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CROWN ROYALTY 2009 Ak-Sar-Ben Horatio Alger Scholars King and Queen Ak-Sar-Ben CXIII

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2009 Women’s Ball Committee

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2009 Court of Honor

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The Coronation

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Getting Ready

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The Receiving Line

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CAMP QUIVIRA Page Luncheon

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UNVEILING THE PRIDE OF THE KINGDOM Councillor’s Party

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DINING AND DIGNITARIES Governors Wives Luncheon

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PASSING THE SCEPTER John P. Schlegel’s CXII position

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andrea l. hoig WHATAnight!

I wish to take this occasion to personally congratulate King Ak-Sar-Ben CXIII Dr. Lee G. Simmons and Queen Ak-Sar-Ben CXIII, Allison Grace Conley.

These two individuals and their families are fitting examples of those whose community service is evident while also serving as appropriate symbols for deeds of service by themselves and by others which may be very privately and personally performed.

The Coronation and surrounding festivities recognize these, and those like them, not only for their acts which have become public knowledge, but also in acknowledgement of the very private and less heralded dedication to others which defines their lives in ways unknown to all but those who have been quietly served.

Such deeds are done in the background daily by many who are never recognized.

In acknowledging those deeds and doers which are known, we also honor those whose acts of charity remain hidden, and this indeed is the very spirit of Ak-Sar-Ben.

Once again we wish to express our gratitude to the members of the Women’s Ball Committee for their devotion and assistance in preparing this keepsake edition. metroMAGAZINE has been covering the Ak-Sar-Ben Coronation and related activities for nearly 20 years now, and I continue to find inspiration in the ongoing efforts of those dedicated to fostering scholarship and service through this endeavor and its collective undertakings. We trust our efforts in covering the events surrounding and supporting the Coronation do credit to the combined dedication and devotion of all concerned. This year’s 2009 Ak-Sar-Ben Coronation Special Edition includes our traditional photo galleries, background stories, and other highlights intended to take our readers inside Ak-Sar-Ben CXIII. I wish to thank all of our photographers for their efforts on the night of the coronation, allowing us to once again provide unequalled photo coverage of this event. Many of the photos you do not see published here in print, you will find on our website at SpiritofOmaha.com among hundreds from the evening which can be viewed and purchased. Each year we endeavor to make this special edition a treasured keepsake publication which will provide lasting memories. It is my hope that this edition will accomplish that mission as so many annual special editions have done over the past few decades.

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ince the 1940’s, Ak-Sar-Ben, an organization of business and community leaders concerned with the growth and prosperity of Nebraska and Western Iowa, has been providing scholarships to students in the region who have demonstrated outstanding leadership, academic ability, character and financial need. Thanks in part to its partnership with the Horatio Alger Association of Distinguished Americans, this year the Knights of Ak-SarBen was once more able to financially assist 50 graduating high school seniors with their college education.

The Horatio Alger Association grants more than $5 million in college scholarships annually and is the largest need-based scholarship program in the nation. Recipients of these scholarships are often faced with some of life’s harsher realities, such as homelessness, crime and disabling medical problems.

The annual Coronation Ball raises money for the Ak-SarBen Youth Scholarship Fund. This year, Ak-Sar-Ben once again partnered with the Horatio Alger Scholarship Program to provide 50 scholarships to deserving students from Nebraska and Western Iowa. Founded in 1947, the Horatio Alger Association of Distinguished Americans continues to fulfill its mission of honoring the achievements of outstanding individuals in our society who have succeeded in spite of adversity and of encouraging young people to pursue their dreams through higher education.

The Horatio Alger Association seeks to assist students who have: • Demonstrated integrity and perseverance in overcoming adversity • Strength of character • Financial need • A good academic record • A desire to contribute to society • Commitment to pursue a college education

The Association brings the “Horatio Alger Heroes” of today together with those of tomorrow by bestowing the Horatio Alger Award each year and by awarding more than $12 million annually in college scholarships to young people. Horatio Alger Scholars have faced challenges and realize that a college education is the avenue to a better future. The Association also provides its scholarship recipients with financial aid counseling, and internship and job placement assistance.

The fifty Nebraska and western Iowa students will receive a $5,000 scholarship. The scholarship is available as a result of the dedicated efforts of the Women’s Ball Committee who have awarded more than $2 million to graduating youth.

Those wishing to make a donation to the Women’s Ball Committee Scholarship Fund, may do so by contacting the Knights of Ak-Sar-Ben at (402) 554-9600, ext. 106.

Anayanci M. Aldana • Lexington, NE

Jason A. Jagels • Davenport, NE

Grace University

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Amanda D. Arnold • Belvidere, NE

Sarah A. Johnson • Boys Town, NE

University of Nebraska at Kearney

Dana College

Ashley R. Baasch • Grand Island, NE

Megan L. Kaster • Falls City, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Bellevue University

Benjamin A. Balasa • Franklin, NE

Anna M. Keiser • Gothenburg, NE

Le Tourneau University

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Jesse D. Baldwin • Ord, NE

Allysen R. Korn • Humphrey, NE

Doane College

Central Community College at Columbus

Benjamin J. Baudler • Fontanelle, IA

Sara Maddox • Scottsbluff, NE

University of Northern Iowa

W. NE Community College at Scottsbluff

Justin D. Berger • Spalding, NE

Halley J. Marfisi • Boys Town, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

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Christopher A. Biermann • Wisner, NE

Bethany L. McFeely • Bellevue, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Unviersity of Nebraska Lincoln

Rebecca J. Blair • Omaha, NE

Samantha J. Mitchell • Grand Island, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

University of Nebraska at Kearney

Cody M. Bland • Ayr, NE

Jordan R. Moss • Omaha, NE

University of Nebraska at Kearney

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Alycia M. Blevins • Norfolk, NE

