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Keith Buchanan
Nora Frances McRae
Sandra K. Burrow
Gail Pittman
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of which the human spirit is capable. They have given freely of their time and talents so that those less fortunate among us may find their true potential. Please join us as we honor Jackson’s outstanding volunteers and the many causes they support. Dr. Suman K. Das
David Marsh
Amanda Cox Youth Honoree
Scott C. Montgomery, Jr. Youth Honoree
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contents AUGUST 2011
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Volume 6, Number 3
columns 11 The Way I see it Ragamuffins
12 HomeWorks 20 Time-Saving Tips
28 Modern Motherhood A Mother’s Gotta Dive
29 Let’s Talk it Over After the Launch, What’s Next?
30 Family Focus Spiderman and Other Teachable Moments
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31 Legal Advice
Special Feature
What Are the Pitfalls of Probate?
Goodwill Salutes Volunteers
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32 Education Connection The Bell Will Soon Ring
Juanita Sims Doty
34 Let’s Get Real
Serving God…Serving Others
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
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departments 18 Living my Call How in the World Did I Get Here?
25 Our Daily Bread How do you keep the faith?
26 The Doctor Is In Regular Eye and Vision Care Crucial to Classroom Success
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27 Food For Thought Cooking with Kids
33 Healthy Living Fitness Boot Camp (Part II)
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36 Rave Reviews
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➺editor’s letter Giving without Depleting…Only God A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed. – Proverbs 11:25
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have just returned from ten days out of the office. Notice I did not use the word “vacation.” That would imply rest and relaxation. I spent ten activity packed days with my three “grand-girls” conducting our first “Camp MaeMae.” And I thought boot camp was strenuous! Suffice it to say, I had forgotten just how much daily energy is required in the “maintenance” of six and three-year-old girls! I experienced a level of giving to someone else that I had not been called upon to give for some time. No cable news, no leisurely breakfasts sipping coffee and reading newspapers, and no sitting beside the swimming pool with my nose in a book. No, I was busy...very busy from 7 a.m. till 8 p.m., and even though I fell into bed well before 9 p.m. each evening feeling every bit my age, I wouldn’t take a million dollars for the memories we made together. I am strangely refreshed. There was nothing in those days that was about me...and yet, I have rarely been more enthusiastic about every little moment. For most of us our time is a precious commodity. We are each given the same daily measure—a 24 hour period and the charge to be a good steward of it. If God’s ways are indeed not always usually our ways, then it is reasonable to assume that a good steward is not necessarily the one who can check the most off the long “to do” list. In this crazy self-absorbed culture, how can we possibly reach out and truly touch another person if we cram our schedule with “me…my…and mine.” Those who reach out selflessly to others find themselves blessed abundantly with a profound awareness of God’s propensity to work in and through ordinary human beings. You will see what I mean when you read the stories in this month’s magazine. We celebrate volunteerism, and I am amazed by the generosity of those we feature. As Gail Pittman said in answer to the question, “What would you tell someone else about finding their volunteer niche,” Gail spoke eloquently of legacy, positive impact, touching the future…but she spoke common sense Christian without speaking “Christianese” when she said, “Whatever someone is good at, share it. There is no gift more important than the other.” Amen. As she also said, “Look past your nose and practice saying ‘yes,’ I went looking for this particular quote by John Andrew Holmes: “There is no better exercise for the heart than reaching down and lifting someone else up.” My mind goes instantly to time because that is where I always feel I come up short. Today as I was trying to get this letter together, I had my train of thought flowing just great thinking bad thoughts on those people who have a “gatekeeper” and screen their phone calls and do not answer their e-mails. God does have a way of making a point. Writing this letter was the main thing on my list, and I felt very convicted to speak about time and priorities and regarding the needs of others above our own. I just wish I could list the unbelievable interruptions that kept me from writing these few paragraphs. I don’t always slow down and let God speak to me, but for some reason I did today. And you know what? I didn’t get everything on my list accomplished, but I feel amazingly unstressed and refreshed…guess God meant it when he said, “…he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.” Like I told the folks in my office when I left today...down to the deadline and no letter complete—I just don’t do stress anymore. Y
Marilyn H. Tinnin, Publisher and Editor marilyn@metrochristianliving.com
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have an admitted sweet tooth. In my weaker and more pathetic moments, I will stop by the local convenience store by our house and buy my favorite kind of cookie. One day as I was standing in a rather long line at the store, I took a moment and looked around at the other people in line with me waiting to make their purchases. It struck me that we were all in line buying things to feed our vices. Some were feeding a nicotine addiction; some were refueling on alcohol, while others like me were indulging a sweet tooth. Since my family and I are repeat customers of this particular store, I have gotten to know the personnel who work there. The cashier confirmed my hunch that she and her coworkers get to see us customers indulging our guilty pleasures all day long. They don’t see us posing in our perfect lives, but instead in our weakness. This simple insight led me to consider more about how beneath the veneer of our often “perfect” lives, most everyone struggles with deeper issues. How many marriages are suffering in silence? On numerous occasions, I have been shocked to learn of couples splitting up that I had no idea were even having problems. How many people struggle with alcohol or drug addictions yet appear to be perfectly fine to their neighbors and co-workers? How many men struggle with secret addictions to pornography? I believe that one of the real challenges to a life of faith is to recognize our own weakness and need for a Savior. We live in a modern technologically advanced age where it’s easy to delude ourselves that we don’t need God. This lie fuels us to believe that we can just work harder, think more positively, and convince ourselves that we are in control and can “fix” ourselves. My own false belief that I can control my life is an ongoing challenge in my faith walk. I enjoyed Brennan Manning’s book The Ragamuffin Gospel in which he reflects on God’s mercy and his grace. A ragamuffin is defined as “a ragged and often disreputable person.” In the book, he points out, “To live by grace means to acknowledge my whole life story, the light side and the dark. In admitting my shadow side I learn who I am and what God’s grace means.” Manning reminds us that Christ loves us deeply and that we have done nothing to deserve or earn that love. In the Scriptures, Paul tells us “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by
his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” The idea of God’s grace can sound like purely theological talk until we admit our own failures and personally experience it. This only comes when we realize we can’t “fix” ourselves. We tend to want to earn this type forgiveness rather than accept the gift of it. As recipients of grace, we also have the opportunity to share it with others. We become instruments of the abundance of God’s blessings. When we acknowledge that we are all ragamuffins then perhaps we can show more compassion and understanding for one another. Perhaps we can be more attuned to the challenges that those around us may be facing. As ragamuffins, our only boasting is in Christ and what he has done for us. In our busy lives, perhaps we all need a little time to reflect on this magnificent truth!
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Martin E. Willoughby, Jr. is Chief Operating Officer of Butler Snow Advisory Services, LLC located in Ridgeland. He and his wife Nicki have two children, Ally and Trey, and live in Madison. metrochristianliving.com ❘ AUGUST 2011 11
➺homeworks by CATHY HAYNIE
18 Time Saving TIPS Sort mail by clipping like items with clothes pins. If you label plastic clothes pins with a marker, you can easily clip bills, items to file, tax receipts, items that require action (gift to buy, RSVP, etc.), calendar items, etc. all together.
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Rally the tote bags in your house and set one up for church (sweater, mints, kleenex, crayons, Bible...) and for various activities. If your children do activities like soccer, ballet, or piano lessons, having one bag for each activity is helpful for you and them.
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Dot to Dot saves time in putting away laundry for a large family. Place one dot in the oldest child’s clothes, two dots in the next, then three and so on. As you pass items down, add a dot. But please, do write a name in jackets that go to school!
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I’m sitting in the airport with hours to spare, thanks to a cancelled flight and I’m thinking on ways to save time. When we do little things to improve the way we handle our time, it adds up. Rather than harping on just how busy you are, consider ways to improve the way you use time. Here are some starters. When it comes to children’s clothes, help them lay them out for the week, rather than just for tomorrow. Hanging sweater compartments work well (and some even have labels for Monday through Friday) or try an over the door hanger with multiple hooks.
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Keep a grocery sack on your counter for trash as you cook and save trips back and forth to the trash can.
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Keep an organized shopping list. You’ll have to determine your comfort level- I know folks who have one typed by aisles to highlight what they need, while others work from a master list by category. At the least, place a magnet pad on the side of the fridge and ask everyone to write down items as they use the last of it.
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Before you go to bed tonight try setting up the coffee pot for morning coffee and a crock pot for tomorrow’s dinner. Consider placing frozen fruit and vanilla yogurt in the blender container for a morning smoothie.
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Do all you can to ease your morning rush. Pack book bags, lunches, go over schedules, etc. the night before.
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Give each family member two small laundry baskets for their closet. Throw light and dark dirty clothes in their own basket and you’ve presorted the laundry.
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Establish a loading zone- a place inside the door for all of your in-out essentials: keys, phone, brief case, umbrella, and more. No more “Where is my...”
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Have a central family bulletin board. One place for messages, schedules, and all of that constantly changing information keeps everyone in the loop.
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Have particular nights for particular types of meals. Mexican food Monday, Spaghetti Saturday, or the traditional Sunday roast, takes some of the mental energy out of planning meals, and meal traditions are a chance to score on family favorites.
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Keep some items permanently in your suitcase. A small umbrella is in mine, but I know someone who keeps an extension cord and a clip for the hotel curtain to stay closed. Having a toiletry bag packed all the time is a trip time saver.
