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What is BIKTARVY®?

BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults. It can either be used in people who have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, or people who are replacing their current HIV-1 medicines and whose healthcare provider determines they meet certain requirements.

BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. HIV-1 is the virus that causes AIDS.

IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION

What is the most important information I should know about BIKTARVY? BIKTARVY may cause serious side effects: } Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection.

If you have both HIV-1 and HBV and stop taking BIKTARVY, your HBV may suddenly get worse. Do not stop taking BIKTARVY without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to monitor your health.

Who should not take BIKTARVY? Do not take BIKTARVY if you take: } dofetilide } rifampin } any other medicines to treat HIV-1

What are the other possible side effects of BIKTARVY? Serious side effects of BIKTARVY may also include: } Changes in your immune system. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections. Tell your healthcare provider if you have any new symptoms after you start taking BIKTARVY. } Kidney problems, including kidney failure.

Your healthcare provider should do blood and urine tests to check your kidneys.

If you develop new or worse kidney problems, they may tell you to stop taking BIKTARVY. } Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death.

Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat. } Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain.

The most common side effects of BIKTARVY in clinical studies were diarrhea (6%), nausea (5%), and headache (5%). Tell your healthcare provider if you have any side effects that bother you or don’t go away.

What should I tell my healthcare provider before taking BIKTARVY? } All your health problems. Be sure to tell your healthcare provider if you have or have had any kidney or liver problems, including hepatitis virus infection. } All the medicines you take, including prescription and over-the-counter medicines, antacids, laxatives, vitamins, and herbal supplements. BIKTARVY and other medicines may affect each other. Keep a list of all your medicines and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist, and ask if it is safe to take BIKTARVY with all of your other medicines. } If you are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. It is not known if BIKTARVY can harm your unborn baby. Tell your healthcare provider if you become pregnant while taking BIKTARVY. } If you are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. HIV-1 can be passed to the baby in breast milk.

You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch, or call 1-800-FDA-1088.

Ask your healthcare provider if BIKTARVY is right for you.

Please see Important Facts about BIKTARVY, including important warnings, on the following page.

Get HIV support by downloading a free app at MyDailyCharge.com

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BIKTARVY is a 1-pill, once-a-day complete HIV-1 treatment for adults who are either new to treatment or whose healthcare provider determines they can replace their current HIV-1 medicines with BIKTARVY.

BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. BIKTARVY.COM

IMPORTANT FACTS

This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY® and does not replace talking to your healthcare provider about your condition and your treatment.

(bik-TAR-vee) MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT BIKTARVY BIKTARVY may cause serious side effects, including: • Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. If you have both HIV-1 and HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking BIKTARVY. Do not stop taking BIKTARVY without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to check your health regularly for several months.

ABOUT BIKTARVY BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults.

It can either be used in people who have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, or people who are replacing their current HIV-1 medicines and whose healthcare provider determines they meet certain requirements.

BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. HIV-1 is the virus that causes AIDS. Do NOT take BIKTARVY if you also take a medicine that contains: • dofetilide • rifampin • any other medicines to treat HIV-1

BEFORE TAKING BIKTARVY Tell your healthcare provider all your medical conditions, including if you: • Have or have had any kidney or liver problems, including hepatitis infection.

• Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant.

• Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed if you have HIV-1 because of the risk of passing HIV-1 to your baby.

Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take: • Keep a list that includes all prescription and over-thecounter medicines, antacids, laxatives, vitamins, and herbal supplements, and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist.

• Ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist about medicines that interact with BIKTARVY.

POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF BIKTARVY BIKTARVY can cause serious side effects, including: • Those in the “Most Important Information About BIKTARVY” section.

• Changes in your immune system.

• New or worse kidney problems, including kidney failure.

• Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat.

• Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain.

• The most common side effects of BIKTARVY in clinical studies were diarrhea (6%), nausea (5%), and headache (5%).

These are not all the possible side effects of BIKTARVY. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any new symptoms while taking BIKTARVY. Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your health before and during treatment with BIKTARVY.

HOW TO TAKE BIKTARVY Take BIKTARVY 1 time each day with or without food.

GET MORE INFORMATION • This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY. Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist to learn more.

• Go to BIKTARVY.com or call 1-800-GILEAD-5.

• If you need help paying for your medicine, visit BIKTARVY.com for program information.

BIKTARVY, the BIKTARVY Logo, DAILY CHARGE, the DAILY CHARGE Logo, LOVE WHAT’S INSIDE, GILEAD, and the GILEAD Logo are trademarks of Gilead Sciences, Inc., or its related companies.

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CONTENTS

October/November 2018 | VOLUME 29, NO. 5

IMAGES THIS PAGE: PEPPERMINT COURTESY JAMES MICHAEL AVANCE • PAUL FEIG COURTESY LIONSGATE • INN COURTESY FOGO ISLAND INN.

33 28 FRESHLY MINTED YOU KNOW HER AS AN EXTRAORDINARY ENTERTAINER AND

Drag Race alumna; now Peppermint spills the T about growing up, gender identity and her fabulous starring role in Broadway’s Head Over Heels.

33 BLAKE LIVELY WANTS TO DRESS LIKE PAUL FEIG

HE’S FAMOUS FOR SHOWCASING WOMEN IN FILMS FROM

Bridesmaids to Ghostbusters; now he’s adding humor and girl power into a new psychological thriller starring Anna Kendrick and Blake Lively.

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38 POWER SPLURGE YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO AFFORD THE BEST OF EVERYTHING

but it can’t hurt to look; so check out private tours of far off places, over-the-top butler service, golden dumbbells and a martini garnished with a diamond.

52 SAUSAGE FEST SOMETHING ABOUT OCTOBER TURNS A PERSON’S FANCY TO

38 ON THE COVER PHOTO BY JAMES MICHAEL AVANCE

thoughts of beer, brats and lederhosen, but our recent trip to experience the joys of Berlin and Hamburg showed us Germany has more in store.

WATCH OUT

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EDITOR’S LETTER

LAST YEAR, MY FIANCE JUSTIN SURPRISED ME WITH AN UN-

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expected gift: a smartwatch. When these ingenious little devices hit the market, I, like most people, was fascinated by the way they seemed to fulfill the promise of Star Trek’s combadges, taking almost unlimited access to communication and the whole of human knowledge and downsizing it into something wearable.

That said, it isn’t something I would have bought for myself. I have misplaced too many phones and iPods and pairs of ear buds to add a new piece of technology to my to-not-lose list. Plus, I’d been quite happy with my FitBit, which - though significantly more limited in its capabilities - also had the benefit of being nearly impervious to damage and dramatically less expensive to replace. Having been presented with the watch, though, I got lost in it: There were faces to download, apps to install, settings with which to tinker.

At first, the watch’s vibrations made me happy. It usefully alerted me to messages I might have missed while buried in work or running around town. But the relationship quickly grew strained. The fun of being able to surreptitiously receive messages while in meetings led to a sense of annoyance when I couldn’t reply to them. I also found it increasingly maddening that the watch informed me when someone had commented on a social media posts - but not what that comment was. I began to react to its interruptions with sighs and eyerolls, as though it was nagging me to eat my vegetables.

The watch also seemed to burn through energy - both its own and that of my phone. I experimented with its power saving mode and adjusting the notifications I received, but I was constantly running out of power, which meant the pedometer wasn’t keeping track of my steps anymore. Years of good habits I’d developed with the FitBit (to squeeze extra steps into my day) began to erode. I took to charging the watch so often, it led to another annoying habit - leaving my watch to charge instead of wearing it.

The last straw came shortly after an update to the watch’s operating system set the prominent knob on its side to summon a personal assistant, which was also accompanied by a vibration. So anytime I bent my wrist past a certain angle (for example, to put my hands on my hips) it would buzz at me. I had never realized how often I put my hands on my hips before, and it was information I could have lived without. I dug out my old FitBit and stared at it, remembering the days when I got one satisfying buzz a day when I met my step goal — back before my wrist had been transformed into a constant reminder of e-mail that needed checking or judgments about my choice of posture.

A solution occurred to me one day when Justin and I were both Googling around for answers. I was gritting my teeth in frustration (having already been driven to the edge of madness), while Justin, not having had a personal relationship with the watch, still spoke of it with gee-whiz enthusiasm, bringing up a variety of potentially useful ways to tweak its interface.“If he likes it so much,” I thought, “he should wear it.” And that was when I realized: he should.

I turned to Justin and told him I loved him and that though I appreciated his kindness and generosity, things just weren’t working out between me and the watch. Then I suggested that, rather than let it go to waste, he might like to try wearing it I’m not sure whether I was secretly hoping that the watch would be the same bitchy hellcat to him that it had been to me (thus validating my arduous struggle with it). Regardless, Justin and the watch turned out to be a perfect match. I’ve never once heard him complain about it issuing too many notifications or running out of power or passing inadvertent judgment on the way he holds his arms. And I learned that, though a lavish gift can often be an indulgence, sometimes there’s a greater satisfaction in freeing yourself from your obligation to it — and putting your hands on your hips whenever you damned well please.

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October/November 2018 | VOLUME 29, NO. 5

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88 CULTURE 6 METROSCOPE Don’t miss Coming Out Day, Trans Day of Remembrance, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, Lady Gaga — and more.

12 MUSIC Spin Jake Shears, Nicki Minaj and Troy Sivan.

14 BOOKS British royals, 1970s Punk photos and Grace Jones.

19 TECH Terence finally upgrades his TV - and falls in love.

21 FINANCE When it’s time to invest, focus on your goals.

22 SCREEN The latest from Rupert, Kiera, Toni and Jake.

BODY 26 METRO HIV The challenges of providing HIV services when you’re in a Red State.

50 HEALTH What happens when you try taking your workout temp down a few degrees?

VIEWS 20 DIARY Wade heads to a pricey salon and ends up cut to the quick.

51 POV When it comes to tapes, Kevin is in the mix.

88 LAST CALL Glorious Coco Peru on her live show and Trick 2.

EXCLUSIVELY NY 58 HOME It’s time for bed.

60 NY SCOPE Who’s your next hot ticket?

66 HOTSHOPS Conscious casual wear.

68 METROMONY Dressing for the big day.

71 BAR SOURCE Where to drink up…

72 RESTAURANT BITES …and chow down.

74 BUSINESS DIRECTORY Businesses that cater to the LGBT community.

86 COMMUNITY RESOURCES Organizations and resources for NYC’s LGBTs.

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NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY ALTHOUGH JUNE IS PRIDE MONTH, THERE’S STILL ANOTHER CHUNK

of the calendar traditionally dedicated to our community.

October is LGBT History Month (though that’s unlikely to be acknowledged by the current administration), and one of the month’s most important observances is Coming Out Day. Since its founding in 1988, the occasion has been observed on October 11 — encouraging to people to open up to friends, family, neighbors and colleagues about their orientation. The concept was born of the idea that the more people realize there are LGBTQ people in their lives, the

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harder it will be for them to deny us our rights. In 2017, Matthew H. Birkhold, then an assistant professor at Ohio State University, published an opinion piece in the Washington Post calling for an end to Coming Out Day. He reasoned that, since straight people don’t have to come out, it reinforces the idea that homosexuality is aberrant. We must forcefully disagree with this sentiment. In a world where LGBTQ rights are being assaulted from the highest office in the land, it is more important than ever for us to be seen, heard and known. Keep giving our community a face. Come out. hrc.org

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INK SPOTTED

SCRATCHING THE SURFACE

ONCE CONSIDERED THE PURVIEW OF SAILORS AND CRIMINALS, TATTOOS

have increasingly become nearly ubiquitous in Western Culture. (There’s even a reality competition show about it called

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Ink Master, which was recently renewed for an 11th season.) A wider audience in search of ink that expresses their creativity and identity means top-notch tattoo artists are more in-demand than ever. Enter Chris Coppola, and his eye-catching compendium 1000 Tattoos (Universe Publishing, $29.95), which features new works from more than 40 of the most groundbreaking, up-and-

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coming tattoo designers working today. These artists represent a wide range of diversity — in terms of culture, race, gender and geographic origin. But the proof is in the work: Scott Ellis’ full back tatoos of jungle-prowling tigers and wave-riding dragons; Corey Weir’s bold, intricate, interwoven patterns; Gakkin’s wild, skin-swallowing fields of black; Lesha Lau’s surprising pixellations; Naoki’s big-eyed cartoon characters. Anyone can enjoy these eye-catching creations, but they’re certain to get tattooenthusiasts itching for their next investment in ink. rizzoliusa.com

SCREEN IT

ERASED ON A TRUE STORY AFTER DECADES OF HAVING THE LGBTQ EXPERIENCE ALL-TOO-OFTEN

relegated to the sidelines, recent years have seen more and more mainstream films telling our stories — and bringing along the A-list talent to aid in the task (e.g. Cate Blanchett in Carol; Armie Hammer in Call Me By Your Name). Now, it’s time to talk about the controversial subject of conversion therapy.

In Boy Erased, based on the memoir of the same title, Academy Award nominee Lucas Hedges (Manchester by the Sea, Lady Bird, Three Billboards Outside Ebbing Missouri) plays Jared, the son of a small town Baptist preacher. When he is outed to his parents (Nicole Kidman and Russel Crowe), Jared is pressured to attend conversion therapy or risk being shunned by his friends, family and church. Joel Edgerton wrote, directed and also stars (as the head of the conversion therapy program) in the film, which takes a candid look at the realities of the mental and physical abuse that occurs in such institutions. Notably, the film also features the talents of the great Cherry Jones and music phenomenon Troy Sivan (see our review of his album on page 13 of this issue). Based on a harrowing true story, Boy Erased is certain to garner plenty of buzz come awards season and, more importantly, stir conversation about the dangers of this horrific practice. focusfeatures.com METROSOURCE.COM OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2018

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Eugene von Bruenchenhein Marie von Bruenchenhein, c. 1943 hand-colored gelatin silver print

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ART BEAT

EN GARDE! laCma WIll BrIng tHe lauded exHIBItIon OUTLIERS AND

American Vanguard Art to its galleries starting November 18. The project explores pivotal moments when avant-garde artists and outsiders changed the trajectory of American art — ultimately telling stories of unique explorations, assimilation and the history of American modernism in multiple mediums. The works in Outliers and American Vanguard Art are divided into three periods: The first section focuses on the early years of New York’s Museum of Modern Art, when it championed folk artists before the rise of abstract impressionism. The second section hones in on the 1960s, when the Chicago imagists and practitioners of the West Coast assemblage became leading visionaries. And the third section examines the continued impact of outlier practices on contemporary American art today. The exhibition features upwards of 250 works from more than 80 artists — some formally

trained, others self-taught. This list includes Henry Darger (who created everything from idyllic landscapes to disturbing scenes of torture), folk art sculptor William Edmondson and Lonnie Holley — who became known for incorporating found objects into his sculptural work, alongside many others. The exhibit has been curated by Lynne Cooke and organized by the National Gallery of Art in Washington, D.C. Cooke is a renowned art scholar and the senior curator of Modern Art at the National Gallery. Other notable exhibitions that bear her imprint include Cristina Iglesia: A Place of Reflection, Rosmarie Trockel: A Cosmos and Richard Serra Sculpture: Forty Years. As Cooke has done extensive research on the relationship between self-taught and trained professional artists (including penning a book on the topic), she brings a deft touch the project, which addresses this fascinating intersection in the depth it deserves. lacma.org

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convention for almost everything. Still, we couldn’t help but take note of something which bills itself as multi-fandom event for LGBTQ women and allies celebrating LGBTQ women and characters on TV, film, web series, comics, books and more. Slated for November 3-4 in London, ClexaCon’ stated mission is to build community by bringing together a diverse group of LGBTQ fans and content creators from around the world.

Its networking events connect filmmakers, actors and industry professionals, while panels, workshops and autograph sessions connect creators with fans. ClexaCon aims to empower media creators to produce and distribute more positive LGBTQ content and provide educational resources for the community to aid in the push for better representation. The goal is to lay the foundation for improved visibility within the media while also encouraging more LGBTQ women to participate in creating the kind of stories they seek. There’s plenty of fun to be had as well, including parties, pool hangouts, cosplay, a fun run and speed friending. Response to this year’s first ClexaCon event (at the Tropicana Hotel in Las Vegas) was so overwhelming — drawing over 4,000 attendees and celebrity guests such as Sense8’s Jaime Clayton (pictured) — that organizers scheduled this November follow-up to maintain momentum. clexacon.com

IMAGES THIS PAGE: REVELATION 7. CHAP., COURTESY OF THE MUSEUM OF EVERYTHING, LONDON ORDER; MARIE VON BRUENCHENHEIN, JOHN MICHAEL KOHLER ARTS CENTER COLLECTION, SHEBOYGAN; TWO ACROBATS, HIRSHHORN MUSEUM AND SCULPTURE GARDEN, SMITHSONIAN INSTITUTION, WASHINGTON, GIFT OF JOSEPH H.HIRSHHORN, 1966; ADELARD THE DROWNED, MASTER OF THE “PHANTOM”, THE FREDERICK R. WEISMAN ART MUSEUM AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MINNESOTA, MINNEAPOLIS, Bequest of Hudson d. Walker from tHe Ione and Hudson d. Walker ColleCtIon • ClexaCon Courtesy netflIx

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SOUNDS GOOD

HERE SHE GOES AGAIN WHILE REVIEWS OF MAMMA MIA! HERE WE GO AGAIN CAN MOST

diplomatically be described as mixed, at least one great thing came out of it. Cher’s terrific performance of the ABBA classic “Fernando” was by most accounts the highlight of the film, and even debuted at 22 on the Adult Contemporary charts upon release. Whether motivated by her sheer enjoyment of working with the material or the fervor of her fans’ reaction, Cher decided that her ABBA renaissance would not end with the soundtrack of the sequel — she’s announced a full new album covering the Swedish pop legends’ material — includ-

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ing title track, “Dancing Queen,”“The Name of the Game,” ”SOS,””Waterloo,””Mamma Mia,”“Chiquitita,”“The Winner Takes It All”and“One of Us.”“I’ve always liked ABBA and saw the original Mamma Mia musical on Broadway three times,” gushed Lé Cher.“After filming Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again, I was reminded again of what great and timeless songs they wrote and started thinking, ‘Why not do an album?’” Cher has already thrilled fans with her cover of “Gimme! Gimme!

Gimme! (A Man After Midnight).”The remainder of the album will drop September 28th. cher.com

REAL TALK: THE THIRD SEASON OF THE CW’S CRITICALLY ACCLAIMED

Crazy Ex–Girlfriend took the show from fun-crazy (imprompturisk-taking, truth-bending, instagram-stalking) to dark-crazy (mother-kidnapping, reputation-destroying, murder-plotting) and brought audiences to a finale that seemed to presage our heroine Rebecca Bunch (played by show co-creator Rachel Bloom, pictured) facing a hefty punishment for her actions. It left some fans wondering whether there would even be a fourth season, and we are happy to report that there will be; but it is with mixed emotions that we confirm it is slated to be the show’s last. At ComicCon, Bloom and Crazy co-creator Aline Brosh McKenna insisted that the show was always meant to have a four-season arc, and that this last season will tie together the show’s at-times manic swings in mood and storytelling style. The pair also revealed that the final season (which mostly features original songs) will — by fan request — feature “Cell Block Tango” from the musical Chicago and that the show may have future life as a concert tour or stage musical. The farewell season premieres October 12. cwtv.com

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REMEMBER ME visibility, thanks largely in part to activists like Laverne Cox (pictured). But this vibrant part of our rainbow community has long been misunderstood and faced violence as a result. In 1999 Gwendolyn Ann Smith founded the observance to memorialize the murder of Rita Hester, but the date (November 20) has evolved into an occasion to remember all trans people whose lives were taken from them as a result of anti-transgender violence. Many observe the date by reading aloud the names of these people; the lists tend to be hundreds of names long but only represent a portion of those who have been

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lost.“They dared to be themselves when our society made it a crime to deviate from gender norms,”said Cox (known for her role on Orange Is the New Black and hosting makeup reality competition Glam Masters) of her transestors in a video on time.com. She also points out that the struggle is not over: “The murder rate of trans women of color increases with every passing year,” Cox adds. Nevertheless, she ends the video with a message of hope:“Our rights will be hard-won, but we are winning.” tdor.info

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HIGH TIMES

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LOOKING FOR AN ALL-NATURAL, FRESH, UNISEX SCENT?

In a world where hidden chemicals seem to lurk everywhere, fall for all-natural mists from Highborn. Not only do they have a wonderful fragrance — like stepping into the treatment room of your favorite spa, but they are also designed with a spiritual twist. For example, their Défumé scent is meant to cleanse the energy of a space the way one might burn smudge (like sage) or incense in preparation for meditation, prayer or other ritual you enjoy. When we first tried it, the sensation reminded us of stepping into a cloud of sandalwood (one of its base notes, meant to provide mental clarity); also in the mix are soothing clary sage, mood-elevating sweet orange, tension-relieving lavender, purifying palo santo and immunity-boosting patchouli. Other scents include Prince’s Pear (bergamot and rosewater) and Salome (neroli and rose geranium).You don’t need to subscribe to the spiritual side of the product to enjoy its aroma, but you can take it as a sign of the care its creators have put into crafting it.

Learn more online. highborn.nyc

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HAVE A GAY OLD TIME IN ANAHEIM,

Montreal, New Orleans and Miami: GAY DAYS ANAHEIM OCTOBER 5-7 RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE SUPERSTAR DETOX

kicks off 2018’s Gay days Anaheim at Disney with a mad bash party at the Rumba room. On Saturday, join events like the Big Red Boat Mixer, the Hungry Bear Lunch Gathering or the Kingdom party with DJ Roland Belmares. End the weekend with California Adventure by Disney, a fabulous ladies ice cream social, and end with the spectacular World of Color show. gaydaysanaheiminfo.com BLACK AND BLUE FESTIVAL OCTOBER 5-8 IT’S ESTIMATED THAT THIS FESTIVAL, ONE OF Montreal’s most beloved gay events,

will draw approximately 250,000 revelers this year to take part in a program that has grown to include about 60 activities, including a fabulous Tea Dance, the Black and Blue Ball at the Palais des congrès de Montréal. bbcm.org HALLOWEEN NEW ORLEANS OCTOBER 26-28 FOR OVER 24 YEARS, THIS SCARY FUN

event has fundraised for project Lazarus, a home in New Orleans that provides assistance and care for those living with HIV/AIDS. This year, Halloween New Orleans will feature three back-to-back events on “Halloweekend” featuring DJs Drew G, Kitty Glitter and Dan Slater. togetherwenola.com/halloween THE WHITE PARTY WEEK, MIAMI NOVEMBER 22-26 MIAMI’S WHITE PARTY IS THE LONGEST

running HIV/AIDS fundraiser in the world and one of the city’s hottest gatherings. Now with over 16 events, it’s not-to-be-missed — flocked to by people from all over the world. Over its 34-yearhistory the White Party has also raised millions of dollars for HIV/AIDS care, research, and prevention. whiteparty.org

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SALON AND ON IT’s 1968, on The eve of a presIdenTIaL eLecTIon ThaT

ultimately will install Richard Nixon in the White House.

George Roundy (Warren Beatty) is a successful Beverly Hills hairdresser, a profession which allows him to bed many a beauty, including his girlfriend Jill (Goldie Hawn), but he’s stuck under the thumb of his salon’s owner. Desperate to advance his career, he turns to his lover Felicia (Lee Grant, in the role that won her an Oscar) and her husband Lester, who assumes George is gay and asks him to escort his mistress Jackie (Julie Christie) to a Republican Election Night soiree — not realizing that George and Jackie for-

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merly had a torrid romance. They all end up at a wild party fueled by alcohol, sex and drugs that threatens to unmask all their secret relationships. Though the film found release just as the Watergate investigation concluded (adding a deeper layer of irony), the wild farce is more focused on social and sexual politics than governmental ones. This very special Criterion Edition will feature a restored version of the movie, a vintage TV appearance by actor/producer/ co-writer Beatty, and new conversations about the film between critics Mark Harris (Vulture) and Frank Rich (New York Magazine). criterion.com

FIrsT came Judy’s. Then came barbra’s. now, IT’s TIme for Gaga’s. This latest incarnation of A Star is Born will have its debut at the 75th Venice International Film Festival, and — in addition to being the fourth remake of the classic romance — it will mark the directorial debut of Bradley Cooper, who also co-wrote the screenplay and stars opposite Gaga in this tale of lovers brought together (and torn apart) by show business and its excesses. The project traces its roots back to 2011, when Clint Eastwood was attached to direct and Beyoncé was to play the female rising star. In the end, Cooper and Gaga signed on in 2016 and principal photography began last year at the Coachella music festival — with other famous faces threaded through the cast, including Sam Elliott, Dave Chappelle, Andrew Dice Clay and Drag Race alums Shangela and Willam. Gaga also participated in crafting the film’s songs, and pushed for them to be sung live, rather than lip-synced to a track. In interviews, Cooper and Gaga describe their chemistry as instantaneous and magical, but you can judge for yourself when they arrive in theaters; the due date is October 5. astarisbornmovie.com METROSOURCE.COM OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2018

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DUETTING WITH ARIANA

Two very different artists offer albums that include duets with Ms. Grande, while Jake Shears finds passion in relocation. BY MATT GROSS

JAKE SHEARS

Jake Shears (Freida Jean Records) THE FORMER SCISSOR SISTERS FRONTMAN RETURNS

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to the limelight with his debut solo release, an album that seamlessly melds vintage country, rock and disco. Following a move from New York to New Orleans, Jake was able to find the inspiration he was so desperately seeking. As he explains it, “I needed a change of scene, and it’s a city I’ve always wanted to live in. I went down

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and began writing there and something funny happened. The good stuff started coming,” he says.“And it kept coming. With the help of many talented musicians, I’ve been able to create the record I’ve been shooting for my whole life. It’s not only the most personal thing I’ve made, I truly believe it’s the best thing I’ve made.” The album’s lead single “Creep City” has been described by Shears as a“theatrical jam,”with a series of twists and turns that describes a moment where Jake reflected on his life and reassessed where he wanted to be spending it. Inspired by the likes of Elton John, Queen and Sylvester, to name a few, the self-titled record truly sounds like an instant classic from start to finish.

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TROYE SIVAN

Bloom (Capitol Records) THE AUSTRALIAN SINGER-SONGWRITER’S SOPHOMORE ALBUM IS SEXY,

confident and unabashedly queer. The former YouTuber (who was one of the first internet stars to come out publicly via vlog back in 2013) tackles desire, despair and intrigue on one of the finest pop records released this calendar year.“Seventeen”opens Bloom by detailing an encounter he had while underage with a man he met on a dating app. The title track cheekily and coyly chronicles his first time in a submissive sexual role. The definitive highlight of the release is its lead single and video,“My My My” — a liberating number describing that butterflies-in-your-stomach effect upon first meeting and ultimately embracing a lover. Elsewhere on Bloom, Troye duets with Ariana Grande on the bouncy“Dance to This”and strips production down to little more than an acoustic guitar on the stunning, yet totally heart-wrenching, “The Good Side.”Catch Troye Sivan on the Bloom tour starting September 21 in Irving, TX. For dates, visit troyesivan.com.