Sara E. Murray • Creighton, NE

University of Nebraska at Omaha

Wayne State College

Wendi J. Burbach • Randolph, NE

Jennifer L. Peterson • Wisner, NE

Northeast Community College

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Hans J. Christensen • Johnson, NE

Kiley B. Preisendorf • Grand Island, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Nebraska Wesleyan University

Zachary P. Craft • Omaha, NE

Christina A. Rice • Kearney, NE

University of Nebraska at Omaha

University of Nebraska at Kearney

Shalah G. Dare • Omaha, NE

Hannah L. Schmale • Gretna, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

College of St. Mary

Kendra J. Dickinson • Griswold, IA

Cammie J. Schwartz • Mullen, NE

Drake University

Doane College

Andi D. Diediker • Wayne, NE

Kate M. Seifer • Paxton, NE

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Chadron State College

Ronicka L. Fairchild • Omaha, NE

Jesse T. Smidt • Lyons, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

Wayne State College

Katie E. Frenzen • Fullerton, NE

Jacob J. Smiley • Bassett, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

University of Nebraska Lincoln

Fayelen M. Gerteisen • Pierce, NE

Amber L. Smith • Broken Bow, NE

Northwest Missouri State University

Utah State University

Kyle T. Gibbens • Cozad, NE

Brooke R. Sullivan • Lincoln, NE

University of Nebraska of Kearney

Southeast Community College at Lincoln

Shane T. Hennessy • Alvo, NE

Britnee L. Turk • Pierce, NE

University of Nebraska at Lincoln

University of Nebraska at Omaha

Janteice A. Hoston • Superior, NE

Kathy J. Venteicher • Pierce, NE

Hastings, NE

University of Nebraska at Kearney

Allison M. Hubert • Pierce, NE

Alex J. Wermers • Omaha, NE

University of South Dakota

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Dalton W. Hyke • Arapahoe, NE

Jenna K. Zimmer • Early, IA

Southeast Community College at Beatrice

Loras College

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The man who elevated the Henry Doorly Zoo to one of the finest zoos in the United States was honored for his efforts at the Ak-SarBen Coronation and Ball on October 10, 2009. Nearly 2,500 attendees witnessed the introduction of Dr. Lee G. Simmons as the 113th King of Ak-Sar-Ben. The event also included the formal introduction of the 2009 Court of Quivira which included honorees from more than 200 Nebraska and western Iowa families.

Dr. Simmons, currently serving as Chairman of the Omaha Zoo Foundation, retired in March of this year from his position as Director of the Henry Doorly Zoo. He served in this role for 39 years.

The Zoo, during his tenure, has consistently been recognized as one of the top 5 or 10 best Zoos in North America.

Born February 20, 1938 in Tucson Arizona, Dr. Simmons moved to Choctaw, Oklahoma in 1951. His early interest in herpetology, both in Arizona and Oklahoma, led to a volunteer association with the reptile department at the Oklahoma City Zoo and ultimately to an interest in Zoo work as a career.

In 1963, Simmons graduated from the Oklahoma State School of Veterinary Medicine. He began his formal Zoo career as Curator of Mammals at the Columbus Ohio Zoo and held the positions of Veterinarian and Assistant Superintendent until December 1966 when he moved to Omaha to become Staff Veterinarian. Shortly thereafter he added the duties of Assistant Director and in 1970 he became Director. During his professional career Dr. Simmons has traveled and worked in 36 countries and Antarctica on projects ranging from field work to academics. He has authored or coauthored 35 publications and has served on 25 board and university appointments.

His professional affiliations include: American Association of Zoo Veterinarians; American Veterinary Medical Association; Captive Breeding Specialist Group of the IUCN International Inventory System; Nebraska Academy of Veterinary Medicine, Nebraska Veterinary Medical Association, World Aquarium & Zoo Association; and Rotary International.

For his service to the greater Omaha community, Dr. Simmons has received numerous accolades including honorary doctorates from Creighton University in 1993 , the University of Nebraska at Omaha in 2002 and Midland Lutheran College in 2009. Other notable awards include: Nebraska Veterinarian of the Year in 1979; Omaha World-Herald – Midlander of the Year in 1991; Chamber of Commerce – Headliner Award in 1992; Omaha Press Club – Face on the Bar Room Floor in 1988; Nebraskaland Foundation – Wagonmaster Award in 1994, State of Nebraska – Prestigious Vision Award in 1995; and 2004 Inductee into the Greater Omaha Chamber of Commerce Business Hall of Fame. continued on page 8 7

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Ak-Sar-Ben honored the Simmons family in 1981 when daughter Heidi was a Page and Crown Bearer to the Queen, in 1990 when daughter Heather was Queen, and in 2005 when Dr. Simmons was inducted into the Knights of Ak-Sar-Ben Court of Honor.

Dr. Simmons is also known as an inventor of a number of medical equipment designs and immobilizing devices that he manufactures and sells to Zoos and professionals in the field.

The conceptualization, design and implementation of successful exhibits and programs for the benefit of animals, visitors and conservation is at the core of the lasting legacy Dr. Simmons has created in Omaha. Under his tenure the Zoo consistently raised private funding to design and build state-of-the art animal, visitor and medical research facilities. Significant additions include: • North America’s Largest Cat Breeding and Management complex • Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom Pavilion • A four-acre walk through aviary • Lied Jungle – World’s Largest Indoor Total Immersion Rainforest • 1.3 Million Gallon Scott Kingdoms of the Seas Marine Aquarium • Grewcock Center for Conservation and Research • Lozier 3D IMAX Theater • Lee G. Simmons Conservation Park and Wildlife Safari (440 Acres) • Desert Dome • Mahoney Kingdomes of The Night • Hubbard Gorilla Valley – Three-acre site • Hubbard Orangutan Forest – 9,000 square feet • Hubbard Research wing • Berniece Grewcock Butterfly and Insect Pavilion – 14,000 square feet total immersion • Madagascar – currently under construction In addition, the Zoo has become one of the leaders in conservation and the preservation of endangered species. Zoo staff is currently working on conservation projects in nine countries and in the United States. Notable accomplishments to date include the reintroduction of many species of endangered plants and animals back into native habitat, artificially inseminated gaur calf, in vitro fertilized guar calf, artificially inseminated tiger cub, and in vitro fertilized tiger cub. The Omaha Zoo staff was part of the team that produced the world’s first in vitro fertilized gorilla.