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Keep a give away basket or bag in your closet to toss items as you decide they are no longer something you like, enjoy, or use.
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Find at least one way to shorten your “beauty routine,” whether it’s your hairstyle, makeup, shorter nails, or just the products you choose and how you store them. I know someone who keeps the products in her cabinet in the order she uses them. Another idea is a basket on your counter for quick morning clean up.
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Keep paper goods on hand for a busy night and for Sunday mornings. Splurging on to go coffee cups might be another time and hassle saver.
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Cook bulk amounts amount of boneless, skinless chicken in your crock-pot. Shred or dice and freeze for use in meals that call for cooked chicken.
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Keep one to-do list and try diligently to keep all of your to-do items on paper, not in your head. Whether you go high tech or buy a steno pad, making yourself keep it one place is a habit that rewards you time and time again. Y
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Cathy Haynie and her husband Jack have three children and live in Madison. Cathy is the Headmaster of Christ Covenant School in Ridgeland. She occasionally speaks to groups on Honoring God in the Home, Managing the Busy Life, and Balancing Work and Home. Contact her at chaynie@christcovenantschool.net.
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GOODWILL Salutes Volunteers Gray Wiggers, President and CEO of Goodwill Industries gives us an overview of Goodwill MCL: How long has Goodwill been in our metro area? GRAY: Goodwill has had a presence in
the Jackson area since 1958. Today we have five retail discount stores—in Ridgeland, Pearl, Jackson, and Hattiesburg. In 2010 we relocated two new redesigned and improved stores, one in Ridgeland and one in Hattiesburg. Goodwill is a great alternative to a discount retail store. We have quality recycled products at an appealing price. Come Shop or Drop at Goodwill!”
MCL: What does Goodwill try to accomplish that makes it unique as a non-profit organization? GRAY: Doing work evaluations of people with disabilities and other barriers to employment to determine what type of work they might be able to perform is somewhat unique. Classes are available to address social, educational and financial needs of those we serve. Goodwill provides opportunities and rehabilitation services through a caring community enterprise of retail stores which sell recycled clothing, furniture, soft goods and other personal items donated by generous households. Goodwill provides educational opportunities to empower a person towards independent and functional living. Vocational rehabilitation is at the heart of Goodwill. We have a partnership with the Mississippi Department of Vocational Services to provide us candidates for evaluation and training who are disabled or have certain barriers to employment. We have about 100 persons working that might not have employment otherwise.
MCL: What is GIVS? GRAY: GIVS is an acronym for Goodwill Industries Volunteer Services organization, the fundraising and support auxiliary of Goodwill. GIVS volunteers help to raise funds to address specific needs. They provide funds for certain capital needs from delivery trucks, forklifts and office equipment to scholarships for job training courses, medical exams for employees, and special celebrations at holidays and birthdays. 14 AUGUST 2011 ❘ Metro Christian Living
MCL: What is the Volunteer Salute Dinner? GRAY: The GIVS organization recognizes those in our community that have demonstrated unique and notable levels of volunteerism. Annually, a number of persons are nominated from which the eventual honorees are chosen and recognized with a premier dinner in their honor. This dinner is the significant annual fundraiser for Goodwill Industries making it possible for Goodwill to continue to serve our community. This is the 53rd year of continuous support.
TO BECOME A PART OF GOODWILL • Shop in a Goodwill store • Support the Annual Goodwill dinner • Volunteer your time (601-853-8110) • Donate money—it’s tax deductible and a huge investment in the lives of countless deserving and hardworking individuals. We could not exist without faithful community support from our donors, our volunteers and our customers!
Keith Buchanan Remaining open to the needs of other people has taken Keith Buchanan down what he calls an “adventure in volunteerism.” One early adventure came when Keith was asked to lead worship services at a local prison. This opportunity “blew a door wide open” in his heart as he began to gain insight into the hopelessness experienced by those in prison. Believing that God has a wonderful plan for each person’s life—regardless of the particular situation— continues to lead Keith in prison ministry. Preparing young people to make ethical and moral choices over a lifetime is a central passion expressed over the years through his leadership in the Boy Scouts of America and as a middle school Sunday School teacher. Keith joined the St. Dominic Hospital family in 1986. “Watching the Dominican Sisters demonstrate a wonderful attitude of service to others is a tremendous inspiration to me personally,” says Keith. He became involved in St. Dominic’s partnership with Hardy Middle School where he established a “Book Buddy” program, pairing St. Dominic employees as “reading buddies” for each student. Keith also organizes campus enhancement efforts that inspire the student body and the whole school family to shine with pride. Keith has also served since 1993 as a volunteer member of the board of directors of Magnolia Federal Credit Union and is active, along with his wife Kathy and children, Anna and Tom, at Pinelake Church where he has served as an elder and currently as deacon.
Karen Gordon Bush Karen Gordon Bush is the spirit of volunteerism. She feels it is a privilege and an honor to support her community by working to make it a better place. Karen has been a board member, has served as board president, nominating committee chairman, and is currently serving on the advisory board for the Mississippi Children’s Museum Partners. She also is a sustaining member of the Junior League of Jackson, serving on the board as an active member, has served on the Jackson Academy Board of Trustees and is a past President of the Debutante Mothers Club. Karen has served as president of the Jackson Area Delta Gamma Alumnae Chapter, which awarded her the highly selective Oxford Award for community service, given to only a few outstanding alumnae in the nation. She has also frequently volunteered at the First Baptist Church of Jackson.
Michael P. Cottingham Michael P. Cottingham shares his time, experience, and business acumen with many organizations, but he is especially committed to the Mississippi Symphony Orchestra and the March of Dimes. Mike’s love
of music, as evidenced by bachelor and master’s degrees from Louisiana State University, drives his passion for the Mississippi Symphony Orchestra. For over six years, he has served in leadership positions and currently serves as Past Chairman of the Board. Mike has served as Past President of March of Dimes and was named 2003 Citizen of the Year. He has chaired or co-chaired the March of Dimes Fall Classic Golf Tournament for 25 years and is also a long-time member of Century Club Charities. Mike currently serves as a Senior Wealth Management Consultant at Trustmark, and in 2008 he became one of the first professionals to receive the Certified Wealth Strategist® designation. Mike is an exemplary volunteer who has given untold hours and provided sound guidance and leadership to ensure the continued success of the Mississippi Symphony Orchestra and the March of Dimes, positively impacting these organizations and the community.
Sandra K. Burrow For decades, Sandra Burrow has been dedicated to helping the less fortunate among us. For over 25 years, “Sandy” has coordinated a monthly initiative to provide hot meals to 60 men at the Billy Brumfield Homeless Shelter. She has also participated in the Taste of Mississippi fundraiser for Stewpot, helped build homes in Jackson with Habitat for Humanity, raised money to buy video and board games for Hope House, led Christmas present drives for Mississippi Food Network recipients, and has organized and participated in walking teams to raise money and awareness for sickle cell, diabetes, and cancer. The work that truly shines with Sandy’s touch is the Heroes Bowling Tournament, which she initiated and coordinated as a project of the Women’s Auxiliary to the American Red Cross, Capital River Chapter, assembling volunteers, teams, and sponsors. Last year, the tournament raised more than $15,000 and will continue as an annual benefit for the Red Cross.
Dr. Suman K. Das Dr. Suman Das is a healer, an educator, and a man of great ideas. It was Dr. Das’s idea for the first Mississippi Children’s Museum Educational Fair to create a hands-on learning experience surrounding a car wreck. Students were riveted and eagerly learned the roles of everyone involved in a wreck, from emergency first responders to insurance companies and every profession in between. metrochristianliving.com ❘ AUGUST 2011 15
Doctor Das was also a member of the Board of Greater Jackson Community Foundation, Mississippi Symphony Orchestra, Hindu Temple of Mississippi, and The Knife and Fork Club. He is also a member of The South Eastern Society of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeons. The good doctor also volunteers his time as a board member for St. Dominic Hospital’s Community Outreach Program and as a member of the Steering Committee for the Anti-Racism Task force for St. Dominic’s Hospital. An educational hero to Mississippi’s children, Dr.Das is an inspiration to all.
David Marsh David Marsh founded Benchmark Construction Corporation, a regional commercial construction firm, in 1979. David has been appointed by three different governors to the Mississippi State Board of Contractors, serving one term as president. A graduate of Millsaps College, he is past president of the Alumni Council and was honored to receive the Livesay Service Award. In addition to serving on the advisory board for the Else School of Management as well as the boards of St. Andrew’s Episcopal School, First Commercial Bank, and Mississippi Associated Builders and Contractors, David is chairman of the building committee for St. Peter’s Catholic Church and has served on the boards of the Mississippi State Board for Community Colleges, the Jackson Y.M.C.A, and the advisory board of River Oaks Hospital. For the past 15 years, he has been very active on the Willowood Developmental Center Board, also serving as president, David especially enjoyed his years coaching youth baseball and served as commissioner for North Jackson Youth Baseball. Encouraging others to get involved in volunteering, Marsh says, “All the volunteer work that I have done has been a fun activity and I never considered it work. There are many organizations that have an environment that creates an uplifting atmosphere. Many organizations make you look forward to being involved and playing a role in their mission.”
