Winter 2019
Advocates & Ambassadors
Mission & History In 1875, MWB John C. Ralls presented the idea of “a ‘home’ for the indigent widows and minors (orphans) of worthy (deceased) Master Masons . . . to be located in some suitable and healthy place.” Through the hard work of many, the Masonic Home incorporated in 1886 and opened the doors of the St. Louis Home to its first resident, a 12-year-old girl named Della Gale Farthing, in 1889. The home expanded into a full campus of service for indigent Masons and their families. The Masonic Home opened the Western Unit in Kansas City in 1986. In 1991, the Board of Directors made the difficult decision to close the St. Louis facility and relocate the residents living there. But also in 1991, the Board created the Outreach Program, a financial assistance program that could reach qualified individuals in their communities. In 2011, the Board of Directors also sold the Western Unit to focus 100% of its efforts on the Outreach Programs. Outreach expanded from one program to 10, each satisfying a slightly different need throughout the Masonic Family. Three provide financial assistance to Masons, their wives or widows, ladies of the Eastern Star, and their dependent children. Three Partnership Programs partner with Lodges and Chapters throughout the state to provide for needy children, help their fellow brothers and sisters with a project, help send veterans on Honor Flights, and give care packages to active military. The final four programs are non-financial, serving the membership through financial education, honoring Masonic widows and veterans, and providing information on community resources. We encourage you to check us out on our website at www.mohome.org, give us a call at 800-434-9804, or stop in and tour the Masonic Museum at the Masonic Complex in Columbia. 2
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MAIN CONTACT INFORMATION Masonic Home of Missouri 6033 Masonic Drive, Suite A Columbia, MO 65202 573-814-4663 Phone 800-434-9804 Toll Free 573-814-4660 Fax Website: www.mohome.org Masonic Complex hours: Monday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Closed for state and federal holidays Masonic Museum hours: (located at Masonic Complex in Columbia, MO) Monday through Friday 9:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Executive Director Barbara Ramsey bramsey@mohome.org | Ext. 209 Director of Finance & Fund Development Jodi Blake jblake@mohome.org | Ext. 212 Public Relations Shannon Beck sbeck@mohome.org | Ext. 245
FUND DEVELOPMENT
Truman Club & Vincil Society, Courtyard Paver Stones, Penny-A-Day, General Donations Julie Kirchhoff, Annual Giving Officer jkirchhoff@mohome.org | Ext. 230 Legacy Society, Planned Giving, Major Gift Donations Jackie Walters, Major Gifts Officer jwalters@mohome.org | Ext. 214
MASONIC HOME PROGRAMS
Long-Term Financial Assistance Dana Morgenthaler, Financial Assistance Caseworker danam@mohome.org | Ext. 211 Short-Term Financial Assistance, Financial Education, Children’s Outreach Carly Dibben, Accredited Financial Counselor cdibben@mohome.org | Ext. 217 Allyson Reynolds, Financial Assistance Caseworker areynolds@mohome.org | Ext. 219 Creating-A-Partnership (CAP) & Partnering To Honor (PTH) Letitia “Tisha” Woodard, Partnership Coordinator twoodard@mohome.org | Ext. 210 Widows & Veterans Programs, Masonic Family Cares Program Chantana Irvin, Masonic Family Cares Coordinator cirvin@mohome.org | Ext. 239 Museum & Masonic Complex Calendar Michelle Phillippe, Administrative Office Coordinator mphillippe@mohome.org | Ext. 213
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Executive Director Notes
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Remembering Giving
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The Legacy of the Eastern Star
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A Treasure Box
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Masonic Home Ambassadors
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A Lifetime Together
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Missouri’s Ombudsman Program
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What is Long Term Care?
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One is the Loneliest Number
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Care Comes at a Cost
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Meet a Mason
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What’s in the Numbers? Annual Charity Golf Tournament
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his issue of the Masonic Outreach magazine is called Advocates and Ambassadors. The theme was an obvious choice given the launching of the Masonic Home’s new Ambassador Program. I hope you will read the article in this magazine and schedule a lodge or chapter presentation. However, the theme goes far beyond the Ambassadors Program. I am grateful to Barry and Linda Jenkins for sharing their story of joining the Schneider Legacy Society. They too are ambassadors for the Masonic Home in their willingness to share their very private choice to leave a lasting gift to the Masonic Home. I knew they would not be interested in the recognition, but I hoped they would be willing to share their story so others could learn more about this important way to support the Masonic Home. Their continued support and generosity on so many levels is making a lasting difference for this organization. Clifford, shown on the cover, is our featured Outreach Program story. Clifford and Alice are recipients of assistance from the Masonic Home. However, they would not be in our programs today without the help and assistance of many people advocating on their behalf. It began with a call from the assisted living facility. They were aware of the Masonic Home’s programs and contacted us on their behalf. Clifford and Alice found another advocate when the Masonic Home Outreach caseworker went to visit. A lodge brother has also stepped in to help. All of these people worked together to help and advocate for Clifford and Alice. Clifford received his Veteran’s Flag from the Masonic Home via one of our Ambassadors - PGM Ronald D. Jones. PGM Jones and I would make a second trip to visit Clifford and Alice for the story in this magazine. (I forgot to write it all down the first time!) In Clifford’s room, on the wall, you will find various certificates and medals recognizing his service in WWII. On that second visit, I saw that the Grand Lodge of Missouri flag presented to Clifford was placed on this wall – centered at the top. It made me stop and reflect on how the little things we do can mean so much. Each time a Masonic Home representative shares with his lodge the Masonic Home’s programs, he is an ambassador. Each time a flag is presented to a veteran in the lodge, chapter, or in the veteran’s home, that person is an ambassador. It is the holiday season and many lodges will be reaching out to visit their widows. Please let the Masonic Home know if you think they might need our help – be their advocate. I am grateful to our Masonic Home representatives, Outreach Liaison Committee of the Order of the Eastern Star, Masonic Home ambassadors, Masonic Home board members (past and current), donors, clients, and the wonderful amazing Masonic Home staff that I have the privilege of working with every day. The Masonic Home of Missouri is a vibrant charity because of the work of so many. Many blessings to you all during this holiday season!
Mission Statement
To assist eligible adults and children in need by practicing the principles of Freemasonry. 4
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GIVING
Remembering Giving The Masonic Home’s Legacy Society has a new name — The Vern H. Schneider Legacy Society. By Brenna McDermott Photos by Shannon Beck
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uring his time working with the Masonic Home of Missouri Board, Barry Jenkins was surprised to learn how much assistance the organization provides to its members. His wife, Linda, a Past Worthy Grand Matron, was surprised as well to learn how much assistance the organization gives. The Jenkins family has known brothers and sisters who have gone into assisted living and received financial assistance from the Masonic Home to afford their longterm care. The couple has seen the faces of brothers and sisters as they speak about the financial assistance they’ve received the impact of those dollars. After seeing the impact on the members of the Masonic Family, the Jenkins decided to include the Masonic Home in their estate planning and have in turn become members of The Schneider Legacy Society. Created in 2015, The Schneider Legacy Society has received nearly $2.5 million in estate gifts since inception. Those funds, absent other restrictions, are used to provide support for individuals statewide. “We’ve grown to know and love these people that have become so much like family. To know that something that we’ve worked hard
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GIVING for in our lives is going to benefit someone that we could possibly have known and make their life better, there’s not much more that a person could ask to work for,” Linda says. Now known as The Vern H. Schneider Legacy Society, The Society provides a way to recognize and thank planned gift donors during their lifetimes and ensure their wishes are documented and fulfilled. The new name seeks to honor one of the greatest advocates, advisers, and fundraisers to ever serve the Masonic Home of Missouri, PGM Vern H. Schneider.
