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Letter from the publisher Thank you for reading this special publication chronicling our 2012 Military Spouse Awards, Heroes at Home. I am the proud civilian publisher of The Globe and The RotoVue newspapers which serve our Marines aboard Camp Lejeune and the New River Air Station. Since 2002, our company, Landmark Military Media of North Carolina, a member of the Targeted Media division and a subsidiary of the Virginia Pilot Media Companies, has had the privilege of working with the public affairs office at these two installations. By teaming up with the Marine staff at these offices, we help produce these two newspapers and web sites which are read and viewed by active-duty military and their families, military retirees, government workers and residents of our communities. Thousands of the readers and viewers we serve reside on base and within the five country area we distribute to here in coastal North Carolina. Eight years ago another military publication in our division, The Flagship, which serves the Naval stations in the Norfolk Virginia area created the Heroes at Home event to honor military spouses. We decided to join in this effort to honor the service and sacrifice of the thousands who stand behind our nation’s military. The past five years have been a huge success. I am excited to report that since it’s inception we have received nearly one thousand nominations from all branches of service and all nominees have been honored, including the finalist and winners who now total sixty-five. The opportunity to work closely with the dedicated, active-duty Marines of Camp Lejeune and New River Air Station each week, along with our civilian staff, many of whom are married to active-duty military has given our local team a unique perspective and appreciation of the required service these citizens offer to our country. It is this appreciation for all you do which compels us to continue to host this event here in Jacksonville. We hope this luncheon will convey to all our nominees in some small way the gratitude we feel each day. This event would not be possible without the strong and continued support of the business community. I would like to point out that Stevenson Auto Group and USA Discounters have been with us since the beginning as presenting sponsors of this event. I also want to mention Marine Federal Credit union has also been a silver sponsor for five years running. I want to welcome Webster University as a silver sponsor and BioTest Pharmaceuticals Corporation as a patron. I want to also thank our media partners who help us each year to get the word out. They are The Bonten Media Group producers of WXFI-WYDO FOX and news channel WCTI 12 ABC and NCCoast Communications of Morehead City publishers of HOMES magazines and over a dozen local magazines and web sites. I want to express my sincere thanks and gratitude for those military members and their spouses that are in attendance today including our military guest of honor, General and Mrs. Paxton. I thank our judges who come from the ranks of the United Way, Hope for the Warriors, The USO and Family Readiness and volunteers. Finally, a special thanks to today’s emcees, Ms. Kim Ratcliff of WECT/WSFX Carolina in the Morning and Ms. Heather Miller, a former Landmark Media employee and past event coordinator. Your presence here today is a testament to the importance of military spouses and the incredible work they do. To all the nominees I wish to express my congratulations and thanks.
Jim Connors
Group Publisher Landmark Military Newspapers of North Carolina The Globe, The RotoVue, NCCoast Comunications
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office 1122 Henderson Dr., Jacksonville, N.C. 28540 • 347-9624 Publisher James M. Connors Managing Editor Ena Sellers Assistant Managing Editor Amy Binkley contributing editors Sarah Anderson Jessie Heath SPECIAL EDITOR Emily Kelley Sales Staff Bobby Stone Emily Kelley Teresa Moore Pauline Chan-Wasicek Graphic Designers Hillary Bratton Julia Dillon Business Manager Rachel Picard Distribution Manager Dennis Fusco cover photo by Julie Gayler
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Heroes at Home is published by Landmark Military Newspapers of N.C., a private enterprise not connected with the DoD or the U.S. Marine Corps. The appearance of advertising in this publication, including does not constitute endorsement of these products or services by the DoD, the U.S. Marine Corps, or Landmark Military Newspapers of N.C. Everything advertised in this publication shall be made available for purchase, use or patronage without regard to race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, marital status, physical handicap, political affiliation, or any other nonmerit factor of the purchaser, user, or patron. If a violation or rejection of this equal opportunity policy by an advertiser is confirmed, the publisher shall refuse to print advertising from that source until the violation is corrected. The editorial content of this publication is the responsibility of Landmark Military Newspapers of N.C.
