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Toxic relationship Dear Annie: I have a daughter who is sometimes very kind and sweet to me but other times feels like a cancer who destroys every cell in my heart. I have limited the time I spend with her because, when we are together, her criticism leaves me feeling devastated for weeks. I avoid her after she does a number on me for a while. But when she senses I have calmed down, she starts to be really sweet again to draw me back. She has never once apologized to me for her hurtful and inconsiderate ways. I raised both her children from birth while she ran off with her friends all the time and pursued her career goals. Not once did she try to help me with raising them, other than the occasional times she came around and offered to help, which would consist of her lying down and sleeping or ignoring the kids with her cellphone. When I raised her, my life was very difficult. I was divorced and poor and didn’t have any help from my family or the father, but I spent my entire life trying to make her and my son have a happy life. I put aside my needs completely and gave my children every last bit of love and penny I had. I took my daughter to all kinds of fun activities, and she had never-ending sleepovers as well. Even though she was a very happy and confident kid and teenager with lots of friends, she tells me that I was a terrible parent. Mind you, she also says I am the best grandmother ever to her children. She never complained once to me about anything, but when she was abandoning her children, she started saying I was the reason because I was too nice to her when she was growing up. She still calls me regularly and wants a relationship with me, but inside I don’t trust her and I know the same hurt is coming again. I don’t know how to deal with this. In the past, and even now, I haven’t put up with toxic behavior from friends, boyfriends
Legals@DavisEnterprise.net or my family of origin. I have love and hatred in my heart toward her, but mostly hurt from all of the selfish and careless ways she has displayed toward me. I am going to visit tomorrow, but I feel sick inside and don’t know if I can forgive and forget her evil toward me. And if I try to resolve anything through communication, she always excuses her behavior. This year, she has taken my 15-year-old grandson to live with her, and I don’t want to alienate him from my life, so I have to keep dealing with her. I am feeling trapped in this emotionally abusive relationship with her and don’t know what to do. Please help! — Trouble With Adult Daughter
high school and have been married for 23 years. Before we were married, we broke up several times and dated other people. He joined Facebook last year, at the end of August. He friended an old girlfriend from high school. I got mad, and he responded by blocking me. I have never felt the need to check his phone, but something didn’t seem right, so I gave in. I checked his phone without his permission. I found out about a week after joining Facebook that he had sent a message to someone he used to work with before we were married, and he asked this person if he knew how to get ahold of an ex-girlfriend he had dated at one of those times when we had broken up. In the message, he told this person he wanted to see this exgirlfriend and that he really missed her and has never forgotten her. I am devastated and not sure what to do. I want to confront him. All these years, I thought we had a good marriage. We have two beautiful teenage children. My heart is broken. I need your advice. — Heartbroken Dear Heartbroken: Trust is a fundamental pillar in a marriage, and he has broken that. It is understandable that you are devastated. You and your husband desperately need marriage counseling, whether he admits it or not. If he refuses to go, then tell him what you know about his desire for his old girlfriend and ask him why he is so unhappy in your marriage.