SIX DECADES OF GIVING
PGM Schneider spent six decades committed to the Masonic Home of Missouri before passing away in 2019. He was dedicated to ensuring a prosperous future for the Masonic Home through his leadership, guidance, and his work with estates and trusts. As a lawyer, PGM Schneider also served as legal counsel for the Home. He was part of some of the largest changes to the organization, including building the Kansas City Facility. He was involved in the sale of both the St. Louis and Kansas City facilities and helped transition the Masonic Home to serving Masons and their families in their own homes. He called it a pioneering effort, and it was one of his greatest sources of pride in the Masonic Home. PGM Schneider served as Masonic Home Board member from 1971-1975 and 1980-1985, Masonic Home Board President from 1983-1984, Grand Master and 6
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Honorary Chairman from 19841985, and Masonic Home Legal Counsel from 1985-2017. Helping to provide assistance for people in need made a major impact on his life, he told Masonic Outreach in the Spring 2018 issue. “I think it reflects the very core of Masonic thought,” PGM Schneider said at the time. He is remembered in the Masonic Museum exhibit that honors individuals who have made the biggest impact on the Masonic Home. But, if asked, he was always humble about the thousands of hours he spent serving the Masonic Home. “There have been thousands and thousands of dedicated supporters of the Home that I have personally known over the years,” PGM Schneider said in 2018. “And I can only just barely begin to touch on the types of dedicated service that has been rendered by so many people.” PGM Schneider urged all Masons to make at least a minimal financial contribution to the Masonic Home. He considered it the personal responsibility of every member of the fraternity. So, it’s fitting that the society for planned giving now bears his name.
JOIN THE SCHNEIDER LEGACY SOCIETY
Anyone who remembers the Masonic Home in a will, trust, beneficiary designation, or other planned gift is invited to join The Schneider Legacy Society. Members receive permanent recognition on The Schneider Legacy Tree, located at the Masonic Complex. Those who list the Masonic
Home as a beneficiary of a planned gift receive a silver leaf. When the assets from estates or trusts are received, donors are recognized with a gold leaf. The Jenkins recommended that those considering legacy giving dig into the Masonic Home annual reports and read about how many people receive assistance from the Masonic Home and how funds are spent. The numbers will speak for themselves.
“I can’t think of many other organizations that supply this kind of lifelong assistance to their members, that care in the way that the Masonic Home does,” Linda says. Leaving a gift, Barry says, fulfills the Masonic obligation to help members in need, whether they’re children or 102 years old. “It’s not a difficult thing to do,” Linda says. “It’s not going to weigh you down with trips
or phone calls. The folks at the Masonic Home make it very easy.” There are many ways to give that qualify for membership in The Schneider Legacy Society, including stocks and securities, real estate, a bequest in a will or living trust, gifts of life insurance, charitable gift annuities, charitable lead trusts, charitable remainder trusts, and beneficiary designation of an IRA, 401(k) or 403(b) account.
Often these gifts go unrecognized during a donor's lifetime because the Masonic Home is not aware of them until the donor has passed away. The Masonic Home staff and board want to express proper appreciation. Making your gift known can also inspire others who are considering remembering the Masonic Home. “What better way to leave what money we might have at the end of our lives to an organization that we know where the money will go,” Barry says. And if you’ve already remembered the Masonic Home of Missouri in your will or planned gift, contact the Masonic Home’s Major Gifts Officer at 800-4349804 to be honored as a member of The Schneider Legacy Society in whatever way you prefer – including remaining anonymous. Members of this society enjoy a relationship with other donors, assistance in wording legacy gifts to ensure your wishes are carried out, special recognition in publications if desired, permanent recognition on The Schneider Legacy Tree, potential reduction in tax burden and, of course, the fulfillment of giving to a cause that matters to you and your family. It was certainly a cause that mattered to PGM Schneider. “Ultimately, it was recognized that we should be mindful of some basic needs that were tugging at the hearts of those people who lived in the Masonic Home,” PGM Schneider told Masonic Outreach in 2018. “And I’m referring to the basic attachment that all of us have to our home, however humble it might be and wherever it might be located.” Masonic Outreach
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LEGACY
The Legacy of the Eastern Star To the Success of the Masonic Home of Missouri By Barbara Ramsey | Photos by Keith Borgmeyer
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he fall of 1875 was an important year for the beginning of the Masonic Home of Missouri and the Missouri Order of the Eastern Star - two organizations that would become interconnected for over one hundred years. On October 12, 1875, PGM John C. Ralls introduced a resolution at the Annual Session of the Grand Lodge of Missouri that was adopted recommending, “a select committee be appointed to enquire into, and report upon, the expediency and necessity of making suitable provision for the erection of a ‘home’ for the indigent widows and minors (orphans) of worthy (deceased) Master Masons . . . to be located in some suitable and healthy place.” On October 13, 1875, the first session of the Grand Chapter of Missouri, Order of the Eastern Star was opened at Masonic Hall. PGM Rev. John D. Vincil was elected the first Worthy Grand Patron, and Mattie A. Yost was elected the first Worthy Grand Matron. While the Order of the Eastern Star would spend the next several years formalizing its organization, creating bylaws and procedures and working to sustain and grow its chapters, the Masonic Home of Missouri would struggle to begin. In 1886, the Masonic Home would see significant progress in turning the dream of many into reality, when 8
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it became officially incorporated by the State of Missouri. This was the year the board of directors for the Masonic Home was formed with Noah M. Givan becoming the first board president. That same year, PGM John R. Parson, a member of the new board, was serving as Grand Secretary of the Order of the Eastern Star and as Chairman of the Triennial Committee of the Grand
“Whatever can be done to spread abroad a new and vital interest in regard to the Home should employ our best efforts.” –Grand Matron, Flora M. Clarkson, 1889 Encampment of Knights Templar. During their meeting in St. Louis, Missouri, he organized a Grand Concert held at the fair grounds on Wednesday, September 21, 1886 for the benefit of the Masonic Home in Missouri. They raised the generous sum of $35,000, which became the nucleus for the Masonic Home building fund. A year later, Worthy Grand Patron H.M. Pettit makes a call
