Staten Island Parent magazine October 2021

October 2021

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10 Things to Do This Month 16 Pick Your Own Pumpkins 20 Pumpkin Carving 101

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he back-to-school season may be behind us, but you guys really brightened it up with photos of your kids’ smiling faces on the first day of school! We received hundreds of photo submissions and thousands of votes in our First Day Photo Contest last month! Thank you so much to all who participated and congratulations to our well-deserving winners. (Find us on Facebook or Instagram to see who won: @SIParent!)

If your family is anything like mine, you’re definitely anxious to start celebrating the spookiest season of all. My kids get so excited for Halloween, they usually have their costumes picked out before the summer is over!

Every October we spend a day on the farm, munching apple cider doughnuts, winding through massive corn mazes, and climbing on bales of hay before taking home the heaviest pumpkins in the whole patch to carve into jack-o’lanterns the next day. It’s a popular family tradition for a good reason! Go to p. 16 for the best pumpkin picking farms in our area, then check out p. 20 for some useful carving tips.

Though, I should probably mention that these days, my son isn’t as excited about dressing up for Halloween as he used to be. Can’t blame him, he’s a teenager now. In fact, he’s about to start applying to high schools!

Oh, where has the time gone??? If you, too, are in major denial about your child’s upcoming high school entrance, you might need a little help with the application process. The best place to start is by attending an open house, of which there are plenty in our area. Flip to p. 28 for more on that.

I have to say, our October issue is always my favorite. It’s jam-packed with fall-themed activities and events, but it’s also informational too! Flip through the pages for tips on choosing the right after-school activity, celebrating Halloween with kids who have allergies, and more. Go to p. 36 to peruse our Special Needs Guide, a resourceful and comprehensive guide on raising a child with special needs in Staten Island. And be sure to check out our new “Just for Moms” section on p. 46, where you’ll find awesome products and reviews for moms like us!

Happy October!

Editor, Staten Island Parent

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community news news

What’s Happening Staten Island?

Local news, major events, community updates, and hot topics NEW PEDIATRIC HOSPITAL COMING TO STATEN ISLAND

Little League players, youth athletes, elected officials and former Mets and Yankees player Dwight “Doc” Gooden at the Staten Island Ballpark this summer

PROFESSIONAL BASEBALL IS COMING BACK TO STATEN ISLAND NYC Mayor Bill de Blasio, along with other elected officials, announced the new Atlantic League Staten Island Baseball team, owned by John Catsimatidis. The announcement comes after last year’s cancellation of The Staten Island Yankees minor league baseball team.

The yet-to-be-named team is an endeavor of the New York City Economic Development Corporation and Staten Island Entertainment, which is led by Catsimatidis, a billionaire businessman and runner-up Republican nominee for NYC mayor in 2012. NYCEDC negotiated the

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deal with SIE, who signed a lease in July to take over the stadium and organize and operate an Atlantic League franchise. SIE will field a team for the 2022 season.

Minor League Baseball held a contest in the spring asking the public for its help naming the new team. While the submission period has ended, you can now vote for your favorite at sinyfun.com.

Last year, at the height of the pandemic, the ballpark stadium was forced to close.

It remained underutilized for more than 18 months and fell victim to natural elements. Through the new deal, the city and SIE will replace the grass field with synthetic turf, making all necessary repairs, completing capital work, getting all deferred maintenance back on track, according to the NYCEDC.

The borough is getting a new pediatric hospital, city officials announced recently.

The hospital will be built on the grounds of the New York City Health and Hospitals Sea View campus on Brielle Avenue.

Children who require a specialized type of care will receive treatment at the facility, according to Staten Island borough president James Oddo.

The hospital is a $125 million capital investment part of this year’s budget. It will have approximately 80 beds and be available for children throughout the city.

“It is a long-term care facility, which means orthopedic rehabilitation, neuro-rehabilitation related to speech and swallowing, spinal-cord injury rehabilitation, respiratory therapy, certain feeding disorders, and includes palliative, spiritual, and respite care for families,” said Oddo, whose office allocated $20 million to the investment.

Oddo added that it will be several years before the hospital opens, but he plans to update the public on the project before the end of the year.

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Lopez Playground just got a makeover!

Thanks to a $3 million city-funded renovation, the Park Hill playground has been completely transformed. Upgrades include inclusive play equipment, swings, and a spray area. Designed to develop and challenge children’s senses, the new play equipment features textured surfaces, patterns, shapes, and musical elements that accommodate the needs of children of all ages and abilities.

Additional site upgrades include new basketball courts, an adult fitness area, fences, pathways, and a memorial flagpole that pays tribute to the park’s namesake, NYC Police Officer Luis Reynaldo Lopez, killed in the line of duty on March 10, 1993.

The project was funded with $2.85 million from NYC Council Member Deborah Rose and $187,000 from the mayor.

“Lopez Playground is a treasured neighborhood greenspace, and we’re thrilled to unveil its new amenities to Park Hill residents” said NYC Parks Acting Commissioner Margaret Nelson.

“We’re grateful for Mayor de Blasio and Council Member Rose for their

NYC LANTERN FESTIVAL RETURNS TO SNUG HARBOR

continued partnership and dedication to providing Staten Island with world-class recreational spaces. With new children’s play and adult fitness areas, Lopez Playground is now better equipped to serve the surrounding communities for years to come.”

Brighten up your holiday season at Snug Harbor, with the return of the NYC Lantern Festival this month.

Known for its brilliant light displays, the festival is back after being cancelled last year due to the pandemic. This year’s theme is Escape and features a breathtaking 8-acre light installation with colorful displays of flowers, an open sky, and deep-sea adventures. The experience is designed to bring the visitor into a world of color and wonder while leaving behind stress and worry.

The festival runs Oct. 29-Jan. 9, 2022, FridaySunday, 4:30-9:30pm. At the peak of the holiday season, the NYC lantern festival will be open every night from Dec. 24-Jan. 2, 2022.

Tickets are on sale now, starting at $24.99 for adults and $16.99 for children ages 3-12. In celebration of the festival’s return, a special 20-percent discount is available through Oct. 15. For more information, visit nycwinterlanternfestival.com.

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Things to Do in October

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all has arrived, and there are plenty of fun activities planned throughout the borough! Here are some of this month’s most exciting events in Staten Island and nearby. Be sure to call ahead or visit event websites to confirm details and Covid precautions. Go to siparent.com/ events for details on the events listed here and even more stuff to do with your family throughout the month!

Comic Book Carnival

Pumpkin Picking at Decker Farm

Oct. 1-Nov. 7, see website for schedule

Saturday-Sunday in October and Monday, Oct. 11, 11am-5pm

Historic Richmond Town’s Decker Farm 435 Richmond Hill Road Search the patch for the perfect pumpkin and learn about 19th-century farm life.

Enjoy a hay maze, pumpkin chucking, and snack wagon featuring fall favorites such as apple cider doughnuts, pumpkin spice coffee, and seasonal pies.

Oct. 1-2, Friday, 2:30-8:30pm; Saturday, 10am-4pm

St. Ann School 125 Cromwell Ave. Don your cape and get ready to celebrate all things superhero, sci-fi, and pop culture!

Activities include vendors, music, video games, food, and more.

Jack-O-Lantern Experience Skylands Stadium 94 Championship Place, August, NJ Enjoy Halloween fun with the Skylands Stadium’s second annual Jack-O’-Lantern Experience. The event features a fall festival that includes a beer garden, live music, seasonal food and beverages, carnival rides, and more.

Weekend Wonders: New York Children’s Theater Storybook Cabaret

Oct. 2, 1-2pm

Staten Island Children’s Museum 1000 Richmond Terrace Join New York City Children’s Theater for music and stories at its 25th Anniversary Storyland Cabaret. The outdoor performance will feature NYCCT’s songs from its hit productions Wanda’s Monster, Interstellar Cinderella, Dory Fantasmagory, and more.

World Farm Animal Day: Meet the Animals!

Oct. 2, 2-3pm

Gericke Farm 2876 Arthur Kill Road Join staff from Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve in celebrating World Farm Animal Day! Go on a tour of historic Gericke 10 October 2021 • siparent.com

Farm, learn how the staff grows organic veggies, and meet the resident chickens.