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M E Et t h e j u d g e s “In this year’s winner I am looking for inspiration. I want to be inspired to do better in my own life.” Christina M. Scaglione, director of Finance and Administration, United Way of Onslow County and Marine spouse
“The stories are real, the dedication and loyalty that our military spouses have is amazing.” Heather Miller, former Heroes at Home event coordinator
I understand the sacrifices the spouses and families make on the homefront while the Marines or Sailors are away. It is hard work and I have the utmost respect for those who withstand it, especially those who do it over and over again. It takes a strong person to live the military lifestyle.
“A winner for me would have commitment, integrity, passion for doing good works and dedication to their family and service member.” Marisa Reeder, assistant director, USO of North Carolina Jacksonville Center and Marine spouse
“My choice for the winner will be someone who has not only been a great supporting spouse to their service member while they were deployed, but someone who has been great to their community, friends and family.” Teresa Moore, account executive at Landmark Military Media and Marine spouse
“It’s been an honor to read about the amazing spouses we have in our area and the inspiring work they do for their families and our community.” Alexis Steele, Event and Volunteer Director Hope For The Warriors
Christina Diedrich, CLB-24 Family Readiness Officer
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KIM RATCLIFF STORY BY JESSIE HEATH Answering the call to emcee another year of the Heroes at Home awards, Kim Ratcliff has become a familiar name and face to the annual Military Spouses Awards. A member of the news team at WETC and WSFX television stations, Ratcliff will emcee the fifth annual Heroes at Home. Acting as emcee for the event is something that Ratcliff appreciates the opportunity to be part of. “Being the emcee for the Heroes at Home event is such an honor,” Ratcliff said. She also said that after being part of the awards ceremony for several years, being asked to return “means a lot.” “This event helps me keep connected to my military upbringing,” she said. “I can’t help
but be proud of being involved in an event like this.” A graduate of Lejeune High School aboard Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune, the military has had a big impact on Ratcliff’s life. She was married aboard MCB Camp Lejeune and is the daughter of Vietnam Veteran Col. John Kopka. The influence of growing up with a father in the service and the military lifestyle continues to have an impact on her in daily activities at work and home. “I feel like I am a very disciplined person and I think that comes from my father’s personality and years in the military,” said Ratcliff. “I also have a sense that I need to do what I can to ‘serve’ my community.” Ratcliff, who considered pursuing a military
career but later decided she could better assist her community in a different way, says that delivering up-to-date news and information is the way she gives back to her community. Having grown up around the military, Ratcliff can understand the unique challenges that service members and their families face. She has faced deployments, celebrated homecomings and waded through numerous challenges that accompany military life, and can offer advice and support to families who struggle with the same things. “Try to keep in touch and become a member of your military family,” Ratcliff suggested. “I think that really helps (during deployment) because you are with other people dealing with the same things you are.”
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HEATHER MILLER STORY BY JESSIE HEATH Everybody has a story to tell. For Heather Miller, the stories of each Heroes at Home nominee is a saga that showcases the strength, fortitude and endurance of the every day military spouse. The Heroes at Home event is more than just another luncheon to honor those who give so much - it is part of a tradition Miller has seen evolve over the last five years. Having been involved with the inception of the annual Heroes at Home military spouses awards event as a former employee of Landmark Military Media of North Caro-
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lina, has befriended military spouses, worked with spouses of service members and experienced what they endure on a regular basis. A military wife since 1995, knows the personal trials and triumphs of the military family. “What (military spouses) do to support their active-duty spouse is incredible,” Miller said. “These folks deserve to be celebrated by their family, friends and community. They are the glue that holds it all together.” Having assisted with the Heroes at Home event in past years, recognizes that the competition is not easy to take part in. Most
nominees would rather stand in the background and not toot their own horn, but is a firm believer that they deserve to be recognized for everything the do for their families. “The stories are real, the dedication and loyalty that our military spouses have is amazing,” Miller acknowledged . “It’s a great reminder to me of the sacrifice our military families go through each day. “Sometimes we take our military spouses for granted,” Miller added . “Sometimes we forget to tell them how wonderful that they are.”