Dear Trouble With Adult Daughter: Your daughter might have borderline personality disorder or bipolar depressive disorder. It’s understandable that you are feeling trapped and want to avoid the entire situation altogether. But walking away from your daughter and your grandkids is not the answer. The best way to handle this toxic relationship is to detox it through honest and open communication. If she continues to make excuses for her behavior, try and see through them to the root of her avoidance and anger. I would suggest therapy for both of you individually, or seeing a family therapist together. 800 Suffolk Place ——— Winters CA Dear Annie: My husband and I met in
FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: 07/07/2021 FBN Number: F20210583 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Terracina at Wildhorse Apartments 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1600 Moore Blvd. Davis, CA 95616 Mailing address: 3200 Douglas Boulevard, Ste. 200 Roseville, CA 95661 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip 1) USA Davis Apartments, Inc., GP for Wildhorse Family Apartments, LP 3200 Douglas Blvd., Ste. 200 Roseville, CA 95661 2) Community Housing Opportunities Corp., GP for Wildhorse Family Apartments, LP 1490 Drew Avenue, #160 Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Limited Partnership 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: 08/01/2000 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Jonathan C. Harmer, CFO USA Davis Apartments, In., GP for Wildhorse Family Apartments, LP 7/14, 7/21, 7/28, 8/4 1391 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: 07/07/2021 FBN Number: F20210579 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Omsoft Technologies Omsoft 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1930 5th Street, Suite C Davis, CA 95616 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s),
Invisible disabilities Dear Annie: A few years ago, after many, many years of going to doctors and having tests done, I found out that I am disabled. The only problem is that I don’t LOOK disabled. I’m a young person, and the disability I suffer from is invisible. I often feel symptoms of imposter syndrome due to this, and I deny myself
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Public Notices FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: 06/23/2021 FBN Number: F20210546 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Desert Shorebird Studio 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1303 Lake Blvd. Davis, CA 95616 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Clara Heinicke 1303 Lake Blvd. Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: N/A “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Clara Heinicke 6/30, 7/7, 7/14, 7/21 1375
Ideally, you can confront him about his text messages with a counselor in the session so there will be a moderator in what is likely to be a heated exchange — with the goal being to get your marriage back on track. He has to stop bullying you by doing things like blocking you on Facebook. You are supposed to be on the same team. ——— Dear Annie: I wrote this when my mother was alive, and I want to share it with you and your readers. Sad to say, she passed away in 2009. I still miss her. God took a dash of wisdom and patience, and to this, he added a loving heart. He took the stars from heaven and put a twinkle in your eyes. We call them mothers, but they are really ANGELS in disguise. I love you, Momma. — Sweet and Sassy Dear Sweet and Sassy: You and the great Abraham Lincoln had the same thought: “All that I am, or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” What a gift it is to have a loving and caring mother. I like the idea of celebrating our mothers every day.
Residence Address, State, and Zip Om Networks 802 2nd Street Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Corporation 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: 11/23/1996 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Robert Nickerson, CEO Om Networks 7/14, 7/21, 7/28, 8/4 1392 NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER ESTATE OF Mildred F. Garris CASE NO. PR2021-0148 To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, contingent creditors, and persons who may otherwise be interested in the will or estate, or both, of: Mildred F. Garris A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been filed by: Wayne Garris in the Superior Court of California, County of: Yolo THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests that: Wayne Garris be appointed as personal representative to administer the estate of the decedent. THE PETITION requests the decedent’s will and codicils, if any, be admitted to probate. The will and any codicils are available for examination in the file kept by the court. THE PETITION requests authority to administer the estate under the Independent Administration of Estates Act. (This authority will allow the personal representative to take many actions without obtaining court approval. Before taking certain very important actions, however, the