 students.

In Minnesota, online schools have emerged in both the public and private school systems and have seen immediate and marked climbs in enrollment. Online schools like iQ Academy, Minnesota Virtual Academy (MNVA), and BlueSky Online School offer Minnesota students like Noah an alternative to traditional education.

Many of these schools are associated with public school districts, and must comply with the same laws and offer the same accreditation options. But besides their traditional administrative buildings, these schools do it all in the virtual world.

For Noah, who enrolled at MNVA in its early years of operation, online school was a successful choice. He was able to work at his own pace and with tailored curriculum, and thrived academically as a result. His mother was so satisfied with the experience that she has since put two more kids into the MNVA system; all three are still enrolled as online students. “We love the way we can make it work for each of our individual children,” says Spadgenske. “We mnparent.com

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love the flexibility that gives us as a family.” The Spadgenskes’ success speaks to the enticements of online education. While no two online schools are the same, most share the common strengths that Spadgenske identified; strengths that appeal to many students for whom traditional school simply doesn’t work: the chance to tailor curriculum to the students’ needs, and the opportunity to make school a lot more convenient.

specialization Online high schools are swiftly becoming a viable solution for children who work too fast, or too slow, for a traditional classroom setting. The online structure places children on a lesson trajectory but allows them to move at their own pace, and often offers multiple ways of learning a lesson to maximize comprehension.

“The biggest benefit is getting to work with kids at their specific ability level,” says Justin Treptow, vice-principal at MNVA. “We can tailor the curriculum to find ways to challenge them. They can get a lot of one-on-one instruction.”

The ability to tailor education is built into the way most online schooling works. Students are usually assigned a “home-room” with a specific teacher who uses that forum (at MNVA, they use “Elluminate”) to conduct lessons and post announcements, assignments, exams, and grades. The school day is spent tuning in to recorded lessons and working through material; so unlike tradi-

Unlike traditional classrooms, where teachers have to stick with a pace that often leaves some kids behind and others bored, online schooling gives students more control over the speed of their learning. tional classrooms, where teachers have to stick with a pace that often leaves some kids behind and others bored, online schooling gives students more control over the speed of their learning.

And while students are not exactly “face-to-face” with a teacher, they have multiple ways to seek one-on-one help on lessons they don’t understand, thanks to chatrooms, email, and video-calling to name a few. Online teachers are available throughout the day.

Spadgenske said that MNVA caters to the fact that each of her three children learn differently and have unique strengths.

“We can mold the lessons and methods so that it works for each of them,” Spadgenske says. “I love that part of the school.”

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says, has pushed her kids through the material both more quickly and more thoroughly than they experienced in traditional school.

“Being able to work at one’s pace means moving ahead on concepts understood and simply results in more advanced learning,” Giesen says. “Six hours is six hours of study. No waiting for teachers, moving from class to class, building to building.”

Online schools face the same requirements as traditional classrooms; students are expected to achieve at least a year’s academic growth in a year’s time. But MNVA Principal Angela Specketer, who has taught in both a traditional and an online setting, said that the structure of online education allows students to achieve that growth in a more individualized way.

“You can truly meet kids where they are academically,” Specketer says. “That is much harder to do in a classroom.”

convenience For kids with time constraints — like vigorous athletic schedules or illnesses that require them to be in and out of the hospital — the flexibility of online schooling can be a grade-saver. Some schools also allow students to combine online classes with on-site education at another school to get the credits they need.

For the most part, students are free to put in their daily hours when it best works for them; pre-recorded lessons and curriculum allows for that flexibility. Online students can “go to class”

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“A day in the life of an online schooler starts whenever it works best for them,” says Giesen. “They do their classes in whatever order they want. They spend as much time as they need. MNVA is a lifestyle.”

For Giesen’s kids, online school has opened up otherwise unfeasible opportunities. Her daughter Addie, a figure-skater, can practice during the day; her son can snowboard. Both children have taken on small daytime jobs, like letting the neighbors’ dogs out for a lunchtime break.

And contrary to the commonly held belief that online students’ social skills suffer, Giesen says her kids actually have more time to take part in social activities.

Spadgenske agrees. “Being enrolled in MNVA allows my kids the flexibility of doing more social activities that they enjoy,” like weekly volunteering, sports, and theater, she says.

MNVA, like many online schools, makes a concerted effort to connect its students with others in the community, says Treptow.

The school constructs its “home-rooms” based on geography and offers events for kids in those areas; there are grade-specific events, class-specific gatherings, and less frequent schoolwide gettogethers. And like any school MNVA also offers clubs and societies. Students who want to participate in sports can do so through local brick-and-mortars.

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All in all, Giesen says, it can add up to multiple event offerings in one week. “We have to choose what we will do and what we won’t.”

uniting factors Whatever aspect of online education speaks to them most, Treptow says, most families who make the choice to switch to online schools have one thing in common: for some reason, the “traditional” route wasn’t working. “Students come here looking for a different setting.

