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Worth the time Dear Annie: I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We are both in our mid-40s. But I feel as if we are walking in opposite directions on the road of life. He works two full-time jobs and has several younger children. He has so many responsibilities financially that he is stretched thin. I have never been invited inside his home. I have been outside the house, but that is it. I tell him almost everything, while he keeps most things bottled up. That is the biggest problem with our relationship. I try to discuss this, but he sweeps it under the rug. First, his daughter hates me. She refuses to meet me. She cries and carries on. She’s 16 years old. So he makes excuses for her. Secondly, I recently found out that his brother and his long-term girlfriend are living there and not helping with any of the household expenses. This bothers me because, until recently, I have more often than not covered his mortgage while paying my own rent and household expenses. I told him that he needs to talk to the adults in his house because I can’t financially continue to do this. He used stimulus money to get caught up on his mortgage because he was behind (I assumed that he hasn’t paid since I stopped paying it). I told him a year ago that things would be so much easier for us if we lived together. But I feel as though that is not an option. And he says that he needs both jobs for the foreseeable future. This means that I see him roughly an hour a month. And we have a date night maybe once every five months, if he’s able to get the night off. He keeps apologizing for not being able to
Legals@DavisEnterprise.net see me. But every time we talk, he tells me about the bills he is behind on. And I am not sure how much more I can take. I love this man with every fiber of my being. He says he loves me and that I should know how he feels about me and it kills him that he can’t spend too much time with me. Some days I just feel used to help him keep his head above water. How do I get him to see the big picture? Or do I just fade away into the shadows and tell him I can’t do it anymore? — Lost and In Love
Dear Lost In Love: I’m not sure that he is the one who needs to see the big picture here. That person is you. One hour a month of time spent together is not a relationship. Walk away — today. This does not sound like a good match. The sooner you leave, the sooner you can find someone who wants to make time for you. ——— Dear Annie: I hope you will print my response to “Irked,” who had to convert milliliters to teaspoons. Any pharmacy would be glad to provide a dosing spoon, cup or syringe with your prescription. People often use regular spoons instead of more accurate measuring spoons. That’s a mistak because regular teaspoons and tablespoons are not standard. People could over- or
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underdose themselves. — Pharmacy Technician in NH Dear Pharmacy Tech: Thank you for your expert advice. I hope this will help anyone who is confused by dosing sizes.
Hygiene problems points to deeper issues Dear Annie: Our son is an educated, well-read, successful married man. We taught him how to keep a home, how to clean, how to groom himself. This has never been an issue. Since he married five years ago, all things clean have disappeared. His home is filthy. We help out at his house, doing painting, flooring, etc. We are glad to be a part of our son’s life and don’t mind helping — if he just took care of his things and his home. He also doesn’t seem to care how he presents himself. Recently, his wife had a birthday party for him. He came out looking like he had just gotten out of bed. The bathroom looked like it hadn’t been cleaned in over a month. He was not raised like this. How do we approach him about this without causing hard feelings? — Embarrassed Mom Dear Embarrassed Mom: He might not have been raised like this, but clearly something is going on in his home life. Letting go of your house, and yourself for that matter, could be signs of a deeper issue. He could be dealing with depression, anxiety or ADHD. As a temporary BandAid, you could offer to pay for a cleaning service — even monthly could make a huge difference. While that might tackle the surface of what is going on, it’s important to look at what is going
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on inside of him. Ask him if he wants to go out to dinner or for a walk, and have an open, nonjudgmental conversation with him about how his life is going. And how he is feeling. Hopefully, he will open up. Continue to support and be there for him. If matters do not get better, he might need the help of a professional counselor. ——— Dear Annie: My daughter died at age 41 after 17 years of marriage. Her husband will always be my son-in-law. I was one of the first people he called when he started dating again because he didn’t want me to hear it from someone else. He repeated that when he decided to remarry. I knew that I would have a difficult time attending the wedding. However, I wanted to go to support him and my three grandchildren. When I overheard my granddaughters talking about the wedding, I asked if there was a date selected, because I hadn’t been told. The response was that it was during a time when I had a long-planned trip scheduled. So, they knew I wouldn’t be able to attend. I don’t know if that was on purpose or a coincidence, but it was certainly a relief. The stepmother is a fine person and is loved by my grandchildren. — I Am a Blessed Papa Dear Blessed Papa: I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. As I have written before, there is life before you lose a child and life after. The after is never the same. You sound like an incredible man, and your son-in-law — the father of your grandchildren — shows great respect toward you. Your focus on your blessings is admirable, and it is precisely
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Please tone down the tambourine
Dear Annie: I attend a small church where the congregation does not exceed 12 members. So on any given Sunday, there are at least nine of us in attendance, including the pastor and first lady. We follow the government recommended COVID-19 social distance guidelines. I am hearing impaired and wear a digital hearing aid. There is an older member who beats a tambourine at the drop of a hat during worship service, and since I’m not impaired by volume but tone, the tambourine sounds more pronounced to the point that it gives me a quick migraine or makes me dizzy. Should I speak with the pastor so he can instruct her to tone it down, or should I go elsewhere? I can’t seem to enjoy service like this, especially when it is already hard to hear a person speaking or praying while they are masked. She beats it during prayers, too. I really believe the tambourine lady knows this annoys me. — Dizzy and Annoyed Church Member. Dear Dizzy: Yes, you should tell your pastor how the tambourine is giving you migraines and making you dizzy. He probably has no idea that the tone is so pronounced for you. And it might be having the same effect on others. As humans, we often write narratives in our minds that other people are engaging in behaviors to specifically bother us. Try to not put that onto the member who is beating the tambourine. Chances are that she just enjoys the sound of the instrument and gets carried away.