Nora Frances McRae Nora Frances McRae cannot remember a time when volunteering and contributing to her community was not a part of her life. She learned to love serving others through involvement in church but had ample opportunity to watch her parents participate in all sorts of community organizations in her hometown of Columbus. Today, she is a tireless advocate for the arts and education. Nora Frances contributes her time, leadership, and energy to the Junior League of Jackson, the Greater Belhaven Community Foundation, Galloway Memorial United Methodist Church, St. Andrew’s Episcopal School, the 16 AUGUST 2011 ❘ Metro Christian Living
Mississippi Symphony Orchestra, Ballet Mississippi, Mississippi Opera Guild, Jackson Friends of the Library, and Bookfriends of the University Press of Mississippi. She was Chairman of the Board for the Center for the Prevention of Child Abuse. She says, “Volunteering has given me countless, far-ranging benefits—friends from different walks of life, a better understanding of my entire community and new skills to contribute to future endeavors. As wonderful as all these by-products are, I sincerely hope that my greatest benefit has been to strengthen me as a parent and example to my children.”
Hazel Thornton Inspired by her daughter, Edith Lynn, Hazel Thornton became involved in many programs that help the mentally challenged live their lives to the fullest. Realizing the need for an auxiliary to work with SON Valley, an assisted-living community for adults with mental retardation, Hazel helped organize the SON Valley Ladies Auxiliary and served as its first president. Organizations like Willowood Development Center, Mustard Seed, Leukemia Society, March of Dimes, Bethlehem Center, and VA Nursing Home have also benefited from Hazel’s dedication and hard work. Hazel was an active member of the Parent’s Club at the Willowood Development Center; worked with the youth of Briarwood United Methodist Church and ministers to those who are sick or otherwise confined to their homes; has been neighborhood chairman for the Leukemia Society and the March of Dimes; and actively volunteers at the Bethlehem Center and has volunteered at Casey Elementary School.
Gail Pittman Gail Pittman’s art has brightened countless homes and dinner tables, but the kindness of her heart has brightened the days of so many others. Gail teaches weekly art classes at Mission First in inner city Jackson, taught art classes in Grenada and Tupelo public schools for grant projects, designed and installed a 90-foot mosaic mural for the Oprah Winfrey Boys and Girls Club, and created special patterns to help raise funds for Blair E. Batson Children’s Hospital and the LeBonner Children’s Hospital Auxiliary, as well as for Habitat for Humanity. She also designed the “Hope and Future” pattern to support a national fundraising campaign for Salvation Army and American Red Cross disaster relief efforts after Hurricane Katrina. In addition to donating her craft, Gail has donated her time to the boards of the Hederman Cancer Center, American Red Cross, Reservoir Foundation, Madison County Foundation, Sanderson Farms, and for 11 years served on the board of the Greater Jackson Partnership.
“Every one of us is born with gifts and talents. We all have a part to play in this life,� says Gail. “We have the choice to use our gifts to help our fellow man or not. This life is a “vapor� and one out of one of us will die. The most powerful thing any of us can do is to use our gifts to make a positive impact on someone else’s life. That is the legacy that will travel through time and generations. To me, it is like touching those in the future.�
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Amanda Cox Amanda Cox is a junior at Jackson Preparatory School and is involved in the debate team, the swim team and Youth Legislature. In 2009 and in 2011, “Mandie� was awarded the Presidential Volunteer Service Award, given to those who have performed at least 100 hours of service in a calendar year. Jackson Prep Senior High students regularly go to Casey Elementary to teach physical education, health, and nutrition skills to third graders. Mandie led this project like an experienced administrator, organizing student volunteers, writing lesson plans, arranging drivers, and assigning faculty team leaders every week. In addition, she tutors at Camp Pioneer, worked as a lifeguard and counselor at Camp Pioneer, is active with dog therapy nursing home visits, and volunteers at Ronald McDonald House, the University of Mississippi Medical Center, the Salvation Army, and Methodist Rehabilitation Center. Y
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hat was the question I asked the Lord the morning I transcribed my first forensic interview of a sexually abused child. I was a seminary student working part-time thinking that the job was only temporary. I remember feeling the headphones on my ears and listening to the terrible description of what happened to that child. Two weeks of nightmares followed as I processed what was too much to imagine. Then, grace “kicked in,” the nightmares stopped, and from that point on, there was never a doubt that I was where I was supposed to be. People always ask me how I do this work. I can only answer what I know to be true: Grace. Grace enables us to do what we do. I wonder how policemen do their jobs when they pull a dying person out of a horrendous drunk driving car wreck. I wonder how doctors do their jobs when they have to tell a family there is no hope. I wonder how missionaries go into dangerous lands to minister the love of Christ,. I wonder how so many people survive the things they do and live to tell about it with tremendous strength. As Christians, the grace and the strength of God within us enable us. While I wonder over these issues, my question remains before the Lord, “How do people who profess to love You, NOT do these things if You have called them to serve You?” At age 41, the Lord convicted me of not studying the Bible, even though I had been raised “in church” and attended weekly with my family as a child. As an adult, we raised our children “in church” also. When in 1993 God broke my heart over cold love for Him and His Holy Word, I cried for two weeks and then I began to study. With the Holy Spirit as my teacher, I studied deeply for three years. Then, I began studies in Bible at Belhaven College. After graduation, I moved to the U.S./Mexican Border where God was leading me. I spent a lot of time in prayer and studies but learned the truest meaning of Christmas there when I visited an orphanage in Juarez with a group from a local church in El Paso. The pastor who was over the orphanage decided to take his “children” to minister to families who were needier than they were. Realize, his “children” had been abandoned on the streets of Juarez, at garbage dumps or left on his doorstep. So, we were off on a cold snowy Christmas morning. The children had blankets to take to the families. We went to the most destitute of areas in Juarez. The families were living in shacks, with often only one coal oil heater to keep them warm. The one room shanties were smoke-filled and an oily fog permeated the air. Many of the children were sick. Outside, the snow was on the ground and human waste was everywhere. With no modern plumbing or water, I, who had been accustomed to so much, saw firsthand the destitution at America’s back door. It hurt my heart. Returning to Mississippi later, I began studies at Reformed Theological Seminary. Remembering the robbery of my home in the early 1990’s, I had begun to go to the jails back then to teach women Bible. I didn’t plan it. It
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was just God who led me there. Checking on our stolen property one day, I asked, “Does anyone teach Bible to women here in the jail?” The answer back then was, “no,” and so I began teaching women in the holding cell with my prayer partner. Later we went to another county and I remember asking the Lord one day, “Lord, what will ever make a difference? There are so many.” The only answer that came was, “Truth from the Word is all that will matter.” Today, I know that is truer than ever. The women asked for Bibles, so we bought them Bibles. When a person only has a pillow, a cot, and a Bible, God can do amazing things in a heart. In recent years, I taught classes on healing from sexual abuse to women in the Rankin County Restitution Center. The women had never received therapy like we recommend for our abused children today. No one saw the value in them as children and I was now hearing, “Nobody cares about us.” Sadly, all too often, that is true. We have thrown away many opportunities for service in this country and people made in God’s image are the burden we all share. While teaching these women, I was reminded of the answer I’d learned years earlier, “Truth from The Word IS all that will matter.” So, I have continued to study. I study for the Lord and His people. I go to work every day to help others because it matters to my Lord. I study the Scriptures for Him, myself and others. Studying develops my understanding of WHO He is and of my relationship with Him and that enables me to live a life worthy of my calling. My future determines my present: God knows the purpose He created me to fulfill before the beginning of the world and He will finish what He started. Our past does not determine our lives for the future: Our past only prepares us for what lies ahead when we seek to honor God. The desire of my heart is to help others understand who they truly are in Christ and realize what they are capable of doing. “How in the world did I get here?” One step at a time. One day at a time. Never easy, but definitely worth it. Y Brenda Gail Foster is the Family Advocate at the Mississippi Children’s Advocacy Center, a non-profit organization serving children who have been physically or sexually abused, suffered neglect, or are witnesses to violence.
