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Dear Annie: I have been in my stepson’s life since he was 6 and married to his father for 20 years. He lived in our house full time for most of the years. So I view him not just as a stepson but as one of my sons. He and his live-in girlfriend got engaged last year. They planned a wedding for the fall. My husband felt that since he was out of the house and on his own, they should pay for the wedding on their own. I didn’t agree and gave them both cash for the wedding, with my husband’s knowledge. (We don’t share money; it works for us.) They were both very grateful. I told them that I understood that I wasn’t the mother of the groom; I just wanted to feel included in some of the planning and help in any other way I could. Then they got pregnant and moved the wedding up. Then COVID-19 hit. The wedding date was changed a few times. Ultimately, they ended up getting married in a small ceremony at their home and planned to have the wedding and reception after the baby was born. I totally understood. But recently, one of the other sons told me that they just canceled the wedding altogether and planned on having a 1st birthday party for the baby at the same venue, because they signed a contract and can’t get the money they have put down back. I have to say that I am so hurt that my contribution to the wed-
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ding (which was actually a lot of money for me) meant so little to them that they didn’t feel the need to tell me in person that the wedding was off and explain the situation that they could not get the money back. I don’t want my money back and totally understand the circumstances, but I feel I shouldn’t have heard this through a third party. I am sure the other mothers were told in person. So my question is this: Should I bring this up to them at some point or just let it go? Normally, I am the type to keep to myself, and if someone hurts my feelings I “just get over it” without saying anything. But this hurt is lasting much longer, and I feel resentment building inside of me. — Unappreciated Stepmom Dear Unappreciated: Maybe sometimes we can just will ourselves to “get over it,” but most times that’s a recipe for resentment. This seems to be the latter. So there is no other option than to talk with your stepson. Make it a conversation, not a confrontation. Using “I” statements, let him know that you didn’t expect to be part of the wedding planning process, but that you felt a bit hurt when you learned about the change of plans from someone else. Go into it with an open mind. It may turn out that there was some miscommunication or context that changes your understanding. But you sound like a thoughtful, supportive stepmom, so I have no doubt you’ll be able to handle this with care.
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Seeing a married man Dear Annie: I have been seeing the same man for 18 years. I say “seeing” because he is married. “Patrick” and I have been messing around together for a long time. Many times throughout the years, I’ve told him that he should really think about what he was doing since he was a married man. His response alternates between, “She and I are pretty much done” — clearly a lie — and “I don’t know how I can love two women at once, but I want to.” I tell him that he can’t. We’ve known each other for so long now that he is one of my best friends. I want to end our romantic relationship, but I’d like to keep him as a friend. He says he won’t have it that way. He continues to call and come over. How do I make him see that we can have a friendship and nothing more? — No More Messing Around Dear NMMA: Even if you two did somehow manage to cease being intimate — a big if — a continued relationship is not a good idea. You’d just be going from a physical affair to an emotional one. Show yourself the love and respect that this man has never been able to muster for you, and stop seeing him. There is someone out there for whom you will be more than enough. ——— Dear Annie: “It’s Been a Year” wrote to you regarding her partner’s erectile dysfunction. My husband also had problems, and I was wanting to make an appointment with a urologist, sure they would find a problem and fix it. We never had that appointment. One day, thinking he was having a stroke, a visit to a family doctor sent us to the hospital for a cat scan. Turns out he
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had a brain tumor and passed 10 months later. Don’t ignore this issue. It could be any number of reasons and some more critical than others! — Still Missing Him Dear Still Missing Him: I am so sorry for your loss. I’m printing your letter in the hope that your message reaches anyone who needs to hear it. ——— Dear Annie: For the woman whose family dinners are being spoiled by her brother-in-law’s misbehaving children: I’m in my 90s and have never lost interest in children and have found that misbehavior is just a need for attention. Have you ever attempted to engage even one of them in conversation? It doesn’t require much. Consider a brief comment such as: “I like your blue outfit! Is blue your favorite color? That’s a neat Seahawks shirt! Is that your favorite team?” Questions about school are good, too, or what they like to do for fun. The parents may feel that discipline would be more disruptive for everyone than the misbehavior, or they might become the less-favored parent. (Though that’s a whole different subject.) Anyway, give it a try. It may not work the first time, but you know the old saying, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again!” — A Great-Gramma Dear Great-Gramma: I love how this solution leads with empathy. Thanks for making the world a kinder place.