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Public Notices FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: 03/24/2021 FBN Number: F20210260 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) JDM Organic Farm 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 34254 County Road 19 Woodland, CA 95695 Mailing address: 630 Lincoln Avenue Woodland, CA 95695 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Windmill Vineyards LLC 34254 County Road 19 Woodland, CA 95695 4. Business Classification: Limited Liability Company 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: N/A “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Jeffrey D. Morgan Manager, Windmill Vineyards LLC 1212 3/28, 4/4, 4/11, 4/18
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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: 04/02/2021 FBN Number: F20210294 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) ESC LANDSCAPES 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1028 Cross Street Woodland, CA 95695 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Eduardo Sanchez Castillo 1028 Cross Street Woodland, CA 95695 4. Business Classification: Individual FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME 5. Beginning Date of Business: The STATEMENT Registrant(s) commenced to transact Filed: 03/18/21 business under the fictitious business FBN Number: F20210248 name or names listed above on: N/A 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) “I declare that all information in Nina’s Spray Tan this statement is true and correct.” 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of (A registrant who declares as true Principal Place of Business in California. information which he or she knows to be Business is located in Yolo County. false is guilty of a crime.) 936 Campbell Circle 6. Signature of Registrant(s): STORAGE LIEN SALE Woodland, CA 95776 Eduardo Sanchez 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), 4/4, 4/11, 4/18, 4/25 1221 Auction at Stonegate Self Storage, Residence Address, State, and Zip NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER 2772 W Covell Blvd, Davis, CA. 95616. Karina Morales When? 4/28/21 at 11:00 AM. This and ESTATE OF 936 Campbell Circle enforcement is authorized by Chapter ROY J. BUTZ Woodland, CA 95776 10, commencing without warranty or CASE NO. PR2021-38 4. Business Classification: Individual guarantee for cash only. We reserve the To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, 5. Beginning Date of Business: The right to reject any or all offers. Purchased Registrant(s) commenced to transact contingent creditors, and persons who items must be removed from property may otherwise be interested in the will business under the fictitious business immediately following the sale. The or estate, or both, of: ROY J. BUTZ name or names listed above on: N/A following is a general description of the “I declare that all information in A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been items to be sold: Guitar, Electronics, this statement is true and correct.” filed by: ROY N. BUTZ in the Superior Clothing, and Household Goods. Unit (A registrant who declares as true Court of California, County of: Yolo # and Name: 1058 Chloe Simko Buck information which he or she knows to be THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests BOND #0342850 that: ROY N. BUTZ be appointed as false is guilty of a crime.) 1224 personal representative to administer the 4/11, 4/18 6. Signature of Registrant(s): estate of the decedent. Karina Morales PUBLIC NOTICE 1213 THE PETITION requests authority 3/28, 4/4, 4/11, 4/18 to administer the estate under the NOTICE OF PUBLIC HEARING ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR Independent Administration of Estates FOR UNITRANS PUBLIC TRANSIT CHANGE OF NAME Act. (This authority will allow the personal PROPOSED SERVICE CHANGES FOR Case Number: CV2021-413 representative to take many actions 2021-2022 1. Alicia Odalys Hernandez filed a petition without obtaining court approval. Before with this court for a decree changing taking certain very important actions, The Unitrans Advisory Committee (UAC), names as follows: however, the personal representative will a committee to the Davis City Council, Alicia Odalys Hernandez be required to give notice to interested will hold a virtual public hearing on to persons unless they have waived notice Thursday, April 22, 2021 at 4:00 PM on Alicia Odalys Casanova or consented to the proposed action.) proposed Unitrans service changes independent administration that, if approved, would go into effect 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons The interested in this matter shall appear authority will be granted unless an on Monday, August 2, 2021. Meeting before this court at the hearing indicated interested person files an objection to information will be available 72 hours in below to show cause, if any, why the the petition and shows good cause why advance of the meeting at https://www.