Lighthouse Point Fest

Oct. 3, 12-6pm

National Lighthouse Museum 200 The Promenade at Lighthouse Point Head to this arts-and-crafts festival that celebrates Staten Island’s maritime history and waterfront. Enjoy live music, food, shopping, kids’ activities, and more.

Italian Festival at the Mount

Oct. 8-11, Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 12-11pm; Sunday, 12-9pm; Monday, 12-5pm Mount Loretto 6581 Hylan Blvd.

Hosted by Catholic Charities of Staten Island, this fall festival celebrates Italian culture. Activities include rides and games for kids, vendors, beer and sangria gardens, live music, and lots of delicious eats.

Harvest Festival and Outdoor Market

Oct. 9, 10am-4pm

Conference House Park 298 Satterlee St. Celebrate autumn’s arrival! Enjoy refreshments, handcrafted items, original artwork, and an attic and treasures table.

Rain date: Oct. 10.

11th Annual Bravest BBQ

Oct. 9, 12-5pm

South Shore Swim Club 6736 Hylan Blvd.

There’s fun for the whole family at this annual event that benefits the Tunnel to Towers Foundation. Activities include unlimited food and drink, silent auction raffle, 50/50, fire trucks, giveaways, and family entertainment.

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Things to Do in October Cont’d & Walk to support the Staten Island Heart Society. Run or walk the Silver Lake Park Road course.

Healthy Path Foundation’s Fall Festival

Oct. 16, 12-5pm Old Home Day

Oct. 9, 11am-5pm

Historic Richmond Town 441 Clarke Ave. This event provides a public sampling of handmade traditions and processes, a glimpse into the way people lived and worked in the 18th and 19th centuries.

Indigenous People’s Day Poetry Reading and Hike

Oct. 9, 2-4pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve 83 Nielsen Ave. Join Staten Island Out LOUD for a reading of “An American Sunrise,” a collection of poems by Joy Harjo, U.S. poet laureate, and the first Native American to hold that position. Followed by a 1-mile hike.

Staten Island Zoo Spooktacular

Oct. 15-17, 5:30-9:30pm

Staten Island Zoo 614 Broadway The zoo’s signature Halloween walk-through event is back with live music, scare zones, interactive characters, light shows, photo ops, contests, skits, giveaways, and more! Tickets must be purchased in advance at statenislandzoo.org.

West Brighton Healthy Heart 3K Run & Walk

Oct. 16, 9-10am

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Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden 1000 Richmond Terrace Enjoy this health and wellness event for children and families, including activities like yoga classes, learning healthy habits, music, organic food, soccer drills, and art.

Fall Festival at Mount Loretto

Oct. 23-24, Time: TBA

Mount Loretto 6581 Hylan Blvd.

Get ready to wander through an amazingly big pumpkin patch, enjoy rides and games for kids, a beer garden, and live DJ. Hosted by Catholic Charities of Staten Island.

Harvest Festival at Clay Pit Ponds

Oct. 23, 11am-3pm

Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve 2351 Veterans Road W. Join Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve for its 7th annual Harvest Festival.

Activities include pumpkin carving, scarecrow building, face painting, puppet show, crafts, and more.

Puppetmobile: ‘Little Red’s Hood’

Oct. 24, 1pm and 3 pm

Ocean Breeze Track & Field Athletic Complex 625 Father Capodanno Blvd.

Little Red’s Hood is a fresh retelling of the classic Little Red Riding Hood tale updated with a modern sensibility that appeals to kids.

Halloween activities through October!

Tickets now available for purchase Order online at storybookland.com

Due to the ongoing COVID situation, all dates and times are subject to change.

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Pumpkin Picking at Decker Farm saturdays & sundays

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advice

Ask DadandBuried Fall is finally here, and for me, that means the kids are back in school, jeans are back in the rotation, and football is back on TV. For my wife, it means visiting farms and finding pumpkins and forcing my kids to smile for photos. Help? —Dave, New Rochelle

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"Not So Scary" Grace-ful Halloween WALk and More!

Including: A Halloween costume walk/parade to raise money for Autism Awareness (have your friends and family sponsor you)

Trunk or Treating Inflatable Rides Food trucks and vendors

When: Saturday, Oct 30, 12:00pm to 3:30pm Where: The GRACE Foundation grounds- 460 Brielle (near Community Board Building) All outdoors Go to www.graceofny.org to be part of the day 718-983-3800 ext. 223

feel your pain. Fall Family Fun, as my wife calls it, is a scourge.

It turns one of the best seasons into a crucible, and should you survive, the reward is 4-6 months of snow.

As soon as Labor Day hits, my wife starts claiming weekends.

We have to go apple picking and pay $75 for 30 apples that cost $5 at the grocery store! After arguing over Gala or Empire, we’ll have to navigate our way through a corn maze in 85-degree heat. It may unofficially be fall, but September has other plans, ensuring it’s as hot and humid as possible for Fall Family Fun days!

Next up is pumpkin picking, which is an even bigger deal. It isn’t just about pumpkins, it’s about Halloween, and the only person who likes Halloween more than my kids? My wife. (P.S. Don’t trick-ortreat at my house unless you want an apple—we have tons left!)

So, in October, we head to another farm—maybe even the same one that had apple picking, only instead of cold apple cider it’s hot, and sometimes they play “Thriller” over the loudspeakers. While there, Dad can aggravate his back by repeatedly hoisting pumpkins for inspection only to put them down because there’s a slight mark on the bottom. Then, back aching, we hop on a hayride. Then, back still aching, we cram behind one of those photo stands where you stick your head through a hole and pray the 5-year-old is smiling and no one gets a splinter while posing as jack-o’-lanterns (which you’ll be carving later, alone, while the family watches Halloween specials and occasionally wanders by to complain the eyes are too far apart).

And make no mistake about it, that photo is essential. Because Fall Family Fun isn’t about fall, family, or fun. It’s about making memories. Years from now, you won’t remember that you missed Zach Wilson’s first multi-touchdown game. You’ll look at those photos, see your smiling kids, and laugh about the fact that they’re gonna get roped into this someday too.

There’s no escape. Because when it comes to Fall Family Fun, the “family” part is non-negotiable, even if the “fun” is non-existent.

Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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Pick Your Own Pumpkins Choose the perfect gourd to carve into a jack-o’-lantern at one of our favorite pumpkin patches.

BY BARBARA RUSSO

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f there’s one thing we love about the fall, it’s pumpkin everything, including pumpkin picking. Your family can spend a day at Decker Farm’s pumpkin patch or take a day trip out to a New Jersey farm to pick the perfect pumpkin and enjoy various fall activities. Here’s a list of our favorite pumpkin patches and farms for pumpkin picking in and near Staten Island. Just be sure to call or visit the farms’ websites before heading out to confirm pumpkin availability and for info on their safety policies.

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STATEN ISLAND Decker Farm

435 Richmond Hill Road historicrichmondtown.org 718-351-1611 Hours: Oct. 2-31, Saturday-Sunday (plus Monday, Oct. 11), 11am-5pm Admission: $4-$11. Tickets available online. Check the website for details.

This pumpkin patch features pumpkins of all shapes and sizes. Complete with photo-ops and fall decorations, you’re

sure to experience a picture-perfect moment as you decide which pumpkin to take home. And don’t miss the Pumpkin Chucking, Snack Wagon, Living History Demonstrations, and more!

Why we love it: Watch the kids try to solve a maze made completely of hay bales.

Greenside Up Garden Center

2777 Arthur Kill Road greensideupgardencenter.com 718-967-5039 Hours: Oct. 1-31: Monday-Friday, 12-6pm;

Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm Admission: Free admission.

In addition to selecting the perfect pumpkin for their jack-o’-lanterns, kids can enjoy inflatables, pumpkin painting, a corn maze, games, and prizes. Plus, there’s a snack shack and you can book Halloween or birthday parties to celebrate the season.

Why we love it: As if everything mentioned above isn’t enough fun, there’s a haunted house for adults on weekends, so call your babysitter and enjoy a spooky night out!

NEW JERSEY Alstede Farms

1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester Township alstedefarms.com 908-879-7189 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: daily, 9am-6pm (last admission to pick-your-own is 5pm). Pumpkins anticipated to be available mid- to late September. Check the website for updates.