The Simmons’ have celebrated 50 years of marriage. Marie Giem Simmons grew up in Guthrie, Oklahoma and graduated from high school in 1957. She attended Oklahoma State University and graduated with a B.S. in Vocational Home Economics in 1961. In the early years before the zoo had a hospital and nursery all orphaned babies came to the Simmon’s house and Marie was surrogate mother to orangutan, gorilla, bear, hyena, leopard and other babies.

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State University and in 1994 she received her M.S.N. in Gerontological Nursing from the University of Nebraska Medical Center College of Nursing in Omaha.

Her community service endeavors have benefited numerous causes.

She co-founded the Lincoln Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association in 1981 and served on the Board of Directors of the Omaha YWCA in 1983. In 1983 she began a long volunteer history with the Omaha Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association, serving as Vice-President, then President of the Board of Directors in 2005. She is a volunteer at the AAA Crisis Pregnancy Center in Omaha and is a member of Christ Community Church.

The Conley family has been an integral part of the civic and nonprofit sector of Omaha. Queen Allison’s grandfather Eugene A. Conley is a retired President of Guarantee Mutual Life Insurance Company. During his professional career in Omaha he served on numerous civic non-profit boards as well in several professional organizations. His wife, Erma Grace Conley, passed away in 2000 at age 74. She was very involved in the community serving a variety of organizations including the Uta Halle Girls Village Guild, the Nebraska Hospital Auxiliary and the Metropolitan Arts Council.

The Ak-Sar-Ben Coronation Ball has a mission of promoting, recognizing and celebrating volunteerism, philanthropy and community pride. More than $3 million in scholarship funding has been raised from Coronation Ball proceeds.

League, Sunset Hills Garden Club, PEO Chapter BX, and Rockbrook Methodist Church.

The Simmon’s have three children: Lee G. Simmons III of Port Charlotte Florida; Dr. Heather Ann Simmons of Madison, Wisconsin, and Heidi Marie Darty of St. Louis, Missouri. The couple has six grandchildren and five great grand children.

The Conley family was honored for their civic leadership and community service as Allison Grace Conley was crowned as the 113th Queen of Ak-Sar-Ben. On October 10, 2009 during the annual Ak-Sar-Ben Coronation and Ball nearly 2,500 attendees witnessed the crowning and the formal introduction of the Court of Quivira which included honorees from more than 200 Nebraska and western Iowa families.

The new Queen attends The University of North Carolina at Greensboro. She has demonstrated great leadership as a Board representative and Secretary to the UNCG International Interior Design Association (IIDA) Board. Allison Conley is the daughter of John H. Conley and Deborah Marks Conley of Omaha.

Her volunteer resume includes raising money for the Ronald McDonald House in Winston-Salem, NC, teaching English to African refugees through African Services and serving as a volunteer for a project called My Sister’s House, which involves the construction of a 4,500 sq ft, six bedroom home for young teenage mothers.

The Queen’s father, John H. Conley, is President and CEO of Conley Investment Counsel which provides financial consulting and portfolio management for individuals, corporations, and not-for-profit entities around the United States. Born in Omaha, Nebraska he graduated from Hoover High School Des Moines, Iowa in 1971. He received his Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration and Economics from Nebraska Wesleyan University in 1975 and attended the Securities Institute at the Wharton School of Business. He earned his Charter Financial Analyst (CFA) designation in 1980.

Conley’s commitment to community has included serving as a Trustee and President of Brownell Talbot School, a member of the University of Nebraska President’s Advisory Committee, Bellevue University Entrepreneurial Advisory Committee, Offutt Advisory Committee, and United Way Investment and Endowment Development Committee. He has served in chairmanship work with the Junior Achievement of the Midlands, American Cancer Society, Midwest Geriatrics and Florence Home. Over the years he has had a major commitment to the National Conference for Community and Justice (NCCJ). He has served on the Midlands Region Board of Directors and later a ten year commitment to the National Board where he served as National Treasurer for six years.

His Ak-Sar-Ben involvement includes serving as President of His Majesty’s Council, Chairman of the Ike Friedman Awards Committee, Chairman of the Scholarship Committee, as well as participating on the Floor Committee, Women’s Ball Investment Committee and River City Roundup Board including a stint of Chairman for three years. He is a TeamMates mentor.

The Queen’s mother, Deborah Marks Conley, was born in Greenville, South Carolina and grew up in a military family. In 1976 she graduated with a B.S.N. degree in nursing from Central Missouri

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MONTHS OF HARD WORK BY WBC CULMINATED FOR CHAIRMAN MARY JOHNSON WITH ‘PERFECT QUIVIRA’ EVENT

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Women’s Ball Committee Chairman Mary Johnson

BEING ASKED TO HEAD THE WOMEN’S BALL COMMITTEE IS AN IMPRESSIVE AND UNIQUE

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CORONATION BALL COMMITTEE CHAIR BILL CUTLER MADE THE REQUEST, SHE SAID YES. “I WAS SIMPLY HONORED TO SERVE THE KNIGHTS OF AK-SAR-BEN,” SHE SAID. The chairman oversees all aspects of the coronation—working with the committee to select Royal Court members, developing the theme and details with the production team, coordinating committees’ efforts on scholarship selection, heading fund development and planning all related celebrations.

The public kick-off begins in January with the announcement of new committee members.