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Juanita Sims Doty Servin Dr. Juanita Sims Doty has a resume as long as your arm. She is definitely a “ten talent” person, and I will just tell you straight up. You need to google her to get it all! She says she serves God by serving others. That is not cliché. She really does. Presently serving as the Senior Advisor for Outreach with the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development which is an arm of the National Institutes of Health, she has been a professor, speech pathologist, a business owner, a Human Resources Director, a talk show co-host, and a zealous and tireless fund-raiser and volunteer to non-profits. Her nature is to give to others, and the basis for her servant’s heart is her love for Jesus Christ. Number twelve of thirteen siblings, Juanita grew up eight miles north of Canton. Her impoverished beginnings right in the middle of the Civil Rights movement, could have left her bitter or could have influenced her to leave Mississippi and its conflicted culture behind. She certainly had ample opportunity. Whatever challenges presented themselves to Juanita in those early years—nothing could overcome years old. It was then she chose to sit in what was called “the chair” her rock solid faith or convince her that she was not incredibly blessed. and tell the congregation that she wanted to publicly confess Christ as After all, she had a close and loving family, a mother and dad who her Lord and Savior. “I know that I had accepted Him in my heart provided for her needs, and a small community of believers that years earlier.” But in the black churches out in the country, this was gathered at the Mt. Zion the way it was done. All Missionary Baptist Church children who had not several times a week. She made a profession of faith was safe, loved, and had to sit on the mourner’s grateful. bench until they could “The first place any of articulate their salvation to us went after our birth was the other members of the to church. Mother was the congregation. head usher and Daddy was During the week, the head deacon. Over the Juanita’s mother worked as years, it seemed we burned a housekeeper for up the road walking back different white families in and forth that mile Canton. Her father, J.B. between church and Sr. farmed. The family home.” If the doors were grew much of their own open, the Sims were there. food and also kept pigs, Gospel singing was also a chickens, and cows. Even big family activity that so, everyone had to continues to this day. Sims contribute to making ends night is an annual meet. Juanita hoed and elaborate concert that picked cotton every fall includes every member of from the time she was a the family. The siblings little girl until she went to Juanita, (standing second from left) is flanked by her family. Kneeling: Theresa and Eanna Sims, come from all over the college. “It’s just what we Kabah McCullough, Jermicah Bracey. Middle row: Karla McCullough holding her son, Matthew, country to perform did,” she says. For Juanita Juanita, Georgia Sims. Shirley Christian, Cassaundra McCullough. Back row: Justin Sims, Dr. together the first weekend it was not unusual to hop Kimberly Smash, Jerriot Smash, Emmit Bracey, Jeraline Bracey, James Bracey and Tamara Bracey. in August. Their concert, in the back of a pick-up which packs in the people truck at 5:00 a.m., ride up wall to wall rotates between their Mt. Zion church in Canton and to the Delta to pick cotton all day, get home after dark, fall asleep, and Greater Tabernacle Missionary Baptist Church in Chicago where one get up and do it all over again the next day. of her brothers pastored for years. It would seem that picking cotton interrupted the school year, but Learning about Jesus was an everyday thing at the Sims house. Juanita always managed to catch up. She graduated from Rogers Juanita sat on the “Mourner’s Bench” at a revival when she was twelve Attendance Center in 1969 as valedictorian of her class. 20 AUGUST 2011 ❘ Metro Christian Living
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When Juanita enrolled at the University of Southern Mississippi that same year, she was one of approximately 50 African American students on campus. This was her first experience with a predominantly white school since she had attended the black schools in Canton her entire life. Contrary to the national perception of racial strife on college campuses in the South during that era, Juanita has only positive things to say. One of the first things she did when she arrived at USM was to locate the Baptist Student Union. It was there she made her first friends and found opportunities to connect. Pursuing a degree in speech pathology and a minor in special education, Juanita struck a balance between working hard and involving herself in collegiate life. The student body elected her to the homecoming court in 1973 and again in 1974. Obviously, Juanita, who was much in the minority, had won the respect and the friendship of many white students. The 1973 yearbook, The Southerner, reveals a very popular campus leader who was in all the campus honoraries. Even though she broke some barriers as the first African American to do this or that, you get the feeling that for Juanita, it was less breaking barriers than just being who she was and following the principles her mom and dad had taught her back on Tithelo Road years before. You do your best. You give to others. You share what you have. There were a litany of lessons and this girl had learned them well. She has discovered over the course of her life that when she sticks to those principles her parents taught her, she may not have a detailed plan for what comes next, but she can count on the fact that God will lead her where He wants her to go and He will provide what she needs to get there. She was nearing completion of her graduate degree when USM offered her a position as the first African American Admissions counselor. She had barely begun that job when USM received the funding for a preschool speech and language department. They asked her to come over and run that new program for them temporarily. Temporary turned into three years!
When Juanita moved back to Jackson in 1980, she opened a private practice as a speech therapist. She had developed a relationship with Head Start since she was one of the few African American speech therapists around. Many times Head Start children were sent to speech therapy and it was difficult to determine if the communication problem was caused by a dialect or Black English. Juanita was in great demand. She began to be contracted by Head Start programs everywhere. As the Head Start consulting accelerated, she felt that she needed to have greater skills with pre-schoolers. She enrolled at Jackson State University toward a doctorate in Early Childhood Education. Her abilities attracted the attention of her professors and before she graduated JSU asked her to teach speech and language pathology “for just a semester.” That turned into several years! She was surprised to discover in her work at JSU how much she enjoyed working with collegiates, watching them develop, pursue their interests and discover their callings. As a “people” person she frequently fell into the role of mentor, friend, and confidante to those she taught.
A beaming Juanita (center) receives her doctorate from Jackson State University. metrochristianliving.com ❘ AUGUST 2011 21
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Left: Juanita as the senior maid in USM’s homecoming court 1972. Above: Juanita and Pat Fordice whose talk show “Woman to Woman” forged a best friend relationship with the unlikely pair.
She began taking her students all over the country, attending different conferences letting them speak, present, write papers. The students were growing in huge ways, but their accomplishments were also drawing attention to Jackson State. Juanita’s core principles learned as a child back on Tithelo Road were transferring to bigger things. Today JSU offers a scholarship, endowed by the Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority, in Juanita’s name to worthy women students who possess the “Juanita qualities” of leadership, character, service, and compassion.
Family Needs and a Willing Volunteer Although Juanita has no children of her own, she has been a second mother to three nieces and a cheerleader for their mother who became a widow at the young age of 26. Cassaundra, sibling number thirteen, lost her husband unexpectedly in 1982. With daughters, seven, six, and four, she was afraid, devastated, and too grieved to think straight. It was her sister Juanita who came to the rescue. She handled everything in those first overwhelming days, but she continued to be a source of strength and a steady force in the lives of her sister and the girls. Cassaundra describes a sister who was “more than a sister.” She was there financially, emotionally, educationally, physically as the girls grew up. These three little girls have gone far. Kim is a physician in family practice. Kabah is an attorney with Minact, and Karla has taken the title of Executive Director of the Juanita Sims Doty Foundation, a recently formed entity which Juanita says “will be our family’s legacy.” Compassion may have been something her parents stressed, but Juanita (Auntie Lue) was wired to care and to demonstrate in tangible ways just how much she did care. Kabah says “I guess the basic premise of Auntie Lue’s life is ‘love others as Christ has loved us.’ I honestly believe that her giving nature is what has led to the great successes that she has experienced in her life. - not monetary or notoriety type success, but the success of leaving indelible impressions on the lives of persons like me.” Kimberly speaks of Juanita as an example of work ethic and spiritual fortitude. “Through her actions, I have learned to ‘walk by faith and not by sight’ as we Christians are admonished to do in 2 Corinthians 5:7.” Karla, too, speaks of Juanita’s work ethic and her constant reminder to “give back.” Karla also calls herself the sister who sometimes “tried different ventures” not always to her “Aunt Lue’s liking.” But Juanita was always there, always supportive and very much a “second mother” in the best sense of the word. 22 AUGUST 2011 ❘ Metro Christian Living
It was 1997 when Juanita was involved in a women’s conference in Jackson. First Lady Pat Fordice was one of the speakers. Five hundred women attended the conference and as Juanita read responses and evaluations from the attendees, she was struck with the overwhelming number of requests to give more information on several topics the conference had touched on. Juanita took the responses and the requests to heart. What more could be done on a consistent basis to address women’s concerns. She had an idea and began to pray about it. Almost immediately she ran into Pat Fordice and as they greeted each other like long lost friends. Juanita, the black Democrat and Pat, the white Republican…but they just connected from the very start. Juanita broached the subject. “Pat, I have an idea,” she said. She boldly laid it all out. “Let’s do a television program.” They could keep the momentum of the women’s conference going and constantly connect women with the resources that had answers to their questions on issues that mattered to women. Pat did not hesitate. She just looked at Juanita and said, “Okay. When do we start?” Such was the beginning of a close friendship that neither had imagined. Over the next several years on MS Public Broadcasting, the two unlikely friends became very best friends as they produced “Woman to Woman” once a week. For six years the two ladies traveled the state interviewing, deciphering information, and discussing how the information they uncovered could make a difference in the lives of women. The response was beyond their wildest dreams. They became inseparable. Juanita took Pat to NYC to see James Brown on Broadway. Incidentally, while there Pat prefaced every family telephone conversation with “I feel good.” Pat took Juanita to California to visit her brother and his family. Juanita’s favorite of favorite books is The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. Aside from some major fun shopping on Rodeo Drive, the highlight of her trip was meeting Rick Warren, arranged by Pat’s nephew who worked at Saddleback Church.