Admission: Exact prices for pumpkin picking not available yet. Check the website to make reservations in advance online (it’s a little cheaper than purchasing at the door and guarantees your entry) Alstede Farms offers orange and white pumpkins, munchkins, gourds, and assorted winter squash—all available in u-pick! Pony and tractor-pulled wagon rides are offered daily (for an extra fee). Plus, you can visit with and feed some of the farm’s animals.

Why we love it: Corn, sunflower, and evergreen mazes are on-site and included with pick-your-own admission.

Battleview Orchards

91 Wemrock Road, Freehold battlevieworchards.com 732-462-0756 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Wednesday-Monday, 9am-4pm.

Pumpkins anticipated to be available Sept.

25. Check the website for updates.

Admission: No entrance fee. Cash only

for purchasing pick-your-own produce. Senior citizens receive a 10-percent discount on Mondays and Thursdays.

Battleview Orchards offers a variety of pick-your-own fall favorites, including pumpkins and apples.

Why we love it: Hayrides are available in the fall, weekends only, starting Sept. 25.

Cheesequake Farm Market

2095 US Highway 9, Old Bridge cheesequakefarms.com 732-721-5728 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 45 minutes Hours: April-Dec. 24, 9am-6pm. November close time: 5pm. Pumpkins anticipated to be available mid- to late September.

Check the website for updates.

Admission: $10 hayride to enter the pumpkin patch.

Pumpkins are $0.69 per pound.

Quality pumpkins of every shape, size, and color are available during pumpkin-picking season in the fields or the farm market.

Gourds and fall harvest vegetables are also available.

Why we love it: You can wander through a corn maze as part of the hayride price.

Giamarese Farm

155 Fresh Ponds Road, East Brunswick giamaresefarm.com 732-821-9494 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-6pm.

Pumpkins anticipated to be available mid-September. Check the website or call for updates.

Admission: A $10 hayride will bring you into the patch, but exact prices for pumpkins are not available yet.

The hayride includes a tour of the corn maze where you’ll see lots of fall decorations including mums, straw bales, and—of course!—pumpkins to pick.

Pony rides available for an extra fee on weekends in October.

Why we love it: Other crops available through December include mustard and turnip, plus apples are available through early October.

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Happy Day Farm

97 Daum Road, Manalapan happydayfarmnj.com 732-977-3607 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Sept. 11-Oct. 31, daily, 10am-5pm.

Last entry at 4pm.

Admission: No admission fee to pick a pumpkin Monday-Thursday; $20 FridaySunday. Tickets must be purchased in advance.

Weekend admission includes a variety of family activities, including an animal feeding zoo, corn maze, tractor rides, and a variety of games.

Why we love it: Weekends throughout the season offer an itinerary of all-day fun featuring games, activities, and food concessions.

Norz Hill Farm & Market

116 S. Branch Road, Hillsborough norzhillfarm.com 908-371-2697 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Sept. 12-Nov. 7, MondayFriday, 12-6pm; Saturday and Sunday, 10am-6pm. Weekday hayrides start Oct. 1.

Check the website for holiday hours.

Admission: $15 Saturday-Sunday; $12 Monday-Friday; free for children shorter than 36 inches. Seniors and current military receive $1 discount. Pumpkins and large and fancy gourds are $0.79 per pound.

The farm grows more than 60 different varieties of pumpkins, gourds, and winter squash, so you’re bound to find that perfect pumpkin.

The colors range, from orange to white to blue... even pink!

Why we love it: There’s a kid’s corner featuring a Bale Maze, Corn Boxes to play in, and more.

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Ort Farms

25 Bartley Road, Long Valley ortfarms.com 908-876-3351 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Pumpkins available through Oct. 31. Monday-Friday, 10am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 9:30am-5pm.

Admission: $8; free for children ages 2 and younger. Tickets must be purchased in advance. Pumpkins are $0.70 per pound.

Choose from a variety of pumpkins. A hayride brings you to the patch, or you can walk. Food vendors are available on weekends.

Why we love it: Admission includes access to a hayride and corn maze.

Stony Hill Farm Market

8 Route 24, Chester stonyhillfarms.com Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Daily, 10am-5pm. Pumpkins anticipated to be available late September.

Admission: $7.99. Pumpkin prices start at $2.00 for 0-4 pounds.

So many pumpkins are grown here, including ones that weigh more than 20 pounds! Other activities include corn mazes, a playground, and trike rides. There’s also a Maze Fun Park featuring a giant, 1-acre corn maze. Check the website for ticket packages available.

Why we love it: Admission includes a hayride to the fields on weekends

Terhune Orchards

330 Cold Soil Road, Princeton terhuneorchards.com 609-924-2310 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 1 hour Hours: Monday-Thursday, 9am-6pm;

Friday, 9am-7pm; Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6p.m. Pumpkins anticipated to be available late September.

Admission: No admission fee to the patch during the week; $11 Saturday-Sunday.

Pumpkin picking available during the week, and also during the farm’s fall family weekends, which run Sept. 18-Oct. 31, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm. Meet barnyard animals, go through corn mazes, and enjoy pony rides and pumpkin painting.

Why we love it: Although there is an admission fee on weekends, there is so much to do on-site after you pick your favorite pumpkins.

Von Thun’s Country Farm Market

505 Ridge Road, South Brunswick 438 Route 57 West, Washington vonthunfarms.com 732-329-8656 Approximate drive from Staten Island: 45 minutes Hours: Daily, 10am-5pm. Pumpkins now available.

Admission: $3 to enter the patch MondayFriday; $15.99 Saturday-Sunday, Sept.

18-Oct. 31; free for children ages 2 and younger. Seniors and military receive a $1 discount. Pumpkins: $0.69 per pound.

Weekend pumpkin picking includes a variety of other activities, including hayrides, meet-and-greets with farm animals, corn maze, and more.

Why we love it: During the week, there’s an easy “walk-to” patch that is decorated with jack-o’-lanterns and fun, whimsical wooden cartoon characters, while the “main patch” is available on weekends and offers lots of family activities with the price of admission.

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Pumpkin Carving 101

Experts share tips and tricks for carving jack-o’-lanterns with kids

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lanning to carve a pumpkin with your kids for Halloween but not sure where to start? Follow these easy pumpkin-carving tips from the pros: Michael Natiello, master carver and creative director of The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze in Westchester County and Long Island, and Thomas Olton, from Rise of the Jack O’Lanterns on Long Island.

PICK THE PERFECT PUMPKIN

There are two ways to approach it. You either have a design in mind and find a pumpkin that suits the design, or you choose your favorite pumpkin and let it ‘speak’ to you. For example, if a pumpkin looks like Frankenstein’s monster, carve it into Frankenstein’s monster.

• When choosing your pumpkin, look for one that is without bruises, is evenly colored, and isn’t moldy or rotten. Check the bottom for rot and tap gently to hear a firm, hollow sound.

• The lighter the pumpkin’s skin, the softer the pumpkin will be, thus the easier to carve. However, lighter-skinned pumpkins may not last as long after carving.

• Choose a pumpkin with a smooth, flat face, with shallow ridges and few of them. Never carry your pumpkin by the stem.

• If it’s heavy, that’s a good sign. If it’s light, it probably has been sitting around a while, so it will be shriveled up or dried out.

It’s like picking an apple—you want the freshest fruit.

DESIGNING YOUR JACK-O’-LANTERN

A good rule of thumb is larger and simpler shapes are best for younger kids. As the shapes get smaller and more complicated, it’s going to take someone a little older with a little more skill.

With just a quick Internet search, you can find numerous stencils

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that will help bring your child’s favorite characters to life on a pumpkin. If you decide you want to create your own image, you’ll still want to draw it on paper first. You can then transfer your drawing onto the pumpkin and ensure it looks good before carving.

Most people will tape a picture onto the pumpkin and trace it out by making tiny holes in the skin of the pumpkin with a small pin along the outlines. When you peel the paper off, you will have dotted lines that make up your image.

Another method is to rub the back of the piece of paper with a piece of charcoal to make it completely black. Tape the paper on the pumpkin, charcoal-side down, and then trace the image with a ballpoint pen. That will leave a pencil copy of your image.

PUMPKIN CARVING TOOLS

Exacto knives are great for carving pumpkins. People think it’s too dangerous to use very sharp knives, but a sharp knife used carefully is a lot safer than a dull knife you must force through the pumpkin.

