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COVER STORY Volunteering With Your Preschooler There’s something about November that makes people more community-minded and that’s a really nice thing. If you are looking to encourage volunteerism in your children, “young” seems to be the right age to start! Heather Van Deest offers six tips to inspire the spirit of giving– offering relevant, practical suggestions to introduce young children to the concept of service to others.

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ARTICLES 28 Tea for Two The Parent-Teacher Conference

34 Dream Big The importance of having dreams and goals

36 Adoption 101 Basics for those considering adoption

40 Staten Island Moms Share Their Holiday Experience Holiday tractions from four local Moms

44 Can Gratitude Change Your Life?

Transform your life through the power of gratitude

48 How to Speak to Parents Who’ve Adopted The right words to begin a comfortable conversation

62 Make a Difference Without Donating Money Alternatives to writing a check to help a cause

66 Planning the Holiday Meal Themes and ideas from Thanksgiving to New Years

COLUMNS 32 Good Sports

by Joe LoVerde

46 Dear Teacher

by Peggy Gisler & Marge Eberts

52 Parent & Child Time

by Ann Clinton

56 Growing Up Online

CONTESTS & CLUBS 6 25th Anniversary iPad Mini Contest 58 Ho-Ho-Holiday Great Gift Giveaway 69 Hand-Stitched Baby Blanket Giveaway 90 Contest Winners 91 Find the Hidden Cake 104 Birthday Club

by Carolyn Jabs

65 Ask the Doctor

by Lucy Pontrelli, MD and Jason Perlman, MD

92 Gigi’s World

by Gigi & Gina LaGuardia-Schrecker

FAMILY NEEDS 60 It’s In The Cards 94 Party Services 98 Family Classifieds 100 Professional Directory

S. I. LIVING 20 Community & School News 64 Facebook Chatter 69 Birth Announcements 70 Family Calendar

SPECIAL SECTIONS 58 Ho-Ho-Holiday Gift Giveaway 68 OMG...I’m a Mom!

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LETTER FROM THE PUBLISHER Dear Friends of S.I. Parent, Our Staten Island Parent Team is very excited to be entering our 25th year of publishing with this issue of S.I. Parent magazine!

We want to thank you for your loyalty and support. So to begin the celebration, we invite you to enter our drawing for an iPad Mini so that you can conveniently enjoy reading our magazine online. Continue the fun by entering our 25 Great Gifts Giveaway on page 58. Be sure to look for more wonderful contests in the coming months.

Over the years, we have addressed your questions and concerns about raising your children in Staten Island, and have provided solutions to many of your parenting needs. As technology has grown and improved in so many ways, so have we in order to keep pace with you. Today our magazine is readily available 24/7 online for you to read. As busy parents, grandparents, and caretakers, we know you need to access the information you want immediately. Our website, www.siparent.com, has been designed to compliment our publication. We are so pleased that Staten Island Parent has evolved into a multi-platform resource hub for the community. Just like your growing family, we never stop changing. Be on the lookout for new and exciting developments to meet your needs. Our creative team is constantly striving to inform, connect, and help parents in the community through our editorial, social media, and advertising initiatives.

November is National Adoption Month. To the many adoptive families in our community (including mine) and to those considering adoption, this is an important month in which to focus on family.

In many of our homes this month, Thanksgiving will be extra special with the lighting of the Menorah candles to celebrate Chanukah. We hope you enjoy the holiday season with loved ones.

The journey of Staten Island Parent has been so much fun over the years, and we thank you for letting us be a part of your lives. On behalf of our Staten Island Parent Team, I would like to express our gratitude for your loyalty over the years. We have been able to provide you with the information you need because of the support from the many businesses who believe in what we do for you.

Thanks again for making us the go-to resource in the community for all of your family needs. We appreciate you. See you on Facebook!

Legacy of an Adopted Child Once there were two women who never knew each other.

One you do not remember, the other you call "Mother."

One gave you emotions, the other calmed your fears.

One saw your first smile, the other dried your tears.

Two different lives shaped to make yours one.

One became your guiding star, the other became your sun.

One gave you up, it was all that she could do.

The other prayed for a child and was led straight to you.

And now you ask me through your tears The first gave you life, the second taught you to live it. the age questionin through thecombinations years, The first gave you a need for Love, the second was there to give Bitty it. Baby is a 15-inch soft-bodied dollold available 11 different of skin tone, eye-, and hair-color, allowing girls to create a one-of-a-kind companion that¹s Bitty Baby doll comes dressed herI signature sleeper, "Heredity or environment, whichinam the product of?" along One gave you a nationality, the other gave you a name. just right for them. Each One gave you the seed for talent, the other gave you an aim. with a special ‘wishing star’ keepsake toy and a beautifully illustrated Bitty Baby and Neither Me hardcover picture book.my darling, neither, Just two different kinds of Love.

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EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Roselle Farina Hecht PUBLISHERS Roselle Farina Hecht Luciano Rammairone SENIOR EDITOR/ DESIGNER Gerri Friscia DESIGNER Michelle Yannaco

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S.I. LIVING Community & School News

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November is the quintessential autumn month. The clear, crisp air and Mother Nature’s colorful backdrop revives us and makes us want to spend more time enjoying outdoor activities. Staten Island is a wonderful place to live when you are planning a fun family day. Check out all there is to do in and around our fair borough and you can keep your kids happy, healthy, and fit.

Be sure to change your clocks or you’ll be an hour early for everything on Sunday!

Important November School News

Gifted and Talented Admissions:

Parent Teacher Conferences:

Families may now submit a Gifted & Talented Request for Testing (RFT) form for students entering grades K-3 in September 2014. The last day to submt a form is Friday, November 8, 2013. See schools.nyc.gov for more information.

Whether you love them or dread them, it’s time for Parent Teacher Conferences! Read the article on page 28 and go to your meeting prepared. Here is the schedule for the fall public school meetings: District 75:

Wed., Nov 6 Evening Thurs., Nov 7 Afternoon

Elementary:

Wed., Nov. 13 Evening Thurs., Nov. 14 Afternoon

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Mon., Nov. 18 Evening Tues., Nov 19 Afternoon

TACHS Administration: The Test for Admission to Catholic High Schools will be administered on Friday, November 8th. If your child is scheduled to take the test and you have not received an Admit Card by November 4th, call 866-618-2247. High Schools will release their notices of admission on January 15, 2014. More info at www.tachsinfo.com. Best of luck to all taking the test!

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SAT Testing: The SAT is offered seven times a year: October, November, December, January, March, May, and June. Most students take this college admission test during their junior and/or senior year of high school; many take it more than once. The deadline for registration for the December 7 test is midnight on November 8.

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For the past 32 years, Victoria Ferrara has conducted an annual holiday toy drive to benefit “The House That Love Built,” which is the Ronald McDonald House. Starting out in 1981 after her 18-year-old son Michael died of Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, the toy drive has grown from a small van of toys to a moving truck full of toys, games, and gifts.

Victoria is proud to deliver the gifts right before the holidays to the children residing at The Ronald McDonald House during an extremely difficult time in their lives.

Suggestions for donations are “NEW” (because of the risk of infection, which could cause death due to low white blood count) toys of any kind, board games, hand-held electronic games, cars, trucks, coloring books w/ crayons, stuffed animals, dolls, sports stuff, DVD’s, sweatshirts, sweatpants, slippers, blankets, afghans, lap throws, mittens, gloves, scarves, hats, bandanas, baseball caps, football, basketball, baseball and bat, baseball glove, etc. Remember age group is infant to 21 years of age, boy or girl.

If you would like to help put a smile on a sick child’s face this year, and at the same time honor the memory of a brave young Staten Islander, you can drop off your donations to Victoria here in Staten Island or mail them to The Ronald McDonald House, 405 E. 73 St., NY, 10021, Attn: Suzanna Houston. Call Victoria for details at 718-3562661.

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S.I. LIVING Community & School News Sandy Photo Reclamation Project Assemblywoman Nicole Malliotakis has put together a convenient way for Sandy survivors to relocate photographs lost during the storm.

A Facebook page, www.facebook.com/FindSandyPhotos, provides Staten Islanders an opportunity to look through the 696 photos that were collected by volunteers in New Dorp Beach after the storm.

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Graphic designer Michelle Cocozza volunteered her time and expertise by scanning in all the photos for this rewarding, yet tedious, task.

The website is public, so no Facebook account is necessary to view and people are encouraged to “tag” anyone they recognize in the hopes of reconnecting owners with their photographs.

Spaghetti & Marshmallow No, it’s not what’s for dinner. It’s the fall 2013 Spaghetti–Marshmallow Contest sponsored by the Staten Island Chapter of the American Institute of Architects to encourage creativity through architecture.

The contest challenges students to create a structure from only two materials: spaghetti and marshmallows, using no glue, tape or adhesives.

The contest will be judged in two categories, 2nd-5th grade and 6th-8th grade, on November 14 at Staten Island Technical High School at 6 p.m. Monetary prizes will be awarded to the top three entries, with additional prizes for honorable mentions.

No entry fee is required, however entrants are encouraged to bring a non-perishable food item for donation to one of our local pantries.

For more information on entering the contest, contact Jeffrey Geary at aviddesigns@verizon.net.

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This program is intended for greeting cards only, so please do not include letters, photos, or inserts of any kind. Glitter is not recommended as it can aggravate health issues of ill and injured recipients. Please mail your signed cards (no email or return addresses) to: Holiday Mail for Heroes P.O. Box 5456 Capitol Heights, MD 20791-5456 Cards must be received at the P.O. Box by December 6th.

Fairs, Farms & Food If you are looking for a place to get your live Christmas Tree, or if you are ready to start your holiday shopping, we are here to help.

Visit siparent.com for links to helpful information, including Tree Farms nearby and Holiday Fairs.

As this holiday season approaches, we become more aware of the many less fortunate families who rely on food pantries to help feed their families. If you would like to help, see a list of Staten Island locations on siparent.com/food_pantries.php You can view any time, anywhere from your computer, tablet or smartphone.

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TEA FOR TWO: THE PARENT-TEACHER CONFERENCE

utumn is here. There's a chill in the air and school is in full swing.

The pencils are sharpened and you've paid for picture day, yearbook, and T-shirts. Your taxi meter is full throttle for the afterschool runs: art club, baseball games, scout meetings, and piano lessons. You've been to Open House Night, met the teachers and staff, and have an overview of the curriculum.