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Queen (Young Money / Cash Money Records) The hiP-hoP diva’s firsT release iN over four years is also her

strongest and most expansive to date. On “Chun-Li” - which got Nicki into a bit of hot water with the Asian-American community earlier this year for the single’s controversial imagery and lyrical content - Ms. Minaj comes out swinging ‘90s style. The beat and vocal delivery is pure throwback in the best possible way.

She changes gears entirely on “Bed,” a sultry duet with pop siren Ariana Grande. Their fourth collaboration to date is a tropicalthemed slow jam about escaping the chaos of everyday life to run away and be intimate with a partner. The raunchy and direct“Rich Sex”features her longtime confidante and label mate, Lil Wayne.

Nicki co-headlines a tour with rap royalty Future this fall. For behind-the-scenes glances into her otherworldly stage wardrobe, join Nicki’s 90 million Instagram followers @nickiminaj.

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MASTERS OF INDULGENCE

CHRIS STEIN: POINT OF VIEW

By Chris Stein; Rizzoli New York, $39.95 YOU LIKELY KNOW CHRIS STEIN BEST FROM HIS CELEBRATED

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position alongside Debbie Harry as part of the singular music-makers of Blondie. Stein’s artistry also extends from his student days at the School of Visual Arts to well after he ascended to stardom, and Stein kept a unique photographic record of the downtown NYC scene during the ‘70s. Following the success of the tome he assembled to celebrate Blondie’s 40th Anniversary (Negative: Me, Blondie and the Advent of the Punk), Stein provides a rich new collection of personal and visually arresting images — from his run-down East Village apartment to New York City streetscapes in now fondly remembered disrepair. Pop culture icons of the era crop up often, among them Andy Warhol, Jean-Michele Basquiat, William S. Burroughs, Shepard Fairey (creator of the 2008 Obama “Hope” poster) and the Ramones. But they are sprinkled among shots of sights of the graffiti-covered subway cars and burgeoning Bowery club scene that have become the period’s calling cards. Naturally, Debbie Harry plays a pivotal role as muse. Some of the most memorable prints include Harry appearing fresh-faced on a Union Square subway platform, seductively exposing a shoulder behind a steering wheel, channeling Marilyn Monroe while nuzzling a cat and serving Warhol some major side-eye; not to mention her striking visage in various prints as she’s performing — shots that were apparently hung up to dry after being developed.

Stein often seems just as interested in everyday people (from children to the homeless to the elderly) and the strangely post-apocalyptic landscapes they inhabit — with his lens ever in search of beauty in the disarray.

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Excess comes in many flavors, including the buttoned-up beauty of royalty, the in-your-face philosophy of Grace Jones, and the punk perfection of 1970s NYC. BY PAUL HAGEN

GRACE JONES A-Z: THE LIFE OF AN ICON

By Steve Wide with Illustrations by Babeth Lafon; Smith Street Books; $29.99 A IS FOR ANDROGYNY. B IS FOR BANNED. C IS FOR COWL. D IS FOR DISCO.

When you’re as fierce an iconoclast as Grace Jones, expressing yourself may require rewriting the alphabet. That’s what this exhaustively researched and imaginatively illustrated book does, using the ABCs to present the world according to Jones. And what a world it’s been! From making a splash as a model to her discodivadom during the Studio 54 era to her expect-the-unexpected careers in music and film, she has led a life like no other. G is for Jean-Paul Goude, the inimitable photographer who created some of the most indelible images of Jones (including her Metrosource cover).

H is for Keith Haring, who made Jones’ body one of his most memorable canvases. L is for Dolph Lundgren, who Jones discovered, made her bodyguard and introduced to the bright lights of Hollywood (before allegedly trying to retrieve him from an LA hotel with a loaded gun). M is for movies — including Conan the Destroyer, A View to a Kill and Boomerang. Y is for Yves St. Laurent, who helped rocket her to stardom.

This is just a taste of the Jonesian oeuvre captured by this whimsical little tribute (in part because many of the letters have multiple reference points). Fans will enjoy reliving their favorite Grace Jones moments and even latecomers may find themselves slaves to her rhythm.

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By Chris Jackson; Rizzoli; $45 FROM THE REAL-LIFE RATINGS JUGGERNAUTS OF THEIR REGAL NUPTIALS TO THE

fictionalized recent history of Netflix’s The Crown, few subjects draw more global fascination than the lives of Britain’s royal family. And few people are as responsible for shaping the way they are perceived as Getty Images Royal Photographer Chris Jackson, who has spent the last 15 years with them as they engaged in affairs both domestic and foreign. The result is a sumptuous and spectacular record of the royals — from matters of state to matters of the heart, including their extraordinary devotion to causes such as raising awareness about HIV, mental health issues and cancer research. You don’t want to miss these moments: Prince Charles getting up-close-and-personal with a bird of prey, adorable prince George’s first day at school, HRH Elizabeth II sporting the crown jewels. Fans of recent addition to the royal family Meghan Markle will be pleased to find her well represented (not merely on her wedding day).

And we’d be remiss if we did not mention the hats — oh sweet heaven, do these Brits know their headwear?! You’ll find entire sections devoted to such topics as horses, the military (including Harry looking hunky in uniform), travel and sports. The volume also exemplifies what a magnificent job the Duchess of Cambridge (née Kate Middleton) has done stepping into her late mother-in-law’s shoes as the ideal of British grace and beauty. And you’ll even find appearances by America’s answer to royalty — the Obamas. It’s a must-read for fans of this most famous of families.

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STAYING VIGILANT WITH HIV

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THE REALITY FOR ANYONE WITH HIV IS THAT CURRENT ANTIRETROVIRAL

medications must be taken every day for the rest of your life. They can help many people lead longer, more sustainable lives. Furthermore, newer medicines (of the more than 20 antiretroviral drugs approved to treat HIV) elicit fewer side effects, and most people won’t experience any serious ones. Nevertheless, medical professionals caution that — though overall, the benefits of an antiretroviral regimen far outweigh the risks — a person with HIV should seek medical advice when a side effect seems to linger.

“One thing that has changed is that we discovered that some of the latest drugs are very powerful, and maybe combinations of two drugs for some patients are sufficient,” says Andrew Goodman, MD, AAHIVS, Associate Director of Medicine at Callen-Lorde Community Health Center, a New York City-based global leader in LGBTQ healthcare. “There is even hope that someday we may be able to get to single drug regimens.”

Starting antiretrovirals can produce some side effects, particularly in the earliest days of treatment. “Taking antiretroviral medications now in 2018 is nothing like it was even 10 years ago,” Dr. Goodman says. “Certainly, at the very beginning, the majority of patients we care for do not have any side effects from their regimen, and if they do they are fairly minimal.”

AIDSinfo, a service of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), notes that when beginning an HIV regimen, a person may experience tiredness, nausea or upset stomach, vomiting, diarrhea, headache, fever, muscle pain, occasional dizziness or insomnia. “The first thing I would say is that if someone

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is feeling any of the symptoms they think might be coming from taking their HIV medications, it’s best to just check in with their provider,” he says. “Ones that are more concerning to be would be anything that is severely interrupting someone’s day-to-day life.”

More serious side effects can include a fever, rash, nausea, or fatigue, and may signal a life-threatening condition. AIDSinfo also notes that swelling of the face, eyes, lips, throat, or tongue re-

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quires immediate medical attention — as do vision or hearing problems. Long-term side effects can occur well after a person begins a regimen. These “red flags,” Dr. Goodman notes, can include kidney problems, liver damage, heart disease, diabetes or insulin resistance, an increase in fat levels in the blood, changes in how the body stores and use fat , a weakening of the bones, severe headaches, and consistent breathing problems and a chronic cough. AIDSinfo also reports that there can be behavioral side effects impacting the nervous system, and psychiatric effects, such as insomnia, dizziness, depression, and suicidal thoughts.

While effective treatment can translate into an undetectable viral load, if a person stops taking medication, the viral load will rise again.

People may become tired of taking pills every day, have trouble with side effects, or wish to avoid being reminded of their HIV infection when taking pills, while others may see a disruption on acquiring medications due to insurance obstacles, inability to pay for medication, or their prescription not being available. “The healthcare system throws up a lot of barriers to keeping up with medication,” Dr. Goodman says. However, interrupting HIV treatment can produce harmful consequences. “We emphasize adherence with patients, and that’s very important.”

HIV drug resistance can develop when patients stop taking certain antiretroviral medications. Once HIV develops resistance to a medication, that medicine can no longer be used to effectively treat the virus. “You could wind up with a situation where you have a drug resistant virus that can be difficult to treat,” he says, adding, “The bottom line is: skipping drugs makes drugs resistant.”

Ceasing treatment allows HIV to actively reproduce and circulate in the blood, which is associated with increased inflammation and heightened risk of heart attacks and kidney or liver problems. Higher HIV levels in the blood can produce “retroviral syndrome,” where a person experiences fevers, headaches, and swollen glands, similar to the symptoms someone newly infected with HIV encounters.

“I’d hope that if anyone was having difficulty adhering to a regimen, before they even developed a symptom, they would come back and speak with me or their medical provider,” Dr. Goodman says.

Once they are on a stable regimen, Dr. Goodman asks most patients to see him every three months; those with an undetectable virus and fairly high T-cell counts are asked to visit every six months.

Dr. Goodman is optimistic that medical advances will continue to yield fewer side effects and more durable medications. “I would use the word ‘durable’,” he says, “because we know how hard adherence can be. Missing one dose still has odds that drug resistance can happen.”

“There is a lot to be hopeful for when it comes to treatment and what we have available,” he says, noting there may one day be a once-a-month antiretroviral injection. “A person is so much more than a virus that they happen to have.”

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Living with HIV in the 21st Century means fewer side effects than ever, but there are still some situations that raise red flags. BY JEFF SIMMONS

MY TELEVISION SECRET

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I haven’t tackled televisions because of a dirty little secret: Up until

a few months ago, my TV was from 2004 — for all purposes, a tech dinosaur. I’d hung on to my faithful Samsung LCD for 14 years, in part because it refused to die. Unlike laptops and smartphones (increasingly old by the time they hit the market), a TV is a major purchase that consumers still hold onto for several years, and none of the new models’ features were enough to make me give up what I had.

LED TVs were thinner, but not really better. Curved and 3D sets felt like fads that came and went. I already had devices that made my existing TV “smart,” and I know 4K is the future, but the content to support it had yet to materialize. None of these bells and whistles turned my head away from the set that had provided years of faithful service. I thought we might be together forever, until I found a sexy new lover: the LG OLED TV. Like so many great romances, my torrid affair with the LG OLED started in the aisles of Costco. I wasn’t even shopping for a TV. I went in to by paper towels; the LG just happened to catch my eye, but the moment I saw it, it threw my instant gratification monkey into overdrive. I stopped in my tracks. My pupils dilated, my face flushed, and my pulse began to surge. I wanted this TV. I coveted it. I lusted after it. It was the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen. I vowed it would be mine.

Playing on the LG was a demo video of colored pencils. Although it was simple, the picture seemed to leap off the screen. The reds were rich and deep, the blues bright and luminous, yellows and greens faithful to nature. The 4k picture revealed the textures of wood pencil shavings and wax. It was like I could reach out and pick them up.

At nearly $2500, this was no cheap date. It was twice the price I paid for my TV 15 years ago; three times more than many “good”TVs on the market now. I knew that buying this TV would be an impulsive indulgence. I wanted to be sensible, so I exercised some self-control and decided to wait to see if this was mere infatuation or true love.

The very next day I rented a U-Haul truck, drove to my local Best Buy, and bought it. That was six months ago, and ,dear reader, it’s bliss.

The LG OLED is the best TV that you can buy right now.

I’m not the only one saying that. The LG OLEDs consistently rank at the top of consumer reviews. Outlets like PC Mag and CNET call it hands down, the best TV they’ve ever reviewed. It’s the perfect storm of things you want in a TV in 2018: OLED, HDR and 4K.

The big game changer is the OLED (organic light-emitting diode) panel. Manufactured by LG, OLED is a relatively new display technology more commonly seen on smaller screens like phones and smart watches, but wasn’t available in TV sizes until a few years ago. What makes OLED screens different is the lighting: Typical TV technology (LED) relies on backlighting to illuminate the thousands of pixels that make up an image, but OLED pixels generate their own light, and this makes all the difference. Black portions of the image are truly black because the pixels turn off. The edges between colors, dark and light, are sharper than can be achieved with LED (where the backlight bleeds through slightly). With no backlight, these TVs are also incredibly slim. The majority of my LG OLED is just a quarter-inch thick.

It’s also more energy efficient and runs much cooler.

These OLED screens are perfect for HDR (High Dynamic Range) content. All video and screens have limits to what colors they reproduce (that’s “the color gamut”). HDR expands that range, but what you really need to know is that HDR equals more shades and brighter colors. Also, the 4K displays means four times the pixel density of standard 1080p televisions — which provides greater detail — noticeable in the fine hairs and textures in scenes.

While OLED, HDR and 4K are all desirable, you’ll still need a fourth ingredient: 4K/HDR content that can take advantage of them.

Here the set is a little ahead of its time. It masterfully up-converts lower quality content. Though actual 4K and HDR content is not as widely available, the TV’s built-in apps give you access to it via major streaming services like Netflix, Amazon and Hulu. It’s still mostly confined to their original content (Netflix’s Stranger Things and Amazon’s The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, to name noteworthy standouts), but the library continues to grow. Still, it will be quite some time before cable/ satellite broadcast content has the capacity to support 4K video.

Which model should you buy? You can’t go wrong. Thankfully, LG uses the same display panels in all of its models. Higher-end models have different build quality and better audio, but no matter which one you choose, you’ll get the same amazing picture. Mine is a 2017 model, and now that the 2018s have been released, prices should drop as retailers sell off their stock of last year’s models (which, apart from the integration of Google Assistant, are essentially the same).

Another reason I’ve avoided writing about TVs so far is because the subject seemed so complicated and subjective. Now it’s clear and simple. Which TV should you get? An LG OLED. ■ METROSOURCE.COM OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2018

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Terence managed to avoid writing about the topic of televisions for a very specific reason — until he finally fell for the set of his dreams. BY TERENCE O’BRIEN

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IT WAS THE BEST OF HAIR IT WAS THE WORST OF HAIR Wade decides it’s about time he splurged on a visit to an upscale salon, and he certainly ends up paying the price. BY WADE ROUSE

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Ozarks childhood accompanying my grandmothers to the beauty parlor. Nearly every Saturday was spent watching them get their thinning hair permed and backcombed higher and higher until it reached – as one of them liked to say – “God’s eye.”

Remember that line of Dolly Parton’s from Steel Magnolias? “I don’t trust anybody that does their own hair. It’s just not normal.”Well, that’s the way my grandmas felt, and I ended up following in their meticulously coiffured footsteps.

The major difference between how they did it and how I do it, however, is that my grandmothers were loyal to one beauty parlor and one stylist the majority of their lives. I, on the other hand, change stylists more often than coffee filters.

This spring, before my latest book tour was set to start, I felt it was the time not only to reinvent my hair but also to splurge a little while doing it. So I stopped a handsome stranger on the street sporting a great haircut and asked what salon he used.

He laughed.

“I go to a barber who’s just starting out,” he said. “22 bucks.

No frills. No shampoo. Sometimes, he has his kids in the shop with him.”

“Oh,” I said.

Rather than take his advice, I ended up booking a consultation and cut at a super-expensive salon — the kind where there is plenty of attitude and a long waiting list. When the time came, I was nervous but excited.

A beautiful woman wearing what seemed like little more than a Kleenex greeted me; sat me in a giant egg-shaped chair; and brought me champagne. Once I was a touch buzzed, she introduced me to my stylist: a willowy, pretty man whose long hair had feathers tied into it.

“Just fly in?” I asked. He didn’t laugh.

My consultation consisted of a lot of“tsk-tsks”and head slapping. He asked me who had done the awful highlighting job on my hair.“The sun,” I said. He didn’t laugh.

He spun me in the chair and stared at me for a very long time, until I felt as though I were on the witness stand in an episode of Dateline.

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“Do you trust me?” he asked.

I nodded.

“Good.”

He cooed as he colored, snipped, shampooed and gelled.

When he finally spun me back toward the mirror, I gasped.

I looked like Carrot Top. After Electroshock.

“Do you like?” he asked.

I couldn’t answer.

When the final bill was presented, I was struck dumb all over again.

And yet I paid. I even felt pressured to tip. Strangely, the whole process made me feel like that insecure little gay boy who spent years feeling like he never quite fit in amongst all the pretty people all over again.

I ended up trimming my own hair and doing the best I could to cover up the bad highlights. When it was time for my next haircut, I made an appointment with that young barber recommended to me by the handsome stranger with the great hair.

His barber shop had an old couch in it and a few folding chairs.

Vintage boxing posters lined the walls. There were no tissuepaper clad, champagne-toting attendants to greet me — just the proprietor and another barber.

“How long have you been cutting hair?” I said, noting his youth.

“Since I was 14,” he explained.“Learned on the street.”

I was nervous, and he could tell.

“Trust me?” he asked. After my previous experience, I didn’t really. But something told me to just let him do his job, so I nodded. With clippers, scissors and no attitude, he gave me the best haircut of my life — the kind where people now stop me on the street to ask where I go. And all for $22 bucks.

I’m still figuring these kinds of things out. I have lots of insecurities, especially when it comes to (as my grandmas used to say)“putting on airs,” but I’m finally learning that sometimes indulging means getting the right thing, not the most expensive thing; that there can be a fine line between pampering yourself and fooling yourself; and that sometimes the best treat you can give yourself (like not letting yourself get pushed around), doesn’t cost a damned thing.

■ Wade’s latest novel as Viola Shipman is The Recipe Box. To learn about both his novels and memoirs, visit waderouse.com.

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Let’s Talk Investment Strategies We consider the difference between short and long-term goals, then look at some apps that can get you headed in the right financial direction. BY JENNIFER DAY

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The main difference between short and long-term investing is that long-term goals generally take more than five years to fulfill.

The most important long-term goal is saving for retirement. Long gone are the days where you stay with one company until retirement and then live off the company’s pension plan. Start saving for your retirement first, then use the leftover money to save toward other goals.

Some simple tips: • Reach long-term goals by being a disciplined saver and a savvy, engaged investor.

• Consider the time value of money. Starting to invest when you’re in your 20s will produce a larger nest egg than if you start saving at age 30 or later (as the interest you accrue will eventually start accruing its own interest) but it’s never too late to start.

• Review your portfolio quarterly. Adjust your investments only when needed. If your goals change, revise your financial plan.

• Determine how much risk you feel comfortable with and adjust it depending on your goals.

Technology has made it easier than ever to invest in the stock market. Most banks will allow you to set up an investment account.

These are usually for more experienced investors, will require minimum investment amounts and can involve fees. How high those fees are may vary, depending on where you bank.

For beginners (or even people who don’t have large funds but want to invest in something other than cash), there are many different

investing apps that you can setup in minutes on your phone. Some of my favorite, most used apps are Acorns, Digit and Stash: • Acorns allows users to “invest the change” by linking their credit or debit cards to the app, which rounds up regular purchases and invests the difference into a diversified portfolio of index funds chosen

by Nobel Prize-winning economist Harry Markowitz. Acorns charges a monthly service fee, which is a small percentage of your account balance. So, if you leave a small lump sum of money in your account over a long period of time, the fee could eat up your balance, even if the market is performing well, so your balance either needs to be large or constantly growing. Otherwise, this is a convenient “set it and forget it” type of savings plan.

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hopes that — like a seed carefully planted — it will grow over time.

Though many are intimidated by the concept, it’s an important wealth building tool, not something to avoid or be afraid of. Though investing can be as low-risk as opening a savings account or as high-risk as trading commodities, there are a variety of ways to do it.

Before you start investing, whether it be short or long-term, you should have clear goals in mind. Think of short-term as something like saving for a vacation or buying holiday gifts. Longer term goals might include purchasing a car or a home (which is, in and of itself, a kind of investment). And always remember the importance of investing in your future by making and funding your retirement plan.

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• Digit is not technically an investment app, but makes saving money from your checking or savings account easy. To do this, Digit analyzes your income and spending patterns, and then automatically dips into your checking account and puts a few dollars into a savings account (typically $2-$17 every 2-3 days).You can also choose whether you want to raise or lower this amount in the app’s settings, and all saved money goes into a FDIC insured account. Digit doesn’t charge any fees. Use this type of savings for shorter-term investment goals.

• Stash makes choosing investments simple and arranges them into ETFs (read: different topics that you might care about). They’re named

by Stash to reflect the kind of investing you’d be doing by putting your money there. The service has a $5 minimum account balance and charges $1 a month for account balances under $5,000 ($2 per month for retirement accounts under $5,000) and a 0.25% annual fee for accounts with $5,000 or more. Stash waives its fee on retirement accounts for anyone under age 25.

Investing in your future is important. Even if you are most interested in short-term goals, set aside a portion of your money for long-term investments. Use the tools like those above to plan your future and you should be able to afford to not only see Celine in Vegas, but save up for the down payment on the home of your dreams and be secure when it comes time to retire. That said, this is all practical advice for informational purposes and the best advice of all is to make a plan for your financial well being with a licensed financial or tax advisor.

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ALL’S WELL THAT ENDS

THE HAPPY PRINCE AFTER PORTRAYING OSCAR WILDE, IN DAVID HARE’S THE

Judas Kiss on the stage two year ago, Rupert Everett returns to again play the iconic gay writer and legendary wit, this time in a ďŹ lm of his own writing and direction. Everett’s obvious love for the man and his story come as no surprise considering that on both stage and screen the actor plays the role brilliantly; The Happy Prince easily rivals Stephen Fry’s excellent take in 1997’s Wilde.

Much like Wilde’s short story of the same name, The Happy Prince is far from a happy story, yet it still sparkles with all the wisdom, joy and lust for life that Wilde possessed, even while it chronicles his often painful decline.

The ďŹ lm covers Wilde’s post-prison years (while frequently revisits the humiliation of his sentence in ashbacks).

Wilde had been sentenced to two years of hard prison labor for being too publicly homosexual, and the three years

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between his release and his death from acute meningitis were lived far from the glamour of his earlier life. During this time, the disgraced celebrity hid out in France and Italy, often broke, scraping by with the help of his few loyal friends (here played by Colin Firth and Edwin Thomas). Though aged and increasingly inďŹ rm, Wilde continued to spend what money he had on drugs, booze and boys — including “Bosieâ€? (well played here by the beautiful Colin Morgan - The Fall, Merlin) the unworthy love of Wilde’s life, whose pride had led directly to Wilde’s incarceration. THE WORD: In telling the ďŹ nal chapter in the life of one of the most magical personalities the world will likely ever know, The Happy Prince is a great love story, showing love through the lens of loss and implying that it is only through loss that love can fully be known and kept forever. COMING TO: Theaters

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but bloody witch hunt ďŹ t for our social-media obsessed culture. The would-be witches are four teenage girls — Lily, Bex, Sarah and Em — who come off a bit like ‘mean girls’ at ďŹ rst because they’re hot, a tight-knit group that seem to oat above a lot of the small town/high school drama that swirls around them. They actually turn out to be pretty cool; however, it’s hard to stay cool when everyone wants to kill you.

A mysterious hacker begins by gaining access to and then posting all the private data (personal e-mails, texts, private photos) of the mayor, then the school principal, and eventually half the town. In the wake of all the lives ruined as a result, folks look for someone to blame, and a random twist of fate leads them to blame our four young

heroines, forcing them to defend themselves until they are covered in blood and walking their suburban streets carrying assault ries and samurai swords.

Director Sam Levinson’s latest ďŹ lm is difďŹ cult to categorize, but it is deďŹ nitely good fun with an interesting, (if vague) social message. The writing is often engaging and the cast is strong - Bill SkarsgĂĽrd (It, Castle Rock), Maude Apatow (This is 40), Joel McHale (Community) and Noah Galvin (The Real O’Neals) have nice moments in this darkly comic modern-day morality tale. As Lily, Odessa Young (The Daughter) gets most of the ďŹ lm’s focus, carrying it with natural verve, and as Bex, trans actor Hari Nef (Transparent) is deďŹ nitely a scene stealer. THE WORD: At times, it may feel a bit messy, but the ďŹ lm has spirit and casts a certain spell. COMING TO: Theaters

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greatest roles yet) is a clever country girl in France at the end of the 19th century. She’s marries a charming older man (Dominic West) who whisks his young bride away from her wise mother (Fiona Shaw, Killing Eve) and back to Paris, where he’s a writer, though more often merely an employer of ghost writers. When the works of “Willy,â€? as he’s known, aren’t selling, he encourages his new wife to write something for him. She produces a novel, Claudine, and it quickly becomes a massive success. Semiautobiographical, Claudine describes the growth and experiences of a conďŹ dent French girl who blossoms into a charismatic adult. The Claudine novels (four in all), while shocking and even revolutionary in their day, would more likely be considered no more than chastely sensual now, but they did make Willy and Colette fabulously wealthy and famous. Although Willy is a fun-loving, vivacious and fairly enlightened husband, Colette eventually begins to outgrow the limits of their marriage. Just as Willy is no stranger to having mistresses, eventually Colette ďŹ nds herself in love with cross-dressing aristocrat Missy (the absolutely superb Denise Gough). But can she also have Claudine or will Willy hold her captive under his name?

Based on real people and events, this period character portrait directed by Wash Westmoreland (Still Alice) is very well done. THE WORD: Colette’s story is inherently feminist, but her struggle is refreshingly neither as dire or heroic as one might expect; she is never entirely without power because her power comes from within. COMING TO: Theaters METROSOURCE.COM /#4/"%2 ./6%-"%2

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HEREDITARY controversy of Hereditary, you it’s going to be interesting. Though disappointing to some for not following the rhythm of more conventional horror films (not to mention its shocking, expectation-defying finale), Hereditary is also a refreshing dose of uncompromised evil.

And regardless of how one feels about the film’s jump scares or plot twists, it is brilliantly crafted. Writer/director Ari Aster does so many things right in this, his first feature film. The plot revolves around a mother of two coping with the loss of her own mother, who may have bequeathed to their family a legacy too dark, dreadful and deeply-rooted to ever be fully understood, — or escaped. Aster sets the film mostly at the family’s home, a structure at once beautiful and yet quite unsettling — it’s a place filled with smaller houses, doll houses, that the protagonist makes as her art and livelihood, which add to the film’s themes of being toyed with and trapped. The audience

is teased by hidden images, quick cutaways, and a camera that refuses to recoil from some truly horrific imagery. Aster tells a story that is well thought-through and tightly composed; efficient and layered with ominous details that may require multiple viewings.