Johnson said all have been extremely active volunteers in the community, dedicating countless hours to a variety of organizations.

Members represent many school districts, neighborhoods and service to non-profits.

When it came time to choose gowns, Sheila Christ, from She’la, was a source of great information and inspiration. She met with New York designers and requested input from the queen: her likes, dislikes, etc. Christ had used Jay Godfrey before and they believed he would design

classic yet modern dresses. “All the Princesses loved the gowns,” Johnson said. “We actually had some jumping up and down with excitement. They truly looked fabulous on all the young ladies.”

According to Johnson, the biggest treat and reward of her year was meeting and getting to know the monarch families. “Doc and Marie Simmons are an incredible example of love, commitment and the power of partnership, having just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary,” she said. “ I learned so much from them and I have a deep appreciation for their unwavering support of Omaha's Henry Doorly Zoo, the environment and conservation throughout the world.

“Deborah Conley and John Conley are incredible volunteers in our community and are absolutely delightful. Allison is eloquent, smart, determined and respectful; but most important she has learned the importance and need to give back to her community; a value and desire I feel she learned from her parents.”

Johnson said keeping their identity secret was a challenge but one she took very seriously. Her sons had their own speculation, especially about the queen, but were shocked when Allison walked out from the curtains. “I think they are still mad at me for not sharing the secret,” she said, adding “as WBC chairman, you realize that all the secrets are not yours to tell.”

After nine months of preparations and attention to detail, Johnson admits that when she woke up to a snowy Saturday morning, the day of the ball, she was nervous. However, that night, when she saw the lights go down, the table lamps glow, the giant room filled with the fragrance of lilies, she realized the perfect mood had been set. Having the orchestra on stage, with the performers behind the bandstands, she was aware that the concept was coming to life. “I was so proud of the WBC and the hours they had spent making this night come alive,” she said. “The Royal Court members were full of energy and excitement and the pages brought pure joy to the crowd. As I had said all year, ‘all is perfect in Quivira’.”

Reflecting on her many months of effort and responsibility for making this major event happen, Johnson noted that the time was not without tribulations. “Sadly, my father passed away this summer,” she said. “While at many times I was surrounded by sorrow and true heartache, working on this mythical kingdom gave not only me, but my entire family, something fun, exciting and hopeful to focus on. So I am most grateful for all the support and friendship of the WBC and the extended Ak-Sar-Ben family.”

According to Johnson, the Coronation Ball exemplifies Ak-Sar-Ben’s overall goals. Its mission is to celebrate the incredible volunteerism in the community while raising money for the Scholarship Fund. “The Ball is a theatrical production in which we promote, recognize and celebrate volunteerism, philanthropy and civic pride,” she said. “It is unique in its traditions and distinctive in this region. It promotes community building and recognizes people who strengthen the community it their own way.” She stressed the fact that long after the celebration is over, many students continue to benefit. “The coronation is an investment in our future as we recognize our scholars and their commitment to succeed in higher education,” she said.

“The WBC is proud to have secured the funding of scholarships for 50 deserving youth in our community,” Johnson said. “These students are our hope for the future and they have overcome many obstacles in life. To support them, to encourage them and to give these young individuals the chance for an education is truly the driving force behind our event.” m

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ELEBRATION OF

THE MISSION OF THE AK-SAR-BEN CORONATION BALL IS TO PROMOTE, RECOGNIZE AND CELEBRATE VOLUNTEERISM, PHILANTHROPY AND CIVIC PRIDE. THE WOMEN’S BALL COMMITTEE ENDEAVORS TO FULFILL THIS MISSION BY: • Modeling the concept of volunteerism.

• Recognizing volunteer leadership.

• Awarding scholarships to future community leaders.

• Celebrating civic pride with a special event.

2009 Women's Ball Committee

The committee is comprised of 19 women, each selected on the basis of their volunteer experience and performance. Each woman serves a three-year term, with the chairman returning for a fourth year as advisor. The Women’s Ball Committee plans every aspect and executes each phase of the Ak-Sar-Ben Coronation Ball’s year-long process.

Volunteer leadership in the community and region is recognized through the selection of the Court.

Photo courtesy of Dwyer Photography

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Anne Thorne Weaver

Phyllis and Del Toebben

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The Ak-Sar-Ben Court of Honor, established in 1988, is one of the Foundation’s most prestigious awards. The recognition is given annually to individuals who have excelled in one of the following categories: Agriculture, Arts, Business and Industry, Community Service, Education, Philanthropy, Professions, Public Service, Sports and Youth.

THIS YEAR’S INDUCTEES ARE: Anne Thorne Weaver | Omaha, NE | Arts Alice Ditmann | Lincoln, NE | Business and Industry Delmer and Phyllis Toebben | Omaha, NE Community Service and Philanthropy Dr. Kim Hoogeveen | Omaha, NE | Professions ANNE THORNE WEAVER was born and raised in Des Moines, Iowa and graduated from Roosevelt High School, and from Bradford Junior College. She married Philip Weaver and they were transferred to Omaha, NE. Weaver, a philanthropist has held numerous positions as Board of Director, and has provided expertise to: Opera Omaha, Omaha Community Playhouse, Museum of Nebraska Art, Nebraska Methodist Hospital Foundation, Nebraska Humane Society Foundation, Family and Child Service, United Way and Western Heritage Museum.

She is on the Omaha Symphony Governing Board and the Salvation Army and Lied Center for Performing Arts Advisory Boards.

Her leadership skills have benefited Planned Parent hood, the Volunteer Bureau, Town Hall and the Salvation Army Auxiliary as president.

Anne has received such awards as Methodist Hospital Foundation Community Service Award, Silver Rose Opera Omaha, Salvation Army Evangeline Booth Award, Junior League of Omaha Roll of Honor, and the YWCA Award for Community Service. In May of 2008 the Omaha Performing Arts announced the Anne Thorne Weaver Lounge located inside the Orpheum Theater in honor of Anne.