for the Order of the Eastern Star to join in the support of the Home board’s efforts. The calls for support are made again by Worthy Grand Patron S.L.C. Rhodes the following year. WGP Rhodes reported at the 14th Annual Session of the Grand Chapter of Missouri, Order of the Eastern Star that he had issued an appeal for support of the Home that was sent to each subordinate Chapter. Board President N.M. Givan wrote his appreciation for the efforts undertaken on behalf of the Home by Worthy Grand Patron Rhodes: I desire to thank you heartily for the interest you are taking in the Masonic Home and the effort you are making with the Order of the Eastern Star in its behalf . . . . If you can succeed in enlisting the Masonic women of Missouri to work for the Home, its success is assured beyond question. The Home purchased property at the edge of St. Louis at a price of $40,000. The property consisted of 15 acres near Forest Park, which at the time was considered to be in the country. The property had a two and a half story brick home with about 20 rooms, a good sized barn, and a gardener’s cottage. In 1889, the Masonic Home would open its doors and welcome its first resident, a young girl. Worthy Grand Patron John R. Parson proudly reported on the financial assistance provided
by Eastern Star Chapters to the cause of the Home. Worthy Grand Matron Flora M. Clarkson reported on the newly established Home. She stressed the importance of the charitable work occurring and the need for the Order of the Eastern Star to support it. With this in mind, she asked in her address: Would it not be well for this Grand Body to consider at its present session the propriety of selecting a day to be observed by our Order throughout the State each year, and known as “Orphan’s Day.” The motion was made and adopted at the annual session to make October 13 Eastern Star Masonic Home day. It is fitting that October 13 was the chosen day, as this was the day the Order of the Eastern Star held its first Annual Session. A year later, the Order of the Eastern Star would adopt a resolution to create a committee known as “Committee on the Masonic Home.” The Order of the Eastern Star and the Home would continue to struggle over the years. In 1891, Worthy Grand Patron Givan’s address to Grand Chapter would stress the importance of organizing a chapter wherever there was a lodge, and he would tie the importance of the Order of the Eastern Star to the success of the Home. The crowning glory of Masonic work in Missouri is the Masonic Home for our dependent widows and orphans. To continue this work as we should will not only require the encouragement and support of all of our brethren, but of their wives, widows, mothers, sisters, and daughters . . . . So much sympathy, zeal, prayer, and work
Top to bottom: Flora M. Clarkson, PGM, John R. Parson, PGP, and Rev. John D. Vincil, PGP
as this grand army will bring to this work can take no thought of failure. The Missouri Order of the Eastern Star would grow and
thrive over the years, as would the Masonic Home. The history of the two organizations is filled with stories and examples of the many ways the Order of the Eastern Star supported the Masonic Home. The Masonic Home would assist countless Order of the Eastern Star members over the years. Those in attendance at the Annual Session of the Grand Chapter this year may have heard the report given by Associate Grand Matron Debi Olson on the Masonic Home, although the committee it is now known as the Outreach Liaison Committee. Time has changed how the Masonic Home provides assistance, now through the Outreach Programs, but it has not changed the mission of helping members in need. The Masonic Home values the interwoven history of the two organizations. There is as much need today for advocates and ambassadors from the Order of the Eastern Star as when those calls were made over a hundred years ago. The Masonic Home is grateful to the Outreach Liaison Committee for sharing the work of the Masonic Home during Grand Chapter. We are also grateful to Nancy Lane, PGM, and Karlene Baylous, PGM, for joining the Masonic Home Ambassadors Program to help share with Chapters statewide the work of the Masonic Home. History has also taught us that the relationship between the Masonic Home and the OES Grand Secretary is of vital importance. The Masonic Home values deeply the support, advocacy, and friendship from Debbie Olds, Grand Secretary. Masonic Outreach
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A Treasure Box A hidden box contains one man's Masonic journey By Barbara Ramsey | Photos by Keith Borgmeyer
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house in Kansas City was undergoing a major renovation, and the construction crew was told to take the walls down to the studs. As sheetrock came down, one of the men discovered a box tucked between a wall. It appeared to be an ordinary 11-inch square box. The construction worker pulled it out and opened the lid. The box was filled with photos and mementos. There was no note in the box to explain who it belonged to or why it was there. But as fate would have it, this particular box was found by a Kansas Prince Hall Mason. He recognized that the box contained pictures of President Harry S. Truman, and he also quickly realized that the box was full of items related to Missouri Masonry. The box would ultimately find its way into the hands of Missouri Mason Brother Scott Whited. Brother Whited was raised in Ivanhoe Lodge No. 446 on February 2, 2019. Although a relatively new mason, Brother Whited immediately recognized that the contents of the box were historic and important. Brother Whited and his wife, Abigail, made an appointment to visit with the Masonic Home staff about possibly placing the items on loan in the Masonic Museum. At first glance, the story in the box appears to be 10
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that of Grandview Lodge No. 618 celebrating its 50year anniversary, with M.W. Brother Harry S. Truman as the guest of honor. Upon further investigation, though, it becomes clear that the box actually tells a different story. It is the story of RWB Harold Edwin Thornton. RWB Thornton was born in Parsons, Kansas, on February 1, 1908. He grew up and lived most of his life in Kansas City, Missouri. He married his wife, Marjorie Joyce Garriques, on June 18, 1933. They did not have children. He was initiated in Grandview Lodge on October 2, 1945, and was raised to Master Mason on November 23, 1945. Brother Thornton was active in the True Kindred, Conclave #25, having served in their Line and as Supreme Advisor of North America. He was a member of RAM Chapter #145, Council #45, and Commandery #10, and a member of the Arrarat Shrine. In December 1960, RWB Thornton was installed as Master of Grandview Lodge by PGM Harry S. Truman in the old Temple in Grandview. PGM Truman became a Mason in Belton Lodge No. 450, Belton, Missouri. He served as its Junior Warden and then demitted from Belton Lodge in 1911 to form Grandview Lodge. He served as the Worshipful Master Under Dispensation, and again, as the
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MUSEUM MOMENT first Worshipful Master Under Charter. He would go on to serve for several years as Secretary of the Lodge, and as Master when he went to serve our country during World War I. Upon returning from the war, he would serve as District Deputy Grand Master and District Deputy Grand Lecturer, then he entered the Grand Lodge line in 1930. He was elected and installed as Grand Master of the Grand Lodge of Missouri, A.F. & A.M., in 1940, while serving as United States Senator from Missouri. It is well known that PGM Truman’s political career would ultimately take him to the White House becoming the 33rd President of the United States of America. May 8, 1961 was the day that would become the most memorable day in RWB Thornton’s Masonic career. It was a day of anniversaries and celebrations. This was the day that Grandview Lodge would celebrate its golden anniversary and the 77th birthday of its first Worshipful Master. Elaborate plans to celebrate both were made. It became clear early in the planning stages that the lodge hall would not be large enough to accommodate the anticipated crowd. Permission was granted to hold it at Ruskin Heights High School auditorium. It is estimated that there were over 600 attendees filling the auditorium to capacity for the sit-down dinner. The event garnered statewide attention, with the State of Missouri represented by Lieutenant Governor Hillary Bush and Kansas City’s Mayor R.W. Brother H. Roe Bartle in attendance.