And then….what next? Juanita spent five years as a regional director for her sorority, Alpha Kappa Alpha, a sorority of collegiate black women who are committed to serving their community. The volunteer platform the ladies fulfilled exceeded anything the volunteer auxiliary could have imagined. Juanita
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was constantly finding new venues where the community minded ingénues could make a difference. If there is one thing she understands it is networking and bringing together regular people who can make a difference. The leadership of AKA may have been amazed at Juanita’s energy and commitment, but it did not surprise her family. They knew that when Juanita is committed to anything at all, it is a 100% sold out commitment. The Juanita Sims Doty Foundation was formally established in 2010 although the work of the foundation began five years ago when the Sims family began participating together in various volunteer community activities. As the Sims were always encouraged to “give back” the foundation insures that there will always be that stamp of encouragement and affirmation in places that desperately need the investment of time, talent, and someone’s sheer passion to leave a place better than you found it. The foundation’s mission is to “ignite a spirit of collaboration and service.” The foundation’s goal is to provide funding and support to community and faith based organizations. At the moment the foundation is pouring their efforts into the work at Mission First, a 501 C3 organization whose campus at 275 Roseneath Street in South Jackson has brought amazing hope and transformation to many families who live in the area. With a legal aid office, a free medical and dental clinic and a host of children’s activities and ministries, Mission First has brought salt and light and noticeable change to a place that was thirsty for such a presence. The foundation’s energy at the moment is focused on making sure potential donors know about the work of Mission First—their efforts and their results. The foundation, in the role of advocate, has the opportunity to connect Mission First with individuals and corporate entities who share a common interest in child welfare and children’s and women’s overall wellness. Connecting is one of Juanita’s strongest skill sets. Her first endeavor on behalf of Mission First was to secure a donor for an x-ray processor the dental clinic needed. This is a perfect example of the way her mind works. She sees a need and begins to think, “How can I possibly make this happen?” Being the “people” person that she is…she usually knows someone who knows someone and who could say ‘No’ to Juanita? But it’s the principal “Someone” named Jesus Christ that keeps Juanita’s mind turning, her heart beating, and her motivation in high gear to serve her fellow man and in doing so she says, “I serve God by serving others.” Y
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Mary Alice Clark Mary Alice Clark and her husband Watts have been married for fifty-seven years and live in Jackson. They attend Christ United Methodist Church and have 4 children and 5 grandchildren. God has shown me that He allows hardships and difficult times in our lives so that we may grow into the person He wants us to be. When I was first diagnosed with cancer in 1986, God showered His love upon me from the very beginning of my illness. He worked through others to bring the right prayers, scriptures and words at just the right time. Never have I felt God’s love and mercy in such a profound way. God then blessed me and allowed me to be free of cancer for 23 years. For 21 years I taught Kindergarten at First Presbyterian Day School. I have lived to see my own children grow up, marry, and to know my grandchildren. And I had the privilege of working with the Prayer Ministry and helping to organize a Cancer Ministry and a Prayer Quilt Ministry at my church. What a blessing it has been to see these ministries grow and touch so many lives. The cancer returned in July 2009 and even as I deal with this illness again, I continue to seek God’s presence and abide in Him daily. God made us to have fellowship with Him. It is necessary to communicate with Him through prayer and the reading of His word. These words of Charles Stanley of InTouch Ministries have meant so much to me: “The Bible provides light to guide us, food to nourish, comfort to cheer our hearts and an anchor in times of storm. My prayer is that you will look to God no matter what your circumstances may be. Know that He is in control, provides for your needs, is always with you and loves you - because that is the way to have peace, strength, and assurance no matter what comes your way.� “Have mercy on me, Oh God, have mercy on me, for in You my soul takes refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of Your wings until the disaster has passed.� Psalm 57:1
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➺the doctor is in by DR. KIRK R. JEFFREYS, III, M.D.
Regular Eye and Vision Care Crucial to Classroom Success
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ith the end of summer upon us, it’s already time to begin gearing up for another school
year. Sometimes, while scrambling to purchase the latest and greatest school supplies and fashion accessories, and performing other tasks on the back-to-school checklist, scheduling a thorough eye exam for each child before they head to the classroom can get lost in the shuffle. Healthy vision is an important part to the learning process and success in school. Reading, writing and computer work are among the visual skills that students are required to perform daily. Despite the strong correlation between vision and learning, many Americans underestimate the number of children affected by eye and vision problems. The fact is that one in four students has a visual impairment. A child’s vision may change frequently, yet most parents are not including eye exams as part of their child’s back-toschool checklist. This is unfortunate because regular eye and vision care is crucial to a student’s classroom success. Since it is possible for children to have serious vision problems without being aware of them, the American Academy of Ophthalmology recommends screenings during regular pediatric appointments, and vision testing is recommended for all children around three years of age. After Age 3, children should have their eyes screened every one to two years. If there is a family history of vision problems or if your child appears to have strabismus (crossed eyes), amblyopia (lazy eye), or ptosis (drooping of the upper eyelid) you should speak with your eye care
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professional about when and how often your child’s eyes should be examined. In between visits to the eye doctor, parents, as well as teachers, should keep a watchful eye out for some of the more prevalent signs that a child’s vision may be impaired. It is recommended that parents contact their eye care professional if their child frequently: 1. Loses place while reading 2. Tends to rub eyes 3. Has headaches 4. Turns or tilts head 5. Uses finger to maintain place when reading 6. Consistently performs below potential 7. Struggles to complete homework 8. Squints while reading or watching television 9. Has behavioral problems 10. Holds reading material closer than normal
It is especially important to monitor the signs and symptoms of vision problems as a student progresses in school. If a child’s vision is impaired, increasing visual demands such as smaller print in textbooks or additional homework can significantly alter a student’s performance. And, new technology changes in the classroom, such as the use of interactive whiteboards, can also potentially exacerbate less obvious vision problems. Without healthy vision, students may suffer not only in the classroom, but also mentally, physically and emotionally. The earlier a vision problem is detected and treated, the more likely treatment will be successful. Comprehensive eye exams play a critical role in this process. It is important to keep in mind, a school vision screening, while helpful, is not a substitute for a comprehensive eye examination. Screenings vary in scope and are not designed to detect many visual problems that can significantly impact tasks like reading where more than clarity of vision is needed. Comprehensive eye exams are essential for comfortable and healthy vision. Y Kirk Jeffreys, M.D., is a Jackson, Mississippi-based ophthalmologist with EyeCare Professionals. Visit him at 1501 Lakeland Drive, Suite 100, or online at www.eyecare4ms.com.
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“My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of Him that sent me, and to finish His work.”
by LYDIA BOLEN
– John 4:34
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eaching children to cook is to teach them one of life’s basic skills. Cooking with your children can be a way to
teach them to carry on with family traditions, many children love the opportunity to measure, mix, and bake. They don’t even seem to mind the clean up afterward! It is fun to explore kid-friendly recipes with easy to follow instructions. My English Muffin Pizza was my own children’s
favorite. Today my grandchildren are enjoying the same easy recipe! The recipe for Peanut Butter and Jelly Muffins and the S’More Brownies will require adult supervision. Both are easy variations of children’s favorites. Take the time to look through your family favorites, and make family traditions to pass down for generations to come.
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cups all-purpose flour teaspoon salt tablespoon baking powder cup milk large eggs cup sugar cup creamy peanut butter cup vegetable oil cup seedless strawberry jam or preserves 1/4 cup sugar
Heat oven to 375 degrees. Spray muffin pan with no-stick cooking spray. Stir together flour, salt and baking powder in a large bowl. Add milk, eggs, 2/3 cup sugar, peanut butter and oil to bowl. Combine ingredients on low speed of electric mixer, just until moistened. Do not over beat. Fill prepared muffin cups evenly with half of the batter. Place 2 level teaspoons jam or preserves in the center of each muffin. Evenly divide remaining batter between muffin cups. Sprinkle with 1/4 cup sugar. Bake 18 to 20 minutes. Remove from oven. Cool in pan 5 minutes. Serves 12.
(21.5 ounce) package brownie mix graham crackers cups miniature marshmallows (1.5 ounce) bars milk chocolate, coarsely chopped
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Prepare brownie mix according to package directions. Spread into a greased 9 by 13 pan. In a medium bowl, break graham crackers into 1 inch pieces and toss with miniature marshmallows and milk chocolate. Set s’more mixture aside. Bake brownies for 15 minutes in the preheated oven. Remove, and sprinkle the s’more goodies evenly over the top. Bake for an additional 15 to 20 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Allow brownies to cool before cutting into squares. Serves 20.
After slicing the English muffin, place the tomato/pizza sauce on each half of the English muffin. Top your “pizza” with a few pepperoni slices or other favorite pizza toppings. Place your completed “pizza” on an aluminum foil-lined baking sheet in an oven preheated to 350 degrees, or in a toaster oven. Bake for 5 to 10 minutes, depending on how crispy your child likes their pizza, or until the cheese is a golden brown color. Repeat for more servings. Y
Remember to make memories through the kitchen...”the heartbeat of the home”. You can go to my blog at www.lydiasapron.blogspot.com for more of my favorite recipes. Email me at lbbolen@gmail.com for any questions. Have fun with your little ones in the kitchen teaching them to cook; a valuable life skill! metrochristianliving.com ❘ AUGUST 2011 27
➺modern motherhood by ROBIN O’BRYANT
A Mother’s Gotta Dive
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I stood on the end of a diving board for the first time in more years than I can remember and I was immediately sympathetic.
“Wow. This is kind of scary.” I wondered if I would belly flop or bust my face but there was no turning back. “You can do it Momma! I believe in you!” Aubrey, my six-year-old yelled from the side of the pool. I took a deep breath and with confidence that I didn’t feel, I took a running leap off the end of the diving board and hoped for the best. I surfaced to Aubrey’s cheers, “That was great Momma! I think I can do that.” After a few days of swimming lessons at our local pool, Aubrey had broken down into tears at home. “It’s so hard! I don’t know how to dive and I landed on my face and it hurt really bad!” “Honey, you are only six. You are just learning, it’s really okay!” Her chin quivered and my eyes teared up. “But Momma, it’s so embarrassing for everyone to watch!” I remembered all too well the hot feeling of shame that made my face turn red and my heart race as a child when I was put on the spot to do anything requiring atheletcism, coordination or grace. “Would it help you to practice with me all by yourself?” Aubrey stopped crying and nodded vigorously. This is how I found myself in my tankini, on the end of a diving board, attempting to dive. I hoped and prayed if I hurt myself I would at least be able to keep from crying in front of my daughter. Aubrey was thrilled to have my undivided attention. She showed me all the strokes she had learned in her lessons and bravely attempted to dive off the side of the pool. “You know Aubrey, there are going to be a lot of things in life you aren’t going to like or want to do. There will probably even be things you will have to do that are embarrassing. It’s just life,” I said paddling in the water with her. “It’s like your grandmother always tells you, ‘It’s about your attitude.’ If you have a good attitude everything is better. Don’t be embarrassed of what you can do. You’re just learning.”