The film’s greatest adornment is its cast: Gabriel Byrne as the stalwart father, Alex Wolfe (Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle) as the stoner son, newcomer Milly Shapiro as a magnificently eerie little girl, and the always-exceptional Ann Dowd (The Handmaid’s Tale, The Leftovers) as a helpful motherly friend. THE WORD: The crown jewel is unquestionably Toni Collette, whose performance as a mother being pushed to the edge of sanity is by turns nuanced, frantic, and utterly award-worthy. COMING TO: Home Video

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describes it well in his book, Ghostland: “Cities that are haunted … seem to straddle past and present as though two versions of the same city are overlaid on top of each other.”Though today Bisbee is a quiet, desert town, the Bisbee of 1917 was a boomtown, fed by the massive copper mine at its heart. Back then, copper was so valuable and im-

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portant to U.S. interests in World War I that a group of deputized citizens joined together to round up workers who were striking (for higher wages and safer working conditions) and put them on trains bound for somewhere in the New Mexico desert, warning them to never to return to Bisbee. The town attempted to erase the “Bisbee Deportation” from the history books almost immediately, and — thought it was grossly illegal, no persons or corporate entities were ever held accountable. Director Robert Greene documents the tragedy with a candid eye, using awkward-but-telling extended takes of interviews with locals, and a combination of documentary, Western and musical elements. Greene creates a record not just the town and its dark past, but also of its recent efforts to re-enact the deportation. In particular we follow a re-enactor playing one of the strikers, a young Mexican-American man, gentle, soft-spoken and gay, whose mother was deported when he was only 11 years old. But we see many stories from both sides — including those who believed the action to be so necessary that it justified their methods. THE WORD: Themes of immigration, unionization, environmental damage, corporate corruption and conflict regarding collective memory in Bisbee ’17 make it particularly salient to our currently divided country. COMING TO: Theaters

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over again in this emotional and complex story about a woman charged with making life and death decisions. Fiona (Thompson) is a British High Court judge who rules on the most difďŹ cult cases – such as whether to separate conjoined twins in order to save one — instead of allowing both to die. Her latest case, whether to force a life-saving blood transfusion on a 17-year-old (queer actor Fionn Whitehead - Dunkirk) with leukemia despite his refusal brought on by his religious beliefs as a Jehovah’s Witness. In just a couple months he’d be able to legally decide for himself, but until then his fate is up to Fiona, who makes the unusual choice to visit the boy in the hospital. In doing so, she accidentally links herself to the intelligent and spirited young man in a way that she cannot control, just as she is struggling with the disintegrating relationship she has with a long-neglected husband (Stanley Tucci). Cracklingly intelligent writing combined with precision acting are the foundation of this

tale by Richard Eyre (Notes on a Scandal, Iris) adapted by Ian McEwan from his own novel. Above all the ďŹ lm showcases the considerable talents of Thompson, in addition to the promising newer talents of Whitehead — not to menton the rigorous and impressive job of being this kind of highlevel judge. This piece will require viewers to think, but it’s not a headscratcher: its intellectual energies are potent indeed, but the story stays grounded in very real and human concerns. It’s the kind of picture that could be nominated for some respectable awards, but it won’t be popular enough to win many — which is often the best kind of ďŹ lm. THE WORD: A sophisticated meditation on choice, loss and love. COMING TO: Theaters

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tale of a teenage boy witnessing his parents’ turbulent struggles with each other and themselves in 1960s small-town Montana.

After losing his job, Jerry (Gyllenhaal) has an identity crisis of sorts and leaves town to join the low-paid ďŹ reďŹ ghters battling an uncontrolled forest blaze. Jeanette (Mulligan) strenuously protests, but after Jerry leaves anyway, she attempts to ďŹ nd independence (although at times reluctantly) in the arms of another more successful man (Bill Camp - Midnight Special, The Looming Tower), which is not surprisingly problematic for Jerry. Throughout all of this quietly observed familial drama, son Joe (Ed Oxenbould - The Visit) peers on with an innocent, boyish face that seems like a possible stand-in for the director’s own (Paul Dano - There Will Be Blood, Little Miss Sunshine, Ruby

Sparks). Dano, who co-wrote the ďŹ lm with Zoe Kazan (Ruby Sparks, The Big Sick), does a decent job with his ďŹ rst directorial effort. The ďŹ lm’s look and overall production values are strong, though the story is a bit thin (or perhaps overly reliant on a layer of subtext that may not be substantial enough). Its message would seem to be that people are imperfect — even your parents — and at some point you will learn this and grow from it, but the ďŹ lm perhaps displays this too directly and with too few other themes. Gyllenhaal’s performance as a dispossessed man of the 40s/50s is good, but Mulligan (who gets more screen time) fully displays her dynamic dramatic abilities, which provide the ďŹ lm’s primary turning points. THE WORD: Possibly, as an actor-turned-director, Dano gives too much time to subtleties and not enough to storytelling. COMING TO: Theaters METROSOURCE.COM /#4/"%2 ./6%-"%2

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Cycle – raised $16.6 million, as 2,200 cyclists embarked on a sevenday ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles. Just a few weeks earlier, 20,000 people attended GMHC’s Annual AIDS Walk across New York City and raised $4.1 million.

Such cities such as New York, San Francisco and Los Angeles have been on the front lines of advocacy and fundraising since AIDS first surfaced nearly four decades ago. As the epidemic swelled, its changing face – and diversifying logistical challenges – fueled the founding of nonprofits striving to provide prevention, education and treatment services, and garner funding to stay afloat.

Such fundraising opportunities, however, can prove daunting, particularly in middle America “Red States” like Texas, where persistent stigma elicits fears of discrimination, bias and even violence.“One of the challenges we have is stigma,” concedes Shannon Hilgart, Executive Director of AIDS Outreach Center in Fort Worth, Texas. “It’s a pretty big barrier.”

In late 2017, the Centers for Disease Control reported that more than 82,000 people live with HIV in Texas, and health officials estimated that 18,000 Texans had no idea they were carrying the virus. In Dallas alone, Dallas County Health and Human Services estimates that 16,387 people were living with HIV in 2015 — a 56% jump over the course of a decade.

Politically, it’s estimated that Republicans outnumber Democrats by more than 850,000 voters in Texas, according to the Texas Organizing Project, with most of the state’s counties shading red. Though Fort Worth voters favored Donald Trump in the 2016 elections, Dallas, with a more sizable Democratic base, favored Hillary Clinton. But voter turnout traditionally has been weaker in Texas; one survey noted that Texas ranked 50th in the nation in turnout OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2018

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Considering the political atmosphere and cultural mores, HIV/ AIDS organizations like AIDS Outreach Center are devoting considerable attention to enlightening the public — and in particular, the younger generation — that the epidemic is not over, that it crosses gender and ethnic lines, and that it is no longer a death sentence.

AIDS Outreach Center began as an all-volunteer organization 32 years ago in response to the epidemic among gay males. Witnessing a demand for services, it began staffing up within two years, and now it enlists 50 staffers and serves more than 1,600 individuals and families.

It now stands as the only non-profit that offers a continuum of services to the HIV/AIDS community in Tarrant County and seven surrounding rural counties, where 5,227 people lived with HIV in 2014, the North Central Texas HIV Planning Council reported.

“There have been challenges, and they really have been about funding,” Hilgart says, pointing to stagnant government funding.

“That money has pretty much stayed the same as expenses go up.

We’re trying to do more services with the same amount of money.”

That shaky equation has led the organization to channel its energy into seeking more private and individual contributions, and to bring more people in the door to foster engagement. Private foundations tend not to support general operations, preferring to fund capacitybuilding initiatives or new programs. “Where we need money the most, general operations, nobody pays for it,” Hilgart says, noting that federal grants allow only a fraction of funds for such expenses.

“In a Red State, it’s not easy,”she says.“We’re not warm and fuzzy.

We’re not children, and we’re not animals,” noting that such causes tend to tug at heartstrings and therefore purse strings as well. “There are a lot of compassionate people, and we do have some long-term supporters who stick with us, but it gets harder every year.”

As a result, she regularly invites potential donors to the Center for tours to meet staff and program participants, who humanize the need.

“It is about getting them to listen to the reality that HIV is still a huge issue,” she says. When she senses a visitor is not connecting with the cause, she adapts to focus on the societal impact of AIDS. AIDS Outreach Center additionally throws an annual fundraiser, Evening of Hope, which began in 2010 with less than 100 participants.

The masked ball event, designed to “unmask” the stigma about HIV and AIDS, has grown significantly in size, attracting 400 people and raising $158,000 this spring. The evening’s theme illustrated the organization’s ongoing belief that,“With hope, anything is possible.”

“If we continue doing this work,” Hilgart says,“somebody can put an end to this epidemic.”

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PEPPERMINT GETS REAL ABOUT GROWING UP TRANS AND GOING FROM RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE TO THE GO-GO’S HEAD OVER HEELS. BY KEVIN PHINNEY IT’S BEEN QUITE A JOURNEY FOR PEPPERMINT — FROM HER

birth as a biological male in Hershey, Pennsylvania and her upbringing in Wilmington, Delaware to the Broadway stage as a lead in the Go-Go’s musical Head Over Heels. She doesn’t use (or share) her birth name, she says, because that identity is behind her. But did plenty of opening up about much more that has never been documented before.

METROSOURCE: When did you first recognize that you were not like the other kids on the block?

PEPPERMINT: I think I was fairly young, probably like seven or eight, maybe even younger; I think maybe second grade.

But as far back as I can remember, I’ve always been the same exact being with the same thoughts and feelings — for the most part. At least I had the same personality, so that’s never really changed. It’s really just been about, over the years, finding out how much of that can I express. I learned at a very early age that a lot of the things that I wanted to express were no-no’s, things I couldn’t do without being corrected.

There were always people telling you that what you’re doing doesn’t match up with what they think you should be doing.

So I would not do those things. I don’t have a specific incident, but anytime I was a little swishy, somebody would say, “Oh, you’re acting like a girl,” or “What are you?” You know those words. Anytime you hear them, you know people are policing your behavior.

Did you push back? Or did you try to fit in and assimilate?

As a young kid, I didn’t want to be scolded by authority figures and I didn’t want to be made fun of or bullied by anyone in my family or adults or other students. So I would do whatever I could to not be bullied. At the same time, I never went to extremes to become the shining example of what they wanted. I just tried not to stick out. There’s a difference, I think. If you can entertain, it helps to distract people from you being different. If you can be different and stand out in a good way, that’s a way that you can get accolades.

How old were you when that thought hit you?

There was a moment in time where I was swishing around the living room, putting towels on my head and flipping it

around and singing — maybe badly — and reciting lines from TV shows and movies that I’d seen. To me, there was no difference between being myself and being a performer or being a woman or young girl in my mind. ...So from a very early age I was a performer, a female performer at heart. ...

My family recognized very early that I had an affinity for performing, because I’d do it in the living room for anybody who would come over. That’s really where it started. But then it was my family that suggested getting me into music and the arts and plays in school and things like that.

Which took you into musicals and plays and the arts...

It wasn’t until I was in high school that I started thinking about my chosen path, which was initially to become a makeup artist, ‘cause I was like: that’s something very retail, which seemed very doable. For college, I went to American Musical and Dramatic Academy here in New York. I graduated in ‘99.

But a lot of my motivation was really just to be with other queer folks and live in the city.

Was there a moment back then when you said to yourself, “I see my future: I could do this!”

No. I mean, I really liked all that stuff. I loved it. You know, it brought me joy to perform and for the longest time, I found an equal amount of joy in all the arts. Singing, dancing, acting; together or separately. One of my favorite things to do was to learn Janet Jackson choreography and redo it over and over again exactly. But I never thought that I could necessarily have a career as myself. At least that was my thinking as an adolescent, pre-teen, pre-trans, pre-medical transition person. There just didn’t seem to be many examples of people like me. So I didn’t realistically see it as a vision, certainly not like I could be on Broadway.

How did moving to NYC help you explore gender identity?

I got into drag professionally while I was in school. I was working at The Tunnel nightclub and getting paid $50 a week to do the ropes at the front door. Eventually they let me in.

Then I did the door inside ‘til I got on the stage. I finally got to use what I was learning during the day in acting school — and then that’s when it all kind of came together. So for a while I was on a [path] where you learn and then go out and audition.

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And they encourage that. ... But I went on several auditions, and they were not for roles that I wanted.

You thought you couldn’t audition for the parts that you wanted? Or they wouldn’t see you for those roles?

They wouldn’t see me for those roles, because they were, you know, the female lead. And to them, that’s not who I was. So I didn’t — and I didn’t think I could. It would have been putting myself through more humiliation and rejection than I needed to go through, especially since I knew I was gonna face rejection. As an actor, you expect a certain amount of that. So I didn’t go out for the roles that I wanted. Instead I went out for the roles that people wanted me to go out for, which were like the male lead or the male backup dancer or whatever. And that’s not who I was, and it was not a comfortable space for me at all. All of this long before I really had a chance to come into my identity as a trans woman. So it was still kind of figuring itself out, and I couldn’t walk through the door with a lot of confidence as you should in an audition. I didn’t have that self-confidence until much later. But I quickly realized auditioning was not for me, at least not at that time and place. Instead, I leaned

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on drag, where I was getting applause, I was getting paid, and I was even beginning to travel and make friends and find community.

Opportunities seemed to open up for me down that path, so that’s the one I took.

Can you recall the first time you put on a dress and didn’t think of it as drag? Was it terrifying? Was it empowering?

Ha! Well, I don’t really have that kind of Hallmark Special moment where you’re in turmoil, and then — ah! — the light comes on and everything changes. For me it wasn’t quite so black and white.

For some people it is. The difference for me was, the first time I ever crossdressed was when my grandmother dressed me up for Halloween as Boy George. I don’t know if that’s really crossdressing.

So I dabbled with trying on women’s clothing in different ways. But it wasn’t necessarily me consciously trying to say,“This is who I am” and experiment with it. I just wanted to do something that was fun; that felt good. I gravitated towards it. So whenever there was an opportunity for everyone to put on costumes or dress outrageous in something over the top; well, other people would dress like a devil or Jason or Freddy Krueger, and I would dress like some girl.

So in the context of what was going on, it wasn’t like we’re figuring out our gender identities. It was like, we’re just trying on costumes.

But clearly that was just the beginning.

After that, it continued to resonate. As a theater kid, you have a lot of opportunity to try on costumes. So I did as a teenager and adolescent. The first time I really tried on a dress and walked around outside in public was when I was in drag, it was Halloween.

I think I did drag for Halloween every — once I did it the first time I never turned back. So that was at least from the age of fourteen on, every year. And it would always be those limited moments. And then those limited moments would become more frequent until there was no space in between. So I had a chance to really get my feet wet. And it didn’t feel like I was doing something daring. By the time I had come into my own as a transwoman and really sorted those feelings out, I’d already been doing drag for ten years. So I was very confident in a female form. That being said, there is and was a difference between who I was presenting during the day as my everyday person, a transwoman, and the drag version of me.

I think people are curious about what those differences are.

Some people speak about their drag persona in the third person.

It’s just an isolated character for some people; that’s valid. For me, since it started out as the only way I could really express who I was, it was ... a more colorful version of my everyday personality. I was really protective of the realism of that persona. That was the only control I had over creating and crafting myself as a woman — the drag version. ... Only later on did I start to see a separation.

Between your female personas on and off stage?

It was awkward for me. ... It wasn’t suitable for me to go out to the laundromat or to the store dressed like I do at night because it’s stage wear. So I had to figure out who this person was ... what I would wear, how I was gonna present myself, how would my hair be. And it was terrifying leaving the house for the first time just wearing like a tank top and some shorts. For the first time I didn’t have the protection of a costume.

That makes sense. Has it ever threatened your personal safety?

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I talked about this once on Rupaul’s Drag Race. I was in high school, and long story short, I got beat up by the basketball team because there was a rumor I had a crush on one of the players ... led by the guy who thought I had a crush on him. Luckily, I wasn’t hurt.

I mean, there might have been a bruise or a little soreness, but no broken bones, no broken skin. So yeah. It was sad, but right afterwards, I kind of got up and dusted myself off. Of course I was shaken, and had probably every feeling about it. But I walked to the office to look for an authority figure. And while I was in there talking, telling them what happened, you know how a lot of times school offices are pretty much just glass windows? I turned around, and I saw all of my friends, and I felt like the whole school was there looking, and sending vibes of love. We went to court, and my Mom was a huge champion. I had to stay in school while they went to court. But finally he got expelled, banned permanently from our school and all our sporting events. I saw him sneak in a month later in disguise basically, while I was cheering on the basketball cheerleading squad for his team. So I felt like I had won.

Getting back to your transition: you head this creeping sensation that you and your birth gender were not aligned.

Oh, more than creeping. I had existed as this performer in drag mode for more than ten years. And in the beginning, I didn’t really think I needed Drag Race. I was doing very well on my own. For 10, 15 years I’d been performing in drag, traveling the world ... until a few years ago, when I noticed that [the show] was growing and growing. And these girls were now traveling into the spaces that I had once been one of the only ones to go. So I knew it could be a career boost. After Season Six, I was like, “Okay, maybe I should pay attention to this.”I auditioned three times. And I did not get on the first two, obviously. I was nervous about my presentation and

worrying if they going to be able to detect that I’m trans in this tape because I don’t ever remember there being a positive example of them choosing and supporting a transwoman.

So your transition had already begun medically?

I started my medical transition in 2012, so it was well in process by the time I got onto the show. I definitely had more things that I would have wanted to do or that I was still deciding on, but I don’t really know that anyone’s transition, medically or otherwise, is ever complete. Because we’re always evolving, and the landscape for what’s acceptable is changing so much. The more room we get as queer people, the more space we take up. I feel like I’ll never be finished until we’re all equal. It’s also worth noting that I saw Drag Race as a means to an end, because I didn’t have any other way to earn the type of money I wanted to support my transition.

Was coming out as trans on the show something you agonized over, or was it an impulse kind of thing?

It was really like a pot that had been simmering my whole life.

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a matter of when. And I knew that we were gonna talk about it. So I went on the show telling myself that I wasn’t going bust through the door screaming, but the minute somebody mentions it, I’m gonna tell them and talk about it. And if they ask, I’ll be like, “Yeah, and what?” People ask if there were private conversations with Ru or the producers. No, baby.

There’s no private conversations about anything — for the contestants. She’s there for the show and shoots the show. But I can say my participation in the show was never discussed as being in jeopardy because of my transness, ever.

Ru has said having someone trans on the show is problematic. You disagreed, because you think of drag as a character — not a gender identity.

It’s an amalgamation. There’s lots of really butch, manly men who do great drag. But anyone who says that they’re not in touch with something inside of them that is female or feminine would be lying to themselves. Ru said it best: “You’re born naked, and the rest is drag.” So we’re all already drag queens.

That brings us to the present: How did you hear about a Go-Go’s musical based on a completely unrelated old book?

It’s actually a very obscure old book called “Arcadia,” which is essentially a poem about utopia.

It takes a pretty creative mind to say, “Hey! This should be paired with Go-Go’s music!”

It really does! The project started years ago before I ever even knew about it. By the time I came aboard, they’d already gotten their backing and knew they were going to go to Broadway.

Once they presented me with the entire body of work, I was able to see how timeless it was, how contemporary it is, how entertaining and funny it is — and how much many of the characters, including the one I play obviously, resonate.

So it’s all the hits? “Our Lips Are Sealed,” “Vacation,” “We Got the Beat” and the rest?

Plus “Heaven Is A Place On Earth,” and “Mad About You;” a lot of Belinda Carlisle songs. My song is “A Vision of Nowness,” which is a little more obscure.

Such a different world to be in than as a drag performer...

I definitely did feel some pressure in the beginning. But I’ve always known that the only way that it’s going to be successful is if I’m fully focused and connected to the material and just doing my thing. And I have to trust that’s why I was cast. So yes, I want the producers to feel satisfied. I want the audience to feel satisfied. And I wanted to feel satisfied myself. I think every performer goes through that. But I felt that kind of pressure even in a bar doing a drag show.

What’s it like to say you’re the first trans person to take the lead role in a Broadway musical?

Funny. It feels historic. It feels great. And it feels — well, I want to live up to it and do this moment justice. I think I can. I would like to. It feels like this show is perfect for me to continue on, and have a platform to speak out on behalf of our community.

And it’s just fantastic. I think it’s the perfect place for me.

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LONG BEFORE THE #METOO MOVEMENT BLOSSOMED, PAUL FEIG WAS REIMAGINING HOW HOLLYWOOD RELATED

to women. His Bridesmaids brought us a gross-out comedy centered around female friendship. The Heat reinvented the buddy cop movie for a galpal duo. Spy put thrust an unassuming female character into James Bond-style hijinx. And Ghostbusters inadvertently set off an internet firestorm when it was revealed the film centered around four funny women (rather than men) as the crew who “ain’t afraid of no ghosts.”

“If you look at all my movies, they’re all genre movies. That’s what I love,” says Feig as he settles in to discuss his latest film, A Simple Favor.“I’m just always like: what genre can we play with now? What genre can we introduce elements into that don’t normally exist in those?” Feig is not done experimenting. “I’m dying to do a sci-fi epic,” he says.“I’m dying to do a musical. I’d love to do a Western. The sky’s the limit.”

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A Simple Favor is Feig’s foray into the psychological thriller — an oeuvre not particularly known for either his trademark comic flair or for empowering women. But the movie quickly sets about proving there’s a place in the genre for laughs and for women to play roles other than victims. Much of that is fuelled by the relationship at the center of the film — forged when the worlds of Blake Lively’s impeccably-styled working mom Emily and Anna Kendrick’s perky vlogging homemaker Stephanie collide. “They’re not coming together as equals, career wise,” says Feig. “Anna’s sort of a little chirpy mom who’s struggling with this vlog, and all the other parents don’t like her because she’s too perfect; and then Blake is the career woman.”The chemistry between these two characters is off the charts from the moment they first share the screen — with Emily judging Stephanie for being provincial, but also acknowledging her prowess as a mom, while Stephanie is awestruck by Emily’s worldliness, but remains concerned about what that means for her family.

Feig tells me that as the script was being developed, this relationship started out even more lopsided. “They were a little more adversarial up front. It was a lot of Emily making fun of Stephanie, but Stephanie still kind of enamored with Emily.” But Lively and Kendrick pushed for parity.“Blake and Anna both didn’t want it to be too mean-spirited, and I was like: I’m with you.” However, there are still several funny instances of Emily teasing Stephanie. “They weren’t making fun of her, they were having fun with her,” Feig explains pointing to an exchange in which Lively ad-libbed, “Does your kid drink? It’s never too early,” and Anna came back with, “I think you’re joking, but…”. By the time they bring

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their sons back to Emily’s spectacular home, their back-andforth begins to feel like flirtation.

Feig tells me he saw reflections of his own mother in Stephanie’s awed reaction to Emily’s lifestyle.”She was a telephone operator in Canada before she met my dad, and then when she and my Dad had me, she became a stay-athome mom until I was in my teens,” he remembers. “She was always so enamored with professional women — any woman who had her own business or anything like that, who had a position of power, was like the coolest thing in the world. And so when she met my wife — when I first started dating my wife, my wife had her own management agency — my Mom would just go to work sometimes and just sit in her office and watch my wife work, and they were the best of friends.”

“I like the idea that Emily would actually respond to that: that she’s actually a hero to somebody — the way Stephanie looks at her and all that,”Feig enthuses.“To me, the moment that’s the perfect summation of why their relationship works is when she catches Stephanie dancing, and Stephanie’s kind of embarrassed. ... The fact that [Emily] kind of laughs and she’s like, ‘Go on - I want to see some more,’ and that makes Stephanie dance: that was a moment I was just like, ‘Oh my God the chemistry in these characters is just going to be so great together. … That’s what drives Stephanie to do so much.”

As is the way with psychological thrillers, to give away a little is to potentially give away too much. Suffice it to say that Stephanie does end up going to extraordinary lengths on Emily’s behalf, and we do get to see a moment where

their chemistry reaches a crescendo. “Honestly that, to me, is the most important moment in the whole movie, because it just tells so much,” says Feig.“Some people could read that [in the script] and think it’s just going to be some weird exploitative moment, and I know — when we were moving towards production — there were a few people that were worried about that on our team. And I was just like, ‘No, this tells the tale.’ I mean Stephanie is so lonely and so desperately needy for any kind of love and acceptance, and here she meets this woman who’s kind of her hero; and she just gets enamored with her totally. And in this moment of confession, she’s finally told this deep dark secret to this person who’s being very sympathetic to her, and they just kind of fall together.” Without giving away any particulars, it’s easy to agree with Feig when he comments, “I just think it’s absolutely masterfully acted, and I’m just so proud of that moment in the movie.”

A STEREOTYPE WORLD A Simple Favor is a queer film in ways that extend beyond the chemistry of its leading ladies. Around the time that Frances McDormand was calling for them in awards acceptance speeches and Ashley Judd was advocating for them on red carpets, Feig announced that his company, Feigco Entertainment, would be embracing inclusion riders. Such riders can require at least 50% of a film’s cast and crew be diverse, and I ask Feig if that extends to LGBTQ members of the film industry, as well.

“It’s all part of the mix,” Feig replies. On screen in A Simple Favor, he points to trans actor Petty Pearson, who plays the right-hand person of Emily’s fashion maven boss. “And then behind the camera … we try to throw the door open wide as much as we can.”

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extremes, Rannells is the resident gay dad, though it’s not explicitly stated that his character is gay. “I never wanted to state it, because I don’t like putting a big red flag on anything. Then I think it’s like: ‘Hey! Look how progressive we are!’” But Feig still hopes it comes across. ‘The assumption is, ‘Oh yeah sure, he’s the dad who’s part of the gay couple, and he’s the one in charge of the kid. For me that was always the point.”

Another queer character appears in the form of Emily’s boss Dennis Nylon, hilariously referred to at one point as a “bargain basement Tom Ford.” I ask Feig whether — in presenting a sardonic portrait of an LGBTQ individual — he was concerned about it being misperceived as mocking queerness in a stereotypical way. “Very much so, because I’ve seen that done poorly so many times, where it’s clearly like: ‘Oh look, here’s the funny gay guy!’” says Feig. “You don’t want that.” In his brief appearance on screen, Rupert Friend turns in a performance that delicately navigates this danger zone.

“We never wanted him to be flamboyant,” explains Feig. “I found out that Rupert had read the script and wanted to play that role. I was so shocked because it’s not a big part, but he just really kind of latched onto it. … The way he wanted to play it, the way we wanted to come up with his costume and everything: it was never an issue where I had to go, ‘Come on; tamp that down; let’s not do that; let’s not play in the stereotype world.”

Perhaps the most ambitiously queer aspect of the film is Blake Lively’s extraordinary wardrobe — which features some of the most exciting suiting worn by a woman on screen since Marlene Dietrich.

Feig is renowned for being nattily attired, and he readily admits that fashion is one of his favorite parts of the creative process.

Nevertheless, he doesn’t approach costuming dictatorially. “My journey with the actors and especially with actresses: I like to let them set the look, because I was an actor for years and I just know that it’s part of the character. It’s how you feel like the character.”

“She works in the fashion industry, so she’s fashion-forward,” Feig says of Emily. But they didn’t want to lean toward “her boobs are hanging out all over the place”or“she dresses super-revealing or sexy.” Instead, Feig explains, they wanted to dress her as a powerful, strong, career woman “who is coming into the, sort of, Lululemon

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world of parents just trying to get through their day as best as they can.” Feig says. Style conversations began early — before Feig started working with Lively or costume designer Renee Ehrlich Kalfus (who also worked on the fabulous costumes of Hidden Figures), and whom Feig describes as “really amazing.”

“We were definitely working towards more masculine kind of clothes for Blake, but it was more based on looking at Helmut Newton photos and that kind of thing — you know: the very iconic picture of the woman smoking the cigarette on that street in Paris?

And she’s got the big bell-bottom black pants and almost kind of a tuxedo-ish look to it?” Lively was on board with the idea. “Blake knew that she liked the idea of having this more masculine look, and then she looked at me, and she’s like, ‘I want to dress like you.’