We try to help them to find that niche.”

For Giesen’s kids, online schooling was the best answer to a serious problem: bullying.

“Plainly put,” she says, “my kids were teased brutally and the public school system did nothing about it. The teachers loved my kids. But the [other] kids walked all over them.”

Both Addie and Jacob struggled to fit into the local public school system and suffered at the hands of their peers; Addie, who had always “loved school,” eventually stopped wanting to go. At that point, Giesen says, she knew “traditional” school was no longer an option, and withdrew her kids to home-school them herself.

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same as their “traditional” public-school peers. They study similar curriculum, take the same standardized tests, and earn the same high school diploma. But since they started doing it all online, they’ve had a much better experience than when they left the house for school every day. “I feel this is the future of education,” Giesen says.

challenges Although virtual schools can end up looking like an easy fix, they still face a number of challenges in continuing to increase their enrollment. To start, there’s a basic barrier that prevents many kids from signing up for online schools: the need for parental guidance.

Although online education is a far cry from home-schooling, it often calls for involvement from a designated ‘mentor’ (usually a parent/guardian) especially in the early grades.

At MNVA that ‘mentor’ is known as a ‘learning coach,’ and it’s a requirement in the earlier grades. Many elementary school lessons call for parents to engage kids in non-computer activities or help them assemble materials like crayons, markers, and scissors.

“In K-8, our students rely on having an adult at home,” says Specketer. “Our teaching model falls apart if we don’t have that.”

And while direct parent supervision is not explicitly necessary in the high school grades, the online system requires students to be very self-motivated — something that is not always a given in the teenage years.

There’s also the simple fact not all online schools are created equal.

Ron Packard, founder of nationwide education company K¹² Inc., told radio host Bill Bennet that the online school system is fraught with challenges, and some systems simply aren’t up to the task.

“Not all online learning works,” Packard said. “We’ve learned over the last decade that it is very difficult to deliver high-quality online learning.”

Packard says he’s seen a tendency among online curriculum writers to sacrifice rigor and soften the content. But, he says, the most successful online schools offer rigorous and in-depth material, well-written texts and — very importantly — websites that are extremely engaging.

“A lot of people put a textbook on the web and think it’s a course,” Packard says. “Online learning shouldn’t be as good as sitting in a course — it should almost be better.”

There’s particular qualities of a great online classroom that administrators have picked up on over the last few years, Packard says, like providing content that flips through pages rather than scrolling, because students’ comprehension of the material below the scroll-line decreases dramatically. The best online schools factor in those dynamics.

Online teachers face the challenge of picking up on those details with only about a decade’s worth of research to pull from. To compound the problem, being an online teacher can seem like an

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entirely different job from heading a classroom, says Specketer. The cues teachers become attuned to in a classroom, like those that indicate a student’s level of understanding and engagement, are different than the signals students give out in a virtual environment.

“It’s kind of like removing a sense,” Specketer says. “You have to learn to use different cues besides the visual ones. You have to be ready to ask more questions, and different questions.”

controversy Despite the challenges, online schooling advocates are waving success rates in the face of critics. Indeed, the industry has ways to address many of the same-old criticisms of distance education: that it’s ineffective, uninspiring, and leaves students lacking crucial social skills.

K¹² states that children enrolled in its curriculum from grades K–4 score an average of 20 points higher than their traditionallyschooled peers on state language arts tests, and 18 points higher on math tests across six states. A recent study by Indiana University found that online college learners reported deeper learning than their classroom-schooled counterparts. And a study put on by Interactive Education Systems Design recently concluded that in regard to socialization skills, “students enrolled in full-time, online public schools are either superior to or not significantly different than students enrolled in traditional public schools.”

The cues teachers become attuned to in a classroom, like those that indicate a student’s level of understanding and engagement, are different than the signals students give out in a virtual environment.

But now that online schools are becoming more widely accepted and even popular, critics have a new angle: money. Some say that online public schools are diverting money and resources out of students’ home school districts. The New York Times reported in 2008 that, “opposition has arisen because many online charters contract with for-profit companies to provide their courses” (like K¹², which services schools in 17 states, including MNVA).

Some states are debating the financing of virtual charter schools after controversies like one in Pennsylvania, where the state auditor discovered that several online charters had received reimbursements from students’ home districts that surpassed actual education costs by more than $1 million.

Minnesota saw its own share of online education controversy this year after it was revealed that BlueSky, Minnesota’s “first online high school,” was graduating some students before they met state requirements. The Department of Education conducted two

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continuing growth Regardless of such examples, the success of countless online programs around the country indicates that they are here to stay.

Enrollment in online programs is growing nationwide, especially among rural Americans, and may continue to do so as technology advances. Every year new tools — like Skype, Twitter, YouTube, Wiki, and GoogleDocs — make it easier to access and engage with information over the Internet.