Dementia or decluttering? Dear Annie: It’s just an idea, but maybe “Missing My Things’” husband has dementia, not compulsive decluttering. A few years ago, I discovered too late that while I was out grocery shopping my 77-year-old husband found a storage bin labeled “Smith Family Mementos” in a closet, went through it and threw most of it in the garbage before I got back. I didn’t notice anything was missing until days later, long after the garbage truck had come and gone.
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My husband was in the early, undiagnosed and unrecognized stages of Alzheimer’s disease. Apparently, as he lifted each photo, each handwritten letter, each diploma and report card out of the bin, he didn’t recognize the person or remember the event associated with it, so he threw it away. Not long after, I started finding other important items in the trash, such as old military uniforms and important medical records. Dementia doesn’t just affect memory; it also affects judgment and time perception. With each passing day, dementia patients live more and more in the present only. Since my husband’s been diagnosed, I’ve moved proactively to clear our house of small but important items by shipping them off to relatives for safekeeping or putting them in lockable filing cabinets and lockboxes that I get from Office Depot. I hope this suggestion keeps other families from losing their precious heirlooms and important records to the awful disease of dementia. — Learned Too Late ——— Dear Learned Too Late: Thank you for sharing your experience to inform readers of the warning signs of dementia. And I’m struck by your knowledge and acceptance, without blame, of your husband’s disease. Your wisdom is appreciated.
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Public Notices FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 25, 2021 FBN Number: F20210067 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Heritage Oak Woodworking 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 2416 Bates Drive Davis, CA 95618 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Jeffrey Lee 2416 Bates Drive Davis, CA 95618 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: N/A “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Jeffrey Lee 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21 1140
FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 7, 2021 FBN Number: F20210020 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) DMSSTUDIO 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1110 Gum Ave., Suite A2 Woodland, CA 95695 Mailing address: 16 Meadowbreeze Court Sacramento, CA 95823 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Mariah Alejandra Gonzalez 1109 McKinley Ave. Woodland, CA 95695 and Daisy Karina Calderon 16 Meadowbreeze Court Sacramento, CA 95823 4. Business Classification: General Partnership 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: November 1, 2020 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME “I declare that all information in STATEMENT this statement is true and correct.” Filed: January 5, 2021 (A registrant who declares as true FBN Number: F20210006 information which he or she knows to be 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) false is guilty of a crime.) BW ENTERPRISES 6. Signature of Registrant(s): 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Daisy Calderon Principal Place of Business in California. 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21 1142 Business is located in Yolo County. 1811 Palm Place STORAGE LIEN SALE Davis, CA 95618 There will be a lien sale at South Davis 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Storage, 4836 Chiles Rd, Davis, CA 95618 Residence Address, State, and Zip On: MONDAY March 15th, 2021 at 11 am Benjamin Murray Wollrich This enforcement is authorized by Division 1811 Palm Place 8, Chapter 10 of the California Business & Davis, CA 95618 Professions Code, commencing without 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The warranty or guarantee for cash only. Registrant(s) commenced to transact Purchased items must be removed business under the fictitious business immediately following the sale. name or names listed above on: The personal Property stored with the December 1, 2020 undersigned by: LISA POWELL “I declare that all information in FIRST UNIT A17 (bicycles, bicycle parts, this statement is true and correct.” duffle bags, tackle box, skate board, chair, (A registrant who declares as true cloths, bedding, misc crates and bags of information which he or she knows to be hhi) false is guilty of a crime.) The personal property stored with the 6. Signature of Registrant(s): undersigned by: ADAM WALSWORTH Benjamin Wollrich 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21 1141 SECOUND UNIT A48 (cloths, 2 chars, mattress, 2 dressers, end table, sofa, tv, kitchen ware, misc bins of hhi) The personal property stored with the undersigned by: MONIQUE JOHNSON THIRD UNIT A61 (stroller, cloths, bedding, kids toys, misc bins boxes and bags of hhi) BOND#0342850 2/21, 2/28 1162