Aubrey smiled her snaggletoothed grin and climbed out of the pool. “I think I’m ready for the diving board!” She walked the length of the board and curled her toes around the end. She began giving herself a pep talk, “You can do this Aubrey. You’re happy! You’re not scared! You are happy! It’s all about attitude! Think like a tree. THINK like a tree! Keep your legs straight! JUST like a Barbie’s! You can DO THIS!” With that, she pushed off the diving board and although it wasn’t a perfect dive, her hands entered the water first, followed by her head then her feet. I stood and cheered as she surfaced. She was grinning from ear to ear. “I did it Momma!” “You did! Aren’t you glad you are learning how to dive?” I asked as she swam to the side and held on to my legs. “You have to learn so that one day, when you have a daughter you can teach HER how to dive. If you don’t know how to dive how will you teach her?” Aubrey shrugged and giggled, “I’ll just take her to swimming lessons.”
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Robin O’Bryant is a wife, stay-at-home-mother to three daughters, author, humor columnist and speaker. She thanks God for the days she is successfully able to multi-task. Read her blog at www.robinschicks.com or contact her via email at robinschicks@gmail.com.
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ere’s to those of you who are launching that child out of the nest and into a world of college, military, or work force. Congratulations! What a sense of accomplishment! I have just graduated my fourth son from college. For the past 12 years I have had someone in college! My son has commented to others, “Not sure who is more excited, me or my dad!� I would answer both. He is now on his own and I just got a pay raise! Sound familiar? So what is next for the parents who are left? Hopefully you have begun to ask that question. Hopefully you started asking that question a couple of years ago. Unfortunately, one of the startling statistics of this stage is that the fastest growing divorce rate is among those couples who have been married over 25 years. The reason is for most couples they have spent most of their marriage focused on keeping the child or children happy and have not kept their marriage growing and vibrant. Now that the couple has more time together, they do not know how to renew the spark, or even have the desire to make the marriage grow. So they choose to separate and invest their energies in other “adventures.� I would like to offer some suggestions for what I would like to call us, “the emerging adventurers,� rather than the empty nesters or baby boomers. You see every life, every marriage has different seasons. We should enjoy each season of our life and learn to appreciate what we have at this season and make this season come alive. Just as we look forward to the upcoming football season; why not have that same enthusiasm (do you realize that that word actually means, “In God!�) for the new season that awaits us. Bucket List. Did you see the movie? If not, I would encourage you check it out and watch it together. Then take a sheet of paper and write
down some of the things you would each like to do in this new season. You now have more time and maybe even a little more money than when you first got married to make an investment into your relationship. Maybe it is taking up a new hobby together, like ballroom dancing, golf, tennis, or cooking classes. Remember “where there is no vision the people perish.� I often tell people, “If you aim at nothing you hit it.� Laugh. Go watch a funny movie, go somewhere and just watch people. You know we really are a strange people. God loves each one of us, and His sense of humor in His creation is a delight. What are some things that you do delight in? Take turns remembering some of the funny things you use to do together and reflect and remember. Date. Do you remember when you started dating and how you moved slowly. Take your time. There is still plenty of time. Enjoy the process and pursue (that means seek after) each other. Reacquaint yourself with each other and make time for the relationship. Go to dinner and just be quiet. Pray for each other silently. But start making time for each other. So what is next? That depends on you. Romans 8:15 in the Message states, “Learn to live adventurously expectant, saying, ‘What’s next, Papa.’� You are still on an adventure and the next season can be just as exciting as the past ones and maybe even better. Remember adventures have suspense and joy all mixed together. Launch ‘em and now set sail on the next great adventure together. Y Ron Mumbower is the Director of Summit Counseling at First Baptist Church Jackson. He will be teaching a class on “Living the Great Adventure in the Next Season,� starting Wednesday evenings September 7 at First Baptist Church, Jackson.
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Spiderman and Other Teachable Moments was riding down the road today zoned out in my own little world of thoughts when I realized that my two year old son was repeating something to me over and again. We all as mothers have to zone out now and then to stay sane, don’t we? It is virtually impossible to attend to every sentence that our precious chattering children fling at us throughout the day. Anyway, I finally turned down the radio and said, “What, honey?� He answered, “Mommy, I want to see Spiderman.� I responded, “Baby, you are watching Spiderman.� You see, he was in the back seat of the van watching the DVD player. I said, “Spiderman is in there. Just watch your movie. You are fine.� My responses didn’t deter him in the least. He just kept on. “No, Mommy! I want to see Spiderman now!� He kept right on crying and begging and whining! Then, it registered in my clueless brain what he was meaning with his repetitive comments. He was saying that he didn’t like that part of the movie he was watching. He wanted to see Spiderman in action throwing his web and saving people and scaling the sides of buildings. He was bored with the scenes of Peter Parker and the humdrum of everyday life. Again, he called out to me desperately wanting me to fix the problem. I said to him, “I’m sorry, buddy. You’ve just got to watch and wait and you will see him. Just watch and wait.� That is the moment that the light bulb came on in my spirit. My, oh my, how we are just like two year olds so many times! As we are driving down the road of life, we find ourselves in places where we don’t want to be. Things aren’t going the way we want them to go. Maybe we are bored with our circumstances, or we are tired of the place we find ourselves. We call out to the Lord and say, “Lord, I want...� For some it is peace and for others it is healing. At times, we want a specific person or a particular thing. It could be that we want to reach a different life stage or quickly pass through a time of struggle. Sometimes, we simply want to get to the good part just like my son! Our Lord responds in a variety of ways. Has He ever responded to you just how I did? “You’ll be fine. Just watch and wait and it will come.� At other times, He immediately pulls us out of the place we find ourselves, but sometimes he doesn’t. Most of the time, just like my son, we don’t want to wait. We just want what we want
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without much tolerance for the rest. It amazes me that even at two years of age we can already demand, “Push forward.� He wanted me to fast forward the disc to get to the good part. Don’t we ask God to do the same in our lives? Now think back to my conversation with him. I tried to reassure him with my promises. I promised him that Spiderman was coming. He would see him in a minute. He was okay and just to wait. I said all these things and more! Well, you know what is remarkable? Our Lord tries to comfort us with His promises as well. In 2 Corinthians, Paul pleaded with the Lord to take a thorn from his flesh. In other words, He begged God to take something painful from his life and the Lord responded, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.� Joshua 1:5 says, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.� Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.� These are just a few of the countless examples from His word. I guess what it really boils down to is do we trust Him? Do we really trust Him? Proverbs 3:5-6 reads, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.� I told my son that day, “Just watch and wait. The good part is coming.� The Lord reminded me in that moment to heed my own advice. Y Shannon Collins and her husband Terry are Brandon residents. They have three children and attend Grace Baptist Church.
legal advice by WILLIAM B. HOWELL
What Are the Pitfalls of Probate? ave you ever wondered what will happen to your estate after you die? How long will it take for your loved ones to receive the estate that you have left them? Will each receive what you would like them to have? If you are like most people, your estate will go through a lengthy probate process.
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WHAT IS PROBATE? Probate consists of the court proceedings that conclude all your legal and financial matters after your death. The probate court distributes your estate according to your wishes—if you left a valid will—and acts as a neutral forum in which to settle any disputes that may arise over your estate and see that your creditors get paid. The probate process we have today is based largely on the medieval English legal system. In feudal times, only powerful families owned land. These large estates were normally passed down from father to son. This transfer was naturally a matter of great political consequence, and thus of great interest to the king. So the proceedings were made formal, complicated, and costly. Over the years, while much of the legal system has been made easier and more
accessible, the probate process has remained lengthy and complex. There are a number of problems with the probate process that make it worth avoiding. Each involves something that you lose in probate.
TIME – The probate process can take a great deal of time. The settlement time frame for many estates is from nine months to two years. Complex or contested estates can take much longer. With few exceptions, your heirs will have to wait until probate is concluded to receive the bulk of their inheritance. COST – Of course, all the probate court’s “help” with your affairs comes at a price. Probate can be very expensive. Depending on the state, probate and administrative fees can consume between three and eight percent of your estate. That percentage is calculated before any deductions or liens are taken out. LACK OF PRIVACY – The proceedings of the probate courts are a matter of public record. Anyone with the time and inclination can go to the chancery clerk’s office, usually at the county
courthouse, and find out exactly how much you left to each heir and to whom you owed money. This leaves your heirs with little or no privacy.