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One common element among successful students is involved parents. Children whose parents are conscientious about education tend to do better academically and develop positive social skills. They have fewer behavioral problems, are less apt to cut class, and are most likely to graduate from high school.

THE PARENT-TEACHER CONFERENCE IS A GREAT TIME TO DEVELOP AN ON-GOING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CHILD’S TEACHER FOR THE ENTIRE SCHOOL YEAR.

It is important your child understands the home-school connection between parents and teachers. The Parent-Teacher Conference should be viewed by all involved as a time to share information, not a tattletale session. This is an opportunity to help the teacher get to know your youngster better and lay the groundwork for a mutually cooperative relationship.

The parent teacher conference is not just a one-time event, but sets the pace for an on- going relationship between parents and teachers for the entire school year. Consider the parent teacher conference as a team meeting. The goal is to plan effective strategies so your child will have a winning season.

A successful parent teacher conference should include the following: 1. Be Positive: Focus on your child's strengths, talents, and successes. Let the teacher know you love, cherish, and respect your child. You hold your child in high regard and expect others

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to do the same. Remember, you are entrusting your most precious possession to this teacher. This person may well spend more hours each day with your child than you do.

2. Keep it in Perspective: Children are not being immature; they are acting their age! Child development is a work-inprogress and behavior should be viewed as one point on an ever-changing continuum. When there is a problem, understand children often do "grow out of it." One of our jobs as a parent is to coach and support our children, with compassion and consistency, as they encounter life's ups-and-downs. It is critical that parents and teachers mutually support consequences of misdeeds, but not allow negativity to cast a shadow over the entire school year. It is important to separate the “doer” from the “deed” to avoid setting low expectations and a negative reputation for your youngster.

3. Focus on Reality: Neither exaggerate nor diminish your child's academic progress, social skills, or behavioral reactions.

Readily identify your youngster’s strengths and shortcomings.

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Remember too, you are emotionally invested in your child, but the teacher is able to be more objective. Respect the teacher as a professional child expert and consider his or her suggestions carefully.

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5. Thank the Teacher: Voice your appreciation for the teacher's time and interest in working with you to help your youngster succeed in school. Point out something specific the teacher has done that you especially like, such as birthday recognition, display of children's work, or notes home to parents. Mention a school related antidote your child has told you which reflects positively on the teacher or the school. Offer to volunteer in the classroom or with projects that can be done at home.

Each successful school year is a milestone for your child. Each grade level not only helps with academic progress, but with socialization skills. Ultimately, each success fortifies your youngster's feeling of self-worth and self-confidence.

The parent teacher conference is one vehicle for monitoring and coaching your child through a positive educational experience.

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GOOD SPORTS

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HELPING YOUR STUDENT ATHLETE FIND THE RIGHT COLLEGE If your son or daughter wants to play on a sports team in college, finding the right institution can be a complicated and daunting task.

Being on a team can enhance the collegiate experience and, for a skilled and determined few, perhaps launch a career as a professional athlete.

For that rare elite athlete, the colleges will often find you. But the overwhelming majority of student athletes will have to hunt for a school that they can afford, that can help them reach their academic goals and where they can play on the college team.

Does your child know what he or she would like to study? If so, attending college fairs, doing research on the Internet and working with the high school college adviser can help find some good options.

What can you afford? Yeah, every athlete’s parent hopes his or her kid gets a scholarship. But, as a parent of two former college athletes, I can assure you that getting a free education for playing a sport is rare.

Unless the cost is not an object based on your personal situation or preparation, research the costs of the schools on your list. The colleges’ admissions counselors can help you learn if your child’s grades and SAT scores could qualify them for academic scholarship money at that institution, which should help you narrow your list.

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Now you need to get the coach’s attention. Is the school hosting a prospects workout? If so, try to have your child attend. Most websites have questionnaires you can submit on their teams’ Web pages. You can also email the coach. If you are planning to visit the school, ask if it would be OK to sit in on a practice or briefly meet the coach during your visit.

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Another option is having our child’s high school coach or travel

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Chances are, the high school coach won’t have enough time to undertake this task for everyone on the team, so volunteer to write the letter for them. If they read, approve of and sign the letter, send it to the college coaches yourself. Make sure to include your contact information and that of the high school coach.

Also, make a brief film showing your child in action. College coaches don’t have time to watch long videos, and don’t care about how well made it is; they just want to get an idea of your child’s ability in a few minutes.

Post the video on YouTube and include the link with any correspondence to the coach.

If the coach thinks his program can benefit from recruiting your child, he or she will reach out. How much scholarship money is available is based on what NCAA division the school’s teams compete in, and the school’s financial aid limits. In general, Division I schools can offer the most scholarship money; Division II schools can offer less; Division III schools cannot offer athletic scholarships.

And don’t limit your child to schools that offer only a bachelor’s degree. Going to a junior college and perhaps getting an associate’s degree (usually accomplished in two years) could increase your child’s marketability academically and sports wise.

There are rules to be followed in the recruitment of student athletes and, while coaches know them, you may not. Visit the NCAA Eligibility Center at ncaa.org and click the tab “Want to play college sports?” for more information.

Apply to the schools that seem to be the best fit academically and based on the level of interest by the coach. Then help your child weigh his options and make the best decision.

Playing college sports will provide your child, and you, with many fun memories — and may also make his or her college experience more meaningful and beneficial.

Longtime sports journalist Joe LoVerde has had two children who’ve played college sports and hopes to have his youngest child do the same starting next fall.

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DREAM BIG

ach fall, we turn the clock back one hour.

Wouldn’t it be interesting if we could turn the clock back a month, a year, 35 years? I’m sure we would all make a different decision or two if given the opportunity for doovers. I wish that I would have gone out for my high school’s basketball team. Unfortunately, I will never realize the dream of playing for a basketball championship. But I can, and do, dream other dreams. I also enjoy sharing in the dreams of my daughter, Jessie.

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Last fall when I spoke with Jessie’s first-grade class about writing, I held up my first rejection letter from a publisher.

I talked about the importance of ASK YOUR CHILD ABOUT HIS DREAMS AND GOALS. YOU MAY BE AMAZED AT HIS AMBITIONS. setting goals and not quitting when things become difficult. I As parents, our most important dreams are those we have then showed the class a copy of Dr. Seuss’ book To Think That I for our children. We want them to dream big dreams and have Saw It on Mulberry Street. This was his first children’s book. opportunities to achieve them. It’s tempting for parents to try Though it was rejected at least 27 times, he didn’t give up. to live their lost dreams through their children. Jessie inherited Millions of lives have been enriched by Green Eggs and Ham, my height and could be a future basketball star. I could live The Cat in the Hat, and The Grinch Who Stole Christmas because vicariously through her. I’ve come to realize, though, that he didn’t abandon his goals when they became difficult. I imposing my dreams on her isn’t the best solution. ended my talk by asking the kids to “Dream Big.” Nevertheless, we still practice shooting, passing, and dribbling in the driveway. I take her to tennis lessons, too. Yet, Jessie will I then asked the class to make a book. Each child would be dream her own dreams, and my wife and I will be there to the author and illustrator for one page. I held up a cover page support her. So far, she’s wanted to be a college professor, a vet, titled “Our Biggest Dreams” and asked the kids to write at least own and manage a Walmart, and teach braille to the blind. one sentence and draw a picture to go with it.

For the next 25 minutes, the kids tackled this project enthusiastically. As they shared their dreams in words and pictures, I learned that the class was full of kids who wanted to invent things. One girl wanted to make a flying robot that could clean up her room. Other kids dreamed of inventing a flying motorcycle, a new car, a new school, and a new type of computer. Some children wanted to have exciting jobs, such as being a soccer player, working at Disney World, and being an astronaut. Others dreamed of helping animals by becoming an animal rescuer or a vet. One boy wrote 14 sentences. I think he might become an author.

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Since I can’t turn the clock back more than one hour a year, I will focus my attention forward. I will continue to have dreams for myself and pursue my own goals. One day I will show one of my own books, instead of a rejection letter, when I speak to a class of children about the joys of writing. It will be a New York Times bestseller, too. And when Jessie’s classmate invents a flying robot that can clean a house, I’m buying one.

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et’s face it. You’re not going to wake up one morning, open a box, take a test and find out that in a state of inebriation, you did something that will make you an adoptive parent in nine months. Adoption requires planning–and lots of it.

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If you proceed with an adoption in the right way, you will begin by doing lots of homework. Thanks be to everything holy for the Internet. Everything you need is available, and only a few clicks away.

Wear out your computer learning about the different kinds of adoption, and those that are available to you. Can you live with the uncertainty of foster to adopt? Are you willing to take an older child, or even a sibling group? Could you accept as your own, a child from a different race? If so, which races? Sorry, but if you’re looking for a politically correct answer in adoption, you’re in the wrong game. No matter which way you decide to go, someone will complain.

Get used to it. An adoption isn’t about popularity. An adoption should be about these three things, in this particular order: 1) The needs of the child. 2) The needs of your family. 3) Your own, individual desires and needs. Forget about pleasing anyone else as you get in and make a decision about which path you will follow.

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That is simply not the case with adoption. When you adopt a child with severe challenges (except in situations like

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attachment disorders), you opt in. When you fill out adoption applications, you will be asked what conditions you will be willing to accept in a child. Somewhere between “needs glasses” and “immobile and on a feeding tube” you’ll probably cross yourself off the list of “saints.” The thing with adoptions is; if you say you’ll accept a condition that most adopting parents won’t, you aren’t taking a slim chance; you will get a child with that feature or condition.

Since (fortunately) it is no longer the social “norm” to shame unwed or less capable mothers out of their babies, there is less and less of a chance for parents to go to the hospital and pick up a brand new baby, with no conditions, who looks just like them. That’s the news that is so hard to hear for adopting parents like I was; who, at least in the beginning, are considering their own desires more than a child who needs a home. Think about it, though. If you are tired of waiting for a baby, how tired is a five-year-old of waiting for you?

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Chances are in today’s environment, you will probably need to opt into selecting a child that doesn’t fit the fairytale dream you had at first. So what? Your marriage isn’t the fairytale dream you had in the first place!

Once you have a good idea of which way you need to proceed, hire an adoption agency. You wouldn’t have your plastic-surgeon brother-in-law do your heart surgery because you could save some money. In your adoption, you need a highly-trained and experienced professional who knows how to navigate this very complicated situation. You’ll have so many questions and they’ll be able to tell you things like how long birth-parents or governments have to change their minds, and when your adoption becomes permanent (in most international cases, the permanency is immediate. In most U.S. states, an adoption can’t be finalized for at least six months after bringing the child home). Be careful and do research before you select an adoption agency.