personal representative will be required to give notice to interested persons unless they have waived notice or consented to the proposed action.) The independent administration authority will be granted unless an interested person files an objection to the petition and shows good cause why the court should not grant the authority. A HEARING on the petition will be held on 8/20/2021 at 9:00 a.m. in Department TBD located at 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695. IF YOU OBJECT to the granting of the petition, you should appear at the hearing and state your objections or file written objections with the court before the hearing. Your appearance may be in person or by your attorney. IF YOU ARE A CREDITOR or a contingent creditor of the decedent, you must file your claim with the court and mail a copy to the personal representative appointed by the court within the later of either (1) four months from the date of first issuance of letters to a general personal representative, as defined in section 58(b) of the California Probate Code, or (2) 60 days from the date of mailing or personal delivery to you of a notice under section 9052 of the California Probate Code. Other California statutes and legal authority may affect your rights as a creditor. You may want to consult with an attorney knowledgeable in California law. YOU MAY EXAMINE the file kept by the court. If you are a person interested in the estate, you may file with the court a Request for Special Notice (form DE-154)
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help. I have abandoned trying to find medicines that could help me because my body has proven to be resistant to many pain medications. I do not use my cane, and I surely won’t use the assistance of a wheelchair, should I need it. Years of ridicule have left me exhausted, and I feel aged beyond my years. The public eye is far too judgmental for me to feel comfortable using the aids that I sometimes so desperately need, and this has led me to be a shutin. I want to live my life freely, but I am too afraid of repercussions from appearing as a healthy young person “imitating the disabled.” For all of those battling the illnesses beyond visibility, how do we feel free to own our lives? — Invisibly Ill Dear Invisibly Ill: In pain, afraid to live freely, ashamed to reach out for help — how incredibly isolated you must feel. But you’re not alone. Someone reading this has been nodding their head all the way through, recognizing their story in your letter. Millions of Americans live with invisible or “nonapparent” disabilities, and I think you’d find great relief in talking with some of them. The Invisible Disabilities Association hosts a support community at www.inspire.com/groups/invisible-disabilities-association. Another resource is the Invisible Disability Project, whose website is invisibledisabilityproject.org. You may not be able to reduce the physical hardships of your disability, but you can lighten the emotional burden.
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of the filing of an inventory and appraisal of estate assets or of any petition or account as provided in Probate Code section 1250. A Request for Special Notice form is available from the court clerk. Signed: Sasha D. Collins Attorney for petitioner 1555 River Park Drive, Suite 108 Sacramento, CA 95815 916-920-5983 7/14, 7/16, 7/21 1393 ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME Case Number: CV2021-1197 1. Cesar Arturo Cenfuegos filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Cesar Arturo Cenfuegos to Cesar Arturo Cienfuegos Brooklin Rose Lorber to Brooklin Rose-Lorber Cienfuegos 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition should not be granted. NOTICE OF HEARING Date: 8-19-2021 Time: 9:00 AM Dept: 10 Room: ZOOM The address of the court is 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once a week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: The Davis Enterprise 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Date: 7-7-2021 Samuel T. McAdam Judge of the Superior Court 7/14, 7/21, 7/28, 8/4 1394 PUBLIC NOTICE PUBLIC NOTICE ADOPTED ORDINANCE NO. 1535 NOTICE is hereby given that at its regularly scheduled meeting of July 13, 2021, the Yolo County Board of Supervisors adopted Ordinance No. 1535 amending Title 2, Chapter 5, Article 21 of the Yolo County Code relating to Health and Human Services Agency participation in the Community Corrections Partnership. The Ordinance was adopted by the following vote: AYES: Barajas, Villegas, Saylor, Sandy, Provenza. NOES: None. ABSENT: None. ABSTAIN: None. Copies of the full text of the Ordinance are available at www.yolocounty.org/ agendas or at the Clerk of the Board of Supervisors Office, 625 Court Street, Room 204, Woodland, CA 95695. Dated: July 21, 2021 Lupita Ramirez, Deputy Clerk Yolo County Board of Supervisors 7/21 1400 PUBLIC NOTICE PUBLIC NOTICE ADOPTED ORDINANCE NO. 1536 NOTICE is hereby given that at its regularly scheduled meeting of July