Anne has four children, Wendy Clark, Philip Weaver, Laura Weaver and James Weaver and two grandchildren, James and Ashley.

ALICE DITMANN was born in Lincoln, Nebraska to George and Cecile Meyer Frampton and moved to Des Moines, Iowa where her father started Iowa State Bank.

Years later the family moved back to Lincoln, Nebraska where Alice spent her senior year at Lincoln High School. She went on to attend four years at University of Nebraska Lincoln as a Business major. The following year she was at the Harvard-Radcliffe Program in Business at Cambridge, MA. With a Masters from UNL in Finance and Management and a thesis on what makes some small banks more profitable than others, she went to work in Davey, Nebraska at the Farmers State Bank.

In 1955, following his tour in the Navy, Alice married Marcus W. Dittman, a fellow UNL student and Agriculture Major. In 1959 they both started a new bank in Central City, Nebraska and began their family.

Being the first woman bank President in Lincoln and Omaha led to many opportunities in community service. Mrs. Dittman has served as chairman of the Bryan Hospital Board of Directors, as chairman of Nebraska Electronic Transfer System, St. Paul United Methodist Church Fiancé Committee, YWCA Capital Funds Campaign, and as President of Winding River Girl Scout Council, to name a few.

She has held numerous positions in the banking industry. Alice has served as chairman for the American Bankers Association and Nebraska Bankers Association, as well as President of Lincoln Chamber of Commerce and Nebraska Chamber of Commerce and Industry.

PHYLLIS J. TOEBBEN was born and raised in Blue Hill, Nebraska and graduated from Blue Hill High School in 1950. In 1954 she graduated from University of Nebraska with a BA Degree in Social Work and Psychology. She was employed from 1954 to 1958 as a Medical Social Worker at University of Nebraska Medical Center.

Her early Volunteer involvement was with school and church organizations, 4-H, Boy Scouts, Campfire Girls; and other related activates. She later became involved in community services such as President of University Hospital Auxiliary Board, Meyer Children’s Rehabilitation Institute and Salvation Army Auxiliary Board. Phyllis has been on numerous committees and chairmanships for Omaha Symphony Show house, Clarkson Hospital Style Show, Joslyn Art Museum, Henry Doorly Zoo, Lutheran Hospital Auxiliary Board, Quality Living Institute Guild Board, and Friends of Lied Center for Performing Arts.

Phyllis is the recipient of the Salvation Army Evangeline Booth Award and the Concordia University Crest of Christ Award. Phyllis and her husband Del are 4th generation Nebraskans and they have three children; Mark, Jennifer and Scott, and five grandchildren.

DELMER L TOEBBEN was born and raised in Arlington, Nebraska and graduated from Arlington High School in 1948. He attended University of Nebraska, Lincoln, and received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration in 1952. Del served in The United States Army in Korea, completing active duty in August 1954.

He than pursued his graduate studies at University of Nebraska Lincoln in 19541955. Toebben was employed by Wiebe Enterprises in1955, than Valmont Industries, Inc., and eventually served as President of Curzon Advertising and Display until retirement in 1999.

He has served as President for the American Cancer Society, and Combined Health Appeal Drive (CHAD), as well as served on Higher Education Boards at Concordia University, Nebraska, and on Methodist College in Omaha. Del has served as an AkSar-Ben Area Ambassador for over 30 years, as well as officer and board member on numerous non-profit organizations, charities and his church.

Del is the recipient of Ralston Area Chamber of Commerce, Citizen of the Year Award; Ak-Sar-Ben Centennial Jubilee Award; Concordia University, Nebraska, Crest of Christ Award; and Meritorious Service Award, Korea, US Army.

DR KIM HOOGEVEEN was born in Cherokee, Iowa and at age two moved to Elliot, Iowa and graduated from Griswold Community High School. He then attended Iowa State University for six years and earned three degrees-Bachelors, Masters and Specialist degree-all in psychology.

Dr. Hoogeveen is the founding and current President and CEO of Quality Living, Inc. (QLI) which has grown to over 500 employed people and become the largest and most comprehensive service provider of its kind in the nation.

He developed QLI’s unique clinical model, Tri-Dimensional Rehabilitation and the leadership at QLI is based on his “Seven Principles of Leadership”. QLI has been awarded the #1 Best Place to Work in Omaha in 2005, 2006, and 2007. In 2002, Dr. Hoogeveen created a massive and innovative leadership training curriculum and started a new company, MindSet. Kim is a public sector arbitrator, an adjunct faculty member at the University of Nebraska Lincoln, a founding member of the Bellevue Community Foundation, served as a long-time member of the board for Nebraska Special Olympics, and served as a member of the advisory boards for Bellevue University as well as consultant to numerous non-profit organizations..

Dr. Hoogeveen has been honored as a “Champion for Children” by the Bellevue Community School District, recognized by Goodwill as the Outstanding Person of the Year, Distinguished Lecturer for American Healthcare Association, and Keynote Leadership Award at the American Brain Injury Association.

Dittman has three children; Dawn Dittman Coronado, John Frampton Dittman, and Douglas Scott Dittman and seven grandchildren.

Kim and his wife Lu, have two sons, Brett and Blake.