You can also use commercially available pumpkin saws, which are found in pumpkin carving tool kits in stores this time of year. If small children are going to take part in the carving, you’ll want to find these tools.

Want to get a little more creative? Go through your junk drawer.

Anything that can make a dent or a divot in the pumpkin is fair game. Think: screwdrivers, old keys, melon ballers, anything metal.

CARVING PUMPKINS WITH KIDS

Once you’ve picked out the perfect pumpkin, you’ll want to: • Wash the pumpkin with soapy water, then dry it.

• Cut a hole in the bottom of the pumpkin. This helps to keep it stable. If you prefer the more traditional look of a hole in the top, cut it with a slanted edge, which will keep the top from falling inside.

• Give your child a spoon and let them go to town ripping the guts out of it. That’s the messy and the fun part!

• Scrape the inside flesh clean and smooth until it’s approximately 1-inch thick.

• Transfer or draw your pattern onto the chosen side of the pumpkin.

• Make cutouts. » Think about your cut before you make it. » Start in the middle and work your way out (this helps keep the pumpkin structurally sound). » Leave large areas to cut out for last and cut them into smaller pieces for easier removal. As you begin removing pieces, the pumpkin will get increasingly delicate. You will find it much easier to cut out the small details first, when the pumpkin is most stable. » Hold the cutting tool perpendicular to the surface.

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» Cut with gentle, steady sawing motions. » Point the cutting tool toward the pumpkin’s center. » Resist the urge to poke the cut out into the pumpkin. Instead, push it out toward you from the inside. » On corners or if changing directions, remove the carving tool then reinsert it in the new direction.

• Cut a vent or chimney in the back top.

• Once complete, wash under cold water and pat dry with paper towels.

• Once your pumpkin is completely dry, add a candle or electric tea light inside!

PRESERVING CARVED PUMPKINS

How long your pumpkin lasts outdoors will depend on weather and the elements. But here are a few tips to lengthen your jack-o’-lantern’s lifespan: • Make sure it’s wrapped in plastic and stored in a cool environment when not in use. Some people put it in their fridge or a cool, dark place. You don’t want it baking in the sun because it rots and turns into mush.

• After carving, clean your jack-o’-lantern with soapy water or disinfect it with a mild bleach solution (a little bleach and water or any bleach-based bathroom cleanser). That’ll kill all the bacteria and help your pumpkin survive a few days longer.

• You also can coat any openings with petroleum jelly or commercially available pumpkin preservatives.

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An Allergy-Friendly Halloween

Tricks and treats for keeping kids safe while celebrating the candy-filled holiday

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BY ELIZABETH WINCHESTER

or the 1 in 13 U.S. kids with food allergies, Halloween can be the worst day of the year. Running from house to house for treats you can’t eat, and that can even make you really sick, is not exactly fun. It can be nerve-racking for parents, too.

Most Halloween candies contain peanuts, tree nuts, milk, egg, soy, or wheat, which are all among the nine most common food allergens. (Fish, shellfish, and sesame account for the remaining three.) While kids with food allergies and their parents are accustomed to reading ingredient labels, Halloween-sized treats usually don’t have them. What are kids with food allergies and their parents to do, and how can friends without this challenge help?

Here are our tricks and treats to make Halloween less scary for kids with food allergies and their parents.

BE THE GIVER » After a

few years of trick-or-treating with friends, or not wanting to try it at all, some children with food allergies may prefer to be the designated person to hand out the treats from home.

Handing out the treats can be fun, and it also teaches children to appreciate the value of giving. Plus, kids will be able to see friends when they come to the door. It may not be as tasty of an experience, but for some kids, it’s a heck of a lot safer and even more enjoyable. If you have a child with food allergies who prefers this route, be sure to have safe treats that your child can enjoy.

PARENT UP! » If you have a child with food allergies, purchase candies that your child is allowed to eat.

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free of the top allergens. Some gummy or hard candies may be fair game, too.

TRICK-OR-TREAT SELECTIVELY » Some of your friends

may offer to provide safe treats. Carefully discuss with trusted friends what treats your child can eat. If homemade baked goods, make sure to discuss ingredients and steps, including what is used to grease a pan. (For people with certain allergies, this is super important.) You could even supply the treats to friends and make a map for your child to follow, like a scavenger hunt. If it’s your friends who have children with food allergies, offer to do this for their children—it’s something the parents and kids will always remember.

PLAN A SPOOKY SUPPER » Make your

Halloween meal the main event! From Spooky Chicken Poppers and Mummy Dogs to Pizza Dough Bones and Ghostly Cookies, there are many recipes online. Check out enjoylifefoods.com and weelicious.com for some great options.

Many kids’ cookbooks also have ideas, and creative young chefs might come up with their own creepy creations. Be sure to review ingredients and adapt as necessary.

TAKE PART IN THE TEAL PUMPKIN PROJECT » Paint a pumpkin teal, which is the color for food-allergy awareness, and support this initiative that has taken off thanks to Food Allergy Research & Education and mom Becky Basalone, who came up with the idea in 2012. A teal pumpkin displayed at a home signifies that on Halloween, kids can trick-or-treat for non-food items there. Find teal pumpkin posters and other information at foodallergy.org.

Elizabeth Winchester is a content director for Davler Parents. Her oldest son has a life-threatening dairy allergy. Share your food allergy experiences with her at lwinchester@davlermedia.com.

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Celebrating Halloween with a Child with Special Needs Helpful tips to celebrate Halloween for parents of children with special needs

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espite the BOO!-filled nature of Halloween, your child with an anxiety disorder, sensory issues, or other special needs can find a way to partake in the holiday: Preparation is key! Introduce your child to the holiday with fun songs, books, or movies that have a Halloween theme, suggests Debora Thivierge, founder and CEO of ELIJA School and Foundation on Long Island.

And refrain from trying new strategies to help your child cope with the sensations of the holiday, cautions Jana Diamond, M.S. Ed., board-certified behavior analyst. Your child can become overwhelmed with new stimuli and new approaches for coping, so use concepts that have worked for your child in the past.

PREPARE YOUR CHILD» Halloween means scary sights and

seeing people dressed up costumes, so it’s a good idea to prepare your child to see: • Spiderwebs, ghouls, shrieking goblins: As decorations begin popping up around town, use social stories that illustrate what children might see, Diamond says.

• Superman, monsters, witches: Visit stores that have costumes on display, browse catalogs filled with Halloween characters, and play dress-up at home to help make children comfortable with the notion of seeing people in costume, Diamond says. Explain to your child that costumes are made up of clothing and props, nothing magical or scary.

• Masks: These can be especially scary, as they transform even close family members into unrecognizable beings. “Find masks that your child is comfortable with and have her look in the mirror as she puts it in front of her face and yours,” Diamond says. Participating in an art project that entails making a mask can also help put kids at ease.

CHOOSE AN ACCESSIBLE COSTUME» Between

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with special needs. However, by shopping one of these accessible costume lines, you can make Halloween a little easier on everyone.

These costumes transform wheelchairs into fantastic props, allow access for feeding tubes and other equipment, and feature tag-free, comfortable materials.

• Target’s Adaptive Costume Collection features costumes that are adaptable and accessible for all kids, plus it features wheelchair covers that transform wheelchairs into fire trucks, pirate ships, princess carriages, racecars, and more!

• The Magic Wheelchair is a nonprofit that designs and creates Halloween costumes for kids in wheelchairs at no cost to families.

• Spirit Halloween offers several accessible Halloween costumes for kids. While they’re more expensive than your typical Halloween garb, they ship for free.

• Etsy is a haven for anyone looking to find unique, beautiful, and accessible costumes.

• Rolling Buddies’ costumes, which can be found on Amazon, are sheets of durable but light plastic that can be placed over wheelchair wheels. Kids can have trains, planes, and pumpkin carriages, police cars, pirate ships, and more as the base of their costumes. Outfits not included.

If your child is interested in dressing up for Halloween, have them wear the costume around the house prior to the holiday to grow accustomed to the look and feel of it. If sensory issues prevent this, steer clear of complicated ensembles and stick with a simple T-shirt with a theme, or a Halloween hat or other accessory.

Face paint can be a wonderful tactile sensation for sensory seekers, but skip it as well as eye masks, helmets, and other similar accessories for young sensory avoiders.