California law. YOU MAY EXAMINE the file kept by the court. If you are a person interested in the estate, you may file with the court a Request for Special Notice (form DE-154) of the filing of an inventory and appraisal of estate assets or of any petition or The Ordinance was adopted by the account as provided in Probate Code following vote: section 1250. A Request for Special Notice form is available from the court clerk. AYES: Barajas, Villegas, Saylor, Sandy, Signed: Provenza. Robert Nakken NOES: None. Attorney for petitioner ABSENT: None. Gardner, Janes, Nakken, Hugo & Nolan ABSTAIN: None. 429 First Street Woodland, CA 95695 Copies of the full text of the Ordinance 530-662-7367 are available at www.yolocounty.org/ 7/21, 7/23, 7/28 1402 agendas or at the Clerk of the Board FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME of Supervisors Office, 625 Court Street, STATEMENT Room 204, Woodland, CA 95695. Filed: 06/23/2021 FBN Number: F20210545 Dated: July 21, 2021 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Lupita Ramirez, Deputy Clerk Becerra Farms Inc. Yolo County Board of Supervisors 7/21 1401 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER Business is located in Yolo County. ESTATE OF 39 E. Main Street Carol R. Rifkin Winters, CA 95694 AKA Carol Rifkin Mailing address: AKA Carol Robin Rifkin PO Box 503 CASE NO. PR-2021-0160 Winters, CA 95694 To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), contingent creditors, and persons who Residence Address, State, and Zip may otherwise be interested in the will or Becerra Farms Inc. estate, or both, of: Carol R. Rifkin, AKA 39 E. Main Street Carol Rifkin, AKA Carol Robin Rifkin Winters, CA 95694 A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been 4. Business Classification: Corporation filed by: Richard Rifkin in the Superior 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Court of California, County of: Yolo Registrant(s) commenced to transact THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests business under the fictitious business that: Richard Rifkin be appointed as name or names listed above on: personal representative to administer the 03/23/2021 estate of the decedent. “I declare that all information in THE PETITION requests authority this statement is true and correct.” to administer the estate under the (A registrant who declares as true Independent Administration of Estates information which he or she knows to be Act. (This authority will allow the personal false is guilty of a crime.) representative to take many actions 6. Signature of Registrant(s): without obtaining court approval. Before Ramiro Becerra, President taking certain very important actions, Becerra Farms Inc. however, the personal representative will 7/21, 7/28, 8/4, 8/11 1403 be required to give notice to interested STATEMENT OF ABANDONMENT OF persons unless they have waived notice USE OF FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME or consented to the proposed action.) Filed: 07/13/2021 The independent administration FBN Number: F20210608 authority will be granted unless an The person(s) or entity listed below are interested person files an objection to abandoning the use of the following the petition and shows good cause why fictitious business name(s): the court should not grant the authority. Name of Business(es): A HEARING on the petition will be held Suay Vida on 08/31/2021, 2020 at 9:00 a.m. in The fictitious business name was filed in Department 10 located at 1000 Main Yolo County on 03/27/2018 and is being Street, Woodland, CA 95695. ABANDONED by the registrant(s) listed IF YOU OBJECT to the granting of below: the petition, you should appear at the Alyssa M. Ramirez hearing and state your objections or file 8777 County Road 95 written objections with the court before Zamora, CA 95698 the hearing. Your appearance may be in person or by your attorney. Angelica Gutierrez IF YOU ARE A CREDITOR or a contingent 1246 Donnelly Cir., Apt. 8 creditor of the decedent, you must file Woodland, CA 95776 your claim with the court and mail a copy Corporation or LLC name & address and to the personal representative appointed county of the principal place of business: by the court within the later of either 8777 County Road 95 (1) four months from the date of first Zamora, CA 95698 issuance of letters to a general personal YOLO COUNTY representative, as defined in section 58(b) The business was conducted by: of the California Probate Code, or (2) 60 General Partnership days from the date of mailing or personal I declare that all information is true and delivery to you of a notice under section correct. (A registrant who declares as true 9052 of the California Probate Code. information which he or she knows to be Other California statutes and legal false is guilty of a crime.) authority may affect your rights as Registrant Signature: a creditor. You may want to consult Angelica Gutierrez with an attorney knowledgeable in 7/21, 7/28,8/4, 8/11 1404 13, 2021, the Yolo County Board of Supervisors adopted Ordinance No. 1536 amending Title 2 of the Yolo County Code to designate the Juvenile Justice Commission to serve as the Delinquency Prevention Commission.