Just like any other profession, there are good ones and bad ones. You need a great one! And once you sign the contract, you are on the hook.

Adoption is a heartwarming and heart-wrenching affair. Building a family in this manner is a lot of work, frustration, waiting, and uncertainty.

Wait a minute… That sounds a lot like building a family biologically… And so it is. There is just no easy way to get children. But I think that makes us love and appreciate them all the more.

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STATEN ISLAND MOMS SHARE THEIR HOLIDAY EXPERIENCE

hether celebrating Chanukah or Christmas, the holidays are certainly a time steeped in tradition; but one tradition that presents itself each year is the stress of adding to an already full schedule. Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a mom with a job outside the home, juggling family responsibilities during the holidays is very different today from our parents’ generation.

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Here is how four Staten Island moms are handling the hectic, but happy holiday season: Melissa Rabinovich is an Executive Editor at NY1 News.

With her work and three children (ages 10, 7 and 6), preparing for Chanukah includes support from her husband. Their special needs son attends a Catholic school, while their other two children are in public school without other Jewish children, so they work to keep the holiday tradition alive for their children.

Decorating the house includes the menorah and hanging up Chanukah decorations their children make. With eight days of gifts, they encourage their children to pass on older toys to others to make room for the new gifts, teaching them the important lesson of sharing with others. Melissa finds shopping online a huge help, but with Chanukah falling so early this year, she loses the December sales. She shared, however, that this year is the first time their special needs child understands opening gifts. Taking pictures each year has always preserved nice memories, but this year will be even happier capturing his excitement.

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children were grown (ages 21, 19 and 16) after years as a stayat-home mom. Liz finds preparing for the holidays a lot easier now with older children than in the past, even with going to work, because she can count on her children’s participation.

She plans holiday dinners and shopping around her work schedule, and finds that she doesn’t waste time worrying about it. Although all the extra preparation can sometimes tire her out, she feels great seeing her family happy together because of her efforts.

Joan Baggs is a Kindergarten teacher at Our Lady Queen of Peace School, but was a stay-at-home mom until her youngest was nine years old. Her five children are now ages 31, 29, 28, 24, and 20. Asked about her job adding stress to the holidays, Joan feels she felt more stress when she was home because she would fuss more. Now she doesn’t try to do it all herself. Over the years as her children have grown, she has gained the wisdom to balance chores, and with taking an online class this year, they will be doing even more of the decorating, cooking and baking. Her advice is to utilize online shopping and gift

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Budget cuts eliminated that position, making her a job-seeking stay-at-home mom over the holidays last year. Now she is a supervisor for an assisted living facility, with long work hours, yet continues to coach her son’s basketball and soccer teams, as well as being involved with Cub Scouts. Jen didn’t alter her holiday preparation, though. Beginning at the end of September, she purchases gifts online to avoid the chaos and aggravation of driving to stores. She has always involved her son in helping with whatever ageappropriate activities he could do. When wrapping gifts, she taught him to think of the recipient’s face as they will unwrap the gift, turning a chore into a fun experience together, while teaching the true meaning of gift-giving. Her greatest enjoyment is their annual baking tradition. Her contribution to the activity is mainly the oven, since her son can now do all the mixing himself. She feels very blessed with a very good child, mature for his age, who enjoys helping with every part of the preparation, even cleaning the house for the holidays!

The holiday “must-do” list seems to run more smoothly when moms set more realistic expectations and don’t try to do it all alone. With a little organization and some family involvement, the stress, which can lead to becoming overwhelmed, will lessen. Family participation is the common factor that embodies the true meaning of the holidays, and makes for a happier celebration for everyone.

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HEALTH

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CAN GRATITUDE CHANGE YOUR LIFE?

ilmmaker Doug Vermeeren likes to quote author Robert M. Pirsig when introducing the idea of positive psychology: “The truth knocks on the door and you say, ‘Go away, I'm looking for the truth,’ and so it goes away.

Puzzling.”

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Positive psychology entails a call for science and psychological practice to be as concerned with strength as with weakness; as interested in building the best things in life as in repairing the worst; and as concerned with making the lives of normal people fulfilling as with healing pathology, Vermeeren says.

“People can become GRATITUDE UNLOCKS THE FULLNESS OF LIFE. suspicious when you tell them that they can change their lives with a simple shift in perspective; • Health: The positive thinking triggered by our gratitude has it can seem too good to be true because it’s an uncomplicated proven health benefits, including strengthening the immune answer to many of life’s challenges. But I’m just one of many who system, reducing stress and depression, reducing risk of cardiohave experienced a measurable life change with gratitude,” says vascular disease, better coping skills during hardship and overall Vermeeren, creator of the new film, “The Gratitude Experiment,” increased sense of well-being, according to the Mayo Clinic.“This (www.thegratitudeexperiment.com), which demonstrates isn’t empty, New Age-y fluff,” says Vermeeren, a successful through individual stories the powerful effects of gratitude on business consultant. “This is testable criteria and measurable people’s lives. health benefits.”

“I feel that everyone deserves that opportunity.”

He describes three areas in life that can be positively transformed with the power of gratitude: • Attitude: Gratitude can help us overcome any problem or hardship. It gives us perspective on what’s important, what we truly value and what we have right in front of us. In our small corner of this vast universe, we find the most miraculous thing of all: life. No matter what situation we are in or worries we face, we can always be grateful that we are alive on this beautiful planet.

There is a world of possibilities open to whatever attitude we bring to it. Today we can appreciate this opportunity, giving thanks for everything we have and sharing with one another what we are grateful for.

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• Relationships: One of the most defining characteristics of the human race is our social nature. We are hardwired to work, communicate and interact with each other. Most of us understand the value of being there for each other, especially during hard times. However, research from the University of California-Santa Barbara shows that it’s also crucial to be proactively positive during normal or good times, as well. Positive reinforcement during good times reinforces bonds and assures a friend, family member or spouse that you’ll be there during hard times. A neutral response to good news from a spouse, for example, implies apathy and that the responder is less involved in the other’s life.“Embrace the good stuff not only in your life, but also in the lives of others,” Vermeeren says.

By Doug Vermeeren, internationally renowned movie producer, director and author.

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Question: How do you get a child to want to do homework independently?

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homework independently is much like getting a child to want to set the table or clean his or her room without a parent helping. Like these other tasks, homework cannot be classified as something that is genuinely fun to do most of the time. However, a child can gain a lot of satisfaction from handling a task by him- or herself -- building pride in his or her efforts.

The sooner homework becomes the child's responsibility rather than the parent's, you are on the right track. At the fourth-grade level, you certainly should not be hovering over a child doing homework. One of the easiest ways to accomplish this is to use a homework contract like the one on our Dear Teacher website. It can spell out the times and places where homework will be done. You also might want to include a reward clause in the contract as your child learns to do most of his homework independently.

At the fourth-grade level, parents can look over the homework assignments at the start of the homework time with a child and help the child decide which work will be done first. During this time, directions for doing the homework should be discussed. It is also helpful to show children how to use their textbooks to answer questions about homework assignments. For example, in math, children can rework problems that are similar to those in the assignment. Following these steps gradually teaches children how to handle homework by themselves.

Homework is easier for children to do if they have an assignment notebook to write down all assignments and a calendar to write down long-term assignments so that study time can be planned.

Developing More Awareness of Geography Parents: The third week in November (Nov. 17-Nov. 23) is Geography Awareness Week. It was established 26 years ago to encourage citizens, young and old, to think and learn about the interconnectedness of the world. Unfortunately, many of today's schools do not focus on teaching geography. So this week is a good week for parents to start taking up the slack and help their children learn more about this subject.

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By visiting the Geography Awareness website (geographyawarenessweek.org), parents can find a wide array of activities, events and volunteer opportunities to participate in with their children. The most appealing aspects of this site are the missions that will help you and your children explore your own communities, looking at them through geographic activities. Some intriguing missions from

last year include: making a "smell" map of your neighborhood, living on a budget of just $1.25 a day, watching sunrise at sunset, and keeping a ship's log for five days. Completing different missions will enable your children to earn skill badges.

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It’s Time to Check on Children’s Progress Parents: It is the middle of the school year. This is a good time to take a very close look at how your children are doing in school. Their report cards should answer these questions: 1. Is my child working up to his/her academic potential?

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If their report cards don't give you a good picture of your children's progress or you know that there are problems, schedule conferences with their teachers now if the school doesn't have midyear conferences. It is better to deal with a problem as soon as you know of its existence. Waiting will not make a problem go away.

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If your child has an IEP or 504 plan, be sure to check his or her progress and to make sure that the child is receiving all the accommodations that the Special Education Team suggested.

Often children with either an IEP or 504 plan are still failing a class, and it turns out they are not getting the required accommodations, such as having the questions read to them or getting a formula sheet for math tests.

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Question: The teacher keeps writing in notes that my child may have an auditory-processing problem. Who is the professional who could evaluate or help my daughter with this problem?

-- Concerned Answer: The teacher needs to explain auditory-processing disorder to you. An auditory-processing problem occurs when sounds traveling through the ear get adversely processed or interpreted by the brain. Children with this problem do not recognize the slight differences between sounds in words. Most speech/language therapists or pathologists are able to properly diagnose and provide appropriate therapy for this problem.

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HOW TO SPEAK TO PARENTS WHO'VE ADOPTED

amilies who have adopted. You see them because they are often conspicuous; they don’t “match.” You know them because they are family, friends, or acquaintances.

Being curious is natural. But sometimes it gets the better of you and you approach them, because darn it, you’re just dying to know…

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Adoptive parents find themselves the focus of many, simply because they chose to form their families through adoption. Those who have adopted internationally or transracially (a child of a race different from theirs) find themselves under more scrutiny and approached more often. I know. I’m one of those parents.

PARENTS WHO HAVE ADOPTED WANT TO BE VIEWED JUST AS ANY OTHER FAMILY.

Let’s start with some of the big bombs—what not to do.

Usually, non-adoptive parents don’t realize that they’re being intrusive and possibly disparaging with the questions and comments they direct to the parents. They aren’t familiar with the words that express positive adoption feelings or empower a positive perspective. Certain terms and phrases, well-intentioned most of the time, rankle the adoptive parent, implying that a family formed through adoption doesn’t measure up to the traditional family.

