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life easier. All of this to say that if he wants to consider all the money he made while she stayed home his, then he can also view it as he (very cheaply) bought a nanny, a personal chef, a personal shopper, a laundry service and a maid. She was a stay-at-home mom, and that is a whole job title. Now, sure, should she be more helpful if she can? Absolutely. But the most distressing part of his letter was how little respect he gave to his wife for sacrificing years of her life in a supportive role. He didn’t support her; they supported each other. — A Stay-at-Home Mom Dear ASAHM: Well said, and well taken. Domestic work is work. “Husband to a Forgetful Wife” may be forgetting just how many hours his “Forgetful Wife” logged in that department. Dear Annie: On the subject of
Domestic work is work Dear Annie: My husband of a year and I have yet to consummate our marriage. Some background on our situation: We’re both in our 60s, pretty set in our ways and pretty independent, too — so independent that we don’t even live together yet. I was supposed to move into his house, but he’s somewhat of a hoarder and doesn’t want to get rid of anything to make space for me. So, for now, I stay with my son. Between the hoarding issue and the lack of physical intimacy, it’s a lot. I’m not sure what the problem is. We were intimate during the two years we dated, prior to getting married. Now I’m stuck in a sexless marriage. I feel like I was defrauded. Any advice? — Lady in Waiting Dear Lady: First and foremost, encourage your husband to see his general practitioner for a full checkup, including bloodwork. The change in his behavior suggests potential underlying issues with his mental and/or physical health. As for moving in together, establish a firm move-in deadline, and work backward from that date to set smaller deadlines together. Offer to help him organize the house and coordinate pickups from consignment shops and thrift stores. And remind him that this isn’t just about making a little room for you to put your things. It’s about creating the space, emotionally and physically, for you two to build your new life together. ——— Dear Annie: My husband and I have always happily shared money, but I think you might have missed the mark with your response to “Husband to a Forgetful Wife,” who was frustrated that his wife expected to be paid back money that she loaned him for car repairs, among other things. Last February, I left a job, coworkers, customers and a boss that had a huge impact on me. My boss is still a mentor to me in my personal life. I left to save costs on day care, to make a more cohesive life for our family and to raise our child the way we think is best. I cook; I clean; I shop; I do laundry; I change diapers; I deal with an angry toddler — and I make his
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single women who are deceived by married men, “Cracked but Not in Shambles” wrote in saying she feels “sorry for women like that.” That is quite degrading language against someone misled by a liar. I feel sorry for women who make excuses for bad male behavior. That is all. — Deb O. Dear Deb: That is so very true. When a married person cheats, it’s common to demonize the outside party. But the married spouse is the one who broke a vow. The root of the problem lies there.
An engagement no more Dear Annie: I’m in a situation where I’m not sure what to do. I’ve been in a relationship for six years, and we were engaged; however, now he says that it’s not going to happen because I am bipolar. I do everything for him and always think of him more than myself. Then he calls me a baby and doesn’t appreciate anything I do for him. I wait on him hand and foot. I try so hard to make
things right, and I want things to go further, but it’s never going to happen because he now doesn’t feel the same way. I’m tired of all the name-calling and have blocked out the outside world and am living in my own little planet. What am I to do? Please help. — Feeling Terrible Dear Feeling Terrible: What you are to do is take all the energy you have been using to try to convince your ex-fiance to be with you and put it into taking care of yourself. He is not right for you, and the quicker you are able to get over him, the quicker you can move on and find the right man who loves and appreciates you, bipolar and all. Before any of that happens, make sure that your illness is under control and that you have a good psychiatrist who specializes in bipolar disorder. It’s time to try really hard to start loving yourself enough to see that you deserve to be with someone who appreciates what an incredible person it sounds like you are. Best of luck to you. ——— Dear Annie: You published a letter from “Customer Etiquette” about a client who made a threehour hairdressing appointment and then didn’t show. Her excuse was that she “forgot.” My father, a psychoanalyst, always said, “You only forget what is forgettable.” If Brad Pitt invited her for supper, I doubt she’d forget it, but the hairdresser’s time is expendable. Sometimes, it’s a good idea to ask people to define what they mean by “forget.” Usually, people cannot answer for the simple reason that “I forgot” has become a one-size-fits-all excuse. Respect for other people’s time is something I learned in junior high. The class was to go somewhere at a fixed time. When we got up to leave, one student wasn’t ready. While he got his act together, the teacher looked at his watch and then said, “Smith, you will have a 50-minute detention.” When asked why, the teacher explained that there were 25 students and he had kept them waiting for two minutes. Simple arithmetic. Obviously, the client had never accepted that other people’s time is just as important as hers. I
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believe the word is “narcissism.” — Annoyed by Inconsiderate People Dear Annoyed: You make many good points, and I especially like your Brad Pitt example. Read on to see some solutions from another salon. Dear Annie: If we don’t hear from a client by their appointment time, we proceed without them. Fifteen minutes after the appointment time, we start taking walk-ins or other appointments. If and when the no-show arrives, she waits her turn just like any other walk-in. This usually cures the “forgetfulness.” If she goes to another salon, we count that as a win for us and a loss for the other salon. We are professionals, and we expect to be treated as such. Clients only respect us as much as we respect ourselves. Your good clients do not “forget.” — Not Playing That Game Dear Not Playing That Game: Thank you for your letter. Sounds like a sensible solution.
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require masks for diners? Should we have separated sections for maskers and nonmaskers? What do we do when someone wants to be a jerk about our rules? And then there is staffing. Server’s minimum wage right now is far below what many can make in factory, office, online or even retail work. That means restaurants are unfairly competing against businesses that can pay far more for employees. So, restaurants are struggling to find good employees, who then have to be trained, all the while dealing with customers who think it’s still 2018 and they can act like 12-year-olds and get away with it. Who would want to work in that kind of environment, where grown adults don’t even know how to act anymore? My recommendation to anyone venturing out into this new world we live in is to have patience. It’s no longer just about you. It is about all of us. If people can’t be understanding and respectful of those serving, then perhaps they should continue to order out and take it home. Your advice would have been great in 2018. In 2021, your advice should be to have patience and understanding or to stay home. Servers have enough to deal with. — Restaurant Veteran Dear Restaurant Veteran: Thank you for your letter. You offer insights into what people in the restaurant industry have had to deal with since the beginning of the pandemic. Restaurants were hit very hard during the lockdowns, and you are correct that it is important to have compassion and patience for people who are just trying to do their best while serving a public that is excited to get back to normal and that can, at times, be unfairly demanding.
Dear Annie: I am writing in response to your answer to “Just Want the Same Service,” who was frustrated at the slow service she received in a restaurant. As someone who worked as a server for 30 years and who has friends who still work in the industry, I am appalled at the attitudes of people toward hospitality servers. It’s like people have been sitting for a year-and-a-half, storing up rudeness and entitlement. Who raised these people? Restaurants have been struggling to stay open for the last several months. This is not some breaking news! So, now that things are opening back up, everyone in the hospitality industry is trying to figure out how Your Puzzle Solutions (upside down) to do things in Sudoku 1 t Sudoku 2 t this brave NEW world. Do staff wear masks, or don’t they? Do we
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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: 09/21/2021 FBN Number: F20210807 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) L&H AUTO WHOLESALE 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 5034 Chiles Rd. #B Davis, CA 95618 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Salah Qaouq 2508 Connie Dr. #1 Sacramento, CA 95815 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: 09/21/2021 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Salah Qaouq 9/24, 10/1, 10/8, 10/15 1501
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