Because I always wear, like, a three piece suit or double-breasted suits and that kind of thing.” So Lively said to Kalfus, “Let’s model me on the way that Paul Feig dresses.” Feig was flattered and got in touch with his friend Kimball Hastings, who works at Ralph Lauren, and said, “What do you think about suiting for Blake Lively?”The Lauren crew raided their archives, so most of the film’s suits are modified Ralph Lauren. Then Lively and Kalfus “put their absolute spin on with all the accessories and how they did the ties.”

Still worried that the studio would want more plunging-neckline sexiness, Lively came up with the idea that, though the first time we see her she’s in a suit,“when they get back to the house, she has this almost-Chippendales sort of fake shirt that she yanks off.”

When I refer to it as perhaps the most important dickie in the history of cinema, Feig laughs, remembering: “I said, ‘Oh my God, Blake, are you proposing a dickie?’ And she said yes. I was like, ‘This is fantastic!’ And then with the cuffs, too — it really makes me laugh.” It seems like this depth of care went into all of Emily’s ensembles, with each offering a new kind of surprise. “We just always want — every time Emily shows up — you to go, ’Wow! What are you wearing now?!’”

Later, I’ll be standing next to Feig at a party for the film when Lively sweeps into the room, channeling Emily by wearing an impeccably tailored suit in a shade of lime so vibrant that every eye would have been on her even if she weren’t a movie star. “She so

embraced it and it was just fun,” Feig says. “Blake doesn’t normally play these kind of roles, and even when I found out she wanted to do it, I remember — I’m such a fan of hers — I was like, ‘Wow, does she really?’” From the risks she took in costuming to a daring nude portrait that plays a crucial role in the film (Lively later tells me she’s not yet sure how she’ll ever explain it to her daughter), Feig says Lively kept surprising him with her willingness to challenge herself.

“I was like really? You would do that?”remembers Feig.“Blake was so willing to go way outside of her comfort zone.”

A HOUSE OF INDULGENCE Does this film full of fine fashions and smart cocktails reflect Feig’s own personal penchant for pampering? “I’m a house of indulgence.

I really am,” he confesses. “My whole thing is, work hard; play hard.

When I shoot my movies, we do what we call ‘French hours’ — tenhour days, which means we don’t take a lunch. There’s always food around. People eat as they’re working and then at the end of the ten hours, you have to pull the plug.” Then Feig and company head out for dinner and drinks. “I’m just a restaurant fanatic. The crazier the food, the better. And the fancier the restaurant, the happier I am. The more waiters and waitresses that are buzzing around the table, the more I love the place. So many people might be put off by that, but I love a good fancy meal where they’re trading out your silverware after every course and all that.”

In terms of travel, Feig admits to “chasing the dream of jet set glamour,”listing Capri, Positano and Venice among his favorite places to escape. Of Capri, Feig laments,“People say, ‘Oh, I went there for a day, and we hated it.’ It’s like: ‘Yeah. You went for a day and you hated it because you were there when all the tourists were there, and all the boats let everybody off and everybody’s walking around in their cargo shorts and all [that sort of] stuff.’ But if you hide out during the day and then you come out like at five or six [o’clock] for drinks down in front of [the Grand Hotel] Quisisana and suddenly people are walking around; they’re dressed up, and it looks like the Riviera in the 1950s.” Feig loves that era’s elegance — and the fact that he was able to channel it into A Simple Favor. “That’s what I love about this movie so much, and weirdly, this movie is probably my most personal movie — even though it has nothing to do with my life. It’s part murder and double-crossing, but just the fact that the martinis play so heavily into it and style plays so heavily into it.”

Feig wants to bring more of his sense of style to the screen in future projects, so long as he can make his films relatable. “That’s why I think I really took to this script because Anna Kendrick is the relatable character the middle of it all. She is the audience. She’s us.

We’re just normal people; so she’s going, ‘Oh my God — look how fancy and fun and stylish it is!’ And then she gets affected by it.” Feig says,“It plays into all the indulgences that I love.”

“I’m so proud of this movie. Honestly I think it’s my favorite movie I’ve ever done,” says Feig. “It just has everything, and it really wallows in the fun of how extreme it is.” Since it’s a thriller, we’ve attempted to reveal very little here about the plot — or what it all has to do with sexy Crazy Rich Asians star Harry Golding (who will play

a gay man in the forthcoming film, Monsoon). For similar reasons, they have chosen not to highlight what Feig describes as the film’s “very, very dark comedy” in its advertising. “I never want anybody to think we are not taking the thriller genre seriously because I love thrillers, I think, more than anything,” says Feig. “The thriller genre allowed me to do things that I haven’t been able to do in my other comedies because it’s such a dark world and because it’s such a world of extremes,” he says. “So I just say to everybody: you’re just going to have so much fun because you’re going to go on a full ride, and I personally feel you’re not going to be let down by any one of the elements of it because you’re going to be thrilled; you’re going to be shocked. But you’re going to have fun the whole time.” See A Simple Favor in theaters starting September 14.

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THE FABULOUS PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO LIVE — WE SEE IT EVERY

day on social media (so it must be true). From private villas in remote locations to extravagant edibles, high tech headphones to golden workout gear, the bold-faced names are living their best lives, and the rest of us are experiencing serious FOMO. We wanted to know how to join the party so we looked for the most alluring, exotic and (let’s face it) expensive ways to part with some of your hard-earned dough re mi. As Auntie Mame once said,“Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death!”

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THE WORLD IS YOUR OYSTER Those insta-worthy destinations are waiting — for the right price.

When the rich and famous need to get away from it all, super-privacy is the priority. The Fogo Island Inn ($1200 per night) is located off the coast of Newfoundland, Canada. It is remote enough to completely disconnect, yet accessible via modern transportation.

The island is halfway between the equator and the North Pole in the straits of Labrador, which provides locals with a temperate maritime climate and abundant wildlife that includes caribou, beavers, foxes, migrating whales and various native berries. In the spring, icebergs float by from the north, and in the summer the island is festooned in wildflowers. The inn itself is perched on stilts on the Atlantic coastline and has 29 suites, all with full views of the sea and sky.

Ker & Downey offers experiential luxury travel to an adventurous clientele who also want to give back. Some of their current offerings include trips to Peru on the Aria Amazon; to China aboard the Aqua Mekong vessels with international conservationist JeanMichel Cousteau; and to Cuba to explore the fabled island’s sustainability and conservation practices, including a visit to an organic coffee producer, lunch with local farmers and one-on-one exchanges with everyone from the mechanics who maintain Cuba’s classic cars to community activists and scientists.

Seeking something more exotic? The Dunia Baru is just the ticket. Constructed in Borneo and echoing the traditional design of Asian vessels, this luxury sailing ship sails the waters around Indonesia and the Andaman Sea. The ship carries 14 passengers, and every trip is bespoke, tailored to their client’s whims. Current offerings: a 5-day cruise in the Komodo archipelago, which includes searching for the famed Komodo dragons, swimming with Manta Rays and lying about on pristine beaches; and a six-day diving adventure in Raja Ampat, Indonesia — which includes 1,500 islands and over 1,000 species of reef fish. The average cost of a charter is $87,000.

If adventure is not your thing, check into CV Villa’s Villa Moana overlooking L’Ansecoy Bay in Mustique. A private chef stands ready to serve and can arrange for picnics on the beach and sumptuous formal dinners. Bedrooms face the ocean breezes, and if you don’t feel like moving far from home, relax in the infinity pool that overlooks the ocean. Prefer a little history with your luxury travel? Context Travel offers private or small-group strolls through the past.

The tours, led by PhD-level scholars, are inside looks at some of the world’s most famous sites. The after-hours private Vatican tour ($3,800) gives you an up-close look at one of the finest art collections in the world. For something closer to the modern era, The Sound of Music tour of Salzburg ($1200, private) includes visits to sites where the iconic musical was filmed, as well as a visit to the real Von Trapp villa and a look at the true legacy of the region, its most famous family and details their context in history.

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Part of the allure of the A-list life is how perfectly effortless it looks, but accomplishing that je ne sais quoi takes an army of attendants. You can’t stuff a full-skirted ball gown into an overhead bin, and navigating the logistics of booking that photo expedition into the Amazon is a full-time job in and of itself. Enter the world of luxury service providers who will cater to your every whim.

Garde Robe bills itself as “luxury wardrobe management,” and offers services that include archival couture preservation for your one-of-a-kind de la Renta, seasonal wardrobe storage, and luggage-packing and worldwide delivery of your precious cargo to any destination (your second home in the Tuscan hills, perhaps?) They also offer a cyber closet — a digital look-book of your collections — which can be accessed on a secure website from anywhere in the world because, with a shoe collection that large, how can you be expected to remember whether you have last season’s Jimmy Choos in turquoise or gold? In addition to maintaining and delivering your wardrobe and preserving your pretties, Garde Robe membership also includes help with consignment advice, personal shopping, in-home tailoring and seamstress services and closet organizing. Individual services are approximately $350 per month; clients can add services as needed.

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“bespoke lifestyle services” such as travel itineraries, restaurant reservations, finding babysitters, butler services, picking up dry cleaning, preparing your second home for habitation, maintaining your personal calendar, suggesting VIP and private events all over the world, advising on art purchases, making sure the jet is stocked with your favorite libations — and, as they vouch on their website, “no request is too small.” Dedicated lifestyle managers are devoted to your contentment and make it their business to understand and even predict what you might need anywhere in the world. Their global elite membership will set you back approximately $45,000 per year.

The Core Club’s mantra is: Discover. Experience. Transform.

Memberships include a personal concierge service promising to “uncomplicated your life,” fine dining, private events, styling services by Paul Labrecque at his own salon at Core (or his two other locations in New York), and state-of-the-art skincare at Dangene: The Institute of Skinovation. Core:Fit is a fitness center complete with medical staff, private training, digital fitness training for when you can’t get to the club and wellness coaching. The club is one of the exclusive locations to offer Electrical Muscle Stimulation (EMS), which uses electrical impulses to stimulate muscular contractions. Cost of entry? $50,000 up front and $15,000 per year.

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Dinner at Glass house Diamonds Are Forever Martini

DINNER AT 8 For the ultimate in pre-dinner cocktails, try the Diamonds are Forever Martini ($20,000), offered by the Ritz-Carlton Tokyo — a perfect Absolute Elyx vodka martini with a lime twist, poured over a flawless one-karat diamond. The martini is prepared tableside and is accompanied by the Shirley Bassey recording of (what else?) “Diamonds are Forever.”

Dinner is always a good idea, especially if it involves splurging on such things as Osetra caviar in exotic locales.

Phillip Johnson’s Glass House, built in 1949, is a singular piece of architectural history where you and 11 of your closest friends can pretend it’s all yours when you book a private seated dinner (and private tour of the property) for a mere $25,000. But be prepared: That doesn’t include the cost of food, beverages, service and rentals.

For dessert, “The Fortress Stilt Fisherman Indulgence” at the Fortress Resort and Spa in Sri Lanka is the perfect catch. Italian cassata flavored cream with Bailey’s liquor and pomegranate and mango compote on a bed of champagne sabayon sit next to a hand-carved chocolate stilt fisherman, holding an 80-carat aquamarine stone as blue as the surrounding waters of the nearby Indian Ocean.

Still hungry? Stop by Industry Kitchen in New York’s Financial District for their 24k pizza ($2,000). Order 48 hours in advance; that’s how long the squid ink pizza dough must rest before cooking. The crust is topped with Stilton cheese, foie gras, Osetra caviar, shaved truffles, and strips of edible 24-karat gold leaf. It’s the ultimate in comfort food.

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There are few names that inspire visions of the best of everything like The Four Seasons. Whether you’re staying in a massive urban center like New York, or a remote hideaway like Bora Bora, rest assured that you’ll be pampered from head to toe. The spas of the Four Seasons are internationally known and revered, and each spa pays special attention to its location. This is no cookie cutter luxury that offers the same amenities from city to city. The Four Seasons prides itself in using artisanal fragrances and products, and celebrating local cuisine and culture. The goal of each of their hotels is to make clients feel that they are an esteemed part of the environment. The Spa at Bora Bora is at the edge of a private lagoon, and is designed to look like a kahaia tree, which are indigenous to the island paradise. Signature spa treatments include skin-smoothing Tahitian black pearl powder, and algae treatments sourced from local waters. There’s an overwater couples suite, with treatment beds placed on glass panels above the lagoon, and an outdoor tub overlooking Mount Otemanu.

In the Indian Ocean, the island country of Mauritius beckons, and the world class Four Seasons spa there offers such signature treatments as Indian Bliss, incorporating Ayurvedic therapies with traditional herb bundles and traditional teas and sweets in an outdoor relaxation area. For a true relaxation experience, try the “Let it Go” eight-handed massage. This exclusive treatment created by the Mauritius therapists uses synchronized motions of four practitioners to stimulate energy across your body to achieve truly global rejuvenation.

Want to go for the gold? Then Head to the Jumeirah Zabeel Saray in Dubai, an opulent resort frequently visited by royalty.

In the hotel’s marble-and-mosaic bedecked Talise Ottoman Spa, guests can book a fullday journey ($7,000) that would have been fit for Cleopatra herself, including a milk and rose oil bath, argan-oil massage, the use of an Arabian gold hammam, a caviar lunch in the spa suite, and a custom-made 24-karat gold facial mask.

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THE STUFF THAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF If you want to live the luxe life, or at least look like you are, it’s all about the accessories. Sunnies are de rigueur of course: Chopard brings the bling with their diamond-encrusted pair (they will run you a cool $400,000), but for serious street cred, make your way to Gogosha Optique in Los Angeles, where Julia Gogosha-Clark and her staff will help you select the perfect, hand-made, artisanal frame for your face.

All of the limited-production frames at Gogosha Optique are made by international, über-chic designers, and you can schedule a private, after-hours session to pick your look. Frames run from $400 to $600, but fierceness knows no price tag.

For audiophiles, German audio brand Seinheiser’s Orpheus Headphones will set you back $58,000 but according to the brand’s website, will provide “otherworldly sound and timeless beauty.”

The amplifier sits on a glass housing that rests on a block of Carrara marble and the control dials are hand-milled from solid chrome-plated brass.

If you want to look like an A-lister, you have to work that body. For a hardcore workout in your own crib, the Peloton Tread ($4,000) hits all the right buttons. With digital access to Peloton’s top hard bodies, you can experience a mix of cardio and strength training for a total body workout — with a trainer broadcast on a 32-inch HD touch screen. And for weights that are chic enough to live in your living room, pick up Hock’s Goldloft Dumbbells ($125,000), made with precision-turned handles of rare Granadilla wood and 18k gold heads. Or opt for a complete set of Diskus Dumbbells on a walnut stand ($15,000).■

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To the uninitiated, tai chi chuan may look like slow motion silliness, but the practice offers a range of mental and physical health benefits. BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES HAVE YOU EVER PASSED A SMALL GROUP OF PEOPLE PRACTICING WHAT

appear to be very slow martial arts moves in a park? Chances are they’re moving through Tai chi chuan poses, and if you’ve ever wondered if you should get out and join them, you probably should give it a try.

Tai chi chuan, also referred to as shadow boxing, is an extension of traditional Chinese martial arts. Tai chi chuan literally translates as “perfect boxing.” Its roots extend back to the Ming Dynasty, when Zhang Sanfeng is said to have created the “Thirteen Postures of Tai Chi.” Its routines are used widely today as mind/body exercises known to not only treat but prevent numerous health issues. Tai chi is rooted in and utilizes fundamental Chinese philosophies, including qi as well as yin and yang.

Qi, known as universal life energy or life force — is always in flux as we transfer energy back and forth between people and things throughout our day. Yin and yang (represented by that tattoo you saw a lot back in the 80s and 90s) allude to the the opposite manifestations of qi. Yin refers to qi which is negative, dark and feminine, whereas yang is positive, bright and masculine. The constant interaction of yin and yang supposedly influences the life and destiny of all creatures and things.

Tai chi chuan can help improve your mood and relieve stress, anxiety and even depression. Regular practice can enhance the quality of your sleep, boost the immune system, lower blood pressure, improve pain in joints, increase energy level, stamina, muscle definition and strength. The exercise is low-impact, placing minimal stress muslces and joints — making it extremely safe for nearly anyone to take part (even those for whom other physical activities present a challenge) as it’s known to improve balance, reduce falls and the fear of falling, improve coordination and ease respiratory ailments.

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the upper and lower body, and while it may not exactly torch calories, working through its more than 100 movements can certainly augment and boost regular aerobic activity. On the mental front (smilar to yoga), focusing and centering your mind can create a sense of calmness and peace which helps banish weightgain-causing stress from your personal orbit.

The Tai Chi Foundation and The School of Tai Chi Chuan were both founded in 1976 to reflect the vision of Patrick Watson, who wanted to create a school of tai chi teachers to “preserve and transmit the movements and principles of the tai chi form” developed by his own mentor, Cheng Man-Ch’ing. It is affiliated with the New York School of Tai Chi Chuan, which has offered such classes as “Push Hands” and “Sword Form” at various locations around NYC for more than 35 years.

In Los Angeles, the TCSociety is a volunteer organization that aims to spread the understanding of the fundamentals of Tai Chi principles through the practice of Old Yang Style Tai Chi Chuan. Founded in 1992 by TC Hou, the TCSociety holds weekly practice sessions that last 90 minutes in Santa Monica, Studio City, Diamond Bar, Malibu, Thousand Oaks and Riverside. They also offer field trips to China and Taiwan for members seeking to experience and understand tai chi history up close.

Though there are books and videos that can demonstrate the fundamentals of Tai Chi, it’s best to learn from a proper instructor. What should you wear for your first Tai Chi class? Opt for comfortable, loose clothing and flat shoes. Cotton might be the most comfortable fabric to wear because it can absorb sweat and allows the skin to breathe. Avoid constricting clothing or anything that might suppress the qi from flowing!

Not sure where to go? Tai Chi for Health Institute is a great resource to find a Board Certified Tai Chi instructor. Visit taichiforhealthinstitute.org for info and instructors close to home. ■

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King Salmon Poke with Black Sesame and Quick Pickled Beet

BY GAYLE VAN WELY One of my favorite colorful dishes to serve at any special gathering is poke. This particular poke is packed with super-rich, good-for-you fat from king salmon and folate iron derived from red beets. Pickled beets also contain high amounts of potassium, phosphorus, magnesium — and vitamins A, B, and C (among others). The acidic sweetness from the beets and the brininess from the seabeans balance the luscious rich salmon to create an unbelievable unami bite.

SALMON POKE 1 lb. sushi-grade salmon fillet, cut into 3/4-inch cubes 2 Tbsp soy sauce 1 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil 1 Tbsp sesame oil 2 Tbsp rice wine vinegar 2 Tbsp rice mirin 1 tsp ginger, grated 1 tsp garlic, minced 1 tbsp black sesame seeds

TIP Before you begin making a salmon poke dish, it’s best to place the raw salmon in a freezer for about 30 minutes to let it partially freeze. Ideally, the salmon should be firm, but remain soft enough to slice. This firmer texture will allow for far more sharply defined cuts.

METHOD: SALMON In a medium-sized bowl, combine soy sauce, oils, rice wine vinegar, mirin, ginger and garlic. Toss salmon gently with 1/4 cup of the marinade. Sprinkle with sesame seeds and refrigerate for 30 minutes.

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RED BEETS 3 red beets sea salt 1/4 cup apple cider or sherry vinegar freshly ground pepper 1/4 cup olive oil

GARNISH Seabeans and scallions

1. Place beets in a large pot, then cover with cold water by 2 inches. Bring to a boil over high heat; add 1 tsp sea salt. Reduce heat slightly to maintain a rolling boil. Cook until tender, about 30 minutes. Drain, and let cool slightly.

Trim stem ends, then peel beets using a paring knife or a vegetable peeler.

Using a mandoline, cut beets 1/4-inch-thick slices for medallions. Use a carrot peeler to make a few into ribbons as well.

2. Whisk together vinegar, sea salt (to taste) and pepper in a small bowl.

Add oil in a slow, steady stream, whisking until emulsified. Pour vinaigrette over beets.

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CHOOSING TO BECOME HIV+ How a dark chapter in Cuba’s history helped craft a unique kind of community.

BY JEFF SIMMONS

Above left: Gerson Govea and Yoandra Cardosa of Los Frikis; January Parkos Annal

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Union cut financial ties with Cuba. During the late 1980s under the socialist Castro regime, where there were significant drains on resources such as gas and food, outliers such as “punks” were targeted for abuse, and people who were HIV positive were quarantined in sanitariums.

To evade persecution, a community of punks purposely injected themselves with HIV-positive blood, which guaranteed they would be sanctioned to the medical establishments, where they’d at least receive medicine, food, and shelter. As a result, so many members of that community, known as Los Frikis, purposely contracted HIV that at one point an entire sanitarium was filled with them. “You could hear rock ‘n’ roll and heavy metal coming from every house,”Yoandra Cardoso, a Friki, says in a Vice documentary. “When the sanatorium first opened, it was 100 percent Frikis... we were all here together.”

The way of life in the facilities allowed them to speak out against those in power, and patients could dress, socialize, and play music as they chose.

In the decades since, all but one of the sanitariums have since closed, and many of the patients have passed away.

“It’s an incredibly compelling story,” says January Parkos Arnall, Curator of Public Programs at MCA Chicago (the Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago), “a time during this ‘Special Period’ when Cuban citizens, mostly young punks, were intentionally seroconverting to HIV-positive status in order to be able to take care of themselves.”

This November 30, MCA will host a special program with QUEER, ILL + OKAY, where Cardoso and fellow Friki Gerson Govea will discuss their journey in a conversation with Radio Ambulante’s Luis Trelles and Cursed Be Your Name, Liberty documentary filmmaker Vladimir Ceballos.

MCA, which champions the provocative side of contemporary art and culture, notes that life in sanitariums was seen by Los Frikis as being far preferable to staying on the streets, in no small part because of the freedom it gave them the freedom to challenge the government. The program will be presented in Spanish and English with simultaneous interpretation for non-bilingual audience members. Vida/SIDA, a Chicago-based organization committed to providing HIV prevention services to Latinos and other minority groups, will provide onsite, free rapid HIV tests.

“We’re really interested in the ways that contemporary art today extends beyond objects in a gallery,” Parkos Arnall says. “Multidisciplinary programs that showcase the breadth of the human experience are exactly the kinds of programs I want to be doing here.”

“We hope that through the lens of contemporary art and culture we can open up our local community to that kind of empathy and that kind of understanding, feeling like this is relevant in each of our lives,” she adds.

Joe Varisco, QUEER, ILL + OKAY’s founder and program director who is producing the event, says Cardoso and Govea are both“radicals, and they don’t tolerate bullshit; they don’t suffer fools.”Both are still active musicians, he said, and have never left Cuba before (both were in the process of getting visas this spring). “They are older now, in their 50s, and they are excited to share their stories,”Varisco says.

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After years of Hot Yoga, I realized there was a different kind of burn to be felt working out in the cold. BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES WORKOUTS HAVE BEEN ABOUT HEAT FOR A LONG TIME. I’VE LOST COUNT OF

how many times I’ve held yoga poses in scorchingly hot rooms of up to 108°F, but there’s a new movement that’s bringing people to a cooler mat. Brrrn (yes, that’s with three“r’s”) bills itself as the world’s first cool temperature fitness concept. Located in Manhattan’s swank Flatiron district, cofounders Jimmy T. Martin and Johnny Adamic launched their 45°F to 60°F boutique fitness studio and lifestyle brand in May of 2018.

The cool duo pair the benefits of routine cool temperature exposure [called mild cold stress] with exercise [called environmental conditioning] to optimize the fitness experience.” Brrrn started off with a threetier group exercise program: 1st° (A Yoga-Inspired Mobility & Strength Series), 2nd° (A Core & Cardio Slide Board Series), and 3rd° (A Battle Rope Infused Hit Series). All three classes are 45 minutes.

I initially crossed the threshold into Brrrn on a Sunday morning for a 1st° class, and I could tell that in this crisp new studio there was already a visible cult following. The front desk was organized, down to Earth and broke the ice about the cold workout to come. What does one wear to a“cold yoga class?”I’d thrown wool socks, a baggy sweatshirt, a knit hat and a scarf in my gym bag just in case (since the Brrrn website feature pictures of chiseled yogis stretching and bending outside on a winter day). The staff let me know I would probably find myself shed-

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ding all this winter gear a few minutes into class anyway, so I opted to leave it in a locker in the dressing room (which was pleasantly scented by freshly used Dr. Bronner’s products). I noticed people heading into the infrared sauna and, for a moment, considered heading toward its heat instead of the cold.

But just a couple of steps into the 60°F studio and I immediately felt relaxed and cool. Light rock music was playing, and I found a space to begin my workout. Minutes into the class, I had already broken into a light sweat and was happy I left my heavy gear in the other room. Cofounder Johnny was teaching the class, and the sequence of yogic poses was challenging but seemed manageable for all levels. I contemplated all the hours I’ve spent in hot yoga studios, slipping and sliding in pools of sweat that had gathered on my yoga mats. While it’s true that sometimes the heat can make your body stretch and move a little more comfortably, it’s not necessarily the healthiest approach to the practice.

Overheating, dehydrating and even overextending are all possible in a hot yoga class.

“Cold has been the backdrop of the human experience for millennia,” explained Adamic.“We’ve engineered cold out of our lives. Now we live in these climate-controlled environments of 72°F from the time we wake up until we go to bed, but routine exposure to cooler temperatures is actually good for us. We are reuniting the cold back with exercise — where it belongs.”

As we made our way through the class, Adamic paid close attention to everyone in the room, offering subtle adjustments as we progressed from Downward Facing Dog through Chaturanga Dandasana and the Warrior Series, deepening everyone’s practice pose by pose. By the time we reached Savasana I felt exhausted yet refreshed, and I was already looking forward to our next class, where Adamic would be waiting with more encouragement and advice. I later learned he’s a former public health official for New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s Obesity Task Force. He joined forces with an athlete-turned-celebrity personal trainer, advertising copywriter and Saturday Night Live background performer Jimmy T. Martin to create the Brrrn program and they conducted their first trial in the beer fridge at Sixpoint Brewery just across the bridge from Manhattan in Brooklyn.

My next stage of Brrrn would be the 55°F Core & Cardio Slide Board Series, which is circuit-based in nature and focused on core and total body conditioning. The class is designed to improve balance and mobility, sculpt legs, strengthen inner thighs, improve core strength and increase overall muscular endurance. And true cold seekers will release their inner snowbeast with the 3rd°, a high-impact class combining dumbbell circuit training with battle rope exercises to improve overall strength and conditioning at a brisk 45°F. While I may be content sticking with the 1st° for now, I’m definitely intrigued by the cooler, more advanced classes and will be back for another cold snap — this time without bothering to bring the extra wool. thebrrrn.com ■

MIX EMOTIONS During the reign of Top 40 radio, Kevin mastered crafting crowd-pleasing playlists, but as tastes began to change, he found it harder to get people into the mix. BY KEVIN PHINNEY

my pocket, and would ask bartenders to play my tape, and I tipped them to do so — at first. Eventually, they started buying me thankyou drinks. Ultimately, they asked for their own copies. Several kept collections with certain ones marked “XXX,” because they made girls want to scale the bar to lead the crowd dancing below.