cityofdavis.org/city-hall/commissions- of the ordinance, a reading of the and-committees/unitrans-advisory- document in its entirety may be necessary. committee. A certified copy of the full text of the Service change proposals are available proposed ordinance may be viewed in the at unitrans.ucdavis.edu/changes. City Clerk’s Office, 23 Russell Boulevard, Proposed changes focus on improving Davis, California, and/or copies may be service reliability and meeting customer obtained at a nominal charge. 1230 demand. The E line is proposed to be 4/11 re-routed from 3rd Street to 5th Street FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME to improve route reliability. The Z line STATEMENT schedule is proposed to be adjusted 5 Filed: 03/15/2021 minutes in the mornings to better meet FBN Number: F20210234 customer demand. To hear more or 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) comment, you may attend the public BERENGUERS hearing, attend a public open house, 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of email comments@unitrans.ucdavis.edu, Principal Place of Business in California. call 530-752-2877, or mail us at Unitrans, Business is located in Yolo County. 1 Shields Avenue, 5 South Hall, Davis, CA 34895 County Road 16 95616. Details on how to comment are also available online at unitrans.ucdavis. Woodland, CA 95695 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), edu/changes. 4/11, 4/18, 4/21 1229 Residence Address, State, and Zip Robert Gabriel Macias 34895 County Road 16 PUBLIC NOTICE Woodland, CA 95695 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact CITY OF DAVIS ORDINANCE SUMMARY business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: N/A NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that on March “I declare that all information in 16, 2021, the City Council of the City of this statement is true and correct.” Davis introduced, and on April 6, 2021, (A registrant who declares as true the City Council unanimously adopted information which he or she knows to be the following entitled ordinance: false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): ORDINANCE NO. 2598 Robert G. Macias AN ORDINANCE AMENDING THE 4/11, 4/18, 4/25, 5/2 1231 CITY OF DAVIS MUNICIPAL CODE FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME ARTICLE 39.03.170 (“CONSTRUCTION STATEMENT PROJECT RATE”) TO MAKE CHANGES TO THE CODE REGARDING THE RATE Filed: 04/02/2021 CHARGED FOR WATER USED FOR FBN Number: F20210295 CONSTRUCTION PURPPOSES 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) CONTINUUM The adopted ordinance amends Chapter RIVER DISTRIBUTION 39.03.170 of the Municipal Code on 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Construction Project Rate. Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. Over the past 14 years, water rates have 3121 Evergreen Ave., Ste 100 increased in order to maintain needed West Sacramento, CA 95691 infrastructure and fund needed Capital Mailing address: Improvement Projects. However, as the Attn: Adrian Lambie City’s ordinance has not been updated, 200 Spectrum Center, Ste 300 and still references the $0.91/CCF rate Irvine, CA 92618 for construction water use, water used 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), for construction purposes is being billed Residence Address, State, and Zip at a significantly lower rate than all other River Distributing Co., LLC water use sectors within the city. 600 California St., Ste 600 The update to the City’s ordinance will San Francisco, CA 94108 include the following modifications, 4. Business Classification: to bring the rate in the ordinance into Limited Liability Company alignment with the current commercial 5. Beginning Date of Business: The water rate for the city and to increase Registrant(s) commenced to transact with accordance with commercial water business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: rates moving forward: • Increase the unit charge beginning 9/18/2015 March 1, 2021 for construction water “I declare that all information in from $0.91/CCF to $4.88/CCF, the current this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true commercial water rate. • Revise the ordinance to scale the cost information which he or she knows to be of construction water with any future false is guilty of a crime.) modifications (increases or decreases) to 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Chris Candelario the city commercial water rate. Senior Vice President, Sales The above summary constitutes the major River Distributing Co., LLC highlights; to obtain a full understanding 4/11, 4/18, 4/25, 5/2 1232