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THE DAVIS ENTERPRISE
Hitting bottom may be too late Dear Annie: You recently printed a letter from two physicians with an alcoholic daughter. AlAnon is the organization that supports friends and families of alcoholics, and Alcoholics Anonymous is support for the individual with a drinking problem. You recommended Alcoholics Anonymous. We were in this couple’s shoes recently. Our daughter finally saw an addiction specialist, who prescribed a once-a-month shot to eliminate the desire for alcohol. She took the shot for a year, and it was expensive, but it worked. It’s been three years now, and she has no desire to drink. The shot saved her life. I am sending this letter in the hope that other families can learn of this life-changing, once-amonth shot. — A Relieved Mother Dear Relieved Mother: Thank you for sharing a suggestion that saved your daughter’s life. Hopefully, it can help others struggling in similar situations. The next letter is from another reader whose family also struggled with addiction.
Dear Annie: I want to address the physicians whose daughter is experiencing advanced alcoholism. Advising that she must “reach a bottom” is conventional wisdom, and it has its place. I would add that empirical studies of alcoholism and addiction have shown that many people recover in stages as their motivation increases. An excellent source is the book “Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change” by Jeffrey Foote, Carrie Wilkens, Nicole Kosanke and Stephanie Higgs. I have found help with my approach to my loved ones in Al-Anon, and I am a 12-stepper myself for food addiction. Beyond my own experience, I was encouraged when I learned that there are ways that family members can help, besides waiting for the alcoholic or addict to reach a bottom. In my case, there was heroin addiction in my
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FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211046 12/06/2021 Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: OAKSHADE IT Physical Address: 2020 5th Ave., #1242 Davis, CA 95616 Mailing Address: Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): 1) Peter William Broderick 1630 La Habra Ct. Davis, CA 95618 Business Classification: Individual Starting Date of Business: 12/01/2021 s/Peter Broderick Official Title: N/A Corporation Name: N/A I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 10, 17, 24, 31, 2021
NOTICE TO CONTRACTORS Notice is hereby given that the County of Yolo Community Services Department, Division of Integrated Waste Management, will receive sealed bids for construction of WASTE MANAGEMENT UNIT 6 MODULE H BASE LINER SYSTEM until JANUARY 13, 2022 @ 2 P.M., at 44090 County Road 28H, Woodland, CA 95776. Each bid must conform to the requirements of the Contract Documents, which can be downloaded along with all bid documents at www.bidsync.com at no cost. It is the bidder’s responsibility to register at www.bidsync.com to ensure notification of all addenda. It is the bidder’s responsibility to arrange for printing services. For more information, send questions through www.bidsync.com. There will be a Pre-bid meeting at 10 A.M. on JANUARY 3, 2022 at the Yolo County Central Landfill, located at 44090 County Road 28H, Woodland. Each bidder shall be a licensed contractor pursuant to sections 7000 et seq. of the Business and Professions Code in the following classification(s) throughout the time it submits its bid and for the duration of the contract: LICENSE A. The successful bidder shall furnish a payment bond and a performance bond, each in the full amount of the contract price. These bonds shall be executed by a surety specified in California Code of Civil Procedure Section 995.310. Pursuant to Public Contract Code section 22300, the successful bidder may substitute certain securities for funds withheld by the County to ensure its performance under the contract. Pursuant to Section 1773 of the Labor Code, the general prevailing wage rates in the County in which the work is to be done have been determined by the Director of the California Department of Industrial Relations. These wage rates are set forth in the General Prevailing Wage Rates for this project, available for review at Yolo County Central Landfill, 44090 County Road 28H, Woodland, California and available from the California Department of Industrial Relations’ internet web site at http://www.dir.ca.gov/DLSR/PWD. The successful bidder shall post a copy of the prevailing wage rates at each job site. It shall be mandatory upon the bidder to whom the contract is awarded, and upon any subcontractors, to comply with all Labor Code provisions, which include but are not limited to the payment of not less than the said specified prevailing wage rates to all workers employed by them in the execution of the contract, employment of apprentices, hours of labor and debarment of contractors and subcontractors. Pursuant to Labor Code section 1725.5 and 1771.3, contractors and subcontractors who intend to