This went on an absurdly long time, but gradually I noticed things changing. MTV ditched videos, and with the rise of Napster and the ability of artists to get noticed on the internet without having to go through a record company, there were fewer that everyone knew. Sure, Madonna, Cher, Britney, Rihanna, JT, Xtina and Beyoncé all broke through. But with the rise of rap, hip-hop and countless indie bands, pleasing everyone at a party became an exercise in guesswork. And far too many people thought that if it looked easy, it must be. One night, as I had reduced a party into a sweaty throng with a vintage funk tune called “Get Off Your Ass and Jam,” the host drunkenly asked to cut in. He put on Hootie & the Blowfish. A fire couldn’t have cleared the place faster.

When I got married, the music for my reception was to be my masterpiece. People threw each other around to swing music, swayed to Nat “King” Cole, got their groove on with Prince, sang along to “Rainbow Connection” and left pleasantly exhausted.

Lately I’ve noticed my gift at inciting a party starting to slip.

Last spring, I attended a friend’s wedding reception and passed the DJ $20 to spin a Whitney Houston megamix I found recently. He agreed, but then played “I Want to Dance With Somebody” first — knowing it would sabotage my intention. Many in the crowd were fine with hearing Whitney hit it baby one more time, but I knew I was done. I’m secure in the knowledge that I’ll never completely lose my mojo, but I won’t spend any more time butting into a DJ’s gig to prove it. I never want to be known as that Hootie guy. ■

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It was easy to capture an audience back then. Top 40 and FM radio had created a ready template of something for everyone. You could hear Donna Summer’s “I Feel Love” next to Glen Campbell’s “Rhinestone Cowboy,”followed by hits from Fleetwood Mac or the Commodores. Then MTV came along, adding Duran Duran, Madonna, Michael Jackson and the Beastie Boys into the mix.

I started to experiment with my own mixes. My formula was simple, at least on the surface: Pick a starting point in time. Pick a genre. Then link each song to another on the radio at roughly the same time while gradually creeping forward in time to create a sweep of classics that would remind listeners of complete eras in their lives. I made pop mixes, R&B mixes, disco mixes and rock ‘n’ roll mixes. I made a habit of carrying what I wanted to hear in

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kinds of music over a lifetime, but nothing will ever hold the same hypnotic sway as what we listened to in our own puberty.

There’s something about coming of age that imbues every note of those songs with the essence of who we were in the process of becoming. Just a few chords can spin you right ‘round (baby) into a reverie of how Everything Was Better Then.

I learned this simple truth when I vaulted into perfecting the art of the mixtape while they were at the apex of their popularity. Friends would often joke that I seemed to have invented the art form. Some of them went out and bought Walkmans, then Discmans, and MP3 players to keep up with the tapes, CDs and playlists I painstakingly put together, then gave away for free.

I admit, there was no small amount of ego involved. Certainly I didn’t write or record any of the songs. Nor did I discover the artists or sign them to record contracts. But in the same way that Colonel Sanders didn’t create chicken or spices, I could put the ingredients together in a way people found . . . irresistible.

I was just out of my teens when I discovered this parlor trick.

A throwback craze for all things ‘50s had recently swept the nation: America couldn’t get enough of Happy Days (or its spinoffs, Laverne & Shirley, Mork & Mindy and Joanie Loves Chachi), so my roomates and I decided to throw a retro-themed house party. But instead of hearkening back to the sanitized ‘50s, we decided our party — in true Animal House style — would celebrate the debauchery of the free love ‘60s. To complete the ambience, we snapped up a few lava lamps, a black light and concocted a trash can punch (in an actual trash can, double lined with plastic lawn bags and containing what can only be described as a heroic amount of alcohol).

Since I had the most records, I was elected to spin. This was ideal for me, as my roomies were too intent on scoring with girls to care about what to play next, and I — still closeted and stuck going through the motions with women — had an excuse to avoid hunting down a gal pal to be my tonsil hockey partner. I started out playing current music, but then began slowly turning back the clock — meticulously linking a current song to an earlier one by the same artist or a contemporary cover to the original. Before long, we were all feeling it. Someone lit incense. Clothes came off.

The ‘60s definitely had an encore that night.

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Sausage Fest : The Best of Berlin and Hamburg FROM ITS COSMOPOLITAN CAPITAL TO A CITY IN THE MIDST OF A MARITIME RENAISSANCE, GERMANY HAS PLENTY TO SERVE. BY MARK A. THOMPSON

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THE SEXY, EDGY BRILLIANCE OF BERLIN IF YOU’RE LUCKY ENOUGH TO RECALL THE EDGY GLAMOUR OF

1970s New York, when the city was bankrupt but sizzling hot and teeming with creative energy, then it’s likely you’ll feel immediately at home as soon as you set foot in Berlin.

As David Bowie once said of the city where he lived from 1976 through 1978 while writing his Berlin Trilogy of albums Low, Heroes, and Lodger, “Berlin [is] the greatest cultural extravaganza that one could imagine.”

You can’t help but feel Bowie’s legacy as you sit happily in the lobby library of ORANIA.BERLIN, a luxury hotel in the center of gritty Kreuzberg — nearly oblivious to the fact that the lobby’s full-length windows have been smashed by neighborhood an-

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archists. In Berlin, it’s never entirely clear whether you are living amidst an act of destructive malice or immersed in subversive public art. Perhaps determining the difference is splitting hairs?

As Berlin’s erstwhile mayor once said, “Berlin is poor but sexy” — words which still beckon like a siren to more than 12 million annual visitors, though the phrase rang with greater veracity back in 2003 when the city’s debt seemed more insurmountable. Currently, Berlin is home to more than a dozen 5-star luxury hotels, in addition to 28 Michelin stars distributed amongst the city’s culinary wunderkinds.

The Michelin-starred GOLVET, for example, received its inaugural star only six months after the restaurant’s opening in a for-

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mer nightclub known for its panoramic views over Potsdamer Platz.

While the posh club never found a loyal audience, the restaurant has earned its plaudits from an elegantly understated dining room that keeps a sharp focus on modern European cuisine spiked with Asian influences. A potato baked in salt dough and served like a Fabergé egg is a reminder of the pleasures of simple treasures. Guests seated at the restaurant’s 40-foot bar face the open kitchen, while a terrace offers skyline views of the historic Schöneberg neighborhood where Berlin’s first gay bar opened in 1977.

For years, Schöneberg has been one of Berlin’s most colorful neighborhoods, with residents who have included Christopher Isherwood, Marlene Dietrich and Bowie, who lived there with Iggy Pop in a seven-room apartment. In 2013, one of Berlin’s most original cultural institutions, the SCHWULES MUSEUM, relocated from Kreuzberg to a former printing house in Schöneberg to accommodate its vast collection of LGBTQ archival holdings.

Nearby — and equally inspiring — is Schöneberg’s URBAN NATION, a museum of urban contemporary art which opened in 2017 in a turn-of-the-last-century building. For years, Urban Nation has been creating outdoor galleries on Berlin’s façades, and the brandnew museum presents an amalgam of ‘70s New York melded with 21st-century Berlin in its celebration of urban contemporary artists.

Schöneberg also hosts Christopher Street Day, Berlin’s annual LGBTQ celebration of equality, as well as the leather and fetish festival known as Folsom Europe.

Now, imagine an attempt to capture all this creative fusion — call it “the essence of Berlin” — in a bottle; that’s what FRAU TONIS Parfum has done. In a collaboration with KAUFHAUS DES WESTENS (aka KaDeWe), the Bergdorf Goodman of Berlin, the haute parfumerie released Berlin: a vibrant elixir of lemon, cedarwood and cardamom.

“I still keep a suitcase in Berlin,” sang Marlene Dietrich in an expression of her ongoing love for the city. Frau Tonis has also translated that love into a fragrance called Veilchen, a seductive interpretation of Dietrich’s signature violet blossom fragrance. As intense as Dietrich was assertive, Veilchen is a mesmerizing ode to the actress’ timeless glamour. Located near former Berlin Wall crossing spot Checkpoint Charlie, Frau Tonis also offers fragrance workshops for those seeking to create a personalized scent.

History seems to loiter around every street corner in Berlin. Across the street from Checkpoint Charlie, DIE MAUER ASISI PANORAMA BERLIN still provides a 360-degree reminder of an autumn day in 1980s Berlin when the Wall still divided the city. Artist Yadegar Asisi utilizes photography, painting and stage design to recreate the haunting atmosphere of lives lived in the shadows of the Wall — including

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Christopher Street Day Parade

the menacing motto: “Those who do not respect the border will be greeted by bullets.”

Today, the city’s slogan is Berlin 365/24, a reference to Berlin’s ongoing openness to everyone at all times. A reflection of the citywide creative spirit, Berlin’s start-up economy numbers in excess of 2300 with more than 22 accelerators and incubators. Europe’s first 5-star airline LUFTHANSA established its Innovation Hub in 2014 at Hackescher Markt, the nexus of Berlin’s start-up ecosystem, to better foster partnerships with the global travel market. In November 2017, Lufthansa Group inaugurated its new JFK/Berlin route with a Business Class experience (pictured) marked by elegant lounges, onboard restaurant service and lie-flat seats that extend to nearly six feet in length.

Lufthansa Business Class

One’s arrival at Orania.Berlin offers an inside view onto the raffish charms of Kreuzberg, one of Berlin’s most vibrant neighborhoods. Imagine Haight-Ashbury in the swinging ‘60s transported to Berlin; its burgeoning cultural scene is now anchored in this luxury hotel on the corner of Oranienplatz. A member of Small Luxury Hotels of the World, Orania.Berlin opened in August 2017 with a paint-bomb benediction from the neighborhood’s raffish elements, although more benevolent Kreuzbergers are usually found with a cocktail at Orania.Bar amidst a cabaret milieu that evokes the historic building’s original 1920s café.

For decades, Kreuzberg has also been home to Berlin’s largest Turkish community, and an evening at FES TURKISH BBQ serves as a persuasive reminder that the neighborhood still offers the city’s best Turkish cuisine. Scores of plates crowd communal tables — flatbreads and meats and more than a dozen mezze spiced with cumin, sumac, red pepper, oregano, mint — and it’s here in a roomful of expats and immigrants, hipsters and Berliners, all sharing in this festival of flavorful food, that you recognize what a truly marvelous medley 21st-century Berlin really is.

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Elbphilharmonie in the Evening

HOME AGAIN TO HAMBURG

Elbphilharmonie Lit Up for Christopher Street Day

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notice. As an arbiter of luxury and indulgence, few people are more influential than the Hamburg-born kaiser of couture who left his hometown for Paris in the 1950s.

A master of extravagant spectacles, Lagerfeld has presented his collections for Chanel and Fendi at the world’s most dazzling locales: from China’s Great Wall to Scottish and Austrian palaces, Paris’ Grand Palais, and Rome’s Cinecittà — so it was only a matter of time before Lagerfeld landed at Hamburg’s ELBPHILHARMONIE. As Germany’s second-largest city, Hamburg has sometimes loomed in the shadows of its bigger sister Berlin. That may have changed with the 2017 opening of Elbphilharmonie, a 21st-century engineering marvel and stunning concert hall built atop a 1960s-era docklands warehouse in the center of Germany’s largest port city. Known affectionately as “Elphie” by locals, the magnificent Elbphilharmonie has given Hamburg a singular architectural landmark as recognizable as Sydney’s Opera House or Bilbao’s Guggenheim.

Designed by Swiss architects Herzog & de Meuron (at a cost of nearly $1 billion), the breathtaking structure rises nearly 400 feet above the Elbe River like a suspended cerulean wave of glass about to crash on the shores of Hamburg’s HafenCity. Once Lagerfeld bestowed his blessing on Elbphilharmonie with a 15th anniversary showing of Chanel’s Métiers d’Art collection, it was clear to many that Hamburg had become the new cultural capital of Germany.

Straddled between the North Sea and the Baltic, Hamburg and its metropolitan region (which currently numbers approximately 5 million people) traces its cross-cultural roots to its membership in the Hanseatic League, the medieval confederation of merchant guilds that dominated Northern European trade for more than 300 years. Despite of a history of cataclysmic catastrophes that include flooding, fires and World War II bombing

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that several times reduced the city to little more than ruins, Hamburg has risen like a phoenix, wealthier with each incarnation of its rebirth.

By the time the Beatles arrived in 1960 for a two-year stint along the city’s notorious Reeperbahn that refined their act (as well as shaped their moptop haircuts), Hamburg had become a bellwether for European nightlife and musical culture. For a glimpse of the wild flamboyance of the era, albeit with Savile Row finesse, the men’s haberdasher HERR VON EDEN exemplifies Hamburg’s ongoing sartorial savvy.

Founded in 1998 by designer Bent Angelo Jensen, the label remains a favorite of numerous music industry luminaries who personify the maxim that a man is rich when of sound mind and the owner of a good suit. To wander through the warren of rooms in the exquisite St. Pauli boutique is akin to sliding into a resplendent rabbit hole outfitted in paisley, polka dots, stripes, A Hamburg Tattoo velvets and tweed. on Elbe Beach As the seat of Germany’s oldest stock exchange and home to the republic’s most influential media, including Der Spiegel and Die Zeit, Hamburg has a history of catering to the well-heeled and well groomed. Dedicated to gentlemen, BARBER HOUSE serves its fashionable clientele in an elegant Old Town building where wet shaves and haircuts are rendered with meticulous care amidst a surfeit of marble and mahogany.

One of Europe’s most affluent cities (home to more than 40,000 millionaires), Hamburg remains in the throes of a massive renaissance, most noticeably in the ongoing development of HafenCity. An area once defined by Speicherstadt, a UNESCO World Heritage Site of neo-Gothic brick warehouses has become the largest urban redevelopment project in Europe: a 400-acre maritime city with architecture by Rem Koolhaas, Renzo Piano, and Zaha Hadid. The completion of Elbphilharmonie continues the reinvigoration of its docklands and the extension of the city center to the Elbe River.

Given the absence of an aristocracy during Hamburg’s history as a free imperial city and sovereign state before German reunification in 1871, the city is marked by lakefront mansions rather than palaces, many of which eventually became consulates and private homes, as well as showrooms to such designers as Lagerfeld, JOOP! and Jil Sander. In the early 19th century, the American-born shipping industrialist John Fontenay purchased a tract of land along Lake Alster, which is now home to THE FONTENAY, Hamburg’s first five-star hotel to open in more than 20 years.

Designed as a trio of interlocking circles along the lakefront, the 131-room Fontenay offers panoramic views of the city from its luxury rooms and suites, as well as a rooftop restaurant with a Michelin-starred chef, Germany’s first La Mer spa — and an indooroutdoor infinity pool. Nestled amidst one of Hamburg’s most verdant neighborhoods, The Fontenay complements Elbphilharmonie with an emphasis on innovative architecture emblematic of 21st-century Hamburg.

With more than 100 districts, Hamburg has a neighborhood for every fancy and fetish — though the two named for saints, ST. PAULI and ST. GEORG, are the centers of LGBTQ life and home to Hamburg Pride. A convivial neighborhood of coffeehouses, bars and design shops in 19th-century buildings, St. Georg runs parallel to the larger of the city’s two lakes, which makes for a pleasant moonlit walk back to REICHSHOF HOTEL HAMBURG with its Art Deco-era Bar 1910. Built that year, the century-old hotel still retains its Jazz Age charm with a classic speakeasy that features a club room and billiards table.

Martini in hand, it’s easy to understand why Lagerfeld returned home to a city that is building on a rich and glorious past to embrace a seemingly limitless future.

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of mood disorders, but there may be new help recognizing and treating bipolar.

In his new Book, Owning Bipolar Disorder (Citadel Press, $16.00), Michael Pipich, MS LMFT, deconstructs the stigma around bipolar disorder and rewrites the diagnosis into an understandable guide on how patients and families can effectively diagnose, treat and thrive with newfound confidence in their mental health.

Mental health patients have been documented to neglect or refuse seeking appropriate professional care for nearly 10 years, concerned about the stigma with which mental disorders are perceived in the public eye. However Pipich notes that several well-known and successful people with bipolar disorder have gone on to live successful and happy lives after addressing their mental health, and that up to five per cent of the U.S. population may be living with bipolar disorder already.

In Owning Bipolar Disorder, Pipich offers a three-step approach to treating bipolar that takes an intimate, non-traditional route: His plan for “Re-stabilization and Recognition” focuses on confronting the triggers and after-effects of bipolar in daily life — such as depression, loss of energy, or anxiety. “Stabilization and Action” works toward effective medication and self-acceptance of one’s own diagnosis.

And “The Final Step” takes a look at longterm recovery, taking control of one’s new sense of self-identity, and moving on into a successful and healthy lifestyle that is uniquely one’s own.

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Michael Pipich, MS, LMFT holds a Master’s of Science degree in Clinical/Community Psychology from California State University and a Bachelor’s of Science Degree Psychology from Loyola Marymount University. He has firsthand experience in the field as a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and has treated many patients with a variety of disorders from a diverse set of backgrounds.

Pipich’s book illustrates his deep understanding of the nature of bipolar disorder and focuses on getting his readers on the track to treatment and keeping them along paths of positive mental health and stabilization.

Visit his site, michaelpipich.com, to learn more about Pipich’s work, order a copy of his book, and to find out where you can hear him speak on the subject — and to connect with a network of people living with bipolar. If you or someone you care about is struggling with symptoms of bipolar disorder, you can also visit metrosource.com and click on our resources tab to find a great LGBTQ-friendly therapist or counselor in NYC today.

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New York based interior designer Charles Farruggio dishes about the most personal room in the house. BY DEBORAH L. MARTIN WHETHER YOUR BEDROOM IS LARGE AND SUPER-LUXE, OR SMALL AND

nest-like, the key to successful design is making sure it suits your personality. This is not a place to follow the hottest trends or passing design fads. According to New York interior designer Charles Farruggio, this is the room that should be most uniquely you. “When I’m working with a client, I want to make sure I understand their personality and what’s important to them. The bedroom is where you recharge — no matter what your design taste is. The room should be comforting and welcoming, and it should feel like home.”

When it comes to picking a palette, Farruggio looks at the space and is guided by such elements as natural light and size. “If a room is naturally dark, some people will recommend using light colors to try to brighten it. But I disagree with that. You don’t want to fight with the environment. In a darker space, I will often suggest a deep, moody palette. With dark walls and mood lighting, you can create a cocoon-like atmosphere that feels very cozy.” Although dark walls can seem like a leap of design faith, good designers know that they can add drama and depth, which can work really well in a bedroom.

Deep purple, indigo, or even black can lend a room a jewelbox atmosphere, especially at night with the proper lighting. Think rich, highly-pigmented and deep jewel tones in reflective finishes. On the other hand, says Farruggio, in a room that gets abundant natural light? Neutral, light or bright colors accentuate and embrace the light. “I had a client who wanted her bedroom to have an invigorating mood and the colors we chose were bright and cheerful for a room that was filled with light.”

Besides color, there are other important decisions to make: Are you a morning person who loves to have sunlight pouring in? Or do you prefer total darkness when it’s time for some shut-eye? Window treatments are key to living comfortably in a room.“I personally love to be able to look out and see the world. In the evening I love watching the lights come on, in the morning I want to throw open OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2018

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the shades and see the sun. But I know that not everyone lives that way, and it also depends on your view.” Such factors as privacy, light, and sleeping habits are integral to making the right decisions about window treatments.

Furnishings and bedding also help define your space. For Farruggio, the mix of modern and classic lends a sense of timelessness and a layered look that feels more real. But he also knows that, especially when a couple is involved, it can be a challenge to agree on every option. “I worked with a couple who were complete opposites when it came to design,”he says.“She was more traditional and wanted a deeply layered, more sensual style. And he was a modernist. We reached a compromise with a modern framed poster bed, layered with linens in varying textures, culminating in a beautiful fur throw on top.” (That room is pictured, above center.) The designer points out that “the room still feels modern and because of the mix of styles, it also feels very real.”Mixing styles can be tricky, so it’s wise to lean to a “less is more” philosophy, but it’s also liberating to know that even if you have a more traditional room, there’s no reason that a super-modern chair or bedside table can’t work in the mix.

Most designers and wellness experts advise that creating a hideaway where the outside world doesn’t intrude is the best path to better sleep and a more restful environment. In the bedding department, Farruggio reminds clients to try out a mattress before buying and — when it comes to bed linens — to decide whether you want cool, crisp cotton sheets, something more silky, or even more natural (but high maintenance) materials like linen. “Making the bed in the morning is something that is important to me. I like coming home to a fresh, well-made bed. It feels more restful. Just remember that if you have a lot of layered bed linens, that will take more time.”

Ultimately,” he concludes, “remember that your bedroom is your sanctuary: design it to be a place where you are able to leave the day behind, connect with your partner, relax, unwind and recharge.” ■

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one last trip around the globe. The Farewell Yellow Brick Road tour marks the end of an era, as eight-time Grammy Award winner Sir Elton John performs for arena audiences one last time. We suppose he deserves a nice long break after glittering in the spotlight for half a century, but we’re still a little emotional about it. Don’t miss your chance to see the legend himself perform five decades of hits at Madison Square Garden for two nights this October, with help from a few special guests. msg.com

THE ART OF AUTUMN This fall, stages will be stacked with Elton, Bruno and more — while Warhol works the Whitney. BY MEGAN VENZIN WATERMARK PRESENTS: OKTOBERFEST NEW YORK October 4th - 7th 78 South St., Manhattan The South Street Seaport undergoes a colorful transformation the first weekend of October when Watermark brings their annual Oktoberfest celebration back to Pier 15. From noon to midnight, guests are invited to knock back steins of imported brews, chow down on authentic European eats, and listen to traditional German music at New York’s largest and most inclusive indoor and outdoor beerfest. There’ll be games and entertainment for the kids too. oktober-fest.nyc

FRINGENYC AND FRINGEBYOV October 12th - 28th Various Venues Approximately 200 local, national and international performance groups invade New York City this October when FringeNYC productions return to venues in and around the West Village for a 21st season. Formerly known as The New York International Fringe Festival, the new dual segment approach allows artists to participate via a juried selection

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October 4th & 5th Barclays Center In support of his third studio album, 24K Magic, Bruno Mars approaches the finale of his wildly successful tour of the same name, but not before stopping off for two groovy nights at Brooklyn’s Barclays Center. One peek at his dance moves, and you’ll understand why this particular heir to the King of Pop is as good as gold. ticketmaster.com

process or by bringing their own venue. Bring Your Own Venue (BYOV) participants will appear citywide. This creative formatting means you’ll have more chances than ever to catch thought-provoking performances by artists from around the globe. fringenyc.org

NSFW: FEMALE GAZE Through October 14th Museum of Sex Femininity is the focus of NSFW: Female Gaze, an enticing collection of works from 25 emerging artists from various disciplines who have something in common: womanhood.

Co-curated by the Museum of Sex and VICE Media’s Creators, Female Gaze is a riveting tale of sexuality told through various media including (but not limited to) Instagram posts, textiles, sculptures, GIFs and more. Wrapping up more than a year on display, this is the last chance to see this deliciously NSFW exhibit in Manhattan. museumofsex.com

ELTON JOHN: FAREWELL YELLOW BRICK ROAD October 18th & 19th Madison Square Garden The Rocketman is signing off, but not before

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THE PROM Previews begin October 21st Longacre Theatre Emma wants to take her girlfriend to prom, but the closed-minded parents in her hometown have other plans. When news of the dance’s cancellation lands in the hands of four struggling actors, they hit the road, taking a much-needed opportunity to shine a light — both on the issue and themselves.

Beth Leavel, Brooks Ashmanskas and Christopher Sieber star in the Broadway premiere that Variety calls “musical comedy heaven.” theprommusical.com

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BANGON!NYC PRESENTS WAREHOUSE OF HORRORS October 26th & 27th 485 Johnson Ave., Williamsburg The phenomenal independent party squad is celebrating 10 years of Halloween-inspired mayhem with a multi-sensory adventure. Last year, UK dance legend Fatboy Slim led the charge at this spooky warehouse rave where we marveled at multiple stages, Burning Man-style art cars, a silent disco, haunted manor and interactive art installations. This year’s event spans two naughty nights in east Williamsburg, with a star-studded roster that will make you scream: Walker & Royce, The Aston Shuffle, J. Phlip and OMNOM are a few good reasons get in costume and go. So bring your best friend, your lover and your great aunt’s ghost, because Warehouse of Horrors is as grotesquely aweomse as they come. bangon-nyc.com

CHRISTINE AND THE QUEENS October 31st & November 1st Brooklyn Steel One man’s drag show is another woman’s salvation. Such is the story of Christine and the Queens, the moniker of

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French singer and songwriter Heloise Lettissier. After enduring a crushing heartbreak she found herself on an unexpected journey of self-exploration, which all started with an impromptu visit to Madama JoJo’s, nd underground bar in London’s SoHo district. Here she met three queens that set her up on her own date with destiny. Today the “Tilted” singer has wowed the world with her infectious synth pop grooves (not to mention some pretty incredible dance moves). Catch the multi-talented goddess in action when she hits lights up the industrial interiors of Williamsburg’s Brooklyn Steel. bowerypresents.com

RUBBISH AND DREAMS: THE GENDERQUEER PERFORMANCE ART OF STEPHEN VARBLE On View Through January 27th, 2019 Leslie Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art Draped in robes of trash, rotting food and stolen items, it was Stephen Varble’s mission to start disruptive scenes in galleries, financial institutions and other places of business. Though his work led him to become an iconic figure in the 1970s, his anti-institutional stance had some dramatic

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ANDY WARHOL: FROM A TO B AND BACK AGAIN Opens November 12th Whitney Museum of American Art Perhaps an assassination attempt would lead some artists to take a break or go into hiding, but not Andy Warhol. After one of his film subjects staged a failed attack on him in 1968, his work took a turn for the experimental. Fans of the iconic pop artist will have a chance to explore his many phases in this jaw-dropping retrospective — the first of its kind in the U.S. since 1989 following the artist’s tragic, post-surgery death. Andy Warhol: From A to B and Back Again features more than 350 of his works, making it his largest monographic exhibit to date. whitney.org

MEAN GIRLS: THE MUSICAL Now Playing August Wilson Theatre October 3 is “Mean Girls” day (so named because that’s the day Cady’s crush asked her what day it was. The day became an unofficial holiday for fans of the the film, and now the show is celebrating with a special performance. But it’s never a bad time to check in with the Plastics as reimagined for the stage by original screenwriter Tina Fey and music and lyrics by Jeff Richmond and Nell Benjamin. Invite your cool mom, because this production is totally fetch, and don’t forget: on Wednesdays, we wear pink. meangirlsonbroadway.com ■

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immersive adventure across the ocean — from the island-dotted expanse of the South Pacific to our own U.S. shores off the coast of California. However, instead of taking animals out of their homes (as is the case in most zoo environments), Encounter’s groundbreaking technology transports visitors to the natural habitats of the marine life, using stunning photorealistic animation that offers access to rarely witnessed moments in nature.

This is possible due to a state-of-the-art venue which boasts 60,000 square feet of video maps, screens of stunning size, and authentic ocean sounds that will fully immerse you in a simulated ocean with each step. Possibly the coolest aspect of this experience is the live audience tracking that will give visitors the ability to virtually interact with creatures of the deep. These include sea lions, dolphins, humpback whales, great white sharks and more. Journey with friends and family on this walk-

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So, whether you are LGBTQ parents or proud gay uncles and aunts hoping to wow the kids, or you’re looking for some weekend fun beyond brunch, consider a dip into Ocean Odyssey; you don’t even have to get your hair wet! Find National Geographic Encounter’s Times Square location at 226 W. 44th St. (btw. Seventh & Eighth Aves.). Call 646-308-1337, or visit natgeoencounter.com for more.