MAP OUT A TRICK-OR-TREATING PLAN» Is your

child daunted by the prospect of going door-to-door asking for candy from strangers?

• Role-play with family members to simulate trick-or-treating. “Have a child knock on a door in his house and prompt him on what to say and what appropriate behavior is expected,” Diamond advises.

• Discuss the language your child may encounter. Especially if she has good verbal abilities, Diamond recommends. After all, we don’t typically say trick-or-treat on any other day.

• Create an itinerary beforehand. “Some children respond best to schedules, so parents can map out a schedule of where they will be trick-or-treating and when they will be home,” Diamond says. And keep it short if you’re not sure how your child will respond.

• Do a walk-through of the neighborhood ahead of time.

Choose the houses you are going to visit and tell your neighbors what to expect and how to approach your child. Make sure there are not any spooky decorations or blinking lights that could upset your child.

• Explicitly discuss the difference between Halloween and the rest of the year. Make sure your child understands that at other times, they are not to knock on strangers’ doors.

TRADE IN SUGARY TREATS» Though it centers around candy, you don’t have to let dietary restrictions rule out trick-ortreating. Create a game whereby kids can trade in their sweet stash for treats they are able to eat or for non-edible prizes your child will love (a LEGO set, books, a movie), Diamond suggests.

LEARN ABOUT BLUE PUMPKIN BUCKETS» Started

by a British mom, and supported by the National Autism Association, blue buckets shaped like pumpkins are designed to hold treats, but also indicate that the bucket-holder is on the autism spectrum.

It’s a great way for kids with special needs to let others know they may not communicate in the same ways children without special needs would typically communicate on Halloween.

TAKE NOTES» Notice what upsets your child, which times they enjoyed themselves the most, and how much they squirmed in their costume. The more details you commit to memory (or to a note in your iPhone), the better experience your child will have next year.

CELEBRATE YOUR OWN WAY» If your child doesn’t want to go trick-or-treating, there are other ways to celebrate.

• Your child can help pass out candy to trick-or-treaters, Diamond suggests. From this safe remove, they are still participating in the holiday and practicing some social skills.

• Host a Halloween party with family and friends at home.

Children can help make Halloween cookies or themed foods.

• Watch age-appropriate Halloween TV shows or movies.

“If you know your children—and how to tailor the experience to their needs—then they can definitely manage it,” Diamond advises. But also consider this: “Halloween is a tradition, but is it a tradition that the parents feel is a priority for their family?” There’s nothing wrong with deciding not to take part in the holiday if it’s not a priority and it causes a lot of anxiety for your child.

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Why Attend an Open House?

10 reasons you should attend these events if your child is applying to a new school for the 2022-2023 year

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f your child is in the process of applying for enrollment in a new school for the 2022-2023 academic year, attending as many open house events as possible at prospective schools is extremely important—even if they are being held virtually.

Here’s why these open houses are essential.

1. MEET THE FACULTY

This is your opportunity for you and your child to meet their potential future teachers and principal. The principal plays a major role in the school and, consequently, in the lives of the students. It is very important that you feel comfortable with this person being at the forefront of your child’s education.

2. BE ON THE SCHOOL’S RADAR

Schools often take note of which students attend their open house events and that could be factor in their decision to offer your child a spot. Always be sure to neatly write your child’s name on the attendance sheet so the school knows they were there.

3. GET A FEEL FOR THE SURROUNDINGS

Ever hear of good vibes? That’s exactly what you should feel for a prospective school. The atmosphere, the staff, the location, the students—all of it should just feel right. If it doesn’t, trust your gut and cross that school off your list.

4. ASSESS YOUR COMMUTE

If the event is being held in person, it’s a good chance to do a practice run on the commute. You can see how far the school is from your home, how long it takes to get there, and what the surrounding neighborhood is like. At the open house you’ll also learn what transportation options are available for your child.

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in-depth look at the programs and courses offered at the school.

You can ask questions, meet the teachers heading up each program, and learn about your child’s academic options.

6. VOICE SAFETY CONCERNS

Your child’s safety is crucial. At the open house, the school will address any questions or concerns you have about security measures, emergency procedures, possible crime statistics, health and safety precautions, and more. This is your chance to express any concerns you have.

7. LEARN ABOUT THE SCHOOL DAY

At the open house, you’ll find out what time school starts and ends, when your child will be eating lunch, what their daily schedule might look like, how the periods are structured, and other information about the school day.

8. SEE WHAT EXTRACURRICULARS ARE AVAILABLE

Most schools offer after-school sports, academic clubs, and other programs your child might be interested in joining. A school that offers a wide variety of extracurricular activities might play a large role in your decision to apply.

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One of the best ways to learn about a school is from current students. In fact, students are often on-hand at open houses to help describe the programs in which they are involved and what student life is like at the school.

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Is she the leader of the pack?

Yes

What’s the first thing she does in the car?

Roll down window

The Arts

Her favorite subject is...

Science

No

Turn on radio

Dance, drama, or a music class would be a great fit for your kid.

She is creative and has a zest for life that just can’t be contained. You might have a potential triple-threat on your hands!

President

Your child’s room is...

English

Clean

Is he smarter than you?

Yes

Messy

What’s more important?

Grades

Academic Enrichment

Your smarty pants can’t get enough of reading, writing, and arithmetic. Many tutoring centers also offer enrichment classes, espeically during the summer.

Get your Einstein learning all year long.

Experience

Art Class

If your child is constantly drawing or painting at home, save yourself the mess and get him into an art class. Art is a great way for your little Picasso to express himself.

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AFTER-SCHOOL GUIDE Art Lab - The School of Fine & Applied Arts in Snug Harbor 1000 Richmond Terrace • 10301 718-447-8667 info@artlabsi.org • artlabsi.org

PROGRAMS: Art classes offered year round for ages 3-adult. Summer Camp Kandinsky and Camp Picasso ages 3-12, Summer Studio Scholarship Program for ages 13-adult, art gallery & community events.

ACTIVITIES: Art classes, camp, birthday parties and school trips. Adult classes and gallery events. Scholarship available. Art Lab has been part of the cultural life of S.I. for 45+ years.

Center Stage Dance Co. Ltd. 10 Akron Plaza • 10314 718-982-9226 centerstagedanceltd@yahoo.com centerstagedancecoltd.org

PROGRAMS: 2.5-adult. Jazz, tap, ballet, lyrical, hip-hop, across, contemporary, open stretch.

ACTIVITIES: Recreational & competitive dance classes.

Private lessons & birthday parties available.

Family/multiple class discounts.

DEA Music and Art School

Multiple locations in SI 718-370-7733 assist@deamusicandart.com deamusicandart.com

PROGRAMS: A performing arts school offering the highest level of instruction with amazing performing opportunities. Our Showchoir performs regularly the opening act to the Rockettes show at Radio City Music Hall.

ACTIVITIES: Musical Theater, Visual Arts, Rockband Classes, Musical Instruments, Showchoir.

Many performing opportunities, exams,

and assessments are offered throughout the year.

Dorothy Delson Kuhn

Music Institute of the JCC 1466 Manor Road • 10314 718-475-5263 eseeley@sijcc.com • sijcc.org PROGRAMS: Private music lessons taught by professional musicians. Piano, voice, guitar, violin, cello, all woodwind and brass. Early childhood music. Ensembles and chamber groups. Workshops for public schools.

ACTIVITIES: Students also take musicianship and theory class. They may participate in recitals held monthly. Scholarship and financial aid available for private lessons.

JCC Explorers After School Program

1466 Manor Road • 10314 SFeldman@sijcc.com • SIJCC.org

PROGRAMS: Our after school program at the Bernikow JCC aims to educate the whole child through various activities that stimulate the mind, body, and spirit. Busing available from select schools. Open daily until 7pm.

ACTIVITIES: Academic support and homework help, sports & fitness classes, instructional swim, yoga and Zumba classes, chess and games, healthy choice cooking projects, STEAM activities, meditation, and more!

Resource Room Tutoring Center

534 Forest Ave. • 10310 718-838-0085 info@resourceroomsi.com resourceroomsi.com FB @resourceroomsi | IG @resourceroomsi PROGRAMS: Resource Room’s mission is to provide every student an opportunity to have the

best education possible with all academic subjects. Private in-person tutoring for K-12 subjects and test prep for SAT, ACT, SHSAT, TACHS, NYS Regents.

