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Dear Whose Life Is It Anyway: The short answer is that it is your life. But as you know, once you are a parent, your life and happiness often revolves around your children’s lives. Even college-aged children do thrive when their home lives are predictable and stable. So, it is understandable that your daughter is feeling the way she feels. Try and be sympathetic to her, and maybe make a week or so vacation in your old hometown each summer so she gets to see her old friends.
Was moving unfair to our daughter? Dear Annie: We recently moved from our home of 20 years to a neighboring state that is two hours away by car. Our children are 21 and 19. We had set our sights on moving to this community several years ago, but we waited until our son had graduated from high school. Ever since we moved here 10 months ago, our daughter has been miserable, saying we ripped her away from her home and friends, implying that we were selfish for moving before she graduates from college and is able to live on her own back in her home state. We live in a highly rated community with wonderful amenities, and we plan to retire here. Our community is not agerestricted, but the age of its fulltime residents does skew toward the older side, so I do sympathize with her that making new friends can be challenging, especially since she is only here for summer and holiday breaks. Also, the area outside our community is fairly rural, whereas our former home was in the suburbs, where shops and restaurants were more plentiful and accessible. To elaborate on why we moved, here are some of the reasons: The tax savings were significant; we prefer the weather; it’s less congested; and we love the benefits this community offers, such as living by a lake and golf course. But I’m beginning to question whether we were in fact selfish for moving here at the time that we did rather than waiting until our kids are able to live on their own. Should this really have been more of a whole-family decision, and should we have stayed where we were longer, for our kids’ sakes? — Whose Life Is It Anyway?
Friday, October 22, 2021
Dear Annie: Here are some comments about the mother and grandmother wanting a closer relationship with her daughtersin-law: As you have written, not every combination of people results in a good friendship. Even some friendships may not last forever. The young ladies are married to her sons, not to her. Having a good relationship with your mother-in-law is a plus, but it is not required. My wife and I raised only sons. As each became engaged, I welcomed the young ladies to the family. I read decades ago in an advice column that “in-law” sounds too much like “outlaw” and emphasizes the “outsiderness” of a person. I told each one that I would avoid referring to them as my “daughter-in-law.” Instead, I told them they are my daughters and are as much a part of the family and loved as much
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Dear Tired: By not attending a my mother instead of just contacting me directly. family event, you would be snubI have since distanced myself bing yourself of family bonding. from them, including disengag- You are understandably upset and ing from their social media, hurt because of their inconsiderbecause I don’t believe in chasing ate behavior toward your generanyone who clearly does not have ous offer to host a cocktail event. If you cut them out completely, it time for me. What’s truly irritating is that doesn’t do anyone any good. Instead of looking at it like you now their ignorance is being turned on me. They’ll ask my par- are the “bigger” person and they ents or my brother if I’m OK and are the “less than” person, look at why I don’t associate with them. it as a misunderstanding that you Um, am I missing something? I want to get to the bottom of. You thought communication was a never know what people have two-way street. Everyone has going on in their lives behind their own schedules, but it doesn’t closed doors. Try and forgive take long to answer a simple text them for their noncommunicamessage. If someone doesn’t have tion and make sure to communithe time for me in any capacity, it cate to them how you feel. Once they know that you would baffles me that they are surprised like to be notified instead of your when I stop reaching out. I have an upcoming family event, mother and that you were hurt Family ignores invites and these relatives will be in atten- when they didn’t respond, my Dear Annie: There is tension dance. I don’t want to snub them guess is they won’t do that again. 5:00 pm - 9:30 pm at Davis Central Park between some of my relatives and because that’s just not the type of Always remember that other I am, yet at the same time, I people, even family members, are me, and I would appreciate your person The Yolano Scouting Community is hosting an evening of fun and everyone is invited!!! not mind readers, and it’s impordon’t care to engage with them. advice. What doand you race thinkawould be tant to communicate with them. Join for games and Build Lego Pinewood Derby car. Over the pastuscouple of years, I food. the best See what is going on with the scouts in our community. have noticed that certain relatives to And complete the evening with a movie in the park! stopped answering my text mes- way sages and declined any of my handle 5:00 to 9:30 p.m. • Friday, October 22 seeing invitations to get together. Food • Carnival • Movie in the ParkPark • Davis Central them? I am clueless as to why. I have always been there for them: — Tired of dance recitals, proms, gradua- Being the tions and special birthdays. I have Bigger even helped them out financially Person several times. In an effort to keep the family close, I organized a cocktail hour to spend with these close relatives, yet not a single person sent an RSVP to my event. Instead, a couple of people I invited decided to indirectly apologize for failing to RSVP by texting my mother that they would not be attending, well after the RSVP date. It was clearly an afterthought on their part, but what’s even more bothersome to me is the fact that they felt it was appropriate to message by myself and my wife as the three boys we raised. In return, I invited them to call my wife and me “Mom” and “Dad,” which they do. It’s a small step to help make forever marriages. And as a plus, we have frequent communications and good relationships with all our children and grandchildren. — An Old-Fashioned Dad Dear Old-Fashioned Dad: Thank you for your letter. You started your relationship with your new daughters on the right foot — welcoming them with open arms as new members of your family. Congrats on that. It sounds like you continue to treat them as your daughters, so it is no surprise that your “old-fashioned” approach is working.
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NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER ESTATE OF: JOHN DITTMER AKA JOHN THOMAS DOUGLAS DITTMER AKA THOMAS DITTMER CASE NO. PR2021-0209 To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, contingent creditors, and persons who may otherwise be interested in the WILL or estate, or both of JOHN DITTMER AKA JOHN THOMAS DOUGLAS DITTMER AKA THOMAS DITTMER. A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been filed by HAROLD E. DITTMER in the Superior Court of California, County of YOLO. THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests that HAROLD E. DITTMER be appointed as personal representative to administer the estate of the decedent. THE PETITION requests authority to administer the estate under the Independent Administration of Estates Act. (This authority will allow the personal representative to take many actions without obtaining court approval. Before taking certain very important actions, however, the personal representative will be required to give notice to interested persons unless they have waived notice or consented to the proposed action.) The independent administration authority will be granted unless an interested person files an objection to the petition and shows good cause why the court should not grant the authority. A HEARING on the petition will be held in this court as follows: 11/09/21 at 9:00AM in Dept. 9 located at 1000 MAIN STREET,
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NOTICE OF PLANNING COMMISSION MEETING The Yolo County Planning Commission will hold a public meeting and consider the following matters on October 14, 2021, at 8:30 a.m. or as soon thereafter as the matters may be heard as indicated below via Zoom: https://yolocounty.zoom.us/j/97388566818?pwd=OENhdE9LVTVXY0EwNzUxdEhqN WZtdz09 Meeting ID: 973 8856 6818 Passcode: 146225 Or Telephone: (408) 638 0968 Meeting ID: 973 8856 6818# Passcode: 146225. TIME SET AGENDA 8:30 a.m. Public hearing and presentation of the 2020 Annual Compliance Report on offchannel gravel mining within the boundaries of the Cache Creek Area Plan, as shown on the map below. This report is not subject to the California Environmental Quality Act (CEQA). Applicant: Yolo County (R.Miller/E.Sabatini)
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