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A HIGHER STANDARD OF CASUAL Meet the brand founded by a pair of brothers who believe fashion can be casual, durable and environmentally sustainable. BY MEGAN VENZIN

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surfing, relaxing and building lifelong friendships on the Jersey shore. These defining moments eventually inspired the tousled-haired “dudes” to launch Faherty Brand, a sustainable, family-owned clothing company with locations in SoHo and Greenwich Village (in addition to Boston, Malibu, Nantucket, Newport Beach and a brand new location that opened in midMay in The Hamptons’ Sag Harbor).

“Alex and Mike always loved the casual nature of the beach, but as they got older they began to appreciate the intricacies of fashion as well,” says Faherty Brand President (and wife to Alex), Kerry Faherty. After high school, Alex went to business school, while Mike deepened his knowledge of design at University of Washington at St. Louis, before spending several years with menswear visionary Ralph Lauren. Five years ago, they decided to realize their lifelong dream of creating their own beach-inspired clothing line — and they haven’t looked back.

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RED HOT CURÇAO Honeymoon in an island paradise, dress for your big day and get the latest marriage equality news. BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES

CURAÇAO, AN ISLAND NATION NORTH OF VENEZuela, is known for its blazing azure waters, pristine beaches and stunning resorts. Its capital Willemstad is bustling, and be sure to take pictures on its Queen Emma Pontoon Bridge (pictured); it's a site to see and vibrantly lit at night.

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and Snorkeling Tour where they take you to explore a sunken tugboat. Hato Caves are a great place to explore beautiful limestone formations or go on an Indian Trail Walk to spot ancient Caiquetio carvings. The Curaçao Ostrich Farm is one of the largest ostrich farms outside Africa with more than 600 birds. Nearby Curaloe Plantation is a perfect spot to pick up some lotions and gels to protect you from the sun.

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& Spa features 82 rooms gathered from a collection of unique meticulously restored 18th-and-19th century Dutch Colonial Caribbean buildings. Explore the cobblestone pathways of the eight block village (a UNESCO World Heritage Site). Kura Hulanda Lodge & Beach Club, GHL Hotel Curaçao, located just off an enormous natural reef, offers an impressive white coral beach, an on-site dive shop and daily trips to Curaçao’s famous dive sites. Or simply book a poolside massage in the Spa Pavilion to enjoy the breeze. Feeling adventurous? Go on a hunt for “Indian Cave,” a hidden cavern offering a unique look that traces the Arawak-Taino left behind.

Santa Barbara Beach and Golf Resort Curaçao has created a Royal Retreat package in the suite where the Dutch royal family has vacationed. The 1,400 square-foot accommodations include a two-story great room, living room and multiple balconies.

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bly and snacks, welcome champagne, a six course, in-suite dinner and full-day private boat charter to nearby Klein Curaça, including cocktail service and a picnic lunch. The resort is in a 2,000-acre gated plantation with a beach, three pools, a golf course, bike trails, two marinas, a spa, a dive and water sports center, tennis center, iguana feeding, yoga, pilates and a botanical walk.

The Floris Suite Hotel is a gay-friendly 72-suite property offering an adults-only experience. Book the Ocean Front Premium Suite with high-end Italian furniture, sweeping views of the Caribbean sea and a private beach. Make friends at Moomba Beach Club on the most gay-friendly beach on the island or relax quietly at the Water Club Spa, which is free for hotel guests (other visitors can purchase a day pass). After 6pm the spa is open to men only.

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BUDGET Renting can be kind if you plan to match with your wedding party and usually makes sure everything down to the cumberbund is coordinated. Plus, if you don't have much call to wear a tuxedo, why not spend $150$300 to rent and use the extra coin to enhance your honeymoon? However, if you do have galas, openings and formal events on the horizon, it makes sense to buy something you can wear again. Indochino is a great place to start searching; their wedding section features fashion-forward menswear and the accessories to tie it all together.

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TUX-O-RAMA Slender gents can get away with a double breasted look, while the more traditional single-breasted look may be better for the bears. Huskier gents should also consider a shawl lapel as it can really make you shine.

Peaked lapels are most popular, while wing collars are more formal. Richard Ardito of Biltmore Tuxedos in Ridgewood, NJ recommends grooms “personalize your look with a special pair of cuff links or bright socks" or consider "a dinner jacket in a bright color or pattern.”

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tries to approve marriage equality. Homero Acosta, Cuban Secretary of the Council of State, told lawmakers it would "strengthen our project’s principles of equality and justice.”

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Your tie is an perfect opportunity to show your wedding colors, bring out your eyes, coordinate with your betrothed and express yourself.

Looking for a little personality? Check out The Bow Tie Club, Mo’s Bows or Knotty Tie Co. Two Guys Bowties is a distinctive brand with options made from rare and exotic pieces of hardwood like African Zebrawood, Peruvian Walnut, South American Bocote, Canary and more. Modern Family’s Jesse Tyler Ferguson founded an organization called Tie the Knot in 2012 as a fun way to engage every American in

COSTA RICA Their supreme court recently lifted the ban on same-sex marriage, and the Costa Rican Supreme Court struck down the provision that prohibited marriage “between persons of the same sex,” giving the National Assembly 18 months to adopt legislation that recognizes same-sex marriages. .

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Shelly Fitzgerald, a gay guidance counselor, was recently suspended from working as a guidance counselor at Roncalli High School in Indianapolis, Indiana for marrying her partner, who is also a woman.

NORTHERN IRELAND Labour MP Conor McGinn has recently opened the door for an amendment that would pave the way for civil partnerships and marriages, publicly stating it was time that the government implement same-sex marriages.

SAN FRANCISCO Shalita Grant, formerly of NCIS: New Orleans, married her girlfriend Sabrina Skau in a ceremony in San Francisco on August 8. The 29-year-old actress celebrated with a tweet that read captioned, “Love is what matters.” ■

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If your wedding has a non-traditional vibe, dress accordingly. For a beach wedding, consider going khaki, brown or even blue. Ardito suggests, “If you’ll be saying ‘I do’ at a converted old barn or vineyard upstate, opt for a charcoal grey or blue suit.” But, he warns,“Just because Ryan Gosling is in a similar outfit in a picture doesn’t mean it’s going to look right on you.”

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CHELSEA BARRACUDA Cool music and cute crowds enjoy the bar up front and wild drag shows and talent competitions hosted on the tiny stage in the rear.

275 W. 22nd St. at Eighth Ave., NYC 212-645-8613

BOXERS CHELSEA Big gay sports bar with flat-screens broadcasting games, pool tables and a smoking patio. A pizza oven dispenses mouth-watering pies, while hot bartenders take care of your thirst. 37 W. 20th St. between Fifth and Sixth Aves., NYC 212-624-5942

THE EAGLE This dark and cruisy leather-and-Levi’s clubs boasts a great rooftop deck. Events include Jockstrap Night and Frisky Saturdays. 554 W. 28th St. between Tenth and Eleventh Aves., NYC 646-473-1866

GYM At this popular after work sports bar, there’s a team of plasmascreen TVs showing games, a pool table and a basement dugout.

167 Eighth Ave. between 18th and 19th Sts., NYC 212-337-2439

REBAR Sexy Chelsea hangout (where G Lounge used to be) with industrial décor, a hot staff, and draws all kinds of men (especially local muscle bears) without distractions like sports or porn 225 W. 19th St. between Seventh and Eighth Aves., NYC 212-929-1085

EAST VILLAGE/LOWER EAST SIDE THE BOILER ROOM

FAIRYTAIL LOUNGE

THE DUPLEX

Glittery centaurs and other enchanted-forest motifs distinguish this cozy, way-west lounge. Theme parties, specialty cocktails and guest DJs add interest. 500 W. 48th St. between Tenth and Eleventh Aves., NYC 646-648-3897

Downstairs (at the city’s oldest continuing cabaret/piano bar) the staff performs in between bouts of serving. Upstairs is a more traditional boy bar and an intimate room that books cabaret acts.

61 Christopher St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-255-5438

FLAMING SADDLES

THE HANGAR

When they’re not mixing up vodka sodas in glass steins, bartenders jump up on the bar to do choreographed boot-scootin’ to Achy Breaky-type tunes at this one-of-a-kind Hell’s Kitchen tavern. 793 Ninth Ave. at 53rd St., NYC 212-713-0481

Neighborhood bar for guy’s guys that attracts a diverse crowd grooving to classic gay tunes. 115 Christopher St. between Bleecker and Hudson Sts., NYC 212-627-2044

HARDWARE

Jam-packed lesbian club/lounge with a multi-culti crowd that’s gayboy friendly. 438 Hudson St. at Morton St., NYC 212-924-3347

Cheap drinks are poured at the front bar and fun tunes are spun for the rear dance floor at this easy-breezy neighborhood haunt.

Look out for live performers like Monet X Change, Miz Cracker & Showbiz Spitfire Paige Turner. Opens at noon daily. 697 Tenth Ave between 47th and 48th Sts., NYC 212-924-9885

INDUSTRY

The owners of Barracuda and Elmo opened this capacious space with couch-filled nooks, a game room with pool table, and industrial design. Sherry Vine, Tina Burner, and Kizha Carr shake things up weekly. 355 W. 52nd St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves., NYC 646-476-2747

9TH AVENUE SALOON

This decades-old neighborhood fixture attracts tourists, locals and Broadway professionals from both sides of the footlights with strong drinks, cheap prices and friendly staff. 656 Ninth Ave. at 46th St., NYC 212-307-1503

A throwback to when the East Village was for the punky and funky, this dark, comfy, no-frills lounge is popular with the college set, attitude-free, and rocks with an eclectic mix of music and scruffy pool players. 86 E. 4th St. at Second Ave., NYC 212-254-7536

A mixed bag of locals sip along to pop and dance tunes. Daily Happy Hour specials include $3 for all draft or bottled beers. 405 W. 51st St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-957-2222

OSCAR WILDE

THE RITZ

Acclaimed mixologist Johnny Swet sets the scene at this cocktail lounge, ironically situated at the former headquarters of NYC’s Bureau of Prohibition. This gastropub tribute to Ireland’s great writer has a piano the1890s, antique clocks, and intriguing bronze statues. 45 W. 27th St. at Sixth Avenue., NYC 212-213-3066

EAST VILLAGE CLUB CUMMING

POSH

This upscale boy boîte boasts places to perch on multiple levels inside and outside, though the kickin’ sound system makes it hard to settle down. 369 W. 46th St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-333-2554

THERAPY

The beautifully-designed duplex draws a fierce crowd. Weekly shows spotlight Sherry Vine and Showbiz Spitfire Paige Turner. 348 W. 52nd St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves., NYC 212-397-1700

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HENRIETTA HUDSON JULIUS’ The Village’s oldest continuously operating bar went gay in the 1950s and became the city’s oldest gay bar; today, it’s still a great place for cheap drinks, burgers and fries. 159 W. 10th St. at Waverly Pl., NYC 212-243-1928

MARIE’S CRISIS Old-school sing-alongs are on tap at this long-running piano bar.

Stop in at this late-night theater queen hot spot and “sing out, Louise!” 59 Grove St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-243-9323

MONSTER A Sheridan Square stalwart where mature men and their admirers sing along to their favorite show tunes upstairs while a heavily Latino crowd jams to the dance tracks downstairs. 80 Grove St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-924-3558

PIECES Shimmy to retro dance tracks or laugh at the antics of drag queens at this longtime West Villager. Ms. Vodka Stinger’s B-Movie Mondays are always worth a stop. Show starts at 8:30 sharp. 8 Christopher St. at Sixth Ave., NYC 212-929-9291

ROCKBAR For boys in the mood for fur, there’s this butched-up bar with a fist-pumping soundtrack and cheap drinks.185 Christopher St. at Weehawken St., NYC 212-675-1864

STONEWALL Daddies, faux thugs, and girls-who-like-girls rule the roost at this two-story birthplace of gay pride. Theme nights include drag-hosted game shows, karaoke and beer blasts. 53 Christopher St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-488-2705

Wilkommen, Bienvenue, New York! Alan Cumming teamed with Benjamin Maisani, Darren Dryden and Daniel Nardicio for this sassy venture that calls to mind a Weimar era cafe where anything goes.

505 E. 6th St. between Aves. A and B, NYC 212-777-2555

The fun, two bar, two story HK hangout is luring all of the cutest boys out from every nook and cranny of NYC. Pop in to see what all the fuss is about. 315 W 46th St., NYC 212-969-0460

THE COCK

EAST SIDE

Ye Olde Boy Bar serving a furry, friendly clientele, where NYPD and Firemen especially welcome. 114 Christopher St. between Bleecker and Hudson Sts., NYC 212-741-9641

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OUTER BOROUGHS & BEYOND

This longtime late-night go-to for go-go boys and debauched shenanigans draws an elite yet shameless crowd of nightlife glitterati.

29 Second Ave. between First and Second Sts., NYC

NOWHERE Ultra-mellow East Villager with distressed rustic décor, a pool table and a small back room. 322 E. 14th St. between First and Second Aves., NYC 212-477-4744

PHOENIX Video games, a pool table, a jukebox and a diverse crowd gather in an exposed-brick space as uncomplicated as its vibe. Happy Hour runs from 4-8 and Saturday night’s RAMPAGE party calls all kinds of cute boys. 447 E. 13th St. at Ave. A., NYC 212-477-9979

HELL’S KITCHEN/MIDTOWN WEST ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB Josh Wood, Benjamin Maisani, Pablo Raimondi, and Asi Mazar hit a home run with this HK hotspot, where Andy Cohen, Anderson Cooper, and Cher have made cameos. 753 9th Ave. between 50th and 51st Sts., NYC 212-262-8527

BARRAGE This HK lounge entices with au courant accouterments and outrageous drinks. A nightly happy hour from 11pm to midnight is ideal for a discount. 401 W. 47th St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-586-9390

BOXERS HK The HK clone of the Chelsea gay sports bar stalwart features a large ground floor, a basement game room dubbed The Dog Pound, and a spacious rooftop patio. Days and nights are equally as busy with crowds flocking to the increasingly popular Boozy Brunch. 742 Ninth Ave. at 50th St., NYC 212-951-1518

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Why head downtown if you’re an uptown boy? Hit the new Boxers NYC Upper East Side for Happy Hour and stay for fun events like Justin Zirilli’s Sucker Punch stand up or Karaoke Wednesdays.1664 3rd Ave., between 93rd and 94th Sts., NYC 646-869-1420

THE TOWNHOUSE

Two levels of mature gents and their younger fans humming along to dance tracks and songs from the Jerry Herman oeuvre. 236 E. 58th St. between Second and Third Aves., NYC 212-754-4649

UNCLE CHARLIE’S

This effervescent lounge boasts live piano entertainment. 139 E. 45th St. between Third and Lexington Aves., NYC 212-661-9097

TY’S

ALBATROSS Homey Astoria bar with a pool table and jukebox. 36-19 24th Ave. at 38th St., Astoria, NYC 718-204-9045

EXCELSIOR Park Slope spot with a jukebox, garden and outrageous drinks. 563 Fifth Ave. at 16th St., Park Slope, Brooklyn 718-832-1599

FRIEND’S TAVERN The Latino crowd loves theme nights and drink specials. 78-11 Roosevelt Ave. at 78th St., Jackson Heights, Queens 718-397-7256

ICON ASTORIA Beefcake dancers and nightlife legends flock to this unassuming watering hole for great beats, impressive drag performances, and friendly faces. 31-84 33rd Street., Astoria, NY 347-808-7592

UPPER WEST SIDE SUITE

This adorable lounge attracts Columbia gays with leopard-print lamps, leather banquettes and uptown drag stars. 992 Amsterdam Ave. between 109th and 110th Sts., NYC 212-222-4600

GINGER’S

WEST END LOUNGE

METROPOLITAN

Columbia boys, drag queens, and neighborhood cubs, converge at this Morningside watering hole for Topless Tuesdays, karaoke, drag queens and 2-for-1 Happy Hour specials. 955 West End Avenue between 107th and Duke Ellington Blvd., NYC 212-531-4759

WEST VILLAGE CUBBYHOLE

Popular with lesbians, this dark bar has a jukebox and outdoor garden. 363 Fifth Ave., Park Slope, Brooklyn 718-788-0924 This B-burg bar is comfy and cozy with a fireplace, jukebox and a sprawling warm-weather patio. 559 Lorimer St. at Metropolitan Ave., Williamsburg, Brooklyn NYC 718-599-4444

MUSIC BOX Fun neighborhood bar for those in Jackson Heights looking for a little fun. 40-08 74th St. at Roosevelt Ave. 718-457-5306

Called home by the local lesbian crowd (and a few boys), this small West Village bar features a capricious décor that’s heavy on the fish. 281 W. 12th St. at Fourth St., NYC 212-243-9041

THE ROSEMONT NYC Sexy Williamsburg cocktail bar with a great happy hour and fun entertainment. 63 Montrose Ave., Brooklyn, NYC 347-987-3101

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MIDTOWN/TIMES SQUARE

THE BRESLIN

BOQUERIA

21 CLUB

The Spotted Pig folks are behind this vintage-rustic restaurant in NoChel’s Ace Hotel. British-inspired fare is egg-centric at breakfast and meat-and-terrine heavy for lunch and dinner. 16 W. 29th St. between Broadway & Fifth Ave., NYC 212-679-1939

This Spanish destination evokes the casualness of a Barcelona cerveceria, offering tapas that are, while authentic, completely adventurous. 53 W. 19th St. at Sixth Ave., NYC 212-255-4160.

CAFETERIA

It won the James Beard for Best New Restaurant when it opened and chef Tom Colicchio was awarded another James Beard for Best Chef in 2010. Splurge on the seven-course tasting extravaganza. 43 E. 19th St. between Park and Broadway NYC., 212-780-0880.

Popular 24-hour dining scene offers great American fare to trendy gay clientele.119 Seventh Ave. at 17th St., NYC 212-414-1717

ELMO

CRAFT NEW YORK

EATALY

This mod restaurant, featuring comfort food with a spicy edge is a great spot for burgers, hearty salads, down to Earth comfort food, or after work cocktails.156 Seventh Ave. between 19th and 20th Sts., NYC 212-337-8000

Five eateries (pizza and pasta, cheese and wine, fish, vegetables, meat) make this massive Italian Flatiron food hall a dining destination. 200 Fifth Ave. at 23rd St., NYC 212-229-2180

THE PARK

GRAMERCY TAVERN

This infamous speakeasy from the Prohibition Era, designed with a disappearing bar and secret wine cellar, is chock full of epic stories about Ernest Hemingway and Zelda Fitzgerald. 21 West 52nd St. between 5th Ave. and 6th Ave., NYC 212-582-7200

LAMB’S CLUB

This gorgeous Theater District destination serves casual yet upscale contemporary American fare in a retro-swank supper-club environment with long red-leather banquettes, chrome torchères, head shots of movie stars and a huge 18th-century fireplace. 132 W. 44th St. between Sixth Ave. and Broadway, NYC 212-997-5262

ORTZI NYC

Serving American and Mediterranean cuisine in a sprawling ski chalet space. After dinner, the entire venue becomes a party. 118 Tenth Ave. between 17th and 18th Sts., NYC 212-352-3313

At Danny Meyer’s American emporium, enjoyed a meal in the formal dining room or the easier-on-the-wallet Tavern Room. 42 E. 20th St. between Broadway and Park Ave. South, NYC., 212-477-0777

Nestled in the swank new LUMA Hotel, Iron Chef Jose Garces brings a scrumptious journey through Basque Country cuisine. Perfect for an after work Charcuteria or a pre-theater bite. For the ultimate experience plan for the four-course traditional Basque Tapas Experience with Chef Jose Garces’ Tasting Menu. 120 W. 41st St. between Sixth Ave. and 7th Ave., NYC 212-730-8900

SALINAS

HELL’S KITCHEN

SOHO/TRIBECA

Tapas go upscale at this Spanish restaurant featuring blue velvet chairs, limestone walls and art glass galore. Its garden is good for all seasons, thanks to a retractable glass roof and fireplace. 136 Ninth Ave. between 18th and 19th Sts., NYC 212-776-1990

TENTH AVENUE COOKSHOP Chef Marc Meyer keeps his American cuisine real: hormone-free animals, humanely raised in local farms, used in simple but flavorful meals. 156 Tenth Ave. at 20th St., NYC 212-924-4440

44 & X A bit of South Beach on Tenth Avenue, this sleek haven of upscale comfort food has karge, plentiful windows for people watching.

622 Tenth Ave. at 44th St., NYC 212-977-1170

AÑEJO

EAST VILLAGE/LOWER EAST SIDE

Upscale, creative, beautifully prepared Mexican small plates are served in a rustic setting at this hotspot with a hopping bar scene featuring refined margaritas, and tequila and mezcal flights. 668 Tenth Ave. at 47th St., NYC 212-920-4770

BEAUTY & ESSEX

HELL’S KITCHEN

This lounge/eatery’s entry is set up like a pawn shop but leads to two sprawling levels, multiple dining rooms, two bars and mid-century trappings. Its shareable small plates tempt with eclectic tastes. 146 Essex St. between Rivington and Stanton Sts., NYC 212-614-0146

Just when you thought NYC didn’t need another Mexican restaurant Hell’s Kitchen brought a taste of the south over the border of Ninth Avenue. Grab a booth for the best eye candy in the gayborhood.

754 9th Ave. between 50th and 51st Sts., NYC 212-977-1588

METROGRAPH COMMISSARY

IPPUDO

Inspired by the great studio eateries from Hollywood’s golden age, this commissary includes two bars and a private dining room with snacks like burrata, panzanella, Sardine Nicoise, and Chicken Paillard.

7 Ludlow Street between Hester and Canal St., NYC 212-660-0312

Decadent Japanese bites, small plates, craveable ramen and stimulating cocktails nestled on 51st Street just between the theatre district and the gayborhood. 321 W. 51st St., NYC 212-974-2500

SAXON + PAROLE

Guests sip pisco cocktails and sangria while grazing over family-style Peruvian dishes, Chinese-Peruvian stir fries, steak, and fish below an elaborate ceiling made from thousands of iwoven tree branches. 604 Tenth Ave. between 43rd and 44th Sts., NYC 212-459-2929

Amid stable-chic decor,Chef Brad Farmerie turns out upscale, eclectic spins on meat and seafood. There’s also a secret bar, dubbed Madam Geneva, accessible only to diners and only through the restaurant.

316 Bowery at Bleecker St., NYC 212-254-0350

THE STANTON SOCIAL Celebrity Chef Chris Santos, restaurateur Richard Wolf, and Peter Kane of Happy Endings create an homage to the LES garment industry past. The menu includes a full raw bar and faves like Lobster Roll Sliders, French Onion Soup Dumplings, and the Stanton Social Beef Wellington. 99 Stanton St. at Ludlow., NYC 212-995-0099

PIO PIO

VICEVERSA ViceVersa puts a sublime spin on run-of-the-mill Italian. The atmosphere has elegant accents and a nice garden. 325 W. 51st St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves., NYC 212-399-9291

WEST BANK CAFE This elegant neighborhood fixture attracts theatergoers, Broadway and off-Broadway performers, and former and upcoming Drag Race contestants to load up on the latest gossip and American eats. 407 W. 42nd St. between Ninth and Tenth Aves., NYC 212-695-6909

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Step back in time with this sexy 10th Avenue speakeasy for a stiff Hipster Reviver, hearty Eagle’s Dream, or a nip of Dorothy Parker’s Gin. 132 9th Ave., between 18th & 19th Sts, NYC 646-559-1671

DOS CAMINOS

This intimate hipster offers fine Mexican cuisine in a stylish setting, with a warm-weather dining garden. Highlights include guacamole made tableside and 150 types of tequila. 475 W. Broadway at Houston St., NYC 212-277-4300. Also, check out the other branches in the Meatpacking District, Midtown East and Murray Hill.

THE DUTCH

Though it looks like a neighborhood joint, this multi-room eatery is actually SoHo’s sizzling boîte du jour, with a crowd that’s half Downtown scene-makers, half-foodies and all hot. Opt for Andrew Carmellini’s comfort-skewing menu, featuring imaginative renditions of American Southern staples, international leanings and raw fare at an oyster bar. 131 Sullivan St. at Prince St., NYC 212-677-6200

UPPER WEST SIDE CAFE LUXEMBOURG

Ladies who lunch, incognito celebrities, and high rolling executives mix and mingle at this classic French-American Bistro on the Upper West Side. Regulars nuzzle up to the full service bar while locals gossip over power lunches at this unpretentious neighborhood gem.

200 W. 70th St. at Amsterdam Ave., NYC 212-873-7411

MAREA

Chef Michael White, famous for homemade pasta and fresh seafood, has been awarded two Michelin stars, the 2010 James Beard Award, and an impressive list of other accolades. Marea means “tide” in Italian, and this juxtaposition of high-end Italian cuisine, over 750 wine options, and outstanding service makes for an exciting and fresh interpretation of “coastal cuisine”. 240 Central Park South Between Broadway and Seventh Ave., NYC 212-582-5100

TESSA

Chef Nicholas McCann blends French, Italian and Spanish fare in this neighborhood-approved hotspot. Perfect for a date, birthday dinner, or drinks and light bites at the bar, you can’t go wrong with this fun find on the Upper West Side. Wine Lovers should pay special attention to the reserve list with over fifty labels. 349 Amsterdam Ave. between 76th & 77th Sts., NYC 212-390-1974

WEST VILLAGE COWGIRL

Enjoy a hearty, tasty selection of sandwiches/wraps, salads & power plates (with high quality proteins, low in fat & rich in complex carbs)

MORIMOTO Two floors of high-design touches (like a wall made of 17,000 Ty Nant water bottles and upholstered walls and ceilings) create a fitting setting for the haute Japanese cuisine of Masaharu Morimoto.

88 Tenth Ave. between 15th and 16th Sts., NYC 212-989-8883

This Texas-style West Village favorite is hopping every night of the week. Conceived after Sherry Delamarter visited the Cowgirl Hall of Fame Museum in Texas, the restaurant has been serving no frills fun for twenty-five years. Blood Orange and Prickly Pear frozen margaritas in mason jars go perfectly with Tex-Mex food. 519 Hudson St. at West 10th St., NYC 212-633-1133

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The hip cafe just beneath the southern tip of the High Line offers a long bar in the front, a dining room with red-leather booths, an open kitchen, and entertaining Meatpacking people-watching.

848 Washington St. between Little W. 12th and 13th Sts., NYC 212-645-4100

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Nestled in the middle of the historic Greenwich Village, this bold Mediterranean spot boasts gravy meatballs and pork chops that rival your grandmother’s secret recipe. No room at a table? Try to get a seat at the bar so you can take everything in. 90 Bedford St. at Grove, NYC 212-741-4695

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501 Fifth Ave #1900, NYC ..........212 983-8999 NYC............................................212 949-5085 www.jgoldmanlaw.com

Volker Schuetz, PsyD

A Psychotherapy Practice as Unique as You info@nycbloomtherapy.com www.nycbloomtherapy.com

1133 Broadway #913, NYC 10010 www.NYChangeManagement.com

Long & Associates

NYC ...........................................212 360-0394 LA ..............................................310 439-3110 www.landapllc.com (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Tesler, Richard, Esq.

