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THE DAVIS ENTERPRISE
Late husband’s family bothering me Dear Annie: I’m a 39-year-old mom of four. My husband passed away, in April of last year. His family was never very kind to me when he was alive, and they haven’t changed now that he’s gone. I’ve been dealing with their judgment and hostility. They find any little thing they can to criticize me and gossip about me. And I’m just wondering how to stop them from talking about my life when they have no idea what they’re talking about. Please help! — Mrs. Fed Up Dear Fed-Up: I am so sorry that your husband died and that your in-laws are making life harder for you. I’m going to pass along something that someone once shared with me: What other people think of you is none of your business. That’s not an admonishment. It’s a mantra. They’re entitled to their opinions, and you’re entitled to ignore them. The more you can accept that, the lighter you’ll feel. Reach out to friends and family who shore you up rather than giving any weight to the opinions of people who would tear a grieving widow down. ——— Dear Annie: For six years, I’ve been with a man — let’s call him “Ben.” We have one child together and one on the way. I’m frustrated because I do all of the housework even though we’re both employed. We divided up expenses. He pays for the house payment and the babysitter when we need one, and I pay for all of the utilities and groceries. I also do most of the childcare tasks. I don’t feel like I should have to ask for him to get off his butt and help; I feel like he should naturally want to help and just do it. I’ve noticed that when we are around his family, he jumps to help them with anything in a split second. He seems like he would just rather be lazy when it comes
to our own home life, expecting me to do all the domestic work. I’d try talking to him about this, but he’s not a talk-aboutyour-feelings type of guy, more of a sort-your-own-laundry type of guy. In the past, anytime I’ve brought up anything remotely uncomfortable, he seems to register it as a threat and says something negative directed towards me and not at all helpful to resolving the issue. Advice? — Unheard Girlfriend
Dear Unheard: I empathize with your hesitation, but to give up on honest communication is to give up on the relationship. When you don’t feel you can express yourself, resentments will continue to pile up, like so many unwashed dishes. Try finding a time when you’re both relaxed, and casually ask if he’ll help you make a list of priorities around the house. This will help you both better understand which tasks the other feels are important, and it will give you the chance to talk it out and compromise in areas where your views differ. Approaching it with
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a spirit of collaboration is different that exhaustion or resentment. Hopefully, he won’t go into defensive mode. If he still shuts down, then you might ask him about attending couples’ counseling together. Addressing the underlying communication issues would help with the housework issue as well as all other aspects of your relationship.
Hoarding isn’t logical Dear Annie: My sister is 75 years old. She is a hoarder. She has lived at home her whole life and started accumulating junk soon after my dad died 10 years ago. If something comes into the house, it isn’t going out, as it is with most hoarders. So you can imagine what an appalling situation it has become. My sister took care of my mom, who was in a wheelchair until she died two years ago at age 93. I spent thousands of dollars between the time when my mom became ill and when she died, driving a 50-mile round trip every day for six years to help my sister take care of her. And I continued to do so every other weekend after our mom died, bringing my grandsons to visit so my sister wouldn’t feel lonely. Recently, I took a tumble at the dog park and fractured my kneecap. I asked my sister whether I could borrow one of Mom’s wheelchairs for a while. She told me to go look for one at Goodwill. I figured that her mounds of precious junk must be more
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——— Dear Annie: I recently filled a prescription for cough syrup that called for a 10-milliliter dosage. We do not use liters in this country. I had to go online to convert the amount to teaspoons. Could you give a shout to physicians, nurse practitioners and pharmacists to let them know how dangerous this practice is to the patient? — Irked Dear Irked: I did some research to figure out why the pharmaceutical industry would use the metric system in the United States, where it might as well be Greek to many people. According to the National Council for Prescription Drug Programs, a nonprofit standards development organization, the International System of Units, known as SI, is better for designating dosages than the U.S. customary system. The reason is consistency. While the U.S. system has 300 different units, the SI has just seven base units. From the NCPDP: “The use of multiple volumetric units (e.g., teaspoons, tablespoons, droppersful) and multiple abbreviations ... (increases) the likelihood of dosing errors.” That said, the most important thing is that the patient understands how to take the medication he or she is prescribed, and it’s health care providers’ job to see to that. The next time you pick up a prescription, ask your pharmacist for help with converting the dosage.