The numbers for online college are skyrocketing too. The annual Sloan Survey of Online Learning, which examines online postsecondary education rates, found in 2009 that “online enrollments have been growing substantially faster than overall higher education enrollments.” It reported that more than 4.6 million (1 in 4) college students took at least one online course in 2008/2009. And Eduventures, a higher education research firm, projected that online-only course enrollments will have jumped from .78 million per year at the beginning of the century to a possible 3.97 million by 2014.

Experts say that despite such success rates, internet schooling will probably never replace traditional teaching. Eric Berg, Vice President for Enrollment Management at The College of St. Scho-

lastica wrote in an article about online education that parents are too invested in the value of an “on-campus experience.” And in any case, online education is competing against a teaching style that’s been around for literally thousands of years.

But maybe, as Berg’s article hinted, it’s not about competition.

Maybe it’s about cooperation — combining the best aspects of traditional classrooms with the benefits of a virtual learning environment. Many colleges and universities merge online teaching tools with the classroom experience, suggesting that the “distance” between distance education and traditional classrooms is not really so great.

“The interplay between in-person and online learning will certainly be an interesting trend to watch in the coming years,” Berg says.

But even if online and traditional schools don’t end up friends, Treptow says that the important thing is that online schools are another way to ensure that students’ needs are being met.

“This is my third year in virtual education, and I’ve been seeing kids do well academically since day one,” Treptow says. “That’s what being an educator is about.”

Matea Wasend is an intern at Minnesota Parent.

She is a junior at Macalester College in St. Paul, where she is majoring in English and minoring in Media Studies.

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Andersen United Anishinabe Academy Anthony Middle Anwatin Middle Armatage Montessori Bancroft Barton Open Bethune Community Broadway Alternative Bryn Mawr Community Burroughs Community Cityview Dowling Urban Environmental Early Childhood Special Education Edison High Emerson Dual Spanish Immersion FAIR FAIR Downtown Field Community Floyd B. Olson Middle Green Central Park Community Hale Community Hall International Harrison Education Center Henry High Hiawatha Community High School SPAN Hmong International Academy Hospital Agencies IDDS (Inter District Downtown School) Jefferson Community Jenny Lind Elementary Kenny Community Kenwood Community Lake Harriet Community Lower Lake Harriet Community Upper L ake Nokomis Community Keewaydin

Campus L ake Nokomis Community Wenonah Campus Loring Community Lucy Craft Laney at Cleveland Park Lyndale Elementary Marcy Open Metropolitan Learning Alliance Middle School SPAN MPS Metro SJ Nellie Stone Johnson Community North High Northeast Middle Northrop Community Pillsbury Community Pratt Community Ramsey International Fine Arts River Bend Educational Center Roosevelt High Sanford Middle Seward Montessori Sheridan International Fine Arts South High Southwest High Stadium View Success Academy Sullivan Community Transition Plus Waite Park Community Washburn High Wellstone International High School Whittier International Windom Dual Spanish Immersion District Headquarters: 807 NE Broadway St Minneapolis Student Placement: 2410 Girard Ave N Minneapolis 612-668-0000 mpls.k12.mn.us

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Minnetonka Public Schools is among the state’s highest performing public school districts, recognized nationally for use of technology as an accelerator of learning in every classroom. Minnetonka kindergarten options include full-day, half day, traditional K, Spanish Immersion or Chinese Immersion.

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ric Van Wyk loves puppets. Lucky for him, they’re part of his job.

Van Wyk creates puppet and scenic designs for Children’s Theatre Company (CTC) in Minneapolis, where he designs animal characters (as well as backdrops and props) for plays like Cinderella and The Biggest Little House in the Forest. He also works for Open Eye Figure Theatre and creates his own shows, among them a shadow play called O the Sky! That means he devotes his days to brainstorming, drawing, and constructing prototypes for sets, as well as puppet characters like Ritchie the rabbit (a floppy-eared bunny who loves to run) or Bartholomew Bear (a kind hearted, too-big bear who just wants to be loved). Then he advises the builders and the puppeteers on how to best bring them to life.

And as if that wasn’t a unique enough way to spend his workday, Van Wyk does it all while being a stay-athome dad. Since his wife is in her pediatric residency at the University of Minnesota, he spends most weekdays with their son Willem — playing, going for walks, and taking care of household chores.

He draws and brainstorms while Willem is sleeping or playing, and sometimes takes him in to CTC, where — not surprisingly, “people seem to really enjoy having kids around.”

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nonstop creativity It’s a setup that might not work for many parents, but Van Wyk’s job and fatherhood intersect in an exceptional way. “Puppet design is all about putting oneself in the mindset of a child,” he says, “and asking questions like, ‘How does this character move?

How does it come to life? How does it do something unexpected?’”

In other words, he says, it’s about maintaining the “sense of play” that is so rich in childhood and often forgotten by adults.

He aims to do that in his work by drawing ideas from anywhere and everywhere, by being constantly on the alert for materials for bringing characters to life. The body for Rudy the rooster, a character in The Biggest Little House in the Forest, was inspired by a bath sponge. “I was in the shower and I just picked it up and thought, ‘This would be a great body for Rudy,’” Van Wyk says.