41 W 72nd St, NYC ...................212 362-6961 (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

BARS (SEE BAR SOURCE PAGE 71)

CATERING Li-Lac Chocolates

West Village: 40 8th Ave, NYC Greenwich Village: 162 Bleecker St, NYC Grand Central: 43rd & Lexington, NYC Chelsea Market: 75 Ninth Ave, NYC Industry City: 68 35th St, Brooklyn NYC ...........................................212 924-2280 www.li-lacchocolates.com

Andrew Blatter, lcsw Psychotherapy

• Anxiety and Depression • Relationship and Social Difficulties • Body Image and Self-Esteem Issues • Career Transitions Convenient Flatiron Location andrewblatter.com 917-442-5213 ablatterlcsw@mac.com

Michael E. Koetting, LCSW www.koettingpsychotherapy.com

PSYCHOTHERAPY Gay Men • Gay Male Couples

Participating Provider: Aetna, Blue Cross/Blue Shield, Medicare, Oxford, UHC, EmblemHealth Other Insurances Also Accepted

212. 741. 2606

(SEE AD PAGE 70)

Paul Evans Catering

20 W 20th St, NYC ....................212 321-1822 NYC ...........................................212 243-4494 www.paulevanscatering.com (SEE AD PAGE 69)

CLOTHING Dave’s New York

581 Ave of the Americas NYC Toll Free ......................................800 543-8558 www.davesnewyork.com

Jackson Boutique

www.jacksonboutiquenyc.com TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

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COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY (CONTINUED) – DERMATOLOGY Davies, Ann Conant, M.S.W., L.C.S.W.

740 West End Ave, Ste 1 Cell .............................................917 923-2257

Dicker, Phyllis D., L.C.S.W., A.C.S.W., B.C.D.

NYC............................................718 855-5171

Kingan, Peter L., Ph.D.

99 University Pl, 4th Fl, NYC .......... 917 428-2431

Koetting, Michael E., L.C.S.W.

NYC ...........................................212 741-2606 www.koettingpsychotherapy.com

(SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

Factor, Rhonda J., PhD

85 5th Ave, Ste 912, NYC ...........347 834-6057 www.rhondafactorphd.com

Jarratt, Kent, L.C.S.W.

McFadden, Stephen, LCSW SEP

435 W 23rd St, NYC ...................212 627-8419 www.smcfadden.com

19 W 34th St, NYC ....... 212 947-7111, ext 119 Oceanport NJ ...............................................917 686-6179 www.kentjarratt.com

Nelson, Joshua, Ph.D.

Johnson, Thomas E., L.C.S.W.

Rayhill, Daniel, Ph.D.

Chelsea.......................................212 645-3952

71 W 23rd St, Ste 1115, NYC..... 646 512-0043 www.jnelsonphd.com

(SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

Ross, Steven, LSCW

Union Square ..............................917 406-7900 www.stevenrosstherapy.com

Schuetz, Volker, PsyD

1133 Broadway #913, NYC ......212 470-9024 www.nychangemanagement.com

(SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

Schwartz, Alan, M.D., Psychiatrist

West Village/Chelsea, NYC..........212 727-0923

Tallent, Marc, Ph.D.

51 Fifth Ave, NYC .......................212 645-5795 http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/33692

COUNSELING/SUBURBAN

276 Fifth Ave #1101, NYC ..........212 683-2454

Kingan, Peter L., Ph.D.

31 Oak St Patchogue, NY ............................631 447-6425

DATING SERVICES SEE ALSO INTRODUCTION SERVICES

ManMate

NYC .......................................... 212 564-4025 www.manmate.com (SEE AD THIS PAGE)

ManMate Dinners For 8

NYC .......................................... 212 564-4025 www.manmate.com (SEE AD THIS PAGE)

Wheaton, Grant

Dating Coach NYC............................................212 564-4025

DENTISTS Babushkin, Howard, D.D.S., L.L.C.

525 West End Ave #1G NYC ................................................212 874-2880 www.manhattanoasisdentistry.com

Cassidy, J.R., D.D.S.

West 10th Dental P.C. 45 W 10th St, NYC .....................212 982-5883 www.west10thdental.com

De Bonis, William B., D.D.S.

World Wide Plaza Dental Associates 370 W 50th St NYC ...........................................212 333-2650 www.wwpdental.com (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Lew, Spencer, D.D.S.

30 E 40th St #706 NYC............................................212 286-1717 www.nycdental.com

Your Skin Covered From Head to Toe Botox/Dysport Restylane, Juvederm, and Many Other Fillers Facial Volume Enhancement

PRP Hair Growth Hand Rejuvenation Acne/Rashes/Warts Skin Cancer Screening

$50 Off Cosmetic Treatments with Comment Code METRO When Booking Cosmetic Consultation Appointments Online.

Navin Arora, DO, FAAD Board-Certified Dermatologist

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DENTISTS (CONTINUED) – EMPLOYMENT LuxDen Dental Center

2579 E 17th St, Ste 11 Brooklyn ...................................718 382-3444 www.luxden.com (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Rosa, John D., D.D.S., P.C.

40 Newport Parkway, Ste P-1 Jersey City, NJ ...........................201 626-2700

(SEE AD THIS PAGE)

Sengos, Demetrios, D.D.S.

West 10th Dental P.C. C 45 W 10th St, NYC .....................212 982-5883 www.west10thdental.com

West 10th Dental P.C.

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Y 45 W 10th St, NYC .....................212 982-5883 www.west10thdental.com CM

DENTISTS/PERIODONTISTS Bizzell, Steven J., D.M.D., D.A.B.P.

MY

CY

50-02 5th St Ste B, Long Island City ..........................718 530-6539 CMY www.licdentalassociates.com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

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Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

DENTISTS/SUBURBAN Rosa, John D., D.D.S., P.C.

40 Newport Parkway, Ste P-1 Jersey City, NJ ...........................201 626-2700

(SEE AD THIS PAGE)

DERMATOLOGY SEE ALSO PHYSICIANS

Advanced Dermatology Associates

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ...........................................212 262-2500 NYC ...........................................212 246-0800 www.adv-derm.com

(SEE AD PHYSICIANS PAGE 81)

Arora, Navin, DO, FAAD

Arora Dermatology 115 Broadway, Ste 1800 NYC ...........................................212 244-1252 www.aroraderm.com

“Stressing prevention through education and quality dental treatment... ...while making it affordable for everyone in our community.”

(SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Goldman, Barry D., M.D.

150 Broadway #111, NYC ..........212 962-1115

Juva Skin & Laser Center

60 E 56th St #2 NYC........................................... 212 421-9501 www.juvaskin.com

JOHN D. ROSA D.D.S., P.C.

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

EMPLOYMENT Los Angeles Fire Department (LAFD)

1700 Stadium Way LA...............................................213 847-LAFD www.joinlafd.org

Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD)

700 E Temple St, B-38 LA...............................................866 444-LAPD www.joinlapd.com TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

GENERAL AND COSMETIC DENTISTRY Office conveniently located via PATH, 15 minutes from 14th Street station.

Office on ground floor of James Madison Building, directly across from Newport Mall.

40 Newport Parkway Jersey City, NJ 07310 201.626.2700 BY APPOINTMENT drrosadds@aol.com METROSOURCE.COM

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EVENT PLANNING & EVENT SPACE/RENTALS – PAIN MANAGEMENT

EVENT PLANNING & EVENT SPACE/RENTALS SEE ALSO CATERING, WEDDING SERVICES

Elite Private Yachts

NYC ........................................... 866 862-7245 www.eliteprivateyachts.com www.entertainmentcruises.com/new-york (SEE AD PAGE 68 & THIS PAGE)

The Riverside Church

Lefkovits, George, M.D., P.C.

Yachts for All Seasons

OMNI Aesthetic MD

490 Riverside Dr., NYC ................212 870-6762 www.trcnyc.com

NYC ...........................................212 534-6380 Cell ............................................917 864-7670 www.y4as.com (SEE AD PAGE 69)

FINANCIAL SERVICES

Hornblower

Cruises & Events NYC............................................ 646 832-2805 www.hornblowerny.com/metrosource)

Ameriprise Financial Services

Lance R. Kash, Financial Advisor, CFP® 122 E 42nd St #2215, NYC .......... 646 964-9400

Law Offices of Thomas Sciacca, PLLC

Houston Hall

222 W. Houston St, NYC ......... 212 582-2057

(SEE AD PAGE 69)

YO U R MO M EN T

Marlon J. Altoe 420 Lexington Ave, 15th Fl NYC........................................... 646 227-8605 Cell ............................................ 646 761-4372 www.newyorklife.com/agent/maltoe

Clay Health Club + Spa

25 W 14th St, NYC ....................212 206-9200 www.insideclay.com/metrosource

(SEE AD PAGE 65)

FRAMING 14th Street Framing Gallery

225 W 14th St, NYC ..................212 691-8156

(SEE AD PAGE 70)

GIFTS Li-Lac Chocolates

Licensed Physician Acupuncturist

44 E 12th Street New York, NY 10003 212.993.8573 / 212.594.1600 ssamuelson@aabpcorp.com

West Village: 40 8th Ave, NYC Greenwich Village: 162 Bleecker St, NYC Grand Central: 43rd & Lexington, NYC Chelsea Market: 75 Ninth Ave, NYC Industry City: 68 35th St, Brooklyn NYC ...........................................212 924-2280 www.li-lacchocolates.com (SEE AD PAGE 70)

GUEST HOUSES/B&B’S Chelsea Pines Inn

317 W 14th St, NYC ...................212 929-1023

Colonial House Inn

Christopher T. Coad MD, FACS

HAIR REMOVAL Advanced Dermatology Associates

www.ChelseaEyeOphthalmology.com

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Sandman Suites on Davie

1160 Davie St Vancouver, BC Canada .......................................604 681-7263 www.sandmanhotels.com

Sheraton Vancouver Wall Centre Hotel

1088 Burrard St Vancouver, BC Canada .......................................604 331-1000 www.sheratonvancouver.com

Sunset Marquis

1200 Alta Loma Rd West Hollywood, CA...................800 858-9758 www.sunsetmarquis.com

VIVE Hotel Waikiki

2426 Kuhio Ave Honolulu, Hawaii ........................808 687-2000 www.vivehotelwaikiki.com

INSURANCE HealthSherpa

Toll Free.....................................844 346-9476 www.metrosource.healthsherpa.com (SEE AD PAGE 57 & PAGE 87)

SEE ALSO DATING SERVICES

(SEE AD PAGE 59)

157 West 19th St. NYC 10011 212-220-0066

Opus Hotel Vancouver

322 Davie St Vancouver, BC Canada .......................................604 642-6787 www.opushotel.com

Incentra Village House

www.misterbandb.com

0% financing available

Foxwoods Resort & Casino

www.foxwoods.com

INTRODUCTION SERVICES

MisterBandB

(on elective procedures)

Atlantic City, NJ ..........................609 317-1000 www.outatborgata.com

318 W 22nd St, NYC ..................212 243-9669 32 8th Ave @ W 12th St, NYC ....212 206-0007 www.incentravillage.com

Advanced LASIK Premium Lens Implants Comprehensive Eye Care Visian ICL/Refractive Castle Connolly Top Doctor 2018 Complimentary Evaluations

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

The Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa

FITNESS/GYMS/PERSONAL TRAINERS

Stefan Samuelson, MD Board Certified Pain Physician and Anesthesiologist

OMNI Aesthetic MD

New York Life/NYLIFE Securities

(SEE AD PAGE 64)

PAIN MANAGEMENT

HAIR REPLACEMENT/REPLICATION

HOTELS

245 Park Ave, Ste 1800 NYC ...........................................646 366-6588

EntertainmentCruises.com/New-York

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

44 Wall St, 12th Fl, NYC .............212 495-0317 www.sciaccalaw.com

Scholar Financial Group

LUNCH | BRUNCH | DI NNER | PRIVATE EVENTS

9 E 62nd St, NYC .......................212 888-MALE www.drlefkovits.com

ManMate

NYC .......................................... 212 564-4025 www.manmate.com (SEE AD DATING SERVICES PAGE 76)

LASER VISION CORRECTION SEE ALSO OPHTHALMOLOGISTS

Coad, Christopher T., M.D., F.A.C.S.

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ...........................................212 262-2500 NYC ...........................................212 246-0800 www.adv-derm.com

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology 157 W 19th St, NYC ..................212 220-0066 www.chelseaeyeophthalmology.com

(SEE AD PHYSICIANS PAGE 81)

(SEE AD THIS PAGE)

METROSOURCE.COM

TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

LASER VISION CORRECTION (CONTINUED) – PHARMACIES/DRUGS Avalon Chemists

PET SUPPLIES

7 2nd Ave, NYC ..........................212 260-3131

Automated Pet Care Products Inc.

Bigelow Chemists

LIPOSUCTION

40 W Howard St, Ste 101 Pontiac, MI .................................877 250-7729 www.litter-robot.com

Marfuggi, Richard M.D., D.M.H, F.A.C.S.

PHARMACIES/DRUGS

171 Seventh Ave, NYC................212 255-9900

50 E 69th St, NYC.......................212 317-1188 Denville, NJ .................................973 377-8950 www.askdrm.com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

MARKETING SERVICES Brand2Fly

414 Sixth Ave, NYC ....................212 533-2700

Chelsea Specialty Pharmacy CVS Specialty

Ansonia Pharmacy 446 6th Ave, NYC.......................212 477-0762 www.ansoniapharmacy.com

126 8th Ave, NYC .....................212 807-8798 (SEE AD NEXT PAGE)

Mayfair Chemists

Apthorp Pharmacy 2201 Broadway, NYC ..................212 877-3480

21 Seventh Ave, NYC..................212 242-1444

New London Pharmacy

Arrow Pharmacy 883 Ninth Ave, NYC .................212 245-8469 www.arrowpharmacy.com

246 Eighth Ave, NYC ..................212 243-4987 PHARMACIES/DRUGS CONT. ❯

(SEE AD THIS PAGE)

San Jose......................................408 763-7924 www.brand2fly.com

GayVan.com Travel Marketing www.gayvan.com

MASSAGE THERAPISTS Clay Health Club + Spa

25 W 14th St NYC ...........................................212 206-9200 www.insideclay.com/metrosource

(SEE AD PAGE 65)

OPHTHALMOLOGISTS Coad, Christopher T., M.D., F.A.C.S.

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology 157 W 19th St NYC ...........................................212 220-0066 www.chelseaeyeophthalmology.com (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

OPTOMETRISTS OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St NYC............................................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

West Village Eyecare Associates

10 Sheridan Square NYC............................................212 242-6592 www.eyecarenyc.com

PAIN MANAGEMENT Samuelson, Stefan T., MD

44 E 12th St, Ste MD1 NYC ...........................................212 993-8573 NYC ...........................................212 594-1600 (SEE AD PAGE 57 & OPPOSITE PAGE)

Continuing to Provide Courteous, Compassionate, Professional Customer Service.

883 Ninth Avenue @ 57th Street Ask AAHIVM Specialists Michael and Krista About PrEP, Your Current Regimen, or How to Best Take Your Medication

Tel 212.245.8469

Fax 212.586.1502

Serving New York Since 1940

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PERIODONTISTS Bizzell, Steven J., D.M.D., D.A.B.P.

Periodontist 50-02 5th St Ste B Long Island City ..........................718-530-6539 www.licdentalassociates.com TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

STORE HOURS: Mon - Fri 8aM - 8pM • Sat 9aM - 6pM • Sun 10aM - 5pM 346 Bleecker St • Greenwich VillaGe, nY 10014 • VillaGeapothecarY.com

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PHARMACIES/DRUGS (CONTINUED) – PHYSICIANS & MEDICAL SERVICES New York Chemists

77 Christopher St NYC ...........................................212 255-2525 www.newyorkchemists.com (SEE AD THIS PAGE)

Thompson Chemists &

Pilates based Physical Therapy See the Benefits of Individual Care with One-on-One, One Hour Sessions Dr. Antonio Galán, PT, DPT, MBA, CHC RestoreRehab Physical Therapy 664 Tenth Avenue New York, NY 10036 212.245.5259 - phone

www.RestoreRehabPT.com

Thompson Alchemists 137 Thompson St 449 West Broadway NYC............................................212 598-9790 www.thompsonchemists.com

Village Apothecary

346 Bleecker St NYC ...........................................212 807-7566 www.villageapothecary.com (SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

PHYSICAL THERAPY Galán, Antonio, PT, DPT, MBA, CHC

A pharmacy just for you We offer more than medication. Count on our personalized care and support, every step of the way.

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Access to a CVS Specialty™ HIV CareTeam of highlytrained clinicians—anytime, any day of the year

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Refill reminder calls

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RestoreRehab Physical Therapy 664 10th Ave NYC ...........................................212 245-5259 www.restorerehabpt.com

Amida Care

NYC ...........................................855 462-6432 www.amidacareny.org (SEE AD PAGE 56)

Astor Medical Group

67 Irving Place, 5th Fl @ E 18th St NYC............................................212 253-2968 www.astormedical.com

Central Park Medical Associates

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ...........................................212 262-2500 NYC ...........................................212 246-0800 www.centralparkmedicalassociates.com

(SEE AD NEXT PAGE)

Coad, Christopher T., M.D., F.A.C.S.

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology 157 W 19th St, NYC ..................212 220-0066 www.chelseaeyeophthalmology.com (SEE AD OPHTHALMOLOGISTS PAGE 78)

Dillon, Stephen, M.D.

Int. Med., Inf. Dis. 314 W 14th St, NYC ...................212 620-0144

Dormer, Anita L., M.D., F.A.C.C.P.

(SEE AD THIS PAGE)

Symbio Physio Therapy

214 W 29th St, Ste 901, NYC .....917 338-6268 www.symbiopt.com

PHYSICIANS & MEDICAL SERVICES Advanced Dermatology Associates

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ...........................................212 262-2500 NYC ...........................................212 246-0800 www.adv-derm.com

(SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

22 E 72nd St, 5th Fl, NYC ...........212 535-5905

Fonville, T.W., Int. Med.

29 Fifth Ave @ 10th St NYC............................................212 674-1020

Goldberg, Edward S., M.D.

Int. Med., Gastr.

121 E 60th St, 3rd Fl NYC............................................212 980-8800

Hsu, Ricky K., M.D.

154 W 14th St, 4th Fl, NYC ........212 627-7560

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126 Eighth Avenue, New York, NY 10011 PHONE : 1-212-807-8798 STORE HOURS : Mon. – Fri. 8 a.m. – 9 p.m.

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New York Chemists 77 Christopher Street (Btw 7th Ave and Bleecker St.) T: 212-255-2525 F: 212-255-2524 nyc@newyorkchemists.com

www.newyorkchemists.com

METROSOURCE.COM

Store Hours Monday – Friday 8:30 am – 8 pm Saturday 10 am – 6 pm Sunday 10 am – 5 pm TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

Advanced Dermatology Associates Proudly Serving the Community for Over Twenty Years MEDICAL, COSMETIC & SURGICAL DERMATOLOGY

All Skin, Hair & Nail Disorders.

All Skin Growths On-Site HIV & STD Screening, Immediate Results

Dermatology and Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

Board Certified.

University Affiliated.

Confidential Treatment of All STD’s

www.adv-derm.com 200 Central Park South, Suite 107

212-262-2500 Day, Evening, Weekend and Same Day Appoitments Available.

All Major Credit Cards and Insurance Plans Accepted.

The Genital Wart Treatment Center A private medical facility specializing in the diagnosis and treatment of genital warts and all STD’s in a caring, supportive and confidential environment.

Board Certified Specialists • Diagnosis and Treatment of ALL Sexually Transmitted Diseases Painless Treatment with the Latest & Most Effective Therapies Available • On-Site HIV Antibody Testing • Immediate Results • Specializing in the Successful Treatment of Recurrent Genital Warts

www.CentralParkMedicalAssociates.com Central Park Medical Associates 200 Central Park South, Suite 107

212-246-0800

COMPLETELY CONFIDENTIAL

Day, Evening and Weekend Appointments Available. All Major Credit Cards and Insurance Plans Accepted.

PHYSICIANS & MEDICAL SERVICES (CONTINUED) – REAL ESTATE Icochea, Rosendo S., M.D.

117 E 18th St, NYC.....................212 387-9199

David Bonavita

Jaeger, Lawrence D., D.O.

Licensed Real Estate Salesperson The Corcoran Group david.bonavita@corcoran.com (m) 212.501.8281 www.davidbonavita.com

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ...........................................212 246-0800 NYC ...........................................212 262-2500 www.adv-derm.com Southampton | Now $2,999,999 | elliman.com/H102798

ENZO MORABITO TEAM

Jarratt, Kent, L.C.S.W.

19 W 34th St, Penthouse Ste NYC.............................. 212 947-7111, ext 119 Oceanport, NJ .............................917 686-6179 www.kentjarratt.com

AT DOUGLAS ELLIMAN REAL ESTATE

Enzo C. Morabito, Lic. Assoc. R.E. Broker O: 631.537.6519 | M: 516.695.3433 emorabito@elliman.com The Corcoran Group is a licensed real estate broker located at 660 Madison Ave, NY, NY 10065

(SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

2488 Main St, P.O. Box 1251, Bridgehampton, NY 11932. 631.537.5900 | © 2018 Douglas Elliman Real Estate.

All material presented herein is intended for information purposes only. While this information is believed to be correct, it is represented subject to errors, omissions, changes or withdrawal without notice. All property information, including, but not limited to square footage, room count, number of bedrooms and the school district in property listings should be verified by your own attorney, architect or zoning expert. Equal Housing Opportunity.

Leach, Eric G., N.P.

154 W 14th St, 4th Fl, NYC ........212 627-7560

Lefkovits, George, M.D., P.C.

Prince of the City

9 E 62nd St, NYC .......................212 888-MALE www.drlefkovits.com

Lexington Plastic Surgeons

113 E 39th St, NYC ...................646 374-2410 www.try.lexingtonplasticsurgeons.com/ metrosource (SEE AD PAGE 65)

With 25 years of experience in New York Real Estate Buying or Selling?

First Time Buyers or Experienced Investors Service Serenity and Good Orderly Direction Full Service Agent Ready to listen and patiently assist in the NY Real Estate Process

Keith A. Prince

Licensed Associate Real Estate Broker kprince@bhsusa.com m: 917-826-3451

Lisa E. Hendler Berkshire Hathaway Blake Realtors 518-929-4519

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The Liver Institute

NYC............................................718 369-4850 LA...............................................323 498-6688 www.theliverinstitute.org

Mandell, William, M.D.

Infectious Diseases 31 Washington Sq West, NYC.....212 475-8833

Marfuggi, Richard A., M.D., D.M.H., F.A.C.S.

50 E 69th St, NYC.......................212 317-1188 Denville, NJ .................................973 377-8950 www.askdrm.com

Maze Sexual & Reproductive Health

Maze Men’s Health Maze Women’s Health Maze Labs Maze Cord Blood 633 Third Ave, Ste 9B NYC ...........................................646 585-8980 www.mazehealth.com (SEE AD PAGE 66)

Midtown Integrative Medicine

Aziz, Michael, M.D., FRSM 509 Madison Ave @ 53rd St, Ste 1111 NYC............................................212 906-9111 www.michaelazizmd.com

Rare Dutch stone house (3 BR, 2 1/2 BA) circa 1695 is one of Columbia County’s true treasures.

Meticulously preserved architectural integrity w/ wide board oak & pine floors, exposed interior stone walls, chestnut beams & western cedar wood ceilings, fireplaces & Dutch oven. Historic features co-exist with modern amenities: Dual central air, full house emergency generator, security system. New furnace 2017. 4.10 acres w/ lush trees & flowers. Centrally located 1.5 mi from downtown Hudson. Only 2 hr. from NYC.

TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

PHYSICIANS & MEDICAL SERVICES (CONTINUED) – WEDDING SERVICES Namdar, Isaac, M.D.

Ear, Nose, and Throat Specialist 425 W 59th St, NYC ...................212 262-4444 1090 Amsterdam Ave, NYC ........212 663-2210 www.newyorkentspecialist.com www.namdarmd.com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St, NYC .......................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

Pearl, Alan, M.D., Psychiatrist

Coldwell Bank Residential Brokerage

JC Waterfront – Team Francesco Robert G. Harris 1 2nd St, Ste 1 & 4 Jersey City, NJ .............................201 604-4200 Cell .............................................646 334-0559

Enzo Morabito Team

Douglas Elliman Real Estate Bridgehampton ....................... 631 537-6519 Cell ............................................516 695-3433 www.theenzomorabitoteam.elliman.com

135 W 70th St NYC............................................212 724-5188

(SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Samuelson, Stefan T., MD

Nest Seekers International 415 Madison Ave, NYC...............917 287-2308 www.nestseekers.com

44 E 12th St, Ste MD1 NYC ...........................................212 993-8573 NYC ...........................................212 594-1600 (SEE AD PG 57 & PAIN MGMT PG 78)

PLASTIC SURGERY Dr. WW Med Spa and Laser Clinic

85-16 Queens Blvd, 2F, Elmhurst, NY 139 Centre St #224, NYC ...........718 457-0707 www.drwwmedspa.com

Lefkovits, George, M.D., P.C.

9 E 62nd St NYC...........................................212 888-MALE www.drlefkovits.com

Lexington Plastic Surgeons

113 E 39th St, NYC ...................646 374-2410 www.try.lexingtonplasticsurgeons.com/ metrosource

(SEE AD PAGE 65)

Marfuggi, Richard A., M.D., D.M.H F.A.C.S.

50 E 69th St, NYC.......................212 317-1188 Denville, NJ .................................973 377-8950 www.askdrm.com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M.D., F.A.C.S. 5 W 19th St NYC............................................212 257-0007 www.omniaestheticmd.com

Sexual Health Men

290 Madison Ave 6th Fl NYC ...........................................973 493-7607 www.sexualhealthmen.com (SEE AD AESTHETIC SERVICES PAGE 74)

Skintology

Cosmetical Aesthetics 157 E 57th St, NYC 181 7th Ave, NYC.......................212 989-6555 www.skintologyny.com

SCHOOLS Brooklyn Heights Montessori School

185 Court St, Brooklyn ...............718 858-5100 www.bhmsny.org

Rudolf Steiner School

15 E 79th St, NYC.......................212 535-2130 www.steiner.edu

TRAVEL Kennedy Travel

Friedman, Carol

Hendler, Lisa E.

Berkshire Hathaway Blake Realtors Kinderhook, NY ........................518 929-4519

(SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Powell, DeWayne A.