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ieutenant General Paxton is the Commanding General, II Marine Expeditionary Force; and Commander, United States Marine Forces Africa. Prior to his current assignment he served as Director for Operations, J-3, The Joint Staff and before that as the Chief of Staff for Multi-National Force Iraq in Baghdad. Additional General officer assignments include Commanding General, 1st Marine Division, Commanding General, Marine Corps Recruit Depot/Western Recruiting Region, and Assistant Deputy Commandant of the Marine Corps, Programs and Resources (Director Programs). Lieutenant General Paxton graduated from Cornell University in Ithaca, New York with Bachelor of Science and Master of Civil Engineering degrees. He was commissioned into the Marine Corps in 1974 through Officer Candidate School. A career Marine infantryman, the general has commanded Marines at every level from platoon through division and has served and commanded in all three active Marine Divisions (1st Bn, 3d Mar; 2nd Bn, 4th Mar; 3rd Bn, 5th; 1st Bn, 8th Mar; 1st Mar; 1st Mar Div). Lieutenant General
Paxton has also served as an operations, plans and training (G3-S3) officer within Fleet Marine Force units at the battalion, regiment, division and Marine Expeditionary Force levels. In addition to service in Iraq, Lieutenant General Paxton has operational tours supporting stability efforts in the Bosnian conflict with Landing Force Sixth Fleet and in Mogadishu, Somalia as United Nations Quick Reaction Force, both while commanding Battalion Landing Team (1/8). Other staff and joint assignments include the Military Assistant to the Under Secretary of the Navy, Amphibious Operations Officer and Executive Officer Crisis Action Team at UNC/CFC/ USFK in Korea; and in Strategic Plans Branch, Deputy Commandant Plans, Policies and Operations, Headquarters US Marine Corps. Supporting establishment commands include Company B, Marine Barracks 8th & I as a captain and Marine Corps Recruiting Station New York, New York as a major. In addition to The Basic School, Lieutenant General Paxton’s professional education includes United States Marine Corps Amphibious Warfare
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Caitlin Lewis She does not allow times of separation to bring negativity into her life or relationships. Her attitude is highly contagious, helping other USMC spouses stay optimistic as well. – Holly Blair, Friend
Jennifer Row Through all the craziness my work has handed me, Jennifer has not only maintained her cool and continued to give her time as a volunteer, she offered friendship and support to other spouses. – SSgt Guy Row, Husband
Amanda Araujo Amanda always supports other military spouses whenever they come to call. She is always there to lend a helping hand without pause or hesitation. – GySgt Damon Araujo, Husband
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Jessica Valesquez Jessica maintains a positive attitude and manages to bring nothing but smiles to those around her through these hard times. – Nikki Swain, Friend
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What makes Ami exceptional is the way she goes out of her way to help in ways that are unnoticed by many. Her service isn’t limited to an organization or an activity, it is the way she lives her life. – Keri Gernand, Friend
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Cynthia’s strength leaks out of her pores. It is because of her strength and example that other spouses can get through deployments… She juggles family and squadron responsibilities with grace. – Emily Kelley, Friend/Unit Family
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n 2010, Beth Nicol became the third recipient of the Heroes at Home Award. In her nomination, originally submitted by her husband, Maj. Charles David Nicol Jr., he wrote, “Since my wife and I were married, she has consistently placed a high priority on volunteer work. According to her, it isn’t volunteer work, but rather ‘giving back to the community.” Two years have passed, her family has grown and many things have changed, including their duty station, but Beth’s spirit for volunteerism and supporting her family remains unchanged. “About a week after I won the award, I had our third son, so I now spend most of my time chasing three little boys,” Beth said. In the past she has volunteered with the Neuse River Golden Retriever Rescue Society and the Marine Corps Key Volunteer Program. With her family now stationed aboard Marine Corps Base Quantico, she has become the base youth sports t-ball coach and continues her volunteer work, predominantly for the National Military Family Association in the Washington, D.C. Metro area.
The National Military Family Association is a nonprofit organization committed to strengthening and protecting the families of the men and women currently serving the country and provides means of support through resources and scholarships, among others. She is also in the midst of preparing for a fundraiser for the University of Maryland Research Center for Celiac Disease, of which both she and her son are diagnosed. Though Beth gives so much back into the community, her family has always come first. In response to the difficult job market that Jacksonville, N.C. originally provided, her husband shared, “Making our family and supporting my career a priority, she recognized that her ability to maintain a career of her own would be difficult. Beth responded by going back to school … graduating with a Bachelors of Science in Civil Engineering with honors.” She was able to telecommute as a civil engineer with an engineering firm, which allowed her to stay at home to raise their children, and continues to do so today in Quantico.