On the other hand, many adoptive parents aren’t always comfortable answering the questions or engaging in conversation, especially when they are approached by a stranger or in the company of their child. When approaching the parent about their family, remember these things: • The details about how the family has come together are private.

• The parent expects you to respect their privacy.

• The child is the adoptive parent’s child.

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• Don’t say anything along the line of “God bless you!” or “You’re an amazing person to do this.” In, Shared Fate: A Theory and Method of Adoptive Relationships, H. David Kirk found that ninety-two percent of adoptive parents have been called “saints” in one form or another. Adoptive parents aren’t saints. They’re parents. This type of praise makes the adoptive parent uncomfortable. It also implies that the adoptive parent is an exceptional person to have adopted.

They’re not.

• Don’t use the word “real” to qualify the adoptive family relationships – as in “real mom”, “real dad”, “real parent”, “real child”, or “real sibling”. Adoptive parents and adoptive families are as real as a birth parent and birth families. The word “real” implies that the relationships within the adoptive family are not real. This isn’t the case. The relationships within the adoptive family are as true and as permanent as in any other.

• “They’re so lucky!” This may be the top contender for cringing among adoptive parents. Like non-adoptive

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• Don’t say something along the line of “one of your own”, “your own” or, similarly, ask “Which one is yours?” or “Are they sisters?” Statements and questions like these devalue the relationships within the adoptive family. They address the dissimilarities, especially within the transracial and multi-racial families. The adoptive parent knows that the relationships within her family transcend blood and genetics.

So, how do you talk to an adoptive parent? Use: • Parent, mommy, daddy, sister, brother, etc. for describing adoptive family members • Birth parents, birth father, birth mother for describing the man and woman who conceived and gave birth to the child • Was adopted instead of is adopted • My child instead of adopted child or own child • Placed for adoption or made an adoption plan instead of orphaned, given up, unwanted, or abandoned Parents who have adopted don’t want to be judged as an adoptive family, but seen as a family. Be a pal to the adoptive parent. Use positive adoption language and be considerate when striking up a conversation with them. They’ll appreciate it.

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Monica looked up from the papers in front of her on the dining room table to see her cousins Philip and Liam come in the front door.

“Hi, Monica,” Philip greeted her.

“Monica, what is all that paper in front of you? Are Thanksgiving you doing a project for college?” Liam wanted to know.

Monica smiled at Liam and Philip and said, “Actually, you two can help me.”

“We can?” Philip asked. “I’ve never done anything for college before. Ryan never asked me to help him.”

“Me, neither, Monica. I’ve never done college work,” Liam said. “Do we have to write something? I see a lot of paper on the table.”

Monica looked at the two boys and said, “I’m doing place cards for Thanksgiving dinner.”

“And, you need help writing the place cards. That’s easy,” Liam said.

“I wouldn’t think you would need help,” Philip said. “Writing the names is easy.”

“You’re right,” Monica responded. “I could use your help writing down things we are thankful for.”

“Oooh, now I get it,” Philip responded.

“Yeah,” Liam laughed and said, “We have to use our brains. Well, I have a few things I’m thankful for.”

“Me, too. I can think of a few,” Philip added.

“Great. Let’s get started,” Monica suggested.

Philip and Liam each took a seat on either side of Monica.

“How shall we do this?” Liam asked. “Should I just take a regular piece of paper and just keep writing everything I’m thankful for.”

Before Monica could answer Liam, Philip interjected, “I need to know also.

What exactly do you need help with?”

“I thought we would read at Thanksgiving dinner all the things we are thankful for this year. I’m going to ask Erica and Ryan to write some things also,” Monica replied.

Liam looked at the one piece of looseleaf paper in front of him and said, “I don’t think one piece of paper will be enough. I have a lot to be thankful for.”

Philip looked at his cousin, “Are you going to write a book?”

“No, not a book but maybe two or three pages,” Liam responded. “Don’t you have a lot to be thankful for?”

Philip was laughing as he answered Liam, “I’m going to write small so all my things I’m thankful for will fit on one page.”

“Well, I’m ready to start,” Monica said as she picked up a pen.

“I’m ready too,” Liam advised as he started writing.

“When are Ryan and Erica coming to write their thankful things?” Philip asked.

Monica stopped writing and said, “Erica should be home from the gym soon

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and Ryan said he would be over after work.”

Liam looked up and said, “I have 10 things on my list already.”

“Are we going to have time to help Aunt Ann make chocolate chip cookies tonight? That’s why we came over.”

“Sure, Phil, you can help Aunt Ann. I think right now she is preparing dinner. You and Liam are eating over, right?” Monica asked.

“Okay, then. I’ll keep writing until Aunt Ann is ready to bake or until I fill up this page,” Philip advised.

“I’m almost done,” Liam announced. “This is easy and kind of nice, too – to put down all the things you’re thankful for.”

Erica and Ryan walked in together, took off their jackets and sat down.

“Do you need an explanation or do you know what to do?” Liam asked.

Erica answered, “I know what to do. Monica told me.”

“Me, too,” Ryan added. She told me last night when she texted me.”

Aunt Ann came into the dining room and said, “As soon as you are finished, I have salad and pizza for dinner.”

Philip asked his aunt, “Are we going to make chocolate chip cookies?”

“Yes, we are. I’ve got the butter softening to room temperature now and all the ingredients and cookie pans are on the counter. So, as soon as we’re finished eating and we clean up, we can start to bake.”

Erica and Ryan indicated that they had finished with their thankful things so Monica collected all the papers and put them in a manila folder.

“Since we are having Thanksgiving dinner here this year, I’ll keep all your papers and give them to you on Thursday,” Monica advised.

“Good idea, Monica. That way we can’t forget them,” Liam stated.

Erica looked around the cleared table and said, “I’ll get plates and napkins so we can eat. I’m starved.”

In a few minutes the table was set up for dinner and everyone took their place.

As Liam was starting to put a slice of pizza up to his mouth, he held the pizza mid-air and said, “Could I tell you one thing that I wrote on my paper?”

Monica looked up from the forkful of salad she was getting ready to eat and said, “Sure.”

Liam smiled, looked at his Aunt Ann and his cousins and said, “Well remember when Philip and I went to Hersey Park during the summer?”

Everyone nodded, looking at Liam.

“The best part for me was when I stood to be measured for the rides and I reached the Twizzler level.”

Aunt Ann smiled at Liam and looked around the table, “I think we all have many things to be thankful for.”

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VOLUNTEERING WITH YOUR PRESCHOOLER: I t’s never too early to introduce your preschooler to the concept of giving and serving others. From the age of three or four, children begin to understand feelings and develop a sense of empathy, making it an ideal age for your child to start participating in activities and events to help others.

Donate and learn. Whether you’re donating your time, money, or goods, discuss your family’s efforts with your preschooler. Explain that the coins he tossed into a donation box will help feed someone who is hungry. Talk about how the old clothes he helped bag up and drop off at a collection point will help keep someone his age warm in winter.

“The advantage of starting early is that giving back becomes an automatic and deeply embedded family habit,” says Jenny Friedman, executive director of the Doing Good Together foundation and author of Doing Good Together: 101 Easy, Meaningful Service Projects for Families, Schools, and Communities. “Plus children learn that the world is simply a better place when we help out one another.”

When discussing such issues with young children, a gentle approach is best. Be sure to explain that the families you are helping will be OK, especially if your preschooler voices concern for those in need.

Consider these six tips to get your preschooler into the spirit of giving.

Follow the fun.

Your child will better remember and enjoy their first volunteer experiences if they’re tied to activities they love. The next time your son wants to make cookies, whip up a couple extra batches to donate to the bake sale at his older sibling’s school. Is your child an animal lover? Visit the local shelter together to learn how you can help.

According to Friedman, whose foundation created the Big Hearted Families initiative to encourage volunteering, “Engaging in service together as a family not only makes together time more meaningful, but also helps kids and strengthens families.”

Race away. Attend local charity races with your child, especially to cheer on friends and other family members who are participating in the event.

Alternatively, register your child to walk a portion of a race with you or check locally for “kids only” fun runs and walks that benefit a range of causes.

Over the past few years, Avery U., a mom of two, encouraged her young daughter to participate in an annual charity fun run held in memory of two children lost in the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami. “At age five, my daughter now clearly connects tsunamis and disaster with suffering,” she says. “I hope that doing the fun run again next spring will help her see that we can do something positive in response to suffering.”

Respond together. Identify how to help in your community or region, especially when a disaster or tragedy strikes close to

home. Propose ways your family might help and let your child choose which ideas you’ll put into action. Empowering her to participate in the decision making, and to be a part of a community-wide effort, no matter how small, helps her see the gifts that volunteering can bring, both to those in need and those doing the giving.

Make it regular. One visit to the pet shelter no doubt makes for an exciting story your child may want to share with others.

But monthly visits to help the animals add up to an increased interest in and commitment to an important cause—one that may stay with your child for years to come. Volunteering on a recurring basis also helps your preschooler see the fruits of her efforts over time, allowing her to develop beneficial relationships that help grow her confidence.

Caryn M. regularly took her two children to visit an orphanage when they were young.

Reflecting on the experience today she says, “My hope is that as my children become better able to see beyond their own lives and into the lives of others, their early memories will serve as a foundation for compassion.”

Think global. Volunteering locally is a great place to start, but don’t forget about activities and events happening across the planet. Getting involved in initiatives such as ending hunger in Africa or preventing animal trafficking in Asia offers your child new perspectives and opportunities for learning. Grab a map and help your preschooler locate the part of the world where you plan to focus your volunteer efforts.

Together, find photos online or in library books of the places and people you want to help.

Six Tips to Inspire the Spirit of Giving

Introducing the concept of giving to young children demonstrates that they each can truly make a difference. And along the way, they’ll learn the most important lesson—helping others helps us all.

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Any adult who spends much time with technology knows that it can cause physical strains ranging from headaches to Carpal Tunnel Syndrome. Children who use computers, laptops, mobile devices and video games can also be PROTECTING KIDS vulnerable to these problems, both FROM THE HEALTH because their bodies are developing and HAZARDS OF because they may not notice the TECHNOLOGY twinges that signal overuse. Fortunately, parents can take relatively simple steps that will protect kids from the physical wear and tear associated with technology. Helping children establish good tech habits now makes it less likely that they will have problems later. Here are suggestions about how to protect the moving parts your children will need for the rest of their life.