And he tries to bring a sense of over-emphasized movement and life to the characters he’s creating with the materials that he uses — like the rabbit, who has wheels instead of feet to showcase his speed.

“The sense of play comes in how the materials are used,” Van Wyk says. “The best puppets have unique qualities that make them larger than life.”

For instance, Rudy the rooster is a combination of about 15 different materials.

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character: a dense, hard beak that allows him to tap loudly on the ground; floppy, leathery feet that give him a “hoppy quality”; a long, expandable neck that accentuates his love of crowing. And Rudy is also hardy enough to withstand the extensive wear of countless shows.

“When the characters go beyond what is expected, that’s when the imagination starts to grow,” he says.

sense of play Van Wyk says that it is his own “sense of play” that makes him so adept at this kind of work. For that, he credits his parents and education. “My father is a potter,” he explains. “I grew up with a lot of tactile ways to be imaginative.” His mother, a teacher, would give her children edible dough, and they’d make characters to bake and consume. The family frequently went to plays and read stories. Later, Van Wyk attended Dordt College in Iowa where he learned to be a “professional imaginator,” as he puts it — in other words, to put his creativity and love of play to work.

In college Van Wyk engaged in a variety of mediums, but realized his passion was in theatre. He went on to obtain a MFA in scenic design at the University of MarylandCollege Park. Through his theatre work he was introduced to puppetry and began to design them for his own and others’ projects, eventually landing a stint at the CTC when he and his wife moved to Minneapolis.

“I’ve always been drawn to how the theatre can be a catalyst for change and imagination,” Van Wyk says. “It can really bring a community of people together.”

Puppetry in particular, Van Wyk says, has a special power to awaken the imagination. Unexpected movement and dynamicity from inanimate objects can allow even adults to relax that “filter that we all cultivate” and believe that the characters are real … if only for a moment.

“There’s this look in their eye that lights up,” Van Wyk says. “It happens in adults too. It’s wonder at seeing something come to life.”

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son. He and his wife are conscious to nurture Willem’s imagination, even at seven months — allowing him to “pound on the piano,” reading to him (“even if reading is just chewing the book”), and allowing play that is out of the ordinary.

Van Wyk says the toy that Willem opts for over any other is a feather duster.

“Kids don’t bring preconceptions — a feather duster can be anything,” says Van Wyk. “It can be a magic wand.”

As he encourages his son’s growing imagination, Van Wyk never forgets to refresh his own. He dreams of one day putting together a puppet production of his favorite book, The Hobbit, which he reads “about four times a year.”

balancing act Maybe there’ll be time for that when Willem gets older. Right now, Van Wyk readily admits, juggling work, his own art projects, and his stay-at-home dad responsibilities can sometimes be a challenge.

“I used to work on my own schedule,” Van Wyk says. “Frankly, the balancing act has been difficult sometimes. One of the frustrating parts is when I’m working and I’m getting in the groove, and [then] Willem wakes up crying. Some days he decides, ‘I’m going to have a half-hour nap instead

of a two-hour nap.’ But you just have to let it go and look at the big picture.”

Yet Van Wyk certainly seems to be finding some time. He doesn’t build the puppets for the CTC productions but does construct his own (“I’ve got about 20 or 30 characters at home who’ve never been in a show,” he says.) He seizes his chances to draw Willem (“to catch his expressions and movements”), to assemble characters from driftwood (a recent fixation which keeps him “playful”), to spend time with his wife, and to stay on top of parenting duties like washing cloth diapers and freezing breast milk.

All while designing the set for CTC’s upcoming production, Babe, The Sheep-Pig, a task which involves large-scale imagination and perception of space (and, on the practical side, drawing out ideas on paper and in a model and collaborative meetings with the director and fellow designers).

When he hits a creative wall, he sometimes does the dishes or sweeps the house. He also finds encouragement in the community of his family, friends, and fellow artists. He goes to the museum or flips through books of others’ work, losing his own self-absorption in awe of their astounding creativity. And then he gets back to his own.

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by Sneed B. Collard III $16.95, ages 6–10

This bittersweet testament to the bond between humans and dogs is particularly remarkable because it actually happened. Shep was a real sheepdog born into the Montana countryside in the late 1920s, where he rounded up sheep until his owner passed away. The dog watched as the man’s body was shipped away on a train, and then waited faithfully for train after train for his master’s return … for the next five years. Few readers of any age will be able to resist this simply told, quietly illustrated tale — and none should want to.

Panda Kindergarten

by Joanne Ryder $17.99, ages 4–8

Who can resist pictures of adorable baby panda bears? This book is chock-full of “aww” moments as it follows 16 young panda cubs through their lives at the Wolong Nature Preserve.

Readers accompany the cubs on their kindergarten adventures — swinging, climbing, playing … and napping. Animal lovers of any age will be captivated by this winning combination of simple information and delightful photographs. .