Treasure Timeline 1911
PGM Truman demitted from Belton Lodge No. 450, Belton, Missouri, to form Grandview Lodge.
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October 2 RWB Harold Edwin Thornton was initiated in Grandview Lodge, and was raised to Master Mason on November 23 of that year.
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December RWB Thornton was installed as Master of Grandview Lodge by PGM Harry S. Truman in the old Temple in Grandview.
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May 8 Grandview Lodge celebrated its golden anniversary, and the 77th birthday of its first Worshipful Master.
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July 26 The groundbreaking ceremony for the new Grandview Masonic Temple takes place.
Governor John M. Dalton was planning to attend, but was unable to make it due to weather. Grand Master Bruce H. Hunt and Past Grand Master Robert L. Aronson were speakers for the event. PGM Truman presented the Grand Lodge of Missouri with a Square & Compass emblem, made from nails carried west by covered wagons from either Westport or St. Joseph. The nails were used to build the Masonic temple at Shasta, California, in 1853. Many of the early Shasta Masons were Missourians, and they originally named their town Benton City in honor of Missouri’s senator, Thomas Hart Benton. The gift was accepted by Grand Master Hunt, who then returned it to PGM Truman with the request that it be placed in the Truman Memorial Library. The highlight of the evening was a presentation by PGM Truman to his lodge. In the name of himself and Mrs. Truman, the lodge was given the deed to a half acre of land in Grandview to build a Masonic Temple. The importance of this event to RWB Thornton is seen by the care
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May 8 Cornerstone laying ceremony held for the new temple.
1985 RWB Thornton appointed District Deputy Grand Master of the 59th District.
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August 31 The 75th Anniversary of Grandview Lodge No. 618 was published in The Trestleboard, and was the most current document found in the box.
1993 RWB Harold Thornton passes away two months after his wife, Joyce.
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The box is found stored in the wall of a Kansas City home.
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he took in keeping items from the event. Contained in the white box are photos from the evening, the program, a ticket, newspaper clippings, and two Masonic publications with articles on the event. All items were perfectly preserved. PGM Truman had plans for the temple designed by Herbert E. Duncan Associates. The two-story building was to have an entrance made of Indiana limestone with most of the exterior composed of brick. The upper floor would have the main lodge room, offices, library, and auxiliary space. The lower floor would have a social 14
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hall, kitchen, and other facilities. It was estimated to cost $200,000. The plans for the temple would not come to fruition, though, and the lodge would give the deed back to PGM Truman. RWB Thornton would later explain to Allen E. Roberts, author of Brother Truman, that the deed on the property came with the stipulation that the temple was to be built exactly as PGM Truman had planned with the East in the lodge at the east of the lot. This caused many of the members concern. In addition, the lodge building would sit fronted on a side street.
The members offered to buy 50 feet of adjacent land that PGM Truman owned to place the new building front on Main Street. However, PGM Truman could not sell the lodge the property, because he already had a tentative agreement with the government to sell it for a post office. The final concern was the cost. The lodge felt it could not raise the money needed to build the temple to PGM Truman’s specification. The site for the Grandview Temple would be moved to Highway 71. Despite being heartbroken, PGM Truman would support the lodge’s
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efforts to build at the new site by donating $5,000 to the endeavor. The headline in the July 1964 edition of the Grandview Masonic Guide would state: "New Temple Begins. A Temple Association Board was reported to consisting of J.W. Bosell, P.M., President; H.E. Thornton, P.M.; Dowell Hays, P.M.; T.L. Bird, P.M.; W.R. Ramsay, M.E. Aulgur, Mark Harris, Naomi Conway along with ex-officio members M.R. Watts, W.M.; A.W. Combs, S.W.; C.M. Bates, J.W.; H.L. Bratton, Secy.-Treas." The publication went on to request that all Charter members
of Grandview Lodge No. 618, A.F. & A.M. attend the ground breaking of the new Grandview Masonic Temple on Sunday afternoon, July 26, 1964, at 2 p.m. at 1800 High Grove Road. This momentous occasion is captured in numerous photos saved by RWB Thornton and stored in the box. RWB Thornton also saved several photos from the laying of the cornerstone held on May 8, 1965. PGM Harry F. Sunderland, acting under special dispensation from Grand Master George F. Morrison, led the delegation and represented the Grand Lodge in performing the customary rites.
The June 1965 issue of the Grandview Masonic Guide reported on the cornerstone laying, while also providing an update on the work. The lodge had secured the 40,000 bricks necessary to build the Temple. The goal was to finish the brick work and put the roof on next. However, RWB Thornton, writing on behalf of the Temple Association, cited the necessity of continued donations to begin the work on the inside. The building of the Grandview Temple, as well as its struggle to secure funding to complete it, is documented by RWB Thornton in his saved copies of the Grandview Masonic Guide. He saved the publication starting with the March 1963 issue and ending with December 1965. The last issue in his collection shows the inside of the new lodge Temple, but it is still an empty stone building. There is still great concern over funding, as the next hurdle for the building is the instillation of the heating system. Another item collected and saved by Brother Thornton are the programs for the Installation of the Officers of Grandview Lodge. The collection begins in 1958, which is the year Brother Thornton is installed as Junior Warden. The program showing his installation as Worshipful Master is currently on display in the Masonic Museum. The collection continues with just a few years missing until 1977. RWB Thornton’s collection includes the year 1971, which is the year he became treasurer of his lodge, a position he held from 1971 until 1990. In 1985, another Masonic honor was bestowed upon him when he was appointed by the Grand Masonic Outreach
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MUSEUM MOMENT Lodge to serve as District Deputy Grand Master of the 59th Masonic District. The final installation of officers booklet in the collection is from 1985, along with Grandview Lodge’s The Trestleboard, volume 1, number VI, October 31, 1985. The Trestleboard publication for the 75th Anniversary of Grandview Lodge No. 618 is the most current document found in the box of treasures dated August 31, 1986. As noted above, RWB Thornton would continue to serve as treasurer for his lodge until 1990. The documents and photos in the box show that Joyce Thornton was also active, particularly in Keystone Conclave Order of True Kindred No. 25. Joyce would pass away in December 1992. Harold would follow her only two months later in February 1993. Why was the box placed in the wall? Who put the box there? Why does the collection end in 1986 with the 75th Anniversary of Grandview Lodge? While some questions can be answered, there are others we may never know. It is clear that both the lodge and Harry S. Truman are central to the story in the box, but it is Harold’s story. It is a snapshot of the important events in his Masonic career. But, there is more. There are photos of Masonic ceremonies and celebrations, but there are also just photos of friends enjoying each other in Masonic fellowship. The box is potentially the story of every mason. Moments in time that intersect with bigger moments. People brought together that may never have been, if it were not through the fraternal bonds of Masonry. The story is then connected through time to 16
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find its way into the hands of a new young Mason named Scott Whited. His Masonic journey is just beginning but already built upon the legacy of those who came before him. Who knew a simple, slightly aged, square box could contain so much.