Hands. Repetitive stress injuries occur when the same motion is repeated over and over, something that’s hard to avoid when playing video games or using a cellphone. Encourage your child to develop a light, relaxed touch to minimize stress on fingers. To prevent wrist strain, rest devices on a pillow and position keyboards at elbow height so wrists are loose instead of flexed. Arms should hang rather than being outstretched.

Back. You may feel self-conscious about telling your child to “sit up straight,” but slumping over a handheld device creates strain on a child’s back and neck. Whenever possible, encourage your child to do extended projects such as homework or even lengthy gaming sessions at a work station set up to promote “neutral” posture. Feet should rest on the floor (or on a box for younger children). The chair should provide support for the lower back (a rolled up towel may help). Screens should be at eye level. (Adding an inexpensive keyboard to a laptop or tablet allows you to put the screen at eye level so your child won’t have to hunch over the device.)

Eyes. Computer Vision Syndrome won’t necessarily cause longterm damage to your child’s eyes but can result in fatigue, blurry vision and headaches. Show your child how to increase font size so devices can be held comfortably about 20 inches from the face.

Reduce glare by adjusting the position of screens and, if necessary, adding an anti-reflective filter. Clean screens and, for that matter eye glasses, by wiping them gently with a soft, damp cloth. Kids in front of screens blink less often, so their eyes may get dry and irritated.

Teach your child to shift his focus to something else every five to ten minutes.

Ears. One in five American teens already has hearing loss caused by extended exposure to sound—especially music—that is too loud. Set the volume for devices that have headphones and tell young children they’ll need your permission to make it any louder.

Instead of earbuds, get your child earphones that cover the ear so there’s less need to increase volume to block out environmental sound.

To make children more aware of sound levels, try installing an app like Sound Meter for Apple products or Sound Level for Android. Although the top decibel measurement in these apps is limited by the mic on the phone, they are a graphic way of letting kids know when sound approaches the danger zone.

Brain. Even though the research is inconclusive, many experts recommend that parents err on the side of caution when exposing children to the electromagnetic waves created by mobile devices. Dr. Devra Davis, author of Disconnect: The Truth About Cellphone Radiation urges parents to limit young children to very short conversations on cellphones. Older children should get in the habit of using the speaker phone or a headset. Some kids will find it amusing to use an inexpensive retro handset, readily available at sites like Amazon.

Somewhere in the fine print, most cellphone manufacturers recommend that phones not be pressed against the side of the head. Study the manual to find the ideal distance from phone to ear. To find out how much radiation a particular phone routinely emits, check its SARS level at http://reviews.cnet.com/cell-phoneradiation-levels/. Dr. Davis also recommends other precautions that will limit exposure to unnecessary radiation: Turn off WIFI whenever it’s not in use or set the phone to airplane mode so it doesn’t emit a wireless signal. Avoid using the phone in a moving vehicle or when reception is poor because the phone will emit more radiation in its effort to find a relay antenna. Keep phones and tablets out of the bedroom when your child is sleeping. If your child (or for that matter, you) use your cellphone a lot, consider investing in a case that redirects radiation like the one available from Pongresearch.com.

The best way to protect your child from the health issues associated with using technology is to encourage breaks—lots of them. Try installing a timer app or use an old-fashioned kitchen timer. Set it for 20 to 30 minutes. When the timer goes off, have everyone stop what they are doing and MOVE for at least five minutes. You may also want to help your child become aware of the aches and pains that indicate overuse. Teach your child simple stress reduction exercises like shoulder rolls and yoga stretches. Have a squishy ball available for soothing cramped hand muscles.

All of this advice, of course, makes sense for adults as well as kids. In the end, the very best way to get your kids to develop healthy habits with technology may be to adopt them for yourself—and tell your kids what you are doing and why.

By Carolyn Jabs, M.A., who raised three computer savvy kids including one with special needs. She has written Growing Up Online for ten years and is working on a book about constructive responses conflict. Other columns are available at www.growing-up-online.com. @ Copyright, 2013. Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved.

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Disney Infinity Starter Pack SRP $74.99 • Ages 6 & up www.infinity.disney.com Disney Infinity is an all-new gaming platform that allows players to both experience original adventures in some of their favorite Disney and Pixar worlds through the play set mode as well as build their own worlds using the power of their imagination through the toy box mode. Works with all consoles and can be played online as well.

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Donate blood. Donating blood is a great way for men and women to make a difference in the lives of others. According to the American Red Cross, blood donors must be healthy, be at least 17 years old (some states allow 16-year-olds to donate blood with parental consent) and weigh at least 110 lbs. There may be additional weight requirements for certain donors, and the men and women taking blood donations will discuss prospective donors' health with them prior to drawing any blood. The advantage of donating blood is that donors can often do so several times per year.

Become an organ donor. Organ donation is a selfless act that can save someone's life. When men and women pass away, their organs

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Foster parent a pet. The economy and the housing market have been tough on families, and many have been forced to give up their pets when relocating from a home to an apartment. As a result, animal shelters and nonprofit rescue organizations have been overwhelmed with house broken pets whose families could no longer keep them. Such organizations rely on pet foster parents to house, care for and feed the animals until they find permanent homes. Becoming a foster pet parent is a great way for men and women to help a nonprofit rescue organization in their community.

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Donate time. Volunteering is another great way to make a difference without donating money. By donating time, people are helping an organization of their choosing keep its operating budget down so more of its resources can be used toward fulfilling the organization's mission statement. Rare is the charity that doesn't need volunteers, and many charitable organizations will even ask volunteers about their professions to determine if professional skills can be put to use while they're volunteering.

Clean out closets and the garage.

One of the easiest ways to make a difference is for individuals to clean out their closets and donate clothing and other items to a nearby Goodwill store.

Anything from old neckties to appliances can be donated, and a person might even be able to reduce their annual tax bill when making certain donations. Goodwill stores don't simply give donations directly to the needy. In many instances, the stores sell the donations and use the money raised to support a host of charitable endeavors. So even items like an electric drill no longer being used or a microwave since replaced can make valuable donations.

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Examples include Lyme disease, flu, meningitis and tuberculosis. In this region, staph infections are a common one. “Every summer, we go through a viral meningitis period,” Dr. Perlman says. “Whooping cough is another hot topic for us — there are still a lot of outbreaks.”

These diseases can be troublesome for regular pediatricians for several reasons. “Most pediatricians have basic knowledge of infectious diseases, but now it’s so much more complicated,” Dr. Pontrelli says. One reason: Infectious diseases are always evolving. “The different bacteria can become more resistant or the progression of the disease might be more severe than anticipated,” she says.

Some diseases are difficult to recognize simply because they are unexpected; one example is measles, which has recently reappeared. “Even recognizing old diseases like measles, you actually need an infectious disease doctor,” Dr. Pontrelli says. “General pediatricians just don’t see that anymore.”

Treatment Challenges Antibiotic treatment is also increasingly complex. “As people in the community overuse antibiotics, bugs become resistant. It limits our weapons cache,” Dr. Perlman says. That makes the choice of which to use, and when, more difficult and the doctor’s expertise even more important.

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Planning a holiday gathering and meal can be stressful for hosts or hostesses.

There seems to be a lot of pressure placed on the person in charge.

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WITH CAREFUL PLANNING, A HOLIDAY MEAL CAN BE ENJOYED BY GUESTS AND HOSTS ALIKE.

Create a meal concept.

Holiday meals can be traditional or avant-garde. There are many options from which to choose, but one thing to keep in mind is to select foods that go together. Those new to holiday hosting may want to stick with items that are well known and expected, such as turkey and trimmings. Those who want to experiment may want to introduce one or two new dishes into the mix. Food choices should be about what your guests will want to eat and not about which items will ensure a spectacle.

Keep preparation time in mind. Another thing to consider when planning the meal is the amount of time you have for food preparation and cooking. The holidays are a busy time of the year, and work and social engagements may continue up until the eleventh hour. Choose foods that can be prepared in advance and heated on the holiday if you're time-pressed. Or simply choose easy-to-make dishes that won't take much time.

Compile a shopping list. Once foods are selected, review all recipes and make a list of the ingredients you will need.

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This will serve as a shopping list to take to the store. Also see which items you have on hand in the pantry. Look at expiration dates and be sure that everything is top quality. If in doubt, add it to your shopping list. Make a list of things that can be bought in advance (paper products, coffee, linens, etc.) and other items that need to be checked off closer to the actual holiday. Cross off each item once it is purchased.

Create a timetable. Make a schedule or use a calendar to schedule when each component of the meal and other preparations will be made. This way you ensure you will stay on track and have everything done by the actual holiday.

Ask for help. If you find that time will be short, delegate some jobs to others. For example, if a grandmother or aunt is known for her prized potatoes or pies, ask her to make that item. Some hosts and hostesses turn the holiday meal into a potluck where everyone is encouraged to bring one item and the host simply provides the main dish. This can cut down on the work involved and make others feel they've contributed to the sentimental holiday meal.

Go easy on yourself. While not everything will work out exactly as you expected, chances are little glitches will not even be noticed by guests unless you point them out. And even if they are noticed, these are close friends and family who will not judge small mistakes.

Make time for socialization. Too often holiday hosts and hostesses worry so much about impressing guests with lavish foods and festivities that they fail to enjoy the actual day with their guests.

Leave time to sit and chat and, most importantly, relax.

The holidays are a time of enjoyment.

Ensuring the meal can be as stress-free as possible will go a long way to helping hosts and hostesses enjoy the season as well.

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While varicose veins are sometimes genetic, there are ways to prevent them during pregnancy. One of the most important things to remember is to move around. Staying still for too long – whether standing or sitting, decreases circulation, contributing to the formation of varicose veins.

Walking and moving around throughout the day keeps blood flowing and helps to prevent these veins. Make sure you get regular exercise to strengthen the muscles of the calf and foot. Walking, running, swimming, and bicycling are all good options for strengthening these muscles, but be sure to ask your doctor how much exercise is healthy during each trimester. When you aren’t moving around or exercising it is a good idea to elevate your feet. Doing this will allow weak veins and tired feet and legs to rest, and will prevent putting any pressure on the veins. Another preventative tip is to wear graduated compression stockings. Because they are tight at the ankle and looser as they go up, they help to prevent swelling and vein formation. The compression stockings act like an extra layer of muscle and help to strengthen the foot and calf muscles while improving venous circulation.