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Harry & Hopper

by Margaret Wild $16.99, ages 2–5

Keep some tissues handy for a reading of this poignant story about losing a beloved pet.

Harry does everything with his dog, Hopper — until one day he comes home from school to find that Hopper has passed away. Yet Harry continues to see his best friend around, jumpy and mischievous as always, until he’s truly ready to say goodbye. Tender illustrations add delicacy to this brave life lesson about love and letting go.

A Pet for Petunia

I’m Big!

by Paul Schmid $12.99, ages 3–7

by Kate & Jim McMullan

Meet precocious little Petunia, who wants, wants, wants, more than anything in the world, a real pet skunk. And nothing will stop her from getting one … except, perhaps, an awful, horrible, humungous stink. Petunia’s quest for the perfect pet echoes the pleas of animal-loving children everywhere and it’s strewn with adorable illustrations and laugh-out-loud moments to boot.

The star of this picture book is a young dino who one day wakes up to find all of his pals gone. He may be a “whole lotta lizard” but this guy still has to dodge predators on the search for the herd. Eventually he finds that the only way to succeed is to think BIG — a great message for children (and parents). This story of finding your inner courage is illustrated in watercolor and reads with a rhythmic romp.

$16.99, ages 4–8

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january top events you don’t want to miss these family-friendly events Golden Eagle Seminar & Field Trip

Sesame Street Live

For anyone interested in seeing and learning about golden eagles that winter in the Wabasha area, you shouldn’t miss this terrific opportunity to receive information on golden eagle identification and biology. Plenty of family events and opportunities to meet resident raptors.

Calling all superheroes! When Super Grover loses his superness, Sesame Street needs a hero! Never fear, Elmo and his team of Healthy Heroes are here.

Teaching lessons of healthy habits through song and dance, Elmo, Abby Cadabby, and your child’s favorite Sesame Street friends will explore exercise, nutrition, sleep/energy, and hygiene — all in a M/© 2010 Sesame Workshop. All Rights Reserved. Photograph courtesy of VEE Corp. quest to put the “super” back in Super Grover. It’s Elmo’s Healthy Heroes to the rescue!

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W hen: Saturday, January 8, 1 p.m.

W here: National Eagle Center, 50 Pembroke Avenue, Wabasha.

Carpooling opportunities will be available during the field trip portion T ickets: Regular admission rates to the non-profit National Eagle Center: Adults, $8; Seniors (62+) $6; Students (4–17) $5; Children 3 and under, veterans and active military are FREE. NEC members: Free I nfo: nationaleaglecenter.org or 651-565-4989, ext. 101; email scott@ nationaleaglecenter.org

2011 Brrrmidji Polar Daze January 15 through 23

The more snow the better as people play in the snow and socialize through the community. You can start your weekend with the 5K Polar Challenge Run/Walk, jump in the lake, enter your homemade sled in the sled derby and star gaze on the ice. You can continue your week by enjoying the Taste of Northern Minnesota — sampling the finest food from over 25 local exhibitors, cross country ski in the Lighted Trail Night Race and finish the week with the Vintage Ice Ovals.

W hen: Begins January 15, closing January 23.

W here: The waterfront and throughout the city of Bemidji, MN. T ickets: Fees and admission vary per event. See website for additional information.

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January 19 through 23

When: Opens January 19, closing January 23, with varying times.

Where: Target Center, 600 1st Avenue N., Minneapolis.

T ickets: $10, $18 and $28. A limited number of $38 Gold Circle seats and $75 Sunny Seats (front row and pre-show package) are also available. Additional fees and discounts may apply. Opening Night, all seats (excluding Gold Circle and Sunny Seats) are $10. See website for additional information.

Info: ticketmaster.com, sesamestreetlive.com or 612-673-0900

John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon January 28 through February 3

Events stretch across a week, with the official start of the race on January 30. But, prior to the start of the race, myriad events, many of them free, occur. Among them: the awww-inducing Cutest Puppy Contest, held at Fitgers Complex on the 29th. Forty canine contestants (all breeds and mutts) between the ages of 16 and 36 weeks will be scattered throughout the Fitgers Complex, showing their adorable selves for two hours, with judging beginning at noon.

On the day of the race, stroll the grounds, meet mushers, and say hello to the many sled dogs waiting their turn to run.

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YMCA SuMMer ProgrAMS Join us for YMCA Summer Programs Fair Saturday, March 5, 9 a.m. – 12 p.m.

Summer rally Days March 4 – 6 get special deals at ymcatwincities.org

SuMMer PoWer – grades K - 6 SuMMer SPortS – grades 1 - 6 Summer Power is your answer to quality care and exciting adventures. We offer flexible 3-, 4-, and 5-day options. Kids enjoy their day in small age appropriate groups and participate in activities such as crafts, group games, sports and weekly field trips. Water parks, zoos, museums, regional and local parks are just of few of the field trip adventures. Over 60 sites throughout the Twin Cities area.