ACTIVITIES: Led and owned by licensed NYS teachers, Resource Room provides tailored individualized academic instruction for students of all ages. Using a personalized approach, we can help bridge the gap from one year to the next in all academic subject areas. The Resource Room learning center focuses on developing students’ individual academic skills, confidence and abilities. Follow us on social media and view our 5 STAR Google Review.

Staten Island Skating Pavilion 3080 Arthur Kill Road • 10309 718-948-4800 • 718-605-4800 skateschool@thepavilion.org hockey@thepavilion.org thepavilion.org

PROGRAMS: Learn to Skate USA Figure Skating, Learn to Play Ice Hockey with the NY Rangers, beginner to advanced, ages 4+ ACTIVITIES: Providing a fun learning environment where positive coaching promotes confidence & makes each glide on the ice enjoyable!

Wagner College

Department For Lifelong Learning 631 Howard Ave. • 10301 718-390-3221 lifelong-learning@wagner.edu wagner.edu/lifelong-learning PROGRAMS: Friday after school & Saturday classes for ages 4 to 17. ACT Musical Theater & Performing Arts, Architecture, Art, Business, Ceramics, Coding, Dungeons & Dragons, Magic The Gathering, Mindfulness, Photography, ELA/Math & SHSAT/TACHS Test Prep, Lego Robotics, Science, Sign Language, STEAM, Video Game Design

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EDUCATION GUIDE PRESCHOOLS & DAY CARE Bright Minds Academy

75 SkyLine Drive • 10304 877-826-2060 brightmindsacademysi@gmail.com bma.school facebook.com/brightmindsacademy instagram.com/brightmindsacademy

PROGRAMS: Voucher and private pay accepted. Pick-up/ drop-off services. Fun educational curriculum, nutritious meals, certified teachers.

ACTIVITIES: Arts & crafts, sewing, baking, music, dance, zumba, chess, pod casting, Robotic UBtech, and more.

The Children’s Center - College of Staten Island

JCC of Staten Island

1297 Arthur Kill Road • 10312 718-475-5224 485 Victory Blvd. • 10301 718-475-5290 1466 Manor Road • 10314 718-475-5230 2221 Richmond Ave. • 10314 718-475-5100 sijcc.org PROGRAMS: Infant/Toddler Care - 12 mos; ages 3 mos-2.8 yrs; 3, 4, 5 days/week 7am-6pm; extended hrs 7-9am & 4-6pm. Full Day 3K and PreK for All. Contact facility for specific programs.

ACTIVITIES: Literature, art, music & movement. Intro to Jewish culture and tradition. Indoor and outdoor play area.

2800 Victory Blvd. • Bldg. 2R/Rm 104 • 10314 St. Joseph Hill Academy 718-982-3190 850 Hylan Blvd. • 10305 childrenscenter@csi.cuny.edu 718-981-1187 csi.cuny.edu/childcare egregor@stjhill.org • stjosephhillacademy.com PROGRAMS: PROGRAMS: Infant/Toddler, Preschool, School age (For Pre-K3 – 8th grade. Aftercare available.

Children of CSI students). 3K and PKA Full Day (3K & Pre-K for all funded by NYC DOE) Call for info. Alignment of ELA and Social Studies Curriculums, Project Based Learning including STREAM Pre-K to 8, ACTIVITIES: Project Lead The Way Science Curriculum Early education featuring developmentally appropriate hands-on learning experiences aligned with NGSS K to 8. in a caring, well-supervised environment.

4 Angels Day Care, Inc.

245 Simonson Ave. • 10303 917-821-5048 my4angelsdaycareinc@msn.com 4angelsdaycareinc.com

PROGRAMS: M-F 7am-7pm. 6 wks-12 yrs. Cert. teachers.

Spanish/ English vouchers accepted. Free UPK for 3- and 4-year-olds.

ACTIVITIES: iStartSmart technology in the classroom.

Everything your child needs in a friendly, loving, multi-cultural environment giving parents peace of mind.

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ACTIVITIES: Sports: Soccer, Swimming, Golf, Basketball and more to come. Clubs: Theater, Band, Chess, Fencing, Robotics, Computer Repair, Wacky Science, Hill Explorers, Story and Craft, Hill Herald, Book Club, Zumba and more.

Staten Island Academy

715 Todt Hill Road • 10304 718-303-7803 ccrane65@statenislandacademy.org statenislandacademy.org PROGRAMS: Coed college prep school for Pre-K3-Gr 12. Free extended day 7am-7pm. Summer programs. College guidance program.

Academic Resource Center staffed with Orton-Gillingham trained specialists. Needbased Financial Aid available beginning in Kindergarten.

ACTIVITIES: Honors Math & Science, AP curriculum, varied electives, Model UN & Congress, musical theater Gr. 5-12, Gr.9 Academy in London, Gr.10 New York Experience incl, Varsity & JV teams, Maker Space studio.

Tender Care Preschool

6581 Hylan Blvd. • 10309 718-317-2849 lherman@cc-si.org mountloretto.org/tender-care-preschool PROGRAMS: Free full day UPK and 3-K, half & full days for 2 year olds. Summer Camp.

ACTIVITIES: Large enclosed playground & indoor gym, library. music and movement specials during the school day. Extended hours 7am-6pm. Sprinkler park on campus for Summer Camp. Located on the grounds of beautiful Mount Loretto. Plenty of parking.

SPECIAL NEEDS JCC of Staten Island - First Foot Forward 1466 Manor Road • 10314 718-475-5226 1297 Arthur Kill Road • 10312 718-475-5224 2221 Richmond Ave. • 10314 718-475-5100 sijcc.org

PROGRAMS: Special education preschool for ages 2.5-5.

Full day. Center based & integrated classes.

Related services. Transportation & tuition at no cost to eligible children.

ACTIVITIES: Multi-disciplinary evaluations. Speech & language, occupational, physical & play therapy. Movement & music.

Mainstreaming. Parent support groups.

sihebrewpublic.org Apply online for the 2022-2023 school year!

Tuition-Free Open To All Diverse By Design

!‫פתיחה חגיגית‬ Grand Opening September 2022!

Staten Island Hebrew Public will open in September 2022 as a PK-1 public charter school, growing to serve grades PK-5 by fall 2026. We offer a rigorous curriculum and instruction in Modern Hebrew to students of all backgrounds.

829 Father Capodanno Blvd. Staten Island, NY 10305

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5 Tips for a Successful IEP Meeting

One mom shares what she does in Individualized Education Program meetings to help them run smoothly.

BY DANA GREENBERG

T

hose of us who’ve been through it before are very aware how stressful and unpredictable IEP meetings can be.

IEP stands for Individualized Education Program, which is the plan created for every child eligible for special-needs services from their public school specifying how the school will meet your child’s specific educational needs. IEP meetings are the yearly get-together at which parents gather with a team of professionals from the school district to discuss your child’s needs for the upcoming school year and develop your child’s plan for the year. We parents know what our children need better than anyone, but, unfortunately, we are not always heard.

Here are some of the things I do at my meeting to help ensure that it is a success.

SHOW A PICTURE OF YOUR CHILD. One of the first things I do is hold up a picture of my son and introduce him.

Usually there are people at the meeting who have never met him. I would like them to all see the boy we are talking about.

TAKE GOOD NOTES. Ask the professionals to slow down if you need them to. Let them know you don’t want to miss anything. I usually bring a notebook to write in. Be sure to ask who everyone is and what their titles are. Before you leave, ask for a copy of the minutes (that someone should have been taking). You can compare the minutes to your notes to make sure you're all on the same page.

NEVER SIGN ANYTHING — EXCEPT THE ATTENDANCE SHEET. This is definitely something to

remember. If they ask you to sign something else, tell them you want to review it at home; you're allowed to say this. Before you leave the meeting, ask them to give you a copy of the attendance sheet as well.

DON’T LET THEM RUSH YOU. If these meetings are

still new to you, you may hear words and terms that are not completely familiar to you. Feel free to ask them to explain everything. That is their job. Remind them, if necessary, that this is your child who is being discussed, not an abstract idea.

If time runs out and you feel like you need more time, you can ask for an additional meeting to continue the discussion.