Treatment: While following these guidelines will certainly be a big help in the prevention of varicose veins, they are not a guaranteed success. Once the veins already form there are some different options in terms of treatment. Sclerotherapy is the treatment method I most recommend. Sclerotherapy is a painless injection treatment that collapses the vein, which reabsorbs back into the blood stream. There are a few types of sclerotherapy, including laser-assisted sclerotherapy (the least invasive and most advanced), foam sclerotherapy for larger, more difficult to treat veins, and ultrasound guide sclerotherapy for large, deep veins that once needed more surgical treatment. Before seeking any sort of treatment, however, pregnant patients should wait until about 6 months after giving birth, when most veins will return to normal size.

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Historic New York: Native Americans Blue Heron Nature Center 718-967-3542 11am • Ages 5-12 • Free Saturday Science Series S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-12:30pm • Ages 2-5 • $30/$50 Forest Garden Friends Blue Heron Nature Center

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Ecosystems-In the Wild & in the Backyard Blue Heron Nature Center 718-619-5051 Noon-1:30pm • Adults • Free

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Owl Prowl Blue Heron Nature Center 718-967-3542 6:30-8pm • All ages • Free

Yoga for the Young at Heart-Chair Yoga Blue Heron Nature Center 718-356-0106 3-4:30pm • Seniors • Free

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Tot's Time Plus S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-1pm • Ages 2-5 • $5 w/admission

MONDAY, NOVEMBER 4 Teen Cafe Remixed New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 2-4pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Reading Aloud Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library 718-494-1642 4pm • Ages 3-11 • Free Board Game Bonanza Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 5+ • Free

Crochet and Knit Club Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 11am-12pm • Adults • Free Friendship Bracelets Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 3:30-4:30pm • Ages 5-12; 13-18 • Free NYPL Resources for Teens Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-5pm • Ages 13-18 • Free NOVEMBER 2013 www.siparent.com

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Free Math & Reading Tutoring New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 3:30pm • Math PreK-8 | Reading PreK-3

Teen Lounge Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 2:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Bookcraft Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 4pm • Ages 4-8 • Free

Children's Read Aloud South Beach Library 718-816-5834 4pm • All ages • Free

Preschool Story Time Richmondtown Library 718-668-0413 1-2pm • Ages 3-5 • Free • Register

Manga Drawing with Misako Rocks!

Richmondtown Library 718-727-0427 4-5pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Baby Space St. George Library 718-442-8560 10am; 11:30am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free • Register Kids' Movie St. George Library 718-442-8560 4pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

FOREST GARDEN FRIENDS Saturday, November 2 Blue Heron Nature Center 12-1:30pm Ages 8+ Free 718-619-5051 preserve2.org/blueheron

Have fun learning more about how you can help the environment. Meet at the Nature Center and walk trails, explore the local ecosystem, and learn how you can use the systems and patterns in their backyard to help nature.

In case of rain you will be talking more about composting and container gardening.

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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 6 Teen Club New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 2-4pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Clay Day Staten Island Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1:30-4:30pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admision Picture Book Time/Reading Aloud New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 4pm • Ages 3+ • Free

Read Aloud Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 4pm • Ages 3-8 • Free

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 7

Tot's Time Plus S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-1pm • Ages 2-5 • $5 w/admission Paint Day S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1:30-4:30pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admission

Preschool Program New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 11am • Ages 2.5-5 • Free

Teen Lounge Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Baby Time South Beach Library 718-816-5834 10:30am • Ages 0-2 • Free

Toddler Story Time Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 11am • Ages 1.5-3 • Free • Register

Board Games South Beach Library 718-816-5834 3:30pm • All ages • Free

Microsoft Excel 2010 for Beginners Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 11am-1pm • Adults • Free

Family Story Time Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 4pm • Ages 3+ • Free

Teen Tech Time Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 3:30-5:45pm • Ages 3-5; 5-12 • Free

Read Aloud West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Reading Aloud Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-4:30pm • Ages 3-5; 5-12 • Free

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Family Film Matinee and Snacks Huguenot Park Library 718-984-4636 3-5pm • All ages • Free

Baby & Me Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 11am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free

Homework Club St. George Library 718-442-8560 4-5pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Book Babies Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 11am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free

Toddler Time St. George Library 718-442-8560 10:30am • Ages 2-3 • Free • Register Teen Lounge Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 2:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

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Kidz Cook S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1,2 & 3pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admission Fun Fridays Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 3+ • Free Preschool Story Time Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 11am • Ages 3-5 • Free • Register

Sunday, November 3

Toddler Time Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 10:30-11:30am Ages 3-5 • Free

Starting at the Verrazano Bridge 9:40am All ages 855-5MY-NYRR mynyrr@nyrr.org

The ING New York City Marathon is one of the world's most iconic races. During the 26.2 mile journey through the five boroughs of New York City, some 48,000 runners will experience the sights and sounds of the city, while more than two million spectators cheer them on.

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Preschool Story and Craft Huguenot Park Library 718-984-4636 10:30am • Ages 3-5 Free Baby Rhyme Time New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 10:30am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free Board Games St. George Library 718-442-8560 3:30-4:45pm • Ages 5-12 • Free Toddler Time Tottenville Library

718-984-0945 10:30am • Ages 1.5-3 • Free Children's Video Gaming West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 5-12 • Free Wii Love Gaming Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 3:30pm • Ages 5-11 • Free Reading Aloud Richmondtown Library 718-727-0427 3:30-4pm • Ages 5-8 • Free Toddler Time Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 10:30am • Ages 0-4 • Free

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 9 Astronomy Wolfe's Pond Park 718-967-3542 6pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Saturday Science Series S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-12:30pm • Ages 2-5 • $30/$50 Walk on the Wild Side Blue Heron Park 718-356-9235 1-2:30pm • All ages • Free Kids & Kritters: Nature Hike Blue Heron Park 917-751-0071 11am-12:30pm • Ages 5-7 • Free Krafty Kids - Nature Craft Blue Heron Nature Center 917-751-0071 1-2pm • Ages 4-7 • Free Family Movies: Happy Feet Two New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 2pm • All ages • Free

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Free Math & Reading Tutoring New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 11am; 2pm • Math PreK-8 | Reading PreK-3 Kid's Craft: Thankful Pumpkin South Beach Library 718-816-5834 11am • Ages 5-12 • Free • Register SAT Practice Testing Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 11am-3pm • Ages 13-18 • Free

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 10 Nature Exploration (Easy) Bloomingdale Park 718-967-3542 1pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

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TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 12

Tot's Time Plus S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-1pm • Ages 2-5 • $5 w/admission Mom and Me Sewing Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 4pm • Ages 6+ • Free • Register Crochet and Knit Club Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 11am-12pm • Adults • Free NYPL Resources for Teens Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-5pm • Ages 13-18 • Free Free Math & Reading Tutoring New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 3:30 • Math PreK-8 | Reading PreK-3 Children's Read Aloud South Beach Library 718-816-5834 4pm • All ages • Free

Wolfe's Pond Park Comfort Station 6pm All ages Free 718-967-3542 www.nycgovparks.org

Astronomy programs feature the use of telescopes and binoculars to observe specific astronomical events. Urban Park Rangers will be your guides to the solar system, discussing the science, history and folklore of the universe.

Baby Space St. George Library 718-442-8560 10am; 11:30am Ages 0-1.5 • Free Register

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Midweek Bird Walk Wolfe's Pond Park 718-727-1135 10am-2pm • All ages • $3/Free for Members Clay Day S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1:30pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admissiosn Movies for Teens Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-5:30pm • Ages 13-18 • Free Stories and Tales Around the World Huguenot Park Library 718-984-4636 4pm • All ages • Free Picture Book Time/Reading Aloud New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 4pm • Ages 3+ • Free Board Games South Beach Library 718-816-5834 3:30pm • All ages • Free Family Story Time Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 4pm • Ages 3+ • Free

Loom Jewelry Club St. George Library 718-442-8560 4pm • Ages 8-12 • Free

Read Aloud West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Teen Lounge Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 2:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Bookcraft Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 4pm • Ages 4-8 • Free

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718-727-0427 4-5pm • Ages 12-18 • Free Read Aloud Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 4pm • Ages 3-8 • Free

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 14

Tot's Time Plus S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-1pm • Ages 2-5 • $5 w/admission Paint Day S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1:30-4:30pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admission

FUNDAMENTALS OF PHOTOGRAPHY BY ROBERT CATALANO Sunday, November 10 Alice Austen House 11:30am-1:30pm All ages $5 donation www.aliceausten.org

Teen Lounge Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Kidz Cook Staten Island Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1,2 & 3pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admission

Teen Tech Time Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 3:30-5:45pm • Ages 13-18 • Free

Preschool Time Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library 718-494-1642 11:30am • Ages 3-5 • Free

Reading Aloud Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-4:30pm • Ages 3-5; 5-12 • Free

Fun Fridays Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 3+ • Free

Advanced MS Excel 2010 Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 11am-1pm • Adults • Free

Toddler Time Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 10:30-11:30am • Ages 3-5 • Free

Homework Club St. George Library 718-442-8560 4-5pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Board Games St. George Library 718-442-8560 3:30-4:45pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Teen Lounge Tottenville Library

Bilingual Birdies (Spanish) St. George Library 718-442-8560 10:30am • Ages 0-5 • Free • Register

718-984-0945 2:30pm • Ages 12-18 Free Baby & Me Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 11am • Ages 0-1.5 Free

Learn digital Silly Science photography and West New Brighton leave with some Library great photos.

718-442-1416 Presentation will 3:30pm • Ages 5-12 •Free cover shutter speed, aperture, ISO, and the basic technical FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 15 aspects of taking better photos.

Doodlebug FunTime-Series 1 Individualized instruction will be Blue Heron Nature Center given during an in-class shooting 718-227-8839 assignment following the 1pm • Ages 1.5-4 • Free presentation.

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Toddler Time Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 10:30am • Ages 1.5-3 • Free Reading Aloud Richmondtown Library 718-727-0427 3:30-4pm • Ages 5-8 • Free Toddler Time Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 10:30am • Ages 0-4 • Free

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 16 Wilderness Survival: Knot Tying Blue Heron Nature Center 718-967-3542 11am • Ages 5-12 • Free

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Emergency Children’s Help Organization Emergency Children's Help Organization "ECHO" is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organizatoin dedicated to providing financial assistance to a child experiencing a challenging medical or living emergency. ECHO's goal is to help ease the burden financially, along with birghtening the child's life during a time of crisis.

Applicants must be 18 years of age or younger and have a serious health, medical or living emergency issue, living in Staten Island, NY or New Jersey.

