Davis Enterprise classifieds Friday, July 31, 2020

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Friend request accepted Dear Annie: I have been dating this guy for almost nine months, and we often talk about getting married. Yet, I find myself preoccupied with a small thing: He doesn’t accept my friend requests on Facebook. Several times now, I have sent him a friend request, and it hasn’t been accepted. After three days, I get embarrassed and go to his page and delete my request. Afterward, I mention it to him, and he tells me that he didn’t see it and I’m overreacting. He says that I have his heart and that there is nothing to worry about. Should I be worried or not? — Overthinker Dear Overthinker: This shouldn’t be so complicated: Let him know when you’ve sent a friend request, rather than silently waiting and withdrawing it in spite. If you can’t be direct with each other about such a simple thing, marriage is not in the cards. And if he still won’t accept your friend request at that point, then yes, I think you should be concerned. ——— Dear Annie: I was invited to a drive-up baby shower. I have known the family for over 25 years. I made a very beautiful (and expensive) baby quilt. When I drove up, the mother-to-be was with 10 of her friends, who got to stay. So what she really wanted was a shower with her friends and presents from everyone. I got handed a gross boxed lunch and ate in my car. My gift to her was a quilt. I asked if she could at least post my quilt to share with our mutual friends and I got nothing. She did post a lot of pictures of her friends having a great time at her shower, though. I am ticked off.

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she no longer wants to be called Connie (her middle name), but since her time in the army, she uses and wants to be called by her first name. I have not agreed to the name change and still call her Connie. She is now in her late 30s. — Regretful Dear Regretful: It’s time to let yourself off the hook. Beating yourself up over the decisions you made more than 15 years ago does not do anyone any good. It also keeps everyone focused on the past rather than the present. Have a heart-to-heart with your daughter and share with her what you were going through at the time. Do this, not to make excuses for your words and behavior, but to tell her that if you had known better at the time, then you would have done better. Now, you are here to share that wisdom with her. The only way we learn not to repeat the same patterns as our parents is to be aware of them. By sharing your growth and regrets, she might begin to see how to change her own behavior. As a sign of moving forward and creating a new relationship with her, consider calling your daughter by whatever name she prefers. Using her name of choice is a sign of respect. Model the behavior you’d like to see from your daughter and your grandchildren. ——— Dear Annie: We had to cancel our trip to celebrate my 9-yearold granddaughter’s birthday due to COVID-19. It occurred to me

that, if I could find a photo of her mom (our daughter) on her 9th birthday, my granddaughter might get a kick out of seeing her mom at her same age. I found the right album, took a photo of the photo using my iPad and sent it to her. Her dad immediately sent me a text, saying that she had just loved it and that it had raised her spirits. I got to thinking that I should send lots of people a single fun picture of themselves that I had taken over the years, and ask them if they could guess what year the photo had been taken. My texts were going crazy, as everyone was guessing about the year, and the event that the photo was from. We had fun, reminiscing about what had brought us together, for the event in the photo, and how young we were, etc. Some of these people live all over the world, and some are close but may as well be on the other side of the world right now. Most photos they hadn’t ever seen, and I barely remembered a few myself. It was a fun way to reconnect, and I thought I would pass it along. — Barb Dear Barb: What a fantastic way to foster connection and enjoying beautiful memories with loved ones near and far! Thank you for the suggestion.