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Father John Schlegel with Shirley and Jim Young

Jeff Schmidt, Annie and Ken Bird

Julie, James and Terry Pfeifer

THE BALL Alyssa Grewcock, Alycia Graham, Amy Price, Caitlin McCullough, Andy Pruitt, Brandi Dargy, Catrina Lebbon, Justin Faust, Brandon Vail, Cara Wurtz, Bethany Cuttle, and Jonathon Anderson

Julie Berkshire, Sarah Adams, Kalli Hovendick, 1st Lt. Christopher Porter and James Fonda

Anne Weaver and Joan Squires

Courtney Cockeril and Jared Matzke

Betty Cernech, Kate Kesel, Father John Schlegel, Rod Kesel, John Cernech, Betsy and Chris Murphy

Mary Lou and Mark Brasee Brett Tesmer and Pat Morris

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CONGRATULATIONS to our 2009 Ak-Sar-Ben Page

MADELINE ELIZABETH VOVK Love, Mom, Dad John, and Olivia Brett and Jennifer Jepson, Jeff and Catherine Mahoney

CONGRATULATIONS to our 2009 Debutante

JULIA TAMBLYN VON RIESEN Love, Mom, Dad, and T.J.

Willie Pippen, Tim Clark, and Pete Festersen

CONGRATULATIONS to the 2009 Lincoln Heartland Princesses and Escorts

ALEXANDRA KATHERINE BALL SUMMER ADELE FROEHLICH JAMIE LYNN HANSEN HOLLY ANN JONES ANDREW SCOTT LIGGETT

Josh and Rachel Sullivan, Tom and Darlynn Fellman, Charlie and Louri Sullivan, and Tommy and Samantha Sullivan

ALICIA LYNN MUHLEISEN WINSTON WILLIAM OSTERGARD STEPHANIE SUTTON BETHANY ABEL TALLMAN BRETT MATTHEW TESMER

KATHERINE TESS MUELLER

Congratulations to our 2009 Ak-Sar-Ben Princess

ELEANOR WHITNEY DODGE Every day with you is a BALL! Love, Mom and Dad

Bethany Cuttle, Aly Peeler, and Alyssa Grewcock

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Steve Martin and Governor Dave Heineman

Becca and Annie Skradski

Brady and Ryan Gibson

Sally English Isabelle English

Viv and Alexandria Ewing

Tyler Schweiderman, Sonya Forbes, Jan Schweiderman, Larry, Meyerson, Brooke Schweiderman, Deenie Meyerson, Heidi Schweiderman, Scott Schweiderman, Spencer Schweiderman

Jeff Hollenbeck, Tammi Bishop, and Stephanie Murphy

THE BALL Stephanie Sutton, Phil Hranac, Sarah Adams, Alex Wolf, Alicia Muhleisen, Kalli HovendickAnnie and P.J. Morgan, Alyse Morgan, Julie Hockney and Rob Hockney

Pat and Dick Bell, Carmen and John Gottschalk

Matt Jaksha, Jessica Bogley, Mary Jo Langdon, Judah Bagley, Melissa Langdon, Ben Teply

Father John Schlegel, Cate and Rod Kestel Sharon and Dr. Bill Griffin with Alice Ditmann

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CONGRATULATIONS to our 2009 Ak-Sar-Ben Princess

CHELSEY LEIGH WATSON We love you!

Love, Mom, A.D., Jimmy David, Mia, and A.J.

Tom Janssen, Tyler Owen, and Ryan Gibson

CONGRATULATIONS to our 2009 Ak-Sar-Ben Page

MARY ELIZABETH FOSTER Affectionately, Mom, Dad, and Robert Joseph

Ann Stinson, Maureen Turner, and Connie Heiden

Stacy Wilson, Julie Linquata, and Julie Lyons

Noreen Frenking, Ann Hergenrader, and John Frenking

Erta Collins and Irene Hunter

Sue, Sarah, and Dave Morris

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Emily and Michael Jung

Jaymie, Mike, and Michael Schilken

Cathy Long and John Conley

Samantha and Charlie Sulivan

THE BALL David and Maggie Brown, Anne and Brian Braniga

Allison, Thomas, David, Jane, and Gary Raetz

Sherri and Darren Obrecht, Sean and Michelle Olson

Viv, John, and Alexandra Ewing

Anna Milliken with Isabel Hasselbalch

Maddy Altenau and Kate Dodge Simone, Peter, Camille, C.K. Duryea

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D.J. and Janet Thayer

John and Victoria Halgren, Shannon Hry, Jeanie Jones, John and Sheila Mountjoy, Kathy, Jeff, and Jack Neary

Lisa Rezac, Lori Dvorak, Kim Egan, Tom Egan

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GETTING READY

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ANDYLAND OF QUIVERA’S ANNUAL PAGE LUNCHEON

Following a morning rehearsal at the Qwest Center Omaha, the Pages and Standard Bearers of the Royal Court, along with a family member, attended a luncheon in their honor.

Women’s Ball Committee Chairman, Mary Johnson, and the Page Luncheon Chairman, Kyle Robino, welcomed the children and their family member. Page Chairman, Amy Schmid, introduced the Pages. Assistant Page Chairman, Gina Greder, presented each child with an engraved silver frame with a photo of the Page in page costume. Approximately 150 people attended the luncheon.

The tables were decorated with red licorice, giant lollipops, cotton candy and ice cream bubbles. Each page left with a plush zebra stuffed animal wearing an ivory Page hat and a ribbon collar with Fruitstripe gum attached. The Pages also took home lots and lots of candy from the candy buffet.

Shelley Homa with Drew and Julie Taylor and Lori Pirnie

Sally English, Stephanie Pantano, and Karin Hogan

Michele and Alyssa Grewcock with Ann Hergenrader

Samuel Peterson and Jack Neary

Heather Russell, Jeannie Dudzinski, and Stephanie Horeis

Chairperson Kyle Robino, Assistant Chairperson Gina Greder, and Chairperson Amy Schmid with Assistant Chairperson Mary de Souza

Peggy Zier, Teri Krohn.