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Public Notices ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME Case Number: CV2020-1777 1. Cristian Valencia filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Cristian Valencia to Cristian Stark 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition should not be granted. NOTICE OF HEARING Date: February 18, 2021 Time: 9 a.m. Dept: #9 Room: N/A The address of the court is 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once a week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: The Davis Enterprise 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Date: December 31, 2020 Daniel M. Wolk Judge of the Superior Court 1/10, 1/17, 1/24, 1/31 1116
Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: April 1, 2017 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): David Scheuring 1/24, 1/31, 2/7, 2/14 1134
Dylan Dion Davies 1365 MacDonald Court Dixon, CA 95620 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: December 19, 2020 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Dylan Dion Davies 1/17, 1/24, 1/31, 2/7 1120
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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 22, 2021 FBN Number: F20210065 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Alta Quality Painting Inc 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 2225 Glacier Dr. #67 Davis, CA 95616 Mailing address: P.O. Box 1163 Davis, CA 95617 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Christian Altamirano 2225 Glacier Dr. #67 Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Corporation FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME 5. Beginning Date of Business: The STATEMENT Registrant(s) commenced to transact Filed: January 12, 2021 business under the fictitious business FBN Number: F20210033 name or names listed above on: 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) January 12, 2021 Blue Collar Handyman 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of “I declare that all information in Principal Place of Business in California. this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true Business is located in Yolo County. information which he or she knows to be 1260 Lake Blvd., Ste. 235 false is guilty of a crime.) Davis, CA 95616 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Mailing address: Christian Altamirano, President 1365 MacDonald Court 1/24, 1/31, 2/7, 2/14 1135 Dixon, CA 95620 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), PUBLIC NOTICE Residence Address, State, and Zip
FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 21, 2021 FBN Number: F20210063 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Gold Oak Partnership 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 16730 Road 85B Esparto, CA 95627 Mailing address: 1412 Olympic Dr. Davis, CA 95616 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip David Scheuring 1412 Olympic Dr. Davis, CA 95616 and: Jose L. Melendez 16680 Omega St. Esparto, CA 95627 4. Business Classification: General Partnership 5. Beginning Date of Business: The
important to her than my many years of loyalty, and I don’t want to ever visit her again. And she can’t visit me because she can’t bear the thought of getting rid of her broken-down Buick to buy a new one. Do you think she would get help with her problem if I stopped seeing her, or would she just be happy alone with her stuff? — Snuffed Out by Stuff Dear Snuffed Out by Stuff: Hoarding is a form of obsessivecompulsive disorder. The disorder does not operate in the realm of logic. You can’t reason with it. And you shouldn’t take it personally — because as much as it might seem to you that your sister is choosing her stuff over you, she’s not really choosing anything at this point. She’s simply acting on compulsions. If you want to stop visiting her for the sake of your own wellbeing, I applaud the boundarysetting. But it sounds as though you want to stop visiting her because you hope it would spur her to get help. If that’s the case, you want to control the uncontrollable, and you’d most likely end up even more frustrated. Instead of basing decisions on how they might or might not impact her hoarding behavior, base your decisions on what’s healthy for you. Visit the hoarding section of the International OCD Foundation’s website (https://hoarding. iocdf.org) for information on what causes people to hoard and how you might be able to help.
The Yolo County Planning Commission will hold a public meeting and consider the following matter on February 11, 2021, via Zoom: https://yolocounty.zoom.us/j/9738856 6818?pwd=OENhdE9LVTVXY0EwNz UxdEhqNWZtdz09 Meeting ID: 973 8856 6818 Passcode: 146225 Or Telephone: (408) 638 0968 Meeting ID: 973 8856 6818# Passcode: 146225 at 8:30 a.m. or as soon thereafter as the matters may be heard as indicated below. TIME SET AGENDA 8:30 a.m. Cache Creek Area Plan Second 10-Year Mining and Reclamation Permit Review. Applicants: CEMEX Construction Materials Pacific, Syar Industries, and Teichert Aggregates. Staff: E. Sabatini/H.Tschudin The Planning Commission will be holding a Public Hearing for the purpose of considering and enacting amendments to the permits identified below, pursuant to the mandatory requirements of Sections 10-4.605 and 10-5.814 of the County Code of Ordinances: • Mining and Reclamation Permit No. ZF #95-093 (CEMEX) • Mining and Reclamation Permit No. ZF #98-010 (Syar) • Mining and Reclamation Permit No. ZF #95-095 (Teichert Esparto)
• E-mail your public notice to legals@davisenterprise.net • Be sure to include your name and phone number • View public notices at www.capublicnotice.com
• Mining and Reclamation Permit No. ZF #2011-0035 (Teichert Schwarzgruber) • Mining and Reclamation Permit No. ZF #95-095 (Teichert Woodland) The permits referenced above, which have been previously approved by the County, authorize mining and reclamation activities at the following locations:
Woodland, California. All interested parties should appear and will be provided an opportunity during the public hearing to present relevant information.