Harold and Joyce Thornton’s story is now on display in the Everyman exhibit in the Masonic Museum. The Masonic Home invites you to visit the Masonic Museum at the Masonic Complex in Columbia, Missouri, Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
THANK YOU
Masonic Home Ambassadors Strengthening connections between the Masonic Home and Lodges and Chapters. By Jodi Blake | Photo by Shannon Beck
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he first annual Ambassador’s Training Session was held Saturday, August 17, 2019. Over 20 individuals were in attendance. The group consists of Past Grand Masters, past and present Masonic Home Board Members, and other individuals passionate about the organization’s mission. A separate training was held with our two Past Worthy Grand Matrons of the Order of the Eastern Star that were unable to attend that day. These individuals have committed their time to the Masonic Home to make personal connections with members of the Masonic community, encouraging participation in our programs and educating about the resources we provide. These 33 select Masons and two Eastern Star ladies volunteer to help the organization strengthen its ties to your lodges and chapters. Over the past several months, the team has hit the ground running, offering Masonic Home presentations and Veterans Program flag ceremonies at lodges and chapters across the state. Thanks to these generous individuals spreading the message of the Masonic Home to Masons and Eastern Star members throughout Missouri, our reign as one of the best kept Masonic secrets will hopefully come to an end.
"Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes, those little things occupy the biggest part of their heart." —Unknown
Because of their devotion to their Masonic Brothers and Sisters, over 200 veterans have been honored for their service to our country with a touching flag ceremony conducted by these Masonic Home Ambassadors. Their zest to share the Masonic Home with members near and far is inspiring. To this remarkable group, we are truly grateful and look forward to working with you for years to come. Masonic Outreach
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A Lifetime Together The Masonic Home helps centenarian couple By Barbara Ramsey | Photos by Shannon Beck
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t was one year ago that Stephanie from Summit View contacted the Masonic Home concerned that two of her residents were running out of funds to remain there. She had talked with Clifford and discovered he was a Missouri Mason. Outreach staff began working with Clifford and Alice as they spent down the last of their funds, and they went to the Masonic Home Board in March of this year to request assistance. The Board of Directors approved them and have continued monthly assistance for them ever since to help them remain in the assisted living facility. We asked Brother Clifford to share his story, so we could introduce you to this amazing WWII veteran. When you sit down with Clifford and Alice Mathis, you are in for a treat of storytelling. Clifford’s memory of details, including dates and locations, is remarkable, especially considering he is 102 years old. Alice does not share his memory recall. When commenting to her that it is remarkable that she is 100 years old, she simply laughs and says “goodness, I’m not that old – but I sure feel like 100.” Clifford began his story by sharing that his father was born and raised in Mountain Grove, Missouri. He was a country boy that moved to the big city, Kansas City, to raise his family after Clifford’s older brother was born. Clifford and his younger sister were both born in Kansas City. Clifford’s father was a delivery man for both milk and ice. He would later go into coal delivery.
Clifford adored his older brother, who was two years his senior. He followed his brother into East High School, and joined the ROTC, because his brother had. Clifford was 17 when he graduated and “fudged” his age a bit to follow his brother into the 110th National Guard. Once he was of actual legal age, he would have to go back to correct his record. He was part of the medical detachment. Sadly, Clifford’s brother would die at age 23. In August 1940, the National Guard was called into active duty service by the federal government for one year of training. Clifford was sent to Little Rock, Arkansas. While in town on leave, he and others were abruptly called back to base on December 7, 1941 – Pearl Harbor had just been bombed. Three days later his entire unit was sent to the west coast. He recalled traveling swiftly by railroad. The military cars were all
given priority, as they passed all other railroad traffic pushed off to the side. They reached California, their destination to guard the western portion of America. Here, Clifford pauses to share a story within the story. With a smile on his face and a glint in his eye, he talks about the military convoy he was in going up Highway 1 along the coast. The convoy of six vehicles was traveling north (he noted here that the military had learned that a convoy of six was ideal, because any larger the vehicles would become too separated in travel). While at a rest area along the highway, a man on a motorcycle stopped to talk to the men. The man was Clark Gable. Continuing his story, Clifford noted he was told that the military was looking for engineers to go into officer training. He decided to try for it and was accepted. He would get back on the railroad to travel across the country to Virginia. He proudly reports that Masonic Outreach
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he completed 52 classes in three months’ time, and his diploma says Army of the United States (as opposed to United States Army). He was then assigned to the 335th General Service Engineers in Oklahoma at Camp Gruber. The 335th General Service Engineers were active at Camp Gruber on July 20, 1942. Clifford would once again find himself on the railways being transported with his unit to Fort Dix, New Jersey. They would stay there until departing the New York Port of Embarkation on April 2, 1943. They boarded a Dutch freighter that had been converted called the “Sloterdijk” and headed out for North Africa. They waited until the ship was at sail for three days before telling the men where they were heading. Clifford once again pauses to remind us that the journey to the battle fronts was nerve-raking and perilous. When they entered the 20
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Straights of Gibraltar, the men were told to make no sound. Do not move. Do absolutely nothing to draw any attention to the German submarines in the area. He said, “you might think that the boat would travel quickly to get through the dangerous waters, but it was actually the opposite. We inched and crawled along, as they would cut the engine and glide in the water until they would start the engine and quickly cut it again.” They crossed the Mediterranean Sea undetected to Oran. Their first task upon landing was to pull German land bombs out of the ground. Clifford explained that the preferred method was using metal detectors, but they often had to use a bayonet. Clifford recounted, “you had to go in at an angle, because if you went directly down you might accidentally detonate it. As soon as your bayonet touched something, you stop and begin
digging slowly to uncover the bomb and detonator.” They were moved to a property outside of Tunis, which had a large French villa on the grounds. They were to clean it, put up blackout curtains, check wiring, and generally prepare it for the high ranking officers that were coming. Lieutenant Mathis worked diligently with his men to complete the task, when several of his guys had the idea to create an air raid shelter in the hillside. Clifford would later receive a letter of accommodation from President Dwight D. Eisenhower for their efforts. Clifford shares this story with both pride and humility, saying that it was his men that earned it, not him. January 10, 1944 Lieutenant Mathis and his troop were moved to Corsica where they were asked to help establish a MASH Unit. There were four or five doctors there, along with nurses. Clifford smiles as he says, “you wouldn’t think so much wood was needed, but there are floors, tents, latrines, and walkways that all have to be built. They also had to get the generators working for the doctors to perform surgeries whenever needed. The unit was once again moved to the port city of Marseille in Southern France. The port was badly destroyed by the Germans, and the unit was to help reopen it. The troops had to again remove mines and rubble in the dock area and in the water. “The 335th dug out over thirty tons of explosives and removed 2,000 Teller mines, but had to detonate many of the big charges in place when the
engineers discovered that the fuses had so decomposed that their safe deactivation was impossible.”1 The war ended in 1945, but Lieutenant Mathis and his troops were still in Germany. Sergeant Mathis and his unit were asked to fix and rebuild a bridge that the Germans had destroyed, and it needed to be completed in 14 days. Clifford shares with a laugh, “the answer to your superiors was always, ‘yes.’” They accomplished it within 10 days. There is emotion in Clifford’s voice as he tells you with pride that they accomplished it early, but there is even more pride as he tells you that his men – and he means his men, because that is how he thinks of them – asked him to put the last nail in the bridge as they broke into a round of applause and cheers. Lieutenant Mathis was offered a bronze star for their work, but Clifford asked that it go to his Sergeants instead. Clifford said, “I felt like I didn’t deserve it – my guys did.” They would finally begin their journey home, coming back into New York. Clifford exclaimed, “It was then I saw the most beautiful woman in the world . . . the Statue of Liberty.” It had been five years and two months since Clifford had been in Kansas City. Although it was his “home,” he found he didn’t really know anyone anymore. Gradually, he would start to build friendships again, when one night he was invited on a couples date. Although his date, Nadine, was a lovely lady, he found the woman of his dreams when the car door opened and he saw his friend’s date – Alice.