Zoe Zier, and Riley Zier

Jackie Kroger, Heidi Schneiderman, Lori Pirnie, Shelley Homa, and Kathy Neary

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ENTLEMEN, LADIES, THE 2009 AK-SAR-BEN ESCORTS, COUNTESSES AND PRINCESSES LUNCHEON

Thursday, October 8th began an exciting time for the 2009 Ak-SarBen Princesses, Heartland Princesses, Omaha Escorts and Heartland Escorts. The Royal Court Luncheon was held at the Qwest Center for the Court participants on the final day of fittings and initial rehearsals. Hosts for the event were Sheila Christ of She-La’s and Bill Spire of Mr. Tuxedo. Ak-Sar-Ben Floor Committee members William J. Ochsner and Tyler R. Owen served as chairmen. The featured event speaker was Dr. Thomas E. Gouttierre, Dean of International Studies and Programs at the University of Nebraska at Omaha and the University of Nebraska Medical Center, and as the Director of the Center for Afghanistan Studies at the University of Nebraska Omaha.

Each Princess and Countess received earrings specially made to match her Designer Coronation Ball gown from She-La. Each Escort was given a silver engraved picture frame from the Women's Ball Committee.

Mary Jacobson, Kat Mueller, Summer Froehlich, Stephanie Sutton, and Alicia Muhleisen

Scott Elsen, David Turk, and T.J. Langdon

Capt. Jon Oliva, Scott Fehrman, and Lt. Christopher Porter

Rick Russell, Matt Foley, Britt Thedinger Jr.

Nicky Dillon, Kelly Stuckey, Heather Russel, and Angie Gunhus

Rick Russell, Matt Foley, Britt Thedinger Jr.

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NVEILING THE 2009 AK-SAR-BEN COUNCILLOR’S PARTY

His Majesty's Council of the Knights of Ak-Sar-Ben hosted a special evening of dinner and dancing at the Mutual of Omaha Dome, Omaha, Nebraska. The festivities honored the Princesses, Heartland Princesses, Escorts, and Heartland Escorts of the 2009 Court of Quivira and their families for their contributions throughout our region.

The “Unveiling the Pride of the Kingdom” Councillor’s Party invitations set the tone for the safari themed dinner. The tables were draped with a chocolate satin krinkle. Centerpieces used giraffes, assorted wild animals and spheres with a variety of sunset-colored flowers. Near the fountain, under the Dome, was an organza draped iron gazebo with white leather club furniture and an animal print rug.

John Sambk and Jim Hubbard, Jerad Matzke, Trevor Massey, Amy Keiser, Courtney Cockerill, and Ashley Getwein

Rick and J. Cockerill with Rosemary and Clyde Meis Rick and J. Cockerill with Rosemary and Clyde Meis Viv and John Ewing

Linda and Tori Rafael

Erica Johnson and John Hecker

Diane and David Millea

Colleen Slattery, Bridget Rogers, Rachel Meyer, and Tori Rafael

Kathy Johnson, Lori Bauer, and Deborah Nesbitt

Alexandra Ball, Brenton Nesbitt, James Pfeifer, and Emily Nesbitt

Julie, Rachel, and Joe Skradski

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THE 2009 AK-SAR-BEN GOVERNORS WIVES LUNCHEON

The annual Ak-Sar-Ben Board of Governors Wives luncheon, held the day before the Coronation Ball, is to honor the Mothers of the Princesses, Countesses, Escorts, Heartland Escorts and Standard Bearers of the Royal Court. The wives of the Board of Governors of Ak-Sar-Ben hosted this event. The Chairman of the Coronation Ball Committee’s wife traditionally serves as luncheon chairman. The featured speaker was Mary Maxwell. Also in attendance was Queen Alyssa Grewcock and her mother, Michele; Susan Cutler, wife of Bill Cutler, who serves as this year’s Coronation Ball Chairman; Betsy Murphy, wife of Coronation Ball Committee Advisor, Chris Murphy; and Mary Johnson, Chairman of Women’s Ball Committee.

Jean Bartman, Julie Taylor, Kathy Langdon, and Sheila Pedersen

Susan Cutler, Mary Johnson, and Betsy Murphy

Kim Robak and Ann Blunk Lori Pirnie, Joani Mullin, and Sandy Parker

Joannie Medlock and Jane Raetz

Kyle Robino and Jill Bydalek

Pat Bell, Anne Nelson, and Nana Smith

Leslee Groh, Viv Ewing and Peggy Reinecke

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SCHLEGEL’S REIGN BROUGHT UNDERSTANDING AND FRIENDSHIP

The royalty selection for the 2008 Ak-Sar-Ben Coronation and Ball had a unique twist from the beginning. Rather than following the traditional path of choosing a secular leader of the community to honor as king, the Coronation Ball Committee took a slight detour in both its selection and its ceremony. John P. Schlegel, SJ, president of Creighton University, received the highest honor. He was not anointed king but instead was named “Most Honored Citizen” and was presented to the court in his priestly black suit and Roman collar, rather than the usual kingly ensemble.

In February, Schlegel gave Fitzgerald and Murphy his affirmative answer. There was no public activity from when he accepted the invitation until the Coronation and Ball, other than to have behind the scenes discussions about the ceremony and the script. All wording would be changed from king to “Most Honored Citizen” and there was an agreement that the Queen’s gift would be underwritten, without cost to Creighton.

Schlegel was invited to a meeting in early 2008, with William Fitzgerald, chairman of the Creighton University Board of Directors and Chris Murphy, chairman of the Coronation Ball Committee, and also a CU board member. He suspected there was something afoot and wondered if the University was being chosen for the Court of Honor.

Schlegel came away with a lot of positive views about his year. “I met wonderful people from the Heartland area of Nebraska and western Iowa,” he said, and he was able to engage in great conversations about Ak-Sar-Ben and the University. He attended numerous events throughout his reign. The gatherings gave him an opportunity to talk about Ak-Sar-Ben but also to “tell the Creighton University story to people who know nothing about us,” he said. “And I had fun along the way.” One of Schlegel’s final appearances as Most Honored Citizen was the memorable Union Pacific train ride to Valley, Nebraska hosted annually by Jim and Shirley Young.