Youth will have the opportunity to learn new skills, practice and play new sports. Y Summer Sports is a safe, fun, non-competitive sports program designed to build teamwork, leadership skills and self-esteem. Kids find out what success is all about in an approach that says, “everybody plays, everybody wins!”

For tHe LoCAtioN NeAreSt You, CALL:

Hastings Area YMCA, Hastings, 651-480-8887 Northwest YMCA, New Hope, 763-535-4800 South Family YMCA, West St. Paul, 651-457-0048 Southdale YMCA, Edina, 952-835-2567 Also Eden Prairie locations.

Southwest Area YMCA, Eagan, 651-456-9622 St. Croix Valley YMCA, Hudson, WI, 715-386-1616 or 651-436-2883 White Bear Area YMCA, White Bear Lake, 651-777-8103

Uproar provides an exciting combination of spirited adventure and growth. Participants get their first taste of leadership as they help to plan their summer activities.

For tHe LoCAtioN NeAreSt You, CALL: Andover YMCA, Andover, 763-230-9622 Chain of Lakes YMCA, Lino Lakes, 651-795-9622 Downtown YMCA, Minneapolis, 612-371-8740 Elk River YMCA, Elk River, 763-230-2800 Emma B. Howe YMCA, Coon Rapids, 763-785-7882 Hastings Area YMCA, Hastings, 651-480-8887 Minnesota Valley YMCA, Burnsville, 952-898-9622 Northwest YMCA, New Hope, 763-535-4800 Northwest Family YMCA, Shoreview, 651-483-2671 Ridgedale YMCA, Minnetonka, 952-544-7708 River Valley YMCA, Prior Lake, 952-230-9622 Also Shakopee locations.

Southdale YMCA, Edina, 952-835-2567 Also Eden Prairie locations.

Southeast Area YMCA, Woodbury, 651-731-9507 Southwest Area YMCA, Eagan, 651-456-9622 St. Croix Valley YMCA, Hudson, WI, 715-386-1616 or 651-436-2883 White Bear Area YMCA, White Bear Lake, 651-777-8103

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Andover YMCA, Andover, 763-230-9622 Blaisdell YMCA, South Minneapolis, 612-827-5401 Chain of Lakes YMCA, Lino Lakes, 651-795-9622 Downtown YMCA, Minneapolis, 612-371-8740 East YMCA, St. Paul, 651-771-8881 Elk River YMCA, Elk River, 763-230-2800 Emma B. Howe YMCA, Coon Rapids, 763-785-7882 Hastings Area YMCA, Hastings, 651-480-8887 Midway YMCA, St. Paul, 651-646-4557 Minnesota Valley YMCA, Burnsville, 952-898-9622 Northwest YMCA, New Hope, 763-535-4800 Northwest Family YMCA, Shoreview, 651-483-2671 Ridgedale YMCA, Minnetonka, 952-544-7708.

River Falls YMCA, River Falls, WI, 715-425-9778 River Valley YMCA, Prior Lake, 952-230-9622 Also Shakopee locations.

South Family YMCA, West St. Paul, 651-457-0048 Southdale YMCA, Edina, 952-835-2567 Also Eden Prairie locations.

Southwest Area YMCA, Eagan, 651-456-9622 St. Croix Valley YMCA, Hudson, WI, 715-386-1616 or 651-436-2883 White Bear Area YMCA, White Bear Lake, 651-777-8103

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SuMMer uProAr – Preteens and teens grades 6 - 8

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Camp St. Croix—612-822-2267. Ages 7-17.

Family Camp offers the uninterrupted time and the perfect place for you and your family to reconnect and leave the hectic pace of life behind.

Camp du Nord—612-822-2267. Located on the

Located on Lake St. Croix, two miles south of Hudson, WI. Campers participate in a wide variety of traditional camp activities or select a specialty camp such as horseback riding, rock climbing, sailing and canoeing.

Three-day, one-week or two-week sessions.

edge of the BWCA on Burntside Lake, Camp du Nord offers a totally unique week-long camping experience for families. Cozy woodland cabins with kitchens range from rustic to upscale. Tent camping sites, full/partial food service also available. Hiking, canoeing, kayaking, sailing, swimming, nature and arts programs are offered as family activities and for children’s age groups. Relax at days end with an authentic Finnish sauna.

Camp icaghowan—612-822-2267. Ages 7-16.

Located on Lake Wapogasset near Amery, WI. Icaghowan offers traditional camp and a variety of unique specialty camps focused on activities such as horseback riding, rock climbing, river canoeing, fishing, technical tree climbing and skateboard camp. Threeday, one-week or two-week sessions.

Camp ihduhapi—612-822-2267. Ages 7-16.

YMCA DAY CAMPS: Ages 4 - 14

Located on Lake Independence just 22 miles west of Minneapolis, MN, Ihduhapi offers youth a traditional experience or sailing and horseback riding specialty camps. Three-day, one-week or two-week sessions.

Leadership development programs for grades 8-11.