If you want to know what lasting, devoted love looks like, spend a few minutes with Clifford and Alice. He dotes on her. He watches out for her. He is clearly nervous spending even just a few moments apart from her. He tells you how much he loves her and how “she is as beautiful on the inside as she is outside.” Alice laughs when you tell her that Clifford is talking about how beautiful she is, and she asks playfully, “what does he want now?!?”
“It was then I saw the most beautiful woman in the world . . . the Statue of Liberty.” They were married in 1946 at the home in which Alice was living at the time. They share the story of how their dog, Jeeps, made himself part of the ceremony, sitting calmly between them as they shared their vows. While Jeeps was happily inserting himself, Clifford and Alice tried to get him to move, until it became apparent he wasn’t budging and Reverend Rodgers said to just leave him. They were happily married on October 5, 1946.
Clifford’s father owned a retail coal company, so he went to work for him upon returning from the war. However, the coal business was dwindling as the gas business took over. In 1956, they closed their coal business. Clifford and Alice decided to start a hardware store. Sadly, the year Clifford turned 40, his business was hit by a tornado and they lost everything. Clifford and Alice moved to Omaha to open a new store. It turned out that the area was just wrong for a hardware store, as it didn’t have the customer base to support it. Once again, they found themselves having lost everything. They moved back to Raytown, Missouri. Alice easily found a job selling cosmetics. Over the years, Alice had much success finding employment in department stores. Clifford found it difficult to get a job, lacking a degree. He found out that Western Auto was putting in a new store, so he went to apply. Across the street he saw one of his old customers. They started talking, and Clifford had two job offers within a half hour, after months of searching. He chose a delivery job with a company that delivered Sears’ larger items. The owner was a German man that had come to America with his family. The owner’s son died shortly after Clifford joined the company, and he became manager. Clifford and Alice would welcome a beautiful baby girl into their family. They would go on to live and work. Clifford became a Mason in East Gate Lodge No. 630. Masonic Outreach
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PGM Ron Jones visited Clifford and Alice in September at their assisted living facility. PGM Jones, an Ambassador for the Masonic Home, went to honor Clifford through the Masonic Home’s Veterans Program, by presenting Clifford with the Grand Lodge flag to recognize his service to our country. It was during that visit that Clifford shared how difficult it is to live into your hundreds, because so many of the people you knew and loved have left you. During that visit, with tears in his eyes, Clifford told Ron, “I have lost my brother and my sister, but I know that I am not alone, because I have my Masonic Brothers and Sisters. I know you will take care of my Alice if something happens to me.” The question is sometimes asked, “Where is the Masonic Home?” You do not have to search any further than Clifford and 22
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Alice to find it. They have been the recipients of several of the Outreach Programs. When they were first referred to the Masonic Home, they were immediately provided with social services. There were different things that needed to be done to help prepare them to move into the Long-Term Financial Assistance Program, where they are currently receiving monthly assistance. Brother Mathis is part of the Veterans Program, and has been recognized with a pin, flag, and certificate. Should something happen to Brother Mathis – he is correct that we will take care of Alice. She will be part of our Widows Program, and we will continue to assist her through the Long-Term Assistance Program. The Long-Term Assistance Program is at the core of the Masonic Home mission. Clifford and Alice are the perfect example of a couple that worked their
entire lives and saved for retirement. They simply outlived their resources (at 102 and 100, this is not surprising). Clifford and Alice need more care than can be found living alone in their home. However, they do not need a nursing home. Right now, assisted living is the perfect level of care for their needs. They simply ran out of the funds to pay for it. This is where the Masonic Home steps in to make a difference. The Masonic Home is ensuring that their care needs determine where they live, not their money. The Masonic Home would not be helping Clifford and Alice right now if we had not received the call from Stephanie. How many more Masons, Order of the Eastern Star members, and Masonic Widows could be receiving help from the Masonic Home if only they knew the assistance was available? Please help the Masonic Home get the word out, so we can find all those members like Clifford and Alice that need our help. Thank you to Clifford for his brave service, to Clifford and Alice for letting us be a part of their beautiful story and for letting us share it, and to all who read this and use it to help other members throughout the state. 1. United States Army in World War II.: The Technical Services, United States Department of the Army. Office of Military History, Alfred M. Beck, Abe Bortz, Charles W. Lynch, Lida Mayo and Ralph F. Weld, Center of Military History United States Army, Washington, D.C., 1985, pg. 446.
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Missouri’s Ombudsman Program Advocating for quality of life in long-term care. By Shannon Beck
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hen problems arise in long-term care facilities, residents can feel overwhelmed, intimidated, or isolated, preventing them to take action and advocate for their care, but Missouri’s Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program volunteers are there to help, empower, and advocate with these individuals. “It really is an enriching experience,” said program volunteer Meryl Lin. “I think, in this day-and-age, we don’t have enough face-to-face communication. It’s good to talk and listen. That’s really what being an ombudsman is all about—talking face-to-face with people, getting to know them, and listening.” In a general sense, ombudsmen are people appointed to investigate and negotiate issues that arise as a neutral third party. The volunteers in Missouri’s program coordinated by the Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services (DHSS) and it’s Area Agencies on Aging are somewhat different. They are encouraged to form relationships with residents and help them advocate for themselves. Ombudsmen spend much of their volunteer time visiting facilities and talking to residents, building relationships that help them feel less isolated. This way, if issues do arise, the resident has
Ombudsmen spend much of their volunteer time visiting facilities and talking to residents, building relationships that help them feel less isolated. a confidant that does not have ties to the facility, even if they no longer have family or friends to lean on. The roles ombudsmen play for Missouri’s seniors living in longterm care are varied, and include facilitator, educator, intermediary,
collaborator, mediator, advocate, problem-solver, and activist. DHSS emphasizes that ombudsmen do not perform investigations and do not make reports on behalf of residents. Instead, they help residents find the courage and proper channels to advocate for themselves. Interested in joining this network of volunteers? You can apply online at health.mo.gov/ seniors/ombudsman/volunteers. php or by calling 800-309-3282. You will need to be at least 18 years old, pass a background check, and have adequate transportation to get to facilities. Once accepted, you will complete a 20-hour training course and eight hours of shadowing an experienced ombudsman.