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hen Milinda Rau was announced last year’s Heroes at Home Awards recipient, no one seemed surprised except for her. Mother of three and wife of a Marine officer, she is easily described as a passionate advocate for support to Marine Corps families who makes sure those around her are taken care of. Or as her daughter Kyrie simply put it, “I’m just proud of her. She’s probably the best mom in the world.” In 2003 and during a time of uncertainty, Milinda led the effort to establish a network of spouses and volunteers to work with the Marine Corps to prepare and keeping families of deploying Marines, of which included her husband, informed as they readied to leave in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. Since then, she has served as a Key Volunteer Coordinator, a Family Readiness Officer for the Wounded Warrior Regiment aboard Marine Corps Base Quantico and continues to work aboard MCB Camp Lejeune with Marine Corps Family Team Building as a trainer.
Her professionalism and approachable demeanor has lead to a widespread impact on many of the families of deploying Marines aboard Camp Lejeune. She maintains a strong philosophy that has helped her and others through many deployments. “We aren’t just going to survive,” she said. “We’re going to thrive.” “(Milinda) is often requested by name by general officers and senior commanders aboard (MCB) Camp Lejeune because of her thorough knowledge and engaging passion for supporting Marines and families,” said her husband, Lt. Colonel Matthew Rau, who returned from his ninth deployment in January. Today, her husband is preparing to turn his battalion over to the next commander. Their eldest daughter graduates from high school soon and her son is waiting to contract with the Marine Corps. She and her family plan to move overseas this fall and with a new chapter on the horizon, it’s a sure bet that she will handle it with grace. “I stay grounded by remembering that I am a small part of the big picture. I just offer my small contribution and that along with the amazing efforts of so many other people, makes this whole
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Tackling challenges without looking back STORY BY AMY BINKLEY At first glance, Dawn Brinkley may just appear to be a pretty face, but a closer look reveals a plethora of activities, titles and a very busy schedule. “Dawn is a Marine wife, mother to a college freshman, a high school freshman, patient, patient-advocate, community volunteer and a tremendous friend and asset to fellow military spouses,” said her husband, Maj. Ian Brinkley. “I don’t know how she does it all without missing a beat, but I am so proud to call her my wife, partner, best friend and my personal hero at home.” She is a former Mrs. North Carolina and a familiar face on Capital Hill, speaking as a national spokesperson for dystonia advocacy and raising awareness about the disease. Brinkley was diagnosed with cervical dystonia, a condition in which the neck muscles contract involuntarily, causing a person’s head to twist or turn to one side. But no matter how well-known her name may be, she counts her assignment as a military spouse as the most vital. “To be a military spouse is an extraordinary challenge that comes with no instruction manual,” she
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When life is built on a foundation of love, no storm can destroy it. Jennifer Toro loves her family, and though the statement may seem simple, it has laid the ground work for overcoming every challenge that has come her way and allowed her to help those facing the same. “My wife’s entire life is based on helping other people and inspiring others,” said her husband, Staff Sgt. Donald Toro II. “It would be a far darker world without her light to shatter the darkness.” After 14 years of experience, Jennifer knows the typical ins and outs of being a military spouse, but when her son Evan was diagnosed with Down Syndrome, she entered uncharted waters. She was unwilling to drown in the unknown and consumed every ounce of information she could find. Not only did she stay afloat, but she kept others from going under. “The things Evan does, the words he says, the sign language he uses and the everyday things that we all take for granted are due mainly to Jen’s perseverance,” Donald noted. “She has organized family and friends to attend Buddy Walks, countless fundraisers for multiple charities and has inspired everyone she meets to do
the same.” Jennifer has been a shoulder to cry on and the supportive push that younger, less experienced military spouses have needed when navigating the unique lifestyle, especially when dealing with deployments and children. “I don’t think I do anything out of the ordinary,” she said. “I have learned that I am a stronger person because of the demands of the military. The biggest challenge of being a military wife is (saying) goodbye to your husband and best friend. It’s learning to be mom and dad.” While her husband was deployed for more than 10 months, Jennifer never lost focus, keeping her family first and refusing to simply drift along until his return. She taught herself to rebuild a lawn mower engine, extended her patio, built a lattice fence and completely transformed her yard from barren to stunning, all while attending her children’s appointments, practices and other activities. “She was completely steadfast and unwavering in her commitment to our family, our home and my career while doing it all unassisted and without complaint,” boasted Donald. “I can’t imagine a world without her in it. She has been an angel walking among mere mortals. ”