Instead, during the hour-long meeting, Schlegel learned that the committee wanted to honor him as an individual.

The notion caught him off guard and his initial response was that he’d consider it only if Creighton was honored more than he was honored. “I think they came to the meeting prepared for some questions,” he said. Schlegel agreed to give the invitation some consideration but with the caveat that he would not wear the traditional kingly garb of tights, bloomers, robe, crown and scepter, nor would he crown the Queen or present her with the ceremonial ring.

He agreed to get back to the committee within a month.

He gave the idea a lot of thought and decided that it was good for Creighton to identify with Ak-Sar-Ben. A number of Creighton students have been recipients of the Horatio Alger Ak-Sar-Ben Scholarships funded by the Knights of Ak-Sar-Ben Foundation. Therefore, drawing attention to the organization was a positive move. He was also curious to learn more about Ak-Sar-Ben and how it functions. Prior to his being chosen, Schlegel was familiar with members of the Board of Governors of Ak-Sar-Ben; several serve on Creighton’s Board of Directors. “I appreciate their role in the community,” he said.

Keeping his identity a secret was not necessarily a challenge.

Whenever there was talk about who the Ak-Sar-Ben monarchs might be, he offered no opinion. He noted that in his circles, there is not a lot of gossip. Schlegel met Queen Alyssa Grewcock and her family for the first time, at the rehearsal early on the morning of the event.

Schlegel said he made several appearances with Queen Grewcock, including attendance at an Omaha Royal’s baseball game. He enjoyed getting to know her family and learning more about her college softball career. The monarchs hosted a June party for the Ak-Sar-Ben Pages at the zoo, which seemed appropriate since Alyssa has done volunteer work there. Mostly, he said serving in the role gave him unexpected opportunities to talk about Ak-Sar-Ben and its generous scholarships.

He had no qualms about seeing his year as Most Honored Citizen come to an end and was very pleased by the selection of the 2009 king. “They passed it along to a very wonderful person,” he said. m

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REIGN AS QUEEN REWARDS THE GREWCOCK FAMILY’S GENEROSITY

Fairy tale queens are often portrayed as vain and self-centered.

Ak-Sar-Ben’s 2008 queen, Alyssa Grewcock, is just the opposite. While she was delighted to be chosen—knowing it was a major way for her family’s giving spirit to be recognized—she did not take herself terribly seriously. It is an attitude she said she shared with her counterpart—Most Honored Citizen Fr. John Schlegel.

“Fr. and I are both very laid back and easy going,” she said.

“We share the same sarcastic sense of humor.” Neither gets overly serious about being honored. “We take everything with a grain of salt,” she said.

Grewcock learned she had been chosen when she was home in February, celebrating her 21st birthday. While driving her back to the airport, Grewcock’s father told her she’d been chosen as queen. She was pleased not so much for herself, but thinking her family deserved to be honored. The following summer she and her mother, along with WBC chairman Ann Hergenrader and Tilly Chapman made a secret trip to New York, to meet designer Carman Marc Valvo and pick out a gown.

“I had never experienced anything like that,” she said, describing the trip as “really cool.” To avoid the traditional white color, Hergenrader and Chapman chose silver, which suited Grewcock fine. “I’m pretty easy going, a non-conformist,” she said.

During the summer months, she attended a number of Royal Court functions, since she had also been chosen as a princess.

The most difficult thing for her was trying to deflect questions about who she thought the queen might be.

That night’s festivities were stressful because she had to get away from the other princess to change into her gown. Waiting backstage, Grewcock felt a lot of anxiety. “It is a huge honor and I didn’t want to fall or to embarrass myself,” she said. However, as soon as the announcement was made, she felt a great sense of relaxation and happiness—as well as pride for her family. She said they often prefer their efforts to remain anonymous so it was good for them to be formally recognized.

Grewcock and Fr. Schlegel were present at a number of parties, where they thanked everyone for the recognition, during the year. An especially memorable experience was attending a dinner, held at the Governor’s mansion, honoring the Ak-Sar-Ben scholarship winners.

Reflecting on her reign, Grewcock said it gave here a greater understanding of Ak-Sar-Ben’s work and its generous, far-reaching efforts. “It defines what our community is all about,” she said, in terms of giving, and hope and staying strong in the times we are going through.

Grewcock approached this year’s ball with both relief and sadness. “I was ready to be done,” she said. It all goes back to her laid back attitude. She felt a slight tinge of sadness when she realized there was a new queen but said, “It was a lot of fun— I wouldn’t trade it for anything.”

Grewcock attends Hillsdale College in Michigan where she expects to graduate with a marketing degree in December 2010. She is already applying for jobs in Omaha. “I really want to come back home,” she said. She chose the college based, in part, on her grandparents’ loyalty but a major factor was her love of athletics.

“The softball coach had heard of me and wanted me to play for them,” she said. “I loved the coach and the school.” She now volunteers to help coach the team. Playing sports is “like having a second family, especially at the college level,” Grewcock said. “You’re close to the team because you’re together all the time.”

Prior to the coronation ball, Grewcock revealed her identity to a number of friends from school, because she wanted them to be there, and to family members. The fact that relatives came from Chicago and Waco made it really special for her.

Grewcock has done a lot of volunteering. “I really like to help people and animals,” she said. She noted that with coaching, she is able to spend time helping someone improve their game. It is very rewarding for her to see a player get better and know she was a part of that.

Grewcock met Fr. Schlegel at the monarch rehearsal the morning of the ball. She was surprised by the choice and said it was a little awkward at first but she soon learned they were very similar in their attitudes.

Because she had known Dr. Lee Simmons for many years and spent time volunteering at the Henry Doorly Zoo, she was very excited to see him named the 2009 king. “I thought he was very deserving,” she said.

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