Pursuant to California Government Code Section 65009(b)(2) and other provisions of law, any lawsuit challenging the approval of a project described in this notice shall be limited to only those issues raised CEMEX: +/- 586 acres located south of at the public hearing or described in Cache Creek, from west of Interstate written correspondence delivered for 505 to County Road 92C, comprised of consideration before the hearing is all or portions of APNs: 025-450-001; closed. 049-060-004; 049-060-007; 049-070- 1/31 1138 004; 049-070-005; 049-070-006; 049FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME 070-009; 049-070-010; 049-070-011; STATEMENT 049-070-019; 049-070-020; and 049Filed: January 25, 2021 070-021. FBN Number: F20210067 Syar: +/- 248 acres located south of 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Cache Creek, between County Roads Heritage Oak Woodworking 87 and 89, comprised of all or portions 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of of APNs: 049-060-013; 049-060-014; Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 049-120-026; and 049-130-048. 2416 Bates Drive Teichert Esparto: +/- 148 acres Davis, CA 95618 located north of Cache Creek, between 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), County Roads 87 and 89, comprised Residence Address, State, and Zip of portions of APNs 048-210-006; 048- Jeffrey Lee 2416 Bates Drive 210-010; and 048-210-011. Davis, CA 95618 Teichert Schwarzgruber: +/- 42 acres 4. Business Classification: Individual located south of Cache Creek, north of 5. Beginning Date of Business: The County Road 20, and west of County Registrant(s) commenced to transact Road 96, comprised of portions of business under the fictitious business APN 025-350-038 (with processing of name or names listed above on: N/A material occurring on APNs 025-350- “I declare that all information in 018; 025-350-037; 025-120-039; and this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true 025-120-041). information which he or she knows to be Teichert Woodland: +/- 252 acres false is guilty of a crime.) located north and south of Cache 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Creek, on both the east and west Jeffrey Lee 1140 sides of County Road 94B, comprised 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21 of portions of APNs 025-350-030; 025FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME 350-032; 025-360-061; 025-430-008 STATEMENT (with processing of material occurring Filed: January 5, 2021 on APNs 025-350-018; 025-350-037; FBN Number: F20210006 025-120-039; and 025-120-041). 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) BW ENTERPRISES The Cache Creek Area Plan (CCAP) 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of requires that every ten years after a Principal Place of Business in California. surface mining permit and reclamation Business is located in Yolo County. plan have been approved, the 1811 Palm Place Planning Commission shall hold a Davis, CA 95618 public hearing for the purpose of 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), amending the permit and plans to bring Residence Address, State, and Zip them into conformance with applicable Benjamin Murray Wollrich future environmental regulations and 1811 Palm Place statutory changes. Davis, CA 95618 4. Business Classification: Individual The CCAP Second 10-Year Mining 5. Beginning Date of Business: The and Reclamation Permit Review is the Registrant(s) commenced to transact final component of the 2019 CCAP business under the fictitious business Update, for which the 2019 CCAP name or names listed above on: Update Final EIR (SCH #2017052069) December 1, 2020 provides required clearance under “I declare that all information in CEQA. The CCAP Update Final this statement is true and correct.” EIR was certified by the Board of (A registrant who declares as true Supervisors on December 17, 2019. information which he or she knows to be No further environmental impact false is guilty of a crime.) analysis is required. 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Benjamin Wollrich The starting time of the public hearing 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21 1141 for each individual item on the Time Set FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME Agenda is listed for the convenience of STATEMENT applicants and other interested parties. The public hearing will not start before Filed: January 7, 2021 its scheduled time. Adequate time will FBN Number: F20210020 be provided for each public hearing to 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) accept all relevant public testimony. DMSSTUDIO Public comments on all items are 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of encouraged. Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. Copies of staff reports and the 1110 Gum Ave., Suite A2 environmental document for the Woodland, CA 95695 projects are on file in the office of the Mailing address: Yolo County Community Services 16 Meadowbreeze Court Department, 292 West Beamer Street, Sacramento, CA 95823
3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Mariah Alejandra Gonzalez 1109 McKinley Ave. Woodland, CA 95695 and Daisy Karina Calderon 16 Meadowbreeze Court Sacramento, CA 95823 4. Business Classification: General Partnership 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: November 1, 2020 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Daisy Calderon 1142 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21
FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 4, 2021 FBN Number: F20210003 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Cathy Critiquses 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 2730 Portage Bay, Apt. 1805 Davis, CA 95616 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Alisha Lakel Fountain 2730 Portage Bay E Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: January 17, 2019 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Alisha Lakel Fountain, Owner 1143 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21
FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: January 26, 2021 FBN Number: F20210074 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Davis Cards + Games 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 654 G Street Davis, CA 95616 Mailing address: 24290 N. Suttenfield Road Acampo, CA 95220 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Three Eight 24290 Suttenfield Road Acampo, CA 95220 4. Business Classification: Corporation 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: February 1, 2016 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Melissa Showalter Three Eight, Owner 1144 1/31, 2/7, 2/14, 2/21