Are good manners just completely out the window? And couldn’t she have at least opened the gifts from a distance for us uninvited guests to see? To add insult to injury, I didn’t even get a thank-you card. — Minding Manners Dear Manners: These are uncharted waters for all of us, and the code of etiquette is still being written. Your friend may have limited the group to 10 people because that’s the law in your area right now. While the drive-in idea gets points for creativity, I concede that throwing a virtual shower (via a platform such as Zoom) or waiting until life returns to “normal” might have been better options, as they’d allow all guests to feel more involved. But while you’re minding manners, take stock of your own. It’s tacky to insist someone post a photo of a gift you gave them. ——— Dear Annie: A word of advice to grown children who lost one of their parents, remember the surviving parent is hurting as much if not more than you are and needs compassion, understanding, friends and company in general. Call him or her daily for at least a few months just to see how your parent is doing. Tell him/her about your job, kids, what you are having for dinner. Just your calling is enough. Visit when you can. Make it a priority. As time passes, your parent may meet someone and date again, or even consider remarrying. Accept that new love for what it is, a new love. It does not mean that your parent has forgotten the one who passed. There is enough love to go around. Treat that new love like a family member, other-

wise you might be very disappointed in the future outcome. And when he passes, he just might leave all of his assets to her! Just sign me... — His Beneficiary Dear Beneficiary: I’m sorry to hear that your stepchildren didn’t accept you into their hearts. I’m sure good relationships with them would have meant so much more than any financial inheritance.

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Dear Annie: My daughter, “Connie,” left home when she was 17 to join the army. I was going through a separation, and then divorce, from her father. Before leaving, she was very unruly and hard to handle. So her father and I decided to sign her up for the army since she was underage. I still had a 16-year-old son at home to raise as well. This is the issue: Because of what I was dealing with (separation/divorce), I told her that, due to her behavior, signing her up for the military was all felt I could do. I also mentioned to her that her behavior was the cause of my marriage falling apart. Her father was having an affair and didn’t want her around. Now, she has returned home with her husband and two beautiful teens. She has been verbally abusive to both kids, telling them at times she will kick them out if they misbehave. I know this stems from what I did to her. Nevertheless, I have apologized for sending her off to the military and accusing her of tearing my marriage apart, but I For Sale in Davis. couldn’t hanGym quality treadmill. dle her or the Like new, marital seldom used treadmill. upheaval I was going through $1,400 new, at that time. asking $300. One other Call 530-400-3799. thing is that

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Public Notices  ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME Case Number: PT20-898 1. Arthur Anton Konychev filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Arthur Anton Konychev to Arthur Yegiyan 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition should not be granted. NOTICE OF HEARING Date: August 20, 2020 Time: 9 a.m. Dept: #9 Room: N/A The address of the court is 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once a week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: The Davis Enterprise 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Date: July 1, 2020 Daniel M. Wolk Judge of the Superior Court 904 7/10, 7/17, 7/24, 7/31

business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: July 13, 2020 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Sayed Alamshahi, owner 7/24, 7/31, 8/7, 8/14 919

ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME Case Number: PT20-833 1. Daniel Ojeda and Brenda Marcial filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Aiden Marcial-Ojeda to Aiden Ojeda 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition should not be granted. NOTICE OF HEARING Date: August 4, 2020 Time: 9 a.m. Dept: #9 Room: N/A The address of the court is 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once a week FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in Filed: July 14, 2020 the following newspaper of general FBN Number: F20200566 circulation, printed in this county: 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) The Davis Enterprise SHAHI IMPORT/EXPORT 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Principal Place of Business in California. Date: June 26, 2020 Daniel M. Wolk Business is located in Yolo County. Judge of the Superior Court 1513 Osborn Drive 7/10, 7/17, 7/24, 7/31 905 Woodland, CA 95776 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), The Enterprise is OPEN for business! Residence Address, State, and Zip To place an AD, email nhannell@ Sayed Alamshahi davisenterprise.net 1513 Osborn Drive For LEGAL NOTICES, email legals@ Woodland, CA 95776 davisenterprise.net 4. Business Classification: For CLASSIFIEDS or OBITUARIES, Individual email classads@davisenterprise.net or 5. Beginning Date of Business: The obit@davisenterprise.net Registrant(s) commenced to transact