For information about ECHO or to download an application, please visit www.EchoOrganization.org For further information or to make a donation contact: Denise M. Stallone Tel: 866-755-ECHO (3246) • Fax: 718-967-9087

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Let's Draw Together: Nature Illustration Series Blue Heron Nature Center 917-750-6364 2:30-4pm • All ages • Free Le Petit Chef S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-12:30pm • Ages 3-5 • $30/$50 Junior Science Club: Things that go Boom!

S.I. Museum 718-727-1135 10am-12pm • Ages 8-13 • $5/$8 Free Math & Reading Tutoring New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 11am; 2pm • Math PreK-8 | Reading PreK-3

LET'S DRAW TOGETHER: NATURE ILLUSTRATION SERIES Saturday, November 16

Blue Heron Nature Center 2:30-4pm All ages Free 917-750-6364 preserve2.org/blueheron

Explore plant and wildlife with illustrator Sky Suter at Blue Heron Nature Center. Work will be developed from nature journals or classroom presentation.

Preregistration required by November 12.

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Kid's Craft: Foam Turkey Magnet South Beach Library 718-816-5834 11am • Ages 5-12 • Free • Register

Read Aloud Huguenot Park Library 718-984-4636 4pm • All ages • Free

Cinema Saturdays Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 2pm • All ages • Free

Wii Time South Beach Library 718-816-5834 4pm • Ages 6+ • Free

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 17 Owl Prowl Blue Heron Nature Center 718-967-3542 6:30-8pm • All ages • Free

Natural Science Club-Which Tree is Which?

Blue Heron Nature Center 718-967-3542 2-3:30pm • Ages 8-12 • Free

MONDAY, NOVEMBER 18 Teen Cafe Remixed New Dorp Library 718-351-2977

2-4pm • Ages 12-18 Free Reading Aloud Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library 718-494-1642 4pm • Ages 3-11 • Free Board Game Bonanza Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 5+ Free Baby and Me Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 11am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free Family Movie Time Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 3:30-5pm • All ages • Free

Picture Book Story Time St. George Library 718-442-8560 4pm • Ages 3-8 • Free Film Program West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 0-12 • Free All Join In! Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 11am • Ages 2-4 • Free

TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 19

Yoga for the Young at Heart-Chair Yoga Blue Heron Nature Center 718-356-0106 3-4:30pm • Seniors • Free Tot's Time Plus S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-1pm • Ages 2-5 • $5 w/admission Teen/Tween Sewing Workshop Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 10-18 • Free • Register Crochet and Knit Club Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 11am-12pm • Adults • Free Friendship Bracelets Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 3:30-4:30pm • Ages 5-12; 13-18 • Free

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NYPL Resources for Teens Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-5pm • Ages 13-18 • Free

Teen Lounge Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 2:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Free Math & Reading Tutoring New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 3:30pm • Math PreK-8 | Reading PreK-3

Preschool Fun Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 11am • Ages 3-5 • Free

Children's Read Aloud South Beach Library 718-816-5834 4pm • All ages • Free

Jewelry Making West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 8-14 • Free • Register

Baby Space St. George Library 718-442-8560 10am; 11:30am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free • Register

Preschool Story Time Richmondtown Library 718-727-0427 1-2pm • Ages 3-5 • Free • Register

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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 20 Teen Club New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 2-4pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Sunday, November 17

Clay Day S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1:30-4:30pm • Ages 210 • Free w/admission

Blue Heron Nature Center 6:30-8pm All ages Free 718-967-3542 preserve2.org/blueheron

Explore the dark corners of Blue Heron Park with Cliff Hagen as he seeks out the denizens of the night.

Each prowl will venture to a different section of the Park in search of resident owls.

Picture Book Time/Reading Aloud New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 4pm • Ages 3+ • Free Board Games South Beach Library 718-816-5834 3:30pm • All ages • Free Family Story Time Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 4pm • Ages 3+ • Free Read Aloud West New Brighton Library

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718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 5-12 • Free Bookcraft Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 4pm • Ages 4-8 • Free Manga Drawing with Misako Rocks!

Richmondtown Library 718-727-0427 4-5pm • Ages 12-18 • Free Read Aloud Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 4pm • Ages 3-8 • Free

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 21

Tot's Tiime Plus S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 11am-1pm • Ages 2-5 • $5 w/admission Paint Day S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1:30-4:30pm • Ages 2-10 • Free w/admission Teen Lounge Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free Toddler Story Time Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 11am • Ages 1.5-3 • Free • Register Reading Aloud Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 4-4:30pm • Ages 3-5; 5-12 • Free Open Lab Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 11am-1pm • Adults • Free

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Family Film Night Movie and Snacks Huguenot Park Library 718-984-4636 5-7pm • All ages • Free

Teen Lounge Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 2:30pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Preschool Story and Craft Huguenot Park Library 718-984-4636 10:30am • Ages 3-5 • Free

Thanksgiving Craft New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 4pm • Ages 5-12 • Free • Register

Baby & Me Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 11am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free

Board Games St. George Library 718-442-8560 3:30-4:45pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Homework Club St. George Library 718-442-8560 4-5pm • Ages 5-12 • Free

Toddler Time West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 11am • Ages 1.5-3 • Free

Toddler Time Tottenville Library 718-984-0945 10:30am • Ages 1.5-3 • Free

Toddler Time St. George Library 718-442-8560 10:30am • Ages 2-3 • Free • Register

Book Babies Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 11am • Ages 0-1.5 • Free

Puzzle and Coloring Hour West New Brighton Library 718-442-1416 3:30pm • Ages 0-12 • Free

THANKSGIVUKKAH Thursday, November 28

We would like to wish all of our readers a Happy Thanksgivukkah!

Today marks the first time in over 100 years that Thanksgiving and the first day of Hanukkah fall on the same day. Try making some sweet potato latkes and cranapple sauce to celebrate the occasion!

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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 22 Teen Advisory Group New Dorp Library 718-351-2977 2-4pm • Ages 12-18 • Free

Kidz Cook S.I. Children's Museum 718-273-2060 1,2 & 3pm • Ages 2-10 Free w/admission Fun Fridays Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 3:30pm • Ages 3+ Free Preschool Story Time Great Kills Library 718-984-6670 11am • Ages 3-5 • Free • Register Crafternoon Dongan Hills Library 718-351-1444 3:30-4:30pm • Ages 4+ • Free

Wii Love Gaming Stapleton Library 718-727-0427 3:30pm • Ages 5-11 • Free Reading Aloud Richmondtown Library 718-727-0427 3:30-4pm • Ages 5-8 • Free Toddler Time Port Richmond Library 718-442-0158 10:30am • Ages 0-4 • Free

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 23 Nature Drawing Van Briesen Park 718-967-3542 11am • Ages 5-12 • Free

Let's Draw Together: Nature Illustration Series Blue Heron Nature Center 917-750-6364 2:30-4pm • All ages • Free Kids & Kritters: Autumn Trees Blue Heron Park 917-751-0071 11am-12:30pm • Ages 5-7 • Free

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GIGI’S WORLD

by Giavanna and Gina Schrecker

Hi! My name’s Giavanna, but everyone calls me Gigi.

There’s so much going on in my life that I want to share with you. That’s why, with the help of my mom Gina LaGuardia-Schrecker, VP of Content Development and Social Media for The CollegeBound Network, I am writing a monthly kid’s-eye view of what it is like in my world.

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Every Thanksgiving, we try to take time to think about what we're thankful for all year. Because so much has changed in our family over the past few months, it's more important than ever, say Mom and Dad, to remember even the little, tiny things that make us happy everyday. So that's what I'd like to do this month…

I am thankful for all the Rainbow Loom rubber bands that my Aunt Carolyn and cousins Amanda and Victoria share with me. It may not seem like a big deal to most grown-ups, but when a 10-year-old runs low on white, green, or just wants to use some tie-dye, glow-in-the-dark rubber bands when attempting a honeycomb pattern, it's the greatest thing ever.

I am thankful for my Dad's affinity for fun snacks. Mom is always worried about "not staying healthy," so she hardly ever lets us binge out on chips, Mountain Dew, and Airheads, but Dad is another story. On that note, if you ever want to see what it's like to "really" shop the concession stand at the movies (trumped-up prices and all), come out with my Dad and us!

I am thankful for my Grandma who always has a smile and a hug for us even when she's sad and misses my Pop-pop. Life goes on for us kids, but I know it's not always easy for grown-ups. Nonetheless, Grandma is always happy to spend time with us, take us places, and laugh with us. Mom says we're good for her, but really -- she's good for us.

I am thankful for my teachers, principal, and the staff at my school. Sure, we are there to learn -- and we do (all of our homework is testament to that!) -but we are also there to be respectful, to be friendly to others, and to always show God's love. My parents appreciate the fact that these qualities are emphasized at our school. I really don't know anything other than such an atmosphere, and I figure that makes me pretty lucky.

I am thankful to my sister, who is always there for me to play with, talk to, even to get me things. She's still young enough where she basically listens to everything I say, which comes in helpful when I need something from upstairs

when I'm in the basement, or when my pen runs out of ink and I'm too busy with my homework to get up to get another one. Plus, she is turning into a real crack-up lately -- ask her about her "I'm in my jammies" dance -- so that definitely keeps things entertaining. We don't even realize it most of the time, but Mom and Dad remind us how much we enjoy each other's company and how we will be lifelong friends, something for which you can never be thankful enough.

I am thankful for my friends, especially as we get older and things--sometimes--get more "dramatic." I guess it's because we've been friends for so long that we just "get" each other and get over things quickly. Plus, as the divide between the boys and us is starting to grow, it's important to have "my girls" around me. Not to mention that they always-always--make me giggle my famous "Gigi giggle" (the one Mom says she wants to make a ringtone, it's so hilarious).

I am thankful for my mornings alone. I get up super early and enjoy the time to myself each day before everyone comes downstairs to join me. I usually use the time to catch up on my Food Network shows or draw, read, or color. When I go a few days without that time--say, if my sister actually gets up before me--I start to get grumpy. It's something I know I need, which is why I am grateful for those moments.

I am thankful to have this opportunity to "remember" my life and to have people care about it. Mom has been under a lot of stress since we lost Pop-pop, so meeting these deadlines isn't always at the top of her list, yet each month she sits with me and asks me what we can share, and inevitably, we always come up with something. Even when we put out a column that may not have been our best or our favorite, there's always someone who sends a note, a Facebook message, or just mentions it in passing when they find out I'm "that Gigi" that keeps us going.

So, in closing, my mom and I are thankful for my gigantic binger of "Gigi's World" memories. Mom finally put it together over the past few weeks and was amazed at how much she had forgotten.

Having these pages upon pages of my life documented is truly a blessing to my family and me.