YMCA Day Camp provides a week full of exciting camp activities like canoeing, archery, fishing, camp crafts, cookouts, swimming and more! Day camps facilitate a great introduction to camping in a safe environment. Kids are home each night. Bus transportation is available at most locations. Financial assistance is available for all Y programs.

Camp Warren—612-822-2267. Ages 7-16.

Camp Warren, located in the north woods on Half Moon Lake near Eveleth, MN, offers girls-only sessions the first part of the summer and boys-only sessions later in the summer. Camp Warren has a strong tradition of progressive activities including sailing, archery, tennis, photography and horseback riding.

YMCA Camp St. Croix – DayCroix 532 County Rd. F, Hudson, WI, 612-465-0560. Traditional day camp is located on 400 acre site overlooking Lake St. Croix.

Camp Menogyn—612-822-2267. Ages 12-18.

Camp Menogyn is located on the Gunflint Trail 30 miles north of Grand Marais, MN. There are no roads leading to Menogyn, so all campers cross West Bearskin Lake by boat to arrive at this beautiful, intimate wilderness setting. Our focus is on the small group, compassionate guided wilderness canoeing, backpacking and rock climbing trips that are safe, fun and enriching.

Camp Heritage

7732 Main Street, Lino Lakes, MN; Traditional day camp held across from Wargo Nature Center in Lino Lakes.

Camp Kumalya

1515 Keats Ave.N., Lake Elmo, MN, 651-731-9507.

Traditional day camp held at Lake Elmo Park Reserve in Lake Elmo.

Camp Widjiwagan—612-822-2267. Ages 12-18.

Camp Sacajawea

Located on Burntside Lake near Ely, MN, Widji offers high-quality canoe and backpacking adventures in the BWCA and throughout North America. Widji wilderness trips are focused on respect and values that build skills for life, and a relationship with the environment that is unparalleled.

5121 McAndrews Road, Eagan, MN 55123 Dakota County Lebanon Hills, 651-456-9622.

Traditional day camp held at Dakota County Lebanon Hills, Camp Sacajawea.

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Develop a greater passion for the things you love, or try out something new at one of our YMCA specialty camps! Campers spend approximately 2 hours each day in their specialized activity. The remainder of the day is spent enjoying traditional camp activities.

Camp Christmas tree—6365 Game Farm Rd., Minnetrista, MN 55364, 952-544-7708. Traditional day camp is located on 45 acres at Dutch Lake near Mound, MN. Camp guy robinson—3100 217th Ave NW, Oak Grove, MN, 763-785-7882. Traditional day camp is located at Lake George Regional Park.

YMCA Day Camp ihduhapi—3425 Ihduhapi Rd., Loretto, MN 55357, 763-479-1146. Located on Lake Independence. Day Camp Ihduhapi offers the beautiful, north woods feel of camp.

Camp Kici Yapi—13220 Pike Lake Trail NE, Prior Lake, MN 55372, 952-835-2567. Traditional day camp is located on 80 acre site in Prior Lake.

Camp Streefland—11490 Klamath Trail, Lakeville, MN 55044, 952-898-9622. Traditional day camp is located on Lake Kingsley in Lakeville.

Camp Manitou—9910 Briarwood Ave NE, Monticello, MN 55362, 763-535-4800. Traditional day camp is located on 1200 acre site on Lake Bertram and Long Lake in Monticello, MN.

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Camp Invention

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Unleash the creative genius in your child! 5 exciting hands-on classes daily: take apart appliances, make new inventions, experiment with chemistry and polymers, decipher secret codes, discover nature” inventors. Presented by teachers at local schools for children entering 1–6.

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Arts

Summer’s here! Or, at least it will be when you attend Minnesota Parent’s 5th annual Camp Fair. Get a jumpstart on planning for day or overnight summer camps, be it music, art, technology, sports, and everything in between. Summer memories start here at the Como Park Zoo this February 26 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

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City Pages Winner: Best of the Twin Cities! Year-round traditional drawing and painting classes and camps for students ages 5 to 18. Exceptional student/teacher ratio. Homeschool Program. A Renaissance Program for adults also offered. See samples of student artwork; visit our website.

Call for a brochure.

Classes held at: Holy Spirit Elementary 515 S Albert St St. Paul 651-699-1573 theartacademy.net

KidCreate Studio

Kidcreate Studio offers art camps for young artists age 3–12. Our camps are designed to inspire and educate your child in an environment where giggles and grins are encouraged. At Kidcreate, making a mess is the best!

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Loft Literary Center, The Young Writers’ Program

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Children’s Yamaha Music School

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Sing Minnesota

Sing Minnesota is a week-long day camp for girls and boys, ages 8–12 (completed grades 2–6) sponsored by the Minnesota Boychoir. While focusing on choral singing, campers also participate in other creative arts — drama and movement, visual arts, as well as outdoor fun and games! $280, scholarships are available. August 8–12. 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.