DISCUSS PLACEMENTS. If you have already visited potential schools, let them know. Give them details of what you saw and why it would not work for your child. Let them know that you have been proactive about the situation. Ask them to discuss their ideas about possible placements for your child.

Remember, nothing is set in stone at this time, but it's something that should be discussed.

These are some of the things I always do at my son’s IEP meeting, I hope they may help guide you to a smoother, more successful IEP meeting of your own.

Dana Greenberg is a mom of twins living in Manhattan. Her site, TheAutismClub.com, was created to connect moms who have kids with special needs, like her son Jack—who has autism—and offer them a space to tell their stories. This article was originally published in 2017.

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Helping Your Child Succeed in the Classroom 5 things you can do to help your child have the best school year possible

BY JACQUELINE NEBER

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ood parent-teacher communication is crucial for any successful school year, but being on the same page becomes even more important when your child has a learning disability. There are a few steps you can take to help ensure your child has the best year possible.

er tip? Write a letter describing your child and their needs at the beginning of the year (you can still do this now, as it will help your child’s teacher get to know them better).

KNOW YOUR RIGHTS AND SPEAK UP. Parents

child’s IEP goals—which can differ from their classroom goals. This difference often confuses parents who see their student accomplishing goals on one end of the spectrum and not the other.

are entitled to receive information about special education from their schools and teachers—reading up and staying informed is the best way to advocate for your kid. When attending Committee for Special Education meetings, annual review meetings, or parent-teacher conferences, if you don’t understand something, ask questions.

COMMUNICATE WITH TEACHERS FREQUENTLY. Kathy Devine and Emily Cole, teachers

at Waverly Avenue Elementary School in Holtsville, say parents of students with special needs must be extra communicative with teachers. “We would like to know sooner when things might be happening at home, whether it’s medication changes or maybe something in the home life has changed,” Cole says. When it comes to homework, “reach out to us as soon as possible so that we’re not waiting until the end of a trimester to know [kids are] struggling,” Devine says. Anoth-

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UNDERSTAND INDIVIDUALIZED EDUCATION PLAN GOALS. Equally important is understanding your

INVOLVE YOUR CHILD. Cassie Reilly, transition

coordinator at Northport High School, suggests involving your kid in IEP and parent-teacher conferences. Being open with them from the time of diagnosis helps them stand up for themselves and understand their learning disability does not make them inferior to others.

BE SENSITIVE TO DIFFERENCE. Parents should understand their kids might be different at home than at school, Reilly adds. And, even more importantly, their kids might have an atypical path toward success. Communicating with teachers is key to understanding how your kid can progress in the best way.

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Sunny Days Early Intervention Services Making the world brighter, one child at at time. Providing a full range of services: Physical Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Speech Therapy, Psychological Services & ABA Special Instruction Services. We tailor these services to specifically target each child’s needs with an individualized Family Service Plan (IFSP). Tele-Health services available immediately!

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Person Centered Care Services Person Centered Care Services is a not-for-profit organization creating social change within communities by supporting people with disabilities on their search for identity and acceptance. Services available include Community Supports, Residential Supports, Career Supports, Day Supports, Family Education & Training, and Self-Directed Supports.

Additional opportunities for trainings and education available include but are not limited to the Disability Ally Initiative, an interactive training that offers insight into and knowledge of disability culture, seeking to cultivate communities of belonging where businesses, agencies and people work together to better understand and fully include people with disabilities in society. We also offer CEUs for NYS Social Workers. To learn more about opportunities available, visit pccsny.org.

150 Granite Ave. • SI, NY 10303 718-370-1088 • info@pccsny.org facebook.com/pccsny • instagram.com/pccsny • twitter.com/PCCSny

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Milestones in Motion Babies are amazing, let us show you how.

Our mission is to educate parents what motor milestones are, how to achieve them, and how to support one another through parenthood. Check out our Instagram for FREE TIPS on gross motor development, parenting, pregnancy, and more.

MIMPTW offers 1-on-1, individualized physical therapy services in the comfort of your own home. We also offer specialized, “parent & me” style wellness classes focused on a particular developmental skill. If you want to learn how to purposefully play with your child to facilitate rolling, crawling, or walking, these classes are for you. Lastly, we offer sport specific training for people of all ages to improve their ability to participate in their sport.USE CODE “SIPARENT” FOR $10 OFF ANY SERVICE. 646-334-0703 facebook.com/milestonesinmotionptw • instagram.com/milestonesinmotionptw

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MiMa Create and Play

MiMa Create and Play offers tons of opportunities to create, play, learn and explore in every possible way. Our sensory gym and play space is designed to spark kids’ imaginations and their love to discover. We are proud to say that our space is filled with different kinds of swinging equipment and endless imaginative activities. Help improve your child’s motor skills and body awareness with our overhead equipment including hammocks, hanging ladders, buoy balls and much more! Try an art class in our paint room. We use high quality equipment and washable paints suitable for specific age groups.

MiMa CREATE AND PLAY

881 Main St., Suite 14 Sayreville, NJ 08872 732-952-8444 info@mimacreateandplay.com

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The GRACE Foundation

The GRACE Foundation is a nonprofit organization that was established to improve the lives of individuals and families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) Today the rate of newly diagnosed children is 1 in 54. As individuals with ASD age, more specialized services are required to address the changing needs of the individual and their families. Currently GRACE provides programs (including Site Based Respite/In-Home Respite, Day Hab, Com Hab, SEMP and FI) for over 300 participants (ages 5-30) and growing. The ultimate goals are to enable individuals with ASD to lead independent and productive lives.

THE GRACE FOUNDATION 718-983-3800 460 Brielle Ave. • 10314 facebook.com/graceofny.org

graceofny.org SERVICES A VERY SPECIAL PLACE, INC. (AVSP)​​ A Very Special Place, Inc. provides a comprehensive network of programs and services, including fiscal intermediary services for Self-Direction for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families.

49 Cedar Grove Avenue • 10306 info@avspny.org • avspny.org facebook.com/AVSPSI instagram.com/averyspecialplace

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SERVICES INCLUDEnyc We are the Staten Island Family and Community Engagement (FACE) Center and can answer your questions about special education and disability serving systems, from birth to age 21.

Call our FREE Help Line: 212-677-4660 (English) and 212-677-4668 (Español).

Interpretation available in over 200 languages.

212-677-4660 | info@includenyc.org includenyc.org facebook.com/includenyc instagram.com/includenyc

PRESCHOOL JCC FIRST FOOT FORWARD The JCC of Staten Island offers First Foot Forward as part of our continuum of services for people with disabilities. First Foot Forward is a special education preschool program which provides services for children with speech/language, motor, and cognitive delays.

Jayne Smith, Chief Program Director 718-475-5265 • jsmith@sijcc.com 1466 Manor Road • 1297 Arthur Kill Road 2221 Richmond Ave.

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Sensorielle

Sensorielle was established in 2020 after recognizing how many parents were struggling with their children during the unprecedented COVID-19 experience. We possess a combined 15 years of professional experience working with monolingual and bilingual children from birth through adolescence including early intervention, speech delays, sensory processing disorder and children with ASD. Sensorielle provides a variety of classes and services tailored to children’s needs and interests.

With a vision of providing the community of children with a multiple intelligence approach to learning; we believe in having children fully immersed in their learning.

We incorporate proprioceptive activities, thematically correlating arts, culture, music, movement, and social emotional skills.

1847 Victory Blvd. • 10314 347-341-6849 • sensoriellenyc@gmail.com • instagram.com/sensoriellenyc

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Eden II Programs The mission of Eden II Programs is to support people with autism throughout their lives to achieve their full potential through service, science, and passion. Programs and services include: Preschool, school, SEIT, SETSS, adult services, residential services, community habilitation, respite, afterschool recreation, consultation support, and various other supports and programs for children and adults with autism spectrum disorders.

EDEN II PROGRAMS

Agency Headquarters | 15 Beach St. • 10304 facebook.com/eden2programs twitter.com/Eden_Two instagram.com/eden2programs/ youtube.com/user/EDEN2Programs

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AHRC NYC James P. Murphy Staten Island Prep

At the James P. Murphy Staten Island Preparatory School, we are proud to provide a rigorous curricular program combined with ABA programming to meet the needs of students with disabilities from ages 3 to 13. Our curriculum includes ELA, mathematics, science and social studies with the use of the Next Generation Learning Standards modified for our students to access instruction. Our school is excited to provide on-site related services and a social emotional learning emphasis for each student in our building. Small classroom ratios and specially trained staff allow for an individualized experience and approach to learning.