THERE ARE ANSWERS – Fortunately, there are strategies you can use to avoid the probate process altogether. A living trust may enable you to pass your estate on to your heirs without ever going through probate at all. Regrettably, some people choose methods that give assets to heirs immediately upon death, but without any protection. Examples are beneficiary designations, “payable on death” assets, and joint tenancy ownership. Each of these can lead to loss of the entire asset to the creditors of the heir. This is readily controlled and avoided with a well written living trust estate plan. Proper estate planning could enable you to pass your estate to your loved ones privately, without undue delay or expense, and with protection. It is all up to you. Get some good advice. Y William B. Howell is a member of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys and practices law in Ridgeland.
You have worked hard for it. WHY THROW IT AWAY? We are all living longer. But we are not all going to be in good health, or aware of our families, or both. Then what happens? Someone has to take over. The question is: Will this be someone you chose? And will it be outside of court or in court? The same with the distribution of your assets after you pass away: In court or out of court? The choice is yours. What about protecting your assets from lawsuits, or a child’s inheritance from a divorce? And will most of your hard-earned savings go to the nursing home? Or have you planned? Here are a few ideas for you to consider:
Living Trust – Allows the person you choose to take over for you in the event of your incapacity, without any court involvement. At your death the person you have chosen makes the distribution of your assets the way you have instructed in your Living Trust, and to do so promptly, inexpensively and privately, without going through probate in the court.
Asset Protection – Lawsuits are filed every day. If you get sued, are your assets protected? They can be, and probably should be. Also, the divorce rate has never been higher than it is today. Will your child’s divorce cause them to lose half of what you leave them after you are gone? Not if you plan now. The level of protection (or not) is up to you. Nursing Home Planning – Don’t qualify for long term care insurance, or can’t fit it in your budget? You don’t have to spend everything that you have in order to become eligible for nursing home benefits. There are legal and ethical ways for you to save well over half of your assets in most cases, even if you are already in the nursing home. Hear Mr. Howell on the radio
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➺education connection by DR. NANCY NEW
The Bell Will Soon Ring
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elping kids stay organized during the school year is instrumental to a successful year and it will also provide a foundation of skills for your children that can be used in their everyday lives. Why wait until the school year begins to start establishing these guidelines? Start the process now and engage your children gradually. While summer isn’t over and there are plenty of days of fun left to be enjoyed, the start of school is just around the corner. Here are a few tips to “get on track” before the school bells ring.
➥ Create a weekly agenda
If your child isn’t already using one, an agenda is a must. The agenda can be used to record homework, assignments, projects and exams. It helps children get into the habit of making lists and crossing things off. Make sure you review the agenda daily for important communications from the teacher. Have children start now with daily responsibilities and summer activities to create the habit before classes begin.
➥ Post a central calendar
With the school season comes a wide variety of extracurricular activities and scheduling. It’s important to keep track of everyone’s
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activities. Post a weekly or monthly calendar in a central location (like the refrigerator) where everyone can log their daily activities. It’s also a great place to keep track of projects, assignments, and exams. This is a great idea to use year round. (Tip: Each person in the household can use a different color marker for easy identification).
➥ Designate a “school space”
Instill good study habits by having a quiet, well-lit area for homework and study, with all the tools your child needs at hand. Keep distractions such as electronics and television away. This space can also be used as school headquarters or central area for items that need to go to school each day. Backpacks, books, instruments, projects, etc. should be placed in this area. That way, each morning all things for school are together and not in other areas of the house. A great way to get your kids thinking about school is to engage them in the process of selecting an area. Have them think and provide feedback about areas they might suggest and ask thoughtful questions: Are there distractions nearby? Is it near a high-traffic area of the house?
➥ Become a Manager
Teach your children to be managers of their time and plan ahead. This can be applied to their projects and assignments by establishing how much time they will require and set appropriate deadlines. Provide guidance on managing multiple tasks such as selecting and completing work that is easier first, but not leaving the most difficult items for last. This process can begin now simply by engaging in these activities.
➥ Get organized
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Encourage your child to start identifying items that will be needed for the school year or items that might need to be replaced. Begin stocking school supplies now. If you need pencils, paper or lined paper, get these supplies ahead of time so you won’t have to run out to the store during the peak times in the weeks ahead. By starting now, it will allow time to shop for price. It’s not a bad idea to go ahead and purchase project boards or similar materials so you are always prepared for projects. Take a look at that backpack to make sure it can still handle the workload.
➥ Purge weekly
Schedule a time at the end of each week to go through the agenda and calendar with your child and build a plan. Once school begins, use this as a time to determine what items are important to save and what items can be discarded to keep everything neat and tidy. Organize other papers that can still be used for ongoing study. Recycle/throw out what is no longer needed. During the summer, engage the household in the weekly review! It can be initiated as a great means of creating additional family time and introduces the process prior to school beginning. Y
Dr. Nancy New is the Executive Director of New Summit School Services and the Mississippi Community Education Center. For more information on New Summit School’s services, call us at (601) 982-7827 or visit our website at www.newsummitschool.com.
healthy living by TAMMY THOMAS (PART 2 OF 2)
Fitness Boot Camps Offer Direction and Results For Your Fitness Success
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muscle with fewer exercises in a short period of time. My boot camp participants are kept in the dark as for what to expect each day. This keeps them fresh and ready with a sense of adventure, prevents boredom, and makes them continuously hungry for their next workout with me. Constant change is key.
ississippi is in the middle of an obesity epidemic. The latest
study released in July reveals that Mississippi fills the top spot yet again this year, with an obesity rate of 34.4 percent of the population. Personal trainers have been a part of the Mississippi health scene for quite a while now, and the latest trend in fitness is boot camps which are held independently from the typical “big-box” gym environment. Last month, we began a discussion of why fitness boot camps are a surefire way to ultimate fitness. They offer unique motivation, are cost effective (in comparison to a private one-on-one personal trainer), there are improved odds of individual results, and camaraderie. But there are a boat load of reasons why you should chose a boot camp to whip you into shape. Continued is our discussion below.
■ Muscle Trickery: The extra focus on the variety of exercises offered in fitness boot camps makes them special in the world of obtaining a fit physique. Unlike typical weight lifting programs of performing three sets per machine, boot camp participants work practically every
■ Diet and Exercise: Many people try to lose weight by diet alone. However, in order for your fitness goals to be a real success, you need a combination of nutrition, strength training, cardiovascular fitness, and flexibility. If any one of these components is missing, you will not be able to reach your fitness goals. A good fitness boot camp will provide all of these components. ■ Co-ed Appeal: Boot camps appeal to a large audience, in part, because they avoid two common stigmas generally associated with ordinary workouts: 1) the women-only stigma of aerobics; and 2) the men-only stigma of weight lifting. Most boot camps offer exercises ranging in difficulty from basic to advanced and provide challenges that even the most macho guy would find grueling. ■ Consistency and Accountability: This is the key to accomplishing almost anything in life. Obtaining your optimum fitness level will not happen overnight. Let’s face it - the numbers for newcomers who remain involved
with a fitness program long-term are startling. Typically, only 65% of them are still on task after their first month. And after six months, only 46% of them are still working towards their fitness and weight loss goals. When a person becomes a part of a fitness boot camp, they enter into an instant support system of professional boot camp instructors and fellow participants to hold them accountable for showing up for workouts, which help alleviate temptations to skip. God has planted seeds inside each of us, and He wants us to be in environments where these seeds can grow. God has placed fitness boot camps into our lives because he has placed inside the boot camps, every tool necessary for fitness success. He has done his part, but we have to do our part as well. It’s up to us to draw out and discover those seeds of greatness that he has placed within each and every one of us. Participating in a boot camp is a life-changing experience. So let’s get moving into a fitness boot camp today! Y Tammy Thomas, owner of MS Fitness Pro, LLC in Ridgeland, is a certified personal trainer, boot camp instructor, and motivational speaker. Tammy has recently pioneered fitness adventure camps in Mississippi. Visit www.jacksonbootcamppros.com for more information.
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Mirror, Mirror on the Wall hen asked by Metro Christian Living to write an article, my initial response was, “Heavens no,” and that was how I left it that afternoon. But things began to come to my mind. I had been praying that God would open up a ministry for me here in Jackson. I had even volunteered for two things in a church I had been attending thinking both would be using my gifts. Neither had come to fruition. I often counsel clients what causes us and our relationships not to grow are fears. I then work with them on that fear: where it came from and how they might deal with it. I even encourage them to look for opportunities to face the fear. Turn the tension of fear into a life growing experience. It hit me in the face that the reason I had said “no” was out of fear. At first I tried to convince myself I had said no out of not being a skilled writer. Then, I looked the demon (or my fears) in the face. I was afraid of rejection or criticism. I was not willing to be vulnerable. But there it is, and as I have thought more about it, I have wondered if fear of failing was keeping me from sharing things that God had taught me with a reading audience. That would mean that I was unwilling to lay my pride and fear aside to write things that might be valuable to the body and kingdom of Christ. Part of my counseling theory is that growth comes in several ways and in several forms. One of them however, is facing our fear and believing we can deal with the outcome. I ask my clients, “If you do that what is the worst thing that could happen? How can we work together to develop the strength to deal with the outcome?” They usually laugh and say they don’t know why it seems so frightening. Much of our fear is rooted in fear of rejection. Over the years I have learned so much from my clients. I watch them take risks and see them handle the consequences (whether they are good or bad). Usually they are proud of themselves that they took the risk and realize that they are not in control of how the other person responds. But they are in control of what they are willing to do. This leads to a deeper sense of self-control and confidence. I remembered that I had prayed for more ministry and here was one landing in my lap. (Wouldn’t it be nice if God did what we think
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he is going to do? It rarely happens in the way I expect.) One of my theories is that fear inhibits growth and often deprives us of relationships in which we can give, receive, and deepen our understanding of self and others. I realized that I would like a relationship with the readers of Metro Christian Living. I would welcome their input, criticisms, and requests for articles on certain issues. I try to model in the counseling room the theories that I use in counseling. Driving home from Memphis tonight, I realized I was such a hypocrite. In two ways - the first, was trusting that this might be God’s answer to a ministry. Second, that if I expect my clients to believe in me I must be someone in whom they can believe. I want to be real, transparent and have a servant heart. I tell my clients that they should decide the kind of person they want to be and then we work together in baby steps to get them there. I know I love people, I believe that God has given me the ministry of reconciliation. I know that is the kind of person I want to be. So this article is a baby step in that direction. My heart kept going to II Timothy 1:7, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but a spirit of power of love and self-discipline.” And as a friend of mine from Yazoo City says, “The Bible is right again.” Y Janie Pillow is in private practice at Janie Pillow Counseling (601 853 4788) She is also Co-founder of Third Millennium Ministries and has served since its inception as Chairman of the Board. (See www.ThirdMill.Org. “Seminary Education for the World for Free.”)