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NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER ESTATE OF John Gunn Brandon CASE NO. PB20-136 To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, contingent creditors, and persons who may otherwise be interested in the will or estate, or both, of: John Gunn Brandon A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been filed by: Dorothy Ann Brandon in the Superior Court of California, County of: Yolo THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests that: Dorothy Ann Brandon be appointed as personal representative to administer the estate of the decedent. THE PETITION requests authority to administer the estate under the Independent Administration of Estates Act. (This authority will allow the personal representative to take many actions without obtaining court approval. Before taking certain very important actions, however, the personal representative will be required to give notice to interested persons unless they have waived notice or consented to the proposed action.) The independent administration authority will be granted unless an interested person files an objection to the petition and shows good cause why the court should not grant the authority. A HEARING on the petition will be held on August 28, 2020 at 9 a.m. in Department 10 located at 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695. IF YOU OBJECT to the granting of the petition, you should appear at the hearing and state your objections or file written objections with the court before the hearing. Your appearance may be in person or by your attorney. IF YOU ARE A CREDITOR or a contingent creditor of the decedent, you must file your claim with the court and mail a copy to the personal representative appointed by the court within the later of either (1) four months from the date of first issuance of letters to a general personal representative, as defined in section 58(b) of the California Probate Code, or (2) 60 days from the date of mailing or personal

delivery to you of a notice under section 9052 of the California Probate Code. Other California statutes and legal authority may affect your rights as a creditor. You may want to consult with an attorney knowledgeable in California law. YOU MAY EXAMINE the file kept by the court. If you are a person interested in the estate, you may file with the court a Request for Special Notice (form DE-154) of the filing of an inventory and appraisal of estate assets or of any petition or account as provided in Probate Code section 1250. A Request for Special Notice form is available from the court clerk. Signed: John B. Palley Attorney for the petitioner 1555 River Park Drive, Suite 108 Sacramento, CA 95815 916-920-5983 7/24, 7/26, 7/31 923 NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER ESTATE OF Barbara Y. Miyano CASE NO. PB20-130 To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, contingent creditors, and persons who may otherwise be interested in the will or estate, or both, of: Barbara Y. Miyano A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been filed by: Kim Saban in the Superior Court of California, County of: Yolo THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests that: Kimarie Akiko Miyano-Saban be appointed as personal representative to administer the estate of the decedent. THE PETITION requests the decedent’s will and codicils, if any, be admitted to probate. The will and any codicils are available for examination in the file kept by the court. THE PETITION requests authority to administer the estate under the Independent Administration of Estates Act. (This authority will allow the personal representative to take many actions without obtaining court approval. Before taking certain very important actions, however, the personal representative will

be required to give notice to interested persons unless they have waived notice or consented to the proposed action.) The independent administration authority will be granted unless an interested person files an objection to the petition and shows good cause why the court should not grant the authority. A HEARING on the petition will be held on August 25, 2020 at 9:00 a.m. in Department 10 located at 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695. IF YOU OBJECT to the granting of the petition, you should appear at the hearing and state your objections or file written objections with the court before the hearing. Your appearance may be in person or by your attorney. IF YOU ARE A CREDITOR or a contingent creditor of the decedent, you must file your claim with the court and mail a copy to the personal representative appointed by the court within the later of either (1) four months from the date of first issuance of letters to a general personal representative, as defined in section 58(b) of the California Probate Code, or (2) 60 days from the date of mailing or personal delivery to you of a notice under section 9052 of the California Probate Code. Other California statutes and legal authority may affect your rights as a creditor. You may want to consult with an attorney knowledgeable in California law. YOU MAY EXAMINE the file kept by the court. If you are a person interested in the estate, you may file with the court a Request for Special Notice (form DE-154) of the filing of an inventory and appraisal of estate assets or of any petition or account as provided in Probate Code section 1250. A Request for Special Notice form is available from the court clerk. Signed: John B. Palley Attorney for the petitioner 1555 River Park Drive, Suite 108 Sacramento, CA 95815 916-920-5983 7/24, 7/26, 7/31 924


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