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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 26, 2021 FBN Number: F20210074 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Davis Cards + Games 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 654 G Street Davis, CA 95616 Mailing address: 24290 N. Suttenfield Road Acampo, CA 95220 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Three Eight 24290 Suttenfield Road Acampo, CA 95220 4. Business Classification: Corporation 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: February 1, 2016 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Melissa Showalter Three Eight, Owner 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21 1144 PUBLIC NOTICE NOTICE OF AGREEMENT TO PURCHASE TAX DEFAULTED PROPERTY FOR CITY OF WEST SACRAMENTO NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN, in accordance with the provisions of Division 1, Part 6, Chapter 8 of the California Revenue and Taxation Code (and the written authorization of the State Controller), that an agreement, a copy of which is on file in the office of the board of supervisors of Yolo County, and in the office of the city clerk of the City of West Sacramento, has been made between the county board of supervisors and the City of West Sacramento, and approved by the State Controller, whereby the county will sell the real property described in the agreement and in this notice. All property named in the agreement is subject to the tax collector’s power to sell tax defaulted property. The effective date and time of the agreement shall be March 8, 2021, at 12:01 AM. If the property is not redeemed according to law before the effective date and time of the agreement, the
Woodland, CA 95695 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact If the property is sold, parties of interest business under the fictitious business as defined in California Revenue and name or names listed above on: Taxation Code section 4675, have a right to May 1, 1995 file a claim with the county for any excess “I declare that all information in proceeds from the sale. Excess proceeds this statement is true and correct.” are the amount of the highest bid in excess (A registrant who declares as true of the liens and costs of the sale that are information which he or she knows to be required to be paid from the sale proceeds. false is guilty of a crime.) Notice will be given to parties of interest, 6. Signature of Registrant(s): pursuant to California Revenue and Ryan Fullerton 1163 Taxation Code section 3692(e), if excess 2/21, 2/28, 3/7, 3/14 proceeds result from the sale. PUBLIC NOTICE For information as to the amount necessary to redeem or other related NOTICE is hereby given that on February issues pertaining to the property 18, 2021, a designee of the County described in this notice, contact the Administrator approved a minor Revenues Division of Yolo County in the modification (ZF #2021-0003) to the Teichert Schwarzgruber Reclamation State of California. Plan (ZF #2011-0035), in accordance PARCEL NUMBERING SYSTEM with Sections 10-5.210 and 10-5.804 EXPLANATION of the Yolo County Code. The Project The Assessor’s Parcel Number (APN), Site is located at 16550 County Road when used to describe property in this 96, Woodland, CA 95695, and consists list, refers to the assessor’s map book, of a single parcel (APN 025-350-038) of the map page, the block on the map (if approximately 132.3 acres. applicable), and the individual parcel The approved minor modification on the map page or in the block. The expands the area of enhanced riparian assessor’s maps and further explanation reclamation by an additional 7.5 acres, of the parcel numbering system are and deepens the vertical extent of available in the assessor’s office. reclaimed soil in those areas to between The properties that are the subject of 10 and 20 feet, in order to improve this notice are situated in Yolo County, the success rate and longevity of California, and are described as follows: revegetation. This increase in riparian APN LAST ASSESSEE habitat is achieved by a corresponding 046-531-031-000 Ryder Allfam Properties 7.5-acre reduction in the area of I certify (or declare), under penalty of perjury, reclaimed grasslands. The decision of the Director shall become final fifteen (15) that the foregoing is true and correct. days from the date of approval, unless ______________________ appealed to the Planning Commission, Yolo County Tax Collector as provided in Article 10, Chapter 4, Title State of California Executed at Woodland, California, on 10 of the Yolo County Code. January 13, 2021 Copies of the full text of the Published in The Davis Enterprise on approval and related documents are February 14th , 21st and 28th, 2021 1153 available for review online at www. yolonaturalresources.org, or in-person FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME at the Yolo County Planning and Public STATEMENT Works Department (292 W. Beamer Filed: February 19, 2021 Street, Woodland, CA 95695) during FBN Number: F20210161 regular business hours. Questions may 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) be directed to Elisa Sabatini, Manager Superglass Windshield Repair of Natural Resources, at Elisa.Sabatini@ 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of yolocounty.org or (530) 406-5773. Principal Place of Business in California. 2/21 1161 Business is located in Yolo County. 17189 County Road 96B Woodland, CA 95695 Mailing address: P.O. Box 97 Esparto, CA 95627 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Ryan Fullerton 17189 County Road 96B right of redemption will cease and the undersigned tax collector, pursuant to said agreement, will sell said property to City of West Sacramento.