130 W 42nd St #401 NYC ...........................................212 398-0999 Toll Free.....................................800 237-7433 www.kennedytravel.com (SEE AD THIS PAGE)

Ogunquit Chamber of Commerce

36 Main St Ogunquit, ME .............................207 646-2939 www.visitogunquit.org

Town Residential NYC............................................917 748-5100 www.townresidential.com

TRAVEL/GETAWAYS

Prince, Keith A.

www.foxwoods.com

Brown Harris Stevens NYC ...........................................917 826-3451 www.brownharrisstevens.com (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

Foxwoods Resort & Casino

WEDDING SERVICES Bespoke Matchmaking

1180 Avenue of the Americas, 8th Fl NYC............................................888 422-6464 www.bespokematchmaking.com

REAL ESTATE/SUBURBAN Habeeb-Clark, Deborah

Keller Williams Hudson Valley, NY .......................845 800-5413

Perasso, Matt

Prominent Properties/Sotheby’s International Realty 2 Main St, Edgewater, NJ ............201 840-8898 Cell .............................................917 834-0454 www.goldcoastcribs.com

El Conquistador Resort

1000 El Conquistador Ave Fajardo, Puerto Rico ................... 787 863-6565 www.elconresort.com

Elite Private Yachts

NYC ...........................................866 862-7245 www.eliteprivateyachts.com www.entertainmentcruises.com/new-york (SEE AD PAGE 68 & EVENT SPACE PAGE 78)

RESTAURANTS

Feinstein’s/54 Below

(SEE RESTAURANT BITES PAGE 72)

254 W 54th St, Cellar NYC................................... 212 302-5559 x114 www.54below.com

RETAIL Eva’s Supplements

11 W 8th St (bet 5th & 6th Aves) NYC .......................................... 212 982-2500 www.evassupplements.com

Gatherings Floral Design

5 Tudor City Place, NYC ..............212 682-2083 www.gatheringsfloraldesign.com WEDDING SERVICES CONT. NEXT PAGE ❯

(SEE AD PAGE 67 & PAGE 72)

PODIATRISTS Ciment, Ethan J., D.P.M.

Collins, Michael, D.P.M. Chelsea Foot & Ankle Center 37 W 20th St, Ste 308 NYC............................................646 929-4149 www.chelseafootandankle.com

REAL ESTATE Bonavita, David

Corcoran NYC ...........................................212 501-8281 www.davidbonavita.com

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    

(SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE) TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

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WEDDING SERVICES (CONTINUED) – WINE & SPIRITS Hornblower

Cruises & Events NYC............................................646 832-2805 www.hornblowerny.com/metrosource

Houston Hall

222 W. Houston St NYC .......................................... 212 582-2057

(SEE AD PAGE 69)

BARS Blue Whale

Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6278 NYC............................................212 689-2699 www.horizonbeachhouse.com

Cherry’s

Cherry Grove ..............................917 763-9029

Pines ...........................................631 597-6500 www.bluewhalefireisland.com Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6820

Cultured Elephant

Li-Lac Chocolates

West Village: 40 8th Ave, NYC Greenwich Village: 162 Bleecker St, NYC Grand Central: 43rd & Lexington, NYC Chelsea Market: 75 Ninth Ave, NYC Industry City: 68 35th St, Brooklyn NYC ...........................................212 924-2280 www.li-lacchocolates.com (SEE AD PAGE 70)

Make My Cake

NYC............................................212 234-2344 www.makemycake.com

Manhattan Penthouse

NYC............................................212 627-8838 www.manhattanpenthouse.com

New York Zoos and Aquarium

NYC............................................718 741-3836 www.nyzooevents.com

Oheka Castle

135 West Gate Dr Huntington, NY ..........................631 659-1400 www.oheka.com

FIRE ISLAND PINES – CHERRY GROVE Horizon Beach House

Pines ...........................................631 597-6500 www.thepinesfireisland.com

Harbor Club

SeaBreeze Rentals

GYM Steel Gym

Pines www.steelgym.com

Pines ...........................................631 597-6500 www.thepinesfireisland.com

HARDWARE

Sip n Twirl

Bay Walk Pines ...........................................631 597-6237

36 Fire Island Boulevard Pines ...........................................631 597-3599

The Pavilion

Pines Hardware & Sundries

LANDSCAPING/FLORAL

Pines ...........................................631 597-6500 www.pavilionfireisland.com

Pines ...........................................631 597-3746

CLOTHING/GIFTS

LIQUORS/WINES

Gostoso Pines ...........................................646 262-1910

Summer Solstice

Beachscapes

The Pines Liquor Shop

Harbor Walk Pines ...........................................631 597-6442

Harbor Walk Pines ...........................................631 597-4200

POOL MAINTENANCE

CONTRACTING

Pines ...........................................631 597-7748

Walter Boss, Custom Builder

REAL ESTATE

20 W 20th St NYC ...........................................212 321-1822 NYC ...........................................212 243-4494 www.paulevanscatering.com

Pines and Pools

Main & Bayview Cherry Grove .................................... 631 597-6140

(SEE AD PAGE 69)

Pines ...........................................631 597-9191

Our Wedding Officiant NYC

Peter Boruchowitz NYC............................................917 523-1438 www.nyc-gay-weddings.com

Paul Evans Catering

Proposition Love

Dependable Pools

Pines ...........................................631 597-6262 Pines ...........................................631 597-6262

Pines Propane

GROCERIES

www.propositionlove.com

Grove Market

The Riverside Church

490 Riverside Dr. NYC............................................212 870-6762 www.trcnyc.com

Main Walk Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6239

Yachts for All Seasons

Harbor Walk Pines ...........................................631 597-6200

NYC ...........................................212 534-6380 Cell ............................................917 864-7670 www.y4as.com (SEE AD PAGE 69)

Law Offices of Thomas Sciacca, PLLC

44 Wall St, 12th Fl NYC............................................212 495-0317 www.sciaccalaw.com

WINE & SPIRITS

OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2018

Bay View Walk, Cherry Grove......631 597-6448 www.belvederefireisland.com

Carousel Guesthouse

D. Karen Fire Island Properties, LTD

Pines ...........................................631 597-7000 www.fireislandpines.com

Pines Harbor Realty

36 Fire Island Blvd Pines ...........................................631 597-7575

RESTAURANTS Blue Whale

Pines ...........................................631 597-6500 www.bluewhalefireisland.com

Cultured Elephant

Pines ...........................................631 597-6500 www.thepinesfireisland.com

Grove Pizza & Restaurant

Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6766

185 Holly Walk Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6612

Pines Bistro & Pizza

Cherry Grove Beach Hotel

TRANSPORTATION

Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6600

1450 Washington St Hoboken, NJ ...............................201 942-9964 www.corkwines.net

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GUEST HOUSES/HOTELS Belvedere Guest House

WILLS

Cork Wines & Spirits

The Pines Pantry

A Summer Place

Dune Point

Cherry Grove ..............................631 597-6261

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Pines ...........................................631 597-3597

Sayville Ferry

River Rd NYC............................................631 589-0810 TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

NEW YORK COMMUNITY RESOURCES Metrosource is committed to helping non-profit organizations in their ongoing efforts to serve our diverse community.

ATHLETIC BIG APPLE SOFTBALL LEAGUE 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10011 212 696-7482

CHEER NY CHEERLEADING Felipe Hernandez 888 671-7312 www.cheerny.org

CITY CRUISERS MC Old Chelsea Station PO Box 1614 New York, NY 10011 www.citycruisers.com (gay men’s motorcycle club)

EZRYDERS SNOWBOARDING 445 W 46th St #4D New York, NY 10036 www.ezryders@ondbdx.com

LONG ISLAND RAVENS MC CLUB c/o Long Island Eagle 94 Clinton Ave Bayshore, NY 11706 631 968-2750 www.liravensmc.org

MONDAY NIGHT FOURPLAY BOWLING LEAGUE Syosset Bowl 631 842-5166

NORTH JERSEY G&L BOWLERS Belle Aire Lanes West Caldwell, NJ 201 823-2250

NY GAY POOL LEAGUE PO Box 1502 Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 496-4585

NY RAMBLER’S SOCCER CLUB, INC. 917 767-9789 www.nyramblers.com

FAST AND FABULOUS CYCLING P.O. Box 23008, Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 567-7160

NYC GAY BASKETBALL LEAGUE www.nycgaybasketball.org

FRONT RUNNERS NY P.O. Box 87 Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 799-8781 www.frny.org

OUT OF BOUNDS NYC & TEAM NEW YORK PO Box 372, Times Sq Station New York, NY 10108 www.oobnyc.org

GARDEN STATE GAY BOWLING LEAGUE www.gsgbo.com

PINK PONG NY Sunnyside, Queens 718 623-2926 www.pinkpongfoundation.org

GOTHAM VOLLEYBALL P.O. Box 961 New York, NY 10034 212 388-8208 info@gothamvolleyball.org

SUN/MON/TUE NIGHT TEAMS c/o Chelsea Piers AMF Bowl Pier 60, New York, NY 10011 212 835-2691

KNIGHTS WRESTLING CLUB P.O. Box 720161 Jackson Heights, NY 11372 718 815-3244

SUNDANCE OUTDOOR ADVENTURE SOCIETY www.sundanceoutdoor.org sundanceoutdoor@yahoo.com

The NGLCCNY is the NY Metro headquarters of the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) — the business voice of the LGBT community and the certifying body for LGBT Business Enterprises.

Join Us: @NGLCCNY nglccny.org | info@nglccny.org Certifying LGBT Businesses.

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TEAM NEW YORK AQUATICS 212 691-3440 (hotline)

CULTURAL, ETHNIC & SOCIAL APICHA 400 Broadway New York, NY 10013 212 334-6029 www.apicha.org

BEST FRIENDS ANIMAL SOCIETY 5001 Angel Canyon Rd Kanab, UT 84741 435 644-2001 www.bestfriends.org

BIG GAY MEN OF NEW YORK 9111 Liberty Ave #662 Ozone Park, NY 11417 631 780-2807 www.convergence.nyc

EMPIRE CITY MEN’S CHORUS P.O. Box 1017 New York, NY 10185 empirecitymenschorus.org

GAY & BI FATHERS FORUM OF GREATER NY PO Box 1321, Midtown Sta New York, NY 10018 212 721-4216 (recording) 718 728-0476

GAY & LESBIAN ALLIANCE AGAINST DEFAMATION (GLAAD) 150 West 26th St New York, NY 10001 212 807-1700 www.glaad.org

GAY FATHERS OF NY 245 Eighth Ave #897 New York, NY 10011 212 388-2618

GAY MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT 44 Court St, 10th Fl, Ste 1000 Brooklyn, NY 10201 718 222-6300 www.gmad.org

GAY MEN OF THE BRONX PO Box 511, Bronx, NY 10451 www.gmob.org

IMPERIAL QUEENS & KINGS OF NY 70-A Greenwich Ave #120 New York, NY 10011 212 229-5900 x3655

IN OUR OWN WRITE 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014 212 620-7310 x305 (monthly readings)

METROSOURCE.COM

IN THE LIFE 30 West 26th St, 7th Fl New York, NY 10011 212 255-6012

MALES AU NATUREL (MAN) 332 Bleecker St #133 New York, NY 10014 347 704-0704 www.man.shuttlepod.org

JERSEY CITY LESBIAN & GAY OUTREACH (JCLGO) 113 Pavonia Ave #247 Jersey City, NJ 07302 201 333-5725

MEN OF ALL COLORS TOGETHER NEW YORK PO Box 1518 Ansonia Station, NY 10023

LATINOS & LATINAS DE AMBIENTE/NY (LLANY) 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014 212 367-1092

NYC GAY MEN’S CHORUS 561 Seventh Ave, Ste 803 New York, NY 10018 212 344-1777 www.nycgmc.org

LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL & TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY SERVICES CENTER 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014 212 620-7310 www.gaycenter.org

NYC PRIDE 154 Christopher St, Suite 1D New York, NY 10014 212 807-7433 www.nycpride.org

LESBIAN & GAY NATURAL HISTORY GROUP OF NY 80 Garfield Pl Brooklyn, NY 11215 718 965-0013

PARENTS AND FRIENDS OF LESBIANS AND GAYS (P-FLAG) PO Box 553 New York, NY 10021 212 463-0629

LESBIAN HERSTORY ARCHIVES PO Box 1258 New York, NY 10116 718 768-3953

THE POINT FOUNDATION 5757 Wilshire Blvd, Suite 370 LA, CA 90036 866 33-Point www.pointfoundation.org (SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

LESLIE-LOHMAN MUSEUM OF GAY AND LESBIAN ART 26 Wooster St New York, NY 10013 www.leslielohman.org

PRIME TIMERS c/o Don Hargus 208 Anderson St, Suite 8DS Hackensack, NJ 07601 201 488-4839

LIVE OUT LOUD 45 West 36th Street, 6th Fl New York, NY 10018 212 378-4095 www.liveoutloud.info

QUEENS L&G PRIDE COMMITTEE PO Box 580445 Flushing, NY 11358 718 460-4064

THE LOFT-LOWER HUDSON VALLEY LGBT Center 252 Bryant Ave White Plains, NY 10605 914 948-2932 www.loftgaycenter.org

QUEENS PRIDE HOUSE 76-11 37th Ave Jackson Heights, NY 11372 718 429-5309

THE L.I. GAY & LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL ORG P.O. Box 360 East Northport, NY 11731 www.liglff.org

LONG ISLAND GAY & LESBIAN YOUTH 34 Park Ave Bay Shore, NY 11706 631 665-2300 www.ligaly.org

LONG ISLAND RAVENS M.C. c/o The Long Island Eagle 94 North Clinton Ave Bay Shore, NY 11706 631 968-2750 www.liravensmc.org

STONEWALL COMMUNITY FOUNDATION 119 West 24th St, 7th Fl New York, NY 10011 212 367-1155 www.stonewallfoundation.org

TRI STATE LG&B STUDENT COALITION 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014

HEALTH/ COUNSELING AIDS CENTER OF QUEENS COUNTY 97-45 Queens Blvd #1220 Rego Park, NY 11374 718 896-2500

AIDS DRUG ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (ADAP) 800 542-2437

AIDS HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION 475 Atlantic Ave Brooklyn, NY 11217 718 637-2970 888 AIDS-CARE www.ahfpharmacy.org

AIDS HOTLINE/NYC DEPT OF HEALTH 311 Broadway, 4th Fl New York, NY 10007 800 TALK-HIV

AIDS RELATED COMMUNITY SERVICES 2269 Saw Mill River Rd Elmsford, NY 10523 914 345-8888

QUEENS RAINBOW COMMUNITY CENTER 30-74 Steinway St, 2nd Fl Astoria, NY 11105 718 204-5955

AIDS SERVICE CENTER NYC 64 West 35th St New York, NY 212 645-0875 www.ascnyc.org

THE ALLIANCE FOR POSITIVE CHANGE 64 West 35th Street, 3rd Fl New York, NY 10001 212.645-0875 www.alliance.nyc (SEE AD PAGE 73)

SERVICES AND ADVOCACY FOR GLBT ELDERS (SAGE) 305 Seventh Ave New York, NY 10001 212 741-2247 www.sageusa.org

AMERICAN FOUNDATION FOR AIDS RESEARCH 120 Wall St New York, NY 10005 212 806-1600

SOUTHERNERS/L&G MEN IN NY PO Box 881 New York, NY 10008-0881

ANTI-VIOLENCE PROJECT 240 West 35th St, 12th Fl New York, NY 10001 212 714-1184 212 714-1141 (Hotline)

STONEWALL CHORALE Box 920, Old Chelsea Sta New York, NY 10011 212 971-5813

BAILEY HOLT HOUSE 180 Christopher St New York, NY 10014 212 337-3000

TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

NEW YORK COMMUNITY RESOURCES Metrosource is committed to helping non-profit organizations in their ongoing efforts to serve our diverse community.

BAILEY HOUSE 275 Seventh Ave, 12th Fl New York, NY 10001 212 633-2500

BETH ISRAEL MEDICAL CENTER AIDS CLINICAL TRIAL UNIT DIV OF INFECTIOUS DISEASES 350 East 17th St, 3rd Fl New York, NY 10003 212 420-4519

BODY POSITIVE OF NY 19 Fulton St Suite 308B New York, NY 10038 212 566-7333 800 566-6599

BROADWAY CARES/EQUITY FIGHTS AIDS 165 West 46th St #1300 New York, NY 10036 212 840-0770

BROOKLYN AIDS TASK FORCE 465 Dean St Brooklyn, NY 11217 718 783-0883

CALLEN LORDE COMMUNITY HEALTH CENTER 356 West 18th St New York, NY 10011 212 271-7200

CHEST (CTRHIV/AIDS EDUCATION STUDIES & TRAINING) 250 West 26th Street, 3rd Floor New York, NY 212 206-7919

DESIGN INDUSTRIES FOUNDATION FOR AIDS (DIFFA) 200 Lexington Ave #1016 New York, NY 10016 212 727-3100

F.E.G.S. MANHATTAN COUNSELING CENTER 80 Van Dam St New York, NY 10013 212 366-8289

FRIENDS HOUSE IN ROSEHILL PMB#248 50 Lexington Avenue New York, NY 10010 212 995-5000 www.friendshousenyc.org

GAY MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT 44 Court St, 10th Fl, Ste 1000 Brooklyn, NY 10201 718 222-6300 www.gmad.org

GAY MEN’S HEALTH CRISIS 446 West 33rd St New York, NY 10001 212 367-1273 212 367-1489 800 243-7692 www.gmhc.org

GOD’S LOVE WE DELIVER 166 Ave of the Americas New York, NY 10013 212 294-8142 212 294-8100 www.godslovewedeliver.org www.racetodeliver.org

GREENWICH HOUSE 80 Fifth Ave New York, NY 10011 212 691-2900

HEALTH EDUCATION AIDS LIAISON PO Box 1103 New York, NY 10113 212 873-0780

HETRICK MARTIN INSTITUTE 212 674-2400 www.hmi.org

HEALTHSHERPA 844 346-9476 www.metrosource. healthsherpa.com (SEE AD PAGE 57 & THIS PAGE)

HISPANIC AIDS FORUM, INC. 213 W 35th St, 12th Fl New York, NY 10001 212 868-6230 www.hafnyc.org

INSTITUTION FOR HUMAN IDENTITY 322 Eighth Ave, Suite #802 New York, NY 10011 212 243-2830 www.ihi-therapycenter.org

LI ASSN FOR AIDS CARE (LIAAC) 631 385-AIDS (hotline) 631 385-2451

MEN OF COLOR AIDS PREVENTION PROGRAM (MOCA) 125 Worth St, Box 67 New York, NY 10013 212 788-4402

MEN’S HIV SUPPORT GROUP 212 877-8227 x214

MINORITY TASK FORCE ON AIDS 475 Riverside Dr New York, NY 10115 212 870-2691

NAMES PROJECT NJ P.O. Box 716 New Brunswick, NJ 732 249-3933

NAMES PROJECT NYC 75 Varick St #1404 New York, NY 10013-1917 212 226-2292

TO ADVERTISE CALL 212 691-5127

NYC DEPT OF HEALTH OFFICE OF G&L HEALTH 125 Worth St, Suite CN67 New York, NY 10013 212 442-6944

PROJECT ACHIEVE New York, 212 305-2201 Project ACHIEVE (Union Square) New York, 212 388-0008 www.nycvaccine.org www.hopetakesaction.org

THE SAMARITANS OF NEW YORK SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE PO Box 1259 New York, NY 10159 212 673-3000 (24 Hours)

TALK SAFE + PLUSES 203 West St #408 New York, NY 212 604-1500

TREVOR PROJECT 9056 Santa Monica Blvd #100 West Hollywood, CA 90069 310 271-8845

VILLAGE NURSING HOME DAY TREATMENT PROGRAM 133 West 20th St, Ground Fl New York, NY 10011 212 633-1616

LEGAL LAMBDA LEGAL DEFENSE AND EDUCATION FUND 120 Wall St #1500 New York, NY 10005 212 809-8585

LEGAL (L&G LAW ASSN OF GREATER NY) 799 Broadway #340 New York, NY 10003 212 459-4873

LESBIANS LESBIANS ABOUT VISUAL ART 118 Fort Greene Pl Brooklyn, NY 11217

LES HERSTORY ARCHIVES PO Box 1258 New York, NY 10116 718 768-3953

LESBIAN MOTHERS @ THE LOFT 180 East Post Rd Lower Level, White Plains, NY 914 948-4922

POLITICAL EMPIRE STATE PRIDE AGENDA 16 West 22nd St New York, NY 10010 212 627-0305

LOG CABIN REPUBLICANS OF NY Radio City Station PO Box 2321 New York, NY 10101 212 202-6431 www.newyork.logcabin.org

PRIDE DEMOCRATS 70 Greenwich Ave New York, NY 10011 212 613-6039

STONEWALL COMMUNITY FOUNDATION 119 West 24th St, 6th Fl New York, NY 10011 212 367-1155

STONEWALL DEMOCRATIC CLUB 212 561-9008 www.stonewalldems.com

STONEWALL REPUBLICANS PO Box 650052 Fresh Meadows, NY 11365 718 357-7075

THE PUBLISHING TRIANGLE 332 Bleecker Street #D36 New York, NY 10014 www.publishingtriangle.org

CONGREGATION BEIT SIMCHAT TORAH 130 West 30th St New York, NY 10001 212 929-9498

REFERRALS/ SWITCHBOARDS

DIGNITY NEW YORK PO Box 1554 New York, NY 10150 646 418-7039 Brooklyn - 718 565-2171 Metro NJ - 973 857-4040 New Bruns. - 732 968-9263 Nassau - 516 781-6225 Suffolk - 631 654-5367

G&L SWITCHBOARD P.O. Box 693 New York, NY 212 989-0999

THE GAY PARENTING FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FUND New York, NY 10011 www.menhavingbabies.org

INTEGRITY/NEW YORK (LBGT EPISCOPALIANS) PO Box 20067 New York, NY 10011 212 691-7181

LESBIAN THERAPISTS REFERRAL NETWORK 119 Washington Place, Suite C New York, NY 10014 212 206-1589

MARBLE COLLEGIATE CHURCH 1 West 29th St New York, NY 10001 212 686-2770 www.marblechurch.org

TREVOR PROJECT 212 545-0081 www.thetrevorproject.org

RELIGIOUS BROADWAY UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST 263 West 86 St, 3rd Fl New York, NY 10024 212 316-5700 www.bwayucc.org

PROFESSIONAL CHURCH OF ST PAUL & ST ANDREW 263 West 86th St New York, NY 10024 212 362-3179

ASSOCIATION OF LESBIAN AND GAY AFFIRMATIVE PSYCHOTHERAPISTS 250 West 15th St New York, NY 10011 212 517-1722

COMMUNITY CHURCH OF NY 40 East 35th St New York, NY 10016 212 683-4988 www.ccny.org

FSIX FINANCIAL SERVICE INDUSTRY EXCHANGE www.fsix.org

METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCH OF NY 446 West 36th St New York, NY 10018 212 629-7440 www.mccny.org

MIDDLE COLLEGIATE CHURCH 112 Second Ave @ 7th St New York, NY 10003 212 477-0666 www.middlechurch.org

NOT SO CHURCHY www.notsochurchy.org

ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN CHURCH Reverend Mark Erson 81 Christopher St. New York, NY 10014 212-242-5737 www.stjohnsnyc.org

GAY OFFICERS ACTION LEAGUE PO Box 2038, Canal St Sta New York, NY 10013

NATIONAL GAY & LESBIAN CHAMBER OF COMMERCE NY 340 West 42nd Street New York, NY 10108 646 964-5027 www.nglccny.org (SEE AD OPPOSITE PAGE)

OUT PROFESSIONALS 332 Bleecker St #149 New York, NY 10014 212 462-9255

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HOT STEAMING COCO

Drag entertainer and monologist extraordinaire Coco Peru talks writing, Lady Bunny, and whether the torch she carries for Trick still burns. BY KEVIN PHINNEY

VIEWS

LAST CALL

it meant to be a queen from stage shows to films. With the long-hopedfor sequel to Trick finally in the works, it seemed time for a trip to Peru.

METROSOURCE: You’ve seen drag move from the margins of society into the mainstream. Do you attribute that to greater LGBTQ visibility in general, or shows like Drag Race and Pose becoming a part of straight America’s viewing habits?

Coco: I think it is a combination of it all. Certainly, World of Wonder, the company that created Ru’s Race, had a vision for what the future could be just as I did when I created Coco Peru. I was inspired by the activists and queens that came before me. I saw the work they had done, and the courage that they had to do it and it inspired me; it propelled me to want to take what they had done and push it even further. I wanted young people that came after not to have to waste so many years questioning whether they were okay. I wanted them to grow up knowing they were able to be themselves and even create themselves. I remember when I first created Coco, my parents were very nervous that by my talking openly about being a gay man and doing it in drag, that it would alienate a straight audience. I knew early on that my audience would mostly be an LGBT one, but I told my parents that it would be a matter of time that straight people would recognize that my story is essentially their story, despite our different experiences and how we choose to dress. I grew up watching straight families and characters on TV and I could relate to it, and I knew that Coco would be relatable to everyone if they would just give me a chance and listen to my story.

Were you always attracted to drag or did not being the most butch guy on the block nudge you in that direction?

As a kid I was attracted to both male and female toys and clothing, but I was denied the female side of things, so I think drag is a way to make up for all that was lost and celebrate it.

How often does your show change? Nightly? Seasonally?

A show’s energy can change depending on the audience of course, but each of my shows is scripted, memorized, rehearsed and then it’s about engaging with an audience, so that it feels like I’m saying it all for the first time, and when an audience is present and engaged it does feel like I’m saying it all for the first time. It’s sort of like group therapy or gay church!

So much of your act comes out of personal experience. Are you always on the lookout for new topics to discuss?

When I sit down to write, memories pop up and I have to trust that they

are popping up for a reason. As I write more, the memories begin to make sense as to why I want to share them with an audience. Other times, I’ll tell a story to friends about something that happened, and if it gets a big laugh, I’ll mentally make a note that this could possibly be a story for a future show. Because my shows are all autobiographical, it does surprise me that so many people think that it’s fiction. Sometimes when I introduce my husband Rafael to the audience after the show, people are shocked that he really exists! That bothers me.

People may be surprised to know that you’ve been in the same relationship since before Trick, and that Rafael travels with you and is part of your career now. How have you two made that work?

My husband is a professor in a college, so he doesn’t get to travel with me that often, only when school is on break. We are complete opposites and we both appreciate what each of us brings to the relationship. He enjoys the excitement/madness of my entertainment world, and I enjoy the daily structure he brings to my life.

Interesting. So what’s the one thing about being a drag queen you think that no one would know who’s never been around it?

Stepping outside the box is where the magic happens. Oh, and sharing a dressing room with Lady Bunny is traumatic.

You talk about Coco as something you put on, like a wig or dress.

I’m not pretending to be a woman or anyone other than a heightened version of myself. As Coco, I talk about being a man, so I’m really embracing a sort of third gender where as Coco I get to be both male and female and that in the end, that really doesn’t even matter on some level. We’re all human beings … except for Lady Bunny. That is not human.

More than one person has said you pretty much steal the movie Trick. How did become part of the film?

I was not part of the original script. But Jim Fall, the director, asked me to read the part of Katherine, later played by Tori Spelling, in the first public reading of the script. Afterwards, everyone said to Jim,“You’ve gotta keep the drag queen in the movie.”So, a part was written for me and then I asked if I could rewrite it and that is what became the bathroom monologue.

Do people still quote your lines from the first movie to you?

Yes, people still quote “IT BURNS” and “It’s big, it’s beautiful and you’re gonna love it.” And I love it. I’m flattered that 20 years later, lines that I wrote and performed still resonate with people. It’s amazing. Seeing the cast again all reunited recently just felt ... right. So much had changed in the last 20 years and this new script really addresses that while celebrating ■ all the good stuff that never changes.

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