AHRC NYC JAMES P. MURPHY STATEN ISLAND PREP 23 Summit St. • 10307 • 718-285-9377

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Professional Services DIRECTORY Seeking out nearby resources in legal services, speech development, therapy or other specific need?

These local professionals can help.

ATTORNEYS

KURT T. RICHARDS, P.C. ATTORNEY AT LAW Divorce, Family Court, Child Custody, Spousal & Child Support, Domestic 1200 South Ave., Suite 201 • SI, NY 718-720-1000 www.krichardspc.com

Violence, Adoptions, Name Changes, Annulments, Separation Agreements.

Free Consultation for Divorce Actions. 24 Hour Phone Service.

ORTHODONTICS SALVATORE R. INDELICATO, D.M.D., P.C. 444 Huguenot Ave. • SI, NY 10312 718-967-5213 www.bracesbydrindelicato.com

Our office follows all Covid-19 safety guidelines from the CDC, ADA & AAO. Mini & Clear Braces, Invisalign, Digital Scanner, Free Consults. Gentle, personal, quality care for children/adults.

American Assoc. of Orthodontists & Diplomate of American Board of Orthodontics Member.

PSYCHOTHERAPISTS MICHAEL DESIMONE PH.D, LCSW

175 Burbank Ave., New Dorp • 917-301-5962 michael.w.desimone@gmail.com www.michaeldesimonetherapy.com

Offering Telehealth therapy sessions via telephone or video during the pandemic.

Treating a number of Acute Stress Disorders triggered by the ongoing threat of COVID-19. I continue to provide mental health services related to anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, loss and grief for adults, adolescents and latency age children. Private and confidential.

SPEECH PATHOLOGY SANDRA MAZZUCCO M.A., C.C.C.-SLP Annadale Town: 465 Belfield Ave. North Shore: 1076 Forest Ave. 718-815-6024

NYS Licensed Speech Language Pathologist. Evaluations & Therapeutic Intervention for Children & Adults, PROMPT Trained, Oral Motor & Feeding Therapy, Specializing in Fluency. ASHA Certified. Following COVID-19 Guidelines. Telehealth available.

TUTOR TINY TO TALL TUTORING & TEST PREP 347-749-0024 tinytotalltutoringandtestprep@gmail.com FB & IG TinyToTallTutoringandTestPrep

A network of enthusiastic and experienced teachers providing virtual and in person tutoring and test preparation. Whether you are looking for one on one, individualized tutoring sessions or group programs, we’ve got you covered!

Dr. Aleksandr Orlovskiy, MD Dr. Marina Fest, DNP-C

Your Health Specialist 2076 Hylan Blvd, Staten Island, NY 10306 718-979-4865 • SIMMCPC@GMAIL.COM

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Modern medical care is a multi-specialty practice.

Two primary care providers are Dr. Marina Fest, DNP-C and Dr. Aleksandr Orlovskiy, MD. We provide primary care services to patients 14 years and older. In office procedures include: lab work, ultrasound diagnostics, allergy testing/ immunotherapy, im/iv infusions, acute and chronic disease management, physical and pre-operative clearances, weight loss program. Also available in the office cardiologist, endocrinologist, surgeon.

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A Very Special Place, Inc. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42 Danna & Associates, PC . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Dr. Michael Desimone . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Eden ll . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 Grace Foundation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14, 42 INCLUDE nyc . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42 James P. Murphy Staten Island Preparatory School (AHRCNYC) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 JCC of Staten Island . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42, 48 Los Ninos Services . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47 Milestones In Motion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41 MIMA Create and Play . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42 Person Centered Care Services . . . . . . . . . . . 41 Proud Moments Therapy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39 Sandra Mazzucco (Speech & Language Pathology) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Sensorielle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 SI YMCA Counseling . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Counsels, William H. Pouch Scout Camp. . . . 23

Integration Charter Schools . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Historic Richmond Town . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

St Joseph Hill Academy

Rab’s Country Lanes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Elementary School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

SI Skating Pavilion/ Prodigy Preschool . . . . . . . 2

St. Joseph By The Sea Hs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

SIEDC-SI ECONOMIC DEVELPMENT CORP . 11

St. Peter’s Boys High School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

Storybook Land . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Staten Island Academy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

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Staten Island Hebrew Charter School . . . . . . . 35

HEALTH

Kids Dental . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Kurt T Richards Pc . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Maimonides Medical Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 Modern Medical Care PC . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Salvatore R Indelicato,DMD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44

The Community School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 Tiny To Tall Tutoring and Test Prep . . . . . . . . . 44 Tiny Treasures Academy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

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The Family Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

HOME IMPROVEMENT

SPORTS, MUSIC & ART

(KC3): Electrify Staten Island . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7

Master Curry Karate . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3

Victor Sala Home Inspection LLC . . . . . . . . . . 44

Piano Lessons Marsha Ponce . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Kinetic Communities Consulting Corporation

Sunny Days Consulting Services . . . . . . . . . . . 41

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FAMILY FUN

Bright Minds Academy Inc. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Boy Scouts of America, Greater New York

Staten Island Technical High School . . . . . . . . 30

Big Bird’s Playhouse . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

JCC of Staten Island . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42, 48

SI Community Tennis Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23 SI Skating Pavilion/ Prodigy Preschool . . . . . . . 2

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It’s Fall Y’all!

BY ZLATA FAERMAN

all happens to be my favorite season of the year. There’s something special about the changing colors of leaves, cozier outfits, crisp fresh air, and the multitude of outdoor activities available to choose from. All that, and my hair doesn’t frizz as much as it does in the summer!

Brands like Starbucks, Bath and Body Works, and even Budweiser notoriously offer up pumpkin-spiced flavors before the season even begins. Truth be told, I’ve never tried pumpkin, let alone anything pumpkin-spiced, but, hey, crowds go wild for the flavor.

There’s plenty of other fall-themed products to try outside of just pumpkin, so here are some of my picks:

As fall progresses and the days get shorter, the mornings feel harder. I love simple and quick breakfast options because chances are I’m tired and groggy from a Real Housewives binge on Bravo from the night before. Purely Elizabeth’s oatmeal options are crafted with a plant-based protein and superfood ingredients, like chia and flax, to fuel the start of your day. Fall flavors include Classic Cinnamon and Apple Cinnamon Pecan. purelyelizabeth.com.

No matter what season, Mamas ain’t making it without coffee. Recently, I’ve been living on Lucky Jack Coffee. It’s a handcrafted, sustainable coffee that’s roasted in small batches with a slow cold-steep brew process. They come in great flavors, all of which are certified organic: Caramel, Mocha, Vanilla, and the seasonal Pumpkin Spice. Plus, Lucky Jack also offers nitro oat milk lattes. luckyjackcoffee.com.

Decocrated is an award-winning home decor box that offers seasonal pieces delivered right to your door four times a year. Items can be decorative trays, tabletop decor, throw pillow covers, DIY projects, and more.

The curated collection lets you seamlessly transition your home each season and complements any existing decor you already have. decocrated.com.

Creating a calming candle at home is possible with Siblings, a DIY candle kit that uses eco-friendly materials to encourage the reuse of its awesome vessels. Not only do the candles smell delicious, but it’s a fun and easy activity to do with the family. Just microwave the bag to melt the wax, add the wick to the vessel, and pour the wax.

Genius! siblings.co.

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Little Bridges provides a set of fun-filled activities that are designed to inspire meaningful conversations and connections between kids and adults. I was a huge fan of its Grandma & Me: In the Kitchen Activity Kit (well, my mom was!), and I’m really pumped for the newest activity kit called Family Time Fun. It offers more than 45 boredom-busting ideas for fun and memorable play, perfect for those rainy, cold fall days when you can’t go hiking or apple picking! littlebridges.com.

Another easy breakfast option? Ellenos, my favorite yogurt ever, is a cult-favorite Greek yogurt brand.

It recently launched a seasonal Pumpkin Pie flavor made with its iconic base and enhanced with a swirl of pumpkin puree and a pumpkin crumble on top. ellenos.com.

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