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c amp resource guide ••• (advertiser listings) StageCoach Theatre Arts Summer Camps

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Stages Theatre Company Summer Theatre Workshops 2011

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Language Bilingual Child Care & Education Center

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Bell Museum of Natural History Summer Discovery Day Camp

Bell Museum’s week-long camps are packed with hands-on projects that encourage kids to explore science, art and nature. Camps include field trips, swimming at the U of M’s Aquatic Center, and use of other U of M facilities, for grades kindergarten through 6th.

University of Minnesota 10 Church St SE Minneapolis 612-624-9050 bellmuseum.org

International Kids Camp

The International School of Minnesota offers full and half day camp for ages 3.5–grade 6. From June 20–August 12 this is your passport to summer fun! An afternoon sport option is also available.

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Minnesota Zoo Zoo Camp

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Kids ages 2–18 explore the rainforest, travel under the sea, encounter amazing animals up close and learn about important wildlife and wild places around the world! Registration begins February 10, 2011.

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Overnight Camp Olson YMCA

For more than 50 years Camp Olson has been providing unforgettable and life changing experiences for youth and young leaders through quality programs. Traditional summer camp available as well as specialty programs in Sailing, Horseback Riding, Nature Study and Leadership Development.

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Sports and Fitness Active Kids Association of Sport (AKASPORT)

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But before you write Patti off as crazy, hear her out. She held Kelsie’s fifth birthday party at Pump It Up, a personalized venue where the party staff pretty much does all the work.

Patti watched as the kids — about 20 total — bounced around in inflatable arenas, slid down inflatable slides, boxed with cushiony gloves and generally “had a ball.”

Then they stepped into a party room to eat, with the staff still supervising — sending the kids to wash their hands while they sliced the cake. Patti didn’t even have to record her daughter’s presents: the staff did that for her, marking down Kelsie’s gifts as she opened them wearing a crown while sitting on her giant inflatable throne. This setup was particularly ideal for Patti, she said, because she had a new baby at the time.“It was really the perfect party,” Patti said. “I was able to enjoy it without doing all of the work.”

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Birthday girl Kelsie opened presents while sitting on her inflatable throne.

Patti put up about $200 to celebrate Kelsie’s fifth, but said the money was well spent for the privacy, cleanliness and convenience of Pump It Up. The best part, said Patti, is that the parties are private; there’s nobody in the building during party time but parents, party guests, and staff.

“When I’m taking care of other parents’ kids, I’m more cautious,” Patti said. “It was nice because I was able to know the kids were safe. That was huge for me.”

It wasn’t just Patti who had a great time. Kelsie enjoyed the party so much that she plans to return to Pump It Up for her sixth birthday. She’s inviting everyone from kindergarten.

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Justin Huenemann has lived in Minnesota for much of his life, but he’s never forgotten his roots — the Navajo Nation in the southwestern U.S., where he was born and raised. Four years ago Justin founded a 501(c)(3) called the Native American Community Development Institute (NACDI), which aims to empower the American Indian community through community and economic development. “I had spent a lot of years seeing the community focus on needs, on what is wrong, and trying to create band-aids for those things,” Justin said. “I got frustrated with seeing my friends, relatives, and community members stuck in a place where their strengths were rarely addressed.”

Justin, with his wife Loshi, is raising his four children to “walk the fine line” between an American upbringing and their Navajo heritage.

How are you raising your kids to embrace Navajo culture?

My kids have Navajo citizenship. They are instilled with the cultural values, like the values of respect for elders and those around you, of taking care of your siblings and family. All of my kids dance at pow-wows. They have not been surrounded by the culture growing up like I was, but they are really proud of their heritage.

One of my favorite things is going home. I talk about the reservation a lot, but I also get to bring them back there once or twice a year. They love it. It’s a whole different pace of life. Their extended family is there and they get to go hiking, horseback riding, [and] see 40

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their cousins. It’s a reprieve from the hustle and bustle of the city, and I get to show them how I grew up. We are a land-based people. There’s more of a connection than just saying, “This is where I was born.” We have a multi-generational connection to this land. I want them to have a sense of that deeper connection.

Does your focus on independence and self-empowerment carry over to your parenting?

I am a tough love parent. I expect a lot out of my children. I’ve been blessed to have bright kids, and I expect that they will do well. There’s an element of pushing — they know that if they want something they’ve got to go for it. My son is studying Chinese, and he’s figuring out that the harder he works, the more enjoyable it is and the better he gets. We believe that education is at the center of it all. Doors open because of education. Very few people in my family went to college, but my parents expected me to and I have that expectation for my kids.

Is it ever challenging to raise your kids within two different cultures?

It’s a huge challenge because kids are influenced by their peers and the things around them every day.

There are certain things that kids are naturally drawn to.

It can be difficult when the values and viewpoints that I’m instilling and teaching are up against that whole other force. But they get to experience both worlds.

You don’t want to separate those; the trick is to figure out how to blend them in a way that doesn’t dilute the Native American side, to get the best of both.

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