bid on, be listed in a bid proposal, or enter into a contract to perform public work must be registered with the Department of Industrial Relations. No proposal will be accepted nor any contract entered into without proof of the contractor’s and subcontractors’ current registration with the Department of Industrial Relations to perform public work. This project is subject to compliance monitoring and enforcement by the Department of Industrial Relations. Note to General Contractors; Joint Apprenticeship Committee Participation Requirement: The County adopted a policy that one of requirements to be deemed a responsive bidder is that when submitting a bid at or in excess of seven hundred fifty thousand dollars the bidder must then be participating in a joint apprenticeship committee on public works projects. The California Department of Industrial Relations defines a joint apprenticeship committee as a committee made up of equal number of members from labor and management. Bidders submitting bids at or in excess of one million dollars must complete a California Department of Industrial Relations’ DAS-7 form that documents the bidder’s participation in a joint apprenticeship committee. Bids that are not accompanied by such proof of participation will be rejected. The County will verify participation prior to the award. Published December 19, 22, 24, 2021
adult child. A lot of times, this addiction will kill a person before he or she “hits bottom.” I learned ways to change my own attitudes and behaviors. I was helped also by the Center for Motivation and Change in New York City, which made available to me trained lay counselors over the phone for free. They can be found online. I was not the cause of my adult child’s recovery; that is between the person and God. But I was able to help, and there were moments when I was the catalyst for a step in the right direction. I am grateful today that my child lives with sobriety, grateful more than I can express. My heart goes out to other parents and partners of suffering people. I have intact adult children and a beautiful
grandchild. — A Friend in Pennsylvania Dear Friend in Pennsylvania: Thank you for your letter. It brings up an important flaw in the “hit bottom” theory, which is that by the time some people reach it, it is too late for them. My hope is that anyone struggling feels your friendship and hope for them that they have the courage to change. ——— Dear Annie: I resembled the woman who wrote to say that she was staying married for the sake of her son. My then-husband quit his job shortly after the birth of our fourth son, and it took me seven years to realize that honor, marriage, family and commitment mean partnership — not martyrdom. I worked full time, went back to grad school to enhance my earning power and did nearly all of the housework while he remained unemployed. As time wore on, the environment grew toxic, as I was constantly angry and wor-
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FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211047 12/06/2021 Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: Burnham Partners LLC Physical Address: 1606 L St. Davis, CA 95616 Mailing Address: Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): Burnham Partners LLC 1606 L St. Davis, CA 95616 Business Classification: Limited Liability Company Starting Date of Business: 10/28/2021 s/Douglas A. Walter Official Title: Manager Corporation Name: Burnham Partners LLC I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 10, 17, 24, 31, 2021
FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211032 12/01/2021 Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: BARIOLA BON PRODUCTIONS Physical Address: 216 F St. #4 Davis, CA 95616 Mailing Address: Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): Michael David Janzen 216 F St. #4 Davis, CA 95616 Business Classification: Individual Starting Date of Business: 12/01/2021 s/Michael David Janzen Official Title: Owner Corporation Name: N/A I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 10, 17, 24, 31, 2021
FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211027 11/29/2021 Iramirez, Deputy Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: CMIT Solutions of Sacramento NW Physical Address: 1777 Oak Ave. Ste. B Davis, CA 95616 Mailing Address: PO Box 4088 Davis, CA 95617 Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): Ironwood Technologies 1777 Oak Ave. Ste. B Davis, CA 95616 Business Classification: Corporation Starting Date of Business: 11/19/2021 s/ Tze Koon Yang Official Title: President Corporation Name: Ironwood Technologies, Inc. I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 3, 10, 17, 24, 2021 #1600
ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME Case Number: CV2021-2088 To all interested persons: Petitioner: Alena Pafelova on behalf of Naum Lyustiger filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name Naum Lyustiger to Proposed name Naum David Lyustiger THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objection that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing. NOTICE OF HEARING Date: 1/19/2022 at 9:00 a.m. Dept. 10 Room: Zoom The address of the court is Yolo Superior Court Clerks Office - Civil 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 A copy of this Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: The Davis Enterprise. Date: 11/20/2021 Samuel T. McAdam Judge of the Superior Court Published December 3, 10, 17, 24, 2021 #1601
ried. One night, I came home in tears at 10:30 p.m. because I had gone to the grocery store after night classes and could not afford to buy basic groceries. Somehow, I suddenly realized I was not being a good role model for our sons. I asked myself what advice I would have for a stranger in the same situation. I found an attorney. I gave my husband 60 days to land a job — any job, even part-time — or I would file for divorce. After 30 days, I reminded him of my ultimatum and said that I was still serious. At 60 days, I said I was going to the lawyer today. He asked for counseling. I said it was too late. I checked out as soon as the 60-day timer went off. Staying for the sake of the children is noble in thought, but not worth it for anyone involved. — Been There, Got Out and Lived Happily Ever After Dear Been There: You
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were really being taken advantage of, and your resolve is admirable. Sounds like your husband pushed as far as he could, figuring you would cave, but you did not. If you really are living happily ever after, more power to you. If, on the other hand, you want to allow your husband back into your life, his willingness to enter counseling could be a healthy first step toward reconciliation. The good news is that the decisions about your future are up to you, and not anyone else, because of your strength of character. Thanks for sharing your story. Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie@ creators.com.
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FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211026 11/29/2021 Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: SESAME Physical Address: 213 E STREET #A DAVIS, CA 95616 Mailing Address: Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): 1) Meili Lei 825 Sycamore Ln. Davis, CA 95616 Business Classification: Individual Starting Date of Business: 11/29/2021 s/ Meili Lei Official Title: Owner Corporation Name: N/A I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 3, 10, 17, 24, 2021 #1599
FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211036 12/02/2021 Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: DAVIS WILLS AND TRUSTS Physical Address: 2810 5th Street Davis, CA 95618 Mailing Address: Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): Jennifer Bretschneider 38243 Patwin Terrace Davis, CA 95616 Business Classification: Individual Starting Date of Business: 8/1/2011 s/ Jennifer Bretschneider Official Title: Corporation Name: I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 10, 17, 24, 31, 2021
FILED IN YOLO COUNTY CLERK'S OFFICE Jesse Salinas, Yolo County Clerk/Recorder F20211030 12/01/2021 Business is located in YOLO County Fictitious Business Name: Fitness System of West Sacramento Physical Address: 2531 Evergreen Ave. West Sacramento, CA 95691 Mailing Address: Names of Registrant(s)/Owner(s): 1) Best Supplement Guide LLC 512 N. Cherokee Ln. Lodi, CA 95240 Business Classification: Limited Liability Company Starting Date of Business: 1/1/2012 s/ Sean Covell Official Title: CEO Corporation Name: Best Supplement Guide LLC I hereby certify that this is a true copy of the original document on file in this office. This certification is true as long as there are no alterations to the document, AND as long as the document is sealed with a red seal. Jesse Salinas, County Clerk/Recorder, State of California, County of Yolo Published December 24, 31, January 7, 14, 2022
Notice Inviting Bids NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that Davis Joint Unified School District, California, acting by and through its Governing Board, hereinafter referred to as the District is requesting proposals, for the award of Erate contracts for the following: FY22, Form 470 #220007155, Category 1: Data Transmission and/or Internet Access FY22, Form 470 #220007153, Category 2: Internal Connections, Network Electronics, BMIC Electronic proposals will be accepted up to but not later than, 4:00 PM PST January 24, 2022. The RFP and all addendum(s), questions and answers will be posted to the E-rate EPC website at https://data.usac.org/publicreports/Forms/Form470Rfp/Index The Board reserves the right to reject any or all proposals and to waive informality in any proposals received, even with SLD funding approval. In addition, the district reserves the right to deny any or all proposals associated with this RFP, even with SLD funding approval. The district reserves the right to accept the pricing proposal solely dependent upon SLD approval. Publication Dates: December 24th and 31st, 2021