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What is Long-Term Care? By Jodi Blake
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ith the increasing use of the term “long-term care” and growing popularity of products such as long-term care insurance, it is becoming more important to understand just what this term means. Long-term care does not only refer to time spent in a facility; it includes an array of health or personal care services intended to help during short or long periods of time. Long-term care services can be provided either in the home, in a facility, or in the community. According to the Department of Health and Human Services, National Health Institute, most long-term care is provided at home by unpaid family members and friends, and the most common type of care is personal care, which includes help with everyday activities. Examples of long-term care provided to individuals living in their own homes include personal care, home health
An advance directive is an important document to have regardless of age and can be changed at any time.
Examples of Long-Term Care Services (not an exhaustive list)
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Home Health · Personal care · Meal preparation · Household chores · Emergency response systems
Community-based · Meals · Adult day care · Transportation
Rehabilitation · Short-term · After medical event
Facility · Residential care · Assisted living · Skilled nursing · CCRC
LEARN
To find home-based services, contact: · Eldercare Locator 800-677-1116 www.eldercare.acl.gov · Your local Area Agency on Aging
For more information on Long-Term Care: · LongTermCare.gov 202-619-0724 www.longtermcare.acl.gov/ · National Association of Area Agencies on Aging 202-872-0888 www.n4a.org
For more information on Getting Your Affairs in Order: · AARP 888-687-2277 www.aarp.org/home-family/ caregiving/ · American Hospital Association 800-424-4301 www.aha.org/2017-12-11-put-it-inwriting
PREPARE
Steps for Getting Your Affairs in Order www.nia.nih.gov
1. Put your important papers and copies of legal documents in one place. 2. Tell a trusted family member or friend where you put all your important papers. 3. Discuss your end-of-life preferences with your doctor. 4. Give permission in advance for your doctor or lawyer to talk with your caregiver as needed.
needs. Residential care facilities, assisted living facilities, and skilled nursing facilities are available, as well as Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs), which offer all levels of care in one location. Anyone at any age could find themselves in need of long-term care services. They can be used to manage a serious, ongoing health condition or disability, as an illness or disability worsens, after a health event (e.g. heart attack or stroke), or as an individual ages.
Planning for Long-Term Care services, community services, and rehabilitation services. The long-term care provided in facilities can be similar to the care provided in homes, but is done in a specific location that aligns with a person’s individual
Everyone’s situation is unique. While you may never need longterm care, it is wise to prepare for the possibility. Planning ahead gives you the opportunity to learn about local services and costs while you are still able to make important decisions.
The main areas of decisionmaking include housing, health, and finances. Most people prefer to “age in place” – to remain in their own homes for as long as possible. Long-term care services can make this possible. Taking control of your health is also an important part of planning for your future. Changing behaviors to lead a healthier lifestyle can delay or prevent the need for longterm care. Setting up an advance directive gives you control over what happens to you as you age or in the case of a medical emergency. This is a legal document with two components, a living will that lets your loved ones and your health care providers know your wishes about your medical and end-oflife care and a durable power of attorney for health care that names an individual you’ve chosen to make medical decisions for you when you are unable to do so. Determining how to pay for the long-term care services you would like or may need depends on your personal financial situation. A variety of payment sources can be used, such as your own personal funds, government health insurance programs (e.g. Medicaid), private financing options (e.g. longterm care insurance), veterans’ benefits, and services through the Older Americans Act. Long-term care services allow an individual to live as independently as possible in an environment that is most suitable to his/her needs. Getting your affairs in order is an important first step in ensuring that your wishes are carried out. Masonic Outreach
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One is the Loneliest Number Fighting isolation, loneliness through connections By Shannon Beck
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ou're retired. Your children have moved away. Your spouse has died. Your health has left you unable to drive. You're financially strained. This is a difficult reality for many of us to imagine, yet it is, at least in part, where many of us will find ourselves in our later years, and the social isolation and loneliness that come with that will wreak havoc on our health. The list of ailments associated with isolation and loneliness in seniors is well-researched and lengthy. It includes high blood pressure, heart disease, obesity, a weakened immune system, anxiety, depression, cognitive decline, Alzheimer's Disease, and even death, according to the National Institute on Aging. While research demonstrating the link between health risks and lower mortality and loneliness and isolation is extensive, newer research on the topic tends to be more pointed in searching for root causes and, ultimately, solutions to the problem. Steve Cole, PhD, is searching for a medical and scientific reason for the correlation. Cole is a professor of medicine and psychiatry and biobehavioral 26
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sciences in the UCLA School of Medicine. His research has found that changes that occur in the brain when a person becomes disconnected from their social network may cause the immune system to alter the way it promotes inflammation—an important mechanism in healing from injury and some illnesses. “Loneliness acts as a fertilizer for other diseases,” Cole said. “The biology of loneliness can accelerate the buildup of plaque in arteries, help cancer cells grow and spread, and promote inflammation in the brain leading to Alzheimer’s disease. Loneliness promotes several different types of wear and tear on the body.” Cole suggests that giving people a sense of purpose in life may help combat this. Encouraging people to engage in their world through caregiving or volunteerism may be one pathway to helping them achieve this. “Working for a social cause or purpose with others who share your values and are trusted partners puts you in contact with others and helps develop a greater sense of community,” Cole said.
For Masons, this may mean extending an invitation to older members and widows to participate in service projects like the ones they do in conjunction with the Masonic Home of Missouri’s Creating a Partnership Program. O’Sullivan Lodge No. 7, for example, heavily relies on one of its widows, Betty Jo Craft, to organize its annual bluegrass festival that funds its CAP participation. It was a natural progression for Craft as she and
her husband created the festival together over a decade ago. In talking to her, it is clear that she is very purpose-driven and shows no signs of loneliness or isolation. It is also clear that her connection to the lodge and Masonry is important to her. “I carry my Masonic Widow card with me everywhere I go,” she said. “It’s right here in my wallet.” Anecdotally, Craft certainly upholds Cole’s research conclusions, but other current
research suggests that connection isn’t enough. Research at McMaster University in Ontario, Canada, suggests that the best tools for seniors feeling isolated or lonely may be cognitive behavioral therapy that teaches them to reframe their ideas of community and connection. These researchers suggest asking seniors three questions: How often do you feel that you lack companionship?
