Real Relationships

If you are a celebrity, it is likely that you have millions of followers on social media. They track your every post. They want to know what you are wearing, where you are dining out, and who you are dating … today. I think you might agree that on the spectrum of human relationships, this level is the shallowest.

Okay, maybe you are not famous, but you still have a constant flow of people in your life. Every one of us exist in a web of relationships. Now social media has added a virtual connection to even more friends. But how many of these contacts are authentic in love, acceptance, and forgiveness? Where are the real relationships in your life? And how well do you manage them?

Long before Facebook there were faces. Instant impressions predate Instagram. Throughout all history people have loved, hated, befriended, and rejected the individuals around them. It is not surprising then that human interaction is one of the topics Jesus talks about in His teachings. In order to instruct us on how to get along with people, Jesus coaches His followers to practice a new rule. It summarizes many of the 10 Commandments. When it comes to relationships, treat people the way you want to be treated. Which automatically rules out murder, adultery, theft, and dishonor. This is great counsel. You might even say it is golden.

For the next 6 weeks, we invite you to shine up the tarnished Golden Rule with a group of real people. Examine how you treat those who are up close and personal, as well as those on social media. Take a good relational inventory of your Golden Rule skills and learn a little better how to get along with the people around you.

Here’s what to do ...

1. Connect: Talk about life. Start or join a group where you can be yourself. The first part of being in a group is simply sharing about your week and connecting personally.

2. Discuss: Talk about the Word. Each week there will be verses to look up in your Bible with questions to help you discuss the topic.

3. Pray: Talk with God. Praying for each other will knit your hearts together.

Welcome to Real Relationships.