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EVALUATIONS INDIVIDUAL THERAPY SESSIONS GROUP MOTOR CLASSES MARTIAL ARTS PROGRAM Most Insurance Accepted Most Major Credit Cards Accepted

718.317.7030 3710 Richmond Ave

www.starspediatrictherapy.com

NYS LICENSED PSYCHOLOGIST

Individual / Family Therapy Psychoeducational Evaluations School Consultation Autism Program Case-manager Tel: 917.783.5378 Fax: 718.494.2352 Email: Dr.lerman@gmail.com 27 Washington Avenue (Side Entrance) Staten Island, NY 10314

Culturally Competent Compassionate Counseling

444 Huguenot Avenue • SI, NY 10312

(718) 967-5213

Member American Association of Orthodontists

Licensed Psychotherapists

• Advanced Integrative Therapy • Indiv/Couples/Family • Special Needs/Identity/Self Esteem • Work & Educational Issues/ Abuse-Recovery • Autism/Aspergers SOME CREDIT CARDS ARE ACCEPTED

• Evidence Based Treatments for Anxiety, Bereavement, Depression, Social/Peer Conflicts, Trauma (PTSD) • EMDR Therapy • Individual, Couples & Family Therapy • Play Therapy for Children • Bilingual • All Ages • Support Group/Anti Bullying Prevention & Education for Children & Teens

2504 Richmond Road • 10306

Free phone consultation 347.782.9065

917-613-4009

1082 Victory Blvd

Most Insurances Accepted

PSYCHOTHERAPIST

PSYCHOTHERAPIST

DIANE MILIO, L.C.S.W.

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

Pediatric PROMPT and Feeding Therapy

PSYCHOTHERAPIST

Specializing in the treatment of children, adolescents, adults, couples and families

Marissa Ramos-Vitarelli MA, CCC-SLP-PC

Over 25 Years Experience Most Insurance Accepted Evening & Saturday Appointments Available

Speech-Language Pathologist PROMPT Certified Instructor for the PROMPT Institute

718.317.5782

917.887.8820 120 Rathbun Avenue Staten Island, NY 10312

47 Lucy Loop • SI, NY 10312

SPEECH PATHOLOGY 718-967-0359 • 3767 Richmond Ave www.brightstartspeech.com brightstart@si.rr.com

Speech & Language Pathology, P.C.

• Private practice with energetic & talented Speech Language Pathologists • Extensive experience • Full range of services (diagnostics & evaluations) • Occupational Therapy Now • NYS & ASHA Certified Accepting CPSE & RSA • Multi-Lingual Therapists

Offering Homecare

WE ACCEPT ALL MAJOR INSURANCE PLANS. FREE CONSULTATIONS.

SPEECH PATHOLOGY FIND THE FUN IN FEEDING is a twelve-week feeding program, utilizing the SOS Approach to Feeding. It utilizes a non-invasive developmental model, that teaches your child how to interact, tolerate and eat a variety of foods in a non-stressful, supportive environment. Parent/caregiver training is a key part of this program to foster success at home.

A multidisciplinary approach is also utilized, incorporating the expertise of a feeding therapist, an occupational therapist, a nutritionist, a pediatrician or any relevant professional working with your child.

www.pediatricandadultspeech.com LISA JIANNETTO, MA, CCC-SLP, DIRECTOR

718.356.6604 • 4056 Amboy Rd • 10308 SPEECH PATHOLOGY CLAIRE GUTTSMAN M.A., C.C.C. - SLP 1076 FOREST AVE. (corner of Manor Rd.)

718-447-5501 Certified professional, providing quality evaluations and treatment of adults and children for over 35 years.

ADDITIONAL SERVICES: Public Speaking Improvement, Accent Reduction, Corporate Speech Pathology & Lecturing

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

Simply Speaking SLP, PLLC Speech & Learning Center

Speech Screening, Evaluations, Feeding, Pediatric Speech, Oral Motor, Tutoring, Enrichment & Homework Help.

All school-aged children, including those with learning & developmental delays.

Most Insurance Accepted (Incl. Medicaid) NYC DOE CPSE and RSA letters welcomed!

Ade Otubanjo, M.A., CCC-SLP Leah Pride Otubanjo, M.S.Ed., M.A. Biochemistry 252 Maple Parkway (At Forest Ave) • SI, NY 347.546.5088 • simply.speaking.slp@gmail.com www.simplyspeakingslp.com

SPEECH & OT

STATEN ISLAND SPEECH

• ASHA Certified Therapist • Specializes in Phonological and Articulation Disorders • Language Delays and Disorders • Prompt Trained • Children and Adults Welcome • Small Groups Welcome ~Insurance Plans Accepted~ www.statenislandspeech.com

Call for a free consultation

718-303-2062 SPEECH, OT/PT

QUALITY CARE SPEECH CENTER, INC.

EVALUATION & TREATMENT OF PEDIATRIC SPEECH & LANGUAGE, FINE & GROSS MOTOR DELAYS & DISORDERS • Department of Education CPSE & CSE Tertiary Designation • Most Insurance Accepted • Homecare and School Services Offered

718-608-1508

southshorespeechtherapy.com 520B Bloomingdale Rd SI, NY 10309 415 Route 34, Suite 218 Colts Neck, N.J. 07722

NYS Licensed Speech Pathologists, Occupational & Physical Therapists Evaluation and Treatment of Pediatric Speech, Language, Feeding, Oral, Fine & Gross Motor Disorders, P.R.O.M.P.T., Russian Bilingual Services, State of the Art Sensory Gym Dept of Ed Provider (CPSE & RSA) Top of Tertiary Tier Designation

718.605.4301 3767 Hylan Blvd (Great Kills) Randi Pino M.A., CCC-SLP/TSHH, Director

www.qualitycarespeech.com

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

SPEECH AND LANGUAGE THERAPY ASSOCIATES OF STATEN ISLAND, PLLC PROMPT TRAINED THERAPISTS SOS FEEDING APPROACH ORTON-GILLINGHAM & WILSON TRAINED THERAPISTS EAROBICS

Individualized and Customized: Language Enhancement Programs, Auditory Training Programs, Fluency Enhancement Programs, Oral-Sensory-Motor Plans, Voice Treatment Programs, Accent Reduction Programs, Feeding Treatment Plans, Pediatric & Adult Clients We welcome NYC DOE clients, and we are now an associate of The Perfect Playground for all CSE cases.

www.pediatricandadultspeech.com NEW LISA JIANNETTO, MA, CCC-SLP, DIRECTOR LOCATION 718.356.6604 • 4056 Amboy Rd • 10308

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

Speech Language Pathology PC • Diagnosis & treatment of infants, toddlers, adults • Autism, learning and communication disabilities • Articulation, impaired language, stuttering or lisps • All major credit cards and insurances

PreCare, SLP, PC • Radmila Gurevich, MA, CCC-SLP

WWW.SLPMD.COM

718.259.4001 • 1829 Richmond Rd

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

DOE APPROVED TO PROVIDE MONO AND BILINGUAL SERVICES FOR PRE-SCHOOL AND SCHOOL AGE CHILDREN.

Speech and Language Pathology Practice Serving You and Your Children

Autistic Spectrum Disorders, PDD, Craniofacial Differences, Fluency Disorders, Apraxia of Speech, “Late Talkers,” Hearing Impairments & Phonological / Articulation Disorders 347.640.4SLP (4757) • 188 Hylan Blvd • 10305 www.bbslp.org • Email: info@bbslp.org

Most Insurances Accepted

SPEECH PATHOLOGY

Sandra Mazzucco M.A., C.C.C.-SLP

NYS LICENSED SPEECH LANGUAGE PATHOLOGIST

CALL US AND HAVE YOUR BUSINESS ADVERTISED HERE!

Evaluations & Therapeutic Intervention for Children & Adults

• ASHA Certified • New South Shore Location: 465 Belfield Ave • Annadale Town North Shore: 1076 Forest Ave

718-815-6024

718-761-4800 x7139

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NOVEMBER 2013

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BIRTHDAY CLUB

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CAN YOUR DENTIST DELIVER THESE SERVICES? • Intravenous and Oral Sedation • Nitrous Oxide “sweet air” • Painless injections with “The Wand.” One of only

• 38 years of experience with over 2,000 hours of continuing education • CPR and emergency management trained staff

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and comfort • Availability of topical gels for gum comfort during hygiene visits • Understand your dental needs; see it on TV with our intra-oral camera!

• Ask us about the 25 other ways we can help you!

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If your answer is “no,” you need to call

STATEN ISLAND DENTAL CARE 718.761.5757 Dr. Frederick S. Hecht, D.M.D., P.C. Crown Council Humanitarian Dentist award for overseas dental missionary trips

Special Web Offer! www.AfraidOfTheDentist.com 1520 Richmond Avenue Staten Island, NY 10314 We are sorry but we are not able to accept Medicaid NOVEMBER 2013

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VOTE

NOVEMBER 5TH!

Chris Walsh, lifelong Staten Island resident has been a volunteer community organizer for over 35 years!

People Not Politics His main priorities include: • Fighting the prescription drug epidemic

• Work with police to develop focused enforcement in areas that have been ignored • Bring back funding for Music & Art programs

• Providing safe pedestrian passage for our students

• Ensure that the Department of Education provides necessary supplies for our children

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Look For THE Re-Opening of our North Gannon Ave. School

As per Section 4410 of Article 89 of the Education Law

• Group or Individual Curriculums at Your Home, Preschool or our Center.

• Diagnostic Evaluations and Therapy by Licensed Certified Professionals. Placement determined by NYC CPSE. • NYS Approved Preschool Evaluation Site.

• FREE TUITION AND TRANSPORTATION* * For all eligibile children. Funding provided through state and local agencies. Parent may transport for reimbursement.

• Developmental Areas: Behavior and Socialization, Cognitive Development, Speech and Language Hearing Loss, Physical and Occupational Therapy.

• Three Convenient Staten Island Locations.

• Call or Visit our School & Pick Up a Free Brochure.

• For Information Concerning the Early Intervention Program Call 311.

WWW.GINGERBREADLCTR.COM ~Equal Opportunity Employer~

Ages 0-5 Programs Available 718 80 Woodrow Rd • 471 North Gannon Ave • 144 Bloomingdale Rd E-Mail: GingerbreadLearn@aol.com

5 Days - Full Day/Half Day

Not responsible for any typographical errors.

Extended Daycare Hours 7am-7pm Available NOVEMBER 2013

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