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Life is not something you can put on hold. Amanda Hernandez understands that saying all too well. Filling her life with volunteer work, raising her family and helping anybody in need she runs into, Hernandez embraces every aspect of her life. “When I reflect upon my very first function as a military spouse, I remember being in awe of other women and wondering how I would ever keep up,” said Hernandez. “They were so organized.” It didn’t take her long to fall into step, though, and Hernandez quickly took the reigns in every situation her family found itself in. From moving to deployments to personal tragedies, Hernandez kept her family going when the going got tough. She volunteers at Johnson Primary School, helps run a carpool group, works with March of Dimes, sits on the scholarship board for the SNCO wives club and volunteers at the SNCO wives club thrift store. In addition to her volunteer work with the community, Hernandez is
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The greatest act of kindness is an unselfish one Story by Sarah Anderson Shawnetta Larson is a true friend, mother, proud wife of a Marine and encompasses the definition of a role model. As an active member of the Newport Moose Lodge and a Marine Corps Key Volunteer, she leads by example and recognizes and appreciates those who volunteer alongside her. “My mother, an amazing woman, once told me, ‘Volunteering is something you do, not seeking recognition, but in hopes of bettering circumstances for those around you’ ... When helping others we should not be looking for what we are going to be getting out of it, but what we can learn from it. That is all I have ever known,” Shawnetta explained. “Coming from a small town, we have always helped our neighbors, in good and bad times.” As a testament to her upbringing and values, Shawnetta supports and unfailingly answers the calls of her Marine Corps family in their moments of need. Denna’ Muncy, who nominated her best friend, recalled, “In 2005 .. I was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer. There were many times that I was so ill that I could not even stand but (Shawnetta) was there, helping me up. (She) gave me strength, love and
compassion and always with a smile.” Not surprisingly, Shawnetta was the shoulder for Denna’ to lean on all while working full-time hours and raising two children on her own as her husband, Master Sgt. Matthew Larson was serving a year-long deployment. “I know that the strength she draws upon during those long deployments and separations is given to her because of a loving, caring, husband, father (to their children) and best friend,” Denna’ continued. “There is not a day that passes without her giving thanks for the many blessings bestowed upon her.” Shawnetta’s husband, agreed, “(Shawnetta) is very humble and considers everything she does to be simply doing what’s right ... She would follow me to the ends of the earth, and for that, I’m truly grateful.” “Challenges are often disguised as our greatest awards,” Shawnetta concludes. “(The children’s) pride for their father and all that he does just proves that every move, every deployment, every missed holiday is not in vain. There is a silver lining in every situation. Often times we have to look in order to find it, but if God brings it to us, He will bring us through it.”
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rystal Ann Cavalier has never been one to seek attention. She finds comfort in helping others, providing whatever she can without asking for fear or recognition. So, when recognition comes her way, it is hard for her to understand why. “I don’t feel like I do anything that other military spouses don’t do,” Cavalier admitted. “I’m glad (my husband) wants to recognize my hard work. That says a lot.” In all honesty, it speaks volumes. Cavalier, who has an obvious compassion for others, works to better the quality of life for herself, her family and everybody she comes into contact with.
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Friendly and outgoing, Cavalier strives to make a difference in the lives of other military spouses and families. She started assisting families stationed at Fort Bragg, but quickly expanded her efforts to help military families across the United States, as well as those stationed overseas. When service members and their families were facing payday problems in spring of 2011, Cavalier volunteered to be the 8th District Congressional Military Family Caucus Chair and held several meetings with her congressman to discuss how the problem would affect military families. Cavalier has also taken the iniative to start a non-profit organization called Support Our Arthritic Kids, Inc., after her old-
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