How often do you feel left out? How often do you feel isolated from others? If the answers to these questions make it clear that this person needs connection, researchers suggest that you first help connect them to programs for seniors in their community and help with transportation. If they continue to feel lonely after engaging in these activities, a referral to a mental health professional is in order. Masonic Outreach
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FINANCIAL
Care Comes at a Cost Americans are living longer and the cost of care is rising. The Masonic Home of Missouri can help eligible seniors. By Brenna McDermott
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s the senior citizen population continues to grow in the United States, more preparation, thought, and planning must be put into planning for the cost of care. More Americans are living longer than ever and, as a result, are burdened with more expenses. In 2010, according to a U.S. Census Bureau, there were 40.3 million people age 65 and older. That’s 12 times the number of people age 65 and older in 1900. The percentage of the population age 65 and older was 4.1% in 1900, 13% in 2010, and is estimated to reach 20.9% by 2050. And among older adults, 80% have at least one chronic 28
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condition, while 77% have two or more. According to a study from Genworth, seven of 10 people will require long-term care in their lifetime. And the costs associated with long-term care are on the rise. According to the Social Security Administration, most financial experts advise individuals need about 70% of pre-retirement earnings to maintain the preretirement standard of living. Often Social Security benefits can replace about 40%. Those earnings will need to be supplemented with pension, savings, and investments. According to the National Institute on Aging, for many, paying for long-term care is not a given and may come from sources
like personal funds – pensions, savings and income; government health insurance programs such
Get to Know Family Caregivers Source: AARP 2015 report on Caregiving in the U.S.
46%
spent more than $5,000 each year in caregiving
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as Medicaid, veterans benefits, and services through the Older Americans Act; and private financing like long-term care insurance. Long-term care doesn’t necessarily mean paying for a nursing home facility. Long-term care can involve homemaker services, which include helping with basic household tasks such as cooking or running errands; home health aide services, which include hands-on personal, but not medical, care; adult day health care, which includes community-based socialization or structured activities, personal care, transportation, or meals; facility care, which includes assisted living facilities or nursing homes; or in-home skilled nursing care. According to an AARP study, 90% of the population age 65 and older prefer to remain in their own homes. But whether they can or relocate to an assisted living or nursing home facility, the costs of aging are significant. Genworth.com has an annual Cost of Care Survey that assesses the cost of care based on geographic location, care setting, and level of care required. It’s based on 441 regions and more than 15,000 surveys filled out each year since 2004. In Columbia, Missouri, in 2019, for example, the annual median costs of a home health aide would be $50,336. In 2029, that cost is estimated to jump to $67,647. In 2019, the median annual cost of residing in an assisted living facility in Columbia, Missouri, is $45,000. In 2029, it would cost $60,476.
For nursing home facilities, a private room in 2019 costs $77,745. In 2029, it is estimated to cost $104,483. The tool can estimate costs up to 50 years in the future. Given that, long-term care planning starts to seem like it should become a reality not just for those close to needing it, but for everyone. Given the rise in costs, Missouri residents do not face as significant expenses as those in other states. Overall, according to Genworth, Missouri ranks No. 36 for median homemaker services
What are the costs* of long-term care in Columbia, Missouri? *Annual median costs, according to Genworth.com Home Health Aide: 2019
$50,336 2029
$67,647 Assisted living: 2019
$45,000 2029
$60,476 Nursing Home Facilities – Private Room: 2019
$77,745 2029
$104,483
costs; No. 40 for median home health aide costs; No. 19 in adult day health care costs; No. 51 in assisted living facility costs (list includes District of Columbia); and No. 49 in both nursing home semi-private room and private room costs. Why are costs related to care in facilities rising? Genworth attributes the rise to issues like low unemployment in care providers, wage pressures, regulatory changes, labor shortages, sicker patients, and employee retention.
What assistance does the Masonic Home give?
The Masonic Home of Missouri offers its Long-Term Financial Assistance Program to eligible seniors who do not have the income or the assets to cover the costs of their care and living expenses. Assistance is available for eligible persons who reside in their homes, apartments, independent living, or assisted living facilities. The program can help with the cost of assisted or independent living, quality of life items in a skilled facility, or essential household bills and expenses. Individuals who qualify for long-term financial assistance are senior Missouri Masons, their wives or widows, and Order of the Eastern Star ladies in good standing. Applicants must demonstrate a financial need. For more information, call 800434-9804 to speak with a Financial Assistance Caseworker. Masonic Outreach
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Tim Thomas
Buddy Roberts David Ramsey Board Member, 2015-2019
Board Member 2015-2019
Lives are changed every day though the efforts of the Masonic Home. The Outreach Programs in particular have developed into a successful support network for clients in need. The Masonic Home is now nationally recognized as a leader in Masonic Outreach. For Tim Thomas, watching this growth has been especially rewarding. He believes that the Financial Education and Social Service programs are two standouts. These programs encourage recipients to take ownership of their own financial futures and with that, gain a sense of pride that they have achieved success by their own means. Thomas notes that much of the programs’ success is due to the staff's dedication. “They cry with you, pray for you, and put their own personal lives second to make sure that assistance is given in a timely manner to all who qualify,” he says.
A caring heart for those in need is a unifying trait of the Masonic fraternity. Serving on the board is one way in which a mason can stay active in the fraternity, and translate their heart to help into action. As a board member, Buddy Roberts was able to experience firsthand the work of the Masonic Home. “It’s amazing the amount of relief that is being provided to help masons and their children in times of need,” says Roberts. Roberts was excited by the idea of serving on the board as he had limited knowledge as to what went into the role. He quickly became impressed by the level of care provided by the staff and leadership, and the various walks of life represented on the board. Though his term has ended, Roberts describes himself as having, “a satisfied mind in knowing the Masonic Home is doing great work.”
David Ramsey was first attracted to masonry through his favorite uncle, who was a mason for 67 years. “It (Masonry) provides an opportunity to be in fellowship with honorable men,” says Ramsey. Being on the Masonic Home Board gave Ramsey the opportunity to help children throughout the state. Since I was in the educational field for 40 years during my working career, helping the children through the Masonic Home Board was a great honor,” Ramsey explains. The Children’s Outreach Program provides assistance to families struggling with the financial strain of medical expenses. In addition to providing assistance throughout the state, the Masonic Home of Missouri Board has been working to advocate the importance of outreach programming in other states. “I’m just so proud of what the Masonic Home does,” says Ramsey.
Board Member 2014-2019 Board President 2017-2018 Grand Master, Honorary Chairman 2018-2019
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WHAT’S IN THE NUMBERS?
$16,500
average annual assistance provided by the Masonic Home to a client in a facility in FY2019
60%
18 Board Members of the Missouri Silver Haired Legislature
Nearly 60% of elder abusers are family members. (ncoa.org)
45 Masonic Home clients
lived in facilities in FY2019
$861,720
5.1 million – American
elders over 65 with some kind of dementia (ncea.acl.gov)
$2.6 billion – cost of financial abuse to older Americans (ncea.acl.gov) Nearly 50% of American elders over 85 have a form of dementia (ncea.acl.gov)
amount of long-term assistance provided by the Masonic Home during FY2019
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The Masonic Home of Missouri's 18th Annual Charity Golf Tournament Monday, June 15, 2020 Columbia Country Club, Columbia, MO
All proceeds benefit the Masonic Home of Missouri Partnership Programs. Nearly 17,000 were impacted during FY2019 through these programs.
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