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here is a soft whisper in my ear…a call for me to be in another place…a call from God to a new purpose. I do believe God has a plan for our lives (Jeremiah 29:11). At 18 years old I was a recent high school graduate and felt as though I had the world at my feet. My plans for my life were simple. Life was all about me. I was going to college and play softball, the sport I loved. Instead, I was involved in a tragic plane crash which left me with a broken neck, a spinal cord injury and paralyzed from the neck down. Initially, I felt as though this was merely a bump in the road for someone strong and determined like me. I thought, “Just give me three weeks. I will go through rehab and then I’m out of here and onto something else.” Three weeks came and went and I did move on, but not according to my plan. I moved to Methodist Rehab Center for the next five months. I was now faced with learning the simple things like trying to hold a fork or sitting
You see, we all have a purpose and we are given the opportunity to choose our path, choose our attitude or plant the seed. on the side of the bed without falling on my face. My faith was strong and I believed I would walk again (Mark 9:23) and just pick up life where I left off. Three months passed and nothing…no change. Then, I was leaving the hospital on a weekend pass and as my family assisted me from the car to the wheelchair I had a sense of being able to move a toe. I could move my big toe ! Through the grace of God over time I did walk again, but not without an obvious deficit. I know now these chains had a purpose and have helped me to see that I must focus on God’s plan and not my circumstances. (Romans 8:28). After extensive rehab, I returned to flying and. I obtained all possible licensure/ratings available and spent the next ten years building hours, instructing and gaining experience in many different complex aircraft. It was around 1992 there was that whisper in my ear again. However, this time it was as though God was banging on my door and would not go away. I realized things were happening to me so that God could work through me. In the midst of all the adversity, I
knew I must believe and trust in the Lord. Becoming a physical therapist was a door that opened and I had to enter and step through. No one believed I would ever work as a therapist after getting out of school. For me, it was as though God was saying, “Let’s step this up a notch” and was calling me to a different experience and his way of my getting to know Him better. It is here that I have been able to be an example and a servant to others. My prayer has always been to let others see Jesus through me. On the most challenging of days the little things let me know this is it. I may have a patient just say, “Thank you. You are a blessing and a site of perseverance.” Or one of my favorites I hear from afar from some of the older veterans I treat is, “I want that little crippled girl.” Although that stings, it warms my heart and reminds me that life is good and God is good and with this, I feel God’s pleasure with me. You see, we all have a purpose and we are given the opportunity to choose our path, choose our attitude or plant that seed. In the charter business, I use to fly a man who was the CEO of a thriving business He once told me this. Approach everyone in life as though you never know who you are talking to because it doesn’t really matter. For one of God’s greatest commandments is “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). Would you take that extra step to help to make a difference in someone else’s life? Would life continue to be all about you or would you give it all to God and let it be all about His plan for your life? As I move onto another chapter in my life, experiencing more physical challenges with an injury that is now almost 30 years old, I am hearing that voice in my ear again. This time, it is like the sound of a freight train and asking me, “What are you waiting on?” I can see so clearly that God’s plans are so well thought out. Yet, as I anxiously look for that next fork along my path, I am nervous, full of mixed emotions. So, my prayer is this. God, this is not about me, but about you. I will be still and know that you are God. Life brings many challenges and one must “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5,6). Y
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Co-Parenting Works Reviewed by Susan E. Richardson Christians caught in divorce can find materials about recovering from divorce or helping children recover from divorce. Until now nothing has guided parents through the challenging issue of parenting through the years after a divorce. Tammy Daughtry fills this gap with her new book Co-Parenting Works! She lays out a plan for parents willing to put their children’s welfare first. Daughtry speaks from experience. She spent time as a divorced single parent before creating a blended family. She acknowledges the challenge of building a positive co-parenting relationship with someone with whom you could not build a life. However, she also challenges parents to ask what their child’s heart is worth. While she does not include full information on divorce recovery, Daughtry does offer suggestions for getting healthy yourself as part of the process. The majority of the book focuses on how divorce harms
children and how you can protect your children from damage. She also addresses situations where the other parent is absent, dangerous, or simply uncooperative. Children suffer from divorce, but parents who will continue to guard their children’s hearts by working together, allowing the child to love both parents without guilt, not tearing down the other parent, and other positive choices can raise well-adjusted children despite divorce. These choices don’t come naturally, and require work and practice to put into place. Every divorced parent needs to read this book and strive to create a positive environment for his or her children. Your child’s heart is worth the effort. Y Susan E. Richardson is a writer, critique reader, and former Christian retailer with a passion for meeting people’s needs through the written word. You can reach her through her website www.nextlevelcritiques.com.
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Saving Leonardo A Call to Resist the Secular Assault on Mind, Morals, & Meaning Reviewed by Marilyn Tinnin Pearcey has a phenomenal grasp of relationship between every element of contemporary culture. One review put it this way: “…it bridges the gaps between the arts and the sciences, the theoretical and the practical.” It is not a quick read, but it is a gold mine of truth and insight into a Christian worldview. It’s the kind of book you will go back to again and again. Pearcey makes a strong case at the outset for Christians to be well informed on competing worldviews and to be able to decipher the subtle anti-Christian ideas that come to us in everything from our newscasts, movies, and textbooks to our Saturday morning cartoons. There has never been a more critical time in our history for those who count themselves Christian to be truly informed, well grounded, thoughtful, and smart when it comes to articulating Christian truth. Y
events calendar August 18 Goodwill Industries, devoted to assisting people with disabilities and other barriers to employment, is hosting its annual Salute Dinner at the Country Club of Jackson. Money raised will go to support the mission of Goodwill as well as purchase equipment and other necessities. For ticket and additional information call 601-853-8110. August 2 Come and enjoy a unique time of reading at the Jackson Zoo. From 12:00 p.m.-1:00 p.m. children can hear a special story and then enjoy a related craft project or animal encounter. For more information call 601-352-2580.
August 11-14 The circus is coming to town! Come celebrate with clowns, acrobats and animals at the famous Ringling Brothers and Barnum & Bailey Circus. Festivities take place at the Mississippi Coliseum on the Mississippi State Fairground. Tickets start at $11 and can be purchased at Ticketmaster.
August 20 Mississippi Opera and Trustmark Bank announce Dancing With The Stars at the Jackson Marriott, Windsor Ballroom. Help support the Mississippi Opera while enjoying celebrity dancers, judges, and The Capitol City Stage Band. For ticket information call 601-960-2300.
PEARL September 3 If getting your exercise and supporting a great cause sounds like a good idea than be a part of the Eastside Son Run 5K and 1 Mile Run and Walk. Funds raised go to support the Community Outreach ministries of Eastside Baptist Church. Call the church office at 601-939-2433 for additional information.
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August 31 Pinelake Church will be hosting Lysa TerKeurst, bestselling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries. TerKeurst will be speaking at a noon luncheon at the Ag Museum (tickets are $12.50) and at an evening program at the Rez Campus for Renewal Service. Tickets for the luncheon can be purchased at www.thesourceatpinelake.com
August 12-14 Sunflower River Blues and Gospel Festival, celebrating Mississippi’s musical heritage, will be held in Clarksdale’s downtown area. Enjoy entertainment by local and nationally known blues and gospel artist as well as well as attend numerous seminars about music and its roots. For more information go to www.sunflower.org. Y
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“It’s difficult to think anything but pleasant thoughts while eating a homegrown tomato.”
– Erma Bombeck
– Lewis Grizzard
“The gospel is so simple that small children can understand it, and it is so profound that studies by the wisest theologians will never exhaust its riches.”
“Other men may preach the gospel better than I, but no man can preach a better gospel.” – George Whitfield
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“This is the rock where we stand when the dark clouds gather and the floods lick at our feet: justification is by grace alone (not mixed with our merit), through faith alone (not mixed with our works) on the basis of Christ alone (not mingling his righteousness with ours), to the glory of God alone (not ours).” – Daniel 4:3
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